WEBVTT - Teenage drinking, apron bellies and bits on fire 🔥 0:00:00.040 --> 0:00:03.520 Ad A Lady, ad A Lady, A Lady, ad Lady Unfiltered. 0:00:03.720 --> 0:00:07.480 Hey, hey, welcome to another ad Lady Unfiltered podcast. And 0:00:07.520 --> 0:00:09.560 my name is Hayley Pearson and I. 0:00:09.480 --> 0:00:12.959 Am Lauren did cire? Can you cough or yann event? 0:00:14.800 --> 0:00:15.200 I can't. 0:00:15.320 --> 0:00:18.800 I've got a weird, husky little voice. Yeah, one eight 0:00:18.920 --> 0:00:21.040 hundred call me wink. 0:00:23.760 --> 0:00:27.160 On that note, we are besties with business partners. We're 0:00:27.200 --> 0:00:30.400 the creators of adel Lady Hollow. I say, hey, lossy Media, 0:00:30.440 --> 0:00:33.080 and we do everything together except bye bye. 0:00:34.200 --> 0:00:35.040 How was your weekend? 0:00:35.159 --> 0:00:38.120 Oh? Oh, look at you? How was my weekend? I 0:00:38.159 --> 0:00:39.800 had your little button mushroom. 0:00:40.280 --> 0:00:42.519 Oh my gosh. She could not stop talking about it. 0:00:42.640 --> 0:00:45.400 She loves you so much. 0:00:45.400 --> 0:00:48.720 I had a sleepover with Sophia. And I'm going to 0:00:48.800 --> 0:00:50.200 start with first one, do you want to a shopping 0:00:50.200 --> 0:00:51.680 list of what's coming up? Because there are some really 0:00:51.680 --> 0:00:52.640 exciting things coming up. 0:00:52.680 --> 0:00:54.560 We've got a few mems. Yeah, I've got a meme. 0:00:54.560 --> 0:00:55.960 You've got a mem And then we're going to be 0:00:56.040 --> 0:00:59.400 talking about teenage drinking, yeah, which is big. And I'm 0:00:59.400 --> 0:01:00.800 not going to sing the song, but I've got a 0:01:00.800 --> 0:01:04.280 fake id though, Like I'm not gonna what song. What's 0:01:04.319 --> 0:01:07.200 so we're gonna drop it? Now, drop the song? Now go. 0:01:07.640 --> 0:01:10.000 We can't legally, we're not allowed to do that. What we 0:01:10.000 --> 0:01:12.320 can't play a song in our podcast. We're not Carl Sandalans. 0:01:12.360 --> 0:01:14.000 We can't. We don't pay for royalties. I do what 0:01:14.040 --> 0:01:14.360 I want? 0:01:14.560 --> 0:01:19.039 You young, what do you do? 0:01:19.720 --> 0:01:23.040 We're talking about teenage drinking. And then it's in particular 0:01:23.480 --> 0:01:26.000 it's because there's this ad that's come out that is 0:01:27.040 --> 0:01:29.839 basically called It's Okay to Say Nay, and it's brilliant 0:01:30.240 --> 0:01:32.199 and I think all parents, if you're in my position 0:01:32.240 --> 0:01:34.400 at the moment with teenagers, you need to listen to this. 0:01:34.520 --> 0:01:36.480 Yeah, you're in the position, not me, my five year 0:01:36.520 --> 0:01:37.120 olds a few years. 0:01:37.280 --> 0:01:42.080 Oh is she? Or is she? Not she? It won't 0:01:42.120 --> 0:01:45.480 be far off? Oh, barrymore still. 0:01:46.040 --> 0:01:48.800 And then we're gonna talk about some baby bump stuff 0:01:48.880 --> 0:01:53.160 that I'm going through. But firstly you go, so Sophia 0:01:53.160 --> 0:01:55.320 and Laurence little girl, her five year old came for 0:01:55.360 --> 0:01:59.400 a sleepover on the weekend, and I just like, I 0:01:59.440 --> 0:02:01.280 think that I I love it so much that I 0:02:01.320 --> 0:02:06.880 know she feels so safe, she's so comfortable at our 0:02:07.000 --> 0:02:09.880 house and with our family, with Jimmy and the two boys. 0:02:09.919 --> 0:02:13.000 That she's just that's what makes me the happiest. She 0:02:13.120 --> 0:02:16.880 never like it's pretty a big deal for a five 0:02:16.919 --> 0:02:19.400 year old to have a sleepover. It at someone's house. 0:02:19.440 --> 0:02:20.320 It's not their grandparents. 