WEBVTT - Is It Acceptable To PEE In The Shower? 0:00:00.520 --> 0:00:05.960 We get you the morning every day, every lady, gentlemen, adelaides, 0:00:07.240 --> 0:00:08.039 it's time for shower. 0:00:09.400 --> 0:00:15.080 It's professional, it's strictly professional setting radios, and it's somewhat 0:00:15.240 --> 0:00:18.960 of a health warning. Okay, So here's the deal. When 0:00:19.000 --> 0:00:21.119 you get in the shower, is there something that you 0:00:21.200 --> 0:00:23.079 do that perhaps you shouldn't do, Perhaps you should do 0:00:23.079 --> 0:00:24.920 it in the toilet, you know what I mean. I'll 0:00:24.960 --> 0:00:26.640 put this out there as well. Thirteen to twenty four 0:00:26.720 --> 0:00:29.320 ten do you do a Wii when you're in the shower? 0:00:29.560 --> 0:00:30.360 Are you asking me? 0:00:30.600 --> 0:00:30.840 Yes? 0:00:30.920 --> 0:00:34.479 And as I say, a lady never tells, and I'm 0:00:34.520 --> 0:00:37.280 nodding my head curious. 0:00:37.320 --> 0:00:40.400 You don't have to weep like that. So what you 0:00:40.400 --> 0:00:42.360 do in the showers completely your business. I understand that 0:00:42.360 --> 0:00:44.040 there's one thing the experts keep on saying that you 0:00:44.040 --> 0:00:46.440 shouldn't do, and that is taking a bit of a whip. 0:00:46.960 --> 0:00:50.199 So here's the thing. What they're saying is that ladies 0:00:50.400 --> 0:00:53.120 in particular, oh, you are training your bladder that it's 0:00:53.200 --> 0:00:56.560 okay to empty while standing, don't do it because this 0:00:56.600 --> 0:01:00.360 could cause bladder leaking. It's easy for the guys, isn't it. 0:01:00.560 --> 0:01:03.120 You naturally are standing up generally, but also it's pouring 0:01:03.120 --> 0:01:05.640 that direction. I have said that when my partner and 0:01:05.720 --> 0:01:08.720 I have been in a joint shower situation and I 0:01:08.840 --> 0:01:10.640 need to use the restroom and said, but I won't 0:01:10.680 --> 0:01:12.200 do it in here because. 0:01:11.920 --> 0:01:14.160 I can't control the direction? Should it mate go? And 0:01:14.160 --> 0:01:15.440 I don't want to do it on your little. 0:01:15.840 --> 0:01:19.279 Yeah, isn't. But also you don't want to weak bladder 0:01:19.280 --> 0:01:19.800 in the future. 0:01:19.920 --> 0:01:21.280 Well, I didn't know I was going to have one 0:01:21.360 --> 0:01:23.559 until now. That explains a lot of things. 0:01:23.680 --> 0:01:25.720 One, it's not very hygienic. More important than that, it 0:01:25.760 --> 0:01:28.760 will destroy your pelvic floor. It also might create mental 0:01:28.800 --> 0:01:31.200 associations where you hear water running and all of a 0:01:31.200 --> 0:01:33.880 sudden you need to run to the bathroom. Since the 0:01:33.959 --> 0:01:37.080 pelvis and spine muscles are most relaxed when sitting, sitting 0:01:37.120 --> 0:01:39.320 is probably the most efficient way of doing it. 0:01:39.440 --> 0:01:41.800 Do you know every night when I sleep, I play 0:01:41.840 --> 0:01:44.399 the sounds of range so running water and I have 0:01:44.440 --> 0:01:45.880 to go to the bathroom every night. 0:01:46.520 --> 0:01:47.280 Then you crack the. 0:01:47.200 --> 0:01:49.920 Code, how are we feeling right now? So let me 0:01:49.960 --> 0:01:50.720 turn that off? 0:01:51.480 --> 0:01:54.120 Augod that's better. But where do we sit on number twos? 0:01:54.880 --> 0:01:57.600 That's a completely separate conversation which we're not prepared to 0:01:57.600 --> 0:02:01.400 have on over nine by nine you're sick. Maybe you're 0:02:01.400 --> 0:02:03.400 heading off to the gym right now, Tiff warn you're 0:02:03.400 --> 0:02:05.200 a bit of a gym going get yourself a personal trainer. 