1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:03,640 Speaker 1: Good morning everyone, and welcome back to Sugar Mama's I Play. 2 00:00:03,760 --> 00:00:08,000 Speaker 1: I am your host, financial planner Hannah Campbell, and today 3 00:00:08,080 --> 00:00:13,440 Speaker 1: we're talking about the power of manifestation, in fact, manifesting money. 4 00:00:13,920 --> 00:00:16,160 Speaker 1: As you guys know, I'm a financial planner, but I'm 5 00:00:16,200 --> 00:00:19,440 Speaker 1: also a financial planner that really believes in the energy 6 00:00:19,440 --> 00:00:23,400 Speaker 1: of money creating, building and attracting your own luck as 7 00:00:23,440 --> 00:00:27,880 Speaker 1: well as obviously good old fashioned hard work. Now, today's 8 00:00:27,880 --> 00:00:32,120 Speaker 1: episode where actually interviewing Eron, who is actually someone who 9 00:00:32,120 --> 00:00:36,280 Speaker 1: did my Money Mindset manifestation program, and she's never done 10 00:00:36,320 --> 00:00:39,599 Speaker 1: manifestation work before, so this was very very new to her, 11 00:00:40,440 --> 00:00:43,040 Speaker 1: and I have to say she is a star student. 12 00:00:43,240 --> 00:00:48,720 Speaker 1: Her results have been absolutely mind blowing and I have 13 00:00:48,840 --> 00:00:52,519 Speaker 1: to say incredibly inspiring. In fact, she's had a very 14 00:00:52,560 --> 00:00:56,240 Speaker 1: positive impact on myself on my own financial goal journey 15 00:00:56,320 --> 00:01:00,520 Speaker 1: and discovery and learning and tweaking and improving my own 16 00:01:00,800 --> 00:01:18,039 Speaker 1: money mindset manifestation goals. Now, as a little warning at 17 00:01:18,040 --> 00:01:21,479 Speaker 1: still big warning, this episode is actually recorded at home 18 00:01:21,680 --> 00:01:25,800 Speaker 1: on a Wednesday evening. I would normally record all of 19 00:01:25,800 --> 00:01:28,480 Speaker 1: my episodes at Nova's head office if in they're beautiful, 20 00:01:28,560 --> 00:01:32,840 Speaker 1: luxurious podcasting studios, but our schedules today just didn't quite 21 00:01:32,959 --> 00:01:35,840 Speaker 1: a line and this is the best place for us 22 00:01:35,840 --> 00:01:37,560 Speaker 1: to be able to record this episode. So if you 23 00:01:37,560 --> 00:01:41,280 Speaker 1: can hear my kids screaming in the background, or likely 24 00:01:41,560 --> 00:01:44,120 Speaker 1: Tom screaming at my kids in the background, please know 25 00:01:44,160 --> 00:01:47,319 Speaker 1: they are safe. They're perfectly fine. They're just pushing back 26 00:01:47,360 --> 00:01:51,240 Speaker 1: and trying to stretch out bedtime, as does every single child. 27 00:01:51,600 --> 00:01:55,800 Speaker 1: I say that there is one child screaming up quite loudly, 28 00:01:55,920 --> 00:02:01,280 Speaker 1: so just keeping it very real. And thank you so 29 00:02:01,360 --> 00:02:04,280 Speaker 1: much for coming on to today's episode. How have you been. 30 00:02:05,120 --> 00:02:08,079 Speaker 2: Yeah, I am amazing, amazing, Thank you so much for 31 00:02:08,400 --> 00:02:12,079 Speaker 2: having me on. I'm so excited to share everything that's 32 00:02:12,120 --> 00:02:15,640 Speaker 2: been happening over the last nine months. And when you 33 00:02:15,720 --> 00:02:19,440 Speaker 2: talk about manifesting, and now I'm such a big fan 34 00:02:19,520 --> 00:02:23,160 Speaker 2: of manifesting. I have to tell everyone that when I 35 00:02:23,280 --> 00:02:27,360 Speaker 2: first heard about people manifesting and manifesting things into their 36 00:02:27,480 --> 00:02:30,280 Speaker 2: life and all these sorts of things, I thought, oh, 37 00:02:30,360 --> 00:02:33,600 Speaker 2: here we go. It's you know, people sitting around in 38 00:02:33,680 --> 00:02:37,160 Speaker 2: a circled cross legged holding hands really you know, wishing 39 00:02:37,280 --> 00:02:38,639 Speaker 2: really hard for things. 40 00:02:39,040 --> 00:02:45,280 Speaker 1: Hugging all that sort of safe and your eyes. 41 00:02:45,320 --> 00:02:50,359 Speaker 2: And it wasn't until I came across your Instagram page 42 00:02:50,960 --> 00:02:53,320 Speaker 2: and you were talking about your new program. So this 43 00:02:53,480 --> 00:02:55,400 Speaker 2: was just as it sort of came out and you 44 00:02:55,480 --> 00:02:59,280 Speaker 2: were talking about it. I thought, oh, I'll have a look, 45 00:02:59,280 --> 00:03:02,800 Speaker 2: because you're quite well respected in the community, so I thought, oh, well, 46 00:03:03,120 --> 00:03:07,919 Speaker 2: if kenn is talking about confesting, you know, maybe there's. 47 00:03:07,680 --> 00:03:09,520 Speaker 3: Some sort of some truth to it. 48 00:03:09,600 --> 00:03:13,640 Speaker 2: So this would have been I reckon back in December 49 00:03:13,720 --> 00:03:18,200 Speaker 2: last year, either yeah, November or December last year, when 50 00:03:18,240 --> 00:03:23,280 Speaker 2: I started following you on Instagram, because I had moved 51 00:03:23,320 --> 00:03:27,840 Speaker 2: into my first ever home in July last year, and 52 00:03:27,880 --> 00:03:32,760 Speaker 2: I had been so overly consumed with having my own 53 00:03:32,800 --> 00:03:35,760 Speaker 2: house and building this house, my first home, and I 54 00:03:35,800 --> 00:03:37,720 Speaker 2: wanted it to be perfect, and I put so much 55 00:03:37,880 --> 00:03:40,040 Speaker 2: energy into it that by the time I got into 56 00:03:40,040 --> 00:03:44,600 Speaker 2: the home, I realized that I hadn't really been focusing 57 00:03:44,640 --> 00:03:47,760 Speaker 2: on anything else in my life, and the house wasn't 58 00:03:47,800 --> 00:03:50,040 Speaker 2: in a place where I wanted to be living in, 59 00:03:50,160 --> 00:03:53,640 Speaker 2: and things weren't perfect, and I was just feeling a 60 00:03:53,640 --> 00:03:57,080 Speaker 2: little bit lost, and I was like, I don't really know, 61 00:03:57,240 --> 00:03:59,480 Speaker 2: you know, what it is that I want that I 62 00:03:59,480 --> 00:04:00,920 Speaker 2: didn't know what I wanted to be when I grow 63 00:04:01,000 --> 00:04:03,600 Speaker 2: up sort of thing. But I just sort of didn't 64 00:04:03,600 --> 00:04:08,040 Speaker 2: have any direction after, you know, for both months of living. 65 00:04:07,800 --> 00:04:08,400 Speaker 1: In that house. 66 00:04:09,280 --> 00:04:11,120 Speaker 2: So when I came across your program, I was like, 67 00:04:11,160 --> 00:04:14,640 Speaker 2: you know what, let's I'll try something different because I've 68 00:04:14,680 --> 00:04:17,520 Speaker 2: tried to know a whole bunch of different things before, 69 00:04:17,680 --> 00:04:20,480 Speaker 2: but I hadn't tried, you know, something like your program. 70 00:04:20,560 --> 00:04:22,000 Speaker 2: So that was a week back and had a look 71 00:04:22,000 --> 00:04:24,680 Speaker 2: at the dates, and that was on the tenth of 72 00:04:24,720 --> 00:04:29,159 Speaker 2: December last year that I signed up to your course originally, 73 00:04:30,120 --> 00:04:31,880 Speaker 2: and then a week later I went out and bought 74 00:04:31,920 --> 00:04:37,640 Speaker 2: your book, so the Money Mindset book that one. Yep, yeah, 75 00:04:38,560 --> 00:04:42,800 Speaker 2: So it was on the twenty third of December, that's 76 00:04:42,839 --> 00:04:46,960 Speaker 2: what two weeks after doing the starting the Cause, I 77 00:04:47,040 --> 00:04:49,320 Speaker 2: sent you in my first email about all the money 78 00:04:49,320 --> 00:04:51,279 Speaker 2: that I had manifested because it was a twenty one 79 00:04:51,360 --> 00:04:56,840 Speaker 2: day challenge, a twenty one day fun financial challenge, right, yes, yes, yes, 80 00:04:57,200 --> 00:05:00,560 Speaker 2: And I had within that two weeks I had saved 81 00:05:00,760 --> 00:05:05,120 Speaker 2: three thousand dollars on negotiating with different concretters on the 82 00:05:05,120 --> 00:05:08,080 Speaker 2: patio or I was having laid down where normally I would 83 00:05:08,080 --> 00:05:11,560 Speaker 2: probably would have just taken the first one or two yeses, 84 00:05:11,680 --> 00:05:13,400 Speaker 2: but this time I really wanted to make my money 85 00:05:13,400 --> 00:05:16,960 Speaker 2: work hard for me. I use points to buy Christmas presents. 86 00:05:17,000 --> 00:05:20,600 Speaker 2: So I saved myself two hundred and fifty dollars doing that, 87 00:05:20,839 --> 00:05:23,200 Speaker 2: and normally I wouldn't do those sorts of things. I 88 00:05:23,320 --> 00:05:26,440 Speaker 2: was interviewed for a promotion and there was a whole 89 00:05:26,440 --> 00:05:28,840 Speaker 2: bunch of different things that were sort of happening right 90 00:05:28,880 --> 00:05:32,320 Speaker 2: after I was doing your program, and I thought, maybe 91 00:05:32,360 --> 00:05:35,799 Speaker 2: I'll start the vision board. So that's when I really 92 00:05:35,800 --> 00:05:38,640 Speaker 2: started thinking about if I was to waive that magic 93 00:05:38,760 --> 00:05:43,240 Speaker 2: wand what would I really want to have change in 94 00:05:43,279 --> 00:05:45,000 Speaker 2: my life or what would I want to have like 95 00:05:45,120 --> 00:05:49,640 Speaker 2: really come into my life that I hadn't been able 96 00:05:49,720 --> 00:05:50,640 Speaker 2: to do before. 97 00:05:51,240 --> 00:05:54,120 Speaker 1: It's a then puring question, that question, like you know, 98 00:05:54,320 --> 00:05:56,159 Speaker 1: if I could wave the Magic One for you, what 99 00:05:56,200 --> 00:05:58,560 Speaker 1: would you create? And there's no limit, there's no rules, 100 00:05:58,560 --> 00:06:00,840 Speaker 1: there's no boundary, and it really does allow you to 101 00:06:00,839 --> 00:06:04,320 Speaker 1: see where your heart really does call you to that question. 102 00:06:04,440 --> 00:06:08,360 Speaker 2: I find it did because I every time I would 103 00:06:08,400 --> 00:06:10,039 Speaker 2: start to think of a goal about well, hang on, 104 00:06:10,080 --> 00:06:11,880 Speaker 2: that's a bit far veg Now hang on, it's the 105 00:06:11,920 --> 00:06:12,400 Speaker 2: magic One. 106 00:06:12,440 --> 00:06:13,400 Speaker 3: I can bring. 107 00:06:13,120 --> 00:06:18,480 Speaker 1: Whatever I want exactly exactly. It helps you just almost 108 00:06:18,520 --> 00:06:21,920 Speaker 1: even if you just entertaining yourself for a split second, 109 00:06:21,960 --> 00:06:24,599 Speaker 1: it allows you to just park away or not parkway, 110 00:06:24,640 --> 00:06:27,560 Speaker 1: pack away for a split second, any self limiting beliefs 111 00:06:27,600 --> 00:06:30,520 Speaker 1: and just dare to dream. It was like you give 112 00:06:30,560 --> 00:06:33,000 Speaker 1: yourself to fan size for a second. But that's the 113 00:06:33,040 --> 00:06:35,080 Speaker 1: beauty of it. You get to step into a world 114 00:06:35,440 --> 00:06:38,440 Speaker 1: that you would never dad even dream of with those 115 00:06:38,800 --> 00:06:42,720 Speaker 1: silly limitations. We sometimes mnd ourselves falling victim to how 116 00:06:43,279 --> 00:06:45,200 Speaker 1: just just going back for a second when you found 117 00:06:45,200 --> 00:06:47,800 Speaker 1: yourself in your home, just going okay, this is nice, 118 00:06:47,800 --> 00:06:51,839 Speaker 1: but this isn't quite great, It's not right. It like, 119 00:06:51,920 --> 00:06:54,599 Speaker 1: what did that feel like? Did you like something's better 120 00:06:54,720 --> 00:06:57,159 Speaker 1: for me out there? Or something doesn't feel like? Like 121 00:06:57,200 --> 00:06:59,720 Speaker 1: what did that feeling of that? Maybe feeling stuck? I 122 00:06:59,720 --> 00:07:03,479 Speaker 1: don't know what was going on for you to realize, okay, 123 00:07:03,480 --> 00:07:04,120 Speaker 1: this isn't. 124 00:07:05,600 --> 00:07:05,840 Speaker 3: Yeah. 125 00:07:05,880 --> 00:07:08,360 Speaker 2: I think stuff is a really good word because I 126 00:07:08,440 --> 00:07:12,760 Speaker 2: had I had focused so hard on getting into that 127 00:07:12,920 --> 00:07:15,800 Speaker 2: home because I was a lender by trade and my 128 00:07:15,920 --> 00:07:18,840 Speaker 2: job as a lender by trade and I was like, 129 00:07:18,880 --> 00:07:23,160 Speaker 2: how can I be a lender without a house? That's 130 00:07:23,320 --> 00:07:27,640 Speaker 2: just not so summer? And it took years to get 131 00:07:27,720 --> 00:07:30,560 Speaker 2: into this property. So I originally went on waiting lists 132 00:07:30,560 --> 00:07:32,600 Speaker 2: on the Gold Coast for two years to try to 133 00:07:32,640 --> 00:07:35,679 Speaker 2: get a block of land, and the competition was so strong, 134 00:07:35,840 --> 00:07:40,800 Speaker 2: edges getting constantly outbid, and then COVID happened and LBR 135 00:07:40,840 --> 00:07:44,200 Speaker 2: restrictions came in that were taper from banks, and then 136 00:07:44,400 --> 00:07:46,600 Speaker 2: there was waiting lists again for landing. So it took 137 00:07:46,680 --> 00:07:49,960 Speaker 2: five years to get a block of land and then 138 00:07:50,000 --> 00:07:52,720 Speaker 2: to be able to build the house on it. So 139 00:07:52,880 --> 00:07:55,920 Speaker 2: I'd put so much energy and so much was building 140 00:07:56,000 --> 00:07:58,920 Speaker 2: up to it. But when I moved in, I thought, 141 00:07:59,040 --> 00:08:03,480 Speaker 2: I haven't folks on any other areas of my life 142 00:08:03,760 --> 00:08:07,080 Speaker 2: other than this. And I had told myself that, oh, 143 00:08:07,200 --> 00:08:11,440 Speaker 2: once the house comes then everything else will sort of 144 00:08:11,480 --> 00:08:15,160 Speaker 2: flow on after that, but I hadn't thought about. 