WEBVTT - What Did You Find Out Late In the Relationship?

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<v Speaker 1>We got getting every day day, Adelaides. Look, weddings can

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<v Speaker 1>be so beautiful when your relationships can be absolutely just

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<v Speaker 1>glorious and just heading into the next stage of your life,

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<v Speaker 1>and that is when you become man and wife.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, sometimes you can just get caught up, though, can't

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<v Speaker 2>you in the romance of it all.

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<v Speaker 1>The romance of it all, and the mechanics maybe the

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<v Speaker 1>physical mechanics and all those types of things out there.

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<v Speaker 1>As I'll start off with this headline, Graham discovered his

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<v Speaker 1>new bride was actually a man twelve days after they married,

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<v Speaker 1>with police alleging his new wife was scamming him. Take

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<v Speaker 1>twelve days, twelve days. It's a very good question. Twelve days,

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<v Speaker 1>very very good question.

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<v Speaker 2>Being completely oblivious to the fact that your new wife

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<v Speaker 2>is man.

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<v Speaker 1>I just thought she always did a way standing up anyway.

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<v Speaker 1>The Indonesia man known only as Ak, had been dating

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<v Speaker 1>his partner it didn't a Kansas for a year in

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<v Speaker 1>person after meeting online. Yeah, the couple, both twenty six,

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<v Speaker 1>decided to tie not and opted for an intimate ceremony

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<v Speaker 1>at Aka's home in West Java. Oh fancy, after Cans

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<v Speaker 1>had told him she had no family left. Well, we

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<v Speaker 1>can't go to my place CLASSI because I've got no family.

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<v Speaker 1>The newly wed swiftly moved in together as a married couple,

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<v Speaker 1>but it did not take long for the groom to

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<v Speaker 1>grow suspicious of his new wife. I bet little did

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<v Speaker 1>he know his bride was allegedly in the midst of

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<v Speaker 1>a sinister plan to steal his family's assets by pretending

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<v Speaker 1>to be a woman. In reality, Ak's new wife had

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<v Speaker 1>been pretending to be a woman for over a year

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<v Speaker 1>in order to carry out the crime. Kansa reportedly avoided

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<v Speaker 1>intimacy on their wedding night by telling him she did

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<v Speaker 1>not feel well and that she was menstruating. Oh and

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<v Speaker 1>there was no follow up.

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<v Speaker 2>Questions a minute, you say that word in front of

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<v Speaker 2>any man for run a while.

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<v Speaker 1>No more questions than.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just going to get a bit.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm good, I get it. Thirteen twenty four to ten.

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<v Speaker 1>What did you find out late into the relationship or.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you find out that your new wife was a man?

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<v Speaker 1>One hundred percent?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, it happens.

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<v Speaker 1>It happens.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a small oversight.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, clearly this is very very physical situation. But look

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<v Speaker 1>they were together for a year. Yeah, before this happened

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<v Speaker 1>a year and twelve days before my boy Aka found

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<v Speaker 1>out exactly what was going on with his beautiful partner.

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<v Speaker 2>I never never see her slash him naked.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know clearly they were waiting until perhaps the

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<v Speaker 1>wedding dome. Oh yeah, okay, to get intimate.

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<v Speaker 2>That might have been a thing.

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<v Speaker 1>And then she dropped that absolute hail Mary on her

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<v Speaker 1>part as.

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<v Speaker 2>To why not, I bet I know what you discovered

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<v Speaker 2>about Kara when you married her, just that she's an

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<v Speaker 2>absolutely flawless human being.

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<v Speaker 1>Boom. Also, what did you discover late in the relationship,

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<v Speaker 1>And maybe it was a bit of a game changer,

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<v Speaker 1>because sometimes people hang on to some pretty solid dark secrets.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe, Yeah, that's true.

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<v Speaker 1>And eventually, as we know jod'es, they will always emerge.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, the truth always comes out, doesn't it.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you remember the show there's something about Miriam Oh

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<v Speaker 1>do you remember that? Yes? Remind me again, competing for

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<v Speaker 1>the hand of a lovely, gorgeous young lady. Yes, And

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<v Speaker 1>everyone except the other contestants who were men, knew that

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<v Speaker 1>she was in fact he oh outrageous. You watched it? Yeah, okay, absolutely.

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<v Speaker 1>They got a lot of trouble as well, I think

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<v Speaker 1>the show got sued and all sorts of things. But

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<v Speaker 1>that's something that was found out later on in the relationship,

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<v Speaker 1>that Miriam was actually a man.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I don't know if you can will put together

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<v Speaker 2>a show like that, can you?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not. In twenty twenty four, Greg Gotti, Yeah, what's

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<v Speaker 1>he got? He's pretty flawless, isn't he.

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<v Speaker 2>I discovered after I married him that he'd broken his

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<v Speaker 2>nose about seven times.

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<v Speaker 1>A monster.

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<v Speaker 2>I probably could have joined the dots on that one.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's go all. It's always juicy when it's Anonymous. Good morning, Hie.

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<v Speaker 2>What did you find out about your husband?

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<v Speaker 3>Well?

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<v Speaker 4>I was together with this person in the twenty eight years,

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<v Speaker 4>had two children, got proposed to wife, but funny got

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<v Speaker 4>an engagement ring, and this year found out through birthday

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<v Speaker 4>marriages that he was still mapping his life. I all

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<v Speaker 4>bugged at him, and he said he couldn't remember. I'm

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<v Speaker 4>going to be one of many lies that has come

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<v Speaker 4>out about him, and yeah, I'm sure I'll hear the rest.

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<v Speaker 4>And no, I'm not with him anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>So Anonymous a continued relationship, so he was it was

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<v Speaker 1>it was it a double relationship, like he was still

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<v Speaker 1>in the relationship with the first wife.

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<v Speaker 4>No, I no, she didn't want anything to do with him,

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<v Speaker 4>and I actually thought they were separated for three years. Yeah, right,

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<v Speaker 4>So I didn't know. I just didn't think. And then

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<v Speaker 4>when I was having bad feelings and yeah, and then

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<v Speaker 4>a lot of lies were happening, I ended up like

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<v Speaker 4>research and binding out.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, you can forget things like putting the garage

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<v Speaker 2>door down or you know, buying milk. You don't forget

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<v Speaker 2>that you're married, do you.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, buddy, Oh that's right, I'm married.

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<v Speaker 2>It doesn't really happen, doesn't so much for that call.

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<v Speaker 2>That's incredible, Charife. What did you find out about your

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<v Speaker 2>ex husband that he.

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<v Speaker 5>Had full teeth? Like full sets of benches top and bottom.

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<v Speaker 5>And I found out on our honeymoon. We were on

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<v Speaker 5>a glass bottom boat going out looking at fish, and

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<v Speaker 5>he didn't know that he got seasick. I didn't know

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<v Speaker 5>that he got seasick. And next minute, I've got two

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<v Speaker 5>sets of teeth in my hand. I'm looking at the

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<v Speaker 5>one of the assistants on the boat, going what you know,

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<v Speaker 5>I won't say the other word, And she just said

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<v Speaker 5>what and I went, I didn't know laughing and I

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<v Speaker 5>start laughing, and then we had to put him in

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<v Speaker 5>a zip lock bag. Why did violently vomited over the

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<v Speaker 5>side of the boat for half an hour?

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<v Speaker 1>Here we go?

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<v Speaker 2>Did it change? I mean the sexual attraction?

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<v Speaker 5>Well I always wonder why I had such perfect teeth.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and we got together, but no, it did it.

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<v Speaker 5>But we're no longer married for other reasons. So yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>the tea, the two no much worse.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, thank you so much for ree Kirsty. Oh my goodness,

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<v Speaker 2>what did you discover?

