1 00:00:01,560 --> 00:00:04,320 Speaker 1: Is it fits in with kate Wiki podcasts. 2 00:00:05,680 --> 00:00:10,280 Speaker 2: Good solution for those obsessed with their phone. I think 3 00:00:10,320 --> 00:00:12,280 Speaker 2: we all are at times. We're all caught out going, 4 00:00:12,280 --> 00:00:13,640 Speaker 2: Oh my god, how long I made looking at this 5 00:00:13,680 --> 00:00:17,040 Speaker 2: screen for I'm having fun here. There is a new 6 00:00:17,079 --> 00:00:18,919 Speaker 2: item that's out on the market. It's called the Coach 7 00:00:19,520 --> 00:00:22,919 Speaker 2: and it has a chastity belt for your mobile phone. 8 00:00:23,239 --> 00:00:24,960 Speaker 2: So the whole idea of the chastity belt. If you're 9 00:00:25,000 --> 00:00:27,240 Speaker 2: not sure of the tradition of the chastity belt, they 10 00:00:27,280 --> 00:00:29,560 Speaker 2: were worn by women back in the Middle Ages to 11 00:00:29,640 --> 00:00:33,920 Speaker 2: prevent both unwanted advances and sexual temptation. So the idea 12 00:00:34,040 --> 00:00:36,760 Speaker 2: is that I put my chastity belt on, I lock 13 00:00:36,920 --> 00:00:40,440 Speaker 2: my mobile phone in it with an actual lock and key, 14 00:00:40,880 --> 00:00:42,919 Speaker 2: and then I hand the key to somebody else so 15 00:00:42,960 --> 00:00:44,520 Speaker 2: I can't access my phone. 16 00:00:44,640 --> 00:00:47,280 Speaker 3: What does the chastity belt look like like a little belt. 17 00:00:47,280 --> 00:00:51,000 Speaker 2: It's a leather strap. Oh yeah, I mean Hugh Van 18 00:00:51,080 --> 00:00:53,640 Speaker 2: Kyleenberg from the Resilience Project, he was on a while ago, 19 00:00:53,680 --> 00:00:56,520 Speaker 2: and he said he deliberately leaves his phone in his 20 00:00:56,600 --> 00:00:59,240 Speaker 2: car between certain hours, so when he gets home he 21 00:00:59,240 --> 00:01:01,760 Speaker 2: wants to pay a teen the kids. He can't have 22 00:01:01,880 --> 00:01:04,040 Speaker 2: it at dinner and then once they're in bed, he'll 23 00:01:04,080 --> 00:01:05,960 Speaker 2: go to the car and get his phone out. 24 00:01:06,040 --> 00:01:08,120 Speaker 4: That's not a bad idea, Leach. 25 00:01:08,160 --> 00:01:12,080 Speaker 2: Cars are an expensive chastity belt, Guy Leach, I still 26 00:01:12,120 --> 00:01:13,160 Speaker 2: remember the Iron Man. 27 00:01:13,319 --> 00:01:14,800 Speaker 4: He still does that to this day. 28 00:01:14,840 --> 00:01:16,920 Speaker 5: He goes for a kayak in the afternoon as well, 29 00:01:16,959 --> 00:01:18,959 Speaker 5: but he says before he's kayak, he puts his. 30 00:01:18,840 --> 00:01:20,440 Speaker 4: Phone away in the car, and then. 31 00:01:20,280 --> 00:01:22,200 Speaker 5: He will go for a big workout, have a chat 32 00:01:22,240 --> 00:01:23,880 Speaker 5: to a few crew, and then he's not allowed it 33 00:01:23,959 --> 00:01:27,440 Speaker 5: back into his car until that hour or a few 34 00:01:27,520 --> 00:01:30,760 Speaker 5: hours allotment away from his phone, he's detoxed. 35 00:01:30,760 --> 00:01:32,960 Speaker 3: It's a good idea, so much better for your mental health. 36 00:01:33,080 --> 00:01:35,560 Speaker 2: My wife has had a broken phone over the weekend. 37 00:01:35,600 --> 00:01:37,560 Speaker 2: I don't know what happened to it, but she said, 38 00:01:37,560 --> 00:01:39,120 Speaker 2: oh my god, I feel like a new person. I 39 00:01:39,160 --> 00:01:41,600 Speaker 2: don't know what to do. I feel completely free because 40 00:01:41,600 --> 00:01:45,039 Speaker 2: she hasn't been able to have any contact and no 41 00:01:45,040 --> 00:01:48,240 Speaker 2: one's been able to contact her. It's been sensational. Yeah, 42 00:01:48,400 --> 00:01:51,480 Speaker 2: she started loving me again. She's looked at me, she said, 43 00:01:51,480 --> 00:01:53,160 Speaker 2: where have I been this entire off. 44 00:01:53,080 --> 00:01:54,160 Speaker 3: To buy a new phone today the. 45 00:01:57,200 --> 00:01:59,320 Speaker 2: Phone and bought me a chastity belt and her a 46 00:01:59,360 --> 00:02:01,720 Speaker 2: traditional belt, which was an interesting. 47 00:02:01,400 --> 00:02:04,160 Speaker 5: Move, but it was it was scuccy and it was 48 00:02:05,280 --> 00:02:08,799 Speaker 5: like their best ches, like like black bl black black. 49 00:02:08,720 --> 00:02:08,919 Speaker 6: Like this. 50 00:02:09,040 --> 00:02:12,000 Speaker 1: This is the Fier with Cape Ritchie podcast. 51 00:02:12,480 --> 00:02:15,280 Speaker 2: This is a hot topic. How long has it been 52 00:02:15,440 --> 00:02:18,400 Speaker 2: since they said I love you? Well? Really, I want 53 00:02:18,400 --> 00:02:19,880 Speaker 2: to know if you're in a relationship and they still 54 00:02:19,880 --> 00:02:22,000 Speaker 2: haven't said it yet. Some people get carried away and 55 00:02:22,240 --> 00:02:25,120 Speaker 2: like you said, Kate Richie, I love you can mean 56 00:02:25,360 --> 00:02:27,519 Speaker 2: a lot of things, a lot of different things to 57 00:02:27,560 --> 00:02:28,480 Speaker 2: a lot of different people. 58 00:02:28,720 --> 00:02:30,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, I think if you're not, yeah, go fit. 59 00:02:31,040 --> 00:02:35,799 Speaker 5: Can I give you a life improver a hack? Saying 60 00:02:35,919 --> 00:02:38,760 Speaker 5: the words I think I'm falling in love with you 61 00:02:38,960 --> 00:02:39,400 Speaker 5: can be a. 62 00:02:39,400 --> 00:02:40,919 Speaker 4: Good way to lead you into it. 63 00:02:41,560 --> 00:02:45,280 Speaker 5: You mean by your time, because you know we're talking 64 00:02:45,320 --> 00:02:49,280 Speaker 5: about being keeno before that sort of gets you out 65 00:02:49,360 --> 00:02:51,799 Speaker 5: of it. When you start up with I think I'm 66 00:02:51,880 --> 00:02:54,360 Speaker 5: falling in love with you, I mean, first of all, 67 00:02:54,400 --> 00:02:56,080 Speaker 5: the other person is going to be going, oh my gosh, 68 00:02:56,160 --> 00:02:59,440 Speaker 5: it's amazing. I feel the exact same way. Then you 69 00:02:59,520 --> 00:03:02,359 Speaker 5: can get I love you. Then you can bring it out. 70 00:03:02,400 --> 00:03:04,320 Speaker 5: But if you start with I think I'm falling in 71 00:03:04,360 --> 00:03:07,120 Speaker 5: love with you, Kate it sort of softens the blow. 72 00:03:07,440 --> 00:03:10,480 Speaker 7: And you're feeling your way a little bit more, gauging 73 00:03:10,600 --> 00:03:13,679 Speaker 7: how they might feel. And if it's not