WEBVTT - "That's Brutal!": High School Horror Stories 0:00:00.080 --> 0:00:00.760 Come on road. 0:00:01.080 --> 0:00:04.400 How hard is it to extend your shipping it to Australia. 0:00:04.480 --> 0:00:07.480 I think it then makes like the customer service tax 0:00:07.600 --> 0:00:08.119 and say. 0:00:08.000 --> 0:00:14.240 Whatever, like come on Hiday. Welcome back to Tuesday's episode 0:00:14.320 --> 0:00:17.479 Just for Girls. We're so excited. This is our first 0:00:17.520 --> 0:00:20.160 submission episode back this year. Yeah, one of our favors. 0:00:20.200 --> 0:00:22.280 It's a really good classic hearing you guys A story. 0:00:22.440 --> 0:00:25.640 Horror story is probably one of my favorites. Yes, they're 0:00:25.640 --> 0:00:26.160 always good. 0:00:26.200 --> 0:00:29.920 I feel like it just makes me feel good. Okay, animple, 0:00:30.640 --> 0:00:32.159 did you feel like that feel broke? 0:00:32.360 --> 0:00:37.080 Yeah? I was just reading through the comments on her video, 0:00:37.360 --> 0:00:39.160 and some of them are so fucking funny. Yeah. 0:00:39.240 --> 0:00:41.440 Sometimes like a funny video, it's like funny, but it 0:00:41.440 --> 0:00:42.720 makes it ten times funny when people. 0:00:42.840 --> 0:00:45.120 Yeah, comments are my favorite. Like I will watch I 0:00:45.159 --> 0:00:47.000 will read through the comments while the video is playing 0:00:47.000 --> 0:00:49.360 because that they just add to everything, you know what 0:00:49.360 --> 0:00:49.680 I mean? 0:00:50.200 --> 0:00:52.760 So if you guys want to laugh, I have a 0:00:52.760 --> 0:00:55.720 look at the comments before she deletes it. Probably I 0:00:55.720 --> 0:00:58.880 would delete that, babe. Delete You can't. She has to 0:00:58.920 --> 0:00:59.400 keep it up. 0:00:59.560 --> 0:01:03.440 There's no way she needs to respond immediately something else 0:01:04.440 --> 0:01:06.280 she won't. I think this is it. I think this 0:01:06.360 --> 0:01:09.559 is all we're going to get. People like in the comments, 0:01:09.560 --> 0:01:10.560 they're like, I feel ghaslate. 0:01:10.720 --> 0:01:13.520 How did you turn this on us? Yeah the end. 0:01:13.560 --> 0:01:16.959 Don't bully whoa, don't make me feel bad. This is 0:01:16.959 --> 0:01:21.800 your problem. Any first, anyway, low, which. 0:01:21.640 --> 0:01:24.399 Jumped straight into question of the week, is what's one 0:01:24.480 --> 0:01:25.360 new year's resolution? 0:01:25.640 --> 0:01:31.240 Whoa? Whoa? Whoa? Guys, just there, that's never happened. 0:01:31.319 --> 0:01:35.680 Oh wow, Sorry, it's time for question of the week. 0:01:42.959 --> 0:01:45.960 What's one new year's resolution You've already neglected this year? 0:01:46.600 --> 0:01:49.440 I'm not canceling my PE team. Perfect? Yeah, what about you? 0:01:50.520 --> 0:01:52.880 Don't say nothing, I'll punch I'll throw this coffee at you. 0:01:54.280 --> 0:01:58.400 Lie, make me feel better. Fuck this bitch. Guys. If 0:01:58.400 --> 0:02:00.920 you could see I'm looking into the camera, well I'm 0:02:00.960 --> 0:02:01.960 started off the year grade. 0:02:02.000 --> 0:02:05.640 I should be proud of myself that I haven't neglected anything. Lie, 0:02:07.200 --> 0:02:09.200 some days I don't drink three leads of water? 0:02:09.639 --> 0:02:14.280 Yeah, perfect, you don't. No, Yeah, that's good. Okay, Just 0:02:14.360 --> 0:02:15.120 we want to make people. 0:02:15.440 --> 0:02:18.959 Yeah, you know they're hard, but just because you break 0:02:19.000 --> 0:02:20.919 it doesn't mean you can't conject. 0:02:20.600 --> 0:02:23.240 That stuff on it. Yeah. So, and I always say, 0:02:23.280 --> 0:02:25.079 like the first couple of weeks of the year don't count. 