Speaker 1: I want the fairy tale. I want the Prince Charming.
Speaker 2: How do I put this? Isn't a fan of my kissing.
Speaker 3: Style boyfriend and girlfriend for about twelve hours. He's in
Speaker 3: a trash bit. He's non recyclable catching the.
Speaker 2: Muf I love being love, I love loves on the balcony.
Speaker 2: That's what made it. You reckon having sex on the balcony.
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Speaker 2: I'm on my third coffee today. Yeah, my mac is
Speaker 2: app had a deal for me. It was two mediums
Speaker 2: for four dollars. Couldn't go past it. I was like,
Speaker 2: that's cheaper than a large and you get more coffee.
Speaker 3: So it's not worth being a maccas member because every
Speaker 3: time I'm on the phone to Matt, he's like, one second, Hi,
Speaker 3: my Maca's code is da da Da Da da, And
Speaker 3: I'm like, why are you a MacDonald's member?
Speaker 2: Well, I get so I get drive through coffees all
Speaker 2: the time. People go oh, Macca's coffee.
Speaker 3: I love macs coy.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I rate them as well. They're not they're not bad.
Speaker 2: You know what you're getting. You know what you're getting.
Speaker 2: So I hate going to my random cafe and getting
Speaker 2: a shit coffee.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and it's a ruler.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I hate that. I know, going to maccas you're getting.
Speaker 1: Six out of ten and above.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yes, exactly, above average, above average, budge, above average coffee.
Speaker 1: We love.
Speaker 2: So I go to Macca's. Yeah, tell them my Mac's code.
Speaker 2: The only thing annoying is it only goes up to
Speaker 2: thirty thousand points and then you don't gain anymore really,
Speaker 2: so you have to ye, so you've.
Speaker 1: Hit you've hit the pinnacle of McDonald's point.
Speaker 2: So I go across the line of like thirty thousands.
Speaker 2: If I get to thirty thousand, and I'll have two
Speaker 2: free ones, and then I'll get a couple more than
Speaker 2: I'll come back to.
Speaker 3: That's when you know you're really drinking too much coffee.
Speaker 3: Like you need to reevaluate that is that like some
Speaker 3: you know, self development, you.
Speaker 2: Need to spoken about my coffee and takes so much
Speaker 2: on this podcast, and I think that we all agree
Speaker 2: I am not going to stop drinking it for nobody
Speaker 2: or nothing.
Speaker 3: Would you ever like, is there something that I could do?
Speaker 3: Is there a challenge I could set you? I'm going
Speaker 3: to give you, like a thousand.
Speaker 2: Dollars, no amount of money.
Speaker 3: I mean, you're sending a lot of money on flights
Speaker 3: give his eyes just perk.
Speaker 2: A thousand bucks? All right? For how long?
Speaker 3: Well, I'm not going to give you a thousand I'm
Speaker 3: just checking, like what it's going to take to break this.
Speaker 3: I mean, like I always say, it doesn't take a
Speaker 3: lot on a thousand dollars.
Speaker 2: I've done a lot more for a lot less. So
Speaker 2: a thousand bucks. Alright?
Speaker 1: How's your week?
Speaker 2: Good? Good? What's being going on this week? Oh? I
Speaker 2: want to see Dune Part two?
Speaker 3: Maybe?
Speaker 2: Yeah, you've seen the first one? No, no, don't worry.
Speaker 2: Then you know I'm going up.
Speaker 3: Is it worth seeing it if you've seen the first one?
Speaker 2: Because it takes off exactly from the end of the
Speaker 2: first one.
Speaker 1: Is it like action? It sounds action?
Speaker 3: This one's more on sand June's Yes, so is it
Speaker 3: June or Dune?
Speaker 2: It's Dune?
Speaker 3: Oh okay, yeah, so I was making some sort of
Speaker 3: like correction.
Speaker 2: No, no, Well, it's just to put it in perspective,
Speaker 2: it's a three hour runtime, right, So I went to
Speaker 2: the premiere to watch it on Tuesday. This proves how
Speaker 2: much I love my fiance. She's brought us tickets tonight
Speaker 2: to Gold Class to watch it, and I'm going to
Speaker 2: sit through three hours again just for her because she
Speaker 2: has nobody to watch it with.
Speaker 3: That's cheer. That sounds a little torturous for you, but
Speaker 3: it's very cute from a relationship perspective.
Speaker 2: I know, I know, Like it's not a movie you
Speaker 2: go see twice in one week. Let's put it that way.
Speaker 2: It's real action long.
Speaker 3: You're watching six hours of Dune or June or whatever
Speaker 3: the fuck is.
Speaker 2: In one week. So I'm yeah, I'm that's how much
Speaker 2: I love her. I'm to go watch it with her again.
Speaker 1: You're having a great week, Just do Yeah.
Speaker 2: Timmy Timothy Charomagne is it. He's good.
Speaker 3: I've never watched one movie with Timothy Challomne.
Speaker 2: Not Wonka, No like him.
Speaker 3: Dating Kylie Jenner was like my opening woman. No, like
Speaker 3: literally nothing. I will go watch Wonka, though, because I
Speaker 3: just kind of want to see what Kylie's boyfriend's getting
Speaker 3: up to.
Speaker 2: Well, this is the first movie. I think he is
Speaker 2: like a man. He plays a man's role.
Speaker 3: Like a manly man. Yeah.
Speaker 2: He becomes a man in this.
Speaker 1: One because he's not really Wonka in the Chocolate Back.
Speaker 2: Yeah. And then the other one he's a bit like
Speaker 2: like a kid like Yeah. And this one is like
Speaker 2: a man, strong male lead in it. It's good. It's
Speaker 2: a good movie. Austin Butler loved him. He's the bad
Speaker 2: I don't sorry, I have no spoilers. Hit he's really
Speaker 2: good in Austin Butler.
