WEBVTT - WHY YOU’RE MORE LIKELY TO FALL IN LOVE ON HOLIDAY ! 0:00:00.200 --> 0:00:02.640 I want the fairy tale. I want the prince charming 0:00:03.120 --> 0:00:04.360 she how. 0:00:04.280 --> 0:00:06.960 Do I put this? Isn't a fan of my kissing. 0:00:06.640 --> 0:00:11.000 Style boyfriend and girlfriend for about twelve hours. He's in 0:00:11.039 --> 0:00:15.360 a trash bin. He's non recyclable, catching them mut I. 0:00:15.320 --> 0:00:18.759 Love being love. I love love. On today's episode of 0:00:18.800 --> 0:00:22.480 Where's Your Head, we are talking about summer romances. 0:00:21.800 --> 0:00:24.720 And how you are very likely to find your one 0:00:24.800 --> 0:00:26.720 true love whilst on holiday. 0:00:27.160 --> 0:00:29.479 Summer is just around the corner for our listeners, so 0:00:29.560 --> 0:00:31.840 let's hit the mark with some scorching hot tips. 0:00:32.040 --> 0:00:35.519 Stay tuned to hear about my upcoming hot girl summer. 0:00:40.520 --> 0:00:42.919 Where's Your Head Hat is a podcast that talks all 0:00:43.000 --> 0:00:48.320 things relationships, breakups, reality TV, trending shows, and everything in between. 0:00:48.600 --> 0:00:51.320 This is your new go to destination for laughs, gossip, 0:00:51.479 --> 0:00:57.440 intimate details, advice, and much more. 0:00:58.600 --> 0:01:02.400 Hello, mass Anna, how are you? I'm good. I'm very 0:01:02.440 --> 0:01:05.200 excited because we have a lot to catch up on. 0:01:05.400 --> 0:01:07.120 We do. I was just saying before, it feels like 0:01:07.160 --> 0:01:09.280 I haven't been in the studio in forever, but actually 0:01:09.640 --> 0:01:12.000 really like a week. But it feels like so much longer, 0:01:12.040 --> 0:01:12.479 doesn't it. 0:01:12.560 --> 0:01:14.960 Yeah, If you don't know or don't follow, it in 0:01:14.959 --> 0:01:18.640 Matt's socials. He's been having a lavish old time in 0:01:18.720 --> 0:01:19.759 Hamilton Island. 0:01:20.400 --> 0:01:23.200 Yeah, so we went up for my girlfriend Jen and 0:01:23.240 --> 0:01:25.720 a twin sister, Nikki's thirtieth birthday. 0:01:25.959 --> 0:01:26.440 He did. 0:01:26.720 --> 0:01:28.920 Yeah, so I've never been to Hamilton Island. I been 0:01:28.959 --> 0:01:31.280 to the Wit Sunday's Early Beach. I've got family that 0:01:31.319 --> 0:01:34.160 lived there, so growing up would go there all the time. 0:01:34.319 --> 0:01:36.679 But I've never been to Hamilton Island, so we flew 0:01:36.720 --> 0:01:39.600 in there. It's one of those things though, like you 0:01:39.640 --> 0:01:42.119 know after a vacation where you need another vacation because 0:01:42.120 --> 0:01:43.520 it's just so go, go go, Like. 0:01:43.440 --> 0:01:44.640 The whole that was full on. 0:01:44.920 --> 0:01:48.040 Yeah, like you've got the Sunset cruise, White Apron Beach Day, 0:01:48.160 --> 0:01:50.520 You've just got like everything, and it's just so there's 0:01:50.560 --> 0:01:51.960 so much going on, you know what I mean. 0:01:52.160 --> 0:01:54.040 Yeah, so you don't feel like you really like got 0:01:54.080 --> 0:01:56.400 a chance to really kick back and relax. 0:01:56.560 --> 0:01:58.800 We had one day by the pool where we had 0:01:59.000 --> 0:02:01.720 like drinks in that so much alcohol, you know, like 0:02:01.960 --> 0:02:03.440 my liver needs a break from it. 0:02:06.480 --> 0:02:08.720 That talks about how his living needs a break, and 0:02:08.760 --> 0:02:10.440 two days later he's on the pick. 0:02:10.680 --> 0:02:12.880 I know, I know that it's actually funny you say 0:02:12.919 --> 0:02:15.320 that because I said last week I'm not drinking anymore, 0:02:15.360 --> 0:02:17.720 and then fair enough, the weekend comes up and I'm 0:02:17.720 --> 0:02:20.120 back out