Speaker 1: We got getting every day day, Adelaides. Look, weddings can
Speaker 1: be so beautiful when your relationships can be absolutely just
Speaker 1: glorious and just heading into the next stage of your life,
Speaker 1: and that is when you become man and wife.
Speaker 2: Yeah, sometimes you can just get caught up, though, can't
Speaker 2: you in the romance of it all.
Speaker 1: The romance of it all, and the mechanics maybe the
Speaker 1: physical mechanics and all those types of things out there.
Speaker 1: As I'll start off with this headline, Graham discovered his
Speaker 1: new bride was actually a man twelve days after they married,
Speaker 1: with police alleging his new wife was scamming him. Take
Speaker 1: twelve days, twelve days. It's a very good question. Twelve days,
Speaker 1: very very good question.
Speaker 2: Being completely oblivious to the fact that your new wife
Speaker 2: is man.
Speaker 1: I just thought she always did a way standing up anyway.
Speaker 1: The Indonesia man known only as Ak, had been dating
Speaker 1: his partner it didn't a Kansas for a year in
Speaker 1: person after meeting online. Yeah, the couple, both twenty six,
Speaker 1: decided to tie not and opted for an intimate ceremony
Speaker 1: at Aka's home in West Java. Oh fancy, after Cans
Speaker 1: had told him she had no family left. Well, we
Speaker 1: can't go to my place CLASSI because I've got no family.
Speaker 1: The newly wed swiftly moved in together as a married couple,
Speaker 1: but it did not take long for the groom to
Speaker 1: grow suspicious of his new wife. I bet little did
Speaker 1: he know his bride was allegedly in the midst of
Speaker 1: a sinister plan to steal his family's assets by pretending
Speaker 1: to be a woman. In reality, Ak's new wife had
Speaker 1: been pretending to be a woman for over a year
Speaker 1: in order to carry out the crime. Kansa reportedly avoided
Speaker 1: intimacy on their wedding night by telling him she did
Speaker 1: not feel well and that she was menstruating. Oh and
Speaker 1: there was no follow up.
Speaker 2: Questions a minute, you say that word in front of
Speaker 2: any man for run a while.
Speaker 1: No more questions than.
Speaker 2: I'm just going to get a bit.
Speaker 1: I'm good, I get it. Thirteen twenty four to ten.
Speaker 1: What did you find out late into the relationship or.
Speaker 2: Did you find out that your new wife was a man?
Speaker 1: One hundred percent?
Speaker 2: I mean, it happens.
Speaker 1: It happens.
Speaker 2: It's a small oversight.
Speaker 1: Oh, clearly this is very very physical situation. But look
Speaker 1: they were together for a year. Yeah, before this happened
Speaker 1: a year and twelve days before my boy Aka found
Speaker 1: out exactly what was going on with his beautiful partner.
Speaker 2: I never never see her slash him naked.
Speaker 1: I don't know clearly they were waiting until perhaps the
Speaker 1: wedding dome. Oh yeah, okay, to get intimate.
Speaker 2: That might have been a thing.
Speaker 1: And then she dropped that absolute hail Mary on her
Speaker 1: part as.
Speaker 2: To why not, I bet I know what you discovered
Speaker 2: about Kara when you married her, just that she's an
Speaker 2: absolutely flawless human being.
Speaker 1: Boom. Also, what did you discover late in the relationship,
Speaker 1: And maybe it was a bit of a game changer,
Speaker 1: because sometimes people hang on to some pretty solid dark secrets.
Speaker 2: Maybe, Yeah, that's true.
Speaker 1: And eventually, as we know jod'es, they will always emerge.
Speaker 2: Yeah, the truth always comes out, doesn't it.
Speaker 1: Do you remember the show there's something about Miriam Oh
Speaker 1: do you remember that? Yes? Remind me again, competing for
Speaker 1: the hand of a lovely, gorgeous young lady. Yes, And
Speaker 1: everyone except the other contestants who were men, knew that
Speaker 1: she was in fact he oh outrageous. You watched it? Yeah, okay, absolutely.
Speaker 1: They got a lot of trouble as well, I think
Speaker 1: the show got sued and all sorts of things. But
Speaker 1: that's something that was found out later on in the relationship,
Speaker 1: that Miriam was actually a man.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know if you can will put together
Speaker 2: a show like that, can you?
Speaker 1: I'm not. In twenty twenty four, Greg Gotti, Yeah, what's
Speaker 1: he got? He's pretty flawless, isn't he.
Speaker 2: I discovered after I married him that he'd broken his
Speaker 2: nose about seven times.
Speaker 1: A monster.
Speaker 2: I probably could have joined the dots on that one.
Speaker 2: Let's go all. It's always juicy when it's Anonymous. Good morning, Hie.
Speaker 2: What did you find out about your husband?
Speaker 3: Well?
Speaker 4: I was together with this person in the twenty eight years,
Speaker 4: had two children, got proposed to wife, but funny got
Speaker 4: an engagement ring, and this year found out through birthday
Speaker 4: marriages that he was still mapping his life. I all
Speaker 4: bugged at him, and he said he couldn't remember. I'm
Speaker 4: going to be one of many lies that has come
Speaker 4: out about him, and yeah, I'm sure I'll hear the rest.
Speaker 4: And no, I'm not with him anymore.
Speaker 1: So Anonymous a continued relationship, so he was it was
Speaker 1: it was it a double relationship, like he was still
Speaker 1: in the relationship with the first wife.
Speaker 4: No, I no, she didn't want anything to do with him,
Speaker 4: and I actually thought they were separated for three years. Yeah, right,
Speaker 4: So I didn't know. I just didn't think. And then
Speaker 4: when I was having bad feelings and yeah, and then
Speaker 4: a lot of lies were happening, I ended up like
Speaker 4: research and binding out.
Speaker 1: Wow.
Speaker 2: I mean, you can forget things like putting the garage
Speaker 2: door down or you know, buying milk. You don't forget
Speaker 2: that you're married, do you.
Speaker 1: Oh, buddy, Oh that's right, I'm married.
Speaker 2: It doesn't really happen, doesn't so much for that call.