Speaker 3: Well, in case you're wondering about how my week was,
Speaker 3: was absolutely.
Speaker 2: Phenomenal, Yeah, tell me all.
Speaker 1: I went on a cruise. Yes, how was the cruise
Speaker 1: you were supposed to come on?
Speaker 2: I was, but unfortunately Tammy and I couldn't get a babysitter. Yeah,
Speaker 2: so forfeited that really really upset. Did get there, but
Speaker 2: it looked amazing. It was amazing, wasn't it.
Speaker 3: It was incredible, Like, guys, if there was ever a
Speaker 3: cruise to go on, this is the one. It was
Speaker 3: so fun. The food was incredible, like I literally was.
Speaker 3: I think we got on the boat on a Thursday,
Speaker 3: literally hopped on and I felt like I had arrived
Speaker 3: in a Beefer or mikin Off like. There was entertainment.
Speaker 3: There was a pool party, the best, best, best music ever.
Speaker 3: Like literally the whole time I was on this boat,
Speaker 3: I was shazaming for my wedding. I was like, and
Speaker 3: that's going on the wedding playlist, and that's going on
Speaker 3: the wedding playlist. It was like, honestly incredible. The entertainment
Speaker 3: was incredible. I couldn't talk more highly of it. And honestly,
Speaker 3: I never thought I could be more in love with Michael,
Speaker 3: but he actually turned to me at the end of
Speaker 3: the trip and was like, I think I'm more in
Speaker 3: love with you, and I didn't think I could be.
Speaker 1: And I was like, say, what the fuck?
Speaker 3: Like I thought, like pinnacle love and then going on
Speaker 3: that cruise and spending five straight days with each other
Speaker 3: and just eating and drinking, and.
Speaker 2: What do you think made it?
Speaker 1: On the balcony?
Speaker 2: Was that's what made it? You reckon having sex on
Speaker 2: the balcony overlooking the Was it the Pacific Ocean?
Speaker 3: What is that?
Speaker 2: So what you had sex on the balcony isn't Aren't
Speaker 2: they very close to each other?
Speaker 3: Yeah, let's just so it was a great cruise. That's
Speaker 3: what I'm gonna say. It was a great cruise. So
Speaker 3: and I do wish that you and Tammy could have come,
Speaker 3: but obviously I understand that it was unfortunately too difficult.
Speaker 2: So if I had come by myself, I would have
Speaker 2: third wheeled it with you guys, and then at the
Speaker 2: end Michael would have turned to you and me being like,
Speaker 2: I've fallen more in love with both of you. So
Speaker 2: probably a good thing I didn't come then by myself.
Speaker 3: I mean, I feel like at the start of our relationship,
Speaker 3: you guys really had like a big, a strong romance
Speaker 3: going on because you guys saw each other all the time.
Speaker 1: You don't see Michael as often now.
Speaker 3: Could have you know, really reignited that.
Speaker 2: Romance him turning to each other and on.
Speaker 3: The I'll be like, fuck you guys, so.
Speaker 2: You recommend it, They've canceled it. There's no more. I
Speaker 2: guess I'll never know how it was.
Speaker 3: Well, that's the thing is, I was posting about it
Speaker 3: and literally everyone was like, you've convinced me to go,
Speaker 3: and now they've just canceled it next year in Australia,
Speaker 3: Which why.
Speaker 2: Is that putting at the numbers you don't know.
Speaker 3: I think it was something political with like the waters
Speaker 3: or something. So yeah, they've decided not to, but it
Speaker 3: is still open for this season, so I mean, if
Speaker 3: anyone's looking for a last minute trip with good food,
Speaker 3: good entertainment and CVS for days, Employeder is still available.
Speaker 2: Did you get seasick?
Speaker 1: You know what. I didn't get seasick.
Speaker 3: I did take a tablet before jumping on the cruise
Speaker 3: at the start, but then after that I just left it.
Speaker 3: But since coming back onto stable Land, I feel like
Speaker 3: I have this sway going on and when I sit down,
Speaker 3: I'm like swaying. I don't know if it's like some
Speaker 3: sort of vertigo from going on a boat for so long,
Speaker 3: but it's a real thing. And I looked it up
Speaker 3: and apparently like you can after going on a cruise
Speaker 3: ship get like a little bit of sea legs. Yeah,
Speaker 3: sea legs. I've never had sea legs before. It's not ideal.
Speaker 2: Still doing it now, you're still swaying.
Speaker 1: I'm feeling a little bit of the sway still.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Sure that's not the tequila shots she did before you
Speaker 2: walked in.
Speaker 3: I definitely didn't do talhos.
Speaker 2: Definitely the sea leg speaking of sea legs and boats.
Speaker 2: My turn on with the Week was there was a
Speaker 2: couple of weeks ago now, but the shark.
Speaker 1: Diving, Oh yeah, that looks incredible.
Speaker 2: So my whole relationship with Tammy, I've been saying that
Speaker 2: I want to go cage diving with sharks, like I
Speaker 2: just have always wanted to do that. It's always been
Speaker 2: a go like a bucket list thing for me, something
Speaker 2: I want to do. So for Christmas, she brought me
Speaker 2: and her cage diving with the sharks. Recommend it if
Speaker 2: you're not scared of sharks, but even if you're s
Speaker 2: out of sharks, like, look in the cage, I did
Speaker 2: not feel scared, Like I'm talking a shark, great white
Speaker 2: shark for me as long as literally like hands reached
Speaker 2: away from me and I didn't feel scared. Did not
Speaker 2: feel scared. How like, how okay, so when we first
Speaker 2: got there.
Speaker 3: And also something just before you continue, something so twisted
Speaker 3: about you. Okay, number one, it's crazy that you found
Speaker 3: your perfect match in someone who actually wants to go
Speaker 3: into a cage with you to see sharks.
