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Speaker 2: My last one, he's a red flag butt that tongue.

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Speaker 1: Oh really, what tongue can do that?

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Speaker 1: All right, baddies, welcome back to week number two of

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Speaker 1: The Baddest Baddie, where we are highlighting the real engines

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Speaker 1: behind business, the women doing amazing things. We are trying

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Speaker 1: to use our platform to showcase the baddies. You guys,

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Speaker 1: We're gonna see your wins, your progress, and your growth

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Speaker 1: to inspire others and let them and their stories shine

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Speaker 1: because we don't want the achievements to go unseen.

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Speaker 2: And Jake, I'm excited, very very excited for this week.

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Speaker 2: Let's quickly give a recap what happened two weeks ago

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Speaker 2: previously on Relatables Badest Baddie.

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Speaker 4: Mister Chelsea, how.

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Speaker 2: Are you going? Welcome to the Baddest Baddie, Hey, Jake.

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Speaker 2: Business has been tough.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it feels like we're just pressing the same floor

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Speaker 1: button every day.

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Speaker 2: Maybe it's time we hit a new level.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but what's something actually innovative? Well, now that you talk.

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Speaker 4: About it, guys, innovative business montagne.

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Speaker 2: Obviously, we then heard from contestant number two.

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Speaker 1: Hello, speaking Taylor, It's Jake and Oddie from the Relatables.

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Speaker 1: How are you good?

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Speaker 2: Thank you?

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Speaker 1: How are you so good? Welcome to the Baddest Baddy, Jake.

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Speaker 2: Business has been tough.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it feels like we're just pressing the same floor

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Speaker 2: Maybe it's time we hit a new level.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but something actually innovative.

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Speaker 5: If you don't mind, may I intercept?

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Speaker 1: Of course?

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Speaker 4: Of course, I believe.

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Speaker 5: You're on the right path here. I believe people would strive.

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Speaker 5: We should always say yes to any opportunity we're given.

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Speaker 5: And as you said, it is tough and it can

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Speaker 5: be uncomfortable personally. At twenty I moved to a population

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Speaker 2: All right, Jack, now we are all caught up. Before

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Speaker 2: we jump into our first caller, let's just quickly give

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Speaker 1: Okay, Okay.

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Speaker 2: Her name is Grace and she is the ambassador for

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Speaker 2: New South Wales our Packer Youth, our Packers, our Packers,

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Speaker 2: which is cool. I'm intrigued to hear more.

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Speaker 1: Our packers. Okay.

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Speaker 2: Her hustle story is to raise awareness and provide hands

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Speaker 2: And her Baddest Baddie moment was being part of the

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Speaker 2: You're a real baddie. I'm intrigued to hear her story,

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Speaker 2: so have I. Let's get some more information from her

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Speaker 2: and give her a ring.

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Speaker 4: Hello, go speaking.

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Speaker 2: Hello Grace, It's jaking Ody from the Relatables podcast. How's

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Speaker 4: Oh good? Thanks? How are you guys going really good?

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Speaker 2: Welcome to the Baddest.

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Speaker 4: Battie Oh thank you, thank you.

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Speaker 2: Are you excited to be here?

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Speaker 6: Oh?

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Speaker 4: I am so excited. I love talking about our packers

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Speaker 2: But do you want to give a brief rundown in

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Speaker 4: I literally we are sharing out on a mob here.

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Speaker 2: And what did you to our packers? Initially like coming

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Speaker 4: They run shows, and it's really great because you get

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Speaker 2: Yeah, circol And what does your day to day look

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Speaker 2: We have some hunter so you're busy.

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Speaker 2: And what are all the social channels if people want

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Speaker 4: So they're mostly all called just our pack of youth,

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Speaker 4: fun project. Just hit four hundred followers. Pretty let's go,

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, what's it?

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Speaker 2: I want to know? What's a baby outpacker like? Is

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Speaker 4: And they get these little zoomies and they bounced around

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Speaker 2: Well okay, great, Well after all that, how are you

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Speaker 4: I am so ready. I want to promote the use group,

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Speaker 2: Okay, So today's challenge, as I already told you, is

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Speaker 2: to respond to a common workplace problem via email. So

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Speaker 2: when this call ends, Jake and I will email you

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Speaker 2: from our email, the one you supplied, and you've got

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Speaker 2: and with it. It's very broad spectrum, so you can

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Speaker 4: sharing good farming boys.

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Speaker 2: Perfect, perfect, So we are going to hang up right

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Speaker 4: Oh sounds great. I hope the baddies all have a

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Speaker 2: Thank you, Thank you zero.

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Speaker 1: Okay. Baddie number two four today is Sarah Matthews. She's

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Speaker 1: the actual she's an author and author. We have a

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Speaker 2: That's a cool title.

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Speaker 1: Her book is called My Mental Health Toolkit, a Recovery Guide.

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Speaker 1: All right, So before we jump into the Core with Sarah.

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Speaker 1: We have her hustle story and her Baudest Baddie moment,

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Speaker 1: New Zealand Beach and Indoor Handball Team PS. The Girl's

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Speaker 2: So I don't know about that, Sarah, Come on, author,

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Speaker 1: Hello, you're speaking Sarah. It's Jake and Oddie from Latables.

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Speaker 1: How are you?

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Speaker 2: Oh?

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Speaker 6: I am good, but freece?

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Speaker 1: How are you? Guys?

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Speaker 2: Very very good?

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Speaker 1: You say you're freaked.

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Speaker 6: I said, I'm good, but scres.

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Speaker 2: Oh stress stress fair enough? Fair enough? Why are you stressed?

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Speaker 6: Because I listened to the podcast, of course, but the

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Speaker 1: Thanks?

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Speaker 6: What incredible?

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Speaker 1: You're incredible?

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Speaker 2: Incredible?

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Speaker 1: What are you talking about?

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Speaker 2: We just read your hustle story in.

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Speaker 1: Your baddest Baddy moment and wanted to say huge, congratulations, very.

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Speaker 6: Thank you, thank you.

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Speaker 1: So how has it been you said that you now

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Speaker 1: Yeah, honestly, that is so so cool. So when you

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Speaker 6: So it'd be I've send people at the moment just

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Speaker 1: So right now, best way to order the book is

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Speaker 6: So actually, at that point, I was at a residential

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Speaker 2: So we are now onto the Baddest Baddy Challenge. How

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Speaker 2: Thanks a ton for handling this, handling this best relatables.

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Speaker 1: Then and you guys can vote. Yep, Welcome in to

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Speaker 1: the episode. Badies couldn't we couldn't resist. We had We

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Speaker 1: Yes, so last week we talked about oh no, I

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Speaker 1: You do me today, How was it fine? Okay, yeah,

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Speaker 2: And I say it's about two thousand dollars under market value,

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00:23:09,240 --> 00:23:12,040
Speaker 2: maybe fifteen hundred, one hundred percent market value, So.

443
00:23:12,080 --> 00:23:15,600
Speaker 1: It's a barget, right, and I'm like, fuck it, sorry, baddies,

444
00:23:15,600 --> 00:23:18,439
Speaker 1: you're getting a new car reveal next week. Okay. So

445
00:23:20,640 --> 00:23:23,280
Speaker 1: I put the two hundred dollars deposit down. He messages

446
00:23:23,320 --> 00:23:26,679
Speaker 1: me the next day. He's like teasing me with like

447
00:23:26,760 --> 00:23:28,919
Speaker 1: saying it looks like beautiful. He's not sending me photos,

448
00:23:28,920 --> 00:23:30,600
Speaker 1: and I was like, mane, you've got to send me photos.

449
00:23:30,600 --> 00:23:34,680
Speaker 1: He sends me a few beautiful. He goes nine, am Woolengong,

450
00:23:35,440 --> 00:23:37,880
Speaker 1: see you there or something like that. He's like, he says,

451
00:23:37,920 --> 00:23:40,520
Speaker 1: I'm in Woongong Saturday. She's ready for you to take

452
00:23:41,119 --> 00:23:42,680
Speaker 1: and so I said, sweet, that's an hour and a

453
00:23:42,720 --> 00:23:46,320
Speaker 1: half from where Beth and I live. So Saturday comes,

454
00:23:47,520 --> 00:23:51,200
Speaker 1: we take the journey down. We get there. To be fair,

455
00:23:51,240 --> 00:23:55,600
Speaker 1: she looks beautiful. I meet Peter, nice guy, all right,

456
00:23:56,119 --> 00:23:58,880
Speaker 1: and he's like yeah, yeah, he's showing me things. Smells great.

457
00:23:58,920 --> 00:24:01,119
Speaker 1: It smells like a new car, been clean and stuff,

458
00:24:01,160 --> 00:24:02,959
Speaker 1: and then gives me the keys. You guys, all right,

459
00:24:03,000 --> 00:24:04,400
Speaker 1: do you take it for a test drive? Best doesn't

460
00:24:04,440 --> 00:24:06,520
Speaker 1: come with me because she has dogs, so she's just

461
00:24:06,600 --> 00:24:08,600
Speaker 1: chilling out the dealership with the dogs. So I take

462
00:24:08,600 --> 00:24:10,880
Speaker 1: it for a chest drive on my own. I'm driving

463
00:24:11,359 --> 00:24:14,160
Speaker 1: first thing I noticed is when it goes into second gear,

464
00:24:15,119 --> 00:24:18,440
Speaker 1: it's a bit rattally, right. All the other gears were sweet,

465
00:24:18,480 --> 00:24:19,879
Speaker 1: but when you go into second gear and pull off

466
00:24:19,920 --> 00:24:22,080
Speaker 1: the clutch and then like rev for those who know

467
00:24:22,119 --> 00:24:24,360
Speaker 1: how to drive manual, like obviously you know what I mean,

468
00:24:24,880 --> 00:24:27,520
Speaker 1: It's like it kind of felt like the whole car

469
00:24:27,680 --> 00:24:29,280
Speaker 1: just like shook a little bit. And I was like,

470
00:24:29,400 --> 00:24:32,560
Speaker 1: that's obviously not right, but it could be fine. Yeah,

471
00:24:32,560 --> 00:24:33,960
Speaker 1: I was like willing to look past that. I was like,

472
00:24:34,040 --> 00:24:36,440
Speaker 1: I used to drive an old car like that kind

473
00:24:36,440 --> 00:24:40,240
Speaker 1: of happened. And then I'm driving and I see that

474
00:24:40,359 --> 00:24:44,040
Speaker 1: on the odometer it says two hundred thousand kilometers and

475
00:24:44,080 --> 00:24:46,840
Speaker 1: I was like what the fuck? I was like, did

476
00:24:46,840 --> 00:24:49,960
Speaker 1: this guy? My head straight away goes, did this guy

477
00:24:50,560 --> 00:24:52,280
Speaker 1: put it up for one thirty seven? Because he was

478
00:24:52,320 --> 00:24:55,280
Speaker 1: gonna like put a drill on the fucking odometer and

479
00:24:55,320 --> 00:24:57,199
Speaker 1: reel it back to one thirty seven. He's just forgotten

480
00:24:57,200 --> 00:24:58,720
Speaker 1: to do it, or has he just done something wrong?

481
00:24:58,800 --> 00:25:00,840
Speaker 1: Like has he done it on purpose? And he's trying

482
00:25:00,840 --> 00:25:02,119
Speaker 1: to get people to get here and just not give

483
00:25:02,160 --> 00:25:05,480
Speaker 1: a shit about it. And so I'm driving, I check

484
00:25:05,560 --> 00:25:08,520
Speaker 1: the I like check the the ad and I checked

485
00:25:08,520 --> 00:25:11,159
Speaker 1: the contract I signed, and so like, I signed this contract.

486
00:25:11,200 --> 00:25:12,359
Speaker 1: He says, you test drive it, you don't like it,

487
00:25:12,400 --> 00:25:13,800
Speaker 1: you get your money back. And I was like sweet.

