WEBVTT - CHICK CHAT | Does Physical Attraction Have To Be Instant In A Successful Relationship? 0:00:00.840 --> 0:00:05.440 Go get you the morning every day, adelaides. 0:00:11.200 --> 0:00:13.720 Really chat, let's chat. 0:00:13.800 --> 0:00:15.120 It is so time for it. 0:00:16.440 --> 0:00:18.720 Let's go girl. That's a bet segue. 0:00:19.760 --> 0:00:21.920 I mean, it's not not a better seguey at all, 0:00:21.960 --> 0:00:23.440 because there's no nuts in this segment. 0:00:23.440 --> 0:00:24.919 That's the whole point is chit chat. 0:00:25.720 --> 0:00:26.560 That's for the girls. 0:00:26.640 --> 0:00:29.880 Yeah, this one's for the ladies. 0:00:30.080 --> 0:00:32.040 Okay again, if you're joining us for the first time 0:00:32.040 --> 0:00:34.479 in twenty twenty four, don't fear I'm about to explain 0:00:34.479 --> 0:00:36.120 what the segment is all about. This is the stuff 0:00:36.159 --> 0:00:39.360 that us girls talk about when Andrew's not around, and 0:00:39.440 --> 0:00:41.200 stuff that probably should stay off here. 0:00:41.240 --> 0:00:43.800 But now that's why I get to work so early. Yeah, 0:00:44.320 --> 0:00:47.000 I'll try and get here before you guys leave after you. Yeah, 0:00:47.360 --> 0:00:50.240 you can't talk about it. 0:00:50.360 --> 0:00:52.640 We're doing in funny your face anyway, Exactly. 0:00:52.760 --> 0:00:56.840 I appreciate joining in on chick Chat is producer Zoe. Zoe, 0:00:57.160 --> 0:00:59.760 you are in your twenties, very career driven and highly 0:00:59.800 --> 0:01:03.120 so sucessful at it. I might say, thank you, Jody A. 0:01:03.600 --> 0:01:05.000 It's not really a new relationship. 0:01:05.040 --> 0:01:06.680 Now, how long have you been No, it's nearly a year, 0:01:06.920 --> 0:01:08.039 so it's a sort of new. 0:01:08.200 --> 0:01:10.880 That's a year that poor old Hazey over here has 0:01:10.880 --> 0:01:12.720 had to sit by and watch his dream man get 0:01:12.800 --> 0:01:13.399 snapped up. 0:01:13.280 --> 0:01:14.320 By you in a relationship. 0:01:14.440 --> 0:01:17.640 Okay, Hazy, it's fine. I can sit back and watch 0:01:17.720 --> 0:01:20.759 you guys prosper and develop and know that as long 0:01:20.800 --> 0:01:23.160 as Alex is happy and I'm happy. 0:01:26.600 --> 0:01:29.520 News reader Abbi also joins us you're in your thirties. 0:01:29.800 --> 0:01:31.959 She's probably edging close and closer to your forties. 0:01:32.040 --> 0:01:32.320 Round of it. 0:01:32.400 --> 0:01:32.720 How are you? 0:01:33.319 --> 0:01:38.640 Wow? You're on five? Oh, I'm very young, thirties. Okay, 0:01:38.840 --> 0:01:39.600 I'm still single. 0:01:39.720 --> 0:01:41.679 Yeah, nothing happened over the break to change that? 0:01:41.840 --> 0:01:44.679 No, nothing to discuss, sure about that? 0:01:44.880 --> 0:01:45.080 Yeah? 0:01:45.560 --> 0:01:48.560 Okay, when you're going to make a launch something that 0:01:48.640 --> 0:01:51.080 might be happening never on Instagram? 