Speaker 1: I think that's wild in itself.
Speaker 3: Because I wouldn't even get on a boat where I
Speaker 3: knew that there was going to be sharks around, and
Speaker 3: that's how petrified I am. And then secondly I've lost secondly,
Speaker 3: but anyway, that's like the main point.
Speaker 2: Well, yeah, so we saw. What happened was we went
Speaker 2: in the first group. We went in for half an
Speaker 2: hour maybe to forty minutes in there no shark. I
Speaker 2: think when they banged on the cage to get us out,
Speaker 2: it attracted the sharks to the boat. So we got
Speaker 2: out and then like, hey guys, look, you didn't see
Speaker 2: any sharks. There's five other groups that need to go.
Speaker 2: You can have a go at the end. Oh so
Speaker 2: you got to go. Yeah, we'll put you back in
Speaker 2: at the end. And then I'm like, well, where are
Speaker 2: the sharks, Like they'll come, they'll come. And as I
Speaker 2: was taking off my wet suit and my mask and that,
Speaker 2: I looked at everyone's like there it is. There it is.
Speaker 2: And we looked out the side of the boat and
Speaker 2: that was when I was scared. So like you're looking
Speaker 2: over the side of the boat and it's like four
Speaker 2: and a half meters long, probably wider than this table.
Speaker 2: Just literally swam up to the boat and sort of
Speaker 2: like you know, like touched it and then like swims
Speaker 2: alongside it, and I was like that is that was creepy.
Speaker 3: I have like literally goosebumps all over my body out
Speaker 3: of fear. That was that situation, and I'm in a
Speaker 3: safe studio right now.
Speaker 2: That was the one time I was like, whoa, it's real.
Speaker 2: And then you go in the cage. They swam up
Speaker 2: to the cage. One banged into the cage so eating
Speaker 2: like the bait, and that I was like, this is cool.
Speaker 3: Like after seeing it and being terrified seeing it from
Speaker 3: the boat into the water, you then, out of free will,
Speaker 3: chosen to get into a cage in the water where
Speaker 3: without breathing utensils you can't breathe underwater and you're swimming
Speaker 3: with these like ginormous scary man eating creatures.
Speaker 2: Amazing. Hey, and you put it that way, how good
Speaker 2: does it end?
Speaker 1: I remembered point two as well. Point two.
Speaker 3: Is it you're so sick that you watched a shark
Speaker 3: movie like One Way they eat people before you went
Speaker 3: and done it as well, which freaked me out. I
Speaker 3: was like, how on earth can they watch a movie
Speaker 3: that's shallow scare people about sharks? And then god and
Speaker 3: swim with sharks.
Speaker 2: I love it. I love sharks. I think they're fascinating.
Speaker 2: I knew that you're safe in that cruise, Like, no, sorry,
Speaker 2: you're safe.
Speaker 1: That's going on a shark cruise.
Speaker 2: Now. I know you're safe in that cage, that the
Speaker 2: shark's not going to be able to get to you.
Speaker 2: But I did have at one point when we're waiting
Speaker 2: for one the gap which is pretty big, Like it's
Speaker 2: a pretty big gap when.
Speaker 1: They can get in. I've seen them get in in video.
Speaker 2: It wouldn't be the ones that were there, wouldn't be
Speaker 2: the big, gurfy four meter ones. But like I had
Speaker 2: my elbow, I had my elbow resting on it, and
Speaker 2: you know when you think like scenarios playing your head, no,
Speaker 2: I imagine one just sneaks off and just takes like
Speaker 2: a chunk out of my arm.
Speaker 3: And I was like, oh, like takes your whole elbow off. Yeah,
Speaker 3: Like that's terrifying to me.
Speaker 1: Nothing more terrifying than sharks.
Speaker 2: Crocodiles.
Speaker 1: Would you go into one of those cages of crocodile one?
Speaker 2: I want to do that so vicious. I love it.
Speaker 2: I've done crocodile safaris up in the early Beach up there.
Speaker 1: Crocodile Safari.
Speaker 2: You literally go across a river and there's all crocodiles
Speaker 2: like huge.
Speaker 3: Well, and you're in like a teeny tiny boat pretty
Speaker 3: much like a big crocodile could probably tip that boat.
Speaker 2: And you're like, they show you all the crocs, and
Speaker 2: the crocs like slide literally watched a croc come off
Speaker 2: the oft the bank of the thing and come get
Speaker 2: you to come into the water, and it's literally they
Speaker 2: are the apex predator. It comes into the water and
Speaker 2: not a ripple. The water does not ripple and it
Speaker 2: just goes underwater.
Speaker 1: What scares you more? Crocodiles or sharks?
Speaker 2: Crocs?
Speaker 3: Really? So you've gone with a less serious one and
Speaker 3: then you're going to do the crocodile after Yeah, crocasing
Speaker 3: yourself in their Dinosaursy've adapted for thousands of years the
Speaker 3: apex and then sharks have been around.
Speaker 2: For years as well.
Speaker 3: Guys, I want to go to our Facebook group right now,
Speaker 3: would you ever swim with sharks or crocodiles or just none?
Speaker 3: I'm going to do a poll on there. I want
Speaker 3: to hear from you guys. I'm definitely going to be
Speaker 3: in the none category, Like for me to have to
Speaker 3: do that, I'm getting deeply coerce. I'm on like a
Speaker 3: TV show where I'm forced into it where I'm gonna
Speaker 3: let everyone down, like there's out of free will.
Speaker 1: Would I pay.
Speaker 3: Money, my own money to do that? Absolutely?
Speaker 2: Yeah. No, It's an amazing experience and if you're not
Speaker 2: scared of them, I recommend it. It's amazing. And I
Speaker 2: what is your turn off this week?