something that 74 00:03:13,840 --> 00:03:17,880 Speaker 7: perhaps you grew up saying a lot of Like you know, 75 00:03:18,280 --> 00:03:20,639 Speaker 7: I mean, we said I love you a lot, and 76 00:03:20,720 --> 00:03:21,480 Speaker 7: I say. 77 00:03:21,360 --> 00:03:22,520 Speaker 3: It a thousand times a day. 78 00:03:22,560 --> 00:03:25,960 Speaker 7: I think so for lots, for lots of different reasons, 79 00:03:26,000 --> 00:03:28,680 Speaker 7: and to my daughter, I wouldn't go an hour without 80 00:03:28,760 --> 00:03:29,160 Speaker 7: saying it. 81 00:03:30,960 --> 00:03:33,480 Speaker 4: We say it to your TV weight do I do? 82 00:03:33,639 --> 00:03:36,200 Speaker 3: In all the posters of me in the office. I 83 00:03:36,320 --> 00:03:39,880 Speaker 3: love you, God, You're amazing, we love you. 84 00:03:40,080 --> 00:03:42,800 Speaker 5: I think this is we're talking about humans. You're not 85 00:03:42,920 --> 00:03:46,400 Speaker 5: seafood linguine with So yeah, okay, I'm back. 86 00:03:46,480 --> 00:03:48,160 Speaker 3: But I think you've got to practice those things. 87 00:03:48,200 --> 00:03:50,080 Speaker 7: If it doesn't come naturally to say the words I 88 00:03:50,160 --> 00:03:51,960 Speaker 7: love you, and it hasn't been said to you a lot, 89 00:03:52,080 --> 00:03:55,360 Speaker 7: perhaps when you're growing up, then it can be tricky. 90 00:03:55,440 --> 00:03:56,320 Speaker 3: It's loaded. 91 00:03:56,520 --> 00:03:58,720 Speaker 2: I think you need to be careful in a relationship. 92 00:03:59,560 --> 00:04:02,160 Speaker 2: And then I've kind of always adopted I don't say 93 00:04:02,160 --> 00:04:05,160 Speaker 2: it if you don't mean it some people. Some people 94 00:04:05,160 --> 00:04:09,400 Speaker 2: will say it just to keep the peace where knowing 95 00:04:09,480 --> 00:04:11,440 Speaker 2: that the other party wants to hear it. But I 96 00:04:11,520 --> 00:04:12,960 Speaker 2: went out with a girl once and she would say 97 00:04:12,960 --> 00:04:14,440 Speaker 2: I love you, and I would kind of look with 98 00:04:14,560 --> 00:04:16,320 Speaker 2: a panic on my face, and she go in that 99 00:04:16,440 --> 00:04:20,640 Speaker 2: shirt and I'd go, very good, very good for you, 100 00:04:20,920 --> 00:04:23,120 Speaker 2: not bad. But I think at the same time it's 101 00:04:23,160 --> 00:04:23,640 Speaker 2: really good. 102 00:04:25,520 --> 00:04:25,760 Speaker 4: I mean. 103 00:04:25,800 --> 00:04:28,840 Speaker 2: This article goes on to say the average time that 104 00:04:29,040 --> 00:04:31,680 Speaker 2: somebody says I love you in a relationship from the 105 00:04:31,720 --> 00:04:34,400 Speaker 2: start to the first I love you is six weeks. 106 00:04:35,279 --> 00:04:39,200 Speaker 4: Really, that's how many dates are you doing in six weeks? 107 00:04:39,279 --> 00:04:40,320 Speaker 4: You don't want to wake here. 108 00:04:40,600 --> 00:04:45,920 Speaker 5: You can't say I loved I can't. I can't I 109 00:04:46,080 --> 00:04:48,960 Speaker 5: love you when you've only been out for six or seven. 110 00:04:49,279 --> 00:04:50,440 Speaker 3: I think you can love. 111 00:04:50,680 --> 00:04:53,839 Speaker 7: I do think you can love somebody in six weeks. 112 00:04:54,160 --> 00:04:56,600 Speaker 7: I don't think it's the same kind of love you 113 00:04:56,720 --> 00:04:59,880 Speaker 7: may have for somebody down the track when you a 114 00:05:00,160 --> 00:05:02,480 Speaker 7: married and you have a child, and that's a different 115 00:05:02,600 --> 00:05:04,480 Speaker 7: kind of love. But I do think that you can 116 00:05:05,360 --> 00:05:08,200 Speaker 7: like I love you. I love so many things about you. 117 00:05:08,400 --> 00:05:10,600 Speaker 7: I love being with you, I love spending time with you. 118 00:05:11,080 --> 00:05:13,080 Speaker 7: And then there's the other version of I love you. 119 00:05:13,480 --> 00:05:15,680 Speaker 7: You just have to be very clear about which version 120 00:05:15,760 --> 00:05:16,360 Speaker 7: you deliver it. 121 00:05:16,440 --> 00:05:17,800 Speaker 2: I don't think you say it in the start of 122 00:05:17,839 --> 00:05:20,280 Speaker 2: a relationship unless it's the clear version of what you're 123 00:05:20,279 --> 00:05:24,720 Speaker 2: both working towards. Don't you think that's dangerous to throw 124 00:05:24,760 --> 00:05:27,720 Speaker 2: it out there in a relationship I love you that 125 00:05:27,839 --> 00:05:29,040 Speaker 2: you think they're hoping to hear. 126 00:05:29,560 --> 00:05:32,480 Speaker 7: Well, it's better than saying It's better than saying when 127 00:05:32,560 --> 00:05:33,359 Speaker 7: someone says to you. 128 00:05:33,920 --> 00:05:36,680 Speaker 3: I love you and you say, I know you do. 129 00:05:38,680 --> 00:05:39,600 Speaker 2: I used to look at people. 130 00:05:41,400 --> 00:05:45,440 Speaker 3: That's nice, that's cute. 131 00:05:47,080 --> 00:05:50,000 Speaker 2: There's one time you should never say it. Never say 132 00:05:50,040 --> 00:05:51,920 Speaker 2: it for the first time in the throes of passion. 133 00:05:52,120 --> 00:05:55,160 Speaker 2: Why not, because I mean that could be lust talking 134 00:05:55,760 --> 00:06:01,600 Speaker 2: over your heart. Well, they're very lazy time to say it. 135 00:06:02,160 --> 00:06:04,679 Speaker 3: It's not lazy. It might get you over the line. 136 00:06:05,120 --> 00:06:06,800 Speaker 3: Not it gets you over the line, but it might. 137 00:06:07,320 --> 00:06:08,400 Speaker 3: It might like get you. 138 00:06:08,600 --> 00:06:11,160 Speaker 4: Huh what I mean if you've got a line in 139 00:06:11,240 --> 00:06:11,480 Speaker 4: your bed. 140 00:06:11,800 --> 00:06:12,440 Speaker 3: Know what I don't know. 141 00:06:12,600 --> 00:06:15,640 Speaker 7: What I mean is it might be such a difficult 142 00:06:15,680 --> 00:06:17,560 Speaker 7: thing for you to know how to say and get 143 00:06:17,560 --> 00:06:23,200 Speaker 7: the words out that when there is an overwhelming emotional, physical, 144 00:06:23,320 --> 00:06:26,400 Speaker 7: chemical reaction that once you get the first one out 145 00:06:26,440 --> 00:06:26,599 Speaker 7: of the. 146 00:06:26,640 --> 00:06:30,839 Speaker 5: Way, the first I love is we're talking Latrell Mitchell 147 00:06:30,920 --> 00:06:35,720 Speaker 5: here or what context Kate, You know what I mean. 148 00:06:36,240 --> 00:06:38,400 Speaker 3: You just don't want to get out of it. Don't 149 00:06:38,440 --> 00:06:39,960 Speaker 3: be scared of the words. 