Speaker 1: I want the fairy tale. I want the prince charming.
Speaker 2: She How do I put this? He isn't a fan
Speaker 2: of my kissing.
Speaker 1: Style boyfriend and girlfriend for about twelve hours. He's in
Speaker 1: a trash bit. He's non recyclable catching them.
Speaker 2: I love being love. I love love.
Speaker 3: It's just like too big to comprehend in your brain.
Speaker 3: That's what having a wedding feels like to me right now. Really,
Speaker 3: but anyway, well, you're better comprehend it. It's like it's
Speaker 3: happening in weeks. Where's Your head At is a podcast
Speaker 3: that talks all things relationships, breakups, reality TV, trending shows,
Speaker 3: and everything in between.
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Speaker 1: Hello, Matthew, how are you?
Speaker 2: I'm good? How are you?
Speaker 1: I'm good?
Speaker 3: My birthday is so soon. We need to talk about that.
Speaker 3: I'm turning a certain age.
Speaker 1: But a lady does not tell her age.
Speaker 2: So put it into perspective. You're thirty if was what
Speaker 2: two years ago?
Speaker 1: Well, I guess we're going to tell her.
Speaker 2: So how old does that make you? Then?
Speaker 3: So I'm turning thirty two when this comes out, I
Speaker 3: will already be thirty two, so right now I'm thirty one.
Speaker 3: But I posted a TikTok the other day a week
Speaker 3: or so ago, and I was like, I kind of
Speaker 3: want to know how old people think I am.
Speaker 1: So I'm going to play you the TikTok.
Speaker 3: It's my birthday on Sunday, and I want to know
Speaker 3: how old you guys think I look. I just want
Speaker 3: a legitimate gauge on how old this face is looking.
Speaker 2: Do your worse?
Speaker 1: They did their worse.
Speaker 2: TikTok is savage, though. I see some of the comments
Speaker 2: and people are what did they say?
Speaker 1: Okay, I want to ask you how old do you
Speaker 1: think I look?
Speaker 3: You can't get the answer wrong, Like, don't say I'm
Speaker 3: sixty obviously, but like twenty nine eight?
Speaker 1: Do you think I look twenty eight?
Speaker 3: Okay? I think I would agree that I look around
Speaker 3: that age. I probably look my age. That's okay, TikTok.
Speaker 3: Someone said the youngest someone said it was I looked
Speaker 3: twenty four, which I was like, too young, though, It's
Speaker 3: like maybe they're blowing smoke.
Speaker 1: Up my ass.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'd insulting, Like twenty.
Speaker 3: Someone said I looked thirty five, which isn't the worst,
Speaker 3: Like no one said I looked fifty, What was.
Speaker 1: The oldest, Like thirty five?
Speaker 2: Thirty five was the oldest, yeah, And I was.
Speaker 3: Like, yeah, I could probably pass with thirty five, Like
Speaker 3: it's it's passable. It's just so interesting. I think it's
Speaker 3: hard to gauge people's ages as well. Like people get botox,
Speaker 3: people get filler. Like people who are younger who get
Speaker 3: a lot of filler and botox can sometimes.
Speaker 2: Look watch the daughter say that they look older.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and then vice versa.
Speaker 3: People who potentially are in their forties, they've had really
Speaker 3: good like botox and filler, and they look a lot younger.
Speaker 3: So it's like, it's I find it so hard to
Speaker 3: guess people's ages these days.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 2: I feel like as you associate like the filler and
Speaker 2: all that with like old people doing it, when you
Speaker 2: see someone, you're like, oh, they must be like older.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 3: And the reason why I chose to do this TikTok
Speaker 3: is because this girl went viral for asking TikTok how
Speaker 3: old they think she looks? And she was only thirty four,
Speaker 3: and people were like guessing, like saying she looked like
Speaker 3: she was in her late sixties.
Speaker 1: Genuinely.
Speaker 3: Most of the comments said that, and she was devastated.
Speaker 3: It was actually horrendous, Like she was like, I don't
Speaker 3: know if people are doing this for the cloud or
Speaker 3: if I genuinely look like I'm in my late sixties.
Speaker 1: Did she honestly no, Like I don't think she did.
Speaker 1: I think she looked thirty five.
Speaker 3: I would say she looked thirty five, but she had
Speaker 3: no botox and filler. She was just like aging gracefully.
Speaker 3: And I think that's the problem is like with social media,
Speaker 3: not a lot of people these days are aging gracefully,
Speaker 3: so people are getting a warped perception of age.