Speaker 3: Okay, so my off of the week, I have two.
Speaker 3: Number one is that we've come to the end of summer.
Speaker 3: Like we're not in summer anymore. If you're listening from Australia,
Speaker 3: really sad. I feel like some are just there one
Speaker 3: minute here and one minute gone.
Speaker 1: We've had a shit summer. I would say. It's just
Speaker 1: been very inconsistent.
Speaker 3: It's either been extremely hot or freezing and raining. I
Speaker 3: just I've not been about it. But I can't complain
Speaker 3: because I'm going to Greece in May for my wedding.
Speaker 2: So well as also, it was a leap day yet
Speaker 2: we had that extra day nor Yeah, do you make
Speaker 2: anything of that day?
Speaker 3: No?
Speaker 1: But I did see No is it meant to be lucky?
Speaker 2: I'm not sure.
Speaker 1: So this is so random.
Speaker 3: But a lot of people who I follow who have
Speaker 3: kids have this same obstatrician. So I've started following him
Speaker 3: and he posted something yesterday being a leapier, being like
Speaker 3: I delivered three leapings, and I was like, what the
Speaker 3: fuck is a leaping? So apparently if you're born on
Speaker 3: a leap yere you're called a leaping.
Speaker 2: That's pretty cool. It's so random. How often do you
Speaker 2: how many people in the world would be a leaping?
Speaker 1: I mean not many, it's rare.
Speaker 2: If you're born on a leaping, you're taking If you're
Speaker 2: born on a leap year leap year day, yeah, the
Speaker 2: twenty ninth of February. Yeah, you're lucky. I reckon, You're
Speaker 2: going to have a good life.
Speaker 3: That's all because you don't age because you only have
Speaker 3: a birth every is it every second year, four four year.
Speaker 2: Four years, every fourth year? Yeah? I wouldn't say that,
Speaker 2: but I'd say that is like, what's that you got?
Speaker 3: Like, so, when do you celebrate your birthday? That's the
Speaker 3: key question. If you're born on the twenty ninth of February,
Speaker 3: when are you celebrating your birthday?
Speaker 2: I would assume the first of March or the twenty
Speaker 2: eighth of February or just over that.
Speaker 1: You would have to be the first of March, wouldn't it.
Speaker 2: I'd go the twenty eighth, wouldn't you, Well, but.
Speaker 3: The twenty eighth isn't your birthday, so the day after
Speaker 3: the twenty eighth is the first of March.
Speaker 1: I feel like you'd have to celebrate on the first
Speaker 1: of March.
Speaker 2: That's a fair point. I agree.
Speaker 1: I just changed my birthday to the first of March.
Speaker 3: I'd be like, forget there.
Speaker 2: I think that's what they would I reckon that's what
Speaker 2: they would do, or they just they just sit there
Speaker 2: and just celebrate every four years and be like I'm
Speaker 2: not aging.
Speaker 3: Yeah. Well, my second each of the week is that
Speaker 3: everyone at the moment is talking about Fred Again. Yes,
Speaker 3: like I did not know who Fred Again was and
Speaker 3: now no, but everyone on my social media is talking
Speaker 3: about I need to get tickets to Fred Again. Oh
Speaker 3: my god. I was in the cue at Fred Again
Speaker 3: and I couldn't get tickets and I was like, I'm like,
Speaker 3: who is Fred Again?
Speaker 2: You would know his songs if you played him. They're
Speaker 2: the songs that you put on at four am when
Speaker 2: you're all sitting around solving world problems at a house party.
Speaker 2: I haven't been starting business.
Speaker 3: I haven't been at a four am bender in a
Speaker 3: very long time.
Speaker 1: So this is probably why I don't know Fred Again.
Speaker 3: But I feel like I'm almost missing out in some
Speaker 3: pop culture phenomenon. Like I feel like I was very
Speaker 3: much a part of the Taylor Swift, you know moment
Speaker 3: in history where she came and everyone had friendship bracelets
Speaker 3: and everyone got dressed up for the Ears tour. I
Speaker 3: was a part of that. But I'm not a part
Speaker 3: of the Fred Again movement.
Speaker 2: Do you know this song Matts dancing.
Speaker 1: Matt's doing like a shoulder up.
Speaker 3: His right shoulder is like boinking up.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so that's what they're classic songs. Like I said,
Speaker 2: you play in the you play on the bender, get
Speaker 2: around it.
Speaker 3: Okay. So for me, I guess Fred Again is someone
Speaker 3: who I know the songs, but I just haven't put
Speaker 3: the artist with the song. I'm just I'm feeling a
Speaker 3: little bit left out. I'm gonna have to go and
Speaker 3: like add him to my music playlist and just you know, so.
Speaker 2: You're not going to his he's got three nights in Melbourne.
Speaker 1: No, I'm not you.
Speaker 2: Timmy got me tickets to the Gold Coast one. So
Speaker 2: you're going, yeah, but I've got I wasn't planning on
Speaker 2: going up that weekend. You're going to have to now
Speaker 2: to fred again. Can't turn them down?
Speaker 1: Do you have an ech of the week?
Speaker 2: Matthew, Well, literally on that segue into it long distance,
Speaker 2: it's just.
Speaker 1: Like it's definitely relationship.
Speaker 2: Yeah, they suck, like getting you down. Yeh's getting you down. Like,
Speaker 2: obviously work here, so I got to come back during
Speaker 2: the week and then I fly up literally Thursday night
Speaker 2: or Friday, Like I'm literally leaving this studio straight to
Speaker 2: the airport for the weekend. I have nothing wrong with flying.
