WEBVTT - “He Bitched About His Ex on Our First Date” || HOTLINE 0:00:05.840 --> 0:00:08.760 Welcome back to the hot line. Everyone him Matt, Hello, and. 0:00:09.039 --> 0:00:10.760 We're back again for another hot line. 0:00:10.880 --> 0:00:12.719 We are. You're a bit late today. 0:00:12.840 --> 0:00:17.000 What's with that look? I'm going to be honest. Jenna 0:00:17.000 --> 0:00:20.560 and I have a Moki darling around, so I was 0:00:20.600 --> 0:00:23.000 spending every moment I could with her. I couldn't take 0:00:23.000 --> 0:00:24.959 a bye. I kept running in for more kisses and 0:00:25.000 --> 0:00:25.919 giving her own other kids. 0:00:26.160 --> 0:00:27.080 That's really cute. 0:00:27.160 --> 0:00:30.040 Yeah, she kept staring at me, so I was giving 0:00:30.080 --> 0:00:32.120 her kisses. But no, it was good to have her 0:00:32.159 --> 0:00:34.519 around last night, ye, sir. I wanted her to see 0:00:34.560 --> 0:00:35.080 her one. 0:00:34.920 --> 0:00:37.479 More time before you go to the UK. 0:00:37.440 --> 0:00:39.000 Before I go to the UK. Yeah, so it was 0:00:39.040 --> 0:00:42.800 a little goodbye. We went out for drinks, but Jen 0:00:42.840 --> 0:00:44.839 and I were talking. So we're sitting there talking and 0:00:45.000 --> 0:00:47.400 when we were walking down to get drinks, we're talking 0:00:47.440 --> 0:00:51.640 about Moka's lack of social skills with other dogs and people. 0:00:51.960 --> 0:00:54.080 Oh so she's only good with you guys. 0:00:54.320 --> 0:00:56.200 Yeah. So it's a year ago. Actually it was our 0:00:56.200 --> 0:00:58.040 anniversary as well. I forgot to mention that I met 0:00:58.040 --> 0:00:59.920 Mocker a year ago, So this was our anniverse. 0:01:01.160 --> 0:01:03.120 Now you and the dog have an anniversary. 0:01:03.200 --> 0:01:05.920 Yeah, no one ever. Yeah, so we had our anniversary. 0:01:06.040 --> 0:01:08.680 But when I first met her, she was barking NonStop 0:01:08.720 --> 0:01:10.440 at me, and then I actually had to bribe her 0:01:10.440 --> 0:01:13.360 with McDonald's hotcakes. They're her favorite, so I was feeding 0:01:13.360 --> 0:01:15.880 her them. She's like eating it, walking away, eating it. 0:01:16.000 --> 0:01:17.000 So now we're best friends. 0:01:17.040 --> 0:01:20.120 But after the hot cake she never turned back. 0:01:20.200 --> 0:01:22.720 Yeah, we're best friends after that. But she just doesn't 0:01:22.720 --> 0:01:24.800 mix well with other people because they had her originally 0:01:24.840 --> 0:01:27.640 during lockdown. She hadn't really socialized with other dogs, doesn't 0:01:27.800 --> 0:01:32.200 know other people, so like really not well in that situation. 0:01:32.280 --> 0:01:33.920 So Jen and I were talking and were sitting there 0:01:33.920 --> 0:01:36.440 and I'm like, I'm like, hey, like this girl keeps 0:01:36.480 --> 0:01:39.839 popping up in my news feed, in my explore. Her 0:01:39.920 --> 0:01:42.520 dog is a dash here On the same as moccas. 0:01:42.560 --> 0:01:44.400 I'm pretty sure she lives in our area. Like, let 0:01:44.400 --> 0:01:45.959 me message her and let's like tea up a date. 0:01:46.280 --> 0:01:47.080 Maybe get them. 0:01:47.000 --> 0:01:49.520 What do you mean, like a doggie day, Let's get. 0:01:49.360 --> 0:01:51.640 Them to like socialize. I'm like, because we're like, Maka 0:01:51.640 --> 0:01:53.440 doesn't handle well with other dogs, but we've never seen 0:01:53.440 --> 0:01:56.000 her with another sausage dog that looks like her. Maybe 0:01:56.040 --> 0:01:58.640 she might be you know, a bit more open to. 0:01:58.640 --> 0:02:01.120 That friendship a bit more open minded, yeah it. 0:02:01.240 --> 0:02:04.120 Or open minded to that. So I messaged this girl 0:02:04.120 --> 0:02:06.800 and I'm like, hey, our the baby should catch up 0:02:06.840 --> 0:02:08.799 for a playdate. Actually, you know what, I'm gonna actually 0:02:08.800 --> 0:02:10.040 read out the messages. 