0:02:05.200 --> 0:02:07.240 As for me, yeah, shout out to brief Fit God 0:02:07.280 --> 0:02:08.359 bless her good stuff. 0:02:09.560 --> 0:02:11.919 I am a gym junkie. Not at this hour though, 0:02:12.040 --> 0:02:12.440 mind you. 0:02:12.560 --> 0:02:13.920 Yeah, you need to wait for the sun to come up. 0:02:13.960 --> 0:02:15.480 And you never bet to someone who comes to the gym. 0:02:15.480 --> 0:02:16.640 Birds wake me chirping. 0:02:16.800 --> 0:02:18.880 Can I ask you as well? What do you wear 0:02:18.919 --> 0:02:23.480 to the gym and how revealing is it and is 0:02:23.520 --> 0:02:24.680 it inappropriate at all? 0:02:24.760 --> 0:02:26.440 Do you think we're a full body of wet suit 0:02:26.560 --> 0:02:28.200 so no one can get distracted. 0:02:28.280 --> 0:02:31.840 That's inappropriate in a different way because it's very distracting. 0:02:31.960 --> 0:02:35.080 So I'm a three quarter legging kind of gal, which 0:02:35.080 --> 0:02:36.639 a lot of people tease me for. But I don't 0:02:36.720 --> 0:02:39.680 like a full leg legging because I feel claustrophobic. Yes, okay, 0:02:39.720 --> 0:02:41.600 mind you, we're too short or short and if I'm 0:02:41.600 --> 0:02:43.959 bending and the like, that's too much. 0:02:43.840 --> 0:02:44.520 For people as well. 0:02:44.600 --> 0:02:47.440 You feel vulnerable? Feel vulnerable? Well you can gym at 0:02:47.480 --> 0:02:49.400 Camp and Down Fitness in Sydney now This is one 0:02:49.400 --> 0:02:51.600 of the city's largest fitness spaces and as you know 0:02:51.760 --> 0:02:55.600 in Sydney, they really love their gym space. Dress codes 0:02:55.880 --> 0:02:58.079 in this particular gym have sparked a divide a reaction, 0:02:58.120 --> 0:03:00.760 with some calling it sexist, while others and did restaurants 0:03:00.800 --> 0:03:03.240 have similar rules upon entry and sports where it's no different. 0:03:03.440 --> 0:03:05.160 I think it's a bit of a weird space that 0:03:05.320 --> 0:03:09.480 there's dress requirements for a gym. So this popular gym, 0:03:09.480 --> 0:03:12.200 which has members as young as fourteen, has recently updated 0:03:12.400 --> 0:03:15.600 dress code, sparking a fierry debate online. For women, the 0:03:15.680 --> 0:03:18.640 fashion guidelines dictate the length of shorts that can be worn, 0:03:18.680 --> 0:03:20.800 meaning they have to fall a couple of inches below 0:03:21.160 --> 0:03:24.359 the bum, and sports bras need to have two straps, 0:03:24.639 --> 0:03:26.200 discouraging boob choos. 0:03:26.240 --> 0:03:29.160 It is measuring when I walk in on my short length, 0:03:29.240 --> 0:03:30.840 do I have a little ruler and go up. 0:03:30.960 --> 0:03:32.320 I think it's a visual thing, but you know when 0:03:32.320 --> 0:03:34.920 the ones where literally it's just uncovering the cheek. So 0:03:35.000 --> 0:03:36.760 it's just covering the cheek and that's it, and you 0:03:36.760 --> 0:03:39.960 can see a complete upper hamstring. For men, tops cannot 0:03:39.960 --> 0:03:45.920 show too much of their arms or back, discouraging showing muscle, singlets, strings. 