1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:04,680 Speaker 1: Listeners are advised that this podcast series Bromwan contains coarse 2 00:00:04,800 --> 00:00:08,840 Speaker 1: language and adult themes. This podcast series is brought to 3 00:00:08,880 --> 00:00:34,600 Speaker 1: you by me Headley Thomas and The Australian. 4 00:00:41,880 --> 00:00:44,479 Speaker 2: I met Jody and she was adorable and needed a 5 00:00:44,520 --> 00:00:47,319 Speaker 2: mother who loved her, so everything was going to work 6 00:00:47,360 --> 00:00:50,639 Speaker 2: out well. I would look after Jody in Crystal and 7 00:00:50,720 --> 00:00:52,519 Speaker 2: he would be the perfect husband. 8 00:00:54,160 --> 00:00:57,240 Speaker 1: At the beginning of their relationship, it must have seemed 9 00:00:57,280 --> 00:01:03,040 Speaker 1: an ideal match. John sir, fit handsome single dad aged thirty, 10 00:01:03,520 --> 00:01:07,880 Speaker 1: Bromwin a strikingly attractive, slender and deeply committed single mum 11 00:01:07,920 --> 00:01:12,160 Speaker 1: of twenty three. They had shared interest from having grown 12 00:01:12,280 --> 00:01:16,039 Speaker 1: up in the same area of Sydney. Many rusted on 13 00:01:16,200 --> 00:01:21,000 Speaker 1: residents say that it's God's country. They insist Kronella's beaches 14 00:01:21,040 --> 00:01:24,760 Speaker 1: are better and the lifestyle slower, easier than in Sydney's 15 00:01:24,800 --> 00:01:30,080 Speaker 1: eastern suburbs. John's daughter Jodi, was twelve and being raised 16 00:01:30,160 --> 00:01:33,399 Speaker 1: largely by her grandparents in the Shire when Bromwyn and 17 00:01:33,480 --> 00:01:37,600 Speaker 1: John got together in nineteen eighty five. At that time, 18 00:01:37,920 --> 00:01:41,959 Speaker 1: Bronwyn was a full time mum to Crystal, age two. 19 00:01:42,319 --> 00:01:45,600 Speaker 2: We moved to South Crenella behind a milkbar. John moved in. 20 00:01:46,120 --> 00:01:48,000 Speaker 2: I found out I was pregnant and we married a 21 00:01:48,000 --> 00:01:50,160 Speaker 2: few months before Lauren was born in Ballina. 22 00:01:51,480 --> 00:01:54,960 Speaker 1: Broman's brother Andy Reid, has taken a day off work 23 00:01:55,000 --> 00:01:58,000 Speaker 1: as a construction manager to meet me for several hours 24 00:01:58,040 --> 00:02:02,520 Speaker 1: of recorded interviews. In his his wife Michelle is by 25 00:02:02,600 --> 00:02:06,559 Speaker 1: his side. Andy and Michelle met on the Famed Hill 26 00:02:06,720 --> 00:02:09,920 Speaker 1: near the old Doug Walters stand at the Sydney Cricket Ground. 27 00:02:10,919 --> 00:02:14,880 Speaker 1: Andy has kept some history about his older sister Bottled Up. 28 00:02:15,560 --> 00:02:18,480 Speaker 1: He confides that he has felt guilty for many years 29 00:02:18,520 --> 00:02:21,720 Speaker 1: over things he had done and not done for Bromwin 30 00:02:21,800 --> 00:02:26,080 Speaker 1: when she needed help. Has she been the big sister 31 00:02:26,160 --> 00:02:29,480 Speaker 1: who's been more inclined to look after you or vice versa. 32 00:02:30,240 --> 00:02:33,079 Speaker 3: Oh, she was always there for me and always there 33 00:02:33,120 --> 00:02:33,360 Speaker 3: for me. 34 00:02:34,200 --> 00:02:36,800 Speaker 4: I moved out of home at a reason early age 35 00:02:37,240 --> 00:02:40,320 Speaker 4: New Year Zoo. When I was nineteen. I got blown 36 00:02:40,400 --> 00:02:43,600 Speaker 4: up by a bonfire. Someone had doused the buddy thinking 37 00:02:43,639 --> 00:02:45,480 Speaker 4: petrol and not told me and asked for someone to 38 00:02:45,560 --> 00:02:47,560 Speaker 4: light the bonfire, and I lit it and woke up. 39 00:02:47,600 --> 00:02:49,960 Speaker 4: She went and up I went with it. I stayed 40 00:02:50,000 --> 00:02:52,959 Speaker 4: with Braun for a couple of weeks. She was nursing 41 00:02:53,000 --> 00:02:56,519 Speaker 4: me back to health and changing bandages. And she was 42 00:02:56,639 --> 00:03:00,320 Speaker 4: very nurturing, always part of my life. And she need 43 00:03:00,360 --> 00:03:04,800 Speaker 4: a hand to. Dad used to call a concert pitch 44 00:03:04,840 --> 00:03:08,600 Speaker 4: a highly strung needed support. 45 00:03:08,919 --> 00:03:11,280 Speaker 3: Loved someone to be there for her as well. But 46 00:03:11,400 --> 00:03:12,880 Speaker 3: she was also there for you. 47 00:03:14,680 --> 00:03:17,160 Speaker 1: Had you heard Roman in the past saying, I can't 48 00:03:17,200 --> 00:03:18,600 Speaker 1: handle this, the kids are just. 49 00:03:18,880 --> 00:03:20,560 Speaker 5: Driving me crazy and I've got to get away. 50 00:03:20,919 --> 00:03:24,560 Speaker 3: Never. Never, Roman was just so dating. Those kids were 51 00:03:24,560 --> 00:03:25,000 Speaker 3: her life. 52 00:03:25,200 --> 00:03:27,200 Speaker 5: Did she ever take a break away from a children? 53 00:03:28,040 --> 00:03:28,120 Speaker 6: No. 54 00:03:29,320 --> 00:03:29,519 Speaker 3: Never. 55 00:03:30,480 --> 00:03:33,160 Speaker 4: To give you a little bit of insight into Bromwin's 56 00:03:33,520 --> 00:03:41,280 Speaker 4: motherly nature, Jodie was actually raised by John Winfield's parents, 57 00:03:41,840 --> 00:03:45,200 Speaker 4: so Bromwin brought and asked John to bring Jodie out 58 00:03:45,200 --> 00:03:47,920 Speaker 4: of that environment into their environment to be part of 59 00:03:47,920 --> 00:03:51,240 Speaker 4: the family. The first time she lived in a family 60 00:03:51,280 --> 00:03:53,720 Speaker 4: or environment was at the little house down at South 61 00:03:53,800 --> 00:03:56,760 Speaker 4: Kronola where Jadie had actually moved in with John and 62 00:03:56,840 --> 00:03:59,640 Speaker 4: Bromwin and moved into the house down there. 63 00:04:00,800 --> 00:04:02,520 Speaker 3: That's the type of person Bromin was. 64 00:04:04,240 --> 00:04:07,160 Speaker 1: Michelle recalls meeting Bromwin at the time of the birth 65 00:04:07,200 --> 00:04:08,840 Speaker 1: of Lauren, her second daughter. 66 00:04:09,680 --> 00:04:11,920 Speaker 7: We got on will Yeah, she was great. She was 67 00:04:11,920 --> 00:04:17,920 Speaker 7: a lovely person, a beautiful mum, spoke kindly to the kids, 68 00:04:18,320 --> 00:04:23,880 Speaker 7: was caring, looked after them. They were always beautifully presented. 69 00:04:24,200 --> 00:04:28,440 Speaker 1: And how would you describe the relationship between her and 70 00:04:29,040 --> 00:04:30,200 Speaker 1: John at that time? 71 00:04:30,240 --> 00:04:33,520 Speaker 7: From what you saw, John was the type of person 72 00:04:33,920 --> 00:04:37,440 Speaker 7: who was always he was doing his own thing. He 73 00:04:37,680 --> 00:04:42,640 Speaker 7: often went surfing, did that a lot. If we were there, 74 00:04:42,800 --> 00:04:46,279 Speaker 7: he'd come in, he'd say the hi, how are you 75 00:04:46,400 --> 00:04:50,159 Speaker 7: kind of thing? Nothing in depth. I don't remember anything 76 00:04:50,240 --> 00:04:54,400 Speaker 7: in depth with John, and they need zay on going 77 00:04:54,440 --> 00:04:57,400 Speaker 7: for a surf. He was always one of those in 78 00:04:57,480 --> 00:04:59,159 Speaker 7: and out, Hi, how are you going? 79 00:04:59,279 --> 00:04:59,479 Speaker 6: Yeah? 80 00:05:00,160 --> 00:05:04,120 Speaker 7: In and out, in and out. He wasn't always around. 81 00:05:05,839 --> 00:05:08,200 Speaker 2: I often begged him to spend more time with us, 82 00:05:08,279 --> 00:05:11,159 Speaker 2: as I had postnatal depression after having Lauren and didn't 83 00:05:11,200 --> 00:05:15,560 Speaker 2: have anyone around to help. Never ever met very many 84 00:05:15,600 --> 00:05:17,400 Speaker 2: of the people he worked with, or any of the 85 00:05:17,440 --> 00:05:21,120 Speaker 2: people he went down the coast with. His mother hated 86 00:05:21,160 --> 00:05:24,080 Speaker 2: the fact that I had heard John so never looked 87 00:05:24,080 --> 00:05:27,920 Speaker 2: after Lauren or any of the girls. I was dreadfully lonely, 88 00:05:28,040 --> 00:05:30,520 Speaker 2: but never complained too much as he was always tired 89 00:05:30,560 --> 00:05:34,520 Speaker 2: from working. In the end, I threw myself into looking 90 00:05:34,520 --> 00:05:35,440 Speaker 2: after the children. 91 00:05:36,920 --> 00:05:41,560 Speaker 7: I know when we would visit there, like we'd go 92 00:05:41,640 --> 00:05:43,280 Speaker 7: to have a cup of tea or something, and she'd 93 00:05:43,320 --> 00:05:49,080 Speaker 7: open up the cupboards and she'd make comments like, oh, yeah, 94 00:05:49,080 --> 00:05:54,239 Speaker 7: I can only afford to buy generic food and tins 95 00:05:54,279 --> 00:05:57,000 Speaker 7: and stuff like that. He only gives me sixty dollars 96 00:05:57,040 --> 00:06:01,120 Speaker 7: a week. I knew that John was a person who 97 00:06:02,720 --> 00:06:04,080 Speaker 7: ran the house. 98 00:06:05,360 --> 00:06:08,080 Speaker 2: I found it harder to cope with Lauren's sleepless nights 99 00:06:08,120 --> 00:06:11,720 Speaker 2: and John never being around, but I slowly became friends 100 00:06:11,760 --> 00:06:14,440 Speaker 2: with a few people, and I then joined playgroup and 101 00:06:14,520 --> 00:06:18,320 Speaker 2: met heaps of great people. Unfortunately, John didn't want to 102 00:06:18,320 --> 00:06:21,400 Speaker 2: socialize at all, so I started to go out and 103 00:06:21,440 --> 00:06:25,159 Speaker 2: do things for myself. Playgroup and the people I met 104 00:06:25,160 --> 00:06:27,640 Speaker 2: there kept me amused and gave me time for myself. 105 00:06:28,600 --> 00:06:30,359 Speaker 2: I also had enough time for the children. 106 00:06:31,920 --> 00:06:35,000 Speaker 1: I went to see Bromwin's friend from the nineteen nineties, 107 00:06:35,040 --> 00:06:39,600 Speaker 1: Denise Barnard, at her home in Lenox, his years recalling 108 00:06:39,640 --> 00:06:40,960 Speaker 1: that time of their lives. 109 00:06:42,160 --> 00:06:42,240 Speaker 3: Well. 110 00:06:42,279 --> 00:06:44,719 Speaker 6: I was in the playgroup as a secretary. She was 111 00:06:44,800 --> 00:06:47,240 Speaker 6: the president, and she would often come to my home 112 00:06:47,320 --> 00:06:51,000 Speaker 6: because I couldn't go to hers. John was quite antisocial, 113 00:06:51,440 --> 00:06:54,200 Speaker 6: didn't like having people there because they might make a mess. 114 00:06:54,600 --> 00:06:59,120 Speaker 6: He had a very i'd say, like an OCD almost 115 00:06:59,400 --> 00:07:00,200 Speaker 6: about the us. 116 00:07:01,560 --> 00:07:03,320 Speaker 3: She told you that, didn't she? 117 00:07:03,640 --> 00:07:07,320 Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, but I did witness it as well. Crystal 118 00:07:07,320 --> 00:07:10,320 Speaker 6: had spilt the lemonade and the floor, and Browin had 119 00:07:10,320 --> 00:07:13,000 Speaker 6: got down and was cleaning it up with a toothbrush. 120 00:07:13,320 --> 00:07:15,520 Speaker 6: And John came in to say what to be spilled 121 00:07:15,520 --> 00:07:17,760 Speaker 6: on the floor, and Broman said she'd done it. She 122 00:07:17,800 --> 00:07:20,400 Speaker 6: didn't want him going off a crystal. She told me 123 00:07:20,440 --> 00:07:24,840 Speaker 6: this very particular with the house. He'd done some work 124 00:07:24,840 --> 00:07:25,760 Speaker 6: for us at our house. 125 00:07:26,800 --> 00:07:29,280 Speaker 3: Was there any problem with John's work? 126 00:07:30,680 --> 00:07:34,200 Speaker 6: He's an amazing bricklayer, is he? Yeah? Yeah, he's a 127 00:07:34,320 --> 00:07:39,320 Speaker 6: very very talented tradesman. My husband's very particular and John 128 00:07:39,480 --> 00:07:40,200 Speaker 6: had that skill. 129 00:07:41,600 --> 00:07:44,720 Speaker 1: You'll hear more from Denise later in this episode. 130 00:07:45,480 --> 00:07:47,680 Speaker 7: If there was anything out of place in the house, 131 00:07:48,120 --> 00:07:52,320 Speaker 7: it would be a big argument. If anyone spilt anything 132 00:07:52,360 --> 00:07:54,760 Speaker 7: on the floor, she would have to get down and 133 00:07:54,760 --> 00:07:57,720 Speaker 7: scrub it up, because if John felt a sticky bit 134 00:07:57,800 --> 00:08:01,560 Speaker 7: on the floor, he'd go off his brain. A very 135 00:08:01,800 --> 00:08:03,320 Speaker 7: volatile type of person. 136 00:08:03,880 --> 00:08:06,960 Speaker 1: Those things you're talking about in relation to spills and 137 00:08:07,000 --> 00:08:11,600 Speaker 1: so on, are they what you witnessed or heard her talking. 