1 00:00:05,921 --> 00:00:13,321 Speaker 1: Apologie production, erotic blueprints. 2 00:00:13,441 --> 00:00:14,841 Speaker 2: Oh that makes. 3 00:00:14,641 --> 00:00:19,081 Speaker 1: It sound not so sexy. Eartic erotic, And it's kind 4 00:00:19,121 --> 00:00:21,800 Speaker 1: of how you enjoy sexual intimacy. 5 00:00:22,001 --> 00:00:23,961 Speaker 2: Uh huh. And it ebbs and flows. 6 00:00:24,041 --> 00:00:26,521 Speaker 3: It changes all the time, So you might have felt 7 00:00:27,001 --> 00:00:29,521 Speaker 3: one way, you know, last year, and then this year, 8 00:00:29,601 --> 00:00:31,801 Speaker 3: have completely different desires once and needs. 9 00:00:31,961 --> 00:00:34,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, it can change all the time. Hey, yeah, So 10 00:00:34,400 --> 00:00:36,881 Speaker 1: we're going to go through all of them. Now, we'll 11 00:00:36,921 --> 00:00:39,281 Speaker 1: explain what they are, and then we'll talk about which 12 00:00:39,321 --> 00:00:39,961 Speaker 1: ones we are. 13 00:00:40,361 --> 00:00:45,841 Speaker 2: Okay, so first up, the five types. There's sexual, sensual. 14 00:00:46,001 --> 00:00:49,401 Speaker 1: Kinky, energetic, energetic, and shape shifter. 15 00:00:49,721 --> 00:00:51,281 Speaker 2: Ooh, spacey. 16 00:00:51,641 --> 00:00:53,280 Speaker 1: They sound so fun they do. 17 00:00:53,361 --> 00:00:57,681 Speaker 3: Hey, yeah, okay, So firstly, sexual is what you see 18 00:00:57,721 --> 00:00:58,641 Speaker 3: in movie scenes. 19 00:00:58,761 --> 00:01:00,081 Speaker 2: It's all about the orgasm. 20 00:01:00,200 --> 00:01:02,481 Speaker 3: There's no real like build up in chemistry, which I 21 00:01:02,481 --> 00:01:04,401 Speaker 3: feel like you do see that in movies as well. 22 00:01:04,401 --> 00:01:06,161 Speaker 2: They're straight to the but they're straight to the point. 23 00:01:06,200 --> 00:01:13,241 Speaker 1: They straight to the genitals. Why is that word really sexy? 24 00:01:13,241 --> 00:01:15,481 Speaker 2: I don't like that word no genitals, it's just so 25 00:01:15,560 --> 00:01:16,160 Speaker 2: long to say. 26 00:01:16,321 --> 00:01:19,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, but just straight to the point, like let's just bang. 27 00:01:19,441 --> 00:01:22,081 Speaker 3: Yes, And most people who are a sexual blueprint type 28 00:01:22,121 --> 00:01:24,281 Speaker 3: as well like to have a lot of sex, So 29 00:01:24,360 --> 00:01:27,241 Speaker 3: it's something that they have frequently and they're kind of 30 00:01:27,280 --> 00:01:29,001 Speaker 3: just like straight for it. They don't feel like they 31 00:01:29,081 --> 00:01:32,121 Speaker 3: need so build up yeah. 32 00:01:31,961 --> 00:01:35,720 Speaker 1: Before slow sensual moments. They're very sexual just get into it. 33 00:01:35,840 --> 00:01:37,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, and stokes like so happy with that and that's 34 00:01:37,920 --> 00:01:43,560 Speaker 3: all that they want, just like ye, sex, So that's 35 00:01:43,601 --> 00:01:48,361 Speaker 3: the first type, and then the second type is sensual. 36 00:01:48,721 --> 00:01:50,401 Speaker 3: So when you think of sensual, what comes to mind 37 00:01:50,441 --> 00:01:50,721 Speaker 3: for you? 38 00:01:50,841 --> 00:01:54,921 Speaker 1: For me, it's slow, it's candles, it's moody music. It's 39 00:01:55,041 --> 00:01:57,321 Speaker 1: a lot of touch, it's a lot of massage, it's 40 00:01:57,321 --> 00:01:59,961 Speaker 1: a lot of kissing, like kissing down the body. Just 41 00:02:00,041 --> 00:02:04,761 Speaker 1: very slow and like very intimate and very special and moody. 42 00:02:04,841 --> 00:02:05,681 Speaker 2: Like moody. 