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<v Speaker 6>I discovered after being with my partner for about six

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<v Speaker 6>months and I was only twenty one and he was

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<v Speaker 6>twenty four. He was actually already married and he had

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<v Speaker 6>three kids.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow.

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<v Speaker 6>I didn't expect that when I was only twenty one.

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<v Speaker 6>It was like immediate family scenario.

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<v Speaker 2>So how did you find out?

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<v Speaker 6>And after I die, I actually ironically found out because

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<v Speaker 6>a girlfriend of mine actually told me she knew that

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<v Speaker 6>knew him through other avenues, and so I actually said

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<v Speaker 6>to him, you would never keep anything from me, would you.

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<v Speaker 6>You would tell me everything about what's going on in

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<v Speaker 6>your life, et cetera. And he came clean in his defense,

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<v Speaker 6>it'd be a hard thing to bring up. By the way,

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<v Speaker 6>I'm still technically married and got three kids under the

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<v Speaker 6>age of five.

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<v Speaker 1>So when you say Chirsty was technically married, like, was

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<v Speaker 1>he seeing his other wife as well? Was he leading? No,

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<v Speaker 1>it wasn't.

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<v Speaker 6>No, it wasn't leading a double life. He just hadn't separated, supposedly.

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<v Speaker 6>Looking back now, I actually wondered whether he had because

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<v Speaker 6>we're divorced and moved on. So but I yeah, basically

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<v Speaker 6>he was still married, but he hadn't actually got divorced yet.

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<v Speaker 6>So yeah, but it was a lot to take on.

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<v Speaker 6>I remember going to the Titanic thing as a family.

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<v Speaker 6>All of a sudden, we've gone in as a family

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<v Speaker 6>past and I was like twenty two years old, thinking,

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<v Speaker 6>my goodness, I'm actually a family now.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so did you And so you guys tried to

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<v Speaker 1>make the relationship work after that, Yeah, yeah, I was.

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<v Speaker 6>Actually we were married for thirteen years after that.

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<v Speaker 2>So he became a step mum.

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<v Speaker 6>I became a step stepmom and yeah immediately, and yeah,

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<v Speaker 6>so I knew the kids from the age of two

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<v Speaker 6>to the age of sixteen in the end, the youngest.

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<v Speaker 6>So yeah, but we divorced in the end. But yeah,

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<v Speaker 6>it was definitely a shock to me at that age

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<v Speaker 6>because it was like all of a sudden being an

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<v Speaker 6>immediate I was married at twenty four with three kids.

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<v Speaker 6>That was very It's a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a lot to all a sudden take on to digest,

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<v Speaker 1>isn't it, with a lot to digest?

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<v Speaker 6>Exactly.

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<v Speaker 2>It wasn't like you came home and said I've got

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<v Speaker 2>a cat.

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<v Speaker 6>Yes, no, no, I could probably live with that. I'm

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<v Speaker 6>not sure I could live with you came home said

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<v Speaker 6>he was actually a girl previously would have been a

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<v Speaker 6>bit weird.

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<v Speaker 1>When you get to that stage, you start thinking yourself

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<v Speaker 1>and like, well, how did I pick up on the clues?

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<v Speaker 1>Were standing up all those types of things.

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<v Speaker 2>Kirstie, thank you, thank you so much for your care.

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<v Speaker 6>Have a great day you too.

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<v Speaker 7>He's what you're waking up to, Adelaide, Sis.

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<v Speaker 2>You just woken up and you're like, oh, so much

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<v Speaker 2>information out there. I cannot drill down on it. We've

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<v Speaker 2>got newsreader Abby to do that for you.

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<v Speaker 8>This morning, apps, Good morning, so as we just discussed

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<v Speaker 8>its budget day, no one's going to care about this

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<v Speaker 8>but me. Let's be honest, and the other newsreaders or

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<v Speaker 8>journos across South Australia. But we've already had heaps of

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<v Speaker 8>pre budget announcements. So basically they're looking at giving two

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<v Speaker 8>and a half million dollars to the health system. So

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<v Speaker 8>obviously we have a very closed health system at the moment.

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<v Speaker 8>We saw elective surgeries cut last week. They're going to

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<v Speaker 8>be putting more money into getting more beds, boosting our

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<v Speaker 8>ambulance services, bringing more all of the ambulance on ambulances

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<v Speaker 8>online when they're driving around as well. There's also forty

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<v Speaker 8>million dollars on law and order. There's two hundred million

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<v Speaker 8>for our prison system, and eighty million dollars has been

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<v Speaker 8>EMUCH for road safety. So they're sort of the things

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<v Speaker 8>we know about. But it will be handed down by

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<v Speaker 8>Treasurer Stephen Mulligan at three o'clock this afternoon.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't wait. Let's see what abs I can't.

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<v Speaker 7>Oh, we having a budget party.

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<v Speaker 8>Actually, I've been in Vie to a lunch at McLaren Vale,

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<v Speaker 8>so I'll be having a wine and having a budget party.

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<v Speaker 2>I've said it before, I say it again. I love

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<v Speaker 2>a man who's good with a spreadsheet, and that's Stephen Mulligan.

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<v Speaker 1>He's very sexy man. Stephen.

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<v Speaker 2>Here, I've said it to his face.

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<v Speaker 1>When he's punching those numbers. You're like, whoa, oh my gosh.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean yeah, but.

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<v Speaker 1>The things you can do with those numbers in.

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<v Speaker 8>My right lads, Yes, a spreadsheet and being good with numbers.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a beautiful thing.

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<v Speaker 7>That's what I'm looking for in the future. Husband.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you just say breathly, oh, Stephen, Yeah, Well I

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<v Speaker 2>get it.

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<v Speaker 1>I get it. The whole number thing. On the flip

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<v Speaker 1>side of that is, I don't. I don't think I

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<v Speaker 1>know my ones and two times tables.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, it doesn't surprise me. Also on the flip side,

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<v Speaker 2>the one time table. Can you not control the spreadsheet?

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<v Speaker 2>You can't even control your own budget. Your wife has

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<v Speaker 2>to math it manage your money for you.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, she's not sexy, she's my Stephen Mulligan.

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<v Speaker 7>Well, moving on, Joe's what you got for us?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>So, alleged bicycle band banded Robert and terminal cancer patient

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<v Speaker 2>Kim Alan Parsons has been a proof of voluntary assisted dying,

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<v Speaker 2>so he's obviously going to die of cancer. It's been

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<v Speaker 2>alleged that he committed all these bank robberies back in

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<v Speaker 2>the day it was probably I don't know, desinerator.

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<v Speaker 7>On Yeah, and it was in the two thousands.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, So he's going to die of cancer. He won't

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<v Speaker 2>face trial for another eight months, but he is in

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<v Speaker 2>possession of his voluntary assisted dying kit and has approval

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<v Speaker 2>to make use of it. So what do you think

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<v Speaker 2>about that, someone who can take their own life before

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<v Speaker 2>they face the music for what they've allegedly done.

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<v Speaker 8>Don't agree with it, obviously, But also then in eight

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<v Speaker 8>months time, if he's got terminal cancer, will he be

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<v Speaker 8>even able to get himself into court to stand trial

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<v Speaker 8>in eight months time? Yeah, it's a good point, like

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<v Speaker 8>if he's so sick that they can't get him there.

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<v Speaker 2>But also so I mean, is it a waste of

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<v Speaker 2>money just to then have the drill convictim you're going

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<v Speaker 2>to jail and then he dies anyway?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah? It a bike?

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<v Speaker 8>Was he using a pushbike? A pushbike? He would go

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<v Speaker 8>to all the little banks. I think Madam got hit.

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<v Speaker 8>I'm pretty sure, oh my god, And they're all little

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<v Speaker 8>banks and he would go in, he would get the

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<v Speaker 8>money and he would go off on a pushbike.