Speaker 2: Like everyone's like, oh, like, how do you do all
Speaker 2: the flying? I was saying before to the people in
Speaker 2: the office here, I was saying, like I was told
Speaker 2: them about the weekend to Adelaide. I literally flew in
Speaker 2: Friday night, got home to Tammy at twelve, We woke
Speaker 2: up at three am, drove to Brisbane, flew from Brisbane
Speaker 2: at six am to Adelaide. Adelaide to Port Lincoln then
Speaker 2: like we're there for literally like less than forty eight
Speaker 2: hours and went in one day Port Lincoln Adelaide, Brisbane
Speaker 2: and Melbourne. In Melbourne for a day for Super Bowl
Speaker 2: with my mates, then flew from there to back to
Speaker 2: the Gold Coaster flag. It's nuts.
Speaker 1: It's a commitments, a big commitment.
Speaker 2: It's nuts. It's like heaps are flying. I don't mind
Speaker 2: the flying now. I just I've been watching all the Marvels,
Speaker 2: so I just put them on and then fall asleep.
Speaker 3: You know something that I've recently discovered this is going
Speaker 3: to make me literally sound like ancient history, like Gradma.
Speaker 3: But you can actually, like if you have a streaming service,
Speaker 3: you can download shows, yeah, and then watch them on
Speaker 3: the aeroplane. Like this is brand new to me. I'm like,
Speaker 3: this is life changing. It's actually the fact that I'm
Speaker 3: about to do like a huge grease trip. Like I
Speaker 3: could literally watch seasons.
Speaker 2: Yeah that's what I do. So I download the marvel
Speaker 2: ones and I watch them on the plane. But yeah,
Speaker 2: I look, I would move a mountain to see Tammy.
Speaker 2: So flying two hours is in like nothing. People are like, oh,
Speaker 2: is it strenuous, and I'm like, no, it's not. It's like
Speaker 2: it's I would do that to do it. I just
Speaker 2: can't wait till I find a job up there and
Speaker 2: I'm living up there full time.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's so fun as well, Like it is fun,
Speaker 3: although it is like very tiring and very stressful and
Speaker 3: probably not great on the bank account, it's a lot
Speaker 3: of fun and like it's this exciting, fun honeymoon phase
Speaker 3: that you guys are in where you're flying back and forth,
Speaker 3: like you're always going to have such good memories of
Speaker 3: these moments.
Speaker 2: Yeah, my best make Dale travels heaps to work. He
Speaker 2: works into State, and we're just laughing how we're like
Speaker 2: seasoned travelers, you know, like you know, someone takes too
Speaker 2: long in security or like doesn't do the right thing
Speaker 2: carry out, like jeez, like hurry up, like you're seriously well.
Speaker 3: We were having a chat the other day and we
Speaker 3: were just saying, like flying is okay, but it's the
Speaker 3: delays it really kill you. Like if you literally arrived
Speaker 3: at the airport, went straight to the gate, straight on
Speaker 3: the flight, when you arrive off, immediately get your bags
Speaker 3: and immediately you know, go home, and.
Speaker 1: It's a really quick process.
Speaker 3: Flying's great, but it's all of the delays, you know,
Speaker 3: the cancelations, that's the things where the unpredictability of flying
Speaker 3: just completely assumes your life.
Speaker 2: All that time that I was going to fly back
Speaker 2: up to the Gold Coast of Valentine's Day, I was
Speaker 2: I caught. I can't remember what time my flight was,
Speaker 2: but I got it, and then they canceled it because
Speaker 2: I was out like that flash storm in Melbourne. Literally
Speaker 2: as I was at the car park and I was
Speaker 2: like the wind and like hails hitting me, and I
Speaker 2: was like, fuck, no plannings are going to be taking off,
Speaker 2: So they canceled my flight. I sat at the air
Speaker 2: for six hours in the lounge.
Speaker 3: Luckier a lounge, remember though, Luckier a lounge I am.
Speaker 2: I'm like two hundred and something points off platinum with
Speaker 2: Virgin and Platinum.
Speaker 3: Remember, you really are like the Virgin King at this point,
Speaker 3: someone give him.
Speaker 2: A sponsors look after me. Here, I'm plugging. That's two
Speaker 2: plugs in one episode.
Speaker 1: Okay, Matt. So we went to Taylor Swift in the
Speaker 1: album recently.
Speaker 3: It's a big phenomenon. Everyone's been talking about it. But
Speaker 3: something that I've noticed recently when I was doing a
Speaker 3: little bit of research around Taylor Swift is that she
Speaker 3: actually gets so much hate. Now She's gone from like
Speaker 3: being the most loved person ever to hated to loved,
Speaker 3: And it's kind of like this evolutionary rollercoaster with Taylor Swift.
Speaker 3: But something that she gets so much hateful is how
Speaker 3: many partners she's had, which I think is so crazy.
Speaker 2: Why do people care about that?
Speaker 3: Well, I mean, I think people have this expectation that
Speaker 3: you should only have like one or two, you know,
Speaker 3: serious relationships. Tammy, she's had how many, like three public relationships?
Speaker 1: Was getting so much hate when you guys got together.
Speaker 2: Yeah, people are just like, I hate that sort of mentality.
Speaker 3: But then people literally have like ten different boyfriends and
Speaker 3: they're totally okay with themselves doing it, but anyone in
Speaker 3: the public eye, they're not allowed to have many boyfriends.
Speaker 2: And then some of the people that were the opposite,
Speaker 2: they've only had like one partner their whole life since
Speaker 2: high school, and they're probably sitting there like and no
Speaker 2: offense if this is you, But if you're commenting these photos,
Speaker 2: they're probably not really unhappy because there's this one person,
Speaker 2: but they have no confidence on no backbone to leave
Speaker 2: even though they're not happy with them.
Speaker 3: Well, I mean, we always say, if you're hating online,
Speaker 3: you're probably it's literally you basically pointing a huge finger
Speaker 3: and arrow at yourself, being like, I'm unhappy with my
Speaker 3: life here I am, and.