145 00:08:14,920 --> 00:08:16,160 Speaker 3: What any of that looked like. 146 00:08:17,000 --> 00:08:19,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, I've been in the house for that five months 147 00:08:19,360 --> 00:08:21,320 Speaker 2: and that I was feeling started. I was like, well, 148 00:08:21,400 --> 00:08:24,000 Speaker 2: this is all I had sort of been thinking about, 149 00:08:24,040 --> 00:08:25,520 Speaker 2: and I don't know what else to do now. 150 00:08:26,280 --> 00:08:31,480 Speaker 1: It's almost like you've got it almost too much. Tunnel vision, 151 00:08:31,480 --> 00:08:33,480 Speaker 1: like television is great when you're really got a hone 152 00:08:33,520 --> 00:08:35,160 Speaker 1: in or something that's really important, you've put it like 153 00:08:35,200 --> 00:08:37,440 Speaker 1: a certain period of time you need to accomplish something 154 00:08:37,440 --> 00:08:39,840 Speaker 1: by it's great, it can be very powerful, but sometimes 155 00:08:39,840 --> 00:08:42,960 Speaker 1: it can also be dangerous because you can lose perspective 156 00:08:43,000 --> 00:08:46,679 Speaker 1: and you lose your sense of a healthy balance, and 157 00:08:47,000 --> 00:08:50,200 Speaker 1: you know, you just become fixated on achieving it rather 158 00:08:50,240 --> 00:08:52,640 Speaker 1: than thinking about what are you actually trying to achieve, 159 00:08:52,640 --> 00:08:54,679 Speaker 1: which is, you know, an overall sense of happiness and 160 00:08:54,679 --> 00:08:58,520 Speaker 1: accomplishment and you know, achieving your your the details of 161 00:08:58,600 --> 00:09:01,760 Speaker 1: your dream gore alright, So that didn't feel right. And 162 00:09:01,760 --> 00:09:04,839 Speaker 1: then if you decide to have a go the twenty 163 00:09:04,920 --> 00:09:08,280 Speaker 1: one day challenge and then you know, enrolled it into 164 00:09:08,360 --> 00:09:11,520 Speaker 1: my into the course where to from there. 165 00:09:12,559 --> 00:09:16,120 Speaker 2: So then during December we had that really crazy weather 166 00:09:16,240 --> 00:09:18,920 Speaker 2: up here in Queensland. It was almost like a tornado 167 00:09:19,040 --> 00:09:21,560 Speaker 2: that came to and caused all sorts of chaos, and 168 00:09:21,600 --> 00:09:22,640 Speaker 2: that's where I was. 169 00:09:22,679 --> 00:09:23,760 Speaker 3: I was caught up in all of that. 170 00:09:24,160 --> 00:09:28,800 Speaker 2: So we had no power on Christmas Eve, which was 171 00:09:29,520 --> 00:09:32,360 Speaker 2: so bizarre, and then Christmas Day it was the same. 172 00:09:32,520 --> 00:09:35,560 Speaker 2: So I picked up Your Money Mindset book and I 173 00:09:35,559 --> 00:09:37,760 Speaker 2: said to myself, if I was going to if I 174 00:09:37,800 --> 00:09:40,000 Speaker 2: was really going to make these changes, I really need 175 00:09:40,040 --> 00:09:41,840 Speaker 2: to get into it right. 176 00:09:42,200 --> 00:09:43,320 Speaker 1: So then I read your. 177 00:09:43,160 --> 00:09:46,680 Speaker 2: Book from cover to cover in two days. This is 178 00:09:46,720 --> 00:09:51,160 Speaker 2: the work man is the workbook, and also your book 179 00:09:51,240 --> 00:09:57,240 Speaker 2: the money mindset? Is that a mind for money, mindful money, God, 180 00:09:57,360 --> 00:09:59,280 Speaker 2: keep getting it wrong, Yes, mindful money. 181 00:09:59,520 --> 00:09:59,920 Speaker 3: So yes. 182 00:10:00,000 --> 00:10:01,840 Speaker 2: So I read that from cover to cover in two 183 00:10:01,960 --> 00:10:04,240 Speaker 2: days because it was pouring rain and I couldn't do anything, 184 00:10:04,240 --> 00:10:06,520 Speaker 2: and I thought, well, if I am going to commit 185 00:10:06,559 --> 00:10:09,120 Speaker 2: to doing this, let's make my time count. Let's make 186 00:10:09,160 --> 00:10:12,000 Speaker 2: this time count for something. So then I was like, Okay, 187 00:10:12,520 --> 00:10:15,160 Speaker 2: let's hit some real goals. So then I put up 188 00:10:15,240 --> 00:10:18,400 Speaker 2: on the vision board, so this is the one that 189 00:10:18,440 --> 00:10:20,520 Speaker 2: you can create online to you and have a look 190 00:10:20,520 --> 00:10:23,000 Speaker 2: at cut pictures from Pinterest and all that sort of 191 00:10:23,000 --> 00:10:25,280 Speaker 2: stuff and start putting things together. So it was to 192 00:10:25,360 --> 00:10:27,319 Speaker 2: buy my forever home, so where I thought I was 193 00:10:27,360 --> 00:10:29,240 Speaker 2: going to be most at peace, which. 194 00:10:29,040 --> 00:10:33,319 Speaker 3: Is on profits on acreage. I wanted to run three marathons. 195 00:10:34,280 --> 00:10:37,000 Speaker 2: I wanted to one of them being in New Zealand, 196 00:10:37,880 --> 00:10:41,320 Speaker 2: and then one being the Authentic Marathon in Greece, which 197 00:10:41,360 --> 00:10:43,800 Speaker 2: is like the original marathon that was ever the first 198 00:10:44,120 --> 00:10:48,560 Speaker 2: one that was ever first run. I wanted to continue 199 00:10:48,559 --> 00:10:52,720 Speaker 2: my path to financial freedom by creating my perfect share portfolio. 200 00:10:54,160 --> 00:10:57,000 Speaker 2: I wanted to start eating healthier, and I changed the 201 00:10:57,040 --> 00:10:58,840 Speaker 2: words of all of these because I had things down 202 00:10:58,960 --> 00:11:04,520 Speaker 2: like I'll lose and like negative statements instead of statements. 203 00:11:04,520 --> 00:11:05,920 Speaker 2: So I've reworded a lot of these. 204 00:11:07,280 --> 00:11:09,400 Speaker 1: One of the big things I talk about because so 205 00:11:09,400 --> 00:11:11,760 Speaker 1: many people go wrong with the manifestation will work at 206 00:11:11,800 --> 00:11:14,200 Speaker 1: the very beginning where they do their goals, and this 207 00:11:14,240 --> 00:11:15,480 Speaker 1: is where I say, it's got to be written in 208 00:11:15,520 --> 00:11:18,120 Speaker 1: the present chance, it's got to be positive, so not 209 00:11:18,320 --> 00:11:21,199 Speaker 1: I will lose weight. I am losing weight. I am 210 00:11:21,280 --> 00:11:25,640 Speaker 1: building my diversified passive income stream. I am investing in 211 00:11:25,679 --> 00:11:28,760 Speaker 1: shares right now. Like it's all about the positive things 212 00:11:28,800 --> 00:11:30,400 Speaker 1: that you're doing and the fact that you're doing it 213 00:11:30,520 --> 00:11:33,440 Speaker 1: right now. And even if you're not actually physically buying shares, 214 00:11:33,600 --> 00:11:36,400 Speaker 1: you might be actually doing the research to in preparation 215 00:11:36,440 --> 00:11:37,520 Speaker 1: to buy those shares, or you might be in the 216 00:11:37,559 --> 00:11:40,120 Speaker 1: purposes of opening up that online share trading account. You 217 00:11:40,200 --> 00:11:42,720 Speaker 1: are in the moment doing it, and that's that is key, 218 00:11:42,760 --> 00:11:44,680 Speaker 1: because so many people focus on what they don't want, 219 00:11:44,800 --> 00:11:47,160 Speaker 1: and then of course, you know, become what we think about, 220 00:11:47,240 --> 00:11:49,520 Speaker 1: so then they attract all the things that they don't want. 221 00:11:49,920 --> 00:11:52,040 Speaker 1: So I'm so glad you picked up that lay. 222 00:11:52,720 --> 00:11:53,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, reworded all. 223 00:11:54,400 --> 00:11:55,960 Speaker 1: And that's one of the things I do with so 224 00:11:56,080 --> 00:11:58,480 Speaker 1: many people in the program is say send me your 225 00:11:58,480 --> 00:12:01,000 Speaker 1: goals so I can check them for you. And there's 226 00:12:01,559 --> 00:12:04,000 Speaker 1: goals are confidential and there's no judgment at all, and 227 00:12:04,240 --> 00:12:05,880 Speaker 1: i'd say nine times of ten and I have to 228 00:12:05,920 --> 00:12:08,840 Speaker 1: write back and say, Okay, I'm rewriting these for you, 229 00:12:08,880 --> 00:12:10,040 Speaker 1: and I want you to let me know what you 230 00:12:10,080 --> 00:12:12,720 Speaker 1: think of what I've done to your goals. And it's quite. 231 00:12:12,960 --> 00:12:16,440 Speaker 1: It's almost like a complete shakeout, but it's it's a 232 00:12:16,480 --> 00:12:19,080 Speaker 1: great shake up in that it's a refresh almost because 233 00:12:19,120 --> 00:12:21,280 Speaker 1: you're like, oh wow, suddenly it creates so much more 234 00:12:21,320 --> 00:12:23,880 Speaker 1: clarity and you get this sense like, oh wow, I've 235 00:12:23,920 --> 00:12:27,360 Speaker 1: been doing it wrong all this time. It's it's quite 236 00:12:27,559 --> 00:12:29,319 Speaker 1: because I think we had a call, didn't we, And 237 00:12:29,400 --> 00:12:31,920 Speaker 1: we went through your goals together in ender study. 238 00:12:32,440 --> 00:12:35,400 Speaker 2: We did because I had things down like I'm going 239 00:12:35,440 --> 00:12:39,480 Speaker 2: to start creating a share portfolio, I'm going to start 240 00:12:39,880 --> 00:12:43,199 Speaker 2: eating healthier, I'm going to and I'm going to lose weight. 241 00:12:43,320 --> 00:12:45,920 Speaker 2: And you said to me, have you sort of looked 242 00:12:45,920 --> 00:12:48,520 Speaker 2: into share trading and all that sort of stuff. I'm like, yeah, like, 243 00:12:48,760 --> 00:12:52,240 Speaker 2: I'm setting your master's a finance and a go will continue. 244 00:12:52,280 --> 00:12:53,400 Speaker 3: It's continue my. 245 00:12:53,440 --> 00:12:57,679 Speaker 2: Parts of financial freedom by creating a share portfolio. I'm 246 00:12:57,760 --> 00:12:59,319 Speaker 2: eating healthier. 247 00:12:58,920 --> 00:13:01,160 Speaker 3: And I'm feeling better in my own skin now. 248 00:13:01,240 --> 00:13:05,680 Speaker 2: And I was like, oh, okay, it is. 249 00:13:05,800 --> 00:13:07,640 Speaker 1: Just one of the most important things I think so 250 00:13:07,720 --> 00:13:11,760 Speaker 1: many will miss. Okay, so you have some massive goals there, 251 00:13:12,120 --> 00:13:14,640 Speaker 1: you know, that's a big twenty twenty four listening to 252 00:13:14,679 --> 00:13:19,440 Speaker 1: this at the beginning, Well, I haven't finished yet all 253 00:13:19,600 --> 00:13:22,439 Speaker 1: this sin like, are you rather bit nervous thing? Okay, 254 00:13:22,520 --> 00:13:25,560 Speaker 1: all right, there's a long list here, like, and I 255 00:13:25,600 --> 00:13:27,480 Speaker 1: do say that people try not to have more than 256 00:13:27,520 --> 00:13:33,040 Speaker 1: five goals, like because it you know, don't not overload yourself. 257 00:13:33,080 --> 00:13:35,920 Speaker 1: But no, no, no, you've been obviously you knew your limits. 258 00:13:36,480 --> 00:13:40,040 Speaker 1: So then then what happened from writing those goals down? 259 00:13:40,080 --> 00:13:42,920 Speaker 1: Which did that rewriting those goals that changed your mindset 260 00:13:42,920 --> 00:13:43,280 Speaker 1: as well? 261 00:13:43,760 --> 00:13:44,160 Speaker 3: It did? 262 00:13:44,280 --> 00:13:48,560 Speaker 2: Yes, so it really did. I felt proud of myself already, 263 00:13:49,280 --> 00:13:52,120 Speaker 2: which was it, Which was a strange feeling because when 264 00:13:52,120 --> 00:13:54,920 Speaker 2: you normally set yourself a goal, you're like, Okay, once 265 00:13:55,040 --> 00:13:56,720 Speaker 2: I've hit that goal, I'll be proud. 266 00:13:56,720 --> 00:13:57,320 Speaker 3: Of myself. 267 00:13:58,000 --> 00:14:01,000 Speaker 2: When you reword it to something that's in the moment, 268 00:14:01,200 --> 00:14:03,160 Speaker 2: you instantly become proud of yourself. 269 00:14:03,280 --> 00:14:04,199 Speaker 3: One for setting the. 270 00:14:04,160 --> 00:14:07,440 Speaker 2: Goal, but two for if you're talking about like you're 271 00:14:07,480 --> 00:14:11,040 Speaker 2: already doing it. Yeah, then you're like, I'm already doing it, 272 00:14:11,880 --> 00:14:12,080 Speaker 2: you know. 273 00:14:12,320 --> 00:14:14,880 Speaker 3: Like continuing my part to financial freedom. I'm like, oh, 274 00:14:14,920 --> 00:14:15,480 Speaker 3: I'm already. 