43 00:02:05,761 --> 00:02:08,681 Speaker 1: It's so true, like good lights are dimmed and just 44 00:02:08,721 --> 00:02:10,961 Speaker 1: really taking your time to enjoy each other's body and 45 00:02:11,081 --> 00:02:13,441 Speaker 1: enjoy the whole experience. It's not the goal to get 46 00:02:13,441 --> 00:02:15,921 Speaker 1: to an orgasm, and you will get there eventually, obviously, 47 00:02:15,960 --> 00:02:19,321 Speaker 1: but it's really to enjoy that slow, beautiful experience together, 48 00:02:19,561 --> 00:02:20,641 Speaker 1: more lengthy processed. 49 00:02:20,761 --> 00:02:23,681 Speaker 3: Yeah, Like having sensual sex is like when you have 50 00:02:23,761 --> 00:02:29,281 Speaker 3: those like hour long sessions, whereas like quickie, Yeah, sexual sex. 51 00:02:29,041 --> 00:02:30,281 Speaker 1: Yes, that's a good way to put it. 52 00:02:30,401 --> 00:02:31,441 Speaker 2: Yeah, quiki. 53 00:02:32,601 --> 00:02:35,761 Speaker 1: The next one is kinky. So what comes to your 54 00:02:35,761 --> 00:02:37,081 Speaker 1: mind when I say the word kinky. 55 00:02:37,240 --> 00:02:38,921 Speaker 2: I think just anything that's out of the ordinary for you. 56 00:02:39,240 --> 00:02:41,001 Speaker 3: So if you want to explore something new, if you're 57 00:02:41,041 --> 00:02:43,481 Speaker 3: feeling like okay with sex, I'm feeling like I'm wanting 58 00:02:43,520 --> 00:02:46,081 Speaker 3: to be more kinky, probably just wanting to explore different things. Yes, 59 00:02:46,161 --> 00:02:49,761 Speaker 3: so might be introducing toys, blindfolding, spainky. 60 00:02:49,401 --> 00:02:50,041 Speaker 1: Watching porn. 61 00:02:50,161 --> 00:02:52,441 Speaker 4: Watching porn could literally be anything. 62 00:02:52,121 --> 00:02:53,280 Speaker 1: That's just like handcuffs. 63 00:02:53,680 --> 00:02:54,400 Speaker 2: It might even just be. 64 00:02:54,321 --> 00:02:56,280 Speaker 3: Trying your position, like if you always do missionary it 65 00:02:56,361 --> 00:02:58,361 Speaker 3: might be like, oh, I'm wanting to be more kinky 66 00:02:58,441 --> 00:03:00,321 Speaker 3: and wanting to reverseications. 67 00:03:00,401 --> 00:03:01,921 Speaker 4: Yeah. 68 00:03:02,041 --> 00:03:04,001 Speaker 1: Yeah, anything out of the ordinary, not what you would 69 00:03:04,001 --> 00:03:06,161 Speaker 1: do day to day. And I feel like most people 70 00:03:06,161 --> 00:03:08,240 Speaker 1: will go through a time their life where they are 71 00:03:08,240 --> 00:03:10,481 Speaker 1: a bit more kinky yep. And then there's yeah, like 72 00:03:10,481 --> 00:03:12,081 Speaker 1: we said before, times in your life where you want 73 00:03:12,081 --> 00:03:13,400 Speaker 1: it more slow, and then the times in your life 74 00:03:13,401 --> 00:03:14,961 Speaker 1: we don't have much times it's like get in and 75 00:03:14,960 --> 00:03:15,560 Speaker 1: get it done. 76 00:03:15,561 --> 00:03:16,240 Speaker 2: So true. 77 00:03:16,520 --> 00:03:20,601 Speaker 4: Aha, then we've got energetic. So energetic is one that 78 00:03:20,721 --> 00:03:22,561 Speaker 4: kind of starts outside of the bedroom. 79 00:03:22,881 --> 00:03:25,561 Speaker 3: It's the anticipation. It's the build up throughout the day. 80 00:03:26,281 --> 00:03:28,120 Speaker 3: Is you to a tea, me to a tea. At 81 00:03:28,121 --> 00:03:32,761 Speaker 3: the moment, it's feeling like you're like building up that chemistry, 82 00:03:32,881 --> 00:03:35,201 Speaker 3: putting up the energy, building up the energy, building up 83 00:03:35,201 --> 00:03:35,601 Speaker 3: the tension. 84 00:03:35,681 --> 00:03:37,281 Speaker 4: So when you go to do it, it's like had 85 00:03:37,281 --> 00:03:38,481 Speaker 4: the whole process of like the. 86 00:03:38,561 --> 00:03:41,361 Speaker 1: Day and then almost like explosive when you do it, 87 00:03:41,361 --> 00:03:44,201 Speaker 1: Like you feel like it's explosive, amazing sex because it's 88 00:03:44,241 --> 00:03:44,961 Speaker 1: so built. 