0:02:09.639 --> 0:02:12.239 Because read them out I want to know, like exactly 0:02:12.320 --> 0:02:12.720 what's it? 0:02:13.120 --> 0:02:14.440 Well, because this is unique. 0:02:14.600 --> 0:02:18.040 Like, let me just preface this story by saying that 0:02:18.520 --> 0:02:20.720 I could be on a phone call to Matt and 0:02:20.760 --> 0:02:24.880 we're like deep in like business chats, and he'll see 0:02:25.000 --> 0:02:28.400 a what's the breed of dogs? Ushun a dashount, otherwise 0:02:28.400 --> 0:02:30.800 known as a sausage dog. He'll see a sausage dog 0:02:31.080 --> 0:02:32.520 from across the road and he'll. 0:02:32.320 --> 0:02:33.919 Be like, one second, there's a sausage dog. 0:02:33.960 --> 0:02:37.200 I'll call you back, and I'm like, what, Like, the 0:02:37.320 --> 0:02:40.760 guy used to not even like dogs is now the 0:02:40.800 --> 0:02:45.760 most obsessed person on the planet, specifically with other sausage dogs. 0:02:45.840 --> 0:02:48.160 Yeah. So, like he just said, I grew up without 0:02:48.160 --> 0:02:50.480 a dog, so I've got no emotional attachment to any dog. 0:02:50.520 --> 0:02:52.799 I could literally leave or take a dog. They could 0:02:52.800 --> 0:02:54.639 walk past me, would never stop and pat dog be 0:02:54.720 --> 0:02:57.160 like so cute. But now that I've fall and completely 0:02:57.200 --> 0:02:59.799 head over heels for mock and dad. I just love 0:03:00.000 --> 0:03:03.160 ssage dogs. So all right, so let me read this out, 0:03:03.200 --> 0:03:05.600 because this message goes from zero to one hundred real 0:03:05.680 --> 0:03:08.840 quick and gets very awkward and very embarrassing. 0:03:08.280 --> 0:03:11.840 So that I feel like I know where this is going. 0:03:12.080 --> 0:03:14.680 Okay, So I messaged the girl and I say, let's 0:03:14.680 --> 0:03:18.919 tee up a playdate for our babies. Right. Didn't think 0:03:19.040 --> 0:03:21.080 I'm seeing there having drinks with my girlfriends, so didn't 0:03:21.080 --> 0:03:22.800 think anything of it. I was just like, you know, 0:03:22.840 --> 0:03:26.080 it was set in passing. But as I think about 0:03:26.120 --> 0:03:28.560 this now, that is a pure slide into the dam. 0:03:28.760 --> 0:03:31.000 That doesn't full of slide in that. But let's I 0:03:31.080 --> 0:03:32.760 just want to continue, let's hear more. 0:03:33.000 --> 0:03:35.280 But I haven't mentioned that it's a sausage of anything 0:03:35.320 --> 0:03:37.480 I said our babies. So she's done her research and 0:03:37.560 --> 0:03:41.520 seen that that sausage dog isn't mine if you actually 0:03:41.560 --> 0:03:43.040 read my captions. But that's beyond the pope. 0:03:43.040 --> 0:03:45.480 But no one, no one cares to do fucking research 0:03:45.560 --> 0:03:47.600 on you, Like, no one cares that much. They're like, 0:03:47.920 --> 0:03:51.200 there's this guy sliding into my dms. 0:03:50.640 --> 0:03:51.960 Like play one. 0:03:52.440 --> 0:03:55.720 She then goes, you are in luck. Franklin loves puppy 0:03:55.720 --> 0:03:59.920 playdates brackets and so do I huh close brackets. 0:04:00.880 --> 0:04:02.320 I just choked on my coffee. 