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Speaker 1: This is the Fitting In with Kate Richie podcast.

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Speaker 2: Do you think people that don't have children that are

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Speaker 2: of the age of us look younger than us?

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Speaker 3: I mean have yes.

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Speaker 2: I suppose what I'm asking is since Ted turn ten.

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Speaker 2: I looked the other day and I thought, Man, you're

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Speaker 2: stripping years off me. You three little buggers at home,

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Speaker 2: You're naughty little monkeys. You're stripping years from me. I'm

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Speaker 2: going gray on the sides.

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Speaker 4: Look a look at my chest, swannye oh, it looks

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Speaker 4: like a silvery back, a silver You know, they get you,

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Speaker 4: they get like that.

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Speaker 5: Do you do you think back to the stages in

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Speaker 5: your parents' lives and compare them to what's coming up

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Speaker 5: for you. I do it all the time because I'm

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Speaker 5: forty eight now, right, and I think back to when

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Speaker 5: Dad was forty eight. Dad was still in pretty good

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Speaker 5: nick and sort of looking after himself a bit. But

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Speaker 5: I just remember that period and I try to remember,

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Speaker 5: is that what it's going to be for me? When

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Speaker 5: I was, you know, fifteen years of age? Like here

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Speaker 5: he is now, and what will we like as a

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Speaker 5: family back then? Really good question. Quite stressful. It's quite stressful.

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Speaker 5: Mom and Dad were both working and trying to pay

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Speaker 5: off them all that was quite high.

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Speaker 2: That's the difference. Your semi retired, so your dad is

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Speaker 2: still work. I mean, you're done at nine o'clock.

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Speaker 4: I remember very clearly my mom's fortieth birthday.

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Speaker 3: I remember that.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and I remember thinking, oh, well, you know she

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Speaker 4: dies now.

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Speaker 3: She had a good innings.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, forty's good. Forty's a good one.

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Speaker 5: What you wanted the inheritance then, or is that what

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Speaker 5: you're looking for?

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Speaker 3: I think I think, God, she was so young.

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Speaker 4: She was thirty eight or something when my parents split up,

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Speaker 4: eight and I remember thinking, God, it's so old.

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Speaker 6: I just I haven't made in town at the moment.

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Speaker 2: He's from the US and.

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Speaker 6: He is my age, so he's forty five.

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Speaker 2: He's the most beautiful looking man I've ever seen. He's single,

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Speaker 2: and he has no kids, and his life life is

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Speaker 2: whatever he decides to do when he gets up in

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Speaker 2: the morning.

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Speaker 4: Well, this is a logistical situation, so you know there's

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Speaker 4: only a certain amount. This is my theory because I

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Speaker 4: agree with you and I've been thinking about it as well.

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Speaker 4: I money is a you know, a finite resource.

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Speaker 3: That's it. That's everyone just gets the amount that they

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Speaker 3: get when.

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Speaker 4: You've got kids, you've got to split that a long way. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: and you don't have the luxury of relaxing. Ever, when

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Speaker 4: you don't have to split your money or whatever, you

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Speaker 4: can spend it on yourself. You can have a holiday,

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Speaker 4: you can have a massage, treat yourself.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: And what that does is, you know, incrementally makes you

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Speaker 4: look better.

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Speaker 3: So he sleep and the.

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Speaker 6: Sleep sleep sleep.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: But see the other one, the other, the other good thing,

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Speaker 5: the positive that you're going to look at a kid

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Speaker 5: with kids as well. They bring so much responsibility in

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Speaker 5: your life. Do you remember when you were young and

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Speaker 5: never saved any money.

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Speaker 6: You're forty five year old, mate, do you.

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Speaker 5: Reckon that he's mature enough that he's saving money on

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Speaker 5: the side. This is the thing you need responsibility.

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Speaker 3: In your life.

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Speaker 6: As you get older, you need to mature and.

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Speaker 3: You become a Do you have savings?

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Speaker 6: FITSI do you know what being a parent teaches you? Oh,

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Speaker 6: my god, savings. If you're a parent, you become a

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Speaker 6: master problem solver.

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Speaker 2: Correct at every minute of the day, you solve the

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Speaker 2: problem and you become a guy maguver. If something's wrong,

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Speaker 2: you fix it and you do that NonStop. Let's get

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Speaker 2: back to the more interesting point about this made of mine.

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Speaker 2: He drops into a local hairdresser and bondi.

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Speaker 6: He walks in.

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Speaker 2: There's looking Tommy knows him sorry, good looking, naturally good looking.

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Speaker 7: Roost like.

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Speaker 2: The thick dark hair on him is superb and the

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Speaker 2: white teeth is a beautiful smile.

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Speaker 3: Are you in love with him?

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Speaker 6: Slightly? Yeah? In love and jealous? So he wanders in.