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<v Speaker 7>I'm not kidding you. You're looking at me like I'm lying, but.

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<v Speaker 1>It doesn't seem real, doesn't it. I keep on getting

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<v Speaker 1>away with that.

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<v Speaker 2>I love that. That's where your brain goes. So we're

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<v Speaker 2>having this real intense conversation about the morals around being

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<v Speaker 2>able to take your own life when you've committed crimes

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<v Speaker 2>and you're like a mat.

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<v Speaker 1>I just wanted to knuckle down on the small things

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<v Speaker 1>before we build after the large things like that. Actually

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<v Speaker 1>posted snooze news, Joe. It's part of a nice little

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<v Speaker 1>fraternity at the minute.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh are you yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>It's called the Push Up Challenge. Have you heard of this?

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<v Speaker 2>I have no.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, it's probably time to recruit you. For those who

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<v Speaker 1>are like, what are you talking about?

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<v Speaker 4>You?

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<v Speaker 1>You absolute filthy idiot. Well, the Push Up Challenge is

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<v Speaker 1>a free mental health and fitness event focused on pushing

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<v Speaker 1>for better mental health for all Australians. Participants complete this

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<v Speaker 1>is the Kicker Okay, three two hundred and forty nine

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<v Speaker 1>push ups or alternative exercises over twenty four days, representing

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<v Speaker 1>the three thy two hundred and forty nine lives lost

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<v Speaker 1>to suicide in Australia in twenty twenty two.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I applaud this cause and you jumping on board.

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<v Speaker 1>That's amazing, Thank you for those boards. This is good fun.

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<v Speaker 1>So what you can do as well is and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>involved in a team at Channel seven okay, So basically

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<v Speaker 1>you can keep yourself accountable. They set you targets each

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<v Speaker 1>and every day. It started yesterday we had about fifty

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<v Speaker 1>push ups. Through today it's about one hundred and ten.

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<v Speaker 7>Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Also, you can choose the particular charity that focuses on

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<v Speaker 1>mental health and just get your mates evolved. Do something

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<v Speaker 1>that's active, but also and most importantly, raise a conversation,

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<v Speaker 1>beautiful start talking and as we know Jodes, for blokes,

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<v Speaker 1>that is just sometimes near impossible.

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<v Speaker 2>And I know you've had friends affected by mental health here.

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<v Speaker 1>I've been affected by mental health as well. Do you

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<v Speaker 1>know what I'm saying in my little fella as well? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's one step to say to blokes, hey, you feel

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<v Speaker 1>comfortable enough to open up, But I think blokes can

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<v Speaker 1>still feel comfortable to open up and still not open up. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>my boys six, and you can sort of half tell

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<v Speaker 1>if something's happened at school, something's going on. Yeah, And

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<v Speaker 1>even then getting information out of him when he doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>want to talk almost impossible. My wife said to me

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<v Speaker 1>the other day, what's going on? Because I was quite flat.

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<v Speaker 1>She has what's going on? I was like nothing, everything's fine,

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<v Speaker 1>and she said, are you going to talk to me?

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<v Speaker 1>Or are we have to wait till you've had two

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<v Speaker 1>beers and all of a sudden you unload for an

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<v Speaker 1>hour and a half. Yeah, oh, cheers. I don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to be that guy. Yeah, that just sort of bottles

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<v Speaker 1>stuff up and then all of a sudden, because that's

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<v Speaker 1>what blokes do. We bottle stuff up. You guys do

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<v Speaker 1>it Potentially you leave it until it's in a dangerous situation.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, I mean I've noticed that with you, with

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<v Speaker 2>my husband, with most men that I've ever dealt with,

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<v Speaker 2>you just don't talk about your feelings, no.

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<v Speaker 1>Because I don't know if if it's something that we

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<v Speaker 1>grew up with, Like it's just it sounds ridiculous to say,

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<v Speaker 1>but not manly to talk about it. How are you feeling?

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<v Speaker 1>Particularly back in the day, blokes aren't supposed to feel

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<v Speaker 1>anything else, but much so and strong versus now. Obviously

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<v Speaker 1>it could save lives if you talk about how you're feeling,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's what this is all about. But it's just

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<v Speaker 1>incredible for me in my lifetime to see how much

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<v Speaker 1>things have swung from that ridiculous stereotype. So hopefully, and

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<v Speaker 1>we're not there yet, and who knows, we might not

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<v Speaker 1>ever get there, but we're trying to get to this

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<v Speaker 1>place where it is completely normal and understandable and absolutely

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<v Speaker 1>healthy to talk about your feelings each and every day.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I love that you're working in this space and

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<v Speaker 2>taking on this challenge.

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<v Speaker 1>How many three two hundred and forty nine projects? And

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<v Speaker 1>guess why we need some recruits because you get yourself

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<v Speaker 1>involved in a team, you keep yourself accountable with blokes

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<v Speaker 1>as well. That's how we communicate sometimes it needs to

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<v Speaker 1>be to do giving things together, and particularly physical things together.

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<v Speaker 1>All of a sudden, you're doing it, You've done your

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<v Speaker 1>push ups, and you start to having a conversation. It

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<v Speaker 1>could be as much as hey, just while we're here,

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<v Speaker 1>how are you going?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I am more than happy to jump on board.

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<v Speaker 1>You're board, Yeah, there she is.

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<v Speaker 2>I'll do it. I mean I've got burst sitis in

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<v Speaker 2>my shoulder, that's fine.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, one arm push ups then.

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<v Speaker 2>And just so you know, this is a very safe

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<v Speaker 2>space and if you ever need to talk, then produce

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<v Speaker 2>is all is.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you so much. Em okay, Joe. So it was

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<v Speaker 1>fifty two push ups yesterday, today's about one hundred and ten.

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<v Speaker 1>So we'll start right now. You oh da da da

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<v Speaker 1>da one hundred and sixty two push ups and also

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<v Speaker 1>none of this push ups on your knee crap, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not doing it.

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<v Speaker 2>I can't. No, I can't do three thousand push ups

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<v Speaker 2>on my toes. I will do it on my knees

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<v Speaker 2>or nothing else.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, that's fine, we'll take that. We'll take that.

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<v Speaker 1>If you want to get involved as well, just google

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<v Speaker 1>the push Up Challenge. It's all there, all the information

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<v Speaker 1>you need, and then it will direct you to download

0:16:49.200 --> 0:16:50.600
<v Speaker 1>the app and you go from there. You can do

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<v Speaker 1>it by yourself as well. You don't have to join

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<v Speaker 1>a team, yep, but just know you don't have to

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<v Speaker 1>directly make a donation as well. You can help make donations,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's more so just being part of what he

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<v Speaker 1>is hopefully a really really positive movement for the next

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<v Speaker 1>few days.

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<v Speaker 2>Well done to you, my friend.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you very much. Jades. Jades, we've both got youngsters

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<v Speaker 1>and boy Boie. When they start putting their sentences together,

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<v Speaker 1>it can be really dangerous, do you know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 2>It can be a lot. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>They seem to pick up at all sorts of words

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<v Speaker 1>that you say, even if you say it once or

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<v Speaker 1>twice and all so the same back or two and

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<v Speaker 1>you're like, wow, that's wildly offensive.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. Toddlers are like little psychotic parrots, aren't they.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, And even from like three to six and onwards.

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<v Speaker 1>My six year old caught my wife the other day

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<v Speaker 1>at DH not aggressive.

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<v Speaker 7>That's a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not sure that she ever deserves that. And also

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<v Speaker 1>my three year old Lotti called my wife a psycho

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<v Speaker 1>as well, get away from me, your psycho. But there's

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<v Speaker 1>one tactic that we use, and I don't know if

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<v Speaker 1>you do this as well. Yeah, there's one tactic we use.