150 00:06:39,839 --> 00:06:41,560 Speaker 2: When you don't when you're talking about that moment, you 151 00:06:41,600 --> 00:06:43,440 Speaker 2: don't want to You don't want to throw it like, 152 00:06:43,520 --> 00:06:46,920 Speaker 2: oh my gosh, their pants have hit the floor. What 153 00:06:47,480 --> 00:06:49,720 Speaker 2: I just thought that, combined with my feelings might get 154 00:06:50,040 --> 00:06:50,880 Speaker 2: get you over the line. 155 00:06:51,440 --> 00:06:54,520 Speaker 3: Get over the line. What I mean, gives you the courage, 156 00:06:55,160 --> 00:06:55,920 Speaker 3: That's what I meant. 157 00:06:56,000 --> 00:06:57,280 Speaker 2: How long with you? Tomin Inger? 158 00:06:58,200 --> 00:06:58,360 Speaker 5: Oh? 159 00:06:58,600 --> 00:06:59,880 Speaker 2: As you're friends for a very. 160 00:07:00,120 --> 00:07:04,719 Speaker 8: Friends and then housemates, maybe like you sort of fantasized 161 00:07:04,720 --> 00:07:06,279 Speaker 8: for a long to be about three months? 162 00:07:06,440 --> 00:07:08,320 Speaker 3: Did you love her when she was your friend? 163 00:07:09,120 --> 00:07:09,360 Speaker 9: Yeah? 164 00:07:09,560 --> 00:07:10,680 Speaker 4: I think I probably did. 165 00:07:10,760 --> 00:07:13,320 Speaker 8: Looking back on it, Yeah, you that in a dole 166 00:07:13,440 --> 00:07:15,720 Speaker 8: that you had at time, you would say I love 167 00:07:15,800 --> 00:07:18,000 Speaker 8: you to that. I somewhat described that as a dead 168 00:07:18,040 --> 00:07:23,640 Speaker 8: giveaway fits and I think, yeah, so I think probably 169 00:07:23,720 --> 00:07:24,080 Speaker 8: three months. 170 00:07:24,120 --> 00:07:26,600 Speaker 4: But yeah, that lot was made out of dead people too. 171 00:07:26,720 --> 00:07:29,240 Speaker 4: That yeah, yeah, well charges pending. 172 00:07:29,400 --> 00:07:31,760 Speaker 2: But I had to use it as a power play 173 00:07:32,800 --> 00:07:35,960 Speaker 2: because Lisa was in a situation where she wasn't sure 174 00:07:36,440 --> 00:07:40,800 Speaker 2: for stock about the relationship. She was like, sports, is 175 00:07:40,880 --> 00:07:43,560 Speaker 2: this guy going to commit to me, so I had 176 00:07:43,600 --> 00:07:46,080 Speaker 2: to use it to show how I felt. 177 00:07:46,920 --> 00:07:47,760 Speaker 4: That's my power. 178 00:07:49,440 --> 00:07:51,360 Speaker 2: No, she doesn't make me say it. She said, I'm 179 00:07:51,440 --> 00:07:53,600 Speaker 2: just not sure, and I said, well, I'm going to 180 00:07:53,640 --> 00:07:54,640 Speaker 2: tell you how I feel. 181 00:07:54,440 --> 00:07:56,240 Speaker 4: Because you're in a relationship at the time. 182 00:07:58,280 --> 00:07:59,200 Speaker 2: Is that no, mate? 183 00:07:59,800 --> 00:08:02,480 Speaker 4: So I got that wrong. There was definitely no grace 184 00:08:02,720 --> 00:08:04,360 Speaker 4: that was right at the start of the relationship. 185 00:08:04,360 --> 00:08:05,520 Speaker 2: There was no gray area. 186 00:08:05,840 --> 00:08:08,200 Speaker 3: So she asked you how you know? 187 00:08:08,480 --> 00:08:11,720 Speaker 7: She asked you, like, I'm feel as though I'm more 188 00:08:11,760 --> 00:08:13,480 Speaker 7: serious than you are, and you said, well, I'm going 189 00:08:13,560 --> 00:08:16,200 Speaker 7: to prove to you that I am as serious as you. 190 00:08:16,480 --> 00:08:17,960 Speaker 3: Lisa, I love you. 191 00:08:18,200 --> 00:08:21,240 Speaker 2: She didn't really say she didn't ask question. She just 192 00:08:21,280 --> 00:08:23,240 Speaker 2: said I'm not sure, and I said, well, I'll show 193 00:08:23,240 --> 00:08:24,080 Speaker 2: you how sure I am. 194 00:08:25,520 --> 00:08:29,880 Speaker 4: Oh God, it's amazing that it survived, isn't it off you? 195 00:08:31,800 --> 00:08:32,000 Speaker 2: Yeah? 196 00:08:32,320 --> 00:08:33,240 Speaker 3: I hope you were in the dark. 197 00:08:33,480 --> 00:08:37,560 Speaker 2: I was eating and then with mud crab in front 198 00:08:37,600 --> 00:08:39,760 Speaker 2: of him. Do you know what we had mud crab 199 00:08:39,800 --> 00:08:40,440 Speaker 2: on the holidays? 200 00:08:40,640 --> 00:08:40,880 Speaker 4: Did you? 201 00:08:41,000 --> 00:08:42,800 Speaker 2: She said? This brings back horrible memories. 202 00:08:43,280 --> 00:08:46,600 Speaker 7: Mud crab is such a waste of that's new fish 203 00:08:46,720 --> 00:08:51,120 Speaker 7: markets after that incident, and they knew straight across just 204 00:08:51,160 --> 00:08:51,800 Speaker 7: to get rid of. 205 00:08:51,840 --> 00:08:54,080 Speaker 4: All the memories. They've had to rip the old ones. 206 00:08:53,920 --> 00:08:58,080 Speaker 3: Then anyway, tried it on for size guys. 207 00:08:58,280 --> 00:09:01,720 Speaker 2: Ye, Pistol Pete from Petim's given us a call. What's 208 00:09:01,760 --> 00:09:02,240 Speaker 2: your story? 209 00:09:03,080 --> 00:09:06,199 Speaker 9: Like, I've got a mate overseas Greek Island Center and 210 00:09:06,280 --> 00:09:09,360 Speaker 9: he's done with not six weeks, four weeks. It's just 211 00:09:09,440 --> 00:09:13,280 Speaker 9: amplified because he's on holidays. I met this girl, put 212 00:09:13,360 --> 00:09:18,720 Speaker 9: it out there, love you done, mud crabs, seafood diet, 213 00:09:19,400 --> 00:09:22,559 Speaker 9: sucking it. So yeah, So I was just thinking, does 214 00:09:22,600 --> 00:09:25,600 Speaker 9: it implify if you if it's the you're on holiday, 215 00:09:25,679 --> 00:09:27,560 Speaker 9: isn't it someone it's really interesting? 216 00:09:27,800 --> 00:09:28,160 Speaker 2: Interesting? 217 00:09:28,280 --> 00:09:31,800 Speaker 3: Course, Yeah, it's so interesting. 218 00:09:32,280 --> 00:09:35,280 Speaker 5: So did he Obviously he was keen of continuing and 219 00:09:35,360 --> 00:09:37,840 Speaker 5: when you when when it's time to go home, obviously 220 00:09:37,960 --> 00:09:40,120 Speaker 5: the girl that he's met might go, well, he's not 221 00:09:40,200 --> 00:09:42,800 Speaker 5: really that keen on me, so I have to drop 222 00:09:42,840 --> 00:09:43,480 Speaker 5: the el bomb. 223 00:09:43,559 --> 00:09:44,640 Speaker 4: Pete. Did it work? 224 00:09:44,720 --> 00:09:44,800 Speaker 6: Ye? 225 00:09:45,720 --> 00:09:49,319 Speaker 9: It worked, yeah, one hundred percent. So I waiting for 226 00:09:49,440 --> 00:09:52,040 Speaker 9: him to move in together and unpack their suitcases and 227 00:09:52,640 --> 00:09:55,800 Speaker 9: see how they go. But they's gone head first, Yeah, and. 228 00:09:56,160 --> 00:09:57,240 Speaker 4: Are they still over there? 