488
00:25:14,119 --> 00:25:15,520
Speaker 1: So I checked the contract. It says it has one

489
00:25:15,560 --> 00:25:18,400
Speaker 1: hundred and thirty seven on that. It's like, what, take

490
00:25:18,440 --> 00:25:20,040
Speaker 1: it back. Talk to me about the little noise. And

491
00:25:20,040 --> 00:25:22,200
Speaker 1: then I said, mate, And then there's the case situation.

492
00:25:22,320 --> 00:25:24,280
Speaker 1: You just got t tow hundred thousand klometers and he goes, yeah,

493
00:25:24,280 --> 00:25:25,800
Speaker 1: that's what's got and that's like on the contract I

494
00:25:25,800 --> 00:25:28,119
Speaker 1: sign has had one hundred and thirty seven thousand. This

495
00:25:28,200 --> 00:25:33,399
Speaker 1: motherfucker's fucking George dropped. Yes, George on his face was

496
00:25:33,600 --> 00:25:35,880
Speaker 1: he was. I get back from test driving. He comes out,

497
00:25:35,880 --> 00:25:37,320
Speaker 1: he shakes the hand, he's happy ass. And then I

498
00:25:37,400 --> 00:25:40,639
Speaker 1: tell him that and he's somber. Oh yeah, it was

499
00:25:40,640 --> 00:25:43,639
Speaker 1: writing too. It was in full writing sign contracts and everything.

500
00:25:43,680 --> 00:25:46,080
Speaker 1: And then he goes, come me, coming me. He takes

501
00:25:46,080 --> 00:25:48,679
Speaker 1: me into his office. Okay, he takes me into his

502
00:25:48,760 --> 00:25:51,240
Speaker 1: back office and he's like, and I sit down and

503
00:25:51,640 --> 00:25:54,800
Speaker 1: he's going on and he's looking and he goes, he's

504
00:25:54,840 --> 00:25:56,480
Speaker 1: just looking. Were silent for a second. Then he goes

505
00:25:57,880 --> 00:26:04,600
Speaker 1: fuck it does say one thirty seven. I like, so

506
00:26:05,400 --> 00:26:08,439
Speaker 1: I was thinking, damn. I said, okay, look he goes.

507
00:26:08,800 --> 00:26:12,600
Speaker 1: He goes, right, he's about to call someone. They don't answer,

508
00:26:13,560 --> 00:26:17,119
Speaker 1: and then he goes he goes, all right, the best

509
00:26:17,119 --> 00:26:20,000
Speaker 1: I can do is or keep in mind, this came.

510
00:26:20,119 --> 00:26:22,520
Speaker 1: This comes with three years warranty. So he goes, best

511
00:26:22,520 --> 00:26:25,719
Speaker 1: I can do is thirteen grand, five years warranty. And

512
00:26:25,760 --> 00:26:28,240
Speaker 1: I was kind of like, oh okay. I was like,

513
00:26:28,280 --> 00:26:33,840
Speaker 1: I was like, what is a warranty cover? He's like engine, clutch, gearbox, driving,

514
00:26:33,960 --> 00:26:37,000
Speaker 1: steering things, whatever, everything basically, And I was like, I

515
00:26:37,000 --> 00:26:38,720
Speaker 1: just don't know how much I trust that though, Like

516
00:26:38,760 --> 00:26:40,520
Speaker 1: they've got to have ways of wehazling out of actually

517
00:26:40,520 --> 00:26:42,960
Speaker 1: paying for it, so it sounds too good. So and

518
00:26:42,960 --> 00:26:46,440
Speaker 1: then I was like, look, can I I said, sixty

519
00:26:46,560 --> 00:26:51,120
Speaker 1: three thousand kilometers is a lot of extra kilometers? Can

520
00:26:51,160 --> 00:26:52,680
Speaker 1: I tell you just I don't want to waste any

521
00:26:52,720 --> 00:26:54,119
Speaker 1: time genuinely what I will pay for it? And he

522
00:26:54,119 --> 00:26:56,800
Speaker 1: goes yeah, and I said nine. He goes nah, nah nah,

523
00:26:56,840 --> 00:26:58,240
Speaker 1: And I was like that's fine. I was like, well,

524
00:26:58,720 --> 00:27:01,919
Speaker 1: I'm out of here then, and so I leave it

525
00:27:02,000 --> 00:27:03,520
Speaker 1: like on good. Like he doesn't. He's not mad at me.

526
00:27:03,560 --> 00:27:05,200
Speaker 1: I'm not mad at him. I was like, I appreciate time.

527
00:27:05,440 --> 00:27:06,280
Speaker 2: He used to be mad at him.

528
00:27:06,320 --> 00:27:07,840
Speaker 1: Is that exactly the only two fair? You kind of

529
00:27:07,880 --> 00:27:11,160
Speaker 1: waste my time. And because he goes, no, I got

530
00:27:11,200 --> 00:27:13,120
Speaker 1: like six buyers that really want it, like I can't

531
00:27:13,160 --> 00:27:14,680
Speaker 1: do it for nine and I was like that's fine,

532
00:27:14,920 --> 00:27:18,040
Speaker 1: and so we leave and then he sends me a text.

533
00:27:18,320 --> 00:27:21,199
Speaker 1: I think I sent him my bank details and I

534
00:27:21,240 --> 00:27:23,840
Speaker 1: said thanks again for today, like, appreciate you. Let me

535
00:27:23,840 --> 00:27:25,240
Speaker 1: take it for a test drive. He's my details for

536
00:27:25,320 --> 00:27:28,280
Speaker 1: that deposit back and then he goes, yes, cool, I

537
00:27:28,280 --> 00:27:30,240
Speaker 1: saught that on Monday. He goes, just just one more

538
00:27:30,280 --> 00:27:32,760
Speaker 1: for you, I can do twelve five five years warranty

539
00:27:32,960 --> 00:27:35,600
Speaker 1: and I was like, I'm sorry, mate, I won't I'm

540
00:27:35,640 --> 00:27:37,760
Speaker 1: not going past ten. And then he text me and

541
00:27:37,800 --> 00:27:41,080
Speaker 1: he goes, ah, yeah cool, cool, cool cool, and I

542
00:27:41,119 --> 00:27:43,439
Speaker 1: go yeah, all good and then I nothing happens for one.

543
00:27:43,480 --> 00:27:45,400
Speaker 2: Then he texted me one more time and he goes.

544
00:27:45,640 --> 00:27:49,800
Speaker 1: Eleven five five years warranty and I and so yes,

545
00:27:49,960 --> 00:27:52,359
Speaker 1: I messaged him and I said, Peter, appreciate the offer,

546
00:27:52,400 --> 00:27:53,240
Speaker 1: but I'm going to pass.

547
00:27:56,000 --> 00:27:58,560
Speaker 2: And too fair it's only worth like with that many

548
00:27:58,640 --> 00:28:02,880
Speaker 2: k's ten ten to five. Yeah, like it's a lot

549
00:28:02,920 --> 00:28:06,600
Speaker 2: of keys to your new fair I have.

550
00:28:06,840 --> 00:28:09,400
Speaker 1: I've bought a car that had like three hundred and.

551
00:28:09,480 --> 00:28:12,560
Speaker 2: That was a total. Yeah, the engines are right now

552
00:28:12,760 --> 00:28:14,440
Speaker 2: is this is just a little chimney. Yeah.

553
00:28:14,520 --> 00:28:17,440
Speaker 1: So now Oddie and I have now actually gone to

554
00:28:17,480 --> 00:28:19,480
Speaker 1: car sales and I've brought two cars I want to

555
00:28:19,480 --> 00:28:23,280
Speaker 1: get and I have any of you brought one one? Yeah, okay, baddies,

556
00:28:23,320 --> 00:28:25,520
Speaker 1: we are going to show what route did you go?

557
00:28:25,880 --> 00:28:30,399
Speaker 1: All right, now I've completely changed. All right, this is

558
00:28:30,440 --> 00:28:32,640
Speaker 1: actually what you want, This is actually what I want want.

559
00:28:32,640 --> 00:28:35,640
Speaker 1: I'm hell bent on a Jeep Wrangler. Really, you trying

560
00:28:35,640 --> 00:28:37,320
Speaker 1: to steer me away, but I'm hell bent on a

561
00:28:37,400 --> 00:28:40,080
Speaker 1: Jeep Wrangler two door. I want the short wheelbase one.

562
00:28:40,120 --> 00:28:42,440
Speaker 2: To preface, I had a Jeep Wrangler and it was

563
00:28:42,760 --> 00:28:46,880
Speaker 2: it was sick. Was also a lot better than anything

564
00:28:46,920 --> 00:28:47,440
Speaker 2: you set me.

565
00:28:48,600 --> 00:28:51,800
Speaker 1: All Right, I went, wait, no way, I'll show you

566
00:28:51,800 --> 00:28:55,800
Speaker 1: my Okay, I'll show you mine first, and we'll show them.

567
00:28:55,880 --> 00:28:57,880
Speaker 1: So this one two thousand and nine Jep Wrangler Sport

568
00:28:57,960 --> 00:28:59,760
Speaker 1: four by four m Y zero and nine. Don't know

569
00:28:59,800 --> 00:29:03,320
Speaker 1: what that means fourteen thousand dollars one hundred and thirty

570
00:29:03,360 --> 00:29:09,040
Speaker 1: eight thousand k's diesel, Oh, diesel manual cool right check.

571
00:29:09,160 --> 00:29:11,680
Speaker 1: This's in Mona Vail, by the way, which is in Sydney.

572
00:29:12,200 --> 00:29:14,560
Speaker 1: And yeah, he's got some I don't mind that.

573
00:29:14,640 --> 00:29:15,000
Speaker 2: Let me see.

574
00:29:15,080 --> 00:29:16,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, he likes to say that he has. He wrote

575
00:29:16,680 --> 00:29:18,360
Speaker 1: in here or she wrote in here that they haven't

576
00:29:18,360 --> 00:29:18,920
Speaker 1: been on the beach.

577
00:29:19,520 --> 00:29:23,800
Speaker 2: Well, my reasoning for not saying Jake getting a jeep

578
00:29:23,840 --> 00:29:25,240
Speaker 2: is a good idea. I feel like I'm fucking the

579
00:29:25,280 --> 00:29:26,000
Speaker 2: responsible place.

580
00:29:26,960 --> 00:29:29,120
Speaker 1: Also, deep it's a cool bro is because.

581
00:29:28,840 --> 00:29:33,840
Speaker 2: Of the fuel economy. When they're petrol, they chug few fuel.

582
00:29:34,360 --> 00:29:37,480
Speaker 1: Ready, let's just pretend it's diesel, you're alright, let's just pretend.

583
00:29:37,600 --> 00:29:39,400
Speaker 1: Let's just I don't care about fuel economy though. Let's

584
00:29:39,400 --> 00:29:41,360
Speaker 1: just pretend I don't give a fuck about that, all right? Yeah,

585
00:29:41,400 --> 00:29:43,400
Speaker 1: any other reason to why as why not to get one?

586
00:29:45,000 --> 00:29:48,800
Speaker 2: They're expensive to r like like repair repair, all right, again,

587
00:29:48,840 --> 00:29:52,360
Speaker 2: one more thing, any other reasons other than that? I

588
00:29:52,480 --> 00:29:53,760
Speaker 2: like that so many the other one I don't mind.

589
00:29:53,960 --> 00:29:54,720
Speaker 2: That's better than the other.

590
00:29:55,280 --> 00:29:57,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, jeeing, it's actually good a That's why I haven't

591
00:29:57,480 --> 00:29:59,480
Speaker 1: sent them to you. That's why. Here I'll show you

592
00:29:59,520 --> 00:30:02,200
Speaker 1: this one. This one's actually pretty sick well blow market price,

593
00:30:02,320 --> 00:30:06,200
Speaker 1: but it needs something fixed. Twenty eighteen Jeep Wrangler Unlimited

594
00:30:06,280 --> 00:30:09,320
Speaker 1: twenty eighteen manual, one hundred and twenty four thousand K's

595
00:30:09,480 --> 00:30:14,560
Speaker 1: SUV petrol alright, twelve thousand dollars. Now the guy is

596
00:30:14,600 --> 00:30:21,000
Speaker 1: saying he needs a quick sale due to that's yeh see,

597
00:30:21,000 --> 00:30:23,720
Speaker 1: it is a little sus but it does say the

598
00:30:23,800 --> 00:30:26,960
Speaker 1: radiator needs replacing, and it says, but I've chosen upgrade

599
00:30:26,960 --> 00:30:30,320
Speaker 1: to a seven set car. Need a quick sale radiator

600
00:30:30,680 --> 00:30:31,680
Speaker 1: eight hundred bucks.