Speaker 2: I fucking just hate people trolls commenting shit like that,
Speaker 2: I know, and like I imagine doing that.
Speaker 3: She made the TikTok in a really sincere way, like
Speaker 3: she wasn't like trying to get attention or like how
Speaker 3: old do I look?
Speaker 1: Tell me like I look good? Like I think she was.
Speaker 3: It was like a genuine thing of like, okay, tell
Speaker 3: me how old my putting a video.
Speaker 2: Out there that want to TikTok, You're leaving yourself very
Speaker 2: vulnerable and very vulnerable to those losers that go out
Speaker 2: of their way to comment for likes and for like recognition.
Speaker 2: Imagine being like that at home on your couch, coming
Speaker 2: something for recognition from just I don't know, well, people
Speaker 2: grinds my gears.
Speaker 3: People comment because, like number one, they want their comment
Speaker 3: to be liked. So if someone's going to be like, oh,
Speaker 3: you look like you're in like late seventies, and then
Speaker 3: people like it, then they're like, oh, people like think
Speaker 3: I'm cool.
Speaker 2: No, you're not cool if you're saying a nasti comment
Speaker 2: and getting like you're a fucking loser.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 3: So anyway, I'm turning thirty two. By the time this airs,
Speaker 3: I will be thirty two. I just had my hands,
Speaker 3: so I don't think I'm doing anything big, but you know.
Speaker 2: Well on that and the way we look in that,
Speaker 2: I am obviously I'm this. When this comes out, I
Speaker 2: would have been in Bali for Tammy's thirtieth.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's very cute.
Speaker 2: I had to find my passport last night. I got
Speaker 2: my passport and I was like looking at my passport,
Speaker 2: was like clicking through it at the stamps and all
Speaker 2: that sort of stuff, and then I saw the photo
Speaker 2: of myself, which was taken probably nearly ten years ago, yeah,
Speaker 2: maybe ten probably due for an update actually, and I
Speaker 2: was looking at myself and I was like, man, what
Speaker 2: would I tell myself from like ten years ago, like
Speaker 2: right now, like in three words or like five words
Speaker 2: or less? Like what would I tell I love you?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Like, well, I came to the conclusion I would probably
Speaker 2: just say something about like keep going like it does,
Speaker 2: like it's yeah.
Speaker 3: It's gonna be okay. I tell myself, Yeah, it's gonna
Speaker 3: be going to work out.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it all works out. Yeah, something I keep going,
Speaker 2: keep ongoing, that's.
Speaker 1: Three keep on going yeah, yeah, something like that.
Speaker 2: I think him, what would you tell you? What would
Speaker 2: you tell yourself?
Speaker 3: What would I tell my younger self? Everything that you
Speaker 3: think is this is more than three words? Yeah, I
Speaker 3: actually use through thinking three.
Speaker 1: Words and then it would be keep on going.
Speaker 2: Okay, But what if you had it an unlimited Okay,
Speaker 2: now I've got unlimited vocabulary.
Speaker 3: I think I would just tell myself, like, the hardest
Speaker 3: moments in your life, you will get through them.
Speaker 1: Sometimes.
Speaker 3: I think when you're younger, you think, like, you know,
Speaker 3: heartbreak is the end of the world, and it is.
Speaker 3: It does feel like that, but I think you get
Speaker 3: through it, and it's a huge lesson and you keep
Speaker 3: growing and everything that is really hard, it all turns
Speaker 3: out and everything is a lesson and if it's not,
Speaker 3: then it sucks and you get stronger.
Speaker 2: No mistakes, only lessons. Also, have you seen the TikTok
Speaker 2: or the reel of all the actors sitting around and
Speaker 2: they're like talking, and I think it's Tom Hanks gives
Speaker 2: the advice it shall pass.
Speaker 1: Shall pass. That's exactly kind of That's where I was going, Like.
Speaker 2: Yeah, like you feel sad and it will pass. You
Speaker 2: feel happy, it will pass. I appreciate when you're happy,
Speaker 2: don't dwell, and when you're sad, it all passes, and
Speaker 2: you're like, you know, no need to focus on that,
Speaker 2: just going.
Speaker 3: And I think a positive outlook, a positive outlook is
Speaker 3: so important because I think if you look at things
Speaker 3: in a bad mood or with a negative lens, it
Speaker 3: just makes everything worse, Whereas if you look at stuff
Speaker 3: in a positive light, like, oh, this sucks at the moment,
Speaker 3: but I know it's going to be better or things
Speaker 3: are going to improve, or so hard I'm going to.