Speaker 2: That's incredible, Charife. What did you find out about your
Speaker 2: ex husband that he.
Speaker 5: Had full teeth? Like full sets of benches top and bottom.
Speaker 5: And I found out on our honeymoon. We were on
Speaker 5: a glass bottom boat going out looking at fish, and
Speaker 5: he didn't know that he got seasick. I didn't know
Speaker 5: that he got seasick. And next minute, I've got two
Speaker 5: sets of teeth in my hand. I'm looking at the
Speaker 5: one of the assistants on the boat, going what you know,
Speaker 5: I won't say the other word, And she just said
Speaker 5: what and I went, I didn't know laughing and I
Speaker 5: start laughing, and then we had to put him in
Speaker 5: a zip lock bag. Why did violently vomited over the
Speaker 5: side of the boat for half an hour?
Speaker 1: Here we go?
Speaker 2: Did it change? I mean the sexual attraction?
Speaker 5: Well I always wonder why I had such perfect teeth.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and we got together, but no, it did it.
Speaker 5: But we're no longer married for other reasons. So yeah,
Speaker 5: the tea, the two no much worse.
Speaker 2: Oh, thank you so much for ree Kirsty. Oh my goodness,
Speaker 2: what did you discover?
Speaker 6: I discovered after being with my partner for about six
Speaker 6: months and I was only twenty one and he was
Speaker 6: twenty four. He was actually already married and he had
Speaker 6: three kids.
Speaker 1: Wow.
Speaker 6: I didn't expect that when I was only twenty one.
Speaker 6: It was like immediate family scenario.
Speaker 2: So how did you find out?
Speaker 6: And after I die, I actually ironically found out because
Speaker 6: a girlfriend of mine actually told me she knew that
Speaker 6: knew him through other avenues, and so I actually said
Speaker 6: to him, you would never keep anything from me, would you.
Speaker 6: You would tell me everything about what's going on in
Speaker 6: your life, et cetera. And he came clean in his defense,
Speaker 6: it'd be a hard thing to bring up. By the way,
Speaker 6: I'm still technically married and got three kids under the
Speaker 6: age of five.
Speaker 1: So when you say Chirsty was technically married, like, was
Speaker 1: he seeing his other wife as well? Was he leading? No,
Speaker 1: it wasn't.
Speaker 6: No, it wasn't leading a double life. He just hadn't separated, supposedly.
Speaker 6: Looking back now, I actually wondered whether he had because
Speaker 6: we're divorced and moved on. So but I yeah, basically
Speaker 6: he was still married, but he hadn't actually got divorced yet.
Speaker 6: So yeah, but it was a lot to take on.
Speaker 6: I remember going to the Titanic thing as a family.
Speaker 6: All of a sudden, we've gone in as a family
Speaker 6: past and I was like twenty two years old, thinking,
Speaker 6: my goodness, I'm actually a family now.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so did you And so you guys tried to
Speaker 1: make the relationship work after that, Yeah, yeah, I was.
Speaker 6: Actually we were married for thirteen years after that.
Speaker 2: So he became a step mum.
Speaker 6: I became a step stepmom and yeah immediately, and yeah,
Speaker 6: so I knew the kids from the age of two
Speaker 6: to the age of sixteen in the end, the youngest.
Speaker 6: So yeah, but we divorced in the end. But yeah,
Speaker 6: it was definitely a shock to me at that age
Speaker 6: because it was like all of a sudden being an
Speaker 6: immediate I was married at twenty four with three kids.
Speaker 6: That was very It's a lot.
Speaker 1: It's a lot to all a sudden take on to digest,
Speaker 1: isn't it, with a lot to digest?
Speaker 6: Exactly.
Speaker 2: It wasn't like you came home and said I've got
Speaker 2: a cat.
Speaker 6: Yes, no, no, I could probably live with that. I'm
Speaker 6: not sure I could live with you came home said
Speaker 6: he was actually a girl previously would have been a
Speaker 6: bit weird.
Speaker 1: When you get to that stage, you start thinking yourself
Speaker 1: and like, well, how did I pick up on the clues?
Speaker 1: Were standing up all those types of things.
Speaker 2: Kirstie, thank you, thank you so much for your care.
Speaker 6: Have a great day you too.
Speaker 7: He's what you're waking up to, Adelaide, Sis.
Speaker 2: You just woken up and you're like, oh, so much
Speaker 2: information out there. I cannot drill down on it. We've
Speaker 2: got newsreader Abby to do that for you.
Speaker 8: This morning, apps, Good morning, so as we just discussed
Speaker 8: its budget day, no one's going to care about this
Speaker 8: but me. Let's be honest, and the other newsreaders or
Speaker 8: journos across South Australia. But we've already had heaps of
Speaker 8: pre budget announcements. So basically they're looking at giving two
Speaker 8: and a half million dollars to the health system. So
Speaker 8: obviously we have a very closed health system at the moment.
Speaker 8: We saw elective surgeries cut last week. They're going to
Speaker 8: be putting more money into getting more beds, boosting our
Speaker 8: ambulance services, bringing more all of the ambulance on ambulances
Speaker 8: online when they're driving around as well. There's also forty
Speaker 8: million dollars on law and order. There's two hundred million
Speaker 8: for our prison system, and eighty million dollars has been
Speaker 8: EMUCH for road safety. So they're sort of the things
Speaker 8: we know about. But it will be handed down by
Speaker 8: Treasurer Stephen Mulligan at three o'clock this afternoon.
Speaker 1: I can't wait. Let's see what abs I can't.
Speaker 7: Oh, we having a budget party.
Speaker 8: Actually, I've been in Vie to a lunch at McLaren Vale,
Speaker 8: so I'll be having a wine and having a budget party.
Speaker 2: I've said it before, I say it again. I love
Speaker 2: a man who's good with a spreadsheet, and that's Stephen Mulligan.
Speaker 1: He's very sexy man. Stephen.
Speaker 2: Here, I've said it to his face.
Speaker 1: When he's punching those numbers. You're like, whoa, oh my gosh.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean yeah, but.