601
00:30:31,920 --> 00:30:34,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, twelve k for twenty eighteen plus installation at wey

602
00:30:34,840 --> 00:30:37,120
Speaker 2: twelve hundred. I did my radio before, radiator before I

603
00:30:37,160 --> 00:30:42,400
Speaker 2: sold it. Twenty eighteen is fucking new twenty eighteen. That's

604
00:30:42,520 --> 00:30:46,880
Speaker 2: really susp Yeah, that's the same as mine. H three

605
00:30:46,920 --> 00:30:52,320
Speaker 2: point six liter petrol's huge powerful though. Yeah, eleven point

606
00:30:52,400 --> 00:30:57,680
Speaker 2: eight liters per one hundred kilometers. That's fucking shit. Interesting.

607
00:30:57,760 --> 00:31:00,840
Speaker 2: I like the other one better. It's like it better

608
00:31:00,840 --> 00:31:02,880
Speaker 2: because I like Sure, I think that's too sus to me.

609
00:31:03,000 --> 00:31:05,080
Speaker 2: Something's wrong with that. I that's like at the end,

610
00:31:05,200 --> 00:31:06,920
Speaker 2: we like the other one. Oh, the other one, I

611
00:31:06,920 --> 00:31:10,520
Speaker 2: can diesel way better. Well, my my, we'll go on

612
00:31:10,560 --> 00:31:12,080
Speaker 2: to mine and then we can leave it up to

613
00:31:12,080 --> 00:31:13,480
Speaker 2: the batty. Because the other thing is you could go

614
00:31:13,600 --> 00:31:15,520
Speaker 2: really wise. I didn't bring anything boring.

615
00:31:15,680 --> 00:31:17,600
Speaker 1: Okay, good because you could have want boring.

616
00:31:17,680 --> 00:31:22,360
Speaker 2: But you could go like a fucking Vatarazuki Vitara Corolla,

617
00:31:22,480 --> 00:31:25,920
Speaker 2: like twelve thousand dollars, like one hundred thousand k's no issue,

618
00:31:25,960 --> 00:31:28,840
Speaker 2: servicing is half the price. Or let me text you this.

619
00:31:28,800 --> 00:31:30,760
Speaker 1: About yeah ship, Okay, I'm excited.

620
00:31:30,840 --> 00:31:33,680
Speaker 2: This is halfway between. You're going to appreciate it. But

621
00:31:33,720 --> 00:31:39,080
Speaker 2: the baddies might think it's giving redneck, But okay, I.

622
00:31:39,040 --> 00:31:40,360
Speaker 1: Reckon you will appreciate it.

623
00:31:40,640 --> 00:31:41,400
Speaker 2: I've texted it too.

624
00:31:41,560 --> 00:31:43,480
Speaker 1: Best was barely on board with the Iszuki that I

625
00:31:43,520 --> 00:31:46,960
Speaker 1: testedro barely really yeah, purely for the fact where she's like,

626
00:31:47,040 --> 00:31:48,480
Speaker 1: you're gonna go spend all this money on it, like

627
00:31:48,560 --> 00:31:52,680
Speaker 1: thirty thousand dollars on a car and it's barely bigger

628
00:31:52,680 --> 00:31:53,160
Speaker 1: than the one you have.

629
00:31:53,240 --> 00:31:57,240
Speaker 2: Now, well, this one's not bigger, but it's cool.

630
00:31:58,360 --> 00:32:01,480
Speaker 1: Oh my days, you're insane.

631
00:32:02,480 --> 00:32:05,760
Speaker 2: Four by four Brother goes on the Beach and nineteen

632
00:32:05,920 --> 00:32:09,480
Speaker 2: eighty eight Suzuki Brumny, no super rub Brumby super Brumby. Sorry,

633
00:32:09,600 --> 00:32:11,560
Speaker 2: it's got Suzuki stuck in my head.

634
00:32:12,160 --> 00:32:14,560
Speaker 1: One hundred and fifty four thousand kilometers.

635
00:32:14,720 --> 00:32:16,400
Speaker 2: This is just an example of the car. You might

636
00:32:16,400 --> 00:32:17,120
Speaker 2: have to look a bit better.

637
00:32:17,120 --> 00:32:19,080
Speaker 1: All right, let's let it's in the pass range. Let's

638
00:32:19,120 --> 00:32:20,760
Speaker 1: go and have a look. All right, so we've got.

639
00:32:20,800 --> 00:32:24,480
Speaker 2: See it's halfway between super cool but also super redneck.

640
00:32:25,000 --> 00:32:26,240
Speaker 1: I've always wanted a Brumby.

641
00:32:26,840 --> 00:32:29,280
Speaker 2: I reckon I'll get one eventually as a novelty car.

642
00:32:29,320 --> 00:32:30,720
Speaker 1: But how cool is it?

643
00:32:31,240 --> 00:32:32,080
Speaker 2: Dogs in the back?

644
00:32:33,640 --> 00:32:36,040
Speaker 1: Oh it's clean too, dude.

645
00:32:36,560 --> 00:32:39,080
Speaker 2: I think what we do here is leave it up

646
00:32:39,080 --> 00:32:41,480
Speaker 2: to the baddies. Oh not you.

647
00:32:42,160 --> 00:32:46,440
Speaker 1: I reckon, we go? Should Jake go sensible? Wait a second?

648
00:32:46,440 --> 00:32:51,960
Speaker 1: Wait a second, wait a second? What I buy? I

649
00:32:51,960 --> 00:32:54,800
Speaker 1: will be driving on the freeway a bit only for

650
00:32:54,880 --> 00:32:58,560
Speaker 1: a little while. Is that BRUMBI gonna be good? And

651
00:32:58,800 --> 00:33:00,000
Speaker 1: also then I have to drive it to Queens.

652
00:33:00,360 --> 00:33:03,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I think that's fine.

653
00:33:04,120 --> 00:33:06,400
Speaker 1: I can tell you I think Beth would say. I

654
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Speaker 1: think Beth would give me a fucking ultimatum front one

655
00:33:08,760 --> 00:33:08,960
Speaker 1: of that.

656
00:33:09,120 --> 00:33:11,080
Speaker 2: But where I was going with that is that was

657
00:33:11,120 --> 00:33:13,760
Speaker 2: just an example, it's a novelty car. Yeah, the Jeeps

658
00:33:13,840 --> 00:33:17,200
Speaker 2: novelty car. The Suzuki is a novelty car in a sense.

659
00:33:17,760 --> 00:33:21,040
Speaker 1: They're not quite not novelty, Jeep sexy honestly, But where

660
00:33:21,040 --> 00:33:21,240
Speaker 1: I was.

661
00:33:21,240 --> 00:33:22,800
Speaker 2: Going with it is, I reckon we leave it up

662
00:33:22,800 --> 00:33:24,800
Speaker 2: to the batties right now. And they comment, they commented,

663
00:33:24,880 --> 00:33:28,520
Speaker 2: last episode, should Jake go sensible and we look at

664
00:33:28,560 --> 00:33:32,840
Speaker 2: some newer cars, Yeah, a little bit or novelty. And

665
00:33:32,880 --> 00:33:34,880
Speaker 2: in that novelty is anything like.

666
00:33:34,680 --> 00:33:38,200
Speaker 1: Like cool, cool sexy. Beth's dad gave me the best

667
00:33:38,200 --> 00:33:40,960
Speaker 1: advice yesterday before. I can't remember what date it was,

668
00:33:41,000 --> 00:33:43,720
Speaker 1: but he goes, we're on the phone to him, we're

669
00:33:43,720 --> 00:33:47,360
Speaker 1: talking about the debacle with the Suzuki testrove, and then

670
00:33:47,560 --> 00:33:51,080
Speaker 1: we will looking and and and he goes, honestly, like, Jake,

671
00:33:51,120 --> 00:33:53,680
Speaker 1: my best advice for you is just buy something you

672
00:33:53,720 --> 00:33:56,480
Speaker 1: think looks hectic. He said, you want to you want

673
00:33:56,480 --> 00:33:58,720
Speaker 1: to be proud in the car. It's like, you know what, Ben,

674
00:33:58,760 --> 00:33:59,240
Speaker 1: You're right.

675
00:33:59,400 --> 00:34:02,280
Speaker 2: He's been looking at your he and I gets and

676
00:34:02,440 --> 00:34:06,640
Speaker 2: thinking his daughter's boyfriend's a fucking loser, So you know what.

677
00:34:06,720 --> 00:34:09,960
Speaker 1: You're right, You're right, Ben, Thank you for the advice.

678
00:34:10,960 --> 00:34:13,360
Speaker 2: I over a Jeep at a Jymney, would go Jymney

679
00:34:13,360 --> 00:34:16,960
Speaker 2: every day of the week for your price point, for

680
00:34:17,120 --> 00:34:19,719
Speaker 2: your price point. If you had twenty twenty five thousand dollars,

681
00:34:19,719 --> 00:34:21,799
Speaker 2: I'd say a Jeep. But I think of value like

682
00:34:21,880 --> 00:34:24,880
Speaker 2: value for money. I okon Suzuki is more reliable and

683
00:34:24,920 --> 00:34:27,600
Speaker 2: cheaper run. So it's up to you, man, But let's

684
00:34:27,680 --> 00:34:29,160
Speaker 2: leave it to the baddies, and we'll come back next

685
00:34:29,200 --> 00:34:30,880
Speaker 2: week with your actual game plan and where you're going

686
00:34:30,920 --> 00:34:32,560
Speaker 2: to be looking, and then we can show them what

687
00:34:32,560 --> 00:34:37,680
Speaker 2: you buy. Yeah, okay, And obviously they don't have fun say,

688
00:34:37,800 --> 00:34:38,720
Speaker 2: but I want their input.

689
00:34:38,800 --> 00:34:41,319
Speaker 1: I want their input too. Please, baddies, please vote for

690
00:34:41,320 --> 00:34:42,279
Speaker 1: the one I want, you know, the one I want

691
00:34:42,320 --> 00:34:43,399
Speaker 1: the short Weell wear silver jep.

692
00:34:43,600 --> 00:34:55,759
Speaker 2: It's sensible, cool comment that. Yeah, alright, baddies, I want

693
00:34:55,840 --> 00:34:59,880
Speaker 2: to say welcome back too. Things that aren't just for boys?

694
00:35:00,200 --> 00:35:01,040
Speaker 1: Week four?

695
00:35:01,760 --> 00:35:05,400
Speaker 2: Alrighty, I want to kick things off with a bang.

696
00:35:06,040 --> 00:35:10,360
Speaker 2: Things that aren't just for boys. Bossing a parallel park

697
00:35:11,320 --> 00:35:12,800
Speaker 2: O facts.

698
00:35:12,800 --> 00:35:18,320
Speaker 1: Can I confess something? Yeah, I confess Beth. I'm gonna

699
00:35:18,320 --> 00:35:23,239
Speaker 1: say it's because she has a very modern vehicle. But

700
00:35:24,400 --> 00:35:26,879
Speaker 1: is I'm gonna Let let's just say I'm a five

701
00:35:26,880 --> 00:35:30,280
Speaker 1: out of ten on like the parallel park scale best,

702
00:35:30,320 --> 00:35:35,239
Speaker 1: like a solid nine eight. Really, Beth, Beth would prefer

703
00:35:35,320 --> 00:35:38,239
Speaker 1: to parallel park. I'm not even kidding. Then to go

704
00:35:38,320 --> 00:35:41,960
Speaker 1: in forwards when you can, I'm actually not even It's insane.