0:01:51.480 --> 0:01:53.000 Okay, chick chat. 0:01:53.200 --> 0:01:56.559 All right, today we are discussing this and get involved 0:01:56.600 --> 0:01:58.520 thirteen twenty four to ten because we would love to 0:01:58.520 --> 0:02:01.760 hear your thoughts on this one physical attraction? Does it 0:02:01.880 --> 0:02:05.080 have to be immediate for a relationship to lass? And 0:02:05.280 --> 0:02:06.000 this came up? 0:02:06.040 --> 0:02:08.920 Why so, I've got a friend I call her the 0:02:09.040 --> 0:02:11.560 Queen of Tinder because she used to have a spreadsheet 0:02:11.560 --> 0:02:13.240 she used to share with us, all because she was 0:02:13.400 --> 0:02:15.640 hell bent on I'm going to find my person and 0:02:15.680 --> 0:02:17.280 she goes, she used to send me Abby, it's a 0:02:17.360 --> 0:02:20.560 numbers game to keep dating until you find somebody, So 0:02:20.639 --> 0:02:23.120 we'd you know, you get it's Alex this person and 0:02:23.200 --> 0:02:25.160 you're like who, and she'd send you the spreadsheet so 0:02:25.160 --> 0:02:26.000 you could play a longer. 0:02:26.080 --> 0:02:29.440 Oh, it's a small city we're not talking about. 0:02:31.440 --> 0:02:35.160 Also, she's in Brisbane so far anyway, So she found 0:02:35.200 --> 0:02:38.760 a guy. They started dating, all going really well, hard 0:02:38.840 --> 0:02:42.040 launch on Instagram, met the family, blah, blah blah. All 0:02:42.080 --> 0:02:44.000 of a sudden she posted something a bit weird to 0:02:44.080 --> 0:02:45.920 her close friend's story and I messaged and said, does 0:02:45.919 --> 0:02:48.279 everything all right? And she said, he's broken. 0:02:48.000 --> 0:02:48.400 Up with me? 0:02:49.080 --> 0:02:51.040 And I went why and she said, because he has 0:02:51.040 --> 0:02:53.400 a vision in his head of what his future wife 0:02:53.440 --> 0:02:56.560 looks like and that's not me. So he's decided he 0:02:56.600 --> 0:02:58.919 wants to see other people. And I'm like, are you 0:02:59.160 --> 0:03:02.080 absolutely ca me? So he's put I think eight months 0:03:02.120 --> 0:03:04.800 they were together, which yes, okay, isn't long, but why 0:03:04.840 --> 0:03:08.080 would you bother and why would you invest like they 0:03:08.120 --> 0:03:09.440 met the families like. 0:03:09.520 --> 0:03:10.600 And that was the only reason. 0:03:10.720 --> 0:03:11.360 It was just. 0:03:11.800 --> 0:03:15.000 Reason is he's got this image in his head of 0:03:15.040 --> 0:03:17.720 what his future wife looks like and it's not her. 0:03:17.880 --> 0:03:20.040 But my question is, wouldn't he have known that when 0:03:20.040 --> 0:03:22.600 he first met her? So why why did he waste 0:03:22.639 --> 0:03:24.320 eight months of that poor girl's time? 0:03:24.400 --> 0:03:27.680 And she's quite she's, you know, turned thirty. She's feeling 0:03:27.800 --> 0:03:30.760 like me, like time's running out? Where is my person? 0:03:31.520 --> 0:03:33.920 And she's always made comments about I'm just not attractive 0:03:33.960 --> 0:03:36.880 to the opposite sex. She's got short hair, but she's gorgeous, 0:03:36.880 --> 0:03:39.360 she's absolutely stunning. But she's like, I just don't get 0:03:39.400 --> 0:03:42.040 that male attention from people when I go out, blah 0:03:42.080 --> 0:03:44.920 blah blah, which I don't think is true, but yeah, anyway, 0:03:45.000 --> 0:03:47.360 So it just got me thinking, Yeah, how do you 0:03:47.400 --> 0:03:49.920 stay in a relationship or the attraction because for me, 0:03:50.000 --> 0:03:52.240 I was always very nuts got to be immediate, but 0:03:52.280 --> 0:03:54.480 then as I get older, I think it can grow 0:03:55.000 --> 0:03:55.400 as well. 0:03:55.520 --> 0:03:57.200 So I was wondering what you guys were thinking. 