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Speaker 1: Ticky little nice tattoo. Yeah. Relatable Relatables podcast is hosted

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Speaker 1: by myself, Jake Craig AKAA Daddy and my partner in crime,

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Speaker 1: guys are the baddies are. And welcome back to the

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Speaker 1: Relatables podcast. Today, guys, we are starting with a confession

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Speaker 2: Without further ado, please enjoy Confession Sessions. Hello, welcome to

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Speaker 2: Confession Sessions. How are you going?

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Speaker 3: Okay, all right? So, when, like I said earlier in

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Speaker 2: slept without the brothel? No, Zali, Zali got cheated? No, no, yeah,

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Speaker 2: But if you have any cheating stories, yeah, send them.

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Speaker 1: Just because I've got a bad taste of men in

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Speaker 1: I need to kill some time. Yeah, well, I was

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Speaker 1: I like that idea. Do you have the boss to

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Speaker 1: I could be a little keyboard warrior. I'll show you

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Speaker 1: the photo I remember.

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Speaker 2: bad is a vocal where we're recording right now. Yeah, yea,

433
00:23:19,960 --> 00:23:22,360
Speaker 2: heaps with our friends the dog beach.

434
00:23:22,640 --> 00:23:24,560
Speaker 1: So the beach near where we live is half dog

435
00:23:24,640 --> 00:23:27,320
Speaker 1: beach half not yeah yeah yeah, and heaps of people

436
00:23:27,480 --> 00:23:29,480
Speaker 1: will just like walk up with their dogs and walk back,

437
00:23:29,600 --> 00:23:32,120
Speaker 1: and you always see it's kind of like perverted someone

438
00:23:32,200 --> 00:23:34,520
Speaker 1: taking a picture of him and being like, whose dog

439
00:23:34,680 --> 00:23:36,600
Speaker 1: is this not allowed on the beach, And then all

440
00:23:36,680 --> 00:23:38,200
Speaker 1: over our mates used to just comment on it and

441
00:23:38,280 --> 00:23:41,920
Speaker 1: being like, that's my dog, that's my dog, that's my dog,

442
00:23:42,040 --> 00:23:46,320
Speaker 1: And there was like three hundred that's my dog. Some

443
00:23:46,480 --> 00:23:49,280
Speaker 1: people don't have lives, but it is weird here look

444
00:23:49,280 --> 00:23:50,800
Speaker 1: at this. What you did was fine, but some people

445
00:23:50,840 --> 00:23:52,680
Speaker 1: were stick. You know, I just fucking parked at the

446
00:23:52,680 --> 00:23:57,240
Speaker 1: street that you're allowed to buy again to call you

447
00:23:57,320 --> 00:24:00,520
Speaker 1: a dickhead that looks like dudes writing yeah, yeah, yeah,

448
00:24:00,600 --> 00:24:02,399
Speaker 1: that's a do Yeah, it's a do oh. Girl wouldn't

449
00:24:02,440 --> 00:24:04,400
Speaker 1: do that. Yeah, that's definitely you wouldn't.

450
00:24:04,119 --> 00:24:08,520
Speaker 2: Say dickhead either, No, yeah, yeah, you definitely stole someone's

451
00:24:08,560 --> 00:24:11,040
Speaker 2: park who like comes back from like a nursing shift

452
00:24:11,560 --> 00:24:13,159
Speaker 2: in the middle of the day and always parks there

453
00:24:13,240 --> 00:24:13,520
Speaker 2: or something.

454
00:24:13,720 --> 00:24:17,399
Speaker 1: But also that's not I just don't know how they

455
00:24:17,560 --> 00:24:20,840
Speaker 1: knew unless they were looking at me through the window,

456
00:24:20,960 --> 00:24:23,840
Speaker 1: so they must have watched me park. Yeah, all right,

457
00:24:24,320 --> 00:24:28,200
Speaker 1: get out, get in Justin's car, leave, and then my

458
00:24:28,320 --> 00:24:31,639
Speaker 1: car staying there. We're entitled to though, But because I

459
00:24:31,720 --> 00:24:33,719
Speaker 1: was just thinking, how do they not know that all

460
00:24:33,760 --> 00:24:35,920
Speaker 1: these like you don't have a tally on every fucking

461
00:24:36,000 --> 00:24:36,919
Speaker 1: vehicle on this street.

462
00:24:37,760 --> 00:24:40,399
Speaker 2: What our friend used to do, baddies, this is a

463
00:24:40,440 --> 00:24:43,520
Speaker 2: great little tip. It only works at the start because

464
00:24:43,560 --> 00:24:45,159
Speaker 2: your friends start to catch on that you do it.

465
00:24:45,440 --> 00:24:48,800
Speaker 2: If you live in like a semi small town like

466
00:24:48,960 --> 00:24:51,639
Speaker 2: where we grew up, you always see your mate's cars

467
00:24:51,720 --> 00:24:54,480
Speaker 2: parked in different spots at the shopping center, like different

468
00:24:54,520 --> 00:24:58,240
Speaker 2: restaurants at the beach especially, And what he used to

469
00:24:58,320 --> 00:25:00,560
Speaker 2: do was he always keep it and pay for in

470
00:25:00,640 --> 00:25:03,080
Speaker 2: his car and rip it off and be like this

471
00:25:03,200 --> 00:25:05,440
Speaker 2: is when we're all single. He's like he'd say something

472
00:25:05,480 --> 00:25:08,359
Speaker 2: cringe like, hey, hot stuff, you saw you jump in

473
00:25:08,400 --> 00:25:11,119
Speaker 2: the water, or see you get out of the car.

474
00:25:11,600 --> 00:25:14,320
Speaker 1: Give me a ring, and then he would put a

475
00:25:14,480 --> 00:25:17,960
Speaker 1: girl's phone number from our school that he had his phone.

476
00:25:18,880 --> 00:25:21,320
Speaker 1: Why I thought he would just put his own no no,

477
00:25:21,480 --> 00:25:24,920
Speaker 1: no no, And then I never called him, but sometimes

478
00:25:25,000 --> 00:25:27,080
Speaker 1: some of our other mates. So initially our mates would

479
00:25:27,080 --> 00:25:28,560
Speaker 1: start calling him and he would call him, and then

480
00:25:28,560 --> 00:25:30,200
Speaker 1: he thought the next step of this is to put

481
00:25:30,200 --> 00:25:33,880
Speaker 1: a random girl's phone number. So all the boys, we're

482
00:25:33,920 --> 00:25:34,680
Speaker 1: just calling these.

483
00:25:34,600 --> 00:25:36,920
Speaker 2: Girls about hey, just about the note you put on

484
00:25:37,000 --> 00:25:38,480
Speaker 2: my car, and they'll be like, what the fuck you're

485
00:25:38,520 --> 00:25:39,160
Speaker 2: talking about.

486
00:25:39,720 --> 00:25:43,359
Speaker 1: I don't care how attractive you are if you wouldn't

487
00:25:43,400 --> 00:25:46,680
Speaker 1: get a note in your car saying that. If you think, ah,

488
00:25:47,520 --> 00:25:54,159
Speaker 1: this just kind of makes sense. Fuck, and all the

489
00:25:54,240 --> 00:25:57,159
Speaker 1: girls numbers he was sending, we did know. Yeah it

490
00:25:57,320 --> 00:26:00,560
Speaker 1: was funny, hahas it makes it more embarrassing thyeah yeah yeah,

491
00:26:00,600 --> 00:26:02,159
Speaker 1: because I prefer not to know them. I remember one

492
00:26:02,200 --> 00:26:03,800
Speaker 1: of the girls. It was just like, yeah, hey, I

493
00:26:03,880 --> 00:26:05,600
Speaker 1: think it was one of the boys. Corner was like

494
00:26:05,640 --> 00:26:07,560
Speaker 1: her name was like Meyer, It's like it's my It

495
00:26:07,640 --> 00:26:17,800
Speaker 1: was like, oh what funny, funny, funny, Okay, So I

496
00:26:17,880 --> 00:26:20,359
Speaker 1: need to join the Dremoyan community page. Get back to

497
00:26:20,440 --> 00:26:22,960
Speaker 1: us next week, and I think that post is going

498
00:26:23,040 --> 00:26:25,639
Speaker 1: to go off. Yeah, fucking is it will because some

499
00:26:25,680 --> 00:26:27,399
Speaker 1: people are going to say, well, you shouldn't park there,

500
00:26:27,440 --> 00:26:28,920
Speaker 1: and then some people are going to say you're entitled

501
00:26:28,920 --> 00:26:37,640
Speaker 1: to park wherever you want. Body time for I G's question,

502
00:26:37,760 --> 00:26:40,119
Speaker 1: I Question of the Week, Turn up, man, I G.

503
00:26:40,320 --> 00:26:47,439
Speaker 1: Question of the Week. We go again to question. Yeah, uh,

504
00:26:47,840 --> 00:26:51,640
Speaker 1: this week was a good one. Came from Oddie's brain.

505
00:26:52,760 --> 00:26:55,400
Speaker 1: What do girls want? Yeah? I know what they want.

506
00:26:56,000 --> 00:26:57,760
Speaker 1: Do they want Patroon? Yeah?

507
00:26:59,640 --> 00:26:59,920
Speaker 4: They do?

508
00:27:00,080 --> 00:27:03,320
Speaker 1: You want Patreon? That was good. I know we want

509
00:27:03,359 --> 00:27:07,480
Speaker 1: them to want Patreon. So if you go over to

510
00:27:08,119 --> 00:27:12,960
Speaker 1: cheeky little patreon dot com forward slash relatables, always do that.

511
00:27:13,920 --> 00:27:16,840
Speaker 1: That's right, We'll we'll figure it out. Linked to the

512
00:27:16,920 --> 00:27:19,280
Speaker 1: links of the description. But it just sounds cool to say.

513
00:27:19,280 --> 00:27:21,080
Speaker 1: I always say that. I don't know. If you head

514
00:27:21,080 --> 00:27:24,119
Speaker 1: over to patreon dot com ford slash relatables and you

515
00:27:24,520 --> 00:27:28,119
Speaker 1: pay a measly little five dollars a month aud so

516
00:27:28,160 --> 00:27:29,840
Speaker 1: if you're from anywhere else in the world, it's going

517
00:27:29,880 --> 00:27:33,879
Speaker 1: to be about two fifty per month. You get an

518
00:27:33,880 --> 00:27:35,840
Speaker 1: extra episode every Thursday, all right, just another one of

519
00:27:35,920 --> 00:27:38,440
Speaker 1: these similar I don't know. You get a little vibe.

