1 00:00:05,921 --> 00:00:07,281 Speaker 1: Apogee Production. 2 00:00:10,881 --> 00:00:13,841 Speaker 2: I'm Mickey Fisher, and welcome to the Village Crazy Lady. 3 00:00:14,241 --> 00:00:17,361 Speaker 2: People are talking to me and they are not physically 4 00:00:17,401 --> 00:00:21,160 Speaker 2: in this room, so just strap in for that. Can't 5 00:00:21,161 --> 00:00:23,801 Speaker 2: call me crazy, so I said it first. Whoever's try 6 00:00:23,881 --> 00:00:26,081 Speaker 2: to come through, whatever messages need to come through, like, 7 00:00:26,161 --> 00:00:26,680 Speaker 2: just bring it on. 8 00:00:26,801 --> 00:00:27,961 Speaker 1: Let's do it. 9 00:00:28,161 --> 00:00:35,600 Speaker 2: Crazy Crazy Crazy the Village Crazy Lay Podcast. Hallo, gorgeous Legends, 10 00:00:35,641 --> 00:00:39,881 Speaker 2: and welcome to another episode of the Village Crazy Lady today. 11 00:00:39,921 --> 00:00:42,561 Speaker 1: I'm all by my lonesome. It's just little old me 12 00:00:43,801 --> 00:00:45,160 Speaker 1: by myself. 13 00:00:45,641 --> 00:00:47,841 Speaker 2: This is actually going to be a musical podcast, just 14 00:00:47,921 --> 00:00:50,321 Speaker 2: kind of like in Gray's Anatomy, where there's like, you know, 15 00:00:50,361 --> 00:00:51,721 Speaker 2: a musical episode. 16 00:00:52,040 --> 00:00:53,561 Speaker 1: This is going to be a musical episode. 17 00:00:53,641 --> 00:00:57,200 Speaker 2: It's not actually, I'm kidding, although it is kind of 18 00:00:57,801 --> 00:01:00,401 Speaker 2: has like a musical theme to it, but I'm not 19 00:01:00,441 --> 00:01:03,481 Speaker 2: going to be singing the whole thing. So just don't 20 00:01:03,561 --> 00:01:07,081 Speaker 2: turn don't turn it off just yet. I will be talking. 21 00:01:07,441 --> 00:01:09,640 Speaker 2: It will be spoken, it will be the spoken word. 22 00:01:10,200 --> 00:01:12,001 Speaker 2: There's this something that I've been wanting to do an 23 00:01:12,000 --> 00:01:15,000 Speaker 2: episode on for quite a while and it's just been 24 00:01:15,601 --> 00:01:19,961 Speaker 2: niggling and niggling and niggling and my guides have been 25 00:01:20,000 --> 00:01:22,881 Speaker 2: on my dick about doing this, and eventually they were like, 26 00:01:22,920 --> 00:01:23,640 Speaker 2: come on, we just. 27 00:01:23,601 --> 00:01:25,481 Speaker 1: Have to do this episode. We just need to talk 28 00:01:26,121 --> 00:01:29,280 Speaker 1: about this this theme because. 29 00:01:28,881 --> 00:01:33,281 Speaker 2: For me personally, it is quite a big theme in 30 00:01:33,321 --> 00:01:35,441 Speaker 2: my life and I think probably a lot of people 31 00:01:35,840 --> 00:01:38,360 Speaker 2: will be able to relate to it, and especially women, 32 00:01:38,481 --> 00:01:39,721 Speaker 2: but I guess everybody. 33 00:01:40,360 --> 00:01:41,920 Speaker 1: And so today we are going. 34 00:01:41,801 --> 00:01:47,841 Speaker 2: To be talking about goodness, goodness and the concept of 35 00:01:47,841 --> 00:01:51,241 Speaker 2: goodness and what it means to be good. Now I'm 36 00:01:51,321 --> 00:01:54,841 Speaker 2: going to be kind of using and it's interesting because 37 00:01:54,841 --> 00:01:57,841 Speaker 2: I feel like a lot of people actually haven't been 38 00:01:58,001 --> 00:02:00,721 Speaker 2: talking about this, or I personally haven't seen anyone speak 39 00:02:00,761 --> 00:02:04,281 Speaker 2: to this at all. I am a musical theater girly 40 00:02:04,521 --> 00:02:07,681 Speaker 2: through and through. Yes, I can see the dead, but 41 00:02:07,801 --> 00:02:12,281 Speaker 2: I also can tell you every single Tony Winner of 42 00:02:12,361 --> 00:02:15,721 Speaker 2: all time, and I know every single word to every 43 00:02:15,721 --> 00:02:19,761 Speaker 2: single musical and it is my soul's work just to 44 00:02:19,881 --> 00:02:23,960 Speaker 2: sing it, not do it just for myself. And if 45 00:02:24,001 --> 00:02:26,321 Speaker 2: you follow me on Instagram, you'll know that I'm. 46 00:02:26,240 --> 00:02:27,561 Speaker 1: Especially a wicked girl. 47 00:02:27,641 --> 00:02:32,601 Speaker 2: Like I've seen the stage show eight times. I saw 48 00:02:32,680 --> 00:02:36,081 Speaker 2: the musical twice before it was even properly out, and 49 00:02:36,121 --> 00:02:38,961 Speaker 2: then I saw it. Like the movie I've watched a 50 00:02:38,960 --> 00:02:42,121 Speaker 2: million times since. I do enjoy me a little bit 51 00:02:42,161 --> 00:02:45,121 Speaker 2: of Wicked. I've bought every single bit of merch available, 52 00:02:45,240 --> 00:02:47,361 Speaker 2: like it's a bit, it's a bit munch, but it's not, 53 00:02:47,601 --> 00:02:50,881 Speaker 2: in my eyes, not enough. But one of my favorite 54 00:02:51,081 --> 00:02:54,280 Speaker 2: things about Wicked and what I love it. And stay 55 00:02:54,361 --> 00:02:58,481 Speaker 2: with me here because even if you're like fuck musical theater, nerd, 56 00:02:58,960 --> 00:03:03,041 Speaker 2: one of my favorite themes of Wicked is the concept 57 00:03:03,161 --> 00:03:06,481 Speaker 2: of then what is good? Okay, if you've never seen 58 00:03:06,520 --> 00:03:09,521 Speaker 2: it before, honestly, what are you doing with your life? 59 00:03:09,601 --> 00:03:12,441 Speaker 1: Go and watch it. It's phenomenal. You can go watch 60 00:03:12,481 --> 00:03:13,321 Speaker 1: the movie. 61 00:03:13,041 --> 00:03:16,241 Speaker 2: Now, so you have no excuse. Go get it on Apple. 