0:04:05.200 --> 0:04:06.960 You see, Now I'm starting to feel bad for the 0:04:06.960 --> 0:04:08.640 girl because she's like. 0:04:08.600 --> 0:04:13.360 The secondhand embarrassment gets bad and I go ha ha ha, Well, 0:04:13.360 --> 0:04:15.600 Moka is a little shy with other dogs, but I 0:04:15.640 --> 0:04:18.839 think she'll go well with another sausage dog laughing face. 0:04:19.040 --> 0:04:21.440 We have picked her up from my girlfriend's mum's house, 0:04:21.680 --> 0:04:22.880 so when best suits you. 0:04:25.680 --> 0:04:27.920 Okay, hold on a second before you send that message, 0:04:28.279 --> 0:04:31.560 are you like clarifying you have a girlfriend because you're like, oh, 0:04:31.839 --> 0:04:34.360 like this, maybe she's getting the wrong idea. 0:04:34.839 --> 0:04:36.680 No, I was more just stressing that we have her 0:04:36.680 --> 0:04:38.880 for a Night's your movements. 0:04:40.400 --> 0:04:42.599 Then IDP the girlfriend card there. 0:04:42.680 --> 0:04:45.640 That wasn't like premeditated, because you could see. 0:04:45.360 --> 0:04:45.800 That she was. 0:04:46.279 --> 0:04:47.919 Jen tried to work it in like that, but I 0:04:48.000 --> 0:04:49.120 just thought of it as like, oh, we've got to 0:04:49.120 --> 0:04:51.400 stress that we've only called it for a night and tomorrow. 0:04:51.480 --> 0:04:53.919 What are you doing when you said like, oh, Mocka's 0:04:53.960 --> 0:04:55.960 a bit shy, I think you're gonna say Maka's shy 0:04:55.960 --> 0:04:58.560 and so am I. 0:04:58.480 --> 0:05:00.080 Well, no, I'm not thinking of this as like a 0:05:00.120 --> 0:05:03.279 flirtatious thing like she is. And she goes, oh, that's 0:05:03.360 --> 0:05:05.960 like Franklin. He's a bit unsure with other dogs, but 0:05:06.040 --> 0:05:08.640 otherwise he's good. And then she goes, Haha, I'm a 0:05:08.640 --> 0:05:10.800 bit thrown. Where is your mum's girlfriend's house? Is your 0:05:10.839 --> 0:05:16.160 girlfriend coming to? And then I go, yeah, when mockern 0:05:16.200 --> 0:05:18.599 playdates blah blah blah, are you in Saint Kilda? Yeah? 0:05:18.600 --> 0:05:19.960 And then she goes where it tells me where she is, 0:05:19.960 --> 0:05:21.880 But then it just really zeroed out. She's going to 0:05:21.920 --> 0:05:22.640 Sitney or something. 0:05:22.680 --> 0:05:24.520 So you got doggy daycare ghosted. 0:05:25.720 --> 0:05:27.800 So she left it. So then Jen was like, oh 0:05:27.839 --> 0:05:29.800 my god, she probably thinks that you're actually asking her 0:05:29.880 --> 0:05:30.320 for a day. 0:05:30.480 --> 0:05:33.440 It sounds like you are, like in hindsight, are you 0:05:33.640 --> 0:05:37.000 like oops, Like probably could have made like the starting 0:05:37.200 --> 0:05:40.520 opening line a bit clearer, like my girlfriend and I 0:05:40.680 --> 0:05:42.880 just so you have a sausage jog want to have 0:05:42.920 --> 0:05:43.760 a hangout. 0:05:44.080 --> 0:05:48.520 Yeah in hindsight, yes, yeah, in hindsight yes, later on, yeah, 0:05:48.640 --> 0:05:50.640 it was all above board when I sent the original message. 0:05:50.640 --> 0:05:51.839 I'm sitting there with Jen. 0:05:52.279 --> 0:05:56.080 Yeah of course, but like in hindsight, it's coming across like. 0:05:56.120 --> 0:05:59.160 Okay, if you had a guy in your request you're single, 0:05:59.200 --> 0:06:01.120 and he goes, let's have it for baby date or 0:06:01.120 --> 0:06:04.599 whatever I said date. What would you think date? Yeah, 0:06:04.640 --> 0:06:06.480 so would I Now if I think that a girl 0:06:06.560 --> 0:06:06.920 said that to me. 0:06:07.240 --> 0:06:09.240 I'm also like, you're not doing research on that person. 0:06:09.240 --> 0:06:10.680 She probably does she follow you? 0:06:11.120 --> 0:06:11.440 Follow you? 0:06:11.640 --> 0:06:16.880 Well exactly, He's followed blind slid in. So absolutely I 0:06:16.920 --> 0:06:21.360 feel bad for this girl if she's listening, Matt, apologize. 