Speaker 1: Come on road.
Speaker 2: How hard is it to extend your shipping it to Australia.
Speaker 3: I think it then makes like the customer service tax
Speaker 3: and say.
Speaker 1: Whatever, like come on Hiday. Welcome back to Tuesday's episode
Speaker 1: Just for Girls. We're so excited. This is our first
Speaker 1: submission episode back this year. Yeah, one of our favors.
Speaker 1: It's a really good classic hearing you guys A story.
Speaker 1: Horror story is probably one of my favorites. Yes, they're
Speaker 1: always good.
Speaker 3: I feel like it just makes me feel good. Okay, animple,
Speaker 3: did you feel like that feel broke?
Speaker 1: Yeah? I was just reading through the comments on her video,
Speaker 1: and some of them are so fucking funny. Yeah.
Speaker 3: Sometimes like a funny video, it's like funny, but it
Speaker 3: makes it ten times funny when people.
Speaker 2: Yeah, comments are my favorite. Like I will watch I
Speaker 2: will read through the comments while the video is playing
Speaker 2: because that they just add to everything, you know what
Speaker 2: I mean?
Speaker 1: So if you guys want to laugh, I have a
Speaker 1: look at the comments before she deletes it. Probably I
Speaker 1: would delete that, babe. Delete You can't. She has to
Speaker 1: keep it up.
Speaker 2: There's no way she needs to respond immediately something else
Speaker 2: she won't. I think this is it. I think this
Speaker 2: is all we're going to get. People like in the comments,
Speaker 2: they're like, I feel ghaslate.
Speaker 1: How did you turn this on us? Yeah the end.
Speaker 1: Don't bully whoa, don't make me feel bad. This is
Speaker 1: your problem. Any first, anyway, low, which.
Speaker 3: Jumped straight into question of the week, is what's one
Speaker 3: new year's resolution?
Speaker 1: Whoa? Whoa? Whoa? Guys, just there, that's never happened.
Speaker 3: Oh wow, Sorry, it's time for question of the week.
Speaker 3: What's one new year's resolution You've already neglected this year?
Speaker 1: I'm not canceling my PE team. Perfect? Yeah, what about you?
Speaker 2: Don't say nothing, I'll punch I'll throw this coffee at you.
Speaker 1: Lie, make me feel better. Fuck this bitch. Guys. If
Speaker 1: you could see I'm looking into the camera, well I'm
Speaker 1: started off the year grade.
Speaker 3: I should be proud of myself that I haven't neglected anything. Lie,
Speaker 3: some days I don't drink three leads of water?
Speaker 1: Yeah, perfect, you don't. No, Yeah, that's good. Okay, Just
Speaker 1: we want to make people.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know they're hard, but just because you break
Speaker 2: it doesn't mean you can't conject.
Speaker 1: That stuff on it. Yeah. So, and I always say,
Speaker 1: like the first couple of weeks of the year don't count.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and you can always just start again. Yeah, you know,
Speaker 2: there's still a lot of time left. You don't just you.
Speaker 1: Can even start on a Wednesday without starting at the
Speaker 1: start of the week. You can start it in July
Speaker 1: if you might. Yeah, those resolutions are good always. Yeah.
Speaker 1: All right.
Speaker 2: We haven't done this in a little while, but I
Speaker 2: feel they're always interesting when we do. So we're going
Speaker 2: to do our recommendations, Sam, what have you got for us?
Speaker 1: Mine is an aura ring.
Speaker 3: I feel like there's been a lot of things on
Speaker 3: the internet about it.
Speaker 1: I actually what is it?
Speaker 3: I feel like I jumped on the trend away before
Speaker 3: it was a thing because I bought my ex one
Speaker 3: like three years ago because I saw Annelie Dallen's I
Speaker 3: was at the Collingwood game with her and I was like, Oh,
Speaker 3: what's that and she just screamed it that she got.
Speaker 1: It for Josh. But it is an aura ring, and
Speaker 1: it's like a health ring.
Speaker 3: So it really measures like your stress and anxiety. You
Speaker 3: can pick up when you're sleep, it can pick up
Speaker 3: when you're starting to feel sick.
Speaker 1: It tracks your sleep, how much deep sleep, ram sleep,
Speaker 1: and it tells you Sam said she got sleep in
Speaker 1: nine minutes. Nine minutes to get to sleep.
Speaker 3: Last night, I had a bit of a weird sleep,
Speaker 3: and I was like, I knew I didn't have a
Speaker 3: great sleep, and it was like eighty six readiness.
Speaker 1: I even think it's just fun to know.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and it's really good to Also, I don't get
Speaker 3: my period every month.
Speaker 1: I'm like sitting in a room with boys, so it's.
Speaker 3: Like, eh, and the six percent listeners the men that
Speaker 3: I'm listening, I don't get my period every month.
Speaker 1: So I also did it for that of like I
Speaker 1: want to know what track your mental cycle tracks your
Speaker 1: mentor cycle.
Speaker 3: It tells you like what you should be eating and
Speaker 3: like what you should be doing around your period to
Speaker 3: make you feel better.
Speaker 1: And how much does it cost? It's expensive.