62 00:03:16,520 --> 00:03:18,041 Speaker 1: Watch it. 63 00:03:18,041 --> 00:03:21,481 Speaker 2: It's the story before and throughout The Wizard of Oz. 64 00:03:21,881 --> 00:03:24,041 Speaker 2: And again, I grew up. The Wizard of Oz was 65 00:03:24,081 --> 00:03:27,481 Speaker 2: my favorite movie of all time. I've always wanted to 66 00:03:27,520 --> 00:03:31,961 Speaker 2: live Beyond the Rainbow and it follows the story of 67 00:03:32,041 --> 00:03:36,721 Speaker 2: the Witches, specifically the Wicked Witch of the West, who 68 00:03:36,801 --> 00:03:40,761 Speaker 2: is Alphaba the Green Witch and Glinda the Good who 69 00:03:40,921 --> 00:03:43,440 Speaker 2: you know we all know. We know those characters very 70 00:03:43,481 --> 00:03:47,801 Speaker 2: well known, and the story basically is, you know the 71 00:03:47,841 --> 00:03:49,921 Speaker 2: fact that they were friends I've also read the book 72 00:03:50,121 --> 00:03:53,001 Speaker 2: and it sort of like delves into that even more 73 00:03:54,081 --> 00:03:59,041 Speaker 2: their friendship, and it really blurs that line of well, 74 00:03:59,081 --> 00:04:01,201 Speaker 2: then who is good because you watch the Wizard of 75 00:04:01,201 --> 00:04:02,841 Speaker 2: Oz and you go, well, that's the bad that's the 76 00:04:02,921 --> 00:04:06,121 Speaker 2: evil witch, and Glinda's the good Witch. And I even 77 00:04:06,161 --> 00:04:08,441 Speaker 2: had a lot of people message me or call me, 78 00:04:08,601 --> 00:04:11,121 Speaker 2: my friends calling me going, I've just watched Wicket for 79 00:04:11,121 --> 00:04:15,121 Speaker 2: the first time and I'm just really confused, and I'm like, Okay, 80 00:04:15,161 --> 00:04:17,721 Speaker 2: sit down. This is my favorite subject. Like I could 81 00:04:17,761 --> 00:04:21,481 Speaker 2: do a thesis on this. And they said, I'm confused 82 00:04:21,521 --> 00:04:25,520 Speaker 2: because I thought Glinda was the good Witch, but she's 83 00:04:25,601 --> 00:04:28,841 Speaker 2: not really that good. And I was like, sit the 84 00:04:28,880 --> 00:04:32,481 Speaker 2: fuck down, because this is my favorite subject to talk about. 85 00:04:32,601 --> 00:04:36,281 Speaker 1: And that is the concept of goodness. 86 00:04:35,841 --> 00:04:40,561 Speaker 2: And what good really is because that movie, we have 87 00:04:40,721 --> 00:04:44,241 Speaker 2: this thing as humans, and especially like if you think 88 00:04:44,281 --> 00:04:46,481 Speaker 2: about the world at the moment and the climate of 89 00:04:46,521 --> 00:04:49,521 Speaker 2: it and everything that's sort of going on, we feel 90 00:04:49,561 --> 00:04:53,640 Speaker 2: like we have to choose a side always. There has 91 00:04:53,681 --> 00:04:56,640 Speaker 2: to be We really struggle with any type of grayness. 92 00:04:56,681 --> 00:04:59,601 Speaker 2: And I've spoken about this before, this whole concept of 93 00:04:59,681 --> 00:05:03,921 Speaker 2: like we really need to try and encourage and push 94 00:05:04,001 --> 00:05:08,320 Speaker 2: ourselves in to starting to feel comfortable in that gray, 95 00:05:08,801 --> 00:05:11,320 Speaker 2: not within the black or the white, or you know, 96 00:05:11,401 --> 00:05:13,241 Speaker 2: the up or the down or the anything else, but 97 00:05:13,320 --> 00:05:17,161 Speaker 2: that really beautiful between space, because that's where humanness is. 98 00:05:17,161 --> 00:05:20,281 Speaker 2: That's where humanness sits. It doesn't sit on one side 99 00:05:20,361 --> 00:05:23,161 Speaker 2: or the other. It's all there in between. But we 100 00:05:23,601 --> 00:05:26,361 Speaker 2: like to be able to have a definitive yes or 101 00:05:26,401 --> 00:05:29,241 Speaker 2: a no Ah, definitive black, or a whier definitive up 102 00:05:29,320 --> 00:05:31,760 Speaker 2: or down, And so we really struggle to sit in 103 00:05:31,801 --> 00:05:34,161 Speaker 2: that gray. We watch a movie and there's a good guy, 104 00:05:34,161 --> 00:05:37,721 Speaker 2: there's a bad guy, you know. And that's why Wicked 105 00:05:37,761 --> 00:05:42,281 Speaker 2: is so beautiful because it pushes those constructs. It pushes 106 00:05:42,361 --> 00:05:45,601 Speaker 2: that that whole concept of their having to be a 107 00:05:45,641 --> 00:05:49,041 Speaker 2: good and a bad and it makes you go, well, 108 00:05:49,121 --> 00:05:51,721 Speaker 2: then I'm so confused, which one's the good one, which 109 00:05:51,761 --> 00:05:53,681 Speaker 2: one's the bad one. I thought that was the good 110 00:05:53,721 --> 00:05:54,960 Speaker 2: Witch and that was the bad witch. 111 00:05:55,440 --> 00:05:57,121 Speaker 1: But is the Wizard the bad guy? 112 00:05:57,440 --> 00:05:59,361 Speaker 2: Or is Glinda kind of a bit of a cunt? 113 00:05:59,601 --> 00:06:03,481 Speaker 1: Or is alphabart like? Who is who? And what is what? 114 00:06:04,320 --> 00:06:06,241 Speaker 2: And that's what I want to talk about today, this 115 00:06:06,361 --> 00:06:09,681 Speaker 2: whole concept of goodness because I know, for me personally, 116 00:06:10,281 --> 00:06:15,840 Speaker 2: I have spent basically my whole life shackled by. 117 00:06:16,761 --> 00:06:17,760 Speaker 1: Needing to be good. 118 00:06:18,041 --> 00:06:20,760 Speaker 2: Okay, because we grow up being told especially you know, 119 00:06:20,801 --> 00:06:22,840 Speaker 2: I grew up in the church, I grew up quite 120 00:06:22,841 --> 00:06:25,880 Speaker 2: conservative and being told what a good girl is and 121 00:06:25,921 --> 00:06:27,361 Speaker 2: you've got to do this, and you've got to do that. 122 00:06:27,481 --> 00:06:29,001 Speaker 1: No, that's a good girl. You're a good girl. You're 123 00:06:29,001 --> 00:06:30,041 Speaker 1: a good girl. You're a good girl. 124 00:06:30,081 --> 00:06:33,001 Speaker 2: And especially as women as well, we're told, you know, 125 00:06:33,041 --> 00:06:35,640 Speaker 2: we have to be polite and ladylike and good, have 126 00:06:35,761 --> 00:06:38,761 Speaker 2: to be good. We can't get away with not being good, 127 00:06:39,440 --> 00:06:41,081 Speaker 2: and so we become. 128 00:06:40,961 --> 00:06:45,200 Speaker 1: Really just yeah, shackled. 