1 00:00:05,080 --> 00:00:07,440 Speaker 1: Hello, and welcome to the heart of it. We are 2 00:00:07,440 --> 00:00:10,840 Speaker 1: recording this on galligal Land hi Owl. 3 00:00:12,680 --> 00:00:15,400 Speaker 2: It's always difficult to know how to start. Well, it 4 00:00:15,480 --> 00:00:17,799 Speaker 2: is we we don't have the bang on. 5 00:00:18,280 --> 00:00:20,720 Speaker 3: We sat there at the beginning, and now goes your 6 00:00:20,720 --> 00:00:21,959 Speaker 3: turn to start at I started. 7 00:00:21,680 --> 00:00:24,680 Speaker 1: The last one. It's true if you she did, and 8 00:00:24,720 --> 00:00:25,760 Speaker 1: so I'm starting it today. 9 00:00:26,239 --> 00:00:30,000 Speaker 3: We have a We've actually just had the most fabulous 10 00:00:30,080 --> 00:00:35,199 Speaker 3: chats with Matt and Michelle Basley. You'll know that we 11 00:00:35,320 --> 00:00:39,840 Speaker 3: call we will hear as we call Michelle Bella, because 12 00:00:39,880 --> 00:00:41,960 Speaker 3: that's what Matt calls her, so that when you don't 13 00:00:41,960 --> 00:00:42,720 Speaker 3: get confused. 14 00:00:43,400 --> 00:00:46,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, they bring a lot to the table between sport 15 00:00:47,120 --> 00:00:50,360 Speaker 2: and comedy and media and voiceovers, and there's I think 16 00:00:50,400 --> 00:00:53,600 Speaker 2: there's a few practical jokes in there. Matt loves are 17 00:00:53,680 --> 00:00:57,200 Speaker 2: real a good fun joke. I'm actually they both do, don't they. 18 00:00:57,280 --> 00:01:03,360 Speaker 3: Yeah, and I didn't realize this. Matt is the host 19 00:01:03,560 --> 00:01:08,039 Speaker 3: at Manly wringa rugby league games. Yes, and so he 20 00:01:08,080 --> 00:01:12,480 Speaker 3: does the halftime entertainment. So I've been there a few times, 21 00:01:12,520 --> 00:01:15,399 Speaker 3: not of late, but I've seen him and been there 22 00:01:15,520 --> 00:01:18,640 Speaker 3: while he revs the crowd up. Not only that he 23 00:01:18,760 --> 00:01:21,440 Speaker 3: is on Star FM in the central coast of New 24 00:01:21,480 --> 00:01:25,200 Speaker 3: South Wales. Yes, as a breakfast announcer. 25 00:01:24,800 --> 00:01:29,560 Speaker 2: And you might just recognize Michelle Slash Bella's voice. She's 26 00:01:29,600 --> 00:01:34,080 Speaker 2: got the most fantastic voice, like you're just so easy 27 00:01:34,120 --> 00:01:38,080 Speaker 2: to listen to it just enough huskiness in there. She 28 00:01:38,200 --> 00:01:41,400 Speaker 2: does a lot on TV just as voiceovers and it 29 00:01:41,400 --> 00:01:42,840 Speaker 2: has been very, very successful. 30 00:01:42,880 --> 00:01:46,080 Speaker 1: Well, yes, she makes a career. It's just great. 31 00:01:46,640 --> 00:01:49,480 Speaker 3: They've been through their trials and tribulations. They've got three kids. 32 00:01:50,240 --> 00:01:55,240 Speaker 3: It's a great story. It's a really fun, lively, energetic chat. 33 00:01:55,280 --> 00:01:55,960 Speaker 3: It's really great. 34 00:01:56,080 --> 00:01:56,880 Speaker 2: You're ready to laugh. 35 00:01:56,960 --> 00:01:59,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, whatever you're doing, get ready, turn it up here. 36 00:01:59,640 --> 00:02:11,880 Speaker 3: They can't Matt and Bella. 37 00:02:07,680 --> 00:02:14,040 Speaker 4: Toast me too, haven't eaten? Infiltrates the How can I 38 00:02:14,080 --> 00:02:15,040 Speaker 4: infiltrate the booth? 39 00:02:17,600 --> 00:02:20,400 Speaker 5: Someone having an episode? Or if someone you know, someone's 40 00:02:20,400 --> 00:02:21,760 Speaker 5: cooking everyone smells. 41 00:02:23,040 --> 00:02:27,360 Speaker 2: Now you too, you met in this very building that 42 00:02:27,400 --> 00:02:30,240 Speaker 2: we're sitting in today. Okay, so what do you remember 43 00:02:30,360 --> 00:02:33,440 Speaker 2: or in one of you does not remember about that meeting. 44 00:02:34,760 --> 00:02:36,119 Speaker 1: I think I'll let Bella take this one. 45 00:02:36,960 --> 00:02:38,920 Speaker 4: Well, I mean, because you don't remember. 46 00:02:39,440 --> 00:02:42,680 Speaker 5: Yeah, well, I remember the first time I thought I 47 00:02:42,720 --> 00:02:44,680 Speaker 5: met Bella but I think there was a time before 48 00:02:44,720 --> 00:02:47,040 Speaker 5: that that doesn't quite line up. 49 00:02:47,280 --> 00:02:49,880 Speaker 4: I came in for a job interview to be a 50 00:02:49,880 --> 00:02:51,720 Speaker 4: casanova on the streets. 51 00:02:52,720 --> 00:02:55,640 Speaker 3: Just explain that because our listeners will not understand what 52 00:02:55,639 --> 00:02:58,200 Speaker 3: that means, because one thing, you're a DoD not a dude. 53 00:02:58,440 --> 00:03:02,520 Speaker 4: Yes, so over is the street team of the Nova 54 00:03:02,639 --> 00:03:06,200 Speaker 4: promotional team. So we drove the cars and handed out 55 00:03:06,520 --> 00:03:09,160 Speaker 4: tickets and stick is so many stickers everyone. 56 00:03:09,919 --> 00:03:11,120 Speaker 1: People just want free ship. 57 00:03:12,960 --> 00:03:15,000 Speaker 4: Everywhere. I'm like, I remember, Oh my god, I'm going 58 00:03:15,080 --> 00:03:16,800 Speaker 4: to tell the story. I got stuck in the car 59 00:03:16,840 --> 00:03:19,079 Speaker 4: park at Broadway in the Nova car. There was a 60 00:03:19,160 --> 00:03:21,160 Speaker 4: jet on the roof and I forgot and got in 61 00:03:21,200 --> 00:03:24,160 Speaker 4: there and just got jammed. And these guys got out 62 00:03:24,160 --> 00:03:25,639 Speaker 4: and helped me. And then they were like, so, I 63 00:03:25,639 --> 00:03:27,440 Speaker 4: have you got anything in the boot And I'm like, 64 00:03:27,440 --> 00:03:30,560 Speaker 4: what about just like a thing? I'm rubbaging and literally 65 00:03:30,560 --> 00:03:32,680 Speaker 4: a sticker That's all I had. So I had it 66 00:03:32,720 --> 00:03:34,520 Speaker 4: and they're like, oh cool. I was like, what about 67 00:03:34,520 --> 00:03:37,800 Speaker 4: just helping a lady? Anyway, Sorry, I digress. 68 00:03:38,640 --> 00:03:40,000 Speaker 1: I thought it was. 69 00:03:46,000 --> 00:03:48,280 Speaker 4: So anyway, came into the job interview and then out 70 00:03:48,280 --> 00:03:51,440 Speaker 4: of the lifts walked Matt with his headband on, his 71 00:03:51,520 --> 00:03:53,560 Speaker 4: hair and his no over outfit, the nov tea on 72 00:03:53,720 --> 00:03:56,480 Speaker 4: and just said something to the receptionist, said hi, and 73 00:03:56,520 --> 00:03:58,320 Speaker 4: I was like, hey, ask me what I was doing there. 74 00:03:58,320 --> 00:04:01,120 Speaker 4: I was like, oh, what a nice cute guy. This 75 00:04:01,240 --> 00:04:04,600 Speaker 4: place is awesome and has no recollection of seeing me 76 00:04:04,640 --> 00:04:06,680 Speaker 4: in reception, but now I mean, I mean it's pretty 77 00:04:06,680 --> 00:04:10,720 Speaker 4: inorting people that he would remember. Yeah, me sitting there. 78 00:04:10,480 --> 00:04:13,200 Speaker 1: Was many there's many girls in reception back in those days. 79 00:04:14,080 --> 00:04:15,600 Speaker 1: What were you doing with a headband on? 80 00:04:15,960 --> 00:04:19,560 Speaker 4: I loved it. Sick for a terry toweling headband. Yeah, 81 00:04:19,600 --> 00:04:21,080 Speaker 4: the thick ones, like the tennis like. 82 00:04:21,440 --> 00:04:24,000 Speaker 1: The yeah cash was. 83 00:04:25,560 --> 00:04:27,880 Speaker 5: Yeah, it was a fashion statement too, and I thought 84 00:04:27,920 --> 00:04:32,920 Speaker 5: I looked really good and well, yeah, maybe maybe it worked. 85 00:04:33,360 --> 00:04:35,719 Speaker 2: So when do you remember meeting Bala? 86 00:04:35,960 --> 00:04:38,599 Speaker 5: I think I remember doing our first shift together, like 87 00:04:39,440 --> 00:04:41,560 Speaker 5: when we were driving around the streets giving out the 88 00:04:41,720 --> 00:04:43,560 Speaker 5: icy col canser coke and the latest copy of Dolly 89 00:04:43,600 --> 00:04:46,320 Speaker 5: magazine like that was that was that was that And 90 00:04:46,440 --> 00:04:49,560 Speaker 5: I just remember, because I'm a boy from the northern 91 00:04:49,560 --> 00:04:53,400 Speaker 5: beaches of Sydney, my first time really being in any 92 00:04:53,400 --> 00:04:56,200 Speaker 5: other suburb other than that side of the spit Bridge 93 00:04:56,240 --> 00:04:58,400 Speaker 5: was when I started working here and driving the cars 94 00:04:58,400 --> 00:05:00,960 Speaker 5: around and going to different suburbs and doing this shift 95 00:05:01,000 --> 00:05:04,080 Speaker 5: with this worldly woman who was just from the other 96 00:05:04,120 --> 00:05:07,000 Speaker 5: side of Sydney, who would go out to places I've 97 00:05:07,040 --> 00:05:07,680 Speaker 5: never heard of it. 98 00:05:07,760 --> 00:05:08,760 Speaker 1: I was on your mind? 99 00:05:09,360 --> 00:05:16,200 Speaker 4: Was Strathfield guysled Away? 100 00:05:16,520 --> 00:05:19,360 Speaker 5: Yeah, that was my first memory, sitting down and just 101 00:05:19,440 --> 00:05:21,000 Speaker 5: really going this chick's kind of cool. 102 00:05:21,560 --> 00:05:23,360 Speaker 2: And is that where you started dating? So you were 103 00:05:23,400 --> 00:05:25,239 Speaker 2: both casanova's Is that what you're saying. 104 00:05:25,360 --> 00:05:28,560 Speaker 5: Yeah, so we were both Yeah, we were both driving 105 00:05:28,560 --> 00:05:30,000 Speaker 5: the cars around. 106 00:05:29,720 --> 00:05:32,440 Speaker 4: And opposite ends of the day. So I started on 107 00:05:32,920 --> 00:05:35,680 Speaker 4: nights and I was working Breakfast, so we didn't really 108 00:05:35,800 --> 00:05:38,560 Speaker 4: see each other alike. And then they were trying to 109 00:05:38,720 --> 00:05:41,200 Speaker 4: kind of audition for the night spot for the guy 110 00:05:41,240 --> 00:05:44,080 Speaker 4: that would do the crosses back to the nights team, 111 00:05:44,360 --> 00:05:47,120 Speaker 4: and I think they tried a couple and it wasn't 112 00:05:47,120 --> 00:05:50,080 Speaker 4: really working. And then they got Matt from Breakfast who 113 00:05:50,120 --> 00:05:52,480 Speaker 4: was dressing up as a fuel fair fairy. 114 00:05:52,560 --> 00:05:58,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, honey, up radio and you would have been so popular. 115 00:05:57,880 --> 00:06:00,400 Speaker 5: Out there on the streets undred percent in a too 116 00:06:00,480 --> 00:06:03,159 Speaker 5: with wings and a wand chopping up people's fuel tanks 117 00:06:03,160 --> 00:06:07,160 Speaker 5: and yeah, and then I started working with it's going 118 00:06:07,200 --> 00:06:08,720 Speaker 5: to be confusing because I call it Bella as well 119 00:06:08,760 --> 00:06:09,919 Speaker 5: as Michelle, but her name is Michelle. 120 00:06:09,960 --> 00:06:12,600 Speaker 1: But you know, I started working with Bella and then I. 121 00:06:12,680 --> 00:06:15,400 Speaker 5: Was just like, oh, well, this chick's great, but completely 122 00:06:15,720 --> 00:06:16,360 Speaker 5: two weeks ago. 123 00:06:16,320 --> 00:06:17,440 Speaker 1: Completely out of my league. 124 00:06:18,200 --> 00:06:20,920 Speaker 5: So I it was just we were friends for six 125 00:06:20,960 --> 00:06:24,080 Speaker 5: months and then the rest is history. I think it 126 00:06:24,080 --> 00:06:26,320 Speaker 5: was an engagement party for a friend of a colleague 127 00:06:26,360 --> 00:06:29,160 Speaker 5: and then yeah, we got it all and that was 128 00:06:29,200 --> 00:06:30,080 Speaker 5: twenty years ago. 129 00:06:30,360 --> 00:06:33,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, so long, celebrated twenty years together this year. Okay, now, 130 00:06:34,320 --> 00:06:36,800 Speaker 3: and you married, yes we are, okay? Did how long 131 00:06:36,800 --> 00:06:37,799 Speaker 3: did it take you to get married? 132 00:06:37,839 --> 00:06:40,400 Speaker 4: He took him eight years to propose? 133 00:06:41,120 --> 00:06:41,720 Speaker 1: What so long? 134 00:06:42,680 --> 00:06:43,360 Speaker 4: When we were young? 135 00:06:43,560 --> 00:06:44,120 Speaker 1: We were young, I. 136 00:06:44,080 --> 00:06:46,640 Speaker 4: Would have been freaked out. I think it was any earlier. 137 00:06:46,720 --> 00:06:48,800 Speaker 1: So we were. I was and I love telling my 138 00:06:48,880 --> 00:06:50,360 Speaker 1: kids this that she's older than me. 139 00:06:50,440 --> 00:06:52,159 Speaker 5: But well I was twenty two and she was twenty 140 00:06:52,160 --> 00:06:54,080 Speaker 5: three when we first started dating. 141 00:06:54,120 --> 00:06:56,080 Speaker 1: And then I just I don't know. 142 00:06:56,240 --> 00:06:59,840 Speaker 5: We wanted it to be the right time and also 143 00:07:00,760 --> 00:07:04,400 Speaker 5: you know, the right yes, yeah, the right time. I 144 00:07:04,400 --> 00:07:06,400 Speaker 5: think it was a get enough done that we wanted 145 00:07:06,400 --> 00:07:09,200 Speaker 5: to do, be selfish because then it was because I 146 00:07:09,240 --> 00:07:11,040 Speaker 5: always wanted to have kids. I was like, I knew, 147 00:07:11,120 --> 00:07:13,360 Speaker 5: and we'd had that conversation, and then I think it 148 00:07:13,400 --> 00:07:16,800 Speaker 5: was after that the snowball of life would start. So 149 00:07:16,880 --> 00:07:19,360 Speaker 5: let's just have fun throughout our twenties and then do 150 00:07:19,440 --> 00:07:20,520 Speaker 5: the serious stuff after that. 151 00:07:20,720 --> 00:07:22,520 Speaker 4: Yeah, that's pretty serious. 152 00:07:22,600 --> 00:07:25,840 Speaker 2: So what what do you think drew you to each other? 153 00:07:25,880 --> 00:07:28,600 Speaker 2: What was the key ingredients that really made you fall 154 00:07:28,640 --> 00:07:29,440 Speaker 2: in love with each other. 