1 00:00:00,440 --> 00:00:02,800 Speaker 1: Good team. I hope your bloody terrific. Welcome to another 2 00:00:02,800 --> 00:00:06,560 Speaker 1: installment the show. This is the continuation Slow Down, Craig. 3 00:00:07,520 --> 00:00:10,119 Speaker 1: This is the continuation of the chat with Greg Riley 4 00:00:10,200 --> 00:00:16,520 Speaker 1: and myself that we began yesterday. If you heard yesterday's show, 5 00:00:16,560 --> 00:00:19,800 Speaker 1: If you didn't, probably need to listen to that one first. Nonetheless, 6 00:00:20,040 --> 00:00:24,159 Speaker 1: here's part two. I loved this chat. I hope you 7 00:00:24,200 --> 00:00:29,120 Speaker 1: do too. So let's open another door, and that is 8 00:00:29,160 --> 00:00:35,680 Speaker 1: the the conversation around getting into altered states using various things. 9 00:00:38,360 --> 00:00:44,160 Speaker 2: We'll just say that, we'll just say that you I've been. 10 00:00:44,040 --> 00:00:53,600 Speaker 1: A psychedelic experimenter and but which is ironic because you are, 11 00:00:53,800 --> 00:00:56,280 Speaker 1: you know, and I love you. But this boring middle 12 00:00:56,320 --> 00:01:01,960 Speaker 1: aged bloke with glasses who works in a bank, it's 13 00:01:02,040 --> 00:01:05,560 Speaker 1: so weird. Who doesn't smoke And I don't know if 14 00:01:05,600 --> 00:01:08,200 Speaker 1: you drink, but you definitely don't drink a lot, and 15 00:01:08,240 --> 00:01:10,560 Speaker 1: you're in good shape and you're fit, and you're an 16 00:01:10,560 --> 00:01:14,760 Speaker 1: ex footballer and yeah, it just doesn't So how did 17 00:01:15,800 --> 00:01:20,520 Speaker 1: how did that happen? How did you open the psychedelic door? Why? Why? Like? 18 00:01:20,560 --> 00:01:22,280 Speaker 1: What do you? Oh? 19 00:01:22,319 --> 00:01:25,200 Speaker 2: Look, it was a client rend me once and she 20 00:01:25,240 --> 00:01:28,040 Speaker 2: said I'm having these issues, can you help me? 21 00:01:28,080 --> 00:01:29,800 Speaker 3: And then after about talking about twenty it's. 22 00:01:29,680 --> 00:01:32,440 Speaker 2: Like, I can't help you with this, this stuff I 23 00:01:32,440 --> 00:01:34,640 Speaker 2: can't help you with and we're talking about, Okay, what 24 00:01:34,640 --> 00:01:38,440 Speaker 2: are you doing this weekend? I'm going up to this retreat. Yeah, 25 00:01:38,480 --> 00:01:41,160 Speaker 2: I'm going to have to say, Ahascar retreat. And it's like, really, 26 00:01:41,800 --> 00:01:43,600 Speaker 2: so you go to South America for that stuff? She said, no, no, 27 00:01:43,840 --> 00:01:48,400 Speaker 2: come along. Okay, So it came along this the person 28 00:01:48,480 --> 00:01:51,360 Speaker 2: I have done anything outside of my other recreational drugs 29 00:01:51,400 --> 00:01:55,200 Speaker 2: I shoved in my body when my early twenties, I 30 00:01:55,240 --> 00:01:57,120 Speaker 2: sat in this circle and there was about twelve was 31 00:01:57,160 --> 00:02:00,680 Speaker 2: in there in someone's garage and up in the bush 32 00:02:01,200 --> 00:02:04,280 Speaker 2: and you go around. Basically you drink aoh oscar and 33 00:02:04,320 --> 00:02:07,680 Speaker 2: you go around the circle. And I was second up, 34 00:02:08,360 --> 00:02:12,280 Speaker 2: and I like to think that due to my history 35 00:02:12,320 --> 00:02:15,679 Speaker 2: that can probably take a fair bit of you know, substances. 36 00:02:15,720 --> 00:02:17,120 Speaker 3: And they gave. 37 00:02:16,960 --> 00:02:19,120 Speaker 2: Me a fair light dose first up, and then so 38 00:02:19,160 --> 00:02:21,079 Speaker 2: the first guy took his drink and then it came 39 00:02:21,120 --> 00:02:23,280 Speaker 2: to me and I took it and tastes like dirt 40 00:02:23,440 --> 00:02:25,359 Speaker 2: down to it, and they say it's about it takes 41 00:02:25,400 --> 00:02:28,120 Speaker 2: about twenty minutes to forty minutes to kick in. 42 00:02:29,240 --> 00:02:31,600 Speaker 3: I really got to person seven and I was on 43 00:02:31,639 --> 00:02:32,960 Speaker 3: the floor. I was dribbling. 44 00:02:33,360 --> 00:02:36,520 Speaker 2: I gone, literally, I was out cold like that. Had 45 00:02:36,520 --> 00:02:39,359 Speaker 2: to basically get me out of the circle, take me outside. 46 00:02:39,680 --> 00:02:41,520 Speaker 2: The next moment I wake up, this has probably been 47 00:02:41,520 --> 00:02:42,480 Speaker 2: about half an hour. 48 00:02:42,520 --> 00:02:44,400 Speaker 3: I was out cold. I woke up. 49 00:02:44,440 --> 00:02:46,480 Speaker 2: I thought, oh, I should kissed myself like I felt 50 00:02:46,480 --> 00:02:50,680 Speaker 2: like I had actually bet the bed and then Greg okay. 51 00:02:50,680 --> 00:02:52,960 Speaker 2: So I woke up basically and the Sharman's over me. 52 00:02:53,000 --> 00:02:55,480 Speaker 2: He's blowing smoking me, someone girl singing, He's got all 53 00:02:55,520 --> 00:02:57,200 Speaker 2: that kind of stuff, and it's like, are you okay, 54 00:02:57,280 --> 00:02:57,720 Speaker 2: You're okay? 55 00:02:57,720 --> 00:02:59,560 Speaker 3: And I went I think I was just weave myst it. 56 00:02:59,600 --> 00:03:03,240 Speaker 2: Guess no, no, you're alive now. I actually felt this thing 57 00:03:03,280 --> 00:03:06,560 Speaker 2: come out of me. I felt it again. This people 58 00:03:06,560 --> 00:03:09,600 Speaker 2: gonna go. He finally just flipped his lid. I felt 59 00:03:09,680 --> 00:03:15,160 Speaker 2: this thing lift out of my body and leave. And 60 00:03:15,560 --> 00:03:18,800 Speaker 2: the moment that left, I woke, I went, holy shit, 61 00:03:20,320 --> 00:03:23,080 Speaker 2: I can just see life as it really is now, 62 00:03:23,240 --> 00:03:26,720 Speaker 2: Like there was there was something inside me that it 63 00:03:26,880 --> 00:03:28,440 Speaker 2: just I saw it come out through the top of 64 00:03:28,440 --> 00:03:31,680 Speaker 2: my head. And when it came out, I've never felt well. 65 00:03:31,720 --> 00:03:33,440 Speaker 2: I felt good since then, But that was the first 66 00:03:33,440 --> 00:03:34,559 Speaker 2: time he used a psychedelics. 67 00:03:34,600 --> 00:03:36,000 Speaker 3: I felt anything about I. 68 00:03:35,960 --> 00:03:40,200 Speaker 2: Was connected to everything, the whole shitting match, everybody, everything, 69 00:03:40,240 --> 00:03:43,080 Speaker 2: the whole light, and I saw everything. There was a 70 00:03:43,120 --> 00:03:47,400 Speaker 2: weird experience, and then it was just I went, okay, right, 71 00:03:47,880 --> 00:03:48,880 Speaker 2: this that's pretty cool. 72 00:03:51,160 --> 00:03:56,400 Speaker 1: Hang on, hang on, just fucking steady on back, hang on, 73 00:03:56,800 --> 00:04:00,800 Speaker 1: hang on. Okay. So you took some iowas car and 74 00:04:00,840 --> 00:04:03,040 Speaker 1: you woke up half an hour later? Was it actually 75 00:04:03,120 --> 00:04:03,680 Speaker 1: half an hour? 76 00:04:04,040 --> 00:04:04,960 Speaker 3: It was about half an hour? 77 00:04:05,000 --> 00:04:10,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, right, And when you said this entity left your 78 00:04:10,360 --> 00:04:16,680 Speaker 1: body obviously not a physical thing, but like a spiritual 79 00:04:16,880 --> 00:04:18,839 Speaker 1: or was it emotional? Was it mental? 80 00:04:19,080 --> 00:04:24,920 Speaker 3: Was it? It was this thing that like a robotic thing. 81 00:04:24,960 --> 00:04:28,120 Speaker 2: There was attached around my spine and my around my 82 00:04:28,200 --> 00:04:28,960 Speaker 2: head and my neck. 83 00:04:29,000 --> 00:04:31,280 Speaker 3: It was. It came out. It was like metallic. 84 00:04:31,320 --> 00:04:33,120 Speaker 2: I could taste oil in my mouth when it was 85 00:04:33,120 --> 00:04:37,160 Speaker 2: coming out, like a sort of a robotic AI implant 86 00:04:37,240 --> 00:04:37,840 Speaker 2: kind of stuff. 87 00:04:38,560 --> 00:04:40,480 Speaker 3: Wow, And I can actually. 88 00:04:40,279 --> 00:04:42,520 Speaker 2: See it coming out, and then when it lifted out. 89 00:04:42,920 --> 00:04:46,640 Speaker 2: I've never ever felt well, have since, but that was 90 00:04:46,680 --> 00:04:49,000 Speaker 2: the first time I went oh wow. 91 00:04:49,560 --> 00:04:54,200 Speaker 1: This and that was that moment. Then, in terms of 92 00:04:54,320 --> 00:04:58,000 Speaker 1: just an experience, and a feeling. Is that the best 93 00:04:58,040 --> 00:05:00,600 Speaker 1: you've ever felt? 94 00:05:01,200 --> 00:05:01,560 Speaker 3: Wow? 95 00:05:01,640 --> 00:05:02,520 Speaker 1: How old were you then? 96 00:05:03,520 --> 00:05:06,280 Speaker 3: Fifteen years ago? Now so thirty five? 97 00:05:07,240 --> 00:05:10,920 Speaker 1: Wow? Yeah, so you're thirty five years old. You've gone 98 00:05:10,960 --> 00:05:13,960 Speaker 1: on this. Okay, sorry to interrupt, I'm just trying because 99 00:05:14,560 --> 00:05:17,080 Speaker 1: you know, I ring the cops if I'm going to 100 00:05:17,120 --> 00:05:22,919 Speaker 1: take an as bro right like, yeah, yeah, all right? 101 00:05:22,960 --> 00:05:23,719 Speaker 1: So you did. 102 00:05:23,560 --> 00:05:26,200 Speaker 2: That that and then I went, Okay, there's something in this, 103 00:05:26,320 --> 00:05:27,800 Speaker 2: so I did a learn about it. So I say 104 00:05:27,960 --> 00:05:32,520 Speaker 2: then to really, you know, dive deep into the there 105 00:05:32,520 --> 00:05:37,960 Speaker 2: arapeutical uses of psychedelics in that space. So mainly the AOASCAR. 106 00:05:38,960 --> 00:05:42,200 Speaker 2: I've done five VODMT, which is the is the frog venom, 107 00:05:42,240 --> 00:05:46,200 Speaker 2: which you actually then smoke as well too. Yeah, actually 108 00:05:46,320 --> 00:05:50,160 Speaker 2: into LSD, mushrooms, MDMA and all that kind of stuff, right, 109 00:05:50,240 --> 00:05:55,320 Speaker 2: So so you sort of but it's all about therapeutic use. 110 00:05:55,320 --> 00:05:57,000 Speaker 2: So people kind of think that I'll go and have 111 00:05:57,040 --> 00:06:00,000 Speaker 2: an AOSC experience, I'll come out, I'll be all here 112 00:06:00,240 --> 00:06:01,159 Speaker 2: and I don't have to do anything. 113 00:06:01,160 --> 00:06:02,440 Speaker 3: It's no, that's not the case. 114 00:06:03,440 --> 00:06:07,680 Speaker 2: The spiritual healing of these plants a lay to access 115 00:06:07,760 --> 00:06:11,080 Speaker 2: places beyond your conscious mind so you can deal with 116 00:06:11,120 --> 00:06:14,720 Speaker 2: them yourself too. Many people go into these psychedelic experiences 117 00:06:14,760 --> 00:06:17,200 Speaker 2: thinking that the plant's going to do the work for me. 118 00:06:17,600 --> 00:06:20,120 Speaker 2: I can then come home and all my traumas solved. No, 119 00:06:20,400 --> 00:06:23,479 Speaker 2: the integration parts, the vital part of actually this you 120 00:06:23,520 --> 00:06:24,200 Speaker 2: haven't experienced. 