0:02:20.360 --> 0:02:22.520 Isn't it so massive? And you're the only person that's 0:02:22.560 --> 0:02:25.080 had her and you literally go to so much trouble, 0:02:25.120 --> 0:02:27.400 like you even went and book a Gana's tatamaf for 0:02:27.440 --> 0:02:28.320 her and put it in the fridge. 0:02:28.360 --> 0:02:29.160 She didn't want it. 0:02:29.360 --> 0:02:29.880 She didn't want it. 0:02:29.960 --> 0:02:32.360 No, she didn't want she had the options. She she's 0:02:32.520 --> 0:02:35.040 the full boss. Like I've never seen a child so 0:02:35.120 --> 0:02:38.160 sassy in that. So a couple of things happened, some 0:02:38.160 --> 0:02:39.639 things I won't tell on the podcast because I don't 0:02:39.639 --> 0:02:41.840 want to. I just don't want to make it look 0:02:41.919 --> 0:02:42.919 she's an evil dictator. 0:02:44.800 --> 0:02:46.720 But she goes once if you need help. 0:02:47.560 --> 0:02:51.000 We're going scootering, and she's so good on the scooter right, 0:02:51.080 --> 0:02:53.200 she is so fast. And I went for my first 0:02:53.320 --> 0:02:55.519 run in about I don't know ten years. I haven't 0:02:55.600 --> 0:02:59.200 run in so long, and I ran so fast next 0:02:59.240 --> 0:03:02.120 to her it actually felt excellent. I'm really sore today, 0:03:02.360 --> 0:03:04.600 but as we're running, I'm saying to her like, because 0:03:04.600 --> 0:03:06.839 there's little berries on the ground, like little nut things 0:03:06.880 --> 0:03:08.280 on the ground, and I was worried she was going 0:03:08.360 --> 0:03:11.079 to trip over and fall off the scooter, come flying off, 0:03:11.240 --> 0:03:13.959 scrape and knees, and I was like, Sophia, just be careful, 0:03:13.960 --> 0:03:16.760 there's berries on the ground. And then she goes she stopped, 0:03:16.880 --> 0:03:23.280 like went stop, and she goes, Hayley, they're actually gum nuts. 0:03:23.320 --> 0:03:24.240 You's silly butthole. 0:03:25.800 --> 0:03:29.320 Sorry, everything's funny with the word butthole and pooing out 0:03:29.360 --> 0:03:31.120 everything butthole. Everything's but hoole. 0:03:31.320 --> 0:03:34.200 And she's lucky that we laugh at buttholes together. And 0:03:34.240 --> 0:03:37.200 then like, yeah, this is the other point where she 0:03:37.320 --> 0:03:39.200 became the boss of our family. So we're sitting in 0:03:39.240 --> 0:03:41.440 a car. I've got my fourteen year old, my eleven 0:03:41.520 --> 0:03:44.440 year old, my husband, Jimmy, and me and the car 0:03:44.480 --> 0:03:46.880 was so fair. Right, she's sitting there. We're going out 0:03:46.880 --> 0:03:49.120 for sushi. The whole family is so excited to have sushi. 0:03:49.120 --> 0:03:50.880 The boys love sushi more than anything in the world. 0:03:51.040 --> 0:03:55.760 And we rock up at the sushi joint and she goes, ah, 0:03:55.960 --> 0:03:57.680 when I go to this there she plays are we 0:03:57.960 --> 0:04:01.120 And I said, yeah, that's the Sasushi train around the 0:04:01.160 --> 0:04:03.600 corner from my house and she goes, oh, no, they're 0:04:03.680 --> 0:04:05.400 chicken's foul. I'm not eating that. 0:04:06.160 --> 0:04:06.960 It's discussied. 0:04:06.960 --> 0:04:07.680 She said foul. 0:04:07.880 --> 0:04:09.920 She said foul. Oh my god, she's my child. 0:04:09.960 --> 0:04:12.760 And then I was like, okay, what would you like, Sophia. 0:04:12.840 --> 0:04:15.400 She goes, I'm not a burrito. So we went had 0:04:15.400 --> 0:04:18.080 to go to Zambrero's next door to get her a burrito. 0:04:19.520 --> 0:04:20.880 And change the whole flames and me. 0:04:20.920 --> 0:04:23.440 While my kid's like, hang on, I have to get takeaway, 0:04:23.480 --> 0:04:24.480 but I just want to sit in and they have 0:04:24.480 --> 0:04:26.640 by Sushi, but you know, lawed because Sophie wants her burrito, 0:04:26.839 --> 0:04:29.640 so we got so sorry, don't apologize. I loved it 0:04:29.640 --> 0:04:31.880 because I wanted a burrito as well, so we were happy, 0:04:32.080 --> 0:04:34.760 heavily enough to get burritas. But it was joves a burrito. 