0:02:25.400 --> 0:02:28.240 Yeah, and you can always just start again. Yeah, you know, 0:02:28.360 --> 0:02:30.480 there's still a lot of time left. You don't just you. 0:02:30.440 --> 0:02:32.160 Can even start on a Wednesday without starting at the 0:02:32.160 --> 0:02:33.520 start of the week. You can start it in July 0:02:33.600 --> 0:02:36.600 if you might. Yeah, those resolutions are good always. Yeah. 0:02:36.919 --> 0:02:37.280 All right. 0:02:37.840 --> 0:02:39.079 We haven't done this in a little while, but I 0:02:39.080 --> 0:02:40.920 feel they're always interesting when we do. So we're going 0:02:40.960 --> 0:02:43.800 to do our recommendations, Sam, what have you got for us? 0:02:43.919 --> 0:02:45.480 Mine is an aura ring. 0:02:45.639 --> 0:02:47.640 I feel like there's been a lot of things on 0:02:47.639 --> 0:02:49.160 the internet about it. 0:02:49.240 --> 0:02:50.720 I actually what is it? 0:02:50.800 --> 0:02:52.760 I feel like I jumped on the trend away before 0:02:52.800 --> 0:02:54.639 it was a thing because I bought my ex one 0:02:54.880 --> 0:02:57.840 like three years ago because I saw Annelie Dallen's I 0:02:57.919 --> 0:02:59.600 was at the Collingwood game with her and I was like, Oh, 0:02:59.639 --> 0:03:02.079 what's that and she just screamed it that she got. 0:03:01.919 --> 0:03:05.240 It for Josh. But it is an aura ring, and 0:03:05.280 --> 0:03:06.280 it's like a health ring. 0:03:06.880 --> 0:03:10.440 So it really measures like your stress and anxiety. You 0:03:10.480 --> 0:03:12.760 can pick up when you're sleep, it can pick up 0:03:12.760 --> 0:03:13.960 when you're starting to feel sick. 0:03:14.080 --> 0:03:16.480 It tracks your sleep, how much deep sleep, ram sleep, 0:03:16.520 --> 0:03:18.280 and it tells you Sam said she got sleep in 0:03:18.440 --> 0:03:21.400 nine minutes. Nine minutes to get to sleep. 0:03:21.440 --> 0:03:24.079 Last night, I had a bit of a weird sleep, 0:03:24.080 --> 0:03:26.080 and I was like, I knew I didn't have a 0:03:26.080 --> 0:03:28.040 great sleep, and it was like eighty six readiness. 0:03:28.200 --> 0:03:29.600 I even think it's just fun to know. 0:03:30.000 --> 0:03:32.839 Yeah, and it's really good to Also, I don't get 0:03:32.840 --> 0:03:34.120 my period every month. 0:03:35.040 --> 0:03:36.720 I'm like sitting in a room with boys, so it's. 0:03:36.600 --> 0:03:39.520 Like, eh, and the six percent listeners the men that 0:03:39.560 --> 0:03:41.240 I'm listening, I don't get my period every month. 0:03:41.280 --> 0:03:43.280 So I also did it for that of like I 0:03:43.320 --> 0:03:45.680 want to know what track your mental cycle tracks your 0:03:45.720 --> 0:03:46.360 mentor cycle. 0:03:46.440 --> 0:03:48.240 It tells you like what you should be eating and 0:03:48.280 --> 0:03:50.080 like what you should be doing around your period to 0:03:50.120 --> 0:03:50.760 make you feel better. 0:03:50.800 --> 0:03:53.320 And how much does it cost? It's expensive. 0:03:53.440 --> 0:03:57.120 It's about five hundred dollars and then it's like a 0:03:57.280 --> 0:04:01.160 ten dollar monthly subscription on the app. 0:04:02.040 --> 0:04:04.400 But it's a way to keep you in. You can't 0:04:04.440 --> 0:04:07.640 just buy the ring and get the APPST month on 0:04:07.720 --> 0:04:10.240 us is free. I'm like, thank you, Like, unless I 0:04:10.240 --> 0:04:12.000 pay for this app, I've just got this gold ring 0:04:12.040 --> 0:04:12.400 for nothing. 