705
00:35:42,000 --> 00:35:45,160
Speaker 1: She got taught by a driving instructor, like this crazy

706
00:35:45,200 --> 00:35:48,160
Speaker 1: way to be fair using cameras, but still like this

707
00:35:48,239 --> 00:35:52,759
Speaker 1: fucking crazy technique and this far every time, not a

708
00:35:52,800 --> 00:35:58,000
Speaker 1: scratch on the rims, speechless. We'll be in my car

709
00:35:58,640 --> 00:36:01,360
Speaker 1: the guests, Yeah, and we'll I passed one and I

710
00:36:01,400 --> 00:36:04,320
Speaker 1: will say no, no, no, too small, too small. She gives

711
00:36:04,360 --> 00:36:05,520
Speaker 1: me ship.

712
00:36:05,200 --> 00:36:07,920
Speaker 2: Bro to be fair. I remember when I got my

713
00:36:08,000 --> 00:36:13,080
Speaker 2: p's parking frontwards, was really hard to grasp the space,

714
00:36:14,280 --> 00:36:17,040
Speaker 2: the wide Yeah, why I come inside?

715
00:36:18,160 --> 00:36:18,239
Speaker 1: What?

716
00:36:19,000 --> 00:36:22,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, take it while I come Inie.

717
00:36:22,080 --> 00:36:28,440
Speaker 1: I never heard that, but I'll leave that with you. Okay,

718
00:36:29,239 --> 00:36:31,520
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go number two four things that I'm just

719
00:36:31,520 --> 00:36:37,200
Speaker 1: for boys m and you guess what I'm thinking mental

720
00:36:37,400 --> 00:36:38,680
Speaker 1: mental to mental unagi.

721
00:36:38,760 --> 00:36:42,280
Speaker 2: I should be able to get this and he drinks

722
00:36:42,600 --> 00:36:43,680
Speaker 2: correct Bro.

723
00:36:44,520 --> 00:36:48,839
Speaker 1: Those things they're so weird with the advertising. It's also

724
00:36:48,880 --> 00:36:52,839
Speaker 1: like dark and Marcho and all the ingredients on the back.

725
00:36:53,360 --> 00:36:55,040
Speaker 1: I wouldn't even be able to tell you what any

726
00:36:55,080 --> 00:36:57,640
Speaker 1: of them are. Yeah, it's pretty wild e. That's why

727
00:36:57,719 --> 00:37:00,960
Speaker 1: Marissa created perfect ted Healthy Energy. She didn't even have

728
00:37:01,080 --> 00:37:04,560
Speaker 1: us in mind when making them. And side note the slap,

729
00:37:05,000 --> 00:37:07,359
Speaker 1: Yeah they do slap. Did you know that they're actually

730
00:37:07,400 --> 00:37:12,120
Speaker 1: made with marcher and all natural ingredients? This apple raspberry hits.

731
00:37:12,160 --> 00:37:16,239
Speaker 2: Really I'm more of a juicy peach man myself. But

732
00:37:16,400 --> 00:37:18,760
Speaker 2: where do you get yours from? Odie?

733
00:37:19,560 --> 00:37:28,800
Speaker 1: You know Mcole's guy. So am I baddies? Time for

734
00:37:29,200 --> 00:37:33,880
Speaker 1: ig question? This week's question is he's a red flag.

735
00:37:34,640 --> 00:37:38,640
Speaker 1: But we asked you to finish this sentence and you

736
00:37:38,760 --> 00:37:41,000
Speaker 1: certainly did. Now we got a little bit of something

737
00:37:41,040 --> 00:37:45,239
Speaker 1: juicy foru. This coming Thursday, we are going to be

738
00:37:45,280 --> 00:37:50,680
Speaker 1: having on Patreon he's a green flag. But all right,

739
00:37:51,160 --> 00:37:51,480
Speaker 1: we have.

740
00:37:51,440 --> 00:37:52,719
Speaker 2: The best energy over there.

741
00:37:52,760 --> 00:37:55,759
Speaker 1: We have some pretty gonnas, so we thought we'd be

742
00:37:55,800 --> 00:37:57,640
Speaker 1: a little cheeky give you the green flag one over there.

743
00:37:57,680 --> 00:37:59,799
Speaker 1: But what else are they going to Patreon on?

744
00:38:00,440 --> 00:38:02,879
Speaker 2: As you mentioned, you get the extra episode every single week.

745
00:38:02,920 --> 00:38:05,920
Speaker 2: You actually get the book club early as well, and

746
00:38:06,000 --> 00:38:10,520
Speaker 2: now with the added extension of dilemmas on there. Yes,

747
00:38:10,640 --> 00:38:13,200
Speaker 2: oh my god. And the community we're building is insane

748
00:38:13,280 --> 00:38:16,320
Speaker 2: for only five dollars per month, So get.

749
00:38:16,120 --> 00:38:18,080
Speaker 1: In before we put the prices up, all right, we ever,

750
00:38:18,160 --> 00:38:20,960
Speaker 1: everyone's shouting at us. Everybody's saying, prices up, prices up.

751
00:38:21,440 --> 00:38:24,640
Speaker 1: Go www Dot relatable sixty nine or something.

752
00:38:24,680 --> 00:38:25,319
Speaker 2: What was it again?

753
00:38:25,440 --> 00:38:29,760
Speaker 1: I think we add forward up like that Www Dot forwards, Patreon,

754
00:38:29,760 --> 00:38:35,520
Speaker 1: apt relatable sixty nine or something least in a description. Okay, thanks,

755
00:38:35,520 --> 00:38:39,920
Speaker 1: Baddi's love you. Okay, he's a red flag, but daddy,

756
00:38:39,960 --> 00:38:43,640
Speaker 1: I love him. Daddy, I love him. You can't give

757
00:38:43,680 --> 00:38:44,080
Speaker 1: it up.

758
00:38:45,040 --> 00:38:47,640
Speaker 2: That is hard, true.

759
00:38:47,719 --> 00:38:49,200
Speaker 1: I feel like, yeah, once you fall in love with

760
00:38:49,239 --> 00:38:50,879
Speaker 1: someone and then you realize a red flag, you can't.

761
00:38:50,920 --> 00:38:53,719
Speaker 2: I was even going to say, when he becomes that

762
00:38:53,800 --> 00:38:57,399
Speaker 2: daddy category, it's hard not to love him anymore when

763
00:38:57,440 --> 00:39:02,120
Speaker 2: you put him in there. Okay, well he's a red flag,

764
00:39:02,200 --> 00:39:04,520
Speaker 2: but I finish every single time.

765
00:39:06,239 --> 00:39:09,360
Speaker 1: Okay, Yeah, look, I don't blame you.

766
00:39:10,360 --> 00:39:12,799
Speaker 2: I don't blame you at all, and that's rare.

767
00:39:14,280 --> 00:39:18,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, so we've been told I do not blame you.

768
00:39:20,200 --> 00:39:25,720
Speaker 1: He's a red flag, but his his biceps are too big.

769
00:39:25,920 --> 00:39:27,240
Speaker 1: I can't see the flag.

770
00:39:29,160 --> 00:39:33,799
Speaker 2: That must be nice. Biceps back, I'm thinking about it

771
00:39:33,920 --> 00:39:37,360
Speaker 2: forearm veins. How big is big enough.

772
00:39:37,840 --> 00:39:39,719
Speaker 1: For like biceps?

773
00:39:39,800 --> 00:39:42,360
Speaker 2: Yeah? And what a girls like? Do I like the

774
00:39:42,440 --> 00:39:44,319
Speaker 2: lean look or because if you're holding a bit of

775
00:39:44,320 --> 00:39:45,920
Speaker 2: fat and it's around the stomach, you don't see it.

776
00:39:46,000 --> 00:39:48,000
Speaker 2: A shirt on the biceps look way bigger than they are.

777
00:39:48,200 --> 00:39:51,880
Speaker 1: It's pretty juicy. Yeah, they do less definition though, I

778
00:39:51,880 --> 00:39:53,480
Speaker 1: feel like, think about the definition.

779
00:39:53,560 --> 00:39:55,040
Speaker 2: Well, they say the dadbod even though it's not a

780
00:39:55,120 --> 00:39:56,680
Speaker 2: dad bod, and they just prefer to be.

781
00:39:56,680 --> 00:39:58,799
Speaker 1: Able to wrap an arm around. But then they're they're

782
00:39:59,560 --> 00:40:07,080
Speaker 1: like hand feels small. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Also, what's the

783
00:40:07,160 --> 00:40:10,120
Speaker 1: verdict on tight shirts? Like do they want to see

784
00:40:10,120 --> 00:40:12,320
Speaker 1: a sleeve tight or do they want to see a

785
00:40:12,360 --> 00:40:15,000
Speaker 1: sleeve with a bit of slack? Well, I think if

786
00:40:15,000 --> 00:40:17,080
Speaker 1: you're big enough you can wear you can wear a

787
00:40:17,160 --> 00:40:21,440
Speaker 1: blue shirt and you can see the tight biceps. But

788
00:40:21,560 --> 00:40:23,160
Speaker 1: is that what is that something they would like?

789
00:40:23,200 --> 00:40:23,600
Speaker 4: I don't know.

790
00:40:25,480 --> 00:40:28,239
Speaker 2: God, I reckon I'd be a bicep man if I

791
00:40:28,280 --> 00:40:29,720
Speaker 2: was a girl.

792
00:40:30,200 --> 00:40:32,839
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think I would be a bicep girl too.

793
00:40:32,920 --> 00:40:36,400
Speaker 1: I can appreciate him now, I can certainly appreciate a

794
00:40:36,440 --> 00:40:37,120
Speaker 1: good bicep.

795
00:40:37,200 --> 00:40:43,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, they're hard to grow. Yeah, okay, he's a red flag,

796
00:40:43,840 --> 00:40:45,400
Speaker 2: but he was my first.

797
00:40:46,880 --> 00:40:50,320
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that must be hard.

798
00:40:51,200 --> 00:40:54,280
Speaker 2: I feel like we were both set me in that situation.

799
00:40:54,360 --> 00:40:59,640
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, one hundred. Wow. Relatable. He's a red flag,

800
00:41:00,280 --> 00:41:01,520
Speaker 1: but I can fix him.

801
00:41:02,040 --> 00:41:05,600
Speaker 2: Oh no, you can't go. You can't fix him.

802
00:41:06,040 --> 00:41:08,080
Speaker 1: I have another good one like that. He's a red flag,

803
00:41:08,120 --> 00:41:10,560
Speaker 1: but I'm colorblind, so it looks green to me.

804
00:41:12,960 --> 00:41:15,680
Speaker 2: Bro I'm realizing on Love Island they're all colorblind day.

805
00:41:18,239 --> 00:41:20,399
Speaker 2: There isn't I suppose no. I would even say there's

806
00:41:20,440 --> 00:41:25,640
Speaker 2: not one oven Connor, Yeah, there's not one full green flag.

807
00:41:25,920 --> 00:41:31,280
Speaker 1: Connor is the only green flag. Yeah, the only honest,

808
00:41:31,560 --> 00:41:36,040
Speaker 1: earnest and genuine. Well is a bell. But just the men,

809
00:41:36,440 --> 00:41:39,319
Speaker 1: Connor Mick the other day. We'll talk about later.

810
00:41:39,320 --> 00:41:43,560
Speaker 2: Actually the girls are out of the men's league. Okay, yeah,

811
00:41:43,600 --> 00:41:46,200
Speaker 2: this one must be relatable. He's a red flag, but

812
00:41:46,800 --> 00:41:48,840
Speaker 2: he's hiding eight inches.

813
00:41:50,480 --> 00:41:55,000
Speaker 1: The word hiding, so fitting have to be hiding it.

814
00:41:55,040 --> 00:41:56,040
Speaker 2: He's a growing show.

815
00:41:56,200 --> 00:41:57,200
Speaker 1: Oh is that what that means?

816
00:41:57,239 --> 00:41:59,359
Speaker 2: He's a grow to show it. Also, hiding him could

817
00:41:59,360 --> 00:42:00,000
Speaker 2: just be in his pants.