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<v Speaker 1>But for whatever reason, and my kids might be the

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<v Speaker 1>car right now listening to it. So car, I just

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<v Speaker 1>flicked the flicking onto Spotify just for a second. The

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<v Speaker 1>count h when you want something? Yeah, the count Yep,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to count to five.

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<v Speaker 2>Well it's three in our house, is it?

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<v Speaker 1>The patience?

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<v Speaker 2>No? No, I am going to count to three. And

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<v Speaker 2>I hear myself say it, and I'm like, I don't

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<v Speaker 2>know what happens when I get to I.

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<v Speaker 1>Feel like we'd be the same thing as I wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>know what to do. I'm sure my wife Kara has

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<v Speaker 1>a nice little backup plan, but we wouldn't know what

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<v Speaker 1>to do. We've got a bit of a no car

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<v Speaker 1>the other day. Yeah, so our three year old, who

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<v Speaker 1>is really really aggressive when she gets into a space

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<v Speaker 1>where she wants something, she's very fierce, she's very determined.

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<v Speaker 1>She wasn't getting what she wanted. Probably something like ice

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<v Speaker 1>cream at six in the morning. Yeah, who knows.

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<v Speaker 2>That's a reasonable request.

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<v Speaker 1>Probably something maybe on your birthday, but not when every

0:18:40.600 --> 0:18:42.119
<v Speaker 1>day is your birthday. That's in the head of a

0:18:42.119 --> 0:18:42.760
<v Speaker 1>little lottie.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes.

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<v Speaker 1>She took out the card and reversed them in the

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<v Speaker 1>car and said, I want this. No not having I

0:18:47.640 --> 0:18:50.080
<v Speaker 1>want this, you know, not having it, she said. Mum,

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<v Speaker 1>looked in the face, grabbed by the chin and said,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to count to five. It's not a three

0:19:00.760 --> 0:19:03.440
<v Speaker 1>year old threatening you, looking at you in the eye

0:19:03.440 --> 0:19:05.440
<v Speaker 1>and saying that's it. I'm going to count to five.

0:19:08.000 --> 0:19:12.160
<v Speaker 1>Said she got to three. Yeah, and cars and tears laughing. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>before she went down a different that's not going to happen.

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<v Speaker 2>I showed you a meme yesterday and we both cracked

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<v Speaker 2>up laughing because it's so true. It's like, why am

0:19:19.720 --> 0:19:22.880
<v Speaker 2>I arguing with you? You can't even put your shoes

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<v Speaker 2>on the right.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to get my point across to you, and like,

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<v Speaker 1>hang on, you're wearing You're wearing your shoe as a hat.

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<v Speaker 1>Two people who I mean, think of the most hate

0:19:49.080 --> 0:19:52.159
<v Speaker 1>field space that you possibly couldn't that's us, your mad

0:19:52.280 --> 0:19:53.560
<v Speaker 1>just cruise around in that space.

0:19:53.680 --> 0:19:56.639
<v Speaker 2>Normally we're mates. But I see these eyes looking at

0:19:56.680 --> 0:19:59.000
<v Speaker 2>you with absolute disdain and disgust right now.

0:19:59.080 --> 0:20:00.480
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, one of them's not even can ap me. So

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<v Speaker 1>we're looking off into a different direction.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not angry.

0:20:03.359 --> 0:20:04.840
<v Speaker 1>You got a dicky pupil there.

0:20:06.400 --> 0:20:08.800
<v Speaker 2>So this is out roles. We have a theme each

0:20:08.840 --> 0:20:12.000
<v Speaker 2>and every week. This theme is guilty Pleasures. So those

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<v Speaker 2>songs that you probably shouldn't like, but you really really do.

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<v Speaker 2>Should I say thongs?

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<v Speaker 1>We're talking songs or thongs and what sort of songs

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<v Speaker 1>we're talking about?

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<v Speaker 2>Leave that to your imagination. So do you want me

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<v Speaker 2>to go first?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes? Please?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay? So Mine is a debut single by American rapper

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<v Speaker 2>Vanilla Ice Kay Kennedy and DJ Earthquake and honestly, Kay

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<v Speaker 2>Kennedy and DJ Earthquake do not get enough credit in

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<v Speaker 2>this space. And it samples the baseline of the song

0:20:38.359 --> 0:20:39.760
<v Speaker 2>under Pressure by Queen.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you did know that? Actually?

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<v Speaker 2>Hit me with a bit of ice?

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<v Speaker 7>Ice baby?

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<v Speaker 1>Please? Thanks? This is your guilty pleasure songs?

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<v Speaker 2>Why haven't we got any lyrics? There's want to Singapore?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, go for now, now that the party is pumped, all.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, s up, elaborate.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh, you are selling it so poorly.

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<v Speaker 7>I thought it was the start.

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<v Speaker 1>Is that really?

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<v Speaker 9>Really?

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<v Speaker 1>No your product?

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<v Speaker 2>Don't you?

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<v Speaker 9>All right?

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<v Speaker 1>So Vanilla I sup against the one and only, the

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<v Speaker 1>beautiful Natasha Beddingfield. No one else can.

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<v Speaker 7>Feel it for you.

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<v Speaker 1>Only you can lead it no one else, no one

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<v Speaker 1>else can see the words on your lips, Jody yourself?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you know the words of this?

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<v Speaker 2>Honestly?

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<v Speaker 7>You can stolen from? I think we'll documented and I

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<v Speaker 7>love this song.

0:21:39.520 --> 0:21:48.360
<v Speaker 2>Relm you sample for I did not like Vanilla Ice

0:21:48.480 --> 0:21:49.960
<v Speaker 2>sampled Queen?

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<v Speaker 1>Did I sample this from? Jody? I don't think you're

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<v Speaker 1>on the credits here for this one?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah? Right, okay, okay, that's interesting. Get voting everybody on

0:21:58.200 --> 0:22:01.760
<v Speaker 2>the Jody and Hazy Instagram age please or the song

0:22:01.800 --> 0:22:03.960
<v Speaker 2>that you want to hear tomorrow morning, right about this time?

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<v Speaker 1>All right, spe Natasha Beddingfield, it's going to be It

0:22:07.200 --> 0:22:08.879
<v Speaker 1>feels like it's going to be a close race. It

0:22:09.000 --> 0:22:13.000
<v Speaker 1>is eleven to seven in my favor in saying that

0:22:13.520 --> 0:22:14.679
<v Speaker 1>you're on a bit of a hot streak.

0:22:14.760 --> 0:22:17.040
<v Speaker 2>And just so you know, that's a very feminine song

0:22:17.119 --> 0:22:17.840
<v Speaker 2>that you love there.

0:22:18.000 --> 0:22:21.800
<v Speaker 1>I know it is my guilty pleasure song. I'm probably

0:22:21.880 --> 0:22:24.720
<v Speaker 1>not supposed to like songs like this. No, it just

0:22:24.760 --> 0:22:26.119
<v Speaker 1>gets me up in the bed, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, all right, whatever, fletch your boat.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, get voting, Like you said, winning song will

0:22:30.760 --> 0:22:39.160
<v Speaker 1>be announce tomorrow morning at eight. My really picture, it.

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<v Speaker 7>Is so time for a let's go girl.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, this is where we download on all the stuff

0:22:45.840 --> 0:22:48.639
<v Speaker 2>that's really annoying us women during the week, Abby from

0:22:48.680 --> 0:22:51.280
<v Speaker 2>the newsroom. That would be everything for you. Correct, Yep,

0:22:52.200 --> 0:22:52.920
<v Speaker 2>producers are.