Speaker 2: What's the word deflecting onto other people?
Speaker 1: One hundred percent on that.
Speaker 2: The other day, I literally was about to comment on
Speaker 2: someone's TikTok, like an absolute zinger like I always say,
Speaker 2: and I literally like typed it up and I was like,
Speaker 2: I'm not happy with my I'm happy in my life,
Speaker 2: like I don't have to. It wasn't rude about the
Speaker 2: way they look or anything like that. It was just
Speaker 2: a zinger on like the context of the thing. And
Speaker 2: I was like, get some likes, and I was like, no,
Speaker 2: I'm not like that. I'm not going to bag people,
Speaker 2: you know what I mean?
Speaker 3: Now, we're not jumping on the bandwagon over here. Where's
Speaker 3: your head out? Well? Look, just for a little bit
Speaker 3: of context, Taylor Swift has had twelve public relationships.
Speaker 2: Can you list them?
Speaker 1: No? Can you?
Speaker 2: Travis?
Speaker 3: I knew you were going to say, Travis.
Speaker 2: Harry Styles, Jake Kullen Hall, I've got them. Trust me.
Speaker 2: I can bring him more out. Tom Riddle, Tom Riddle,
Speaker 2: I don't know that's Harry got Tom itddleson, Yeah, Tom Middleson.
Speaker 2: I've got him, trust me, I can get it.
Speaker 3: This is how little no tailor Swiss relationships. I'm literally
Speaker 3: referencing Harry Potter at this four.
Speaker 2: Can anyone throw me any more bones? Here?
Speaker 3: No? That's it, I have them all this, John Mayer five?
Speaker 2: Anyone else got you know what? Anymore?
Speaker 3: Well?
Speaker 2: Did she date Timothy Shall mat No?
Speaker 1: No, that's Kylie.
Speaker 2: So we got six?
Speaker 3: You were well done. I'm actually very impressed.
Speaker 2: Why do I know that information?
Speaker 1: Because you're full and swift.
Speaker 3: You just hate to admit it. That's it.
Speaker 1: Taylor Swish.
Speaker 3: We all know that she gets hate over all of
Speaker 3: the men. She's heid right, She's had twelve public relationships.
Speaker 3: Guess how many Leonardo DiCaprio has had thirteen. More more
Speaker 3: so twenty three women. But if you're talking about all
Speaker 3: of the less serious women that he's been with, just
Speaker 3: the women that he's literally been seeing seen out with
Speaker 3: forty two?
Speaker 1: What women?
Speaker 3: So he has been connected to forty two women, Taylor
Speaker 3: Swift has been connected to twelve. The difference in how
Speaker 3: they've been treated unbelievable.
Speaker 2: Would you say it's like sexist?
Speaker 1: Yes, I would say it's sexist. Would you say it's sexist.
Speaker 2: Yeah, of course I don't see.
Speaker 1: I mean, let's not lie Leo does get a little
Speaker 1: bit of.
Speaker 3: Shit dates like what is it you have to be
Speaker 3: under twenty three to.
Speaker 2: Date ly twenty five? Yeah, so yeah, it's very sexist.
Speaker 2: I think that there is double standards in this world still,
Speaker 2: no matter how far we come that, I don't see
Speaker 2: anything wrong with it. Like I haven't seen aything wrong
Speaker 2: with Taylor Swift dating twelve guys.
Speaker 1: No, absolutely not.
Speaker 3: How many people of you officially dated? Like how many
Speaker 3: people has been your official girlfriend?
Speaker 2: I actually spoke about this with my mum and my
Speaker 2: sister the other day, came after and I said, I
Speaker 2: would probably.
Speaker 3: Count, but you have to say you have to count
Speaker 3: the ones who you've asked will you be my girlfriend?
Speaker 2: Okay, so I would count. I reckon five five, five?
Speaker 2: What about you? Well?
Speaker 1: In you six, a guy asked me, I don't count this.
Speaker 3: Well. The criteria was, well, did they ask me to
Speaker 3: be their girlfriend or vice versa? So in you six,
Speaker 3: I got asked and we were together for one week.
Speaker 1: So that's one.
Speaker 3: Is looking at me with the most confused looking says
Speaker 3: it was really my first kids. We pecked for one second,
Speaker 3: like a behind.
Speaker 2: The it's just so weird that like that's just one.
Speaker 3: Okay, so six, we're the same. Six?
Speaker 2: Yeah, well I'm five or six?
Speaker 1: How have I handed out with more than you?
Speaker 2: So?
Speaker 3: Look, research suggests that on average, people have around seven
Speaker 3: to ten romantic relationships in their lifetime.
Speaker 1: Interesting facts, Well, you.
Speaker 2: Got to kiss some toads to find your prints.
Speaker 3: You have to absolutely kiss some toads, have sex with
Speaker 3: some toads.
Speaker 2: So, and we released an episode last week about our weddings.
Speaker 2: Got huge positive feedback on.
Speaker 1: That, loving the wedding chat.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we're going to have to touch on that a
Speaker 2: lot more, I reckon. I honestly thought people weren't going
Speaker 2: to be that receptive to it because how many people
Speaker 2: are getting married. But people loved it, didn't they.
Speaker 3: I literally was like, let's talk about our weddings and
Speaker 3: that's like, no one wants to hear about that.
Speaker 1: I'm like, I think they might.
Speaker 2: Well, we'll give you some more of that. But we
Speaker 2: also did a new segment called what would You Do?
Speaker 2: So where you guys ask us what would we do
Speaker 2: in certain situations? You guys loved that. Heaps of people
Speaker 2: sent in what would you do scenarios. We picked our
Speaker 2: favorite one this week because I think that, like I
Speaker 2: think I've been in a situation like this, I think
Speaker 2: you probably have as well.