818
00:42:00,080 --> 00:42:01,640
Speaker 1: That's what I was gonna say. It's like if you

819
00:42:01,680 --> 00:42:03,239
Speaker 1: have an eight inch penis, you have to hide it.

820
00:42:03,440 --> 00:42:06,240
Speaker 1: But hiding it could mean like it's small when it's soft,

821
00:42:06,320 --> 00:42:09,560
Speaker 1: but when it's big. Yeah, he's hiding eight inches. Eight

822
00:42:09,640 --> 00:42:13,360
Speaker 1: inches is actually two big? That's not real, can't be

823
00:42:13,520 --> 00:42:16,480
Speaker 1: Yeah no, she means thick as this can she means five?

824
00:42:17,560 --> 00:42:17,759
Speaker 4: Yeah?

825
00:42:17,800 --> 00:42:21,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, she's thinking eight centimeters. Yeah, girl, I'll get your

826
00:42:21,520 --> 00:42:28,920
Speaker 1: metric systems confusing, will give you that he's a red flag.

827
00:42:29,080 --> 00:42:31,560
Speaker 1: But I'm at the gym and ovulating.

828
00:42:33,120 --> 00:42:37,719
Speaker 2: Gym crushes do go Harday, there's something about like for

829
00:42:37,760 --> 00:42:39,919
Speaker 2: some reason, like I remember when I was single, seeing

830
00:42:39,920 --> 00:42:42,279
Speaker 2: the same person over and over again, you start to

831
00:42:42,280 --> 00:42:43,280
Speaker 2: build in your head.

832
00:42:43,160 --> 00:42:44,360
Speaker 1: Like are you meant to be together?

833
00:42:44,560 --> 00:42:44,960
Speaker 5: Yeah?

834
00:42:45,440 --> 00:42:46,640
Speaker 1: What's for the same sketch?

835
00:42:46,760 --> 00:42:47,120
Speaker 7: Yeah?

836
00:42:47,200 --> 00:42:48,640
Speaker 1: You get there on a day where you go in

837
00:42:48,680 --> 00:42:51,879
Speaker 1: twelve hours like you usually go like let's say ten

838
00:42:51,920 --> 00:42:54,799
Speaker 1: am or something. One day you just got five pm.

839
00:42:54,840 --> 00:42:57,960
Speaker 1: They're there. Yeah, we have the same schedule. What else

840
00:42:57,960 --> 00:43:00,640
Speaker 1: do we have in copy? Yeah?

841
00:43:00,760 --> 00:43:04,680
Speaker 2: Okay, this one he's a red flag but he doesn't

842
00:43:04,719 --> 00:43:07,680
Speaker 2: live with his mom. Wow.

843
00:43:07,800 --> 00:43:14,520
Speaker 1: The bar is low, Oh my god, the bar low. Wow,

844
00:43:14,600 --> 00:43:15,840
Speaker 1: you're lucky you're not a red flag.

845
00:43:15,880 --> 00:43:18,840
Speaker 2: I guess, yeah, maybe you are. I don't know. Maybe

846
00:43:18,880 --> 00:43:21,239
Speaker 2: in Cassie's colored line, if you have a good relationship

847
00:43:21,280 --> 00:43:24,120
Speaker 2: with your mum and it's not smothering, it's not.

848
00:43:28,120 --> 00:43:32,680
Speaker 1: Ah, he's a he's a red flag, but he's the

849
00:43:32,680 --> 00:43:34,800
Speaker 1: most powerful high lord in Printhian's history.

850
00:43:35,160 --> 00:43:37,480
Speaker 2: I had one he's a red flag, but he's fictional,

851
00:43:37,520 --> 00:43:38,120
Speaker 2: so who cares.

852
00:43:38,200 --> 00:43:40,160
Speaker 1: He's a red flag, but he has a large wingspan.

853
00:43:40,360 --> 00:43:45,520
Speaker 2: Oh, I feel like the wingspan is the equivalent of

854
00:43:45,560 --> 00:43:46,280
Speaker 2: having eight inches.

855
00:43:46,440 --> 00:43:47,040
Speaker 1: That's what it is.

856
00:43:47,120 --> 00:43:50,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, and really that's how they measure and asuals.

857
00:43:50,520 --> 00:43:53,319
Speaker 1: Wingspan is pretty large, apparent.

858
00:43:53,040 --> 00:43:56,280
Speaker 2: Lou, I know, I'd like to see he's a red flag,

859
00:43:56,320 --> 00:43:58,759
Speaker 2: but his pecks make me forget it.

860
00:43:59,480 --> 00:44:02,880
Speaker 1: Oh, not much chat about girls being a peck like

861
00:44:03,239 --> 00:44:08,240
Speaker 1: peck girl, it's always biceps. The girls like a peck

862
00:44:08,880 --> 00:44:09,400
Speaker 1: they must.

863
00:44:10,440 --> 00:44:11,719
Speaker 2: But also is it like competition?

864
00:44:13,520 --> 00:44:16,839
Speaker 1: Yeah, I could be.

865
00:44:16,920 --> 00:44:19,920
Speaker 2: I wish I was in competition. I got bad genetics.

866
00:44:20,239 --> 00:44:22,200
Speaker 1: I remember when I was a kid and I discovered

867
00:44:22,239 --> 00:44:26,759
Speaker 1: like what I think. I was watching the Journey to

868
00:44:26,800 --> 00:44:29,000
Speaker 1: the Center of the Earth. Good movie, but it was

869
00:44:29,040 --> 00:44:31,600
Speaker 1: the second one. Oh, so it was just called like

870
00:44:32,120 --> 00:44:35,480
Speaker 1: Journey to the Something Island. Maybe with The Rock.

871
00:44:35,600 --> 00:44:38,040
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah.

872
00:44:37,560 --> 00:44:43,080
Speaker 1: So The Rock is now dating what's his name? He

873
00:44:43,080 --> 00:44:46,560
Speaker 1: plays Peter Malark in Hunger Games. Josh Hutchison. Oh yeah,

874
00:44:46,840 --> 00:44:50,080
Speaker 1: he's He's playing Josh Hutchinson's stepdad. And for some reason

875
00:44:50,120 --> 00:44:51,720
Speaker 1: they have to go to this journey on a rental

876
00:44:51,800 --> 00:44:54,799
Speaker 1: random Aislem, Magical Island or whatever, and there's a girl

877
00:44:54,840 --> 00:44:56,920
Speaker 1: there that they're trapped with, and Josh Hutchinson obviously has

878
00:44:56,960 --> 00:44:59,040
Speaker 1: a big crush on her, and the Rocks like, you

879
00:44:59,080 --> 00:45:02,120
Speaker 1: know how I go, your mum did the peckl Yeah,

880
00:45:02,239 --> 00:45:04,759
Speaker 1: I remember the peck flex and he's like doing these

881
00:45:04,800 --> 00:45:06,480
Speaker 1: like peck flexes, and I was like, holy shit, Like

882
00:45:06,480 --> 00:45:08,680
Speaker 1: what is he doing? That looks sick. Bro. He's like,

883
00:45:08,719 --> 00:45:10,120
Speaker 1: throw a blue Beard at it, Go throw a berry

884
00:45:10,160 --> 00:45:12,919
Speaker 1: at it. He throws one, pops it off his peck

885
00:45:13,160 --> 00:45:15,319
Speaker 1: right back at Josh Hutcheson's face. Bro, And I was like,

886
00:45:15,800 --> 00:45:20,280
Speaker 1: I was like, I remember so vividly being a kid

887
00:45:20,640 --> 00:45:23,880
Speaker 1: taking off my shirt in the mirror and just full

888
00:45:23,920 --> 00:45:26,040
Speaker 1: concentration trying to like flex my pecks.

889
00:45:26,239 --> 00:45:28,719
Speaker 2: Nothing happened. I could do one, but it's also like

890
00:45:28,800 --> 00:45:30,640
Speaker 2: the top of my shoulder and I can't do the other.

891
00:45:30,719 --> 00:45:33,200
Speaker 1: I can't do it still is it?

892
00:45:33,440 --> 00:45:35,560
Speaker 2: But I also don't think it has that effect at all.

893
00:45:35,680 --> 00:45:44,319
Speaker 1: Steroids. Yeah, okay, this is my last one. He's a

894
00:45:44,360 --> 00:45:47,760
Speaker 1: red flag, but lucky. Red is my favorite color.

895
00:45:47,960 --> 00:45:51,479
Speaker 2: I feel like it is at certain point, at certain

896
00:45:51,520 --> 00:45:54,440
Speaker 2: points in different people's lives, red is what they need.

897
00:45:54,800 --> 00:45:56,040
Speaker 2: I think red is what they want.

898
00:45:57,000 --> 00:45:58,760
Speaker 1: Red is what they.

899
00:46:00,560 --> 00:46:03,440
Speaker 2: Maybe need, is good they desire because you need to

900
00:46:03,480 --> 00:46:05,240
Speaker 2: go through a couple of reds to realize the greens

901
00:46:05,239 --> 00:46:08,439
Speaker 2: are green because the grass is always green, and eight

902
00:46:08,480 --> 00:46:12,200
Speaker 2: inches only last too long, like so long, and also

903
00:46:12,600 --> 00:46:15,640
Speaker 2: the novelty of eight inches must wear off pretty quick. Yeah, yea, yeah,

904
00:46:15,640 --> 00:46:19,239
Speaker 2: we'll keep real. Yeah, like, come on, my last one,

905
00:46:19,280 --> 00:46:26,760
Speaker 2: he's a red flag. But that tongue, really a tongue

906
00:46:26,840 --> 00:46:30,560
Speaker 2: can do that. I reckon it could look at Kyle

907
00:46:30,560 --> 00:46:31,439
Speaker 2: and love other Yeah.

908
00:46:32,239 --> 00:46:43,680
Speaker 8: Yeah, God, oh god, I've been I've come up with

909
00:46:43,680 --> 00:46:45,799
Speaker 8: a new insult for Beth.

910
00:46:46,040 --> 00:46:48,200
Speaker 1: Insult, and there could just be an insult for anyone.

911
00:46:48,239 --> 00:46:52,000
Speaker 1: I suppose anyone does anything. Maybe they do something. Lately

912
00:46:52,000 --> 00:46:55,080
Speaker 1: I've been saying to Beth, I'm like, that's giving Kai.

913
00:46:58,280 --> 00:47:01,520
Speaker 2: A stab in the heartday and yeah it hurts, Yeah,

914
00:47:01,560 --> 00:47:01,799
Speaker 2: it does.

915
00:47:09,600 --> 00:47:11,920
Speaker 1: All right about his sign for some dilemmas. If you

916
00:47:11,920 --> 00:47:15,920
Speaker 1: guys want to submit a dilemma, go down to the

917
00:47:16,000 --> 00:47:21,080
Speaker 1: description of this video, or go to our Instagram bio.

918
00:47:21,360 --> 00:47:25,319
Speaker 1: Click on the link. Go down confessions. They're all anonymous.

919
00:47:25,760 --> 00:47:28,080
Speaker 1: Put them in we'll answer them. If you want to

920
00:47:28,080 --> 00:47:30,879
Speaker 1: get one answered more likely to be answered, best thing

921
00:47:30,960 --> 00:47:33,399
Speaker 1: to do is go to Patreon. Sign up five dollars

922
00:47:33,480 --> 00:47:37,000
Speaker 1: a month and a lot less in there. Agreed, Now

923
00:47:39,719 --> 00:47:42,160
Speaker 1: let me let me go. I am twenty four and

924
00:47:42,239 --> 00:47:47,760
Speaker 1: about to be involved in another ex's wedding. For more information.

925
00:47:47,960 --> 00:47:51,320
Speaker 1: Two years ago, I was a bride'smaid in my ex

926
00:47:51,360 --> 00:47:55,600
Speaker 1: of three years wedding. He ended up marrying what he

927
00:47:55,719 --> 00:48:00,439
Speaker 1: ended up marrying my best friend. This year, my other

928
00:48:00,560 --> 00:48:03,920
Speaker 1: ex got engaged. We have been broken up for two years,

929
00:48:04,000 --> 00:48:08,720
Speaker 1: but are in no way on talking terms. I am, however,

930
00:48:09,120 --> 00:48:13,400
Speaker 1: good friends with his fiance, who I introduced him to

931
00:48:14,160 --> 00:48:17,560
Speaker 1: while we were still dating. She recently asked me to

932
00:48:17,600 --> 00:48:21,200
Speaker 1: help make food for their wedding. I am now sorry.