0:04:12.520 --> 0:04:15.000 Yeah, but it's like I'm really enjoying it so far, 0:04:15.440 --> 0:04:17.919 and I Yeah, I mainly want it for like my 0:04:17.960 --> 0:04:20.400 stress and anxiety levels, because I feel like sometimes it's 0:04:20.440 --> 0:04:22.080 like good to know, like do you know when you 0:04:22.080 --> 0:04:23.680 have like some validate your feelings, it's. 0:04:23.560 --> 0:04:25.280 Good to know that. Like my body's actually. 0:04:25.040 --> 0:04:27.119 It's like, oh, I'm exhausted because I slept really badly. 0:04:27.440 --> 0:04:29.440 Yeah yeah, but yeah that's mine. 0:04:29.560 --> 0:04:31.800 Actually probably would be because I have that where I 0:04:31.839 --> 0:04:34.560 think I could have some sort of sleep problem. Yeah, 0:04:34.600 --> 0:04:37.800 that would probably be really good for me. Yeah, good recommend. 0:04:37.400 --> 0:04:39.120 It's like Apple watches a ring, but it's like a 0:04:39.160 --> 0:04:41.599 fashionable item, like I'm not going to get a watch tan. 0:04:41.600 --> 0:04:44.839 From this no, yeah, so dope, and I got it 0:04:44.880 --> 0:04:48.440 in gold an Apple watch? Is that that's an out Yeah, 0:04:48.680 --> 0:04:50.560 if you wear an Apple watch with a nice outfit, 0:04:50.680 --> 0:04:55.120 you need to be in the bin. Yeah yeah personally yeah, 0:04:55.279 --> 0:04:58.280 or take it up or whoop and like I get 0:04:58.320 --> 0:04:59.480 them unless but. 0:04:59.440 --> 0:05:01.520 Like I I care about like my fashion. 0:05:01.839 --> 0:05:04.560 Yeah, I just think it ruins an outfit because it 0:05:04.640 --> 0:05:05.560 is such an eyesore. 0:05:05.960 --> 0:05:09.280 Yeah, it really, it's so bold, all right. My recommendation 0:05:09.440 --> 0:05:13.080 up for the week is the Refie lip gloss. Hm. 0:05:13.200 --> 0:05:15.560 I'm a lip gloss girl. If you've seen my hambag. 0:05:15.640 --> 0:05:18.920 There's ridiculous amount ridiculous amounts of lip products in there. 0:05:18.960 --> 0:05:22.480 I reckon, we're pushing twenty different lip liners and lip glosses. 0:05:22.560 --> 0:05:23.239 It is insane. 0:05:23.279 --> 0:05:26.200 Refi's my favorite I've ever used. Wow, yeah, and I've 0:05:26.279 --> 0:05:29.159 used so many. It's not sticky. I just use the 0:05:29.160 --> 0:05:30.440 clear one, which I think. 0:05:30.360 --> 0:05:33.000 Is always just a good classic over. 0:05:32.880 --> 0:05:34.159 The top of my lip, and it just like it 0:05:34.240 --> 0:05:37.120 lasts so long. It's not sticky, and I think sticky 0:05:37.200 --> 0:05:39.960 is really annoying, and it just keeps your lip products 0:05:39.960 --> 0:05:41.520 still in place because it's not like one of those 0:05:41.520 --> 0:05:43.920 ones that makes it slide around. So I would say, 0:05:43.920 --> 0:05:47.520 if you haven't tried it yet, it's definitely it's my favorite, 0:05:47.680 --> 0:05:48.400 so give it a go. 0:05:48.920 --> 0:05:50.120 Love did respect for. 0:05:50.080 --> 0:05:51.720 If I only recently start being able to ship to 0:05:51.760 --> 0:05:53.960 Australia too, No, I think it's been for a while. 0:05:54.040 --> 0:05:56.520 It's road, Oh yeah, road, come on, road. 0:05:56.839 --> 0:06:00.200 How hard is it to extend your shipping it to Australia. 0:06:00.240 --> 0:06:03.679 I think it then makes like the customer from more 0:06:03.800 --> 0:06:06.480 and the customer service taxes would be insane. 0:06:06.160 --> 0:06:07.800 Whatever, like, come on. 0:06:08.400 --> 0:06:09.960 And the thing what pisces me off though, is they 0:06:10.000 --> 0:06:13.520 send it to Australian influences to promote it. Yeah, we 0:06:13.600 --> 0:06:15.919 can't buy it here. You're just making me angry that 0:06:16.000 --> 0:06:18.600 they have it, and I don't you know we can 0:06:18.600 --> 0:06:23.480 buy it when we were in America. Yeah, yeah, oh 0:06:23.520 --> 0:06:25.600 I want the glazing milk to mix with my foundation 0:06:26.200 --> 0:06:27.599 because it makes your foundation lighter. 