Speaker 3: It's about five hundred dollars and then it's like a
Speaker 3: ten dollar monthly subscription on the app.
Speaker 1: But it's a way to keep you in. You can't
Speaker 1: just buy the ring and get the APPST month on
Speaker 1: us is free. I'm like, thank you, Like, unless I
Speaker 1: pay for this app, I've just got this gold ring
Speaker 1: for nothing.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but it's like I'm really enjoying it so far,
Speaker 3: and I Yeah, I mainly want it for like my
Speaker 3: stress and anxiety levels, because I feel like sometimes it's
Speaker 3: like good to know, like do you know when you
Speaker 3: have like some validate your feelings, it's.
Speaker 1: Good to know that. Like my body's actually.
Speaker 2: It's like, oh, I'm exhausted because I slept really badly.
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, but yeah that's mine.
Speaker 2: Actually probably would be because I have that where I
Speaker 2: think I could have some sort of sleep problem. Yeah,
Speaker 2: that would probably be really good for me. Yeah, good recommend.
Speaker 3: It's like Apple watches a ring, but it's like a
Speaker 3: fashionable item, like I'm not going to get a watch tan.
Speaker 1: From this no, yeah, so dope, and I got it
Speaker 1: in gold an Apple watch? Is that that's an out Yeah,
Speaker 1: if you wear an Apple watch with a nice outfit,
Speaker 1: you need to be in the bin. Yeah yeah personally yeah,
Speaker 1: or take it up or whoop and like I get
Speaker 1: them unless but.
Speaker 3: Like I I care about like my fashion.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I just think it ruins an outfit because it
Speaker 2: is such an eyesore.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it really, it's so bold, all right. My recommendation
Speaker 1: up for the week is the Refie lip gloss. Hm.
Speaker 1: I'm a lip gloss girl. If you've seen my hambag.
Speaker 1: There's ridiculous amount ridiculous amounts of lip products in there.
Speaker 1: I reckon, we're pushing twenty different lip liners and lip glosses.
Speaker 1: It is insane.
Speaker 2: Refi's my favorite I've ever used. Wow, yeah, and I've
Speaker 2: used so many. It's not sticky. I just use the
Speaker 2: clear one, which I think.
Speaker 1: Is always just a good classic over.
Speaker 2: The top of my lip, and it just like it
Speaker 2: lasts so long. It's not sticky, and I think sticky
Speaker 2: is really annoying, and it just keeps your lip products
Speaker 2: still in place because it's not like one of those
Speaker 2: ones that makes it slide around. So I would say,
Speaker 2: if you haven't tried it yet, it's definitely it's my favorite,
Speaker 2: so give it a go.
Speaker 1: Love did respect for.
Speaker 2: If I only recently start being able to ship to
Speaker 2: Australia too, No, I think it's been for a while.
Speaker 1: It's road, Oh yeah, road, come on, road.
Speaker 2: How hard is it to extend your shipping it to Australia.
Speaker 3: I think it then makes like the customer from more
Speaker 3: and the customer service taxes would be insane.
Speaker 1: Whatever, like, come on.
Speaker 2: And the thing what pisces me off though, is they
Speaker 2: send it to Australian influences to promote it. Yeah, we
Speaker 2: can't buy it here. You're just making me angry that
Speaker 2: they have it, and I don't you know we can
Speaker 2: buy it when we were in America. Yeah, yeah, oh
Speaker 2: I want the glazing milk to mix with my foundation
Speaker 2: because it makes your foundation lighter.
Speaker 1: And like, yeah, anyway, Hayley, if you're listening, yeah, come on,
Speaker 1: she could be. She could be.
Speaker 3: There are some people that we've known that have listened
Speaker 3: to a podcast which I.
Speaker 2: Would never in a million years have I would have
Speaker 2: paid money that they would never have heard the podcast.
Speaker 2: Crazy crazy Wow. I want them to guess in the comments, Yeah,
Speaker 2: I guess who it is.
Speaker 1: They will never get it. It's so fun, it's so neat. No,
Speaker 1: it's not niche. Everyone knows who they are. I texted
Speaker 1: it to my housemate and she was like, who's that.
Speaker 3: I was a Nelly though, or yeah, I don't know
Speaker 3: who that is and I was like, no, I can't
Speaker 3: share this exciting.
Speaker 2: I want to try and give some sort of clue
Speaker 2: that's really subtle.
Speaker 1: Nah, because they said, don't mention me on the podcast.
Speaker 1: It's a boy, that's all I'll say.
Speaker 2: A boy celebrity that you would never in a million
Speaker 2: years of dreams they would have listened to our podcast. So, Haley,
Speaker 2: let us get your glazing milk. All right, we're gonna
Speaker 2: get into today's episode. And because school is back. So
Speaker 2: if you guys are listening and your school kids, enjoy
Speaker 2: the year. It only sucks while you're in it, and
Speaker 2: it's over before you know it, So just do your best.
Speaker 1: Wow, that was so impressional. Do your best. Oh well,
Speaker 1: if you're studying, see seven.
Speaker 2: School period of your life, so enjoy it while you can.
Speaker 2: So if you don't like it, it.
Speaker 1: Will be over before.
Speaker 2: You know it, and then the rest of your life begins.