Speaker 1: The things you can do with those numbers in.
Speaker 8: My right lads, Yes, a spreadsheet and being good with numbers.
Speaker 2: It's a beautiful thing.
Speaker 7: That's what I'm looking for in the future. Husband.
Speaker 2: Did you just say breathly, oh, Stephen, Yeah, Well I
Speaker 2: get it.
Speaker 1: I get it. The whole number thing. On the flip
Speaker 1: side of that is, I don't. I don't think I
Speaker 1: know my ones and two times tables.
Speaker 2: Well, it doesn't surprise me. Also on the flip side,
Speaker 2: the one time table. Can you not control the spreadsheet?
Speaker 2: You can't even control your own budget. Your wife has
Speaker 2: to math it manage your money for you.
Speaker 1: Yes, she's not sexy, she's my Stephen Mulligan.
Speaker 7: Well, moving on, Joe's what you got for us?
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 2: So, alleged bicycle band banded Robert and terminal cancer patient
Speaker 2: Kim Alan Parsons has been a proof of voluntary assisted dying,
Speaker 2: so he's obviously going to die of cancer. It's been
Speaker 2: alleged that he committed all these bank robberies back in
Speaker 2: the day it was probably I don't know, desinerator.
Speaker 7: On Yeah, and it was in the two thousands.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Yeah, So he's going to die of cancer. He won't
Speaker 2: face trial for another eight months, but he is in
Speaker 2: possession of his voluntary assisted dying kit and has approval
Speaker 2: to make use of it. So what do you think
Speaker 2: about that, someone who can take their own life before
Speaker 2: they face the music for what they've allegedly done.
Speaker 8: Don't agree with it, obviously, But also then in eight
Speaker 8: months time, if he's got terminal cancer, will he be
Speaker 8: even able to get himself into court to stand trial
Speaker 8: in eight months time? Yeah, it's a good point, like
Speaker 8: if he's so sick that they can't get him there.
Speaker 2: But also so I mean, is it a waste of
Speaker 2: money just to then have the drill convictim you're going
Speaker 2: to jail and then he dies anyway?
Speaker 1: Yeah? It a bike?
Speaker 8: Was he using a pushbike? A pushbike? He would go
Speaker 8: to all the little banks. I think Madam got hit.
Speaker 8: I'm pretty sure, oh my god, And they're all little
Speaker 8: banks and he would go in, he would get the
Speaker 8: money and he would go off on a pushbike.
Speaker 7: I'm not kidding you. You're looking at me like I'm lying, but.
Speaker 1: It doesn't seem real, doesn't it. I keep on getting
Speaker 1: away with that.
Speaker 2: I love that. That's where your brain goes. So we're
Speaker 2: having this real intense conversation about the morals around being
Speaker 2: able to take your own life when you've committed crimes
Speaker 2: and you're like a mat.
Speaker 1: I just wanted to knuckle down on the small things
Speaker 1: before we build after the large things like that. Actually
Speaker 1: posted snooze news, Joe. It's part of a nice little
Speaker 1: fraternity at the minute.
Speaker 2: Oh are you yeah?
Speaker 1: It's called the Push Up Challenge. Have you heard of this?
Speaker 2: I have no.
Speaker 1: Okay, it's probably time to recruit you. For those who
Speaker 1: are like, what are you talking about?
Speaker 4: You?
Speaker 1: You absolute filthy idiot. Well, the Push Up Challenge is
Speaker 1: a free mental health and fitness event focused on pushing
Speaker 1: for better mental health for all Australians. Participants complete this
Speaker 1: is the Kicker Okay, three two hundred and forty nine
Speaker 1: push ups or alternative exercises over twenty four days, representing
Speaker 1: the three thy two hundred and forty nine lives lost
Speaker 1: to suicide in Australia in twenty twenty two.
Speaker 2: Well, I applaud this cause and you jumping on board.
Speaker 1: That's amazing, Thank you for those boards. This is good fun.
Speaker 1: So what you can do as well is and I'm
Speaker 1: involved in a team at Channel seven okay, So basically
Speaker 1: you can keep yourself accountable. They set you targets each
Speaker 1: and every day. It started yesterday we had about fifty
Speaker 1: push ups. Through today it's about one hundred and ten.
Speaker 7: Okay.
Speaker 1: Also, you can choose the particular charity that focuses on
Speaker 1: mental health and just get your mates evolved. Do something
Speaker 1: that's active, but also and most importantly, raise a conversation,
Speaker 1: beautiful start talking and as we know Jodes, for blokes,
Speaker 1: that is just sometimes near impossible.
Speaker 2: And I know you've had friends affected by mental health here.
Speaker 1: I've been affected by mental health as well. Do you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying in my little fella as well? Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's one step to say to blokes, hey, you feel
Speaker 1: comfortable enough to open up, But I think blokes can
Speaker 1: still feel comfortable to open up and still not open up. Yeah,
Speaker 1: my boys six, and you can sort of half tell
Speaker 1: if something's happened at school, something's going on. Yeah, And
Speaker 1: even then getting information out of him when he doesn't
Speaker 1: want to talk almost impossible. My wife said to me
Speaker 1: the other day, what's going on? Because I was quite flat.
Speaker 1: She has what's going on? I was like nothing, everything's fine,
Speaker 1: and she said, are you going to talk to me?
Speaker 1: Or are we have to wait till you've had two
Speaker 1: beers and all of a sudden you unload for an
Speaker 1: hour and a half. Yeah, oh, cheers. I don't want
Speaker 1: to be that guy. Yeah, that just sort of bottles
Speaker 1: stuff up and then all of a sudden, because that's
Speaker 1: what blokes do. We bottle stuff up. You guys do
Speaker 1: it Potentially you leave it until it's in a dangerous situation.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I mean I've noticed that with you, with
Speaker 2: my husband, with most men that I've ever dealt with,
Speaker 2: you just don't talk about your feelings, no.
Speaker 1: Because I don't know if if it's something that we
Speaker 1: grew up with, Like it's just it sounds ridiculous to say,
Speaker 1: but not manly to talk about it. How are you feeling?