0:04:34.880 --> 0:04:38.200 The fact that she's like, Jimmy the chicken, there's foul. 0:04:38.560 --> 0:04:39.520 We can't go there. 0:04:39.920 --> 0:04:41.960 Do you know why? Because it wasn't the crumbed chicken 0:04:42.080 --> 0:04:42.600 she liked. 0:04:42.760 --> 0:04:44.560 Yeah, but even when she gets the crumb chicken, she 0:04:44.640 --> 0:04:47.359 takes the avocado off. Doesn't she want avo? No, Haley, 0:04:47.360 --> 0:04:49.239 I don't like AVO, but I will get the AVO 0:04:49.360 --> 0:04:50.120 and chicken. 0:04:50.520 --> 0:04:52.560 To get the AVO and then take it takes it off. 0:04:52.640 --> 0:04:57.119 Yeah, I love your chick, but thank you. It means 0:04:57.360 --> 0:05:01.840 so much to us that you trust us with her. 0:05:02.120 --> 0:05:05.440 Like I just sleeping next to her with her little 0:05:05.440 --> 0:05:07.719 face and her little tiny teeth smiling back at me. 0:05:07.760 --> 0:05:10.400 It's light. I'm next to you in the bed because 0:05:10.440 --> 0:05:12.880 we share a bed so many times in our lives, 0:05:12.880 --> 0:05:14.800 you and I and I look over it and I 0:05:14.800 --> 0:05:17.120 see her shits so much hair. She's like a doll. 0:05:17.520 --> 0:05:19.880 She has so much hair, and she's faced the other way, 0:05:19.880 --> 0:05:21.559 and I'm like, it's light. I'm lying next to Lauren, 0:05:21.600 --> 0:05:23.160 but like a tiny little version of Lauren. 0:05:23.240 --> 0:05:27.120 And she loves you, guys, and she's so comfortable. That's 0:05:27.160 --> 0:05:29.680 such a thing. And you can be an auntie without 0:05:29.720 --> 0:05:32.240 being a blood relative because you are my sister love 0:05:32.440 --> 0:05:35.000 and my child loves you. And you're gonna have another. 0:05:34.760 --> 0:05:37.960 One soon, I know, and I can't. But also we're 0:05:37.960 --> 0:05:39.560 counting down the days because I get to have her 0:05:39.600 --> 0:05:41.279 when you go to the hospital, which I've not on 0:05:41.279 --> 0:05:43.200 the podcast before, but I'm actually like, I've got an 0:05:43.200 --> 0:05:45.839 advent calendar for it. I can't wait. I'm so sad 0:05:46.440 --> 0:05:48.680 and now I want to talk about singing vaginas. 0:05:49.160 --> 0:05:52.680 Oh my gosh, I did the silliest thing last night. Okay, 0:05:52.960 --> 0:05:57.279 so did you put up there? We So I had 0:05:57.360 --> 0:06:00.280 a baby moon at Kingsford. That's why you had Sophia. Yeah. 0:06:00.320 --> 0:06:04.359 I had the best weekend, just switching off like Burge 0:06:04.400 --> 0:06:06.840 and I drove up to the Brassa, listening to like 0:06:07.200 --> 0:06:10.320 crazy like Kelly Clark's and music and singing at the 0:06:10.360 --> 0:06:13.279 top of our lungs. There was no Sofia's music was 0:06:13.400 --> 0:06:16.320 our music and Evanescence and all this stuff, and we 0:06:16.400 --> 0:06:18.479 had the best less that's. 0:06:18.400 --> 0:06:19.320 So fucking emo. 0:06:20.120 --> 0:06:20.599 I used to be. 0:06:23.720 --> 0:06:24.560 Wake me Up. 0:06:26.800 --> 0:06:29.320 Oh, I love it. I think I was kind of 0:06:29.320 --> 0:06:31.520 emo back in the day anyway. So we like stayed 0:06:31.520 --> 0:06:34.440 there the night, woke up, had breakey, had the best time, 0:06:34.920 --> 0:06:37.080 drove home, went up to Mom and dads to pick 0:06:37.120 --> 0:06:40.760 up Sophia. Stayed there all day because Mum got a 0:06:40.760 --> 0:06:43.720 puffy which you got to meet little miss Molly. 