155 00:07:30,480 --> 00:07:32,800 Speaker 4: I feel like, even like when we were friends, I 156 00:07:32,840 --> 00:07:35,880 Speaker 4: was just always so intrigued by him. He had like 157 00:07:35,920 --> 00:07:38,400 Speaker 4: a real presence and a vibe when he walked into 158 00:07:38,400 --> 00:07:40,120 Speaker 4: the room, and I just wanted to get to know him. 159 00:07:40,120 --> 00:07:43,560 Speaker 4: I found him really funny. I dated a lot of 160 00:07:43,560 --> 00:07:46,440 Speaker 4: boys that were kind of not from here, like talking 161 00:07:46,480 --> 00:07:50,880 Speaker 4: like from Italy, you know, pol and sweet Brazil. Anyway, 162 00:07:50,920 --> 00:07:56,160 Speaker 4: we got dialogue. Yeah, I really, Yeah. I hung out 163 00:07:56,200 --> 00:07:57,400 Speaker 4: in Blonde Die a lot, and I had a lot 164 00:07:57,400 --> 00:08:00,120 Speaker 4: of fun, and I just the humor. I don't know, 165 00:08:00,360 --> 00:08:03,480 Speaker 4: he was the one that just really really made me 166 00:08:03,560 --> 00:08:06,119 Speaker 4: laugh a lot. We laugh a lot, and we still 167 00:08:06,160 --> 00:08:08,280 Speaker 4: we try and laugh between the tears of the children. 168 00:08:09,440 --> 00:08:10,680 Speaker 4: We laugh a lot. But yeah, I think it was 169 00:08:10,720 --> 00:08:13,640 Speaker 4: just his vibe and his mind and the way he thinks, 170 00:08:13,640 --> 00:08:16,920 Speaker 4: and I just, yeah, I find him really interesting. Yeah, 171 00:08:16,960 --> 00:08:17,520 Speaker 4: he's awesome. 172 00:08:18,040 --> 00:08:21,760 Speaker 1: How old are the Chipluns? Ten eight and six? 173 00:08:22,240 --> 00:08:23,400 Speaker 2: And what about you, though, Matt? 174 00:08:23,440 --> 00:08:24,240 Speaker 1: What is it that you? 175 00:08:24,600 --> 00:08:27,960 Speaker 4: Yeah, can let him talk about? What are you liked? 176 00:08:32,679 --> 00:08:34,280 Speaker 1: I forgot it? I forgot Matt, didn't. 177 00:08:37,160 --> 00:08:41,320 Speaker 2: I mean, you have to know to know. Let's just go. 178 00:08:42,080 --> 00:08:48,439 Speaker 3: Wow, I okay, so Matt, what about you? 179 00:08:48,520 --> 00:08:50,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a weird one. 180 00:08:52,280 --> 00:08:54,600 Speaker 5: I think I knew from the minute that I spent 181 00:08:54,679 --> 00:08:57,840 Speaker 5: that first shift in the car with her that she 182 00:08:58,000 --> 00:09:02,719 Speaker 5: was something really special. I just couldn't stop thinking about her. 183 00:09:03,120 --> 00:09:05,320 Speaker 5: I wanted to be around her all the time. I 184 00:09:05,400 --> 00:09:08,720 Speaker 5: made excuses to be at work when she was at work. 185 00:09:10,080 --> 00:09:12,760 Speaker 5: She was interesting. I just wanted to listen to her talk, 186 00:09:13,200 --> 00:09:17,240 Speaker 5: you know, and she can talk. Yeah, And I just 187 00:09:17,440 --> 00:09:20,640 Speaker 5: found myself just wanting to be in her orbit all 188 00:09:20,640 --> 00:09:24,400 Speaker 5: the time. And I'd never had that before. And like 189 00:09:24,480 --> 00:09:27,280 Speaker 5: I grew up like watching and it's like so cheesy, 190 00:09:27,280 --> 00:09:30,800 Speaker 5: but like those nineties rom coms and going like that, 191 00:09:30,800 --> 00:09:33,520 Speaker 5: that kind of you find that person and that's who 192 00:09:33,520 --> 00:09:35,760 Speaker 5: it is, and I thought that's really unobtainable. But when 193 00:09:35,760 --> 00:09:39,120 Speaker 5: I met Michelle, I was like, oh my god, this 194 00:09:39,360 --> 00:09:41,040 Speaker 5: is my person and. 195 00:09:41,280 --> 00:09:43,600 Speaker 1: I just knew. Yeah, it was. 196 00:09:43,640 --> 00:09:45,719 Speaker 5: It was a spin out because at the same time 197 00:09:45,760 --> 00:09:49,800 Speaker 5: I was like, she's this stunningly beautiful girl from. 198 00:09:49,720 --> 00:09:52,520 Speaker 1: The other side of the tracks. Why would she why 199 00:09:52,559 --> 00:09:52,920 Speaker 1: would she. 200 00:09:52,920 --> 00:09:56,440 Speaker 5: Other side of the harbor bridge? Like what would she 201 00:09:56,559 --> 00:09:57,719 Speaker 5: see in you know? 202 00:09:58,040 --> 00:09:58,120 Speaker 4: Me? 203 00:09:58,520 --> 00:10:00,720 Speaker 5: And so I didn't shoot my shot for such a 204 00:10:00,720 --> 00:10:03,000 Speaker 5: long time, just thinking that it wasn't possible. 205 00:10:03,040 --> 00:10:04,640 Speaker 1: I'd be she's so far out of my leg. 206 00:10:04,800 --> 00:10:07,440 Speaker 5: And then it had to take Michelle to take the 207 00:10:07,520 --> 00:10:10,320 Speaker 5: lead to go, wait, hey, hey over here. 208 00:10:10,600 --> 00:10:11,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, I love it. 209 00:10:11,679 --> 00:10:14,840 Speaker 1: I love it all right, now we'll talk about the children. 210 00:10:15,920 --> 00:10:21,280 Speaker 1: We don't have to change of things, doesn't it? Watch 211 00:10:21,720 --> 00:10:23,240 Speaker 1: three quick? 212 00:10:24,200 --> 00:10:24,920 Speaker 4: Nothing planned? 213 00:10:25,120 --> 00:10:29,960 Speaker 5: Yeah, really, no way, which is also a privilege as well. 214 00:10:31,920 --> 00:10:32,280 Speaker 1: Space. 215 00:10:33,480 --> 00:10:36,160 Speaker 5: But yeah, all two years and two weeks apart bank 216 00:10:36,760 --> 00:10:38,199 Speaker 5: two years two weeks. 217 00:10:38,240 --> 00:10:40,120 Speaker 4: We wanted to get married. I wanted to start like 218 00:10:40,320 --> 00:10:42,679 Speaker 4: trying towards the end. We got married in no Vanbar 219 00:10:42,800 --> 00:10:44,440 Speaker 4: was like, just give me one more year, let's just 220 00:10:44,480 --> 00:10:46,839 Speaker 4: be married. Not that it was any different, but and 221 00:10:46,880 --> 00:10:50,959 Speaker 4: then I was pregnant by like March or something like that, 222 00:10:51,000 --> 00:10:54,200 Speaker 4: and it was just yeah, hectic, just we had three 223 00:10:54,280 --> 00:10:58,120 Speaker 4: under four, it was a lot. It was a lot. 224 00:10:58,160 --> 00:11:01,080 Speaker 4: In the third, she's so awesome. 225 00:11:00,800 --> 00:11:02,640 Speaker 1: But force of nature. 226 00:11:02,880 --> 00:11:07,199 Speaker 3: Yeah, really about we've had our third is the same, 227 00:11:07,480 --> 00:11:08,079 Speaker 3: And a lot of. 228 00:11:08,000 --> 00:11:10,600 Speaker 2: People say that with their thirds. Yeah, the hands are 229 00:11:10,640 --> 00:11:12,880 Speaker 2: off the wheel, I think a little bit. Yeah, they're 230 00:11:12,920 --> 00:11:14,440 Speaker 2: just like, yeah, let's go. 231 00:11:14,960 --> 00:11:15,320 Speaker 4: Yes. 232 00:11:17,360 --> 00:11:19,320 Speaker 5: With the first, so they're ten, eight and six now. 233 00:11:19,679 --> 00:11:23,280 Speaker 5: So with the first, when Billy came along, we were like, 234 00:11:23,400 --> 00:11:27,560 Speaker 5: oh no, only steamed organic pumpkin from the farmer's markets. 235 00:11:27,880 --> 00:11:32,080 Speaker 1: And with the third is so advanced. Yea third one? Yeah, 236 00:11:32,320 --> 00:11:34,240 Speaker 1: that a biscuit under the lounge's. 237 00:11:36,200 --> 00:11:40,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's so true. The pregnancy. I was like, I 238 00:11:40,080 --> 00:11:45,079 Speaker 2: was so clean with my pregnancy. Yeah, tea, alcohol spices, yes, yes. 239 00:11:45,120 --> 00:11:47,840 Speaker 4: And then yeah, third, it's like I get it, I'm hungry. 240 00:11:48,040 --> 00:11:50,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, what side did I breastfit on it? 241 00:11:50,360 --> 00:11:53,920 Speaker 4: Yeah? I can't remember. We're busy. We're busy guys, but 242 00:11:54,040 --> 00:11:55,120 Speaker 4: definitely hands off the wheel. 243 00:11:55,200 --> 00:11:56,439 Speaker 2: It was different. 244 00:11:56,640 --> 00:11:58,320 Speaker 4: Yeah. Are yours far apart? 245 00:11:59,200 --> 00:12:01,160 Speaker 1: Yes they are they are. 246 00:12:00,960 --> 00:12:04,839 Speaker 3: We had our first and then four years later River came, 247 00:12:05,480 --> 00:12:09,079 Speaker 3: and then and then another five years after that sixties 248 00:12:09,280 --> 00:12:11,920 Speaker 3: I try because there's ten between lotus and body. 249 00:12:12,040 --> 00:12:14,880 Speaker 4: So did you find that helped a little bit the time, 250 00:12:15,000 --> 00:12:16,920 Speaker 4: or was it hard to get going again and start 251 00:12:17,120 --> 00:12:20,360 Speaker 4: It's a bit of actually planted a bit that way. 252 00:12:20,480 --> 00:12:23,360 Speaker 2: Okay, kind of we lost one in the in between, 253 00:12:23,480 --> 00:12:27,160 Speaker 2: but yeah, it was sort of it was sort of 254 00:12:27,200 --> 00:12:30,440 Speaker 2: like it was nice like that our first got she 255 00:12:30,600 --> 00:12:34,079 Speaker 2: was already in like preschool when the next one came along, 256 00:12:34,480 --> 00:12:36,120 Speaker 2: so she was kind of able to help in the 257 00:12:36,160 --> 00:12:38,800 Speaker 2: saying that the other two were well and truly at school. 258 00:12:39,240 --> 00:12:42,959 Speaker 2: But then there's that then they grow out of things 259 00:12:42,960 --> 00:12:45,760 Speaker 2: that they're interested in, when the young one is still interested, 260 00:12:46,760 --> 00:12:49,200 Speaker 2: like you're like, you could take your three and they're 261 00:12:49,200 --> 00:12:53,199 Speaker 2: probably still interested in the game park. Yeah, that's that's 262 00:12:53,200 --> 00:12:54,680 Speaker 2: where you have animals theme park. 263 00:12:55,760 --> 00:12:56,000 Speaker 4: Yeah. 264 00:12:57,520 --> 00:13:00,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, so we had a teenager and and then she 265 00:13:01,120 --> 00:13:03,240 Speaker 2: was over it when the young one was. Yeah, so 266 00:13:03,640 --> 00:13:05,840 Speaker 2: I remember there was a stage it was really difficult 267 00:13:05,880 --> 00:13:07,760 Speaker 2: to please them all if there was. 268 00:13:07,840 --> 00:13:11,120 Speaker 3: And the method to our madness was the first one, 269 00:13:11,240 --> 00:13:15,000 Speaker 3: we'll lotus, will get a life, will get us, you know, 270 00:13:15,160 --> 00:13:19,079 Speaker 3: as concentrated us. Then she'll go to school, and then 271 00:13:19,120 --> 00:13:21,760 Speaker 3: we'll have riv and then that's the way it would work, 272 00:13:22,360 --> 00:13:26,319 Speaker 3: you know. And looking at that now, I go because 273 00:13:26,320 --> 00:13:28,800 Speaker 3: I see young families like you with three kids all 274 00:13:28,840 --> 00:13:30,960 Speaker 3: the same, which is how I was brought up. My 275 00:13:31,040 --> 00:13:33,920 Speaker 3: mum and dad had five before well mum was thirty 276 00:13:34,000 --> 00:13:36,320 Speaker 3: and she had five kids. 277 00:13:37,120 --> 00:13:40,640 Speaker 1: Well control, you know, it was controlled chaos. 278 00:13:41,120 --> 00:13:43,240 Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, okay. 279 00:13:43,040 --> 00:13:46,920 Speaker 3: So but but with us it was it was different. 280 00:13:46,960 --> 00:13:49,719 Speaker 3: But of course we were living in Los Angeles and 281 00:13:49,800 --> 00:13:51,120 Speaker 3: we didn't have the family. 282 00:13:51,679 --> 00:13:54,000 Speaker 1: Do you have family, extended family around you. We've got 283 00:13:54,080 --> 00:13:56,520 Speaker 1: helping out, that's nice. So we didn't have that. 284 00:13:56,760 --> 00:13:59,200 Speaker 4: I don't know how anyone does it without it. How 285 00:13:59,200 --> 00:14:01,800 Speaker 4: do you have time yourselves? It just to have that 286 00:14:02,360 --> 00:14:05,760 Speaker 4: or work or anything. You just don't have that freedom 287 00:14:05,880 --> 00:14:07,840 Speaker 4: or oh god, I can't make this. Can you just 288 00:14:08,160 --> 00:14:08,560 Speaker 4: step in? 289 00:14:08,640 --> 00:14:10,560 Speaker 1: It would just be So it was tricky because I 290 00:14:10,600 --> 00:14:11,560 Speaker 1: was away a lot as well. 291 00:14:11,640 --> 00:14:13,120 Speaker 4: Yeah, I just stay at home mum. 292 00:14:13,120 --> 00:14:14,679 Speaker 2: I did a lot of solo parenting. 293 00:14:14,880 --> 00:14:16,520 Speaker 4: Yeah, a lot. That's tough, isn't it. 294 00:14:16,679 --> 00:14:18,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, lucky, I really loved it. 295 00:14:19,000 --> 00:14:19,960 Speaker 4: Yeah lucky I was. 296 00:14:20,000 --> 00:14:21,920 Speaker 2: That was my ever since I was a little girl. 297 00:14:21,920 --> 00:14:23,440 Speaker 2: That's all I wanted was to be a mom. 298 00:14:23,520 --> 00:14:23,880 Speaker 1: Yeah. 299 00:14:23,920 --> 00:14:26,840 Speaker 2: So I went into it like full force it like 300 00:14:26,880 --> 00:14:29,640 Speaker 2: I don't I don't ever remember hitting a point where 301 00:14:29,640 --> 00:14:31,480 Speaker 2: I go I don't want to do this anymore. 302 00:14:31,520 --> 00:14:33,920 Speaker 1: Like, yeah, I've never heard you say that. 303 00:14:33,960 --> 00:14:37,400 Speaker 2: I fell apart crying a few times from exhaustion, but yeah, 304 00:14:37,400 --> 00:14:41,240 Speaker 2: it was. But I think that helped because of how 305 00:14:41,720 --> 00:14:44,400 Speaker 2: much I wanted to be a mom. I just love 306 00:14:44,680 --> 00:14:46,960 Speaker 2: this love That's my favorite thing I've ever done. 307 00:14:47,080 --> 00:14:49,760 Speaker 3: And you, I want to balance your careers at the 308 00:14:49,800 --> 00:14:52,440 Speaker 3: same time with your kids. I mean, obviously they're getting 309 00:14:52,440 --> 00:14:54,560 Speaker 3: older now, so the bigger and more independent. 