with the boys again drinking. So Chen's just like, 0:02:20.160 --> 0:02:21.359 stop it, stop saying that. 0:02:21.480 --> 0:02:26.639 Yeah, there was something exciting that happened on your trip though, 0:02:26.720 --> 0:02:28.840 on day two, was it? Yeah? 0:02:29.080 --> 0:02:32.400 So Jen's twin sister, NICKI, who's been with her boyfriend 0:02:32.520 --> 0:02:35.440 Murph for maybe six seven years even longer, I'm not sure, 0:02:36.360 --> 0:02:40.920 finally pop the question and asked to marry him. Yes, 0:02:41.120 --> 0:02:44.960 So congratulations to Nick and Nick they are very cute. Well, 0:02:44.960 --> 0:02:46.560 he did it very in a cute way, so he 0:02:46.600 --> 0:02:48.720 wanted to do it on the boat cruise, but he 0:02:48.760 --> 0:02:50.040 didn't know it was like he thought it was just 0:02:50.040 --> 0:02:52.040 gonna be us on there, but it was with other 0:02:52.120 --> 0:02:53.960 tourists as well, so there was too much going on 0:02:53.960 --> 0:02:56.040 on the boat cruise. But that would be brave to 0:02:56.080 --> 0:02:57.840 pull it off in front of the family, to get 0:02:57.880 --> 0:03:00.400 on one knee and everyone's like yeah. 0:03:00.520 --> 0:03:03.520 Also, like have you seen those Proposals gone Wrong videos? 0:03:03.560 --> 0:03:05.960 And they're always on a boat or in the desert, 0:03:06.040 --> 0:03:07.720 and they like go to get on one knee and 0:03:07.760 --> 0:03:10.079 the ring like either goes in the ocean or goes 0:03:10.200 --> 0:03:13.760 in the sand in the desert. Like, I just guys, 0:03:13.800 --> 0:03:16.320 if you're thinking of proposing, don't do it there. Like 0:03:16.400 --> 0:03:19.240 those videos just the anxiety levels through the ruin. 0:03:19.360 --> 0:03:21.360 I should drop that ring as well, would be sucking 0:03:21.400 --> 0:03:23.040 a real shame, like it's a. 0:03:23.000 --> 0:03:25.200 Beautiful ring, but it is a beautiful ring. 0:03:25.320 --> 0:03:27.800 So he ended up doing it in for the sunrise. 0:03:28.080 --> 0:03:31.400 So the plan was But what I thought was he said, 0:03:31.400 --> 0:03:32.840 we're going to go for the gym in the morning. 0:03:33.000 --> 0:03:33.480 You and him. 0:03:33.560 --> 0:03:36.080 Yeah, So he said, let me, I'll like set your alarm, 0:03:36.080 --> 0:03:37.840 we'll get off, we'll go for gym early in the morning. 0:03:37.880 --> 0:03:39.839 And I was like, yeah, you know what's fair enough. 0:03:39.880 --> 0:03:41.920 Start the day early there, you watch the sunrise there, 0:03:41.960 --> 0:03:44.440 your day starts early, finishes early. So I was like 0:03:44.480 --> 0:03:46.680 all right. So I'm sleeping away and we're hearing a 0:03:46.760 --> 0:03:48.800 knock on the door and I'm like fuck fuck a 0:03:49.600 --> 0:03:51.839 Gy'm like, jen, get that. And then I'm like tell Murph. 0:03:51.880 --> 0:03:53.680 I'm like telling that I slept through my alarm, and 0:03:53.680 --> 0:03:55.400 she's like all right, all right, and then I hear 0:03:55.480 --> 0:03:57.520 her from the door and she's like bullshit, and I'm 0:03:57.520 --> 0:03:59.240 like just telling my sleeps when I'm quickly trying to 0:03:59.240 --> 0:04:01.000 get dress. I'm like, all, I slept through my alarm. 0:04:01.400 --> 0:04:03.520 She's like, you're lying, You're lying, and I'm like, I know, 0:04:03.600 --> 0:04:05.200 I'm lying, I know, but just tell him I slept 0:04:05.240 --> 0:04:09.240 from my fucking alarm, Like what's the big deal. But 0:04:09.400 --> 0:04:11.960 it turns out that Nicky and him or at the 0:04:12.000 --> 0:04:14.880 door and she just wasn't saying anything, just holding her 0:04:15.120 --> 0:04:17.240 ring in front of Gens. So Jen was talking to. 0:04:17.240 --> 0:04:20.479 NICKI so Jen's reacting to the ring, and you thought 0:04:20.560 --> 0:04:21.839 Jen was reacting to you. 0:04:22.000 --> 0:04:24.360 Yeah, and I'm like, yes, that I'm lying. Just fucking 0:04:24.360 --> 0:04:26.280 tell him that I slept through my alarm. 