121 00:06:24,200 --> 00:06:25,760 Speaker 3: When you come home, you have to do the work again, 122 00:06:27,279 --> 00:06:27,440 Speaker 3: you know. 123 00:06:27,520 --> 00:06:29,880 Speaker 2: So that's why people get a bit funny with the 124 00:06:29,880 --> 00:06:33,200 Speaker 2: wrong impression with psychedelics. But but then, yeah, I become 125 00:06:33,200 --> 00:06:40,080 Speaker 2: an avid, avid journeyer and an avid learner of everything 126 00:06:40,080 --> 00:06:44,200 Speaker 2: I get my hands onto from a research perspective in 127 00:06:44,279 --> 00:06:46,240 Speaker 2: the field. So I sort of you know, linked up 128 00:06:46,240 --> 00:06:49,200 Speaker 2: with some key people in the Australian you know, psychedelic community, 129 00:06:49,240 --> 00:06:52,320 Speaker 2: and you know sort of become friends with them as 130 00:06:52,320 --> 00:06:54,640 Speaker 2: well too, and you know, we sort of share stories. 131 00:06:54,680 --> 00:06:57,200 Speaker 3: And then yeah. 132 00:06:57,080 --> 00:06:59,880 Speaker 2: Went down that journey of experiencing Okay, what can you 133 00:07:00,000 --> 00:07:02,599 Speaker 2: show me and ceremony about the nature of who we 134 00:07:02,680 --> 00:07:05,600 Speaker 2: really are and you know, why we're here and nature consciousness. 135 00:07:05,640 --> 00:07:07,920 Speaker 2: And I've had some experiences and then we's have been 136 00:07:08,080 --> 00:07:12,480 Speaker 2: literally like I've been crying into a bucket bucket for 137 00:07:12,480 --> 00:07:15,920 Speaker 2: two hours. Yeah, you know, I've been I've had times 138 00:07:15,960 --> 00:07:18,880 Speaker 2: where I've seen, you know, I've died and basically from 139 00:07:19,200 --> 00:07:21,240 Speaker 2: complete ego death and had to say goodbye to my 140 00:07:21,320 --> 00:07:21,960 Speaker 2: wife and kids. 141 00:07:22,000 --> 00:07:23,160 Speaker 3: I was sobbing for two. 142 00:07:23,000 --> 00:07:25,760 Speaker 2: Hours and then break through and realize that, you know, 143 00:07:25,840 --> 00:07:29,360 Speaker 2: it's it's all a contract of my mind. Right when 144 00:07:29,360 --> 00:07:31,560 Speaker 2: you go deep into that place of reality, is just 145 00:07:31,600 --> 00:07:34,440 Speaker 2: what you perceive or project based on what you believe, 146 00:07:34,520 --> 00:07:36,280 Speaker 2: Like it's it's confronting stuff like. 147 00:07:36,280 --> 00:07:40,800 Speaker 3: It's it's you can't, I would not if you're not 148 00:07:40,840 --> 00:07:43,960 Speaker 3: ready for this, it will screw you up, if you're not. 149 00:07:43,920 --> 00:07:46,600 Speaker 2: Ready to actually understand the nature of reality, that the 150 00:07:46,640 --> 00:07:48,760 Speaker 2: fact is that you create the reality to the way 151 00:07:48,800 --> 00:07:50,559 Speaker 2: you perceive it the way you think. 152 00:07:52,600 --> 00:07:54,640 Speaker 3: You just you just you can't handle it. You'll lose 153 00:07:54,680 --> 00:07:55,200 Speaker 3: the plot. 154 00:07:56,040 --> 00:08:01,120 Speaker 1: M Do you feel like that? Like? I feel like 155 00:08:01,200 --> 00:08:04,080 Speaker 1: our mind is a gift and sometimes a problem, right 156 00:08:04,120 --> 00:08:06,520 Speaker 1: because we need our mind because it helps us navigate 157 00:08:06,600 --> 00:08:09,920 Speaker 1: life and you know, think critically and make decisions and 158 00:08:09,920 --> 00:08:12,400 Speaker 1: all those very fundamental practical things that we need to 159 00:08:12,480 --> 00:08:15,239 Speaker 1: be a human being. You know, make a few bucks 160 00:08:15,280 --> 00:08:17,640 Speaker 1: and feed the kids and have a conversation like we're 161 00:08:17,680 --> 00:08:22,280 Speaker 1: doing right now. It's important and valuable, of course, but 162 00:08:23,000 --> 00:08:25,040 Speaker 1: at the other end of the scale, sometimes it's a 163 00:08:25,080 --> 00:08:29,160 Speaker 1: thing that gets in the road of what's beyond the mind. 164 00:08:29,320 --> 00:08:32,600 Speaker 1: And it's like, yeah, and by the way, I don't 165 00:08:32,640 --> 00:08:36,679 Speaker 1: know what that is, but I definitely think that there's 166 00:08:37,080 --> 00:08:41,280 Speaker 1: more than I understand, more than I can comprehend. And 167 00:08:41,320 --> 00:08:42,400 Speaker 1: I feel like if I. 168 00:08:42,440 --> 00:08:46,760 Speaker 4: Said all there is is the all that I know, 169 00:08:47,360 --> 00:08:49,640 Speaker 4: what I know, that's all there is, what I understand, 170 00:08:49,760 --> 00:08:52,520 Speaker 4: that's all there is, well one, i'd be wrong too. 171 00:08:52,559 --> 00:08:57,760 Speaker 1: I'd be super arrogant, you know. And that like if 172 00:08:57,800 --> 00:09:02,920 Speaker 1: there's do you feel like we're psychedelics? It gives you 173 00:09:03,080 --> 00:09:06,640 Speaker 1: access to something that you can't have access. 174 00:09:06,280 --> 00:09:09,560 Speaker 2: To with your mind, absolutely, because most people think they 175 00:09:09,600 --> 00:09:12,400 Speaker 2: live inside their head, they think they exist inside their brain. 176 00:09:12,840 --> 00:09:15,200 Speaker 3: And that's that's the first part, is that you don't 177 00:09:15,360 --> 00:09:15,680 Speaker 3: like it. 178 00:09:16,000 --> 00:09:18,040 Speaker 2: And you know, I think we've had conversations about before 179 00:09:18,080 --> 00:09:20,840 Speaker 2: about the nature of thought. Lord, does the brain actually 180 00:09:20,880 --> 00:09:22,240 Speaker 2: think or is it just a receiver? 181 00:09:23,480 --> 00:09:23,680 Speaker 1: Yeah? 182 00:09:24,120 --> 00:09:26,679 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm of the perception that the brain is not 183 00:09:26,720 --> 00:09:28,560 Speaker 2: a thinker. It's just it's just the radio. 184 00:09:29,040 --> 00:09:29,200 Speaker 3: You know. 185 00:09:29,400 --> 00:09:31,960 Speaker 2: The I think in your recent course you've got out 186 00:09:32,520 --> 00:09:35,360 Speaker 2: you do that analogy is that the radio waves are 187 00:09:35,360 --> 00:09:37,400 Speaker 2: already in the air. The radio is a part that 188 00:09:37,520 --> 00:09:40,760 Speaker 2: actually disciples waves and then translated the music. 189 00:09:40,760 --> 00:09:41,559 Speaker 3: Well, that's our brain. 190 00:09:42,800 --> 00:09:45,120 Speaker 2: I'm of the similar kind of ilk that thoughts are 191 00:09:45,120 --> 00:09:48,760 Speaker 2: already in the consciousness. We're just attreating to those thoughts. 192 00:09:48,880 --> 00:09:50,599 Speaker 2: And I think there's been studies done. The fact is, 193 00:09:50,800 --> 00:09:53,640 Speaker 2: you know, there's when does the thought actually even happen? 194 00:09:54,800 --> 00:09:58,840 Speaker 1: Mmmmmmm, And then and then you love, oh yeah, and 195 00:09:58,840 --> 00:10:01,079 Speaker 1: then you get weirder and go. Actually, I had to 196 00:10:01,240 --> 00:10:04,640 Speaker 1: disappoint everyone. But there's no such thing as the mind. Correct, 197 00:10:05,280 --> 00:10:08,720 Speaker 1: there's no mind. We don't have a mind, just a conduct. 198 00:10:08,960 --> 00:10:10,520 Speaker 1: There's no such thing as greg. 199 00:10:12,000 --> 00:10:15,120 Speaker 2: Or go on, well greg was what I was told 200 00:10:15,240 --> 00:10:18,040 Speaker 2: that I was, but of a birth certificate. But that's 201 00:10:18,160 --> 00:10:21,200 Speaker 2: just someone someone called me like you know again, like 202 00:10:21,840 --> 00:10:24,520 Speaker 2: I'm not my job, that's what I do, but it's 203 00:10:24,520 --> 00:10:27,880 Speaker 2: not who I am, you know, it's not my bank 204 00:10:27,920 --> 00:10:28,760 Speaker 2: though it's the car. 205 00:10:28,600 --> 00:10:29,720 Speaker 3: I drive where I live. 206 00:10:30,440 --> 00:10:33,680 Speaker 2: Those are all constructs of society and constructions to allow 207 00:10:33,760 --> 00:10:35,760 Speaker 2: us to integrate the three dimensional world. Like we need 208 00:10:35,760 --> 00:10:37,960 Speaker 2: to have these constructs so we can engage in this 209 00:10:38,800 --> 00:10:40,920 Speaker 2: three dimensional world to have an experience of life like 210 00:10:40,960 --> 00:10:44,319 Speaker 2: there is again we go, there is no purpose to life. 211 00:10:44,920 --> 00:10:46,760 Speaker 2: We have this thing where we're so stuck on. We 212 00:10:46,840 --> 00:10:51,400 Speaker 2: must have a purpose. Life's purpose is to experience. That's it, 213 00:10:52,440 --> 00:10:55,400 Speaker 2: no more, no less. But we get obsessed with them. 214 00:10:55,440 --> 00:10:58,240 Speaker 2: I must save the world, I must have My purpose 215 00:10:58,280 --> 00:11:00,439 Speaker 2: is to get ten thousand followers or a million followers. 216 00:11:00,440 --> 00:11:04,560 Speaker 2: And that's something you do. The only pure purpose of 217 00:11:04,600 --> 00:11:07,199 Speaker 2: life in itself is to experience life. 218 00:11:07,720 --> 00:11:12,679 Speaker 3: Couldn't the band the Ugly Mmmm that? 219 00:11:13,120 --> 00:11:15,840 Speaker 1: And if we scrub your name off your birth certificate, 220 00:11:16,720 --> 00:11:19,640 Speaker 1: if we scrub Gregor and nobody in the world knows 221 00:11:19,640 --> 00:11:22,760 Speaker 1: your name, you still exist. You haven't gone anywhere. That 222 00:11:23,040 --> 00:11:26,280 Speaker 1: exactly the bloke that I'm looking at right now, still 223 00:11:26,280 --> 00:11:29,360 Speaker 1: as as being still traversing the big round blue ball, 224 00:11:29,480 --> 00:11:30,520 Speaker 1: still doing life. 225 00:11:30,920 --> 00:11:32,680 Speaker 2: And what do you change my day? By deep alt 226 00:11:33,040 --> 00:11:37,800 Speaker 2: to Steve? Okay, Steve, Yeah, all of a sudden I changed. 227 00:11:38,840 --> 00:11:42,360 Speaker 2: But still, you know, we were so stuck in our 228 00:11:42,520 --> 00:11:44,320 Speaker 2: illusion of the ego. 229 00:11:45,040 --> 00:11:49,160 Speaker 1: Well, it's like me me thinking I'm an ever Last 230 00:11:49,240 --> 00:11:53,800 Speaker 1: T shirt wearing an ever Last T shirt. Yeah, you know, 231 00:11:53,880 --> 00:11:57,200 Speaker 1: that's how you go, there's Craig's where's Craig? He's the 232 00:11:57,240 --> 00:11:59,199 Speaker 1: guy over there in the black ever Last T shirt. 233 00:12:00,200 --> 00:12:03,319 Speaker 1: You know, that's how we can identify things. 234 00:12:03,800 --> 00:12:05,439 Speaker 2: But you need it to drive the car, right, you 235 00:12:05,520 --> 00:12:07,599 Speaker 2: need you need the physical experience, you need to go 236 00:12:07,720 --> 00:12:10,040 Speaker 2: to drive the experience. Right, That's that's why it's there. 