0:06:43.880 --> 0:06:47.120 So cute, a little baby dash How she's a baby Betty, 0:06:47.200 --> 0:06:48.000 She's so cute. 0:06:48.000 --> 0:06:49.719 We got home at like seven o'clock at night and 0:06:49.760 --> 0:06:52.440 all I wanted to do was have a shower, because 0:06:52.560 --> 0:06:55.720 showers are life at the moment, morning, noon, and night, 0:06:55.839 --> 0:07:00.920 hot shower everywhere. So I had a shower, dried myself, 0:07:01.279 --> 0:07:04.600 got into bed in my clean pajamas, and my bits 0:07:04.680 --> 0:07:07.640 started burning like there were ants down there, like they 0:07:07.640 --> 0:07:10.240 were on fire, just down there, yep, just down there, 0:07:10.320 --> 0:07:13.000 burning fire. I was like, somebody got the fire brigade 0:07:13.040 --> 0:07:17.400 and shit is on fire. Well I forgot that before 0:07:17.440 --> 0:07:21.640 I left. My toothpaste had gone everywhere and it leaked, 0:07:21.680 --> 0:07:26.440 and I wiped the toothpaste on my towel and I 0:07:26.680 --> 0:07:30.840 left it hanging. So then I've dried myself with minty 0:07:30.960 --> 0:07:38.040 fresh toothpaste, peppermint pepperin things. It's so cold, gosh. And 0:07:38.080 --> 0:07:40.120 then as it was burning, I was like, oh my gosh. 0:07:40.240 --> 0:07:42.800 Then I had to have another shower. But I've never 0:07:42.880 --> 0:07:44.440 been in more pain. But it was kind of like 0:07:44.680 --> 0:07:47.200 icy fresh. But my bits made me fresh. 0:07:47.240 --> 0:07:51.040 Oh my god, it's like a great teeth brush. Ah. 0:07:51.880 --> 0:07:55.160 I never put toothpaste down there. It is so cold 0:07:55.200 --> 0:07:57.280 and stingy. I was horrific. 0:07:57.800 --> 0:08:00.000 Why would I wipe the toothpaste on the towel. 0:08:00.000 --> 0:08:00.640 I'm then going. 0:08:00.480 --> 0:08:02.320 Because it's you I'm just going to leave that town 0:08:02.360 --> 0:08:04.320 there over the weekend, and forcure about it? 0:08:04.320 --> 0:08:06.760 It's you, it's me. What a burgo do about that? 0:08:06.880 --> 0:08:09.840 Absolutely nothing. He was just doing work on his computer, 0:08:09.920 --> 0:08:11.840 going that's all this commotion out here. 0:08:12.680 --> 0:08:18.360 He's on fire with two faces. I wonder if number anyway. 0:08:18.800 --> 0:08:21.000 That's funny. That's where your brain's at at the moment. 0:08:21.080 --> 0:08:21.680 That's what I'm doing. 0:08:22.040 --> 0:08:25.480 Yeah, okay, listen up. We want to talk about drinking 0:08:26.040 --> 0:08:30.200 as teenagers. There's this at that's going around and I 0:08:30.440 --> 0:08:32.800 freaking love it. I love that they made this because 0:08:32.800 --> 0:08:34.839 it's like it's talking to me, maybe more so in 0:08:34.880 --> 0:08:38.040 a couple of years time. But I have a fourteen 0:08:38.120 --> 0:08:41.040 year old starting to go to parties and all my 0:08:41.120 --> 0:08:44.599 mum friends are starting to talk about alcohol, and the 0:08:44.679 --> 0:08:47.280 fact that there's even alcohol at a party with a 0:08:47.320 --> 0:08:50.640 fourteen year old is so absurd to me. This ad, 0:08:51.440 --> 0:08:54.880 it's called It's Okay to Say Nay and basically, Lauren, 0:08:54.960 --> 0:08:58.120 it starts with this like teenage kid comes into his 0:08:58.280 --> 0:09:00.920 dad in his school uniform and it's like dirt, can 0:09:00.960 --> 0:09:03.440 I have smell whole on the weekend. My friend's parents 0:09:03.520 --> 0:09:06.319 have assaid it's so right and then the dad like 0:09:06.520 --> 0:09:08.520 looks up into the sky and then has this imaginary 0:09:08.640 --> 0:09:10.959 thought of all these dads around this council kind of 0:09:11.040 --> 0:09:13.040 meeting talking about whether or not it's okay to give 0:09:13.040 --> 0:09:15.520 your child alcohol. Are