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Speaker 2: He says to the hairdresser, make me look handsome anyway.

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Speaker 6: He sits down for two seconds.

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Speaker 2: He looks out the window before the guy starts cutting

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Speaker 2: his hair, and he makes eyes with this girl who's

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Speaker 2: wandering wandering past. They stare at each other for possibly

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Speaker 2: two seconds before she wanders into the hairdresser and says,

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Speaker 2: how long will you be because I'd really like to

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Speaker 2: get to know you.

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Speaker 3: Wow, this is awesome.

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Speaker 6: And he says, well, it shouldn't take too long.

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Speaker 2: If you want to grab a coffee or something, I'll

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Speaker 2: jump out.

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Speaker 6: Of the chair and we can go for a walk.

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Speaker 4: This is magical, how wonderful, What a great story.

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Speaker 6: She's from overseas as well. He then goes for a walk.

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Speaker 2: They're down a bondad to Bronte, just wandering her along

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Speaker 2: getting to know each other with.

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Speaker 6: His fresh cut. Yeah, straight out the salon and then.

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Speaker 3: Kid just barked down and.

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Speaker 6: They get to the.

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Speaker 2: Top, like I'm just painting a picture here, Jess, if

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Speaker 2: you've got some sort of romantic music. They get to

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Speaker 2: the top, sort of a lookout point, sit down on

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Speaker 2: the bench.

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Speaker 3: YLE's closer.

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Speaker 1: No, never.

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Speaker 5: Do that to an animal.

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Speaker 1: I would not do that to an.

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Speaker 2: Animal, thank you. Fifty minutes so bad for later. They

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Speaker 2: sit down on the park bench and just start kissing.

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Speaker 2: Oh my now, and I was like, I said, the

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Speaker 2: next time that happens ring me, I'm going to come

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Speaker 2: and stand about twenty meters away with a cigarette and

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Speaker 2: glass of whiskey.

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Speaker 5: Now can we can we now jump back to reality here,

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Speaker 5: because I mean, you're in the Eastern Suburbs. We're talking Bonda.

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Speaker 3: He's a good looking.

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Speaker 5: Guy, he's forty five.

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Speaker 3: How often would this happen?

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Speaker 5: And you know what, there's Kevin who's currently playing Grand

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Speaker 5: Theft Auto in Marylands.

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Speaker 6: Why it's not happening to me? Is it the cheesels

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Speaker 6: on my fingers?

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Speaker 3: Is it my Sydney Swans already? Oh my god?

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Speaker 6: Is it the bo I don't know what it is.

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Speaker 6: Thirteen twenty four to ten unsolicited approaches.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, this is impressively. I could never This could never

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Speaker 4: Because if I if I'm at the hairdresser, it's never just.

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Speaker 3: I'll just wandering.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, made an appointment and worked everything around it for

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Speaker 4: three weeks. And secondly, I'm too busy in an app

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Speaker 4: called school bag spelt with a K updating the new

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Speaker 4: year levels of my kids school, so.

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Speaker 6: You don't have time to wander off hand in hand.

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Speaker 4: No, sir, ree sEH, come back to me in six weeks.

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Speaker 3: I may have a ten minute window.

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Speaker 6: Cody, Welcome to the show. If you've been approached on

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Speaker 6: the street before.

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Speaker 8: Hello boys and Chrissy.

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Speaker 3: Hello Darling.

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Speaker 6: What's the story, Cody.

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Speaker 8: I have a dog, a black labor It always very cute.

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Speaker 8: We've actually named him after a Sydney Swans player.

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Speaker 3: And I was walking him.

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Speaker 8: With my partner, and my partner had stopped to pick

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Speaker 8: up the poop and I stopped out in the front

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Speaker 8: of a pub and a guy ran out of the

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Speaker 8: because he loves the Swans and my number.

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Speaker 6: Oh Wow, I used the dog to get to you

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Speaker 6: the dog.

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Speaker 7: So the dog?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, what hot property, buddy? So Cody, what happened next date?

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Speaker 5: Were you keen?

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 8: Then my partner rocks up behind me and the guy goes, oh, mate,

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Speaker 8: I'm so sorry and just but so can I still

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Speaker 8: have a photo of your dog?

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Speaker 4: Did you feel me like? Did you feel like the

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Speaker 8: I did feel like I was like my partner, you know,

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Speaker 8: me and Pap we could take on the world here

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Speaker 8: without you.

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Speaker 2: Maddie who works on the show No Stranger to the

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Speaker 2: unsolicited approach?

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Speaker 4: How many times has it happened to you, Maddie?

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Speaker 1: A couple, but most recently, I was walking down the

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Speaker 1: street in my neighborhood Long Pacific Highway, and this guy

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Speaker 1: came sprinting down the street like all huffing and puffing, and.

