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Speaker 1: Apoge Production. This is a bonus bite size episode of

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Speaker 1: We Will Always Have. Christy and I have sourced a

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Speaker 1: bunch of different games from secondhand stores. Will they translate

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Speaker 1: and will they be interesting to listen to on a

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Speaker 1: podcast If we play them for you, well, you're about

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Speaker 1: to find out when was the last time you felt

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Speaker 1: lonely and what made you feel better?

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Speaker 2: I don't actually get lonely.

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Speaker 1: I actually really like my own.

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Speaker 2: Space as much as I love spending time with people,

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Speaker 2: and please don't get me wrong, I love it, but

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Speaker 2: I love just being in my own space under and yeah,

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Speaker 2: I do kind of overthink and then I get myself

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Speaker 2: in a little bit of a tears, but I just

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Speaker 2: for me, it resets my battery, my social battery. I

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Speaker 2: love people, I love being around people, but I just

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Speaker 2: sometimes just need to be on my own, not having

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Speaker 2: to worry about anyone, not having to think because I

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Speaker 2: get into this. I don't know about you, but I'll

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Speaker 2: walk into a room and I'll know instantly what people

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Speaker 2: like vibe is, who's having a good day, who's having

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Speaker 2: a bad day.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you're very good at reading people.

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Speaker 2: And then I tend to then go, oh, well, I'm

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Speaker 2: going to try and turn that round for you, because

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Speaker 2: that actually upsets my algorithm.

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Speaker 3: Like, I don't like it.

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Speaker 2: I feel very unsettled and I get very nervous, and

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Speaker 2: I then leave that situation.

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Speaker 1: I'm fucking mess.

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Speaker 2: I am completely and utterly drained. So I just like

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Speaker 2: my time just to recharge and then I'm fine.

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Speaker 1: See, I'm exactly the same, except I don't like social

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Speaker 1: situations like I would say the opposite. When was the

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Speaker 1: last time, well you felt lonely? Was when I'm in

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Speaker 1: the middle of all the chaos. Genuinely, when I went

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Speaker 1: to New York, it was the weirdest thing because I

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Speaker 1: don't feel lonely because I love my own company put

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Speaker 1: me and with social media, I never feel alone as well.

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Speaker 1: Without social media could be different, probably be different, But

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Speaker 1: I who've never been in a relationship, don't want to be.

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Speaker 1: Nothing about that excites me. But going to New York, No,

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Speaker 1: I hated New York.

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Speaker 3: I hated I hated New York.

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Speaker 1: It was so busy and there were so many people,

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Speaker 1: and I felt it was the first time and I

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Speaker 1: was like, oh, I feel quite alone here.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't like New York.

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Speaker 1: Didn't like New York.

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Speaker 3: But did you feel like that in London? No, but

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Speaker 3: I was traveling with my brothers. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: How do they feel like when you guys go away

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Speaker 2: and do stuff together and you're in your own space,

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Speaker 2: do they go oh, there goes Christian off.

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Speaker 1: We go oh yes, Well they laugh because they're like

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Speaker 1: when we had a family holiday, I've got ten nieces

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Speaker 1: and nephews in the middle of it. I booked a

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Speaker 1: tiny home on the opposite side of Jervis Bay. I

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Speaker 1: was like, I've got to do some work because I

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Speaker 1: can't use work as some excuse because I don't have

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Speaker 1: a job.

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Speaker 3: This is a full time job. This it's not a job.

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Speaker 1: Like I could push this away and stay with that,

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Speaker 1: like I don't need to be in a staying at

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Speaker 1: a tiny home. But they laughed and they're like, hah

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Speaker 1: ha ha, of course you do. Yes, we know this

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Speaker 1: is a lot for you. They know I get over.

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Speaker 3: They don't drudge you.

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Speaker 1: They just want to be you.

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Speaker 3: Isn't that wonderful?

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Speaker 1: But the dynamics of changed a lot because they've for

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Speaker 1: got kids and I look at them and I go, oh,

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Speaker 1: my god, couldn't do that? You give up your life.

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Speaker 1: The routine is based off of the kids.

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Speaker 2: Like I just go, it's full on, and that's like

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Speaker 2: that for how many years?

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Speaker 3: Forever? Quite forever, But she says, it's been four misticals

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Speaker 3: from a kid.

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Speaker 2: But you certainly do take a back seat, Jesus, not.

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Speaker 3: Even in the car like you know, was it ned

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Speaker 3: Flanders with the grips of the Simpsons? Yeah? Did you

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Speaker 3: ever feel lonely as a parent?

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Speaker 2: Feel lonely as a late nights early morning feeding and

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Speaker 2: getting up and changing and all of that very much?

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Speaker 3: Because I feel like you're just a husk.

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Speaker 1: You're a feeder, yeah, you are, and a cleaner. You

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Speaker 1: just keep going and going, and you know what, two

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Speaker 1: years time, they'll have her.