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<v Speaker 10>Eaten, not so annoyed this week.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm all right, yeah, okay, all right, okay, let's get

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<v Speaker 2>into it.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 8>So this is something that I have spoken I haven't

0:23:03.640 --> 0:23:05.520
<v Speaker 8>really spoken to you guys about, but I've been talking

0:23:05.600 --> 0:23:09.960
<v Speaker 8>amongst friends about and basically a good friend of mine.

0:23:10.080 --> 0:23:13.920
<v Speaker 8>She is single, she hasn't found her person yet, and

0:23:14.280 --> 0:23:17.960
<v Speaker 8>she is having tests to basically become a mum.

0:23:18.359 --> 0:23:21.159
<v Speaker 7>She's gonna do it on her own, single mum right now.

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<v Speaker 8>Every time, my sister has brought this up twice with

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<v Speaker 8>me and said, why don't you look at freezing your eggs.

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<v Speaker 8>I'm thirty four, haven't found the one, haven't found who

0:23:30.880 --> 0:23:34.480
<v Speaker 8>I'm going to settle down with. And it's funny because

0:23:34.880 --> 0:23:37.200
<v Speaker 8>every time, well the two times that she's brought it up,

0:23:37.359 --> 0:23:40.359
<v Speaker 8>I get tiary and I can't talk about it. And

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<v Speaker 8>I think it's because at thirty four, you sort of go.

0:23:43.960 --> 0:23:46.560
<v Speaker 8>I thought that I would be married. I thought that,

0:23:46.840 --> 0:23:48.480
<v Speaker 8>you know, at least i'd be married. I thought that

0:23:48.800 --> 0:23:51.040
<v Speaker 8>I would have maybe had a kid by now, et cetera,

0:23:51.119 --> 0:23:51.520
<v Speaker 8>et cetera.

0:23:52.320 --> 0:23:54.800
<v Speaker 7>Anyway, do you feel pressure on that front?

0:23:55.040 --> 0:23:55.280
<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 8>I think I do a little bit, because I think

0:23:57.200 --> 0:24:00.920
<v Speaker 8>we're sold this dream as children that when you grow up,

0:24:01.359 --> 0:24:03.800
<v Speaker 8>you meet your person, you go and have your own family,

0:24:03.880 --> 0:24:07.240
<v Speaker 8>things like that, and I think that as much as

0:24:07.280 --> 0:24:10.280
<v Speaker 8>I go, you know, hats off to the women who

0:24:10.320 --> 0:24:13.119
<v Speaker 8>do it and who are single parents will go and

0:24:13.160 --> 0:24:16.600
<v Speaker 8>do it themselves. But for me, and I've spoken about

0:24:16.600 --> 0:24:19.439
<v Speaker 8>it before, mentally, I don't think I'm strong enough to

0:24:19.680 --> 0:24:21.960
<v Speaker 8>bring a child into this world on my own. I've

0:24:21.960 --> 0:24:24.800
<v Speaker 8>got such an amazing support network, I really really do,

0:24:24.840 --> 0:24:26.320
<v Speaker 8>and I know that they would be there for me.

0:24:26.720 --> 0:24:28.479
<v Speaker 8>But also I think you look and you go, I

0:24:28.520 --> 0:24:32.040
<v Speaker 8>want to bring my kids up in a family unit. Yeah,

0:24:32.119 --> 0:24:34.520
<v Speaker 8>but today, yeah, I just sort of thought i'd love

0:24:34.560 --> 0:24:37.560
<v Speaker 8>to hear from people thirteen twenty four to ten. Have

0:24:37.720 --> 0:24:39.760
<v Speaker 8>you done this? Have you frozen your eggs? Have you

0:24:39.760 --> 0:24:42.200
<v Speaker 8>gone down the path of having kids on your own?

0:24:42.240 --> 0:24:43.440
<v Speaker 8>Are you thinking about it?

0:24:43.760 --> 0:24:44.040
<v Speaker 11>Yeah?

0:24:44.119 --> 0:24:46.960
<v Speaker 2>Well two things here. Firstly, you can do it. You're

0:24:48.000 --> 0:24:49.640
<v Speaker 2>You're one of the strongest people I know, and you're

0:24:49.680 --> 0:24:51.240
<v Speaker 2>really fierce, and if you want to have a baby

0:24:51.240 --> 0:24:53.520
<v Speaker 2>on your own, then I have no doubts in my

0:24:53.720 --> 0:24:57.920
<v Speaker 2>mind that that's absolutely what you can do. And secondly,

0:24:57.960 --> 0:25:00.000
<v Speaker 2>this is so common now. I know of so much

0:25:00.040 --> 0:25:02.199
<v Speaker 2>many people that are just going, well, you know what,

0:25:02.320 --> 0:25:04.440
<v Speaker 2>I haven't found the night in shining Armor. I haven't

0:25:04.440 --> 0:25:07.040
<v Speaker 2>found that guy that we're sold as little girls. So

0:25:07.240 --> 0:25:08.840
<v Speaker 2>I'm just going to do this by myself because I

0:25:08.840 --> 0:25:12.000
<v Speaker 2>want children. Yeah, So yeah, it's a really interesting conversation.

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<v Speaker 2>We'd love to hear from anyone who's gone down this

0:25:13.720 --> 0:25:16.239
<v Speaker 2>path or anyone who's contemplating at thirteen twenty four ten

0:25:16.280 --> 0:25:16.760
<v Speaker 2>gives a call.

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<v Speaker 1>The other thing to talk about as well, is I

0:25:19.320 --> 0:25:22.080
<v Speaker 1>think blokes to do it as well. You have a

0:25:22.080 --> 0:25:24.199
<v Speaker 1>timeline in your head, have we you think things are

0:25:24.200 --> 0:25:26.560
<v Speaker 1>supposed to be. And I would say maybe ninety percent

0:25:26.880 --> 0:25:28.560
<v Speaker 1>it doesn't add up, whether it's like Mark twenty five,

0:25:28.560 --> 0:25:30.040
<v Speaker 1>I should be doing this and by thirty I should

0:25:30.040 --> 0:25:31.439
<v Speaker 1>be married by this, so I should be having this.

0:25:32.000 --> 0:25:33.679
<v Speaker 1>And then I don't think you do it on purpose

0:25:33.680 --> 0:25:35.600
<v Speaker 1>as well. And when it doesn't add up, maybe you

0:25:35.600 --> 0:25:38.960
<v Speaker 1>feel like you're failing. Yeah, but you're definitely not. Definitely

0:25:39.040 --> 0:25:39.919
<v Speaker 1>just got different journeys.

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<v Speaker 7>It's funny because you know, I'm thirty four.

0:25:41.800 --> 0:25:44.440
<v Speaker 8>I'm so old, and I have that mentality and that's

0:25:44.480 --> 0:25:46.480
<v Speaker 8>not a good thing to think of. And then you

0:25:46.520 --> 0:25:49.160
<v Speaker 8>speak to women who are in their forties and they all, oh,

0:25:49.200 --> 0:25:51.359
<v Speaker 8>you're such a baby, you're you know, you're so young,

0:25:51.800 --> 0:25:53.600
<v Speaker 8>and there's me going, oh my god, I'm thirty four.

0:25:53.640 --> 0:25:56.240
<v Speaker 7>Life's over and it's not. It's not at all.

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<v Speaker 2>I had my last child at forty four. So you know,

0:25:59.760 --> 0:26:02.320
<v Speaker 2>you just never know what's around the corner. But I

0:26:02.359 --> 0:26:05.320
<v Speaker 2>will say this life's not linear. Life isn't a carbon

0:26:05.359 --> 0:26:09.320
<v Speaker 2>copy of that dream that we're sold. So you don't

0:26:09.320 --> 0:26:10.879
<v Speaker 2>know what's around the corner for you. But if you

0:26:11.040 --> 0:26:13.280
<v Speaker 2>want to pursue this path, I know you can do it. Yeah,

0:26:13.359 --> 0:26:15.679
<v Speaker 2>thirteen twenty four ten. We'd love you to join the

0:26:15.720 --> 0:26:19.560
<v Speaker 2>conversation this morning. Are you taking your own reproduction into

0:26:19.600 --> 0:26:21.200
<v Speaker 2>your own hands? Daisy?

