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Speaker 1: Hey, Matt, do you want to know something funny that

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Speaker 1: I was just thinking before? You're wearing a hat today

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Speaker 1: forward facing. Every time someone wears a hat forward facing,

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Speaker 1: like AJ does it too, it reminds me of primary school.

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Speaker 2: Why what you reckon should be wearing hats backwards?

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Speaker 1: I don't know. Just reminds me to do what.

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Speaker 2: That looks like? And I reckon, I'd like.

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Speaker 1: A backwards hat. That forwards hat reminds me.

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Speaker 3: Of broadcast channel forward and backwards, and they can tell

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Speaker 3: me which one looks better.

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Speaker 1: Can you do it right now? Please?

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Speaker 2: In the broadcast channel.

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Speaker 1: Just do two selfies and then a pole. I reckon,

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Speaker 1: backwards looks good. Front is giving fucking primary school mat

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Speaker 1: You know what I mean? Is giving maccas, It's giving

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Speaker 1: Macca's uniform. Okay, we'll see what they say.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I've put it in the broad question what they're

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Speaker 2: already backwards.

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Speaker 1: Whenever I want to film AJ in the warehouse and

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Speaker 1: he's got his hat on forwards, and like, put your

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Speaker 1: hat backwards because I don't know, I just think everyone

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Speaker 1: looks better with the backwards hat.

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Speaker 2: Okay, this is changing my life.

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Speaker 1: You look like you're going to school lunch and you've

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Speaker 1: got no hat. No flight.

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Speaker 2: Can tell me this an hour into our recording session.

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Speaker 2: Just just just to let you know you look really

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Speaker 2: shit today. So no.

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Speaker 1: Pol book they go ninety four voter backwards, twenty two

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Speaker 1: voted front.

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Speaker 2: This is changing my life. But I just think a

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Speaker 2: backwards hat is like embarrassing.

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Speaker 1: So I think a backwards hat is embarrassing. No, I

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Speaker 1: think a backwards hat is embarrassing when it's a flat cap. Well, actually,

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Speaker 1: I just find a flat cap embarrassing in general. Backwards, yes,

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Speaker 1: backwards hat looks better because you can see your face more.

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Speaker 1: And I like that you can see a bit of

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Speaker 1: your hair.

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Speaker 2: I feel like i'm metal militia vibes. Yeah, I like that.

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Actually, and when it's front, you can't see any of

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Speaker 1: your hair.

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Speaker 2: Good, that's the point the board patch bitch. Oh well,

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Speaker 2: there you go. Matt. Okay, look.

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Speaker 3: Sorry, I'm still recovering from the weekend. If I'm honest,

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Speaker 3: it was a big weekend. I said in the main

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Speaker 3: episode my clubbing Era, it's coming to an end.

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Speaker 1: I'm glad because fucking mine ended about six years ago.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, mine ended about however many years ago, and then

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Speaker 3: I had a bit of a resurgence and it's been

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Speaker 3: really fun. It's made me feel really young again. I've

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Speaker 3: got blueberry stuck in my teeth.

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Speaker 2: Hung on. But ARC Sydney, which.

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Speaker 3: Is an iconic venue on Oxford Street or actually just

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Speaker 3: off Oxford Street. But I'm sure a lot of people

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Speaker 3: are familiar with ARC. You if you've ever been to

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Speaker 3: unfortunately that's never gonna happen again because ARC has closed.

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Speaker 3: I don't really know the story behind it. I think

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Speaker 3: the building, I think the lease is up, so the

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Speaker 3: building hasn't been sold, because there's been talks about that

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Speaker 2: But ARC, the nightclub has shut down.

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Speaker 3: It's a It's really really sad because it's the first

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Speaker 3: gay club that I ever went to. It was the

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Speaker 3: first club I ever performed in drag at It was

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Speaker 3: not the first club I had a drag booking at.

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Speaker 2: But yeah, it.

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Speaker 3: Holds a lot of It's the place, it's the first

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, I'm gonna cry.

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Speaker 2: It's the place where I first met Sky.

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Speaker 1: That's nice. Like, you know, am I gonna feel that

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Speaker 1: way when King Street shuts down in Nui and I'm

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Speaker 3: I don't know whether you will, but I think it

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Speaker 3: holds a bit of different significance for you.

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Speaker 2: Do you know what I mean?

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Speaker 3: Like, because the difference with like queer clubs is it's

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Speaker 3: very much about community. Yeah, so you go to King Street,

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Speaker 2: Right way.