Speaker 1: Get over it.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's hard at the time, but like positive affirmations
Speaker 3: and like telling yourself, like I wake up in the
Speaker 3: morning and I literally look in the mirror and I'm like,
Speaker 3: you're amazing, You're wonderful, you're a business woman, you're successful.
Speaker 1: Like I say these.
Speaker 3: Affirmations to myself, But when I was eighteen, I would
Speaker 3: have been like, oh, I look disgusting. That would be
Speaker 3: the first thing I would probably think. I wouldn't say
Speaker 3: it out loud, but I think it myself, like, oh
Speaker 3: you look gross, like like so negative. It's like to
Speaker 3: change the mindset is so powerful?
Speaker 2: Do you write like a what's the word gratitude general?
Speaker 2: I tried to get into like I do when I
Speaker 2: remember I do it all right, three every day for
Speaker 2: what I'm grateful for.
Speaker 3: I just don't have the energy to do that. But
Speaker 3: I just like verbally say it to myself every day,
Speaker 3: and I feel like, then you're doing It's just something
Speaker 3: that I can do.
Speaker 1: I don't need to find my pen to look for
Speaker 1: the journeal.
Speaker 3: But if you do it and that works for you,
Speaker 3: then all power to you, Like that's awesome.
Speaker 2: Well, it was hard because at the start I start
Speaker 2: trying to think of different things I hand written before,
Speaker 2: and I was like, no, no, I'm going to focus on
Speaker 2: that day. What I'm grateful for that made it a
Speaker 2: lot easier.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm a positive I love that, Okay, Matt And
Speaker 3: the spirit of me getting married in a couple of
Speaker 3: weeks so close, even to say that is wild crazy.
Speaker 3: Do you know it's weird like getting married because you know,
Speaker 3: other people get married.
Speaker 1: I don't get married. It's just so weird that this
Speaker 1: is me.
Speaker 2: That is something I've thought about as well.
Speaker 3: You know what I mean, Like we all have birthdays,
Speaker 3: but not everyone gets married. And it's like when someone
Speaker 3: else is getting married, it's like, oh my god, I'm
Speaker 3: so excited for you're married, But this is me.
Speaker 1: That's looking at me like I'm the biggest loser.
Speaker 2: No, I understand what you're saying. I thought about that
Speaker 2: as well. I've thought that as well.
Speaker 3: You know, when you have those thoughts and you're like
Speaker 3: you just think about how big the ocean is, like no,
Speaker 3: but really think about how big the ocean.
Speaker 2: Is before New fucking you know what I.
Speaker 3: Mean though, When you have those like crazy things and
Speaker 3: it's just like too big to comprehend in your brain,
Speaker 3: that's what having a wedding feels like to me right now.
Speaker 2: Really.
Speaker 1: But anyway, well, you're better comprehended.
Speaker 2: It's like it's happening in weeks.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 3: But in the spirit of me getting married, you getting married,
Speaker 3: I thought I would talk about the red string theory.
Speaker 1: So I came across this on TikTok. It's so cute.
Speaker 1: Have you heard of it before?
Speaker 2: Just in our notes?
Speaker 1: Fair enough?
Speaker 3: Okay, So let me explain it to you guys. So
Speaker 3: there is an ancient Chinese proverb which says that an
Speaker 3: invisible red thread to connect those who are destined to meet,
Speaker 3: regardless of time, place, or circumstance. So the thread may
Speaker 3: stretch or tangle, but it will never break. So this
Speaker 3: red thread of fate is commonly thought of as an
Speaker 3: invisible red cord around the finger of those that are
Speaker 3: destined to meet one another in a certain situation, so
Speaker 3: that person is like their one true love.
Speaker 1: How cute is that?
Speaker 2: It's really cute.
Speaker 3: I totally think that me and Michael have that You're
Speaker 3: meant to me, were meant to me. Like I was
Speaker 3: born in the UK, on the other side of the planet.
Speaker 3: Michael was born in Adelaide. Like we're so far apart,
Speaker 3: like literally opposite ends of the world, and we somehow
Speaker 3: our paths through all different choices of my parents and
Speaker 3: me and whatever. Like if I didn't go on Love Island,
Speaker 3: we wouldn't have been invited to do the beauty and
Speaker 3: the geek thing judge it together, and then I never
Speaker 3: would have met Michael. Like just it's like every single
Speaker 3: choice in your life leads you to that path.