0:06:27.600 --> 0:06:32.000 And like, yeah, anyway, Hayley, if you're listening, yeah, come on, 0:06:32.880 --> 0:06:34.320 she could be. She could be. 0:06:34.360 --> 0:06:36.520 There are some people that we've known that have listened 0:06:36.520 --> 0:06:37.560 to a podcast which I. 0:06:37.560 --> 0:06:40.320 Would never in a million years have I would have 0:06:40.360 --> 0:06:43.000 paid money that they would never have heard the podcast. 0:06:43.480 --> 0:06:47.680 Crazy crazy Wow. I want them to guess in the comments, Yeah, 0:06:47.680 --> 0:06:48.520 I guess who it is. 0:06:49.400 --> 0:06:52.760 They will never get it. It's so fun, it's so neat. No, 0:06:52.839 --> 0:06:55.680 it's not niche. Everyone knows who they are. I texted 0:06:55.680 --> 0:06:57.479 it to my housemate and she was like, who's that. 0:06:58.080 --> 0:07:00.680 I was a Nelly though, or yeah, I don't know 0:07:00.720 --> 0:07:02.800 who that is and I was like, no, I can't 0:07:02.800 --> 0:07:03.440 share this exciting. 0:07:03.520 --> 0:07:05.320 I want to try and give some sort of clue 0:07:05.320 --> 0:07:06.320 that's really subtle. 0:07:06.480 --> 0:07:08.960 Nah, because they said, don't mention me on the podcast. 0:07:10.520 --> 0:07:12.640 It's a boy, that's all I'll say. 0:07:13.440 --> 0:07:15.680 A boy celebrity that you would never in a million 0:07:15.760 --> 0:07:18.920 years of dreams they would have listened to our podcast. So, Haley, 0:07:19.880 --> 0:07:24.480 let us get your glazing milk. All right, we're gonna 0:07:24.520 --> 0:07:27.040 get into today's episode. And because school is back. So 0:07:27.080 --> 0:07:30.400 if you guys are listening and your school kids, enjoy 0:07:30.480 --> 0:07:34.240 the year. It only sucks while you're in it, and 0:07:34.320 --> 0:07:36.680 it's over before you know it, So just do your best. 0:07:36.760 --> 0:07:40.680 Wow, that was so impressional. Do your best. Oh well, 0:07:40.720 --> 0:07:42.040 if you're studying, see seven. 0:07:43.640 --> 0:07:46.760 School period of your life, so enjoy it while you can. 0:07:47.400 --> 0:07:51.280 So if you don't like it, it. 0:07:49.400 --> 0:07:50.480 Will be over before. 0:07:50.280 --> 0:07:52.440 You know it, and then the rest of your life begins. 0:07:52.720 --> 0:07:56.440 So just keep pushing, guys. All right, So we're doing 0:07:56.480 --> 0:07:57.680 a high school horror stories. 0:07:57.840 --> 0:07:58.920 Yeah, do you want to start us off? 0:07:59.000 --> 0:08:02.440 Sure thing, girl, So story number one, Hey, Sam and Easy, 0:08:02.480 --> 0:08:04.760 I've got a story for you. In high school, I 0:08:04.840 --> 0:08:06.520 was a part of a friendship group that was not 0:08:06.680 --> 0:08:08.280 very like to by the rest of the year level. 0:08:09.280 --> 0:08:12.440 I wonder why I didn't even I think I could 0:08:12.480 --> 0:08:17.120 guess that were probably mean. Yeah, I didn't even like 0:08:17.200 --> 0:08:18.920 being a part of the group, as the toxicity was 0:08:18.960 --> 0:08:21.280 on a whole other level. But being in high school. 0:08:21.320 --> 0:08:23.040 I would have rather stayed in that group than leave 0:08:23.080 --> 0:08:24.560 the group and have these girls make my life a 0:08:24.560 --> 0:08:25.000 living hell. 0:08:25.120 --> 0:08:30.480 I understand that like high school's like just survive. Yeah. Yeah. 0:08:30.640 --> 0:08:32.920 Around the time of my eighteenth birthday, I'd started talking 0:08:32.920 --> 0:08:35.320 to a guy. This boy was someone from another school, 0:08:35.360 --> 0:08:37.440 and the girls in my group would always find any 0:08:37.480 --> 0:08:39.800 excuse to pick on or make fun of the guys 0:08:39.840 --> 0:08:40.560 I was talking to. 0:08:41.000 --> 0:08:41.600 Bad friends. 