229 00:09:57,440 --> 00:09:58,040 Speaker 2: They back here? 230 00:09:59,240 --> 00:09:59,880 Speaker 1: No, they're back. 231 00:10:00,679 --> 00:10:04,080 Speaker 9: So they're just sorting out there logistics and then what's 232 00:10:04,120 --> 00:10:05,640 Speaker 9: it doing? But yeah, it's. 233 00:10:07,679 --> 00:10:08,000 Speaker 3: Peter. 234 00:10:08,440 --> 00:10:13,360 Speaker 7: That's a bit of a bit of negativity around love, Peter. 235 00:10:14,559 --> 00:10:18,199 Speaker 2: But sometimes a holiday romance should simply be a holiday romance. 236 00:10:18,440 --> 00:10:20,559 Speaker 7: Put it in its place, keep it in its lane. 237 00:10:21,280 --> 00:10:23,559 Speaker 7: And they say that at the beginning. You know, this 238 00:10:23,720 --> 00:10:24,800 Speaker 7: isn't going alone. 239 00:10:24,920 --> 00:10:29,600 Speaker 2: No more than a physical, physical, an emotional No more 240 00:10:29,640 --> 00:10:31,920 Speaker 2: than just an emotional connection where you and I share 241 00:10:32,080 --> 00:10:37,079 Speaker 2: bondover like minded, entertaining stories with each other in the morning. 242 00:10:38,840 --> 00:10:41,439 Speaker 2: That's all it is, and that's all it needs to be. Okay, well, 243 00:10:41,720 --> 00:10:42,520 Speaker 2: not even physical. 244 00:10:42,760 --> 00:10:44,120 Speaker 3: Let's stop talking about love, Hay. 245 00:10:44,640 --> 00:10:47,640 Speaker 1: This is the FS with Cape Ritchie podcast. 246 00:10:47,960 --> 00:10:49,760 Speaker 2: Okay, Richie, what's going on in your world? Tell me 247 00:10:49,880 --> 00:10:50,520 Speaker 2: something interesting? 248 00:10:50,720 --> 00:10:52,760 Speaker 7: Do you know what is really going on in my world? 249 00:10:52,800 --> 00:10:54,800 Speaker 7: The fact that we just had a really lovely conversation 250 00:10:54,960 --> 00:10:58,040 Speaker 7: during that song about you know, pump up songs the 251 00:10:58,200 --> 00:10:58,680 Speaker 7: morning and. 252 00:10:59,000 --> 00:11:00,040 Speaker 2: Get your kids up and at. 253 00:10:59,880 --> 00:11:02,199 Speaker 7: It getting kids to school, because I know in my 254 00:11:02,360 --> 00:11:06,160 Speaker 7: house it can be incredibly difficult at times, and I 255 00:11:06,280 --> 00:11:09,200 Speaker 7: know there's people in the car right now and they 256 00:11:09,800 --> 00:11:13,160 Speaker 7: just kick the kids out at the school gate and 257 00:11:14,000 --> 00:11:16,319 Speaker 7: taking a deep breath and then are probably going on 258 00:11:16,440 --> 00:11:18,319 Speaker 7: to the next part of their day. That may be 259 00:11:18,800 --> 00:11:21,640 Speaker 7: dropping the other kids somebody if somewhere, or it might 260 00:11:21,800 --> 00:11:24,240 Speaker 7: be going to work, or it might be going to 261 00:11:24,360 --> 00:11:29,240 Speaker 7: look after an elderly parent. And I'm sure that does 262 00:11:29,360 --> 00:11:31,959 Speaker 7: get to you at times, and major you know it 263 00:11:32,120 --> 00:11:35,640 Speaker 7: is there's so many elements of family. So I just 264 00:11:35,760 --> 00:11:39,559 Speaker 7: wanted to tell you a little story about a survey 265 00:11:39,840 --> 00:11:43,240 Speaker 7: and how I mean this has come out of America, 266 00:11:43,320 --> 00:11:46,079 Speaker 7: so I'd be really interested to hear about what it's 267 00:11:46,200 --> 00:11:48,959 Speaker 7: like here. But over half of Americans say that their 268 00:11:49,080 --> 00:11:52,800 Speaker 7: parent is their best friend. Now, I know that there's 269 00:11:52,840 --> 00:11:55,120 Speaker 7: a lot of chat around that, especially when you have 270 00:11:55,320 --> 00:11:59,960 Speaker 7: young kids and you've got teens, and yeah, we've spoke 271 00:12:00,200 --> 00:12:03,240 Speaker 7: about that too, where you try to find the fine 272 00:12:03,280 --> 00:12:07,720 Speaker 7: line between not being their friend really and being their parent. 273 00:12:07,880 --> 00:12:10,480 Speaker 7: That's really important. They don't need more friends, they've got 274 00:12:10,520 --> 00:12:14,200 Speaker 7: friends at school. But as parents get older and they 275 00:12:14,240 --> 00:12:17,520 Speaker 7: are heading into their golden years, the value of having 276 00:12:17,559 --> 00:12:20,319 Speaker 7: a friendship with them is incredible because. 277 00:12:20,080 --> 00:12:20,560 Speaker 5: You get to. 278 00:12:22,760 --> 00:12:25,440 Speaker 7: You get to sometimes experience new things if they're well enough, 279 00:12:25,559 --> 00:12:27,679 Speaker 7: or you go out on shopping trips that you wouldn't have, 280 00:12:27,960 --> 00:12:31,560 Speaker 7: or you're trying new few foods or you're doing things 281 00:12:32,080 --> 00:12:36,840 Speaker 7: because you want your parents to experience continue to experience life, 282 00:12:36,880 --> 00:12:39,160 Speaker 7: and in turn you're doing great things as well. 283 00:12:39,280 --> 00:12:43,080 Speaker 2: I find it's strange though maybe it's different with dads 284 00:12:43,200 --> 00:12:46,640 Speaker 2: and their sons. But I would never go into detail 285 00:12:46,760 --> 00:12:51,720 Speaker 2: with my dad about, say, a relationship, where my would 286 00:12:51,920 --> 00:12:57,040 Speaker 2: not like to hear that. My sisters will go into 287 00:12:57,120 --> 00:13:02,200 Speaker 2: detail about relationships and things talking to me. So maybe 288 00:13:02,400 --> 00:13:05,960 Speaker 2: daughters and mothers open up and share a little bit 289 00:13:06,120 --> 00:13:08,720 Speaker 2: more traditionally than dads and sons. 290 00:13:08,920 --> 00:13:11,280 Speaker 5: Do you remember what Matthew McConaughey said to us. What 291 00:13:11,400 --> 00:13:15,839 Speaker 5: did he say about his advice, his advice as a 292 00:13:15,920 --> 00:13:19,400 Speaker 5: father to his son. So he said, first of all, 293 00:13:19,640 --> 00:13:22,600 Speaker 5: first and foremost, the first sort of eleven twelve years 294 00:13:22,640 --> 00:13:24,200 Speaker 5: of a child's life, you have to be a father. 