Speaker 1: Particularly back in the day, blokes aren't supposed to feel
Speaker 1: anything else, but much so and strong versus now. Obviously
Speaker 1: it could save lives if you talk about how you're feeling,
Speaker 1: and that's what this is all about. But it's just
Speaker 1: incredible for me in my lifetime to see how much
Speaker 1: things have swung from that ridiculous stereotype. So hopefully, and
Speaker 1: we're not there yet, and who knows, we might not
Speaker 1: ever get there, but we're trying to get to this
Speaker 1: place where it is completely normal and understandable and absolutely
Speaker 1: healthy to talk about your feelings each and every day.
Speaker 2: Well, I love that you're working in this space and
Speaker 2: taking on this challenge.
Speaker 1: How many three two hundred and forty nine projects? And
Speaker 1: guess why we need some recruits because you get yourself
Speaker 1: involved in a team, you keep yourself accountable with blokes
Speaker 1: as well. That's how we communicate sometimes it needs to
Speaker 1: be to do giving things together, and particularly physical things together.
Speaker 1: All of a sudden, you're doing it, You've done your
Speaker 1: push ups, and you start to having a conversation. It
Speaker 1: could be as much as hey, just while we're here,
Speaker 1: how are you going?
Speaker 2: Well, I am more than happy to jump on board.
Speaker 1: You're board, Yeah, there she is.
Speaker 2: I'll do it. I mean I've got burst sitis in
Speaker 2: my shoulder, that's fine.
Speaker 1: Well, one arm push ups then.
Speaker 2: And just so you know, this is a very safe
Speaker 2: space and if you ever need to talk, then produce
Speaker 2: is all is.
Speaker 1: Thank you so much. Em okay, Joe. So it was
Speaker 1: fifty two push ups yesterday, today's about one hundred and ten.
Speaker 1: So we'll start right now. You oh da da da
Speaker 1: da one hundred and sixty two push ups and also
Speaker 1: none of this push ups on your knee crap, all right,
Speaker 1: I'm not doing it.
Speaker 2: I can't. No, I can't do three thousand push ups
Speaker 2: on my toes. I will do it on my knees
Speaker 2: or nothing else.
Speaker 1: All right, that's fine, we'll take that. We'll take that.
Speaker 1: If you want to get involved as well, just google
Speaker 1: the push Up Challenge. It's all there, all the information
Speaker 1: you need, and then it will direct you to download
Speaker 1: the app and you go from there. You can do
Speaker 1: it by yourself as well. You don't have to join
Speaker 1: a team, yep, but just know you don't have to
Speaker 1: directly make a donation as well. You can help make donations,
Speaker 1: but it's more so just being part of what he
Speaker 1: is hopefully a really really positive movement for the next
Speaker 1: few days.
Speaker 2: Well done to you, my friend.
Speaker 1: Thank you very much. Jades. Jades, we've both got youngsters
Speaker 1: and boy Boie. When they start putting their sentences together,
Speaker 1: it can be really dangerous, do you know what I mean?
Speaker 2: It can be a lot. Yeah.
Speaker 1: They seem to pick up at all sorts of words
Speaker 1: that you say, even if you say it once or
Speaker 1: twice and all so the same back or two and
Speaker 1: you're like, wow, that's wildly offensive.
Speaker 2: Yeah. Toddlers are like little psychotic parrots, aren't they.
Speaker 1: Yeah, And even from like three to six and onwards.
Speaker 1: My six year old caught my wife the other day
Speaker 1: at DH not aggressive.
Speaker 7: That's a lot.
Speaker 1: I'm not sure that she ever deserves that. And also
Speaker 1: my three year old Lotti called my wife a psycho
Speaker 1: as well, get away from me, your psycho. But there's
Speaker 1: one tactic that we use, and I don't know if
Speaker 1: you do this as well. Yeah, there's one tactic we use.
Speaker 1: But for whatever reason, and my kids might be the
Speaker 1: car right now listening to it. So car, I just
Speaker 1: flicked the flicking onto Spotify just for a second. The
Speaker 1: count h when you want something? Yeah, the count Yep,
Speaker 1: I'm going to count to five.
Speaker 2: Well it's three in our house, is it?
Speaker 1: The patience?
Speaker 2: No? No, I am going to count to three. And
Speaker 2: I hear myself say it, and I'm like, I don't
Speaker 2: know what happens when I get to I.
Speaker 1: Feel like we'd be the same thing as I wouldn't
Speaker 1: know what to do. I'm sure my wife Kara has
Speaker 1: a nice little backup plan, but we wouldn't know what
Speaker 1: to do. We've got a bit of a no car
Speaker 1: the other day. Yeah, so our three year old, who
Speaker 1: is really really aggressive when she gets into a space
Speaker 1: where she wants something, she's very fierce, she's very determined.
Speaker 1: She wasn't getting what she wanted. Probably something like ice
Speaker 1: cream at six in the morning. Yeah, who knows.
Speaker 2: That's a reasonable request.
Speaker 1: Probably something maybe on your birthday, but not when every
Speaker 1: day is your birthday. That's in the head of a
Speaker 1: little lottie.
Speaker 2: Yes.
Speaker 1: She took out the card and reversed them in the
Speaker 1: car and said, I want this. No not having I
Speaker 1: want this, you know, not having it, she said. Mum,
Speaker 1: looked in the face, grabbed by the chin and said,
Speaker 1: I'm going to count to five. It's not a three
Speaker 1: year old threatening you, looking at you in the eye
Speaker 1: and saying that's it. I'm going to count to five.
Speaker 1: Said she got to three. Yeah, and cars and tears laughing. Yeah,
Speaker 1: before she went down a different that's not going to happen.
Speaker 2: I showed you a meme yesterday and we both cracked
Speaker 2: up laughing because it's so true. It's like, why am
Speaker 2: I arguing with you? You can't even put your shoes
Speaker 2: on the right.
Speaker 1: I want to get my point across to you, and like,
Speaker 1: hang on, you're wearing You're wearing your shoe as a hat.