138 00:08:11,440 --> 00:08:13,760 Speaker 7: About Honey, what she'd told us? 139 00:08:14,240 --> 00:08:17,520 Speaker 1: When did you become aware that there were serious tensions 140 00:08:17,560 --> 00:08:22,000 Speaker 1: in their relationship? Michelle is the first to acknowledge that 141 00:08:22,120 --> 00:08:25,800 Speaker 1: even close relatives never really know for sure what is 142 00:08:25,840 --> 00:08:28,360 Speaker 1: going on in another couple's marriage. 143 00:08:29,240 --> 00:08:32,240 Speaker 7: What you see on the outside isn't always what's happening 144 00:08:32,240 --> 00:08:35,680 Speaker 7: on the inside. Is it what happens behind closed doors 145 00:08:35,800 --> 00:08:39,040 Speaker 7: in someone's house. The only people who can really tell 146 00:08:39,080 --> 00:08:43,360 Speaker 7: you about that is Broman, and she can't and John, 147 00:08:43,440 --> 00:08:43,760 Speaker 7: and he. 148 00:08:43,760 --> 00:08:50,080 Speaker 1: Wrote perhaps the relationship was always doomed. Michelle believes she 149 00:08:50,120 --> 00:08:52,640 Speaker 1: can put her finger on one of the most distressing 150 00:08:52,800 --> 00:08:57,640 Speaker 1: and serious catalysts for it to go irretrievably bad. Roman 151 00:08:57,840 --> 00:09:01,160 Speaker 1: was living with John in Sandstone Present when she told 152 00:09:01,200 --> 00:09:04,120 Speaker 1: Michelle and Andy that she had wanted to have a 153 00:09:04,160 --> 00:09:05,000 Speaker 1: third child. 154 00:09:06,080 --> 00:09:09,240 Speaker 7: She'd become pregnant. She'd wanted to keep the child, and 155 00:09:09,720 --> 00:09:12,880 Speaker 7: John didn't want to. John had just lost his mum 156 00:09:12,920 --> 00:09:19,640 Speaker 7: and he was particularly close to his mother and he 157 00:09:20,040 --> 00:09:24,920 Speaker 7: wasn't coping with that. He insisted she have an abortion. 158 00:09:25,000 --> 00:09:26,199 Speaker 7: He didn't want any more kids. 159 00:09:27,480 --> 00:09:32,040 Speaker 1: Bromwin told other friends about this. They have shared their recollections, 160 00:09:32,080 --> 00:09:37,000 Speaker 1: and the accounts are consistent is Deb Hall from next door. 161 00:09:38,200 --> 00:09:42,959 Speaker 8: She fell pregnant and she was really torn. He did 162 00:09:42,960 --> 00:09:46,440 Speaker 8: not want another child. She wanted another baby, she loved kids. 163 00:09:46,920 --> 00:09:49,320 Speaker 8: She didn't go ahead with it, but I know she 164 00:09:49,840 --> 00:09:53,280 Speaker 8: struggled big time over that, as you would. 165 00:09:53,880 --> 00:09:55,719 Speaker 9: That kind of like to me was the catalyst of 166 00:09:55,760 --> 00:09:56,479 Speaker 9: their marriage. 167 00:09:56,840 --> 00:09:58,240 Speaker 8: And I thought, you know what, you've got to get 168 00:09:58,280 --> 00:10:01,120 Speaker 8: away from this guy if you're that miserable when he's controlling. 169 00:10:02,280 --> 00:10:05,120 Speaker 8: And I did used to say to her when you know, 170 00:10:05,160 --> 00:10:08,160 Speaker 8: when she'd had her crying sessions about him down here, 171 00:10:08,200 --> 00:10:10,120 Speaker 8: and I say, Rowin, you can't. 172 00:10:09,960 --> 00:10:12,000 Speaker 3: Live like this. You've got to get away from him. 173 00:10:12,440 --> 00:10:14,120 Speaker 9: Oh but I've got nowhere to go, and I'll have 174 00:10:14,240 --> 00:10:17,120 Speaker 9: no money. And that went on for a while. 175 00:10:18,600 --> 00:10:21,960 Speaker 1: Romman's medical records show that she became pregnant in the 176 00:10:22,000 --> 00:10:25,800 Speaker 1: second half of November nineteen ninety brow. 177 00:10:26,080 --> 00:10:28,800 Speaker 7: Being the type of person that she is, well, she 178 00:10:28,920 --> 00:10:34,959 Speaker 7: loved kids. Having the abortion was probably heartbreaking for her, 179 00:10:36,240 --> 00:10:41,520 Speaker 7: and for him to have insisted on it then that 180 00:10:41,559 --> 00:10:43,840 Speaker 7: would have been another nail in the coffin, so to speak, 181 00:10:43,880 --> 00:10:45,600 Speaker 7: on their marriage. 182 00:10:46,120 --> 00:10:49,439 Speaker 1: How would you describe her level of distress over that? 183 00:10:50,320 --> 00:10:51,360 Speaker 10: It was a hard time. 184 00:10:52,360 --> 00:10:57,840 Speaker 7: That was stressful for everybody. And that's when in that 185 00:10:57,960 --> 00:11:02,319 Speaker 7: conversation she had said to me again, if anything ever 186 00:11:02,440 --> 00:11:07,440 Speaker 7: happened to her, would I would we make sure that 187 00:11:07,559 --> 00:11:11,280 Speaker 7: Crystal was looked after? Would we look after Crystal? 188 00:11:12,200 --> 00:11:16,520 Speaker 1: You never saw any signs of physical assault or bruising 189 00:11:16,679 --> 00:11:17,280 Speaker 1: on Romwin. 190 00:11:21,400 --> 00:11:24,640 Speaker 7: No, I can't say that we did, but we weren't 191 00:11:24,720 --> 00:11:31,480 Speaker 7: living nearby anymore. They'd moved to lennex Head. One day 192 00:11:31,880 --> 00:11:38,040 Speaker 7: Jody came around to visit. Mitchell was little and he 193 00:11:38,200 --> 00:11:44,800 Speaker 7: was just born. I was asking Jody how everyone was. 194 00:11:45,920 --> 00:11:49,120 Speaker 7: I instigated a bit of talk about Romwin and John 195 00:11:49,200 --> 00:11:53,080 Speaker 7: and she had been living up there and then I 196 00:11:53,120 --> 00:11:57,320 Speaker 7: know she went up and down fairly regularly, so she 197 00:11:57,720 --> 00:12:00,160 Speaker 7: saw them a lot more than we did. I said, 198 00:11:59,800 --> 00:12:04,560 Speaker 7: tod ever, argue like, was there ever any arguments and 199 00:12:05,040 --> 00:12:08,280 Speaker 7: stuff like that? And she said, oh, I remember one 200 00:12:08,360 --> 00:12:12,840 Speaker 7: day Brumbell was sitting in a chair and he picked 201 00:12:12,840 --> 00:12:15,760 Speaker 7: her up in the chair and dropped it with her 202 00:12:15,840 --> 00:12:20,080 Speaker 7: in it. That was an argument they were having. And 203 00:12:20,120 --> 00:12:23,319 Speaker 7: I was quite really surprised, like I hadn't. 204 00:12:23,080 --> 00:12:24,800 Speaker 3: Heard stuff like that before. 205 00:12:25,760 --> 00:12:29,800 Speaker 7: And I had written that down, of course, And that 206 00:12:29,880 --> 00:12:32,960 Speaker 7: was in nineteen ninety three, and when that was brought 207 00:12:33,040 --> 00:12:36,480 Speaker 7: up at the inquest. She couldn't recall having said that 208 00:12:36,600 --> 00:12:39,840 Speaker 7: or denied it one or the other. Crystal used to 209 00:12:39,880 --> 00:12:45,800 Speaker 7: say that there was lots of yelling and arguing. I 210 00:12:45,840 --> 00:12:49,160 Speaker 7: know Bromwan wasn't allowed to look sideways at anybody. He 211 00:12:49,320 --> 00:12:50,360 Speaker 7: was a jealous person. 212 00:13:15,280 --> 00:13:18,640 Speaker 1: In her writing in nineteen ninety three, Bromwin refers to 213 00:13:18,679 --> 00:13:22,120 Speaker 1: a platonic friendship she forged with a single dad and 214 00:13:22,160 --> 00:13:26,040 Speaker 1: his child. They were housemates for a time shortly before 215 00:13:26,120 --> 00:13:28,360 Speaker 1: John and Bromwin started seeing each other. 216 00:13:29,480 --> 00:13:33,320 Speaker 2: A genuinely nice man, but he was a friend. Wonder 217 00:13:33,440 --> 00:13:35,480 Speaker 2: how they're going, as John would have had a fit 218 00:13:35,559 --> 00:13:37,960 Speaker 2: if I'd rung to see how they were going. He 219 00:13:38,000 --> 00:13:41,080 Speaker 2: would have thought there was something going on, paranoia. 220 00:13:42,240 --> 00:13:43,160 Speaker 3: Here's deb Hall. 221 00:13:44,240 --> 00:13:46,839 Speaker 8: When I first met from them, they were building the 222 00:13:46,880 --> 00:13:50,160 Speaker 8: house next door and I was at the front here 223 00:13:50,240 --> 00:13:54,000 Speaker 8: on my veranda, and she came down to introduce them. Yeah, 224 00:13:54,080 --> 00:13:56,920 Speaker 8: we got chatting them him and welcome to the neighborhood. 225 00:13:57,280 --> 00:13:57,880 Speaker 6: We were chatting. 226 00:13:57,920 --> 00:14:00,240 Speaker 8: We had things in common, we had kids and the 227 00:14:00,240 --> 00:14:02,160 Speaker 8: same age. She was about the same age as me. 228 00:14:03,200 --> 00:14:07,280 Speaker 8: But whilst I was talking to her, she kind of 229 00:14:09,160 --> 00:14:13,600 Speaker 8: broke down and I hadn't met her before, and she 230 00:14:13,720 --> 00:14:14,560 Speaker 8: started to cry. 231 00:14:15,360 --> 00:14:17,320 Speaker 9: She said, I've just got some things going on with 232 00:14:17,360 --> 00:14:20,040 Speaker 9: my husband. And I thought, no, I don't even know you. 233 00:14:20,520 --> 00:14:22,360 Speaker 3: And that struck me and I went, oh. 234 00:14:22,760 --> 00:14:23,840 Speaker 9: There's anything I can do. 235 00:14:24,080 --> 00:14:24,600 Speaker 11: Let me know. 236 00:14:25,080 --> 00:14:27,200 Speaker 8: She didn't sort of elaborate, and I didn't kind of 237 00:14:27,200 --> 00:14:28,760 Speaker 8: push the agenda, and. 238 00:14:28,680 --> 00:14:29,280 Speaker 3: Then she went. 239 00:14:29,760 --> 00:14:31,880 Speaker 8: When they moved into the house, we got to know 240 00:14:31,960 --> 00:14:32,920 Speaker 8: each other very well. 241 00:14:33,400 --> 00:14:34,560 Speaker 3: She would be here a lot. 242 00:14:34,920 --> 00:14:37,120 Speaker 8: The reason she would be at my house was because 243 00:14:37,480 --> 00:14:41,280 Speaker 8: John would not allow anyone to come to their house. 244 00:14:41,800 --> 00:14:44,280 Speaker 8: John was an absolute neat freak. I mean you could 245 00:14:44,320 --> 00:14:47,160 Speaker 8: eat off the floor, nothing was out of place, and 246 00:14:47,280 --> 00:14:50,240 Speaker 8: Rowan was neat. But she wanted a house to we 247 00:14:50,320 --> 00:14:53,160 Speaker 8: lived in. They had kids, so I had four kids, 248 00:14:53,400 --> 00:14:55,440 Speaker 8: but they were never allowed in the house. If they 249 00:14:55,440 --> 00:14:56,880 Speaker 8: went up there to play, they had to play in 250 00:14:56,880 --> 00:14:59,840 Speaker 8: the garage. But quite often she would offload to me 251 00:15:00,320 --> 00:15:02,720 Speaker 8: about him. How you know, he wouldn't let her have 252 00:15:02,840 --> 00:15:03,640 Speaker 8: this and wouldn't let. 253 00:15:03,560 --> 00:15:03,960 Speaker 3: Her do that. 254 00:15:04,560 --> 00:15:07,720 Speaker 8: When I ever I spoke to him, it would always 255 00:15:07,840 --> 00:15:11,240 Speaker 8: just be polite conversation. I think they came down here 256 00:15:11,240 --> 00:15:13,680 Speaker 8: once or twice and had a dream. But Roman would 257 00:15:13,680 --> 00:15:15,040 Speaker 8: come down here all the time we sit and have 258 00:15:15,040 --> 00:15:16,240 Speaker 8: coffee for hours. 259 00:15:17,560 --> 00:15:21,360 Speaker 1: In early nineteen ninety Michelle and Andy were newly weird 260 00:15:21,400 --> 00:15:25,600 Speaker 1: and holidaying in Queensland for their honeymoon. They decided to 261 00:15:25,640 --> 00:15:28,280 Speaker 1: stop in at Lennox Head on the drive back to 262 00:15:28,360 --> 00:15:30,320 Speaker 1: Sydney to see Andy's. 263 00:15:29,880 --> 00:15:34,440 Speaker 7: Sister and Roman and the kids weren't there. Only John was, 264 00:15:34,880 --> 00:15:38,440 Speaker 7: and we kind of thought, oh, that's crazy, where are they? 265 00:15:39,080 --> 00:15:43,760 Speaker 7: And he said, ah, they're in Sydney having a holiday. 266 00:15:43,800 --> 00:15:47,520 Speaker 7: I think was he said. We found out later that 267 00:15:48,400 --> 00:15:53,520 Speaker 7: heat up and left Uncle John's house, which is Andrew's uncle, 268 00:15:54,560 --> 00:15:58,200 Speaker 7: and left them there and taken himself back to Lenox Head. 269 00:15:58,520 --> 00:16:01,200 Speaker 7: There'd been some sort of ish and that was probably 270 00:16:02,280 --> 00:16:04,640 Speaker 7: I don't know, I suppose when I first started to think, oh, 271 00:16:04,720 --> 00:16:06,320 Speaker 7: let's be crazy, like who does that. 272 00:16:08,080 --> 00:16:11,400 Speaker 1: There was another incident remembered by the Reed family and 273 00:16:11,600 --> 00:16:15,880 Speaker 1: cited as evidence of John having a callous disregard for Bromwin. 