0:08:41.640 --> 0:08:44.880 See, oh, the people you tolerate in high school is 0:08:44.960 --> 0:08:49.280 so crazy because it is easier sometimes to just blindly 0:08:49.320 --> 0:08:52.760 seah and just make your life easier to get through it. 0:08:52.840 --> 0:08:53.920 Anyways, I'm sorry, girl. 0:08:54.920 --> 0:08:56.600 I ended up sleeping with this boy, but both of 0:08:56.640 --> 0:08:58.679 us had agree we wanted it to stay private for now, 0:08:58.760 --> 0:09:01.839 until people knew we were seeing each other. During high school, 0:09:01.880 --> 0:09:03.720 I had only had one boyfriend and he was the 0:09:03.760 --> 0:09:05.640 only boy I'd ever slept with prior to this new 0:09:05.679 --> 0:09:08.320 boy I was talking to, so sleeping with someone who 0:09:08.400 --> 0:09:10.560 wasn't a boyfriend kind of felt like a big deal 0:09:10.600 --> 0:09:13.280 to me at the time I broke Yeah. I had 0:09:13.320 --> 0:09:15.319 broken up with my boyfriend when I was sixteen, and 0:09:15.360 --> 0:09:16.920 I was now eighteen at this point, so it had 0:09:16.960 --> 0:09:18.400 been two years since I slept with someone. 0:09:18.920 --> 0:09:19.439 The night I. 0:09:19.360 --> 0:09:21.320 Slept with this boy, we had been out for my 0:09:21.360 --> 0:09:24.560 eighteenth birthday. We'd been exchanging messages all night to spend 0:09:24.559 --> 0:09:26.800 the night together and obviously planned to do the deed. 0:09:29.200 --> 0:09:33.520 Sorry, I'm not laughing at you the way that easy. 0:09:33.600 --> 0:09:36.319 That did a tongue and it's like, it's like back 0:09:36.360 --> 0:09:38.120 in the day when you're like, yeah, we're gonna. 0:09:37.880 --> 0:09:38.679 Plan to do the deed. 0:09:39.640 --> 0:09:43.040 I don't know if I ever I never planned that 0:09:43.520 --> 0:09:44.040 as im. 0:09:44.080 --> 0:09:45.080 I just know it was a big thing. 0:09:45.120 --> 0:09:46.600 I don't think I ever planned it, but I know 0:09:46.640 --> 0:09:48.320 it was like, yeah, I think we might have sex tonight. 0:09:48.480 --> 0:09:53.200 Oh, it's kind of was fun. I was so lighthearted. 0:09:53.360 --> 0:09:56.480 Well no, everything was so heavy black man. Actually yeah, 0:09:56.679 --> 0:10:01.480 fuck a reflection upon reflection, it was I hadn't told 0:10:01.480 --> 0:10:04.080 my group of girlfriends I was planning on seeing him. However, 0:10:04.120 --> 0:10:06.440 because we had been out, it meant we had to uber. 0:10:06.240 --> 0:10:07.720 Home so together. 0:10:08.440 --> 0:10:10.640 One of the girls lived around the area this boy lived, 0:10:10.840 --> 0:10:12.520 so told her I was going to see him and 0:10:12.559 --> 0:10:15.640 asked him I could split the uber with her. She 0:10:15.760 --> 0:10:17.600 told me that it would stay between us, that I 0:10:17.640 --> 0:10:20.199 was going to see the boy. Fast forward to Monday 0:10:20.280 --> 0:10:22.400 at school, the girls told me that they had a 0:10:22.400 --> 0:10:24.240 little birthday surprise for me. 0:10:25.040 --> 0:10:26.760 Why do I have a bad feeling? I don't know how. 0:10:26.760 --> 0:10:27.520 I feel bit sick. 0:10:28.360 --> 0:10:30.440 They asked me to wait in the senior study center, 0:10:30.480 --> 0:10:32.440 where all the year elevens and twelves hung out during 0:10:32.440 --> 0:10:35.400 their breaks. I was sat there waiting eating my food 0:10:35.400 --> 0:10:37.719 when I started hearing the girls singing Happy birthday from 0:10:37.720 --> 0:10:40.520 around the corner. They head towards me with a big cake, 0:10:40.559 --> 0:10:42.640 and I'm feeling so loved as I thought, Wow, my 0:10:42.720 --> 0:10:44.480 friends had put so much effort into make me a 0:10:44.520 --> 0:10:48.040 beautiful cake. However, this cake did not say Happy Birthday. 