89 00:03:44,761 --> 00:03:45,361 Speaker 2: Up a huh. 90 00:03:45,401 --> 00:03:47,361 Speaker 3: It's even like going to kiss and then like stopping 91 00:03:47,441 --> 00:03:49,641 Speaker 3: right beforehand and just like you're moving away energy. 92 00:03:49,721 --> 00:03:51,641 Speaker 1: It's such a good word for like energetic. 93 00:03:51,881 --> 00:03:56,201 Speaker 3: Yeah, so that's energetic. And then shape shifter, which is ashy. 94 00:03:56,321 --> 00:03:56,521 Speaker 1: Yeah. 95 00:03:56,521 --> 00:03:58,001 Speaker 2: At the moment, she feels it's. 96 00:03:57,801 --> 00:03:59,761 Speaker 1: A mix of all of them, because when I was 97 00:03:59,801 --> 00:04:01,881 Speaker 1: studying these and reading them and chatting to care about it, 98 00:04:01,881 --> 00:04:04,401 Speaker 1: I was like I couldn't quite identify with exactly one 99 00:04:04,441 --> 00:04:06,681 Speaker 1: of them. I feel like I'm quite a mix of 100 00:04:06,761 --> 00:04:07,321 Speaker 1: all of them. 101 00:04:07,521 --> 00:04:09,201 Speaker 2: Yep, And yeah, that's. 102 00:04:09,001 --> 00:04:11,281 Speaker 1: Me to t But there's been times in my life 103 00:04:11,321 --> 00:04:13,720 Speaker 1: like I was reading this where I was telling you 104 00:04:13,841 --> 00:04:15,601 Speaker 1: I used to watch the series. It was years ago, 105 00:04:15,841 --> 00:04:17,721 Speaker 1: probably two or three years ago and it's called Me, 106 00:04:17,841 --> 00:04:20,081 Speaker 1: You and Her, Yeah, and it just turned me on 107 00:04:20,281 --> 00:04:22,841 Speaker 1: so much, and I was so sexual. I just wanted 108 00:04:22,880 --> 00:04:25,200 Speaker 1: it all the time, Like I would get frustrated if 109 00:04:25,201 --> 00:04:27,640 Speaker 1: Steve didn't want it. And I didn't need the moody. 110 00:04:27,681 --> 00:04:29,361 Speaker 1: I didn't need the build up. I was built up. 111 00:04:29,401 --> 00:04:32,841 Speaker 1: I was ready all the time, so sexual. That was 112 00:04:32,841 --> 00:04:34,561 Speaker 1: like a massive six months for me where I was 113 00:04:34,601 --> 00:04:37,561 Speaker 1: just very very sexual yep. And then there's definitely times 114 00:04:37,601 --> 00:04:40,640 Speaker 1: like after Tala, I wanted it more slower and more sensual, 115 00:04:40,641 --> 00:04:42,440 Speaker 1: and I would put the music on the candles and 116 00:04:42,521 --> 00:04:45,881 Speaker 1: just really enjoy connecting with Steve again because I felt 117 00:04:45,961 --> 00:04:48,801 Speaker 1: like when I was pregnant and tied and not sleeping 118 00:04:48,841 --> 00:04:51,320 Speaker 1: and just like not comfortable, it wasn't our best sex. 119 00:04:51,521 --> 00:04:54,121 Speaker 1: So I really enjoyed that slow essential So it really 120 00:04:54,161 --> 00:04:57,001 Speaker 1: does change depending on what season you're at and what 121 00:04:57,001 --> 00:04:59,241 Speaker 1: you're feeling. And that's cool because you get to experience 122 00:04:59,320 --> 00:05:00,041 Speaker 1: so much. 123 00:05:01,161 --> 00:05:03,601 Speaker 3: To understand your partner and what they're wanting. And I 124 00:05:03,641 --> 00:05:06,041 Speaker 3: thought they're desiring where they're are. Yeah, but yeah, I 125 00:05:06,081 --> 00:05:08,081 Speaker 3: feel like I used to be really central. I feel 126 00:05:08,121 --> 00:05:10,841 Speaker 3: like the massage, the candles, the music, I was like 127 00:05:10,921 --> 00:05:13,121 Speaker 3: that as well. And then yeah, lately there's been a 128 00:05:13,121 --> 00:05:14,761 Speaker 3: few things that have popped up, Like even lately, I've 129 00:05:14,761 --> 00:05:17,520 Speaker 3: been loving doing eye gazing with Kurt sit on his 130 00:05:17,601 --> 00:05:18,961 Speaker 3: lap and you just set a time of like five 131 00:05:18,961 --> 00:05:23,001 Speaker 3: minutes and you just I gaze and that's very energetic because. 