129 00:06:45,281 --> 00:06:52,041 Speaker 2: It feels very constricting, and it feels very having to 130 00:06:52,121 --> 00:06:55,881 Speaker 2: behave in a particular way so that people think we're good. 131 00:06:56,320 --> 00:06:59,440 Speaker 2: And so, especially over the last couple of years, this 132 00:06:59,521 --> 00:07:05,681 Speaker 2: has been something that has been a very personal for me, 133 00:07:06,241 --> 00:07:10,241 Speaker 2: trying to understand what it really means to be good, 134 00:07:10,361 --> 00:07:19,161 Speaker 2: because there comes a point where goodness isn't genuine goodness, 135 00:07:19,241 --> 00:07:24,801 Speaker 2: isn't real goodness, Like trying to be good is actually 136 00:07:25,001 --> 00:07:28,561 Speaker 2: just almost a form of deception. It's people pleasing, it's 137 00:07:28,681 --> 00:07:33,481 Speaker 2: trying to appear good as opposed to this whatever being 138 00:07:33,641 --> 00:07:37,001 Speaker 2: good really is, because it's more important to us. And 139 00:07:37,041 --> 00:07:39,401 Speaker 2: this is none of this comes from judgment or shame 140 00:07:39,481 --> 00:07:42,161 Speaker 2: or anything else. Because girl been there or boy been there, 141 00:07:42,281 --> 00:07:46,601 Speaker 2: they then been there and still they're constantly trying to 142 00:07:46,921 --> 00:07:52,681 Speaker 2: break through this this this cycle because it is so 143 00:07:52,841 --> 00:07:55,921 Speaker 2: important to us that people think that we are good. 144 00:07:56,121 --> 00:07:58,521 Speaker 2: It is so important to us that the people around 145 00:07:58,601 --> 00:08:01,401 Speaker 2: us go that that's a good person, because to us 146 00:08:01,441 --> 00:08:02,961 Speaker 2: that means, okay, I am a good. 147 00:08:02,761 --> 00:08:04,481 Speaker 1: Person, and that's very Glinda. 148 00:08:04,561 --> 00:08:07,081 Speaker 2: Right. So this is why I'm using Wicked as an example, 149 00:08:07,121 --> 00:08:08,841 Speaker 2: because I think it just helps put it sort of 150 00:08:08,921 --> 00:08:13,681 Speaker 2: into play. Whereas Alphabarra is more doesn't give a fuck 151 00:08:13,761 --> 00:08:16,201 Speaker 2: about whether or not people think that she is good 152 00:08:16,321 --> 00:08:20,281 Speaker 2: or she's not good. She's just about doing the right 153 00:08:20,321 --> 00:08:23,481 Speaker 2: thing at the right time. She's about helping the minority. 154 00:08:23,561 --> 00:08:26,921 Speaker 2: She's about helping people who need help, as opposed to 155 00:08:27,201 --> 00:08:30,521 Speaker 2: really considering whether or not she comes across as good 156 00:08:30,601 --> 00:08:34,441 Speaker 2: or bad. And so which one is good? Because Glinda 157 00:08:34,441 --> 00:08:39,041 Speaker 2: also does good things, but is her intention to do 158 00:08:40,041 --> 00:08:42,641 Speaker 2: those good things, you know, as she said, out of 159 00:08:42,681 --> 00:08:45,721 Speaker 2: the goodness of my heart, also that people look at 160 00:08:45,721 --> 00:08:48,281 Speaker 2: her and go, that's a good person. And so it's 161 00:08:48,321 --> 00:08:51,761 Speaker 2: interesting to go, well, which one really am I? And 162 00:08:51,961 --> 00:08:55,121 Speaker 2: again not in a judgmental way, not in a shameful way, 163 00:08:55,281 --> 00:08:58,641 Speaker 2: just in a very curious which one am I? Because 164 00:08:58,681 --> 00:09:01,201 Speaker 2: I know for me, I sat there and I went, oh, 165 00:09:01,241 --> 00:09:05,321 Speaker 2: I'm Glinda. I'm one hundred percent Glinda. I'm really really 166 00:09:05,521 --> 00:09:11,681 Speaker 2: terrified of stepping outside of that coat of goodness because 167 00:09:11,721 --> 00:09:13,601 Speaker 2: then what if people don't think that I'm good anymore? 168 00:09:14,361 --> 00:09:17,281 Speaker 2: But that code of goodness is stopping me one from 169 00:09:17,361 --> 00:09:24,121 Speaker 2: my being authentic and two from actually doing anything real, 170 00:09:24,721 --> 00:09:29,281 Speaker 2: because all of it's basically a facade. Like of course, 171 00:09:29,321 --> 00:09:32,001 Speaker 2: there's a genuine part to it, and there's there's heart 172 00:09:32,121 --> 00:09:36,161 Speaker 2: to it, but there's also a lot that is just 173 00:09:36,601 --> 00:09:41,001 Speaker 2: me basically performing the other element of this, of course. 174 00:09:41,601 --> 00:09:44,441 Speaker 2: And I think this is always so so, so so 175 00:09:44,441 --> 00:09:50,481 Speaker 2: so important, and something that I encourage anybody of privilege 176 00:09:50,601 --> 00:09:57,761 Speaker 2: to do is to constantly, constantly, not just once, but 177 00:09:58,001 --> 00:10:05,601 Speaker 2: constantly be questioning your own privilege and really understand that 178 00:10:05,761 --> 00:10:09,121 Speaker 2: construct because it is a construct and it's something that 179 00:10:09,201 --> 00:10:12,921 Speaker 2: you benefit from. And again same with Glinda in the movie. 180 00:10:12,961 --> 00:10:19,441 Speaker 2: She is a white, privileged, you know girl, which in 181 00:10:19,481 --> 00:10:23,801 Speaker 2: a bubble whatever it is, and so she benefits from 182 00:10:24,321 --> 00:10:30,041 Speaker 2: the system that oppresses others, but there's also a part 183 00:10:30,081 --> 00:10:33,001 Speaker 2: of her that is able to and this is where 184 00:10:33,321 --> 00:10:36,081 Speaker 2: like that greatness comes in, where she's able to use 185 00:10:36,161 --> 00:10:40,641 Speaker 2: the system to also do good and to help people. 186 00:10:41,801 --> 00:10:45,481 Speaker 2: But she doesn't get villified for it like Alphabet does. 187 00:10:45,681 --> 00:10:49,881 Speaker 2: Because Alphaba looks like a villain. She's already someone who 188 00:10:49,961 --> 00:10:53,561 Speaker 2: has been villified in the world regardless. And so as 189 00:10:53,561 --> 00:10:56,401 Speaker 2: soon as someone goes that's a bad person, everyone goes well, 190 00:10:56,401 --> 00:11:05,001 Speaker 2: of course, So constantly be questioning and not questioning. Sorry, 191 00:11:05,121 --> 00:11:10,441 Speaker 2: let me say that again. Constantly be challenging your own privilege. 