520
00:27:38,480 --> 00:27:40,600
Speaker 1: Check out the end. That's pretty fun. Even better and

521
00:27:41,480 --> 00:27:44,600
Speaker 1: on Monday, five days early, you get the book club.

522
00:27:44,960 --> 00:27:48,600
Speaker 2: And also we're running a giveaway with a box set

523
00:27:48,760 --> 00:27:50,080
Speaker 2: limited edition Akatar.

524
00:27:50,720 --> 00:27:52,320
Speaker 1: Yes we are it over five.

525
00:27:52,280 --> 00:27:55,760
Speaker 2: Hundred dollars on there, so your ticket of five dollars

526
00:27:55,920 --> 00:27:56,840
Speaker 2: gets you in the running.

527
00:27:56,960 --> 00:27:59,960
Speaker 1: That hurt, but yeah, head over there and sign up.

528
00:28:00,080 --> 00:28:02,920
Speaker 1: But for real, the question is what do girls want? Yeah?

529
00:28:02,960 --> 00:28:06,520
Speaker 1: We had over ninety thousand views on this story. Yeah,

530
00:28:06,560 --> 00:28:08,960
Speaker 1: what's that? One third of our fucking followers nearly? Yeah,

531
00:28:08,960 --> 00:28:12,760
Speaker 1: that's crazy that one fourth or something. That's crazy. Girls

532
00:28:12,760 --> 00:28:19,639
Speaker 1: want a lot of things. I saw one response of

533
00:28:19,760 --> 00:28:22,520
Speaker 1: all the ones I looked at right, one of them

534
00:28:22,600 --> 00:28:25,399
Speaker 1: was from a dude, and he said, that was our

535
00:28:25,520 --> 00:28:30,280
Speaker 1: one male follower. His name is His name was Billy. Okay,

536
00:28:31,040 --> 00:28:32,399
Speaker 1: call out to Billy. I don't know if he's going

537
00:28:32,440 --> 00:28:36,080
Speaker 1: to listen to this. I doubt it, but he wrote,

538
00:28:36,200 --> 00:28:40,680
Speaker 1: usually my seven inch you were usually just my seven

539
00:28:40,720 --> 00:28:41,600
Speaker 1: inches or something.

540
00:28:41,400 --> 00:28:45,200
Speaker 2: And I was like, oh, girl wants that, Billy, Billy, Billy, Billy,

541
00:28:46,120 --> 00:28:48,280
Speaker 2: Actually one girl might want that.

542
00:28:50,360 --> 00:28:53,680
Speaker 1: Let me kick things off. What do girls want? A

543
00:28:53,880 --> 00:28:59,600
Speaker 1: giant slong? Some say they do, some say they don't.

544
00:29:00,120 --> 00:29:02,960
Speaker 1: I've heard I'm inclined to believe the ones that say

545
00:29:03,040 --> 00:29:07,520
Speaker 1: they don't. Yeah, I'm inclined to believe that too. I've

546
00:29:07,680 --> 00:29:11,120
Speaker 1: heard that they're too big, so I have been told

547
00:29:11,160 --> 00:29:14,600
Speaker 1: and that makes me feel good. That makes me feel exceptional. Yeah,

548
00:29:14,840 --> 00:29:17,160
Speaker 1: that's the word I'm looking for, is exceptional. That makes

549
00:29:17,200 --> 00:29:21,080
Speaker 1: me feel seen, and that makes me feel wanted. Those

550
00:29:21,280 --> 00:29:26,560
Speaker 1: medium ones are where it's at. Yeah, yeah, we don't

551
00:29:27,800 --> 00:29:31,400
Speaker 1: giant slung? What is the word schlong? Where's that come from?

552
00:29:34,000 --> 00:29:35,800
Speaker 1: I don't know. Someone definitely just made it up once?

553
00:29:36,000 --> 00:29:39,760
Speaker 1: Is that a camel penis? Like? What is the name

554
00:29:39,840 --> 00:29:42,320
Speaker 1: for a camel penis? I think it's slung. I think

555
00:29:42,520 --> 00:29:45,440
Speaker 1: that might be where it comes from. It also could

556
00:29:45,520 --> 00:29:47,440
Speaker 1: just be called a camel penis. Let me look it up.

557
00:29:49,240 --> 00:29:51,640
Speaker 1: What the fuck are you talking about? If I'm right,

558
00:29:52,680 --> 00:30:02,240
Speaker 1: If you're right, what do you call? Obviously not schlong

559
00:30:02,280 --> 00:30:04,240
Speaker 1: because you're looking at it and not screaming at me?

560
00:30:05,640 --> 00:30:09,760
Speaker 1: What is it called? What if that GVT said the

561
00:30:09,840 --> 00:30:17,560
Speaker 1: stealth lizard? What tongue two point zero? The color shifter?

562
00:30:18,160 --> 00:30:21,160
Speaker 1: What the invisible dick? It must be like it must

563
00:30:21,240 --> 00:30:25,760
Speaker 1: hide and then come out? What the funk? I was wrong? Wait?

564
00:30:27,400 --> 00:30:34,200
Speaker 1: Moving on? So moving on? Okay, Okay, what do girls

565
00:30:34,600 --> 00:30:38,480
Speaker 1: want someone that isn't going to keep throwing off my

566
00:30:38,600 --> 00:30:43,120
Speaker 1: pH levels? Oh, you'd hope. So we learn about that

567
00:30:43,200 --> 00:30:45,440
Speaker 1: from the podcast. Yeah, we did. Yeah, that was one

568
00:30:45,440 --> 00:30:47,880
Speaker 1: of the things we learned. It's also a one thing

569
00:30:47,960 --> 00:30:51,680
Speaker 1: we learned was girls can like have this sixth sense

570
00:30:51,920 --> 00:30:55,200
Speaker 1: of when they're being cheated on. Yeah, because there's different bacteria.

571
00:30:55,320 --> 00:30:57,600
Speaker 1: Because they start having a bit of thrash, they're like

572
00:30:57,760 --> 00:31:01,360
Speaker 1: the fuck yeah, clicking juju, clean your fucking dick. Yeah.

573
00:31:01,400 --> 00:31:04,200
Speaker 1: It also just happens with new men. You can also

574
00:31:04,400 --> 00:31:06,440
Speaker 1: what happens with new men because it's just a new guy. Yeah.

575
00:31:06,520 --> 00:31:09,680
Speaker 1: And then also you can get your threat Your page

576
00:31:09,760 --> 00:31:11,880
Speaker 1: levels can be thrown off if you clean your vagina

577
00:31:11,960 --> 00:31:14,840
Speaker 1: too much. Isn't that with Is it any soap or

578
00:31:14,840 --> 00:31:18,200
Speaker 1: a specific soap or just any I don't know, good question.

579
00:31:18,200 --> 00:31:19,720
Speaker 1: All I know is you can clean that, you'll you

580
00:31:19,800 --> 00:31:22,120
Speaker 1: actually need bacteria down there. You can't just keep killing

581
00:31:22,160 --> 00:31:24,920
Speaker 1: the bacteria else you will get straight weird but very weird.

582
00:31:25,000 --> 00:31:28,560
Speaker 1: What do girls want pasta? Oh? Yeah, I want that

583
00:31:28,640 --> 00:31:37,400
Speaker 1: to pasta add zero calories. Yeah, pasta. Fuck past is good, bro.

584
00:31:38,120 --> 00:31:38,920
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie.

585
00:31:38,920 --> 00:31:41,880
Speaker 2: Honestly, A good Italian restaurant, little coke zero in hand

586
00:31:41,920 --> 00:31:44,280
Speaker 2: because I don't have Pepsi Maxi or do man, it's good.

587
00:31:45,080 --> 00:31:48,640
Speaker 2: I only get spaghetti or carbonara. Oh really, that's only

588
00:31:48,760 --> 00:31:49,240
Speaker 2: things I like.

589
00:31:52,720 --> 00:31:56,000
Speaker 1: Of course, you can't pronounce.

590
00:31:57,680 --> 00:31:59,960
Speaker 2: The most embarrassing thing when you're in a nice, fancy restaurant.

591
00:32:00,040 --> 00:32:02,959
Speaker 2: It says like blue and like, what is this one?

592
00:32:03,000 --> 00:32:04,240
Speaker 2: And they go, it's actually pronounced this.

593
00:32:06,480 --> 00:32:07,760
Speaker 1: I pointed at it. You don't have to put me

594
00:32:07,760 --> 00:32:10,360
Speaker 1: in my place. Some of the the passes at the

595
00:32:10,400 --> 00:32:12,160
Speaker 1: restaurant I worked out it was Italian, so they.

596
00:32:12,160 --> 00:32:14,360
Speaker 2: Had I hated that your restaurant. That was the worst

597
00:32:14,400 --> 00:32:16,720
Speaker 2: restaurant to order from. Let's call it normal people food

598
00:32:17,040 --> 00:32:18,640
Speaker 2: because it was all in the Italian names.

599
00:32:19,200 --> 00:32:23,479
Speaker 1: An Italian restaurant. Come on, like, give me my pizza.

600
00:32:28,560 --> 00:32:40,120
Speaker 4: Imagine walking into an Italian restaurant, you saying.

601
00:32:39,880 --> 00:32:48,400
Speaker 1: That fun that's day. It's not even funny. Give me

602
00:32:48,520 --> 00:32:55,120
Speaker 1: my pizza. I don't know why that has made me

603
00:32:55,560 --> 00:33:01,240
Speaker 1: so much? Okay, is it? What? Do girls want? Respect?

604
00:33:01,880 --> 00:33:05,640
Speaker 1: And for guys to shave their balls? First one's a

605
00:33:05,680 --> 00:33:11,000
Speaker 1: good one? Is it? The second one? Good man's I do?

606
00:33:11,200 --> 00:33:14,840
Speaker 1: But also, what's the equivalent of that so they can understand.