237 00:12:10,679 --> 00:12:12,680 Speaker 2: So you need to have these things, but they're not you. 238 00:12:14,040 --> 00:12:15,880 Speaker 2: It's I think Peter Crone says this, I'm going to 239 00:12:15,960 --> 00:12:17,760 Speaker 2: rip him off here, right, But it's like us driving 240 00:12:17,800 --> 00:12:19,360 Speaker 2: a car with me thinking the weather car. 241 00:12:20,240 --> 00:12:23,920 Speaker 1: Yes, yes, And also I reckon there's another part to that, 242 00:12:24,080 --> 00:12:29,560 Speaker 1: and that is I think the car, the car, the 243 00:12:29,600 --> 00:12:34,240 Speaker 1: car that we're driving, has got so much more potential 244 00:12:34,840 --> 00:12:39,199 Speaker 1: than we understand. It's like even with I was talking 245 00:12:39,200 --> 00:12:42,679 Speaker 1: to somebody the other day, and I need to tread 246 00:12:42,760 --> 00:12:45,400 Speaker 1: carefully here because this is just what I think, and 247 00:12:45,480 --> 00:12:51,080 Speaker 1: I could be wrong, but I feel like we humans 248 00:12:51,120 --> 00:12:55,360 Speaker 1: have pretty much the ability to heal ourselves from anything. 249 00:12:56,960 --> 00:12:59,440 Speaker 1: You know, there's a few variables and a few caveats 250 00:12:59,480 --> 00:13:04,120 Speaker 1: around that. But I think that the problem is that 251 00:13:04,160 --> 00:13:06,760 Speaker 1: we don't know how to drive our own body. We 252 00:13:06,840 --> 00:13:10,640 Speaker 1: don't know how to harness our own capacity and potential. 253 00:13:11,120 --> 00:13:15,040 Speaker 1: We don't realize and I mean realize in the cognitive sense, 254 00:13:15,080 --> 00:13:18,760 Speaker 1: but also in the behavioral output sense. We don't realize 255 00:13:19,000 --> 00:13:22,320 Speaker 1: how fucking amazing we can be and that you know 256 00:13:22,440 --> 00:13:24,960 Speaker 1: you said before you're fascinated with the mind. Me too. 257 00:13:26,080 --> 00:13:30,480 Speaker 1: I'm obsessed with potential and not oh how many listeners 258 00:13:30,520 --> 00:13:32,480 Speaker 1: can you get or how much dough can you make? 259 00:13:32,880 --> 00:13:35,360 Speaker 1: But just you know, we had a guy and called 260 00:13:35,400 --> 00:13:40,560 Speaker 1: Professor Jeffrey Retteger from Harvard Medical School. And if you 261 00:13:40,559 --> 00:13:43,280 Speaker 1: haven't heard that, you'd like that. So he's a research 262 00:13:43,320 --> 00:13:47,679 Speaker 1: he's an academic, he's a psychiatrist, a medical doctor. And 263 00:13:47,720 --> 00:13:50,640 Speaker 1: he kept getting over time these people going hey, doc, 264 00:13:50,679 --> 00:13:53,240 Speaker 1: could you look at this? And it was all of 265 00:13:53,280 --> 00:13:58,400 Speaker 1: these cases of people who had terminal illnesses who ended 266 00:13:58,440 --> 00:14:03,920 Speaker 1: up being healed, like not in remission, no nothing, no disease, 267 00:14:04,559 --> 00:14:07,240 Speaker 1: and he's like, noth doesn't happen, not can't happen. And 268 00:14:07,280 --> 00:14:10,640 Speaker 1: eventually someone that he really trusted went hey, bro, check 269 00:14:10,760 --> 00:14:12,920 Speaker 1: this out. And he went all right, and then he went, 270 00:14:13,120 --> 00:14:15,679 Speaker 1: well that doesn't make any sense. Give me another one. 271 00:14:15,720 --> 00:14:18,199 Speaker 1: And he went, well, fuck, that doesn't make any sense. 272 00:14:18,880 --> 00:14:23,360 Speaker 1: So he became this reluctant researcher into this area where 273 00:14:25,360 --> 00:14:28,600 Speaker 1: and this is just in his work, so it's probably millions, 274 00:14:28,640 --> 00:14:32,000 Speaker 1: but in his work it's hundreds and hundreds of people 275 00:14:33,000 --> 00:14:37,080 Speaker 1: who have been fully healed from shit where medically there 276 00:14:37,160 --> 00:14:42,480 Speaker 1: is zero hope for recovery. Now you go, well, all right, 277 00:14:43,080 --> 00:14:45,600 Speaker 1: so we don't need to understand how that works, but 278 00:14:45,680 --> 00:14:49,000 Speaker 1: we need to go. But it's possible. Well that's just 279 00:14:49,040 --> 00:14:52,760 Speaker 1: the exciting bit to me. Oh it's possible. It's not probable, 280 00:14:52,800 --> 00:14:56,680 Speaker 1: but it's possible. How do I move from probable, sorry, 281 00:14:56,800 --> 00:15:00,600 Speaker 1: possible to probable? What can I do? And like even 282 00:15:00,600 --> 00:15:03,840 Speaker 1: when you know, like part of my and this is selfish, 283 00:15:03,960 --> 00:15:08,320 Speaker 1: this is my personal agenda. But I don't want to look, 284 00:15:08,320 --> 00:15:10,560 Speaker 1: feel or function. I don't really care about the look 285 00:15:10,600 --> 00:15:12,760 Speaker 1: too much, but I don't want to fuel, function, operate 286 00:15:13,360 --> 00:15:15,760 Speaker 1: like a sixty one year old, not because sixty one 287 00:15:15,800 --> 00:15:20,480 Speaker 1: year olds are bad, but because most sixty one year 288 00:15:20,520 --> 00:15:27,440 Speaker 1: old Australian blokes they're really on the slide. Like they're physically, emotionally, mentally, behaviorally, 289 00:15:28,160 --> 00:15:31,920 Speaker 1: fucking everything's on the slide. Now. A big part of that, 290 00:15:32,080 --> 00:15:33,640 Speaker 1: not all of it, but a big part of that 291 00:15:33,800 --> 00:15:37,240 Speaker 1: is choices and behaviors and lifestyle and food and exercise 292 00:15:37,320 --> 00:15:42,680 Speaker 1: and mindset and behaviors and patterns and rituals and habits. Right, oh, well, 293 00:15:42,720 --> 00:15:45,440 Speaker 1: all of those things are in my control. Oh, that's 294 00:15:45,520 --> 00:15:49,320 Speaker 1: easier said than done. Craig, Yes it is, Brian, yes 295 00:15:49,360 --> 00:15:52,840 Speaker 1: it is. Of course, it's fucking easier said than done. Literally, 296 00:15:53,040 --> 00:15:56,360 Speaker 1: everything is easier said than done. But it doesn't mean 297 00:15:56,360 --> 00:16:00,040 Speaker 1: it's not possible. And then when you go, oh, what 298 00:16:00,120 --> 00:16:02,400 Speaker 1: if I can get my self limiting thinking and my 299 00:16:02,520 --> 00:16:06,000 Speaker 1: shitty beliefs and all that programming and conditioning that I 300 00:16:06,160 --> 00:16:10,280 Speaker 1: wear around like a heavy coat, a heavy self limiting coat. 301 00:16:10,520 --> 00:16:14,760 Speaker 1: What if I can discard that bullshit and without being 302 00:16:15,000 --> 00:16:19,480 Speaker 1: weird or you know, unrealistic, but just push back the 303 00:16:19,520 --> 00:16:21,960 Speaker 1: curtain and go, fuck, what's behind this curtain? 304 00:16:22,480 --> 00:16:22,600 Speaker 3: Like? 305 00:16:23,000 --> 00:16:26,200 Speaker 1: Could I Could I be seventy years old in nine 306 00:16:26,280 --> 00:16:32,640 Speaker 1: years and have the mental acuity and sharpness and psychology 307 00:16:32,680 --> 00:16:38,840 Speaker 1: and physiology and neurology and you know, cardiology of a 308 00:16:38,880 --> 00:16:41,040 Speaker 1: healthy forty five year old? Could I do that? Well? 309 00:16:41,040 --> 00:16:45,120 Speaker 1: The answer is I don't know, but I'm going to see. 310 00:16:45,400 --> 00:16:48,560 Speaker 1: You know, I'm going to do everything possible. If I 311 00:16:48,600 --> 00:16:50,920 Speaker 1: get hit by lass next Wednesday, I do. 312 00:16:51,160 --> 00:16:54,280 Speaker 2: But let's yeah, that's like most people want to push 313 00:16:54,360 --> 00:16:56,720 Speaker 2: the barrow about something happened to me thirty five years ago, 314 00:16:56,720 --> 00:16:59,240 Speaker 2: and I get to push that agenda as to the 315 00:16:59,240 --> 00:17:01,880 Speaker 2: reasons why while I is like this because it's easy. 316 00:17:02,680 --> 00:17:05,080 Speaker 1: Well, it also it gives you sympathy, and it gives 317 00:17:05,119 --> 00:17:07,440 Speaker 1: you attention, and it gives you validation for the shit 318 00:17:07,480 --> 00:17:09,359 Speaker 1: that you're not doing. And I let me give your 319 00:17:09,400 --> 00:17:11,560 Speaker 1: fucking cuddle and a backgrub. No fuck all that. 320 00:17:12,280 --> 00:17:14,920 Speaker 2: Like the same thing is about like I've got badgenetics, Like, no, 321 00:17:15,040 --> 00:17:15,679 Speaker 2: you're just lazy. 322 00:17:16,880 --> 00:17:21,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, oh, now you've opened the door. Bad genetics are 323 00:17:21,640 --> 00:17:26,320 Speaker 1: real everyone. But also some people are lazy. Those things 324 00:17:26,520 --> 00:17:30,040 Speaker 1: are true, you know. And it's like, I mean some people, 325 00:17:30,080 --> 00:17:32,479 Speaker 1: you know, five year olds get cancer, So there are 326 00:17:32,520 --> 00:17:35,720 Speaker 1: lots of variables that are out of our control. The 327 00:17:35,840 --> 00:17:38,600 Speaker 1: other day when you and I spoke and you kind 328 00:17:38,600 --> 00:17:40,280 Speaker 1: of touched on this, but I maybe want you to 329 00:17:40,280 --> 00:17:43,360 Speaker 1: go a little bit deeper, if you would. You were 330 00:17:43,440 --> 00:17:46,919 Speaker 1: telling me about this experience that you had where and 331 00:17:46,960 --> 00:17:48,680 Speaker 1: it's not that you didn't love your wife or kids 332 00:17:48,800 --> 00:17:52,520 Speaker 1: or your family. You did, but you had this experience 333 00:17:52,520 --> 00:17:54,960 Speaker 1: where you thought you were dying and you were terrified. 334 00:17:55,200 --> 00:17:58,640 Speaker 1: This was when you were on a journey. Yeah, yeah, correct, 335 00:17:58,640 --> 00:18:00,480 Speaker 1: correct me if I get any of this. But you're 336 00:18:00,480 --> 00:18:03,560 Speaker 1: on a journey, You're in an altered state for want 337 00:18:03,600 --> 00:18:05,680 Speaker 1: of a better term. And in this place that you're 338 00:18:05,680 --> 00:18:08,160 Speaker 1: in in inverted commas, this place you thought you were 339 00:18:08,160 --> 00:18:11,360 Speaker 1: going to die, and you had all the terror associated 340 00:18:11,400 --> 00:18:15,480 Speaker 1: with that feeling like you're going to die experience. And 341 00:18:15,520 --> 00:18:18,760 Speaker 1: then I'm not sure if you said, but I feel 342 00:18:18,800 --> 00:18:20,720 Speaker 1: like you said in the moment that I just gave 343 00:18:20,840 --> 00:18:25,440 Speaker 1: over to dying, it was like something magical happened, and 344 00:18:25,480 --> 00:18:29,439 Speaker 1: you came out of that with a profound love for 345 00:18:29,520 --> 00:18:30,120 Speaker 1: your family. 346 00:18:30,800 --> 00:18:31,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, and. 347 00:18:33,640 --> 00:18:36,600 Speaker 2: This is what we're saying is going into these journeys, 348 00:18:36,880 --> 00:18:39,560 Speaker 2: it's not you'd be very very careful how you do 349 00:18:39,600 --> 00:18:43,320 Speaker 2: it and who you do it with, because it can 350 00:18:43,359 --> 00:18:47,200 Speaker 2: go very badly, very quickly. And like you were, with you, 351 00:18:47,280 --> 00:18:49,280 Speaker 2: I've got a very number of skilled people around us 352 00:18:49,320 --> 00:18:51,359 Speaker 2: that can help us out. And in that space, one 353 00:18:51,400 --> 00:18:53,119 Speaker 2: of my mates actually helped me out because I was 354 00:18:53,119 --> 00:18:53,840 Speaker 2: in a bad place. 