192 00:11:10,961 --> 00:11:15,761 Speaker 2: Constantly be challenging the ease that you have and how 193 00:11:15,841 --> 00:11:19,081 Speaker 2: easy it is for you to be like to come 194 00:11:19,121 --> 00:11:22,041 Speaker 2: across as good a lot of the time simply because 195 00:11:22,081 --> 00:11:24,601 Speaker 2: of your privilege. There are a lot of minorities in 196 00:11:24,641 --> 00:11:27,641 Speaker 2: this world who do not have that privilege. They get 197 00:11:27,721 --> 00:11:31,481 Speaker 2: vilified regardless, before they even open their mouth, they're vilified, 198 00:11:31,521 --> 00:11:34,561 Speaker 2: and so they have to step into that a lot 199 00:11:34,561 --> 00:11:37,201 Speaker 2: of the time, the same that Alphabet did. And this 200 00:11:37,321 --> 00:11:40,761 Speaker 2: brings another element to it. Right, So we've spoken about 201 00:11:40,841 --> 00:11:43,401 Speaker 2: how you know, really what is goodness? 202 00:11:43,801 --> 00:11:45,201 Speaker 1: Like when I was talking. 203 00:11:44,881 --> 00:11:48,281 Speaker 2: To Spirit about this they just kept reiterating, And this 204 00:11:48,321 --> 00:11:50,041 Speaker 2: is what they've been saying to me for such a 205 00:11:50,041 --> 00:11:54,921 Speaker 2: long time, because it's something that has consumed me, because 206 00:11:55,001 --> 00:11:59,561 Speaker 2: my intention is to do good in the world, is 207 00:11:59,601 --> 00:12:02,641 Speaker 2: to be able to help. But sometimes the reality is, 208 00:12:02,721 --> 00:12:05,801 Speaker 2: it doesn't matter how much you're wanting to help people. 209 00:12:06,081 --> 00:12:07,121 Speaker 1: You're gonna fuck up. 210 00:12:07,401 --> 00:12:09,801 Speaker 2: You're gonna do things, you're gonna miss people, you're gonna 211 00:12:09,841 --> 00:12:13,201 Speaker 2: miss groups, you're going to you cannot be everything at once, 212 00:12:13,641 --> 00:12:15,801 Speaker 2: and you're going to I'm a human being and I'm 213 00:12:15,801 --> 00:12:18,401 Speaker 2: going to fuck up sometimes. But then when you have 214 00:12:18,481 --> 00:12:20,881 Speaker 2: those fuck ups and you start sitting there going, well, 215 00:12:21,921 --> 00:12:22,841 Speaker 2: am I even a good person? 216 00:12:22,841 --> 00:12:24,321 Speaker 1: What if I'm not a good person? What if I'm 217 00:12:24,361 --> 00:12:24,961 Speaker 1: a bad person? 218 00:12:25,001 --> 00:12:27,041 Speaker 2: What if I'm not? And then you start going down 219 00:12:27,121 --> 00:12:30,881 Speaker 2: this absolute spiral, And then the thing that comes across 220 00:12:31,001 --> 00:12:33,481 Speaker 2: is more important to you is whether or not people 221 00:12:33,561 --> 00:12:36,401 Speaker 2: think you're good, and not whether or not you're doing 222 00:12:36,441 --> 00:12:41,601 Speaker 2: good work, because there's nothing wrong with fucking up. There 223 00:12:41,681 --> 00:12:44,881 Speaker 2: is nothing wrong with fucking up, and there is so 224 00:12:45,361 --> 00:12:48,601 Speaker 2: much freedom and when you can get to a point 225 00:12:49,001 --> 00:12:52,161 Speaker 2: where it's actually okay to be the villain sometimes and 226 00:12:52,241 --> 00:12:55,281 Speaker 2: I mean this in like your work whether you're doing 227 00:12:55,441 --> 00:12:58,441 Speaker 2: massive work, whether you're doing whatever it is, and like 228 00:12:58,521 --> 00:13:00,721 Speaker 2: how you show up in the world. I'm also talking 229 00:13:00,721 --> 00:13:04,201 Speaker 2: about the relationships in your life as well, because it 230 00:13:04,281 --> 00:13:08,521 Speaker 2: is impossible to please every single person. And I know 231 00:13:08,641 --> 00:13:11,161 Speaker 2: again for me, I was like, everyone needs to think 232 00:13:11,201 --> 00:13:14,561 Speaker 2: that I'm a good person. Every single person I come across, 233 00:13:14,601 --> 00:13:17,001 Speaker 2: I want them to be able to go, Michayla's so nice, 234 00:13:17,041 --> 00:13:20,281 Speaker 2: michaela so lovely, Mikayla does this, Mikayla does that, And 235 00:13:20,321 --> 00:13:24,281 Speaker 2: that's stressful because am I being genuine? Am I being honest? 236 00:13:24,321 --> 00:13:27,521 Speaker 2: If like my obsession is making sure that people are 237 00:13:27,561 --> 00:13:31,201 Speaker 2: like cross like when they're talking to each other, their 238 00:13:31,321 --> 00:13:34,201 Speaker 2: same story is Mikayla's a fucking legend and she's lovely. 239 00:13:34,721 --> 00:13:36,321 Speaker 1: When the reality is is. 240 00:13:36,281 --> 00:13:38,961 Speaker 2: That you're gonna be the bad guy in some people's 241 00:13:39,001 --> 00:13:43,001 Speaker 2: stories sometimes, because otherwise, what boundaries do you have if 242 00:13:43,041 --> 00:13:45,441 Speaker 2: you're not gonna say no sometimes, if you're not going 243 00:13:45,521 --> 00:13:48,121 Speaker 2: to sit there and go, hey, I don't appreciate being 244 00:13:48,121 --> 00:13:49,961 Speaker 2: treated like that, or you don't get to do that 245 00:13:50,041 --> 00:13:54,081 Speaker 2: to me, or unfortunately, you know, I have to make 246 00:13:54,121 --> 00:13:56,521 Speaker 2: this decision, or I have to do this for myself 247 00:13:56,841 --> 00:13:57,801 Speaker 2: or whatever else. 248 00:13:57,801 --> 00:13:58,401 Speaker 1: For my family. 249 00:13:58,441 --> 00:14:01,361 Speaker 2: Whatever it is, you're gonna be the bad guy in 250 00:14:01,441 --> 00:14:03,001 Speaker 2: people's story, and that's okay. 251 00:14:04,001 --> 00:14:05,681 Speaker 1: It's really okay. 252 00:14:07,281 --> 00:14:10,161 Speaker 2: I find a lot of peace in it, especially when 253 00:14:10,201 --> 00:14:14,121 Speaker 2: I am okay with people being, you know, the bad 254 00:14:14,121 --> 00:14:18,321 Speaker 2: guy in my story. And instead of looking at it 255 00:14:18,481 --> 00:14:20,721 Speaker 2: that way and sitting there going fuck that person, they 256 00:14:20,761 --> 00:14:23,321 Speaker 2: ruined my life. They're such camp theyre blah blah blah blah, 257 00:14:23,601 --> 00:14:25,601 Speaker 2: I just look at it as though, well, that's just 258 00:14:25,681 --> 00:14:28,721 Speaker 2: part of life. Part of life is that we have 259 00:14:28,841 --> 00:14:31,361 Speaker 2: people that come in and out of our lives. And 260 00:14:31,721 --> 00:14:34,081 Speaker 2: I'm not perfect. We both learn a lot from each other. 