275 00:14:16,000 --> 00:14:18,280 Speaker 2: I'm already doing the research, I'm already getting why shared 276 00:14:18,280 --> 00:14:20,880 Speaker 2: trading account together, I'm already doing all these sorts of 277 00:14:20,880 --> 00:14:22,160 Speaker 2: things already. 278 00:14:22,200 --> 00:14:22,960 Speaker 3: So I'm doing it. 279 00:14:22,960 --> 00:14:24,560 Speaker 2: I'm doing it. 280 00:14:24,880 --> 00:14:27,640 Speaker 1: Also a lot of faith and confidence, which I think 281 00:14:27,680 --> 00:14:31,840 Speaker 1: is so important and something that's hard to find these days. 282 00:14:31,880 --> 00:14:35,720 Speaker 1: And there's also you know a lot of science now 283 00:14:35,880 --> 00:14:40,320 Speaker 1: around this because they're realizing that the dopamine hit isn't 284 00:14:40,360 --> 00:14:43,640 Speaker 1: actually coming from achieving something, it's in the anticipation of 285 00:14:43,720 --> 00:14:47,200 Speaker 1: achieving something, which is why I think, you know, wording 286 00:14:47,200 --> 00:14:49,120 Speaker 1: your goals in a way that's in a positive way, 287 00:14:49,120 --> 00:14:52,800 Speaker 1: but in that present moment is essential because there is 288 00:14:52,840 --> 00:14:55,360 Speaker 1: your dopamin hit, and we all know that with the 289 00:14:55,400 --> 00:14:58,160 Speaker 1: dopamine hits, will stick to it, will remain committed with 290 00:14:58,320 --> 00:15:00,720 Speaker 1: dedicated to the journey, and we'll kick and that's obviously, 291 00:15:00,760 --> 00:15:03,440 Speaker 1: then it's only going to eventuate in some type of 292 00:15:03,640 --> 00:15:06,440 Speaker 1: level of success the result that we've been chasing. So 293 00:15:07,000 --> 00:15:10,440 Speaker 1: you know, not only is this, you know, combining our 294 00:15:10,560 --> 00:15:14,200 Speaker 1: tree hugging stuff, it's also some neuroscience behind us as well. 295 00:15:15,160 --> 00:15:16,080 Speaker 3: That's right, that's right. 296 00:15:16,120 --> 00:15:19,720 Speaker 2: See, what I didn't realize about manifestation work was the 297 00:15:19,760 --> 00:15:20,600 Speaker 2: work behind it. 298 00:15:21,240 --> 00:15:21,880 Speaker 3: I just thought you. 299 00:15:22,120 --> 00:15:23,760 Speaker 2: I just thought you clicked your heel three times and 300 00:15:24,320 --> 00:15:27,840 Speaker 2: you know, and everything's what happened. So then yeah, so 301 00:15:28,000 --> 00:15:31,840 Speaker 2: then well then because you did tell me to, you know, 302 00:15:31,920 --> 00:15:33,960 Speaker 2: to set my five goals, but then I ended up 303 00:15:34,000 --> 00:15:37,200 Speaker 2: doing those five and then I had graduate the Master 304 00:15:37,280 --> 00:15:40,160 Speaker 2: of Finance this in July this year so that I 305 00:15:40,160 --> 00:15:44,320 Speaker 2: could start my own business as well and then manifest 306 00:15:44,320 --> 00:15:48,840 Speaker 2: my dream partner. So I kind of went overboard. So 307 00:15:49,000 --> 00:15:52,560 Speaker 2: then what happened was I started to make some mistakes. 308 00:15:52,600 --> 00:15:55,120 Speaker 2: And the mistakes that I was making was I was 309 00:15:55,160 --> 00:16:00,120 Speaker 2: trying to because I almost felt like I had superpowers 310 00:16:00,200 --> 00:16:05,320 Speaker 2: by this stage. I tried to manifest everything simultaneously, so 311 00:16:05,400 --> 00:16:08,200 Speaker 2: I was spreading myself so thin. I was like, okay, 312 00:16:08,240 --> 00:16:11,000 Speaker 2: so I'll put twenty dollars towards the shared trading. I'll 313 00:16:11,040 --> 00:16:15,120 Speaker 2: put you know, fifty dollars towards my first marathon in 314 00:16:15,160 --> 00:16:16,840 Speaker 2: New Zealand. I'll do this, I'll do some work to 315 00:16:16,880 --> 00:16:18,400 Speaker 2: the house, I'll do this, I'll do that. So I 316 00:16:18,440 --> 00:16:19,520 Speaker 2: was sort of spreading. 317 00:16:19,160 --> 00:16:20,480 Speaker 3: Myself out too thin. 318 00:16:21,280 --> 00:16:24,600 Speaker 2: So by the time I got to my needing to 319 00:16:24,600 --> 00:16:27,200 Speaker 2: buy the tickets for the first marathon, I had manifested 320 00:16:27,240 --> 00:16:29,120 Speaker 2: the money because there was another We did another twenty 321 00:16:29,120 --> 00:16:34,240 Speaker 2: one day fun financial challenge in January, and during that 322 00:16:34,560 --> 00:16:38,200 Speaker 2: challenge I manifested the flights as well as the accommodation 323 00:16:38,360 --> 00:16:40,440 Speaker 2: for New Zealand by selling things around the house that 324 00:16:40,480 --> 00:16:43,160 Speaker 2: I hadn't used for six plus month. And I mean 325 00:16:43,320 --> 00:16:46,440 Speaker 2: I had address in my wardrobe that I remember buying 326 00:16:46,480 --> 00:16:48,560 Speaker 2: to go to a ball when I was twenty one. 327 00:16:49,160 --> 00:16:52,160 Speaker 2: I'm worn at once and I had never won begin 328 00:16:52,240 --> 00:16:54,680 Speaker 2: I'm mail thirty five, I do. 329 00:16:56,880 --> 00:16:58,000 Speaker 1: I don't need. 330 00:16:57,800 --> 00:16:59,920 Speaker 3: It, okay, So you know, it was all those sorts 331 00:16:59,920 --> 00:17:00,280 Speaker 3: of things. 332 00:17:00,280 --> 00:17:02,840 Speaker 2: So I got rid of all, you know, some things 333 00:17:03,640 --> 00:17:05,720 Speaker 2: put in my life that I wasn't using. A manifested 334 00:17:05,800 --> 00:17:09,040 Speaker 2: three thousand dollars for flights and accommodation in New Zealand. 335 00:17:09,119 --> 00:17:13,800 Speaker 2: So that was done, and I was training for the marathon. 336 00:17:13,440 --> 00:17:14,080 Speaker 3: In New Zealand. 337 00:17:15,040 --> 00:17:18,600 Speaker 2: Then once I had all that booked, I started thinking 338 00:17:18,640 --> 00:17:20,159 Speaker 2: about the house. So I was like, if I was 339 00:17:20,200 --> 00:17:21,800 Speaker 2: going to if I'm going to buy my forever home 340 00:17:21,840 --> 00:17:24,120 Speaker 2: this year, I need to get a real estate Asian 341 00:17:24,160 --> 00:17:26,399 Speaker 2: around to find out what I can sell my house for, 342 00:17:26,480 --> 00:17:28,080 Speaker 2: if I need to do anything to the house to 343 00:17:28,119 --> 00:17:30,800 Speaker 2: get the maximum from it, all those sorts of things. 344 00:17:31,200 --> 00:17:33,639 Speaker 3: So I did that. I had some. 345 00:17:33,560 --> 00:17:36,199 Speaker 2: Agents come around and they gave me some points of 346 00:17:36,240 --> 00:17:38,280 Speaker 2: what to do, so to finish laying the turk out 347 00:17:38,280 --> 00:17:42,840 Speaker 2: the back, finish painting, do some repairs, to defence work, 348 00:17:43,560 --> 00:17:45,960 Speaker 2: and all of those sorts of things. So I thought, well, 349 00:17:46,000 --> 00:17:51,320 Speaker 2: to save money and to learn some things myself, I'll 350 00:17:51,440 --> 00:17:53,760 Speaker 2: YouTube how to do. 351 00:17:53,680 --> 00:17:54,120 Speaker 3: All these things. 352 00:17:54,160 --> 00:17:57,200 Speaker 2: So then I took all of that on board as well. 353 00:17:57,200 --> 00:17:59,480 Speaker 2: So then I was training for the marathon, doing stuff 354 00:17:59,480 --> 00:18:03,679 Speaker 2: for the shaptfolio, renovating the house, studying UNI and working 355 00:18:03,720 --> 00:18:04,320 Speaker 2: full time. 356 00:18:05,000 --> 00:18:08,240 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, like a for about burnout in. 357 00:18:09,960 --> 00:18:12,720 Speaker 2: So then it comes through our conversation that you and 358 00:18:12,800 --> 00:18:17,399 Speaker 2: I had in April, because by April the house was 359 00:18:17,440 --> 00:18:22,640 Speaker 2: then on the market and properties were had an average 360 00:18:22,680 --> 00:18:25,760 Speaker 2: time on the market from start to finish, so from 361 00:18:25,800 --> 00:18:28,600 Speaker 2: being available in the market to settlement of thirty days, 362 00:18:29,000 --> 00:18:31,679 Speaker 2: I couldn't even get anyone around to an open home. 363 00:18:31,760 --> 00:18:35,480 Speaker 2: And this was a brand new property, four bedrooms, two 364 00:18:35,560 --> 00:18:38,800 Speaker 2: and a half bath, three living areas, a huge backyard 365 00:18:39,160 --> 00:18:42,639 Speaker 2: in a sought after estate. Houses were going, going, going, going, going, 366 00:18:43,400 --> 00:18:45,560 Speaker 2: and there was not even a person showing up to 367 00:18:45,600 --> 00:18:48,600 Speaker 2: the open home. Nice spot was a block. 368 00:18:48,680 --> 00:18:51,360 Speaker 1: It was like it was not obviously not a coast. 369 00:18:51,600 --> 00:18:54,040 Speaker 1: It was like this block. And I always say, there's 370 00:18:54,080 --> 00:18:57,280 Speaker 1: something behind something. There's a reason, there's it's a blessing 371 00:18:57,280 --> 00:19:00,440 Speaker 1: in disguise, but there's something when that it. These weird 372 00:19:00,520 --> 00:19:02,840 Speaker 1: things happen that don't make sense. You just we haven't 373 00:19:02,840 --> 00:19:05,040 Speaker 1: discovered what it is yet, but there's something very very 374 00:19:05,080 --> 00:19:08,520 Speaker 1: powerful behind it. And we had this conversation about that, 375 00:19:08,640 --> 00:19:11,040 Speaker 1: and I said it was using a lot of way, 376 00:19:11,160 --> 00:19:13,280 Speaker 1: is what my gut feel was trying to tell me, 377 00:19:13,359 --> 00:19:15,840 Speaker 1: and were trying to break it down together as to 378 00:19:16,040 --> 00:19:18,280 Speaker 1: what the hell was going on was It just didn't 379 00:19:18,320 --> 00:19:18,960 Speaker 1: make sense. 380 00:19:19,600 --> 00:19:20,680 Speaker 3: It just didn't make sense. 381 00:19:20,720 --> 00:19:22,440 Speaker 2: So what you said to me was was like, look, 382 00:19:22,600 --> 00:19:26,800 Speaker 2: just focus on my affirmations. So I had written affirmations 383 00:19:26,840 --> 00:19:30,080 Speaker 2: about selling the property. So he said focus on, you know, 384 00:19:30,119 --> 00:19:33,439 Speaker 2: seeing my affirmations out loud and truly believing it. But 385 00:19:33,520 --> 00:19:35,960 Speaker 2: I had the marathon coming up within like the two weeks, 386 00:19:35,960 --> 00:19:37,720 Speaker 2: and he said, you've really got to put your energy 387 00:19:37,760 --> 00:19:40,920 Speaker 2: into that because that goal is happening, and it's happening 388 00:19:41,560 --> 00:19:44,760 Speaker 2: right now. You really need to appreciate that, show gratitude 389 00:19:44,800 --> 00:19:46,400 Speaker 2: for it, be in the moment for it, you'd work 390 00:19:46,480 --> 00:19:47,840 Speaker 2: really hard for it, be in the moment. 391 00:19:48,840 --> 00:19:50,520 Speaker 3: So while I'm over. 392 00:19:50,359 --> 00:19:54,240 Speaker 2: In New Zealand, i'd finished winding the marathon that the 393 00:19:54,320 --> 00:19:56,879 Speaker 2: day afterwards, the real estate agent sent me a message 394 00:19:56,880 --> 00:19:59,400 Speaker 2: and she goes, look, we've done another open home. I've 395 00:19:59,400 --> 00:20:01,200 Speaker 2: given them the key and all that sort of stuff, 396 00:20:01,760 --> 00:20:03,800 Speaker 2: and she said we had and no one show up 397 00:20:03,800 --> 00:20:06,600 Speaker 2: except for this one random guy at the end, and 398 00:20:06,640 --> 00:20:10,040 Speaker 2: he was literally in said I don't really know if 399 00:20:10,040 --> 00:20:11,440 Speaker 2: this is what I want. Some nice house, but I 400 00:20:11,480 --> 00:20:13,120 Speaker 2: don't really know if that's what I want, and then 401 00:20:13,160 --> 00:20:15,119 Speaker 2: he sort of left. She goes, so he's definitely not 402 00:20:15,160 --> 00:20:17,760 Speaker 2: going to be your buyer. And I'm like, kka, all right, 403 00:20:18,600 --> 00:20:20,639 Speaker 2: and she goes, but look, we'll talk when you come back. 404 00:20:20,720 --> 00:20:22,800 Speaker 2: Because by the time I got back from New Zealand, 405 00:20:23,359 --> 00:20:26,320 Speaker 2: the like there three months was going to be due, 406 00:20:26,400 --> 00:20:27,600 Speaker 2: and it was going to come to the end of 407 00:20:27,640 --> 00:20:31,119 Speaker 2: their sort of contract. And I think I'd put so 408 00:20:31,280 --> 00:20:35,960 Speaker 2: much pressure on myself to have this property sell because 409 00:20:36,280 --> 00:20:38,680 Speaker 2: the rest of my goals for the year was reliant 410 00:20:38,720 --> 00:20:42,320 Speaker 2: on it. So I was always putting, this has to work, 411 00:20:42,400 --> 00:20:43,840 Speaker 2: It has to work that you know, it has to 412 00:20:43,880 --> 00:20:47,160 Speaker 2: go for it, you know, put this amount of Yeah, 413 00:20:47,240 --> 00:20:49,159 Speaker 2: So I put pressure on myself. I put pressure from 414 00:20:49,160 --> 00:20:51,600 Speaker 2: the agent, and I sort of put all the pressure 415 00:20:51,680 --> 00:20:54,520 Speaker 2: on the agent to make it, like you make it happen, 416 00:20:55,040 --> 00:20:57,240 Speaker 2: and I sort of stepped away from it to make 417 00:20:58,119 --> 00:21:00,720 Speaker 2: sort of, you know, pass over the response ability of. 418 00:21:00,720 --> 00:21:02,679 Speaker 1: Maybe this happened. 