Speaker 2: Is that? What's that thing called what's it called sliding doors? Yeah,
Speaker 2: sliding doors?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Is it called the sliding door? Like it's yeah, I
Speaker 2: believe that as well. I truly believe that.
Speaker 3: How crazy is it that you can get to a
Speaker 3: fork in the road in your life and you're like,
Speaker 3: I can go left or I can go right. And
Speaker 3: I literally before I met Michael, you know this, that's
Speaker 3: what fork?
Speaker 2: That's a t What do you mean. I don't get
Speaker 2: that expression of like a fork in the road.
Speaker 3: It's like your road is going straight and then a
Speaker 3: fork goes so you can either take a left turn.
Speaker 1: Or a right turn.
Speaker 2: I've never got that expression.
Speaker 1: But anyway, so you know this.
Speaker 3: I came to a fork in the road where I
Speaker 3: chose between someone and Michael, and I'm so glad that
Speaker 3: I chose Michael. And I just think that there was
Speaker 3: never any choice for me, that it was always Michael.
Speaker 2: I think it was always meant.
Speaker 3: The red string connected us from the moment I was born,
Speaker 3: when he was three.
Speaker 1: Do you believe it?
Speaker 2: Yeah? I agree with that whole fok thing. I think
Speaker 2: that everything happens for a reason, and I believe you're
Speaker 2: on a journey and you're destined to be where you're
Speaker 2: meant to be. And I believe, like you said, go
Speaker 2: on Love Island. I think if I hadn't gone on
Speaker 2: Love Island, we wouldn't have started this podcast. If we
Speaker 2: didn't start this podcast, I would never have messaged Hammy.
Speaker 3: She wouldn't have seen our tiktoks pop up if you
Speaker 3: didn't have this podcast.
Speaker 2: So I think every decision you make leads you to
Speaker 2: like where you're meant to be. I don't. It's the
Speaker 2: red line, the red string theory. I think, yeah, is
Speaker 2: another way of putting it. But I think we're all
Speaker 2: destined and we're meant to be where we're meant to
Speaker 2: be and who we're meant to be with. So I
Speaker 2: do believe it, and I do believe Tammy, and I Yeah,
Speaker 2: red strings is it?
Speaker 1: We have the red string?
Speaker 2: Red strings attaching us.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think so.
Speaker 3: And I think as well, like it's such a nice
Speaker 3: thing to think of, especially if you're single. When things
Speaker 3: don't work out with people, it's kind of like, although
Speaker 3: it hurts so bad at the time, you're just taking
Speaker 3: another step into the right direction of where you were
Speaker 3: always supposed to go. I agree, And I think that's
Speaker 3: a really peaceful thought to have, because then you go,
Speaker 3: you don't have these what ifs. It's just like what's
Speaker 3: meant to be will be, Like, although I'm hurting right
Speaker 3: now and I've just been heartbroken by this guy or
Speaker 3: whoever this person is, who's broken your heart, Like, not
Speaker 3: being with this person is leading you to your destiny essentially,
Speaker 3: which is cute.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I get it. I see it. I believe in
Speaker 2: it as well. I think that everything happens for a
Speaker 2: reason and you're on that journey to find someone. Do
Speaker 2: you ever think to yourself, like a sort of along
Speaker 2: the lines of that, that if you and Michael have
Speaker 2: been in the same place, the same I don't know,
Speaker 2: bar at the same time, Yeah, same shopping center at
Speaker 2: the same time, like you and you didn't know.
Speaker 3: Yes, So there's this girl. I saw this TikTok of
Speaker 3: this girl. I can't find it right now, but I'll
Speaker 3: put it on the Facebook group. And she has a
Speaker 3: picture of her at Disneyland and her future husband with
Speaker 3: his family at Disneyland and they're in the same photo.
Speaker 3: And twenty years later she was like showing him like
Speaker 3: her baby album and he's like, that's my family in
Speaker 3: the same photo.
Speaker 1: How insane is that?
Speaker 2: That is wild? That is like blow your mind.
Speaker 3: It's like passing ships, like, you know, crazy.