274 00:16:16,720 --> 00:16:20,600 Speaker 1: Bromin's uncle John and Auntie Leah were hosting Bromwin and 275 00:16:20,680 --> 00:16:24,280 Speaker 1: John Winfield with their young children overnight in the Reed 276 00:16:24,360 --> 00:16:30,400 Speaker 1: home in Sydney. It was Christmas nineteen ninety two. 277 00:16:29,480 --> 00:16:32,880 Speaker 12: And he said he was going to Newcastle to look 278 00:16:32,920 --> 00:16:35,360 Speaker 12: at a car, and I said, you're going to be 279 00:16:35,440 --> 00:16:39,480 Speaker 12: back for dinner, and oh, yes, yes. We cooked dinner 280 00:16:39,480 --> 00:16:43,280 Speaker 12: and waited and waited and he hadn't turned up. And 281 00:16:43,320 --> 00:16:46,080 Speaker 12: I said to bromin about half us nine ten, do 282 00:16:46,120 --> 00:16:48,120 Speaker 12: you think he's coming back? And she did, no, I 283 00:16:48,200 --> 00:16:51,640 Speaker 12: don't think he is. And she was left here and 284 00:16:51,680 --> 00:16:55,760 Speaker 12: we were going overseas within a couple of days. We 285 00:16:55,880 --> 00:17:00,240 Speaker 12: gave him money and we had nobody around here could 286 00:17:00,280 --> 00:17:03,800 Speaker 12: help him. That time. When he didn't come back, she 287 00:17:03,960 --> 00:17:06,480 Speaker 12: indicated that they were having problems. 288 00:17:06,800 --> 00:17:08,200 Speaker 3: It was really strong, and it. 289 00:17:08,240 --> 00:17:12,399 Speaker 12: Was his father that came and picked her up and 290 00:17:12,600 --> 00:17:17,240 Speaker 12: drove her back up to home. Obviously John had taken 291 00:17:17,320 --> 00:17:20,439 Speaker 12: off and had no intention of coming back and picking 292 00:17:20,440 --> 00:17:20,720 Speaker 12: her up. 293 00:17:22,440 --> 00:17:26,320 Speaker 1: Ronman's cousin Megan Reid, says she was there and that 294 00:17:26,400 --> 00:17:30,840 Speaker 1: the occasion was a lunch on Boxing Day, December twenty six, 295 00:17:31,359 --> 00:17:35,520 Speaker 1: not at dinner, as remembered by her mother, Leah Bosting. 296 00:17:35,600 --> 00:17:39,159 Speaker 12: Day was to read Christmas poets. 297 00:17:38,560 --> 00:17:40,080 Speaker 6: The whole turkey and all the rest. 298 00:17:39,880 --> 00:17:42,080 Speaker 12: Of it, and so Bonn went and the family, they 299 00:17:42,080 --> 00:17:44,879 Speaker 12: were all there. He never would have thought anything was wrong, 300 00:17:45,160 --> 00:17:48,239 Speaker 12: no fight for whatever, and he said he'd be back 301 00:17:48,280 --> 00:17:50,920 Speaker 12: by one day, two o'clock for lunch. Well, he never 302 00:17:50,960 --> 00:17:53,480 Speaker 12: showed up, and it wasn't sure. About nine hours later 303 00:17:53,560 --> 00:17:55,639 Speaker 12: that we found it out he was back at lenach Shad, 304 00:17:56,200 --> 00:17:57,359 Speaker 12: but he just choldn't back. 305 00:17:57,680 --> 00:18:00,480 Speaker 3: But what was his explanation for just taking. 306 00:18:00,720 --> 00:18:03,400 Speaker 10: Oh, there wasn't one. We never got an explanation. 307 00:18:03,760 --> 00:18:07,000 Speaker 12: Where were gobsmacked perfectly honest. Mom and dad didn't know 308 00:18:07,000 --> 00:18:10,680 Speaker 12: what to do, and John refused point blank to pay 309 00:18:10,680 --> 00:18:12,520 Speaker 12: for them to be flown home. But this is the 310 00:18:12,680 --> 00:18:15,320 Speaker 12: second occurrence, very very strange. 311 00:18:15,800 --> 00:18:17,360 Speaker 10: At the end, I'm going to tell you. 312 00:18:17,800 --> 00:18:21,639 Speaker 12: The first time was when Andrew got married January nineteen ninety. 313 00:18:22,080 --> 00:18:22,960 Speaker 6: Woman came down. 314 00:18:23,080 --> 00:18:24,800 Speaker 12: In fact, the photo is the police used were the 315 00:18:24,800 --> 00:18:27,560 Speaker 12: ones I took for her in the purple dress. But 316 00:18:27,600 --> 00:18:29,879 Speaker 12: he went back to learn i'd set again. So that 317 00:18:30,000 --> 00:18:32,560 Speaker 12: was the first time he did it. Roman It ended 318 00:18:32,600 --> 00:18:34,000 Speaker 12: up staying for quite some time. 319 00:18:34,040 --> 00:18:37,040 Speaker 5: Both times, here's Michelle again. 320 00:18:38,160 --> 00:18:43,280 Speaker 7: She would bring up. She would be saying that things like, oh, 321 00:18:43,960 --> 00:18:46,960 Speaker 7: I'm not very happy, I'm not happy with John and 322 00:18:47,000 --> 00:18:52,000 Speaker 7: stuff like that. I'm thinking about moving out and we 323 00:18:52,080 --> 00:18:54,480 Speaker 7: had a baby. I said to her, well, do you 324 00:18:54,480 --> 00:18:56,560 Speaker 7: want to move back to Sydney like, I can help 325 00:18:56,600 --> 00:19:01,600 Speaker 7: you try and find somewhere to live, and she'd say, 326 00:19:01,640 --> 00:19:02,760 Speaker 7: I can't afford to do that. 327 00:19:02,880 --> 00:19:03,800 Speaker 10: I've got no money. 328 00:19:04,640 --> 00:19:07,639 Speaker 7: And then she'd say, you know, if anything ever happens 329 00:19:07,680 --> 00:19:09,920 Speaker 7: to me, will you promise me you'll look after Crystal, 330 00:19:10,400 --> 00:19:17,439 Speaker 7: particularly Crystal, because Crystal was not John's genetic child whereas 331 00:19:17,480 --> 00:19:22,280 Speaker 7: Lauren was. She kind of felt that John would look 332 00:19:22,320 --> 00:19:24,679 Speaker 7: after his own more than he would look after Crystal, 333 00:19:24,720 --> 00:19:31,320 Speaker 7: which rang through in the end. We would discuss what 334 00:19:31,560 --> 00:19:35,440 Speaker 7: was happening, and we even thought, oh, we can't even 335 00:19:35,480 --> 00:19:37,280 Speaker 7: really put them up here. We're in a little three 336 00:19:37,320 --> 00:19:41,359 Speaker 7: bedroom home. We had hardly any room to fit another 337 00:19:41,600 --> 00:19:46,560 Speaker 7: person and two kids. Another time she rang up and 338 00:19:46,640 --> 00:19:50,560 Speaker 7: she was unhappy and was talking about leaving him again, 339 00:19:50,720 --> 00:19:56,040 Speaker 7: and said again the next time about looking after the 340 00:19:56,119 --> 00:19:59,240 Speaker 7: kids if anything ever happened to me. She never ever 341 00:19:59,359 --> 00:20:04,280 Speaker 7: said straight out, oh, I think John's going to do 342 00:20:04,359 --> 00:20:08,399 Speaker 7: something to me. That never got said. It just got implied. 343 00:20:09,680 --> 00:20:13,760 Speaker 1: When she was saying, where's the effect if something happens 344 00:20:13,760 --> 00:20:14,000 Speaker 1: to me? 345 00:20:16,040 --> 00:20:17,760 Speaker 5: I guess There's a couple of different ways you can 346 00:20:17,800 --> 00:20:21,560 Speaker 5: interpret that. She may self harm. For example, she might 347 00:20:21,600 --> 00:20:22,320 Speaker 5: have a health. 348 00:20:22,119 --> 00:20:27,200 Speaker 1: Issue, or she may be fearful of a partner. Do 349 00:20:27,240 --> 00:20:30,560 Speaker 1: you recall what you took from it at that time? 350 00:20:31,080 --> 00:20:39,040 Speaker 7: Oh, definitely fearful. We knew she wasn't unwill she would 351 00:20:39,119 --> 00:20:45,639 Speaker 7: never leave her kids. She loved those kids wholeheartedly, like 352 00:20:46,280 --> 00:20:49,280 Speaker 7: everything for her. It was fear. It was fear of John. 353 00:20:50,520 --> 00:20:51,280 Speaker 7: I just knew that. 354 00:20:52,440 --> 00:20:56,040 Speaker 1: Why do you think she didn't actually express that bluntly? 355 00:20:57,240 --> 00:21:01,080 Speaker 7: Maybe her fear of him find out out she'd said that. 356 00:21:02,760 --> 00:21:07,480 Speaker 1: Michelle recalls Broman telling her about John's volatility and his 357 00:21:07,840 --> 00:21:11,840 Speaker 1: intolerance for visitors in his house, his castle. 358 00:21:12,720 --> 00:21:16,800 Speaker 7: He didn't want anyone there. He didn't want her having friends. 359 00:21:17,960 --> 00:21:20,199 Speaker 7: A really strange bloat. 360 00:21:21,560 --> 00:21:21,879 Speaker 3: Andy. 361 00:21:22,320 --> 00:21:25,960 Speaker 5: Around this time, when Robin was telling you. 362 00:21:25,840 --> 00:21:30,720 Speaker 1: About her troubles in the marriage, you were counseling her 363 00:21:30,920 --> 00:21:35,520 Speaker 1: to try to work things through and keep a marriage intact. 364 00:21:35,720 --> 00:21:39,159 Speaker 4: Do you remember that I was doing my best to 365 00:21:39,200 --> 00:21:42,680 Speaker 4: sort of advise Brian to do her best to see 366 00:21:42,720 --> 00:21:44,320 Speaker 4: if she could work through it. 367 00:21:45,320 --> 00:21:48,440 Speaker 3: She had a previous marriage. 368 00:21:48,720 --> 00:21:51,560 Speaker 4: I knew John was very controlling, you know, with money 369 00:21:51,600 --> 00:21:54,199 Speaker 4: and all the rest of it. She was on that 370 00:21:54,320 --> 00:21:56,639 Speaker 4: tide of budget that she used to hand so all 371 00:21:56,680 --> 00:22:00,000 Speaker 4: the kids, little dressed, little summer dresses and things like that. 372 00:22:01,040 --> 00:22:02,840 Speaker 4: But I was just sort of doing my best to 373 00:22:02,880 --> 00:22:06,400 Speaker 4: see if she tried everything before she threw the town 374 00:22:06,440 --> 00:22:09,680 Speaker 4: in Tremerally, people have probably got this very talle that 375 00:22:09,720 --> 00:22:11,600 Speaker 4: you're going to meet someone and you have your first 376 00:22:11,680 --> 00:22:14,320 Speaker 4: kiss and lost a better roses for the rest of 377 00:22:14,359 --> 00:22:17,280 Speaker 4: your life, like a good marriage, you're a long lasting 378 00:22:17,280 --> 00:22:20,160 Speaker 4: marriage or something that's worked at and you just need 379 00:22:20,160 --> 00:22:22,440 Speaker 4: to be good mates and good friends and support each 380 00:22:22,440 --> 00:22:25,160 Speaker 4: other and that sort of thing. So I was sort 381 00:22:25,160 --> 00:22:30,640 Speaker 4: of adamant that after witnessing sort of the upbringing I had, 382 00:22:32,000 --> 00:22:34,959 Speaker 4: I thought it's a good idea for Bronda, maybe at 383 00:22:35,040 --> 00:22:35,879 Speaker 4: least try. 384 00:22:36,119 --> 00:22:37,040 Speaker 3: As much as she could. 385 00:22:38,160 --> 00:22:43,080 Speaker 1: But Debhall knew that a reconciliation was pointless, if not impossible. 386 00:22:43,840 --> 00:22:47,399 Speaker 8: To my astonishment, one day, she and I can't remember 387 00:22:47,400 --> 00:22:50,080 Speaker 8: exactly when it was, but she told me she was 388 00:22:50,119 --> 00:22:52,679 Speaker 8: going to leave him. And I said, oh, okay, well 389 00:22:52,680 --> 00:22:54,239 Speaker 8: where are you going to go? And she said, I've 390 00:22:54,320 --> 00:22:57,720 Speaker 8: organized the place down in Lennox. I said, well that's good. 391 00:22:58,240 --> 00:23:01,200 Speaker 8: I said, well, you know what is John thing. Well, 392 00:23:01,240 --> 00:23:03,280 Speaker 8: he's agreeable to it, and I'm. 393 00:23:03,080 --> 00:23:06,359 Speaker 9: Going to move down there, and so she did. I 394 00:23:06,400 --> 00:23:07,200 Speaker 9: did visit her there. 395 00:23:07,240 --> 00:23:07,920 Speaker 3: She got a dog. 396 00:23:08,320 --> 00:23:10,439 Speaker 8: The kids always wanted a puppy, and then she thought, well, 397 00:23:10,440 --> 00:23:11,520 Speaker 8: I'm going to get him a puppy. 398 00:23:11,720 --> 00:23:14,000 Speaker 9: And I used to think, oh, she's really branching out, 399 00:23:14,040 --> 00:23:16,000 Speaker 9: you know, she's really and she had a job at 400 00:23:16,040 --> 00:23:19,280 Speaker 9: the cafe down there, and she was sort of getting 401 00:23:19,280 --> 00:23:21,159 Speaker 9: on with it. And you'd go down there and the 402 00:23:21,160 --> 00:23:23,199 Speaker 9: house has lived in, the kids had their stuff, and 403 00:23:23,200 --> 00:23:25,479 Speaker 9: that my kids would go and play, and you know, 404 00:23:25,560 --> 00:23:29,560 Speaker 9: it was just a normal environment, albeit a little bit 405 00:23:29,600 --> 00:23:31,360 Speaker 9: difficult for her. 406 00:23:32,119 --> 00:23:33,879 Speaker 5: Why did she even move out? 407 00:23:34,160 --> 00:23:37,080 Speaker 1: She didn't have a choice. It's a jointly owned house, 408 00:23:39,000 --> 00:23:42,040 Speaker 1: not in Don's ice. But would it have been a 409 00:23:42,119 --> 00:23:44,120 Speaker 1: legally jointly owned house to your knowledge? 410 00:23:44,280 --> 00:23:45,840 Speaker 3: Of course it should have been. Of course it would 411 00:23:45,840 --> 00:23:46,120 Speaker 3: have been. 412 00:23:46,440 --> 00:23:50,040 Speaker 1: And in a situation like that, where there's a mother, 413 00:23:50,119 --> 00:23:53,640 Speaker 1: a father and two girls being raised ostensibly by Bromwin, 414 00:23:55,320 --> 00:24:00,679 Speaker 1: it's normal for the male to leave the family, not 415 00:24:01,200 --> 00:24:02,320 Speaker 1: the moment of the kids to be up. 416 00:24:02,359 --> 00:24:05,600 Speaker 4: Ready, she was forced out, basically. I remember having the 417 00:24:05,640 --> 00:24:08,080 Speaker 4: conversation that she just said, she doesn't have a choice. 