0:03:45.920 --> 0:03:47.000 I love a string Oh. 0:03:46.920 --> 0:03:51.119 My god, there stringlets. So if you're wearing if you're 0:03:51.120 --> 0:03:55.080 wearing a stringlet that is barely covering up everything and 0:03:55.200 --> 0:03:58.080 your nipples are in and out, it's too much blowing 0:03:58.120 --> 0:04:02.080 in the wind. It's absolutely too much. So what's distracting 0:04:02.120 --> 0:04:06.320 for you? Men and females? So a female look, what 0:04:06.360 --> 0:04:08.280 do you look at? And go nah, that's too much. 0:04:08.360 --> 0:04:10.360 It has happened to me recently at my gym. 0:04:10.640 --> 0:04:13.160 I don't normally. I'm not usually bothered. I'm carrying on 0:04:13.200 --> 0:04:15.880 with my own carry on. But I did observe a 0:04:15.960 --> 0:04:20.240 lass doing She was lifting very, very heavyweights in a 0:04:20.279 --> 0:04:23.480 strapless boob tube top that was so thin it barely 0:04:23.480 --> 0:04:25.960 covered the nip nips, and I thought to myself, one 0:04:26.000 --> 0:04:27.840 wrong move, you're going to pop a. 0:04:27.800 --> 0:04:29.159 Buzy, so to speak. 0:04:29.320 --> 0:04:31.160 But you're holding heavy weight so there's nothing you can 0:04:31.200 --> 0:04:32.919 do other than drop them on your toe or just 0:04:32.920 --> 0:04:35.160 stand there exposing yourself. And I was panicking for her. 0:04:35.360 --> 0:04:37.320 I felt stressed and I couldn't relax. 0:04:37.560 --> 0:04:39.640 So that's why the bootube very inappropriately. 0:04:39.640 --> 0:04:41.720 You shouldn't. It's a health and safety hazard. 0:04:41.839 --> 0:04:44.080 Some might say she'll go out a hair out and down, 0:04:44.400 --> 0:04:46.400 and I felt overstimulated by that. You're gonna get a 0:04:46.440 --> 0:04:48.760 sweaty neck. You're gonna have a sweaty neck and a 0:04:48.760 --> 0:04:50.200 buzzy out and it's not good. 0:04:50.360 --> 0:04:53.320 I felt overstimulated by that situation. Can I talk on 0:04:53.360 --> 0:04:55.680 behalf of men? And if you wear a stringlet? There's 0:04:55.720 --> 0:04:59.440 two things? So you're either too skinny to wear a 0:04:59.440 --> 0:05:02.160 stringlet and it's like, what are you doing? Mate? But 0:05:02.200 --> 0:05:04.200 then even if you're big enough to wear a stringlet, 0:05:04.440 --> 0:05:07.600 you're wearing a stringlet, so you're still a dickhead to 0:05:07.839 --> 0:05:09.719 form from ten years first got this for you, and 0:05:09.760 --> 0:05:13.080 you can either confirm whether this statistic or deny is 0:05:13.160 --> 0:05:16.960 relevant to come. A recent report highlighted that seventy two 0:05:16.960 --> 0:05:19.760 percent I said, seventy two percent of men experience reduced 0:05:19.920 --> 0:05:22.920 stress after spending time with their partner. 0:05:23.200 --> 0:05:26.560 Confess I said, speaking on behalf of Joel? 0:05:27.000 --> 0:05:30.000 How dare you speak on behalf of Joel without running 0:05:30.000 --> 0:05:33.640 this statistic by him. Psychologists attribute this calming effect to 0:05:33.720 --> 0:05:37.600 elevated levels of dopamine and serotonin, neurochemicals link to happiness 0:05:37.600 --> 0:05:40.240 and emotional stability. Being around a loved one can provide 0:05:40.240 --> 0:05:43.320 a powerful sense of comfort and reassurance, tapping into the 0:05:43.320 --> 0:05:47.880 brains natural reward systems. Experts say it's not just about romance, 0:05:48.120 --> 0:05:52.640 it's a physiological response that reinforces emotional bonding and overwell, 0:05:52.720 --> 0:05:53.679 well beat everyone. 0:05:53.720 --> 0:05:58.400 Now, that's nice, but what about the twenty eight percent don't. 0:05:58.560 --> 0:06:03.080 Well, that's a good sistic. They're stress, get more angry 0:06:03.160 --> 0:06:05.359 than their girlfriend. But also put the roles in reverse. 