Speaker 2: It just reminds me of probably not it's not as
Speaker 2: cute as that, but Seinfeld when George Castanz is in
Speaker 2: the photo of his future boss and he's trying to
Speaker 2: get it photo shopped out. Has anyone seen that episode? No,
Speaker 2: it's so funny, and then like he blames them for
Speaker 2: throwing his clothes in the ocean. It's just thinking, watch
Speaker 2: that episode. It's a good one, but it's the same
Speaker 2: sort of thing. It's not as cute as that story
Speaker 2: from TikTok sounds funny. So from your birthday April the
Speaker 2: twenty first to April the twenty seventh, it is actually
Speaker 2: National Infertility Awareness Week. Wow, so let's bring awareness to infertility. Obviously,
Speaker 2: if you've been on this podcast with me and you've
Speaker 2: listened to it. You've been on a journey with me
Speaker 2: through my infertility. You know the struggles I've had with it.
Speaker 2: So I feel like talking about it obviously. That's why
Speaker 2: we talk about now. It brings awareness to it. I
Speaker 2: actually had a bloke messaged me on Instagram which actually
Speaker 2: really hit me in the fields. He said that me
Speaker 2: speaking about it had prompted him to go get a
Speaker 2: test because he had undecended testicles right as well, and
Speaker 2: he never thought that he'd be in the position he's in.
Speaker 2: I might play the voice message now for everyone to
Speaker 2: listen to it.
Speaker 4: Hey mate, I hope you see this. I don't know
Speaker 4: if you ever will, but I've been meaning to send
Speaker 4: your message for a while now. And the reason I'm
Speaker 4: doing it now and as a voice message, not a
Speaker 4: fucking text message, is because I'm actually driving home from
Speaker 4: the specialist. WoT mat I've just had, so I knew
Speaker 4: you've I don't do it now. I'll probably forget and
Speaker 4: it passed my mind again, and then I'll just get
Speaker 4: out there on.
Speaker 2: A voice message.
Speaker 4: But after i've recently all A few months ago, I
Speaker 4: saw your meth or story about how you were infertile
Speaker 4: from your underscended tests. And I had the same thing
Speaker 4: when I was a kid, like I was four years old,
Speaker 4: never thought of it since, and I'm twenty two years
Speaker 4: old now. I don't have a partner anything, but I'm
Speaker 4: so passionate and just look forward to that part of
Speaker 4: my life having kids, and it's been, like always been
Speaker 4: the most exciting part of my life. And my biggest
Speaker 4: dream is to have a family. So yeah, obviously when
Speaker 4: I saw that, I started freaking out a little bit
Speaker 4: in a sense that it was cool to or not cool,
Speaker 4: but like I knew that it wasn't just me who
Speaker 4: had it. But I got my mind thinking that I
Speaker 4: never thought of before, Like I would have gone my
Speaker 4: whole life, and I can promise you that my whole
Speaker 4: life without knowing there was any implications of this surgery
Speaker 4: I had when I was a kid, and I would
Speaker 4: have come to thirty or whatever age I was when
Speaker 4: I wanted to have kids, and I would have just
Speaker 4: had no nouck whatsoever, and I would have gone and
Speaker 4: got a test it then when I certainly trying to
Speaker 4: have kids, have just been fucking heartbroken, Like I would
Speaker 4: have ruined my life finding out then, But basically all
Speaker 4: of the stories I found out, I did it when
Speaker 4: I did a semen test at obviously this age twenty two,
Speaker 4: and I found out my semen levels are like not
Speaker 4: not sterile, but real low. So I've still got some
Speaker 4: sperms women around there, which is good. But I just
Speaker 4: had my point with my fertility doctor and basically, yeah,
Speaker 4: they're freezing my sperm. And he's basically said that I'm
Speaker 4: I'm gonna have to go through IVF when I find
Speaker 4: my partner, but there's not gonna be any issues. I'm
Speaker 4: gonna be able to have kids. But he said if
Speaker 4: I sort of waited any couple more years, and he
Speaker 4: wouldn't have been able to say the same thing, like
Speaker 4: because my spam's only going to get lower and lower
Speaker 4: and less of quality. So yeah, I guess it's just
Speaker 4: a message. Hopefully feelish your heart up a little bit
Speaker 4: knowing that I can. I can feel myself choking a
Speaker 4: little bit just saying out loud because I haven't said
Speaker 4: out loud, but knowing that without you sharing your message,
Speaker 4: then I know for a fact that I would never
Speaker 4: have been able to have kids in my life, like
Speaker 4: I would never have gone and got a sperm test,
Speaker 4: and I would have waited until I actually tried it,
Speaker 4: until I wanted to have kids to find out that
Speaker 4: this wasn't normal, if that makes sense. But yeah, because
Speaker 4: I somehow only bumped into your story started this year,
Speaker 4: I think it was, or maybe in the last year,
Speaker 4: got my brain thinking and I remembered about the time
Speaker 4: when I was a kid and I had the same thing,
Speaker 4: and yeah, I took action and I got myself tested,
Speaker 4: and now I'm going to be able to have kids
Speaker 4: and get my sperm frozen. Obviously is not going to
Speaker 4: be the natural roud, It's not going to be normal,
Speaker 4: maybe not be as pleasant for me and my partner
Speaker 4: whoever it is at the time, but I know I'll
Speaker 4: be able to earn. Yeah, I'm super grateful for you
Speaker 4: sharing your message publicly because I don't know what I
Speaker 4: would have done with my life if I didn't come
Speaker 4: across that. Because yeah, I want to continue to waffle on.