Speaker 2: So just keep pushing, guys. All right, So we're doing
Speaker 2: a high school horror stories.
Speaker 1: Yeah, do you want to start us off?
Speaker 2: Sure thing, girl, So story number one, Hey, Sam and Easy,
Speaker 2: I've got a story for you. In high school, I
Speaker 2: was a part of a friendship group that was not
Speaker 2: very like to by the rest of the year level.
Speaker 1: I wonder why I didn't even I think I could
Speaker 1: guess that were probably mean. Yeah, I didn't even like
Speaker 1: being a part of the group, as the toxicity was
Speaker 1: on a whole other level. But being in high school.
Speaker 2: I would have rather stayed in that group than leave
Speaker 2: the group and have these girls make my life a
Speaker 2: living hell.
Speaker 1: I understand that like high school's like just survive. Yeah. Yeah.
Speaker 2: Around the time of my eighteenth birthday, I'd started talking
Speaker 2: to a guy. This boy was someone from another school,
Speaker 2: and the girls in my group would always find any
Speaker 2: excuse to pick on or make fun of the guys
Speaker 2: I was talking to.
Speaker 1: Bad friends.
Speaker 2: See, oh, the people you tolerate in high school is
Speaker 2: so crazy because it is easier sometimes to just blindly
Speaker 2: seah and just make your life easier to get through it.
Speaker 1: Anyways, I'm sorry, girl.
Speaker 2: I ended up sleeping with this boy, but both of
Speaker 2: us had agree we wanted it to stay private for now,
Speaker 2: until people knew we were seeing each other. During high school,
Speaker 2: I had only had one boyfriend and he was the
Speaker 2: only boy I'd ever slept with prior to this new
Speaker 2: boy I was talking to, so sleeping with someone who
Speaker 2: wasn't a boyfriend kind of felt like a big deal
Speaker 2: to me at the time I broke Yeah. I had
Speaker 2: broken up with my boyfriend when I was sixteen, and
Speaker 2: I was now eighteen at this point, so it had
Speaker 2: been two years since I slept with someone.
Speaker 1: The night I.
Speaker 2: Slept with this boy, we had been out for my
Speaker 2: eighteenth birthday. We'd been exchanging messages all night to spend
Speaker 2: the night together and obviously planned to do the deed.
Speaker 1: Sorry, I'm not laughing at you the way that easy.
Speaker 3: That did a tongue and it's like, it's like back
Speaker 3: in the day when you're like, yeah, we're gonna.
Speaker 1: Plan to do the deed.
Speaker 2: I don't know if I ever I never planned that
Speaker 2: as im.
Speaker 1: I just know it was a big thing.
Speaker 3: I don't think I ever planned it, but I know
Speaker 3: it was like, yeah, I think we might have sex tonight.
Speaker 2: Oh, it's kind of was fun. I was so lighthearted.
Speaker 2: Well no, everything was so heavy black man. Actually yeah,
Speaker 2: fuck a reflection upon reflection, it was I hadn't told
Speaker 2: my group of girlfriends I was planning on seeing him. However,
Speaker 2: because we had been out, it meant we had to uber.
Speaker 1: Home so together.
Speaker 2: One of the girls lived around the area this boy lived,
Speaker 2: so told her I was going to see him and
Speaker 2: asked him I could split the uber with her. She
Speaker 2: told me that it would stay between us, that I
Speaker 2: was going to see the boy. Fast forward to Monday
Speaker 2: at school, the girls told me that they had a
Speaker 2: little birthday surprise for me.
Speaker 1: Why do I have a bad feeling? I don't know how.
Speaker 1: I feel bit sick.
Speaker 2: They asked me to wait in the senior study center,
Speaker 2: where all the year elevens and twelves hung out during
Speaker 2: their breaks. I was sat there waiting eating my food
Speaker 2: when I started hearing the girls singing Happy birthday from
Speaker 2: around the corner. They head towards me with a big cake,
Speaker 2: and I'm feeling so loved as I thought, Wow, my
Speaker 2: friends had put so much effort into make me a
Speaker 2: beautiful cake. However, this cake did not say Happy Birthday.
Speaker 2: On the cake was written congrats you got a root?
Speaker 2: Can you walk?
Speaker 1: See? So? Okay? Part of me thinks it's funny, yes,
Speaker 1: but it's I think.
Speaker 3: It's because I feel like before we keep on going
Speaker 3: with the dilemma, I would be like, it's because you
Speaker 3: didn't tell anyone that you're like, okay, now everyone is
Speaker 3: being known about this business, like you only told that
Speaker 3: one friend to be like, oh, I'm going to his house.
Speaker 1: Can we split an uber together? But it's like if
Speaker 1: you went.
Speaker 3: To your whole group, be like, oh, it's a bit,
Speaker 3: tell me on the weekend, and then like that, it's
Speaker 3: like can you walk?
Speaker 1: Like yeah, funny.
Speaker 2: Now they're kind of almost probably taking the piss because
Speaker 2: they're clearly a toxic group of girls and they wanted
Speaker 2: to keep it secret.
Speaker 1: So I think it's totally depends on the scenario. I
Speaker 1: don't know, we'll see. I was so shocked, but I
Speaker 1: just laughed it off.