132 00:05:22,721 --> 00:05:26,401 Speaker 2: You're not actually doing anything, but you're building that connection that. 133 00:05:26,681 --> 00:05:30,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, so I feel like I'm definitely in that realm 134 00:05:30,281 --> 00:05:32,401 Speaker 3: at the moment. And Kurt, I feel like has moved 135 00:05:32,401 --> 00:05:35,561 Speaker 3: from always being very sexual to now. I feel like 136 00:05:35,561 --> 00:05:38,361 Speaker 3: he still likes frequent sex, but I feel like he 137 00:05:38,641 --> 00:05:41,281 Speaker 3: likes it to be more longer and meaningful and moody 138 00:05:41,440 --> 00:05:42,760 Speaker 3: and like fearly touching. 139 00:05:42,801 --> 00:05:46,121 Speaker 1: It's a bit essential, a bit of sexual. Yeah. Yeah, 140 00:05:46,320 --> 00:05:47,841 Speaker 1: I think Steve's shape shifter as well. 141 00:05:48,001 --> 00:05:48,281 Speaker 4: M M. 142 00:05:48,440 --> 00:05:49,760 Speaker 1: I think he's a mix of all of them. 143 00:05:49,880 --> 00:05:50,761 Speaker 2: Yeah, they go. 144 00:05:50,961 --> 00:05:53,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, so interesting and so cool. And there is actually 145 00:05:53,801 --> 00:05:56,801 Speaker 1: a test, yes, that you can do online. 146 00:05:56,481 --> 00:05:57,681 Speaker 2: Uh huh, which is really cool. 147 00:05:57,721 --> 00:05:59,281 Speaker 1: Yeah, but once again, it's cool to do the test 148 00:05:59,281 --> 00:06:01,200 Speaker 1: to identify it. But I feel like even you're listening 149 00:06:01,241 --> 00:06:03,441 Speaker 1: to this and reading about it, you'll be able to 150 00:06:03,440 --> 00:06:05,481 Speaker 1: pick up where you're at. Yeah, definitely open up this 151 00:06:05,481 --> 00:06:07,361 Speaker 1: conversation with your partner as well, because it's so cool 152 00:06:07,401 --> 00:06:09,521 Speaker 1: for you, you to know where they're at, because even 153 00:06:09,521 --> 00:06:12,561 Speaker 1: if it's different, like say, if you're energetic and Kurt 154 00:06:12,641 --> 00:06:15,041 Speaker 1: is sexual, like once again, it's meeting in the middle 155 00:06:15,081 --> 00:06:17,761 Speaker 1: and trying to adapt and like compromise to please each 156 00:06:17,801 --> 00:06:19,200 Speaker 1: other and work together on it. 157 00:06:19,320 --> 00:06:21,681 Speaker 3: Definitely, And like I even was talking to Ashley on 158 00:06:21,681 --> 00:06:24,041 Speaker 3: the way up here, and I feel like, because we've 159 00:06:24,081 --> 00:06:26,520 Speaker 3: been lacking so much quality time lately because it's just 160 00:06:26,561 --> 00:06:29,320 Speaker 3: been a little bit hectic in our household, Kurt's really 161 00:06:29,320 --> 00:06:32,441 Speaker 3: been craving more sensual sex because he's gaining that quality 162 00:06:32,481 --> 00:06:35,961 Speaker 3: time growth yeah, at the same time, rather than like before, 163 00:06:35,961 --> 00:06:37,801 Speaker 3: if we had heaps of quality time together and our 164 00:06:37,801 --> 00:06:40,161 Speaker 3: caustle fall, like the sex was just great, Like it 165 00:06:40,201 --> 00:06:41,681 Speaker 3: was good, but now it's kind of like we need 166 00:06:41,721 --> 00:06:45,121 Speaker 3: to build a bit more yeah y in chemistry because 167 00:06:45,121 --> 00:06:47,161 Speaker 3: we haven't got the same capacity and time that we 168 00:06:47,281 --> 00:06:48,320 Speaker 3: normally do at the moment. 169 00:06:48,841 --> 00:06:50,361 Speaker 1: That makes a lot of sense. I think a lot 170 00:06:50,361 --> 00:06:52,361 Speaker 1: of parents that would be like a goal for them 171 00:06:52,361 --> 00:06:54,361 Speaker 1: to get to to have those longer sessions because you 172 00:06:54,401 --> 00:06:57,601 Speaker 1: are getting that quality time to really connect and be intimate. 