607
00:33:15,520 --> 00:33:17,400
Speaker 1: It's like, it's like shaving your flaps.

608
00:33:17,920 --> 00:33:21,200
Speaker 2: You know, when you're mad, You know, when you're grating

609
00:33:21,280 --> 00:33:23,000
Speaker 2: cheese and it gets to like the very bottom bit

610
00:33:23,040 --> 00:33:25,240
Speaker 2: and you're holding it and then like your hands are

611
00:33:25,320 --> 00:33:28,160
Speaker 2: running against the greater That's what shaving your balls feels like.

612
00:33:28,200 --> 00:33:29,960
Speaker 2: It's a dangerous game because you could cut your finger.

613
00:33:30,520 --> 00:33:34,320
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, so the dangerous game you're playing. Yes, yeah, yeah, yeah,

614
00:33:34,440 --> 00:33:35,280
Speaker 2: that was a good analogy.

615
00:33:35,320 --> 00:33:36,840
Speaker 1: That was a good analogy. You got there in the end,

616
00:33:36,960 --> 00:33:39,280
Speaker 1: Now you got me. I agree with that. But I

617
00:33:39,400 --> 00:33:41,200
Speaker 1: have been told you just do the top. You can't

618
00:33:41,240 --> 00:33:43,959
Speaker 1: do like a clean shaving. Shaving your flaps is similar.

619
00:33:44,160 --> 00:33:50,520
Speaker 1: It's getting quite grotesque. But apparently yeah, because grotesque. Yeah,

620
00:33:50,920 --> 00:33:54,200
Speaker 1: we all have flaps. We all have either balls or flaps.

621
00:33:55,240 --> 00:33:57,520
Speaker 1: That this is just a crazy word. Some people mightn't vote.

622
00:33:58,000 --> 00:34:03,000
Speaker 1: You never know, what do girls want? This one I

623
00:34:03,120 --> 00:34:05,080
Speaker 1: didn't get, but I've been seeing some stuff on TikTok

624
00:34:05,080 --> 00:34:10,920
Speaker 1: about it for Belly to pick Conrad over Jeremiah. Is that?

625
00:34:11,280 --> 00:34:13,759
Speaker 1: What's that thing on Prime? I think it's a show. Yeah,

626
00:34:13,840 --> 00:34:17,600
Speaker 1: it's I know this. It's number one rated on Prime

627
00:34:17,640 --> 00:34:20,080
Speaker 1: at the moment. The summer. I turned pretty yes that

628
00:34:20,280 --> 00:34:22,560
Speaker 1: season three? Is it that? I don't know, That's what

629
00:34:22,600 --> 00:34:24,680
Speaker 1: I'm thinking. All I'm saying is team Conrad. Let's go.

630
00:34:25,040 --> 00:34:28,480
Speaker 1: That's me. You know my middle name? Is that what

631
00:34:29,840 --> 00:34:32,960
Speaker 1: your first name is? Not comrade? So still Conrad is

632
00:34:33,000 --> 00:34:38,120
Speaker 1: a Conrade? Or he's Conrad. Ah, this one's got a

633
00:34:38,160 --> 00:34:41,320
Speaker 1: knee on the end. Mate, No it doesn't. Yeah, you're lying, motherfucker.

634
00:34:41,400 --> 00:34:45,400
Speaker 1: I couldn't see it because Jake's old dog, his labrador

635
00:34:45,520 --> 00:34:47,480
Speaker 1: used to call it, be called comrade. So whenever Jake

636
00:34:47,719 --> 00:34:50,920
Speaker 1: says it, he sometimes says, comrade Comrad. Yeah, my name's Conrad, mate,

637
00:34:50,920 --> 00:34:55,359
Speaker 1: whenever you also like com Rad with an M for mum.

638
00:34:56,200 --> 00:34:59,680
Speaker 1: Is it's actually a weird name because it's more commonly Conrad.

639
00:34:59,760 --> 00:35:01,480
Speaker 1: So and people would say, what's his name, like comrade

640
00:35:01,480 --> 00:35:02,840
Speaker 1: and they call him Conrad and I say, no, no, no,

641
00:35:03,040 --> 00:35:06,440
Speaker 1: that's I mean I could call him if you want

642
00:35:07,360 --> 00:35:12,600
Speaker 1: what do girls want? Your credit card? O? Not gonna lie.

643
00:35:14,000 --> 00:35:17,919
Speaker 1: I think I've said this before, but something I really

644
00:35:18,000 --> 00:35:20,279
Speaker 1: want to be able to do one day is just

645
00:35:20,880 --> 00:35:24,520
Speaker 1: you know, Beth says she's gone shopping, and I just.

646
00:35:24,560 --> 00:35:27,520
Speaker 5: Go I would love to do that to whip out

647
00:35:27,560 --> 00:35:32,960
Speaker 5: the AMX or some ship take that, and then and

648
00:35:33,120 --> 00:35:36,279
Speaker 5: then as she leaves, you whip up the AMX card

649
00:35:36,719 --> 00:35:37,879
Speaker 5: Max five hundred dollars.

650
00:35:42,160 --> 00:35:44,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, just see if she uses it. But it was

651
00:35:44,800 --> 00:35:52,719
Speaker 1: just that's like a toxic male. I still have deep

652
00:35:52,800 --> 00:35:59,480
Speaker 1: within What do girls want my tax reg my tax return?

653
00:35:59,600 --> 00:36:03,080
Speaker 1: I need it. Oh it's tax real turn time right now. Yeah.

654
00:36:03,480 --> 00:36:06,480
Speaker 1: I wonder how many people like, maybe I shouldn't say

655
00:36:06,480 --> 00:36:10,200
Speaker 1: that Ford that shit everyone. Yeah, they're not going to

656
00:36:10,320 --> 00:36:13,319
Speaker 1: order the single first tax you've ever gotten back. Wait,

657
00:36:13,480 --> 00:36:16,080
Speaker 1: one year, I got like three grand. That'd be nice, eh.

658
00:36:16,719 --> 00:36:18,680
Speaker 2: Like one of the perks about us is we pay

659
00:36:18,920 --> 00:36:20,840
Speaker 2: tax after so we get a bill. So it's actually

660
00:36:20,880 --> 00:36:23,279
Speaker 2: kind of worse. It's not a perfect well, it's kind

661
00:36:23,280 --> 00:36:24,560
Speaker 2: of like we get to spend the money and then

662
00:36:24,600 --> 00:36:27,080
Speaker 2: at the end we get depressed all the way through

663
00:36:27,080 --> 00:36:28,120
Speaker 2: their depressed and then they get back.

664
00:36:28,120 --> 00:36:30,239
Speaker 1: So it's like a perk. Yeah, it's nice that one

665
00:36:30,280 --> 00:36:31,719
Speaker 1: time with you when you just get this cheey little

666
00:36:31,719 --> 00:36:34,719
Speaker 1: pay day. Yeah, yeah, it's nice. What do girls want

667
00:36:35,239 --> 00:36:39,800
Speaker 1: to have their organs rearranged? This is coming from girls,

668
00:36:39,840 --> 00:36:42,680
Speaker 1: by the way. I saw a few of them organs

669
00:36:42,840 --> 00:36:45,719
Speaker 1: rearrange do you want to be able to walk tomorrow? No?

670
00:36:46,120 --> 00:36:52,200
Speaker 1: Obviously silly question, obviously not. What do girls want? Some

671
00:36:52,400 --> 00:36:58,919
Speaker 1: fucking pockets would be nice? That's funny talking about opportunities

672
00:36:58,960 --> 00:37:02,240
Speaker 1: before we've spoke about this. Yeah, great business opportunity, women's

673
00:37:02,239 --> 00:37:09,040
Speaker 1: clothing line, pockets. Yeah, yeah, you hold my ship. I'm

674
00:37:09,040 --> 00:37:12,200
Speaker 1: pretty sure you came up with that too. This is

675
00:37:12,280 --> 00:37:14,680
Speaker 1: something come up with men on the.

676
00:37:14,719 --> 00:37:20,440
Speaker 2: Moon, Apple phones, Jake with pockets. Yeah, I think this

677
00:37:20,600 --> 00:37:22,319
Speaker 2: is the most relatable. What do girls want?

678
00:37:22,719 --> 00:37:25,719
Speaker 1: Some good food, a dick, and maybe a good lash day,

679
00:37:26,960 --> 00:37:32,560
Speaker 1: good lash day. Yeah, maybe that's funny. Here we go.

680
00:37:32,640 --> 00:37:35,800
Speaker 1: I got what do girls want? The three d's, dogs,

681
00:37:36,040 --> 00:37:41,000
Speaker 1: donuts and dicks minus the last one. I would love that,

682
00:37:41,640 --> 00:37:48,520
Speaker 1: dogs and donut. I just want double d's. I didn't

683
00:37:48,560 --> 00:38:03,160
Speaker 1: mean it that way. Ship. What do girls want? An

684
00:38:03,200 --> 00:38:06,839
Speaker 1: actual good one, a man, not a child. Oh facts, Yeah,

685
00:38:07,680 --> 00:38:09,960
Speaker 1: I've got a real good one. What do girls want?

686
00:38:10,760 --> 00:38:14,200
Speaker 1: Reese in the streets and Cassian in the sheets? Oh

687
00:38:16,320 --> 00:38:17,840
Speaker 1: what's the going with racing the sheets?

688
00:38:18,200 --> 00:38:18,560
Speaker 4: We don't.

689
00:38:18,800 --> 00:38:21,359
Speaker 1: We don't want to sit there on your back looking

690
00:38:21,400 --> 00:38:23,799
Speaker 1: up at him and him just going hello, are you darling?

691
00:38:24,719 --> 00:38:28,000
Speaker 1: I'd much rather Cassian just doing some freaking random. We

692
00:38:28,200 --> 00:38:30,799
Speaker 1: don't know how Cassian fox yet. Yeah, but I can.

693
00:38:31,320 --> 00:38:32,719
Speaker 1: I can put a couple, you know, I can put

694
00:38:32,719 --> 00:38:35,800
Speaker 1: two plus two together. Yeah, yeah, too equals our prediction.