0:06:20.680 --> 0:06:23.640 Sorry for that. That is very awkward. But I'm still 0:06:23.760 --> 0:06:25.839 up though for Mocker to meet your dog and have 0:06:25.839 --> 0:06:32.640 a playdate. But yes, my girlfriend will come. We need 0:06:33.040 --> 0:06:34.520 to get more with other dogs. 0:06:34.520 --> 0:06:36.960 So yeah, okay, well look, good luck to Mock. I 0:06:36.960 --> 0:06:39.120 if you can find a guy with the sausage dog, 0:06:39.240 --> 0:06:40.760 could be could be a good balance. 0:06:42.080 --> 0:06:48.440 Yeah yes, oh god, Okay, Well, Matt, I'm going to 0:06:48.480 --> 0:06:49.320 sit next week. 0:06:49.480 --> 0:06:54.480 So I am actually doing a Bully zero talk at TikTok. 0:06:55.240 --> 0:06:57.360 I'm an ambassador for Bulle zero. As you know, we 0:06:57.520 --> 0:07:00.360 have a zero tolerance to bullying on this podcast. You know, 0:07:00.440 --> 0:07:03.120 we've spoken about bullying with a lot of our. 0:07:02.960 --> 0:07:06.440 Guests going on a show, and the repercussion comes off 0:07:06.440 --> 0:07:06.960 all the bullying. 0:07:07.040 --> 0:07:11.360 Yeah, yeah, and every single person who we've had on 0:07:11.400 --> 0:07:13.760 this show. We've asked them the question like have you 0:07:13.840 --> 0:07:15.400 experienced bullying online? 0:07:15.440 --> 0:07:17.000 And every single person says yes. 0:07:17.040 --> 0:07:19.800 So it's something I'm really passionate about, something that I 0:07:19.840 --> 0:07:23.119 have zero tolerance towards, and I know you do as well. 0:07:23.160 --> 0:07:24.880 Like if there's a hate comment that comes up on 0:07:24.920 --> 0:07:28.000 our socials, it's just a block, Like this is my space, 0:07:28.080 --> 0:07:29.120 this is my safe space. 0:07:29.160 --> 0:07:30.960 If you're going to bring hateen you will be blocked. 0:07:31.160 --> 0:07:33.120 On the other day, yeah, blocked them straight away. What 0:07:33.160 --> 0:07:36.160 did they say, vomiting face on a photo of me? 0:07:36.680 --> 0:07:37.520 Bloh oh. 0:07:37.560 --> 0:07:40.120 I actually replied saying, nah, I don't believe in that, 0:07:40.280 --> 0:07:42.480 something like that. And then and then they kept going 0:07:42.520 --> 0:07:44.240 and I was like, yeah, you're blocks and I don't 0:07:44.280 --> 0:07:44.760 have time for this. 0:07:44.960 --> 0:07:46.920 Yeah, And like that's the thing is like we actually 0:07:47.040 --> 0:07:48.840 don't need to put up with it. We don't need 0:07:48.880 --> 0:07:51.320 to put our energy into it. At the end of 0:07:51.360 --> 0:07:53.560 the day, your social media should be a safe space 0:07:53.600 --> 0:07:56.400 for you. And you know, we're heavy on the blocks here, 0:07:56.560 --> 0:08:00.360 like if someone's disrespecting you, you're out. But anyway, I 0:08:00.440 --> 0:08:04.680 was messaging our dear friend Matt, who's actually the producer 0:08:04.680 --> 0:08:08.120 of Love Island. We met him when we did the show. 0:08:08.280 --> 0:08:11.760 We've been friends with him for forever. We love him 0:08:12.040 --> 0:08:15.400 and his beautiful partner Tim, And anyway, I was like 0:08:15.440 --> 0:08:17.240 reaching out to him because I'm going to be in Sydney. 0:08:17.280 --> 0:08:19.480 I was trying to like tee up a little dinner 0:08:19.560 --> 0:08:22.160 date to catch up with them, and he was telling 0:08:22.160 --> 0:08:24.560 me about the show that he's working on at the moment. 0:08:25.480 --> 0:08:26.720 You brought us up before with me. 0:08:26.880 --> 0:08:30.560 Actually, yeah, So it's called Back in the Game, and 0:08:31.000 --> 0:08:35.000 it's basically a show that's trying to get people to 0:08:35.160 --> 0:08:36.520 kind of dob in their parents. 