1 00:00:02,920 --> 00:00:03,480 Speaker 1: Podcast. 2 00:00:03,920 --> 00:00:06,960 Speaker 2: Can I continue that obstration break that we did from 3 00:00:07,080 --> 00:00:15,520 Speaker 2: last week the news? Well, funny you should play that 4 00:00:15,600 --> 00:00:19,080 Speaker 2: song because this is really interesting. We did a day 5 00:00:19,120 --> 00:00:21,680 Speaker 2: on the plate of a very famous obstetrician down in 6 00:00:21,720 --> 00:00:24,960 Speaker 2: Melbourne and it was unbelievable. His day, Like, I mean, 7 00:00:25,239 --> 00:00:27,440 Speaker 2: Paul Barker was waking up at two thirty in the morning, 8 00:00:27,480 --> 00:00:30,400 Speaker 2: had to go in deliver a baby, go home. He 9 00:00:30,520 --> 00:00:33,080 Speaker 2: was eating biscuits from the hospital. I mean, his day 10 00:00:33,159 --> 00:00:35,559 Speaker 2: on the plate wasn't that good, but it was amazing 11 00:00:35,640 --> 00:00:37,600 Speaker 2: just to see what he was day. His day was 12 00:00:37,720 --> 00:00:41,800 Speaker 2: like the conversation when we got off air and Kate, 13 00:00:41,880 --> 00:00:44,600 Speaker 2: you got involved with this as well, which blew my mind. 14 00:00:44,760 --> 00:00:47,600 Speaker 2: But there's a lot of women that have a special 15 00:00:47,640 --> 00:00:49,640 Speaker 2: connection with their obstetric. 16 00:00:50,880 --> 00:00:57,120 Speaker 1: Oh is that me? I mean when he says there's 17 00:00:57,160 --> 00:00:57,720 Speaker 1: a lot of. 18 00:00:57,600 --> 00:00:58,560 Speaker 2: Women who have something. 19 00:01:04,040 --> 00:01:07,800 Speaker 1: Okay, so I'm allowed to speak now, and I say, yeah, 20 00:01:07,959 --> 00:01:11,399 Speaker 1: that's right, fitsy. Sometimes women do fall in love with 21 00:01:11,440 --> 00:01:15,679 Speaker 1: their obstetricians. But seriously, we did chat about it, and 22 00:01:15,959 --> 00:01:17,800 Speaker 1: I think it could be a bit like you might 23 00:01:17,840 --> 00:01:20,880 Speaker 1: fall in love with your therapist or someone who's really 24 00:01:21,080 --> 00:01:26,000 Speaker 1: part of like a big emotional upheaval. A time of 25 00:01:26,120 --> 00:01:30,840 Speaker 1: growth having a baby. If you have you know, like 26 00:01:30,880 --> 00:01:33,040 Speaker 1: if you're a woman and you you're you have a 27 00:01:33,040 --> 00:01:38,440 Speaker 1: male obstetrician and that's the way you're wired, it makes sense. Well, 28 00:01:38,440 --> 00:01:41,800 Speaker 1: your obstetrician might be giving you more love, support and 29 00:01:41,840 --> 00:01:45,200 Speaker 1: safety than the guy you're having the baby. 30 00:01:47,120 --> 00:01:48,760 Speaker 2: Did you have a connection with yours? 31 00:01:49,120 --> 00:01:51,280 Speaker 1: Of course I did, But I'm not going to say 32 00:01:51,360 --> 00:01:53,960 Speaker 1: I was in love with you know, do you feel 33 00:01:54,200 --> 00:01:57,920 Speaker 1: for him? I had very strong feelings of safety because 34 00:01:57,920 --> 00:02:01,440 Speaker 1: he was going to be holding my head. I daught him. 35 00:02:01,520 --> 00:02:08,080 Speaker 1: He's very well accomplished and a really lovely dad himself. No, 36 00:02:09,200 --> 00:02:12,880 Speaker 1: but like, okay, think about this, that moment when you 37 00:02:12,919 --> 00:02:16,200 Speaker 1: go and you see your baby for the first time. 38 00:02:16,639 --> 00:02:19,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, you should look at your husband for the first right, 39 00:02:20,760 --> 00:02:23,760 Speaker 2: Look what we made obstetrician about this. 40 00:02:24,720 --> 00:02:29,760 Speaker 1: If you have an obstetrician, there are some partners that 41 00:02:29,919 --> 00:02:31,760 Speaker 1: don't even go to those appointments. 