0:06:06.120 --> 0:06:09.200 Do you think that seventy two percent of women are 0:06:09.240 --> 0:06:12.960 calmer and more happy when they see their boyfriend? Okara, 0:06:13.360 --> 0:06:15.520 I am not sure about that. I don't want to 0:06:15.600 --> 0:06:18.280 tap into aggressively. Bit. Last night, late in the night, 0:06:18.560 --> 0:06:20.400 we had a conversation with me and my wife, and 0:06:20.400 --> 0:06:22.160 at the end of it, she said to me, do 0:06:22.200 --> 0:06:24.320 you know what, in a few years time, you will 0:06:24.320 --> 0:06:26.520 look back at this and you'll say, gosh, I wish 0:06:26.640 --> 0:06:27.600 I wasn't so angry. 0:06:30.960 --> 0:06:33.560 So she's in the stressed column, she's in the twenty 0:06:33.560 --> 0:06:34.680 eight she's in the twenty half. 0:06:39.760 --> 0:06:43.440 Know Jody Oddie this morning she is sick. We wish 0:06:43.480 --> 0:06:47.880 her all the best, ripped but courageously filling in for songs. 0:06:47.880 --> 0:06:50.640 And so I don't know if this is a good thing. 0:06:51.200 --> 0:06:55.080 I'm panicking now I I'm panicking. It's a bad thing. 0:06:56.240 --> 0:06:59.360 It's not easy. I'll give you that much. So I was. 0:06:59.320 --> 0:07:01.800 Told that Joe is rubbish at this game, and I 0:07:01.800 --> 0:07:02.600 thought I will one. 0:07:02.680 --> 0:07:03.200 We told you that. 0:07:03.320 --> 0:07:08.880 By the way, Joes, if you're listening, that's between me 0:07:08.920 --> 0:07:11.840 and God. I just thought it would be easy, but 0:07:11.880 --> 0:07:14.240 then my partner Joel and I had to go last night. 0:07:14.520 --> 0:07:17.560 It's very hard. I don't back myself. 0:07:17.200 --> 0:07:21.040 In hard when you're in the hot seat. When you're 0:07:21.080 --> 0:07:23.560 in the hot scene, I remember. 0:07:23.760 --> 0:07:27.280 Let's go to Amelia from Warville. Amelia, welcome to Songs 0:07:27.280 --> 0:07:29.320 to Song, Song, song, and thank you for choosing me. 0:07:29.360 --> 0:07:36.320 We appreciate you. You got this though, Tiff from Old 0:07:36.360 --> 0:07:38.800 Dinger Beach. Are you telling us the only reason you 0:07:38.840 --> 0:07:41.120 went with Tiff was one, there was no other options, 0:07:41.120 --> 0:07:42.400 and two because you have the same name. 0:07:44.040 --> 0:07:46.040 Anyone with our name is definitely. 0:07:47.960 --> 0:07:49.360 I love it. Thank you, Tim. 0:07:50.320 --> 0:07:53.880 Yeah, that's what I need because I am panicking, wet myself. 0:07:54.040 --> 0:07:57.080 First song, ready to go? Yeah, come on, here we go, 0:07:57.160 --> 0:08:11.160 Here we go. I know it, I know the song. 0:08:11.160 --> 0:08:12.679 At another title, I'm. 0:08:12.520 --> 0:08:14.600 So sorry to You're back to the wrong horse. 0:08:16.480 --> 0:08:19.800 Why Taylor Swift, Craolummer. 0:08:21.160 --> 0:08:22.160 I hate myself. 0:08:24.720 --> 0:08:27.160 I just had to work through the chorus, just had 0:08:27.160 --> 0:08:28.440 to wait for the chorus to kick in. 0:08:28.880 --> 0:08:31.720 I was staring wide eyed produce them only, and she's 0:08:31.720 --> 0:08:33.160 looking like you would know. 0:08:34.480 --> 0:08:36.680 This should be in your sweet It's not. 0:08:36.880 --> 0:08:38.440 I'm sorry to I would. 0:08:38.200 --> 0:08:41.040 Say, rarely do I get the Taylor Swift ones. And 0:08:41.120 --> 0:08:44.360 she's pretty popular. She features a bit in this contraction. 0:08:45.000 --> 0:08:48.559 All right, oh man, second go of at three t 0:08:48.640 --> 0:08:50.400 If you need this to stay alight, I'm to go. 0:08:50.920 --> 0:09:10.720 Here we go, teenage bag waders bags. 0:09:11.760 --> 0:09:19.240 It is morganwall post Malone. I had some help ut 0:09:19.320 --> 0:09:21.240 this gun on basel by myself. 0:09:22.360 --> 0:09:24.520 You want help me pull that bottle. 