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Speaker 2: I remember Jack never slept, and I remember saying to

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Speaker 2: Ricardo down the other end of the bed, are you

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Speaker 3: Or are you just going to sleep?

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Speaker 2: And he will say to.

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Speaker 3: This day that never happened.

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Speaker 1: Christy, Yes, but you know they did.

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Speaker 2: I remember being like, I can't do all of.

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Speaker 3: What I need to do. I'm running out a battery.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Did he take the hand? Oh yeah, absolutely, he was

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Speaker 3: a great. Yeah. I told him exactly what I needed yeh, yeah, No,

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Speaker 3: Look he was.

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Speaker 2: He was a great dad instill to this day is

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Speaker 2: a very good day and involved with them with sport

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Speaker 2: and Charlie with his dancing and his singing and stuff.

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Speaker 3: Ok yeah, yeah, oh that's good. I couldn't do it.

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Speaker 3: Even babysitting. I would never.

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Speaker 2: I would very rarely go to football games. I would say,

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Speaker 2: off you goffe, Yeah, I'm not involved.

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Speaker 1: But do you know what Mom did, which I thought

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Speaker 1: was fucking genius. Dad took us to church every Sunday morning.

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Speaker 1: So Mum got two hours, poor thing. And I was like,

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Speaker 1: where the fuck are we doing, Like we're not really religious,

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Speaker 1: but it was just like, you will take them to church?

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Speaker 3: Boy?

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Speaker 2: Need absolutely she needed that time out.

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Speaker 3: God I couldn't. I was so boring. But now I

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Speaker 3: look back and go, God, what.

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Speaker 2: Church did you go to? What denomination do you remember?

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Speaker 2: Was it Church of England?

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Speaker 1: Was it half Week?

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Speaker 3: Is there anything Catholics? Yea quite a big thing. Yeah yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 3: it's just so boring.

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Speaker 1: It was so boring.

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Speaker 3: Just it's still for forty five minutes.

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Speaker 1: Anyways, Okay, we are playing categories roll again. We had

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Speaker 1: that one that was a w L L. Right, okay,

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Speaker 1: sixty seconds on the clock.

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Speaker 2: Go.

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Speaker 1: Items in your personal wallet, stuffed animal names, things you

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Speaker 1: plug in, food kids hate, things found in a souvenir shop,

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Speaker 1: something you keep hidden celebrities, things you empty, words ending

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Speaker 1: in l y expressions, things to do on a rainy day.

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Speaker 3: Animals all right, time, I found that one pretty easy?

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Speaker 2: Okay?

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Speaker 3: Right?

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Speaker 1: Number one items in your personal wallet license, loose change, okay.

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Speaker 1: Stuffed animal names?

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Speaker 2: Lamby what Lambie.

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Speaker 1: Lambie?

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Speaker 3: Okay? Lemmy lionel the lion.

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Speaker 1: Oh that's three things you plug in lamp light well johne, okay.

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Speaker 3: Four food kids hate? What did you put lemons?

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Speaker 1: Oh? I put lambs fry?

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Speaker 3: What lambs fry? What kid hates lambs fry? Every child

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Speaker 3: known to man? What is Lamb's fry?

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Speaker 1: It's awful.

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Speaker 2: Done?

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Speaker 3: Five things found in a souvenir shop.

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Speaker 1: Lots of crap. I had a laniard, something you keep hidden, lollies?

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Speaker 3: Good well? I had a large ring.

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Speaker 1: Oh at any time you can dispute, we can dispute

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Speaker 1: each other's I love it. Large ring, large diamond ring. Celebrities, Hey,

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Speaker 1: do you put Lamb Gallagher? I put Luke Danya?

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Speaker 3: Is that Grant Daniels as a known brother? Did you

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Speaker 3: make that up. What's his name? Is it Grant? Oh Christ,

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Speaker 3: I've seen Luke Danya. Is there a Luke somewhere anywhere?

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Speaker 2: Can we pick a Luke cross you? No, it's Grant.

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Speaker 2: If you're listening, I.

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Speaker 3: Can probably guarantee he's not listening. Things you empty? Yeah,

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Speaker 3: I didn't get anything for luggage. Oh, well done. Eight

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Speaker 3: words ending in l y. You've missed someone. Nine is

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Speaker 3: words ending in l y. I put lovely, lovely.

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Speaker 2: Lily, nice expressions, looks of disgust.

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Speaker 3: I put light and up come.

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Speaker 1: Eleven is things to do on a rainy day.

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Speaker 2: Not a lots with an N Lots, yeah, lots, put

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Speaker 2: lots lots.

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Speaker 3: There's lots to do on a rainy day. Lot I

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Speaker 3: had laid down.

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Speaker 2: Good one and animals lammys lambs, good.

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Speaker 3: Job, leopard, Oh not gonna lie. I got twelve out

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Speaker 3: of twelve.

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Speaker 2: I wonder what people would actually you know, our answers.

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Speaker 2: Some psych out there is probably looking through the screening

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Speaker 2: at your phone and get the fine gids of milk.