0:03:57.320 --> 0:04:00.000 Well, I think I'm with you on that one hundred percent. 0:04:00.200 --> 0:04:00.760 I think that. 0:04:01.000 --> 0:04:04.440 I mean, there's varying degrees of physical attraction, aren't there 0:04:04.760 --> 0:04:07.280 There's like I really want to jump on you, but 0:04:07.320 --> 0:04:10.960 then there's also then there's also like I find you 0:04:11.040 --> 0:04:13.480 vaguely attractive but that can develop once you get to 0:04:13.520 --> 0:04:16.320 know the person and who they are and what they're about. 0:04:16.400 --> 0:04:18.839 I'm a firm believer that you fall in love with 0:04:18.880 --> 0:04:20.680 the whole package, not just what someone looks like. 0:04:20.760 --> 0:04:23.279 Yeah, what if they got a focus on that tape? 0:04:24.360 --> 0:04:27.160 This is why you're not involved in you can. 0:04:27.200 --> 0:04:29.240 I say one thing quickly, though, and this is actually 0:04:29.240 --> 0:04:32.200 a compliment to all the ladies. I think your more 0:04:32.279 --> 0:04:35.880 chance of seeing a bloke who's not good sorry, a 0:04:35.880 --> 0:04:37.800 bloke who's not good looking with a gorgeous girl then 0:04:37.800 --> 0:04:39.880 the other way around, because I think blokes as a 0:04:39.880 --> 0:04:42.320 whole probably more superficial than girls. I think if you 0:04:42.360 --> 0:04:44.080 are the majority of blokes, they'd say, well, there has 0:04:44.120 --> 0:04:46.360 to be an initial attraction and we go from there. 0:04:46.839 --> 0:04:49.640 Versus girls, for the most part, we'll give you a shot. 0:04:50.880 --> 0:04:53.120 We'll be able to see past attraction and fall in 0:04:53.200 --> 0:04:54.800 love with someone's personality or. 0:04:54.800 --> 0:04:59.640 Their bank balance, or their generosity level. When it comes 0:04:59.640 --> 0:05:00.800 to give, what do you reckon? 0:05:00.880 --> 0:05:03.920 So I'm a little bit different on this one purely 0:05:04.000 --> 0:05:06.320 from the experience I've you know, I was single for 0:05:06.360 --> 0:05:08.400 a long time, about five six years, and I went 0:05:08.440 --> 0:05:10.440 on lots of dates and I really liked people, so 0:05:10.520 --> 0:05:12.640 I would keep seeing them when I wasn't attracted to them. 0:05:12.800 --> 0:05:14.839 But none of it has ever worked until I met Alex, 0:05:14.839 --> 0:05:17.000 my current boyfriend, who I was instantly attracted to. So 0:05:17.080 --> 0:05:19.080 I think there has to be a pretty significant element 0:05:19.120 --> 0:05:20.240 of instant attraction. 0:05:20.720 --> 0:05:21.760 S'teen twenty four to ten. 0:05:21.800 --> 0:05:26.200 Can a relationship work even if there's no initial attraction. 0:05:25.920 --> 0:05:27.560 Or does that have to be there for it to 0:05:27.600 --> 0:05:28.040 be longited? 0:05:28.080 --> 0:05:31.600 I think, unfortunately that's just how we are as society. 0:05:31.839 --> 0:05:34.880 Like if you see someone and go, oh, hello, you more, 0:05:34.920 --> 0:05:35.960 you know, you want to go over, you want to 0:05:36.000 --> 0:05:37.440 talk to them, that sort of thing. If you're not 0:05:37.480 --> 0:05:39.200 sort of there's gotta be some sort. 0:05:38.960 --> 0:05:41.479 Of But I want to believe that there are people 0:05:41.480 --> 0:05:44.200 out there who at first were like, oh, not really 0:05:44.200 --> 0:05:46.600 interested in you, but then it grew over time and 0:05:46.680 --> 0:05:47.440 they're still together. 