310 00:14:54,880 --> 00:14:58,320 Speaker 4: Yeah, it was at the beginning. I do voiceovers and 311 00:14:58,520 --> 00:15:01,640 Speaker 4: I got two weeks. I'm contracted with Channel nine and 312 00:15:02,240 --> 00:15:05,760 Speaker 4: I had two weeks and then I had to come 313 00:15:06,000 --> 00:15:09,200 Speaker 4: back and Matt decided. 314 00:15:08,760 --> 00:15:11,480 Speaker 1: To like, yeah, so I was working in radio. 315 00:15:11,480 --> 00:15:14,560 Speaker 5: I was doing a drive program to Melbourne and Sydney, 316 00:15:15,000 --> 00:15:19,480 Speaker 5: and that program where we found out, gosh, maybe it 317 00:15:19,520 --> 00:15:22,160 Speaker 5: was two months before Michelle was to give birth, that 318 00:15:22,160 --> 00:15:24,240 Speaker 5: that my job was no longer existing. 319 00:15:24,560 --> 00:15:26,000 Speaker 1: And I was like, you know, and getting that. 320 00:15:26,040 --> 00:15:29,440 Speaker 5: Tap on the shoulder, yeah, there's no wage coming in 321 00:15:29,760 --> 00:15:31,840 Speaker 5: two months before you're about. 322 00:15:31,600 --> 00:15:33,680 Speaker 1: To become a dad, and I was like, holy moly. Yeah. 323 00:15:33,720 --> 00:15:37,120 Speaker 5: So then I got offered a job that I wasn't 324 00:15:37,160 --> 00:15:40,480 Speaker 5: completely loving and I've done thirteen hour thirteen years in radio, 325 00:15:40,680 --> 00:15:44,440 Speaker 5: and I was a little burnt and so burnt out 326 00:15:44,880 --> 00:15:49,400 Speaker 5: by both burnt by the industry and burnt by just 327 00:15:50,080 --> 00:15:54,080 Speaker 5: daily content. So Michelle was either going to have to 328 00:15:54,960 --> 00:15:57,560 Speaker 5: give up her career as a voiceover artist and I 329 00:15:57,600 --> 00:15:59,680 Speaker 5: would take a job that I didn't love, or I 330 00:15:59,800 --> 00:16:04,120 Speaker 5: would just become sort of, you know, stay at home 331 00:16:04,240 --> 00:16:07,200 Speaker 5: dad and send Michelle off to work two weeks after 332 00:16:07,920 --> 00:16:08,480 Speaker 5: having Billy. 333 00:16:08,560 --> 00:16:11,080 Speaker 1: And we managed that for a few years. So I 334 00:16:11,200 --> 00:16:12,720 Speaker 1: was in the back. 335 00:16:12,640 --> 00:16:14,600 Speaker 4: Seat and drove me to the job, and he'd just 336 00:16:14,920 --> 00:16:17,080 Speaker 4: be going sitting in the car with Billy screaming. She 337 00:16:17,160 --> 00:16:21,040 Speaker 4: fared every hour. Yeah, I couldn't. I had like older 338 00:16:21,080 --> 00:16:22,440 Speaker 4: women say to me, you can't do that, you got 339 00:16:22,480 --> 00:16:24,520 Speaker 4: a stretch out. I just didn't. We just didn't know how. 340 00:16:24,520 --> 00:16:26,960 Speaker 4: She would scream. I would pull up in new Town 341 00:16:27,360 --> 00:16:29,640 Speaker 4: and I could hear her screaming, and he's like, what 342 00:16:29,680 --> 00:16:33,440 Speaker 4: are you about screaming down the street. 343 00:16:33,840 --> 00:16:37,560 Speaker 5: And because first time around, you're learning on the and 344 00:16:37,840 --> 00:16:40,000 Speaker 5: like the idea of having to teach a baby how 345 00:16:40,040 --> 00:16:42,080 Speaker 5: to use a bottle was we didn't know that. 346 00:16:42,200 --> 00:16:44,320 Speaker 1: We're like, oh, yeah, we'll just we'll get her on 347 00:16:44,360 --> 00:16:44,680 Speaker 1: the bottle. 348 00:16:44,680 --> 00:16:48,480 Speaker 5: Eventually, and so Michelle could dump you know, some express 349 00:16:48,520 --> 00:16:50,400 Speaker 5: and then she go off to work. And then because 350 00:16:50,400 --> 00:16:52,840 Speaker 5: we didn't introduce the bottle early enough, yeah, she didn't 351 00:16:52,880 --> 00:16:53,160 Speaker 5: take it. 352 00:16:53,200 --> 00:16:58,560 Speaker 1: So I'm driving what studio? Drive around quick? Yeah, you're 353 00:17:01,120 --> 00:17:03,480 Speaker 1: except I was going to pick up milk from Michelle. 354 00:17:03,960 --> 00:17:07,320 Speaker 1: Get some free milk? Do you want to stick it? Yeah? 355 00:17:07,359 --> 00:17:11,320 Speaker 5: So then we did it. We did it again, and 356 00:17:11,359 --> 00:17:13,359 Speaker 5: then we did it again third time round, and I thought, actually, 357 00:17:13,480 --> 00:17:14,560 Speaker 5: you know what, I need to go back to work 358 00:17:14,600 --> 00:17:15,600 Speaker 5: so we stop having children. 359 00:17:16,359 --> 00:17:18,120 Speaker 1: So yeah, we balanced that out. 360 00:17:18,160 --> 00:17:21,199 Speaker 5: And now we're very lucky in our trades and is 361 00:17:21,240 --> 00:17:25,240 Speaker 5: business that there is flexibility in what we do and 362 00:17:25,359 --> 00:17:27,680 Speaker 5: hours that we work that we can make. 363 00:17:27,520 --> 00:17:30,640 Speaker 4: It work totally. I was so lucky that I could 364 00:17:30,680 --> 00:17:33,680 Speaker 4: go back and not you know, waste that time, because 365 00:17:33,680 --> 00:17:35,760 Speaker 4: when you're out of the game, I mean, someone feels 366 00:17:35,800 --> 00:17:38,359 Speaker 4: your spot, someone takes the contract, someone takes that client, 367 00:17:38,760 --> 00:17:40,479 Speaker 4: and you know, you get back in eventually. But for 368 00:17:40,520 --> 00:17:42,760 Speaker 4: me to keep that momentum and to be able, it's 369 00:17:42,800 --> 00:17:44,959 Speaker 4: such a such a great job and flexible. I've got 370 00:17:44,960 --> 00:17:45,720 Speaker 4: a booth at home. 371 00:17:45,600 --> 00:17:48,720 Speaker 2: Now which is works out and say that must be Yeah, 372 00:17:48,720 --> 00:17:51,120 Speaker 2: if you could do it from home, then yes, COVID 373 00:17:51,200 --> 00:17:53,760 Speaker 2: really helped with that because I was then five days 374 00:17:53,800 --> 00:17:55,879 Speaker 2: a week out of Channel nine, which is was in 375 00:17:55,920 --> 00:17:58,840 Speaker 2: our Tarman and driving from the Northern Beaches. Then every 376 00:17:58,840 --> 00:18:00,439 Speaker 2: morning I wouldn't be able to get kid to school, 377 00:18:00,440 --> 00:18:02,560 Speaker 2: get them ready, to pack their lunches, do anything. So 378 00:18:02,720 --> 00:18:06,879 Speaker 2: having the booth has just been, yeah, a game changer. 379 00:18:07,400 --> 00:18:10,439 Speaker 1: And I got to be there, you know, And I 380 00:18:10,480 --> 00:18:10,960 Speaker 1: had mates. 381 00:18:11,280 --> 00:18:12,840 Speaker 5: There was two of my best mates that went through 382 00:18:13,080 --> 00:18:15,639 Speaker 5: became dads at the same time, within three months of 383 00:18:15,640 --> 00:18:17,840 Speaker 5: each other, and I got to and I felt really, 384 00:18:18,440 --> 00:18:20,280 Speaker 5: you know, really lucky that I was there at home 385 00:18:20,600 --> 00:18:24,639 Speaker 5: when Billy rolled for the first time, had solids for 386 00:18:24,680 --> 00:18:27,399 Speaker 5: the first time, walked for the first time. I wasn't 387 00:18:27,520 --> 00:18:29,320 Speaker 5: looking at them on a video that was taken that 388 00:18:29,400 --> 00:18:32,080 Speaker 5: day or hearing about it. I was there for those moments, 389 00:18:32,080 --> 00:18:35,439 Speaker 5: and I they're the most special. People asked me like, 390 00:18:35,520 --> 00:18:38,199 Speaker 5: what's the career highlights for you? And I just I 391 00:18:38,240 --> 00:18:39,959 Speaker 5: look at that window where I was at home with 392 00:18:40,040 --> 00:18:42,840 Speaker 5: them and I was there for those milestone moments and 393 00:18:42,880 --> 00:18:45,520 Speaker 5: I got to witness it and be there was so 394 00:18:45,560 --> 00:18:47,359 Speaker 5: special and that that's like number one for me. 395 00:18:47,600 --> 00:18:49,600 Speaker 4: Yeah, and the third came along He's like, get me the. 396 00:18:54,640 --> 00:18:57,080 Speaker 1: As much as possible. She's walking. 397 00:18:57,240 --> 00:19:00,240 Speaker 2: Whatever, good is it that. 398 00:19:00,200 --> 00:19:03,399 Speaker 1: You got to get another gig? You know? After that 399 00:19:03,560 --> 00:19:05,560 Speaker 1: was you know, someone said that. 400 00:19:05,480 --> 00:19:07,360 Speaker 3: To me when I would go away a lot, as 401 00:19:07,359 --> 00:19:10,800 Speaker 3: we talked about before and shoot in all around America, 402 00:19:12,359 --> 00:19:14,920 Speaker 3: and then I'd come home and it's that actor syndrome. 403 00:19:15,000 --> 00:19:17,200 Speaker 3: I'm never going to work again, and I would resent 404 00:19:17,280 --> 00:19:21,240 Speaker 3: being at home. And then someone wisely pointed out to me, 405 00:19:21,480 --> 00:19:25,280 Speaker 3: this is your moment to be a dad, so enjoy it. 406 00:19:25,320 --> 00:19:28,560 Speaker 1: Be grateful. It was that's be grateful for the gig, 407 00:19:28,600 --> 00:19:29,200 Speaker 1: because it was. 408 00:19:29,320 --> 00:19:32,000 Speaker 3: I would lament being away, going miss the kids at 409 00:19:32,000 --> 00:19:35,400 Speaker 3: Miss Ali, and so I was in this world of 410 00:19:35,640 --> 00:19:38,040 Speaker 3: hurt because you know, I wasn't making money when I 411 00:19:38,080 --> 00:19:40,679 Speaker 3: was at home. So it was that the key cornerstone 412 00:19:40,720 --> 00:19:43,400 Speaker 3: would be grateful for wherever you are, because you're meant 413 00:19:43,400 --> 00:19:43,880 Speaker 3: to be here. 414 00:19:44,280 --> 00:19:45,080 Speaker 1: You know, wherever you. 415 00:19:45,040 --> 00:19:47,600 Speaker 4: Are, change your mindset, absolutely. 416 00:19:47,640 --> 00:19:48,359 Speaker 1: That's what it is. 417 00:19:48,720 --> 00:19:51,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, and you so you got to go back 418 00:19:51,119 --> 00:19:53,800 Speaker 3: to work and you're you're rope on radio now in 419 00:19:53,880 --> 00:19:54,520 Speaker 3: the semi. 420 00:19:54,320 --> 00:19:56,639 Speaker 5: Coast on the Central Coast, Like there was a there 421 00:19:56,680 --> 00:19:58,480 Speaker 5: was a moment there, there was it wasn't as easy 422 00:19:58,480 --> 00:20:01,080 Speaker 5: as walking straight back into it. Just there was some 423 00:20:01,240 --> 00:20:03,880 Speaker 5: There was some like dark days where it was like, Okay, 424 00:20:03,920 --> 00:20:05,480 Speaker 5: what do I do now? I might not be able 425 00:20:05,520 --> 00:20:08,120 Speaker 5: to do the thing I love anymore? So what do 426 00:20:08,160 --> 00:20:11,520 Speaker 5: I do? And I went and did some landscaping with 427 00:20:11,560 --> 00:20:14,680 Speaker 5: a mate. He runs a landscaping business and his hands 428 00:20:14,680 --> 00:20:16,399 Speaker 5: don't really have callouses. 429 00:20:17,200 --> 00:20:20,200 Speaker 4: I just can't get the dirt off. I just can't 430 00:20:20,320 --> 00:20:20,960 Speaker 4: clean them. 431 00:20:21,680 --> 00:20:24,639 Speaker 5: And then I was I was luckily enough ask to 432 00:20:25,119 --> 00:20:27,960 Speaker 5: come back and help relaunch a show that was starting 433 00:20:28,040 --> 00:20:30,520 Speaker 5: at a different network, and then got my foot back 434 00:20:30,560 --> 00:20:32,840 Speaker 5: in the door that way, and slowly, slowly have now 435 00:20:33,280 --> 00:20:36,320 Speaker 5: come back into the fold and doing breakfast radio on 436 00:20:36,359 --> 00:20:40,440 Speaker 5: the Central Coast and then also being asked to network 437 00:20:40,480 --> 00:20:43,080 Speaker 5: breakfast on the OVA network when the big dogs take 438 00:20:43,119 --> 00:20:44,320 Speaker 5: their break, and I fell in for that. 439 00:20:44,440 --> 00:20:48,160 Speaker 1: So yeah, it's a it's been a really nice second chapter. 440 00:20:48,440 --> 00:20:50,680 Speaker 2: And when did you start with the seagulls when we're 441 00:20:50,720 --> 00:20:51,840 Speaker 2: doing your Manly. 442 00:20:51,880 --> 00:20:55,760 Speaker 5: Well, yeah, I say, I bleed Marona and White. 443 00:20:55,760 --> 00:20:58,960 Speaker 1: I'm a diehard Manly fan. And there's the Northern Beaches. 444 00:21:00,680 --> 00:21:06,720 Speaker 5: It's been a while, so I moved away from my home, 445 00:21:06,760 --> 00:21:08,840 Speaker 5: which was the Northern Beaches on Sydney and moved into 446 00:21:08,840 --> 00:21:10,920 Speaker 5: the Big Smoke and lived in the city for a while. 447 00:21:10,960 --> 00:21:13,080 Speaker 5: And then we were lucky enough to boomerang back and 448 00:21:13,119 --> 00:21:15,000 Speaker 5: I came back to a manly game and I was 449 00:21:15,080 --> 00:21:20,160 Speaker 5: watching and there was nothing for the crowd who were there. 450 00:21:20,200 --> 00:21:23,280 Speaker 5: There was no entertainment at halftime. There's no entertainment before 451 00:21:23,320 --> 00:21:25,359 Speaker 5: the game. And I'm looking at these families that are 452 00:21:25,400 --> 00:21:27,879 Speaker 5: paying hundreds of dollars to come and eat a cold 453 00:21:27,880 --> 00:21:30,720 Speaker 5: meat pie and drink warm beer, and everything's focused on 454 00:21:30,760 --> 00:21:34,400 Speaker 5: the television broadcast. And I'd done some work with Rugby Australia, 455 00:21:34,960 --> 00:21:36,639 Speaker 5: just started to do some sort of what they call 456 00:21:36,720 --> 00:21:39,600 Speaker 5: show sports presentation, where you do some activations, maybe do 457 00:21:39,640 --> 00:21:43,160 Speaker 5: some high ball catching, get the crowd involved up and about. 458 00:21:43,160 --> 00:21:45,400 Speaker 5: And I just emailed the Seagulls and said, look, I'm 459 00:21:45,400 --> 00:21:47,960 Speaker 5: a die hard fan. This is what I do for 460 00:21:48,359 --> 00:21:51,400 Speaker 5: Rugby Australia. I will come and give me a couple 461 00:21:51,480 --> 00:21:54,000 Speaker 5: of weeks, see what I can do and bring some ideas. 