419 00:21:02,680 --> 00:21:03,720 Speaker 3: And then when you. 420 00:21:03,640 --> 00:21:06,400 Speaker 2: And I spoke, and he said, when you come back 421 00:21:06,400 --> 00:21:08,920 Speaker 2: from New Zealand, just make sure you take a step 422 00:21:08,960 --> 00:21:11,720 Speaker 2: back and remember the reasons why why are you selling 423 00:21:12,119 --> 00:21:14,400 Speaker 2: the probably what is it going to manifest in your life? 424 00:21:14,440 --> 00:21:16,680 Speaker 2: Why are you wanting to manifest those goals in your life? 425 00:21:16,720 --> 00:21:19,600 Speaker 2: And just really take a step back and appreciate everything 426 00:21:19,600 --> 00:21:21,680 Speaker 2: that's sort of gone on anyway. 427 00:21:21,800 --> 00:21:23,919 Speaker 3: So I did that. When I came back from. 428 00:21:23,760 --> 00:21:27,119 Speaker 2: New Zealand, I spoke with a couple of agents and 429 00:21:27,160 --> 00:21:29,960 Speaker 2: I said look, it's coming up to the three months. 430 00:21:30,000 --> 00:21:31,080 Speaker 3: I'm just going to take a break. 431 00:21:31,119 --> 00:21:34,040 Speaker 2: I'm going to take it off the market and then 432 00:21:34,440 --> 00:21:38,600 Speaker 2: you know, put it on the market fresh. The day 433 00:21:38,840 --> 00:21:41,440 Speaker 2: the three months was up. With the real estate agent, 434 00:21:41,760 --> 00:21:44,960 Speaker 2: I get a phone call and she goes, so, do 435 00:21:44,960 --> 00:21:47,120 Speaker 2: you remember when you were in New Zealand And I'm 436 00:21:47,119 --> 00:21:49,520 Speaker 2: like yeah, And she goes, and that random guy that 437 00:21:49,600 --> 00:21:51,720 Speaker 2: came through the open home like right at the end 438 00:21:51,720 --> 00:21:53,439 Speaker 2: and said he wasn't really sure if that was the 439 00:21:53,560 --> 00:21:55,600 Speaker 2: house that he wanted them, well that sort of stuff, 440 00:21:56,160 --> 00:21:57,879 Speaker 2: and I said yeah, and she goes, well, he's offered 441 00:21:57,920 --> 00:22:01,280 Speaker 2: nine twenty for it and he can go. So he's preapproved, 442 00:22:01,320 --> 00:22:04,560 Speaker 2: he's got the cash ready to go. He's and it 443 00:22:04,560 --> 00:22:06,679 Speaker 2: was twenty thousand above what we thought we were going 444 00:22:06,760 --> 00:22:10,040 Speaker 2: to get for it. Wow, said any Kinning. And she goes, 445 00:22:10,160 --> 00:22:11,159 Speaker 2: I'm as dumbed as you. 446 00:22:11,200 --> 00:22:11,800 Speaker 3: I don't worry. 447 00:22:13,800 --> 00:22:15,879 Speaker 1: So I'm like, okay, well, well let's do this. 448 00:22:16,040 --> 00:22:18,119 Speaker 2: But then, so I've said that, I said, let's do 449 00:22:18,200 --> 00:22:20,000 Speaker 2: this and we'll put an eight week settlement on it. 450 00:22:20,680 --> 00:22:23,399 Speaker 2: But in the meantime, because my property have been on 451 00:22:23,440 --> 00:22:26,800 Speaker 2: the market for such a long time, well three months, 452 00:22:26,840 --> 00:22:28,919 Speaker 2: I mean it's not a really long time, but you 453 00:22:28,920 --> 00:22:32,439 Speaker 2: know scheme of things when you're trying to organize stuff 454 00:22:32,480 --> 00:22:34,800 Speaker 2: that the houses that I had found that I wanted 455 00:22:34,800 --> 00:22:36,480 Speaker 2: to buy had already. 456 00:22:36,320 --> 00:22:37,719 Speaker 3: Sold to They had all sold. 457 00:22:37,960 --> 00:22:42,159 Speaker 2: So I used AI. I used Chat GTP, and I go, right, 458 00:22:42,640 --> 00:22:43,879 Speaker 2: let's let's get a place. 459 00:22:44,040 --> 00:22:45,399 Speaker 3: I need a suburb. 460 00:22:45,480 --> 00:22:48,840 Speaker 2: I can't just keep going into real estate dot com 461 00:22:48,840 --> 00:22:52,280 Speaker 2: putting in regions. I need a suburb that I need 462 00:22:52,320 --> 00:22:56,600 Speaker 2: to focus on. So I put into Chat GTP. I 463 00:22:56,680 --> 00:22:59,359 Speaker 2: need cheap AI fromage within an hour's drive to the 464 00:22:59,400 --> 00:23:01,879 Speaker 2: Brisbane air Where can I buy? And he goes, oh, 465 00:23:01,920 --> 00:23:05,600 Speaker 2: Somerset Region. I was at Somerset Region. I've never even 466 00:23:05,680 --> 00:23:08,520 Speaker 2: heard of this place, so anyway, so I'll put that 467 00:23:08,560 --> 00:23:11,240 Speaker 2: into real estate dot com. And then all these suburbs 468 00:23:11,280 --> 00:23:14,760 Speaker 2: started popping up, and I found this one suburb that 469 00:23:14,800 --> 00:23:18,560 Speaker 2: I just instantly fell in love with, and I'm like, okay, right, 470 00:23:18,640 --> 00:23:21,239 Speaker 2: I'm going to start looking at houses here. So I 471 00:23:21,320 --> 00:23:23,960 Speaker 2: called a few of the agents and they said, look, 472 00:23:24,280 --> 00:23:26,960 Speaker 2: all these ones have sold. They've literally just sold. She goes, 473 00:23:27,000 --> 00:23:28,920 Speaker 2: it's such a sought up to area. And she goes, 474 00:23:28,960 --> 00:23:31,280 Speaker 2: but we do have properties coming up on the market 475 00:23:31,760 --> 00:23:33,720 Speaker 2: over the next couple of weeks, and I said, well, 476 00:23:33,760 --> 00:23:38,640 Speaker 2: I settle in eight. 477 00:23:37,160 --> 00:23:37,560 Speaker 3: I have a me. 478 00:23:40,600 --> 00:23:43,560 Speaker 2: Like youday, so I sort of need something. So then 479 00:23:44,720 --> 00:23:48,760 Speaker 2: one of their agents randomly called me on a Saturday afternoon. 480 00:23:48,800 --> 00:23:51,000 Speaker 2: I just had done a tip to the trip. I 481 00:23:51,080 --> 00:23:54,959 Speaker 2: tripped to the tip say that wrong, after, you know, 482 00:23:55,000 --> 00:23:57,959 Speaker 2: cleaning up my house getting ready for the sale. And 483 00:23:58,000 --> 00:23:59,640 Speaker 2: it was just a random call and she goes, look, 484 00:23:59,640 --> 00:24:02,199 Speaker 2: I know you you're looking for a place here and 485 00:24:02,240 --> 00:24:04,920 Speaker 2: she said it's not actually on the market. 486 00:24:04,960 --> 00:24:06,400 Speaker 3: And I'm like, oh, here we go. 487 00:24:07,000 --> 00:24:09,200 Speaker 2: And she says, but he doesn't want sort of random 488 00:24:09,240 --> 00:24:12,120 Speaker 2: people coming through. He's wanting to sell it because he's 489 00:24:12,160 --> 00:24:16,480 Speaker 2: had to move away for family. And she said, but 490 00:24:16,600 --> 00:24:18,680 Speaker 2: he really wants someone who's going to look after the property. 491 00:24:18,680 --> 00:24:20,560 Speaker 2: And we know how much you want to move out here, 492 00:24:20,680 --> 00:24:22,440 Speaker 2: So do you want to come out and have a 493 00:24:22,480 --> 00:24:25,960 Speaker 2: look at it on Tuesdays? This was Saturday, and I said, yeah, 494 00:24:26,000 --> 00:24:28,480 Speaker 2: that'll be fantastic. By this time, I had six weeks 495 00:24:28,760 --> 00:24:30,840 Speaker 2: six weeks left, so anyway, so I go out and 496 00:24:30,880 --> 00:24:33,639 Speaker 2: have a look at it and cannot let me telling 497 00:24:33,680 --> 00:24:37,000 Speaker 2: you I had put some of the most ridiculous things 498 00:24:37,040 --> 00:24:39,600 Speaker 2: to like to find in my threer be home, which 499 00:24:39,680 --> 00:24:42,919 Speaker 2: was to feel like nobody else was around me. I 500 00:24:43,000 --> 00:24:46,520 Speaker 2: wanted it to be at least five acres I needed. 501 00:24:46,640 --> 00:24:49,840 Speaker 2: I wanted it to be half of what I solved 502 00:24:49,960 --> 00:24:52,400 Speaker 2: my property for because I wanted to have my mortgage 503 00:24:52,400 --> 00:24:56,119 Speaker 2: because there were payments, you know, on one salary. 504 00:24:55,840 --> 00:24:58,080 Speaker 3: Was just killing, you know. 505 00:24:59,400 --> 00:25:02,000 Speaker 2: So I had all these things and I get out 506 00:25:02,040 --> 00:25:03,640 Speaker 2: here and it's ten acres. 507 00:25:03,880 --> 00:25:04,720 Speaker 3: You cannot see. 508 00:25:04,720 --> 00:25:08,160 Speaker 2: So the neighbor on one side is down a little 509 00:25:08,160 --> 00:25:10,280 Speaker 2: bit of a hill. See, you can't see that they're there. 510 00:25:11,000 --> 00:25:12,480 Speaker 2: I then have a bit of a dip in my 511 00:25:12,600 --> 00:25:16,320 Speaker 2: property and the other neighbor is all it's all bushland 512 00:25:16,880 --> 00:25:20,080 Speaker 2: on my side, so you can't see that they're there. 513 00:25:20,440 --> 00:25:23,439 Speaker 2: And then it goes half a ka back so you 514 00:25:23,480 --> 00:25:24,679 Speaker 2: can't see anyone at the. 515 00:25:24,680 --> 00:25:26,959 Speaker 3: Back eye that I'm like, oh my god, this is ridiculous. 516 00:25:27,920 --> 00:25:29,480 Speaker 1: Mom, like, hang on, how far is it. 517 00:25:29,400 --> 00:25:29,959 Speaker 3: To the airport? 518 00:25:30,000 --> 00:25:31,600 Speaker 2: So I've popped it into the airport and it was 519 00:25:31,600 --> 00:25:35,320 Speaker 2: an hour and twenty minutes. I'm like, I cannot believe it. 520 00:25:35,359 --> 00:25:37,919 Speaker 2: And I said, Okay, how much is he asking for? 521 00:25:38,119 --> 00:25:39,200 Speaker 2: She said five hundred. 522 00:25:39,840 --> 00:25:41,879 Speaker 1: Oh my goodness, that's everything. 523 00:25:42,160 --> 00:25:45,840 Speaker 2: Everything that I put on my affirmations on my vision 524 00:25:45,880 --> 00:25:48,359 Speaker 2: board is what the property was. So that's why I 525 00:25:48,400 --> 00:25:51,440 Speaker 2: had to wait. That's why the universe is sort of no, 526 00:25:51,480 --> 00:25:53,080 Speaker 2: he's not ready yet. He's not ready yet. 527 00:25:53,520 --> 00:25:57,119 Speaker 1: It's exactly this is all. There's something behind this. There's 528 00:25:57,400 --> 00:25:59,399 Speaker 1: the universe has a bigger, better plan for you, and 529 00:25:59,680 --> 00:26:03,000 Speaker 1: here here it is. And you had never done any 530 00:26:03,000 --> 00:26:05,200 Speaker 1: of this type of work before, previously. 531 00:26:04,800 --> 00:26:08,520 Speaker 3: Had you zero absolute zero? Because I had, so I have. 532 00:26:09,040 --> 00:26:11,120 Speaker 2: You can't see behind me, but I have a library 533 00:26:11,240 --> 00:26:12,359 Speaker 2: of books. 534 00:26:12,400 --> 00:26:13,360 Speaker 3: I love reading, so. 535 00:26:13,359 --> 00:26:18,119 Speaker 2: I do a lot of self empowerment reading in the 536 00:26:18,160 --> 00:26:23,119 Speaker 2: morning for leadership and mindset and growth and all of 537 00:26:23,119 --> 00:26:24,800 Speaker 2: that sort of stuff, And I thought that that was 538 00:26:24,880 --> 00:26:27,280 Speaker 2: the way to sort of achieve goals, which is it's 539 00:26:27,359 --> 00:26:32,159 Speaker 2: great for enhancing I don't know if personality is the 540 00:26:32,240 --> 00:26:35,520 Speaker 2: right word, but it's a great way for enhancing skills 541 00:26:35,560 --> 00:26:39,479 Speaker 2: with communication and you building relationships with people and all 542 00:26:39,520 --> 00:26:41,760 Speaker 2: those sorts of things. But when it comes to folks, 543 00:26:42,400 --> 00:26:45,760 Speaker 2: some of those books can be very can teach you 544 00:26:45,800 --> 00:26:49,360 Speaker 2: how to be external, so how to enhance your external 545 00:26:49,400 --> 00:26:54,040 Speaker 2: skills and you people, But manifesting is literally all about you. 546 00:26:54,040 --> 00:26:56,879 Speaker 2: You do not think about anybody else. Other than yourself 547 00:26:57,040 --> 00:27:00,080 Speaker 2: and what do you want most out of life and 548 00:27:00,200 --> 00:27:02,040 Speaker 2: what you want to create out of life? And it's 549 00:27:02,040 --> 00:27:06,399 Speaker 2: a really hard thing to do when you are a 550 00:27:06,440 --> 00:27:08,400 Speaker 2: lot of the times, so I've focused on others. 