0:09:24.280 --> 0:09:29.360 Of the shell. So here's the dealty, here's a and 0:09:29.480 --> 0:09:31.439 you know what JODI's getting listened to her like what. 0:09:33.520 --> 0:09:34.679 It sounded? Nothing like it? 0:09:34.840 --> 0:09:37.200 Look this is where we played the last one. We 0:09:37.240 --> 0:09:39.319 played the last one, Cruise. 0:09:39.080 --> 0:09:39.880 On the banter. 0:09:40.040 --> 0:09:42.599 You ready to go be hate myself? It's time for 0:09:42.679 --> 0:10:05.600 you to try and get some credits. It's good, yes, 0:10:05.679 --> 0:10:07.319 obviously title. 0:10:07.640 --> 0:10:11.920 Is it not? Barbie? Explain me like that? 0:10:13.280 --> 0:10:17.000 So the next time you play, name's your buzzer? For 0:10:17.040 --> 0:10:17.640 get it early? 0:10:17.920 --> 0:10:19.960 No, my name is my buzza and it was Tip's buzzer. 0:10:20.760 --> 0:10:22.800 Don't worry everyone, this was the first and last time 0:10:22.800 --> 0:10:24.720 I'll be playing Jode Fish will be back. 0:10:25.040 --> 0:10:27.800 Amelia from Morfortville. Congratulations, that's all yours. 0:10:28.240 --> 0:10:30.559 Thank you so much. Honestly, you guys both such a 0:10:30.559 --> 0:10:30.960 good job. 0:10:31.640 --> 0:10:32.880 You're going to thank you. 0:10:34.040 --> 0:10:36.679 Oh well, Cinema Family pass going the way of Amelia 0:10:36.679 --> 0:10:38.880 and Tiffany. You were also on the standby list for 0:10:38.920 --> 0:10:42.880 a winter weekend escape, so good luck with that. Sorry, 0:10:44.840 --> 0:10:47.199 I thought he said all tips rule they still do 0:10:47.720 --> 0:10:49.800 is that me, we should have told you before we 0:10:49.840 --> 0:10:52.320 do this tip. I'm very obnoxious in this space, okay, 0:10:52.440 --> 0:10:55.520 so just bear with me. It was Justin Bieber before. 0:10:55.600 --> 0:10:57.920 Can we continue the conversation with the beeps and. 0:11:01.080 --> 0:11:01.160 Me? 0:11:02.200 --> 0:11:05.959 Oh, Justin Bieber is obviously going through it, and everything 0:11:05.960 --> 0:11:10.200 that Justin Bieber does is exposed online. But Molly, what's 0:11:10.200 --> 0:11:12.319 the latest? Is falling out with it some close friends? 0:11:12.520 --> 0:11:16.840 Yeah, so these text messages have been leaked and it's 0:11:16.880 --> 0:11:20.120 not looking good for anyone. Really, He has said in 0:11:20.160 --> 0:11:23.600 these text messages, I will never suppress my emotions for someone. Obviously, 0:11:23.679 --> 0:11:26.280 off the back of this disagreement that they've had, he said, 0:11:26.320 --> 0:11:29.079 conflict is a part of any relationship. If you don't 0:11:29.160 --> 0:11:32.120 like my anger, you don't like me. My anger is 0:11:32.160 --> 0:11:34.440 a response to the pain that I have been through. 0:11:34.880 --> 0:11:38.800 Asking a traumatized person not to be traumatized is simply mean. 0:11:39.480 --> 0:11:40.160 He's not wrong. 0:11:40.800 --> 0:11:42.719 He's not wrong. Do you know what would be unbelievable 0:11:42.760 --> 0:11:45.120 for Justin Bieber? Do you get yourself in a situation 0:11:45.200 --> 0:11:48.480 where you're such a star aprodigy from such a young age. 0:11:48.840 --> 0:11:51.000 It's really sad to hear, and I think it was 0:11:51.040 --> 0:11:54.560 for his documentary he basically said that he can't trust anyone, yeah, 0:11:54.600 --> 0:11:57.760 at all, and he's never been lonely. Are the more 0:11:57.760 --> 0:11:59.920 famous he got, the lonely he got because. 0:12:00.000 --> 0:12:02.319 People's agendas, and that's awful. They just want to be 0:12:02.360 --> 0:12:03.920 around him for his fame and fortune. 