418 00:24:08,119 --> 00:24:11,440 Speaker 4: She's going to have to find somewhere to go. And 419 00:24:11,480 --> 00:24:14,800 Speaker 4: that's when I believe that she'd found that little townhouse 420 00:24:14,840 --> 00:24:16,800 Speaker 4: down in Byron Street. 421 00:24:18,440 --> 00:24:20,080 Speaker 7: Turn left onto Byron Street. 422 00:24:22,640 --> 00:24:27,320 Speaker 1: At that time, Michelle and Andy were having their second child, Mitchell. 423 00:24:28,400 --> 00:24:31,400 Speaker 1: Andy wonders how things would have turned out if their 424 00:24:31,440 --> 00:24:33,240 Speaker 1: lives had been less hectic. 425 00:24:33,359 --> 00:24:35,560 Speaker 7: Then we were trying to tell her we'd had a 426 00:24:35,600 --> 00:24:41,040 Speaker 7: boy and she was happy, but all then channeled back 427 00:24:41,080 --> 00:24:43,720 Speaker 7: to her leaving John. She was leaving. She was going 428 00:24:43,720 --> 00:24:46,359 Speaker 7: to find somewhere to live. Mitchell was born on the 429 00:24:46,400 --> 00:24:51,199 Speaker 7: thirty first of March. Bromwin was very preoccupied. That was 430 00:24:51,240 --> 00:24:54,600 Speaker 7: all happening in her life right then and there. 431 00:24:56,359 --> 00:24:59,880 Speaker 1: When Bromwin had called about the advertisement for the townhouse 432 00:25:00,080 --> 00:25:03,600 Speaker 1: on March twenty two in the Northern Star newspaper, the 433 00:25:03,680 --> 00:25:08,600 Speaker 1: property's owner and landlady cut her some slack. Shirley Taylor 434 00:25:08,680 --> 00:25:11,480 Speaker 1: knew it must have been a financial struggle for the 435 00:25:11,560 --> 00:25:15,960 Speaker 1: newly single young mum. These are Shirley's words to police 436 00:25:16,080 --> 00:25:18,000 Speaker 1: in September nineteen ninety eight. 437 00:25:18,119 --> 00:25:19,359 Speaker 3: It's not her voice. 438 00:25:20,160 --> 00:25:22,760 Speaker 13: She informed me that she had separated from her husband 439 00:25:22,880 --> 00:25:25,600 Speaker 13: and was looking for a place to rent. At the time, 440 00:25:25,760 --> 00:25:29,440 Speaker 13: she had two young girls with her. After inspecting the flat, 441 00:25:29,520 --> 00:25:31,960 Speaker 13: she informed me that she wished to rent it, but 442 00:25:32,080 --> 00:25:33,840 Speaker 13: told me that she would have trouble paying the one 443 00:25:33,880 --> 00:25:37,080 Speaker 13: hundred and fifty dollars a week rent. I told her 444 00:25:37,119 --> 00:25:38,960 Speaker 13: that she could move in and we would see how 445 00:25:39,000 --> 00:25:39,600 Speaker 13: things go. 446 00:25:40,960 --> 00:25:44,600 Speaker 1: Shirley also asked for a bond of seven hundred dollars. 447 00:25:45,440 --> 00:25:48,800 Speaker 1: A check for the amount was signed by John Winfield. 448 00:25:49,640 --> 00:25:52,160 Speaker 1: Bronwin handed it over the same day. 449 00:25:52,920 --> 00:25:55,840 Speaker 13: Whilst bron was moving in. On that day, her husband, 450 00:25:55,920 --> 00:25:58,159 Speaker 13: John came over to my place and asked for the 451 00:25:58,160 --> 00:25:59,400 Speaker 13: bond money to be given. 452 00:25:59,200 --> 00:25:59,720 Speaker 6: Back to him. 453 00:26:00,600 --> 00:26:02,680 Speaker 13: I told him that Bromin had given me the money 454 00:26:02,680 --> 00:26:04,760 Speaker 13: for the bond, and he was very angry and demanded 455 00:26:04,760 --> 00:26:07,520 Speaker 13: the money because of the way he was acting in 456 00:26:07,560 --> 00:26:10,560 Speaker 13: his aggressive manner. I gave him back the check and 457 00:26:10,600 --> 00:26:13,880 Speaker 13: he left. A couple of days later, broman came over 458 00:26:13,920 --> 00:26:16,080 Speaker 13: to my place and gave me another check for seven 459 00:26:16,160 --> 00:26:18,879 Speaker 13: hundred dollars. I think it was the same check that 460 00:26:18,960 --> 00:26:20,240 Speaker 13: her husband had taken from me. 461 00:26:21,400 --> 00:26:22,920 Speaker 1: Shirley grew fond. 462 00:26:22,640 --> 00:26:23,440 Speaker 3: Of the young woman. 463 00:26:24,400 --> 00:26:26,840 Speaker 13: I came to know Bromwin fairly well, and I would 464 00:26:26,840 --> 00:26:29,200 Speaker 13: mind her children if she had to go down the street. 465 00:26:29,920 --> 00:26:32,200 Speaker 13: I found her to be a most devoted mother who 466 00:26:32,240 --> 00:26:35,480 Speaker 13: was very attached to her children. I didn't really have 467 00:26:35,520 --> 00:26:40,000 Speaker 13: any conversations with her about her private life. I do recall, though, 468 00:26:40,280 --> 00:26:42,400 Speaker 13: that she told me that she hated her husband. 469 00:26:43,480 --> 00:26:47,440 Speaker 1: Bromwin spoke to a solicitor, Tony Mannering, at his office 470 00:26:47,480 --> 00:26:50,840 Speaker 1: in the nearby town of Ballino. It was a fortnight 471 00:26:50,920 --> 00:26:53,720 Speaker 1: after she and her daughters had moved out of the 472 00:26:53,800 --> 00:26:58,960 Speaker 1: house in Sandstone Crescent. John promptly changed the locks up 473 00:26:59,000 --> 00:27:03,159 Speaker 1: there put a deadlock on the front door. It was 474 00:27:03,240 --> 00:27:06,480 Speaker 1: a powerful signal to Bronwin that she would not be 475 00:27:06,560 --> 00:27:11,160 Speaker 1: welcomed back. The solicitor must have taken careful notes during 476 00:27:11,200 --> 00:27:15,119 Speaker 1: their first meeting. He and his new client covered a 477 00:27:15,119 --> 00:27:19,000 Speaker 1: lot of ground for a pending divorce and a possible 478 00:27:19,040 --> 00:27:22,840 Speaker 1: battle over custody and property. It was important to have 479 00:27:22,920 --> 00:27:27,959 Speaker 1: as much information as possible. Mannering summarized the facts and 480 00:27:28,119 --> 00:27:31,040 Speaker 1: circumstances in a letter that he wrote to Bromwin on 481 00:27:31,160 --> 00:27:35,639 Speaker 1: April sixth, nineteen ninety three. His letter was sent to 482 00:27:35,720 --> 00:27:40,200 Speaker 1: her at the townhouse in Byron Street. These are Tony 483 00:27:40,240 --> 00:27:43,040 Speaker 1: Mannering's words, it's not his voice. 484 00:27:43,280 --> 00:27:48,280 Speaker 14: Dear madam. We advise your instructions as follows. You married 485 00:27:48,320 --> 00:27:52,080 Speaker 14: your husband on fourteen December nineteen eighty seven, at Ballina. 486 00:27:53,000 --> 00:27:55,399 Speaker 14: Although you did not live with your husband as man 487 00:27:55,480 --> 00:27:58,520 Speaker 14: and wife prior to your marriage, you did look after 488 00:27:58,560 --> 00:28:01,360 Speaker 14: your husband's daughter, Jodi Line Winfield, on a full time 489 00:28:01,440 --> 00:28:05,719 Speaker 14: basis sometime prior to your marriage. You separated from your 490 00:28:05,760 --> 00:28:09,800 Speaker 14: husband on twenty one March nineteen ninety three. Your husband 491 00:28:09,840 --> 00:28:12,720 Speaker 14: has been married twice before, and you have been married 492 00:28:12,760 --> 00:28:16,479 Speaker 14: once before. You and your husband have a child together, 493 00:28:16,720 --> 00:28:21,480 Speaker 14: Lauren Mary Winfield born nineteen eighty eight. Lauren now lives 494 00:28:21,480 --> 00:28:24,840 Speaker 14: with you. You have a child from a previous relationship, 495 00:28:25,000 --> 00:28:30,320 Speaker 14: Crystal Joy Winfield born nineteen eighty two. Cristel was five 496 00:28:30,400 --> 00:28:34,080 Speaker 14: years old when you married your husband. Your husband treated 497 00:28:34,119 --> 00:28:37,720 Speaker 14: Cristel as his daughter and insisted that Cristel called him Dad. 498 00:28:39,080 --> 00:28:43,040 Speaker 1: The solicitor noted the respective assets of Bromwin and John 499 00:28:43,080 --> 00:28:46,280 Speaker 1: at the time they became a couple and when they separated. 500 00:28:47,200 --> 00:28:49,960 Speaker 1: Bromwin owned furniture and a car with the value of 501 00:28:50,000 --> 00:28:53,280 Speaker 1: about five thousand dollars. When she and John got together, 502 00:28:54,160 --> 00:28:57,120 Speaker 1: John had a car worth one thousand dollars. 503 00:28:56,760 --> 00:29:00,320 Speaker 14: And some fifty thousand dollars being his share of the 504 00:29:00,360 --> 00:29:03,280 Speaker 14: proceeds of the sale of a former home owned by 505 00:29:03,360 --> 00:29:05,880 Speaker 14: him and a previous wife. 506 00:29:05,920 --> 00:29:08,160 Speaker 1: Tony Mannering described what he. 507 00:29:08,080 --> 00:29:11,560 Speaker 14: Called the present asset of both you and your husband 508 00:29:12,280 --> 00:29:17,080 Speaker 14: a home at Sandstone Crescent, Lennox Head, the former matrimonial home, 509 00:29:17,240 --> 00:29:20,480 Speaker 14: which you value between two hundred and fifty thousand dollars 510 00:29:20,480 --> 00:29:24,640 Speaker 14: and three hundred thousand dollars. The former matrimonial home is 511 00:29:24,720 --> 00:29:28,600 Speaker 14: not encumbered by mortgage or debt. Your understanding is that 512 00:29:28,640 --> 00:29:31,960 Speaker 14: the former matrimonial home is in your husband's name alone. 513 00:29:33,040 --> 00:29:36,960 Speaker 1: The solicitor listed a white Ford Falcon worth about five 514 00:29:37,000 --> 00:29:41,640 Speaker 1: thousand dollars. There was the household furniture, a bank account 515 00:29:41,680 --> 00:29:44,160 Speaker 1: in the name of her youngest daughter, Lauren with a 516 00:29:44,160 --> 00:29:47,920 Speaker 1: balance of about seven hundred dollars, and an account in 517 00:29:48,040 --> 00:29:51,840 Speaker 1: John's name, but Bromin didn't know how much John had saved. 518 00:29:53,000 --> 00:29:56,520 Speaker 14: Throughout the marriage, you and your husband adopted traditional family 519 00:29:56,640 --> 00:29:59,560 Speaker 14: roles in that you were the homemaker and mother and 520 00:29:59,560 --> 00:30:01,280 Speaker 14: your husband and worked as a bricklayer. 521 00:30:02,400 --> 00:30:05,320 Speaker 1: Bromwin had been doing some casual work in her friend 522 00:30:05,400 --> 00:30:10,120 Speaker 1: Robin Shanahan's hamburger and sandwich joint called Eden's Takeaway on 523 00:30:10,240 --> 00:30:14,800 Speaker 1: Pacific Parade facing the beach. It gave her some pocket 524 00:30:14,800 --> 00:30:19,040 Speaker 1: money without affecting her availability for school. Drop offs and pickups. 525 00:30:20,080 --> 00:30:22,320 Speaker 14: You wish to continue your role as a mother at 526 00:30:22,400 --> 00:30:25,680 Speaker 14: least until Lauren is a bit older. Your husband is 527 00:30:25,720 --> 00:30:28,800 Speaker 14: a qualified bricklayer, although he has had some neck and 528 00:30:28,920 --> 00:30:32,280 Speaker 14: shoulder injuries which he says have prevented him from working. 529 00:30:33,360 --> 00:30:36,680 Speaker 14: We confirm our advice to you as follows. The Family 530 00:30:36,760 --> 00:30:39,520 Speaker 14: Law Act provides that you are entitled to make a 531 00:30:39,600 --> 00:30:42,400 Speaker 14: claim upon the assets that we have listed above. 532 00:30:43,600 --> 00:30:46,120 Speaker 1: He described some of the things that would be taken 533 00:30:46,160 --> 00:30:50,600 Speaker 1: into account in a fair property settlement. Their respective financial 534 00:30:50,640 --> 00:30:53,680 Speaker 1: contributions to the marriage and the work of Bromwan as 535 00:30:53,760 --> 00:30:56,280 Speaker 1: homemaker and parent were part of this. 536 00:30:57,280 --> 00:30:59,920 Speaker 14: In this regard, we note your instructions that you have 537 00:31:00,200 --> 00:31:03,280 Speaker 14: been the parent to perform the majority of the parental 538 00:31:03,360 --> 00:31:08,120 Speaker 14: duties for the three children, including your husband's daughter. Further, 539 00:31:08,240 --> 00:31:10,920 Speaker 14: you have been the party to the marriage who undertook 540 00:31:10,920 --> 00:31:13,640 Speaker 14: the majority of the household tasks and duties. 541 00:31:14,800 --> 00:31:18,680 Speaker 1: It was too soon to provide Roman with a percentage, however, 542 00:31:18,880 --> 00:31:20,720 Speaker 1: Tony Mannering wrote. 543 00:31:20,760 --> 00:31:22,960 Speaker 14: You can be assured that you are entitled to a 544 00:31:23,000 --> 00:31:26,959 Speaker 14: significant percentage of the assets. We note our suggestion that 545 00:31:27,000 --> 00:31:29,920 Speaker 14: you do not leave property matters for too long, but 546 00:31:30,080 --> 00:31:33,320 Speaker 14: contact us again in say one month's time to assess 547 00:31:33,400 --> 00:31:35,800 Speaker 14: when you will make your claim on your husband for 548 00:31:35,840 --> 00:31:40,960 Speaker 14: the finalization of property matters in respect of dissolving your marriage. 