Speaker 2: I had all these people in the Senior Studies Center
Speaker 2: looking at what I think, she's.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, that's torture.
Speaker 2: I had all these people in the Senior Studies Center
Speaker 2: looking at what was being what was happening, and they
Speaker 2: all saw the cake being handed to me, including teachers.
Speaker 1: Oh okay, that's bad. I feel like if it was like
Speaker 1: at your house, that's bad. It was totally nine. But
Speaker 1: if it's at school, it's.
Speaker 2: Like, like we forget that when you're eighteen, sex is
Speaker 2: taboo even do you know what I mean?
Speaker 1: Because I'm just thinking, like I bought you boobcakes. Boobcakes. Yeah,
Speaker 1: even my mom's boyfriend Eyone was there.
Speaker 3: I'm like yeah, And even then I felt like your
Speaker 3: half siblings, like yeah, I ate your tits, but like
Speaker 3: I didn't mean it.
Speaker 1: No, not like that. Ah were cakes. They ate the pribcakes.
Speaker 1: Fuck tits killing?
Speaker 3: Do you think about my words then? But like I
Speaker 3: didn't mean it in a way to embarrass you.
Speaker 1: No, And I wasn't embarrassed.
Speaker 2: But it was also like just I think, an awkward
Speaker 2: situation because obviously I had my boobs done it not you,
Speaker 2: But like I had to then stay at my mom's
Speaker 2: howls and then with my mum. Her boyfriend also lives
Speaker 2: there as well as all this kids. But they're all
Speaker 2: why is is he here? Like why is is he
Speaker 2: not able to do anything irself?
Speaker 1: Like, oh, well, I got my boobs done and these
Speaker 1: are like ten year old kids. So it was a
Speaker 1: bit that side was awkward. That's totally sad, not relevant
Speaker 1: to the story at all.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but like I didn't mean it in a way
Speaker 3: to embarrass you.
Speaker 1: No, I just thought it was like a funny It
Speaker 1: was funny.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but this this is like sex is taboo when
Speaker 2: you're eighteen and in school. True, I felt so embarrassed
Speaker 2: and so confused how everyone knew. I'm sure you can
Speaker 2: put it together that the girl I told ended up
Speaker 2: telling the rest of the group. I did my best
Speaker 2: to laugh at off and acted like I appreciated the gift.
Speaker 2: It was lucky that five minutes later the bell had
Speaker 2: rung to go to class. I spent twenty minutes during
Speaker 2: class hiding in the bathrooms crying because I felt so
Speaker 2: humiliated and betrayed.
Speaker 1: It's fair.
Speaker 2: I had also sent a photo of this cake to
Speaker 2: the boy and ranted to him about how upset I was. However,
Speaker 2: he found a way to gaslight me, making me out
Speaker 2: to be the bad guy because everyone now knew.
Speaker 1: Don't worry.
Speaker 2: This boy was thrown out of the picture not long
Speaker 2: after this situation good it is now five years later.
Speaker 2: I am no longer in contact with any of these girls,
Speaker 2: as they cut them off. As soon as I left
Speaker 2: high school, I met people who taught me what it
Speaker 2: was like to have true friendships. Well, I'm happy, it's yeah,
Speaker 2: it's so true that you do put up with certain
Speaker 2: things I think in high school that you would never
Speaker 2: put up with outside of So sometimes I feel like
Speaker 2: you can get down on yourself, like why am I
Speaker 2: putting up with this stuff? I know I did, but
Speaker 2: just know that it's the survival tactic almost in some ways,
Speaker 2: and when you're there and.
Speaker 3: You can sometimes it's just not worth a fight. Yeah,
Speaker 3: And you can choose what am I going to get
Speaker 3: out of that?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 2: You can choose your people the moment you leave and
Speaker 2: everything will be so different.
Speaker 3: So you're gonna find people. Story number two. I fell
Speaker 3: down the stairs face first. The first week of grade seven.
Speaker 3: I was in front of my entire class and wasn't
Speaker 3: wearing any bike pants underneath my skirts.
Speaker 1: So my whole class saw people wear onundse horsts like
Speaker 1: have for diner's out. Oh no, people wear undies.
Speaker 3: Continue. I wasn't wearing any bike pants underneath my skirts,
Speaker 3: so my whole class saw my cowprint undies. Later that day,
Speaker 3: I heard three girls laughing at the table in front
Speaker 3: of me, so I went over to check it out
Speaker 3: and saw that they had drawn a picture of me
Speaker 3: and my undies falling down the stairs.
Speaker 1: Whoa, that is year seven. God, they get brutal, young,
Speaker 1: horrible seven story. I'll tell it after that. My worst
Speaker 1: year for bullying was year four. Oh perfect.
Speaker 3: The best karma was that the week after that, one
Speaker 3: of the girls laughed and bought it up as we're
Speaker 3: walking down the same stairs. However, she fell down immediate
Speaker 3: immediately after fractured her ankle while she rolled down the stairs.
Speaker 1: But yeah, karma to the bitch, You fucking there's nothing
Speaker 1: better than instant karma. Yeah, it's honestly like that tiktok'sd
Speaker 1: and it all boom.