551 00:27:08,800 --> 00:27:13,760 Speaker 1: Yes, absolutely, it's an internal job, you know, manifestation work. 552 00:27:13,760 --> 00:27:18,200 Speaker 1: It's very and it's about working through some uncomfortable things 553 00:27:18,240 --> 00:27:22,160 Speaker 1: at times, and you know, it never stops. You're constantly 554 00:27:22,640 --> 00:27:28,520 Speaker 1: discovering new blocks or new limiting beliefs and deeply sitated 555 00:27:28,560 --> 00:27:30,960 Speaker 1: ones and working through them. Just when you think you've 556 00:27:31,000 --> 00:27:33,760 Speaker 1: cleared it pops some other mine. It just it's it's 557 00:27:33,800 --> 00:27:37,040 Speaker 1: never any but it's it is for me. It's my 558 00:27:37,240 --> 00:27:40,960 Speaker 1: most powerful source of growth and my most powerful sources 559 00:27:41,000 --> 00:27:45,639 Speaker 1: of resilience, I'd say as well, in helping deal with 560 00:27:45,680 --> 00:27:49,160 Speaker 1: all the external stuff that goes on in our world. 561 00:27:50,040 --> 00:27:55,399 Speaker 1: You know, it serves so many different purposes and you know, 562 00:27:55,560 --> 00:27:59,760 Speaker 1: beyond obviously manifesting wonderful things in our lives. So the 563 00:28:00,040 --> 00:28:02,320 Speaker 1: one I have to ask you there is And it's funny, 564 00:28:02,400 --> 00:28:04,040 Speaker 1: you know, you I feel like you and I because 565 00:28:04,040 --> 00:28:06,760 Speaker 1: we have these you know, group monthly zoom sessions with 566 00:28:06,800 --> 00:28:09,960 Speaker 1: everyone in the program and they're always recorded to the 567 00:28:10,119 --> 00:28:13,119 Speaker 1: other members who can't watch it live, but you know, 568 00:28:13,200 --> 00:28:15,720 Speaker 1: after and I share what I'm going through or what 569 00:28:15,760 --> 00:28:18,520 Speaker 1: blocks I've discovered, or what lessons I've learned, or what 570 00:28:18,720 --> 00:28:24,440 Speaker 1: you know, messages or wisdom I'm gaining. And when I 571 00:28:24,760 --> 00:28:28,639 Speaker 1: feel it, whenever someone steps up and shares something, it 572 00:28:28,720 --> 00:28:34,680 Speaker 1: almost breaks or cracks the block or what it's holding 573 00:28:34,720 --> 00:28:38,120 Speaker 1: someone else back. And you know, I've had certain blocks, 574 00:28:38,120 --> 00:28:40,120 Speaker 1: I think going why is this happening? And working so hard. 575 00:28:40,160 --> 00:28:43,080 Speaker 1: I'm trying so hard, it's just not happening. And then 576 00:28:43,120 --> 00:28:45,880 Speaker 1: you've shared on the group something that happened to you 577 00:28:45,920 --> 00:28:50,240 Speaker 1: and that's then been a catalyst to then shatter. Then 578 00:28:50,280 --> 00:28:52,440 Speaker 1: that's something that the block that was for me or 579 00:28:52,440 --> 00:28:54,600 Speaker 1: for someone else in the group, it's and that's why 580 00:28:54,640 --> 00:28:57,400 Speaker 1: I just love this programmers. You know, once you're in it, 581 00:28:57,480 --> 00:28:59,720 Speaker 1: that's it. You're part of it, and you can tune 582 00:28:59,720 --> 00:29:02,200 Speaker 1: in and contribute if you want, or you can just 583 00:29:02,200 --> 00:29:05,120 Speaker 1: sit on the sidelines and listen and watch. But it 584 00:29:05,200 --> 00:29:08,000 Speaker 1: is you know, the energy of it is quite powerful, 585 00:29:08,000 --> 00:29:10,960 Speaker 1: and that you you you're not just working on your 586 00:29:11,000 --> 00:29:14,400 Speaker 1: goal on your own and your your manifestation work on 587 00:29:14,400 --> 00:29:17,440 Speaker 1: your own. Everyone else is working with you and for 588 00:29:17,600 --> 00:29:21,040 Speaker 1: you and as a very very powerful community that just 589 00:29:21,200 --> 00:29:25,840 Speaker 1: magnifizing power, which is just I've kind of une used 590 00:29:25,840 --> 00:29:28,320 Speaker 1: the right words to explain what it feels like. But 591 00:29:28,400 --> 00:29:31,560 Speaker 1: it literally after I get off, you know, at those zoomfulls, 592 00:29:32,080 --> 00:29:36,560 Speaker 1: weird things happen and hearing someone else's stories is the 593 00:29:36,680 --> 00:29:38,600 Speaker 1: birth of the shift. 594 00:29:38,360 --> 00:29:39,000 Speaker 3: That I needed. 595 00:29:39,120 --> 00:29:43,160 Speaker 1: And so that ability to talk about it, about this stuff. 596 00:29:43,160 --> 00:29:44,960 Speaker 1: And you know, I sit back me in doing this 597 00:29:45,080 --> 00:29:47,280 Speaker 1: for years and years, ever since I was a little goal, 598 00:29:47,360 --> 00:29:49,040 Speaker 1: but I never spoke about it because I was really 599 00:29:49,080 --> 00:29:52,600 Speaker 1: embarrassed and I thought it was like that what I was, 600 00:29:52,960 --> 00:29:54,720 Speaker 1: the way I would think and the way i'd you know, 601 00:29:55,640 --> 00:29:59,120 Speaker 1: use my mindset and imagine things and visualize things and 602 00:29:59,680 --> 00:30:05,240 Speaker 1: you know, journal and scribble and doodle my dreams. And 603 00:30:06,160 --> 00:30:08,120 Speaker 1: only in the last couple of years I've actually really 604 00:30:08,160 --> 00:30:10,600 Speaker 1: started to feel comfortable letting my guard down and talking 605 00:30:10,680 --> 00:30:14,160 Speaker 1: about it. Because when you can find a community people 606 00:30:14,720 --> 00:30:17,200 Speaker 1: that are learning dislike and I don't prefer I'm not 607 00:30:17,240 --> 00:30:19,040 Speaker 1: an expert at all. I never say I am. I'm 608 00:30:19,120 --> 00:30:22,600 Speaker 1: just someone who's on the path, eager and motivated to 609 00:30:23,120 --> 00:30:26,160 Speaker 1: learn more and find my skills and share with everyone else. 610 00:30:26,240 --> 00:30:28,160 Speaker 1: But I'm learning and the mistakes I'm making so that 611 00:30:28,240 --> 00:30:31,840 Speaker 1: others don't make the same. I've completely forgotten about what 612 00:30:31,960 --> 00:30:34,640 Speaker 1: I was gonna ask you, But I guess what I 613 00:30:34,720 --> 00:30:37,240 Speaker 1: really want to lead into was, you know, the surrendering. 614 00:30:37,920 --> 00:30:42,040 Speaker 1: You know, you you real you know, we had this conversation. 615 00:30:42,120 --> 00:30:44,880 Speaker 1: I think we're both going through a similar block. Like 616 00:30:45,360 --> 00:30:47,520 Speaker 1: you know, I always say, don't have too many goals 617 00:30:47,560 --> 00:30:49,400 Speaker 1: going at the same time, because obviously you don't want 618 00:30:49,400 --> 00:30:52,280 Speaker 1: to spread yourself too thinly. But you had to all 619 00:30:52,280 --> 00:30:56,800 Speaker 1: almost like surrender to that goal at home whilst focusing 620 00:30:56,840 --> 00:31:00,960 Speaker 1: on you know, the marathon. Was that very hard for 621 00:31:01,040 --> 00:31:03,640 Speaker 1: you to do? And was that scary because you asked 622 00:31:03,680 --> 00:31:06,840 Speaker 1: someone who's very much about what's going on in the. 623 00:31:06,920 --> 00:31:11,480 Speaker 2: External, Yes, and to say it was scary because I 624 00:31:11,680 --> 00:31:15,040 Speaker 2: had set the rest of my goals dependent on that 625 00:31:15,400 --> 00:31:19,560 Speaker 2: house selling for a certain price, and then when nothing 626 00:31:19,720 --> 00:31:23,880 Speaker 2: was happening, like there was times like that that I 627 00:31:24,080 --> 00:31:24,960 Speaker 2: was because. 628 00:31:24,760 --> 00:31:25,960 Speaker 3: I'm in the real estate business. 629 00:31:26,000 --> 00:31:28,240 Speaker 2: You know, people would have fifteen twenty people showing up 630 00:31:28,280 --> 00:31:30,080 Speaker 2: through the open homes, and these people were having like 631 00:31:30,160 --> 00:31:31,800 Speaker 2: the handy people shopped in the open homes, and I 632 00:31:31,840 --> 00:31:34,480 Speaker 2: would have one or none boom. 633 00:31:34,320 --> 00:31:37,400 Speaker 3: And I was like, what have I What have I done? 634 00:31:37,560 --> 00:31:39,280 Speaker 3: I have I have done something. 635 00:31:39,360 --> 00:31:41,760 Speaker 2: I've put all the I've put so much hope on 636 00:31:41,960 --> 00:31:44,800 Speaker 2: this and energy on this. I'm going to end up 637 00:31:44,800 --> 00:31:49,120 Speaker 2: becoming depressed. Yeah, yeah, you know if it doesn't work 638 00:31:49,200 --> 00:31:53,600 Speaker 2: out and having When when we were talking about, you know, 639 00:31:53,720 --> 00:31:56,400 Speaker 2: surrendering to what's going on, so I could take just 640 00:31:56,640 --> 00:32:01,080 Speaker 2: to take a breath, I was like, Okay, is only April, 641 00:32:01,880 --> 00:32:04,720 Speaker 2: you know, And I had given my goals, you know, 642 00:32:04,760 --> 00:32:07,240 Speaker 2: my goals were set to the first of December. And 643 00:32:07,600 --> 00:32:10,560 Speaker 2: it's interesting that as you go through time, you do 644 00:32:10,720 --> 00:32:14,160 Speaker 2: have to keep reminding yourself it is only you know, 645 00:32:14,320 --> 00:32:17,560 Speaker 2: it's still only September. There's still you know, two months, 646 00:32:17,640 --> 00:32:19,960 Speaker 2: two and a half months for me to manifest you know, 647 00:32:20,040 --> 00:32:22,640 Speaker 2: the other goals that are that are happening. So I 648 00:32:22,760 --> 00:32:25,000 Speaker 2: was like, okay, it is only April. Let's just take 649 00:32:25,040 --> 00:32:28,640 Speaker 2: a break. And then I was when I started reading 650 00:32:28,680 --> 00:32:33,400 Speaker 2: out those affirmations every morning about what this property meant 651 00:32:33,440 --> 00:32:35,360 Speaker 2: to me, what I was truly looking for. 652 00:32:36,440 --> 00:32:37,840 Speaker 3: I was putting things up like. 653 00:32:37,920 --> 00:32:42,520 Speaker 2: I'm looking for peace, like I'm trying I'm finding peace, 654 00:32:43,400 --> 00:32:47,160 Speaker 2: and coming out to acreage in the middle of nowhere, 655 00:32:47,240 --> 00:32:50,840 Speaker 2: we hear rainforest birds first thing in the morning instead 656 00:32:50,840 --> 00:32:53,000 Speaker 2: of you know, ambulances and. 657 00:32:55,080 --> 00:32:59,600 Speaker 1: All that sort of stuff. You know, all those sorts 658 00:32:59,640 --> 00:32:59,920 Speaker 1: of things. 659 00:33:00,160 --> 00:33:02,680 Speaker 3: It was just it's just incredible. 660 00:33:02,720 --> 00:33:07,280 Speaker 2: But yeah, the surrender part and trusting the universe because 661 00:33:07,280 --> 00:33:09,240 Speaker 2: you want to to a point and then you're like, 662 00:33:09,320 --> 00:33:13,320 Speaker 2: I'm just I'm just gonna checking on you to make 663 00:33:13,360 --> 00:33:15,640 Speaker 2: sure Universe that you're doing what I asked you to. 664 00:33:17,160 --> 00:33:18,640 Speaker 2: It's really hard to sort of let go. 665 00:33:19,080 --> 00:33:23,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, Like the feeling is it's agitation for me because 666 00:33:24,160 --> 00:33:28,200 Speaker 1: you know, I'm doing the visualization. I have my vision board, 667 00:33:28,280 --> 00:33:31,320 Speaker 1: I have my affirmations. I get up in the first 668 00:33:31,320 --> 00:33:33,800 Speaker 1: thing in the morning when you know, my alarm goes 669 00:33:33,800 --> 00:33:36,400 Speaker 1: off for five is I I close my eyes, I 670 00:33:36,520 --> 00:33:39,800 Speaker 1: breathe into my goals and I watch myself in the 671 00:33:39,880 --> 00:33:42,240 Speaker 1: third person and in the first person. You know, So 672 00:33:42,400 --> 00:33:45,680 Speaker 1: then having to just go all right, well, maybe this 673 00:33:45,840 --> 00:33:47,440 Speaker 1: isn't meant for me, or maybe I just need to 674 00:33:47,560 --> 00:33:51,080 Speaker 1: just hand over my faith and trust in the universe. 675 00:33:51,960 --> 00:33:54,680 Speaker 1: But you know, and now someone with major trust issues, 676 00:33:55,200 --> 00:33:58,760 Speaker 1: it's it is, but you can't get to that point 677 00:33:58,760 --> 00:34:02,440 Speaker 1: where it's so agitated you have no other choice to go, 678 00:34:02,600 --> 00:34:05,600 Speaker 1: all right, I am sick to death of trying so 679 00:34:05,840 --> 00:34:10,960 Speaker 1: hard and making this goal happen. I am getting pissed off, angry, 680 00:34:11,080 --> 00:34:15,040 Speaker 1: and which is you know, an absolute repellent of success, 681 00:34:15,200 --> 00:34:18,120 Speaker 1: because you know, I always use that analogy of a butterfly. 