Speaker 1: Two people who I mean, think of the most hate
Speaker 1: field space that you possibly couldn't that's us, your mad
Speaker 1: just cruise around in that space.
Speaker 2: Normally we're mates. But I see these eyes looking at
Speaker 2: you with absolute disdain and disgust right now.
Speaker 1: Yeah, one of them's not even can ap me. So
Speaker 1: we're looking off into a different direction.
Speaker 2: I'm not angry.
Speaker 1: You got a dicky pupil there.
Speaker 2: So this is out roles. We have a theme each
Speaker 2: and every week. This theme is guilty Pleasures. So those
Speaker 2: songs that you probably shouldn't like, but you really really do.
Speaker 2: Should I say thongs?
Speaker 1: We're talking songs or thongs and what sort of songs
Speaker 1: we're talking about?
Speaker 2: Leave that to your imagination. So do you want me
Speaker 2: to go first?
Speaker 1: Yes? Please?
Speaker 2: Okay? So Mine is a debut single by American rapper
Speaker 2: Vanilla Ice Kay Kennedy and DJ Earthquake and honestly, Kay
Speaker 2: Kennedy and DJ Earthquake do not get enough credit in
Speaker 2: this space. And it samples the baseline of the song
Speaker 2: under Pressure by Queen.
Speaker 1: Did you did know that? Actually?
Speaker 2: Hit me with a bit of ice?
Speaker 7: Ice baby?
Speaker 1: Please? Thanks? This is your guilty pleasure songs?
Speaker 2: Why haven't we got any lyrics? There's want to Singapore?
Speaker 1: Yeah, go for now, now that the party is pumped, all.
Speaker 2: Right, s up, elaborate.
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, you are selling it so poorly.
Speaker 7: I thought it was the start.
Speaker 1: Is that really?
Speaker 9: Really?
Speaker 1: No your product?
Speaker 2: Don't you?
Speaker 9: All right?
Speaker 1: So Vanilla I sup against the one and only, the
Speaker 1: beautiful Natasha Beddingfield. No one else can.
Speaker 7: Feel it for you.
Speaker 1: Only you can lead it no one else, no one
Speaker 1: else can see the words on your lips, Jody yourself?
Speaker 1: Do you know the words of this?
Speaker 2: Honestly?
Speaker 7: You can stolen from? I think we'll documented and I
Speaker 7: love this song.
Speaker 2: Relm you sample for I did not like Vanilla Ice
Speaker 2: sampled Queen?
Speaker 1: Did I sample this from? Jody? I don't think you're
Speaker 1: on the credits here for this one?
Speaker 2: Yeah? Right, okay, okay, that's interesting. Get voting everybody on
Speaker 2: the Jody and Hazy Instagram age please or the song
Speaker 2: that you want to hear tomorrow morning, right about this time?
Speaker 1: All right, spe Natasha Beddingfield, it's going to be It
Speaker 1: feels like it's going to be a close race. It
Speaker 1: is eleven to seven in my favor in saying that
Speaker 1: you're on a bit of a hot streak.
Speaker 2: And just so you know, that's a very feminine song
Speaker 2: that you love there.
Speaker 1: I know it is my guilty pleasure song. I'm probably
Speaker 1: not supposed to like songs like this. No, it just
Speaker 1: gets me up in the bed, you know.
Speaker 2: Yeah, all right, whatever, fletch your boat.
Speaker 1: All right, get voting, Like you said, winning song will
Speaker 1: be announce tomorrow morning at eight. My really picture, it.
Speaker 7: Is so time for a let's go girl.
Speaker 2: Yes, this is where we download on all the stuff
Speaker 2: that's really annoying us women during the week, Abby from
Speaker 2: the newsroom. That would be everything for you. Correct, Yep,
Speaker 2: producers are.
Speaker 10: Eaten, not so annoyed this week.
Speaker 2: I'm all right, yeah, okay, all right, okay, let's get
Speaker 2: into it.
Speaker 7: Yeah.
Speaker 8: So this is something that I have spoken I haven't
Speaker 8: really spoken to you guys about, but I've been talking
Speaker 8: amongst friends about and basically a good friend of mine.
Speaker 8: She is single, she hasn't found her person yet, and
Speaker 8: she is having tests to basically become a mum.
Speaker 7: She's gonna do it on her own, single mum right now.
Speaker 8: Every time, my sister has brought this up twice with
Speaker 8: me and said, why don't you look at freezing your eggs.
Speaker 8: I'm thirty four, haven't found the one, haven't found who
Speaker 8: I'm going to settle down with. And it's funny because
Speaker 8: every time, well the two times that she's brought it up,
Speaker 8: I get tiary and I can't talk about it. And
Speaker 8: I think it's because at thirty four, you sort of go.
Speaker 8: I thought that I would be married. I thought that,
Speaker 8: you know, at least i'd be married. I thought that
Speaker 8: I would have maybe had a kid by now, et cetera,
Speaker 8: et cetera.
Speaker 7: Anyway, do you feel pressure on that front?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 8: I think I do a little bit, because I think
Speaker 8: we're sold this dream as children that when you grow up,
Speaker 8: you meet your person, you go and have your own family,
Speaker 8: things like that, and I think that as much as
Speaker 8: I go, you know, hats off to the women who
Speaker 8: do it and who are single parents will go and
Speaker 8: do it themselves. But for me, and I've spoken about
Speaker 8: it before, mentally, I don't think I'm strong enough to
Speaker 8: bring a child into this world on my own. I've
Speaker 8: got such an amazing support network, I really really do,
Speaker 8: and I know that they would be there for me.
Speaker 8: But also I think you look and you go, I
Speaker 8: want to bring my kids up in a family unit. Yeah,
Speaker 8: but today, yeah, I just sort of thought i'd love
Speaker 8: to hear from people thirteen twenty four to ten. Have
Speaker 8: you done this? Have you frozen your eggs? Have you
Speaker 8: gone down the path of having kids on your own?
Speaker 8: Are you thinking about it?