549 00:31:41,040 --> 00:31:44,440 Speaker 14: You can make an application for dissolution after twelve months 550 00:31:44,440 --> 00:31:46,760 Speaker 14: has expired from the date of your separation. 551 00:31:48,160 --> 00:31:51,720 Speaker 1: Roman was doing the legal rounds. She had asked for 552 00:31:51,840 --> 00:31:55,440 Speaker 1: advice from a solicitor called Graham Holland in Byron Bay, 553 00:31:55,840 --> 00:31:59,960 Speaker 1: north of Lennox. The third solicitor she would go and see, 554 00:32:00,280 --> 00:32:03,640 Speaker 1: Chris mcdebitt, was based in the inland town of Lismore. 555 00:32:04,560 --> 00:32:08,320 Speaker 1: On April twenty fourth, nineteen ninety three, Bromin had a birthday. 556 00:32:08,440 --> 00:32:12,320 Speaker 1: She turned thirty one. Her friend de Niece remembered it 557 00:32:12,440 --> 00:32:15,920 Speaker 1: was a happy occasion for her and the other playgroup mums. 558 00:32:17,120 --> 00:32:21,160 Speaker 6: She'd moved into a unit with the girls and they 559 00:32:21,400 --> 00:32:24,840 Speaker 6: had got a puppy because John had never wanted to 560 00:32:24,840 --> 00:32:27,520 Speaker 6: have a dog, so they've got a puppy. We went down, 561 00:32:27,600 --> 00:32:30,560 Speaker 6: we surprised her and we had her birthday morning there, 562 00:32:31,400 --> 00:32:32,320 Speaker 6: which was lovely. 563 00:32:32,400 --> 00:32:34,760 Speaker 3: She loved it. What did you think of Romin's state 564 00:32:34,800 --> 00:32:35,160 Speaker 3: of mind? 565 00:32:36,120 --> 00:32:39,120 Speaker 6: She always seemed to have it together. You would never 566 00:32:39,200 --> 00:32:42,600 Speaker 6: imagine them as a couple. Here was the surfy, sort 567 00:32:42,600 --> 00:32:46,760 Speaker 6: of very good looking, piercing blue eyes. Alona doesn't have 568 00:32:46,760 --> 00:32:48,920 Speaker 6: any mates, as far as I know, didn't have any. 569 00:32:49,000 --> 00:32:52,160 Speaker 6: Den don't think he has a knee now. Bromwan was 570 00:32:52,200 --> 00:32:58,960 Speaker 6: the almost prum and proper tall slender. She was very intelligent, 571 00:33:00,080 --> 00:33:04,720 Speaker 6: uckly groomed, as were the children always they were very 572 00:33:04,800 --> 00:33:05,680 Speaker 6: chalk and cheese. 573 00:33:06,080 --> 00:33:10,080 Speaker 1: You're certain about Bromwen confiding to you that John was 574 00:33:10,120 --> 00:33:11,120 Speaker 1: threatening towards her. 575 00:33:11,960 --> 00:33:14,280 Speaker 6: I still recollect when she told me that he had 576 00:33:14,320 --> 00:33:17,600 Speaker 6: had her by the throat up against the wall, and 577 00:33:17,640 --> 00:33:19,240 Speaker 6: that she was frightened. 578 00:33:19,560 --> 00:33:25,920 Speaker 1: That he physically held her, that she was scared of him. 579 00:33:26,320 --> 00:33:27,520 Speaker 3: Yep. It's not something that. 580 00:33:27,560 --> 00:33:31,400 Speaker 6: He had a by a throat, yep. I remember the conversation. 581 00:33:32,120 --> 00:33:36,959 Speaker 1: Presumably John would say that he was never threatening towards 582 00:33:37,040 --> 00:33:41,000 Speaker 1: Bromman and that she made up these stories or she 583 00:33:41,120 --> 00:33:49,760 Speaker 1: grossly exaggerated and you didn't see any actual violence. What 584 00:33:49,800 --> 00:33:53,520 Speaker 1: do you think about the proposition that Bromwin, for example, 585 00:33:53,680 --> 00:33:58,240 Speaker 1: could embellish or fabricate stories about John. 586 00:33:59,520 --> 00:34:01,080 Speaker 6: I don't know that she would need to. 587 00:34:02,280 --> 00:34:04,320 Speaker 1: Did she ever say to you, I just need to 588 00:34:04,520 --> 00:34:06,160 Speaker 1: go away for a long long time. 589 00:34:06,440 --> 00:34:06,640 Speaker 7: No. 590 00:34:07,360 --> 00:34:10,800 Speaker 6: I think she was committed to leaving him and taking 591 00:34:10,800 --> 00:34:15,040 Speaker 6: the girls and starting a new life for herself. Probably 592 00:34:15,280 --> 00:34:17,960 Speaker 6: the bottom line, she would never have left those children 593 00:34:18,120 --> 00:34:22,880 Speaker 6: never they were her life, and knowing that Chrystaw wasn't John's, 594 00:34:24,760 --> 00:34:27,560 Speaker 6: she wouldn't have gone anywhere without them. She just wouldn't 595 00:34:27,600 --> 00:34:33,200 Speaker 6: have done it. And afterwards, after she disappeared, John contacted 596 00:34:33,239 --> 00:34:37,640 Speaker 6: me because he didn't want the dog, So my parents 597 00:34:37,719 --> 00:34:40,960 Speaker 6: ended up with that lovely little dog for like eighteen years. 598 00:34:42,480 --> 00:34:44,000 Speaker 3: What was the name, Muffy? 599 00:34:45,000 --> 00:34:49,040 Speaker 1: How do you feel about Bromin's case becoming part of 600 00:34:49,120 --> 00:34:50,520 Speaker 1: this podcast investigation? 601 00:34:51,120 --> 00:34:51,759 Speaker 6: Fantastic? 602 00:34:52,840 --> 00:34:58,440 Speaker 1: You're not worried about bringing up painful memories and no 603 00:34:58,640 --> 00:34:59,800 Speaker 1: difficult situation. 604 00:35:00,280 --> 00:35:03,080 Speaker 6: No, I think we need to We need to do it. 605 00:35:04,160 --> 00:35:08,800 Speaker 6: It's been too long. I think anybody that had anything 606 00:35:08,840 --> 00:35:12,279 Speaker 6: to impart any more information to try and get this 607 00:35:12,719 --> 00:35:16,520 Speaker 6: resolved one way or the other would be interesting in 608 00:35:16,560 --> 00:35:22,680 Speaker 6: talking to you. Whatever happened that night, on that Sunday 609 00:35:22,760 --> 00:35:28,920 Speaker 6: night that was the last of Bromwin. That's tonight those 610 00:35:28,920 --> 00:35:32,480 Speaker 6: girls lost their mum. 611 00:35:32,680 --> 00:35:35,359 Speaker 1: I drove to a park in a rural town near 612 00:35:35,440 --> 00:35:39,239 Speaker 1: Lennox to meet one of Bromwin's friends. She has been 613 00:35:39,280 --> 00:35:44,840 Speaker 1: anxious about meeting me and speaking publicly. I'm not going 614 00:35:44,920 --> 00:35:49,759 Speaker 1: to identify you by your name in this podcast, but 615 00:35:49,960 --> 00:35:51,080 Speaker 1: your voice will be heard. 616 00:35:51,360 --> 00:35:51,840 Speaker 11: Yeah. 617 00:35:52,160 --> 00:35:55,200 Speaker 1: Are you okay with that? And I understand that you've 618 00:35:55,200 --> 00:35:59,000 Speaker 1: got personal reasons. Where would you like to start? And 619 00:35:59,080 --> 00:36:01,000 Speaker 1: talking about your friend brom. 620 00:36:03,000 --> 00:36:08,160 Speaker 11: She loved kids, so there was no way she would 621 00:36:08,239 --> 00:36:12,600 Speaker 11: willingly fell off and leave her kids. 622 00:36:13,840 --> 00:36:16,680 Speaker 1: At the time, she and Bromwan were good friends. In 623 00:36:16,760 --> 00:36:22,040 Speaker 1: this place. Joan had recently left a violent relationship. She 624 00:36:22,080 --> 00:36:23,520 Speaker 1: still looked over her shoulder. 625 00:36:24,960 --> 00:36:26,520 Speaker 5: Had you been through a tough time? 626 00:36:26,920 --> 00:36:27,040 Speaker 2: Yes? 627 00:36:28,760 --> 00:36:31,799 Speaker 1: Broman supported her until her disappearance. 628 00:36:32,719 --> 00:36:35,520 Speaker 3: She understood, and you knew about the termination. 629 00:36:36,560 --> 00:36:36,759 Speaker 7: Yes. 630 00:36:37,040 --> 00:36:41,680 Speaker 11: She told me that he had made her have an 631 00:36:41,680 --> 00:36:45,640 Speaker 11: abush That would have been really hard for her because 632 00:36:45,640 --> 00:36:46,520 Speaker 11: she loved kids. 633 00:36:47,800 --> 00:36:50,319 Speaker 1: Broman told her friend that she had wanted to leave 634 00:36:50,440 --> 00:36:53,480 Speaker 1: John for some time, but that he had warned her 635 00:36:53,560 --> 00:36:56,919 Speaker 1: she would get next to nothing. He was not going 636 00:36:56,960 --> 00:37:01,200 Speaker 1: to vacate or sell the house on Sandstone. Isn't the 637 00:37:01,239 --> 00:37:04,120 Speaker 1: title deeds show that he had put the property in 638 00:37:04,280 --> 00:37:06,320 Speaker 1: his name, and. 639 00:37:06,239 --> 00:37:10,800 Speaker 11: He said he would give her And I can't remember 640 00:37:10,840 --> 00:37:15,480 Speaker 11: the exact amount, I have ten dollars something like that. 641 00:37:17,200 --> 00:37:20,920 Speaker 11: There was no mortgage on house and she said, no, 642 00:37:21,080 --> 00:37:24,279 Speaker 11: I won't. I'll get a real estate to value it. 643 00:37:25,520 --> 00:37:29,400 Speaker 1: Joan recalled Roman, disclosing that she had organized a valuer 644 00:37:29,520 --> 00:37:33,040 Speaker 1: to put a potential price on the property. It came 645 00:37:33,120 --> 00:37:36,319 Speaker 1: in around two hundred and forty five thousand dollars in 646 00:37:36,440 --> 00:37:39,080 Speaker 1: nineteen ninety three. 647 00:37:38,920 --> 00:37:42,040 Speaker 11: She couldn't get a certain one because he was friends 648 00:37:42,080 --> 00:37:43,759 Speaker 11: with them, and. 649 00:37:43,680 --> 00:37:46,040 Speaker 1: She wanted the house valued so she could work out 650 00:37:46,040 --> 00:37:48,319 Speaker 1: what her equity in it potentially would be in a 651 00:37:48,320 --> 00:37:49,160 Speaker 1: property settlement. 652 00:37:49,360 --> 00:37:54,279 Speaker 11: Yes, and she'd told me she'd one time he was 653 00:37:54,360 --> 00:38:00,400 Speaker 11: talking to his father. He didn't want to lose that house. 654 00:38:02,160 --> 00:38:04,680 Speaker 11: Like she said, she overheard him talking to his father, 655 00:38:06,040 --> 00:38:10,400 Speaker 11: it'd be better if he had the kids more chance 656 00:38:10,440 --> 00:38:11,440 Speaker 11: of having the house. 657 00:38:13,400 --> 00:38:14,560 Speaker 3: Had you been in the house? 658 00:38:15,280 --> 00:38:17,000 Speaker 7: Yeah, not often. 659 00:38:19,360 --> 00:38:22,440 Speaker 11: And then she moved into the un. 660 00:38:23,400 --> 00:38:28,960 Speaker 1: Do you remember the townhouse that she moved into, trying 661 00:38:29,000 --> 00:38:32,320 Speaker 1: to cast your mind back to that period nineteen ninety 662 00:38:32,360 --> 00:38:34,120 Speaker 1: three when she was living there. 663 00:38:35,680 --> 00:38:36,600 Speaker 3: You visited her there? 664 00:38:37,040 --> 00:38:37,200 Speaker 6: Yes? 665 00:38:38,840 --> 00:38:39,480 Speaker 3: How did she see? 666 00:38:41,719 --> 00:38:49,480 Speaker 11: It's fine? Probably more relaxed. I think she could feel 667 00:38:49,560 --> 00:38:51,000 Speaker 11: like she could do what she wanted to do. 668 00:38:52,760 --> 00:38:55,520 Speaker 1: I met Joan again a few weeks later in a 669 00:38:55,640 --> 00:39:00,200 Speaker 1: riverside park. Do you recall Broum whenever saying things to 670 00:39:00,239 --> 00:39:03,400 Speaker 1: you that made you concern for her safety. 671 00:39:04,400 --> 00:39:09,120 Speaker 15: Yes, she had told me that John had said to 672 00:39:09,160 --> 00:39:11,760 Speaker 15: her she bad mouth killer around the hound. 673 00:39:11,880 --> 00:39:12,640 Speaker 11: He would killing. 674 00:39:13,760 --> 00:39:14,560 Speaker 3: She said that to you. 675 00:39:16,680 --> 00:39:20,200 Speaker 15: I got the impression she felt like he would. I 676 00:39:20,400 --> 00:39:25,560 Speaker 15: had no ideat about believing anything she told me. 677 00:39:27,320 --> 00:39:29,760 Speaker 3: You took that seriously at the time, Well. 678 00:39:29,719 --> 00:39:30,719 Speaker 9: She certainly did. 679 00:39:30,800 --> 00:39:32,080 Speaker 3: So. 680 00:39:32,400 --> 00:39:35,279 Speaker 15: Somebody at that loved kids like she did wasn't going to 681 00:39:35,320 --> 00:39:37,560 Speaker 15: go off and leave her own kids. 682 00:39:38,440 --> 00:39:39,120 Speaker 11: I was so. 683 00:39:40,800 --> 00:39:44,440 Speaker 15: Wanting to get answers right because I felt like, but 684 00:39:44,719 --> 00:39:46,080 Speaker 15: for the grace of God go I. 685 00:39:48,280 --> 00:39:51,520 Speaker 1: I know from talking to Brohman's family and friends that 686 00:39:51,560 --> 00:39:54,600 Speaker 1: she was finding it difficult to support herself and the 687 00:39:54,680 --> 00:39:57,360 Speaker 1: girls while also trying to find rent of one hundred 688 00:39:57,400 --> 00:40:01,359 Speaker 1: and fifty dollars a week for the townhouse. Here's her 689 00:40:01,480 --> 00:40:02,800 Speaker 1: Auntie Leah again. 