0:08:36.679 --> 0:08:39.080 Maybe you know, they're in. 0:08:39.000 --> 0:08:42.400 Their forties, fifties, sixties, seventies, and they've been single for 0:08:42.480 --> 0:08:44.720 a while. As we know, fifty percent of marriages and 0:08:44.720 --> 0:08:47.280 in divorce, so there's a lot of them out there, 0:08:47.400 --> 0:08:52.839 and it's basically trying to get people together and like, so, what. 0:08:52.800 --> 0:08:54.680 You're saying is help them fall in love. It's for 0:08:54.760 --> 0:08:57.080 kids to pretty much dob their parents in and say, hey, 0:08:57.320 --> 0:09:00.559 my mom or daddy single. Yeah, they've dedicated their life 0:09:00.600 --> 0:09:03.320 to me and my brothers and sisters. I want them 0:09:03.360 --> 0:09:05.240 to get back in the game. This is what they're 0:09:05.240 --> 0:09:05.800 looking for. 0:09:06.080 --> 0:09:08.400 Help them, help them out, and like the thing is 0:09:08.400 --> 0:09:11.679 as well as like obviously parents their superheroes and they 0:09:11.720 --> 0:09:13.800 dedicate their whole lives to us. 0:09:13.800 --> 0:09:16.120 But then my mom did that exactly, and then. 0:09:16.000 --> 0:09:20.800 What happens when they have their like final youngest child 0:09:20.840 --> 0:09:23.360 who turns eighteen and then go off into the world 0:09:23.440 --> 0:09:24.480 and start exploring. 0:09:24.920 --> 0:09:28.760 They must feel really lonely. And your sister just turned eighteen. 0:09:28.920 --> 0:09:31.520 So I was like thinking, like I said, my mom's 0:09:31.559 --> 0:09:34.040 going through that literally right now as we speak, Emma's 0:09:34.440 --> 0:09:35.959 going out into the big bad world. She's got a 0:09:36.000 --> 0:09:39.480 boyfriend now she does. Yeah, so Mom like sits there 0:09:39.480 --> 0:09:42.400 and she's mentioned multiple times that like, you know, like 0:09:42.480 --> 0:09:44.760 my girl's gone now, like who do I watch my 0:09:44.840 --> 0:09:47.960 movies and TV shows with? Like she seems all right though, 0:09:47.960 --> 0:09:50.040 but like, yeah, she's sad about it, and it must be. 0:09:50.040 --> 0:09:52.840 Lonely going from like a full house of people to 0:09:52.960 --> 0:09:56.880 you know, an empty nurst and exactly becoming an empty nest. 0:09:57.160 --> 0:09:59.719 So anyway, Matt the producer was telling me about this 0:09:59.760 --> 0:10:02.600 show when I was like, mad, we have to get 0:10:02.600 --> 0:10:03.800 your mom on the show. 0:10:04.400 --> 0:10:07.079 Okay, so you said that before, and look, I reckon, 0:10:07.200 --> 0:10:09.040 I'll pitch it to mom and be able to meet 0:10:09.120 --> 0:10:10.760 up with her in the UK. I'm going to pitch 0:10:10.760 --> 0:10:13.360 it to her and yeah, I reckon that. I'll get 0:10:13.360 --> 0:10:14.079 her sold on it. 0:10:14.280 --> 0:10:16.960 Just tell her because she came on the podcast and 0:10:17.000 --> 0:10:19.080 she was like, I never want to date again, Like 0:10:19.120 --> 0:10:20.600 I'm not open to it at all. 0:10:21.800 --> 0:10:23.640 So it's going to be a hard pitch. 0:10:24.480 --> 0:10:27.200 I reckon, I'd be all right. I'm a salesman, reckon, 0:10:27.200 --> 0:10:28.640 I sell let's work quite well. 0:10:29.160 --> 0:10:31.160 I mean, you are the golden son. So I feel 0:10:31.200 --> 0:10:32.679 like if anyone, if she's. 0:10:32.559 --> 0:10:33.640 Hard, when you're the only. 0:10:34.520 --> 0:10:37.400 If she was going to do anything for anyone, she'd 0:10:37.440 --> 0:10:39.920 probably do it more for you than for her herself. 0:10:39.960 --> 0:10:41.160 And that's and I think that will be a little 0:10:41.160 --> 0:10:44.600 bit of my pitch as well. You do it for me, Yeah, 0:10:44.679 --> 0:10:46.120 come on to it for me. It'll be fun. Two 0:10:46.160 --> 0:10:50.000 reality people in the two reality stars in the family. 