295 00:13:24,360 --> 00:13:26,920 Speaker 5: You have to You've got to lay the ground rules 296 00:13:27,000 --> 00:13:30,520 Speaker 5: and you set that child moral's values to be like 297 00:13:30,640 --> 00:13:32,520 Speaker 5: that for the rest of their lives. And then after that, 298 00:13:33,080 --> 00:13:34,760 Speaker 5: remember he said, you've got to go from being a 299 00:13:34,840 --> 00:13:38,600 Speaker 5: father to being more of a brother. Remember he said, 300 00:13:39,240 --> 00:13:42,000 Speaker 5: so when they become teenagers, they can feel like they 301 00:13:42,080 --> 00:13:44,480 Speaker 5: can talk to you if there is something wrong. As 302 00:13:44,600 --> 00:13:46,880 Speaker 5: more of a brother figure, you want to be more 303 00:13:47,000 --> 00:13:48,440 Speaker 5: of a brother figure than a father. 304 00:13:48,520 --> 00:13:50,320 Speaker 2: Figer, they're going to need you to be a father 305 00:13:50,360 --> 00:13:51,280 Speaker 2: of the entire way through. 306 00:13:51,440 --> 00:13:54,800 Speaker 7: Didn't he also say, now that we're talking about Matthew McConaughey, 307 00:13:55,640 --> 00:13:58,719 Speaker 7: something about that you should give your kids kind of 308 00:13:58,880 --> 00:14:03,800 Speaker 7: three wild cards or three free get out of jail 309 00:14:03,920 --> 00:14:07,040 Speaker 7: free passes, for example. And it doesn't matter where you 310 00:14:07,240 --> 00:14:10,000 Speaker 7: are or what has happened, or what the hell you 311 00:14:10,200 --> 00:14:13,520 Speaker 7: have done. You can call me. I will come and 312 00:14:13,640 --> 00:14:17,400 Speaker 7: get you. We will go home safely. I won't ask 313 00:14:17,480 --> 00:14:18,000 Speaker 7: you anything. 314 00:14:18,640 --> 00:14:19,360 Speaker 2: You're just going to be. 315 00:14:19,440 --> 00:14:23,720 Speaker 5: All right, all right, all right, alright, alright, all right. 316 00:14:23,840 --> 00:14:25,400 Speaker 4: If he gives you three al rights. 317 00:14:25,600 --> 00:14:28,240 Speaker 2: But I think he also said a successful parent or 318 00:14:28,320 --> 00:14:30,680 Speaker 2: the way he judges it is that if his kids 319 00:14:30,680 --> 00:14:33,040 Speaker 2: around the age of eighteen and they still feel they 320 00:14:33,080 --> 00:14:36,280 Speaker 2: can still come to him and share, then that's a win. 321 00:14:36,840 --> 00:14:38,600 Speaker 2: Like do you and Heather like if you meet a 322 00:14:38,680 --> 00:14:40,240 Speaker 2: new guy, do you call your mamma? Go And I've 323 00:14:40,240 --> 00:14:44,200 Speaker 2: gotta believe it has it's your daughter Katie here and 324 00:14:44,440 --> 00:14:46,200 Speaker 2: she has found the love of her life. 325 00:14:46,200 --> 00:14:48,160 Speaker 3: I wouldn't make it like that. I wouldn't make a 326 00:14:48,200 --> 00:14:50,760 Speaker 3: phone call like that because my name's not Katie. 327 00:14:50,880 --> 00:14:54,200 Speaker 2: You'd go, Mum, it's your daughter number one. It's your 328 00:14:54,240 --> 00:14:56,800 Speaker 2: daughter number one here and I have been kissing some 329 00:14:56,920 --> 00:14:57,520 Speaker 2: hot bars. 330 00:14:58,480 --> 00:15:00,320 Speaker 4: So you do that with Christine. 331 00:15:03,880 --> 00:15:10,960 Speaker 2: Money's number one son that's Michael. 332 00:15:12,720 --> 00:15:14,920 Speaker 1: And with a Witchie podcast. 333 00:15:15,240 --> 00:15:17,040 Speaker 2: I want to throw it out there if you've caught 334 00:15:17,040 --> 00:15:18,520 Speaker 2: a trade slacking on the job. 335 00:15:18,760 --> 00:15:22,120 Speaker 7: The thing about traders is they're either the hardest working 336 00:15:22,280 --> 00:15:26,320 Speaker 7: people you have ever met, or the opposite. 337 00:15:27,080 --> 00:15:28,720 Speaker 3: I don't know if there's a lot of middle ground. 338 00:15:28,800 --> 00:15:30,320 Speaker 2: Do you know what the difference is? It's the bloke 339 00:15:30,360 --> 00:15:32,600 Speaker 2: who owns the business. He's the one that's working hard. 340 00:15:33,200 --> 00:15:35,440 Speaker 2: And then when he couldn't find any trades and ended 341 00:15:35,520 --> 00:15:38,560 Speaker 2: up paying his son's mates to come and do some stuff, 342 00:15:39,200 --> 00:15:41,040 Speaker 2: that's when they don't work very hard. 343 00:15:41,320 --> 00:15:42,840 Speaker 5: Do you know where I think it breaks down a 344 00:15:42,880 --> 00:15:44,800 Speaker 5: little bit as well? When trades have to deal with 345 00:15:44,920 --> 00:15:48,880 Speaker 5: other trades. That's where everything just goes is well. 346 00:15:48,800 --> 00:15:51,720 Speaker 3: They start mustlinging on like who's who's what? 347 00:15:52,120 --> 00:15:52,600 Speaker 2: I don't know what. 348 00:15:54,680 --> 00:15:54,920 Speaker 5: First? 349 00:15:55,080 --> 00:15:57,240 Speaker 4: I didn't do that, No, that was the trade before 350 00:15:57,280 --> 00:16:02,200 Speaker 4: me that I'm not coming back and fixing it. 351 00:16:02,320 --> 00:16:04,760 Speaker 2: No way, Well who's going to do it? Says the 352 00:16:04,880 --> 00:16:09,640 Speaker 2: owner I'm read reading from this book that we're doing. Anyway, 353 00:16:09,680 --> 00:16:11,440 Speaker 2: I want to show this footage because this guy is 354 00:16:11,440 --> 00:16:15,080 Speaker 2: a sander. He's standing the plasterboard. Now you'll hear. Let know, 355 00:16:15,160 --> 00:16:16,920 Speaker 2: have you got the audio there of the owner coming 356 00:16:16,960 --> 00:16:21,040 Speaker 2: home and you're here the sander working very hard? 357 00:16:21,880 --> 00:16:23,320 Speaker 6: You much not annoying? Is that? 358 00:16:23,520 --> 00:16:25,880 Speaker 2: Okay? So what I'll show you now on the screen though, 359 00:16:25,880 --> 00:16:30,680 Speaker 2: because that's what it sounds like, is you'll see that 360 00:16:30,960 --> 00:16:35,680 Speaker 2: the sander is fast asleep on the floor, and what 361 00:16:35,800 --> 00:16:39,960 Speaker 2: you're actually hearing is the speaker plugged in to a 362 00:16:40,080 --> 00:16:44,520 Speaker 2: guy watching a video sanding. So the sound is coming 363 00:16:44,600 --> 00:16:48,880 Speaker 2: from a YouTube clip of a guy sanding plasterboard. 364 00:16:49,240 --> 00:16:50,880 Speaker 4: That's what you're going to do on the block, don't 365 00:16:50,920 --> 00:16:51,960 Speaker 4: It's not fad, is it. 366 00:16:52,600 --> 00:16:54,480 Speaker 5: I mean, if you just don't want to get through 367 00:16:54,560 --> 00:16:56,200 Speaker 5: to the next round of the block, that you just 368 00:16:56,240 --> 00:16:57,200 Speaker 5: got to put that speaker. 