0:04:26.480 --> 0:04:26.720 Yeah. 0:04:26.839 --> 0:04:28.920 I was hilarious. And then I came out and I 0:04:28.960 --> 0:04:32.279 congratulated him. But another thing that I recommend from my 0:04:32.320 --> 0:04:35.039 trip when I was away was definitely when you go 0:04:35.080 --> 0:04:38.080 to with Sundays to go out to the Great bew 0:04:38.200 --> 0:04:41.080 Reef and do the helicopter tour. So I saw that 0:04:41.440 --> 0:04:46.320 joined myself went over the love shaped reef, the heart shape. Yeah, 0:04:46.320 --> 0:04:48.560 so I've done it before, but it was definitely way 0:04:48.560 --> 0:04:50.080 better to do it with a partner that you love. 0:04:50.200 --> 0:04:52.279 So maybe she thought you were good. IM proposed that's 0:04:52.279 --> 0:04:54.520 like a proposal hot spot. Do you know that? 0:04:55.279 --> 0:04:57.200 Look I thought, you know, when I thought about it, 0:04:57.240 --> 0:04:58.800 I was like, I was like, fuck, this would be 0:04:58.839 --> 0:05:00.640 the perfect time to do it. But there's other people 0:05:00.680 --> 0:05:03.080 in our cabin, so you'd have to book the whole helicopter. 0:05:03.839 --> 0:05:06.000 You'd have to reckon word the helicopter pilot up to 0:05:06.000 --> 0:05:08.160 make sure he does like a hover around the thing. 0:05:08.240 --> 0:05:10.200 So you do it. Yeah, but that would be actually 0:05:10.240 --> 0:05:12.320 a great spot, maybe very cute. Maybe that's one to 0:05:12.360 --> 0:05:14.320 keep in the memory bank. But I definitely recommend to 0:05:14.360 --> 0:05:15.159 go there with your partner. 0:05:15.320 --> 0:05:17.920 Love that. I love that recommendation. You know what. It 0:05:18.000 --> 0:05:20.800 wasn't on my list, but after I saw your beautiful, 0:05:21.040 --> 0:05:24.479 like scenic Instagram stories, I was like, put that one 0:05:24.480 --> 0:05:25.280 on the bucket list. 0:05:25.320 --> 0:05:27.599 Well, yeah, we've got our bucket list book that we 0:05:27.640 --> 0:05:29.560 do together, so that's the first one we've ticked off. 0:05:29.600 --> 0:05:31.159 So a happy moment there. 0:05:31.360 --> 0:05:35.520 Cute. Well, while you were away, my little girl group 0:05:35.560 --> 0:05:39.120 who I have been friends with them since school. There's 0:05:39.200 --> 0:05:41.480 a total of five of us. Yeah, the girls chat 0:05:41.680 --> 0:05:49.279 the girls. We decided to finally book a trip a 0:05:49.320 --> 0:05:51.400 girl's holiday, So. 0:05:51.400 --> 0:05:52.400 This is your first one. 0:05:53.120 --> 0:05:56.800 It's we've had girls holidays before, but not everyone went. 0:05:57.000 --> 0:06:00.279 So when I was in Thailand with two two of 0:06:00.320 --> 0:06:06.760 the girls, Sarah and Laura, we were drunk in a 0:06:06.960 --> 0:06:10.960 infinity pool in Thailand and we made we actually went 0:06:11.000 --> 0:06:15.160 skinny dipping, oh okay in this pool and tell us 0:06:15.160 --> 0:06:19.440 more about that, And we made a pack so that 0:06:19.640 --> 0:06:22.600 if we hadn't gone on a girl's holiday with all 0:06:22.680 --> 0:06:25.720 five of us, then we would do it when we 0:06:26.080 --> 0:06:28.600 all turn thirty at some point that year. And honestly, 0:06:28.640 --> 0:06:30.719 I didn't think it was going to happen, Like I've 0:06:30.760 --> 0:06:32.600 already been on a lot of holidays this year. I 0:06:32.640 --> 0:06:35.000 thought like I'd tied my boots up for the year, 0:06:35.480 --> 0:06:37.719 like even probably into next year. Like I was like, 0:06:37.720 --> 0:06:42.000 I'm not like moving now, I'm settling in and they 0:06:42.720 --> 0:06:46.159 rallied together and we're going to Bali. So I'm going 0:06:46.200 --> 0:06:47.120 on a girls holiday. 