173 00:06:57,601 --> 00:06:59,401 Speaker 1: But you're also getting that sexual time, Whereas I think 174 00:06:59,440 --> 00:07:02,440 Speaker 1: a lot of parents they might not be feeling like 175 00:07:02,481 --> 00:07:04,801 Speaker 1: they are that sexual, but their sex life is sexual. 176 00:07:05,041 --> 00:07:06,561 Speaker 1: Because I don't have much times, I get in and 177 00:07:06,561 --> 00:07:09,401 Speaker 1: get it done. Yes, do you think, yeah, our parents 178 00:07:09,401 --> 00:07:10,841 Speaker 1: would feel like that. I don't have a lot of time, 179 00:07:10,881 --> 00:07:11,881 Speaker 1: but I still want to do it. 180 00:07:12,241 --> 00:07:14,521 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah, gosh, I've so been there. 181 00:07:14,641 --> 00:07:17,161 Speaker 1: Most people would have, hay, But when you've got the 182 00:07:17,161 --> 00:07:19,641 Speaker 1: time and space, it's so nice to tap into it. 183 00:07:19,641 --> 00:07:21,761 Speaker 1: And I feel like I'm definitely a shape shifter. But 184 00:07:21,921 --> 00:07:24,161 Speaker 1: even like the five love languages, Yes you have one 185 00:07:24,241 --> 00:07:26,921 Speaker 1: or two that's your main driving forces, but you like 186 00:07:27,001 --> 00:07:29,921 Speaker 1: all of them definitely. Like I love physical touch, I 187 00:07:29,921 --> 00:07:31,720 Speaker 1: love quality of time, but I'm not going to complain 188 00:07:31,761 --> 00:07:34,361 Speaker 1: when you buy me a gift. That's probably my bottom one, 189 00:07:34,361 --> 00:07:37,161 Speaker 1: but I still love gift. Yeah, you can be doing 190 00:07:37,201 --> 00:07:38,881 Speaker 1: all of them. It's awesome. So it's cool if you 191 00:07:38,881 --> 00:07:40,601 Speaker 1: can tap into each of these depending on what you're 192 00:07:40,601 --> 00:07:41,561 Speaker 1: desiring at that time. 193 00:07:41,801 --> 00:07:42,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, for sure. 194 00:07:43,921 --> 00:07:46,001 Speaker 1: So we thought if we'd actually go into some TV 195 00:07:46,161 --> 00:07:48,521 Speaker 1: series and books that have really like spiced up our 196 00:07:48,601 --> 00:07:51,521 Speaker 1: sex life, and for me, I feel like in books 197 00:07:51,561 --> 00:07:53,801 Speaker 1: sometimes I read like it's one of the twisted loved ones. 198 00:07:53,841 --> 00:07:56,801 Speaker 1: It was very dominating the way he spoke to it. At first, 199 00:07:56,881 --> 00:07:59,841 Speaker 1: I was like, oh, I don't like that, yep, but 200 00:07:59,881 --> 00:08:01,921 Speaker 1: it still turned me on. It's like, I don't think 201 00:08:01,961 --> 00:08:03,481 Speaker 1: it wants me to do that, but it was cool 202 00:08:03,521 --> 00:08:05,961 Speaker 1: because it's like it's kinky and it's different and it's 203 00:08:06,001 --> 00:08:06,840 Speaker 1: a bit more rough. 204 00:08:07,041 --> 00:08:07,361 Speaker 2: Yeah. 205 00:08:07,361 --> 00:08:08,761 Speaker 1: In my head, I'm like, I've got friends and I 206 00:08:08,841 --> 00:08:11,281 Speaker 1: know that freaking love this, But it's just cool to 207 00:08:11,321 --> 00:08:13,121 Speaker 1: read that and be turned on by something different that 208 00:08:13,201 --> 00:08:15,641 Speaker 1: I wouldn't normally be turned on by. Yes, And same 209 00:08:15,681 --> 00:08:17,681 Speaker 1: with have you watched three hundred and sixty five Days? 210 00:08:17,761 --> 00:08:17,801 Speaker 3: No? 211 00:08:19,401 --> 00:08:19,840 Speaker 1: I haven't. 212 00:08:19,921 --> 00:08:21,401 Speaker 2: Oh is it a movie? 