all the other parents doing it? 0:09:16.280 --> 0:09:17.880 Should I do it? Well, I'll be the only parent 0:09:17.960 --> 0:09:20.439 that doesn't give much kid alcohol. And then in this 0:09:20.600 --> 0:09:23.079 meeting they're like, no, no, eighty nine percent of people 0:09:23.280 --> 0:09:26.680 parents aren't giving their kids alcohol. And then it takes 0:09:26.760 --> 0:09:28.719 him back to the kitchen and the dad goes to 0:09:28.800 --> 0:09:33.760 the sun nay, nay, and he's like nay. He goes, yeah, nah, 0:09:33.760 --> 0:09:36.120 you're not having alcohol. Sorry, And I was like, this 0:09:36.280 --> 0:09:40.280 is so good because it speaks to me because peer pressure, 0:09:40.480 --> 0:09:43.720 even as a parent, is a thing. Right If all 0:09:43.760 --> 0:09:45.760 the other parents are doing it, am I leaving my 0:09:45.880 --> 0:09:47.160 kid out? Is my kid going to be the only 0:09:47.240 --> 0:09:49.640 one that's not? Is he going to be uncool? Is 0:09:49.679 --> 0:09:51.800 he not gonna Is he going to stand out from 0:09:51.840 --> 0:09:53.640 everybody else and people going to pick on him because 0:09:53.679 --> 0:09:55.120 he's not doing what everyone else is doing. 0:09:55.240 --> 0:09:57.640 But surely drinking isn't the only thing that's making kids 0:09:57.720 --> 0:09:58.640 cool these days. 0:09:58.440 --> 0:10:01.520 Like, no, it's not cool any way. I keep saying 0:10:01.600 --> 0:10:05.319 that to the kids. But it's more like, and it's 0:10:05.320 --> 0:10:07.240 the same with the social media thing. It's the more 0:10:07.440 --> 0:10:10.800 like if all like, are all the other parents doing it? 0:10:10.920 --> 0:10:14.440 Am I being unreasonable because I'm not. No, you are 0:10:14.520 --> 0:10:18.400 being reasonable their kids their kids. Don't give your child 0:10:18.559 --> 0:10:20.880 alcohol like that's the thing. You're not supposed to drink 0:10:20.920 --> 0:10:23.840 until you're eighteen. The reality is, of course you're going 0:10:23.880 --> 0:10:26.000 to try it. Like, if you can get to eighteen 0:10:26.080 --> 0:10:28.960 and not try it, freaking brilliant. One of my friends 0:10:29.000 --> 0:10:31.280 offered her kid five thousand dollars. If you can get 0:10:31.280 --> 0:10:34.760 to year twelve without drinking, I'll give you five thousand dollars. 0:10:35.800 --> 0:10:38.720 Isn't that amazing? Rights brilliant. Yeah, I'm a. 0:10:38.760 --> 0:10:40.800 Lady who said to her daughter, if you don't go 0:10:40.840 --> 0:10:43.719 to school, yes, I'll take you to Europe. Yes I 0:10:43.840 --> 0:10:44.319 want to do that. 0:10:44.360 --> 0:10:46.160 I want all the money to go to Europe as well. 0:10:46.280 --> 0:10:48.920 Yes, it's actually trying to bribe your kids like that. 0:10:49.040 --> 0:10:52.360 It's great, totally because it keeps them safe. So the 0:10:52.520 --> 0:10:55.480 thing is with drinking, this is the scary thing. I'm 0:10:55.520 --> 0:10:58.800 in a situation where parties are starting and. 0:10:59.640 --> 0:11:02.440 Quite and they'll go you hear these rumors and whispers 0:11:02.480 --> 0:11:04.640 from other parents like oh, there's going to be alcohol there, 0:11:04.720 --> 0:11:07.199 or there's going to be vaping. I'm like, well, my 0:11:07.320 --> 0:11:09.040 kid's not going to the party. If I know there's 0:11:09.080 --> 0:11:11.480 alcohol there, Why would I send my kid to the party. 0:11:11.520 --> 0:11:15.240 And what kind of parent is putting on alcohol for children? 0:11:15.640 --> 0:11:16.920 Surely the parent wouldn't know. 0:11:17.840 --> 0:11:21.360 Well, this is the other thing. The kids think, Oh, yeah, 0:11:21.559 --> 0:11:26.440 his parent's cool, they give him alcohol. But I don't 0:11:26.440 --> 0:11:27.960 think a lot of the parents do know this. They 0:11:28.080 --> 0:11:30.160 just go and steal it from their parents. Did you 0:11:30.240 --> 0:11:31.400 ever steal alcohol from him? Mom? 0:11:31.600 --> 0:11:32.480 No, I was an angel. 