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Speaker 1: I love that you found that photo of you in

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Speaker 1: the photo in the karaoke room. I know that was

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Speaker 1: the night that we went out and lost my vlog

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Speaker 1: camera and you've got a photo of you by yourself.

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Speaker 3: I know we were putting photos in the broadcast channel

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Speaker 3: the other day from way back in the day.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and there was.

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Speaker 3: One of me doing karaoke at King Street that was done,

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Speaker 3: that was taken by the professional photographer on the night

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Speaker 3: and uploaded to their Facebook page.

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Speaker 2: That wasn't just a photo we had taken.

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Speaker 1: You know, what I'm still I still like some bars

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Speaker 1: on Facebook, like you know back in the day when

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Speaker 1: they would upload the album, Like clubs still do that.

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Speaker 1: So I still like some of those pages that I

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Speaker 1: used to go to ages ago, Like one of them

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Speaker 1: is Finigans in Newcastle. I don't know, it's it's like

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Speaker 1: a pub on the corner that turns into a club.

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Speaker 1: Did you ever go there?

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Speaker 2: Only once?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so I used to go there all the time

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Speaker 1: when I was younger, And so every now and then

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Speaker 1: when I'm scrolling on like Facebook, it'd be like Finnigan's

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Speaker 1: added three hundred new photos, and sometimes I just like

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Speaker 1: open it and start swiping through and all I can

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Speaker 1: notice is like how fucked up everyone is? The nightclub

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Speaker 1: photographers don't do anyone any favors, Like the photos are horrendous,

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Speaker 1: like that everyone looks munted and I don't know if

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Speaker 1: it's just like because it's a big flash in a

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Speaker 1: dark night club, but everyone looks coolt like no one looks.

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Speaker 2: Good and I'm scrowling.

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Speaker 1: True, it's scary.

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Speaker 2: Cute I'm talking about.

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Speaker 3: Although I was thinking though, I was losing my train

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Speaker 3: of thought because I was trying to think of the

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Speaker 3: club that I used to go to in Newcastle and

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Speaker 3: I think it's called the Junction.

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Speaker 1: Is it called the Sydney Sidney Junction?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: I Sj's And then there was another one and it

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Speaker 3: was like a house. What it was like a house?

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Speaker 1: Oh funny? Yeah, yeah, it's called Argyle now but I

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Speaker 1: don't know if it's still open. It would shut down,

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Speaker 1: who fucking knows. I don't go clubbing these days.

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Speaker 2: I only ever went to Honeysuckle once and that was

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but that's like a bar pub.

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Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, it wasn't really a club, was it. But

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Speaker 2: where'd we go?

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Speaker 1: Oh?

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Speaker 3: We went to King Street after that? Yeah, many a

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Speaker 3: night at King Street. Too many nights at King Street actually,

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Speaker 3: to be.

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Speaker 2: Honest, you know what.

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Speaker 1: They have done it up and it's kind of way

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Speaker 1: better now, but it's still full of like eighteen year olds.

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Speaker 3: I was gonna say, we'll have to go and have

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Speaker 3: a night out, but no, I just told everyone my

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Speaker 2: It's too much.

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Speaker 1: I don't know how you've been clubbing at thirty years old.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, Cyrusa can't do it anymore. Everything hurts.

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Speaker 3: It's so much fun in the moment, but then I

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Speaker 3: said to my friend, actually, just last weekend, I was like,

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Speaker 3: I don't like that, you know, get drunk and going

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Speaker 3: but it is, like I'm having so much fun.

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Speaker 1: With funny the moment the next day is just to

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Speaker 3: And then the next day I'm like, well, yeah, I

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Speaker 3: think I just at a phase now where because my

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Speaker 3: last clubbing era kind of ended because the pandemic happened

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Speaker 3: so we were forced to.

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Speaker 2: But I feel like now I actually want to get

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Speaker 2: up at like six o'clock.

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Speaker 3: Okay, I actually want to get up at like ten

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Speaker 3: thirty on a Sunday, ten, just like I could.

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Speaker 1: If I tried. I just like I couldn't sleep until

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Speaker 3: Some days were sleeping day, Like, why are you not

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Speaker 1: Because I physically can't. I think if you tried, no,

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Speaker 1: Like I can't sleep in on the weekend. Every weekend,

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Speaker 1: eyes open. That's crazy because your body is like in

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Speaker 3: I see, I could be in a routine all week

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Speaker 1: But I feel like your routine has to be longer

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Speaker 1: My dog's at my door.