0:10:50.360 --> 0:10:52.840 How would you feel seeing your mom dating and you'd 0:10:52.880 --> 0:10:55.320 actually like, I'm pretty sure you'd see like footage of 0:10:55.360 --> 0:10:58.800 it and you'd like react. I imagine seeing your mom 0:10:58.920 --> 0:11:01.840 like on TV, like kissing this guy. 0:11:03.559 --> 0:11:05.120 Yeah, no, I don't think i'd be too good with that. 0:11:06.000 --> 0:11:07.520 Look, do you want her to be happy? 0:11:07.559 --> 0:11:08.480 But at the end of that, I was what she's 0:11:08.480 --> 0:11:09.880 about to say that. I want my mum to be happy, 0:11:09.920 --> 0:11:11.560 and if she finds a guy that makes her happy, 0:11:11.679 --> 0:11:14.800 he'll have to go through me. I'll staunch him. 0:11:14.960 --> 0:11:15.360 Will you? 0:11:15.559 --> 0:11:16.360 Yeah? Yeah? 0:11:16.640 --> 0:11:19.800 Did you statch Emma's boyfriend, your younger sister's boyfriend when 0:11:19.840 --> 0:11:20.600 you first met him? 0:11:21.040 --> 0:11:21.600 Do you still? 0:11:21.640 --> 0:11:24.480 I wasn't overly friendly to him, but I was nice enough. 0:11:24.480 --> 0:11:26.679 I didn't want him feel awkward. I've been in situations 0:11:26.679 --> 0:11:29.000 where you meet like the girlfriend's family, they've got older brothers. 0:11:29.040 --> 0:11:31.280 It can be quite awkward, so I took that into consideration. 0:11:31.800 --> 0:11:33.800 I mean it's I guess as an older brother, you 0:11:33.880 --> 0:11:36.160 want to be cautious of them and you don't want 0:11:36.160 --> 0:11:39.040 to come on too friendly because you're like, don't fuck 0:11:39.120 --> 0:11:39.720 with my sister. 0:11:40.280 --> 0:11:42.720 Yeah, and Lara said it about Emma the other day. 0:11:42.720 --> 0:11:44.480 I actually said, it's probably no one's going to be 0:11:44.480 --> 0:11:46.920 good enough for our little sister, so he's got a 0:11:46.960 --> 0:11:48.240 big task ahead of him. 0:11:48.360 --> 0:11:48.640 Yeah. 0:11:48.720 --> 0:11:51.640 Yeah, she's very mature though. I feel like like she's 0:11:51.720 --> 0:11:53.040 like a good judge of character. 0:11:53.240 --> 0:11:55.120 Yeah, well he's good. I like him. I don't I 0:11:55.160 --> 0:11:57.040 have nothing wrong with him unless he fucks her over. 0:11:57.120 --> 0:12:00.239 Then you have you have to pay the pipe. 0:12:02.360 --> 0:12:04.320 Okay, do you have any recommendations this week? 0:12:04.520 --> 0:12:08.559 I do, Anna, I have a very big one. We're old, now, 0:12:08.920 --> 0:12:15.160 let's not beat around and I'm feeling I'm feeling old. 0:12:15.320 --> 0:12:18.120 Let's just say that I'm feeling very old. For me 0:12:18.200 --> 0:12:20.120 to go like, do a run, it's not the same. 0:12:20.160 --> 0:12:22.800 I don't pull up the same going to gym, I don't. 0:12:22.800 --> 0:12:24.400 I walked into gym the other day. I literally lifted 0:12:24.480 --> 0:12:29.199 up away. I'm I'm genuine nearly walk I think I did. Yeah, 0:12:29.360 --> 0:12:32.480 my whole left shoulder, my whole right leg. That's killing me. 0:12:32.520 --> 0:12:34.880 And I'm like, shit, what's gotten into me? I'm not 0:12:34.920 --> 0:12:38.160 the same kid I was. But my recommendation is the sauna. 0:12:38.640 --> 0:12:41.160 The sauna has been an absolute life save before me. 0:12:41.240 --> 0:12:43.480 I've been going in there every night. I used to 0:12:43.520 --> 0:12:45.439 do it every day when I was modeling full time. 0:12:45.640 --> 0:12:47.960 Really be able to stay in there forty five minutes 0:12:48.000 --> 0:12:50.199 to an hour. Good for recovery, great for recovery. And 0:12:50.200 --> 0:12:52.439 that's what I'm saying, just going there and just recover, 0:12:52.760 --> 0:12:54.679 sweat it out, sweat out all the toxins. And I've 0:12:54.720 --> 0:12:56.880 been doing stretches and meditating while in there. 