355 00:18:54,600 --> 00:18:56,760 Speaker 3: But that was the thing. I I was the on 356 00:18:56,840 --> 00:18:57,600 Speaker 3: the couch. 357 00:18:57,560 --> 00:19:00,719 Speaker 2: And I was like, I thought that I was not 358 00:19:00,720 --> 00:19:03,320 Speaker 2: coming home. I was I had died, Like, all right, 359 00:19:03,480 --> 00:19:05,480 Speaker 2: I'm dead, and I'm in this place of going through 360 00:19:05,520 --> 00:19:07,159 Speaker 2: this year thing and I'm seeing this thing in the 361 00:19:07,200 --> 00:19:09,960 Speaker 2: future about Vanessa waking up the next day. I haven't 362 00:19:09,960 --> 00:19:13,040 Speaker 2: come home. She's freaking out what's going on? The kids 363 00:19:13,040 --> 00:19:15,240 Speaker 2: are screaming because my Daddy's dead. Daddy is dead, and 364 00:19:15,280 --> 00:19:17,720 Speaker 2: I'm ball of eyes out, literally ball of eyes out. 365 00:19:17,880 --> 00:19:18,680 Speaker 2: What have I done? 366 00:19:19,560 --> 00:19:21,240 Speaker 3: How stupid am I? 367 00:19:21,800 --> 00:19:24,600 Speaker 2: And then going through and seeing their life without me 368 00:19:24,720 --> 00:19:27,720 Speaker 2: being there, and I was just continually just one of 369 00:19:27,760 --> 00:19:30,119 Speaker 2: the guys. Guy's wives are there, said like I was 370 00:19:30,119 --> 00:19:32,119 Speaker 2: literally sobbing, like for it. 371 00:19:32,440 --> 00:19:34,200 Speaker 3: It wasn't growing. It was sobbing. 372 00:19:36,440 --> 00:19:39,840 Speaker 2: And then I just had this moment, well, if I'm dead, 373 00:19:39,880 --> 00:19:40,560 Speaker 2: I'm dead. 374 00:19:41,000 --> 00:19:42,280 Speaker 3: I'm just get used to it. 375 00:19:42,560 --> 00:19:44,480 Speaker 2: I was just accept the fact that I've died and 376 00:19:45,560 --> 00:19:48,679 Speaker 2: this is what's happened. And in that moment, I actually 377 00:19:48,720 --> 00:19:54,040 Speaker 2: just let go and just went, Okay, I'm dead. Then 378 00:19:54,119 --> 00:19:56,720 Speaker 2: then it shifted, like that's the thing with psychedelics. It 379 00:19:56,760 --> 00:19:59,760 Speaker 2: pushes again to the edge and you have these layers 380 00:19:59,760 --> 00:20:02,119 Speaker 2: of things you let go of and then reveals on 381 00:20:02,119 --> 00:20:04,879 Speaker 2: the other side that you're what you're afraid of was 382 00:20:05,160 --> 00:20:07,120 Speaker 2: nothing to be afraid of. It didn't go through that 383 00:20:07,640 --> 00:20:11,600 Speaker 2: gate per se to open another part. And then on 384 00:20:11,640 --> 00:20:14,280 Speaker 2: the other side is that then I saw that you 385 00:20:14,320 --> 00:20:17,800 Speaker 2: know the construct of my reality is, you know why 386 00:20:17,800 --> 00:20:19,880 Speaker 2: they're in my reality and how I've created them and 387 00:20:20,040 --> 00:20:22,080 Speaker 2: know what they are and the profound love that we 388 00:20:22,160 --> 00:20:27,200 Speaker 2: have together and and I you know, again melted into 389 00:20:27,200 --> 00:20:31,080 Speaker 2: the universe and it went beyond that into another place 390 00:20:31,119 --> 00:20:35,639 Speaker 2: where you know you and this again, this is pretty weird, 391 00:20:35,680 --> 00:20:39,320 Speaker 2: but you're in this place of going, well, I just 392 00:20:39,359 --> 00:20:43,119 Speaker 2: created a universe and everything in here is a construct 393 00:20:43,600 --> 00:20:46,520 Speaker 2: that's a game, and I created all the construct of 394 00:20:46,520 --> 00:20:51,879 Speaker 2: the game through through an experience for fun, just because 395 00:20:51,880 --> 00:20:54,359 Speaker 2: I could. And I was thinking about and even that 396 00:20:54,480 --> 00:20:57,360 Speaker 2: space like, well, we had the question about what is God, 397 00:20:57,720 --> 00:21:00,439 Speaker 2: and it's like, well, God's created in this universe to 398 00:21:00,440 --> 00:21:03,160 Speaker 2: play the game, to play the construct of this universe, 399 00:21:03,200 --> 00:21:06,640 Speaker 2: because without a supreme divine being, then that doesn't play 400 00:21:06,680 --> 00:21:09,639 Speaker 2: to the game code, right, So so it's sort of 401 00:21:09,680 --> 00:21:11,320 Speaker 2: like simulation theory kind of stuff. 402 00:21:11,359 --> 00:21:14,240 Speaker 3: Is that I created all this stuff inside this. 403 00:21:14,280 --> 00:21:17,639 Speaker 2: Universe which create which has codes in there so we 404 00:21:17,680 --> 00:21:20,719 Speaker 2: can actually play the game to have the experience. So 405 00:21:20,840 --> 00:21:23,040 Speaker 2: for me to have this experience, I don't have all 406 00:21:23,040 --> 00:21:25,360 Speaker 2: these other things that he'd actually to do that. So 407 00:21:26,119 --> 00:21:29,560 Speaker 2: and there's the universes I've created to have different experiences. 408 00:21:29,760 --> 00:21:30,920 Speaker 3: So it gets weird. 409 00:21:32,040 --> 00:21:35,919 Speaker 1: I love it so I wanted to ask you, you know, 410 00:21:35,960 --> 00:21:38,959 Speaker 1: when you're not being a weird you know, psychedelic cosmonaut 411 00:21:39,000 --> 00:21:41,960 Speaker 1: fucking exploring the outer reaches of I was going to 412 00:21:42,000 --> 00:21:45,560 Speaker 1: say the human experience, but the human experience and beyond 413 00:21:45,880 --> 00:21:50,119 Speaker 1: you're a boring banker, Well you're not. But you you 414 00:21:50,359 --> 00:21:59,000 Speaker 1: work in that space and you're working with, you know, 415 00:21:59,080 --> 00:22:04,320 Speaker 1: people in the corporate space, and what is what is 416 00:22:04,359 --> 00:22:10,359 Speaker 1: it that what's the intersection of greg both gregs and 417 00:22:10,440 --> 00:22:16,000 Speaker 1: bringing both gregs into that space? Like, for example, I 418 00:22:16,080 --> 00:22:19,400 Speaker 1: think what I bring into the corporate space because I'm 419 00:22:19,440 --> 00:22:23,119 Speaker 1: not a corporate, but I play in the corporate space regularly. 420 00:22:23,840 --> 00:22:27,679 Speaker 1: But I understand corporate. I can talk corporate. I understand business. 421 00:22:27,760 --> 00:22:30,880 Speaker 1: I've owned my own business, so I've built, developed, been 422 00:22:30,920 --> 00:22:33,560 Speaker 1: an entrepreneur, employed hundreds of people, so I get it. 423 00:22:34,240 --> 00:22:36,240 Speaker 1: So I can plain that space. But I can also 424 00:22:36,400 --> 00:22:38,640 Speaker 1: talk like the bloke next door. And I don't wear 425 00:22:38,680 --> 00:22:41,840 Speaker 1: a suit, so I bring a certain you know whatever 426 00:22:41,880 --> 00:22:44,280 Speaker 1: that seems to work, right. I'm not the best at it, 427 00:22:44,320 --> 00:22:47,880 Speaker 1: but I'm okay, what is it that you are bringing 428 00:22:47,920 --> 00:22:51,879 Speaker 1: into that space now? And how do you integrate some 429 00:22:52,080 --> 00:22:56,840 Speaker 1: of your more you know, out there stuff for want 430 00:22:56,840 --> 00:22:58,720 Speaker 1: of a better term. The term didn't come to mind, 431 00:22:58,720 --> 00:23:02,080 Speaker 1: but you know what I'm saying in integrated into a 432 00:23:02,160 --> 00:23:05,880 Speaker 1: model or a service that helps people not only at 433 00:23:05,880 --> 00:23:07,920 Speaker 1: work can be good at what they do as as 434 00:23:07,920 --> 00:23:11,760 Speaker 1: the managers, but also help them self, regulate and look 435 00:23:11,800 --> 00:23:12,359 Speaker 1: after them. 436 00:23:13,080 --> 00:23:16,320 Speaker 3: So it probably goes back and you know the whole 437 00:23:16,359 --> 00:23:18,280 Speaker 3: slow is the next stuff. Why do you do this? 438 00:23:18,359 --> 00:23:22,119 Speaker 2: Why are you're so passionate about bringing you know, high performance, 439 00:23:22,760 --> 00:23:26,880 Speaker 2: you know, with a certain you know, EQ plus intuition 440 00:23:27,040 --> 00:23:31,240 Speaker 2: plus human behavior into the workplace. When I was you know, 441 00:23:32,480 --> 00:23:35,080 Speaker 2: this is between the jobs in the banks, was working Oerica. 442 00:23:35,520 --> 00:23:38,600 Speaker 2: We had a a stuff survey that came out and 443 00:23:38,800 --> 00:23:41,520 Speaker 2: was we had a probably very poor rating. 444 00:23:41,640 --> 00:23:42,920 Speaker 3: So they had the whole. 445 00:23:42,680 --> 00:23:45,199 Speaker 2: Of the department, one hundred twenty odd people there with 446 00:23:45,400 --> 00:23:49,480 Speaker 2: HR asking about why the you know, the rating was 447 00:23:49,520 --> 00:23:55,080 Speaker 2: so low on the workplace feedback and the HR chit 448 00:23:55,160 --> 00:23:58,359 Speaker 2: come out and she basically said, you know, it's we 449 00:23:58,400 --> 00:24:00,240 Speaker 2: don't understand it. All that kind of stuff. You know, 450 00:24:00,280 --> 00:24:02,199 Speaker 2: you can walk into my office anytime you want to. 451 00:24:02,400 --> 00:24:04,160 Speaker 2: You should be able to come in here and talk 452 00:24:04,200 --> 00:24:07,560 Speaker 2: about this stuff. You're really concerned about this, you know, 453 00:24:07,600 --> 00:24:10,199 Speaker 2: you should be able to trust me. And remember there 454 00:24:10,240 --> 00:24:12,280 Speaker 2: was a lady sitting next to me, Rosie, and she 455 00:24:12,440 --> 00:24:15,199 Speaker 2: just laughs. She goes, she's got no idea how she 456 00:24:15,760 --> 00:24:17,879 Speaker 2: and me. At that stage, I was young Mark. I 457 00:24:17,880 --> 00:24:20,520 Speaker 2: thought I could just put my hand up and say something, 458 00:24:20,520 --> 00:24:24,920 Speaker 2: so I did. I said to the tage Hila, I said, okay, right, 459 00:24:26,080 --> 00:24:27,879 Speaker 2: you've said all this stuff, but if you wanted us 460 00:24:27,920 --> 00:24:31,720 Speaker 2: to come into your office and actually talk about some 461 00:24:31,760 --> 00:24:34,800 Speaker 2: of the issues we've got here, you have to have trust. 462 00:24:35,800 --> 00:24:36,120 Speaker 3: I said. 463 00:24:36,160 --> 00:24:39,120 Speaker 2: To have trust, you must know our names. I said, 464 00:24:39,160 --> 00:24:41,879 Speaker 2: what's my name? You couldn't answer it. 465 00:24:42,240 --> 00:24:44,960 Speaker 3: I said what's her name? She couldn't answer it. 466 00:24:45,560 --> 00:24:49,360 Speaker 2: Two hours later, I was officially told to leave the company. 