0:10:48.040 --> 0:10:50.800 On the cake was written congrats you got a root? 0:10:51.000 --> 0:10:51.679 Can you walk? 0:10:54.640 --> 0:10:59.120 See? So? Okay? Part of me thinks it's funny, yes, 0:10:59.360 --> 0:11:00.480 but it's I think. 0:11:00.360 --> 0:11:03.400 It's because I feel like before we keep on going 0:11:03.440 --> 0:11:05.400 with the dilemma, I would be like, it's because you 0:11:05.400 --> 0:11:08.480 didn't tell anyone that you're like, okay, now everyone is 0:11:08.640 --> 0:11:10.520 being known about this business, like you only told that 0:11:10.559 --> 0:11:13.160 one friend to be like, oh, I'm going to his house. 0:11:13.160 --> 0:11:15.559 Can we split an uber together? But it's like if 0:11:15.600 --> 0:11:16.120 you went. 0:11:15.960 --> 0:11:17.719 To your whole group, be like, oh, it's a bit, 0:11:17.760 --> 0:11:20.120 tell me on the weekend, and then like that, it's 0:11:20.160 --> 0:11:20.720 like can you walk? 0:11:20.840 --> 0:11:21.840 Like yeah, funny. 0:11:22.000 --> 0:11:24.160 Now they're kind of almost probably taking the piss because 0:11:24.160 --> 0:11:26.520 they're clearly a toxic group of girls and they wanted 0:11:26.559 --> 0:11:27.280 to keep it secret. 0:11:27.320 --> 0:11:29.240 So I think it's totally depends on the scenario. I 0:11:29.240 --> 0:11:31.800 don't know, we'll see. I was so shocked, but I 0:11:31.880 --> 0:11:32.560 just laughed it off. 0:11:32.600 --> 0:11:34.640 I had all these people in the Senior Studies Center 0:11:34.720 --> 0:11:36.800 looking at what I think, she's. 0:11:36.760 --> 0:11:38.800 Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, that's torture. 0:11:38.840 --> 0:11:40.720 I had all these people in the Senior Studies Center 0:11:40.800 --> 0:11:42.800 looking at what was being what was happening, and they 0:11:42.880 --> 0:11:45.240 all saw the cake being handed to me, including teachers. 0:11:45.320 --> 0:11:47.560 Oh okay, that's bad. I feel like if it was like 0:11:47.640 --> 0:11:50.360 at your house, that's bad. It was totally nine. But 0:11:50.400 --> 0:11:51.720 if it's at school, it's. 0:11:51.559 --> 0:11:54.360 Like, like we forget that when you're eighteen, sex is 0:11:54.440 --> 0:11:56.560 taboo even do you know what I mean? 0:11:56.880 --> 0:12:01.080 Because I'm just thinking, like I bought you boobcakes. Boobcakes. Yeah, 0:12:01.160 --> 0:12:03.320 even my mom's boyfriend Eyone was there. 0:12:03.360 --> 0:12:06.480 I'm like yeah, And even then I felt like your 0:12:06.520 --> 0:12:10.320 half siblings, like yeah, I ate your tits, but like 0:12:10.400 --> 0:12:11.160 I didn't mean it. 0:12:11.360 --> 0:12:19.000 No, not like that. Ah were cakes. They ate the pribcakes. 0:12:19.160 --> 0:12:21.000 Fuck tits killing? 0:12:22.320 --> 0:12:25.200 Do you think about my words then? But like I 0:12:25.240 --> 0:12:27.280 didn't mean it in a way to embarrass you. 0:12:27.320 --> 0:12:28.720 No, And I wasn't embarrassed. 0:12:28.720 --> 0:12:30.319 But it was also like just I think, an awkward 0:12:30.360 --> 0:12:33.040 situation because obviously I had my boobs done it not you, 0:12:33.559 --> 0:12:35.120 But like I had to then stay at my mom's 0:12:35.120 --> 0:12:38.880 howls and then with my mum. Her boyfriend also lives 0:12:38.880 --> 0:12:40.679 there as well as all this kids. But they're all 0:12:41.480 --> 0:12:43.480 why is is he here? Like why is is he 0:12:44.120 --> 0:12:45.520 not able to do anything irself? 