Speaker 3: Yeah ah bitch, yeah, yeah, fucking break your ankle. Tocma's
Speaker 3: very very in year seven, You seven was brutal out
Speaker 3: there because you have some girls like for me, I
Speaker 3: don't know if I've told the story, but I moved
Speaker 3: over from Wa in year seven. So ye seven is
Speaker 3: so brutal because you sometimes have girls that went to
Speaker 3: primary school together that follow each other through the year,
Speaker 3: so they've kind of already got their friends from primary
Speaker 3: school into.
Speaker 1: Like high school.
Speaker 3: But then you've got like some girls as like outliers
Speaker 3: that like don't have anyone, they don't know anyone.
Speaker 1: Like the first couple of weeks of year seven is
Speaker 1: like brutal, and because big influx of new kids too,
Speaker 1: so everyone's just kind of trying to find their footing.
Speaker 3: And we had year seven camp the first week that
Speaker 3: we did it, like you go straight onto year seven camp,
Speaker 3: Well this was Loretto, you moved there, this was Writon,
Speaker 3: So I went to Writon for the first year. And
Speaker 3: a bit of backstory. I actually went to kindergarten Writon
Speaker 3: and like pre kindy and stuff, and I had this
Speaker 3: best friend let's call her Sally. I think you've told
Speaker 3: me this one, and we were besties. But we were
Speaker 3: very very different, like very different, and I grew up
Speaker 3: with brothers.
Speaker 1: She was a very big girlie girl.
Speaker 3: And then I decided that I didn't want to go
Speaker 3: to Writon in primary school and I wanted to follow
Speaker 3: my brothers and go to just a local primary school
Speaker 3: around the corner from my house. And we still stayed besties,
Speaker 3: like we would catch up.
Speaker 1: Honestly, having your kids at least go to grade six
Speaker 1: and a co ed school is really helpful for the time. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I agree.
Speaker 3: And then I ended up moving over to Perth when
Speaker 3: I was in like year five. I came back to
Speaker 3: Melbourne for like a week and we caught up with her,
Speaker 3: and I had a horrible time, like I was like
Speaker 3: begging my mum to come pick me up, like we
Speaker 3: just like weren't the same, like we had obviously like
Speaker 3: grown up.
Speaker 1: Very when we were like freaking when I left, I
Speaker 1: was seven years old. Oh okay, I remember my friendship.
Speaker 3: Yeah, like we I was in your like going into
Speaker 3: year three when were like when I moved over and
Speaker 3: then I was there for two years and I came
Speaker 3: back and visited it and I hated it, but we
Speaker 3: would used to chat on the phone and like I
Speaker 3: thought we were still besties, like you like besties for
Speaker 3: life kind of vibe, like you.
Speaker 2: Had matching neck class from what's it called?
Speaker 1: What was that old? It wasn't Le Lisa diva diva?
Speaker 1: Yeah we had that. We had like spiky like the
Speaker 1: spiky earrings. Yeah, like we were like.
Speaker 3: Dumb, like I thought we were good for life, and yeah,
Speaker 3: that play date was horrible. But then it turns out
Speaker 3: we ended up having to move back to Melbourne when
Speaker 3: I was in year seven. But because I had been
Speaker 3: rolled at right and since birth I was allowed. I
Speaker 3: was still able to go and take up my offer,
Speaker 3: but I couldn't get into anywhere else because it was
Speaker 3: like term three when I'm in year six. So my
Speaker 3: mom like quickly and because my mum worked there, she
Speaker 3: had built relationships. Yeah, so I was gonna go to
Speaker 3: writing and I didn't really feel all that happy about it,
Speaker 3: but mom was like, I'm going to fire you over
Speaker 3: for orientation Day, which is like happens in term four
Speaker 3: in year six and everyone goes to the day so
Speaker 3: you can meet girls.
Speaker 1: So then you're not flying back over to another state
Speaker 1: and wheneveryone knows each other. Yeah.
Speaker 3: So I flew over for orientation day, flew over by myself,
Speaker 3: stayed with my family friends, and I was like, I'm
Speaker 3: gonna be fine because I've got Sally. Like I've got
Speaker 3: Sally for orientation Day. She's gonna show to look around me.
Speaker 3: She'll look after me. Surely, I know one girl, it
Speaker 3: will all be fine. I go to orientation Day, I
Speaker 3: see her.
Speaker 1: I look at her. I do the biggest wave.
Speaker 3: She looks at me, scuffs her face and turns around,
Speaker 3: and I was like, what have I done? Like I
Speaker 3: was shitting at didn't know anyone. This girl bless her name,
Speaker 3: her name's Talia in real life, like shout out Tarlia
Speaker 3: if you're listening.
Speaker 1: She saw that. I was like, that was a really
Speaker 1: mean thing.
Speaker 3: So she came up to me and sat with me,
Speaker 3: and she ended up being with me all day. But
Speaker 3: there's this there was this one girl who came.
Speaker 1: Up to me.
Speaker 3: I fucking hate her. I hate her so much. She
Speaker 3: came up to me, she goes, you're Sally's friend, huh?