0:12:57.120 --> 0:12:58.600 Oh my god, that sounds amazing. 0:12:58.760 --> 0:13:01.960 Actually, I think close to our house as Emsach and 0:13:02.000 --> 0:13:04.360 they have a sauna in there and I was thinking 0:13:04.679 --> 0:13:08.400 about joining there because then they have like a pol sauna, 0:13:08.480 --> 0:13:09.319 spa everything. 0:13:09.440 --> 0:13:11.000 You don't have one in your apartment book. 0:13:10.880 --> 0:13:13.280 I don't have a sauna, but I do have a 0:13:13.280 --> 0:13:15.840 pool on my apartment block. Yes, so I can start 0:13:15.880 --> 0:13:19.880 going for swims now because the weather has finally gotten better, 0:13:20.080 --> 0:13:25.079 thank god, with a side of the rains, but overall 0:13:25.280 --> 0:13:30.640 overall it's nice. Look, my recommendation this week is a 0:13:30.640 --> 0:13:32.880 really simple one. It's something that you can do anywhere. 0:13:33.040 --> 0:13:35.760 We love reading. I know that you are looking at 0:13:35.800 --> 0:13:39.480 getting books for your trip away, but I have been 0:13:39.559 --> 0:13:42.080 obsessed with this book at the moment. I've posted it 0:13:42.120 --> 0:13:44.640 on my Instagram story actually a couple of times, and 0:13:45.200 --> 0:13:48.280 when I actually posted it, everyone was like all about it, 0:13:48.320 --> 0:13:50.480 like people who have read it love it. So if 0:13:50.480 --> 0:13:54.320 you love a romance novel, this is definitely the one 0:13:54.360 --> 0:13:58.240 for you. It's called Love on the Brain by Alie Hazelwood. 0:13:58.679 --> 0:14:00.600 There's actually a couple more. 0:14:00.480 --> 0:14:03.480 Books written in a very similar way, so definitely check 0:14:03.520 --> 0:14:03.880 that out. 0:14:04.000 --> 0:14:05.000 You won't be disappointed. 0:14:05.080 --> 0:14:07.160 Okay, Well, like you said, I want to start reading, 0:14:07.280 --> 0:14:08.920 so maybe like. 0:14:09.120 --> 0:14:11.880 It might be a bit girly. But you did say 0:14:11.920 --> 0:14:14.360 that you were looking at getting some books. 0:14:14.120 --> 0:14:19.120 Right, Yes, so I got recommended, come the menoir, memoir, memoir, 0:14:19.560 --> 0:14:27.400 Come the menoir, memoir, memoir, A menoir mem whah mem Okay, 0:14:27.480 --> 0:14:33.640 I got recommended, come a memoir. Have you heard that book? 0:14:34.160 --> 0:14:36.880 I've not heard it, but I mean if the title 0:14:36.920 --> 0:14:39.480 has come, I'm sure it's going to be interesting. 0:14:39.480 --> 0:14:41.560 Do you want to elaborate? 0:14:41.720 --> 0:14:45.560 It's someone that worked as a sex worker. Very interesting. 0:14:45.560 --> 0:14:47.520 It goes into her life story. So I'm going to 0:14:47.720 --> 0:14:49.240 pick that one up on the way home now and 0:14:49.280 --> 0:14:50.040 read it on the plane. 0:14:50.080 --> 0:14:52.360 Maybe you can give it to me after you get 0:14:52.400 --> 0:14:54.240 back from the UK and we can do like a 0:14:54.280 --> 0:14:55.320 trade off of books. 0:14:55.320 --> 0:14:56.160 It won't be finished. 0:14:56.360 --> 0:14:57.840 You're so reader, she whiz. 0:14:57.880 --> 0:15:00.240 I think reading Arnold Schwartz and his biography since year 0:15:00.240 --> 0:15:00.600 A ten. 0:15:02.800 --> 0:15:05.400 I know what though, I'm actually not a fast reader. 0:15:05.480 --> 0:15:07.480 Like I love to like take my time and joy 0:15:07.600 --> 0:15:10.720 and if for like one second my brain kind of 0:15:10.760 --> 0:15:13.280 like goes off with the fairies, I'll literally like reread 0:15:13.320 --> 0:15:16.880 everything to make sure that I am the information. 