695
00:38:36,000 --> 00:38:37,640
Speaker 1: That's that and him going to hit it off soon

696
00:38:38,239 --> 00:38:41,160
Speaker 1: in this book, I don't think so, maybe that it's

697
00:38:41,160 --> 00:38:43,600
Speaker 1: got to be the last book. I think. No, no,

698
00:38:43,840 --> 00:38:46,000
Speaker 1: this book. No, I don't know. I don't think they disagree.

699
00:38:46,760 --> 00:38:48,359
Speaker 1: I know I did. I think that this book they'll

700
00:38:48,840 --> 00:38:50,840
Speaker 1: a kiss or something. No, not sex. I want a

701
00:38:50,880 --> 00:38:55,000
Speaker 1: sexy scene. Oh you mean like from their POV time. Yeah,

702
00:38:56,200 --> 00:38:59,040
Speaker 1: we should write one eat fanfic. Oh wait, let's just

703
00:38:59,080 --> 00:39:03,600
Speaker 1: come up a fanfic. Ye, get out? What do girls

704
00:39:03,680 --> 00:39:12,440
Speaker 1: want to heal but with drama? So, what I'm hearing

705
00:39:12,560 --> 00:39:14,719
Speaker 1: is you want cake and you want to be eating it.

706
00:39:15,080 --> 00:39:18,880
Speaker 1: I want to heal, but I want his laugh around me.

707
00:39:19,120 --> 00:39:21,719
Speaker 1: What I'm hearing is the entertaining. What I'm hearing is

708
00:39:21,760 --> 00:39:24,120
Speaker 1: you want to make your bed and not sleep. That's

709
00:39:24,160 --> 00:39:29,200
Speaker 1: what I'm hearing. All right, What do girls want someone

710
00:39:29,280 --> 00:39:32,040
Speaker 1: to say? That's crazy? Well, I tell a long story.

711
00:39:33,040 --> 00:39:35,880
Speaker 1: I'm good at that. That's crazy. I know. Live here

712
00:39:36,480 --> 00:39:41,080
Speaker 1: to keep going. Uh huh noway, okay, I want you

713
00:39:41,280 --> 00:39:44,040
Speaker 1: to do this one. Okay, give some girls what they want.

714
00:39:44,840 --> 00:39:47,280
Speaker 1: What do girls want? A man with a deep voice?

715
00:39:49,040 --> 00:39:49,279
Speaker 2: Fuck?

716
00:39:50,160 --> 00:39:55,120
Speaker 1: What do you want to say? Ah? No, I was thinking.

717
00:39:56,520 --> 00:40:01,920
Speaker 1: My name's Jacin. I just went to the gym. How

718
00:40:01,960 --> 00:40:04,440
Speaker 1: do you lower your boys? Because I think I actually

719
00:40:04,440 --> 00:40:08,439
Speaker 1: were kind of a high voice. My name is Jake

720
00:40:09,719 --> 00:40:12,400
Speaker 1: and I just went to the gym. You know who

721
00:40:12,480 --> 00:40:19,640
Speaker 1: has a low voice? The guy? How do you how

722
00:40:19,680 --> 00:40:21,279
Speaker 1: do you do a deepvoice? Do sound? Cep? You sound

723
00:40:21,280 --> 00:40:29,319
Speaker 1: like you're Growley? My name, my name, my name? Who

724
00:40:29,400 --> 00:40:33,680
Speaker 1: has a deep boy? The guy? Or you know that

725
00:40:33,800 --> 00:40:38,840
Speaker 1: movie Divergent, the guy that plays four. You know his

726
00:40:39,000 --> 00:40:40,680
Speaker 1: name is a number for We were going to say

727
00:40:40,680 --> 00:40:44,359
Speaker 1: the main character. That's a girl, that's a good man

728
00:40:44,480 --> 00:40:46,160
Speaker 1: dude who they have a crush on each other? Is

729
00:40:46,160 --> 00:40:48,040
Speaker 1: that four? Four? I don't know who his name is.

730
00:40:48,120 --> 00:40:51,080
Speaker 1: Does every dead boy hypocrite? You thought it was a

731
00:40:51,120 --> 00:41:01,080
Speaker 1: main character? Okay? What do girls want to soft launch?

732
00:41:01,120 --> 00:41:05,160
Speaker 1: A man with a veiny hand and never explain the thing.

733
00:41:05,760 --> 00:41:10,400
Speaker 2: Oh damn, and like the veins go halfway up the

734
00:41:10,440 --> 00:41:11,400
Speaker 2: wrist into the forearm.

735
00:41:11,520 --> 00:41:16,439
Speaker 1: Chicky little nice tattoo. Yeah, just get him after a pump,

736
00:41:16,960 --> 00:41:19,880
Speaker 1: make sure his body fats like underfi brother's arm or

737
00:41:19,960 --> 00:41:20,279
Speaker 1: some shit.

738
00:41:22,880 --> 00:41:26,240
Speaker 2: Just get your brother to hold his elbow, yeah, block

739
00:41:26,320 --> 00:41:27,200
Speaker 2: off the bloodshed.

740
00:41:27,760 --> 00:41:30,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, and then just make him into it. Put his

741
00:41:30,239 --> 00:41:31,719
Speaker 1: hand into a fist a couple of times. Make a

742
00:41:31,760 --> 00:41:33,600
Speaker 1: picture of it. When you get a few messages from

743
00:41:33,640 --> 00:41:36,440
Speaker 1: guys that think you're off the market, your brother's hand

744
00:41:36,480 --> 00:41:43,680
Speaker 1: on your story. What do girls want? Endless free shipping? Oh?

745
00:41:43,840 --> 00:41:48,439
Speaker 1: What girls and free shipping? Bro? I mean that would

746
00:41:48,440 --> 00:41:52,600
Speaker 1: be a dream. Well, yeah, be a dream. But so

747
00:41:53,280 --> 00:41:58,120
Speaker 1: actually free shipping on endless free shipping would save women

748
00:41:58,200 --> 00:42:01,120
Speaker 1: a lot of money. Because Beth does this all the time.

749
00:42:02,000 --> 00:42:04,480
Speaker 1: You'll see how much is it to get the free shipping.

750
00:42:04,600 --> 00:42:06,719
Speaker 1: The other day we bought Henry some more tennis balls.

751
00:42:07,040 --> 00:42:09,480
Speaker 1: I was going to buy him one pack and pay

752
00:42:10,160 --> 00:42:13,680
Speaker 1: like seven dollars for shipping. All right, the balls were

753
00:42:13,680 --> 00:42:18,280
Speaker 1: six dollars, seven dollars for shipping. What's that? Seven? Thirteen dollars?

754
00:42:18,400 --> 00:42:20,799
Speaker 1: Thirteen dollars? Ye, guess how much I spent to get

755
00:42:20,800 --> 00:42:25,879
Speaker 1: free shipping? Fifty? Oh fifty? Wait I think Beth paid

756
00:42:25,960 --> 00:42:26,120
Speaker 1: for it.

757
00:42:26,360 --> 00:42:28,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's you know, that's how businesses make money, right,

758
00:42:28,920 --> 00:42:30,960
Speaker 2: So they'll be like yeah, yeah, yea, yeah yeh're free shipping.

759
00:42:31,000 --> 00:42:33,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, because they're fucking making bank off that. Now, Oh yeah,

760
00:42:33,640 --> 00:42:35,959
Speaker 1: why didn't you just buy? Oh you needed fifty dollars

761
00:42:35,960 --> 00:42:38,120
Speaker 1: to get free shipping. Well to spend fifty bucks to

762
00:42:38,160 --> 00:42:40,960
Speaker 1: get free shipping? He Beth felt for it. You didn't, Well,

763
00:42:41,080 --> 00:42:43,279
Speaker 1: you would have been better off she ended up paying

764
00:42:43,280 --> 00:42:47,360
Speaker 1: for it. Yeah, so technically you saved seven dollars. I

765
00:42:47,440 --> 00:42:52,279
Speaker 1: saved thirteen dollars to buy the shipping. Okay, my last

766
00:42:52,320 --> 00:42:56,480
Speaker 1: one is probably the best one, actually, serious, what do

767
00:42:56,640 --> 00:43:02,480
Speaker 1: girls want? Safety fair certainly can argue with that, and

768
00:43:03,000 --> 00:43:05,040
Speaker 1: they should have it to be able to walk home

769
00:43:05,080 --> 00:43:15,239
Speaker 1: at night. Yeah, Baddi's time for a couple of cheeky dilemmas.

770
00:43:16,120 --> 00:43:19,080
Speaker 1: You know what to do in the link in the description,

771
00:43:19,760 --> 00:43:21,279
Speaker 1: or if you want to be able to do it

772
00:43:21,320 --> 00:43:26,880
Speaker 1: one every single time, all the time, that's what time is.

773
00:43:27,640 --> 00:43:32,160
Speaker 1: Instagram bio. Click the link, scroll down, add your dilemma,

774
00:43:32,600 --> 00:43:34,719
Speaker 1: all anonymous, No need to worry.

775
00:43:34,840 --> 00:43:37,080
Speaker 2: Okay, you know how a baddie said before to heal

776
00:43:37,280 --> 00:43:40,240
Speaker 2: with drama. The best drama you can get is our dilemmas.

777
00:43:41,280 --> 00:43:45,960
Speaker 2: So true, I've got one that is we can help

778
00:43:46,000 --> 00:43:52,480
Speaker 2: her right, maybe not. Hey, Jake and Oddie, I'm having

779
00:43:52,520 --> 00:43:55,360
Speaker 2: trouble coming to terms that a guy I talked to

780
00:43:56,239 --> 00:43:58,759
Speaker 2: didn't want me, and I've never stopped.