261 00:14:34,161 --> 00:14:36,521 Speaker 2: And there was things that I did and things that 262 00:14:36,561 --> 00:14:39,841 Speaker 2: they did and whatever else. And instead of just looking 263 00:14:39,881 --> 00:14:42,561 Speaker 2: at like them versus you, and there has to be 264 00:14:42,601 --> 00:14:44,121 Speaker 2: a good and a bad. There has to be a 265 00:14:44,201 --> 00:14:46,241 Speaker 2: villain and there has to be a fucking hero. 266 00:14:47,321 --> 00:14:49,281 Speaker 1: What if it's just that's just how it is. 267 00:14:50,321 --> 00:14:54,161 Speaker 2: And we all have the capacity for lack of a 268 00:14:54,201 --> 00:14:57,961 Speaker 2: better term, goodness and badness in all of us. You know, 269 00:14:58,641 --> 00:15:01,881 Speaker 2: obviously there's like a complete other level of it where 270 00:15:01,921 --> 00:15:05,041 Speaker 2: you start going down the line of well, how about 271 00:15:05,081 --> 00:15:12,841 Speaker 2: people who do seriously bad, damaging, hurtful, murderous, horrendous things. 272 00:15:13,601 --> 00:15:16,001 Speaker 2: I'm not talking about that today because we just don't 273 00:15:16,001 --> 00:15:18,561 Speaker 2: have the time of capacity for that. But I'm just 274 00:15:18,641 --> 00:15:22,921 Speaker 2: talking about the general of us who sit there obsessive 275 00:15:24,201 --> 00:15:27,841 Speaker 2: about goodness, about being good, being good in the world, 276 00:15:27,881 --> 00:15:29,841 Speaker 2: putting good in the world, being a good person, and 277 00:15:29,921 --> 00:15:33,081 Speaker 2: everyone has to think that I'm a good person. It's 278 00:15:33,121 --> 00:15:36,041 Speaker 2: okay to be the villain. Sometimes, it's okay to fuck up. 279 00:15:36,041 --> 00:15:38,601 Speaker 2: Sometimes it's okay to not always be good all the time, 280 00:15:38,961 --> 00:15:42,401 Speaker 2: because they're really a freedom comes from that, and the 281 00:15:42,481 --> 00:15:48,401 Speaker 2: freedom is authenticity. The freedom is being able to be 282 00:15:48,561 --> 00:15:53,601 Speaker 2: authentic and be okay with fucking up, be okay with 283 00:15:54,121 --> 00:15:58,241 Speaker 2: being the bad friend and going, you know what, I did, 284 00:15:58,281 --> 00:16:00,721 Speaker 2: fuck that up or you know what, like that wasn't 285 00:16:00,761 --> 00:16:03,281 Speaker 2: serving me either, and that's okay. And if they think 286 00:16:03,321 --> 00:16:06,601 Speaker 2: that I'm a bad person because of it, that's fine, 287 00:16:06,641 --> 00:16:09,921 Speaker 2: because how do I feel. I feel good, I feel free, 288 00:16:10,321 --> 00:16:12,361 Speaker 2: I feel authentic, I feel real. 289 00:16:12,761 --> 00:16:13,401 Speaker 1: I don't feel like. 290 00:16:13,441 --> 00:16:17,041 Speaker 2: I'm having to constantly put something on. I'm not pandering 291 00:16:17,161 --> 00:16:20,001 Speaker 2: simply because I don't want them to think that I'm. 292 00:16:19,801 --> 00:16:21,801 Speaker 1: A bad person. Okay. 293 00:16:22,241 --> 00:16:25,041 Speaker 2: I just think that there's so much of us that 294 00:16:25,081 --> 00:16:29,521 Speaker 2: we miss out on because we're so obsessed with being 295 00:16:29,601 --> 00:16:32,281 Speaker 2: good and coming across as a good person that we 296 00:16:32,361 --> 00:16:35,921 Speaker 2: miss out on all the realness of us the point 297 00:16:36,121 --> 00:16:38,441 Speaker 2: of being here. And this is what they like, what 298 00:16:38,441 --> 00:16:43,361 Speaker 2: they were saying. They're like, the point isn't to be 299 00:16:43,681 --> 00:16:47,641 Speaker 2: in this good or bad because like both of those 300 00:16:47,721 --> 00:16:52,881 Speaker 2: spectrums don't necessarily exist, especially this whole the goodness spectrum. 301 00:16:52,921 --> 00:16:55,041 Speaker 2: If we were to put if we were to create 302 00:16:55,041 --> 00:16:58,641 Speaker 2: a genuine spectrum that went from you know, ultimate goodness 303 00:16:58,721 --> 00:17:04,561 Speaker 2: to ultimate evil, what we think goodness is. And this 304 00:17:04,600 --> 00:17:07,521 Speaker 2: is what's it's saying. They're like, it's not as high 305 00:17:07,600 --> 00:17:10,200 Speaker 2: on the good spectrum as you think it is because 306 00:17:10,241 --> 00:17:11,080 Speaker 2: it's not real. 307 00:17:12,321 --> 00:17:13,120 Speaker 1: It's not real. 308 00:17:13,321 --> 00:17:16,640 Speaker 2: Like a lot of the time good isn't real often 309 00:17:16,640 --> 00:17:19,761 Speaker 2: that's like a lot of the time good is often 310 00:17:19,921 --> 00:17:25,120 Speaker 2: laced in deception and manipulation and there's not really that 311 00:17:25,281 --> 00:17:31,880 Speaker 2: much real about it. What is real intentions, honesty, And 312 00:17:31,921 --> 00:17:35,801 Speaker 2: this is like within ourselves and then obviously outside of 313 00:17:35,840 --> 00:17:40,321 Speaker 2: ourselves as well. And they said, we have to, especially 314 00:17:41,281 --> 00:17:46,160 Speaker 2: in this climate when we're being pulled into feeling like 315 00:17:46,241 --> 00:17:51,680 Speaker 2: we have to choose a villain and a hero in 316 00:17:51,761 --> 00:17:54,920 Speaker 2: all sorts of ways, shapes and forms. There has to 317 00:17:54,961 --> 00:17:56,521 Speaker 2: be a black and white, there has to be a 318 00:17:56,561 --> 00:17:59,241 Speaker 2: blue and a red. There has to be these opposing 319 00:17:59,961 --> 00:18:06,681 Speaker 2: sides always, because what happened when all of those options 320 00:18:06,681 --> 00:18:10,280 Speaker 2: are constantly given to you where it's like even I 321 00:18:10,321 --> 00:18:14,520 Speaker 2: was having a conversation with someone yesterday about gender and 322 00:18:14,561 --> 00:18:17,681 Speaker 2: they were saying, you know, but like biologically there's only 323 00:18:17,801 --> 00:18:21,121 Speaker 2: men and women, and I was like, well, not really, 324 00:18:21,201 --> 00:18:23,761 Speaker 2: because how that intersects people. And they're like, yeah, but 325 00:18:24,360 --> 00:18:26,480 Speaker 2: such in this and that's not all the time and 326 00:18:26,521 --> 00:18:28,841 Speaker 2: that's but I'm like, yeah, but that's still a gray space. 