462 00:21:54,040 --> 00:21:57,120 Speaker 5: And then that was just before COVID, so maybe twenty nineteen, 463 00:21:57,240 --> 00:21:58,760 Speaker 5: and then I've been there ever since. 464 00:21:58,920 --> 00:22:01,879 Speaker 1: Which is I know I love you do it together? 465 00:22:02,000 --> 00:22:04,480 Speaker 1: Do you join? No? 466 00:22:03,960 --> 00:22:07,320 Speaker 4: No, that's not my jam. Okay, that's not what used 467 00:22:07,320 --> 00:22:09,040 Speaker 4: to have to do, stuff like hype up the crowd 468 00:22:09,119 --> 00:22:12,640 Speaker 4: called rent of crowds at Nova together and I sucked. 469 00:22:13,119 --> 00:22:15,760 Speaker 2: I just couldn't he just get in there, and I 470 00:22:15,800 --> 00:22:19,199 Speaker 2: just felt so it's a talent icky and I just couldn't. 471 00:22:19,240 --> 00:22:21,520 Speaker 4: But he just turns it on. It's so authentic and 472 00:22:21,520 --> 00:22:24,520 Speaker 4: he raps everyone up. And I'm like, everyone, club. 473 00:22:25,520 --> 00:22:26,680 Speaker 6: I don't have it. 474 00:22:26,840 --> 00:22:28,440 Speaker 4: I don't have that, don't do it. 475 00:22:28,520 --> 00:22:30,560 Speaker 2: I can, but I can't. I can't do that. 476 00:22:30,520 --> 00:22:32,280 Speaker 4: Kind of stuff. But he's, yeah, he's awesome about it. 477 00:22:32,400 --> 00:22:34,119 Speaker 1: Yeah, I've been and I've been very lucky in that 478 00:22:34,240 --> 00:22:34,680 Speaker 1: sense too. 479 00:22:34,880 --> 00:22:37,240 Speaker 5: And I look at luck as you know, that preparation 480 00:22:38,080 --> 00:22:40,680 Speaker 5: plus timing, that kind of thing. But I've been able 481 00:22:40,720 --> 00:22:44,199 Speaker 5: to have a side hustle of sports presenting on the 482 00:22:44,280 --> 00:22:47,400 Speaker 5: side as well, you know, with cricket Australia now and 483 00:22:47,640 --> 00:22:49,440 Speaker 5: rolling around. So yeah, I was just something dar and 484 00:22:49,480 --> 00:22:51,960 Speaker 5: a couple of weeks ago kicking off the summer of cricket. 485 00:22:51,600 --> 00:22:54,280 Speaker 1: In August of course that's when the summer starts. Now 486 00:22:54,920 --> 00:22:55,240 Speaker 1: he was. 487 00:22:57,040 --> 00:22:58,840 Speaker 2: Sorry, that's where Louis was playing. 488 00:22:58,680 --> 00:23:02,080 Speaker 1: Right few Oh wow? Yeah, and now he plays with. 489 00:23:02,680 --> 00:23:07,640 Speaker 3: He's got to gig being a fast baller from Manly. 490 00:23:06,520 --> 00:23:07,560 Speaker 2: We were very excited. 491 00:23:19,040 --> 00:23:21,359 Speaker 5: We do have to say just in case, like we 492 00:23:21,440 --> 00:23:23,440 Speaker 5: I think we do live in the same area and 493 00:23:24,080 --> 00:23:26,439 Speaker 5: we live on the Northern Beaches. Yeah, there was a 494 00:23:26,480 --> 00:23:30,040 Speaker 5: period a couple of years ago. No, there was a 495 00:23:30,040 --> 00:23:32,920 Speaker 5: period a couple of years ago where I wasn't sure if. 496 00:23:32,880 --> 00:23:33,960 Speaker 1: We're going to be on some sort. 497 00:23:33,760 --> 00:23:37,720 Speaker 5: Of watch list with you two, because yeah, for some reason, 498 00:23:37,760 --> 00:23:41,359 Speaker 5: in the space of about a month, we ran into 499 00:23:41,400 --> 00:23:43,800 Speaker 5: both of you without you knowing and with you knowing 500 00:23:44,040 --> 00:23:45,760 Speaker 5: about four times in four weeks. 501 00:23:46,119 --> 00:23:47,639 Speaker 2: Right, was it the movie? 502 00:23:47,760 --> 00:23:49,760 Speaker 5: Well, I think the first was there was a golf 503 00:23:49,880 --> 00:23:54,560 Speaker 5: day at Long Reef Golf Club and Cameron, I think 504 00:23:54,560 --> 00:23:56,000 Speaker 5: you were hosting it. I was like, firstly, have they 505 00:23:56,000 --> 00:23:56,800 Speaker 5: booked the wrong daddo? 506 00:24:01,400 --> 00:24:01,840 Speaker 1: And then. 507 00:24:06,000 --> 00:24:08,680 Speaker 5: Yeah, and then then the one, and then the week 508 00:24:08,840 --> 00:24:11,800 Speaker 5: after that we'd gone to the movies. There's a big 509 00:24:11,840 --> 00:24:14,920 Speaker 5: Hoyts and then I think we had an interaction at 510 00:24:14,920 --> 00:24:15,600 Speaker 5: the vending machine. 511 00:24:15,640 --> 00:24:17,440 Speaker 4: You would remember we had to go all the way 512 00:24:17,480 --> 00:24:20,520 Speaker 4: down to the bottom. Remember I don't think any of 513 00:24:20,560 --> 00:24:22,639 Speaker 4: us got snacks, and I was like, forget the candy bar, 514 00:24:22,720 --> 00:24:24,240 Speaker 4: and then we all went to that one vending machine 515 00:24:24,320 --> 00:24:26,000 Speaker 4: and we were like, I remember that there was nothing 516 00:24:26,080 --> 00:24:28,320 Speaker 4: there and we're all like annoyed about this vending machine 517 00:24:28,359 --> 00:24:29,800 Speaker 4: having no food, and he was like, oh my god. 518 00:24:29,920 --> 00:24:30,600 Speaker 4: I was like, oh my god. 519 00:24:30,720 --> 00:24:34,000 Speaker 1: Yeah. And then the following weekend, I think we're on 520 00:24:34,080 --> 00:24:39,560 Speaker 1: a bush walk in the middle of nowhere. Yeah right hill, yeah. 521 00:24:39,400 --> 00:24:44,840 Speaker 5: Yeah yeah, and like just bush and just the smallest 522 00:24:44,840 --> 00:24:46,359 Speaker 5: traction and then us and the kids and then all 523 00:24:46,400 --> 00:24:48,720 Speaker 5: of a sudden here comes Cam and Alley walking on. 524 00:24:50,440 --> 00:24:50,760 Speaker 4: Again. 525 00:24:52,119 --> 00:24:53,920 Speaker 2: Oh my god, there are friends and I don't know us, 526 00:24:54,520 --> 00:24:56,439 Speaker 2: and we were probably pulling the dog away from you 527 00:24:57,600 --> 00:25:01,400 Speaker 2: to bite other people post down, like go and get 528 00:25:01,440 --> 00:25:04,200 Speaker 2: the kids. 529 00:25:05,119 --> 00:25:06,240 Speaker 1: Just we're not stalkers. 530 00:25:06,280 --> 00:25:10,680 Speaker 3: We're just and we're thankful for the next time because 531 00:25:10,720 --> 00:25:12,840 Speaker 3: we're not too far away from Brookie Oval. 532 00:25:12,920 --> 00:25:18,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, caught in that traffic, like the McDonald's across the 533 00:25:18,640 --> 00:25:19,680 Speaker 1: road comes in hand. 534 00:25:19,960 --> 00:25:21,919 Speaker 4: It's my daughter, Bella. 535 00:25:22,640 --> 00:25:25,840 Speaker 2: You had a really serious car actually. 536 00:25:25,720 --> 00:25:30,680 Speaker 1: Completely literally into a war. 537 00:25:31,440 --> 00:25:34,960 Speaker 2: That happened. Was that obviously with Matt. Yes, we're in 538 00:25:34,960 --> 00:25:37,400 Speaker 2: the car with Matt. No, So Matt had left for work. 539 00:25:37,800 --> 00:25:38,960 Speaker 2: Now we're on the breakfast shift. 540 00:25:39,000 --> 00:25:41,920 Speaker 4: So Matt was the anchor. 541 00:25:41,720 --> 00:25:45,479 Speaker 5: And yeah, studio producer and panel up looking after American 542 00:25:45,520 --> 00:25:47,600 Speaker 5: rosso breakfast show here in Sydney. 543 00:25:47,680 --> 00:25:49,960 Speaker 1: Yes, we ever meet during that time? We didn't. We 544 00:25:50,000 --> 00:25:52,399 Speaker 1: probably remember going on this show, Yea. 545 00:25:53,359 --> 00:25:56,560 Speaker 5: And anyway digressed and Bella was working in the newsroom 546 00:25:56,600 --> 00:25:58,240 Speaker 5: with the sports reporter. 547 00:25:58,760 --> 00:26:00,399 Speaker 4: His name was and Iced to take him. We used 548 00:26:00,400 --> 00:26:02,480 Speaker 4: to do stunts and so I'd come in at like 549 00:26:02,600 --> 00:26:05,000 Speaker 4: five and I'd have to look through the paper for 550 00:26:05,040 --> 00:26:08,080 Speaker 4: something to do, and I'd often go, maybe, why do 551 00:26:08,080 --> 00:26:10,120 Speaker 4: you reckon? I should go out and do today. I've 552 00:26:10,119 --> 00:26:12,720 Speaker 4: been there for an hour looking through this newspaper, couldn't 553 00:26:12,720 --> 00:26:13,959 Speaker 4: come up with anything. I'd come and He's like, why 554 00:26:13,960 --> 00:26:15,760 Speaker 4: don't you do this? Isn't this? I'm like, great, I'll 555 00:26:15,760 --> 00:26:19,240 Speaker 4: go tell my I don't anyway, So I come about 556 00:26:19,240 --> 00:26:21,320 Speaker 4: what two hours after you? An hour and a half after. 557 00:26:21,760 --> 00:26:23,800 Speaker 4: So I was on my way from the Northern Beaches 558 00:26:24,280 --> 00:26:28,240 Speaker 4: driving into work, and just it was two thousand and five, 559 00:26:28,280 --> 00:26:30,080 Speaker 4: I was twenty six, and I was just driving across 560 00:26:30,119 --> 00:26:33,040 Speaker 4: the Harbor Bridge, no one around at that time, and 561 00:26:33,200 --> 00:26:36,000 Speaker 4: I remember just seeing when there were the old toll 562 00:26:36,040 --> 00:26:39,920 Speaker 4: gates there. I just remember driving and seeing headlights coming 563 00:26:40,000 --> 00:26:42,159 Speaker 4: towards me. But I wasn't in the suicide lane. I 564 00:26:42,160 --> 00:26:44,520 Speaker 4: was in that Grosvenor Street on that kind of side, 565 00:26:44,600 --> 00:26:46,879 Speaker 4: and he was coming up. He was coming up that 566 00:26:46,960 --> 00:26:50,960 Speaker 4: one way towards me, and I just saw headlights and 567 00:26:51,000 --> 00:26:53,919 Speaker 4: I think I was going like sixty five or something, 568 00:26:53,920 --> 00:26:56,800 Speaker 4: and then I just was like, oh God. And then 569 00:26:56,800 --> 00:26:58,480 Speaker 4: I slammed the brakes and I was in like a 570 00:26:58,520 --> 00:27:01,800 Speaker 4: little two door Hontacivic with no bags, and we just 571 00:27:02,000 --> 00:27:08,080 Speaker 4: collided headfirst and the car spun and people drove past. 572 00:27:08,080 --> 00:27:10,640 Speaker 4: But there was a guy, a cop on his way 573 00:27:10,680 --> 00:27:14,399 Speaker 4: to work, and he pulled over and he kind of 574 00:27:14,480 --> 00:27:16,360 Speaker 4: saved my life pretty much. I mean, I wasn't dying 575 00:27:16,400 --> 00:27:18,440 Speaker 4: or anything, but the guy got out of his car 576 00:27:18,520 --> 00:27:21,000 Speaker 4: and was very aggressive and swearing at me and smashing 577 00:27:21,040 --> 00:27:24,479 Speaker 4: my window, and I was just laying there and he 578 00:27:24,600 --> 00:27:28,240 Speaker 4: literally arrested him on the spot, threw in down, called ambulance. 579 00:27:28,240 --> 00:27:30,840 Speaker 4: Caught like immediately because people see that stuff and you 580 00:27:30,920 --> 00:27:32,480 Speaker 4: just drive me. How can you stop? We're on the 581 00:27:32,480 --> 00:27:36,800 Speaker 4: Harbor Bridge, so I was literally jaws of life stopped 582 00:27:37,080 --> 00:27:37,560 Speaker 4: the bridge. 583 00:27:37,640 --> 00:27:42,240 Speaker 5: Matt was bringing We're here at work, and so you 584 00:27:42,280 --> 00:27:45,200 Speaker 5: know breakfast radio, you're dealing with the news every half hour, 585 00:27:45,480 --> 00:27:47,600 Speaker 5: and when there's when there's an accident on the harbor 586 00:27:47,600 --> 00:27:50,320 Speaker 5: Bridge that shuts down the harbor Bridge. That's leading every newsboard. 587 00:27:50,880 --> 00:27:54,960 Speaker 5: So we're hearing that every half hour. I'm going, where's 588 00:27:55,640 --> 00:27:56,440 Speaker 5: why don't she work? 589 00:27:56,480 --> 00:27:58,720 Speaker 1: She slept in through her alarm, That's what I thought. 590 00:27:59,280 --> 00:28:02,679 Speaker 5: Yeah, And so so every every half hours, that's the 591 00:28:02,680 --> 00:28:05,439 Speaker 5: story that's rolling, that's what's happening. She hasn't turned up 592 00:28:05,480 --> 00:28:08,040 Speaker 5: to work. Harbor Bridge is closed from five thirty in 593 00:28:08,080 --> 00:28:10,520 Speaker 5: the morning till nine o'clock. It took them about four hours, 594 00:28:10,560 --> 00:28:12,920 Speaker 5: almost four hours to get Beller out of the car 595 00:28:13,040 --> 00:28:16,080 Speaker 5: Jaws of life. The whole roads were shut down. And 596 00:28:16,119 --> 00:28:18,480 Speaker 5: then I got the phone call at I think it 597 00:28:18,520 --> 00:28:20,280 Speaker 5: was about eight thirty. I was on air and I 598 00:28:20,359 --> 00:28:23,920 Speaker 5: got a phone call from the hospital saying that Bella 599 00:28:23,880 --> 00:28:25,919 Speaker 5: has been involved in a car accident, but she's okay, 600 00:28:26,400 --> 00:28:28,360 Speaker 5: she's going to give you a call back after nine. 601 00:28:28,720 --> 00:28:31,280 Speaker 5: I was like, okay, No, she's already still thinking about 602 00:28:31,359 --> 00:28:33,520 Speaker 5: the show and me not to stress me out, not 603 00:28:33,560 --> 00:28:34,119 Speaker 5: to worry about it. 604 00:28:35,000 --> 00:28:36,640 Speaker 1: And so I'm like, oh my god, has she gone 605 00:28:36,680 --> 00:28:38,200 Speaker 1: up the back of some much she's got withplash? What 606 00:28:38,360 --> 00:28:39,000 Speaker 1: is it all right? 607 00:28:39,280 --> 00:28:42,400 Speaker 5: And then nine o'clock, the nurse hands over the phone 608 00:28:43,120 --> 00:28:47,680 Speaker 5: and then I hear the state that Bella was in. 609 00:28:47,800 --> 00:28:49,840 Speaker 4: I was on the drugs by then. They give me 610 00:28:49,840 --> 00:28:50,480 Speaker 4: the whistle. 611 00:28:50,360 --> 00:28:52,480 Speaker 5: And then when she said it was the Harbor Bridge, 612 00:28:52,840 --> 00:28:55,400 Speaker 5: like I just I just went white. We'd been reporting 613 00:28:55,440 --> 00:28:58,840 Speaker 5: on it. The guys that I was working with just 614 00:28:58,920 --> 00:29:02,120 Speaker 5: dropped everything. Drove me straight to the hospital. We walked in, 615 00:29:02,200 --> 00:29:05,840 Speaker 5: and what I saw that day in emergency is something 616 00:29:06,320 --> 00:29:09,280 Speaker 5: that I'll never forget. Like it was, I thought we 617 00:29:09,280 --> 00:29:12,760 Speaker 5: were talking on black they're talking, But that was dramatic. 