690 00:40:03,680 --> 00:40:04,880 Speaker 7: Well, she was on the phone. 691 00:40:04,920 --> 00:40:08,480 Speaker 12: She wanted me to give us two thousand dollars, and 692 00:40:09,480 --> 00:40:12,239 Speaker 12: we didn't have two thousand dollars without taking it out 693 00:40:12,280 --> 00:40:15,440 Speaker 12: of our business. Our business was new, we weren't in 694 00:40:15,480 --> 00:40:19,120 Speaker 12: that sort of position. Particularly, she wouldn't tell me what 695 00:40:19,160 --> 00:40:22,200 Speaker 12: it was for. At that time, she had moved out 696 00:40:22,200 --> 00:40:24,720 Speaker 12: of the house, and she told me she was living 697 00:40:24,760 --> 00:40:25,759 Speaker 12: in an apartment. 698 00:40:26,719 --> 00:40:28,560 Speaker 10: She called me constantly. 699 00:40:29,520 --> 00:40:33,400 Speaker 12: I'd get these long phone calls and she'd talk about 700 00:40:33,440 --> 00:40:36,759 Speaker 12: clair voyance and all this sort of thing, and that's 701 00:40:36,760 --> 00:40:39,480 Speaker 12: what I thought she wanted the money for. 702 00:40:40,719 --> 00:40:45,800 Speaker 1: What did you understand about her interest in the clear words? 703 00:40:47,040 --> 00:40:49,120 Speaker 12: I think she was trying to find out, you know, 704 00:40:49,280 --> 00:40:52,879 Speaker 12: what was going to happen with a marriage that sort 705 00:40:52,920 --> 00:40:55,279 Speaker 12: of couldn't get her off the phone. Must have been 706 00:40:55,320 --> 00:41:00,200 Speaker 12: the last I would say months. But she didn't really 707 00:41:00,320 --> 00:41:03,799 Speaker 12: tell me she was moving. I remember being surprised when 708 00:41:03,920 --> 00:41:07,480 Speaker 12: I found that she had gone, and she said, I'm 709 00:41:07,520 --> 00:41:10,680 Speaker 12: in an apartment, but I'm going back to my house 710 00:41:10,840 --> 00:41:14,040 Speaker 12: because John has got to go down to Sydney for 711 00:41:14,120 --> 00:41:18,400 Speaker 12: a job, and I'll go back while he's gone. 712 00:41:18,920 --> 00:41:24,799 Speaker 3: Did you detect any fear or urgency in the conversations. 713 00:41:24,640 --> 00:41:27,280 Speaker 12: Because I would have lent him money if i'd thought 714 00:41:27,320 --> 00:41:31,960 Speaker 12: that she needed it for something important from my recollection, 715 00:41:32,440 --> 00:41:34,000 Speaker 12: As you said at the time, she wouldn't tell you 716 00:41:34,080 --> 00:41:39,360 Speaker 12: what she wandered for. Yeah, Broman wanted money, but she 717 00:41:39,400 --> 00:41:42,279 Speaker 12: wouldn't tell us what it was for. And she said 718 00:41:42,320 --> 00:41:45,440 Speaker 12: to me, and you'll all be sorry that's right. She 719 00:41:45,520 --> 00:41:47,480 Speaker 12: said you'll all be sorry. 720 00:41:48,680 --> 00:41:52,520 Speaker 1: And that comment that she made you'll be sorry, was 721 00:41:52,560 --> 00:41:56,520 Speaker 1: that connected to her being unable to get alone? 722 00:41:57,239 --> 00:41:57,759 Speaker 9: I think so. 723 00:41:58,280 --> 00:42:01,319 Speaker 12: We discussed it at the time whether we should give 724 00:42:01,320 --> 00:42:04,720 Speaker 12: her the money, don't you remember, And our own kids 725 00:42:04,760 --> 00:42:06,880 Speaker 12: were all wanting money too at the time. 726 00:42:08,000 --> 00:42:11,480 Speaker 3: Do you recall whether you or John had lent money 727 00:42:11,520 --> 00:42:12,600 Speaker 3: to Bromwin before. 728 00:42:13,000 --> 00:42:16,520 Speaker 12: No, No, it was quite a lot of money, and 729 00:42:16,640 --> 00:42:17,280 Speaker 12: we thought. 730 00:42:17,080 --> 00:42:18,920 Speaker 7: If we give her money, we're going to have to 731 00:42:18,920 --> 00:42:19,480 Speaker 7: give our. 732 00:42:19,320 --> 00:42:20,280 Speaker 10: Own kids money. 733 00:42:20,840 --> 00:42:23,799 Speaker 12: Perhaps she wanted to get a lawyer or. 734 00:42:23,760 --> 00:42:24,799 Speaker 10: Something like that. 735 00:42:25,680 --> 00:42:28,080 Speaker 12: But if she'd said that to us, if she'd said 736 00:42:28,640 --> 00:42:31,040 Speaker 12: I need a lawyer, and there'd been no reason not 737 00:42:31,160 --> 00:42:34,360 Speaker 12: to tell us, were there that she wanted a lawyer, 738 00:42:34,920 --> 00:42:37,520 Speaker 12: I certainly wouldn't have thought, from what I knew of 739 00:42:37,680 --> 00:42:41,360 Speaker 12: John that she was in any danger from him. 740 00:42:41,920 --> 00:42:46,520 Speaker 1: What was it about John's personality and demeanor that made 741 00:42:46,520 --> 00:42:49,120 Speaker 1: you feel she would be in no danger from. 742 00:42:49,080 --> 00:42:51,600 Speaker 3: Him even though they were going through marital issues. 743 00:42:52,239 --> 00:42:55,440 Speaker 12: Well, it just seemed like a normal everyday father of 744 00:42:55,560 --> 00:42:56,000 Speaker 12: the time. 745 00:42:56,160 --> 00:43:01,359 Speaker 10: My man name didn't do anything terribly terrific or bad. 746 00:43:01,520 --> 00:43:04,360 Speaker 12: Did They just had an unhappy marriage. 747 00:43:04,520 --> 00:43:07,279 Speaker 1: Do you recall Broman's showing you her arm and a 748 00:43:07,360 --> 00:43:09,520 Speaker 1: bruise and saying that she had been. 749 00:43:09,360 --> 00:43:14,120 Speaker 3: Assaulted by John. That's in your statement. Yeah, I don't 750 00:43:14,160 --> 00:43:15,520 Speaker 3: recall it now, Hedley, but. 751 00:43:17,160 --> 00:43:21,000 Speaker 11: If I said that would have been what what happened? 752 00:43:21,080 --> 00:43:22,359 Speaker 3: You recall it now. 753 00:43:23,800 --> 00:43:27,759 Speaker 1: John Reid is an elderly man. It is unsurprising that 754 00:43:27,840 --> 00:43:31,239 Speaker 1: he cannot remember what he told police twenty six years 755 00:43:31,239 --> 00:43:35,040 Speaker 1: ago when he signed a formal statement. I'm going to 756 00:43:35,080 --> 00:43:40,040 Speaker 1: read some key sentences from John Reid's police statement. It's 757 00:43:40,160 --> 00:43:45,200 Speaker 1: dated August eleventh, nineteen ninety eight. He is describing a 758 00:43:45,320 --> 00:43:48,720 Speaker 1: visit by Bronwan to the Reid home in Sydney, about 759 00:43:48,800 --> 00:43:54,160 Speaker 1: five months before his niece's disappearance. Bromwin's uncle says in 760 00:43:54,239 --> 00:43:58,759 Speaker 1: this statement, quote, whilst Broman was at our house, she 761 00:43:58,960 --> 00:44:03,120 Speaker 1: informed me that John had been assaulting her and she 762 00:44:03,280 --> 00:44:07,680 Speaker 1: showed me a significant bruise on her forearm. I cannot 763 00:44:07,680 --> 00:44:09,160 Speaker 1: remember which arm it was. 764 00:44:10,040 --> 00:44:10,680 Speaker 3: Unquote. 765 00:44:11,560 --> 00:44:14,960 Speaker 1: He then raised the stream of telephone calls from Bromwin 766 00:44:15,040 --> 00:44:18,640 Speaker 1: when she was seeking money in the weeks before her disappearance, 767 00:44:19,239 --> 00:44:24,440 Speaker 1: and he says in his statement from nineteen ninety eight, quote, 768 00:44:24,800 --> 00:44:28,320 Speaker 1: I was aware that Broman was causing Leah some anguish 769 00:44:28,400 --> 00:44:33,560 Speaker 1: about these regular telephone calls. So I asked my daughter Megan, 770 00:44:33,600 --> 00:44:36,400 Speaker 1: who was very friendly with Broman, to ask her to 771 00:44:36,520 --> 00:44:40,680 Speaker 1: stop ringing. I can't really remember what happened after this, 772 00:44:40,840 --> 00:44:44,040 Speaker 1: but I am aware that Bromwin disappeared a very short 773 00:44:44,080 --> 00:44:50,680 Speaker 1: time later. Unquote, Broman worked when she could at Eden's Takeaway, 774 00:44:50,760 --> 00:44:53,080 Speaker 1: but it was not enough to pay all the bills. 775 00:44:54,080 --> 00:44:57,040 Speaker 1: I spoke to Robin Shanahan, who owned the fast food 776 00:44:57,080 --> 00:45:00,680 Speaker 1: place with her husband and two friends, doing a. 777 00:45:00,680 --> 00:45:02,440 Speaker 3: Couple of ships a week for you. Is that right? 778 00:45:02,440 --> 00:45:03,120 Speaker 3: Can you recall? 779 00:45:03,200 --> 00:45:05,920 Speaker 16: Yeah, she was always keen to get to work. 780 00:45:06,600 --> 00:45:08,320 Speaker 9: She liked a job, just go worker. 781 00:45:08,440 --> 00:45:11,400 Speaker 16: And I think she needed the money to make milkshakes, 782 00:45:11,440 --> 00:45:14,600 Speaker 16: I think, and make sandwiches and stuff. Yeah, that's a 783 00:45:14,920 --> 00:45:19,400 Speaker 16: little takeaway. We just all paid our staff cash. She 784 00:45:19,480 --> 00:45:23,279 Speaker 16: obviously needed finance some money to keep going. If she 785 00:45:23,360 --> 00:45:26,160 Speaker 16: wasn't living at home and she wasn't getting any money off. 786 00:45:26,320 --> 00:45:31,880 Speaker 16: John and her were toxic. I had thought I knew her, 787 00:45:31,960 --> 00:45:35,200 Speaker 16: and we got to know her very well. And I'll 788 00:45:35,200 --> 00:45:39,040 Speaker 16: tell you this because I don't I ever told anybody 789 00:45:39,239 --> 00:45:42,960 Speaker 16: she was so nervous. I think with John. 790 00:45:44,440 --> 00:45:47,439 Speaker 1: Robin told me that in the kitchen of Bromman's home 791 00:45:47,560 --> 00:45:51,080 Speaker 1: at Lennox Head, there was a teatawel draped over the 792 00:45:51,120 --> 00:45:55,080 Speaker 1: back of the taps at the kitchen sink. When Robin asked, 793 00:45:55,200 --> 00:45:58,640 Speaker 1: why do you have a teatawel there, Robin replied that 794 00:45:58,719 --> 00:46:04,440 Speaker 1: when peeling potato, starch sometimes sprayed onto the taps it 795 00:46:04,480 --> 00:46:09,000 Speaker 1: would set John off. The tetail minimized the risk of 796 00:46:09,040 --> 00:46:09,720 Speaker 1: an argument. 797 00:46:10,880 --> 00:46:12,760 Speaker 6: In my opin shouldn't infere. 798 00:46:14,040 --> 00:46:17,560 Speaker 1: John had taken his tools and gone to Sydney to work. 799 00:46:18,400 --> 00:46:22,680 Speaker 1: The family home in Sandstone Crescent was sitting empty, but 800 00:46:22,800 --> 00:46:26,160 Speaker 1: John did not want Bromwyn and the two girls, Crystal 801 00:46:26,280 --> 00:46:30,000 Speaker 1: and Lauren, living there now that he had separated from 802 00:46:30,120 --> 00:46:35,000 Speaker 1: his wife. John's daughter from his first marriage, Jody, was 803 00:46:35,040 --> 00:46:37,680 Speaker 1: in Sydney and working in a hair salon when the 804 00:46:37,680 --> 00:46:42,680 Speaker 1: breakup occurred. Bromwin was fond of her stepdaughter. They had 805 00:46:42,719 --> 00:46:47,120 Speaker 1: formed an affectionate bond over the previous six years. On 806 00:46:47,239 --> 00:46:52,719 Speaker 1: May sixth, nineteen ninety three, that's ten days before Bromwin disappeared, 807 00:46:53,320 --> 00:46:57,120 Speaker 1: she wrote to Jody from the townhouse in Byron Street. 808 00:46:58,080 --> 00:47:00,759 Speaker 2: Dear Jody, since I didn't want to run up your 809 00:47:00,760 --> 00:47:03,600 Speaker 2: phone bills, saying what things needed to be said. I 810 00:47:03,680 --> 00:47:06,680 Speaker 2: thought I would write you a letter. It's always easier 811 00:47:06,680 --> 00:47:09,600 Speaker 2: to write these things down than it is to say them. 812 00:47:10,239 --> 00:47:11,960 Speaker 2: When I spoke to you last and said that I 813 00:47:11,960 --> 00:47:14,880 Speaker 2: will always be there for you, I meant every word 814 00:47:14,920 --> 00:47:18,200 Speaker 2: of it. A young girl always needs someone to talk 815 00:47:18,239 --> 00:47:20,360 Speaker 2: to and hopefully guide them until they can make the 816 00:47:20,440 --> 00:47:24,040 Speaker 2: right decisions. I know you have your own mother, but 817 00:47:24,360 --> 00:47:27,759 Speaker 2: she doesn't always think of what's best for you. Even 818 00:47:27,800 --> 00:47:30,160 Speaker 2: though your mother let you down, you must always love 819 00:47:30,200 --> 00:47:33,200 Speaker 2: her because she is your mother, despite any faults, and 820 00:47:33,239 --> 00:47:37,040 Speaker 2: because you can't change the past. I think I could 821 00:47:37,040 --> 00:47:39,120 Speaker 2: have been a better step mother to you by making 822 00:47:39,160 --> 00:47:41,840 Speaker 2: your family see that they should have been more supportive 823 00:47:41,880 --> 00:47:44,239 Speaker 2: of you over the past few years since you left me. 824 00:47:45,440 --> 00:47:47,919 Speaker 2: I am hoping to make amends for letting you down 825 00:47:48,000 --> 00:47:50,480 Speaker 2: by telling you that I will always be here for 826 00:47:50,520 --> 00:47:53,839 Speaker 2: you to talk to and be your best friend, and 827 00:47:53,880 --> 00:47:56,200 Speaker 2: that if you ever need me, I will be there 828 00:47:56,239 --> 00:47:59,640 Speaker 2: for you. You are more than welcome to visit me 829 00:47:59,680 --> 00:48:02,600 Speaker 2: in the your sisters, and if you ever get into 830 00:48:02,600 --> 00:48:06,120 Speaker 2: any trouble financially, emotionally, or in any way, you can 831 00:48:06,160 --> 00:48:08,240 Speaker 2: come to me and we will sort them out together. 