0:15:17.000 --> 0:15:19.080 And I have been kissing jen Off as well with 0:15:19.160 --> 0:15:21.440 that because if I doze off or like go out 0:15:21.480 --> 0:15:23.800 with the zone out with the fairies while we're watching something, 0:15:23.920 --> 0:15:26.400 I'll rewind it. And she's like, are you fucking kidding me? 0:15:27.400 --> 0:15:29.640 That's annoying with the movie. If you're watching a movie 0:15:29.640 --> 0:15:30.840 with someone else, you can't be. 0:15:30.840 --> 0:15:34.080 Doing that's just remote from me because I'm just going 0:15:34.120 --> 0:15:37.440 to miss that. I do that too, all right, should 0:15:37.440 --> 0:15:39.160 we get into the hotline, Let's do it. 0:15:40.760 --> 0:15:43.160 Hello, you've reached Anna and that we can't get to 0:15:43.160 --> 0:15:45.600 the phone right now, but please leave us a message 0:15:45.640 --> 0:15:47.480 on our hotline after the beat. 0:15:48.680 --> 0:15:51.800 So and we put a feeler out on our Instagram 0:15:51.880 --> 0:15:55.040 during the week asking people to send in their worst 0:15:55.080 --> 0:15:56.160 first date stories. 0:15:56.360 --> 0:15:58.360 Yeah, we've had a lot of them. We've shared them 0:15:58.360 --> 0:16:00.720 with you guys on the pod and we will. We 0:16:00.760 --> 0:16:04.040 want to hear from the fam and see what they've 0:16:04.040 --> 0:16:06.480 been through. So we've got a first one now. 0:16:06.680 --> 0:16:08.600 This one comes in from m. 0:16:09.200 --> 0:16:11.680 Hey, Anna and Matt love the pod and congrats on 0:16:11.720 --> 0:16:15.000 the engagement. Anna. My worst date story is once I 0:16:15.040 --> 0:16:17.320 had a guy drop me home after dinner and he 0:16:17.440 --> 0:16:20.320 was full driving, doing one hundred and thirty kilometers in 0:16:20.360 --> 0:16:22.840 an eighty zone and I asked him to slow down. 0:16:22.960 --> 0:16:25.840 He pretty much like ripped a mini burnout, and so 0:16:26.000 --> 0:16:28.680 I started crying and I made him pull over and 0:16:28.840 --> 0:16:31.200 I got out on the main road and he drove off. 0:16:31.680 --> 0:16:34.280 I felt super unsafe and it was the worst date ever. 0:16:34.560 --> 0:16:37.000 So safe to say he did not get a second. 0:16:37.760 --> 0:16:41.360 Oh my god, I'm like traumatized hearing that. How awful. 0:16:41.520 --> 0:16:43.520 And it just gives guys a bad rap, doesn't it, 0:16:43.560 --> 0:16:46.120 Like like that's just fuck with vibes. 0:16:46.000 --> 0:16:48.760 That's so ego driven as well, like slow the fuck 0:16:48.840 --> 0:16:52.240 down and you could kill someone. And also like you're 0:16:52.280 --> 0:16:55.280 definitely not getting laid with that type of behavior. 0:16:55.880 --> 0:16:57.560 He could have done really well. He could have driven 0:16:57.680 --> 0:16:59.800 a home which is polite and gentle and like and 0:17:00.200 --> 0:17:03.280 stay to the speed limit like every other Laura abiding citizen. Yeah, 0:17:03.360 --> 0:17:05.520 got her home and maybe you know, got laid. Yeah, 0:17:05.680 --> 0:17:08.720 do you reckon? He's over compensating for something. Sounds like, okay, 0:17:09.160 --> 0:17:11.760 it safe to say I have never sped with a 0:17:11.800 --> 0:17:13.760 girl in the car ripped to burn out because. 0:17:13.520 --> 0:17:15.240 I don't need He sounds like a loser. 0:17:15.640 --> 0:17:18.840 I mean, I just think don't make people feel unsafe, 0:17:18.840 --> 0:17:21.919 and especially the fact that like, okay, he's done the 0:17:21.920 --> 0:17:24.080 wrong thing, and she's been like please slow. 0:17:23.880 --> 0:17:26.399 Down, yeah, and then the right thing by saying that. 0:17:26.440 --> 0:17:28.800