618 00:29:12,400 --> 00:29:15,880 Speaker 1: Wasn't it. The screens of all turned off. But yeah, 619 00:29:15,920 --> 00:29:21,360 Speaker 1: what I saw that day was that I'll never forget. 620 00:29:21,640 --> 00:29:22,440 Speaker 1: I'll never forget. 621 00:29:22,560 --> 00:29:25,800 Speaker 5: And we It took a while to get get Bella 622 00:29:25,920 --> 00:29:29,080 Speaker 5: back to this incredible human and a lot of work 623 00:29:29,080 --> 00:29:33,920 Speaker 5: on her part. She's the strongest person I have ever met. 624 00:29:34,200 --> 00:29:37,440 Speaker 2: What what were your injuries? If you don't mind, Yeah, no, no, no, 625 00:29:37,480 --> 00:29:37,920 Speaker 2: that's fine. 626 00:29:38,000 --> 00:29:41,479 Speaker 4: I so in the car, I knew it was. I mean, 627 00:29:41,520 --> 00:29:44,560 Speaker 4: I had a few pranks. I'd hit a cardboard box 628 00:29:44,720 --> 00:29:48,120 Speaker 4: like we've you know, done some pranks, so but I 629 00:29:48,240 --> 00:29:52,200 Speaker 4: knew instantly that something. It's so amazing how adrenaline can 630 00:29:52,280 --> 00:29:55,680 Speaker 4: just mask. I never experienced anything like it. I had 631 00:29:55,680 --> 00:29:58,960 Speaker 4: no idea until I think the policeman came and sat 632 00:29:59,000 --> 00:30:01,120 Speaker 4: beside me, and it was just the shock of everyone's 633 00:30:01,120 --> 00:30:02,840 Speaker 4: faces as they were looking at me that I was 634 00:30:02,920 --> 00:30:05,720 Speaker 4: kind of taken back. And he kept asking me did 635 00:30:05,760 --> 00:30:08,040 Speaker 4: you hit your head? And I was like no, and 636 00:30:08,080 --> 00:30:11,360 Speaker 4: I literally had blood like I'd smacked my forehead on 637 00:30:11,400 --> 00:30:12,480 Speaker 4: the steering wheel. 638 00:30:12,520 --> 00:30:14,520 Speaker 1: So then this was all and there was no air 639 00:30:14,560 --> 00:30:15,720 Speaker 1: bag in the steering no air. 640 00:30:15,600 --> 00:30:17,640 Speaker 4: Bag, and I remember, after god, I was like, that's 641 00:30:17,720 --> 00:30:19,960 Speaker 4: we keeps asking me that, And I leant forward and 642 00:30:20,520 --> 00:30:22,080 Speaker 4: did the sunbvies and looked in the mirror and then 643 00:30:22,120 --> 00:30:24,120 Speaker 4: I think I fainted because I was just like, oh 644 00:30:24,120 --> 00:30:29,040 Speaker 4: my god. So it was a L one to L 645 00:30:29,160 --> 00:30:34,000 Speaker 4: three spinal fusion, so I'd broken my L two five ribs, 646 00:30:34,280 --> 00:30:38,800 Speaker 4: my ankle and just yeah, the wrist was like from 647 00:30:38,840 --> 00:30:41,959 Speaker 4: the steering wheel going so fast and cut my knee 648 00:30:42,440 --> 00:30:44,920 Speaker 4: and I just remember being an emergency going. They were 649 00:30:44,920 --> 00:30:46,560 Speaker 4: like they had to cut all my clothes off, and 650 00:30:46,600 --> 00:30:49,120 Speaker 4: I was like, don't cut my knee. My new lee 651 00:30:49,280 --> 00:30:52,000 Speaker 4: super tubes and they're all laughing, and they actually didn't. 652 00:30:52,040 --> 00:30:56,280 Speaker 4: They actually got them off. Now they got them off from. 653 00:30:59,400 --> 00:31:01,560 Speaker 1: People. She's there, awesome, but yeah. 654 00:31:01,360 --> 00:31:04,360 Speaker 4: But I was there for about five weeks. But sitting 655 00:31:04,440 --> 00:31:06,920 Speaker 4: up was they had to leave me for a week 656 00:31:06,960 --> 00:31:09,000 Speaker 4: without just to wait for the swelling to go down 657 00:31:09,080 --> 00:31:12,000 Speaker 4: before they could operate. So they had to log roll 658 00:31:12,080 --> 00:31:14,360 Speaker 4: me to clean me and wash me, and I was 659 00:31:14,400 --> 00:31:17,440 Speaker 4: on I was allergic to something, yeah, one of the 660 00:31:17,520 --> 00:31:20,640 Speaker 4: one of the strong and vomity, yeah, and then yeah. 661 00:31:20,760 --> 00:31:22,360 Speaker 2: Just to adult yeah. 662 00:31:22,400 --> 00:31:24,640 Speaker 5: And then also with the they had to go in 663 00:31:24,680 --> 00:31:28,160 Speaker 5: and do the spinal operation and put the fuse the 664 00:31:28,160 --> 00:31:30,480 Speaker 5: fits together and put the rods and the plates in there, 665 00:31:30,480 --> 00:31:32,560 Speaker 5: and then that got infected a second time, and then 666 00:31:32,600 --> 00:31:34,440 Speaker 5: they had to go back in open the staples up. 667 00:31:34,480 --> 00:31:37,160 Speaker 5: And like we've been together maybe two years, so we 668 00:31:37,160 --> 00:31:40,080 Speaker 5: were dating and I'm just like, oh my god. And 669 00:31:40,120 --> 00:31:42,800 Speaker 5: it was like daily like we're in the hospital, We're 670 00:31:42,840 --> 00:31:45,200 Speaker 5: in there sitting beside. It was a crash course in 671 00:31:45,440 --> 00:31:48,440 Speaker 5: really getting to know yeah, parents. 672 00:31:48,120 --> 00:31:51,920 Speaker 4: Every day every day up at like god No. Three 673 00:31:51,920 --> 00:31:54,720 Speaker 4: point thirty four am. Did his job and he came 674 00:31:54,800 --> 00:31:56,840 Speaker 4: straight to Saint Vincent's. I was in the cross. I 675 00:31:56,920 --> 00:31:59,440 Speaker 4: was quite far from you. And he would stay there 676 00:31:59,480 --> 00:32:01,239 Speaker 4: until he could until they kicked him out and then 677 00:32:01,280 --> 00:32:02,960 Speaker 4: he go to work and he did that for five 678 00:32:03,000 --> 00:32:03,760 Speaker 4: weeks non stop. 679 00:32:04,200 --> 00:32:05,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, you're in the wheelchair. 680 00:32:05,200 --> 00:32:07,040 Speaker 5: I had to learn how to walk because the ankle 681 00:32:07,040 --> 00:32:09,040 Speaker 5: got done again, so we had to had to wait 682 00:32:09,040 --> 00:32:10,840 Speaker 5: for the ankle to be able to heal before. 683 00:32:10,600 --> 00:32:12,600 Speaker 1: Then to walk again with the back and. 684 00:32:12,600 --> 00:32:14,640 Speaker 4: They just put my leg in a plaster, just thinking oh, 685 00:32:14,640 --> 00:32:17,280 Speaker 4: it's broken, but the bone started healing in the wrong spot. 686 00:32:17,320 --> 00:32:19,600 Speaker 1: I didn't even know i'd broken my rebreak it. 687 00:32:20,560 --> 00:32:24,560 Speaker 4: I remember waking up screaming, just going, oh my god, 688 00:32:24,680 --> 00:32:28,239 Speaker 4: what has happened? And then my surgeon came in and 689 00:32:28,240 --> 00:32:29,680 Speaker 4: he was like, well, do you really want to know 690 00:32:29,760 --> 00:32:31,080 Speaker 4: what we had to do? And I was like, oh, 691 00:32:31,280 --> 00:32:33,360 Speaker 4: just tell me. So we went in with a hammer 692 00:32:33,400 --> 00:32:38,120 Speaker 4: and we rebroke it and then they put the screws 693 00:32:38,120 --> 00:32:40,240 Speaker 4: in the rods and everything in my ankor was gross. 694 00:32:40,880 --> 00:32:43,760 Speaker 5: Michelle's mum is a nurse, so she is just like 695 00:32:43,840 --> 00:32:46,400 Speaker 5: in that incident, in that environment, it's just like bang, 696 00:32:46,480 --> 00:32:49,000 Speaker 5: blinkers are on. This is we need the best, this 697 00:32:49,040 --> 00:32:50,680 Speaker 5: is what I this is what I need, this is 698 00:32:50,680 --> 00:32:52,880 Speaker 5: the this is what needs to happen. Now, Why isn't 699 00:32:52,880 --> 00:32:57,320 Speaker 5: this happening, whereas her dad and I were just like blubbering. 700 00:32:56,880 --> 00:32:59,920 Speaker 1: Messes in god. 701 00:33:00,160 --> 00:33:00,400 Speaker 4: Yeah. 702 00:33:00,440 --> 00:33:04,040 Speaker 5: And then but luckily Penny, it was just like stoic, 703 00:33:04,640 --> 00:33:07,960 Speaker 5: you know, like just this rod that just kept everyone 704 00:33:08,400 --> 00:33:10,320 Speaker 5: just going it's going to be fine. 705 00:33:10,720 --> 00:33:12,720 Speaker 1: The nurses and doctors know what they're doing, and she's 706 00:33:12,760 --> 00:33:13,880 Speaker 1: going to be like. 707 00:33:13,840 --> 00:33:17,200 Speaker 4: Oh, sweetheart, I couldn't sleep thinking about you with all 708 00:33:17,240 --> 00:33:20,719 Speaker 4: the children, how are you coping? But then she was 709 00:33:20,840 --> 00:33:22,880 Speaker 4: just like yeah, she went into like nurse. 710 00:33:22,720 --> 00:33:24,800 Speaker 2: Nurse, nurse mode and was phenomenal. 711 00:33:24,880 --> 00:33:26,880 Speaker 4: She ended up like washing me. I had like an 712 00:33:26,960 --> 00:33:29,000 Speaker 4: older man that was a little bit rough washing me 713 00:33:29,040 --> 00:33:32,200 Speaker 4: at the beginning, and Mum was like, I'll be doing 714 00:33:32,240 --> 00:33:34,280 Speaker 4: it from now on, thank you so much. Yeah, so 715 00:33:34,320 --> 00:33:35,400 Speaker 4: she just took care of me. 716 00:33:35,520 --> 00:33:38,320 Speaker 2: And yeah, it was concerned that you weren't going to 717 00:33:38,440 --> 00:33:40,560 Speaker 2: walk again, or that I remember. 718 00:33:40,200 --> 00:33:43,080 Speaker 4: The emergency doctor saying to me if you were. He goes, 719 00:33:43,080 --> 00:33:44,920 Speaker 4: I've got good news and bad news. I mean, I 720 00:33:45,000 --> 00:33:46,400 Speaker 4: knew it was bad because of the pain I was in, 721 00:33:46,720 --> 00:33:50,160 Speaker 4: but he said, you've broken your spine, and I just 722 00:33:50,560 --> 00:33:52,160 Speaker 4: freaked out and he said, but the good news is 723 00:33:52,240 --> 00:33:55,680 Speaker 4: you've broken it in the perfect spot. If it was 724 00:33:55,720 --> 00:33:58,600 Speaker 4: an inch above or below you would be in a wheelchair. 725 00:33:58,840 --> 00:34:00,720 Speaker 4: So the L two was the one to break, guys. 726 00:34:01,560 --> 00:34:04,400 Speaker 4: That was that was yeah, that was the sweet spot. 727 00:34:04,440 --> 00:34:06,920 Speaker 4: That was I could fix. And Mom was like will 728 00:34:06,960 --> 00:34:09,000 Speaker 4: she be able to be pregnant? Will she carried children? 729 00:34:09,160 --> 00:34:12,680 Speaker 4: So that was my next question was yeah, and fine, 730 00:34:13,360 --> 00:34:14,960 Speaker 4: I don't know what the body was like before. It's 731 00:34:14,960 --> 00:34:18,280 Speaker 4: been such a long time now, but like the flexibility 732 00:34:18,280 --> 00:34:21,000 Speaker 4: in the momentum and I can get quite achy for 733 00:34:21,080 --> 00:34:24,120 Speaker 4: sitting and standing that was quite hard. I remember going 734 00:34:24,120 --> 00:34:27,080 Speaker 4: to Perth in February. It happened in October. They told 735 00:34:27,120 --> 00:34:28,719 Speaker 4: me it'll take nine months. I was like, no way, 736 00:34:28,920 --> 00:34:31,120 Speaker 4: I'll be fine. I got in the car again. I 737 00:34:31,160 --> 00:34:33,960 Speaker 4: was like, that's not going to stop me. And then 738 00:34:33,960 --> 00:34:36,239 Speaker 4: I went to like a festival with my friend in 739 00:34:36,280 --> 00:34:39,959 Speaker 4: Perth and I was in agony, like just standing, which 740 00:34:40,239 --> 00:34:42,200 Speaker 4: just simple things like that, But my god, it could 741 00:34:42,239 --> 00:34:43,120 Speaker 4: have been way worse. 742 00:34:43,280 --> 00:34:43,720 Speaker 1: So lucky. 743 00:34:43,800 --> 00:34:44,400 Speaker 4: How lucky? 744 00:34:44,520 --> 00:34:48,360 Speaker 3: And I mean, what an incredible episode and telling. 745 00:34:48,080 --> 00:34:52,080 Speaker 1: It like a story now clearly there's amotion in it. Yeah, 746 00:34:52,239 --> 00:34:57,440 Speaker 1: for you both, what did you learn about yourselves from 747 00:34:57,800 --> 00:34:59,440 Speaker 1: this time? 748 00:34:59,560 --> 00:35:02,400 Speaker 4: I think I I think when it all happened, I 749 00:35:02,480 --> 00:35:05,200 Speaker 4: was so you know, I was like twenty six and 750 00:35:05,200 --> 00:35:08,000 Speaker 4: so invested in like my girlfriends and you know, which 751 00:35:08,040 --> 00:35:10,480 Speaker 4: were everything to me, and obviously matt my family. But 752 00:35:10,520 --> 00:35:13,600 Speaker 4: literally the only thing I saw in my mind was 753 00:35:13,680 --> 00:35:15,319 Speaker 4: him and my mum and dad and my brother and 754 00:35:15,360 --> 00:35:17,120 Speaker 4: that was it. Nothing else matter at all of the 755 00:35:17,520 --> 00:35:19,360 Speaker 4: drama and all of the stuff that I used to 756 00:35:19,440 --> 00:35:21,719 Speaker 4: get caught up, and I was like, God, life is 757 00:35:21,800 --> 00:35:25,040 Speaker 4: so sure and your health is the only thing that Matterson, 758 00:35:25,160 --> 00:35:28,080 Speaker 4: he is just rock solid, and my mom and dad 759 00:35:28,160 --> 00:35:32,560 Speaker 4: and just the strength that I had, I think within myself, 760 00:35:33,160 --> 00:35:36,279 Speaker 4: I think I just was like it was tough for 761 00:35:36,320 --> 00:35:39,000 Speaker 4: a while, Like the pain was hectic for fight. 762 00:35:38,920 --> 00:35:42,400 Speaker 1: Like afterlust so useless. 763 00:35:42,480 --> 00:35:45,160 Speaker 4: He couldn't even touch my back. It took him. So 764 00:35:46,360 --> 00:35:49,959 Speaker 4: he was very traumatized by the whole experience. 