0:06:47.360 --> 0:06:50.400 That's exciting. So who's on that trip. There's a couple 0:06:50.400 --> 0:06:51.800 of you that are single as well, so they'll be 0:06:51.839 --> 0:06:53.280 having a bit of fun up there, won't they. 0:06:53.520 --> 0:06:57.359 Yeah, So there's two single friends and there's three of 0:06:57.440 --> 0:06:59.680 us who are in a relationship. 0:06:59.160 --> 0:07:01.920 So you're two singles friends might be looking out for 0:07:01.960 --> 0:07:02.400 the one. 0:07:02.680 --> 0:07:04.000 Yeah, I think they're going to have a bit of 0:07:04.040 --> 0:07:06.160 a hot girl summer when we're away. So we are 0:07:06.200 --> 0:07:09.480 going to talk all things holidays and holiday romances next. 0:07:12.920 --> 0:07:16.760 All right, so let's talk about hot girl summer. Anna. 0:07:16.960 --> 0:07:20.400 Obviously you are a tanning queen. You're the queen of tanning. 0:07:20.400 --> 0:07:21.600 Do you want to give us some tips on how 0:07:21.680 --> 0:07:23.640 you keep that ten? Because I went into Hamilton Island, 0:07:24.080 --> 0:07:25.640 I did not have a tan, I did not have 0:07:25.680 --> 0:07:28.280 a starter base. I was I did notice that. Yeah, 0:07:28.280 --> 0:07:30.160 I was wide as a ghost. I was worried to 0:07:30.200 --> 0:07:31.800 get out and sun. Because you know me, I'm very 0:07:31.800 --> 0:07:32.400 son smart. 0:07:32.440 --> 0:07:33.000 I won't mind. 0:07:33.120 --> 0:07:34.600 Yeah, we both are. We won't go in the sun 0:07:34.680 --> 0:07:37.040 unless we have to. What are the tips to keep 0:07:37.040 --> 0:07:39.320 that tanned? Well, to go into a holiday tanned? 0:07:39.760 --> 0:07:42.800 Yeah, so, like you know me, I've been tanning for 0:07:42.840 --> 0:07:45.000 a very long time, so I have all the tips 0:07:45.000 --> 0:07:47.000 and tricks. It's so weird. People always ask me to 0:07:47.000 --> 0:07:49.760 make videos on Instagram and it's like I have so 0:07:49.960 --> 0:07:52.680 much to tell that I just like forget. So I 0:07:52.680 --> 0:07:56.800 thought let's give people some tips on this podcast. Okay, 0:07:56.880 --> 0:08:01.200 So my top tips when going on holiday and you 0:08:01.240 --> 0:08:04.120 want to be tanned is to get a gradual tanner. 0:08:04.560 --> 0:08:06.880 Start using it two or three days before you go 0:08:06.920 --> 0:08:09.840 on holiday so that when you actually get there, you're 0:08:09.840 --> 0:08:13.120 not rolling in pale as a ghost, because that's yeah, 0:08:13.160 --> 0:08:15.800 that's like my worst nightmare. And then I think that 0:08:16.160 --> 0:08:19.800 something that people always forget when they're fake tanning is 0:08:19.800 --> 0:08:23.920 to use an amazing moisturizer to keep your body super hydrated. 0:08:24.040 --> 0:08:25.720 Yeah, because you're obviously out in the sun, it's going 0:08:25.760 --> 0:08:26.560 to try it out. 0:08:26.600 --> 0:08:30.920 Dry out your skin. Yeah, So I use the Jergins moisturizer. 0:08:31.000 --> 0:08:34.160 It's from Chemists Warehouse. I think it's the Sweet Citrus one. 0:08:34.240 --> 0:08:36.760 So it's like got essential oils in it. It smells like. 0:08:36.920 --> 0:08:39.319 Does it's like orange kind of yeah, I reckon I 0:08:39.400 --> 0:08:41.440 smelled that before. Yeah, it smells really good. 0:08:41.520 --> 0:08:44.679 Yeah. So that's a moisturizer I use. I swear by it. 0:08:44.760 --> 0:08:47.440 I literally will put it on my skin, like lather 0:08:47.600 --> 0:08:50.000 my skin in it like two three times a day 0:08:50.040 --> 0:08:53.200 when I'm on holiday. So for all those hot girls 0:08:53.200 --> 0:08:56.199 who are having a hot girl summer, definitely check out 0:08:56.200 --> 0:08:57.559 that moisturizer. It's a goody. 