0:05:47.520 --> 0:05:49.799 It's it's like best friends who all of a sudden 0:05:49.839 --> 0:05:51.560 one day wake up and oh, one's in love with 0:05:51.560 --> 0:05:51.840 the other. 0:05:51.920 --> 0:05:52.960 And if they go, yeah. 0:05:52.880 --> 0:05:54.760 You're going to say wake up, rolled over and when oh, 0:05:54.760 --> 0:05:59.440 I like that, Let's go to Hannah from Wilson Lakes. 0:05:59.520 --> 0:06:01.520 Hey, Hannah, Hey, how I go? 0:06:01.880 --> 0:06:05.000 Do you need that instant attraction for a relationship to work. 0:06:05.960 --> 0:06:09.440 Well, the story is me and my high school best friend. 0:06:09.680 --> 0:06:12.919 I thought he was, you know, just a sinky high schooler. 0:06:13.440 --> 0:06:16.440 We graduated in twenty nineteen, and we've now been together 0:06:16.520 --> 0:06:19.800 for five years. We're engaged and about to get married 0:06:19.839 --> 0:06:20.520 in February. 0:06:22.640 --> 0:06:23.000 Nice. 0:06:23.680 --> 0:06:26.760 So when you're in high school together, there was no oh, 0:06:26.800 --> 0:06:27.520 I really want. 0:06:27.400 --> 0:06:28.360 To pass him. 0:06:28.920 --> 0:06:32.159 No, absolutely not. But then eventually, you know, we started 0:06:32.200 --> 0:06:34.960 hanging out more and all my friends called the girlfriend glower, 0:06:35.839 --> 0:06:36.880 the girlfriend. 0:06:36.480 --> 0:06:40.880 Grower, No, the girl. Yeah, I'll blow up, blow up, Okay, sorry, 0:06:40.880 --> 0:06:41.520 I'll just shut up. 0:06:41.560 --> 0:06:44.440 Yeah, you take over, chicken, Oh, the girlfriend grow up. 0:06:48.080 --> 0:06:50.600 Go on the Google later and I tell you, hey, hey, 0:06:50.640 --> 0:06:52.160 let's just be honest just for a second though, Like, 0:06:52.240 --> 0:06:53.440 what did he look like in high school? 0:06:53.440 --> 0:06:55.680 I could imagine one of those those teen movies where 0:06:55.720 --> 0:06:58.200 he had the big glasses and maybe had pimples, and 0:06:58.200 --> 0:07:01.200 all of a sudden he just ten more morphed into 0:07:01.440 --> 0:07:07.040 ditched the glasses. Maybe I had a back brace. 0:07:06.120 --> 0:07:08.400 Had the braces? Yeah? 0:07:08.960 --> 0:07:09.279 Less? 0:07:09.400 --> 0:07:11.840 Oh Hannah, Well, congratulations and all the best for the 0:07:11.920 --> 0:07:12.760 uncoming wedding. 0:07:12.920 --> 0:07:14.240 Yeah, beautiful. 0:07:14.920 --> 0:07:18.400 Nice that it's a very difficult conversation. I thought you 0:07:18.400 --> 0:07:19.720 were ugly in high school. 0:07:20.200 --> 0:07:21.840 Nicole from Morphanbar. What do you think Does it have 0:07:21.840 --> 0:07:22.840 to be incident the attraction? 0:07:24.120 --> 0:07:26.880 No? No, I first met my husband, I ran away 0:07:26.880 --> 0:07:30.280 from him. He met him at good dinner party and 0:07:30.920 --> 0:07:33.440 mum picked me up that night and he wasn't looking 0:07:33.440 --> 0:07:38.560 so I ran off and he stopped me down on Facebook, 0:07:38.600 --> 0:07:42.200 as you do, and we went out a couple of times. 