765 00:35:50,080 --> 00:35:53,319 Speaker 5: And I if I didn't know before, I knew then 766 00:35:53,360 --> 00:35:55,600 Speaker 5: that I don't know what I'd do without her. 767 00:35:55,880 --> 00:35:58,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, Like it was just this, She's my. 768 00:35:58,560 --> 00:36:01,600 Speaker 4: Everything was just bally like it was just it was 769 00:36:01,640 --> 00:36:03,799 Speaker 4: really and even after being at your house, we. 770 00:36:03,719 --> 00:36:08,319 Speaker 1: Spent a lot of recovery. Was at my house family home. 771 00:36:08,840 --> 00:36:11,160 Speaker 4: Yeah, and he had a little bungalow at the back 772 00:36:11,160 --> 00:36:14,319 Speaker 4: of the house and I literally spent every day with him. 773 00:36:14,360 --> 00:36:17,000 Speaker 4: It just really brought us together. But his mum would 774 00:36:17,080 --> 00:36:18,719 Speaker 4: like help me in the shower, like he'd go off 775 00:36:18,719 --> 00:36:20,640 Speaker 4: to work, and she was just awesome. 776 00:36:21,000 --> 00:36:23,160 Speaker 5: It was that bungalow could have been a make or 777 00:36:23,200 --> 00:36:25,560 Speaker 5: break as well. When we first started dating, I had 778 00:36:25,600 --> 00:36:26,879 Speaker 5: like kiss posters on the wall. 779 00:36:26,920 --> 00:36:29,000 Speaker 1: I had Ninja turtle figurines. 780 00:36:28,880 --> 00:36:30,360 Speaker 4: The mattress we need new. 781 00:36:30,600 --> 00:36:32,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, blue tack blobs everywhere. 782 00:36:33,239 --> 00:36:34,560 Speaker 4: Yeah, we need to clean this place. 783 00:36:34,920 --> 00:36:36,960 Speaker 3: This is great, but it could have been a make 784 00:36:37,040 --> 00:36:39,560 Speaker 3: or break for the relationship though as well. 785 00:36:39,680 --> 00:36:43,480 Speaker 1: You know you, yeah, you needing that care and. 786 00:36:43,960 --> 00:36:47,040 Speaker 3: Young man over here could have just gone no, it's 787 00:36:47,040 --> 00:36:47,520 Speaker 3: too much. 788 00:36:47,680 --> 00:36:51,040 Speaker 4: It put everything into perspective and what really mattered, and 789 00:36:51,239 --> 00:36:53,880 Speaker 4: he just matted the most. So it was yeah, it was. 790 00:36:54,040 --> 00:36:56,480 Speaker 4: He was really great with the recovery. He just always 791 00:36:56,480 --> 00:36:58,080 Speaker 4: wanted to carry This is the one thing we used 792 00:36:58,080 --> 00:37:00,680 Speaker 4: to fight about. He would want to carry me, like 793 00:37:01,239 --> 00:37:03,359 Speaker 4: out of the wheelchair two things because I couldn't had 794 00:37:03,400 --> 00:37:05,160 Speaker 4: the moon booed on and I was I was just 795 00:37:05,200 --> 00:37:07,360 Speaker 4: so embarrassed. I was like, and I'm that person. I 796 00:37:07,360 --> 00:37:09,040 Speaker 4: can do it. I can do it myself. But I 797 00:37:09,120 --> 00:37:10,880 Speaker 4: was just like put me down, No, I'll pick you up. 798 00:37:11,400 --> 00:37:11,600 Speaker 2: Yeah. 799 00:37:11,640 --> 00:37:13,600 Speaker 4: We used to argue about that lot, but yeah, no, 800 00:37:13,640 --> 00:37:16,200 Speaker 4: it's beautiful. We spend a lot of time together. 801 00:37:15,960 --> 00:37:18,000 Speaker 1: A lot of time. That was it. But that was 802 00:37:18,040 --> 00:37:21,920 Speaker 1: that just put a seal on and what an opportunity 803 00:37:21,960 --> 00:37:23,160 Speaker 1: for you to show care. 804 00:37:24,080 --> 00:37:28,120 Speaker 5: Yeah yeah, And I didn't see it that way, you know, 805 00:37:29,040 --> 00:37:31,279 Speaker 5: looking back at that, and I go like, you know, 806 00:37:31,440 --> 00:37:32,960 Speaker 5: we were mid twenties ago. 807 00:37:33,600 --> 00:37:34,920 Speaker 1: Like you said, it could have gone either way, but 808 00:37:35,200 --> 00:37:36,200 Speaker 1: I didn't see it that way. 809 00:37:36,280 --> 00:37:38,880 Speaker 5: I was just like, and I say, now to Michelle, 810 00:37:38,920 --> 00:37:41,279 Speaker 5: if you leave, I'm coming. You realize that to you 811 00:37:41,320 --> 00:37:44,880 Speaker 5: because I just don't. It's where we are so together. 812 00:37:45,200 --> 00:37:47,759 Speaker 4: How can we leave the kids but stay together? We 813 00:37:47,840 --> 00:37:48,439 Speaker 4: make that way. 814 00:37:49,160 --> 00:37:51,040 Speaker 2: How can we take your children? 815 00:37:51,719 --> 00:37:53,520 Speaker 4: But if you go, I'm like, you all suck. 816 00:37:57,560 --> 00:37:58,480 Speaker 1: Get a caravan. 817 00:38:01,000 --> 00:38:03,160 Speaker 3: Do you remind when you said about the carrying thing. 818 00:38:03,320 --> 00:38:08,479 Speaker 3: On our honeymoon, Alie walked into We was day one. 819 00:38:08,640 --> 00:38:11,960 Speaker 1: I think were day two. We've arrived in Hawaii. 820 00:38:11,680 --> 00:38:14,680 Speaker 3: On our honeymoon, and our's twenty two and I'm like 821 00:38:14,719 --> 00:38:18,600 Speaker 3: twenty six. And she walks into the ocean and cuts 822 00:38:18,640 --> 00:38:22,000 Speaker 3: her foot on a piece of coral and I'm there. 823 00:38:22,160 --> 00:38:25,239 Speaker 3: I'm ah bugger, you know, she's cut her foot and everything. 824 00:38:25,560 --> 00:38:28,600 Speaker 3: Ship day one of the holiday and she's really slice 825 00:38:28,600 --> 00:38:32,560 Speaker 3: to foot. The lifeguard, big burly Hawaiian lifeguard comes down 826 00:38:32,600 --> 00:38:35,960 Speaker 3: with his little red shorts on castlehoff and he carries 827 00:38:36,000 --> 00:38:36,759 Speaker 3: her up the beach. 828 00:38:38,280 --> 00:38:41,200 Speaker 1: I was just trailing behind the trailing behind game. Yeah, Hei, 829 00:38:41,840 --> 00:38:44,359 Speaker 1: nothing is he here? Nothing is he here? 830 00:38:44,760 --> 00:38:45,760 Speaker 4: Oh my god? 831 00:38:45,960 --> 00:38:49,000 Speaker 1: I felt so d bored. 832 00:38:52,000 --> 00:38:54,320 Speaker 4: Jason, Mamala did you bring him around the rest. 833 00:38:54,160 --> 00:38:57,960 Speaker 3: Of her up the thing and with his big grin 834 00:38:58,000 --> 00:39:05,359 Speaker 3: on his face, and I was like, you know you why. 835 00:39:02,920 --> 00:39:04,919 Speaker 1: I was sleeping on the pull out for the rest 836 00:39:04,920 --> 00:39:06,719 Speaker 1: of the honeymoon. Yeah. 837 00:39:06,719 --> 00:39:10,040 Speaker 2: Well I did go back and cut my foot another time. 838 00:39:12,200 --> 00:39:27,520 Speaker 6: Where's Memoa? 839 00:39:27,760 --> 00:39:30,360 Speaker 2: Do you too have any like you're so connected? Is 840 00:39:30,360 --> 00:39:34,480 Speaker 2: there sort of like any rituals or any little quirks 841 00:39:34,520 --> 00:39:37,080 Speaker 2: that you two do together that you've always sort of 842 00:39:37,160 --> 00:39:39,920 Speaker 2: always done, you know, over the twenty years that you 843 00:39:39,960 --> 00:39:42,400 Speaker 2: still do today that's just uniquely yours? 844 00:39:42,760 --> 00:39:46,440 Speaker 6: Oh god, Oh no. 845 00:39:46,719 --> 00:39:49,680 Speaker 5: I don't know if there's any like we know how 846 00:39:49,719 --> 00:39:52,759 Speaker 5: to have fun together and whether I think, yeah, little 847 00:39:52,880 --> 00:39:57,280 Speaker 5: little getaways is something that I'm like, I'll take ownership 848 00:39:57,320 --> 00:40:02,120 Speaker 5: of because I know that it's so full on we are. 849 00:40:02,160 --> 00:40:02,719 Speaker 1: We are in the. 850 00:40:02,640 --> 00:40:04,839 Speaker 5: Trenches at the moment with the kids, like you know, ten, 851 00:40:04,960 --> 00:40:07,840 Speaker 5: eight and six. Every afternoon, the three of them have 852 00:40:07,920 --> 00:40:10,400 Speaker 5: got something on. On the weekends, I've got sport, and 853 00:40:10,480 --> 00:40:13,759 Speaker 5: there's playdates, then there's birthday parties, and then there's you know, 854 00:40:13,840 --> 00:40:15,920 Speaker 5: the before school stuff, which I'm not around because I'm 855 00:40:15,920 --> 00:40:18,200 Speaker 5: doing the Brecky radio. So that's all on Michelle to 856 00:40:18,239 --> 00:40:20,120 Speaker 5: carry that weight of not only just getting them up 857 00:40:20,160 --> 00:40:25,880 Speaker 5: and moving, but lunchboxes and you know, just yeah, so 858 00:40:26,360 --> 00:40:29,000 Speaker 5: like I will try my hardest just to carve out 859 00:40:29,640 --> 00:40:33,760 Speaker 5: whether it's one night, little getaway or just a constant 860 00:40:33,840 --> 00:40:35,720 Speaker 5: date night of some sort. 861 00:40:36,080 --> 00:40:39,080 Speaker 1: Dinners, dinners, and we love eating. We love good food. 862 00:40:39,160 --> 00:40:43,040 Speaker 1: Hanging around vending machines, just hoping that's. 863 00:40:42,960 --> 00:40:45,399 Speaker 5: My Dolly magazine for nine ninety one, waiting for Ali 864 00:40:45,480 --> 00:40:49,000 Speaker 5: to sign it. 865 00:40:49,040 --> 00:40:51,680 Speaker 2: Is that really right now? 866 00:40:53,200 --> 00:40:55,960 Speaker 5: But yeah, so that that would be a little ritual 867 00:40:56,080 --> 00:40:59,440 Speaker 5: or just we used to just walk. We'd go to 868 00:40:59,480 --> 00:41:02,440 Speaker 5: a park just go for a walk, or go for 869 00:41:02,440 --> 00:41:04,360 Speaker 5: a drive and then go for a walk. Yeah, just 870 00:41:04,719 --> 00:41:05,920 Speaker 5: that time where we. 871 00:41:05,920 --> 00:41:06,879 Speaker 4: Did tennis a little bit. 872 00:41:09,200 --> 00:41:13,239 Speaker 1: I didn't say we did tennis, tennis. 873 00:41:12,800 --> 00:41:15,920 Speaker 4: Yeah, I did anger, yeah, tennis was her yeah. 874 00:41:15,840 --> 00:41:16,560 Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah yeah. 875 00:41:16,800 --> 00:41:20,879 Speaker 2: But you're you're in the mother Chuckers. Correct your netball team. 876 00:41:20,920 --> 00:41:23,520 Speaker 4: We've had a little hiatus. We're just we had to. 877 00:41:23,920 --> 00:41:26,719 Speaker 4: It was the grand final, okay of F grade mother 878 00:41:26,800 --> 00:41:31,879 Speaker 4: Chucker netball, and we won, but two of our main 879 00:41:32,080 --> 00:41:34,600 Speaker 4: players went down bad. One did her a c L 880 00:41:35,200 --> 00:41:38,239 Speaker 4: and she will never return. Lauren r a p. Yeah, 881 00:41:38,640 --> 00:41:42,120 Speaker 4: and then Leah goal shooter she did her ankle and 882 00:41:42,200 --> 00:41:43,839 Speaker 4: literally Matt in the same game. 883 00:41:44,120 --> 00:41:45,800 Speaker 2: It's always the ankle. 884 00:41:47,360 --> 00:41:49,279 Speaker 4: So we all freaked out and we were like, you 885 00:41:49,320 --> 00:41:52,040 Speaker 4: know what, just like we won, we were going to 886 00:41:52,080 --> 00:41:55,000 Speaker 4: be moved up to E grade and we went, let's not. 887 00:41:57,520 --> 00:41:58,960 Speaker 2: You know, E grade netball. 888 00:41:59,040 --> 00:42:01,319 Speaker 4: And then actually there's been a there's been a poll, 889 00:42:01,760 --> 00:42:03,640 Speaker 4: and we're all back for the October season. 890 00:42:04,400 --> 00:42:07,160 Speaker 1: Really maybe and then they're back. 891 00:42:07,440 --> 00:42:14,080 Speaker 4: Yeah, we might just do indoor or indoor. Okay, it's 892 00:42:14,200 --> 00:42:15,160 Speaker 4: just so much fun. 893 00:42:15,239 --> 00:42:21,440 Speaker 2: You I was, what's your position, I'm gold attack attacks 894 00:42:21,480 --> 00:42:22,280 Speaker 2: in the semi circle. 895 00:42:24,200 --> 00:42:26,520 Speaker 4: To sh no, I'm useless at the goal. I actually 896 00:42:26,520 --> 00:42:30,040 Speaker 4: don't play netball. It is new for me. As a 897 00:42:30,200 --> 00:42:34,040 Speaker 4: forty year old woman. I used to do hockey at school, okay, 898 00:42:34,360 --> 00:42:38,520 Speaker 4: and rowing and rowing and yeah. 899 00:42:38,320 --> 00:42:42,680 Speaker 1: Very different education to the one I had. Did you 900 00:42:42,719 --> 00:42:45,640 Speaker 1: have a priority school? Not myself, No, that's that's the rower. 901 00:42:47,760 --> 00:42:47,960 Speaker 4: Yeah. 902 00:42:47,960 --> 00:42:50,000 Speaker 1: We were lucky to have equipment at our school. Yeah, 903 00:42:50,480 --> 00:42:52,879 Speaker 1: but yeah. Took it up to the group of moms 904 00:42:52,880 --> 00:42:55,600 Speaker 1: from school, just like, let's do something so much fun. 905 00:42:55,680 --> 00:42:59,920 Speaker 4: I'm like, yeah, wing attacked on the wings the wing, 906 00:43:00,120 --> 00:43:02,000 Speaker 4: so don't get me in that like pummel like a 907 00:43:02,360 --> 00:43:04,040 Speaker 4: ping pong ball in the center. I don't know how 908 00:43:04,080 --> 00:43:06,960 Speaker 4: you guys get in there. That's scary. But you're running around, 909 00:43:07,320 --> 00:43:09,520 Speaker 4: you're doing a little bit of misopposition. 910 00:43:09,800 --> 00:43:12,440 Speaker 2: I do miss it. I join the mother chack. I 911 00:43:12,520 --> 00:43:14,560 Speaker 2: watch it like, oh my god, you remember the injuries. 912 00:43:14,560 --> 00:43:15,040 Speaker 2: I'd be done. 913 00:43:15,360 --> 00:43:15,719 Speaker 4: I try. 914 00:43:15,840 --> 00:43:17,879 Speaker 2: I tell this story because I tried to do. I 915 00:43:17,880 --> 00:43:20,560 Speaker 2: did a couch to couch to five k run app 916 00:43:21,000 --> 00:43:23,640 Speaker 2: and the second day I broke my foot just purely 917 00:43:23,680 --> 00:43:24,520 Speaker 2: by being fat. 918 00:43:25,040 --> 00:43:27,000 Speaker 1: Just I didn't get off the couch. 919 00:43:27,120 --> 00:43:29,960 Speaker 2: I didn't off the couch, I didn't trip. I just 920 00:43:30,040 --> 00:43:37,840 Speaker 2: was running, just gently running, running. The fingers would go. 921 00:43:38,120 --> 00:43:40,520 Speaker 4: Everything goes. We say, we go to school pick up 922 00:43:40,560 --> 00:43:43,279 Speaker 4: and we're like, my friends, like, what's happened. I said, 923 00:43:43,320 --> 00:43:46,600 Speaker 4: I just turned I turned that way and I've done something, 924 00:43:46,719 --> 00:43:49,919 Speaker 4: or I sneeze where I've thrown my back out from 925 00:43:50,120 --> 00:43:56,560 Speaker 4: watching TV, and I've got this is We're all really 926 00:43:56,560 --> 00:43:58,200 Speaker 4: scared of it. So we're like, maybe just one last 927 00:43:58,239 --> 00:44:01,000 Speaker 4: hurrah of the mother chuck in, but one last season 928 00:44:01,040 --> 00:44:02,120 Speaker 4: and then we might give it away. 929 00:44:02,600 --> 00:44:05,080 Speaker 3: It's just the name I see the I see the 930 00:44:05,120 --> 00:44:09,080 Speaker 3: cranky old dudes or I should say veteran soccer players 931 00:44:09,080 --> 00:44:12,600 Speaker 3: at the local at the local soccer fields on Sunday afternoon, 932 00:44:12,600 --> 00:44:16,320 Speaker 3: and there you see just guys with ice packs on hands. 