0:12:45.800 --> 0:12:48.040 Like, oh, well, I got my boobs done and these 0:12:48.040 --> 0:12:50.520 are like ten year old kids. So it was a 0:12:50.559 --> 0:12:53.520 bit that side was awkward. That's totally sad, not relevant 0:12:53.559 --> 0:12:54.160 to the story at all. 0:12:54.280 --> 0:12:56.319 Yeah, but like I didn't mean it in a way 0:12:56.360 --> 0:12:56.960 to embarrass you. 0:12:57.080 --> 0:12:58.440 No, I just thought it was like a funny It 0:12:58.440 --> 0:12:58.840 was funny. 0:12:58.920 --> 0:13:01.960 Yeah, but this this is like sex is taboo when 0:13:02.000 --> 0:13:05.240 you're eighteen and in school. True, I felt so embarrassed 0:13:05.240 --> 0:13:07.640 and so confused how everyone knew. I'm sure you can 0:13:07.679 --> 0:13:09.520 put it together that the girl I told ended up 0:13:09.559 --> 0:13:11.640 telling the rest of the group. I did my best 0:13:11.679 --> 0:13:14.240 to laugh at off and acted like I appreciated the gift. 0:13:14.840 --> 0:13:16.640 It was lucky that five minutes later the bell had 0:13:16.720 --> 0:13:18.960 rung to go to class. I spent twenty minutes during 0:13:18.960 --> 0:13:20.920 class hiding in the bathrooms crying because I felt so 0:13:21.040 --> 0:13:22.160 humiliated and betrayed. 0:13:22.760 --> 0:13:23.280 It's fair. 0:13:23.679 --> 0:13:25.199 I had also sent a photo of this cake to 0:13:25.240 --> 0:13:27.800 the boy and ranted to him about how upset I was. However, 0:13:27.880 --> 0:13:30.480 he found a way to gaslight me, making me out 0:13:30.480 --> 0:13:32.679 to be the bad guy because everyone now knew. 0:13:33.280 --> 0:13:33.839 Don't worry. 0:13:33.880 --> 0:13:35.520 This boy was thrown out of the picture not long 0:13:35.559 --> 0:13:38.720 after this situation good it is now five years later. 0:13:38.800 --> 0:13:40.680 I am no longer in contact with any of these girls, 0:13:40.679 --> 0:13:41.920 as they cut them off. As soon as I left 0:13:41.960 --> 0:13:43.680 high school, I met people who taught me what it 0:13:43.720 --> 0:13:47.320 was like to have true friendships. Well, I'm happy, it's yeah, 0:13:47.480 --> 0:13:49.720 it's so true that you do put up with certain 0:13:49.760 --> 0:13:51.520 things I think in high school that you would never 0:13:51.559 --> 0:13:54.079 put up with outside of So sometimes I feel like 0:13:54.120 --> 0:13:56.080 you can get down on yourself, like why am I 0:13:56.120 --> 0:13:59.520 putting up with this stuff? I know I did, but 0:13:59.640 --> 0:14:02.480 just know that it's the survival tactic almost in some ways, 0:14:02.480 --> 0:14:03.560 and when you're there and. 0:14:03.840 --> 0:14:06.360 You can sometimes it's just not worth a fight. Yeah, 0:14:06.400 --> 0:14:08.439 And you can choose what am I going to get 0:14:08.440 --> 0:14:08.880 out of that? 0:14:09.000 --> 0:14:09.240 Yeah? 0:14:09.280 --> 0:14:11.120 You can choose your people the moment you leave and 0:14:11.160 --> 0:14:12.439 everything will be so different. 0:14:12.520 --> 0:14:19.840 So you're gonna find people. Story number two. I fell 0:14:19.840 --> 0:14:23.440 down the stairs face first. The first week of grade seven. 0:14:24.160 --> 0:14:26.400 I was in front of my entire class and wasn't 0:14:26.440 --> 0:14:28.760 wearing any bike pants underneath my skirts. 0:14:28.800 --> 0:14:31.800 So my whole class saw people wear onundse horsts like 0:14:31.840 --> 0:14:36.600 have for diner's out. Oh no, people wear undies. 