213 00:08:21,521 --> 00:08:23,441 Speaker 1: Yeah, she like gets kidnapped and then like falls in 214 00:08:23,441 --> 00:08:26,521 Speaker 1: love with the kidnapper and what. But it's so sexual, 215 00:08:26,721 --> 00:08:30,280 Speaker 1: like that's obsessed with the main character. He's very, very sexy. 216 00:08:30,441 --> 00:08:31,921 Speaker 1: They've done a couple more, but the second one I 217 00:08:31,921 --> 00:08:35,521 Speaker 1: couldn't get into. No, but it's just so much sex. 218 00:08:35,641 --> 00:08:38,961 Speaker 1: It is so sexual. It's yeah, definitely turn you on. 219 00:08:39,121 --> 00:08:41,761 Speaker 1: And then there's also sex life. You've done that, haven't 220 00:08:41,761 --> 00:08:43,801 Speaker 1: You Don't tell me you haven't done sex life. 221 00:08:43,801 --> 00:08:44,801 Speaker 2: I think I started it. 222 00:08:45,001 --> 00:08:48,241 Speaker 3: Oh, you got to keep going, Billy, And I think 223 00:08:48,281 --> 00:08:50,281 Speaker 3: I started it a long time year or two ago. 224 00:08:50,321 --> 00:08:54,161 Speaker 1: You're currently to finish that. Yeah, so sexy. That's another 225 00:08:54,161 --> 00:08:56,681 Speaker 1: really good one. And then you mean her. That's about 226 00:08:56,681 --> 00:08:59,401 Speaker 1: a thruffle relationship, which is not something I am ever 227 00:08:59,481 --> 00:09:02,481 Speaker 1: thinking of considering doing. Yeah, but it was just so sexy. 228 00:09:02,721 --> 00:09:02,961 Speaker 2: Yeah. 229 00:09:03,641 --> 00:09:06,921 Speaker 1: The dynamic of three people in a relationship and the 230 00:09:06,961 --> 00:09:09,121 Speaker 1: way they communicated each other and the way they play 231 00:09:09,201 --> 00:09:10,921 Speaker 1: with each other was just so cool to show. 232 00:09:11,001 --> 00:09:12,081 Speaker 2: Like the hardships as well. 233 00:09:12,121 --> 00:09:14,121 Speaker 1: I did. It was so eye opening. And I've got 234 00:09:14,121 --> 00:09:16,681 Speaker 1: a girlfriend that it's actually been in a throple relationship before. 235 00:09:17,161 --> 00:09:19,761 Speaker 1: She was in there for like five years. Wow. And 236 00:09:19,961 --> 00:09:22,681 Speaker 1: the couple actually had children, so she was like very 237 00:09:22,761 --> 00:09:25,681 Speaker 1: involved with all of that life. And the couple actually 238 00:09:25,721 --> 00:09:27,841 Speaker 1: ended up splitting so it all broke away. But she 239 00:09:27,961 --> 00:09:30,201 Speaker 1: loved it. See, It's not something I think I would 240 00:09:30,201 --> 00:09:32,721 Speaker 1: ever do, but I've really enjoyed watching the show and 241 00:09:32,761 --> 00:09:35,721 Speaker 1: it turned me on so much. So it's really cool 242 00:09:35,761 --> 00:09:37,961 Speaker 1: how movies and TV like, I don't like porn, but 243 00:09:38,001 --> 00:09:41,081 Speaker 1: I love movies and TV shows and books more realistic. 244 00:09:41,321 --> 00:09:44,201 Speaker 3: Yeah, I agree, And even with certain books, I feel 245 00:09:44,241 --> 00:09:46,401 Speaker 3: like that like, I'll read ones and I'm like, that's 246 00:09:46,441 --> 00:09:48,121 Speaker 3: so not realistic, and probably because I'm were in my 247 00:09:48,241 --> 00:09:50,841 Speaker 3: energetic face if a book, it takes like half of 248 00:09:50,841 --> 00:09:52,641 Speaker 3: a book to build up to get there and then 249 00:09:52,681 --> 00:09:53,521 Speaker 3: they finally. 250 00:09:53,161 --> 00:09:55,921 Speaker 1: Do you Like, yes, love was really good for that, 251 00:09:56,081 --> 00:09:58,041 Speaker 1: It was really good for that. I finally did it. 252 00:09:58,081 --> 00:10:04,321 Speaker 1: I was like, yes, okay, so good and sexy book. 253 00:10:04,441 --> 00:10:07,241 Speaker 3: So the Deal by Ellie Kennedy, that was a sexy one. 254 00:10:07,281 --> 00:10:09,721 Speaker 1: Writing this down The Deal After. 