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<v Speaker 7>Good morning?

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<v Speaker 2>Firstly, are you offended by being called a single mom?

0:26:25.280 --> 0:26:27.760
<v Speaker 12>No, okay at all. I've been a single mother for

0:26:27.880 --> 0:26:32.800
<v Speaker 12>nineteen years, right, okay, and it's time I got married

0:26:33.119 --> 0:26:35.639
<v Speaker 12>and I had a house. I bought a house first,

0:26:35.640 --> 0:26:38.720
<v Speaker 12>and I met a man. I got married, and then

0:26:39.440 --> 0:26:42.320
<v Speaker 12>we had two beautiful children. It didn't work, and then

0:26:42.400 --> 0:26:45.280
<v Speaker 12>later on I had another option to have a child.

0:26:45.359 --> 0:26:48.679
<v Speaker 12>I was a single mom with the second child. My

0:26:48.800 --> 0:26:54.120
<v Speaker 12>oldest is twenty and my youngest is coming to like fifteen.

0:26:55.000 --> 0:27:01.679
<v Speaker 12>And from my opinion, the children need both males and females,

0:27:01.800 --> 0:27:06.879
<v Speaker 12>or you know, we're in a different you know, gender

0:27:07.000 --> 0:27:10.520
<v Speaker 12>is a bit of an interesting word, but you know,

0:27:10.720 --> 0:27:18.320
<v Speaker 12>I from my opinion, they have absence from having you know,

0:27:18.440 --> 0:27:20.000
<v Speaker 12>fathers or mothers in their lives.

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<v Speaker 2>So if you had your time again, you would do

0:27:22.359 --> 0:27:23.320
<v Speaker 2>it differently, Stacey.

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<v Speaker 12>Absolutely, for sure, definitely, yeah. I believe that the child

0:27:28.760 --> 0:27:30.960
<v Speaker 12>should stay in a house and the parents.

0:27:30.720 --> 0:27:35.800
<v Speaker 1>Should move out. Wow for the child.

0:27:36.400 --> 0:27:39.760
<v Speaker 12>Absolutely yeah, yeah, yeah. It's not about the adults at

0:27:39.760 --> 0:27:42.199
<v Speaker 12>this point when you're when you're a mother, it's all

0:27:42.200 --> 0:27:45.280
<v Speaker 12>about the children. And I think that people have got

0:27:45.320 --> 0:27:48.399
<v Speaker 12>it wrong. I really feel that even the systems that

0:27:48.440 --> 0:27:50.480
<v Speaker 12>we have in the government, we've got it wrong. That

0:27:50.680 --> 0:27:55.200
<v Speaker 12>the children need to have that stability of their own

0:27:55.280 --> 0:27:58.600
<v Speaker 12>comforts and they should never be ripped away from any

0:27:58.640 --> 0:28:03.000
<v Speaker 12>of that. They should just have the parents should, you know, say,

0:28:03.040 --> 0:28:06.680
<v Speaker 12>if they're not parenting properly, for instance, they should be

0:28:07.680 --> 0:28:10.080
<v Speaker 12>people should come into their house and the children should

0:28:10.080 --> 0:28:13.440
<v Speaker 12>stay there, and then the parents should leave, do some

0:28:13.480 --> 0:28:14.600
<v Speaker 12>training and come back.

0:28:14.800 --> 0:28:17.520
<v Speaker 2>Okay, thank you, Stacy, Thank you so much for your call.

0:28:17.560 --> 0:28:18.320
<v Speaker 2>Really appreciate it.

0:28:18.359 --> 0:28:20.120
<v Speaker 7>Good morning, Carly, Good morning.

0:28:20.640 --> 0:28:22.439
<v Speaker 11>I just wanted to give you, like a little bit

0:28:22.480 --> 0:28:25.440
<v Speaker 11>of peace of mind because I mean, I understand the

0:28:25.880 --> 0:28:30.720
<v Speaker 11>pressure from social media and I guess society is to

0:28:30.800 --> 0:28:33.800
<v Speaker 11>have kids, you know, in your twenties late twenties, but

0:28:34.520 --> 0:28:37.000
<v Speaker 11>I didn't meet my person until I was thirty two,

0:28:37.280 --> 0:28:40.520
<v Speaker 11>and I'm thirty four hours well and we're only just

0:28:40.520 --> 0:28:43.600
<v Speaker 11>starting to cry for a baby. And I think it's

0:28:43.600 --> 0:28:46.040
<v Speaker 11>pretty accepted these days. And it's also pretty normal to

0:28:46.520 --> 0:28:49.360
<v Speaker 11>have babies a little bit later in life, so you know,

0:28:49.520 --> 0:28:52.400
<v Speaker 11>don't be upset about it. I had a bit of

0:28:52.440 --> 0:28:54.560
<v Speaker 11>a cry like when you started to talk about it,

0:28:54.600 --> 0:28:56.880
<v Speaker 11>because I was like, oh, I feel you, but it's

0:28:56.920 --> 0:28:59.160
<v Speaker 11>going to be okay, Like it's going to happen for

0:28:59.200 --> 0:29:02.000
<v Speaker 11>you whichever way you too, I think, So, yeah, don't

0:29:02.120 --> 0:29:02.880
<v Speaker 11>gress about it.

0:29:03.040 --> 0:29:06.560
<v Speaker 8>Yeah, it's so normal obviously, you know, women having babies

0:29:06.640 --> 0:29:08.640
<v Speaker 8>later in life, it's so so normal.

0:29:09.120 --> 0:29:10.600
<v Speaker 7>You just have to be everything.

0:29:11.280 --> 0:29:13.160
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, forty four, Yeah.

0:29:13.000 --> 0:29:15.520
<v Speaker 2>That was twenty four. I reckon Sonya Krueger was maybe

0:29:16.120 --> 0:29:19.280
<v Speaker 2>forty eight, if not fifty. Yeah, when she had her child. Yeah,

0:29:19.920 --> 0:29:22.520
<v Speaker 2>it's definitely happening later. Yeah, definitely.

0:29:23.160 --> 0:29:24.280
<v Speaker 1>Thank you very much for the call.

0:29:24.480 --> 0:29:26.080
<v Speaker 3>Carly, Hey Ellen, morning, guys.

0:29:26.080 --> 0:29:26.560
<v Speaker 5>How are you going.

0:29:26.680 --> 0:29:30.240
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we're good. Thank you. You're on your own with kids.

0:29:30.040 --> 0:29:33.000
<v Speaker 3>Yes, so you're only going to get words of encouragement

0:29:33.080 --> 0:29:37.320
<v Speaker 3>from me. My eldest is nineteen, so I have three

0:29:37.400 --> 0:29:41.800
<v Speaker 3>children on the spectrum. My eldest is nineteen. I've done

0:29:42.000 --> 0:29:42.640
<v Speaker 3>all three.

0:29:42.480 --> 0:29:43.160
<v Speaker 1>On my own.

0:29:43.920 --> 0:29:47.840
<v Speaker 3>I did have children young, though, but when my eldest

0:29:47.920 --> 0:29:49.440
<v Speaker 3>was born, I was on my own. It was just

0:29:49.440 --> 0:29:51.560
<v Speaker 3>with my mum was with me in the delivery room.