0:08:57.720 --> 0:08:59.800 Or if you're just going on a nice family trip 0:08:59.840 --> 0:09:01.840 to Hamilton Island and you don't want to roll in 0:09:01.960 --> 0:09:04.360 looking like caspar I'm going to definitely try. I wish 0:09:04.400 --> 0:09:05.640 I knew this advice. 0:09:05.320 --> 0:09:07.199 At where you go head over to you. 0:09:07.360 --> 0:09:09.640 Yeah, I'm going to have to pull your next trip 0:09:09.679 --> 0:09:11.120 match my basket. 0:09:11.120 --> 0:09:15.040 That might help you out a little bit. But I 0:09:15.120 --> 0:09:19.200 want to know. Have you ever had a holiday romance? 0:09:21.400 --> 0:09:25.160 I mean yeah, I mean like I've had holiday like 0:09:25.160 --> 0:09:26.960 when I've gone away and I hooked up with people 0:09:26.960 --> 0:09:29.480 and that Actually they were telling everyone in my family 0:09:29.520 --> 0:09:32.280 will me and Jen stayed at this place that when 0:09:32.280 --> 0:09:35.040 I was younger, I was like thirteen fourteen, I stayed 0:09:35.080 --> 0:09:36.960 at and they told this story about house in the 0:09:37.000 --> 0:09:39.440 spa with a bunch of these older girls at like 0:09:39.600 --> 0:09:41.600 sixteen and ended up hooking up with one. And then 0:09:41.600 --> 0:09:43.679 I kept telling that story the whole time I was there. 0:09:43.720 --> 0:09:46.760 My uncles and aunties. Whenever I mentioned the place, they're like, oh, 0:09:46.800 --> 0:09:48.480 you're going back to that spa, are you, Maddie boy? 0:09:48.520 --> 0:09:50.240 And I'm like, so, I've had like those sort of 0:09:50.240 --> 0:09:53.800 stories growing up, but I have had one. Look. So 0:09:54.000 --> 0:09:56.360 I was modeling in Milan for like three months, and 0:09:56.400 --> 0:09:58.560 I went over to visit my uncle and my family 0:09:58.559 --> 0:10:01.600 in London. So I flown I haven't seen my uncle 0:10:01.640 --> 0:10:04.640 maybe for ten years. He's in that time, got a girlfriend. 0:10:05.200 --> 0:10:07.000 She has three kids. One of them was a girl 0:10:07.000 --> 0:10:09.280 around the same age as me. So we hit it 0:10:09.320 --> 0:10:11.680 off where she's taking me into London and she's taking 0:10:11.720 --> 0:10:13.760 me to my casting. She's driving around, we're going to 0:10:13.800 --> 0:10:16.199 the pubs together. We're drinking, chatting, you know, all the 0:10:16.240 --> 0:10:17.440 stuff that you do, and. 0:10:17.400 --> 0:10:19.480 I'm showing you a little bit of extra love and 0:10:19.559 --> 0:10:20.320 ten yeah. 0:10:20.400 --> 0:10:22.040 Yeah, And I was like, you know, this girl's an't 0:10:22.080 --> 0:10:25.120 really cool, you know, like really like my vibe, my flavor, 0:10:25.280 --> 0:10:27.480 you know, she's she's a cool chick. So then we 0:10:28.200 --> 0:10:30.000 I go back to Australia. You know, we hit it 0:10:30.000 --> 0:10:32.960 off there. I go back to Australia. We're talking every 0:10:33.040 --> 0:10:34.800 now and then, and then she ends up saying, hey, 0:10:34.880 --> 0:10:37.400 I've bought a ticket. I'm coming out to Australia on 0:10:37.440 --> 0:10:39.800 this day. So I'm like, fuck, man, like we're on here, 0:10:39.840 --> 0:10:42.240 like you know, this is this could be something. 0:10:42.320 --> 0:10:44.640 Actually, I just have one question. Had you had sex 0:10:44.720 --> 0:10:47.720 in England or London? We don't know, so you just 0:10:47.840 --> 0:10:49.480 kissed done a little bit more. 0:10:49.640 --> 0:10:51.959 No I'm not I'm not liberally say, but yeah, I 0:10:52.160 --> 0:10:54.880 actually don't remember if we did or not. Now actually 0:10:54.880 --> 0:10:57.400 you say that it was a bit of a kiss. Yeah, 0:10:57.720 --> 0:10:58.920 I don't remember anyway. 