Speaker 3: I think I heard this. This is a cold one
Speaker 3: for me reacting to.
Speaker 2: I think a lot of people have been in this situation.
Speaker 2: So it is from Vanessa Sinclair ninety three. It reads,
Speaker 2: I'll read it word for word. Okay, what would you do? Hey, guys,
Speaker 2: love the pod. I want to give you a what
Speaker 2: would you do? Situation? If you use back. My previous
Speaker 2: ex partner and I brackets together for threeish years, went
Speaker 2: out clubbing with our friends. Whilst we were at a club,
Speaker 2: I was walking to the bar and found him in
Speaker 2: the corner kissing another girl. What would you do if
Speaker 2: you saw this? I'm over it now. I think it's
Speaker 2: quite funny, but would love to get your reactions.
Speaker 1: Laughing face, Oh my blood is boiling.
Speaker 2: So they were together while he cheated.
Speaker 3: They went out to a club together. It's like if
Speaker 3: you and Tammy went to the club and then she
Speaker 3: was kissing someone, or Michael and me went to the
Speaker 3: club and he was kissing on I cannot tell you
Speaker 3: the levels of flip that.
Speaker 2: I would flip, You'd be doing twenty five to life.
Speaker 3: I'd be doing the Death and Bats in America. I
Speaker 3: would kill.
Speaker 1: Him him And who would you?
Speaker 2: I feel like, I feel like you'd just be so hurt.
Speaker 2: Wouldn't you know, you'd be so angry, Like you wouldn't
Speaker 2: even be able to know what to do?
Speaker 3: Like you just like just I mean, the audacity of
Speaker 3: this guy to go to a club with his partner
Speaker 3: of three years.
Speaker 1: And to think that he could get away with that.
Speaker 3: I feel like that is definitely not his first rodeo
Speaker 3: if that's what he's doing. And then who is this
Speaker 3: girl who is managed to chat up in that time? Yeah, Riza, Like,
Speaker 3: surely he would have known her.
Speaker 1: That's not the first time they've met. Surely.
Speaker 2: But if you when I know personally, if I go
Speaker 2: out with my partner Tammy, I want to beat with her.
Speaker 2: I'm not like spending too much time away from her.
Speaker 1: They've obviously separated.
Speaker 2: No, I think they were together when this happened.
Speaker 1: No, but I mean they've separated in the club.
Speaker 2: And then who wants to preak from your partner when
Speaker 2: you're out with them? I want to be like next
Speaker 2: to them laughing creating memories with them, but they.
Speaker 3: Were with friends, so maybe they were with anyway.
Speaker 1: What would you do? So you're walking around the corner.
Speaker 3: You turn around and you see.
Speaker 2: Tap him on the shoulder and say, sorry, mate, I
Speaker 2: think you've got something that belongs to me.
Speaker 3: Me What I would do?
Speaker 2: What would you do?
Speaker 3: I just I would get my drink that would be
Speaker 3: in my hand, that would be full. I would on
Speaker 3: the borrow and be like, what the fuck is going on?
Speaker 1: And then I'd be like, it's fucking done.
Speaker 3: I don't know why.
Speaker 2: I'm like, why are you? Like?
Speaker 3: I want to scream, but I'm trying not to, like
Speaker 3: trade people's ear holes.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't want to go into details, but I'd
Speaker 2: be very mad.
Speaker 1: I would be you have to instantly break up on
Speaker 1: the spot.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you were like, yeah, I'd be hurting.
Speaker 3: I want to know what she actually did and she
Speaker 3: was actually in the scenario. Yeah, well yeah, I feel
Speaker 3: like we should.
Speaker 1: Ask her and report back to you guys next.
Speaker 2: Week what she did. Yeah, I want to know because
Speaker 2: she doesn't say, but what she actually did? Do you reckon?
Speaker 2: She just ignored it and then brought up the next
Speaker 2: day and broke up with him.
Speaker 3: Ignored it.
Speaker 1: No, I don't think that actually.
Speaker 2: Sick feeling in your stomach and anger like that. Fuck yeah,
Speaker 2: I don't want to think about it.
Speaker 3: I don't want to think about it. It's like literally making
Speaker 3: my blood boil. Guys, what would you do? Send us
Speaker 3: in your What would you do? Is next week we
Speaker 3: are going to find the best one.
Speaker 2: Put this on the Facebook page, and we'll ask people
Speaker 2: what they were do in this situation as well.
Speaker 3: One hundred percent get back to us.
Speaker 1: We want to add some more of these.
Speaker 2: So you're talking Anna before that we've come out of summer.
Speaker 2: We're in March now.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 2: I watched a lot of TikTok.
Speaker 3: You know that you love a tic a bit too much.
Speaker 2: I find myself in a TikTok hole. My ADHD loves it.
Speaker 2: I came across something called the February theory. Have you
Speaker 2: heard of it?
Speaker 1: I haven't. What's it about?
Speaker 2: February theory is the belief that in the months of
Speaker 2: February you'll get back with an x or start a
Speaker 2: new relationship. Interesting, so a lot of people believe that
Speaker 2: in the months of February is cuffing season.
Speaker 3: Yes, so I've heard of caffing season. Coffing season is
Speaker 3: essentially when people cup up because winter is coming. They
Speaker 3: need to cut a buddy and they don't want to
Speaker 3: be alone in the cold months. And I think people
Speaker 3: also go out less during winter. So people just don't
Speaker 3: want to be left on the shelf.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you want to sit in with a blanket watching
Speaker 2: movies and ordering take out pizza. Fuck, how good does
Speaker 2: that sound?
Speaker 3: It actually does sound so good. I'm actually craving pizza
Speaker 3: at the moment. I need pizza tonight. That's my dinner
Speaker 3: of the night anyway.
Speaker 2: So yeah, people think that their X might come into
Speaker 2: their life as well. Have you ever heard from an
Speaker 2: X in February?