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Speaker 2: Well, but you've set that system up, yeah, don't you think?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but it would be confusing for him if that

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Speaker 2: I don't reckon. I reckon you could teach the dog

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Speaker 3: We've got weekends off walks, Darlin weekends off walks, or

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Speaker 3: getting their little walking pad.

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Speaker 1: I've been so tempted to get one of those. Every

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Speaker 3: I'm not going to the gym anymore. I will go back,

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Speaker 1: And you know how people like have a walking padn

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Speaker 1: and they like read a book or whatever.

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Speaker 1: I don't think I can do two things at once

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Speaker 2: Oh I can. I've been putting my kindle up on

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Speaker 1: And you can concentrate on like your body moving, but

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Speaker 1: then reading.

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Speaker 2: Lines walking Babe.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if I could do that. I don't

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Speaker 1: know if I've got the hand eye coordination. Yeah no,

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Speaker 1: And I'd be focusing too much on my steps. I

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Speaker 1: wouldn't be reading the words. That's just me.

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Speaker 3: Well, the Kindle acts as like it goes in front

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Speaker 3: of the screen where it says everything okay, So.

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Speaker 2: I'm not watching that or anything. I'm literally just walking back.

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Speaker 1: I could watch a show, for sure, but I feel

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Speaker 1: like reading is a whole other level.

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Speaker 2: Anyway, the clubbing era is over. Era err era, era,

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Speaker 2: clubbing era.

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Speaker 3: Is over, and I'm saying, rest in fucking peace. I'm

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Speaker 3: actually really excited about it. I'm like, you know what,

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Speaker 3: I think. I think I might try yoga numbers stay,

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Speaker 3: bitch numbers stay. I consider going sober, actually yeah, And then.

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Speaker 1: I get tempted by that every now and then.

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Speaker 3: But then I thought, we're about to go to America,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't think I could make it through Coachella sober.

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Speaker 2: Well maybe after America, but yeah, then what about when

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Speaker 1: Stuff go sober. That's the whole point of going sober

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Speaker 1: to you know, the recovering party Girl that we spoke

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Speaker 2: It still comes up all the time.

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Speaker 1: Amazing to by the way, look her up if you

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Speaker 1: haven't already. Recovering party Girl. She was my Royal Flush

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Speaker 1: like a year ago. Anyway, she did a TikTok just

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Speaker 1: if it was her that said it. I don't know,

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Speaker 1: I think it was, but she said, like unpopular opinion,

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Speaker 1: if you want to find out who your true friends are,

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Speaker 1: And if people like complain there's no alcohol, it's like,

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Speaker 1: And if that's what you and your partner want to do,

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Speaker 2: That's like a huge expense too that yeah you can

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Speaker 2: cut out.

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Speaker 1: Yep, you could save ten, fifteen, twenty grand on drinks.

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Speaker 2: Nice. Yeah, wait, I like totally might have a dry wedding.

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Speaker 1: And by the way, does anyone have any stories about that,

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Speaker 1: because if you do, please send us an email. Email's

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Speaker 1: always in the show notes. If you have any stories

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Speaker 3: Yes, Well, just checking the broadcast channel. Since we started recording,

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Speaker 3: we've got three hundred votes for backwards and fifty eight

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Speaker 3: votes for front ways. And now I'm feeling really self.

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Speaker 1: Conscious every time I do have his hat forward, as say,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but see, like hat backwards for me makes me

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Speaker 3: I'm like trying to.

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Speaker 1: Like hat Okay, hat forwards for gym, like if you're

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Speaker 1: but if you're just wearing it as a fashion accessory backwards.

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Speaker 3: I don't know if I can get around this now,

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Speaker 3: Sleigh deeper, sleigh, I guess.

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: Next week, maybe I'll come with their hat on backwards

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Speaker 3: and I'll actually style it properly and I might get

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Speaker 3: might buy a cool hat.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but my cool hat make a look yeah.

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Speaker 3: Backwards hat just trying two hard vibes, you know what

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Speaker 3: I mean? Was the only reason I'm wearing a hat

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Speaker 3: is because they didn't do my hair this morning. Yeah

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Speaker 3: fair anyway, but stays in close friends.

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Speaker 1: What happened, and sit close France.

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Speaker 3: Yeah that and all the rest of it. See you

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Speaker 3: next Tuesday, Okay,