781
00:43:58,520 --> 00:44:02,600
Speaker 1: Thinking about him. Reliable. For a little bit of context,

782
00:44:02,880 --> 00:44:06,720
Speaker 1: we met at a club where people from different schools

783
00:44:06,880 --> 00:44:09,800
Speaker 1: work together, so like after school club, not like a

784
00:44:12,800 --> 00:44:15,120
Speaker 1: I saw him and was immediately attracted to him, but

785
00:44:15,560 --> 00:44:17,520
Speaker 1: I had never talked to a guy or approached one,

786
00:44:17,640 --> 00:44:20,239
Speaker 1: so I didn't make a move. One night, I worked

787
00:44:20,280 --> 00:44:22,600
Speaker 1: up the courage to DM him on Instagram and he

788
00:44:22,719 --> 00:44:27,320
Speaker 1: immediately replied, which gave me butterflies. We kept talking and

789
00:44:27,440 --> 00:44:29,520
Speaker 1: I would only have to wait around thirty minutes for

790
00:44:29,600 --> 00:44:32,200
Speaker 1: a reply, which I thought was a pretty good response time,

791
00:44:32,400 --> 00:44:36,760
Speaker 1: but then the times got longer. Eventually, after two weeks,

792
00:44:37,239 --> 00:44:39,880
Speaker 1: I realized that I really liked him, not just because

793
00:44:39,920 --> 00:44:43,600
Speaker 1: of the looks, but because we had common interests. So

794
00:44:43,840 --> 00:44:45,640
Speaker 1: I asked him if he felt the same, because I

795
00:44:45,719 --> 00:44:48,360
Speaker 1: thought the best idea would to be would be to

796
00:44:48,480 --> 00:44:51,040
Speaker 1: be forward okay, which is pretty cool. I would use

797
00:44:51,040 --> 00:44:54,480
Speaker 1: a word transparent and then forward for He told me

798
00:44:54,640 --> 00:44:57,600
Speaker 1: that he didn't know, and when I told him that,

799
00:44:57,719 --> 00:45:00,440
Speaker 1: I that if I could be anything, it would be

800
00:45:00,560 --> 00:45:04,960
Speaker 1: his girlfriend. He said, Oh, that should have been the

801
00:45:05,040 --> 00:45:08,200
Speaker 1: first sign that he wasn't interested, but we kept talking.

802
00:45:08,800 --> 00:45:11,239
Speaker 1: After a month of talking, I assumed he knew how

803
00:45:11,719 --> 00:45:14,040
Speaker 1: he felt about me, so I asked him again how

804
00:45:14,120 --> 00:45:16,440
Speaker 1: he felt, and again he said he didn't know. The

805
00:45:16,520 --> 00:45:18,600
Speaker 1: next day he goes to me and I have and

806
00:45:18,719 --> 00:45:22,520
Speaker 1: I haven't forgotten about him since. Fast forward to now,

807
00:45:23,320 --> 00:45:26,440
Speaker 1: and I recently saw him at the movies with another girl,

808
00:45:27,360 --> 00:45:29,920
Speaker 1: which was kind of a shock to me, though I

809
00:45:30,040 --> 00:45:32,200
Speaker 1: knew he was moving on from me because at this

810
00:45:32,320 --> 00:45:38,279
Speaker 1: point it's been about two years. Wait, wait, say that again.

811
00:45:40,719 --> 00:45:42,560
Speaker 1: I recently saw him at the movies with another girl,

812
00:45:43,320 --> 00:45:46,160
Speaker 1: which was kind of a shock to me, even though

813
00:45:46,440 --> 00:45:48,799
Speaker 1: I knew he was moving on from me because at

814
00:45:48,840 --> 00:45:53,440
Speaker 1: this point it had been about two years. So my

815
00:45:53,600 --> 00:45:56,640
Speaker 1: question is, what advice do you have for me to

816
00:45:56,719 --> 00:46:00,360
Speaker 1: move on from him. I've tried getting to know other guys,

817
00:46:00,760 --> 00:46:02,759
Speaker 1: but he has always been stuck in my mind and

818
00:46:02,880 --> 00:46:05,719
Speaker 1: I need him gone. I love the podcast, and I'm

819
00:46:05,760 --> 00:46:07,879
Speaker 1: so sorry for how long this was lot. Any help

820
00:46:07,960 --> 00:46:12,120
Speaker 1: or advice would be amazing. Thanks. Okay thrown a little

821
00:46:12,120 --> 00:46:14,880
Speaker 1: bit of a curve ball in there at the end. Honestly,

822
00:46:15,960 --> 00:46:20,960
Speaker 1: I think what has happened is so it's because it's

823
00:46:21,000 --> 00:46:24,080
Speaker 1: been two years, right, and each guy you've spoken to

824
00:46:24,320 --> 00:46:27,800
Speaker 1: you haven't forgotten about, So you haven't you haven't forgotten

825
00:46:27,800 --> 00:46:30,520
Speaker 1: about him. I have a feeling it's something to do

826
00:46:30,600 --> 00:46:33,399
Speaker 1: with the fact that you liked him, didn't get him.

827
00:46:33,600 --> 00:46:35,680
Speaker 1: So it's always been in my mind, like what would

828
00:46:35,719 --> 00:46:38,640
Speaker 1: it have been like with him? So what if? It's

829
00:46:38,680 --> 00:46:43,000
Speaker 1: a big what if? But also, girl, fuck this man's Yeah,

830
00:46:43,640 --> 00:46:45,239
Speaker 1: why do you want to Why would you be thinking

831
00:46:45,280 --> 00:46:46,759
Speaker 1: what it's like with someone that doesn't even want you?

832
00:46:47,840 --> 00:46:48,040
Speaker 4: Yeah?

833
00:46:48,200 --> 00:46:52,280
Speaker 2: Being understanding though the what if is a lot harder

834
00:46:52,560 --> 00:46:57,200
Speaker 2: to get over than the I know, especially in a relationship,

835
00:46:57,280 --> 00:46:58,960
Speaker 2: you have no idea what it was like, and you

836
00:46:59,120 --> 00:47:01,200
Speaker 2: think it's kind of like you built up this false

837
00:47:01,320 --> 00:47:02,879
Speaker 2: version of the man within your head and you think

838
00:47:02,880 --> 00:47:05,120
Speaker 2: he's perfect when in reality he was nothing.

839
00:47:07,040 --> 00:47:10,719
Speaker 1: True. Yeah, you're right. What happened was like you saw him,

840
00:47:10,840 --> 00:47:14,640
Speaker 1: he was attractive, messaged interests, right, so then you're like, well,

841
00:47:14,640 --> 00:47:16,239
Speaker 1: I actually like this guy for who he is. We

842
00:47:16,360 --> 00:47:18,800
Speaker 1: have someone just just all this stuff. So then you

843
00:47:18,840 --> 00:47:20,600
Speaker 1: would have obviously been thinking like what it would have

844
00:47:20,640 --> 00:47:22,120
Speaker 1: been like to be with him. You put him on

845
00:47:22,160 --> 00:47:25,200
Speaker 1: a pedestal without really knowing him, and how long do

846
00:47:25,239 --> 00:47:28,080
Speaker 1: they talk all together? A couple of months? Wow?

847
00:47:28,200 --> 00:47:33,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like the harsh reality of it is he was

848
00:47:33,560 --> 00:47:36,759
Speaker 2: nothing and that what if is eating you up.

849
00:47:36,760 --> 00:47:41,680
Speaker 1: And it's just how can you get over this? It

850
00:47:41,800 --> 00:47:43,919
Speaker 1: was after a month of talking. I assumed he knew

851
00:47:44,560 --> 00:47:46,359
Speaker 1: how he felt about me, just talked to other dudes

852
00:47:46,400 --> 00:47:49,640
Speaker 1: and that didn't help. So it's a it's a personal problem.

853
00:47:50,160 --> 00:47:55,520
Speaker 1: I guess all you can do is clone him and

854
00:47:55,680 --> 00:47:56,480
Speaker 1: get with the clone.

855
00:47:58,040 --> 00:48:03,200
Speaker 2: I think it comes down to boring answer. But you

856
00:48:03,400 --> 00:48:06,920
Speaker 2: were looking for something within someone else when you need

857
00:48:07,000 --> 00:48:09,680
Speaker 2: to look for it within yourself, and the closure are

858
00:48:09,680 --> 00:48:12,600
Speaker 2: only going to come when you figure out yourself, so

859
00:48:13,040 --> 00:48:15,200
Speaker 2: you look for other men to get distracted when.

860
00:48:15,080 --> 00:48:15,840
Speaker 1: That wasn't the answer.

861
00:48:15,880 --> 00:48:18,080
Speaker 2: I think all you have to do is be alone

862
00:48:18,640 --> 00:48:22,560
Speaker 2: and be completely confident in yourself and not need no man.

863
00:48:22,960 --> 00:48:24,799
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's not the answer to what you want.

864
00:48:25,200 --> 00:48:28,080
Speaker 2: And when you feel like you are completely confident, independent

865
00:48:28,320 --> 00:48:29,640
Speaker 2: doing your own thing, you might feel a lot of

866
00:48:29,680 --> 00:48:30,799
Speaker 2: these things, but you still in the back of your

867
00:48:30,800 --> 00:48:32,600
Speaker 2: head feel like you need this man. Then you're not

868
00:48:32,640 --> 00:48:34,720
Speaker 2: there yet, so keep working on yourself.

869
00:48:35,239 --> 00:48:37,680
Speaker 1: True. True. It's hard though, because it's like she has

870
00:48:37,760 --> 00:48:40,440
Speaker 1: been obviously not with people for two full years.

871
00:48:40,840 --> 00:48:42,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, but she hasn't healed. How else would you hear

872
00:48:42,840 --> 00:48:44,640
Speaker 2: if he's eating up, he's eating away.

873
00:48:44,680 --> 00:48:47,719
Speaker 1: If you're still thinking about him, how do you just

874
00:48:48,080 --> 00:48:52,799
Speaker 1: literally have to wait? Well, we said before, even though

875
00:48:52,840 --> 00:48:55,759
Speaker 1: it's not a breakup, everyone deals with it on their

876
00:48:55,800 --> 00:48:58,040
Speaker 1: own timeline. It's a good point.

877
00:48:58,520 --> 00:49:00,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, and she might just be a very slow healer,

878
00:49:00,840 --> 00:49:04,160
Speaker 2: which is fine. But there becomes a point, I guess,

879
00:49:04,200 --> 00:49:06,040
Speaker 2: and I think you submitting this dilemma might be that

880
00:49:06,120 --> 00:49:07,480
Speaker 2: point where you're just like, I've had enough.