0:14:37.680 --> 0:14:41.440 Continue. I wasn't wearing any bike pants underneath my skirts, 0:14:41.440 --> 0:14:45.600 so my whole class saw my cowprint undies. Later that day, 0:14:45.800 --> 0:14:48.120 I heard three girls laughing at the table in front 0:14:48.120 --> 0:14:49.840 of me, so I went over to check it out 0:14:49.840 --> 0:14:51.960 and saw that they had drawn a picture of me 0:14:52.080 --> 0:14:53.920 and my undies falling down the stairs. 0:14:54.200 --> 0:14:58.560 Whoa, that is year seven. God, they get brutal, young, 0:14:58.720 --> 0:15:01.440 horrible seven story. I'll tell it after that. My worst 0:15:01.480 --> 0:15:04.200 year for bullying was year four. Oh perfect. 0:15:05.440 --> 0:15:08.040 The best karma was that the week after that, one 0:15:08.080 --> 0:15:10.400 of the girls laughed and bought it up as we're 0:15:10.400 --> 0:15:13.360 walking down the same stairs. However, she fell down immediate 0:15:13.760 --> 0:15:17.160 immediately after fractured her ankle while she rolled down the stairs. 0:15:17.400 --> 0:15:19.480 But yeah, karma to the bitch, You fucking there's nothing 0:15:19.520 --> 0:15:22.880 better than instant karma. Yeah, it's honestly like that tiktok'sd 0:15:23.040 --> 0:15:24.840 and it all boom. 0:15:25.040 --> 0:15:29.960 Yeah ah bitch, yeah, yeah, fucking break your ankle. Tocma's 0:15:30.080 --> 0:15:33.640 very very in year seven, You seven was brutal out 0:15:33.640 --> 0:15:36.160 there because you have some girls like for me, I 0:15:36.200 --> 0:15:39.000 don't know if I've told the story, but I moved 0:15:39.040 --> 0:15:42.880 over from Wa in year seven. So ye seven is 0:15:42.880 --> 0:15:44.720 so brutal because you sometimes have girls that went to 0:15:44.720 --> 0:15:47.000 primary school together that follow each other through the year, 0:15:47.080 --> 0:15:49.560 so they've kind of already got their friends from primary 0:15:49.560 --> 0:15:50.360 school into. 0:15:50.280 --> 0:15:51.160 Like high school. 0:15:51.400 --> 0:15:53.600 But then you've got like some girls as like outliers 0:15:53.640 --> 0:15:56.160 that like don't have anyone, they don't know anyone. 0:15:56.200 --> 0:15:57.880 Like the first couple of weeks of year seven is 0:15:57.960 --> 0:16:01.560 like brutal, and because big influx of new kids too, 0:16:01.640 --> 0:16:03.600 so everyone's just kind of trying to find their footing. 0:16:03.640 --> 0:16:07.800 And we had year seven camp the first week that 0:16:07.880 --> 0:16:10.440 we did it, like you go straight onto year seven camp, 0:16:10.760 --> 0:16:13.120 Well this was Loretto, you moved there, this was Writon, 0:16:13.240 --> 0:16:15.160 So I went to Writon for the first year. And 0:16:15.800 --> 0:16:19.640 a bit of backstory. I actually went to kindergarten Writon 0:16:19.760 --> 0:16:22.480 and like pre kindy and stuff, and I had this 0:16:22.520 --> 0:16:25.080 best friend let's call her Sally. I think you've told 0:16:25.080 --> 0:16:27.800 me this one, and we were besties. But we were 0:16:27.960 --> 0:16:31.480 very very different, like very different, and I grew up 0:16:31.480 --> 0:16:32.080 with brothers. 0:16:32.240 --> 0:16:33.680 She was a very big girlie girl. 0:16:33.680 --> 0:16:35.360 And then I decided that I didn't want to go 0:16:35.360 --> 0:16:37.680 to Writon in primary school and I wanted to follow 0:16:37.720 --> 0:16:40.200 my brothers and go to just a local primary school 0:16:40.480 --> 0:16:43.480 around the corner from my house. And we still stayed besties, 0:16:43.560 --> 0:16:44.640 like we would catch up. 0:16:45.480 --> 0:16:48.520