Speaker 11: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Well two things here. Firstly, you can do it. You're
Speaker 2: You're one of the strongest people I know, and you're
Speaker 2: really fierce, and if you want to have a baby
Speaker 2: on your own, then I have no doubts in my
Speaker 2: mind that that's absolutely what you can do. And secondly,
Speaker 2: this is so common now. I know of so much
Speaker 2: many people that are just going, well, you know what,
Speaker 2: I haven't found the night in shining Armor. I haven't
Speaker 2: found that guy that we're sold as little girls. So
Speaker 2: I'm just going to do this by myself because I
Speaker 2: want children. Yeah, So yeah, it's a really interesting conversation.
Speaker 2: We'd love to hear from anyone who's gone down this
Speaker 2: path or anyone who's contemplating at thirteen twenty four ten
Speaker 2: gives a call.
Speaker 1: The other thing to talk about as well, is I
Speaker 1: think blokes to do it as well. You have a
Speaker 1: timeline in your head, have we you think things are
Speaker 1: supposed to be. And I would say maybe ninety percent
Speaker 1: it doesn't add up, whether it's like Mark twenty five,
Speaker 1: I should be doing this and by thirty I should
Speaker 1: be married by this, so I should be having this.
Speaker 1: And then I don't think you do it on purpose
Speaker 1: as well. And when it doesn't add up, maybe you
Speaker 1: feel like you're failing. Yeah, but you're definitely not. Definitely
Speaker 1: just got different journeys.
Speaker 7: It's funny because you know, I'm thirty four.
Speaker 8: I'm so old, and I have that mentality and that's
Speaker 8: not a good thing to think of. And then you
Speaker 8: speak to women who are in their forties and they all, oh,
Speaker 8: you're such a baby, you're you know, you're so young,
Speaker 8: and there's me going, oh my god, I'm thirty four.
Speaker 7: Life's over and it's not. It's not at all.
Speaker 2: I had my last child at forty four. So you know,
Speaker 2: you just never know what's around the corner. But I
Speaker 2: will say this life's not linear. Life isn't a carbon
Speaker 2: copy of that dream that we're sold. So you don't
Speaker 2: know what's around the corner for you. But if you
Speaker 2: want to pursue this path, I know you can do it. Yeah,
Speaker 2: thirteen twenty four ten. We'd love you to join the
Speaker 2: conversation this morning. Are you taking your own reproduction into
Speaker 2: your own hands? Daisy?
Speaker 7: Good morning?
Speaker 2: Firstly, are you offended by being called a single mom?
Speaker 12: No, okay at all. I've been a single mother for
Speaker 12: nineteen years, right, okay, and it's time I got married
Speaker 12: and I had a house. I bought a house first,
Speaker 12: and I met a man. I got married, and then
Speaker 12: we had two beautiful children. It didn't work, and then
Speaker 12: later on I had another option to have a child.
Speaker 12: I was a single mom with the second child. My
Speaker 12: oldest is twenty and my youngest is coming to like fifteen.
Speaker 12: And from my opinion, the children need both males and females,
Speaker 12: or you know, we're in a different you know, gender
Speaker 12: is a bit of an interesting word, but you know,
Speaker 12: I from my opinion, they have absence from having you know,
Speaker 12: fathers or mothers in their lives.
Speaker 2: So if you had your time again, you would do
Speaker 2: it differently, Stacey.
Speaker 12: Absolutely, for sure, definitely, yeah. I believe that the child
Speaker 12: should stay in a house and the parents.
Speaker 1: Should move out. Wow for the child.
Speaker 12: Absolutely yeah, yeah, yeah. It's not about the adults at
Speaker 12: this point when you're when you're a mother, it's all
Speaker 12: about the children. And I think that people have got
Speaker 12: it wrong. I really feel that even the systems that
Speaker 12: we have in the government, we've got it wrong. That
Speaker 12: the children need to have that stability of their own
Speaker 12: comforts and they should never be ripped away from any
Speaker 12: of that. They should just have the parents should, you know, say,
Speaker 12: if they're not parenting properly, for instance, they should be
Speaker 12: people should come into their house and the children should
Speaker 12: stay there, and then the parents should leave, do some
Speaker 12: training and come back.
Speaker 2: Okay, thank you, Stacy, Thank you so much for your call.
Speaker 2: Really appreciate it.
Speaker 7: Good morning, Carly, Good morning.
Speaker 11: I just wanted to give you, like a little bit
Speaker 11: of peace of mind because I mean, I understand the
Speaker 11: pressure from social media and I guess society is to
Speaker 11: have kids, you know, in your twenties late twenties, but
Speaker 11: I didn't meet my person until I was thirty two,
Speaker 11: and I'm thirty four hours well and we're only just
Speaker 11: starting to cry for a baby. And I think it's
Speaker 11: pretty accepted these days. And it's also pretty normal to
Speaker 11: have babies a little bit later in life, so you know,
Speaker 11: don't be upset about it. I had a bit of
Speaker 11: a cry like when you started to talk about it,
Speaker 11: because I was like, oh, I feel you, but it's
Speaker 11: going to be okay, Like it's going to happen for
Speaker 11: you whichever way you too, I think, So, yeah, don't
Speaker 11: gress about it.
Speaker 8: Yeah, it's so normal obviously, you know, women having babies
Speaker 8: later in life, it's so so normal.
Speaker 7: You just have to be everything.
Speaker 1: Yeah, forty four, Yeah.
Speaker 2: That was twenty four. I reckon Sonya Krueger was maybe
Speaker 2: forty eight, if not fifty. Yeah, when she had her child. Yeah,
Speaker 2: it's definitely happening later. Yeah, definitely.
Speaker 1: Thank you very much for the call.
Speaker 3: Carly, Hey Ellen, morning, guys.
Speaker 5: How are you going.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we're good. Thank you. You're on your own with kids.
Speaker 3: Yes, so you're only going to get words of encouragement
Speaker 3: from me. My eldest is nineteen, so I have three
Speaker 3: children on the spectrum. My eldest is nineteen. I've done
Speaker 3: all three.
Speaker 1: On my own.
Speaker 3: I did have children young, though, but when my eldest
Speaker 3: was born, I was on my own. It was just
Speaker 3: with my mum was with me in the delivery room.