0:11:32.720 --> 0:11:35.440 No you did not. What did you do? You did 0:11:35.480 --> 0:11:37.760 when you were fourteen? I did? I did? 0:11:38.160 --> 0:11:41.160 I stole a lemon rusky from Mom and I went 0:11:41.240 --> 0:11:44.600 to a party and we all shared one rusky, which 0:11:44.720 --> 0:11:46.160 was like a sit between all of us. 0:11:46.360 --> 0:11:48.360 Did you think you were really pissed? So pissed we did. 0:11:48.320 --> 0:11:50.120 Star jumps on the tennis court and ran around with 0:11:50.160 --> 0:11:50.760 their pants down. 0:11:51.120 --> 0:11:53.319 And you won't even piers. That's the funny part, I know. 0:11:54.000 --> 0:11:57.600 But when I got home, Mom knew she had counted them. 0:11:57.640 --> 0:11:58.400 Okay, what does she do? 0:11:58.840 --> 0:12:03.160 She was livid? You know, jewels, I love that livid Jewels. 0:12:03.240 --> 0:12:05.440 It wasn't good because Jewels is a cool mom, right, 0:12:05.480 --> 0:12:07.240 I would say, Jewels is a really cool mom. I 0:12:07.240 --> 0:12:08.280 can talk to about anything. 0:12:08.400 --> 0:12:11.439 I talked to my mom about everything. Yeah, But from 0:12:11.480 --> 0:12:14.000 that day she said to me, if you ever lie 0:12:14.080 --> 0:12:15.520 to me again, that's it. 0:12:15.920 --> 0:12:16.120 Yeah. 0:12:16.200 --> 0:12:19.040 Like she was so stern, and for mom to be 0:12:19.120 --> 0:12:21.880 that stern, and it was that like I'm disappointed, not 0:12:22.000 --> 0:12:24.719 the screamy, yelly mom. It was like, if you do 0:12:24.800 --> 0:12:28.199 this again and take my alcohol, that's it. No more parties, 0:12:28.760 --> 0:12:30.400 no more fun on the weekends, nothing, And. 0:12:30.440 --> 0:12:32.440 That is what kills a teenager the most. All they 0:12:32.520 --> 0:12:34.000 want to do is be with their friends. So if 0:12:34.040 --> 0:12:36.280 you take that away from them, I am all for 0:12:36.360 --> 0:12:38.839 threatening my kids with that kind of stuff. I so 0:12:39.000 --> 0:12:41.800 one of my good friends, you know her as well. 0:12:42.280 --> 0:12:43.880 She's got a daughter that's a couple of years older 0:12:43.880 --> 0:12:46.679 than us, and I was asking her about the other 0:12:46.760 --> 0:12:49.720 day because I want to know the other parents were 0:12:49.720 --> 0:12:51.320 all on the same page. She had a great thing. 0:12:51.480 --> 0:12:54.520 So her daughter is sixteen now, and she said to her, 0:12:55.200 --> 0:12:58.080 if you drink alcohol, like there is a zero tolerance 0:12:58.200 --> 0:13:00.840 rule in our house. You drink alcohol, you are banned 0:13:01.320 --> 0:13:03.079 for the next few years while you're at school to 0:13:03.120 --> 0:13:05.439 go absolutely anywhere you are not allowed to drink. I 0:13:05.480 --> 0:13:07.120 will know if you come home from a party, I 0:13:07.160 --> 0:13:11.000 will know by one sneap of your breath, which scares kids, right. Yeah, 0:13:11.080 --> 0:13:13.240 they don't want to be like they'll be having all 0:13:13.240 --> 0:13:15.240 the chewy in the world, trying to hide that, take. 0:13:15.280 --> 0:13:17.080 All the impulse on their fingers, trying to cover up the. 0:13:17.080 --> 0:13:23.880 City, get the colleagues Africa. So this girl has done that, 0:13:24.000 --> 0:13:26.079 and she's grown up the last couple of years, going 0:13:26.120 --> 0:13:28.600 to parties and being open going I don't drink. I'm 0:13:28.640 --> 0:13:30.960 the lad of drink. I don't drink. And she would 0:13:31.040 --> 0:13:35.000 see