0:07:42.280 --> 0:07:45.160 I split up with him to go out with someone else, 0:07:45.840 --> 0:07:48.400 and then was single for a bit and then he 0:07:48.960 --> 0:07:55.560 messaged me again on Facebook, bloody Facebook, and he said, look, 0:07:55.560 --> 0:07:57.600 we haven't seen each other for a while. You're single, 0:07:57.720 --> 0:07:59.800 I'm single. How about we go for a drink from 0:08:00.280 --> 0:08:04.840 Runnell Straight? And yeah, that was That was twelve years ago, 0:08:04.960 --> 0:08:06.880 was married with ten and got free kids. 0:08:07.240 --> 0:08:09.600 What changed? What changes for you? 0:08:10.480 --> 0:08:13.440 He grow on me, He grow on me, and I 0:08:13.960 --> 0:08:16.040 actually was the one to say I love you her. 0:08:16.600 --> 0:08:20.800 And so I mean, what if they're the most gorgeous 0:08:20.800 --> 0:08:23.960 guy in the world, Ryan Reynolds, for instance, But they've 0:08:24.000 --> 0:08:27.480 got a crap, They've got a terrible personality and terrible morals. 0:08:27.480 --> 0:08:28.000 How about that? 0:08:28.960 --> 0:08:30.440 You know absolutely? 0:08:31.040 --> 0:08:33.720 I love that you've gone from playing the hardest of 0:08:33.920 --> 0:08:35.120 hard to get to. 0:08:35.360 --> 0:08:36.560 I love you. 0:08:36.800 --> 0:08:39.439 I love you, I. 0:08:39.400 --> 0:08:42.520 Know, and I was supposed to say it and he 0:08:42.600 --> 0:08:50.079 didn't say it back and we yeah down. Yeah. So 0:08:50.120 --> 0:08:53.160 then I was so that I was ready to break 0:08:53.240 --> 0:08:55.600 up with him on this weekend away that he had planned. 0:08:55.640 --> 0:08:58.760 And he actually told me on the weekend away that 0:08:58.800 --> 0:09:01.040 he loved me as well. He wanted to do it 0:09:01.080 --> 0:09:03.760 by the fountain, you know, really nice and romantic, and 0:09:04.160 --> 0:09:05.720 he actually did it when I was in shower. 0:09:08.280 --> 0:09:13.040 What a bloody rollercoaster, this relationship, belos. Thank you so 0:09:13.120 --> 0:09:16.560 much much, kids, Thank you so much for the corner 0:09:16.600 --> 0:09:18.439 col Thank you. 0:09:18.520 --> 0:09:18.880 Thank you. 0:09:19.000 --> 0:09:19.560 There you go. 0:09:20.440 --> 0:09:23.360 It can yeah, absolutely you can out both ways. Oh Jesus, 0:09:23.360 --> 0:09:24.480 girls are complicated, aren't you. 0:09:24.920 --> 0:09:26.559 I'm trying to think that anybody I like. 0:09:26.520 --> 0:09:28.960 You, and then you like him, and then you say 0:09:29.040 --> 0:09:31.040 I love you, and then he says, well, I'm not 0:09:31.040 --> 0:09:32.319 sure if I love you, and then you're like, well, 0:09:32.320 --> 0:09:34.280 now I love you even more, and then eventually he 0:09:34.320 --> 0:09:36.160 says I love you, and you go, well, I'm not 0:09:36.200 --> 0:09:37.120 sure I love you anymore. 0:09:37.120 --> 0:09:39.760 And that's relationships. One on one from Andrew Hayes. Everybody 0:09:39.880 --> 0:09:42.320 tune in tomorrow for more sound. 0:09:42.000 --> 0:09:45.000 Advice who run the World Girls. 0:09:45.040 --> 0:09:48.240 Tell us about the time that somebody ruined the surprise 0:09:48.440 --> 0:09:50.320 On thirteen twenty four to ten. 0:09:50.679 --> 0:09:52.880 He built something up and I was like, this is 0:09:52.880 --> 0:09:54.840 going to be the best surprise for my loved one 0:09:54.920 --> 0:09:57.640 ever and then bank they ruin it. 0:09:57.880 --> 0:10:00.680 And that's exactly what happened to produce it, are we Yeah, 0:10:00.800 --> 0:10:01.760 throw your mum under the bus. 0:10:01.800 --> 0:10:04.120 Yes, it's too soon to even talk about without getting emotional. 