682 00:34:18,200 --> 00:34:19,959 Speaker 1: If you want a butterfly to land on you can't 683 00:34:19,960 --> 00:34:23,000 Speaker 1: go aggressively chasing it your frighten it away. But if 684 00:34:23,000 --> 00:34:26,080 Speaker 1: you learn to sit and be calm and to create 685 00:34:26,160 --> 00:34:30,600 Speaker 1: the energy of you know, a relaxation and tranquility and harmony, 686 00:34:30,640 --> 00:34:33,239 Speaker 1: that butterflies more likely to fly around you and then 687 00:34:33,280 --> 00:34:36,200 Speaker 1: hopefully land on you. It was, you know, it was 688 00:34:36,640 --> 00:34:38,400 Speaker 1: for me. It was very hard to sort of with 689 00:34:38,560 --> 00:34:42,160 Speaker 1: some of my goals to really just just go all right, 690 00:34:42,719 --> 00:34:45,520 Speaker 1: there's obviously something better behind this. Here you go, I'm 691 00:34:45,560 --> 00:34:50,200 Speaker 1: handing over, show me what you've got. But in that 692 00:34:50,400 --> 00:34:54,360 Speaker 1: moment it's quite bizarre. The un goes. Finally you're listening, 693 00:34:54,719 --> 00:34:57,560 Speaker 1: all right, now we can do our things, will show 694 00:34:57,560 --> 00:35:01,480 Speaker 1: you actually what's better for you here, But it does. 695 00:35:02,000 --> 00:35:02,840 Speaker 3: It is hard to do. 696 00:35:02,960 --> 00:35:06,520 Speaker 1: It's easier said than done. So you've pretty much achieved 697 00:35:06,719 --> 00:35:08,480 Speaker 1: ninety percent of your goal. 698 00:35:08,800 --> 00:35:10,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, so now I'm at I've wrote a little summary 699 00:35:10,920 --> 00:35:15,440 Speaker 2: for you, so I had I now have a sharepot 700 00:35:15,560 --> 00:35:18,680 Speaker 2: vot share potfolio of value at eight eight hundred And 701 00:35:18,920 --> 00:35:21,279 Speaker 2: I know it's not a lot, right, But to me 702 00:35:21,400 --> 00:35:23,560 Speaker 2: I had nothing at the start of the zero zip 703 00:35:24,600 --> 00:35:26,440 Speaker 2: zero ballance, I would. 704 00:35:26,239 --> 00:35:29,040 Speaker 1: Say that's not much. It is it is a lot. 705 00:35:29,480 --> 00:35:31,080 Speaker 1: And if you think about from geving easy, is it 706 00:35:31,120 --> 00:35:33,640 Speaker 1: from zero to that in such a short period of time. 707 00:35:34,280 --> 00:35:36,200 Speaker 1: And also you've got to remember about and this is 708 00:35:36,239 --> 00:35:37,920 Speaker 1: why I like the idea of you're not having too 709 00:35:38,000 --> 00:35:40,239 Speaker 1: many goals is once you've ticked one goal off, you 710 00:35:40,640 --> 00:35:42,800 Speaker 1: now have an additional seat of five goals. And you 711 00:35:42,960 --> 00:35:45,600 Speaker 1: tick what off, You've now got an additional twenty percent 712 00:35:45,880 --> 00:35:48,080 Speaker 1: energy being freed up that you can then channel into 713 00:35:48,120 --> 00:35:50,880 Speaker 1: the remaining four goals. So you know, look at what 714 00:35:51,000 --> 00:35:53,480 Speaker 1: you've achieved now, and you know how many goals you've 715 00:35:53,520 --> 00:35:55,480 Speaker 1: kicked off your list. You can now put so much 716 00:35:55,520 --> 00:35:59,560 Speaker 1: indy into that sharepot follow plus you have a smaller mortgage. 717 00:36:00,840 --> 00:36:03,920 Speaker 2: It's incredible. And I've got what thirteen thousand in my 718 00:36:04,160 --> 00:36:08,960 Speaker 2: emergency savings account. The tickets for Greece and the accommodation 719 00:36:09,320 --> 00:36:12,280 Speaker 2: is all paid for with cash, nothing on credit cards. 720 00:36:14,360 --> 00:36:17,040 Speaker 2: When I tried to book in the marathon for Greece. 721 00:36:17,200 --> 00:36:21,480 Speaker 2: They it was sold out online, so I'm like, god no, 722 00:36:22,239 --> 00:36:25,160 Speaker 2: So I wrote a letter. I found every email in 723 00:36:25,320 --> 00:36:27,520 Speaker 2: Greek by the way I had to get everything translated. 724 00:36:27,640 --> 00:36:31,840 Speaker 2: I found every email I possibly could for organizers to 725 00:36:31,920 --> 00:36:33,800 Speaker 2: send them a letter to talk about how important it 726 00:36:33,920 --> 00:36:35,680 Speaker 2: was for me to do the marathon in Greece this year. 727 00:36:36,160 --> 00:36:38,480 Speaker 2: And I got a response saying it was so beautiful 728 00:36:38,640 --> 00:36:41,440 Speaker 2: at saying that you know, we've heard you and we'd 729 00:36:41,480 --> 00:36:45,279 Speaker 2: love to extend a late entry to you. It was 730 00:36:45,640 --> 00:36:48,480 Speaker 2: the most bizarre thing within two days. And then they go, 731 00:36:48,600 --> 00:36:51,280 Speaker 2: but you will need to pay a five is it euros? 732 00:36:51,280 --> 00:36:53,120 Speaker 1: Over there? Currectly? 733 00:36:55,120 --> 00:36:57,319 Speaker 3: I f yeah, five years. 734 00:36:57,320 --> 00:37:00,759 Speaker 2: I'll have to pay five euros as a penalty fee 735 00:37:00,760 --> 00:37:02,600 Speaker 2: because they have to manually print everything out. 736 00:37:02,640 --> 00:37:03,759 Speaker 3: I'm like it done, done. 737 00:37:03,840 --> 00:37:06,600 Speaker 2: I will pay the five dollar penalty, so that is 738 00:37:06,640 --> 00:37:09,239 Speaker 2: all locked and loaded. I then have five thousand and 739 00:37:09,400 --> 00:37:12,840 Speaker 2: a term deposit as like my little buffer there, and 740 00:37:12,920 --> 00:37:14,839 Speaker 2: then the rest of the cash I put in from 741 00:37:14,880 --> 00:37:18,520 Speaker 2: the sale I put into my company to get that 742 00:37:18,640 --> 00:37:23,480 Speaker 2: business off the ground. So two weeks after the property 743 00:37:23,760 --> 00:37:25,720 Speaker 2: settled and I moved into this one. Because it happens 744 00:37:25,719 --> 00:37:29,640 Speaker 2: a simultaneous leaders simultaneous mortgage. My mortgage would reduced down 745 00:37:29,680 --> 00:37:32,120 Speaker 2: from a balance of seven to fifty down to four 746 00:37:32,120 --> 00:37:36,719 Speaker 2: to fifty. And then two weeks after that, I resigned 747 00:37:36,719 --> 00:37:37,840 Speaker 2: and started my own business. 748 00:37:38,920 --> 00:37:43,000 Speaker 1: Okay, can we just talk about that for a second, like, Okay, 749 00:37:43,480 --> 00:37:46,520 Speaker 1: that's a massive goal, which should potentially take it being 750 00:37:46,560 --> 00:37:49,359 Speaker 1: the number one and only goal for the year. I mean, 751 00:37:49,400 --> 00:37:52,600 Speaker 1: you've achieved so but to throw that in the mix 752 00:37:52,680 --> 00:37:55,359 Speaker 1: as well, is you know so can there's a bit 753 00:37:55,400 --> 00:37:58,160 Speaker 1: of I guess manifestation magic behind that as well? Can 754 00:37:58,200 --> 00:38:00,600 Speaker 1: you just I know, we probably out of time, but 755 00:38:00,600 --> 00:38:04,080 Speaker 1: if you can quickly share with everyone you know the 756 00:38:04,160 --> 00:38:06,319 Speaker 1: story behind that, because that was quite freaky as well. 757 00:38:06,360 --> 00:38:09,040 Speaker 1: You had three different options if I remember correctly. 758 00:38:09,880 --> 00:38:11,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, so at the start of the year, so this 759 00:38:11,760 --> 00:38:14,279 Speaker 2: war this would have been about February March. I think 760 00:38:14,360 --> 00:38:17,600 Speaker 2: it was because I had put starting my own business 761 00:38:18,000 --> 00:38:20,320 Speaker 2: on as a goal and I had to write the 762 00:38:20,400 --> 00:38:23,399 Speaker 2: reasons why that was important to me, and the reason 763 00:38:23,400 --> 00:38:26,200 Speaker 2: why I wanted to start my own business was. It 764 00:38:26,320 --> 00:38:28,759 Speaker 2: wasn't because I don't enjoy what I was previously doing 765 00:38:28,880 --> 00:38:30,680 Speaker 2: as employment. I love that I've been doing it for 766 00:38:30,719 --> 00:38:34,680 Speaker 2: two decades now, but it was the I wanted to 767 00:38:34,760 --> 00:38:36,640 Speaker 2: be able to work from anywhere in the world at 768 00:38:36,640 --> 00:38:39,279 Speaker 2: any time, and I wanted the freedom to be able 769 00:38:39,320 --> 00:38:41,759 Speaker 2: to provide my clients with the best options that I 770 00:38:41,880 --> 00:38:44,520 Speaker 2: knew that I could not the best options. 771 00:38:44,560 --> 00:38:46,920 Speaker 3: You know that you know who I was working for 772 00:38:47,080 --> 00:38:47,520 Speaker 3: at the time. 773 00:38:47,880 --> 00:38:50,760 Speaker 2: And I'd listened all these things. After I had listened 774 00:38:50,760 --> 00:38:53,000 Speaker 2: to all the reasons why I wanted to start my 775 00:38:53,160 --> 00:38:57,919 Speaker 2: own finance company, I received three calls within a week 776 00:38:58,400 --> 00:38:59,200 Speaker 2: of job offers. 777 00:38:59,280 --> 00:39:01,400 Speaker 3: So I had at two promotions. 778 00:39:01,800 --> 00:39:04,680 Speaker 2: A promotion within my own company, and then I had 779 00:39:04,680 --> 00:39:07,240 Speaker 2: two external job offers. One was going to be paying 780 00:39:07,320 --> 00:39:10,839 Speaker 2: something like two hundred and fifty thousand, and another one 781 00:39:10,960 --> 00:39:14,879 Speaker 2: had said it was commission only, but the commissions, because 782 00:39:14,880 --> 00:39:17,920 Speaker 2: it was commercial dwellings, was between five hundred to a 783 00:39:18,000 --> 00:39:21,799 Speaker 2: milk the year. And I remember looking at these three 784 00:39:21,880 --> 00:39:23,920 Speaker 2: options because I've been doing it for twenty years and 785 00:39:23,920 --> 00:39:25,880 Speaker 2: I'm thirty five, right, So if I was going to 786 00:39:25,960 --> 00:39:29,160 Speaker 2: make a change, thirty five is a great time to 787 00:39:30,120 --> 00:39:31,520 Speaker 2: do it, because I've got the same sort of time 788 00:39:31,600 --> 00:39:34,520 Speaker 2: working in front of me that i have behind me, 789 00:39:34,640 --> 00:39:37,560 Speaker 2: you know. Yeah, And I said to you. 790 00:39:37,600 --> 00:39:39,880 Speaker 3: I said, I don't know what I think my actual 791 00:39:40,080 --> 00:39:43,040 Speaker 3: The subject in the email to you was I manifested 792 00:39:43,080 --> 00:39:46,000 Speaker 3: too hard the lot of these things. 793 00:39:46,000 --> 00:39:49,600 Speaker 1: That's the yes, exactly. Yes. 794 00:39:49,840 --> 00:39:51,600 Speaker 2: So when we were talking about it and you said 795 00:39:51,640 --> 00:39:55,040 Speaker 2: to me, have you just have to stay true to yourself. 796 00:39:55,520 --> 00:39:57,920 Speaker 2: So stay true to the reasons why you wanted to 797 00:39:58,040 --> 00:40:01,120 Speaker 2: make all these changes with stuff in your own business. 798 00:40:01,640 --> 00:40:04,759 Speaker 2: And when I took a part the roles that were 799 00:40:04,800 --> 00:40:08,560 Speaker 2: being offered for me. So one, I've showed gratitude for 800 00:40:08,880 --> 00:40:11,840 Speaker 2: the universe showing me my value because I think for 801 00:40:11,960 --> 00:40:14,560 Speaker 2: so long I have to I've got to ask permission 802 00:40:14,600 --> 00:40:15,239 Speaker 2: to get a pay rise. 803 00:40:15,239 --> 00:40:17,080 Speaker 3: I got to ask this, I've got to ask. So 804 00:40:17,200 --> 00:40:18,439 Speaker 3: that's it again. 805 00:40:18,480 --> 00:40:21,040 Speaker 2: You're very external when it comes to I need to, 806 00:40:21,440 --> 00:40:25,200 Speaker 2: you know, show well, ask someone for my value. 807 00:40:26,360 --> 00:40:29,160 Speaker 1: And then he's worthy of it. 808 00:40:29,640 --> 00:40:33,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, I've got to constantly show that I'm worthy. Justify 809 00:40:34,080 --> 00:40:36,120 Speaker 2: that's the word I'm looking for, thank you, So justify 810 00:40:36,200 --> 00:40:39,680 Speaker 2: my worthiness. Where the universe was going, You've already got 811 00:40:40,360 --> 00:40:43,000 Speaker 2: the you know, the skills and the education and the 812 00:40:43,080 --> 00:40:45,520 Speaker 2: talents I had. I did graduate the Master of Finance 813 00:40:45,560 --> 00:40:50,239 Speaker 2: in July as well, So that's all all done. So 814 00:40:50,440 --> 00:40:53,120 Speaker 2: it was it was almost like the universe goes what 815 00:40:53,320 --> 00:40:58,000 Speaker 2: was saying to me, Look, you do have the value. 816 00:40:58,080 --> 00:40:59,360 Speaker 3: This is your your true value. 817 00:40:59,440 --> 00:41:02,480 Speaker 2: So then and I showed gratitude for it, and I 818 00:41:02,640 --> 00:41:05,800 Speaker 2: dissected the roles, and I realized it wasn't really what 819 00:41:06,320 --> 00:41:09,320 Speaker 2: I wanted to do with each of those roles, and 820 00:41:09,440 --> 00:41:11,640 Speaker 2: I if I was going to choose one of them, 821 00:41:11,680 --> 00:41:14,200 Speaker 2: it would purely just be for the financial benefit for 822 00:41:14,360 --> 00:41:14,759 Speaker 2: that role. 823 00:41:14,840 --> 00:41:17,200 Speaker 3: And I decided that I wasn't going to keep. 824 00:41:17,160 --> 00:41:20,880 Speaker 2: Making decisions based on purely the financial benefit, because that's 825 00:41:20,880 --> 00:41:24,600 Speaker 2: what blocked me with the house. Yeah, I had to 826 00:41:24,640 --> 00:41:26,560 Speaker 2: break it down to the reasons why I wanted to 827 00:41:27,080 --> 00:41:31,279 Speaker 2: do this. So once I said no to all three 828 00:41:31,360 --> 00:41:34,000 Speaker 2: of those, but in such a way that I again 829 00:41:34,160 --> 00:41:37,120 Speaker 2: was showing gratitude for the for the offer of the 830 00:41:37,239 --> 00:41:40,480 Speaker 2: you know, being interviewed and the conversations and all of 831 00:41:40,520 --> 00:41:44,520 Speaker 2: those sorts of things. Those conversations then opened up so 832 00:41:44,680 --> 00:41:50,480 Speaker 2: many other doors to other connections to external businesses. So 833 00:41:50,640 --> 00:41:54,200 Speaker 2: it was it was insane. Then I was having my 834 00:41:54,480 --> 00:41:57,640 Speaker 2: own personal broku So know how much you love yours 835 00:41:57,640 --> 00:42:01,200 Speaker 2: as well, and mine is the same. They're just fantastic 836 00:42:01,280 --> 00:42:02,800 Speaker 2: people to chat to you sometimes. 