933 00:44:17,120 --> 00:44:21,080 Speaker 1: It's just probably not worth it. It's not try thing like. 934 00:44:21,239 --> 00:44:23,560 Speaker 5: So the kids were all playing there, you know, and 935 00:44:23,600 --> 00:44:26,000 Speaker 5: we all did like a dad's versus kids game at training, 936 00:44:26,320 --> 00:44:28,200 Speaker 5: and then we all we've still got it. 937 00:44:28,239 --> 00:44:30,520 Speaker 1: Should we sign up for a bit of six a 938 00:44:30,640 --> 00:44:32,080 Speaker 1: side summer soccer? Yeah? 939 00:44:32,400 --> 00:44:34,839 Speaker 5: First game, Akilles gone on one of them. Second game, 940 00:44:34,920 --> 00:44:37,279 Speaker 5: a guy ran into a goalpost, cracked a rib. The 941 00:44:37,600 --> 00:44:40,839 Speaker 5: game my hip started hurting. Oh, I've got to give 942 00:44:40,840 --> 00:44:42,719 Speaker 5: it away. My hips hurting, and. 943 00:44:42,640 --> 00:44:44,520 Speaker 1: I was like, I'm fit. I can like I did 944 00:44:44,520 --> 00:44:46,680 Speaker 1: a little bit of running. I can get into Nah. 945 00:44:47,360 --> 00:44:51,560 Speaker 1: It's like the impact of start stops, start stop, and yes, 946 00:44:52,080 --> 00:44:54,160 Speaker 1: yeah it's not natural. Okay, so we won't be doing 947 00:44:54,200 --> 00:44:54,680 Speaker 1: that now. 948 00:44:55,040 --> 00:44:57,000 Speaker 5: Now all the kids are signed up for cricket, and 949 00:44:57,040 --> 00:44:58,600 Speaker 5: we went up and did a little bit of cricket training. 950 00:44:58,640 --> 00:45:00,600 Speaker 1: We all looked at each other and went, no, that's 951 00:45:00,600 --> 00:45:03,120 Speaker 1: not yeah, lawn. 952 00:45:02,960 --> 00:45:04,160 Speaker 2: Bowls, lawn bowls. 953 00:45:05,000 --> 00:45:06,919 Speaker 4: Yeah, there's no injuries there. 954 00:45:08,000 --> 00:45:09,440 Speaker 1: So what's so down the line? 955 00:45:09,480 --> 00:45:12,520 Speaker 3: I mean, obviously the kids are You've still got Wow, 956 00:45:12,719 --> 00:45:21,120 Speaker 3: probably another six seven years of that really, I mean, yeah, yeah, 957 00:45:21,120 --> 00:45:23,520 Speaker 3: Well that's the thing when when we when Lotus got 958 00:45:23,600 --> 00:45:26,320 Speaker 3: our first five years by herself, River was in the middle, 959 00:45:26,400 --> 00:45:28,839 Speaker 3: so yeah, he had the two girls either side. Now 960 00:45:28,880 --> 00:45:31,239 Speaker 3: body's still at home with us, and I think she's 961 00:45:31,280 --> 00:45:33,880 Speaker 3: got the best of it because she's sort of like 962 00:45:34,040 --> 00:45:35,200 Speaker 3: she's hanging at home. 963 00:45:35,320 --> 00:45:36,520 Speaker 1: The other two have moved out. 964 00:45:36,760 --> 00:45:40,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, she's nineteen, she's doing her apprenticeship and it's all 965 00:45:40,600 --> 00:45:41,560 Speaker 3: going well for boats. 966 00:45:41,600 --> 00:45:41,759 Speaker 1: You know. 967 00:45:41,920 --> 00:45:44,040 Speaker 4: She's like, I love their names. 968 00:45:44,400 --> 00:45:47,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, they love that. What are your kids names? 969 00:45:47,560 --> 00:45:49,880 Speaker 4: Stevie's the littlest girl. Then we got Ziggy in the 970 00:45:49,880 --> 00:45:52,160 Speaker 4: middle boy and Billy the eldest girl. 971 00:45:52,480 --> 00:45:53,400 Speaker 1: Goods. 972 00:45:53,440 --> 00:45:57,239 Speaker 4: But yeah, you love just for a girl Bill, Yeah, yeah, yeah, 973 00:45:57,320 --> 00:46:00,680 Speaker 4: I wanted Coco and Matt was like, oh maybe not, 974 00:46:01,280 --> 00:46:02,319 Speaker 4: so we got in the middle name. 975 00:46:03,000 --> 00:46:05,160 Speaker 5: I might have said, I might have said something along 976 00:46:05,200 --> 00:46:06,920 Speaker 5: the lines, I'm pretty sure I've. 977 00:46:07,120 --> 00:46:14,440 Speaker 3: A come onto you see, you've got a little bit 978 00:46:14,480 --> 00:46:16,080 Speaker 3: of time in the trenches. 979 00:46:15,600 --> 00:46:19,720 Speaker 1: What I mean, you'll continue with your VEO stuff, voiceover stuff. 980 00:46:20,320 --> 00:46:23,799 Speaker 1: You did you ever want to be on radio or 981 00:46:24,320 --> 00:46:24,960 Speaker 1: that sort of thing? 982 00:46:25,080 --> 00:46:28,200 Speaker 4: Not really, I feel like I just don't have the 983 00:46:28,280 --> 00:46:28,919 Speaker 4: skill set. 984 00:46:29,160 --> 00:46:32,840 Speaker 3: I just sitting here for fifty minutes. 985 00:46:33,320 --> 00:46:34,560 Speaker 1: Tell me about it, you know. 986 00:46:34,800 --> 00:46:37,160 Speaker 4: I just like I tried a little bit of presenting 987 00:46:37,760 --> 00:46:40,839 Speaker 4: and then that, like I did some ads, but then 988 00:46:40,880 --> 00:46:44,759 Speaker 4: I almost got this, almost got this gig. The one gig. 989 00:46:44,800 --> 00:46:48,600 Speaker 1: It was with some whipper Whip Whip and Rescue. 990 00:46:48,600 --> 00:46:49,800 Speaker 4: He used to be on Home and Away. It's a 991 00:46:49,800 --> 00:46:53,880 Speaker 4: little sad anyway, just like you know, it was like 992 00:46:53,920 --> 00:46:56,600 Speaker 4: a thrill kind of skateboarding and like we throw the 993 00:46:56,640 --> 00:46:59,560 Speaker 4: packages and I really enjoyed it. They were going to 994 00:46:59,600 --> 00:47:02,040 Speaker 4: take us to Japan and then it was on one, 995 00:47:02,280 --> 00:47:05,479 Speaker 4: like Channel ten's one channel, and then everything just blew 996 00:47:05,560 --> 00:47:07,680 Speaker 4: up and that was my career over. But I really 997 00:47:07,760 --> 00:47:10,520 Speaker 4: enjoyed that. But I love I love doing the voiceovers. 998 00:47:10,560 --> 00:47:13,640 Speaker 4: I am thinking I could pivot because AI, it's a 999 00:47:13,680 --> 00:47:16,920 Speaker 4: scary place. Will I be doing this in ten years? 1000 00:47:17,000 --> 00:47:20,759 Speaker 4: What else can I? I literally sit there at home. Well, 1001 00:47:20,800 --> 00:47:24,120 Speaker 4: there's not a lot of thoughts. I sit there, I chatto. 1002 00:47:24,160 --> 00:47:26,879 Speaker 4: I'm like, I am a voiceover artist. What else could 1003 00:47:26,920 --> 00:47:27,359 Speaker 4: I be doing? 1004 00:47:27,640 --> 00:47:32,799 Speaker 1: You're feeding the beast though? Doing that? You realize help 1005 00:47:32,960 --> 00:47:35,239 Speaker 1: me run you? Yeah? 1006 00:47:35,480 --> 00:47:35,960 Speaker 2: Totally. 1007 00:47:36,000 --> 00:47:39,359 Speaker 4: I was thinking. We have an app called Calm all 1008 00:47:39,360 --> 00:47:41,759 Speaker 4: the kids listen to like sleep stories, and that would 1009 00:47:41,800 --> 00:47:44,680 Speaker 4: be something awesome that I'd like to get into. And 1010 00:47:44,680 --> 00:47:46,919 Speaker 4: then I look at all of the steps and all 1011 00:47:46,920 --> 00:47:47,120 Speaker 4: of that. 1012 00:47:47,400 --> 00:47:54,080 Speaker 3: What about in sight timer become a a meditation guide? 1013 00:47:54,480 --> 00:47:59,000 Speaker 4: Yeah? I totally open to you could scare Yeah, just 1014 00:47:59,200 --> 00:47:59,480 Speaker 4: bring it. 1015 00:47:59,680 --> 00:48:02,200 Speaker 1: I think you'd be fantastic. A little bit, a little 1016 00:48:02,200 --> 00:48:03,880 Speaker 1: bit there it is, she said, thanks. 1017 00:48:04,120 --> 00:48:07,640 Speaker 4: Yeah, thanks camp. Yeah, I've got to get in that. 1018 00:48:09,000 --> 00:48:12,520 Speaker 2: Do you do books on tape as well? No? I haven't. 1019 00:48:12,640 --> 00:48:14,479 Speaker 4: I was telling my agent, I was like, why can't 1020 00:48:14,480 --> 00:48:17,359 Speaker 4: I get audio books auditioned? But no, I just don't 1021 00:48:17,400 --> 00:48:21,720 Speaker 4: get it on tape. Audiobooks same thing, don't get it 1022 00:48:21,920 --> 00:48:25,440 Speaker 4: the audio tape. You've done the book on tape and The. 1023 00:48:25,400 --> 00:48:30,560 Speaker 1: Worst thing was I'm like, yeah, yeah, I get that. 1024 00:48:32,400 --> 00:48:37,200 Speaker 4: Audiobooks. No, I haven't done any of those. Apparently it's 1025 00:48:37,280 --> 00:48:39,919 Speaker 4: a lot of hours for a lot less pay because 1026 00:48:39,920 --> 00:48:41,040 Speaker 4: they pay you for the first hour. 1027 00:48:41,080 --> 00:48:42,440 Speaker 2: I have heard that, Yeah, but. 1028 00:48:42,440 --> 00:48:43,439 Speaker 1: I would still it is fine. 1029 00:48:43,480 --> 00:48:47,000 Speaker 2: I love booth, so yeah, I'm ready to go. 1030 00:48:47,320 --> 00:48:49,400 Speaker 4: I'm ready to go. I would do eight hours a 1031 00:48:49,480 --> 00:48:52,919 Speaker 4: day of it if I could. It's just finding the work. 1032 00:48:53,000 --> 00:48:55,000 Speaker 4: And you know, I actually have just tried to start 1033 00:48:55,040 --> 00:48:58,800 Speaker 4: getting like agents from the UK and Singapore. That was 1034 00:48:58,840 --> 00:49:02,319 Speaker 4: another chat. I was like, who do I go to? 1035 00:49:02,400 --> 00:49:02,600 Speaker 1: Who? 1036 00:49:02,719 --> 00:49:05,240 Speaker 4: Or where can I go? But you know the likelihood 1037 00:49:05,239 --> 00:49:07,080 Speaker 4: of that happening. I'm just manifesting right now. I'm in 1038 00:49:07,120 --> 00:49:08,520 Speaker 4: my manifesting and. 1039 00:49:09,040 --> 00:49:10,320 Speaker 2: Out there vision board. 1040 00:49:10,360 --> 00:49:10,719 Speaker 1: Do that. 1041 00:49:10,920 --> 00:49:13,600 Speaker 4: Maybe some sleep stories, yeah, that'ud be awesome, But that's 1042 00:49:13,640 --> 00:49:14,520 Speaker 4: literally where the skill. 1043 00:49:15,760 --> 00:49:17,239 Speaker 1: I think there's a little bit of self doubt in 1044 00:49:17,280 --> 00:49:18,560 Speaker 1: there too, because she's incredible. 1045 00:49:18,640 --> 00:49:19,359 Speaker 4: What else can I do? 1046 00:49:19,719 --> 00:49:20,160 Speaker 1: You like? 1047 00:49:20,480 --> 00:49:24,120 Speaker 4: Yeah, anyway, we tried to do our own podcast together 1048 00:49:24,400 --> 00:49:26,120 Speaker 4: and we started that Did You Take the Bins Out? 1049 00:49:26,120 --> 00:49:26,600 Speaker 6: It was cool. 1050 00:49:26,960 --> 00:49:30,759 Speaker 4: We did three episodes. Three episodes. We started with a 1051 00:49:30,800 --> 00:49:34,840 Speaker 4: tequila shot and then we talked about we talk about our. 1052 00:49:34,719 --> 00:49:37,759 Speaker 5: Day basically because we were so busy, we'd never see 1053 00:49:37,800 --> 00:49:39,360 Speaker 5: each other, and it was just like, let's still an 1054 00:49:39,400 --> 00:49:40,480 Speaker 5: hour of how each other. 1055 00:49:40,360 --> 00:49:42,320 Speaker 1: Are, Where are we at? Are were ten? Or are 1056 00:49:42,080 --> 00:49:43,680 Speaker 1: you a five? Where are we sitting? 1057 00:49:43,719 --> 00:49:45,360 Speaker 5: And then we got to the point where it was like, 1058 00:49:45,400 --> 00:49:46,880 Speaker 5: oh my god, let's just do the tequila shot and 1059 00:49:46,920 --> 00:49:47,479 Speaker 5: watch the TV. 1060 00:49:49,280 --> 00:49:50,920 Speaker 4: And then it was working and then we haven't done 1061 00:49:50,920 --> 00:49:53,560 Speaker 4: a bit. It was fun like, it is actually a 1062 00:49:53,600 --> 00:49:56,840 Speaker 4: really beautiful thing to do together. It's pretty awesome. 1063 00:49:56,920 --> 00:49:59,160 Speaker 2: That's what you're today, right. 1064 00:49:59,280 --> 00:50:01,640 Speaker 3: We're coming in today. I was like, this is really 1065 00:50:01,680 --> 00:50:03,840 Speaker 3: important to me. Yeah, because it's a time and we 1066 00:50:04,400 --> 00:50:07,439 Speaker 3: collude with we rely on each other. 1067 00:50:07,600 --> 00:50:10,400 Speaker 4: It's just connecting, connecting with other couples. And then you 1068 00:50:10,440 --> 00:50:11,520 Speaker 4: get in your car and you talk. 1069 00:50:11,320 --> 00:50:14,120 Speaker 1: About what it's really good because you know we're going 1070 00:50:14,160 --> 00:50:14,960 Speaker 1: to ship talk you too. 1071 00:50:15,440 --> 00:50:15,760 Speaker 4: Yeah. 1072 00:50:18,560 --> 00:50:19,680 Speaker 1: The body will still be warm. 1073 00:50:20,719 --> 00:50:25,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, I guess you know in the radio, 1074 00:50:25,920 --> 00:50:28,560 Speaker 3: in radio, you just I mean, we're in the same 1075 00:50:28,600 --> 00:50:30,840 Speaker 3: world then that, and you're just sort of like, Okay, 1076 00:50:31,000 --> 00:50:33,440 Speaker 3: I love this, I love radio. 1077 00:50:33,600 --> 00:50:35,200 Speaker 1: I'm late to it. 1078 00:50:35,280 --> 00:50:38,279 Speaker 3: I didn't you know, I didn't start as a like 1079 00:50:38,360 --> 00:50:40,160 Speaker 3: what you did as a Casanova, coming up through and 1080 00:50:40,239 --> 00:50:44,879 Speaker 3: learning the ropes that way. I just love the opportunity 1081 00:50:44,880 --> 00:50:48,800 Speaker 3: to tell fifteen thirty second stories and spin into different things. 