467 00:24:49,720 --> 00:24:52,280 Speaker 2: I went to the general manager's office. You said, Greg, 468 00:24:52,400 --> 00:24:56,119 Speaker 2: your career here at is effectively over. I'll write your 469 00:24:56,119 --> 00:24:59,200 Speaker 2: a glowing reference, but we'll get you a job somewhere else. 470 00:25:00,160 --> 00:25:03,800 Speaker 1: Really, they seem like good questions to me. 471 00:25:05,200 --> 00:25:08,240 Speaker 2: Literally to hour, I was literally walked in the general 472 00:25:08,240 --> 00:25:11,320 Speaker 2: manager's office and said, your career is now officially over. 473 00:25:11,960 --> 00:25:17,080 Speaker 1: Why What was the reason? I think we all knew, right, 474 00:25:17,160 --> 00:25:18,320 Speaker 1: so they didn't explain it. 475 00:25:18,840 --> 00:25:21,080 Speaker 2: No, no, but we knew I've embarrassed the crap out 476 00:25:21,080 --> 00:25:23,359 Speaker 2: of her like millions, because it was I'm seeing your 477 00:25:23,359 --> 00:25:25,720 Speaker 2: people in that room, like real senior people, and I 478 00:25:26,440 --> 00:25:29,359 Speaker 2: had really embarrassed. I'd see what everybody else was wanted 479 00:25:29,400 --> 00:25:31,840 Speaker 2: to say, right, And that's sort of my personality. I'm 480 00:25:31,840 --> 00:25:34,800 Speaker 2: happy to stick up to the little guys. Right, it's 481 00:25:34,800 --> 00:25:39,360 Speaker 2: probably my you know, my family's all labor politicians, right, 482 00:25:40,400 --> 00:25:43,200 Speaker 2: that genetics in there, and but. 483 00:25:43,160 --> 00:25:46,399 Speaker 3: It really it really irks me, like I have this sort. 484 00:25:46,240 --> 00:25:49,840 Speaker 2: Of value I'm very sometimes righteous, but very value driven 485 00:25:49,840 --> 00:25:54,360 Speaker 2: in the space about people, and I love. I want 486 00:25:54,400 --> 00:25:57,280 Speaker 2: people to be the best they can be. And where 487 00:25:57,280 --> 00:25:59,680 Speaker 2: we're having situations like that where people are just full 488 00:25:59,720 --> 00:26:02,080 Speaker 2: of share it, I just had to speak up. I 489 00:26:02,119 --> 00:26:04,400 Speaker 2: couldn't sit there and not say anything, otherwise I would 490 00:26:04,440 --> 00:26:05,840 Speaker 2: have not been able to look in the mirror. 491 00:26:05,640 --> 00:26:09,360 Speaker 3: The next day. Hidesight greatest Togever. Right. 492 00:26:09,480 --> 00:26:11,680 Speaker 2: I walked into a job two weeks later and double 493 00:26:11,680 --> 00:26:17,240 Speaker 2: the salary, right, thank you very much. Right, But that 494 00:26:17,400 --> 00:26:21,080 Speaker 2: really set the terms of Okay, well, why is HR there? 495 00:26:21,119 --> 00:26:22,560 Speaker 2: Are they there for the people who are there for 496 00:26:22,600 --> 00:26:25,040 Speaker 2: the company? So I sadden really delving into that stuff 497 00:26:25,600 --> 00:26:27,800 Speaker 2: and then going okay, well, what's the leadship about you know, 498 00:26:27,800 --> 00:26:31,480 Speaker 2: and then I'll start going into Okay, most companies, most 499 00:26:31,520 --> 00:26:35,679 Speaker 2: businesses have managers in place because they can do something 500 00:26:36,440 --> 00:26:41,080 Speaker 2: or achieve something, or bundance a spreadsheet, or governance requests 501 00:26:41,200 --> 00:26:45,280 Speaker 2: or stakeholder engagements. They can do a lot of stuff. 502 00:26:46,440 --> 00:26:49,600 Speaker 2: They're not people leaders, and they're different roles. But too 503 00:26:49,680 --> 00:26:52,720 Speaker 2: often in businesses and corporations, we let these people who 504 00:26:52,720 --> 00:26:55,880 Speaker 2: are very analytical, who are very good at their job, 505 00:26:56,280 --> 00:27:00,600 Speaker 2: we're given roles that include managing people. They're not the 506 00:27:00,720 --> 00:27:04,040 Speaker 2: same and they will never ever be the same. And 507 00:27:04,080 --> 00:27:07,720 Speaker 2: I think it's unfair on people in those positions to 508 00:27:07,760 --> 00:27:11,119 Speaker 2: be giving people leader roles because they're ineffective. And this 509 00:27:11,160 --> 00:27:13,000 Speaker 2: is where you get to all these places where people 510 00:27:13,000 --> 00:27:15,720 Speaker 2: are miserable. And we talked the other day about, you know, 511 00:27:15,760 --> 00:27:18,480 Speaker 2: people going to work in these corporate environments, are they 512 00:27:18,520 --> 00:27:21,640 Speaker 2: just rocking up or they really inspired in the job, 513 00:27:21,640 --> 00:27:23,600 Speaker 2: And most people aren't. Most just rocking up to pay 514 00:27:23,640 --> 00:27:26,720 Speaker 2: the bills. They're not motivated to be there. So I'm 515 00:27:26,800 --> 00:27:30,320 Speaker 2: really fascinated about that. And then I remember walking in 516 00:27:30,359 --> 00:27:32,280 Speaker 2: to one room with their leaders one day and I say, 517 00:27:32,359 --> 00:27:35,520 Speaker 2: you guys, are all people leaders? Tell me the effect 518 00:27:35,560 --> 00:27:37,880 Speaker 2: of stress on the brain and how it affects your 519 00:27:37,880 --> 00:27:38,720 Speaker 2: team's performance. 520 00:27:39,520 --> 00:27:41,560 Speaker 3: All of them can answer it. Not one. 521 00:27:42,640 --> 00:27:46,680 Speaker 2: It's like, oh, okay, right, do you understand any of 522 00:27:46,720 --> 00:27:49,439 Speaker 2: this stuff? Like they had no idea, like none, and 523 00:27:49,440 --> 00:27:52,919 Speaker 2: these they led teams of forty to fifty people and 524 00:27:52,920 --> 00:27:54,080 Speaker 2: then realize why their. 525 00:27:53,920 --> 00:27:54,639 Speaker 3: Teams are crap. 526 00:27:55,040 --> 00:27:57,640 Speaker 2: And I said, look, do you know that person out 527 00:27:57,680 --> 00:28:02,400 Speaker 2: there who's on any depressants what that does to her work. 528 00:28:02,200 --> 00:28:04,200 Speaker 3: Ethics and what work performance? 529 00:28:04,920 --> 00:28:06,800 Speaker 2: You have any idea what's going home on a home 530 00:28:06,920 --> 00:28:10,120 Speaker 2: for her behind the scenes, because that's affecting her work 531 00:28:10,119 --> 00:28:11,920 Speaker 2: performance as well your people. 532 00:28:12,000 --> 00:28:14,160 Speaker 3: Leaders, you don't know this about your staff. 533 00:28:15,080 --> 00:28:18,679 Speaker 2: There's a there's a real lack of connection and so 534 00:28:19,480 --> 00:28:21,959 Speaker 2: and a lot of places don't actually want to do it. 535 00:28:21,960 --> 00:28:25,120 Speaker 2: They'll go and do an r U okay day, put 536 00:28:25,160 --> 00:28:27,560 Speaker 2: some cupcakes out, put themselves on the back and say, hey, 537 00:28:27,560 --> 00:28:30,000 Speaker 2: we're doing you know, we're doing We're doing what we 538 00:28:30,080 --> 00:28:32,360 Speaker 2: need to to tick a box that says where we're 539 00:28:32,400 --> 00:28:35,760 Speaker 2: a progressive company that cares about people's you know, mental 540 00:28:35,760 --> 00:28:39,080 Speaker 2: well being. They don't, because two hours later they're going 541 00:28:39,120 --> 00:28:40,880 Speaker 2: back into the same ship they came from. 542 00:28:41,960 --> 00:28:42,600 Speaker 1: It's so fun. 543 00:28:42,720 --> 00:28:46,040 Speaker 2: Leaders are so afraid to do actually make the that 544 00:28:46,160 --> 00:28:48,440 Speaker 2: the stats back it up. You can look up any gartner, 545 00:28:48,920 --> 00:28:55,560 Speaker 2: you know, McKinley, Harvard, Yale, across the board. What having 546 00:28:55,840 --> 00:28:58,600 Speaker 2: you know, proper leadership in your business does for performance 547 00:28:58,640 --> 00:29:03,440 Speaker 2: and profit and happiness and staff turnover and innovation like 548 00:29:04,120 --> 00:29:06,880 Speaker 2: it's but they just don't want to invest. 549 00:29:07,800 --> 00:29:11,560 Speaker 1: No. And also, while there are great leaders, there are 550 00:29:11,640 --> 00:29:14,400 Speaker 1: terrible leaders, and there are leaders that can't even get 551 00:29:14,440 --> 00:29:20,200 Speaker 1: their own shit together. There are leaders people in leadership 552 00:29:20,240 --> 00:29:25,880 Speaker 1: positions at least or management or senior positions, who are 553 00:29:26,880 --> 00:29:31,600 Speaker 1: no hate here but themselves their they're train wrecks and 554 00:29:31,960 --> 00:29:34,800 Speaker 1: they can't get their own shit together or manage their 555 00:29:34,840 --> 00:29:39,080 Speaker 1: own life for whatever reason. And then they're put in 556 00:29:39,160 --> 00:29:41,120 Speaker 1: charge of a whole lot of other people. And it's 557 00:29:41,160 --> 00:29:44,880 Speaker 1: not that it's their job to manage everyone's lives, but 558 00:29:45,640 --> 00:29:48,520 Speaker 1: as you kind of infer, like, we need to at 559 00:29:48,560 --> 00:29:51,600 Speaker 1: least understand our people and genuinely care for our people, 560 00:29:51,960 --> 00:29:57,800 Speaker 1: like genuinely, like not be seen to care, actually not 561 00:29:57,960 --> 00:30:05,520 Speaker 1: fucking simulated empathy, real empathy. And I have this conversation regularly, Greg, 562 00:30:05,560 --> 00:30:09,360 Speaker 1: where I have you know before I've told you this, 563 00:30:09,440 --> 00:30:11,080 Speaker 1: but for the listeners. You know, one of the things 564 00:30:11,120 --> 00:30:13,840 Speaker 1: that when you're a corporate speaker, everyone pretty much every 565 00:30:13,880 --> 00:30:17,080 Speaker 1: time you do a gig, you'll have a meeting a 566 00:30:17,080 --> 00:30:19,000 Speaker 1: week or a month before or whatever it is, and 567 00:30:20,520 --> 00:30:23,080 Speaker 1: they will want to brief you on the event. Okay, Craig, 568 00:30:23,120 --> 00:30:25,360 Speaker 1: this is the name of our conference, this is the theme. 569 00:30:25,400 --> 00:30:29,360 Speaker 1: You'll speaker number one or ten or you know. Next week, 570 00:30:29,360 --> 00:30:31,760 Speaker 1: I'm going away and I'm the only speaker. I'm doing 571 00:30:31,760 --> 00:30:36,840 Speaker 1: a half day with an organization. And then there's the Okay. 572 00:30:36,880 --> 00:30:40,000 Speaker 1: So like a lot of times, it's especially with companies 573 00:30:40,040 --> 00:30:43,200 Speaker 1: that I'm new to. Essentially, we want you to come 574 00:30:43,200 --> 00:30:44,920 Speaker 1: in and rev them up and get them all pumped 575 00:30:44,920 --> 00:30:46,880 Speaker 1: because the culture is a bit shit and the energy 576 00:30:46,920 --> 00:30:49,600 Speaker 1: is a bit flat, sales are a bit down, and 577 00:30:49,640 --> 00:30:52,040 Speaker 1: we want you to just fucking you know. The bottom 578 00:30:52,040 --> 00:30:54,800 Speaker 1: line is we want we want to sell more shits 579 00:30:54,920 --> 00:30:57,360 Speaker 1: and we want to make more go and whatever you 580 00:30:57,400 --> 00:30:59,440 Speaker 1: need to do to them to get them to do that, 581 00:30:59,440 --> 00:31:02,960 Speaker 1: that's what we want you to do. Like, Okay, how 582 00:31:03,000 --> 00:31:05,200 Speaker 1: about we don't treat them like they're a cog in 583 00:31:05,280 --> 00:31:09,719 Speaker 1: a money making machine. Let's start with that. Let's start 584 00:31:09,760 --> 00:31:14,040 Speaker 1: with how are you feeling let's start with how's your health? 585 00:31:15,240 --> 00:31:18,400 Speaker 1: Are you sleeping? Are you eating well? Are you moving well? 586 00:31:19,040 --> 00:31:21,840 Speaker 1: Here's one? How do you feel when you're at work? 587 00:31:21,880 --> 00:31:25,719 Speaker 1: Here's another one? Do you look forward to coming to work? 588 00:31:26,160 --> 00:31:28,400 Speaker 1: Do you feel safe? Do you feel seen and valued? 