her friends at parties getting drunk, doing stupid things, 0:13:35.640 --> 0:13:39.280 awful things, getting stomach pumped. We've all seen it. We've 0:13:39.320 --> 0:13:41.880 all been at those parties. But she got to see 0:13:41.920 --> 0:13:45.880 what alcohol does. So now she's sixteen and she might 0:13:46.080 --> 0:13:49.199 have mimosa or whatever. She's not allowed a drink yet 0:13:49.320 --> 0:13:52.280 still for a couple of years, but she's got through 0:13:52.320 --> 0:13:55.520 those first couple of years. When you're a kid, fourteen, fifteen, 0:13:55.520 --> 0:13:58.120 you're a kid. Yeah, she's seen what it does to people, 0:13:58.840 --> 0:14:01.120 and she owned it. She go to parties and go, no, 0:14:01.160 --> 0:14:03.959 I don't drink, and then people can't question her because 0:14:04.000 --> 0:14:05.079 peer pressure is something to that. 0:14:05.200 --> 0:14:07.839 It takes a lot for a sixteen year old to 0:14:07.960 --> 0:14:11.319 be that strong. Yeah, and that that's really cool. So 0:14:11.440 --> 0:14:14.599 her mum's actually made her daughter really strong to be 0:14:14.640 --> 0:14:16.320 able to go, I don't drink, and if you don't 0:14:16.400 --> 0:14:17.520 like me, you can piss off. 0:14:17.800 --> 0:14:20.280 So I used to get so mad at my mom 0:14:20.360 --> 0:14:22.240 and dad back in the day, and now I go, 0:14:22.560 --> 0:14:26.120 I'm so glad they did what they did. I was like, 0:14:26.240 --> 0:14:28.440 I remember going, I don't want a sixteenth birthday because 0:14:28.440 --> 0:14:31.840 you're not letting me have alcohol. Like, if they let 0:14:31.920 --> 0:14:33.640 me have alcohol, I would look back and go, why 0:14:33.680 --> 0:14:35.920 did you do that? Do you know what I mean? 0:14:36.320 --> 0:14:38.800 They were streaked. I wasn't allowed to do any of that. 0:14:38.840 --> 0:14:41.640 I don't reckon. I tried. I reckon. I had, like you, 0:14:41.800 --> 0:14:44.040 half a sub zero in a sand dune at Boomer 0:14:44.120 --> 0:14:48.360 Beach with my friend Lucy when we were maybe maybe 0:14:48.400 --> 0:14:49.720 it was a summer of it turned. 0:14:49.560 --> 0:14:51.240 Sixteen, summer of sixty nine. 0:14:51.560 --> 0:14:54.240 Yeah, it was six year. The year is nineteen sixty nine. 0:14:56.560 --> 0:15:01.680 You fuck, I remember the same. I thought I was 0:15:01.960 --> 0:15:04.640 so drug. I was so scared as well, I was 0:15:04.680 --> 0:15:06.560 such a scaredy cat. That's why I never did drugs. 0:15:07.000 --> 0:15:08.120 I was just so silly. 0:15:08.240 --> 0:15:09.680 I did a lot of silly things. And I'm just 0:15:09.720 --> 0:15:12.160 really glad that there was no social media because you 0:15:12.240 --> 0:15:14.800 probably wouldn't have wanted to start a business with me. Yeah, 0:15:15.120 --> 0:15:17.720 because I'm like my child. If you get one laugh, 0:15:18.440 --> 0:15:19.400 I will keep going. 0:15:19.520 --> 0:15:20.240 I will keep going. 0:15:20.320 --> 0:15:22.400 And that's how I was as a kid. Yeah, do 0:15:22.480 --> 0:15:24.360 you give me a laugh? And I was all ready 0:15:24.400 --> 0:15:24.560 to go. 0:15:24.960 --> 0:15:27.720 But do you think that kids are gonna lie anyway? 0:15:28.160 --> 0:15:30.400 Do you think that if parents what this ad says, 0:15:30.480 --> 0:15:32.280 if we all go all right, eighty nine percent of 0:15:32.360 --> 0:15:35.000 families they're not giving their kids alcohol. That's a good thing. 0:15:35.760 --> 0:15:37.120 Do you think kids are still just going to do 0:15:37.160 --> 0:15:38.480 it anyway? They are, of course they are. 0:15:38.840 --> 0:15:40.800 But it comes down to like the social media band. 0:15:40.920 --> 0:15:43.040 You know how I said to you a few weeks ago. 0:15:43.640 --> 0:15:46.520 It just takes for one parent to be fined, Yeah, 0:15:46.760 --> 0:15:49.160 and then all the other parents would be like, well, 0:15:50.000 --> 0:15:51.920 maybe this is a thing. Maybe I shouldn't be giving 0:15:51.920 --> 0:15:54.040 my kids alcohol or having my kids on social media. 