0:29:52.160 --> 0:29:55.440
<v Speaker 3>He finished high school last year and has now moved

0:29:55.520 --> 0:30:02.520
<v Speaker 3>overseas to for his dream job. For me, I don't

0:30:02.520 --> 0:30:06.480
<v Speaker 3>necessarily believe you need both a mother and a father to,

0:30:07.160 --> 0:30:09.400
<v Speaker 3>you know, for bringing up children. If you have a

0:30:09.440 --> 0:30:14.720
<v Speaker 3>great support system in place, and you suppose you already

0:30:14.720 --> 0:30:16.160
<v Speaker 3>know that you're going to do it on your own,

0:30:17.240 --> 0:30:18.160
<v Speaker 3>I think you'll be fine.

0:30:18.280 --> 0:30:19.120
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's a good point.

0:30:19.160 --> 0:30:22.360
<v Speaker 3>He can still be fine. My son's he's flourishing, like

0:30:22.480 --> 0:30:25.920
<v Speaker 3>he was top twelve for his ATAH last year. He's over,

0:30:26.200 --> 0:30:28.880
<v Speaker 3>he's halfway around the world, dream job, no UNI, nothing,

0:30:28.960 --> 0:30:31.880
<v Speaker 3>And I think that was he had that support system,

0:30:32.080 --> 0:30:35.280
<v Speaker 3>not only with myself and my family but at school

0:30:35.320 --> 0:30:38.440
<v Speaker 3>as well, which really helps. But us women, we can

0:30:38.440 --> 0:30:40.400
<v Speaker 3>do anything when we put our minds to it. And

0:30:40.840 --> 0:30:43.120
<v Speaker 3>you'll get days. You'll get days where you're like, oh,

0:30:43.160 --> 0:30:44.560
<v Speaker 3>you know what, I can't do this anymore.

0:30:44.560 --> 0:30:45.520
<v Speaker 5>I can't do it on my own.

0:30:45.680 --> 0:30:45.880
<v Speaker 2>Yep.

0:30:45.960 --> 0:30:48.040
<v Speaker 3>But you just brush yourself up, pick yourself up and

0:30:48.080 --> 0:30:50.760
<v Speaker 3>just keep going. So you've got this.

0:30:52.880 --> 0:30:55.880
<v Speaker 2>That's really nice, and that's a really important point she

0:30:55.920 --> 0:30:58.320
<v Speaker 2>makes as well. You've got a great family support system.

0:30:58.360 --> 0:31:00.280
<v Speaker 2>And also Tanking Tory too, so.

0:31:01.640 --> 0:31:05.080
<v Speaker 1>Very very loud at times, but that's always very positive.

0:31:05.080 --> 0:31:05.120
<v Speaker 9>That.

0:31:05.560 --> 0:31:07.840
<v Speaker 8>Yeah, and let's be honest, I've kept Tank live for

0:31:07.920 --> 0:31:10.400
<v Speaker 8>nine years, so yeah, surely maybe it's not that hard.

0:31:10.560 --> 0:31:14.680
<v Speaker 2>That's true. Tank's being through some stuff as a Tank

0:31:14.760 --> 0:31:16.320
<v Speaker 2>or Tory that got hit by the car and then

0:31:16.320 --> 0:31:21.520
<v Speaker 2>in and then couldn't walk. Yeah, produce, I called you

0:31:21.600 --> 0:31:24.520
<v Speaker 2>Newsy producers. You've got thoughts on their thing.

0:31:24.720 --> 0:31:25.320
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, a little bit.

0:31:25.440 --> 0:31:28.200
<v Speaker 10>I'm only twenty five from that bit younger that kids

0:31:28.200 --> 0:31:31.160
<v Speaker 10>aren't on the radar for me just yet. But for me,

0:31:31.240 --> 0:31:33.560
<v Speaker 10>I've made up my mind that I don't want children

0:31:33.880 --> 0:31:36.160
<v Speaker 10>unless I fall in love with someone who would really

0:31:36.200 --> 0:31:37.680
<v Speaker 10>like children, and then I think it would be nice

0:31:37.680 --> 0:31:40.680
<v Speaker 10>to create something with them. So for me, I wouldn't

0:31:40.680 --> 0:31:42.760
<v Speaker 10>even consider freezing my eggs because I know I wouldn't

0:31:42.760 --> 0:31:45.240
<v Speaker 10>do it alone. Having said that, it's not because I

0:31:45.280 --> 0:31:47.600
<v Speaker 10>don't think I could or that people shouldn't. I was

0:31:47.680 --> 0:31:50.960
<v Speaker 10>raised by a single mum, and you absolutely don't need

0:31:51.200 --> 0:31:53.560
<v Speaker 10>a dad in your life one hundred percent or the

0:31:53.600 --> 0:31:56.000
<v Speaker 10>two parents, so you can totally do it, Abs, just personally,

0:31:56.040 --> 0:31:56.560
<v Speaker 10>I just wouldn't.

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<v Speaker 2>What makes you so adamant that you don't want kids?

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<v Speaker 10>That's partly selfish. I want to live my life for me.

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<v Speaker 10>I watched my mum give up her entire life for me,

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<v Speaker 10>and I'm grateful for it. But I don't want to

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<v Speaker 10>do that for someone else, which is selfish, but it's

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<v Speaker 10>just the way it is.

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<v Speaker 1>And yeah, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 10>I've just I'm not sure that I have the capacity

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<v Speaker 10>to raise someone else.

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<v Speaker 2>You've spent some time with Lotty Hayes. Haven't you hung

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<v Speaker 2>out with Lotty Hayes once?

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<v Speaker 1>And it was over? She sucks a.

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<v Speaker 2>Beautifully though.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, when you look back at it after a couple

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<v Speaker 1>of shar days, for sure. I can continue the conversations

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<v Speaker 1>well via text for nine nine nine my nine. But

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<v Speaker 1>everybody called through this morning, thank you so much and

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<v Speaker 1>well done. It's really really good opinions and some very

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<v Speaker 1>very nice words. Abby.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, thanks for everyone who called in and commented. I

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<v Speaker 7>appreciate it.

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<v Speaker 2>Not easy to be vulnerable on the radio like that.

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<v Speaker 7>So appreciative. Tears yet so that's good.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll break you up. I'm worryin Joe's right now. Are

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<v Speaker 1>we in this absolute beautiful little sweet spot of AFL

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<v Speaker 1>and AFL skits and AFL humor on social media? And

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<v Speaker 1>you know, we've spoken to the Kicker Forward podcast guys

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<v Speaker 1>and some other guys getting around called anything is Content.

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<v Speaker 1>But maybe at the top of the tree are the

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<v Speaker 1>boys from Marmalade. If you've seen this, this is the

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<v Speaker 1>Div twelve Resis right, So I reckon these guys connect

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<v Speaker 1>with everyone so well, is because it feels like they're

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<v Speaker 1>one of us. Yeah right, you know what I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>Like we get obsessed with all these AFL players, but

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<v Speaker 1>they're just on different planets. Yeah, the Div twelve RESI boys.

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<v Speaker 1>You look at these guys and go, you know what,

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<v Speaker 1>that could be me. That could be me just running

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<v Speaker 1>out there, not quite as athletic as some of the

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<v Speaker 1>other guys and drinking chocy milk. That's what it's all about.

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't realize it went as low as Div twelve.

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<v Speaker 1>Who knew who knew? All athletes in their own capacity,

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<v Speaker 1>and here we are. I would say that their captain

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<v Speaker 1>one is a young man, a fearless young beautiful man

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<v Speaker 1>by the name of Checkers and he joins the scared

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<v Speaker 1>a Checkers. Good morning to.

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<v Speaker 13>You, Cheers for having me. It's good to be on.

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<v Speaker 13>I heard you giving us the rabot just then I

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<v Speaker 13>was thinking, there's never been a hamstring done in the

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<v Speaker 13>twelve has a spot for you?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh jeez, I wish made, but I'm at least eight

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<v Speaker 1>to twelve weeks. Hey, tell us what's happening tomorrow nights

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<v Speaker 1>at Arghana Park, which of course is a beautiful spot

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<v Speaker 1>where the Elizabeth Eagles play their home games.