Speaker 3: He finished high school last year and has now moved
Speaker 3: overseas to for his dream job. For me, I don't
Speaker 3: necessarily believe you need both a mother and a father to,
Speaker 3: you know, for bringing up children. If you have a
Speaker 3: great support system in place, and you suppose you already
Speaker 3: know that you're going to do it on your own,
Speaker 3: I think you'll be fine.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a good point.
Speaker 3: He can still be fine. My son's he's flourishing, like
Speaker 3: he was top twelve for his ATAH last year. He's over,
Speaker 3: he's halfway around the world, dream job, no UNI, nothing,
Speaker 3: And I think that was he had that support system,
Speaker 3: not only with myself and my family but at school
Speaker 3: as well, which really helps. But us women, we can
Speaker 3: do anything when we put our minds to it. And
Speaker 3: you'll get days. You'll get days where you're like, oh,
Speaker 3: you know what, I can't do this anymore.
Speaker 5: I can't do it on my own.
Speaker 2: Yep.
Speaker 3: But you just brush yourself up, pick yourself up and
Speaker 3: just keep going. So you've got this.
Speaker 2: That's really nice, and that's a really important point she
Speaker 2: makes as well. You've got a great family support system.
Speaker 2: And also Tanking Tory too, so.
Speaker 1: Very very loud at times, but that's always very positive.
Speaker 9: That.
Speaker 8: Yeah, and let's be honest, I've kept Tank live for
Speaker 8: nine years, so yeah, surely maybe it's not that hard.
Speaker 2: That's true. Tank's being through some stuff as a Tank
Speaker 2: or Tory that got hit by the car and then
Speaker 2: in and then couldn't walk. Yeah, produce, I called you
Speaker 2: Newsy producers. You've got thoughts on their thing.
Speaker 1: Yeah, a little bit.
Speaker 10: I'm only twenty five from that bit younger that kids
Speaker 10: aren't on the radar for me just yet. But for me,
Speaker 10: I've made up my mind that I don't want children
Speaker 10: unless I fall in love with someone who would really
Speaker 10: like children, and then I think it would be nice
Speaker 10: to create something with them. So for me, I wouldn't
Speaker 10: even consider freezing my eggs because I know I wouldn't
Speaker 10: do it alone. Having said that, it's not because I
Speaker 10: don't think I could or that people shouldn't. I was
Speaker 10: raised by a single mum, and you absolutely don't need
Speaker 10: a dad in your life one hundred percent or the
Speaker 10: two parents, so you can totally do it, Abs, just personally,
Speaker 10: I just wouldn't.
Speaker 2: What makes you so adamant that you don't want kids?
Speaker 10: That's partly selfish. I want to live my life for me.
Speaker 10: I watched my mum give up her entire life for me,
Speaker 10: and I'm grateful for it. But I don't want to
Speaker 10: do that for someone else, which is selfish, but it's
Speaker 10: just the way it is.
Speaker 1: And yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 10: I've just I'm not sure that I have the capacity
Speaker 10: to raise someone else.
Speaker 2: You've spent some time with Lotty Hayes. Haven't you hung
Speaker 2: out with Lotty Hayes once?
Speaker 1: And it was over? She sucks a.
Speaker 2: Beautifully though.
Speaker 1: Yeah, when you look back at it after a couple
Speaker 1: of shar days, for sure. I can continue the conversations
Speaker 1: well via text for nine nine nine my nine. But
Speaker 1: everybody called through this morning, thank you so much and
Speaker 1: well done. It's really really good opinions and some very
Speaker 1: very nice words. Abby.
Speaker 7: Yeah, thanks for everyone who called in and commented. I
Speaker 7: appreciate it.
Speaker 2: Not easy to be vulnerable on the radio like that.
Speaker 7: So appreciative. Tears yet so that's good.
Speaker 1: I'll break you up. I'm worryin Joe's right now. Are
Speaker 1: we in this absolute beautiful little sweet spot of AFL
Speaker 1: and AFL skits and AFL humor on social media? And
Speaker 1: you know, we've spoken to the Kicker Forward podcast guys
Speaker 1: and some other guys getting around called anything is Content.
Speaker 1: But maybe at the top of the tree are the
Speaker 1: boys from Marmalade. If you've seen this, this is the
Speaker 1: Div twelve Resis right, So I reckon these guys connect
Speaker 1: with everyone so well, is because it feels like they're
Speaker 1: one of us. Yeah right, you know what I mean,
Speaker 1: Like we get obsessed with all these AFL players, but
Speaker 1: they're just on different planets. Yeah, the Div twelve RESI boys.
Speaker 1: You look at these guys and go, you know what,
Speaker 1: that could be me. That could be me just running
Speaker 1: out there, not quite as athletic as some of the
Speaker 1: other guys and drinking chocy milk. That's what it's all about.
Speaker 2: I didn't realize it went as low as Div twelve.
Speaker 1: Who knew who knew? All athletes in their own capacity,
Speaker 1: and here we are. I would say that their captain
Speaker 1: one is a young man, a fearless young beautiful man
Speaker 1: by the name of Checkers and he joins the scared
Speaker 1: a Checkers. Good morning to.
Speaker 13: You, Cheers for having me. It's good to be on.
Speaker 13: I heard you giving us the rabot just then I
Speaker 13: was thinking, there's never been a hamstring done in the
Speaker 13: twelve has a spot for you?
Speaker 1: Oh jeez, I wish made, but I'm at least eight
Speaker 1: to twelve weeks. Hey, tell us what's happening tomorrow nights
Speaker 1: at Arghana Park, which of course is a beautiful spot
Speaker 1: where the Elizabeth Eagles play their home games.
Speaker 13: Yeah, so myself and Trey, who sort of do the
Speaker 13: content under Marmalade, are going back to our junior footy
Speaker 13: clubs tomorrow night. So I'm lock this footy club and
Speaker 13: trays as Elizabeth, which is obviously where you went out
Speaker 13: the other week and kicked the beautiful snag. And we're
Speaker 13: playing against each other in a bit of an exhibition
Speaker 13: match for the long weekend, so hopefully get a few,
Speaker 13: a bit of a crowd down Elizabeth, brings some fans
Speaker 13: back to local footy and back to Elizabeth and try
Speaker 13: try to do one better than you did. Not do
Speaker 13: any injuries.