0:15:54.040 --> 0:15:55.480 I feel like the laws are there, but they're not 0:15:55.600 --> 0:15:56.400 really enforced. 0:15:56.600 --> 0:16:01.120 Yeah, we've had this conversation before about It's a tricky 0:16:01.200 --> 0:16:03.880 thing when you get to an age where you want 0:16:03.920 --> 0:16:06.240 to be open and honest with your kids. You want 0:16:06.280 --> 0:16:08.000 them to talk to you and be that person that 0:16:08.080 --> 0:16:09.920 you can talk to. But you're not their friend. You're 0:16:09.920 --> 0:16:12.520 their parents. You're there to raise them and feed them 0:16:12.600 --> 0:16:14.520 and make them healthy and make the right decisions and 0:16:14.560 --> 0:16:16.840 all that stuff. It's not until where like adults, that 0:16:16.880 --> 0:16:19.480 you can be friends with your parents. No, you want 0:16:19.520 --> 0:16:21.840 your parent as well, to be your parent, not your friend. 0:16:22.120 --> 0:16:24.720 My parents are still my parents. Yeah, hey, joby, what's what? 0:16:25.840 --> 0:16:27.800 But I'm friends with your parents. Yeah, No, I'm friends 0:16:27.800 --> 0:16:30.200 with your parents. The other day was no, you rocked up. 0:16:30.200 --> 0:16:32.400 I wasn't even there to have cust I just love. 0:16:32.360 --> 0:16:34.240 Sitting with your parents. Your dad was in his dressing gown. 0:16:34.320 --> 0:16:36.640 He was so cute. Ah, the boys. 0:16:37.760 --> 0:16:40.120 You know what, that's the thing. You're not their friends, 0:16:40.680 --> 0:16:41.440 you're their parents. 0:16:41.680 --> 0:16:46.760 Yeah. And also another stat was like thirty nine percent 0:16:46.920 --> 0:16:50.320 of kids are getting that drink or getting the alcohol 0:16:50.360 --> 0:16:53.560 from their parents. So parents could to stop just let's 0:16:53.560 --> 0:16:56.120 just all be on the same page their kids. Let's 0:16:56.160 --> 0:16:57.960 not give them alcohol. Let's have a no tolerance rule. 0:16:58.000 --> 0:17:00.840 If I find out you're drinking, you are you are 0:17:01.440 --> 0:17:02.720 grounded for the rest of the year. 0:17:03.000 --> 0:17:07.280 I'm so scared of this stage drinking and vaping. See, 0:17:07.280 --> 0:17:09.119 we didn't have that when we were kids. We all 0:17:09.200 --> 0:17:12.360 try a cigarette, but the vaping thing, because it's so unknown. 0:17:13.000 --> 0:17:14.879 I'm like, why would you want to put anything like 0:17:14.960 --> 0:17:15.600 that in your body? 0:17:15.680 --> 0:17:18.520 Can I ask? This is so dumb because I just 0:17:18.600 --> 0:17:22.480 have no idea about this kind of stuff, drugs and stuff. Vaping? 0:17:22.560 --> 0:17:24.120 What does it do? Does it get you high? 0:17:24.800 --> 0:17:27.000 No, it's got like nicotine in it, so it's like 0:17:27.040 --> 0:17:30.920 a cigarette, but it tastes like apple or grape or chocolate. Yeah, 0:17:31.119 --> 0:17:33.359 it's so bad and I'm so glad it wasn't around 0:17:33.359 --> 0:17:34.640 when I was a kid, because. 0:17:34.560 --> 0:17:35.639 You would have loved the chocolate. 0:17:35.720 --> 0:17:37.720 I would have loved the chocolate or like the grape 0:17:37.800 --> 0:17:40.240 thing like they put them in their blazer blah bubba. Yes, 0:17:40.960 --> 0:17:44.080 like it's a it's to get kids kind of hooked 0:17:44.080 --> 0:17:46.320 to mis seen so then they go to cigarettes. 0:17:47.600 --> 0:17:50.560 And is it People that vape is not cool though, 0:17:50.880 --> 0:17:52.920