0:12:04.120 --> 0:12:07.160 Over the weekend, he did posters well, people posted sorry 0:12:07.280 --> 0:12:10.600 videos of him talking to paparazzi and he's just standing 0:12:10.600 --> 0:12:13.400 there saying to them, Look, I'm a dad, I'm a husband, Like, 0:12:13.440 --> 0:12:15.640 I'm just trying to live my life, like, please leave 0:12:15.679 --> 0:12:18.640 me alone. This is just getting ridiculous. It's been my 0:12:18.679 --> 0:12:20.880 whole life. Yes, and it was very heartfelt. 0:12:20.960 --> 0:12:22.680 Yes, And his pants were very baggy. 0:12:22.640 --> 0:12:24.920 And they still are to this day, and they always 0:12:24.960 --> 0:12:27.960 be extremely bad. 0:12:28.720 --> 0:12:32.600 Sealed section with Tis one from gen Yu's first Ah. 0:12:32.679 --> 0:12:34.600 Yes, we do this each and every week. It feels 0:12:34.600 --> 0:12:36.719 like an extended version today because you've been in from 0:12:36.760 --> 0:12:38.080 six to nine thirty. It's not nice. 0:12:38.240 --> 0:12:40.440 You have a six in the morning to market. 0:12:40.960 --> 0:12:45.280 Welcome to six o'clock. The Hello, I've got something for you. 0:12:45.400 --> 0:12:47.280 Oh okay, I'm going to open the envelope. Here we 0:12:47.320 --> 0:12:52.120 go at there, it's the. 0:12:52.080 --> 0:12:52.720 Big one today. 0:12:52.760 --> 0:12:53.520 Okay, what God? 0:12:54.760 --> 0:12:58.120 Today we are talking about baby timelines. 0:12:58.400 --> 0:12:59.280 And I'll tell you for why. 0:13:00.000 --> 0:13:03.920 Women of my age, which is in their nondescript thirties. 0:13:04.800 --> 0:13:06.120 But you're super early thirties. 0:13:06.160 --> 0:13:08.120 I'm super exclly, I couldn't be earlier. 0:13:08.520 --> 0:13:09.680 When you say I'm not going to tell you what 0:13:09.760 --> 0:13:10.920 you is, people assume it's later. 0:13:10.960 --> 0:13:13.719 But you're early, very early, very early thirties. 0:13:14.000 --> 0:13:16.839 Mind you just do you hear that? That is my 0:13:17.440 --> 0:13:20.960 biological clock ticking away. 0:13:21.360 --> 0:13:22.240 Don't have to deal with. 0:13:22.360 --> 0:13:22.800 No, no, no. 0:13:22.840 --> 0:13:25.959 You can be breeding up until I assume you're dying days. 0:13:26.240 --> 0:13:28.119 I don't know. If it comes out like a little puff. 0:13:28.320 --> 0:13:32.640 Yeah, potentially, then ask Graham Courts. 0:13:34.920 --> 0:13:36.880 But fellas you needn't fret. 0:13:37.000 --> 0:13:40.200 But for us ladies, especially if you meet a partner 0:13:40.559 --> 0:13:42.560 in this window, you got to cut to the chase. 0:13:42.559 --> 0:13:43.800 It's not like in our twenties where you go, do 0:13:43.840 --> 0:13:45.640 you want kids? Yeah? I want kids, yeah, but we've 0:13:45.679 --> 0:13:46.200 got time. 0:13:46.880 --> 0:13:49.960 Nowadays, if you're meeting someone in this bracket, you have 0:13:50.000 --> 0:13:51.880 to cut to the chase, and you don't really have 0:13:52.360 --> 0:13:52.880 a lot. 0:13:52.720 --> 0:13:54.800 Of time as we did in our twenties. 0:13:54.880 --> 0:13:57.680 I've got some friends who dated a guy for about 0:13:57.840 --> 0:13:59.959 five years and he was saying, oh, after we go overseas, 0:14:00.040 --> 0:14:01.520 then we'll talk about having the kid. 0:14:01.720 --> 0:14:03.000 Oh by the househost, then we'll talk. 0:14:03.000 --> 0:14:04.360 So they did all of that and she went, well, 0:14:04.600 --> 0:14:06.880 and he went, do you know what, I'm not sure 0:14:06.880 --> 0:14:07.400 I want. 0:14:07.200 --> 0:14:12.120 To tickety talk man Kesha. 0:14:12.400 --> 0:14:13.880 So we've got to know what we want to know. 0:14:13.960 --> 0:14:14.760 What's your timeline? 