881
00:49:08,280 --> 00:49:10,440
Speaker 1: I guess. I guess what she's never done is accepted

882
00:49:10,480 --> 00:49:12,239
Speaker 1: that she's never going to have this man. That's the

883
00:49:12,280 --> 00:49:14,360
Speaker 1: first thing true, Maybe because she said that she was

884
00:49:14,400 --> 00:49:16,360
Speaker 1: shocked when she saw him with another girl. It's been

885
00:49:16,400 --> 00:49:17,160
Speaker 1: two years, you know.

886
00:49:17,640 --> 00:49:19,640
Speaker 2: The first thing you have to do right now, literally

887
00:49:19,880 --> 00:49:22,560
Speaker 2: as you listen to this is say I never want

888
00:49:22,600 --> 00:49:24,239
Speaker 2: to be with that man, and it's never going to happen.

889
00:49:24,680 --> 00:49:26,760
Speaker 1: True. Yeah, it's never going to happen. I guess. Another

890
00:49:26,800 --> 00:49:30,560
Speaker 1: harsh reality is, at any point have you ever said

891
00:49:30,600 --> 00:49:35,440
Speaker 1: to yourself, I understand and can accept that he never

892
00:49:35,520 --> 00:49:37,919
Speaker 1: wanted me and doesn't want me, because if he wanted

893
00:49:37,920 --> 00:49:41,160
Speaker 1: to be with me, like if you wanted to be

894
00:49:41,280 --> 00:49:43,680
Speaker 1: with you, you know you were you were open to

895
00:49:43,800 --> 00:49:45,000
Speaker 1: us and said you liked him. If you wanted to

896
00:49:45,040 --> 00:49:46,600
Speaker 1: be with you, you guys would be together. Yeah, and

897
00:49:46,719 --> 00:49:48,840
Speaker 1: you did everything right in your defense. And also this

898
00:49:49,200 --> 00:49:50,360
Speaker 1: sort of goes on to my dilemma.

899
00:49:50,400 --> 00:49:54,520
Speaker 2: What it's about is you should never let his actions

900
00:49:54,600 --> 00:49:57,279
Speaker 2: decide how you feel about yourself. Him not wanting you

901
00:49:57,360 --> 00:49:58,280
Speaker 2: doesn't change your value.

902
00:49:58,560 --> 00:49:59,480
Speaker 1: No, not at all.

903
00:50:00,239 --> 00:50:02,879
Speaker 2: And I think you're kind of wanting that from him

904
00:50:02,920 --> 00:50:04,400
Speaker 2: to get your value back when you don't need it

905
00:50:04,440 --> 00:50:04,719
Speaker 2: at all.

906
00:50:04,800 --> 00:50:09,799
Speaker 1: You are valuable without him completely. Yeah, it is tough. Yeah,

907
00:50:10,120 --> 00:50:13,440
Speaker 1: two years, it's a long period of time you were

908
00:50:14,160 --> 00:50:19,000
Speaker 1: Dare I say lack of the word for sorry. I've

909
00:50:19,000 --> 00:50:21,000
Speaker 1: always wanted to say this phrase for better lack of

910
00:50:21,080 --> 00:50:26,960
Speaker 1: the word. Yeah, flabberghast flubs. Your delivery needs work. You

911
00:50:27,080 --> 00:50:30,040
Speaker 1: almost have it. But I was watching what was I watching?

912
00:50:30,920 --> 00:50:35,800
Speaker 1: I was watching a movie? Yeah, and this girl detective

913
00:50:35,840 --> 00:50:37,880
Speaker 1: had to go to a hospital and get to get records,

914
00:50:38,880 --> 00:50:43,000
Speaker 1: and the guy the doctor was talking about this patients

915
00:50:43,120 --> 00:50:45,759
Speaker 1: I don't know case and then he's He was like,

916
00:50:45,840 --> 00:50:48,000
Speaker 1: for better lack of the word, she's insane, and I

917
00:50:48,120 --> 00:50:50,640
Speaker 1: was like, oh, better luck of the world.

918
00:50:50,640 --> 00:50:51,120
Speaker 4: I like that.

919
00:50:52,239 --> 00:50:55,400
Speaker 1: I really like that. Flabber gas, how do I how

920
00:50:55,440 --> 00:50:57,239
Speaker 1: do I find something to describe it? When I can't

921
00:50:57,280 --> 00:50:58,960
Speaker 1: describe it? And then say, for better lack of the world,

922
00:50:58,960 --> 00:51:02,399
Speaker 1: I'll give you delirious, you can do better? Try again

923
00:51:02,440 --> 00:51:04,879
Speaker 1: next time. Fuck it, I forgot that for better Okay,

924
00:51:04,960 --> 00:51:09,200
Speaker 1: next to Emma title my ex his friend's fleshlight and

925
00:51:09,360 --> 00:51:11,200
Speaker 1: a euro summer. That wasn't it.

926
00:51:14,800 --> 00:51:17,560
Speaker 2: Hey, guys, Okay, I'm kind of scared to put this

927
00:51:17,680 --> 00:51:19,920
Speaker 2: out there because I'm scared it will get back to him,

928
00:51:20,160 --> 00:51:22,840
Speaker 2: which is so silly. So if you read this, is

929
00:51:22,880 --> 00:51:25,040
Speaker 2: there any chance it will not go on your socials?

930
00:51:25,520 --> 00:51:25,800
Speaker 1: Sorry?

931
00:51:26,160 --> 00:51:30,200
Speaker 2: Yes, we don't do that anyway, not anymore. I don't

932
00:51:30,200 --> 00:51:31,920
Speaker 2: even know where to start with this, but I need

933
00:51:32,000 --> 00:51:34,360
Speaker 2: to get it off my chest. So last May, my

934
00:51:34,520 --> 00:51:37,360
Speaker 2: boyfriend of four years and I broke up, and honestly,

935
00:51:37,680 --> 00:51:40,839
Speaker 2: it was the best decision ever. The three months after

936
00:51:40,920 --> 00:51:44,359
Speaker 2: the breakup generally some of the best months of my life.

937
00:51:44,760 --> 00:51:49,000
Speaker 2: I felt free, I was having fun again and actually living,

938
00:51:49,560 --> 00:51:52,759
Speaker 2: and then out of nowhere, I get a random bank

939
00:51:52,880 --> 00:51:57,319
Speaker 2: transfer money from one of his friends. Apparently they were

940
00:51:57,360 --> 00:52:00,319
Speaker 2: on a night out and accidentally sent me some money

941
00:52:00,400 --> 00:52:03,320
Speaker 2: thinking I was him. They claimed it was a mistake

942
00:52:03,520 --> 00:52:06,239
Speaker 2: because of this one weird incident in the first year

943
00:52:06,320 --> 00:52:09,279
Speaker 2: of our relationship, and I swear this sounds fake, but

944
00:52:09,440 --> 00:52:11,040
Speaker 2: it's true where I had to.

945
00:52:11,080 --> 00:52:13,560
Speaker 1: Buy one of his friends a flesh light.

946
00:52:14,160 --> 00:52:16,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, because I didn't live at home and they didn't

947
00:52:16,719 --> 00:52:19,279
Speaker 2: want it showing up at their parents' house, so I

948
00:52:19,360 --> 00:52:22,279
Speaker 2: bought it. They transferred me, I gave it to my

949
00:52:22,360 --> 00:52:24,880
Speaker 2: boyfriend and he passed it on. Super weird, I know,

950
00:52:25,160 --> 00:52:28,719
Speaker 2: but also his friends never accidentally sent me money once

951
00:52:28,840 --> 00:52:31,600
Speaker 2: in our four years we were together, and suddenly after

952
00:52:31,680 --> 00:52:34,920
Speaker 2: we broke up, they start doing it like four times.

953
00:52:35,440 --> 00:52:40,719
Speaker 2: What anyway, that broke our no contact streak. Around that

954
00:52:40,920 --> 00:52:44,680
Speaker 2: same time, I realized I still had his mum's expensive

955
00:52:44,800 --> 00:52:47,759
Speaker 2: massage gun and I figured I should return it. So

956
00:52:47,960 --> 00:52:49,840
Speaker 2: he said his mum had been asking for it, and

957
00:52:50,000 --> 00:52:51,919
Speaker 2: even though I didn't want to see him, I kind

958
00:52:52,000 --> 00:52:52,560
Speaker 2: of did.

959
00:52:52,800 --> 00:52:55,000
Speaker 1: I don't know. It was literally the day before my

960
00:52:55,080 --> 00:52:57,920
Speaker 1: twenty first birthday, and I just had this awful feeling

961
00:52:58,000 --> 00:53:00,480
Speaker 1: in my chest, like I couldn't wait another few days

962
00:53:00,520 --> 00:53:02,800
Speaker 1: to get it over with, so I said, are you

963
00:53:02,920 --> 00:53:05,040
Speaker 1: free now? And he was like yeah. So I drove

964
00:53:05,080 --> 00:53:06,920
Speaker 1: over and yeah, I got dressed up. I wanted to

965
00:53:06,960 --> 00:53:07,359
Speaker 1: look good.

966
00:53:08,480 --> 00:53:11,120
Speaker 2: I got there and he was actually really nice at first.

967
00:53:11,800 --> 00:53:14,640
Speaker 2: He said I look amazing, said things had been really

968
00:53:14,719 --> 00:53:17,440
Speaker 2: hard without me, started telling me about what he's been

969
00:53:17,520 --> 00:53:20,879
Speaker 2: up to, and one thing led to another. We ended

970
00:53:20,960 --> 00:53:21,800
Speaker 2: up sleeping together.

971
00:53:22,160 --> 00:53:22,319
Speaker 1: Oh.

972
00:53:24,080 --> 00:53:27,080
Speaker 2: He would stop midway and say, I hope you know

973
00:53:27,239 --> 00:53:29,520
Speaker 2: this doesn't mean we're getting back together, you know, right,

974
00:53:29,880 --> 00:53:31,640
Speaker 2: And of course I knew it. I didn't want to

975
00:53:31,680 --> 00:53:34,280
Speaker 2: get back together with him either, but just felt awful

976
00:53:34,320 --> 00:53:38,560
Speaker 2: at the time. And then he flipped like completely first

977
00:53:38,640 --> 00:53:41,440
Speaker 2: thing out of his mouth after it was I did

978
00:53:41,480 --> 00:53:43,880
Speaker 2: all the work while you just laid there like a starfish.