369 00:16:57,320 --> 00:16:58,320 Speaker 3: He's shown an. 370 00:17:00,120 --> 00:17:01,960 Speaker 7: He does look a bit like he's had a bit 371 00:17:02,040 --> 00:17:04,760 Speaker 7: of a maybe he's had a big night. He's got 372 00:17:04,840 --> 00:17:07,680 Speaker 7: his overalls on without his shirt on. So I don't 373 00:17:07,680 --> 00:17:08,840 Speaker 7: know if he's overheating in. 374 00:17:08,920 --> 00:17:11,959 Speaker 2: That little Yeah, he might be, But I wondered though, 375 00:17:12,040 --> 00:17:15,440 Speaker 2: Kate Richie. If he's carrying the speaker, he must know 376 00:17:15,560 --> 00:17:17,240 Speaker 2: that this is a tactic he's he used before. 377 00:17:17,359 --> 00:17:19,040 Speaker 3: Oh he's done this a thousand times. 378 00:17:19,119 --> 00:17:21,880 Speaker 5: That's not his first his first radio and Tommy Williams, 379 00:17:22,640 --> 00:17:25,439 Speaker 5: Tommy Williams went through about three builders when he did 380 00:17:25,480 --> 00:17:28,200 Speaker 5: a few renos on his place. And Tommy goes, fits, 381 00:17:28,200 --> 00:17:30,000 Speaker 5: if you ever do it, he goes, just set up 382 00:17:30,000 --> 00:17:31,720 Speaker 5: a camera, time lapse camera. 383 00:17:32,080 --> 00:17:34,200 Speaker 4: He goes, It's the best thing I ever invested in. 384 00:17:34,359 --> 00:17:38,680 Speaker 5: Because he would regularly come home and then he would 385 00:17:38,800 --> 00:17:41,480 Speaker 5: confront the builder and go, mate, okay, so you had 386 00:17:41,640 --> 00:17:45,080 Speaker 5: you had three workers just sitting around my kitchen doing 387 00:17:45,200 --> 00:17:47,639 Speaker 5: nothing for hours, and they know they didn't know they 388 00:17:47,680 --> 00:17:49,920 Speaker 5: didn't And Tommy will go, well, come over, you mate, 389 00:17:49,960 --> 00:17:52,000 Speaker 5: just come and over and look at my computer and 390 00:17:52,119 --> 00:17:53,520 Speaker 5: let's just go through the videos. 391 00:17:53,560 --> 00:17:56,080 Speaker 4: What are these three guys doing there, just sitting down. 392 00:17:55,960 --> 00:17:57,600 Speaker 3: The whole time being paid by the hour. 393 00:17:57,760 --> 00:17:59,639 Speaker 2: I remember her made of mine was moving out of 394 00:17:59,800 --> 00:18:04,040 Speaker 2: apartment h Pot's point and I had to go around 395 00:18:04,080 --> 00:18:06,440 Speaker 2: there because he said, I've had a cleaner there for 396 00:18:06,560 --> 00:18:10,359 Speaker 2: five hours. I'm concerned they're not doing anything. Do you reckon? 397 00:18:10,440 --> 00:18:12,959 Speaker 2: You can pop in? So I marched up the stairs 398 00:18:13,000 --> 00:18:14,040 Speaker 2: of this apartment block. 399 00:18:14,119 --> 00:18:16,680 Speaker 3: He must have been exhausted, had a little best rest. 400 00:18:16,760 --> 00:18:19,280 Speaker 2: I slept on the floor. I made it sound like 401 00:18:19,400 --> 00:18:21,280 Speaker 2: someone was seending the plastors. 402 00:18:22,040 --> 00:18:24,560 Speaker 4: There for three weeks. Somebody help me. 403 00:18:24,800 --> 00:18:27,240 Speaker 2: So I get in the get in the apartment. The 404 00:18:27,359 --> 00:18:30,879 Speaker 2: guy who's cleaning the place out, like a leaving a 405 00:18:30,960 --> 00:18:34,960 Speaker 2: property clean, is sitting on the floor with a beer, 406 00:18:35,560 --> 00:18:39,639 Speaker 2: going through an old CD case, looking at which CDs 407 00:18:39,720 --> 00:18:44,200 Speaker 2: he might like to keep. And he goes, oh, just 408 00:18:44,320 --> 00:18:46,920 Speaker 2: having a break, said you've been here for five hours, 409 00:18:46,960 --> 00:18:49,400 Speaker 2: there's nothing in here. I ended up kicking him out. 410 00:18:49,680 --> 00:18:52,600 Speaker 2: I said, made good news. You can keep all those CDs. 411 00:18:52,880 --> 00:18:55,240 Speaker 2: They're left here because we don't want them off. 412 00:18:55,280 --> 00:18:58,680 Speaker 1: Here goes fits in with her with cap Ridgie podcast. 413 00:18:59,000 --> 00:19:04,040 Speaker 2: Let's talk dating guys just far off, like romance music 414 00:19:04,160 --> 00:19:08,040 Speaker 2: or something. This is an interesting one. Love love, Love's beautiful. 415 00:19:08,760 --> 00:19:11,000 Speaker 2: I mean to embrace somebody. Do you remember at the 416 00:19:11,040 --> 00:19:15,200 Speaker 2: start of any relationship that sort of awkward moments of 417 00:19:15,960 --> 00:19:16,760 Speaker 2: is this the kiss? 418 00:19:17,080 --> 00:19:17,720 Speaker 4: Do you go in? 419 00:19:17,920 --> 00:19:21,720 Speaker 2: Do I go in? Maybe there's some hand holding first, 420 00:19:21,960 --> 00:19:25,200 Speaker 2: or the touching of a leg before you move in. 421 00:19:25,760 --> 00:19:27,760 Speaker 4: You're not going to touch a leg before. 422 00:19:31,400 --> 00:19:32,600 Speaker 2: Supporting role. 423 00:19:36,119 --> 00:19:37,040 Speaker 4: Corky or something. 424 00:19:38,440 --> 00:19:40,320 Speaker 2: No, it's not from a physio point of view. It's 425 00:19:40,359 --> 00:19:42,040 Speaker 2: more just a coy. 426 00:19:41,800 --> 00:19:43,359 Speaker 4: Sign of advance. 427 00:19:44,080 --> 00:19:45,840 Speaker 2: What is that to me? Somebody in the. 428 00:19:47,800 --> 00:19:50,880 Speaker 4: Shocking very pain. 429 00:19:50,720 --> 00:19:53,680 Speaker 2: That's not what I'm talking about. Well, I mean we 430 00:19:53,760 --> 00:19:54,000 Speaker 2: have a. 431 00:19:54,000 --> 00:19:54,719 Speaker 4: Sign of affection. 432 00:19:55,040 --> 00:19:57,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, you might not get another date after that. 433 00:19:57,440 --> 00:20:00,480 Speaker 2: We had a very very formal singles party while ago 434 00:20:00,560 --> 00:20:02,560 Speaker 2: on the show, and we're looking to do another one 435 00:20:02,640 --> 00:20:05,680 Speaker 2: bigger and better. Really yeah, we're going to take over Lunaparte. 436 00:20:05,680 --> 00:20:08,000 Speaker 2: Fill a full of singles. Kiss kisskiss, bang bang bang. 437 00:20:09,080 --> 00:20:11,680 Speaker 2: This is an interesting one though, because what happens on 438 00:20:11,840 --> 00:20:14,760 Speaker 2: dating apps a little bit is you get a few 439 00:20:14,880 --> 00:20:18,520 Speaker 2: porky pies told nice. There's a couple of eyes out 440 00:20:18,600 --> 00:20:20,840 Speaker 2: there about what people really are. In thirteen twenty four 441 00:20:20,880 --> 00:20:23,440 Speaker 2: ten love to know the biggest lie that you've heard 442 00:20:23,480 --> 00:20:26,639 Speaker 2: on your first date? What did they go with? What 443 00:20:26,800 --> 00:20:28,600 Speaker 2: did they try and sell them to impress you? And 444 00:20:28,680 --> 00:20:32,399 Speaker 2: then you found out that's not really them. What's happened 445 00:20:32,480 --> 00:20:37,240 Speaker 2: here is women have been using AI to catch out 446 00:20:37,440 --> 00:20:39,760 Speaker 2: blokes lying about their height. 