0:10:58.960 --> 0:11:00.280 Sorry, no, you. 0:11:00.280 --> 0:11:02.079 Know, I don't remember if we did. I feel like 0:11:02.120 --> 0:11:05.280 we did. But so she's come back, she's come to Australia. 0:11:06.040 --> 0:11:09.079 I don't get it right, I don't get what actually happened, 0:11:09.080 --> 0:11:11.120 and I still to this day don't get so like 0:11:11.559 --> 0:11:14.040 she came from the airport, was okay, Like were like, 0:11:14.200 --> 0:11:16.120 hugged it out, We're cool. So you picked her up 0:11:16.120 --> 0:11:17.719 from the air from the airport. She was staying at 0:11:17.720 --> 0:11:19.120 my mum's at the time because I was still living 0:11:19.280 --> 0:11:21.280 at home, and it just was like it was a 0:11:21.320 --> 0:11:24.280 different girl. I'd had this full like schedule plan for 0:11:24.320 --> 0:11:26.560 her for the week she was in Australia and it 0:11:26.600 --> 0:11:28.760 wasn't who I met in England at all. She was 0:11:28.760 --> 0:11:29.920 like a completely different girl. 0:11:30.080 --> 0:11:32.679 Oh so I'm so confused, distant. 0:11:32.360 --> 0:11:34.160 Did not give me any attention. Even got to the 0:11:34.160 --> 0:11:36.160 point where I took her out for her birthday while 0:11:36.160 --> 0:11:38.960 she was here. We went to a bar in Melbourne 0:11:38.960 --> 0:11:40.920 with all my friends, my sister's friends because they have 0:11:40.960 --> 0:11:43.880 his birthday around the same time. She ended up hooking 0:11:43.920 --> 0:11:47.800 up with another guy. What Yeah, So like I was 0:11:47.840 --> 0:11:50.080 sort of like, well fuck me, Like this didn't go 0:11:50.120 --> 0:11:51.520 the way I thought, and I just gave her nothing 0:11:51.559 --> 0:11:52.760 for the rest of her a couple of days she 0:11:52.800 --> 0:11:53.480 was in Australia. 0:11:54.000 --> 0:11:55.360 I'm so confused. 0:11:55.520 --> 0:11:57.240 So this isn't a romance story. I should have picked 0:11:57.240 --> 0:11:57.880 that off from the start. 0:11:58.240 --> 0:11:59.160 This is a heartbreak. 0:11:59.400 --> 0:12:01.280 Heartbreaks. Sorry, but this is the close thing I've had 0:12:01.280 --> 0:12:05.200 to like an actual summer loven that's the closest thing 0:12:05.200 --> 0:12:08.559 I've had and heartbroken. Yeah, yeah, I was quite hard. 0:12:08.640 --> 0:12:10.439 So you're like at the club and this chick is 0:12:10.480 --> 0:12:12.640 like kissing your friend and you're like, what the hell? 0:12:12.720 --> 0:12:16.439 Yeah, it was actually aquaintance to mate. Yeah, who is sad? 0:12:16.679 --> 0:12:18.800 I know it was a bit so safe to say. 0:12:18.840 --> 0:12:21.960 I never talked to her. I actually got my revenge. 0:12:22.040 --> 0:12:26.800 I'm like this it gets toxic. The next year, I 0:12:26.840 --> 0:12:30.400 went up to London again and she actually she actually 0:12:30.440 --> 0:12:32.280 was different with me again. She invited me to drinks 0:12:32.280 --> 0:12:33.800 with her friends and I was like, you're going to 0:12:33.840 --> 0:12:35.559 kiss my friend? Oh one up? 0:12:35.960 --> 0:12:40.679 Yeah, cooked out with her friends. Yeah, you don't need 0:12:40.720 --> 0:12:43.120 to seek revenge on this. 0:12:43.520 --> 0:12:46.520 Well, her friend put the move on me, and fuck it, 0:12:46.600 --> 0:12:47.920 you know, it was all fair. 0:12:48.600 --> 0:12:50.520 What goes around comes around, baby. 0:12:50.320 --> 0:12:54.160 I'll get you back. I'll get your back tenfold. So 0:12:54.200 --> 0:12:56.200 then we didn't talk for the rest of that trip 0:12:56.240 --> 0:12:59.199 after that, and yeah, I really we still follow each 0:12:59.200 --> 0:13:01.960 other on Instagram. We're still like, we're still message each other. 