979
00:53:44,360 --> 00:53:48,120
Speaker 2: At least at least the head was good, though, literally

980
00:53:48,200 --> 00:53:51,640
Speaker 2: said that to my face. I actually feel so embarrassed

981
00:53:51,640 --> 00:53:53,600
Speaker 2: by that, Like I gave this man head and his

982
00:53:53,719 --> 00:53:55,680
Speaker 2: fucking willy smelt like fucking rotten cheese.

983
00:53:57,560 --> 00:53:58,439
Speaker 1: And it just got worse.

984
00:53:58,640 --> 00:54:00,800
Speaker 2: He started saying that you're in the last year of

985
00:54:00,840 --> 00:54:04,000
Speaker 2: our relationship. Sometimes you like me, sometimes you didn't. He

986
00:54:04,160 --> 00:54:06,399
Speaker 2: was too lazy to be in a relationship. Wasn't ready

987
00:54:06,440 --> 00:54:08,759
Speaker 2: for our relationship, even though we had been together for

988
00:54:08,840 --> 00:54:12,080
Speaker 2: four years. Also side note, a big reason why I

989
00:54:12,120 --> 00:54:14,120
Speaker 2: broke up with him was because he said to me

990
00:54:14,320 --> 00:54:16,920
Speaker 2: that I was less attractive since I gazed, since I

991
00:54:17,080 --> 00:54:23,000
Speaker 2: gained weight. Anyway, back to the story. He also said

992
00:54:23,040 --> 00:54:26,040
Speaker 2: that I purposely came over to try and seduce him

993
00:54:26,320 --> 00:54:30,480
Speaker 2: by dressing up and wearing nice underwear, and then he

994
00:54:30,600 --> 00:54:33,359
Speaker 2: just kept picking me apart. I'd ask if he was okay,

995
00:54:33,480 --> 00:54:35,520
Speaker 2: because he'd go silent, and then he'd be like, whoa,

996
00:54:35,640 --> 00:54:37,680
Speaker 2: you haven't changed it all this whole time. Meanwhile, I

997
00:54:37,840 --> 00:54:40,120
Speaker 2: was just sitting there being like, you're so great, You've

998
00:54:40,160 --> 00:54:43,440
Speaker 2: grown so much, like an absolute idiot. And then this

999
00:54:43,640 --> 00:54:46,880
Speaker 2: is the worst part. It hit midnight. It was officially

1000
00:54:47,000 --> 00:54:50,440
Speaker 2: my twenty first birthday, and the guy literally starts vomiting,

1001
00:54:50,719 --> 00:54:53,120
Speaker 2: like gagging and vomiting, saying, you feel sick with guilt,

1002
00:54:53,520 --> 00:54:56,279
Speaker 2: and what do I say? It's okay, I still think

1003
00:54:56,280 --> 00:54:57,000
Speaker 2: you're a good person.

1004
00:54:57,280 --> 00:55:00,960
Speaker 1: What am I on? What's he guilty about? I don't know,

1005
00:55:01,040 --> 00:55:01,600
Speaker 1: sleeping with her?

1006
00:55:01,719 --> 00:55:03,480
Speaker 2: And he was like, I'm not letting you drive home

1007
00:55:03,600 --> 00:55:05,640
Speaker 2: like this. You can stay, but I'm going to bed,

1008
00:55:05,760 --> 00:55:07,880
Speaker 2: and then he left me there, gave me a pillow

1009
00:55:07,960 --> 00:55:10,840
Speaker 2: with no pillowcase on, and walked off. I stayed until

1010
00:55:10,920 --> 00:55:13,440
Speaker 2: five am. I have no idea why I just did,

1011
00:55:13,719 --> 00:55:16,399
Speaker 2: and then I left and that was it. He never apologized,

1012
00:55:16,520 --> 00:55:19,759
Speaker 2: never wished me a happy birthday, just nothing. The money

1013
00:55:19,800 --> 00:55:23,440
Speaker 2: thing happened a few more times his friends accidentally transferred

1014
00:55:23,520 --> 00:55:25,680
Speaker 2: me money, but I'd just send it back and be like,

1015
00:55:25,760 --> 00:55:26,919
Speaker 2: please tell them to stop.

1016
00:55:27,760 --> 00:55:29,880
Speaker 1: And that's it. I haven't spoke to him since February.

1017
00:55:30,040 --> 00:55:32,120
Speaker 1: I just got back from my five weeks in Europe.

1018
00:55:32,400 --> 00:55:34,320
Speaker 1: I was so ready for a hot girl euro.

1019
00:55:34,239 --> 00:55:37,799
Speaker 2: Summer, like I hadn't been with anyone since that night,

1020
00:55:37,880 --> 00:55:39,759
Speaker 2: and I was hoping the trip would make me feel

1021
00:55:39,760 --> 00:55:40,359
Speaker 2: confident again.

1022
00:55:40,600 --> 00:55:42,040
Speaker 1: But not one person hit on me.

1023
00:55:42,200 --> 00:55:44,800
Speaker 2: Meanwhile, all my friends were getting approached every night, and

1024
00:55:44,880 --> 00:55:47,719
Speaker 2: I just kept thinking, am I actually that unattractive?

1025
00:55:47,960 --> 00:55:56,239
Speaker 1: Like? Was he right? Fuck? What? So? I thought this was.

1026
00:55:58,239 --> 00:56:03,239
Speaker 2: A good dilemma to highlight because firstly, first off, what

1027
00:56:03,480 --> 00:56:07,319
Speaker 2: this man did absolutely terrible, terrible human being, terrible man,

1028
00:56:07,520 --> 00:56:12,040
Speaker 2: terrible person. Yeah, but more so, you should never let

1029
00:56:12,280 --> 00:56:17,839
Speaker 2: another person decide your value or worth at all. Yeah,

1030
00:56:18,320 --> 00:56:21,440
Speaker 2: because prior to this you were feeling absolutely amazing and

1031
00:56:21,719 --> 00:56:25,600
Speaker 2: feeling like yourself hot girl shit, and he took that

1032
00:56:25,680 --> 00:56:28,279
Speaker 2: away from you, which he has no right to do,

1033
00:56:28,880 --> 00:56:31,080
Speaker 2: fact at all. And I think this is a great

1034
00:56:31,200 --> 00:56:33,720
Speaker 2: learning opportunity because this man is nothing. He's the fucking

1035
00:56:34,040 --> 00:56:37,080
Speaker 2: underneath your shoe and he's ruined your eurosummer probably months

1036
00:56:37,120 --> 00:56:41,480
Speaker 2: after this happened, or because he's a pretentious man. Yeah, yeah,

1037
00:56:41,520 --> 00:56:43,160
Speaker 2: And he had no reason to do so at all,

1038
00:56:43,880 --> 00:56:45,839
Speaker 2: just to get you back, maybe for breaking up with him.

1039
00:56:45,880 --> 00:56:47,200
Speaker 2: I think out of spite was the only reason he

1040
00:56:47,239 --> 00:56:49,879
Speaker 2: would have done it, probably, Yeah, And I just thought

1041
00:56:49,880 --> 00:56:51,880
Speaker 2: it was a terrible thing, but also a great thing

1042
00:56:51,960 --> 00:56:55,839
Speaker 2: to highlight for other baddies because men especially, but any person,

1043
00:56:55,840 --> 00:56:58,759
Speaker 2: you should never let anyone else decide your value or worth.

1044
00:56:59,000 --> 00:57:02,520
Speaker 1: Nah. Yeah, not with opinions, not at all. No, definitely, not,

1045
00:57:03,200 --> 00:57:07,200
Speaker 1: especially when someone's just purposely being fucking nasty. Yeah.

1046
00:57:07,239 --> 00:57:11,759
Speaker 2: I think he had intent with the meetup, and unfortunately

1047
00:57:11,840 --> 00:57:13,480
Speaker 2: you played to his cars, had sex with him, and

1048
00:57:13,520 --> 00:57:15,680
Speaker 2: then he did this to make you feel bad.

1049
00:57:16,560 --> 00:57:22,000
Speaker 1: Well, yeah, he's probably feeling like he has I guess,

1050
00:57:23,240 --> 00:57:25,600
Speaker 1: almost like he's had the last word in an argument

1051
00:57:25,680 --> 00:57:28,760
Speaker 1: type situation where he's come out on top. Yeah, he's

1052
00:57:28,840 --> 00:57:32,360
Speaker 1: manipulated the situation for it to feel like he's one. Yeah,

1053
00:57:32,480 --> 00:57:34,600
Speaker 1: he told you what you wanted to hear. You know,

1054
00:57:35,440 --> 00:57:37,880
Speaker 1: you guys slept together, and then.

1055
00:57:39,280 --> 00:57:46,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think the light at the light within this

1056
00:57:46,280 --> 00:57:49,720
Speaker 2: tunnel is that the three months after you broke up,

1057
00:57:49,800 --> 00:57:52,439
Speaker 2: before you saw him again, the fact that you felt

1058
00:57:52,520 --> 00:57:58,160
Speaker 2: absolutely amazing means that it's there and it's going to

1059
00:57:58,320 --> 00:58:00,960
Speaker 2: be a hard road, but it's going to come back

1060
00:58:01,480 --> 00:58:04,600
Speaker 2: when you heal. And the first thing to do to

1061
00:58:04,680 --> 00:58:07,640
Speaker 2: heal is realize that this man is a terrible human

1062
00:58:07,680 --> 00:58:11,520
Speaker 2: being and he doesn't control you at all how you feel,

1063
00:58:11,800 --> 00:58:13,600
Speaker 2: but he's affecting you. And it's easier said than done.

1064
00:58:13,640 --> 00:58:15,280
Speaker 2: But that's like a bit of a light at the

1065
00:58:15,360 --> 00:58:16,760
Speaker 2: end of the tunnel that you did feel that way.

1066
00:58:16,760 --> 00:58:18,280
Speaker 2: So it's going to come back, and you know that.