Speaker 3: And I was like, yeah, nothinge and she was like, well,
Speaker 3: just letting you know, and like there was only like
Speaker 3: seventy girls in our year level, just letting you know that,
Speaker 3: like all of the girls that are friends with Sally
Speaker 3: don't already like you, so good luck making friends.
Speaker 1: Bitch said that to me when I was in year six.
Speaker 3: I had flown over from Melbourne from wa to Melbourne
Speaker 3: for one day to meet these girls, and I was like,
Speaker 3: and fuck me.
Speaker 1: Half of level already hates me because Sally is put
Speaker 1: in a bad word about me, like what is your problem?
Speaker 1: And I wanted to die, Like I literally wanted to die.
Speaker 1: He just so mean. Yeah.
Speaker 3: But turns out the girl that came up to me
Speaker 3: like a year late, I ended up leaving Loretto because
Speaker 3: of Sally going to like it was like, oh yeah,
Speaker 3: I went to Loretto and Sally like calls me hell
Speaker 3: throughout of all year seven, I ended up just leaving.
Speaker 3: And the girl who came up to me at orientation
Speaker 3: day that said like, no one's got to like you.
Speaker 1: Good luck making friends?
Speaker 3: Oh why do I get a call at Loretto when
Speaker 3: I was in year nine.
Speaker 1: You eight, all year nine. Oh, there's a girl in
Speaker 1: the front office who's gonna come for the day to
Speaker 1: see if she likes the Loretto. And she says she
Speaker 1: went to write, and like, do you want to be
Speaker 1: her buddy for the day? Walk downstairs? Oh that girl
Speaker 1: good luck working friends. Yeah. I treated that really nicely. Yeah,
Speaker 1: kills me with kindness, you know.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but I was like, oh, at the tables have turned.
Speaker 3: Now you try to come to mass Swamp.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Literally, I feel like you hear that stuff, but it's like,
Speaker 2: my Yeah, a lot of my shitty experiences were like
Speaker 2: when you're old enough to not be fucking acting like that? Yeah,
Speaker 2: do you know what I mean? Like, I remember I
Speaker 2: left in your ten. This is it's kind of controversial
Speaker 2: my schooling. In the last couple of years. I left
Speaker 2: MLC to go to Loretto, but I ended up going
Speaker 2: back to MLC for my last year. If you're twelve,
Speaker 2: but I remember in your ten, like that'll be like
Speaker 2: I don't like doing things on my own, if you
Speaker 2: know me, Like I'm just a really angious girrel, and
Speaker 2: like we're going to the canteen or so like I
Speaker 2: don't like going alone anyway, but all the girls are like, nah,
Speaker 2: I'm not coming with you something like fine. I went
Speaker 2: and I got a wee spar you know what they are,
Speaker 2: the ice creams. So I'm on the way back and
Speaker 2: I call them and I go, where are you guys?
Speaker 2: Like they weren't sitting where I remember them, and they said,
Speaker 2: did you just go by a waistepar? I go yeah,
Speaker 2: they go, well, we're not hanging out with you till
Speaker 2: you finished eating it, because let's call us Sally too,
Speaker 2: because Sally's scared of wispas, so it looks like you'll
Speaker 2: have to sit alone.
Speaker 1: So I had to eat my ice cream on my own,
Speaker 1: and no one came out.
Speaker 3: Of their hiding spots until that's probably why you don't
Speaker 3: like going anywhere alone?
Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe, And then I left because I was like,
Speaker 2: fuck this, I can't deal with this shit, like I
Speaker 2: just need school.
Speaker 1: I already hated it.
Speaker 2: I already hated it like if we cut out the people,
Speaker 2: I can't deal with both of these things. So I
Speaker 2: went to the ratto anyway. I ended up choosing to
Speaker 2: go back, and the reason I did was because, like
Speaker 2: I said, I just hated school anyways, and my MLC
Speaker 2: had more opportunity.
Speaker 1: It was close to the home.
Speaker 2: I could leave during the periods were ninety minutes, not forty.
Speaker 2: I could leave during the periods and go home. I
Speaker 2: had friends in the surround schools that I was really
Speaker 2: close to it at that point, and I was like,
Speaker 2: there's a lot more subjects. It's just going to be
Speaker 2: better for me to finish out here when I have
Speaker 2: a bit more freedom. So I went back, and I
Speaker 2: remember on my very first day, the girl I thought
Speaker 2: was my best friend. We'd been in comms like closely
Speaker 2: for the last two years. But when I told her
Speaker 2: I was moving back to MLC, she ignored me. I
Speaker 2: never didn't speak three until school.
Speaker 1: Started again, anyway.
Speaker 2: So I come back in obviously I'm shitting it, and
Speaker 2: one of the girls comes up to me and goes,
Speaker 2: I just want to let you know that, let's call
Speaker 2: her Sarah. I just want the girl that I was
Speaker 2: really good friends with.
Speaker 1: I just don't let you know that. Sarah's told everyone
Speaker 1: not to talk to you. Today. We're eighteen.
Speaker 2: So on my first day back in year twelve, and
Speaker 2: the school that I would been had been at since
Speaker 2: year three, and this girl had only been the last
Speaker 2: couple of years has told everyone to ignore me on
Speaker 2: my first day back.