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Speaker 3: I turned, excuse me, excuse me, hi, because oh, I.

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Speaker 1: Just got to say, you're so beautiful. I just saw

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Speaker 1: you in the gym and I just thought you were

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Speaker 1: so beautiful and I just had to come and let

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Speaker 3: Wow.

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Speaker 1: I thought he was asking for directions or something. I

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Speaker 1: I didn't really know how to react. My fiance was

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Speaker 1: like twenty meters behind, and I'm just waiting for him

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Speaker 2: So what did you say?

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Speaker 6: Did you say no, I'm taken all?

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Speaker 1: I said? Oh?

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Speaker 3: Thanks?

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Speaker 1: And then he looked and he was like, oh, it

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Speaker 1: looks like you're kind of busy right now.

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Speaker 2: And I was like, yeah, with my fiance. Busy with

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Speaker 2: my fiance, but thank you.

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Speaker 3: It's very flattering to have.

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Speaker 5: The confidence to do it, though I could never have

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Speaker 5: the balls to go up and just try it.

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Speaker 3: Chase, I don't know, he's married.

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Speaker 6: What it feels like?

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Speaker 5: You know what I mean?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: Also awesome?

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Speaker 3: I mean, are you all right? Is everything okay with you?

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Speaker 6: We're are we?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: Okay?

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Speaker 4: And you just just you go up to a hot

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Speaker 4: girl and say, hey, you're hot, do you want to day?

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Speaker 3: And then what if she said yes? Guy?

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Speaker 4: Joking mate, Michael told me to do it.

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Speaker 5: Said I just wanted to feel what it feels like

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Speaker 5: a Marty and Marubra.

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Speaker 6: What happened to you and your mates?

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Speaker 7: Oh, he he's going mate, this happened like thirty years ago,

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Speaker 7: and I was like maybe thirteen fourteen and I was

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Speaker 7: hanging around with some older boys. There were like ten

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Speaker 7: years older than me, could you, And we were just

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Speaker 7: standing on the corner of the Kujiba Hotel and these

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Speaker 7: two girls were just like walking across the roads more dust,

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Speaker 7: and one of them just walked up straight up to

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Speaker 7: my mate and just started making out with him. What

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Speaker 7: we were just like what and then she just stopped

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Speaker 7: fissing him, and then they just crossed the road and

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Speaker 7: went over to the beach, and they just kept on

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Speaker 7: giving us to look back, and we were just looking

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Speaker 5: Happens moment moment in time for Marty, isn't it Marty

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Speaker 5: hasn't forgotten that it's a while ago, but you don't

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Speaker 5: forget it's something like you never forget it.

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Speaker 6: It's a shame. I look like mcmlloy.

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Speaker 2: I don't think many girls sort of try and kiss

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Speaker 3: And also you're married.

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Speaker 6: That's the other point.

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Speaker 4: Yes, I feel like if you if you listen to

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Speaker 3: I reckon.

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Speaker 4: A good sort of philosophy to adopt for this in

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Speaker 4: that rich people do at auctions where they just bid.

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Speaker 4: They just bid, and they're not emotionally invested in anything.

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Speaker 4: So every person that you see that's vaguely attractive to you,

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Speaker 4: get it, like the house, it's great.

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Speaker 3: If it's not, it doesn't matter. There always be another house.

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Speaker 6: Always be Natasha at Engelburn. Do you do some bidding?

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Speaker 3: I did what happened.

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Speaker 7: I went into.

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Speaker 4: R M.

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Speaker 7: Williamstid Ternis and gave the server like the retail worker my.

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Speaker 8: Number and four years later when you got Harry.

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Speaker 3: Wow.

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Speaker 6: So how did you approach? Did you just say I

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Speaker 5: Yes, that's exactly what I did.

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Speaker 3: I gave yes, and I came.

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Speaker 8: In the other day and I wanted to sigh my number, and.

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Speaker 3: So I gave it.

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Speaker 7: And then he got in charge with me and we

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Speaker 7: went on a date.

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Speaker 4: With the date because it was at a shopping center.

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Speaker 4: Did you go to the food court and share a

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Speaker 4: muff and break muffin? Did you get the top and

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Speaker 4: h got the bottom?

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Speaker 7: Oh?

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Speaker 6: Great, you would have got twenty percent of R and

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Speaker 3: I want discount.

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Speaker 5: And the smell of leather, I mean the environment, the

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Speaker 5: smell of leather. It was just the perfect opportunity to do.

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Speaker 6: It, wasn't it? Does it get you?

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Speaker 3: Does it? Mate?

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Speaker 6: The smell of lab.

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Speaker 5: Maybe you walked into an r and when.

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Speaker 6: You know, it's just magnificent. We let to Fitzy sniff

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Speaker 6: the leather for a while.

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