0:10:04.440 --> 0:10:08.920 I organized my partner, Alex is a professional photographer, so 0:10:09.040 --> 0:10:11.280 for Christmas, I wanted to get him something quite nice. 0:10:11.360 --> 0:10:15.199 So I got his portfolio, which is online, printed into 0:10:15.280 --> 0:10:18.680 a bound, nice leather book, which. 0:10:18.640 --> 0:10:20.160 Yeah, I thought that was a good one. 0:10:20.320 --> 0:10:26.840 Yeah really really out of character's. 0:10:25.080 --> 0:10:27.440 Strange strain all the photos. 0:10:28.600 --> 0:10:31.959 I sprinkled myself throughout that thing, don't I. But I 0:10:32.080 --> 0:10:33.840 organized that it was a big thing, and I wanted 0:10:33.840 --> 0:10:36.280 to keep it a complete surprise because obviously, if you 0:10:36.320 --> 0:10:37.679 knew I was getting a book of some sort, you no, 0:10:37.720 --> 0:10:40.240 it was whatever. So I kept it at my mum's house. Yes, 0:10:40.280 --> 0:10:41.920 and I said to her, you you keep it, because 0:10:41.920 --> 0:10:44.760 otherwise I'll either have thege to give it to him, 0:10:44.840 --> 0:10:47.120 or you'll find it, or you'll clue in. She was like, 0:10:47.200 --> 0:10:48.920 no worries, got it. So this is like two weeks 0:10:48.920 --> 0:10:50.800 before Christmas. On Christmas Eve, I call her and say, 0:10:50.840 --> 0:10:52.600 I'm going to come and get the book. About ten 0:10:52.600 --> 0:10:54.520 minutes later, Alex, my partner side, is going to come 0:10:54.520 --> 0:10:55.680 with me to visit their puppy. 0:10:55.920 --> 0:10:57.000 Yeah. So I call her back and. 0:10:57.000 --> 0:10:59.880 I'm like, Alex is coming, Yeah, I hang on, can 0:10:59.880 --> 0:11:02.080 I you up there? Did Alex want to go to 0:11:02.120 --> 0:11:04.840 your mum's house to visit the puppy? Or is it 0:11:04.920 --> 0:11:08.520 I'm super hot? So he's mum. 0:11:09.920 --> 0:11:12.360 So we visit, and I text her on the way 0:11:12.440 --> 0:11:15.320 saying just to reminder, obviously hide the book because Alex 0:11:15.400 --> 0:11:16.720 is coming, so it's not you can just give it 0:11:16.760 --> 0:11:20.160 to me. We get there and I didn't notice the 0:11:20.200 --> 0:11:22.160 book is sitting on the kitchen table clear as day. 0:11:22.400 --> 0:11:26.160 I didn't notice. Alex didn't notice, which is great. What 0:11:26.480 --> 0:11:29.240 was really bad was as we were leaving, Mum picks 0:11:29.320 --> 0:11:31.360 up the book and goes, oh, don't forget what you 0:11:31.440 --> 0:11:34.160 came for and holds it up to us. Realizes what 0:11:34.200 --> 0:11:36.719 she she's done and goes, oh crap, and runs out 0:11:36.720 --> 0:11:37.280 of the room with it. 0:11:37.320 --> 0:11:39.520 For goodness, just ran with it. 0:11:39.720 --> 0:11:41.200 So then Alex went, oh, you got me a book. 0:11:41.520 --> 0:11:43.680 That awesome. That's great. So obviously he didn't know what 0:11:43.720 --> 0:11:45.120 was in the book, but the surprise was ruined. 0:11:45.360 --> 0:11:46.440 Oh no, I know. 0:11:46.600 --> 0:11:47.400 And she feel bad? 0:11:47.600 --> 0:11:50.400 Did she feel bad? Did she feel bad at all? 0:11:50.440 --> 0:11:54.400 Because no emotion, even empathetic at all. 0:11:54.920 --> 0:11:57.959 She sent me a text going oh sorry, with a 0:11:57.960 --> 0:11:59.800 little crying emoji, and I just sent back the little 0:12:00.040 --> 0:12:01.000 the emoji with tears. 