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<v Speaker 13>Yeah, so myself and Trey, who sort of do the

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<v Speaker 13>content under Marmalade, are going back to our junior footy

0:34:20.640 --> 0:34:23.560
<v Speaker 13>clubs tomorrow night. So I'm lock this footy club and

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<v Speaker 13>trays as Elizabeth, which is obviously where you went out

0:34:26.400 --> 0:34:29.920
<v Speaker 13>the other week and kicked the beautiful snag. And we're

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<v Speaker 13>playing against each other in a bit of an exhibition

0:34:32.080 --> 0:34:34.600
<v Speaker 13>match for the long weekend, so hopefully get a few,

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<v Speaker 13>a bit of a crowd down Elizabeth, brings some fans

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<v Speaker 13>back to local footy and back to Elizabeth and try

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<v Speaker 13>try to do one better than you did. Not do

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<v Speaker 13>any injuries.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just looking at one of your videos. You're walking

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<v Speaker 2>into the Adelaide Oval and the headline is normalized wearing

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<v Speaker 2>full you and your mates on the hill with the

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<v Speaker 2>adelege kidd on it with a lucky sponsor.

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<v Speaker 10>On the back.

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<v Speaker 13>Yeah, we just played a game across the road at

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<v Speaker 13>Uni Parkland, so we thought we don't really want to

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<v Speaker 13>miss out on the He was a Crows game. Everyone

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<v Speaker 13>missed out on the footy at so he just walked

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<v Speaker 13>straight across after the game about really icing up or anything,

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<v Speaker 13>and then we had to double us up later that.

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<v Speaker 2>You've got your boots on for goodness.

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<v Speaker 13>The ankles were quite solid on that day.

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<v Speaker 1>That We love your stuff mates and for those at

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<v Speaker 1>home on social media, follow these guys at Marmalade made

0:35:32.400 --> 0:35:34.839
<v Speaker 1>to tell us the game in particular, she's got some

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<v Speaker 1>big names locked in fits my night.

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<v Speaker 13>Yeah, I'll give you one preshure off the prayers. There

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<v Speaker 13>hasn't been announcedtairs going to announced bay today, but Tommy

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<v Speaker 13>Jonas is going to be ping on.

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<v Speaker 1>The first very nice, i'd imagine as well. The TJ

0:35:46.040 --> 0:35:46.759
<v Speaker 1>is still in very.

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<v Speaker 13>Good Nick's Yeah, it's fresh off, fresh off being a

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<v Speaker 13>captain of the AFL club. Really coming down to the

0:35:53.120 --> 0:35:55.760
<v Speaker 13>lowest did, which is a strange four from Grace unfortunately

0:35:55.800 --> 0:35:58.560
<v Speaker 13>for TJ. But you go, Johnny Plant is going to

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<v Speaker 13>come back out. So it was a bit. We got

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<v Speaker 13>Bernie Beard's Daniel Modlot play of social media content creators

0:36:05.080 --> 0:36:09.680
<v Speaker 13>like Cada McDonald and the Chef Mats Prime Train. But yeah,

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<v Speaker 13>it should be a couple of thousand people down Elizabeth,

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<v Speaker 13>and it should be a great night of family fun.

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<v Speaker 13>I know there's gonna be a lot of chocolate milk

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<v Speaker 13>candid out, so I think they're looking at about four

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<v Speaker 13>thousand free cardens to be handed out of chocolate milk,

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<v Speaker 13>so Elizabeth will be swimming in chocolate milk by then.

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<v Speaker 2>And I reckon, well, we absolutely adore what you're doing

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<v Speaker 2>right now. Thank you so much for taking the time

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<v Speaker 2>to have a chat with us this morning.

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<v Speaker 1>No, thank you so much. Guys.

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<v Speaker 13>Hopefully say down there, hazy, weave it. If you're on crutches,

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<v Speaker 13>we'll try. I'll try and fed your hand ups beautiful.

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<v Speaker 1>Thanks check six thirty tomorrow night at Agana Park. It

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<v Speaker 1>is the Elizabeth Eagles taking on the Lockley Demons. What

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<v Speaker 1>an absolute showcase. It's going to be good on your check.

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<v Speaker 13>As we love you, Thank you.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey, I'm going to tell you something super exciting. Well

0:36:49.880 --> 0:36:54.000
<v Speaker 2>it is for me anyway. But this morning at my

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<v Speaker 2>coffee shop, which is on the corner of my street,

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<v Speaker 2>it's called Nathaniel's. Big shout out to Nathaniel, who is

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<v Speaker 2>an absolute legend. Remember when my daughter locked herself out

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<v Speaker 2>of the house and she had to go down to

0:37:03.040 --> 0:37:06.960
<v Speaker 2>Nathaniels and they helped her same coffe shop anyway, Well,

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<v Speaker 2>there's not a chain of Nathaniels, but guess he was

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<v Speaker 2>in there this morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Are we talking? You said, you said it's someone more

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<v Speaker 1>important than chasing on.

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<v Speaker 2>Francis bloody elbow.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you think you were going to say that, out

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<v Speaker 1>of all the people the Prime Minister arguably the most

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<v Speaker 1>important person in the country.

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<v Speaker 2>The Prime Minister was at my coffee shop, was not

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<v Speaker 2>mine's Nathaniels technically, how cool is that?

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<v Speaker 1>It is? Yeah, I'm not sure how you would handle

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<v Speaker 1>yourself if you bumped into Albo at your local coffee store.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. And you know how I know this to be

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<v Speaker 2>true because he went on five doup lay upstairs and

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<v Speaker 2>said this.

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<v Speaker 9>Gone, good morning, great to be back in Adelaide this morning.

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<v Speaker 9>I've been in a little coffee shop, Nathaniels, which is

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<v Speaker 9>terrific in in Saint Peter's where we've launched our candidate

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<v Speaker 9>for Stir.

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<v Speaker 1>There you go excites me?

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<v Speaker 4>No end.

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<v Speaker 1>I just wonder. I just wonder. Next time you get

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<v Speaker 1>to Nathaniels, you need to work out if Thaniel did

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<v Speaker 1>the right thing and if Nathaniel's part of a different generation.

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<v Speaker 1>Did Nathaniel grab the Prime Minister and say can we

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<v Speaker 1>just get a quick photo? Did we get just for

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<v Speaker 1>the wall and just for our social media?

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<v Speaker 2>He's very unassuming and lovely Nathaniel. I don't think he'd

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<v Speaker 2>be that forward. But the Prime Minister's people had to

0:38:18.600 --> 0:38:22.279
<v Speaker 2>come in beforehand and can you see how excited I am?

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<v Speaker 2>And sweep the coffee shop and make sure that there

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<v Speaker 2>was no one sinister in there. So they had to

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<v Speaker 2>get security to go through.

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<v Speaker 1>What do I sweeping for?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh no, I don't know. Nothing's going to happen.

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<v Speaker 1>Can you do as a favor? Can you do us

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<v Speaker 1>a favor? And you'll probably go Nathaniels today this is

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<v Speaker 1>probably private information. Can you please find out what he ordered?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, because I'm telling you right now. If the Prime

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<v Speaker 1>Minister says I'll have a coffee, get us a hot chocolate,

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<v Speaker 1>then it's off.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, I'm not sure that we can be led fearlessly

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<v Speaker 1>by a hot chocolate by someone who drinks a hot chocolate.

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<v Speaker 2>With the marshmallow. I wonder if he charged him to.

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<v Speaker 2>That's the other question.

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<v Speaker 1>Ask a good question.