Speaker 2: I'm just looking at one of your videos. You're walking
Speaker 2: into the Adelaide Oval and the headline is normalized wearing
Speaker 2: full you and your mates on the hill with the
Speaker 2: adelege kidd on it with a lucky sponsor.
Speaker 10: On the back.
Speaker 13: Yeah, we just played a game across the road at
Speaker 13: Uni Parkland, so we thought we don't really want to
Speaker 13: miss out on the He was a Crows game. Everyone
Speaker 13: missed out on the footy at so he just walked
Speaker 13: straight across after the game about really icing up or anything,
Speaker 13: and then we had to double us up later that.
Speaker 2: You've got your boots on for goodness.
Speaker 13: The ankles were quite solid on that day.
Speaker 1: That We love your stuff mates and for those at
Speaker 1: home on social media, follow these guys at Marmalade made
Speaker 1: to tell us the game in particular, she's got some
Speaker 1: big names locked in fits my night.
Speaker 13: Yeah, I'll give you one preshure off the prayers. There
Speaker 13: hasn't been announcedtairs going to announced bay today, but Tommy
Speaker 13: Jonas is going to be ping on.
Speaker 1: The first very nice, i'd imagine as well. The TJ
Speaker 1: is still in very.
Speaker 13: Good Nick's Yeah, it's fresh off, fresh off being a
Speaker 13: captain of the AFL club. Really coming down to the
Speaker 13: lowest did, which is a strange four from Grace unfortunately
Speaker 13: for TJ. But you go, Johnny Plant is going to
Speaker 13: come back out. So it was a bit. We got
Speaker 13: Bernie Beard's Daniel Modlot play of social media content creators
Speaker 13: like Cada McDonald and the Chef Mats Prime Train. But yeah,
Speaker 13: it should be a couple of thousand people down Elizabeth,
Speaker 13: and it should be a great night of family fun.
Speaker 13: I know there's gonna be a lot of chocolate milk
Speaker 13: candid out, so I think they're looking at about four
Speaker 13: thousand free cardens to be handed out of chocolate milk,
Speaker 13: so Elizabeth will be swimming in chocolate milk by then.
Speaker 2: And I reckon, well, we absolutely adore what you're doing
Speaker 2: right now. Thank you so much for taking the time
Speaker 2: to have a chat with us this morning.
Speaker 1: No, thank you so much. Guys.
Speaker 13: Hopefully say down there, hazy, weave it. If you're on crutches,
Speaker 13: we'll try. I'll try and fed your hand ups beautiful.
Speaker 1: Thanks check six thirty tomorrow night at Agana Park. It
Speaker 1: is the Elizabeth Eagles taking on the Lockley Demons. What
Speaker 1: an absolute showcase. It's going to be good on your check.
Speaker 13: As we love you, Thank you.
Speaker 2: Hey, I'm going to tell you something super exciting. Well
Speaker 2: it is for me anyway. But this morning at my
Speaker 2: coffee shop, which is on the corner of my street,
Speaker 2: it's called Nathaniel's. Big shout out to Nathaniel, who is
Speaker 2: an absolute legend. Remember when my daughter locked herself out
Speaker 2: of the house and she had to go down to
Speaker 2: Nathaniels and they helped her same coffe shop anyway, Well,
Speaker 2: there's not a chain of Nathaniels, but guess he was
Speaker 2: in there this morning.
Speaker 1: Are we talking? You said, you said it's someone more
Speaker 1: important than chasing on.
Speaker 2: Francis bloody elbow.
Speaker 1: Did you think you were going to say that, out
Speaker 1: of all the people the Prime Minister arguably the most
Speaker 1: important person in the country.
Speaker 2: The Prime Minister was at my coffee shop, was not
Speaker 2: mine's Nathaniels technically, how cool is that?
Speaker 1: It is? Yeah, I'm not sure how you would handle
Speaker 1: yourself if you bumped into Albo at your local coffee store.
Speaker 2: Yeah. And you know how I know this to be
Speaker 2: true because he went on five doup lay upstairs and
Speaker 2: said this.
Speaker 9: Gone, good morning, great to be back in Adelaide this morning.
Speaker 9: I've been in a little coffee shop, Nathaniels, which is
Speaker 9: terrific in in Saint Peter's where we've launched our candidate
Speaker 9: for Stir.
Speaker 1: There you go excites me?
Speaker 4: No end.
Speaker 1: I just wonder. I just wonder. Next time you get
Speaker 1: to Nathaniels, you need to work out if Thaniel did
Speaker 1: the right thing and if Nathaniel's part of a different generation.
Speaker 1: Did Nathaniel grab the Prime Minister and say can we
Speaker 1: just get a quick photo? Did we get just for
Speaker 1: the wall and just for our social media?
Speaker 2: He's very unassuming and lovely Nathaniel. I don't think he'd
Speaker 2: be that forward. But the Prime Minister's people had to
Speaker 2: come in beforehand and can you see how excited I am?
Speaker 2: And sweep the coffee shop and make sure that there
Speaker 2: was no one sinister in there. So they had to
Speaker 2: get security to go through.
Speaker 1: What do I sweeping for?
Speaker 2: Oh no, I don't know. Nothing's going to happen.
Speaker 1: Can you do as a favor? Can you do us
Speaker 1: a favor? And you'll probably go Nathaniels today this is
Speaker 1: probably private information. Can you please find out what he ordered?
Speaker 2: Oh?
Speaker 1: Yeah, because I'm telling you right now. If the Prime
Speaker 1: Minister says I'll have a coffee, get us a hot chocolate,
Speaker 1: then it's off.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Okay, I'm not sure that we can be led fearlessly
Speaker 1: by a hot chocolate by someone who drinks a hot chocolate.
Speaker 2: With the marshmallow. I wonder if he charged him to.
Speaker 2: That's the other question.
Speaker 1: Ask a good question.