0:14:14.760 --> 0:14:17.200 Are you in your thirties and you've got a hard deadline, 0:14:17.679 --> 0:14:19.200 or are you putting it to a fellow giving them 0:14:19.200 --> 0:14:21.200 an ultimatum saying if you don't want a baby by 0:14:21.320 --> 0:14:22.800 next year, we're done. 0:14:22.920 --> 0:14:23.400 We're done. 0:14:23.400 --> 0:14:25.560 Ski It's thirty five, isn't it thirty five? It is 0:14:25.680 --> 0:14:28.800 drastically reduced, like twenty percent chance allegibly. 0:14:28.360 --> 0:14:30.960 Which thankfully I'm from ways away from there. 0:14:31.200 --> 0:14:32.760 But when you start thinking like this, that's when you 0:14:32.760 --> 0:14:34.400 get in trouble. You say, oh well that's ages away, 0:14:34.600 --> 0:14:36.200 and all of a sudden it turns up and they're 0:14:36.200 --> 0:14:40.720 not trying to put pressure on your situations. 0:14:41.080 --> 0:14:42.000 Out it is. 0:14:42.240 --> 0:14:43.720 Can we put it out there to the fellas as well? 0:14:43.840 --> 0:14:46.160 Yeah you did? You put it off for too long? 0:14:46.320 --> 0:14:48.720 Like where are you at right now? Do you need 0:14:48.800 --> 0:14:50.600 to get it done within a certain time period? Is 0:14:50.600 --> 0:14:51.240 it stressful? 0:14:51.400 --> 0:14:54.000 Does your partner want it and you're not ready? TikTok 0:14:54.040 --> 0:14:54.600 on her clock? 0:14:55.880 --> 0:14:58.360 We do alright. Thirteen twenty four ten do you have 0:14:58.400 --> 0:15:00.280 a baby timeline? Let's put it out there, both the 0:15:00.320 --> 0:15:01.080 fellas and the. 0:15:01.040 --> 0:15:07.560 Girls has sealed section with Tiff Thorn from ten Yews 0:15:07.600 --> 0:15:09.239 first tip. 0:15:09.000 --> 0:15:11.760 Hoorn from ten years first you've brought to us this time? 0:15:11.840 --> 0:15:13.320 Do you have a baby timeline? 0:15:13.360 --> 0:15:17.200 Indeed, it's an issue that I feel is topical for 0:15:17.240 --> 0:15:20.520 a lot of ladies, particularly in the late twenties to 0:15:20.560 --> 0:15:22.880 thirties bracket, who maybe want to have a baby and 0:15:22.880 --> 0:15:24.680 maybe don't have a suitable partner to deal it with, 0:15:24.840 --> 0:15:27.200 or they have a partner but he can't commit to 0:15:27.240 --> 0:15:27.440 the bit. 0:15:27.840 --> 0:15:29.960 I'm just forge forward with the birthing and the like. 0:15:30.040 --> 0:15:32.440 I'll speak on behalf of men here. We're so oblivious 0:15:32.440 --> 0:15:33.720 through everything because. 0:15:33.520 --> 0:15:36.040 You can go and till the cows come. 0:15:35.960 --> 0:15:38.080 From a pretty early age to the day we die. 0:15:38.280 --> 0:15:38.760 You're set. 0:15:38.800 --> 0:15:42.880 You don't have to go. Let's go to abbey from Warfaville, Abby, 0:15:42.880 --> 0:15:45.160 good morning to you. Can you take us through your 0:15:45.240 --> 0:15:46.640 journey or your timeline? 0:15:47.840 --> 0:15:48.400 Good morning. 0:15:49.000 --> 0:15:51.560 I haven't really got much of his journey at the moment, 0:15:51.800 --> 0:15:55.720 but sort of my timeline is I want to be 0:15:55.840 --> 0:15:58.600 done having kids by the time I'm thirty five, really. 0:15:58.560 --> 0:16:01.160 And how old are you now, Abby. 0:16:00.400 --> 0:16:03.680 I'm sort of mid to late twenties, so I've got 0:16:03.680 --> 0:16:07.680 plenty of times. But it's you know, it's more to 0:16:07.720 --> 0:16:09.560 do with you know, I want to have the energy 0:16:09.640 --> 0:16:12.640 to be able to be interactive with my kids while 0:16:12.680 --> 0:16:13.080 they're young. 