327 00:18:29,321 --> 00:18:33,120 Speaker 2: And also, isn't it interesting that we just feel like 328 00:18:33,201 --> 00:18:35,721 Speaker 2: it's not it's really And I've said this before, and 329 00:18:35,961 --> 00:18:38,561 Speaker 2: like people can have their opinions, they can say what 330 00:18:38,600 --> 00:18:41,200 Speaker 2: they want, but this is what I've channeled and what 331 00:18:41,241 --> 00:18:44,721 Speaker 2: I have seen. And when I speak to galactics, they 332 00:18:44,801 --> 00:18:48,881 Speaker 2: laugh at humans obsession with gender because it really is 333 00:18:49,001 --> 00:18:50,601 Speaker 2: a complete construct. 334 00:18:51,441 --> 00:18:55,161 Speaker 1: But it goes beyond like the fact that people. 335 00:18:54,921 --> 00:18:57,961 Speaker 2: Are spending time and energy fighting over those things when 336 00:18:58,001 --> 00:19:01,401 Speaker 2: it doesn't matter. It doesn't matter to you because it's 337 00:19:01,441 --> 00:19:05,280 Speaker 2: not you like, you know, you're fine, You're okay, if 338 00:19:05,321 --> 00:19:08,440 Speaker 2: you know, that's fine, And then wasting more energy on 339 00:19:08,521 --> 00:19:13,400 Speaker 2: that then going, hey, is everyone okay? Do you feel loved? 340 00:19:13,880 --> 00:19:17,600 Speaker 2: Do you feel looked after? Do you feel safe in yourself? 341 00:19:17,921 --> 00:19:19,840 Speaker 2: There are so many people in this world who are 342 00:19:19,840 --> 00:19:24,920 Speaker 2: so unsafe, crazy that that's not our highest priority above 343 00:19:25,001 --> 00:19:30,080 Speaker 2: anything else. They keep like mentioning They've said it last year, 344 00:19:30,120 --> 00:19:35,361 Speaker 2: and it's still coming up. Like, notice the hypocrisies constantly everywhere. 345 00:19:35,640 --> 00:19:41,200 Speaker 2: Notice the hypocrisies. There's no wrong or right, like this 346 00:19:41,281 --> 00:19:43,481 Speaker 2: obsession with like this is wrong and this is right. 347 00:19:43,681 --> 00:19:49,080 Speaker 2: That's just it's not real. Nobody died and made you 348 00:19:49,241 --> 00:19:54,600 Speaker 2: the decider. We don't get to decide for others. We 349 00:19:54,681 --> 00:19:58,041 Speaker 2: don't get to decide if you think that you have 350 00:19:58,120 --> 00:20:01,001 Speaker 2: something that makes you bigger and better than everybody else. 351 00:20:01,041 --> 00:20:02,521 Speaker 2: I'm telling you right now that you. 352 00:20:02,561 --> 00:20:03,521 Speaker 1: Sure, or shoot, don't. 353 00:20:04,400 --> 00:20:07,960 Speaker 2: We are on this s same fucking playing field. We 354 00:20:08,041 --> 00:20:14,200 Speaker 2: know as little as everybody else. And so instead and like, sure, 355 00:20:14,521 --> 00:20:19,961 Speaker 2: be curious, challenge yourself, challenge others, have conversations. For sure, 356 00:20:20,120 --> 00:20:22,640 Speaker 2: we're here to do that kind of thing, But that 357 00:20:22,880 --> 00:20:26,640 Speaker 2: energy can be going into so much other stuff, things 358 00:20:26,640 --> 00:20:29,921 Speaker 2: that like you know, are gonna help, Like how can 359 00:20:29,961 --> 00:20:32,161 Speaker 2: I help make someone's life better? How can I help 360 00:20:32,160 --> 00:20:35,561 Speaker 2: make someone's day? How can I help somebody be safer 361 00:20:35,801 --> 00:20:42,001 Speaker 2: when they're unsafe? Okay, so they said, stop and ask 362 00:20:42,041 --> 00:20:47,161 Speaker 2: yourself whether you are choosing a side when there isn't one, 363 00:20:47,521 --> 00:20:51,600 Speaker 2: when all the noise is going on, when you feel 364 00:20:51,640 --> 00:20:55,880 Speaker 2: like you have to choose a side, And again, this isn't, 365 00:20:56,041 --> 00:20:59,561 Speaker 2: this isn't. This doesn't mean be complacent, This doesn't mean 366 00:20:59,681 --> 00:21:03,041 Speaker 2: do nothing. This doesn't mean never stand up for people. 367 00:21:03,281 --> 00:21:09,400 Speaker 2: It's very much the opposite. It's absolutely the people who 368 00:21:10,521 --> 00:21:13,160 Speaker 2: lose the most, who have suffered the most, who have 369 00:21:13,481 --> 00:21:16,281 Speaker 2: experienced the most. And like I've said this before and 370 00:21:16,321 --> 00:21:19,920 Speaker 2: I'll say it again, especially indigenous people. We need to 371 00:21:20,080 --> 00:21:28,041 Speaker 2: be listening to indigenous people now more men ever, now 372 00:21:28,080 --> 00:21:31,720 Speaker 2: more than ever. So stop and ask yourself whether you 373 00:21:31,840 --> 00:21:35,521 Speaker 2: are choosing a side when there isn't one, and instead 374 00:21:36,241 --> 00:21:40,321 Speaker 2: just listen. Listen before you feel like you have to 375 00:21:40,400 --> 00:21:44,520 Speaker 2: have an opinion on something that you have decided is 376 00:21:44,880 --> 00:21:47,720 Speaker 2: the right way, when no one died and made you 377 00:21:47,761 --> 00:21:51,880 Speaker 2: the decider. Okay, it's going to be a lot more. 378 00:21:52,921 --> 00:21:55,281 Speaker 2: You're going to feel a lot more peace, and you're 379 00:21:55,281 --> 00:21:59,281 Speaker 2: going to feel a lot more. It creates so much 380 00:21:59,481 --> 00:22:02,761 Speaker 2: like tension and hurt and pain in our chest, in 381 00:22:02,801 --> 00:22:07,400 Speaker 2: our throat, in our body. Is that anger and like 382 00:22:07,481 --> 00:22:11,120 Speaker 2: that anger, like, who is it really directed at? Where 383 00:22:11,160 --> 00:22:14,401 Speaker 2: is it really going? What are you angry about? If 384 00:22:14,400 --> 00:22:17,001 Speaker 2: there's anything that we should be angry about, it's people 385 00:22:17,001 --> 00:22:23,041 Speaker 2: who are like hurting, people who are suffering, people who 386 00:22:23,160 --> 00:22:27,680 Speaker 2: are unsafe, and if you are in a position of privilege, 387 00:22:28,400 --> 00:22:32,481 Speaker 2: help those people. Okay, I've said it a million times, 388 00:22:32,521 --> 00:22:36,400 Speaker 2: Like being spiritual isn't about trying to escape being human. 