Speaker 1: We're eighteen. Who does that? I'm like, great, A lot
Speaker 1: of people actually right, whatever? Fuck this?
Speaker 2: So like every time was lunch I had. I did
Speaker 2: find a group of girls that obviously were great in
Speaker 2: the previous years, but I was very much like an
Speaker 2: outsider of a group that was very much ready established
Speaker 2: because I hadn't been there for two years. But they
Speaker 2: were all lovely, but I just like sit in the
Speaker 2: library lunch and study if I had to.
Speaker 1: I just hated it, but we got through it, so
Speaker 1: make it. Make it out alive. Anyway. Story number three.
Speaker 2: I was in year ten and had only gotten my
Speaker 2: period a few months prior. I went to the toilet
Speaker 2: during home room to change my tampon and it literally
Speaker 2: would not come out. So I started freaking out. Have
Speaker 2: you ever had that? I haven't, but I've had friends
Speaker 2: that have really.
Speaker 3: Accidentally put two tampons in and then I couldn't get
Speaker 3: the second one out and.
Speaker 1: It's too far up at that point. Yeah, I don't.
Speaker 1: I'm not going to go into personal details. I've had
Speaker 1: to pull each other's tampons out. Yeah, I think I
Speaker 1: had got my ex out me. Yeah, Bond would have
Speaker 1: been terrified. Yeah, yeah, extra reason.
Speaker 2: I went and sat outside with a friend who I
Speaker 2: trusted at the time, and was bulling my eyes out
Speaker 2: when the dean of my house saw me crying and
Speaker 2: he'd come over to see if I was okay, he
Speaker 2: kills me.
Speaker 1: The dean of house is like, what's wrong? My tamp's Yeah.
Speaker 2: Anyway, there was some drama a few weeks back that
Speaker 2: he had to deal with, so he thought that it
Speaker 2: was that and he didn't believe me, so he wouldn't leave.
Speaker 2: He eventually left, and I called my mom and she
Speaker 2: told me to go to the nurse, but I was
Speaker 2: too scared, so she left work and drove to my school.
Speaker 1: My mom was a nurse as well, so she rocked
Speaker 1: up in scrubs.
Speaker 2: Anyway, we went to the bathroom and she tried to
Speaker 2: pull it out, but she couldn't either.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, this actually gives me David, So I
Speaker 1: could not imagine my mom.
Speaker 2: I rather my mom or my best friend pull out
Speaker 2: my tampon my best frat. I think I'd rather my
Speaker 2: friend as well.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I couldn't. I get weird about my mum even
Speaker 3: seeing my tears.
Speaker 1: So I do it. But then when I got my
Speaker 1: moves on, she's like, you have to show me my
Speaker 1: mom the hit, right I don't want to.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I don't know about that.
Speaker 1: And I couldn't get my mom to do that.
Speaker 2: I had to though, like she was supportive of the process,
Speaker 2: so I thought i'd brobought her and no, I couldn't
Speaker 2: do that anyway, So she took me to the GP.
Speaker 2: Keep in mind, I'd left all my stuff at school
Speaker 2: because we thought I would be coming back. I went
Speaker 2: to the GP and they were pulling it so fucking hard.
Speaker 2: I was screaming and crying because it was so painful,
Speaker 2: probably the most pain I've ever been in.
Speaker 1: So that scares me. I'd never put a tampon in again.
Speaker 2: After that, there were two doctors, a nurse, and my
Speaker 2: mum trying to get it out using all these tools
Speaker 2: and they still couldn't.
Speaker 1: You'd have to get like a clamp or a stretch
Speaker 1: of like one of those.
Speaker 3: Well that's probably what they're using, like a sweeping thing,
Speaker 3: Like what are they to help the pregnant women like
Speaker 3: go into labor?
Speaker 1: A stretching squee they stretch your vaginae mind you guys
Speaker 1: wearing a room with two other men and they're just
Speaker 1: sitting there like interesting. Yeah fuck yeah. They would have
Speaker 1: had to do a stretch and sweep on it.
Speaker 2: The whole time I was literally screaming, make it stop,
Speaker 2: make it stop, because the pain was unbearable.
Speaker 1: What I actually feel so bad, dude, this would be hell.
Speaker 3: Sorry.
Speaker 2: We then decided that I needed to have an operation
Speaker 2: to get it out.
Speaker 1: How do they operate? Like do they cut open? They'd
Speaker 1: go into your vagina. Yeah, but they're already going in there.
Speaker 1: But she would have been in so much pain. So
Speaker 1: they would have.
Speaker 3: Put around daddy and figure it out, like given her
Speaker 3: a local anesthetic to like, okay, a little bit more
Speaker 3: wiggling room.
Speaker 2: So Mum rang a work friend and got me booked
Speaker 2: in a SAP. Then I had to go back to
Speaker 2: school pick up all my stuff and was left there
Speaker 2: because the thing is toxic shock syndrome. We can't leave
Speaker 2: it in for the like you can't be like well,
Speaker 2: book for two months time, No, it must be now
Speaker 2: it's an emergency surgery. Then I had to go back
Speaker 2: to school pick up all my stuff that was left there,
Speaker 2: but it was lunch time and my friendship group sat
Speaker 2: in front of the drop off area and reception. I
Speaker 2: had to walk past them to get my things. They
Speaker 2: were all talking about it, and I was mortified. Anyways,
Speaker 2: grab my stuff. Had the surgery to remove the tampon.