255 00:10:09,881 --> 00:10:12,641 Speaker 3: I think I've mentioned that to you before, See The Deal, 256 00:10:13,001 --> 00:10:16,001 Speaker 3: The Deal. I read so many books, so sometimes I 257 00:10:16,001 --> 00:10:17,841 Speaker 3: get confused with what happened in which one. 258 00:10:17,921 --> 00:10:20,281 Speaker 1: I know I asked her about. I asked you about 259 00:10:20,321 --> 00:10:22,561 Speaker 1: the Twisted Love series, the third one that I stopped reading. 260 00:10:22,601 --> 00:10:23,961 Speaker 1: You're like, I can't even remember. 261 00:10:24,081 --> 00:10:25,921 Speaker 2: Yeah, I can't realize it's about Was that with this one? 262 00:10:26,041 --> 00:10:27,281 Speaker 2: Or was that with that one? Was that the one? 263 00:10:27,441 --> 00:10:27,801 Speaker 2: It does? 264 00:10:27,881 --> 00:10:29,241 Speaker 4: It gets like that because I read. 265 00:10:29,361 --> 00:10:32,481 Speaker 2: Often, So The Deal, The After After series. 266 00:10:32,561 --> 00:10:34,721 Speaker 3: I really really liked the first book. I had so 267 00:10:34,721 --> 00:10:37,041 Speaker 3: many people recommend the entire series to me. Yeah, I 268 00:10:37,081 --> 00:10:38,401 Speaker 3: got so bored in the second one. 269 00:10:38,481 --> 00:10:39,921 Speaker 1: I was like, I just just the first one. 270 00:10:40,001 --> 00:10:40,761 Speaker 2: I can't finish this. 271 00:10:41,001 --> 00:10:41,241 Speaker 1: Yeah. 272 00:10:41,401 --> 00:10:42,321 Speaker 2: The first one was great. 273 00:10:42,681 --> 00:10:46,281 Speaker 1: The Twisted series, I really enjoyed the first and second book. 274 00:10:46,321 --> 00:10:48,721 Speaker 1: The third boring is bad shit. I couldn't even finish it, 275 00:10:48,761 --> 00:10:52,481 Speaker 1: and now I'm turned off to read the fourth. Yeah, 276 00:10:52,561 --> 00:10:57,001 Speaker 1: I can't remember, but the first and second the two 277 00:10:57,161 --> 00:11:00,521 Speaker 1: characters the sex life, I think both were a little 278 00:11:00,521 --> 00:11:01,761 Speaker 1: bit aggressive. 279 00:11:02,161 --> 00:11:05,961 Speaker 4: No, like literally it was like cunt, like yes, yes. 280 00:11:06,001 --> 00:11:08,681 Speaker 1: Come hear you, little yeah tea, and like get on 281 00:11:08,721 --> 00:11:11,161 Speaker 1: your hands and knees and like yes, yeah, and just 282 00:11:11,281 --> 00:11:14,281 Speaker 1: more aggressive sex. But obviously it was consensual and yes 283 00:11:14,361 --> 00:11:17,001 Speaker 1: she loved it, so go you. Yeah, but yeah it 284 00:11:17,081 --> 00:11:19,081 Speaker 1: was I really like those two. Yeah. 285 00:11:19,641 --> 00:11:22,801 Speaker 3: Yeah, the first one was great, so good. Okay, this 286 00:11:22,841 --> 00:11:26,521 Speaker 3: one is a musk oh okay. The Chestnut Springs series. 287 00:11:26,681 --> 00:11:28,761 Speaker 3: I'm still not finished this one yet because what I 288 00:11:28,801 --> 00:11:30,041 Speaker 3: like to do is I like to read like one 289 00:11:30,081 --> 00:11:31,481 Speaker 3: or two, then have a break and go to a 290 00:11:31,481 --> 00:11:33,241 Speaker 3: different book, and then go back to a sexy one. 291 00:11:33,281 --> 00:11:34,801 Speaker 1: I don't know how you do that. I have to 292 00:11:34,801 --> 00:11:36,761 Speaker 1: finish a book and a series before I move on 293 00:11:36,801 --> 00:11:38,881 Speaker 1: to the next one. I remember when I was struggling with 294 00:11:38,881 --> 00:11:40,081 Speaker 1: the book, you like, just put that one down and 295 00:11:40,081 --> 00:11:41,601 Speaker 1: start another one. I was like, no, I have to 296 00:11:41,601 --> 00:11:43,721 Speaker 1: finish it, but I love how you do that. 297 00:11:43,801 --> 00:11:46,401 Speaker 3: I just so the first who though, oh my gosh, 298 00:11:46,441 --> 00:11:47,841 Speaker 3: I actually read it in the wrong order. I did 299 00:11:47,881 --> 00:11:50,001 Speaker 3: the second one first because the first book wasn't at 300 00:11:50,001 --> 00:11:52,001 Speaker 3: the shop, but you couldn't even tell because they're all 301 00:11:52,001 --> 00:11:53,761 Speaker 3: like different stories, but they're all friends. So it's like 302 00:11:53,761 --> 00:11:57,681 Speaker 3: in Twine, similar Twisted, similar to Twisted series, but I 303 00:11:57,761 --> 00:11:58,921 Speaker 3: feel like this one's better. 