Speaker 3: I haven't heard from an ex this February, But I
Speaker 3: don't know, like I haven't really thought about at it.
Speaker 3: Maybe in the past I have.
Speaker 2: But they also reckon the longest lasting relationships start in February.
Speaker 1: When did I meet Michael? No, it was April.
Speaker 3: I met him in al April.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was closer to the start of the year.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it was April, and you guys met it at
Speaker 3: the end of the.
Speaker 2: Year, right, Yeah, the second half of the year. Half
Speaker 2: of the year. So the theory really is. So people
Speaker 2: who'd normally want themselves to be single and prefer to
Speaker 2: be alone and do stuff alone find themselves desiring to
Speaker 2: be cuffed like everybody else. What a weird word sounds.
Speaker 3: Like everybody else, Like everyone on the planet's in a relationship.
Speaker 2: Well, they would see posts, they would see reels, they
Speaker 2: would see stuff, and they would be like, oh, I
Speaker 2: want to be in a relationship, and it it normally
Speaker 2: stems from the month of February. That's when it starts
Speaker 2: to feel that way.
Speaker 3: I mean, I definitely believe in the whole cuffing season theory,
Speaker 3: Like I definitely don't want to be single and alone
Speaker 3: and winter.
Speaker 1: I have been before, and.
Speaker 3: I'm literally like going out in my cute little outfits,
Speaker 3: freezing my tits off, being like this sucks. Yeah, it's
Speaker 3: like a situationship during that time to just like get
Speaker 3: you through. So, like you said, you can have pizza
Speaker 3: on the couch, you can relax. And then, because that
Speaker 3: theory makes sense, the whole hot Girl summer theory makes
Speaker 3: even more sense because winter stops and all of a sudden,
Speaker 3: people who are like the sun is coming out, I
Speaker 3: don't need to go home alone in the cold and.
Speaker 2: I hate that expression.
Speaker 3: They get their bikinis on and get into hot girl summer.
Speaker 2: How cringe is that expression? Hot girl smer?
Speaker 1: Love it?
Speaker 2: Have you had a girl summer?
Speaker 3: Absolutely? I love a hot girl summer. I'll never have
Speaker 3: another one again. But while they lasted, they would good?
Speaker 3: All right?
Speaker 2: I don't know. We even played this for a while.
Speaker 2: Let's play red flag, Green flag? Do you want to
Speaker 2: kick it off?
Speaker 3: Okay, Matt forgets to reply, But then posts on social media?
Speaker 2: Are they your partner or are they someone you're talking to?
Speaker 2: Because either way, I think it's okay situation, I would
Speaker 2: be mad about it. Yeah, but like what sort of
Speaker 2: post is it? Like, I know, we come from a
Speaker 2: different industry where like that's work. Yeah, So like if
Speaker 2: they're posting that, it's work, do you know what I mean?
Speaker 2: So you're not going to be mad at that.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but like you want them if you've messaged someone
Speaker 3: being like, you know, even if it's your partner, hey babe,
Speaker 3: how are you? And then they don't reply, but posts
Speaker 3: on social media? Are you mad? You're like, okay, but
Speaker 3: if yeah, it's like a bit of a bummer.
Speaker 2: It's a bit of a bummer.
Speaker 3: But like it's not maybe it's a beige flag, it's
Speaker 3: a beigel, Like.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's work in my situation. So I'm not going
Speaker 2: to get angry at that.
Speaker 3: I mean, I don't know about you, but when people
Speaker 3: forget to reply to me, unless it's on an insistent basis,
Speaker 3: it doesn't bother me. If it's consistently you're messaging me
Speaker 3: two days three days late, it's going to annoy me.
Speaker 2: No, one doesn't have enough time to message someone back bingo,
Speaker 2: nobody doesn't. I think that, Like, yes, people are busy,
Speaker 2: but if you care, you message back.
Speaker 3: I actually saw this quote. The busier someone is and
Speaker 3: the more they have to do, the quicker they're going
Speaker 3: to get back to you, because if your message is
Speaker 3: important to them, they're going to reply to it straight
Speaker 3: away because they don't have time to go back to something.
Speaker 2: That guy with the big head and the weird voice,
Speaker 2: I know, the guy who's talking about who's all over.
Speaker 1: Those ras, Oh my god, oh my god. Let's get
Speaker 1: a visual on that little impersonation.
Speaker 2: That was he's always on no TikTok. So I find him,
Speaker 2: I'll put it on the Facebook page.
Speaker 3: But yeah, like the thing is is that people can
Speaker 3: own like multinational corporations, businesses. If they want to, they
Speaker 3: will reply to you. No one is too busy to
Speaker 3: reply to you, and I do agree with that. So
Speaker 3: then let's go back to if they're forgetting to reply
Speaker 3: to you, but then post on social media, is that
Speaker 3: good enough?
Speaker 2: Situational?
Speaker 1: Situational?
Speaker 2: Situational for me? A red flag, it's annoying.
Speaker 1: It is a red flag.
Speaker 2: It's annoying, but it's a green flag. Yeah, Like, it's
Speaker 2: not a red or green flag. It's not make or break.
Speaker 2: It's situational situation. If they're two people and they both
Speaker 2: have like office jobs and that, and the person's posting
Speaker 2: like on social media but not applying to you, they're
Speaker 2: not into you.
Speaker 3: Sorry, sorry to break it.
Speaker 1: Sorry, you have an office job and you're busy.
Speaker 2: But then why are you posting on social media when
Speaker 2: you're someone you're rising up? You're not messaging the person
Speaker 2: that you're rising up.
Speaker 1: That's true, it's true.
Speaker 3: Okay, Well, look, we hope you guys have an amazing week.
Speaker 1: We will catch you next week.
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Speaker 3: hmm