Speaker 2: It was literally a ten minute surgery, but ten minutes
Speaker 2: is fishing around in there.
Speaker 1: Sorry.
Speaker 2: I got back to my phone after it and I
Speaker 2: had at least thirty messages from people at school asking
Speaker 2: me about it, and it was all anyone spoke about
Speaker 2: for the next two weeks. Turns out the girl from
Speaker 2: the beginning told everyone, God.
Speaker 1: Girls are bitches.
Speaker 2: I have PTSD from this and probably the most embarrassing
Speaker 2: and horrifying thing that happened to me at school.
Speaker 1: Love your girls so much, hape you and I wouldn't have.
Speaker 3: I didn't be embarrassed about like I would actually tell
Speaker 3: the world. I think, guys, I've got a fucking tampon.
Speaker 3: Stuff can be like that's fun.
Speaker 2: But I think whatever confidence we had now, I sure
Speaker 2: as hell did not have that at school.
Speaker 1: Then I think everything. But then yeah, but I would
Speaker 1: have been I.
Speaker 3: Would just like, it's just like about it's all about
Speaker 3: your mindset, Like if you just like change that and
Speaker 3: just know but people are fucking oh, I completely understand
Speaker 3: that she's embarrassed about it, but it's embarrassment is how
Speaker 3: This is what my mum always told me growing up.
Speaker 1: Embarrassment is how you act upon it.
Speaker 3: If you act embarrassed and give into like people be like,
Speaker 3: oh my fucking god, you Like I'm using this as
Speaker 3: a example, like I've obviously poor girl, you're embarrassed.
Speaker 1: Boyt that shit.
Speaker 3: But like if you change your mindset, be like, oh yeah,
Speaker 3: act like you know a girl like oh my god, Like,
Speaker 3: oh my god, you had a tample on embarrassing, Like
Speaker 3: that's so fucked like they'n an embarrassment. But if you'll
Speaker 3: be like yeah, fuck, no way, Like I can't believe
Speaker 3: I tample. Like if you like play it off, it's like, oh,
Speaker 3: she's not embarrassed about it, So then like people stop
Speaker 3: talking about it because like you own it.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I agree with what you're saying completely, but like
Speaker 2: I just know that like with the people I was
Speaker 2: surrounded within high school, like oh, I'm completely I would
Speaker 2: have made it worse, but like.
Speaker 1: That, I'm just using it as an example, Like it
Speaker 1: doesn't affect you when they can't react and they.
Speaker 3: Can't really make you embarrassed about it because it's like, oh,
Speaker 3: well that didn't go I don't care. It's like, yeah,
Speaker 3: when you want to reaction out of someone and like
Speaker 3: they don't react the way you wanted it, you're.
Speaker 1: Like, oh, oh, yeah, I kind of sucked.
Speaker 3: Story number four, Hi Girls Ascending Love from the US. Hey, Hey,
Speaker 3: how come so I had a super big crush on
Speaker 3: this guy from high school. We were in bology together
Speaker 3: and ran even in the same track. That's like so
Speaker 3: weird because like we went to an all girls school
Speaker 3: and track.
Speaker 1: Track we say athletics.
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, But turns out I dodged a huge bullet
Speaker 3: our senior year, he was arrested on campus for stealing
Speaker 3: credit cards and his bail was three hundred thousand dollars.
Speaker 1: That must mean the crime was serious. Wow, that's fraud.
Speaker 1: Well it's theft. Oh well, frauds.
Speaker 3: When you pretend to be someone else. Sorry, I'm not
Speaker 3: very educated. Well i am, but I haven't done anything
Speaker 3: with it. I'm doing myself a hale.
Speaker 1: Okay. He stole a car.
Speaker 3: And drove it across the country before he.
Speaker 1: Was caught grand theft auto baby.
Speaker 3: Wow, his parents must be loaded or something because they
Speaker 3: paid the bail. And now I see him as socially
Speaker 3: around my community college campus.
Speaker 1: Interesting.
Speaker 2: Interesting, I actually know someone who dated someone that went
Speaker 2: to prison. Would you date a guy that went to prison?
Speaker 2: I know someone very well that went to prison.
Speaker 1: I know someone that went to prison. Yeah. Actually it
Speaker 1: depends on what they went to prison for. Yeah, no shit.
Speaker 3: But like if he was like caught with like drug
Speaker 3: dealing when he was like seventeen, yeah, I'd still be like,
Speaker 3: don't do it again, don't do it now.
Speaker 1: But maybe like a murderer, maybe I think about it.
Speaker 1: I'm joking. I'm joking. They were murdered. Well, she needs it,
Speaker 1: all right, guys, do you think we I could date
Speaker 1: a murder on? Do you think me? Do you think
Speaker 1: me like this? I've been talking for too long? All right, guys, Well,
Speaker 1: that was our episode for the week. We will catch
Speaker 1: you on it Thursday. Love you very much. Bye,