389 00:22:36,521 --> 00:22:40,241 Speaker 2: It's not being better than. It's not bypassing, it's not 390 00:22:40,281 --> 00:22:42,840 Speaker 2: going new. But we're all just love and light. Because again, 391 00:22:42,921 --> 00:22:45,360 Speaker 2: if we're putting that on the goodness scale, it's not 392 00:22:45,481 --> 00:22:51,041 Speaker 2: very fucking high up loving and lighting your way out 393 00:22:51,120 --> 00:22:58,441 Speaker 2: of being human. It's not goodness, it's not real. It's 394 00:22:58,481 --> 00:23:02,880 Speaker 2: manipulation and it's deception, mostly to yourself more than anybody else. 395 00:23:04,160 --> 00:23:08,080 Speaker 2: So if we can start to just ground into one 396 00:23:08,840 --> 00:23:12,200 Speaker 2: being okay with being the villain, sometimes being okay with 397 00:23:12,321 --> 00:23:13,880 Speaker 2: being unliked. 398 00:23:14,080 --> 00:23:15,520 Speaker 1: Like think about all the people. 399 00:23:15,921 --> 00:23:18,001 Speaker 2: This is, like I know, for me, such a wake 400 00:23:18,080 --> 00:23:22,321 Speaker 2: up call and such a like obviously I've done things 401 00:23:22,360 --> 00:23:25,080 Speaker 2: that people have like not liked and I've had trolls, 402 00:23:25,080 --> 00:23:28,321 Speaker 2: and I've had all of that, and it's an awful feeling. 403 00:23:28,521 --> 00:23:31,280 Speaker 2: It's a horrible feeling. And I spend a lot of 404 00:23:31,360 --> 00:23:35,001 Speaker 2: time avoiding doing anything because I didn't want that feeling. 405 00:23:35,761 --> 00:23:38,801 Speaker 2: So I would play really really really really safe, and 406 00:23:38,921 --> 00:23:42,521 Speaker 2: I would say as little as possible. 407 00:23:42,160 --> 00:23:44,961 Speaker 1: I'd go very bare minimum. I'd just try. 408 00:23:45,001 --> 00:23:47,720 Speaker 2: I didn't want to, like cause new dramas. I just 409 00:23:47,761 --> 00:23:51,160 Speaker 2: didn't want that feeling that's sinking, horrible feeling when people 410 00:23:51,201 --> 00:23:54,201 Speaker 2: start going out to you on the internet about like yeah, 411 00:23:54,241 --> 00:23:56,441 Speaker 2: a bad this and blah blah blah and fuck you 412 00:23:56,521 --> 00:23:58,960 Speaker 2: and you know all of those things that come with, 413 00:23:59,441 --> 00:24:04,321 Speaker 2: you know, being online. But then I thought about and 414 00:24:04,360 --> 00:24:07,481 Speaker 2: this is and like I was telling my husband about 415 00:24:07,481 --> 00:24:09,801 Speaker 2: this yesterday and I was like, now, look, I know 416 00:24:09,840 --> 00:24:12,920 Speaker 2: this sounds outrageous. And I was telling one of my 417 00:24:12,961 --> 00:24:16,160 Speaker 2: best friend who like me, is obsessed with Wicked, and 418 00:24:16,201 --> 00:24:18,400 Speaker 2: I remember there was this moment when it came out 419 00:24:18,640 --> 00:24:21,640 Speaker 2: in the movies, and I said to him, I was like, 420 00:24:22,481 --> 00:24:25,201 Speaker 2: I feel like I'm at a crossroads right now where 421 00:24:25,281 --> 00:24:28,120 Speaker 2: I get to choose whether I be Glinda or whether 422 00:24:28,201 --> 00:24:32,321 Speaker 2: I be Alphaba. I can either take the road where 423 00:24:33,481 --> 00:24:38,521 Speaker 2: I stay likable and I stay palatable, and I stay 424 00:24:38,961 --> 00:24:40,801 Speaker 2: out of the way a little bit, and I don't 425 00:24:40,880 --> 00:24:44,441 Speaker 2: ruffle any feathers and I'm just, you know, float around 426 00:24:44,481 --> 00:24:48,400 Speaker 2: in a pink fucking bubble. Or I choose to be 427 00:24:48,481 --> 00:24:52,880 Speaker 2: Alphaba and I do the scary thing. I get really 428 00:24:52,961 --> 00:24:57,321 Speaker 2: uncomfortable for a moment, I throw myself in the lin sten. 429 00:24:58,241 --> 00:25:01,041 Speaker 2: I'd be okay with the fact that people aren't going 430 00:25:01,080 --> 00:25:04,281 Speaker 2: to like me and people are going to have things 431 00:25:04,281 --> 00:25:08,441 Speaker 2: to say about but I'm able to do a lot 432 00:25:08,481 --> 00:25:12,920 Speaker 2: more and I'm being truthful and I'm being honest to myself, 433 00:25:13,400 --> 00:25:15,201 Speaker 2: and I'm probably going to fuck it up and I'm 434 00:25:15,201 --> 00:25:18,321 Speaker 2: going to do things wrong sometimes, but I'm also just 435 00:25:18,360 --> 00:25:20,640 Speaker 2: gonna have to be okay with that as well. But 436 00:25:20,721 --> 00:25:25,041 Speaker 2: I had to really make that choice, and I know 437 00:25:25,160 --> 00:25:28,041 Speaker 2: that's very musical theater coded and such a musical theater 438 00:25:28,160 --> 00:25:33,561 Speaker 2: coded choice to make, But those archetypes really inspired me 439 00:25:33,721 --> 00:25:36,120 Speaker 2: in that moment and in those crossroads where I could 440 00:25:36,400 --> 00:25:39,201 Speaker 2: really see the two of them, and I could see 441 00:25:39,281 --> 00:25:41,521 Speaker 2: the difference that both of them made. And I know 442 00:25:41,561 --> 00:25:44,240 Speaker 2: when I watched the movie, and I know when I 443 00:25:44,321 --> 00:25:46,681 Speaker 2: and I'm like the first time you see the musical, 444 00:25:47,281 --> 00:25:50,281 Speaker 2: and often people are sitting there going, why didn't Glinda 445 00:25:50,281 --> 00:25:52,600 Speaker 2: get on the broom? Why didn't she go with Alphaba? 446 00:25:53,640 --> 00:25:57,481 Speaker 2: And it's more complex than that, but I didn't want 447 00:25:57,521 --> 00:25:59,041 Speaker 2: to be sitting there going why didn't I get on 448 00:25:59,041 --> 00:26:02,721 Speaker 2: the broom? When especially, there are so many people who 449 00:26:02,761 --> 00:26:05,801 Speaker 2: have no choice but to constantly be in that state. 450 00:26:06,241 --> 00:26:08,160 Speaker 2: They don't get to choose whether or not their glinder 451 00:26:08,241 --> 00:26:11,360 Speaker 2: or their alphaba. They were born alphaba and they deal 452 00:26:11,360 --> 00:26:14,801 Speaker 2: with it every single fucking day, and they shouldn't have to. 453 00:26:15,001 --> 00:26:16,041 Speaker 1: So I get a choice. 