933
00:48:21,200 --> 00:48:24,040
Speaker 1: I am at a point where I just have no

934
00:48:24,239 --> 00:48:27,360
Speaker 1: feelings towards the situation, even though I know it sucks.

935
00:48:27,840 --> 00:48:30,400
Speaker 1: I guess my dilemma is should I go forward? With

936
00:48:30,520 --> 00:48:32,759
Speaker 1: helping with the wedding, even though I have had a

937
00:48:32,760 --> 00:48:36,279
Speaker 1: lot of feelings of bitterness. For context, we all go

938
00:48:36,360 --> 00:48:39,080
Speaker 1: to the same church in the Midwest, which means all

939
00:48:39,120 --> 00:48:41,439
Speaker 1: of them got married at twenty one or twenty two.

940
00:48:42,000 --> 00:48:44,479
Speaker 1: I would also not consider either of them the one

941
00:48:44,480 --> 00:48:46,840
Speaker 1: that got away. I did break up with them for

942
00:48:46,880 --> 00:48:48,879
Speaker 1: a reason. It still hurts, though.

943
00:48:49,440 --> 00:48:52,080
Speaker 2: That's good that you're the one who broke up with them.

944
00:48:52,520 --> 00:48:53,520
Speaker 2: Tricky situation.

945
00:48:53,719 --> 00:48:59,080
Speaker 1: Girl, fucking' know. Oh wow, both of those exes shot

946
00:48:59,080 --> 00:48:59,800
Speaker 1: you in the art?

947
00:49:01,160 --> 00:49:03,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, what the hell's with that? So you broke up

948
00:49:03,080 --> 00:49:04,720
Speaker 2: with them, and then they're like, oh, what's the closest

949
00:49:04,719 --> 00:49:06,200
Speaker 2: thing I can go stick my will again?

950
00:49:06,840 --> 00:49:09,080
Speaker 1: Fuck? But yeah, i'd say, and they're to blame. That's

951
00:49:09,160 --> 00:49:10,200
Speaker 1: not your friends too.

952
00:49:10,280 --> 00:49:13,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, your friends because they respect that that's your ex.

953
00:49:13,680 --> 00:49:16,680
Speaker 2: That's when you know they're a shit friends. I wouldn't go, Yeah,

954
00:49:16,760 --> 00:49:17,480
Speaker 2: fuck that dude.

955
00:49:17,520 --> 00:49:19,320
Speaker 1: They give love a bad name, bad juju.

956
00:49:19,400 --> 00:49:22,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, the fact that they're getting with your ex at all.

957
00:49:23,120 --> 00:49:27,399
Speaker 2: Is there an acceptable amount of time where you can

958
00:49:27,400 --> 00:49:30,200
Speaker 2: get with your friends X? I say no, always off limits?

959
00:49:31,320 --> 00:49:32,919
Speaker 1: I always I think I say off limits too.

960
00:49:33,120 --> 00:49:35,839
Speaker 2: And also, you should be talking shit about your ex

961
00:49:35,880 --> 00:49:37,960
Speaker 2: to your friends of why you broke up with them?

962
00:49:37,960 --> 00:49:38,680
Speaker 2: Why would they want that?

963
00:49:38,680 --> 00:49:41,560
Speaker 1: It's fucking insane that your first one you went to,

964
00:49:41,719 --> 00:49:42,560
Speaker 1: right where'd you go?

965
00:49:42,840 --> 00:49:43,200
Speaker 5: Is like.

966
00:49:45,120 --> 00:49:50,120
Speaker 1: You're a very understanding person, Like your best friend ends

967
00:49:50,200 --> 00:49:53,600
Speaker 1: up with your ex boyfriend and then she still says,

968
00:49:53,640 --> 00:49:55,080
Speaker 1: can you be a bride'smaid?

969
00:49:55,360 --> 00:49:59,560
Speaker 2: Yeah? The nerve on that girl a I would have ruined.

970
00:50:00,040 --> 00:50:00,720
Speaker 1: They're weady.

971
00:50:00,840 --> 00:50:02,520
Speaker 2: Also, yeah, do you have enough friends to not talk

972
00:50:02,520 --> 00:50:03,080
Speaker 2: to them anymore?

973
00:50:03,160 --> 00:50:05,360
Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah, what's this situation? What's what's all this about? Like?

974
00:50:05,400 --> 00:50:06,480
Speaker 1: How small is your community?

975
00:50:06,719 --> 00:50:09,919
Speaker 2: She said, the in the Midwest? What does that mean?

976
00:50:10,000 --> 00:50:13,800
Speaker 1: The Midwest is a pretty broad area, Like the Midwest

977
00:50:13,880 --> 00:50:17,799
Speaker 1: is obviously America, because I love to talk about like Midwest,

978
00:50:17,920 --> 00:50:21,000
Speaker 1: so our South like that. We don't really we just

979
00:50:21,040 --> 00:50:23,200
Speaker 1: say states here. Yeah, I say, be the bigger person

980
00:50:24,480 --> 00:50:25,440
Speaker 1: and go or don't go?

981
00:50:27,040 --> 00:50:29,400
Speaker 2: Is that being the bigger person if you put yourself

982
00:50:29,440 --> 00:50:31,960
Speaker 2: first and don't rs VP and don't.

983
00:50:31,800 --> 00:50:33,600
Speaker 1: Go at all, it's been the biggest person for yourself.

984
00:50:33,680 --> 00:50:34,160
Speaker 2: Yeah.

985
00:50:35,000 --> 00:50:37,319
Speaker 1: Just insane to me that they're even asking the light

986
00:50:37,800 --> 00:50:38,880
Speaker 1: I mean to be okay, I don't know.

987
00:50:38,920 --> 00:50:40,640
Speaker 2: I guess it's like maybe they think you don't care.

988
00:50:40,880 --> 00:50:44,759
Speaker 1: Maybe they think you don't care, and for all we know,

989
00:50:44,840 --> 00:50:45,800
Speaker 1: she's given blessings.

990
00:50:46,080 --> 00:50:49,319
Speaker 2: And also it's kind of like, haha, you know he's

991
00:50:49,320 --> 00:50:50,320
Speaker 2: a shipman and they're marrying.

992
00:50:50,360 --> 00:50:56,799
Speaker 1: Like tough thing about this. So let me think about this.

993
00:50:57,920 --> 00:51:03,560
Speaker 1: If you just so happened to strike something up with

994
00:51:03,680 --> 00:51:06,640
Speaker 1: one of my exes, wait, no it's not. Actually no

995
00:51:06,719 --> 00:51:09,680
Speaker 1: one of them was was her best friend. So like,

996
00:51:09,760 --> 00:51:11,120
Speaker 1: here's the thing, is like I.

997
00:51:11,120 --> 00:51:12,040
Speaker 2: Couldn't look you in the eye.

998
00:51:12,120 --> 00:51:13,839
Speaker 1: No, I know, I know, I know. Let's just say

999
00:51:13,880 --> 00:51:14,320
Speaker 1: you could.

1000
00:51:14,800 --> 00:51:17,360
Speaker 2: All right, guys who.

1001
00:51:19,200 --> 00:51:22,839
Speaker 1: So let's just say you could. Like I actually don't

1002
00:51:22,840 --> 00:51:24,480
Speaker 1: think I would want to not go to your wedding

1003
00:51:24,520 --> 00:51:28,320
Speaker 1: because of that, because I am over the ex in question,

1004
00:51:29,920 --> 00:51:31,359
Speaker 1: even though let's say didn't end great.

1005
00:51:32,520 --> 00:51:34,440
Speaker 2: I think it's crazy. Is it different for girls? Because

1006
00:51:34,520 --> 00:51:40,319
Speaker 2: like say, for some reason your ex hit your ex

1007
00:51:40,400 --> 00:51:42,200
Speaker 2: hit me up, and I went on a couple of

1008
00:51:42,280 --> 00:51:43,840
Speaker 2: dates and we were about to get down and nearly

1009
00:51:43,880 --> 00:51:47,400
Speaker 2: just died. Yeah, we were about to get down and dirty.

1010
00:51:48,040 --> 00:51:52,200
Speaker 2: I would think of you. Yeah, I would be like

1011
00:51:52,320 --> 00:51:55,200
Speaker 2: fuck Jake spy here, and I feel like I don't.

1012
00:51:55,040 --> 00:51:55,560
Speaker 1: Want to do this.

1013
00:51:55,719 --> 00:51:55,919
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1014
00:51:56,480 --> 00:52:00,279
Speaker 1: All there's like there's like, there's one cent that I

1015
00:52:00,360 --> 00:52:02,239
Speaker 1: need to say to you to get you out of

1016
00:52:02,280 --> 00:52:05,680
Speaker 1: that relationship. When you when you come clean and tell

1017
00:52:05,719 --> 00:52:08,480
Speaker 1: me like, this is how fucking bad men are, right,

1018
00:52:08,520 --> 00:52:12,439
Speaker 1: it's our stupid Menna. You give my ex you come,

1019
00:52:12,680 --> 00:52:14,160
Speaker 1: you work up the coach to tell me and you

1020
00:52:14,280 --> 00:52:15,239
Speaker 1: I just want to let you know, like, I just

1021
00:52:15,239 --> 00:52:17,360
Speaker 1: want to be honest and stuff. I really like x

1022
00:52:17,480 --> 00:52:21,080
Speaker 1: y ZB and I go, ah, so you like sloppy seconds.

1023
00:52:21,760 --> 00:52:23,759
Speaker 1: That's the only thing I have to say for it

1024
00:52:23,760 --> 00:52:24,480
Speaker 1: to be ruined.

1025
00:52:25,320 --> 00:52:27,480
Speaker 2: It would be ruined, and I would I'm the tup

1026
00:52:27,520 --> 00:52:30,080
Speaker 2: of person already protested that. Yeah, that wouldn't be looking

1027
00:52:30,120 --> 00:52:30,320
Speaker 2: for that.

1028
00:52:31,600 --> 00:52:34,400
Speaker 1: We said, don't go fuck that. Okay.

1029
00:52:36,239 --> 00:52:40,040
Speaker 2: My dilemma how to get over someone you thought was

1030
00:52:40,120 --> 00:52:45,080
Speaker 2: your end game? Hey, Jake and Oddie. Two weeks ago,

1031
00:52:45,239 --> 00:52:49,560
Speaker 2: my relationship of three point five years ended. I got

1032
00:52:49,600 --> 00:52:52,600
Speaker 2: broken up with and had no idea it was coming.

1033
00:52:54,400 --> 00:52:57,400
Speaker 2: There were no warning signs. He was still telling me

1034
00:52:57,600 --> 00:53:00,600
Speaker 2: how much he loved me every single day until he

1035
00:53:00,760 --> 00:53:03,600
Speaker 2: called me in brackets. We were doing long distance when

1036
00:53:03,640 --> 00:53:06,880
Speaker 2: he did it and said he doesn't see a future

1037
00:53:06,960 --> 00:53:09,040
Speaker 2: with me and doesn't see himself having.

1038
00:53:08,880 --> 00:53:10,560
Speaker 1: Kids with me. So he's done.

1039
00:53:11,360 --> 00:53:12,440
Speaker 2: Fuck, that's cut throat out.

1040
00:53:12,480 --> 00:53:13,440
Speaker 1: It's fucking heavy.

1041
00:53:13,600 --> 00:53:18,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, now that my quote, rose colored glasses are off.