304 00:11:59,041 --> 00:12:01,361 Speaker 1: It's more realistic, okay. 305 00:12:00,961 --> 00:12:03,241 Speaker 3: And the scenes and that, like I was like, oh, 306 00:12:03,281 --> 00:12:07,361 Speaker 3: it was really really go so Chestnut Spring series. I 307 00:12:07,401 --> 00:12:09,641 Speaker 3: don't know why it's called that, because every book is 308 00:12:09,681 --> 00:12:12,961 Speaker 3: called like heartless, reckless. Where's the Chestnut. 309 00:12:13,521 --> 00:12:15,121 Speaker 1: That's super random, very. 310 00:12:15,001 --> 00:12:16,321 Speaker 2: Random, but it's like Cowboy. 311 00:12:16,681 --> 00:12:19,881 Speaker 3: Oh it's really sexy and it's like a rough like 312 00:12:19,921 --> 00:12:21,761 Speaker 3: Cowboy that's like, you know, not like this and not 313 00:12:21,801 --> 00:12:22,521 Speaker 3: like that, and then. 314 00:12:22,441 --> 00:12:24,601 Speaker 1: Like she changes in, Oh I love it. 315 00:12:24,681 --> 00:12:25,641 Speaker 2: Oh so good. 316 00:12:25,761 --> 00:12:27,281 Speaker 1: I forget what they called. I haven't read them, but 317 00:12:27,321 --> 00:12:29,081 Speaker 1: someone recommended one the other day, and it's all based 318 00:12:29,121 --> 00:12:32,441 Speaker 1: around sports stars and their journeys and how the relationships 319 00:12:32,441 --> 00:12:34,401 Speaker 1: intertwined that I'll have to figure out what it was. 320 00:12:34,681 --> 00:12:36,121 Speaker 2: This is one that I thought was a flop. 321 00:12:36,161 --> 00:12:38,281 Speaker 3: I've had so many people being like, if you haven't 322 00:12:38,281 --> 00:12:40,681 Speaker 3: read Icebreaker, okay, you need to read it. 323 00:12:40,681 --> 00:12:44,321 Speaker 2: It's like a sexy like romance. I was so bored. 324 00:12:44,401 --> 00:12:46,921 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, okay, yeah, what was it about it? 325 00:12:47,001 --> 00:12:47,841 Speaker 4: It's just like slow. 326 00:12:48,081 --> 00:12:49,281 Speaker 2: Wasn't that steamy? 327 00:12:49,681 --> 00:12:51,361 Speaker 1: I know? And like I like the. 328 00:12:51,241 --> 00:12:54,161 Speaker 3: Romantic stories and it's nice, but like I need a 329 00:12:54,161 --> 00:12:56,041 Speaker 3: little bit of like twist or a little bit of 330 00:12:56,121 --> 00:12:57,401 Speaker 3: like steam or a little. 331 00:12:57,161 --> 00:12:58,481 Speaker 2: Bit of Yeah. 332 00:12:58,521 --> 00:13:00,641 Speaker 4: So that's one that I would say for me personally, 333 00:13:00,681 --> 00:13:01,721 Speaker 4: didn't quite hit. 334 00:13:01,681 --> 00:13:02,801 Speaker 1: But lots of people recommended it. 335 00:13:02,921 --> 00:13:04,961 Speaker 3: Lots of people recommended it. But maybe now we've read 336 00:13:05,121 --> 00:13:07,201 Speaker 3: like the really spicy books, it's just not spicy enough. 337 00:13:07,481 --> 00:13:09,841 Speaker 3: I think our standard for spiciness is maybe a little bit. 338 00:13:11,201 --> 00:13:12,881 Speaker 1: Steve can knows when I'm reading a good book to you. 339 00:13:12,961 --> 00:13:14,721 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, so I can cut. It's like, are you 340 00:13:14,801 --> 00:13:16,081 Speaker 3: reading that one this time? And I'm like, no, I 341 00:13:16,201 --> 00:13:16,881 Speaker 3: want to read a thriller. 342 00:13:16,921 --> 00:13:22,681 Speaker 1: He's like, oh so funny. 343 00:13:20,001 --> 00:13:20,241 Speaker 2: Well,