837 00:42:03,320 --> 00:42:09,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, great mortgage broker. Find them. That's it, you know. 838 00:42:09,800 --> 00:42:12,279 Speaker 2: So then he was having conversations with mitigation. You know, 839 00:42:12,800 --> 00:42:14,600 Speaker 2: why't you just come away for me and all these 840 00:42:14,600 --> 00:42:16,440 Speaker 2: sorts of things, And then I was realizing, right eron, 841 00:42:16,520 --> 00:42:19,000 Speaker 2: you don't have to be so focused on the job 842 00:42:19,920 --> 00:42:23,200 Speaker 2: or the role or the title the thing that you 843 00:42:23,320 --> 00:42:26,200 Speaker 2: want to do. It's available for you to do once 844 00:42:26,280 --> 00:42:30,800 Speaker 2: you've manifested all these other goals that are going to 845 00:42:30,840 --> 00:42:34,200 Speaker 2: give you stability. So for me a house, one of 846 00:42:34,480 --> 00:42:37,360 Speaker 2: the reasons why I wanted my forever home was stability. 847 00:42:37,480 --> 00:42:40,440 Speaker 2: So I have moved twenty three times and I'm thirty five, 848 00:42:40,520 --> 00:42:42,200 Speaker 2: so a lot of it was when I was a kid, 849 00:42:42,320 --> 00:42:44,920 Speaker 2: but then as an adult renting, it's the house sold 850 00:42:45,040 --> 00:42:46,719 Speaker 2: to a person who was moving into it and you 851 00:42:46,800 --> 00:42:49,160 Speaker 2: had to get out and all that sort of stuff. 852 00:42:49,200 --> 00:42:51,400 Speaker 3: So to me, this was a huge stability thing, right. 853 00:42:52,880 --> 00:42:55,800 Speaker 2: So once I had got my stability, then I was like, 854 00:42:55,960 --> 00:42:59,880 Speaker 2: I can take the risk, which I know sounds bizarre, 855 00:43:00,480 --> 00:43:01,640 Speaker 2: but to me, I could that. 856 00:43:02,800 --> 00:43:05,160 Speaker 1: You know, sometimes people just you need to sort of 857 00:43:05,200 --> 00:43:08,920 Speaker 1: sit down some roots first to then have that confidence 858 00:43:09,480 --> 00:43:12,840 Speaker 1: to be able to then be fussy about something or 859 00:43:13,000 --> 00:43:14,560 Speaker 1: to say okay, all right, I've done that. Now I 860 00:43:14,600 --> 00:43:19,360 Speaker 1: can now be picky, you know, yeah, I don't completely. 861 00:43:20,320 --> 00:43:22,800 Speaker 2: Yeah. So now the funds that I have inside the 862 00:43:22,840 --> 00:43:26,680 Speaker 2: business now is is six months salary. So I've got 863 00:43:26,760 --> 00:43:30,040 Speaker 2: six months to to turn everything around. But I have 864 00:43:30,120 --> 00:43:32,359 Speaker 2: already had that. Many people reach out to me saying, 865 00:43:32,680 --> 00:43:34,560 Speaker 2: you can always come, you know it, always come for me, 866 00:43:34,800 --> 00:43:36,360 Speaker 2: you always come work for me, You can always come 867 00:43:36,440 --> 00:43:37,800 Speaker 2: work with me, and all that sort of stuff. 868 00:43:37,800 --> 00:43:38,200 Speaker 1: So I do. 869 00:43:38,920 --> 00:43:40,879 Speaker 2: That's almost like the universe is going, It's okay, I've 870 00:43:40,920 --> 00:43:43,560 Speaker 2: got you. If you're surrounded by support. 871 00:43:43,280 --> 00:43:47,000 Speaker 1: You know, you're acted, your loved you know, and you're 872 00:43:47,040 --> 00:43:50,960 Speaker 1: being the whole time. Yes, and we all have this, 873 00:43:51,040 --> 00:43:53,279 Speaker 1: but we've little learned to open our eyes and see it. 874 00:43:54,840 --> 00:43:58,680 Speaker 1: And once you once you see it, you can you 875 00:43:58,760 --> 00:43:59,879 Speaker 1: can see so much. 876 00:43:59,800 --> 00:44:00,360 Speaker 2: More of it. 877 00:44:00,800 --> 00:44:02,920 Speaker 1: And you can see that, you know, the messages and 878 00:44:03,080 --> 00:44:05,600 Speaker 1: the advice and the sign you know, I do. You know, 879 00:44:05,640 --> 00:44:08,800 Speaker 1: I have a whole chapter in the program about science, 880 00:44:09,120 --> 00:44:11,680 Speaker 1: you know, science to not do something in science, to 881 00:44:11,840 --> 00:44:14,319 Speaker 1: proceed on a head, or science to be very very careful, to. 882 00:44:15,000 --> 00:44:16,279 Speaker 3: Change direction, you know. 883 00:44:17,040 --> 00:44:20,719 Speaker 1: So, oh gosh, look what is left for you for 884 00:44:20,800 --> 00:44:23,840 Speaker 1: twenty and twenty four, And how do you feel about 885 00:44:24,600 --> 00:44:28,959 Speaker 1: from someone that started this year off with zero experience 886 00:44:29,719 --> 00:44:34,120 Speaker 1: for manifestation standing where you are stay with everything you've achieved. 887 00:44:35,440 --> 00:44:37,960 Speaker 2: Well, the only thing that I have left is to 888 00:44:38,040 --> 00:44:42,000 Speaker 2: manifest my dream partner. That's it. I have hit every 889 00:44:42,200 --> 00:44:47,560 Speaker 2: other goal. Everything else is already done. So I mean, 890 00:44:47,600 --> 00:44:50,160 Speaker 2: I think I was saying this on the last A 891 00:44:50,280 --> 00:44:53,919 Speaker 2: group catch up that we had. It's it's almost made 892 00:44:53,960 --> 00:44:56,839 Speaker 2: me feel like I have all my superpowers. That if 893 00:44:56,920 --> 00:45:01,800 Speaker 2: I if I truly believe in the reasons why I 894 00:45:02,360 --> 00:45:06,440 Speaker 2: want to manifest something into my life and show gratitude 895 00:45:06,480 --> 00:45:09,440 Speaker 2: for everything, It's amazing that after that gratitude session in 896 00:45:09,520 --> 00:45:14,760 Speaker 2: the course, I realized that I complained. I could always complain, 897 00:45:14,880 --> 00:45:18,279 Speaker 2: but I never show gratitude. So if I had got 898 00:45:18,360 --> 00:45:20,640 Speaker 2: bad service, I complained about the bad service. If I 899 00:45:20,719 --> 00:45:22,759 Speaker 2: got amazing service, I wouldn't take the time to do 900 00:45:22,800 --> 00:45:24,880 Speaker 2: a five star Google a bit, you know, I wouldn't 901 00:45:24,880 --> 00:45:26,680 Speaker 2: take the time to do that sort of gratitude stuff. 902 00:45:26,760 --> 00:45:29,719 Speaker 2: So I realized that with everything that I was hitting, 903 00:45:29,800 --> 00:45:32,040 Speaker 2: it didn't matter if I did a survey and it 904 00:45:32,239 --> 00:45:34,920 Speaker 2: only got me three dollars and sixteen cents towards my 905 00:45:35,200 --> 00:45:37,680 Speaker 2: next I show gratitude for it, and then the next 906 00:45:37,760 --> 00:45:40,000 Speaker 2: day I'd sell something on eBay for fifteen hundred. 907 00:45:40,239 --> 00:45:43,680 Speaker 1: You know, we appreciate appreciates like I know none for 908 00:45:43,760 --> 00:45:48,160 Speaker 1: you actually start doing it and having that consciousness to go, oh, 909 00:45:48,239 --> 00:45:51,040 Speaker 1: hang on, say gratitude, take a moment, say thank you. 910 00:45:51,480 --> 00:45:54,280 Speaker 1: Even when I try and teach my kids with the parking. 911 00:45:54,960 --> 00:45:56,960 Speaker 1: You know, whenever we're going somewhere and we get a 912 00:45:57,120 --> 00:46:00,520 Speaker 1: great parking spot as a reverse park me to it on. 913 00:46:00,800 --> 00:46:03,239 Speaker 1: I said to the kids, everyone, say thank you to 914 00:46:03,360 --> 00:46:06,640 Speaker 1: the parking fairies for giving us this amazing parking spot. 915 00:46:06,840 --> 00:46:11,480 Speaker 1: Like how lucky are we? Like constantly like so important 916 00:46:11,520 --> 00:46:16,359 Speaker 1: because we always get rock style parking. It's so good 917 00:46:17,360 --> 00:46:20,239 Speaker 1: because I'm often like ferrying three kids around in three 918 00:46:20,239 --> 00:46:23,439 Speaker 1: different directions and sometimes with three dogs in the boot. 919 00:46:24,239 --> 00:46:25,280 Speaker 2: I have to drive everywhere. 920 00:46:25,320 --> 00:46:29,080 Speaker 1: I can't catch public tress, so you know, parking instead 921 00:46:29,640 --> 00:46:33,719 Speaker 1: is tight and tough. But I always I always get 922 00:46:33,760 --> 00:46:37,080 Speaker 1: a parking spot, and I always get an amazing I 923 00:46:37,400 --> 00:46:40,320 Speaker 1: love that. But I always consciously I'm like, thank you 924 00:46:40,520 --> 00:46:44,200 Speaker 1: parking fairies, thank you parking gods and angels. I can 925 00:46:44,760 --> 00:46:49,440 Speaker 1: whenever something happens, you know it doesn't happen that it 926 00:46:49,520 --> 00:46:51,640 Speaker 1: should have happened, And I'm like, thank you so much 927 00:46:51,680 --> 00:46:54,719 Speaker 1: for protecting me from this, thank you for making this 928 00:46:54,880 --> 00:46:58,720 Speaker 1: actually work out for the better. I'm so grateful for listening. 929 00:46:58,719 --> 00:47:01,319 Speaker 1: I'm so grateful for this, you know, message being here 930 00:47:01,400 --> 00:47:03,840 Speaker 1: or this wisdom that came to me. Like it's but 931 00:47:04,120 --> 00:47:07,239 Speaker 1: it's weird the moment you start doing it, it's like 932 00:47:07,360 --> 00:47:10,560 Speaker 1: you it's like the sky opens up and things just 933 00:47:10,640 --> 00:47:13,840 Speaker 1: get bigger and better. And you know, that's why I 934 00:47:13,840 --> 00:47:15,440 Speaker 1: think I always get a great package, sport a lot 935 00:47:15,440 --> 00:47:17,279 Speaker 1: of work and jinx myself now. 936 00:47:17,560 --> 00:47:20,160 Speaker 2: But you know, but it's so true because you know, 937 00:47:20,239 --> 00:47:23,560 Speaker 2: when we were talking about different ways of money being manifested, 938 00:47:23,640 --> 00:47:26,240 Speaker 2: it doesn't even necessarily have to be cash in your pocket. 939 00:47:26,320 --> 00:47:28,879 Speaker 2: It could be cash stayed. So if I've run out 940 00:47:28,920 --> 00:47:31,160 Speaker 2: of something and I put it on my shopping list 941 00:47:31,200 --> 00:47:32,839 Speaker 2: that I need to go and get it, and then 942 00:47:32,880 --> 00:47:35,400 Speaker 2: I get there and it's on special, you know what 943 00:47:35,480 --> 00:47:37,600 Speaker 2: I mean, Like, what are the chances of the week 944 00:47:37,640 --> 00:47:40,120 Speaker 2: that I really needed something that that's the week that 945 00:47:40,200 --> 00:47:44,200 Speaker 2: it's half priced? You know, say, I always show gratitude 946 00:47:44,239 --> 00:47:46,440 Speaker 2: for the you know, those sorts of things as well. 947 00:47:46,640 --> 00:47:49,480 Speaker 1: You know, it's so funny you say that because my 948 00:47:49,640 --> 00:47:52,480 Speaker 1: hair is well, what was I should say, it wasn't 949 00:47:52,640 --> 00:47:57,400 Speaker 1: quite badly damaged, just you know, from just beating in 950 00:47:57,440 --> 00:47:59,960 Speaker 1: the ocean so much and you know, leech and so far. 951 00:48:01,000 --> 00:48:04,279 Speaker 1: And a hairdresser was saying to me, you really really 952 00:48:04,440 --> 00:48:06,880 Speaker 1: need to go and get a treatment, like a propost 953 00:48:07,000 --> 00:48:10,400 Speaker 1: insolent treatment. I was thinking, oh god, you know, I 954 00:48:10,440 --> 00:48:13,160 Speaker 1: looked them up online and it is insel On treatments. 955 00:48:13,200 --> 00:48:14,719 Speaker 1: But just because you couldn't just turn them to get 956 00:48:14,719 --> 00:48:16,960 Speaker 1: a treatment, to get like a cut and a blow 957 00:48:17,040 --> 00:48:18,560 Speaker 1: dry and all these things, and it was, you know, 958 00:48:18,640 --> 00:48:21,040 Speaker 1: approaching one hundred and eighty dollars, I thought, oh gosh. 959 00:48:21,520 --> 00:48:24,240 Speaker 1: I was like, look, I trust the advice of this person. 