1042
00:53:18,960 --> 00:53:21,480
Speaker 2: I know it wasn't the best relationship ever, and I

1043
00:53:21,560 --> 00:53:24,560
Speaker 2: did deserve to be treated better. But I'm twenty one

1044
00:53:24,680 --> 00:53:28,000
Speaker 2: and he was my first everything. Oh and I don't

1045
00:53:28,040 --> 00:53:31,200
Speaker 2: even know what to do. We talked about our future

1046
00:53:31,239 --> 00:53:34,719
Speaker 2: together all the time, and now I'm just alone. To

1047
00:53:34,840 --> 00:53:37,719
Speaker 2: make matters worse. We're family friends, so I'll still see

1048
00:53:37,840 --> 00:53:40,359
Speaker 2: his family a lot. Any tips or tricks on how

1049
00:53:40,400 --> 00:53:43,080
Speaker 2: to get over someone and heal from this, Thanks so much,

1050
00:53:43,280 --> 00:53:44,200
Speaker 2: love you boys.

1051
00:53:44,080 --> 00:53:47,120
Speaker 1: At This is going to make me feel amazing saying this,

1052
00:53:47,360 --> 00:53:49,760
Speaker 1: but I've never actually been able to say this about

1053
00:53:49,760 --> 00:53:54,200
Speaker 1: any situation. But girl, you just had the rug completely

1054
00:53:54,280 --> 00:53:55,360
Speaker 1: pulled out from underneath you.

1055
00:53:56,000 --> 00:53:56,239
Speaker 2: You have.

1056
00:53:56,680 --> 00:54:00,759
Speaker 1: Yeah, sorry, sorry to make myself feel good about your

1057
00:54:00,800 --> 00:54:02,680
Speaker 1: bad situation, but you've given me the I got to

1058
00:54:02,680 --> 00:54:03,239
Speaker 1: say a saying.

1059
00:54:03,560 --> 00:54:05,520
Speaker 2: Is it called a phrase drug pulled? Is that the

1060
00:54:05,680 --> 00:54:06,560
Speaker 2: saying you got?

1061
00:54:06,760 --> 00:54:08,640
Speaker 1: You've been rug pulled? But like rug pulling is like

1062
00:54:08,640 --> 00:54:09,399
Speaker 1: a crypto turn.

1063
00:54:09,480 --> 00:54:11,000
Speaker 2: Okay, don't take that.

1064
00:54:11,120 --> 00:54:13,640
Speaker 1: The famous people will go here's my crypto. Buy it.

1065
00:54:14,200 --> 00:54:17,160
Speaker 1: People buy it, and they sell all of theirs just

1066
00:54:17,239 --> 00:54:19,560
Speaker 1: get profits and then the coin plummets and it's illegal.

1067
00:54:19,320 --> 00:54:21,080
Speaker 2: And they rug pulled because no one saw it coming,

1068
00:54:21,080 --> 00:54:22,399
Speaker 2: which is exactly rug pulled.

1069
00:54:23,000 --> 00:54:25,319
Speaker 1: Rug pulled crypto boys. Oh should be.

1070
00:54:25,280 --> 00:54:29,760
Speaker 2: Creaty my check my crypto. No, no, let's help this, baddie.

1071
00:54:29,800 --> 00:54:32,799
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, okay, break up. So no, genuinely though, you've

1072
00:54:32,840 --> 00:54:34,799
Speaker 1: had like this plan that you've seen for your life

1073
00:54:34,800 --> 00:54:38,479
Speaker 1: with someone and it has been just taken, taken without

1074
00:54:38,600 --> 00:54:41,359
Speaker 1: any you, You have no say, and so you are

1075
00:54:41,440 --> 00:54:46,320
Speaker 1: probably spiraling fair very difficult.

1076
00:54:46,440 --> 00:54:48,759
Speaker 2: Wow, I think, Yeah, what you're going through is really

1077
00:54:48,800 --> 00:54:50,759
Speaker 2: really hard, and it's so hard when all you've ever

1078
00:54:50,840 --> 00:54:52,360
Speaker 2: known for the past three and a half years is

1079
00:54:52,520 --> 00:54:54,800
Speaker 2: talking to this guy. Now he's just not there, and

1080
00:54:54,920 --> 00:54:57,040
Speaker 2: like it's all your brain consumes, and when it's gone

1081
00:54:57,160 --> 00:54:58,759
Speaker 2: your brain it's kind of like an addiction in a sense.

1082
00:54:58,800 --> 00:55:01,879
Speaker 2: It's all your brain can think about all day, every day.

1083
00:55:01,880 --> 00:55:04,960
Speaker 2: When you're a free second, you're like, oh, oh, or

1084
00:55:05,280 --> 00:55:08,640
Speaker 2: and I guess we've talked about it, but before it's cliche.

1085
00:55:08,760 --> 00:55:12,440
Speaker 2: But time does heal all And it's very very cliche,

1086
00:55:12,480 --> 00:55:15,120
Speaker 2: and you'll probably like shut up, I know, yeah, but

1087
00:55:16,200 --> 00:55:19,200
Speaker 2: one day it will all just click, and those thoughts

1088
00:55:19,280 --> 00:55:22,080
Speaker 2: that you're always having about him, You'll last twelve hours,

1089
00:55:22,120 --> 00:55:23,960
Speaker 2: You'll last a day without thinking about it, you'll last

1090
00:55:24,000 --> 00:55:25,960
Speaker 2: two days about thinking about it. It'll get to a

1091
00:55:26,040 --> 00:55:28,080
Speaker 2: week and you're like, fuck, I don't think about him

1092
00:55:28,120 --> 00:55:31,480
Speaker 2: for a whole week. Yeah, and then it slowly snowballs

1093
00:55:31,480 --> 00:55:34,040
Speaker 2: into a month and then two months and you're like wow,

1094
00:55:34,160 --> 00:55:36,719
Speaker 2: and it's your healing journey and everyone's different and you

1095
00:55:36,760 --> 00:55:39,239
Speaker 2: can distract yourself, you can get under other people, you

1096
00:55:39,320 --> 00:55:41,359
Speaker 2: can start going to the gym, you can concentrate on things,

1097
00:55:41,680 --> 00:55:46,480
Speaker 2: and everyone's healing journey is different. But I think it's cliche,

1098
00:55:46,560 --> 00:55:48,600
Speaker 2: but it works. Time heals all. You're not going to

1099
00:55:48,640 --> 00:55:50,280
Speaker 2: get over a three and night. Jake said it before

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00:55:50,560 --> 00:55:51,880
Speaker 2: half the time you're with him is how long it

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00:55:51,920 --> 00:55:53,000
Speaker 2: will take to get over them.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a good little rule of thumb that I

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00:55:55,560 --> 00:55:57,440
Speaker 1: just have seen it once and then being like actually

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00:55:57,560 --> 00:56:00,520
Speaker 1: thinking back, like it did take me. I had a

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00:56:00,520 --> 00:56:03,120
Speaker 1: three year relationship that ended in a way where I

1106
00:56:03,160 --> 00:56:05,720
Speaker 1: was like broken hearted, and it took me a fucking

1107
00:56:05,840 --> 00:56:08,200
Speaker 1: year and a half to be one hundred percent sweet.

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00:56:08,239 --> 00:56:10,560
Speaker 1: And you probably don't hear that because it sounds like

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00:56:10,600 --> 00:56:12,560
Speaker 1: a long time, which it is a year and a

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00:56:12,560 --> 00:56:14,279
Speaker 1: half's long time for you. It might be a year

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00:56:14,320 --> 00:56:15,879
Speaker 1: and a half, could be a year, could be fucking

1112
00:56:15,920 --> 00:56:17,879
Speaker 1: six months. You don't know. Everyone is different. A good

1113
00:56:17,960 --> 00:56:19,200
Speaker 1: rule of thumb is about a year and a half.

1114
00:56:19,239 --> 00:56:22,400
Speaker 1: But I would say I'm trying to think, like from

1115
00:56:22,480 --> 00:56:25,600
Speaker 1: past experience, I would say the best thing you can

1116
00:56:25,680 --> 00:56:32,600
Speaker 1: do is start to try new things so you can

1117
00:56:32,640 --> 00:56:34,360
Speaker 1: still do the things you like to do. But a

1118
00:56:34,400 --> 00:56:36,000
Speaker 1: lot of the time, the things you enjoy doing are

1119
00:56:36,000 --> 00:56:37,400
Speaker 1: going to remind you of said person.

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Speaker 2: I remember when I broke up with my ex. Her car.

1121
00:56:40,920 --> 00:56:43,640
Speaker 2: Whenever I saw it, I was like, fuck you yeah, yeah, yeah,

1122
00:56:43,760 --> 00:56:45,520
Speaker 2: her exact cars. She had a whole an Astra. Yeah.

1123
00:56:45,680 --> 00:56:46,960
Speaker 2: I was like, fuck you, dude.

1124
00:56:47,520 --> 00:56:51,200
Speaker 1: Same for me, same exact thing. You see that type

1125
00:56:51,200 --> 00:56:55,000
Speaker 1: of car and you're like, fuck off, fuck off. But

1126
00:56:55,840 --> 00:57:00,320
Speaker 1: so yeah, I would say, like, try new things you enjoys,

1127
00:57:00,360 --> 00:57:03,600
Speaker 1: not to trial some stuff. And usually once you can

1128
00:57:03,640 --> 00:57:06,480
Speaker 1: try something that takes your mind off the thing, that's

1129
00:57:06,480 --> 00:57:08,080
Speaker 1: when you start to have those moments where it's like,

1130
00:57:08,160 --> 00:57:10,160
Speaker 1: been ten minutes, we haven't thought about them, and then

1131
00:57:10,200 --> 00:57:11,920
Speaker 1: you and then and then you're like, oh wow, it's

1132
00:57:11,920 --> 00:57:13,440
Speaker 1: been ten minutes and then you think about them, you're like,

1133
00:57:13,520 --> 00:57:16,040
Speaker 1: fuck off, but still that ten minutes and.

1134
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Speaker 2: We like step.

1135
00:57:17,000 --> 00:57:17,520
Speaker 1: It is a step.

1136
00:57:17,560 --> 00:57:20,680
Speaker 2: We always like to have a glass full perspective. And

1137
00:57:20,840 --> 00:57:24,440
Speaker 2: I guess although it's very hard, it's an opportunity for

1138
00:57:24,680 --> 00:57:27,320
Speaker 2: you to find out more about yourself. You're twenty one,

1139
00:57:27,960 --> 00:57:30,160
Speaker 2: you're a badie. You got so much gun for you,

1140
00:57:30,480 --> 00:57:33,640
Speaker 2: and you've got so much free time and brain power

1141
00:57:33,680 --> 00:57:36,240
Speaker 2: that isn't going into this relationship now to focus on

1142
00:57:36,320 --> 00:57:39,720
Speaker 2: yourself and focus on your goals and just do whatever

1143
00:57:39,720 --> 00:57:41,880
Speaker 2: the fuck you want without anyone in your back, in

1144
00:57:41,960 --> 00:57:42,560
Speaker 2: the back of your mind.

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00:57:42,720 --> 00:57:43,240
Speaker 5: Yeah I did.

1146
00:57:43,280 --> 00:57:46,000
Speaker 1: I was just like thinking back, like, fuck, you feel

1147
00:57:46,040 --> 00:57:49,200
Speaker 1: so helpless. Yeah, you do. I fully forgot how helpless

1148
00:57:49,200 --> 00:57:53,320
Speaker 1: you feel because thinking like right now, obviously I'm I

1149
00:57:53,440 --> 00:57:57,360
Speaker 1: mean a like a healthy relationship and I'm nowhere like

1150
00:57:57,520 --> 00:58:00,400
Speaker 1: I was heartbroken many years ago now, but I'm just

1151
00:58:00,520 --> 00:58:02,600
Speaker 1: remembering how helpless you feel.

1152
00:58:02,960 --> 00:58:05,640
Speaker 2: I feel like repetitions and routine helped me. Yeah.

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00:58:05,840 --> 00:58:08,760
Speaker 1: One thing I was just gonna say was for me,

1154
00:58:10,080 --> 00:58:13,960
Speaker 1: some I like broke down. What a heartbreak is like.