0:13:01.960 --> 0:13:04.319 I'm going back to the UK with my family. I 0:13:04.360 --> 0:13:06.120 don't know if we'll see her. I see my sister's 0:13:06.160 --> 0:13:08.680 still in touch with cause she was like family. But 0:13:08.720 --> 0:13:11.160 everything was above board. No this records which she was 0:13:11.200 --> 0:13:13.120 my uncle's girlfriend's daughter. 0:13:13.840 --> 0:13:16.920 It's not technically, but we all know each other. 0:13:16.760 --> 0:13:18.640 You know what I mean? Yeah? Yeah, have you had 0:13:18.640 --> 0:13:19.720 a vacation love? 0:13:20.000 --> 0:13:21.600 I have had a holiday romance? 0:13:21.880 --> 0:13:26.040 You have I have? Did it? Stay on holiday? I'll 0:13:26.040 --> 0:13:28.280 tell you sorry. 0:13:29.080 --> 0:13:33.000 Okay. So I was eighteen. I was with my friend 0:13:33.400 --> 0:13:37.800 Danny and we met these two guys and it just 0:13:37.840 --> 0:13:41.520 so happened. She liked the friend. I like this guy. 0:13:41.720 --> 0:13:45.600 He was from Perth. He was like six foot five blonde, 0:13:45.679 --> 0:13:47.800 which wasn't like normally my type. But I was like, 0:13:47.880 --> 0:13:48.560 you how in them all? 0:13:48.640 --> 0:13:51.480 You've got the height there, so you've got the main one, 0:13:52.400 --> 0:13:53.080 the main one. 0:13:53.200 --> 0:13:57.720 We saw them every single night. Feeling started to grow. 0:13:58.040 --> 0:14:01.040 He was telling me how much he liked me. Things 0:14:01.040 --> 0:14:03.880 were like kind of heating up a bit, like I 0:14:04.000 --> 0:14:08.400 was thinking this guy could be my boyfriend. Like it 0:14:08.480 --> 0:14:12.120 was moving like very like fast. We didn't have sex, 0:14:12.200 --> 0:14:16.120 but we were definitely seeing them every single night, and 0:14:16.760 --> 0:14:21.120 we were there for a week. And on the last day, 0:14:21.240 --> 0:14:23.520 on our last day of the trip, we obviously had 0:14:23.520 --> 0:14:26.480 to say goodbye because he lives in Perth, yep. And 0:14:26.560 --> 0:14:29.640 he was like to me, I'm gonna come to Melbourne. 0:14:29.920 --> 0:14:33.640 I could move to Melbourne for you and I at 0:14:33.640 --> 0:14:36.040 the time because I was like head over heels like 0:14:36.280 --> 0:14:39.240 had caught the holiday romance. Bug was like, Yes, moved 0:14:39.240 --> 0:14:49.760 to Melbourne. I literally cried. We parted ways and I 0:14:49.800 --> 0:14:51.840 was like I remember looking at the plane window and 0:14:51.880 --> 0:14:54.480 I was like playing some like depressing like a Dell song, 0:14:54.760 --> 0:14:59.320 being like my one true love lives in Perth and 0:14:59.360 --> 0:15:02.800 I'll never see him again. Will he stay true to 0:15:02.840 --> 0:15:06.920 his word and come to Melbourne. Anyway, we had went 0:15:07.080 --> 0:15:10.160 in like August to Bali on that trip, and then 0:15:10.360 --> 0:15:12.720 it was November and me and him had been talking 0:15:12.760 --> 0:15:15.480 like the whole time in between, and it was the 0:15:15.520 --> 0:15:19.280 Melbourne Cup Carnival and he called me and was like, hey, 0:15:19.400 --> 0:15:23.240 I'm thinking of coming to Melbourne for the Melbourne Cup Carnival. 