832 00:48:09,360 --> 00:48:11,279 Speaker 2: I may not have much money at the moment, but 833 00:48:11,320 --> 00:48:14,840 Speaker 2: there will always be a solution. You are the best 834 00:48:14,960 --> 00:48:18,359 Speaker 2: daughter that anyone could have had, even if we had 835 00:48:18,360 --> 00:48:21,400 Speaker 2: our disagreements, and if you ever need a home, you 836 00:48:21,440 --> 00:48:23,160 Speaker 2: will always be welcome in mine. 837 00:48:24,800 --> 00:48:27,759 Speaker 1: Throughout this time, as Bromin did her best to make 838 00:48:27,920 --> 00:48:31,080 Speaker 1: ends meet in the rented townhouse, she and her brother 839 00:48:31,200 --> 00:48:32,800 Speaker 1: Andy were talking regularly. 840 00:48:33,880 --> 00:48:36,120 Speaker 4: You know, that's something I've always lived with since the 841 00:48:36,200 --> 00:48:40,640 Speaker 4: day I was the one that's in that week when 842 00:48:40,719 --> 00:48:45,000 Speaker 4: she found out that John had actually left Lennox and 843 00:48:45,040 --> 00:48:47,520 Speaker 4: the house was vacant, and here she is on absolute 844 00:48:47,560 --> 00:48:48,320 Speaker 4: struggle street. 845 00:48:48,360 --> 00:48:52,680 Speaker 3: I said, well, Ron possessions, no intense at the law. 846 00:48:53,520 --> 00:48:57,400 Speaker 4: She's just struggling for money, not getting any support from him. Really, 847 00:48:58,120 --> 00:49:01,080 Speaker 4: I said, don't get back in the head, get back 848 00:49:01,080 --> 00:49:04,160 Speaker 4: in the house, and then it's going to force the issue. 849 00:49:04,200 --> 00:49:07,480 Speaker 3: It's going to force everything to be resolved. She'd boomed 850 00:49:07,480 --> 00:49:12,440 Speaker 3: to see a solicitor and started the process. Go and 851 00:49:12,480 --> 00:49:13,960 Speaker 3: so if you can get back in the house. 852 00:49:15,160 --> 00:49:18,920 Speaker 1: In Lismore, Bromwin's new solicitor, Chris McDevitt, offered the same 853 00:49:18,960 --> 00:49:23,239 Speaker 1: advice she was getting from Andy. Chris acted promptly on 854 00:49:23,360 --> 00:49:27,240 Speaker 1: Broman's instructions to write a formal legal letter to John. 855 00:49:28,360 --> 00:49:31,279 Speaker 17: Dear mister Winfield, Bronwyin is hopeful that you will both 856 00:49:31,320 --> 00:49:34,240 Speaker 17: be able to reach an agreement in relation to financial matters, 857 00:49:34,600 --> 00:49:36,360 Speaker 17: and we will be writing to you further with a 858 00:49:36,360 --> 00:49:38,560 Speaker 17: proposal in this regard in the near future. 859 00:49:40,080 --> 00:49:43,080 Speaker 1: Bromwin must have told her solicitor to leave John in 860 00:49:43,160 --> 00:49:46,560 Speaker 1: no doubt about her intentions to proceed to a divorce. 861 00:49:47,480 --> 00:49:52,240 Speaker 1: The letter is dated Friday May fourteen, that's two days 862 00:49:52,280 --> 00:49:56,600 Speaker 1: before Bromwan disappeared, and the letter was sent to John's brother, 863 00:49:56,719 --> 00:50:01,680 Speaker 1: Peter Winfield's address in Sydney. John was working in Sydney 864 00:50:01,719 --> 00:50:05,040 Speaker 1: and staying at Peter's house, but it is unlikely John 865 00:50:05,160 --> 00:50:07,080 Speaker 1: saw it before Bromin disappeared. 866 00:50:08,040 --> 00:50:09,000 Speaker 3: The letter, if. 867 00:50:08,840 --> 00:50:12,040 Speaker 1: Posted in the usual way, would not have arrived there 868 00:50:12,160 --> 00:50:17,040 Speaker 1: until early the following week. Bromwin's sister in law Michelle 869 00:50:17,080 --> 00:50:20,520 Speaker 1: and brother Andy are adamant that John knew the gist 870 00:50:20,560 --> 00:50:21,440 Speaker 1: of what was in the. 871 00:50:21,440 --> 00:50:26,080 Speaker 7: Letter, but told him so he was aware that it 872 00:50:26,160 --> 00:50:27,040 Speaker 7: was in the process. 873 00:50:28,640 --> 00:50:31,279 Speaker 17: We are instructed by Bronwyn that in her view, your 874 00:50:31,280 --> 00:50:33,040 Speaker 17: marriage is at an end and that there is no 875 00:50:33,080 --> 00:50:37,160 Speaker 17: prospect of a reconciliation. In the meantime, we require your 876 00:50:37,160 --> 00:50:40,280 Speaker 17: immediate agreement for Bronwinn to retain the use and possession 877 00:50:40,280 --> 00:50:43,960 Speaker 17: of the Ford motor vehicle pending finalization of your financial matters. 878 00:50:45,120 --> 00:50:48,240 Speaker 1: The letter doesn't disclose to John that Bromwin was about 879 00:50:48,280 --> 00:50:52,640 Speaker 1: to move back into Sandstone Crescent, but Bromwyn and Chris 880 00:50:52,719 --> 00:50:56,200 Speaker 1: mcdebitt had talked about this in his office in Lismore. 881 00:50:57,080 --> 00:51:01,080 Speaker 1: He told her she had every legal right to do so. 882 00:51:01,120 --> 00:51:03,560 Speaker 1: Broman made up her mind that she would move back 883 00:51:03,560 --> 00:51:08,359 Speaker 1: in on Friday May fourteenth. In a separate note to her, 884 00:51:08,760 --> 00:51:11,400 Speaker 1: Chris mcdebitt wrote that he would let her know of 885 00:51:11,520 --> 00:51:14,880 Speaker 1: any reply from John in the meantime. 886 00:51:15,200 --> 00:51:16,759 Speaker 3: Chris mcdebitt added. 887 00:51:17,440 --> 00:51:20,440 Speaker 17: We look forward to seeing you at your appointment next Monday. 888 00:51:20,800 --> 00:51:23,600 Speaker 1: But Broman didn't show up for that appointment at the 889 00:51:23,680 --> 00:51:27,880 Speaker 1: law firm in Molesworth Street, Lismore on Monday May seventeenth, 890 00:51:28,040 --> 00:51:53,000 Speaker 1: nineteen ninety three. Meaghan Reid has invited me to her 891 00:51:53,120 --> 00:51:55,960 Speaker 1: house on Sydney's Northern Beaches to look at some of 892 00:51:56,000 --> 00:52:00,640 Speaker 1: the newly recovered police files. Meghan also has a lot 893 00:52:00,719 --> 00:52:02,799 Speaker 1: to say about John Winfield. 894 00:52:03,920 --> 00:52:06,359 Speaker 12: I've been on the phone talking to her at her 895 00:52:06,440 --> 00:52:09,920 Speaker 12: flat when she moved into Byron Speed and in here 896 00:52:10,200 --> 00:52:13,440 Speaker 12: screaming outside let me let me in. 897 00:52:13,560 --> 00:52:15,040 Speaker 10: And she actually tore. 898 00:52:14,920 --> 00:52:18,359 Speaker 12: The phone off the wall at one point to stop 899 00:52:18,480 --> 00:52:19,960 Speaker 12: me ringing out a hassling out. 900 00:52:20,400 --> 00:52:22,400 Speaker 3: These are bills for missus b J. 901 00:52:22,600 --> 00:52:27,680 Speaker 1: Winfield Byron Street Lennox head phone bills from Telecom Australia. 902 00:52:27,880 --> 00:52:30,359 Speaker 10: Yes there were more than a police have got them. 903 00:52:30,960 --> 00:52:33,799 Speaker 1: And the date of issue this one was the seventeenth 904 00:52:33,840 --> 00:52:35,439 Speaker 1: of the fifth ninety three. 905 00:52:35,840 --> 00:52:36,279 Speaker 3: God went. 906 00:52:36,560 --> 00:52:39,600 Speaker 1: Phone calls expensive then four hundred and thirty dollars and 907 00:52:39,640 --> 00:52:40,680 Speaker 1: sixty six cents. 908 00:52:40,719 --> 00:52:43,000 Speaker 3: Back then, usually. 909 00:52:42,640 --> 00:52:44,680 Speaker 12: Bromwin would call me and I would call her back. 910 00:52:45,320 --> 00:52:47,960 Speaker 12: My husband was very wealthy, so I could afford to 911 00:52:48,000 --> 00:52:49,799 Speaker 12: doing her so I did. 912 00:52:50,480 --> 00:52:53,759 Speaker 3: Was Bromwin materialistic No, not at all. 913 00:52:55,080 --> 00:52:57,120 Speaker 10: She had dreadful u friends. 914 00:52:57,360 --> 00:53:01,120 Speaker 12: She was left it too and she had to go 915 00:53:01,160 --> 00:53:04,440 Speaker 12: and live with my grandmother, my father's mother, who then 916 00:53:04,600 --> 00:53:05,680 Speaker 12: had a nurse breakdown. 917 00:53:06,719 --> 00:53:09,000 Speaker 10: Ever since she was a little girl who wanted the. 918 00:53:08,960 --> 00:53:13,320 Speaker 12: Fairy tale when she was sort of most loving gentle person. 919 00:53:14,120 --> 00:53:16,320 Speaker 10: Because I was always saying to her, come over scenes 920 00:53:16,360 --> 00:53:18,000 Speaker 10: with me, she did want that. 921 00:53:18,120 --> 00:53:22,120 Speaker 12: She wanted to have more children, desperately and just have 922 00:53:22,200 --> 00:53:25,160 Speaker 12: a house of her own, to be a mother. That's 923 00:53:25,200 --> 00:53:27,880 Speaker 12: all she wanted to be, and a homemaker and a wife. 924 00:53:28,320 --> 00:53:31,200 Speaker 12: All I want is the white picket fence. That was 925 00:53:31,239 --> 00:53:34,960 Speaker 12: her whole thing, and she threw herself into it head first. 926 00:53:35,400 --> 00:53:38,000 Speaker 10: She was a brilliant mother. She just loved those kids. 927 00:53:38,000 --> 00:53:42,680 Speaker 12: They were always immaculate, They were happy, even when obviously 928 00:53:42,719 --> 00:53:45,560 Speaker 12: there were problems in the marriage. She never showed it 929 00:53:45,600 --> 00:53:48,680 Speaker 12: in front of those children. She never wanted to move 930 00:53:48,719 --> 00:53:52,279 Speaker 12: to Lane Upset. All her friends were in Sydney. Her 931 00:53:52,320 --> 00:53:56,160 Speaker 12: whole support circle was in Sydney. But John bought that 932 00:53:56,200 --> 00:54:00,360 Speaker 12: book of Land with his ex wife the one before. 933 00:54:00,440 --> 00:54:01,600 Speaker 10: He made her go up there. 934 00:54:02,040 --> 00:54:04,160 Speaker 12: Took her a while to meet people, but she did 935 00:54:05,200 --> 00:54:08,200 Speaker 12: because she's very friendly. The last time I actually laid 936 00:54:08,320 --> 00:54:11,360 Speaker 12: eyes on her was just before she moved into Byron 937 00:54:11,440 --> 00:54:14,319 Speaker 12: Street in March. And I know that because I was 938 00:54:14,320 --> 00:54:17,600 Speaker 12: with my dean husband on a business trip and she 939 00:54:17,640 --> 00:54:20,719 Speaker 12: looked dreadful. And she's sitting there, she's chainsmoking and drip 940 00:54:20,760 --> 00:54:21,680 Speaker 12: cuts coffee. 941 00:54:21,840 --> 00:54:23,759 Speaker 10: The house looked like a showroom. 942 00:54:24,160 --> 00:54:26,440 Speaker 3: What do you mean the house look like a showroom. 943 00:54:26,920 --> 00:54:29,600 Speaker 12: They looked like a display home. All the time sold 944 00:54:30,000 --> 00:54:33,239 Speaker 12: where they used to live. Cristoll actually went up there 945 00:54:33,239 --> 00:54:36,320 Speaker 12: for Christmas last year. She calls him dad. 946 00:54:36,160 --> 00:54:38,680 Speaker 3: Still And what is Lauren's position? 947 00:54:39,360 --> 00:54:42,560 Speaker 12: Lauren believes her mother has taken off and left her father. 948 00:54:43,080 --> 00:54:45,239 Speaker 12: She doesn't believe for a minute that he would hurt her. 949 00:54:46,400 --> 00:54:47,920 Speaker 3: And does Lauren have contact with you? 950 00:54:48,600 --> 00:54:49,440 Speaker 10: I've met her once. 951 00:54:49,760 --> 00:54:52,680 Speaker 12: John built her a house next door to his house, 952 00:54:53,160 --> 00:54:55,880 Speaker 12: another house for his other daughter on the other side. 953 00:54:56,440 --> 00:54:59,719 Speaker 3: Do you think that he would be interviewed by the 954 00:55:00,360 --> 00:55:03,319 Speaker 3: by you, I don't know. 955 00:55:04,200 --> 00:55:04,759 Speaker 10: I don't know. 956 00:55:06,000 --> 00:55:09,920 Speaker 12: He'll be very upset because he is such a private, 957 00:55:10,000 --> 00:55:11,400 Speaker 12: private individual. 