1082 00:50:49,280 --> 00:50:50,480 Speaker 1: What about you are you? 1083 00:50:50,840 --> 00:50:53,320 Speaker 3: Are you happy to stay in there or is there 1084 00:50:53,400 --> 00:50:54,960 Speaker 3: is there anything you would like to do? 1085 00:50:55,360 --> 00:50:58,440 Speaker 1: Yeah? I love the medium like I love radio, I 1086 00:50:58,480 --> 00:50:59,160 Speaker 1: love audio. 1087 00:50:59,239 --> 00:51:03,800 Speaker 5: I love the theater of the mind, the painting pictures 1088 00:51:03,840 --> 00:51:07,040 Speaker 5: through words. I think it's still such a very, such 1089 00:51:07,080 --> 00:51:10,600 Speaker 5: a powerful medium. So it's like and like, I'm not 1090 00:51:10,640 --> 00:51:12,280 Speaker 5: a comedian, Like that's not my stick. 1091 00:51:12,360 --> 00:51:13,600 Speaker 1: I've worked with you, funny. 1092 00:51:13,680 --> 00:51:16,440 Speaker 5: Well, there's a difference, thank you, I agree, But there's 1093 00:51:16,480 --> 00:51:18,200 Speaker 5: there's there's there's that, but there's. 1094 00:51:18,000 --> 00:51:19,800 Speaker 1: Also I'm not telling jokes. 1095 00:51:19,840 --> 00:51:21,920 Speaker 5: I know I know good content when I see it, 1096 00:51:21,960 --> 00:51:23,759 Speaker 5: how to capture it and how to harness it. I 1097 00:51:23,880 --> 00:51:25,960 Speaker 5: worked behind the scenes for a long time on with 1098 00:51:26,120 --> 00:51:28,680 Speaker 5: a lot of successful shows, so I took little bits 1099 00:51:28,719 --> 00:51:31,239 Speaker 5: and pieces from each of those people and worked out 1100 00:51:31,239 --> 00:51:33,440 Speaker 5: what I liked from them and how I can build 1101 00:51:33,440 --> 00:51:36,960 Speaker 5: that as part of who I am. But also, like 1102 00:51:37,120 --> 00:51:40,880 Speaker 5: in my pre radio life, there's I was a baker, 1103 00:51:40,880 --> 00:51:44,000 Speaker 5: pastry chef, so I did an apprenticeship, so I do 1104 00:51:44,120 --> 00:51:47,680 Speaker 5: I do still playing around it's like my it's like 1105 00:51:47,719 --> 00:51:48,280 Speaker 5: my therapy. 1106 00:51:48,440 --> 00:51:49,840 Speaker 1: It's like Dad's in the kitchen. 1107 00:51:50,239 --> 00:51:52,200 Speaker 5: Just let me knock up some sausage rolls while I 1108 00:51:52,239 --> 00:51:54,600 Speaker 5: have a little chiraz and out of the kitchen. 1109 00:51:56,080 --> 00:51:56,880 Speaker 1: That's my spot. 1110 00:51:56,920 --> 00:52:00,080 Speaker 5: But so there I do see still maybe potentially a 1111 00:52:00,440 --> 00:52:02,759 Speaker 5: window where I go back to that, maybe one day 1112 00:52:02,800 --> 00:52:04,600 Speaker 5: and open up a little hole in the wall. 1113 00:52:04,760 --> 00:52:06,120 Speaker 2: Or what's your favorite thing to bake? 1114 00:52:08,120 --> 00:52:10,800 Speaker 1: I do make a pretty mean sausage roll. When you 1115 00:52:10,840 --> 00:52:13,520 Speaker 1: said sausage roll, it is actually the. 1116 00:52:13,440 --> 00:52:16,800 Speaker 4: Best sausage roll anyone has had. All of our friends. 1117 00:52:17,200 --> 00:52:18,279 Speaker 4: He brings them. I don't know. 1118 00:52:18,440 --> 00:52:20,840 Speaker 1: Grand final day must be really popular. 1119 00:52:21,000 --> 00:52:24,640 Speaker 5: Yeah, and cakes and something for the during the care 1120 00:52:24,800 --> 00:52:26,840 Speaker 5: the kid's birthday cakes the kids. 1121 00:52:27,680 --> 00:52:30,319 Speaker 2: What a memory for those kids to Dad used to 1122 00:52:30,360 --> 00:52:31,279 Speaker 2: make the cake. 1123 00:52:32,160 --> 00:52:34,760 Speaker 5: One year I was in hospital. I was in hospital 1124 00:52:34,800 --> 00:52:39,279 Speaker 5: with the moon, right, that's not the funny bit. What 1125 00:52:39,400 --> 00:52:39,920 Speaker 5: a crack up. 1126 00:52:39,920 --> 00:52:45,280 Speaker 1: He couldn't breathe, But it was there in Yaling icing sugar. 1127 00:52:46,880 --> 00:52:49,919 Speaker 5: The younger Stevie had her birthday and to this day, 1128 00:52:50,040 --> 00:52:52,399 Speaker 5: and it must have been her fourth birthday, to this day, 1129 00:52:52,440 --> 00:52:54,600 Speaker 5: she still brings up the time where Mum had to 1130 00:52:54,640 --> 00:52:55,920 Speaker 5: make the birthday. 1131 00:52:55,880 --> 00:52:58,560 Speaker 4: I was meeting family, and then he does and I'm like, 1132 00:52:58,600 --> 00:53:00,680 Speaker 4: so going to hospital is that? What's how this morning? 1133 00:53:00,960 --> 00:53:01,160 Speaker 1: Is that? 1134 00:53:01,200 --> 00:53:03,200 Speaker 4: What we're doing is like I still can't take a 1135 00:53:03,239 --> 00:53:05,960 Speaker 4: breath in. I'm like, okay, all right, go and then 1136 00:53:06,040 --> 00:53:08,880 Speaker 4: I have to do The cake was great. It was moist, 1137 00:53:09,000 --> 00:53:11,680 Speaker 4: it was fluffy, it was the icing. I'm like, I 1138 00:53:11,719 --> 00:53:14,200 Speaker 4: don't know what I did wrong. And she still says, 1139 00:53:14,239 --> 00:53:17,440 Speaker 4: remember that time you ruined my birthday cake. It just 1140 00:53:17,480 --> 00:53:18,839 Speaker 4: literally just melted off. 1141 00:53:19,160 --> 00:53:21,919 Speaker 1: She makes me promise never to be in hospital again. 1142 00:53:22,760 --> 00:53:28,280 Speaker 5: Doesn't make the cake spoon all the time, leave me alone. 1143 00:53:28,320 --> 00:53:30,120 Speaker 4: And that was terrible. Yeah, that was embarrassing. 1144 00:53:30,160 --> 00:53:31,479 Speaker 2: It's become part of the law. 1145 00:53:31,840 --> 00:53:32,080 Speaker 4: Yeah. 1146 00:53:32,320 --> 00:53:36,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like when Cam had to go at apple pie. 1147 00:53:36,840 --> 00:53:39,520 Speaker 2: We went, Yeah, we went and picked apples up a 1148 00:53:42,680 --> 00:53:45,800 Speaker 2: very wholesome We picked asseels. Came back. Cam was really excited. 1149 00:53:46,040 --> 00:53:46,880 Speaker 1: Love apple pie. 1150 00:53:47,040 --> 00:53:47,960 Speaker 4: Yeah, it's the best. 1151 00:53:48,160 --> 00:53:50,680 Speaker 2: And I think he went a bit rogue with the recipe. 1152 00:53:50,960 --> 00:53:54,400 Speaker 2: I did and put like orange zest, but he like 1153 00:53:54,440 --> 00:53:57,280 Speaker 2: he went down to the pith, like it went real. 1154 00:53:57,120 --> 00:53:58,399 Speaker 1: Deep, don't take the pith out of. 1155 00:54:00,520 --> 00:54:02,439 Speaker 2: You bit it And then he put egg in it 1156 00:54:02,480 --> 00:54:02,879 Speaker 2: for something. 1157 00:54:03,040 --> 00:54:03,879 Speaker 1: He said it was the egg. 1158 00:54:03,920 --> 00:54:06,799 Speaker 3: You didn't like the egg because the egg congealed. 1159 00:54:07,040 --> 00:54:10,000 Speaker 1: The egg it scrambled. There was a scrambled egg apple. 1160 00:54:09,800 --> 00:54:12,480 Speaker 2: Pie and then the orange you know, like when there's 1161 00:54:12,520 --> 00:54:15,240 Speaker 2: air fresh now, like it's like something sprayed in your mouth. 1162 00:54:16,280 --> 00:54:18,080 Speaker 1: It wasn't good. You bit into it. 1163 00:54:17,960 --> 00:54:20,560 Speaker 4: And it sounded like you tried a little too hard. 1164 00:54:20,920 --> 00:54:23,480 Speaker 2: Yes, I think that's what it was. 1165 00:54:23,200 --> 00:54:23,600 Speaker 4: It was. 1166 00:54:24,520 --> 00:54:27,640 Speaker 1: Take two was good. Take two I cut it back. 1167 00:54:27,760 --> 00:54:28,600 Speaker 1: See I was great. 1168 00:54:28,760 --> 00:54:31,360 Speaker 3: She came and saw me in my play recently and 1169 00:54:31,760 --> 00:54:33,960 Speaker 3: she's like, she's like, yeah, I said, how was it? 1170 00:54:34,040 --> 00:54:35,879 Speaker 1: She got, honey, really good. 1171 00:54:36,080 --> 00:54:38,720 Speaker 3: There is one moment you're getting a little bit big though, 1172 00:54:39,080 --> 00:54:40,080 Speaker 3: you might want to pull that. 1173 00:54:41,239 --> 00:54:43,319 Speaker 1: Yeah, so she could just shut your mouth, don't talk 1174 00:54:43,400 --> 00:54:43,839 Speaker 1: that big. 1175 00:54:44,040 --> 00:54:46,399 Speaker 3: And I'm like okay, And I went and did it 1176 00:54:46,440 --> 00:54:49,600 Speaker 3: straight away and brought the house down. She was just 1177 00:54:49,680 --> 00:54:52,719 Speaker 3: me adding grunts and groans and ship and I just went, okay, 1178 00:54:52,800 --> 00:54:54,920 Speaker 3: shut up, do the thing and it works and it 1179 00:54:55,719 --> 00:54:56,239 Speaker 3: stayed in there. 1180 00:54:56,280 --> 00:54:59,640 Speaker 4: She's the bed, Oh my god, just pair it bags. 1181 00:55:00,120 --> 00:55:03,000 Speaker 3: Just you don't need to make these massive shifts. 1182 00:55:02,880 --> 00:55:07,040 Speaker 2: Just let's less piss letsis wow, we can all. 1183 00:55:08,520 --> 00:55:11,839 Speaker 5: Someone needs to put that on a shirt. 1184 00:55:12,600 --> 00:55:16,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, but I think if you spell less with the 1185 00:55:16,040 --> 00:55:26,440 Speaker 3: t H as well, can we do can we do. 1186 00:55:28,360 --> 00:55:30,040 Speaker 1: Mike Tyson's and you're cooking shirt. 1187 00:55:32,640 --> 00:55:33,359 Speaker 4: I'll kick your hair. 1188 00:55:35,200 --> 00:55:37,799 Speaker 3: We do a rapid heartbeat, you too, we do a 1189 00:55:37,880 --> 00:55:40,720 Speaker 3: rapid heart Okay, So so he both. 1190 00:55:40,560 --> 00:55:44,359 Speaker 1: Answer the question. Okay, no, no, no, because I want 1191 00:55:44,360 --> 00:55:46,520 Speaker 1: to hear what you're saying. Come on radio, man, you 1192 00:55:46,600 --> 00:55:52,959 Speaker 1: know us radio should fired. That's what do you miss 1193 00:55:52,960 --> 00:55:54,400 Speaker 1: when you're not together. 1194 00:55:54,960 --> 00:55:55,640 Speaker 4: About each other? 1195 00:55:56,560 --> 00:55:59,680 Speaker 1: Correct? Okay, yeah, that would be good. It is a relationship. 1196 00:56:00,200 --> 00:56:03,919 Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, quick fight. I would just say someone else 1197 00:56:03,920 --> 00:56:04,760 Speaker 4: to yell at the kids? 1198 00:56:05,520 --> 00:56:08,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, her face, her face? 1199 00:56:08,160 --> 00:56:13,160 Speaker 2: Oh great, going second, Okay, damn, this is this may 1200 00:56:13,239 --> 00:56:15,960 Speaker 2: be tricky one. But do you have a favorite memory 1201 00:56:16,640 --> 00:56:17,960 Speaker 2: that you have together? 1202 00:56:18,239 --> 00:56:20,400 Speaker 4: I would say hot. Just the first thing that came 1203 00:56:20,480 --> 00:56:22,480 Speaker 4: to my mind was hot air blearning in the hunter 1204 00:56:22,840 --> 00:56:26,040 Speaker 4: said our first trip away, Yes, that was beautiful. 1205 00:56:26,040 --> 00:56:27,719 Speaker 1: Second Valentine's Day together. 1206 00:56:27,560 --> 00:56:30,480 Speaker 4: Yeah, we went to some effort Valentine's. 1207 00:56:30,040 --> 00:56:33,239 Speaker 1: Day's actually. 1208 00:56:34,640 --> 00:56:34,799 Speaker 2: Yeah. 1209 00:56:34,880 --> 00:56:36,480 Speaker 4: Yeah, and she does it all of it? Yeah. 1210 00:56:36,560 --> 00:56:38,560 Speaker 1: Okay, what about your mine? 1211 00:56:38,800 --> 00:56:41,040 Speaker 5: Is the moment she said yes, when I was down 1212 00:56:41,080 --> 00:56:45,520 Speaker 5: on one knee proposing, I had this beautiful speech worked 1213 00:56:45,520 --> 00:56:47,600 Speaker 5: out and I just got about three words into it 1214 00:56:47,600 --> 00:56:50,640 Speaker 5: and was a snotty, teary mess, and she said, don't worry, 1215 00:56:50,680 --> 00:56:55,520 Speaker 5: get up. Yes, And where was that hashtag cliche? I 1216 00:56:55,560 --> 00:56:57,279 Speaker 5: was in Central Park in New York. 1217 00:56:58,440 --> 00:57:00,799 Speaker 4: We done a little horse and carriage ride. I felt 1218 00:57:00,840 --> 00:57:03,839 Speaker 4: like something was up because it was just like just 1219 00:57:03,960 --> 00:57:06,800 Speaker 4: really strange. Next to me, I was like, oh he's 1220 00:57:06,840 --> 00:57:09,600 Speaker 4: he's talking a lot now, he's very quiet. 1221 00:57:09,040 --> 00:57:13,840 Speaker 1: Horse car wasn't the beef from the horse? Sein felt. 1222 00:57:15,800 --> 00:57:18,800 Speaker 2: He was strange, he was weird. 1223 00:57:18,840 --> 00:57:20,800 Speaker 4: And then he was gonna you were going to do 1224 00:57:20,880 --> 00:57:23,520 Speaker 4: it in the cart But then the guy was like, 1225 00:57:23,600 --> 00:57:25,920 Speaker 4: this is where the toy story. 1226 00:57:27,560 --> 00:57:30,240 Speaker 5: I was like, we don't want every location of any 1227 00:57:30,280 --> 00:57:32,480 Speaker 5: movie that was filmedal I'm preparing. 1228 00:57:32,520 --> 00:57:39,000 Speaker 1: I'm going, here's the Poppa Penguins was filmed here at anyway? Yeah, 1229 00:57:39,000 --> 00:57:41,400 Speaker 1: that's my favorite. Okay, all right, okay, what the world 1230 00:57:41,720 --> 00:57:45,800 Speaker 1: needs more of is kindness. 1231 00:57:46,240 --> 00:57:47,520 Speaker 6: Yeah. 1232 00:57:47,600 --> 00:57:50,880 Speaker 4: Yeah, he feel like he's really beating me in this game. 1233 00:57:51,040 --> 00:57:54,080 Speaker 4: I would say, understanding for one another. Just to understand, 1234 00:57:54,160 --> 00:57:55,960 Speaker 4: and it doesn't have to be your way, just understand 1235 00:57:55,960 --> 00:57:58,640 Speaker 4: other people's perspectives, you know, beautiful. 1236 00:57:58,760 --> 00:58:00,280 Speaker 1: That's the mother check of respond. 1237 00:58:01,440 --> 00:58:06,320 Speaker 2: Yes, last question. One word to describe each other. 1238 00:58:08,360 --> 00:58:14,240 Speaker 4: I would say playful, everything, Okay, he beat me in 1239 00:58:14,280 --> 00:58:24,680 Speaker 4: the game. That's not a competition, is okay. 1240 00:58:22,040 --> 00:58:24,000 Speaker 1: Thank you to thank you, that's great. 1241 00:58:24,440 --> 00:58:31,400 Speaker 6: Thank you.