1067
00:58:18,400 --> 00:58:22,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree. I think you just have to think

1068
00:58:22,280 --> 00:58:26,240
Speaker 1: back and be like, Okay, I slept with him. You

1069
00:58:26,320 --> 00:58:28,920
Speaker 1: know I was there. He was rude to me. I

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Speaker 1: let him be rude to me. You just have to

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00:58:31,840 --> 00:58:37,080
Speaker 1: fucking like, don't regret it, just be like, fuck it, Okay,

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00:58:37,120 --> 00:58:41,200
Speaker 1: I did it, And then yeah, you have to just

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00:58:41,360 --> 00:58:44,400
Speaker 1: work through that and just maybe I could be totally

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00:58:44,440 --> 00:58:46,720
Speaker 1: wrong though, Like just feel what you're feeling, and think

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00:58:46,720 --> 00:58:48,960
Speaker 1: about why you're feeling the way you're feeling. Your friend's

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00:58:49,000 --> 00:58:51,840
Speaker 1: getting boys in Europe and then you're not getting any

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00:58:51,840 --> 00:58:54,840
Speaker 1: guys in Europe has nothing to do with him, yeah,

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00:58:55,120 --> 00:59:00,240
Speaker 1: or how you look. Yeah yeah, so yeah that I

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00:59:00,320 --> 00:59:02,400
Speaker 1: mean to I dare say, with the whole Europe thing

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00:59:02,440 --> 00:59:04,160
Speaker 1: and them getting guys and you're not, is he's a

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00:59:04,240 --> 00:59:06,680
Speaker 1: luck of the draw. It's also the spiral effect, like

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00:59:06,880 --> 00:59:09,040
Speaker 1: he's forced you to kind of fall out of love

1083
00:59:09,080 --> 00:59:11,520
Speaker 1: of yourself and you just have to fall back in

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00:59:11,600 --> 00:59:13,400
Speaker 1: love with yourself. Like it's probably a good way to

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00:59:13,440 --> 00:59:13,800
Speaker 1: look at it.

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00:59:13,920 --> 00:59:17,840
Speaker 2: Like you may be not getting a man in Europe

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00:59:17,880 --> 00:59:21,280
Speaker 2: doesn't mean you're ugly orn't attractive. I remember when I

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00:59:21,360 --> 00:59:23,560
Speaker 2: used to go out The best thing sometimes obviously it's

1089
00:59:23,600 --> 00:59:25,400
Speaker 2: flattering when you get a girl or a guy to

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00:59:25,440 --> 00:59:26,840
Speaker 2: come home with you and you have a fun time.

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00:59:26,880 --> 00:59:27,480
Speaker 1: But also.

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00:59:29,320 --> 00:59:31,800
Speaker 2: Getting into a place where you go out and you

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00:59:31,880 --> 00:59:33,600
Speaker 2: don't have any intention to pick up. Well maybe you do,

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00:59:33,720 --> 00:59:35,760
Speaker 2: but you go home, have some food and you're just

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00:59:35,800 --> 00:59:38,280
Speaker 2: fucking happy. Yeah, that's what you need to look for,

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00:59:38,360 --> 00:59:40,360
Speaker 2: and you get that out of falling in love with yourself.

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00:59:40,880 --> 00:59:42,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like, did you go to Europe to get with dudes? Yeah?

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00:59:43,120 --> 00:59:46,000
Speaker 1: I dare say no, yourope hanging with your friends. Yeah,

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00:59:46,240 --> 00:59:50,000
Speaker 1: and that's what you got. But now I reckon, if

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00:59:50,080 --> 00:59:54,680
Speaker 1: you didn't go see your ex boyfriend and went to Europe,

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00:59:55,520 --> 00:59:59,600
Speaker 1: same thing happened, you wouldn't have been thinking like, oh,

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Speaker 1: I do I feel ugly because all my friends got

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01:00:03,560 --> 01:00:05,560
Speaker 1: guys and I didn't. You would be thinking I had

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01:00:05,600 --> 01:00:06,880
Speaker 1: a great ero trip with my friends because you were

1105
01:00:06,880 --> 01:00:08,960
Speaker 1: probably hanging out with your friends. Whole planted a seed

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01:00:09,000 --> 01:00:10,800
Speaker 1: of doubt. Yeah, and what you need to do is

1107
01:00:10,840 --> 01:00:13,640
Speaker 1: fucking stomp on it and piece on it two or something,

1108
01:00:14,080 --> 01:00:15,920
Speaker 1: you know what, maybe you should slash his tires.

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Speaker 2: But also it is relatable and I want to say, like,

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01:00:21,360 --> 01:00:23,919
Speaker 2: it is a tough situation what you went through. Yeah,

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01:00:24,280 --> 01:00:27,520
Speaker 2: so definitely want to say that. But you can get

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01:00:27,520 --> 01:00:29,040
Speaker 2: out of this and all you have to do is

1113
01:00:29,200 --> 01:00:30,840
Speaker 2: try and fall and love yourself again.

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Speaker 1: Guys, we didn't do it last week because we were

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01:00:41,200 --> 01:00:45,360
Speaker 1: too excited, but it's time to read some comments. I've

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01:00:45,400 --> 01:00:48,120
Speaker 1: got YouTube and this is the episode where we had

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01:00:48,200 --> 01:00:51,560
Speaker 1: we were on the radio. Yeah, but We also did

1118
01:00:51,600 --> 01:00:56,440
Speaker 1: a dilemma about if you've cheated in the past, do

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01:00:56,480 --> 01:00:58,280
Speaker 1: you tell the person you're seeing, Oh, it was a

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01:00:58,320 --> 01:01:03,560
Speaker 1: good one. Someone come to Christ loves their name. If

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01:01:03,600 --> 01:01:05,800
Speaker 1: the person you're seeing asks about your past, then you

1122
01:01:05,880 --> 01:01:08,680
Speaker 1: should be one hundred percent of truthful. But if he doesn't,

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01:01:09,040 --> 01:01:12,120
Speaker 1: ignorance is bliss. He could accept that you've changed and

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01:01:12,200 --> 01:01:14,280
Speaker 1: you won't do it again, but he's only human. He's

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01:01:14,320 --> 01:01:16,200
Speaker 1: going to think about it always when there's a slight

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Speaker 1: shift in the relationship. Ooh, okay, okay, I don't know

1127
01:01:20,280 --> 01:01:23,640
Speaker 1: about that. So maybe she's saying, like, think about it always. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I don't know. Different perspective, different perspective. Interesting say sorry,

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01:01:29,480 --> 01:01:31,680
Speaker 1: she's saying kid yourself unless they ask Yeah, oh ya.

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Speaker 1: I feel that's okay. Maybe I feel like that's kind

1131
01:01:34,400 --> 01:01:39,480
Speaker 1: of you're not lying, but you're hiding the truth. True, Okay.

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Speaker 2: Sage on Spotify said, I honestly look forward to Mondays

1133
01:01:44,160 --> 01:01:46,880
Speaker 2: now because of you guys. What other way to start

1134
01:01:46,920 --> 01:01:47,440
Speaker 2: my Monday?

1135
01:01:47,560 --> 01:01:53,160
Speaker 1: Then Jake and Aldi the Relatables party too good much?

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Speaker 1: Love you guys, Thanks Sage Alibal three h five. It's beautiful. Sorry,

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01:02:01,120 --> 01:02:03,920
Speaker 1: it's ordinary to love the beautiful. But it's beautiful to

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01:02:04,000 --> 01:02:06,360
Speaker 1: love the ordinary question mark question mark, question mark. So

1139
01:02:06,600 --> 01:02:09,080
Speaker 1: she's not beautiful. He's calling her ugly. That is not

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01:02:09,200 --> 01:02:11,440
Speaker 1: a compliment. I remember that.

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01:02:12,040 --> 01:02:15,160
Speaker 2: Okay, Bridget said, I was driving and had to pull

1142
01:02:15,240 --> 01:02:17,320
Speaker 2: over because I was so excited to listen to this

1143
01:02:17,400 --> 01:02:18,720
Speaker 2: episode being played on the radio.

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01:02:18,880 --> 01:02:21,960
Speaker 1: It's so exciting. Thank you, Bridget. Let's go so too.

1145
01:02:22,240 --> 01:02:23,760
Speaker 1: Let's go and now to.

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01:02:24,080 --> 01:02:27,480
Speaker 2: End the podcast, it's Baddie sign off time. If you

1147
01:02:27,600 --> 01:02:29,760
Speaker 2: want us to call one of you, all you have

1148
01:02:29,840 --> 01:02:32,760
Speaker 2: to do is click the link in the description and

1149
01:02:33,000 --> 01:02:33,919
Speaker 2: sign up there.

1150
01:02:34,720 --> 01:02:42,280
Speaker 1: Today we're calling Bella. Hi. Hello, is that Bella? Yeah,

1151
01:02:42,480 --> 01:02:45,000
Speaker 1: it's Audi and Jake from the Relatables podcast. How's it going?

1152
01:02:45,960 --> 01:02:47,040
Speaker 4: Good? Good?

1153
01:02:47,120 --> 01:02:48,760
Speaker 1: Thank you. We just call and to see if you

1154
01:02:48,840 --> 01:02:54,400
Speaker 1: could sign off one of our episodes. Please, Yeah, what

1155
01:02:55,240 --> 01:02:57,960
Speaker 1: you say? You can say anything you like. You can

1156
01:02:58,000 --> 01:03:01,080
Speaker 1: say stay bad, a piece of advice, wonde a lyric,

1157
01:03:01,200 --> 01:03:01,840
Speaker 1: anything you want.

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Speaker 3: I'll do your advice.

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01:03:06,160 --> 01:03:06,720
Speaker 1: I guess.

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01:03:08,800 --> 01:03:12,720
Speaker 3: If sometimes the hardest decisions are the right ones.

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Speaker 1: That's a very good point, great advice. See that was good.

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01:03:17,280 --> 01:03:21,320
Speaker 1: Thank you so much, Thank you, by you too. Bye.

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01:03:24,000 --> 01:03:27,080
Speaker 1: She was like, what the you calling me? Ye? Was like, Okay,

1164
01:03:28,800 --> 01:03:32,440
Speaker 1: I think she signed up, but I mean we just called.

1165
01:03:32,480 --> 01:03:36,640
Speaker 1: You missed it. You under one number was wrong. Thank you, Bella,

1166
01:03:36,840 --> 01:03:38,680
Speaker 1: and stay bad, Stay bad.