1155
00:58:14,400 --> 00:58:18,000
Speaker 1: It's like you're grieving someone and you're grieving someone that's

1156
00:58:18,000 --> 00:58:20,880
Speaker 1: still alive, and this person is like chosen not to

1157
00:58:20,920 --> 00:58:22,800
Speaker 1: be with you anymore. So it like kind of sucks.

1158
00:58:23,640 --> 00:58:25,080
Speaker 1: We're not kind of sucks. It sucks.

1159
00:58:25,400 --> 00:58:25,560
Speaker 2: Ah.

1160
00:58:26,360 --> 00:58:29,680
Speaker 1: And I just remember like sleep was the biggest thing.

1161
00:58:31,040 --> 00:58:33,400
Speaker 1: Getting to sleep was pretty shit, but then once you

1162
00:58:33,480 --> 00:58:36,960
Speaker 1: got to sleep, you were asleep. The worst fucking thing

1163
00:58:37,040 --> 00:58:41,960
Speaker 1: in the world was waking up. And because sleep is

1164
00:58:42,000 --> 00:58:44,640
Speaker 1: the escape, so when you wake up straight away, you're

1165
00:58:44,680 --> 00:58:47,880
Speaker 1: thinking about him again and you're anxious as and so

1166
00:58:49,080 --> 00:58:52,640
Speaker 1: I remember the first time I slept from like I

1167
00:58:52,680 --> 00:58:54,040
Speaker 1: don't know, whenever I went to bed all the way

1168
00:58:54,080 --> 00:58:57,040
Speaker 1: through the morning, I was like, oh my god, progress

1169
00:58:58,240 --> 00:59:01,720
Speaker 1: because I would wake up at like too and piss,

1170
00:59:02,560 --> 00:59:06,120
Speaker 1: but then be awake until like four because I was

1171
00:59:06,240 --> 00:59:08,600
Speaker 1: just you just feel so helpless, Like what the fuck

1172
00:59:08,640 --> 00:59:14,080
Speaker 1: am I dueling? So girl, fuck I feel you.

1173
00:59:14,320 --> 00:59:17,240
Speaker 2: I think the only advice that you actually want to.

1174
00:59:17,240 --> 00:59:18,240
Speaker 1: Hear is you've got this.

1175
00:59:19,160 --> 00:59:19,560
Speaker 2: You've got this.

1176
00:59:20,200 --> 00:59:22,880
Speaker 1: Yeah if this dude, oh you know, like the way

1177
00:59:22,920 --> 00:59:24,640
Speaker 1: he'd said where he broke up with you sounds like

1178
00:59:24,640 --> 00:59:25,520
Speaker 1: obviously very harsh.

1179
00:59:26,680 --> 00:59:27,800
Speaker 2: I feel like you don't need to say that. I

1180
00:59:27,840 --> 00:59:28,520
Speaker 2: don't see I don't know.

1181
00:59:28,560 --> 00:59:29,920
Speaker 1: At the same time, it's like, like, what else do

1182
00:59:29,960 --> 00:59:31,800
Speaker 1: you say like that? I feel like that was just

1183
00:59:31,880 --> 00:59:32,360
Speaker 1: kind of mean.

1184
00:59:32,680 --> 00:59:34,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like you just say I don't see

1185
00:59:34,560 --> 00:59:35,520
Speaker 2: a future with you anymore.

1186
00:59:35,640 --> 00:59:36,840
Speaker 1: Was that too mean to I don't know. At the

1187
00:59:36,880 --> 00:59:39,200
Speaker 1: same time, it's you know, you want people to be honest.

1188
00:59:39,600 --> 00:59:41,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, but I feel like the baby's thing. You can

1189
00:59:41,120 --> 00:59:42,800
Speaker 2: just be left out, ignorance is blissed.

1190
00:59:42,960 --> 00:59:46,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, true, it's kind of it does seem harsh. But

1191
00:59:46,520 --> 00:59:47,880
Speaker 1: what's a good way to break up with someone?

1192
00:59:48,160 --> 00:59:51,640
Speaker 2: I think just I've been thinking I don't see a

1193
00:59:51,680 --> 00:59:54,720
Speaker 2: future with you. I think covers everything. It does, Yeah,

1194
00:59:54,920 --> 00:59:56,480
Speaker 2: rather than putting it on yourself and saying I need

1195
00:59:56,520 --> 00:59:57,440
Speaker 2: time to focus on myself.

1196
00:59:57,480 --> 00:59:59,600
Speaker 1: But boom, and he's and he's also like, you could

1197
00:59:59,600 --> 01:00:01,360
Speaker 1: say I I just don't see a future with you anymore,

1198
01:00:02,320 --> 01:00:05,280
Speaker 1: and then you're right like that that full stop everything

1199
01:00:06,440 --> 01:00:09,400
Speaker 1: is said with that one sentence, because what he's done

1200
01:00:09,480 --> 01:00:11,440
Speaker 1: is I don't see the future with you. And then

1201
01:00:11,480 --> 01:00:13,280
Speaker 1: he goes, yeah, I don't see marriage with you, I

1202
01:00:13,320 --> 01:00:13,920
Speaker 1: don't see.

1203
01:00:13,800 --> 01:00:14,240
Speaker 2: Kids with you.

1204
01:00:14,520 --> 01:00:16,960
Speaker 1: It's like he's rubbed it in. It's like, okay, come on, yeah,

1205
01:00:16,960 --> 01:00:17,640
Speaker 1: I know what future me.

1206
01:00:19,760 --> 01:00:22,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm bleeding out and you just fucking stabbed me

1207
01:00:22,200 --> 01:00:26,080
Speaker 2: a couple of times. Yeah, shank, twist, twist again. Jeezus

1208
01:00:33,000 --> 01:00:36,320
Speaker 2: bad is to finish the episode. As we mentioned, we

1209
01:00:36,600 --> 01:00:41,280
Speaker 2: have their email responses to reiterate. I will read the

1210
01:00:41,360 --> 01:00:43,680
Speaker 2: email we sent them and we'll get to Grace in

1211
01:00:43,720 --> 01:00:46,800
Speaker 2: Sarah's responses. I got a little bit of a brief

1212
01:00:46,840 --> 01:00:47,919
Speaker 2: before and they did good.

1213
01:00:48,280 --> 01:00:49,520
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, okay.

1214
01:00:49,960 --> 01:00:53,360
Speaker 2: The subject was draft a friendly reminder email about the

1215
01:00:53,480 --> 01:00:57,720
Speaker 2: lunch thief. We said, Hi, Baddie, hope you're doing great today.

1216
01:00:57,840 --> 01:00:59,400
Speaker 2: I have a quick task that I would like your

1217
01:00:59,440 --> 01:01:02,600
Speaker 2: help with. Could you draft a short company wilde email

1218
01:01:02,680 --> 01:01:06,600
Speaker 2: that reminds everyone about not stealing anyone's lunches. We've noticed

1219
01:01:06,600 --> 01:01:09,040
Speaker 2: a bit of a reoccurring lunch thief situation in the

1220
01:01:09,120 --> 01:01:11,480
Speaker 2: staff lounge and we'd like to address it with a

1221
01:01:11,520 --> 01:01:14,120
Speaker 2: friendly tone. Feel free to add a touch of humor

1222
01:01:14,280 --> 01:01:16,200
Speaker 2: if you think it will land well, but the main

1223
01:01:16,280 --> 01:01:18,240
Speaker 2: goal is just a polite node so everyone is a

1224
01:01:18,320 --> 01:01:21,080
Speaker 2: bit more mindful. Thanks a ton for handling this, and

1225
01:01:21,800 --> 01:01:26,800
Speaker 2: I have Grace who was working with the our packers. Yes, hey,

1226
01:01:26,960 --> 01:01:29,040
Speaker 2: or I would just like to address the rumor of

1227
01:01:29,160 --> 01:01:32,360
Speaker 2: the lunch thief at our youth shows. I don't want

1228
01:01:32,400 --> 01:01:35,880
Speaker 2: to be sharing my greasy dagwood dog with you, and

1229
01:01:36,000 --> 01:01:38,400
Speaker 2: you wouldn't want to share it with me. Let alone

1230
01:01:38,480 --> 01:01:42,000
Speaker 2: cootie sharing a cold lemonade at a hot summer's show.

1231
01:01:43,960 --> 01:01:47,000
Speaker 2: If you keep stealing food, I will be putting food

1232
01:01:47,120 --> 01:01:52,000
Speaker 2: covered in our packer spit in the lunch room. Smiley face,

1233
01:01:52,360 --> 01:01:58,280
Speaker 2: vomit emoji. Kind regards. Grace, Vice President, New South Wales Youth,

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01:01:58,640 --> 01:01:59,439
Speaker 2: our packer youth.

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01:01:59,600 --> 01:02:02,480
Speaker 1: Let's go, I like that.

1236
01:02:02,880 --> 01:02:06,560
Speaker 2: That's intimidating. I don't know what dagwood is dagwood dog.

1237
01:02:06,640 --> 01:02:09,360
Speaker 1: I'm sure some sort of like cot dog or something.

1238
01:02:10,960 --> 01:02:16,480
Speaker 1: I don't know. Go Grace, Okay, God, Sarah, Okay, all right,

1239
01:02:16,920 --> 01:02:22,200
Speaker 1: we all remember Sarah, I assure. She says, Hey, team,

1240
01:02:23,120 --> 01:02:26,040
Speaker 1: I'd love to bring to everyone's attention the recent problem

1241
01:02:26,440 --> 01:02:31,640
Speaker 1: plaguing this workplace. Some would call the sandwich stealer. Sorry.

1242
01:02:32,040 --> 01:02:35,560
Speaker 1: Some would call them the sandwich steeler, others the lunch

1243
01:02:35,640 --> 01:02:40,800
Speaker 1: box bandit. However, I will be naming them the downright

1244
01:02:41,000 --> 01:02:46,640
Speaker 1: disgraceful lunchtime destroyer, as someone who spends each morning holding

1245
01:02:46,680 --> 01:02:49,880
Speaker 1: out for their midnight for their mid day snack. The

1246
01:02:50,040 --> 01:02:53,560
Speaker 1: fact we have been having thefts of our workplace lunches

1247
01:02:53,920 --> 01:02:57,880
Speaker 1: is disappointing. Please can we stop with the lunch thefts.

1248
01:02:58,160 --> 01:03:01,160
Speaker 1: I'm happy to provide some easy meat, I prep suggestions

1249
01:03:01,560 --> 01:03:04,080
Speaker 1: to those who may be lacking on time, but I

1250
01:03:04,160 --> 01:03:07,800
Speaker 1: will not continue to unwillingly provide my lunch on behalf

1251
01:03:07,840 --> 01:03:10,120
Speaker 1: of the other staff also losing their lunches. We would

1252
01:03:10,120 --> 01:03:13,720
Speaker 1: greatly appreciate this behavior. To spot this behavior to stop.

1253
01:03:14,240 --> 01:03:17,000
Speaker 1: Despite the jokes, it really isn't funny to lose a lunch.

1254
01:03:18,200 --> 01:03:23,600
Speaker 1: Kind regards Sarah Matthews, a lost lunch victim. Oh at

1255
01:03:23,600 --> 01:03:23,920
Speaker 1: the end.

1256
01:03:23,920 --> 01:03:26,520
Speaker 2: Day, Oh, I don't know how I feel about it.

1257
01:03:26,640 --> 01:03:30,400
Speaker 2: I don't know. Baddies, it's up to you. Okay, So baddies,

1258
01:03:30,440 --> 01:03:33,400
Speaker 2: you know what to do. Comment Grace or Sarah below

1259
01:03:33,720 --> 01:03:37,120
Speaker 2: to see who's moving on to the finale, and baddies,

1260
01:03:37,240 --> 01:03:39,720
Speaker 2: there's no comments or baddies sign off today because this

1261
01:03:39,840 --> 01:03:41,880
Speaker 2: episode's been a little bit different. Let us know if

1262
01:03:41,880 --> 01:03:44,280
Speaker 2: you loved it, please, but we love you.

1263
01:03:44,800 --> 01:03:45,360
Speaker 1: Stay bad