958 00:55:12,040 --> 00:55:14,480 Speaker 10: Maybe he would feel that he needs to put his 959 00:55:14,600 --> 00:55:16,759 Speaker 10: side forth. I'd give it a go. 960 00:55:18,440 --> 00:55:21,839 Speaker 1: I have written to John Winfield and left messages for 961 00:55:22,000 --> 00:55:25,640 Speaker 1: him explaining who I am. I wrote to John that 962 00:55:25,719 --> 00:55:30,680 Speaker 1: this podcast series Bronwin is an investigation into the disappearance 963 00:55:30,760 --> 00:55:35,320 Speaker 1: in May nineteen ninety three of his missing wife. John 964 00:55:35,440 --> 00:55:40,600 Speaker 1: has always denied foul play. He has also always tried 965 00:55:40,640 --> 00:55:45,680 Speaker 1: to minimize media interest. John has insisted that Bronwin got 966 00:55:45,719 --> 00:55:49,279 Speaker 1: into somebody's car one Sunday night at the house in 967 00:55:49,360 --> 00:55:52,520 Speaker 1: Lennox Head and that was the last time he saw 968 00:55:52,560 --> 00:55:56,440 Speaker 1: her so far. He has declined to be interviewed for 969 00:55:56,600 --> 00:56:01,560 Speaker 1: this podcast investigation. I am hope that he or someone 970 00:56:01,680 --> 00:56:04,600 Speaker 1: close to him speaking on his behalf, will agree to 971 00:56:04,640 --> 00:56:09,319 Speaker 1: talk to me In a later episode. In a telephone 972 00:56:09,320 --> 00:56:13,200 Speaker 1: interview with me, Meghan expanded on something from that morning 973 00:56:13,320 --> 00:56:17,239 Speaker 1: catch up in nineteen ninety three at Sandstone Crescent, the 974 00:56:17,320 --> 00:56:21,160 Speaker 1: last time she saw her cousin and good friend, and 975 00:56:21,200 --> 00:56:23,880 Speaker 1: Meghan recalled that Broman looked very worried. 976 00:56:24,920 --> 00:56:28,240 Speaker 10: She looked really really irishy, and she said he's. 977 00:56:28,080 --> 00:56:29,160 Speaker 6: Going to be back any minute. 978 00:56:29,200 --> 00:56:31,640 Speaker 12: Other words, she was trying to chell us when should go. 979 00:56:33,800 --> 00:56:37,240 Speaker 1: Madison Walsh has been sorting through the piles of paper 980 00:56:37,320 --> 00:56:39,360 Speaker 1: in front of her while we've been talking at the 981 00:56:39,440 --> 00:56:40,200 Speaker 1: dining table. 982 00:56:41,120 --> 00:56:43,600 Speaker 3: How deeply have you read into these files? 983 00:56:43,920 --> 00:56:45,080 Speaker 10: Yeah, I've gotten quite deep. 984 00:56:45,080 --> 00:56:48,440 Speaker 18: I just havn't gotten that far into the criminal inquest 985 00:56:48,800 --> 00:56:52,320 Speaker 18: by for a lot of the statements and nary entries. 986 00:56:53,360 --> 00:56:56,279 Speaker 1: She has come to her Auntie Meghan's home to help 987 00:56:56,400 --> 00:56:58,960 Speaker 1: organize more files of evidence about the case. 988 00:57:00,800 --> 00:57:02,800 Speaker 10: Grew up with a whole thing. She's heard about it 989 00:57:02,840 --> 00:57:03,399 Speaker 10: all her life. 990 00:57:03,640 --> 00:57:04,799 Speaker 3: I was told about. 991 00:57:04,560 --> 00:57:07,320 Speaker 18: It from a previous I can remember. 992 00:57:07,560 --> 00:57:10,600 Speaker 12: She's got done a bachelor in a forensic science and 993 00:57:10,680 --> 00:57:12,799 Speaker 12: specializing in crime scene investigation. 994 00:57:14,200 --> 00:57:19,080 Speaker 1: Brommin's fate has intrigued Maddie for years. She's been bringing 995 00:57:19,280 --> 00:57:22,800 Speaker 1: order and structure to a very large number of documents. 996 00:57:23,640 --> 00:57:26,480 Speaker 1: Most of these are important evidence at the heart of 997 00:57:26,520 --> 00:57:30,320 Speaker 1: the disappearance and the suspected murder of the woman. Maddie 998 00:57:30,360 --> 00:57:34,680 Speaker 1: grew up hearing about her mother's cousin. Great that you're 999 00:57:34,720 --> 00:57:36,960 Speaker 1: going through the detail of it and reading it and 1000 00:57:37,000 --> 00:57:38,200 Speaker 1: that you've got that expertise. 1001 00:57:39,600 --> 00:57:45,440 Speaker 18: Here we have witness statements from nineteen ninety eight. Some 1002 00:57:45,480 --> 00:57:51,560 Speaker 18: of them are from neighbors, and that's from Judy. 1003 00:57:50,240 --> 00:57:52,960 Speaker 12: Nineteen ninety eight. It's the first time Eddie statements Bedegen. 1004 00:57:53,560 --> 00:57:57,280 Speaker 18: That's what got me. Why was nothing done? So we 1005 00:57:57,400 --> 00:58:00,600 Speaker 18: have these statements by there five years later. The police 1006 00:58:00,880 --> 00:58:05,160 Speaker 18: didn't search for her, the house wasn't investigated, was at 1007 00:58:05,160 --> 00:58:08,840 Speaker 18: a crime scene. Usually in this day when there's a 1008 00:58:08,840 --> 00:58:12,760 Speaker 18: missing person, there at least like a search of surrounding areas, 1009 00:58:12,840 --> 00:58:17,240 Speaker 18: even if it's just volunteers. But that didn't happen. It 1010 00:58:17,280 --> 00:58:19,280 Speaker 18: was like no one cared. It was like, oh, she 1011 00:58:19,360 --> 00:58:22,960 Speaker 18: just ran off, that's it. Never met another phone call, 1012 00:58:23,280 --> 00:58:26,240 Speaker 18: never reshot to her kids, again, never traveled, didn't take 1013 00:58:26,240 --> 00:58:29,320 Speaker 18: a passport. The only thing that John claims that she 1014 00:58:29,480 --> 00:58:34,320 Speaker 18: took was her herme bag. Never used many care nothing, and. 1015 00:58:34,280 --> 00:58:36,560 Speaker 3: Didn't have any money or not much money at. 1016 00:58:36,480 --> 00:58:39,360 Speaker 10: The time, but there was money at her bank accounts. 1017 00:58:38,880 --> 00:58:42,760 Speaker 1: Never been touched, so money not touched, and equity in 1018 00:58:42,800 --> 00:58:45,600 Speaker 1: the house that she owned with John, yes for this, 1019 00:58:46,200 --> 00:58:48,520 Speaker 1: but she didn't touch the equity, which she couldn't. 1020 00:58:49,320 --> 00:58:53,240 Speaker 12: Barbara, who was Bromwin and Andrew's mother, she had personal 1021 00:58:53,440 --> 00:58:57,560 Speaker 12: depression after having Bromwin, and she got even worse when 1022 00:58:57,560 --> 00:58:58,600 Speaker 12: she had Andrew. 1023 00:58:59,120 --> 00:59:00,560 Speaker 10: What John was trying. 1024 00:59:00,400 --> 00:59:05,800 Speaker 12: To say is that because Barbara was a paranoid schizophrenic, 1025 00:59:05,840 --> 00:59:09,360 Speaker 12: and she was, and she ran away and disappeared out 1026 00:59:09,360 --> 00:59:12,400 Speaker 12: of their lives when Andrew was six months old and 1027 00:59:12,800 --> 00:59:15,600 Speaker 12: broman was two, and then she came back about ten 1028 00:59:15,720 --> 00:59:16,280 Speaker 12: years later. 1029 00:59:17,000 --> 00:59:20,840 Speaker 10: That that's what she did. So that's what he's saying now. 1030 00:59:21,480 --> 00:59:26,000 Speaker 12: I distinctly remember Bromwin saying, if anything happens to me, 1031 00:59:26,160 --> 00:59:28,960 Speaker 12: that's what he's going to say. With Bromwan's mother, it 1032 00:59:29,120 --> 00:59:33,400 Speaker 12: was brought on by post natal depression after having children. 1033 00:59:33,680 --> 00:59:34,480 Speaker 7: Both mother. 1034 00:59:36,440 --> 00:59:39,800 Speaker 3: While I went, oh, good girl, this is really helpful Maddie, 1035 00:59:40,200 --> 00:59:40,640 Speaker 3: thank you. 1036 00:59:42,080 --> 00:59:46,000 Speaker 1: Numerous printouts of emails over the years may also hold 1037 00:59:46,120 --> 00:59:48,000 Speaker 1: clues and fresh leads. 1038 00:59:48,720 --> 00:59:51,760 Speaker 10: So many she kind of sought them into dates of what's. 1039 00:59:51,600 --> 00:59:52,320 Speaker 7: Kind of going on. 1040 00:59:53,320 --> 00:59:56,400 Speaker 1: How do you feel about being part of this investigation 1041 00:59:56,480 --> 00:59:56,720 Speaker 1: with me? 1042 00:59:58,080 --> 01:00:00,160 Speaker 9: I love to so. 1043 01:00:01,640 --> 01:00:03,520 Speaker 3: Do you think you can be objective. 1044 01:00:03,080 --> 01:00:06,120 Speaker 1: About it though your knowledge of the family, your expertise? 1045 01:00:06,680 --> 01:00:08,320 Speaker 10: Definitely, she never met her. 1046 01:00:09,080 --> 01:00:11,280 Speaker 18: I did hear about it all the time, but I 1047 01:00:11,360 --> 01:00:14,040 Speaker 18: never knew her. That was what I was talking to 1048 01:00:14,520 --> 01:00:17,720 Speaker 18: Megan and Kim about. Obviously, for them, a lot of 1049 01:00:17,760 --> 01:00:22,160 Speaker 18: emotions would drive it, and it can blur the evidence. 1050 01:00:22,800 --> 01:00:26,520 Speaker 18: I am disconnected from it because it happened before I 1051 01:00:26,600 --> 01:00:27,000 Speaker 18: was born. 1052 01:00:27,840 --> 01:00:33,480 Speaker 1: What if we found some evidence that suggested that the 1053 01:00:33,520 --> 01:00:38,360 Speaker 1: person your family believes killed your auntie didn't. 1054 01:00:38,000 --> 01:00:40,560 Speaker 10: Do that, then that would be okay. 1055 01:00:40,840 --> 01:00:44,680 Speaker 18: I would understand that, And there is a possibility that 1056 01:00:44,760 --> 01:00:46,960 Speaker 18: it wasn't who my family thinks. 1057 01:00:48,040 --> 01:00:51,560 Speaker 1: Thanks to the family tree drawn by Maddie, I realized 1058 01:00:51,560 --> 01:00:55,200 Speaker 1: that Bromwin, if she were alive, would be Maddie's second cousin, 1059 01:00:55,560 --> 01:00:56,600 Speaker 1: not an auntie. 1060 01:00:57,400 --> 01:01:00,959 Speaker 18: So if it turns out she did run away, I'd 1061 01:01:01,000 --> 01:01:03,959 Speaker 18: be like, okay, we have evidence of that. 1062 01:01:04,480 --> 01:01:05,200 Speaker 7: We know that. 1063 01:01:05,680 --> 01:01:09,120 Speaker 18: I do have no open mind, and I have questioned 1064 01:01:09,160 --> 01:01:12,440 Speaker 18: everything that Megan has told me. I'm like, how do 1065 01:01:12,520 --> 01:01:15,560 Speaker 18: you know? How do you know this didn't happen? How 1066 01:01:15,560 --> 01:01:19,640 Speaker 18: do you know she shouldn't run off? Why are you 1067 01:01:19,720 --> 01:01:20,720 Speaker 18: blaming this one guy? 1068 01:01:21,960 --> 01:01:25,720 Speaker 1: This record of interview with Winfield is obviously a crucial. 1069 01:01:25,440 --> 01:01:27,480 Speaker 10: Document, seventy six pages. 1070 01:01:27,840 --> 01:01:29,920 Speaker 1: We haven't seen a tape of this anyway. Do you 1071 01:01:29,920 --> 01:01:30,960 Speaker 1: have some photographs of it? 1072 01:01:31,240 --> 01:01:31,439 Speaker 11: Yeah? 1073 01:01:31,600 --> 01:01:32,920 Speaker 10: I do, I got it. 1074 01:01:34,920 --> 01:01:36,960 Speaker 12: That's when the day she booked John over to me 1075 01:01:37,320 --> 01:01:38,360 Speaker 12: I was living in Double Bow. 1076 01:01:39,000 --> 01:01:41,880 Speaker 3: Open a folder just for selected plans. Thanks Manny. 1077 01:01:43,760 --> 01:01:51,640 Speaker 12: That's brain Baby, that is John the first time I'm eating, 1078 01:01:52,480 --> 01:01:56,480 Speaker 12: And that's Crystal to the left hand side. 1079 01:01:56,760 --> 01:01:57,720 Speaker 10: That's Brawn and I. 1080 01:01:59,320 --> 01:02:04,760 Speaker 12: That's Jodie to step to it, Michelle, mum, Bromwin and myself. 1081 01:02:06,560 --> 01:02:07,600 Speaker 10: She's such a good mother. 1082 01:02:08,040 --> 01:02:08,320 Speaker 11: Thought. 1083 01:02:08,880 --> 01:02:14,640 Speaker 12: But that's Crystal starther Mark Davis, who's deceased. That's Ronnie 1084 01:02:14,800 --> 01:02:23,560 Speaker 12: on the track. She's gone there, she's gone there to 1085 01:02:23,760 --> 01:02:38,240 Speaker 12: thest family photos. She's gone. 1086 01:02:41,320 --> 01:02:45,400 Speaker 1: Bronwyn is written and investigated by me Headley Thomas as 1087 01:02:45,440 --> 01:02:50,200 Speaker 1: a podcast production for The Australian. If anyone has information 1088 01:02:50,440 --> 01:02:54,240 Speaker 1: which may help solve this cold case. Please contact me 1089 01:02:54,400 --> 01:03:00,720 Speaker 1: confidentially by emailing Bronwyn at the Australian dot com dot Au. 1090 01:03:01,440 --> 01:03:04,360 Speaker 1: You can read more about this case and see a 1091 01:03:04,480 --> 01:03:08,880 Speaker 1: range of photographs and other artwork at the website Bromwyn 1092 01:03:09,000 --> 01:03:15,160 Speaker 1: Podcast dot com. Our subscribers and registered users here episodes first. 1093 01:03:15,760 --> 01:03:20,320 Speaker 1: The production and editorial team for bromwin includes Claire Harvey, 1094 01:03:20,440 --> 01:03:26,400 Speaker 1: Kristin Amiert, Joshua Burton, Bridget, Ryan Bianca, far Marcus, Katie Burns, 1095 01:03:26,680 --> 01:03:31,080 Speaker 1: Liam Mendez, Sean Callen and Matthew Condon and David Murray. 1096 01:03:31,880 --> 01:03:35,800 Speaker 1: Audio production for this podcast series is by Wasabi Audio 1097 01:03:36,080 --> 01:03:40,400 Speaker 1: and original theme music by Slade Gibson. We have been 1098 01:03:40,440 --> 01:03:44,760 Speaker 1: assisted by Madison Walsh, a relation of Bromwan Winfield. 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