589 00:31:28,880 --> 00:31:32,720 Speaker 1: Are you okay? Do you want to be here? Oh? 590 00:31:32,720 --> 00:31:36,400 Speaker 1: And they're like, what what I go? How about we 591 00:31:36,560 --> 00:31:39,920 Speaker 1: just look after them as best we can, right what 592 00:31:40,120 --> 00:31:45,480 Speaker 1: is appropriate, and maybe the byproduct is maybe that they'll 593 00:31:45,520 --> 00:31:47,720 Speaker 1: just be better at whatever it is that they do. 594 00:31:47,760 --> 00:31:51,200 Speaker 1: You know, like, if I'm my job is to sell widgets, 595 00:31:51,960 --> 00:31:55,680 Speaker 1: and I'm physically, mentally, emotionally a better place than I 596 00:31:55,760 --> 00:31:58,960 Speaker 1: was before Greg came to talk to our team. And 597 00:31:59,000 --> 00:32:01,240 Speaker 1: now Greg's been working with our team for the last 598 00:32:01,240 --> 00:32:03,800 Speaker 1: ten weeks and giving me advice and us as a 599 00:32:03,880 --> 00:32:07,680 Speaker 1: collective strategies and insights and tools and resources. And I've 600 00:32:07,680 --> 00:32:11,480 Speaker 1: been operationalizing all the theory he's been downloading. And now 601 00:32:11,520 --> 00:32:15,120 Speaker 1: ten weeks later, I'm sleeping like a fucking winner. I 602 00:32:15,280 --> 00:32:18,400 Speaker 1: feel good, I'm less depressed, I'm more happy, I'm more 603 00:32:18,440 --> 00:32:22,800 Speaker 1: solution focused. I'm problem aware, but I'm solution focused and 604 00:32:22,840 --> 00:32:26,560 Speaker 1: now I'm great. So guess what without even focusing on 605 00:32:26,600 --> 00:32:31,760 Speaker 1: my job. I'm way better for the company. Correct, And 606 00:32:31,800 --> 00:32:34,320 Speaker 1: nobody even needs to talk about the bottom line or 607 00:32:34,320 --> 00:32:38,120 Speaker 1: productivity or efficiency. You don't even need to talk about it. 608 00:32:38,280 --> 00:32:42,480 Speaker 1: You just need to go, hey, Craig, how are you? 609 00:32:42,480 --> 00:32:45,840 Speaker 2: You know where people have those awkward conversations like you 610 00:32:46,000 --> 00:32:48,680 Speaker 2: to sit down and have a conversation across a cup 611 00:32:48,680 --> 00:32:49,160 Speaker 2: of coffee. 612 00:32:49,200 --> 00:32:50,320 Speaker 3: That's you see. 613 00:32:50,400 --> 00:32:52,680 Speaker 2: Leaders, they just they don't know how to do it 614 00:32:53,720 --> 00:32:56,960 Speaker 2: driving They hey, give me a Stutter's pack to update 615 00:32:57,000 --> 00:33:00,480 Speaker 2: my program's performance and my But then in the human 616 00:33:00,520 --> 00:33:05,360 Speaker 2: contact they struggle at massively, Like it's a skill set 617 00:33:05,400 --> 00:33:10,120 Speaker 2: that if you learn emotional intelligence and you know and 618 00:33:10,400 --> 00:33:13,920 Speaker 2: how humans work, that's the next. 619 00:33:13,680 --> 00:33:16,720 Speaker 3: Frontier for most people. Everybody should be learning this. 620 00:33:17,520 --> 00:33:20,840 Speaker 1: And I think, just like you and I are talking, 621 00:33:20,880 --> 00:33:25,560 Speaker 1: it's like you, you, Greg and me, we need to 622 00:33:25,920 --> 00:33:27,800 Speaker 1: do a deep dive on ourselves, which I think we 623 00:33:27,880 --> 00:33:31,080 Speaker 1: both constantly do. I need to make sure that before 624 00:33:31,080 --> 00:33:33,680 Speaker 1: I tell anyone else or share it with anyone else 625 00:33:33,800 --> 00:33:37,400 Speaker 1: or direct or coach that at the very least I'm 626 00:33:37,400 --> 00:33:40,360 Speaker 1: doing all of this for myself first, so that at 627 00:33:40,400 --> 00:33:43,360 Speaker 1: the very least I'm doing my best to walk my talk. 628 00:33:44,680 --> 00:33:49,720 Speaker 1: Because you know, as without going back to my research, 629 00:33:49,800 --> 00:33:51,959 Speaker 1: but it's very relevant. When I go in and I 630 00:33:52,040 --> 00:33:55,320 Speaker 1: say to a boss, him or her, what do you 631 00:33:55,360 --> 00:33:59,240 Speaker 1: think it's like being around you for them? Yeah, the 632 00:33:59,640 --> 00:34:04,479 Speaker 1: response is generally somewhere in the I'm not sure, or 633 00:34:05,840 --> 00:34:09,560 Speaker 1: I've never really thought about that, or I don't really care. 634 00:34:09,880 --> 00:34:12,800 Speaker 1: They just need to do the job. I'm not their friend. 635 00:34:13,760 --> 00:34:17,200 Speaker 1: It's very very few of them say, well, that's a 636 00:34:17,239 --> 00:34:21,600 Speaker 1: fucking great question. Let's lean into that together. Craig let's 637 00:34:22,160 --> 00:34:25,759 Speaker 1: and I'm like you now, that's not saying we need 638 00:34:25,800 --> 00:34:28,759 Speaker 1: to worry about whether or not people like us. That's 639 00:34:28,800 --> 00:34:33,080 Speaker 1: a different thing. What we are talking about is awareness, 640 00:34:33,320 --> 00:34:38,000 Speaker 1: situational awareness, context awareness. What is the Craig experience? Like 641 00:34:38,920 --> 00:34:41,120 Speaker 1: you know, It's like, imagine, I thought I'm pretty good 642 00:34:41,160 --> 00:34:44,080 Speaker 1: at podcasting, and every time I do a podcast, everyone 643 00:34:44,160 --> 00:34:47,799 Speaker 1: thinks it's fucking diabolical. Well, three episodes in, I don't 644 00:34:47,800 --> 00:34:51,319 Speaker 1: have a podcast. I don't have an audience, right, Which 645 00:34:51,360 --> 00:34:53,200 Speaker 1: is not to say I think i'm acid it because 646 00:34:53,200 --> 00:34:57,319 Speaker 1: I'm two thousand episodes almost down. It's like, I'm still 647 00:34:57,320 --> 00:34:59,280 Speaker 1: aware that I've got to learn and grow and evolve 648 00:34:59,320 --> 00:35:02,400 Speaker 1: and be better. I'm working to do that. But I 649 00:35:02,520 --> 00:35:05,600 Speaker 1: must I know, I must be doing something okay, and 650 00:35:05,640 --> 00:35:10,240 Speaker 1: so too with leaders, like if you're not walking your talk, 651 00:35:10,440 --> 00:35:12,839 Speaker 1: I'm not going to listen to you because I pay 652 00:35:13,040 --> 00:35:15,440 Speaker 1: way more attention to what you do than what you say. 653 00:35:15,960 --> 00:35:19,160 Speaker 1: So when you are, even if it makes sense, and 654 00:35:19,239 --> 00:35:22,759 Speaker 1: even if you're clever and articulate and you've got leadership skills, 655 00:35:23,120 --> 00:35:25,479 Speaker 1: if I know that you don't do what you tell 656 00:35:25,520 --> 00:35:29,719 Speaker 1: me to do, one no trust, no respect, and two 657 00:35:30,160 --> 00:35:31,960 Speaker 1: I'm probably not going to do it because it's not 658 00:35:32,040 --> 00:35:33,080 Speaker 1: the culture. 659 00:35:32,680 --> 00:35:35,880 Speaker 2: Here correct exactly right, and you mention the word trust. 660 00:35:35,920 --> 00:35:39,920 Speaker 2: They are like augustly the other day is like, if 661 00:35:39,960 --> 00:35:42,160 Speaker 2: you want to leader the people, you have to have 662 00:35:42,239 --> 00:35:45,359 Speaker 2: led yourself first. You can't get people to do things 663 00:35:45,360 --> 00:35:47,399 Speaker 2: you're not willing to do yourself. And people can see it, right, 664 00:35:47,880 --> 00:35:50,880 Speaker 2: people will call the bullshit media straight away. They consider 665 00:35:50,880 --> 00:35:52,360 Speaker 2: the fact that if you're just telling people to do 666 00:35:52,360 --> 00:35:54,960 Speaker 2: the work and you're doing yourself, you're a hypocrite and 667 00:35:55,000 --> 00:35:57,840 Speaker 2: the things will fall around you very very quickly. But 668 00:35:57,920 --> 00:35:59,400 Speaker 2: even to the point where look, I walk in the 669 00:35:59,400 --> 00:36:03,280 Speaker 2: people's place, they go, Okay, what's your personal brand? Talking 670 00:36:03,320 --> 00:36:06,640 Speaker 2: about greet that's my brand. It's like you know, what 671 00:36:06,800 --> 00:36:08,600 Speaker 2: is your brand, which is your values? 672 00:36:08,760 --> 00:36:09,279 Speaker 3: How you act? 673 00:36:09,360 --> 00:36:11,839 Speaker 2: What do you stand for? People just don't have them 674 00:36:11,840 --> 00:36:14,799 Speaker 2: like this. These are the questions I don't ask themselves. Yeah, 675 00:36:14,840 --> 00:36:16,080 Speaker 2: they are great questions. 676 00:36:16,719 --> 00:36:19,560 Speaker 1: Yes, yes, yeah, how do you talk? 677 00:36:19,600 --> 00:36:22,160 Speaker 2: So if someone said, you know, my brand is you 678 00:36:22,160 --> 00:36:24,640 Speaker 2: know how I articulate myself as the magician of the 679 00:36:24,680 --> 00:36:28,239 Speaker 2: sage and the outlaw. So you'll see that I'm about transformation, 680 00:36:28,440 --> 00:36:30,640 Speaker 2: deep wisdom, and I call a spade of spade and 681 00:36:30,719 --> 00:36:34,560 Speaker 2: I break the rules. That's how I talk, right. Yes, 682 00:36:35,160 --> 00:36:37,719 Speaker 2: that requires certain values associated with that as well too, 683 00:36:37,800 --> 00:36:39,759 Speaker 2: So that's how I will, you know, sort of lived 684 00:36:39,760 --> 00:36:42,920 Speaker 2: my life in that space. Some people have been more caregivers, 685 00:36:42,920 --> 00:36:45,640 Speaker 2: some people, you know whatever, they ask more jovial. But 686 00:36:46,520 --> 00:36:50,360 Speaker 2: there are questions that the eternal investment on those questions 687 00:36:50,360 --> 00:36:51,560 Speaker 2: are huge. 688 00:36:51,600 --> 00:36:52,360 Speaker 3: They're massive. 689 00:36:53,200 --> 00:36:56,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, we're nearly done. I've got a couple 690 00:36:56,120 --> 00:36:58,399 Speaker 1: of questions and I'm going to let you get back 691 00:36:58,440 --> 00:37:03,840 Speaker 1: to your family. What is something in the last however 692 00:37:03,920 --> 00:37:08,840 Speaker 1: many years that you got wrong, absolutely wrong. That's question 693 00:37:08,920 --> 00:37:11,160 Speaker 1: one and question two, and they may or may not 694 00:37:11,200 --> 00:37:13,200 Speaker 1: be related. Question one is what did you get wrong? 695 00:37:13,320 --> 00:37:16,600 Speaker 1: Question two is what have you changed? Your mind about 696 00:37:17,120 --> 00:37:18,520 Speaker 1: or perhaps one of you, what have you done a 697 00:37:18,600 --> 00:37:19,319 Speaker 1: one eighty on. 698 00:37:21,400 --> 00:37:22,320 Speaker 3: Well have I got wrong? 699 00:37:24,880 --> 00:37:29,120 Speaker 2: The hardest thing is working from home is because I'm here, 700 00:37:29,120 --> 00:37:32,240 Speaker 2: but I'm not here right. And some of the things 701 00:37:32,320 --> 00:37:34,320 Speaker 2: is that I'm not sometimes the best listener. 