42 00:02:32,160 --> 00:02:36,160 Speaker 2: I tell me your wife had a connection with her prosatrician, 43 00:02:36,160 --> 00:02:36,520 Speaker 2: didn't she. 44 00:02:36,600 --> 00:02:39,520 Speaker 1: His name was Stephen, And every time we speak about 45 00:02:39,600 --> 00:02:42,679 Speaker 1: him on scuba, does she get all girly and kind 46 00:02:42,720 --> 00:02:45,720 Speaker 1: of giggly. Yes, And the countdown to the appointments that 47 00:02:45,760 --> 00:02:48,560 Speaker 1: you'd go to like every month or so. 48 00:02:48,639 --> 00:02:51,880 Speaker 2: She was physic. Yeah, she was visiting at the proverbial, 49 00:02:52,360 --> 00:02:56,239 Speaker 2: and she was almost more excited about seeing the obstetrician 50 00:02:56,320 --> 00:02:57,760 Speaker 2: than she was about seeing the baby. 51 00:02:57,800 --> 00:02:59,640 Speaker 1: Oh, you can't say that. 52 00:03:02,040 --> 00:03:03,720 Speaker 2: And how long has she been with him? 53 00:03:04,919 --> 00:03:05,760 Speaker 1: She wants another kid? 54 00:03:05,840 --> 00:03:08,680 Speaker 2: Tom, Stephanie's given us a call, Steph, is this a 55 00:03:08,720 --> 00:03:10,120 Speaker 2: real thing amongst women? 56 00:03:10,720 --> 00:03:14,080 Speaker 3: Well, I personally haven't had a kid, but my best 57 00:03:14,120 --> 00:03:17,960 Speaker 3: friend is pregnant with her first. She's seven months pregnant, 58 00:03:18,200 --> 00:03:21,240 Speaker 3: and all I hear about is her ob Like, I 59 00:03:21,280 --> 00:03:24,360 Speaker 3: think she's going to have another kid just so she 60 00:03:24,440 --> 00:03:29,080 Speaker 3: can see him again. Honestly, if she doesn't, she's just 61 00:03:29,120 --> 00:03:31,320 Speaker 3: about going to leave her husband for this. 62 00:03:31,639 --> 00:03:33,800 Speaker 2: Oh my god. If you think it starts, Steph, just 63 00:03:33,880 --> 00:03:37,600 Speaker 2: with the trust, because you're putting your entire being in 64 00:03:37,760 --> 00:03:39,000 Speaker 2: that person's hands. 65 00:03:40,240 --> 00:03:43,640 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, And as Kate said, it's a massive moment 66 00:03:43,920 --> 00:03:48,640 Speaker 3: and you need comfort. And also it's the uniform. 67 00:03:48,400 --> 00:03:53,960 Speaker 1: Right, you know, you're cheapening that whole seat. I think 68 00:03:54,120 --> 00:03:57,040 Speaker 1: you know what it is. It's when you're that heavily pregnant. 69 00:03:57,040 --> 00:03:59,880 Speaker 1: You're seven months pregnant, and your feet hurt and you've 70 00:03:59,880 --> 00:04:01,800 Speaker 1: got all the pain and you're growin and all that 71 00:04:01,880 --> 00:04:04,480 Speaker 1: really lovely stuff. You just want to go into a 72 00:04:04,560 --> 00:04:08,880 Speaker 1: room somebody offer you to lie down and ask how 73 00:04:09,200 --> 00:04:10,000 Speaker 1: are you. 74 00:04:10,480 --> 00:04:16,560 Speaker 2: We do that? No, you don't though you don't just breathe, 75 00:04:17,040 --> 00:04:17,680 Speaker 2: calm down. 76 00:04:18,040 --> 00:04:19,719 Speaker 1: You just want us to calm down. 77 00:04:19,880 --> 00:04:27,279 Speaker 2: A lot of people. The moral of this break is Fellows, 78 00:04:27,320 --> 00:04:30,680 Speaker 2: if you love your lady he's becoming obstrci, go to 79 00:04:30,760 --> 00:04:31,560 Speaker 2: medical school. 80 00:04:31,960 --> 00:04:35,000 Speaker 1: This is a Fitzy with brend Tate podcast A great 81 00:04:35,040 --> 00:04:38,280 Speaker 1: shows like this. Download the Nova player, find the app 82 00:04:38,279 --> 00:04:41,040 Speaker 3: Store or Google Play.