447 00:20:40,640 --> 00:20:43,840 Speaker 4: Oh how does AI know your height? 448 00:20:43,960 --> 00:20:44,120 Speaker 5: Though? 449 00:20:44,240 --> 00:20:47,600 Speaker 2: So, if you've got up to four photos, right and 450 00:20:47,720 --> 00:20:50,080 Speaker 2: you take those photos and put them into chat GPT 451 00:20:50,840 --> 00:20:55,760 Speaker 2: based on proportions and typical height rangers. It can give 452 00:20:55,840 --> 00:20:59,880 Speaker 2: you a height within one inch. No way, that's the accuracy. 453 00:21:00,600 --> 00:21:04,720 Speaker 2: If you have up to four photos, five photos even better, 454 00:21:04,880 --> 00:21:08,280 Speaker 2: six photos even more, and they will be able to predict, 455 00:21:08,320 --> 00:21:11,560 Speaker 2: predict within one inch that person's real height. 456 00:21:12,040 --> 00:21:12,720 Speaker 4: I'll come on. 457 00:21:13,280 --> 00:21:15,520 Speaker 2: This article goes on to say I tested it on 458 00:21:15,760 --> 00:21:19,080 Speaker 2: ten family and friends and that all estimates were with 459 00:21:19,240 --> 00:21:21,000 Speaker 2: one inch of their real height. 460 00:21:21,480 --> 00:21:25,520 Speaker 7: But sometimes people only feb about that extra inch. I mean, 461 00:21:25,560 --> 00:21:28,040 Speaker 7: it's what that one extra inch can make all the difference. 462 00:21:28,400 --> 00:21:32,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, to a point, but if someone must say five five, 463 00:21:33,320 --> 00:21:37,880 Speaker 2: you know, compared compared to what that might say they 464 00:21:37,960 --> 00:21:39,160 Speaker 2: are at six' one when they. 465 00:21:39,160 --> 00:21:42,720 Speaker 3: Walk in the door, you're going to go six one five. 466 00:21:42,920 --> 00:21:43,920 Speaker 2: You can send yourself in. 467 00:21:44,320 --> 00:21:46,640 Speaker 4: That's what we always says, that he's six foot. 468 00:21:48,400 --> 00:21:51,280 Speaker 3: Cuban heels or something. Isn't there a story about you wearing. 469 00:21:51,080 --> 00:21:53,360 Speaker 4: The height doesn't matter at all. 470 00:21:53,480 --> 00:21:55,119 Speaker 5: I mean, I don't know if you know if you 471 00:21:55,280 --> 00:21:59,040 Speaker 5: saw over the weekend, but Soft launch Gavin Rubinstein at 472 00:21:59,160 --> 00:22:03,119 Speaker 5: the Rest Cage Saturday, Soft launched his new girlfriend and 473 00:22:03,240 --> 00:22:05,760 Speaker 5: she was gorgeous and I mean he is. I mean 474 00:22:05,840 --> 00:22:09,520 Speaker 5: he could be raising at Ramwick this Saturday, but he doesn't. 475 00:22:09,600 --> 00:22:13,880 Speaker 5: He sells houses and you know what it works. Girls 476 00:22:14,000 --> 00:22:15,440 Speaker 5: love someone that they can step on. 477 00:22:15,640 --> 00:22:18,160 Speaker 3: Didn't I don't know who you're talking about. 478 00:22:19,080 --> 00:22:20,840 Speaker 2: Was going to get a mentioned on the show this morning, 479 00:22:21,720 --> 00:22:24,560 Speaker 2: Soft Launch of Girlfriend fits. I didn't see that. What 480 00:22:24,800 --> 00:22:27,119 Speaker 2: was was what was the household was the lawn was 481 00:22:27,200 --> 00:22:29,120 Speaker 2: on a boat and it was a photo of the girl. 482 00:22:29,200 --> 00:22:31,960 Speaker 2: He was on the boat with Soft Girlfriend lawn. 483 00:22:33,000 --> 00:22:35,040 Speaker 4: What's the TV show luxe listed? 484 00:22:35,240 --> 00:22:35,520 Speaker 8: Listen? 485 00:22:35,760 --> 00:22:42,359 Speaker 5: He sells some of the most expensive houses around New 486 00:22:42,480 --> 00:22:43,040 Speaker 5: South Wales. 487 00:22:43,440 --> 00:22:46,440 Speaker 4: This is the thing, and which is an unbelievable effort 488 00:22:46,480 --> 00:22:48,320 Speaker 4: because no one can really see him. 489 00:22:48,480 --> 00:22:54,560 Speaker 3: But you're not allowed to make those jokes because you're seven. 490 00:22:54,920 --> 00:22:58,080 Speaker 2: Big mates are still picking on the little guys. That's 491 00:22:58,200 --> 00:23:01,760 Speaker 2: not fair. How tall are you, Tom, I'm one eighty three, 492 00:23:01,920 --> 00:23:05,040 Speaker 2: so just six just six ft the same? 493 00:23:08,280 --> 00:23:09,439 Speaker 4: I love bloat. 494 00:23:09,880 --> 00:23:12,680 Speaker 5: My old man's five foot eleven and a half and 495 00:23:12,800 --> 00:23:14,760 Speaker 5: it's killed him his whole life. 496 00:23:14,840 --> 00:23:16,520 Speaker 2: That fits is that one eighty one. 497 00:23:16,960 --> 00:23:21,399 Speaker 4: He's half an inch of two. Yeah, I think he is. 498 00:23:21,560 --> 00:23:25,320 Speaker 5: Yes, he's half an inch off six foot k and 499 00:23:25,560 --> 00:23:30,159 Speaker 5: his whole life. It's his mates have absolutely naarled in 500 00:23:30,280 --> 00:23:30,480 Speaker 5: for it. 501 00:23:30,880 --> 00:23:33,480 Speaker 2: We want to know about extreme lies on dates. Amanda 502 00:23:33,560 --> 00:23:37,040 Speaker 2: in Hawksbury, Hello, Hi, how are you Amanda? What was 503 00:23:37,080 --> 00:23:38,840 Speaker 2: the lie? What happened? What did you hear? 504 00:23:39,800 --> 00:23:43,520 Speaker 10: No, he was wearing blue contact lens, brown eyes. He 505 00:23:43,680 --> 00:23:48,440 Speaker 10: was wearing beautiful blue contact lens, beautiful brown and to 506 00:23:48,480 --> 00:23:50,720 Speaker 10: see with blue eyes that was amazing, was awful. 507 00:23:51,560 --> 00:23:53,680 Speaker 3: Oh what did he think? 508 00:23:53,880 --> 00:23:56,720 Speaker 4: How long did he? How long could he keep up 509 00:23:56,800 --> 00:23:57,720 Speaker 4: that charade for? 510 00:23:58,160 --> 00:23:58,200 Speaker 6: Like? 511 00:23:58,359 --> 00:24:04,160 Speaker 1: How going to it? Could be married? 512 00:24:04,480 --> 00:24:04,880 Speaker 10: Three years? 513 00:24:04,920 --> 00:24:05,080 Speaker 9: Now? 514 00:24:05,680 --> 00:24:09,560 Speaker 2: Oh? How far into the relationship did he take the 515 00:24:09,680 --> 00:24:10,520 Speaker 2: contact lens? 516 00:24:11,600 --> 00:24:14,479 Speaker 10: Apparently he went out. He went out to a night 517 00:24:14,560 --> 00:24:16,920 Speaker 10: club afterwards when the contact lensers were hurting him, so 518 00:24:17,000 --> 00:24:18,840 Speaker 10: he put him in a form of water and his 519 00:24:18,960 --> 00:24:19,600 Speaker 10: mate drinks it. 520 00:24:21,640 --> 00:24:23,520 Speaker 2: I would have loved it if he'd realized he had 521 00:24:23,720 --> 00:24:26,560 Speaker 2: didn't realize he'd taken one out. She had one blue eye, 522 00:24:26,560 --> 00:24:28,200 Speaker 2: one brown eye, Amanda. 