454 00:26:16,120 --> 00:26:19,360 Speaker 2: So why would I not put myself in the firing 455 00:26:19,400 --> 00:26:22,521 Speaker 2: line as well, whether or not that's likable, whether or 456 00:26:22,521 --> 00:26:27,161 Speaker 2: not I come across as some good fucking witch, Like 457 00:26:27,241 --> 00:26:30,561 Speaker 2: maybe I am the witch that's you know, green, but 458 00:26:30,600 --> 00:26:35,001 Speaker 2: I would rather be that. And so I want to 459 00:26:35,080 --> 00:26:36,920 Speaker 2: challenge you, guys and. 460 00:26:36,840 --> 00:26:41,761 Speaker 1: Everybody, which witch are you? Which witch? 461 00:26:43,120 --> 00:26:47,160 Speaker 2: Which witch are you? Which archetype are you? Who do 462 00:26:47,201 --> 00:26:50,841 Speaker 2: you want to be? Are you shackled by your goodness? 463 00:26:51,281 --> 00:26:54,561 Speaker 2: Are you feeling like you're having to constantly sort of 464 00:26:54,600 --> 00:26:57,321 Speaker 2: perform for people and say yes to things you don't 465 00:26:57,321 --> 00:26:59,120 Speaker 2: really want to say yes too? When you feel like 466 00:26:59,160 --> 00:27:02,721 Speaker 2: your throat chakra is just dying because there's so much 467 00:27:02,761 --> 00:27:04,321 Speaker 2: that you want to say, and so much you want 468 00:27:04,321 --> 00:27:07,601 Speaker 2: to stand up to your about, and so much realness 469 00:27:07,640 --> 00:27:11,281 Speaker 2: inside of you, but it feels like you're so scared 470 00:27:11,681 --> 00:27:16,440 Speaker 2: of not being liked, You're so scared of not being good. 471 00:27:18,921 --> 00:27:22,720 Speaker 2: It's super freeing. It is super freeing. And we're not 472 00:27:22,801 --> 00:27:25,281 Speaker 2: going to change the word a revolution. You know, we're 473 00:27:25,321 --> 00:27:29,041 Speaker 2: talking about how this year is like a revolutionary year. 474 00:27:29,041 --> 00:27:33,121 Speaker 2: We're moving into such a revolutionary time where we make 475 00:27:33,241 --> 00:27:35,360 Speaker 2: change to the world and we change it for our 476 00:27:35,761 --> 00:27:38,841 Speaker 2: for the generations to come, not just our children, not 477 00:27:38,921 --> 00:27:42,721 Speaker 2: just their children, their children and their children and their children. 478 00:27:43,441 --> 00:27:46,521 Speaker 2: What we do now is what's going to change that. 479 00:27:50,080 --> 00:27:52,801 Speaker 2: How involved do you want to be? Do you want 480 00:27:52,840 --> 00:27:58,680 Speaker 2: to just skate through life? Or because obviously this is 481 00:27:58,840 --> 00:28:02,041 Speaker 2: a very wicked heavy episode dancing through Are you just 482 00:28:02,080 --> 00:28:04,480 Speaker 2: going to dance through life? I mean, personally, I do 483 00:28:04,600 --> 00:28:07,200 Speaker 2: dance through life. But are you just going to skatee 484 00:28:07,241 --> 00:28:11,640 Speaker 2: through not fully ever being honest because you're just too 485 00:28:11,721 --> 00:28:17,160 Speaker 2: afraid of what the consequences might be, Or are you 486 00:28:17,160 --> 00:28:20,920 Speaker 2: gonna go fuck? It doesn't really matter. People aren't gonna 487 00:28:21,041 --> 00:28:22,480 Speaker 2: like you. That's just the reality of it. 488 00:28:22,521 --> 00:28:23,681 Speaker 1: There's heaps of people out there. 489 00:28:23,761 --> 00:28:25,801 Speaker 2: I can guarantee you there are people who don't like 490 00:28:25,880 --> 00:28:28,840 Speaker 2: You can guarantee you that there are people that don't 491 00:28:28,961 --> 00:28:32,400 Speaker 2: like me heaps, and good for them. They get to 492 00:28:32,400 --> 00:28:35,161 Speaker 2: make a choice. I don't have to be liked by everyone, 493 00:28:35,481 --> 00:28:37,880 Speaker 2: and it's so freeing to say that I don't have 494 00:28:37,921 --> 00:28:40,041 Speaker 2: to be liked by everyone. I'm not liked by everyone. 495 00:28:40,201 --> 00:28:43,401 Speaker 2: That's okay. There's eight billion people in the world. There's 496 00:28:43,441 --> 00:28:47,921 Speaker 2: so many other people to choose from. So challenge yourself. 497 00:28:48,481 --> 00:28:54,161 Speaker 2: Challenge yourself to be the alphaba. And if you don't 498 00:28:54,161 --> 00:28:56,240 Speaker 2: know what the fuck I'm talking about, please, for the 499 00:28:56,281 --> 00:28:58,281 Speaker 2: love of God, go watch Wicked and then re listen 500 00:28:58,281 --> 00:28:59,881 Speaker 2: to this and it will probably make a whole lot 501 00:28:59,921 --> 00:29:02,521 Speaker 2: more sense. Even just watch like a synopsis or something. 502 00:29:02,561 --> 00:29:05,240 Speaker 2: Read up on it, get the concept. Okay, But I 503 00:29:05,281 --> 00:29:07,521 Speaker 2: do recommend watching it because it's amazing, and then you 504 00:29:07,561 --> 00:29:09,641 Speaker 2: can message me, we can talk about it, because I 505 00:29:09,641 --> 00:29:12,760 Speaker 2: will always talk about Wicked anyway. Thank you so much, guys. 506 00:29:13,481 --> 00:29:15,681 Speaker 2: I know that was a bit of a different episode, 507 00:29:16,361 --> 00:29:21,921 Speaker 2: but as I said, fuck being lied. I'm just letting 508 00:29:21,961 --> 00:29:25,401 Speaker 2: that throat chakra throat chakra. She's coming out and we 509 00:29:25,521 --> 00:29:28,801 Speaker 2: emerging all parts of myself. Thank you for listening to 510 00:29:28,801 --> 00:29:31,641 Speaker 2: the Village Crazy Lady. If you love it, make sure 511 00:29:31,681 --> 00:29:33,121 Speaker 2: that you rate review. 512 00:29:33,481 --> 00:29:34,280 Speaker 1: What do you got to do? 513 00:29:34,401 --> 00:29:39,361 Speaker 2: Rate review, subscribe, Share it around, Share it to your friend, 514 00:29:39,441 --> 00:29:41,641 Speaker 2: share it to your family, share it with your lizard 515 00:29:41,641 --> 00:29:44,721 Speaker 2: and your cat and your dog and whoever else. And 516 00:29:45,041 --> 00:29:47,041 Speaker 2: I will see you guys next time. Hi.