702 00:37:34,840 --> 00:37:36,399 Speaker 3: Right, that I will actually be. 703 00:37:36,400 --> 00:37:38,560 Speaker 2: Here, but I won't be here because I'm actually my 704 00:37:38,680 --> 00:37:42,719 Speaker 2: mind somewhere else. And something I'm very much aware of 705 00:37:42,760 --> 00:37:44,439 Speaker 2: I have to sort of work on a lot more 706 00:37:44,600 --> 00:37:47,480 Speaker 2: is that, you know, my thing is my family, but 707 00:37:47,520 --> 00:37:50,000 Speaker 2: I need to actively listen a lot more than I 708 00:37:50,040 --> 00:37:52,680 Speaker 2: had because there's so much going on, especially around that time, 709 00:37:53,000 --> 00:37:55,480 Speaker 2: those last three ideas. There's so much going through my 710 00:37:55,520 --> 00:37:58,680 Speaker 2: head that I need to be more present. 711 00:37:58,920 --> 00:38:00,960 Speaker 3: And again like it's I'm not. 712 00:38:02,560 --> 00:38:04,839 Speaker 2: I'm grateful that I did that, because it's again it's 713 00:38:04,840 --> 00:38:07,200 Speaker 2: showing me a skill set that I need to develop. 714 00:38:07,280 --> 00:38:11,720 Speaker 2: Like without not listening, I listen to my clients very deeply, 715 00:38:11,800 --> 00:38:14,880 Speaker 2: but then I wasn't doing it with you know, at home. 716 00:38:16,200 --> 00:38:17,960 Speaker 2: And I can get into this whole thing about Greg. 717 00:38:18,000 --> 00:38:19,839 Speaker 2: You're an idiot, gregor're a dick, You're doing it wrong? 718 00:38:20,040 --> 00:38:22,040 Speaker 2: You know, the whole poor me syndrome or you can 719 00:38:22,080 --> 00:38:25,880 Speaker 2: go that is showing me the ability to develop a 720 00:38:25,880 --> 00:38:26,480 Speaker 2: skill set. 721 00:38:27,320 --> 00:38:31,520 Speaker 3: Yeah in other ways. So so that yeah. 722 00:38:31,320 --> 00:38:33,520 Speaker 2: I got that wrong, and I had been for a while, 723 00:38:34,120 --> 00:38:37,120 Speaker 2: and that has its impacts in its way. So especially 724 00:38:37,160 --> 00:38:40,600 Speaker 2: when you're having this deep, you know, listening aspect with 725 00:38:41,040 --> 00:38:43,279 Speaker 2: clients and they're going like, God, just listen to me. 726 00:38:43,400 --> 00:38:46,319 Speaker 2: I never people, just you care so much, and then 727 00:38:46,440 --> 00:38:49,040 Speaker 2: you know I'm blank with you know, in other aspects. 728 00:38:49,080 --> 00:38:54,239 Speaker 3: Right, So so that balls it up completely completely. 729 00:38:54,160 --> 00:38:58,080 Speaker 1: And something you've changed your mind about where you thought X, 730 00:38:58,120 --> 00:39:01,320 Speaker 1: and now you think why perhaps if. 731 00:39:01,120 --> 00:39:03,760 Speaker 3: Anything political. 732 00:39:05,600 --> 00:39:10,560 Speaker 2: Let's say left versus right stuff right, as far as 733 00:39:11,920 --> 00:39:15,160 Speaker 2: you don't there's some of the one same as the 734 00:39:15,200 --> 00:39:18,880 Speaker 2: one thing. Okay, they're they're fighting for the same stuff, 735 00:39:19,600 --> 00:39:23,080 Speaker 2: just in different aspects in different ways, but the they 736 00:39:23,200 --> 00:39:28,040 Speaker 2: both need each other to exist, and one kind of 737 00:39:28,080 --> 00:39:30,640 Speaker 2: exist without the other. But they also provide a very 738 00:39:30,760 --> 00:39:36,120 Speaker 2: very you know, amazing sort of duality. Whereas I was 739 00:39:36,120 --> 00:39:39,799 Speaker 2: always probably probably more center right in the space, now 740 00:39:39,840 --> 00:39:44,040 Speaker 2: I've sort of been trying to understand the the experience 741 00:39:44,080 --> 00:39:46,920 Speaker 2: of the of the left side of stuff and see 742 00:39:46,960 --> 00:39:49,880 Speaker 2: what you're coming from and kind of go, well, maybe 743 00:39:49,920 --> 00:39:52,640 Speaker 2: I do have that part wrong in what I thought previously, 744 00:39:54,360 --> 00:39:56,200 Speaker 2: so so in that space. 745 00:39:56,239 --> 00:39:58,880 Speaker 3: Look, and that's the thing is about you. 746 00:39:59,680 --> 00:40:02,120 Speaker 2: If you I have a fixed mindset and you always 747 00:40:02,160 --> 00:40:03,960 Speaker 2: come from that way, and you say, like I said before, 748 00:40:04,000 --> 00:40:08,439 Speaker 2: my way is the only way, you know, you sort 749 00:40:08,440 --> 00:40:12,960 Speaker 2: of just you can't grow from that place. Yeah, as 750 00:40:13,160 --> 00:40:16,360 Speaker 2: be challenged by some of the aspects of different thinking 751 00:40:16,360 --> 00:40:22,080 Speaker 2: to what I've got that the way, rather just dismiss it, 752 00:40:22,400 --> 00:40:25,080 Speaker 2: try and actually understand why they're actually saying what they're saying. 753 00:40:26,239 --> 00:40:27,520 Speaker 3: And yeah, in some ways that. 754 00:40:27,520 --> 00:40:29,440 Speaker 2: Okay, I can see why that's that's there, and I 755 00:40:29,600 --> 00:40:33,319 Speaker 2: have empathy with that, but I can accept that as 756 00:40:33,360 --> 00:40:33,799 Speaker 2: well too. 757 00:40:34,440 --> 00:40:40,719 Speaker 1: Last question, probably every I mean if people are fit 758 00:40:40,800 --> 00:40:43,200 Speaker 1: and healthy, not injured people or sick people. But in 759 00:40:43,239 --> 00:40:46,759 Speaker 1: general terms, every human can run at some stage, right, 760 00:40:48,360 --> 00:40:50,520 Speaker 1: you know, if I can go outside and run. I 761 00:40:50,520 --> 00:40:52,920 Speaker 1: don't run like the wind, and I don't run beautifully, 762 00:40:52,960 --> 00:40:55,040 Speaker 1: but I can go and run. Everyone but not everyone 763 00:40:55,160 --> 00:40:59,680 Speaker 1: is a runner, so to speak, Right, does everyone have 764 00:41:00,080 --> 00:41:07,800 Speaker 1: potential for psychic ability? Like obviously you know some people 765 00:41:07,840 --> 00:41:10,200 Speaker 1: have a gift. Not everybody has a gift. But yeah, 766 00:41:10,320 --> 00:41:12,880 Speaker 1: is it trainable? Is it teachable? Is it a skill? 767 00:41:13,040 --> 00:41:15,759 Speaker 1: Is it a gift? Is it a trait. Explain it 768 00:41:15,800 --> 00:41:16,120 Speaker 1: to me. 769 00:41:16,600 --> 00:41:20,319 Speaker 2: So I'll give you another metaphor anology kind of thing. 770 00:41:22,320 --> 00:41:24,919 Speaker 2: I can learn to play the piano. I can train 771 00:41:25,040 --> 00:41:26,920 Speaker 2: hard enough, I can learn. I can learn the scales, 772 00:41:26,960 --> 00:41:29,120 Speaker 2: I learn the frameworks of it. I can play good tune. 773 00:41:29,640 --> 00:41:34,479 Speaker 2: I can play some really good music. There'll never be Mozart. Yeah, 774 00:41:35,440 --> 00:41:38,640 Speaker 2: sometimes people are just born with shit that yeah, far 775 00:41:38,719 --> 00:41:41,520 Speaker 2: beyond what other people can experience. Does that stop them 776 00:41:41,520 --> 00:41:44,840 Speaker 2: from actually learn to play the piano? Play the piano? 777 00:41:45,800 --> 00:41:46,040 Speaker 3: Right? 778 00:41:46,840 --> 00:41:52,120 Speaker 1: Right? So do you think like you obviously have a gift? 779 00:41:52,640 --> 00:41:52,880 Speaker 3: Do you? 780 00:41:54,360 --> 00:41:56,239 Speaker 1: I know it's not the last question, but it's the 781 00:41:56,360 --> 00:42:00,399 Speaker 1: last topic, so it's almost the last question. And so 782 00:42:00,440 --> 00:42:03,120 Speaker 1: you won, you won a TV show which was called 783 00:42:03,120 --> 00:42:06,239 Speaker 1: The One, and on that you were crowned for what 784 00:42:06,360 --> 00:42:11,640 Speaker 1: a better term, Australia's best psychic, right, and then you 785 00:42:11,680 --> 00:42:13,520 Speaker 1: said you kind of did that. You worked as a 786 00:42:13,560 --> 00:42:20,160 Speaker 1: psychic for a year and full time ish was it? 787 00:42:20,520 --> 00:42:20,680 Speaker 2: Then? 788 00:42:21,320 --> 00:42:22,080 Speaker 3: Yeah? 789 00:42:22,120 --> 00:42:26,600 Speaker 1: And then you went nah, after a year, why is 790 00:42:26,760 --> 00:42:29,799 Speaker 1: the guy with that gift? Is it? What is the 791 00:42:30,520 --> 00:42:34,680 Speaker 1: I feel like that could be really fucking exhausting or like, 792 00:42:34,800 --> 00:42:36,200 Speaker 1: why did you stop. 793 00:42:37,560 --> 00:42:40,880 Speaker 2: I think from I couldn't let people walk out of 794 00:42:40,880 --> 00:42:43,160 Speaker 2: a room, knowing that I could have helped them a 795 00:42:43,160 --> 00:42:46,000 Speaker 2: lot more that they hadn't. They got what they thought 796 00:42:46,040 --> 00:42:50,120 Speaker 2: they wanted, but obviously going that's not really what needs 797 00:42:50,160 --> 00:42:52,920 Speaker 2: to happen, because that's the problem with you can just 798 00:42:52,960 --> 00:42:56,600 Speaker 2: do the normal psychic stuff, which would be oh, okay, okay, Sally, 799 00:42:56,680 --> 00:43:00,440 Speaker 2: come in here, you're here, okay, you're looking for a likeationship. 800 00:43:00,440 --> 00:43:03,320 Speaker 2: I see in October that there's a guy coming forward. 801 00:43:03,400 --> 00:43:06,440 Speaker 2: His name is Dave, and Dave's going to be this 802 00:43:06,480 --> 00:43:08,239 Speaker 2: guy who swoops you off your feet and you live happily, 803 00:43:08,600 --> 00:43:10,719 Speaker 2: going to have two children, one boy, one girl. Was 804 00:43:10,719 --> 00:43:12,440 Speaker 2: going to green eyes, want to be very intelligent, and 805 00:43:12,440 --> 00:43:15,120 Speaker 2: you're going to then travel the world. Right, Everyone wants 806 00:43:15,120 --> 00:43:18,320 Speaker 2: to hear that story. Every person wants to come, especially 807 00:43:18,400 --> 00:43:19,800 Speaker 2: you know, females when they came for a reading. Was 808 00:43:19,800 --> 00:43:22,000 Speaker 2: about mostly about relationships. 809 00:43:22,800 --> 00:43:25,200 Speaker 3: And it feels good. It hits that dope. For me, 810 00:43:25,360 --> 00:43:29,919 Speaker 3: it was okay, right, I'm going to I am going 811 00:43:30,000 --> 00:43:30,880 Speaker 3: to be okay. 812 00:43:31,360 --> 00:43:33,279 Speaker 2: You know, a psychic told me I'm going to meet 813 00:43:33,320 --> 00:43:35,080 Speaker 2: this person sometime in the future and that I don't 814 00:43:35,080 --> 00:43:36,440 Speaker 2: have to do anything, and he's going to be the 815 00:43:36,880 --> 00:43:40,359 Speaker 2: nineteen Shining armor that I want now. Ninety nine point 816 00:43:40,480 --> 00:43:42,240 Speaker 2: nine nine percent of the time it wouldn't even happen. 817 00:43:42,920 --> 00:43:44,880 Speaker 2: But I was sitting in front of Sally and go, Sally, 818 00:43:46,400 --> 00:43:50,399 Speaker 2: you've just come from three relationships. One cheated on you, 819 00:43:50,760 --> 00:43:54,880 Speaker 2: one was abusive, and one showed you no connection. How 820 00:43:54,880 --> 00:43:57,160 Speaker 2: about we deal with that? No, Greg, that's why I'm 821 00:43:57,280 --> 00:43:58,799 Speaker 2: I'm not here for that. I want you to tell 822 00:43:58,840 --> 00:44:02,560 Speaker 2: me where my new soul made is. No, Sally, your 823 00:44:02,560 --> 00:44:05,319 Speaker 2: soul I ain't coming. The only person coming your way 824 00:44:05,440 --> 00:44:07,880 Speaker 2: is more trauma. Greg, Am I paying for this? I 825 00:44:07,920 --> 00:44:09,920 Speaker 2: want you to tell me where's my soulmate? 