Speaker 4: I'm fucking good at that, but I'm going to wrap
Speaker 4: it up, and I just want you to know if
Speaker 4: you ever read this here, this's that you saved me
Speaker 4: a lot of pain. I reckon. That's probably the way
Speaker 4: to sum of that.
Speaker 1: Wow, that is crazy, Mat.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's pretty pretty powerful to like, how does that
Speaker 2: make you feel? Yeah, I don't know, Like I yeah,
Speaker 2: it makes me feel that like I'm doing some good
Speaker 2: with Flat because I've always thought to myself, like putting
Speaker 2: that out there is like, you know, making it public
Speaker 2: to everyone. I'm leaving myself very vulnerable for like people's
Speaker 2: criticism or for people to like take it in the
Speaker 2: wrong way. And I've seen people on social media take
Speaker 2: it the wrong way and make a mockery of it
Speaker 2: and all that sort of stuff. And to finally have
Speaker 2: someone not finally, but to have someone actually tell me
Speaker 2: that it's done good for them, like, it's pretty powerful.
Speaker 2: And yeah, it makes me very very much makes me
Speaker 2: very very emotional.
Speaker 3: That blew me away hearing that, Like I before Matt
Speaker 3: played this, I was wrapping up the episode because I
Speaker 3: thought we were done, and then that's like, oh no,
Speaker 3: I want to share this, And it's actually just taken
Speaker 3: my breath away completely. How amazing that you have been
Speaker 3: able to do that for someone just by sharing your story,
Speaker 3: Like it just it does make all of those troll
Speaker 3: idiot accounts like talking shit. It just makes it so
Speaker 3: worth it. Just that one guy like guy to help
Speaker 3: that one person, it makes it all worth it.
Speaker 2: Hand. I remember I did say that. I said, if
Speaker 2: I can just help one person, or if someone can
Speaker 2: send this to someone in a position that's in the
Speaker 2: same position as me, or if a position similar to
Speaker 2: mine and it helps them get through it, or in
Speaker 2: this case, it actually got the guy to go get tested,
Speaker 2: so now he knows and now he has more chance
Speaker 2: or has a chance a kid. Like you said, if
Speaker 2: the doctor said if he'd left it, he wouldn't he
Speaker 2: wouldn't have a chance of having a kid. So yeah,
Speaker 2: that's very very very powerful, very very touching. They're very touching, touching,
Speaker 2: And I encourage people as well to if you're listening
Speaker 2: to this and you know someone in a position that's similar,
Speaker 2: or know someone that had to understand the testicles, or
Speaker 2: just someone just pass on the message, pass on the message,
Speaker 2: bring awareness to it.
Speaker 3: Yeah, because it could it could really help and change
Speaker 3: someone's life. And the fact that he spoke about how
Speaker 3: he's always wanted to be a dad, and the fact
Speaker 3: that it's almost like you've been able to give him
Speaker 3: that gift in a way like inadvertently, you've been able
Speaker 3: to kind of like, yeah, bring awareness to that.
Speaker 1: It's just insane.
Speaker 2: I just yeah, like I said when we were the
Speaker 2: first want to do I just want to bring awareness
Speaker 2: to it. And yeah, I had a lot of people
Speaker 2: come up to me or messaging when I first did
Speaker 2: it about it, But like to actually hear that story
Speaker 2: makes it a lot. Yeah, yeah, a lot more like
Speaker 2: just wow, powerful.
Speaker 3: Thank you to that guy for letting us share that
Speaker 3: story on our podcast. Thank you again for bringing awareness
Speaker 3: to infertility. I think it's han't gone notice and people
Speaker 3: really appreciate it. And until next time, Bye bye,