0:16:13.160 --> 0:16:14.440 Yeah, run around after them. 0:16:15.320 --> 0:16:15.680 Yeah. 0:16:15.920 --> 0:16:18.520 And also I sort of have an age limit for 0:16:18.560 --> 0:16:22.880 the guy as well, because well, the health and the 0:16:22.920 --> 0:16:25.720 age of the guy really impacts the get station. Then 0:16:26.040 --> 0:16:29.040 I don't really want I don't want to go through 0:16:29.080 --> 0:16:33.280 difficult pregnancies with morning sickness every single day because you 0:16:33.320 --> 0:16:35.240 know we put it off too well fair. 0:16:35.400 --> 0:16:39.000 Yeah, there's an exception Footy Royalty that's gone. 0:16:40.160 --> 0:16:43.840 Yeah, I don't know that he's available. He's sorry. 0:16:43.960 --> 0:16:45.520 Abby. Are you in a relationship right now? 0:16:46.400 --> 0:16:47.960 I'm not, no gay? 0:16:48.240 --> 0:16:50.360 So are you on the hunt for a fella? 0:16:51.360 --> 0:16:55.800 I mean yes, but I'm not really. I'm not desperate 0:16:55.920 --> 0:16:59.160 enough that I'm gonna just fell down for anyone. It's 0:16:59.160 --> 0:16:59.680 going to be the. 0:16:59.640 --> 0:17:03.840 Right for sure. Yeah. I love that story. All right, 0:17:03.920 --> 0:17:07.200 let's go to Kira from Salisbury. All right, Kira, take 0:17:07.280 --> 0:17:10.239 us through it, because your journey to what motherhood was 0:17:10.640 --> 0:17:12.119 probably not conventional. 0:17:14.000 --> 0:17:14.440 Morning. 0:17:15.480 --> 0:17:16.879 How are you? I? 0:17:17.480 --> 0:17:18.159 Yeah good. 0:17:19.080 --> 0:17:22.960 I dated for many, many years, and I got to 0:17:24.400 --> 0:17:26.160 my thirties and thought this. 0:17:26.240 --> 0:17:27.359 Was taking way too long. 0:17:27.680 --> 0:17:31.960 Yeah, so I decided to do IVS by myself with 0:17:32.040 --> 0:17:32.840 a stern donut. 0:17:33.040 --> 0:17:33.560 Amazing. 0:17:33.880 --> 0:17:34.639 Yeah, how to go? 0:17:35.480 --> 0:17:40.879 Yes, not successfully? Unfortunately. I think I had four transfers 0:17:40.920 --> 0:17:45.280 and sales. So then yeah, in my I think I 0:17:45.280 --> 0:17:50.040 was about thirty four, I had a break, I met 0:17:50.080 --> 0:17:52.600 someone and within a month I was pregnant. 0:17:52.720 --> 0:17:56.080 Where did you Where did you meet them? By the way, 0:17:57.240 --> 0:18:02.280 that's where you find love, yeah, Tindi is where you started. 0:18:02.520 --> 0:18:03.520 You find a baby. 0:18:04.680 --> 0:18:08.320 That's amazing, beautiful two year old. 0:18:08.600 --> 0:18:11.200 Oh that's really not that's gorgeous. 0:18:11.560 --> 0:18:14.520 Tinder's just joined the chat being like Doljaja, we are awesome. 0:18:15.200 --> 0:18:16.440 That's awesome, Kira. 0:18:16.600 --> 0:18:18.359 Good on you care thirteen twenty four teen. Can we 0:18:18.400 --> 0:18:21.679 continue this conversation of it all right? Via the sealed section? 0:18:22.119 --> 0:18:24.400 Do you have a baby timeline? We need to speak 0:18:24.400 --> 0:18:27.639 to the cold next because she is throwing around words 0:18:27.680 --> 0:18:30.120 like ultimatum. Oh and I love it, which is very 0:18:30.119 --> 0:18:33.159 important in this situation, in this journey. We'd love to 0:18:33.160 --> 0:18:35.320 hear from you. Thirteen twenty four ten file the sealed 0:18:35.359 --> 0:18:39.200 section do you have a baby timeline? 0:18:39.720 --> 0:18:42.760 Sealed section with Tip on from gen Yu's. 0:18:42.600 --> 0:18:45.520 First and Tip has brought to us today. Do you 0:18:45.640 --> 0:18:46.960 have a baby timeline? 0:18:47.000 --> 0:18:50.439 It's a great question, do you not? 0:18:50.480 --> 0:18:51.600