826 00:44:11,160 --> 00:44:11,480 Speaker 1: Right? 827 00:44:11,719 --> 00:44:13,799 Speaker 2: So I struggle with the ethics behind what I was doing. 828 00:44:13,840 --> 00:44:16,359 Speaker 2: I really struggle with the factors. She's in the world 829 00:44:16,360 --> 00:44:18,880 Speaker 2: of pain she doesn't know about, and I'm trying to 830 00:44:18,880 --> 00:44:20,640 Speaker 2: help her to realize that she needs to work on 831 00:44:20,640 --> 00:44:22,560 Speaker 2: herself and do this before she could even go into 832 00:44:22,600 --> 00:44:23,480 Speaker 2: another relationship. 833 00:44:24,640 --> 00:44:25,600 Speaker 3: But that's not what they get. 834 00:44:26,080 --> 00:44:28,600 Speaker 2: Most people go to a mind, body, spirit or some 835 00:44:28,719 --> 00:44:30,480 Speaker 2: kind of psychic and they get told what they want 836 00:44:30,520 --> 00:44:33,840 Speaker 2: to hear. The dopamine, the ego boost, it's going to 837 00:44:33,880 --> 00:44:35,520 Speaker 2: be you're going to be rich and famous, all that 838 00:44:35,560 --> 00:44:39,839 Speaker 2: kind of stuff without any kind of sense of you know, 839 00:44:39,880 --> 00:44:42,680 Speaker 2: why are you there in my seat, why are you 840 00:44:42,800 --> 00:44:45,839 Speaker 2: sitting here in front of me right now in this place? 841 00:44:45,840 --> 00:44:48,520 Speaker 2: Because they need something, they want something, There's something there 842 00:44:48,520 --> 00:44:49,120 Speaker 2: from the work on. 843 00:44:49,920 --> 00:44:53,440 Speaker 1: It's so interesting because even in the world of you know, 844 00:44:53,680 --> 00:44:57,719 Speaker 1: changing your body, often the thing that people need to 845 00:44:57,760 --> 00:45:01,239 Speaker 1: hear is not what they want to hear. Yeah, you know, 846 00:45:01,560 --> 00:45:05,200 Speaker 1: I can tell you. I've said this to audiences, you know, 847 00:45:05,239 --> 00:45:07,799 Speaker 1: when we're maybe we're going around in circles with something 848 00:45:07,840 --> 00:45:09,919 Speaker 1: and I go, or someone's asked something and I go, look, 849 00:45:11,320 --> 00:45:13,279 Speaker 1: I can tell you the truth, or I can tell 850 00:45:13,280 --> 00:45:15,000 Speaker 1: you what you want to hear. What do you guys want? 851 00:45:15,800 --> 00:45:19,640 Speaker 1: And they go reluctantly true. I'm like, look, you know, 852 00:45:19,840 --> 00:45:23,839 Speaker 1: here's here's the deal. Like, the path that you might 853 00:45:23,960 --> 00:45:29,120 Speaker 1: need to take might fucking suck, but you'll learn and 854 00:45:29,160 --> 00:45:31,920 Speaker 1: grow and evolve and build skill and understanding and awareness 855 00:45:31,920 --> 00:45:35,840 Speaker 1: and resilience and maybe you'll create an amazing outcome. But 856 00:45:36,000 --> 00:45:38,760 Speaker 1: sitting on the couch on your phone or watching Netflix 857 00:45:38,760 --> 00:45:42,880 Speaker 1: and eating shit and doom scrolling and complaining and being 858 00:45:42,880 --> 00:45:45,520 Speaker 1: a victim and throwing yourself a pity party thirty two 859 00:45:45,560 --> 00:45:51,359 Speaker 1: times a fucking month that's that's it's understandable, but it's 860 00:45:51,440 --> 00:45:54,680 Speaker 1: completely unhelpful. And even though in the moment it's a 861 00:45:54,680 --> 00:45:56,560 Speaker 1: bit comfy and there's a bit of dopamine and a 862 00:45:56,560 --> 00:46:00,160 Speaker 1: bit of familiarity, I get all of that. But maybe 863 00:46:00,239 --> 00:46:02,440 Speaker 1: you need to throw all the shit out of the 864 00:46:02,440 --> 00:46:04,279 Speaker 1: fridge and the pantry, and maybe you need to go 865 00:46:04,320 --> 00:46:06,279 Speaker 1: for an uncomfortable job, or maybe you need to have 866 00:46:06,280 --> 00:46:09,279 Speaker 1: a hard conversation, or maybe you need to look up 867 00:46:09,320 --> 00:46:11,480 Speaker 1: and own up, you know, and just say hey, I'm 868 00:46:11,920 --> 00:46:15,400 Speaker 1: you know, without self loathing. I'm the problem. That's the awareness, 869 00:46:15,480 --> 00:46:18,359 Speaker 1: because there's a fair chance if your life shit, you 870 00:46:18,440 --> 00:46:19,480 Speaker 1: might be involved. 871 00:46:20,000 --> 00:46:24,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, that was unfortunately part of the I suppose that 872 00:46:25,200 --> 00:46:28,520 Speaker 2: you're in this world where I was before actually doing readings. 873 00:46:28,520 --> 00:46:31,680 Speaker 2: I was already doing you know, coaching, you know, before 874 00:46:31,680 --> 00:46:34,239 Speaker 2: that anyway, So the children stuff was sort of on 875 00:46:34,280 --> 00:46:36,279 Speaker 2: top of that. But the Psychic show threw me into 876 00:46:36,320 --> 00:46:38,160 Speaker 2: the psychic world of tarot readers and that, which is 877 00:46:38,200 --> 00:46:41,080 Speaker 2: all about predicting the future, and that's not how I worked, 878 00:46:41,080 --> 00:46:43,200 Speaker 2: and that's why it just felt like I just can't 879 00:46:43,200 --> 00:46:45,359 Speaker 2: do this. Like I still do readings for people, but 880 00:46:45,400 --> 00:46:48,520 Speaker 2: it's very few and far between. But it's more in 881 00:46:48,560 --> 00:46:51,280 Speaker 2: that coaching space where you're coming from a brutal reality 882 00:46:51,360 --> 00:46:54,880 Speaker 2: check on what's really going on, and people who do 883 00:46:55,000 --> 00:46:57,319 Speaker 2: value their value, they like, this is the greatest thing 884 00:46:57,360 --> 00:47:00,839 Speaker 2: ever because it's a deep, deep sense of intuitive knowing 885 00:47:00,880 --> 00:47:04,560 Speaker 2: about what's happening. But I couldn't sit there anymore and 886 00:47:04,680 --> 00:47:07,600 Speaker 2: just go, I can't do this. I can't sit here 887 00:47:07,840 --> 00:47:12,759 Speaker 2: forty sessions a week going no, you're not going to 888 00:47:12,760 --> 00:47:13,440 Speaker 2: meet Dave in. 889 00:47:13,400 --> 00:47:18,759 Speaker 3: October, but tell me. 890 00:47:19,440 --> 00:47:21,200 Speaker 2: But the amount of times people came to me and 891 00:47:21,320 --> 00:47:23,840 Speaker 2: be like a Psycha told me this, But that's like 892 00:47:24,200 --> 00:47:25,919 Speaker 2: because she's got no idea what she taught me talked 893 00:47:25,920 --> 00:47:28,759 Speaker 2: about before, Like most of them are just fake. Like 894 00:47:28,880 --> 00:47:30,359 Speaker 2: I can get someone of the read I can teach 895 00:47:30,400 --> 00:47:32,480 Speaker 2: some of the red Tarot cards and make them look fantastic. 896 00:47:32,760 --> 00:47:34,600 Speaker 2: They'll have no psychic abil let's read the meaning of 897 00:47:34,640 --> 00:47:38,799 Speaker 2: the cards. It's yeah, But also you got that thing 898 00:47:38,840 --> 00:47:40,920 Speaker 2: about I was I was seeing people I didn't want 899 00:47:40,920 --> 00:47:41,200 Speaker 2: to see. 900 00:47:41,320 --> 00:47:43,359 Speaker 3: I was seeing people who just wanted to be told it. 901 00:47:43,360 --> 00:47:45,160 Speaker 2: Was going to be okay without doing any work, and 902 00:47:45,760 --> 00:47:47,840 Speaker 2: it burnt me out, Like I was, I hated it. 903 00:47:47,880 --> 00:47:49,920 Speaker 2: In the end, It's like I was not doing what 904 00:47:50,000 --> 00:47:51,520 Speaker 2: I wanted to do, and I was not working with 905 00:47:51,520 --> 00:47:53,760 Speaker 2: people I wanted to work with, and it just became 906 00:47:53,840 --> 00:47:57,400 Speaker 2: this complete. I just hated it. I hated doing it. 907 00:47:57,520 --> 00:47:59,320 Speaker 2: Going well, why so I stopped? 908 00:48:00,080 --> 00:48:02,279 Speaker 1: Have you ever met anyone? Last one? Then we're gone. 909 00:48:02,360 --> 00:48:05,400 Speaker 1: Have you ever met anyone who's just got like a 910 00:48:05,480 --> 00:48:11,719 Speaker 1: true supernatural, freaky gift where you're like this person is 911 00:48:11,719 --> 00:48:14,799 Speaker 1: is that is the motart, that is the you ever 912 00:48:14,840 --> 00:48:15,759 Speaker 1: met anyone like that? 913 00:48:16,000 --> 00:48:21,160 Speaker 2: Or no, not the in person something like say John Edward, 914 00:48:21,239 --> 00:48:23,040 Speaker 2: I've never met him, probably has some gifts of the 915 00:48:23,080 --> 00:48:26,719 Speaker 2: kind of stuff you know, you've got, Paul Seligg's all 916 00:48:26,760 --> 00:48:31,400 Speaker 2: the world You've got. Uh, there's a few people that 917 00:48:31,440 --> 00:48:33,719 Speaker 2: I could probably say probably got something, but I've never 918 00:48:33,800 --> 00:48:37,160 Speaker 2: met them personally, so I don't know. So I can't 919 00:48:37,160 --> 00:48:39,279 Speaker 2: sort of say I keep to myself quite a fair 920 00:48:39,320 --> 00:48:41,080 Speaker 2: but I don't sort of associate in those kind of 921 00:48:41,080 --> 00:48:41,879 Speaker 2: worlds too much. 922 00:48:42,920 --> 00:48:46,719 Speaker 3: So but yeah, it's it's it's fee and father to me. 923 00:48:47,480 --> 00:48:50,920 Speaker 1: Well, mate, I love chatting with you, and thanks for 924 00:48:51,040 --> 00:48:53,880 Speaker 1: not keeping to yourself today. You did the opposite of 925 00:48:54,000 --> 00:48:56,520 Speaker 1: keeping to yourself today, so it could have been a 926 00:48:56,560 --> 00:49:01,160 Speaker 1: pretty short podcast if you had a hey, do you 927 00:49:01,200 --> 00:49:03,200 Speaker 1: want people to find you or connect with you or 928 00:49:03,239 --> 00:49:05,640 Speaker 1: follow you on some social media thing or do you 929 00:49:05,680 --> 00:49:06,160 Speaker 1: not do that? 930 00:49:07,200 --> 00:49:08,839 Speaker 2: Most of the stuff I do is on LinkedIn these days, 931 00:49:08,880 --> 00:49:10,840 Speaker 2: especially around the leadership side, I think, so it's just 932 00:49:11,040 --> 00:49:14,120 Speaker 2: you find me on Greg Rolly on LinkedIn. I quite 933 00:49:14,120 --> 00:49:16,960 Speaker 2: often post three or four articles a week about leadership 934 00:49:17,000 --> 00:49:21,640 Speaker 2: and poke the bear in that space. Otherwise she's going 935 00:49:21,640 --> 00:49:23,920 Speaker 2: on my website, which is Greg Rolly dot com DoD 936 00:49:23,920 --> 00:49:28,560 Speaker 2: au And yeah, so most of my stuff's pretty one 937 00:49:28,560 --> 00:49:31,440 Speaker 2: on one and small group stuff. 938 00:49:31,920 --> 00:49:34,640 Speaker 1: All right, So you heard him. If you've got heaps 939 00:49:34,680 --> 00:49:38,520 Speaker 1: of cash, just reach out mate. We'll say goodbye, affair. 940 00:49:38,600 --> 00:49:41,640 Speaker 1: But thanks for Ben on the You project. I loved it. 941 00:49:41,800 --> 00:49:42,920 Speaker 3: Thanks Bartie, appreciate it.