0:15:23.240 --> 0:15:25.040 And I was like, oh my god, amazing, and he's like, 0:15:25.120 --> 0:15:28.240 we'll finally get to see each other. The only problem 0:15:28.320 --> 0:15:30.800 is that I had started seeing another guy. 0:15:32.680 --> 0:15:35.040 And is that serious with the other guy or were 0:15:35.080 --> 0:15:36.240 you exclusive or were you. 0:15:36.160 --> 0:15:38.760 Just Yeah, it ended up being like my ex boyfriend 0:15:38.800 --> 0:15:40.800 who I was very on and off with for about 0:15:40.840 --> 0:15:41.200 a year. 0:15:41.320 --> 0:15:42.600 Oh okay, but. 0:15:42.560 --> 0:15:44.360 Like obviously I was still talking to this guy at 0:15:44.760 --> 0:15:47.120 on the side and like things were kind of weaning 0:15:47.160 --> 0:15:49.240 off with him, and then he made like the big 0:15:49.960 --> 0:15:54.200 announcement that he was heading over to Melbourne. Anyway, he 0:15:54.320 --> 0:15:56.760 ended up coming over and he asked to see me, 0:15:56.800 --> 0:15:57.960 and I didn't see him. 0:16:00.600 --> 0:16:03.000 How did you not see him? Did you just ghost him? 0:16:03.120 --> 0:16:05.680 Or Well? It was hard because I just started kind 0:16:05.720 --> 0:16:08.880 of like going on dates with my now ex boyfriend, 0:16:09.400 --> 0:16:14.280 but he was about to be like my first serious relationship. 0:16:14.760 --> 0:16:15.560 So you're quite serious. 0:16:15.960 --> 0:16:17.560 I was like a little bit head over heels, but 0:16:17.600 --> 0:16:20.040 I had just been over heels with this other guy. 0:16:20.480 --> 0:16:20.680 Yeah. 0:16:20.840 --> 0:16:22.680 I was kind of like in this tricky spot where 0:16:22.680 --> 0:16:24.360 I was like, fuck, what do I do? You know? 0:16:26.280 --> 0:16:30.120 So yeah, I didn't see him and he went back 0:16:30.160 --> 0:16:32.120 to Perth and I've never seen him since. And it 0:16:32.200 --> 0:16:37.920 was just this one week of holiday romance and sparks 0:16:38.000 --> 0:16:40.560 and fun and it was all over Red Rover. 0:16:40.840 --> 0:16:43.640 So you broke his harsh That's the hard. 0:16:43.400 --> 0:16:46.120 Thing about a holiday romance. Like everyone talks about this 0:16:46.160 --> 0:16:48.600 hot girl summer and like how it's so fun, but 0:16:49.200 --> 0:16:52.560 they failed to mention the heartbreak that we enjoy because 0:16:52.560 --> 0:16:54.960 of it. Because if you meet someone on holiday, a 0:16:54.960 --> 0:16:57.360 lot of the times you don't live in the same place. 0:16:58.120 --> 0:16:59.800 And like it's kind of cool because you're like, fuck, 0:16:59.800 --> 0:17:03.000 I never would have met this person ever if we 0:17:03.000 --> 0:17:05.800 weren't like both in this location right now, and what 0:17:05.840 --> 0:17:08.119 are the chances that we're both here? And like it 0:17:08.119 --> 0:17:11.399 feels like the universe has you know, made this happen 0:17:11.480 --> 0:17:14.520 and our paths have collided. But a lot of the 0:17:14.600 --> 0:17:16.840 time it isn't really meant to be. 0:17:17.600 --> 0:17:20.000 And it's it's hard, sort a hard pill to swallow 0:17:20.080 --> 0:17:23.040 sometimes because if things are different, they could be the one. 0:17:23.119 --> 0:17:25.840 But is it better the old fashioned expression, better to 0:17:25.880 --> 0:17:28.040 have loved and lost than not love at all? 0:17:28.760 --> 0:17:31.800 I reckon, Like it's such a cool, like experience to 0:17:31.840 --> 0:17:34.840 have a holiday romance, and like, I feel like people 0:17:34.840 --> 0:17:40.080 are definitely more open when they're on holiday to meet someone, and. 0:17:40.000 --> 0:17:41.800 Like you're you know, you've let your walls do. 0:17:43.080 --> 0:17:46.080 You're riled it down. Your inhibitions are a little bit lower. 0:17:46.280 --> 0:17:48.800 You don't have work in the morning, you don't have 0:17:48.920 --> 0:17:51.439 like your schedules clear, so like you can kind of 0:17:52.240 --> 0:17:54.399 do anything. Like if someone's like, let's go on a 0:17:54.480 --> 0:17:57.360