523 00:24:27,880 --> 00:24:31,280 Speaker 4: Great story with Cherie. You've had your fair share. 524 00:24:31,840 --> 00:24:34,080 Speaker 5: I love You've had your fair share of lies over 525 00:24:34,119 --> 00:24:35,080 Speaker 5: the Avenue, Cherie. 526 00:24:35,920 --> 00:24:38,040 Speaker 6: I was getting to the point of being ridiculous where 527 00:24:38,080 --> 00:24:40,520 Speaker 6: my friends now want to check him because they find 528 00:24:40,560 --> 00:24:44,359 Speaker 6: it hilarious and they're calling me Samantha Sex and the 529 00:24:44,400 --> 00:24:47,119 Speaker 6: City because I just have so many dad dates. 530 00:24:48,520 --> 00:24:50,680 Speaker 2: Let's start. Let's start off with one of the best. 531 00:24:50,760 --> 00:24:51,360 Speaker 2: What do you got? 532 00:24:53,320 --> 00:24:53,480 Speaker 1: Well? 533 00:24:53,520 --> 00:24:56,320 Speaker 6: I had two? Like I went out with one guy 534 00:24:56,640 --> 00:24:58,600 Speaker 6: and he said he was my age and as soon 535 00:24:58,640 --> 00:25:00,280 Speaker 6: as I saw him, I knew he was a grand father. 536 00:25:01,520 --> 00:25:05,560 Speaker 6: And he said he said he could dance. And when 537 00:25:05,600 --> 00:25:09,080 Speaker 6: we were chatting with texts, I asked what he did 538 00:25:09,119 --> 00:25:10,400 Speaker 6: for a living and he said he was in real 539 00:25:10,520 --> 00:25:14,960 Speaker 6: estate and that sort of matched the environment that I 540 00:25:15,080 --> 00:25:17,200 Speaker 6: worked in. And then what I met him and sat 541 00:25:17,240 --> 00:25:20,320 Speaker 6: down within five minutes and said, you're not who you are. 542 00:25:20,440 --> 00:25:23,600 Speaker 6: I said, he's definitely not my age. And I said 543 00:25:23,640 --> 00:25:24,800 Speaker 6: what do you do for a living? I said, you 544 00:25:24,880 --> 00:25:25,520 Speaker 6: must be retired. 545 00:25:25,600 --> 00:25:26,920 Speaker 10: He said, well, I do own property. 546 00:25:27,000 --> 00:25:29,840 Speaker 6: So I wasn't lying. I do I do look after real. 547 00:25:29,800 --> 00:25:34,080 Speaker 2: Estate property manager? Could dance? 548 00:25:34,280 --> 00:25:37,800 Speaker 6: Arie, Well, here's the thing I like to always think, 549 00:25:38,440 --> 00:25:40,960 Speaker 6: you know. I spent two hours, two hours getting ready. 550 00:25:41,000 --> 00:25:44,280 Speaker 6: I drove for an hour and I was so I 551 00:25:44,320 --> 00:25:48,760 Speaker 6: won't swear annoyed peet off that I sat there and 552 00:25:48,800 --> 00:25:50,000 Speaker 6: looked in him and I said, well. 553 00:25:50,760 --> 00:25:51,480 Speaker 9: Can you dance? 554 00:25:52,600 --> 00:25:53,760 Speaker 1: And he said yes, I can. 555 00:25:54,119 --> 00:25:56,680 Speaker 6: So I thought, well, let's not waste the night. Went 556 00:25:56,760 --> 00:25:58,480 Speaker 6: downstairs and let me tell you, he was like a 557 00:25:58,520 --> 00:26:03,000 Speaker 6: ballroom dancer. He fum me around the dance floor and 558 00:26:03,960 --> 00:26:05,040 Speaker 6: I just made the most of the night. 559 00:26:05,160 --> 00:26:05,920 Speaker 9: Went home and that was it. 560 00:26:07,200 --> 00:26:08,760 Speaker 2: A kiss on the night, Charie. 561 00:26:09,240 --> 00:26:11,359 Speaker 6: Oh God, no, no, thanks, No. 562 00:26:13,000 --> 00:26:14,480 Speaker 4: I love how the cities. 563 00:26:15,000 --> 00:26:17,360 Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm in a real estate I'm beg in real 564 00:26:17,480 --> 00:26:19,719 Speaker 5: estate because he owns his own house. 565 00:26:20,359 --> 00:26:21,639 Speaker 2: Surely it's not fair, is it. 566 00:26:21,920 --> 00:26:24,480 Speaker 7: No, it's not good luck, Chari. Maybe if we have 567 00:26:24,520 --> 00:26:26,480 Speaker 7: another singles ball, you'll have to get you there. 568 00:26:26,600 --> 00:26:27,679 Speaker 2: What did you want to say, Charie? 569 00:26:27,720 --> 00:26:29,680 Speaker 6: Thank you? I was just going to say one thing. 570 00:26:29,720 --> 00:26:32,080 Speaker 6: I feel like that I should start a business because 571 00:26:32,080 --> 00:26:34,520 Speaker 6: I'm giving my time to men. They're having a great night, 572 00:26:34,800 --> 00:26:37,160 Speaker 6: they're getting to chat to a lovely lady. And then 573 00:26:37,200 --> 00:26:39,920 Speaker 6: I go home and I think maybe I should start 574 00:26:39,960 --> 00:26:44,160 Speaker 6: a business where I help these men how to give 575 00:26:44,200 --> 00:26:47,800 Speaker 6: better profiles and how to interact with women. Because I'm 576 00:26:47,840 --> 00:26:49,720 Speaker 6: making their nights. I'm making them lights. 577 00:26:49,960 --> 00:26:51,359 Speaker 2: Yeah, and they're not making the effort. 578 00:26:51,640 --> 00:26:54,159 Speaker 3: That's good when we give yourself that kind of credit, So. 579 00:26:54,240 --> 00:26:56,240 Speaker 2: You should Can we hold on to Shari's details for 580 00:26:56,320 --> 00:26:57,399 Speaker 2: maybe a traffic dating. 581 00:26:57,600 --> 00:26:59,080 Speaker 4: Yeah, great idea, Shari. 582 00:26:59,200 --> 00:27:01,639 Speaker 2: Would you be open to meeting a guy on the 583 00:27:01,760 --> 00:27:03,800 Speaker 2: radio if you can. 584 00:27:03,800 --> 00:27:07,760 Speaker 6: Find me a guy with teeth, a guy with a 585 00:27:07,800 --> 00:27:10,600 Speaker 6: little bit of hair, a guy that my height five 586 00:27:10,640 --> 00:27:12,440 Speaker 6: foot seven not short, doesn't lie. 587 00:27:12,359 --> 00:27:14,760 Speaker 10: And is my age look, I will thank you forever 588 00:27:14,960 --> 00:27:15,440 Speaker 10: you're asking. 589 00:27:19,520 --> 00:27:20,480 Speaker 2: Just check. 590 00:27:22,240 --> 00:27:25,600 Speaker 3: Way too much, Chari, need to lower the standard. 591 00:27:26,040 --> 00:27:26,399 Speaker 4: Fits in. 592 00:27:26,440 --> 00:27:29,600 Speaker 2: Whipper with Kate Ritchie is a Nova podcast All great 593 00:27:29,640 --> 00:27:30,240 Speaker 2: shows like this. 594 00:27:30,720 --> 00:27:34,159 Speaker 1: Download the Nova player, Fire the app store, or Google Playing.