960 00:48:24,360 --> 00:48:26,799 Speaker 1: I know I needed treatment. I know my hair will 961 00:48:26,840 --> 00:48:30,680 Speaker 1: thank me for it. Anyway, two days later, I mean 962 00:48:30,920 --> 00:48:34,440 Speaker 1: not even two days later. That afternoon, I'm in supermarket 963 00:48:35,480 --> 00:48:37,480 Speaker 1: and Wilways had this massive thing up and it was 964 00:48:37,520 --> 00:48:42,200 Speaker 1: this exact treatment that the that the headdresses had been 965 00:48:42,200 --> 00:48:44,399 Speaker 1: saying to me, you should really do it. That wasn't 966 00:48:44,440 --> 00:48:47,080 Speaker 1: the same brand, It was the same ingredient and it 967 00:48:47,200 --> 00:48:50,600 Speaker 1: was half price, and I was able to buy the sampoo, 968 00:48:50,680 --> 00:48:54,320 Speaker 1: the conditioner, and the special sort of treatment. It was 969 00:48:54,480 --> 00:48:58,400 Speaker 1: something like twelve dollars and I was like, this is 970 00:48:58,440 --> 00:49:00,680 Speaker 1: either it's going to be full of nasty caracals and 971 00:49:01,280 --> 00:49:02,920 Speaker 1: you know, all only fixed my hair for like a 972 00:49:02,960 --> 00:49:08,359 Speaker 1: hot second. Anyway, it was brilliant, and ironically I went 973 00:49:08,440 --> 00:49:11,560 Speaker 1: to then go and get you know, the expensive treatment 974 00:49:11,640 --> 00:49:14,640 Speaker 1: and with this new hairdresser, and they're like, you generally 975 00:49:14,680 --> 00:49:16,600 Speaker 1: need to treat me. Your hair is actually perfectly I 976 00:49:16,680 --> 00:49:19,279 Speaker 1: mean it need to trim because it's got splilares. We 977 00:49:19,400 --> 00:49:22,080 Speaker 1: actually don't really needed treatment at all. What are you doing? 978 00:49:22,200 --> 00:49:22,359 Speaker 3: Yeah? 979 00:49:22,360 --> 00:49:25,440 Speaker 1: I was like wow, you know, and I was like, 980 00:49:25,520 --> 00:49:28,200 Speaker 1: oh my gosh, thank you Universe, because it actually, I 981 00:49:28,239 --> 00:49:30,240 Speaker 1: will admit it did it. She allowed me to delay 982 00:49:30,360 --> 00:49:33,320 Speaker 1: the appointment, but I was like, this is just weird. 983 00:49:33,560 --> 00:49:35,560 Speaker 1: And now I'm like, I don't need to go and 984 00:49:35,600 --> 00:49:39,280 Speaker 1: book in treatments. I can use you know. The blessing 985 00:49:39,440 --> 00:49:42,800 Speaker 1: of it was weird. It was literally it just this 986 00:49:43,080 --> 00:49:46,640 Speaker 1: massive stand. It was like this, you know, there was 987 00:49:46,800 --> 00:49:48,400 Speaker 1: music in the air. As I looked at it, I 988 00:49:48,480 --> 00:49:50,719 Speaker 1: was like, wow, oh my god, that's freaky. That's the 989 00:49:50,800 --> 00:49:52,600 Speaker 1: exact ingredient. 990 00:49:52,239 --> 00:49:54,160 Speaker 2: That this person was just talking to me about So 991 00:49:54,400 --> 00:49:57,719 Speaker 2: that's funny. You almost picture the universe going, you've worked 992 00:49:57,760 --> 00:50:00,320 Speaker 2: so hard this year, here's a little treat and for 993 00:50:00,400 --> 00:50:04,120 Speaker 2: twelve dollars, let exactly, let me help you catch a break. 994 00:50:05,880 --> 00:50:09,240 Speaker 1: So and like it's they're little. They may seem silly 995 00:50:09,320 --> 00:50:12,759 Speaker 1: to people, but that's the thing is from that silly 996 00:50:12,800 --> 00:50:17,719 Speaker 1: little moment, something even bigger comes from that. But because 997 00:50:17,800 --> 00:50:21,680 Speaker 1: you've shot, stopped and taken a press pause to acknowledge 998 00:50:21,719 --> 00:50:25,879 Speaker 1: that and to say thank you, that's where something even 999 00:50:25,960 --> 00:50:29,840 Speaker 1: bigger is born from. So yeah, that's you know, and 1000 00:50:30,040 --> 00:50:35,839 Speaker 1: grateful people I think are generally happier people one hundred percent. 1001 00:50:35,880 --> 00:50:38,080 Speaker 2: Because as soon as I started, you know, as soon 1002 00:50:38,120 --> 00:50:41,200 Speaker 2: as that realization came to me, I started doing you know, 1003 00:50:41,320 --> 00:50:43,880 Speaker 2: five star reviews and all those sorts of things with 1004 00:50:43,960 --> 00:50:46,480 Speaker 2: the real estate agent that found me this house. When 1005 00:50:46,520 --> 00:50:50,520 Speaker 2: I negotiated on this place, and I'll put the offer 1006 00:50:50,600 --> 00:50:53,040 Speaker 2: in for the for the five hundred, and the real 1007 00:50:53,120 --> 00:50:56,520 Speaker 2: estate agent because she knew how desperate, but how much 1008 00:50:56,600 --> 00:50:57,239 Speaker 2: I you know. 1009 00:50:57,960 --> 00:51:02,239 Speaker 1: How imposia it's like there is by you. I can't 1010 00:51:02,280 --> 00:51:02,840 Speaker 1: say desperate. 1011 00:51:03,000 --> 00:51:05,399 Speaker 3: That's right, that's right, that's an a naughty word. 1012 00:51:05,640 --> 00:51:08,399 Speaker 1: Passnate you are about flying and you're right the right hope, 1013 00:51:09,360 --> 00:51:09,960 Speaker 1: that's right. 1014 00:51:12,120 --> 00:51:12,520 Speaker 3: Exactly. 1015 00:51:12,600 --> 00:51:15,240 Speaker 2: Well, she had it organized for me within forty eight minutes. 1016 00:51:15,560 --> 00:51:17,359 Speaker 2: In forty eight minutes, I got the call to say 1017 00:51:17,400 --> 00:51:20,280 Speaker 2: that it was the place was mine. So I'm like, okay, 1018 00:51:20,560 --> 00:51:24,080 Speaker 2: erin show gratitude. What does a real estate agent need? 1019 00:51:24,320 --> 00:51:26,239 Speaker 2: They need word of mouth business. What's the best way 1020 00:51:26,280 --> 00:51:27,560 Speaker 2: for me to do a word of mouth is for 1021 00:51:27,640 --> 00:51:30,879 Speaker 2: me to do a Rebut she calls me still now 1022 00:51:31,520 --> 00:51:33,359 Speaker 2: every couple of weeks, Hey, how you going? 1023 00:51:33,480 --> 00:51:34,319 Speaker 3: You know how things going. 1024 00:51:34,400 --> 00:51:35,800 Speaker 2: I can't wait to have wines with you on the 1025 00:51:36,640 --> 00:51:38,680 Speaker 2: by the pool and all that sort of stuff. So 1026 00:51:38,840 --> 00:51:41,480 Speaker 2: it's it's incredible that the doors. I could have just 1027 00:51:41,600 --> 00:51:44,960 Speaker 2: let it go and said thank you in person, you know, 1028 00:51:45,160 --> 00:51:47,839 Speaker 2: but I think you when you go that extra mile 1029 00:51:47,960 --> 00:51:51,840 Speaker 2: to show gratitude, because gratitude isn't just saying thank you, 1030 00:51:51,960 --> 00:51:55,080 Speaker 2: it's a demonstration of thanks, I think when it's there, 1031 00:51:55,719 --> 00:52:00,000 Speaker 2: you know, with the gratitude. So so yeah, it was incredible. 1032 00:52:00,080 --> 00:52:02,320 Speaker 2: So yeah, so one goal left, one goal left for 1033 00:52:02,360 --> 00:52:03,680 Speaker 2: the whole year, and this is the goal that I 1034 00:52:03,840 --> 00:52:06,560 Speaker 2: hate doing. So I've got to unblock a lot of 1035 00:52:07,239 --> 00:52:09,719 Speaker 2: my own self doubt and fears with this one, which 1036 00:52:09,719 --> 00:52:12,200 Speaker 2: is probably why I put it off to the last goal. 1037 00:52:13,320 --> 00:52:14,920 Speaker 1: I actually you put it off. I'd say that you 1038 00:52:15,000 --> 00:52:15,239 Speaker 1: had to. 1039 00:52:15,520 --> 00:52:15,960 Speaker 3: You had to. 1040 00:52:16,160 --> 00:52:19,080 Speaker 1: Clear everything else around you so that you could dedicate 1041 00:52:19,440 --> 00:52:24,520 Speaker 1: yourself and give this lovest goal of yours everything you've 1042 00:52:24,560 --> 00:52:29,439 Speaker 1: got without any distractions, you know, and you can hone 1043 00:52:29,440 --> 00:52:35,080 Speaker 1: in on now and enjoy and enjoy. It's this next 1044 00:52:36,000 --> 00:52:40,759 Speaker 1: journey adventure. In fact, yes, someone to you know that 1045 00:52:40,840 --> 00:52:42,279 Speaker 1: you want to be with and they want to be 1046 00:52:42,440 --> 00:52:46,719 Speaker 1: you know, this beautiful person. Let's see. 1047 00:52:46,760 --> 00:52:49,600 Speaker 2: So I've got to write more affirmations now. It's just 1048 00:52:49,680 --> 00:52:53,000 Speaker 2: a constant cycle of writing affirmation because that I have to. 1049 00:52:53,160 --> 00:53:01,320 Speaker 1: I am a ruining it already. Well, And look, I 1050 00:53:01,400 --> 00:53:03,719 Speaker 1: can't thank you not for coming on today's episode and 1051 00:53:04,160 --> 00:53:07,400 Speaker 1: for sharing all your successes. I know for myself personally 1052 00:53:07,400 --> 00:53:10,120 Speaker 1: how much you inspired me and helped me clear my 1053 00:53:10,200 --> 00:53:13,320 Speaker 1: own blocks. And I've been very open and transparent with 1054 00:53:13,360 --> 00:53:15,799 Speaker 1: everyone in the group. You know about where I've hit 1055 00:53:15,920 --> 00:53:19,600 Speaker 1: walls and frustrations and so and I know you have 1056 00:53:19,680 --> 00:53:22,759 Speaker 1: been instrumental on helping me work through my stuff and 1057 00:53:23,640 --> 00:53:26,680 Speaker 1: you know we've very similar things as well. So thank 1058 00:53:26,760 --> 00:53:28,320 Speaker 1: you so much. Not just for coming out today, but 1059 00:53:28,320 --> 00:53:31,239 Speaker 1: also being part of this community and bring anyone else 1060 00:53:31,320 --> 00:53:33,120 Speaker 1: listening to this and thinks, okay, well, I want to 1061 00:53:33,200 --> 00:53:35,279 Speaker 1: join in and be on this community, and I want 1062 00:53:35,320 --> 00:53:37,719 Speaker 1: to do the program that kind have spoken about and 1063 00:53:38,200 --> 00:53:40,719 Speaker 1: learn how to set great goals and how to set 1064 00:53:40,760 --> 00:53:42,920 Speaker 1: the right types of goals and understand my goals and 1065 00:53:43,360 --> 00:53:48,000 Speaker 1: then use my mindset to help manifest those goals into reality, 1066 00:53:48,040 --> 00:53:50,720 Speaker 1: so they're not just floating in your head. They're actually 1067 00:53:50,840 --> 00:53:55,800 Speaker 1: something that you can see, touch, feel, even taste. You know, 1068 00:53:56,280 --> 00:53:58,640 Speaker 1: this is what I love talking about, and not just 1069 00:53:58,800 --> 00:54:02,160 Speaker 1: obviously the facts, is the laws of the legislation of taxes, 1070 00:54:02,880 --> 00:54:06,759 Speaker 1: actually about using the power of your mindset and creativity 1071 00:54:06,960 --> 00:54:10,480 Speaker 1: and passion and drive and just really opening yourself up 1072 00:54:10,480 --> 00:54:12,960 Speaker 1: to the magic and miracles that can happen around us. 1073 00:54:13,040 --> 00:54:15,960 Speaker 1: So I will make sure it is the course program 1074 00:54:16,160 --> 00:54:18,359 Speaker 1: is linked in the podcast notes for anyone who wants 1075 00:54:18,400 --> 00:54:21,000 Speaker 1: to sign up. I'm literally they have kept it closed 1076 00:54:21,040 --> 00:54:23,440 Speaker 1: for the last three or four months, and I'm now 1077 00:54:23,480 --> 00:54:25,399 Speaker 1: ready to welcome new members into the group. 1078 00:54:25,560 --> 00:54:29,680 Speaker 2: So and remember, taking it from someone who wasn't a believer, 1079 00:54:30,920 --> 00:54:34,520 Speaker 2: he was not a believer, My life has completely changed, 1080 00:54:35,080 --> 00:54:37,600 Speaker 2: completely changed. Yeah, So I know the universe sent you 1081 00:54:37,719 --> 00:54:40,960 Speaker 2: into my life, Kenna, because everything that's just my life 1082 00:54:41,040 --> 00:54:44,800 Speaker 2: has just completely different. In less than nine months, my 1083 00:54:44,920 --> 00:54:46,680 Speaker 2: life has sience three six one eight. 1084 00:54:47,480 --> 00:54:49,080 Speaker 3: So I can't I can't thank you enough. 1085 00:54:50,320 --> 00:54:53,319 Speaker 1: I can't thank you enough. So there's equal gratitude going 1086 00:54:53,360 --> 00:54:56,640 Speaker 1: on here because you know, and from anyone who's in 1087 00:54:56,719 --> 00:54:58,800 Speaker 1: the program, because you go back and watch our recordings, 1088 00:54:59,239 --> 00:55:02,200 Speaker 1: our group catch where I open up and talk about stuff, 1089 00:55:03,480 --> 00:55:06,000 Speaker 1: and you can see exactly what we're talking about and 1090 00:55:06,040 --> 00:55:09,160 Speaker 1: how we help each other. All right, Well, look, Aaron, 1091 00:55:09,239 --> 00:55:10,880 Speaker 1: thank you so much for your time, and thank you 1092 00:55:10,920 --> 00:55:14,040 Speaker 1: for all the listeners. You could leave it a rating 1093 00:55:14,120 --> 00:55:18,399 Speaker 1: and a review, just like Google reviews are important. Rating 1094 00:55:18,440 --> 00:55:21,719 Speaker 1: and reviews on my podcast equally is important, and I'm 1095 00:55:22,880 --> 00:55:25,440 Speaker 1: estentially grateful for anyone who takes the time to do that. 1096 00:55:25,600 --> 00:55:28,080 Speaker 1: So al right, everyone, thank you so much for listening. 1097 00:55:28,600 --> 00:55:31,440 Speaker 1: I will see you next Monday morning at FI. I 1098 00:55:31,520 --> 00:55:34,239 Speaker 1: am on Sugar Mama's Fireplate Chawfin Out