0:12:01.000 --> 0:12:04.640 That's like God forgiven, but not forgiven. 0:12:04.760 --> 0:12:06.200 She took that really literally. 0:12:06.280 --> 0:12:07.760 We got to Christmas Day the next day and her 0:12:07.760 --> 0:12:09.720 partner said to me, oh my god, so I nearly 0:12:09.720 --> 0:12:11.599 had to call you last night to get you to 0:12:11.600 --> 0:12:13.240 come and see your moum because she cried herself to 0:12:13.280 --> 0:12:17.240 sleep every couple of minutes. I know, every couple of minutes. 0:12:17.280 --> 0:12:20.000 He'd just here, I go, I ruined everything. 0:12:21.760 --> 0:12:23.880 Should have called hazy, he would have gone around and 0:12:23.880 --> 0:12:24.440 comforted her. 0:12:24.640 --> 0:12:26.360 Yeah, I could have. Well, I could have ruined a 0:12:26.440 --> 0:12:29.960 four years. I could have saved the heartbreak from Bindy. 0:12:31.920 --> 0:12:34.080 I remember I remember calling up car and telling her 0:12:34.120 --> 0:12:38.199 that she was pregnant. Ruined. 0:12:38.320 --> 0:12:39.480 That's a big one to ruin too. 0:12:39.600 --> 0:12:40.800 Yeah. 0:12:41.400 --> 0:12:44.360 Thirteen twenty four ten, when was the surprise ruined because 0:12:44.400 --> 0:12:45.400 you've had a shocking run. 0:12:45.480 --> 0:12:48.800 I know, we wake up again. Yes, I took Alexander 0:12:48.800 --> 0:12:51.520 for his birthday for a stay at a hotel, and 0:12:51.760 --> 0:12:54.320 obviously he knew about it at the hotel, but I thought, 0:12:55.080 --> 0:12:56.719 cute here and old order a cheese play on a 0:12:56.840 --> 0:12:59.360 rival so fair get to our room and as we're 0:12:59.440 --> 0:13:02.160 checking in, he was lovely, but he's like, all right, 0:13:02.200 --> 0:13:04.200 so here are all the costs, and just outright said 0:13:04.200 --> 0:13:06.240 how much I'd spent. He goes and that cheese play 0:13:06.280 --> 0:13:09.200 you've ordered us on the way for God's sake. 0:13:09.640 --> 0:13:13.880 And then wins. Yeah, and alex bless him, still didn't 0:13:13.920 --> 0:13:16.560 pick up the cues. Bless us bloke. 0:13:16.720 --> 0:13:18.800 He looked at me and that was a surprise, wasn't it. 0:13:19.200 --> 0:13:19.880 Yeah it was. 0:13:20.000 --> 0:13:20.880 He's a shocking run. 0:13:20.920 --> 0:13:22.839 I'm not doing surprises anymore. I'm done with them. 0:13:22.920 --> 0:13:24.319 Well, it's that time of the year where you try 0:13:24.320 --> 0:13:26.640 to hide things from people. So thirteen twenty four ten, 0:13:26.720 --> 0:13:28.360 when was the surprise ruined? 0:13:28.760 --> 0:13:30.920 Let's go to Amber from Elizabeth east Versy. 0:13:31.000 --> 0:13:33.200 Congratulations you were on that stand by list, But when 0:13:33.280 --> 0:13:34.280 was the surprise ruined? 0:13:35.679 --> 0:13:38.240 Sorry it was ruined for my partner. He ruined his 0:13:38.240 --> 0:13:41.960 own birthday surprise. I had organized, yeah, I know. I 0:13:42.000 --> 0:13:46.480 had organized to pick up the new Spider Man PlayStation 0:13:46.679 --> 0:13:49.240 five console for him. He's a fan of Spider Man 0:13:49.679 --> 0:13:52.920 pretty much. We went to the shops, I took him 0:13:52.920 --> 0:13:54.960 to jab High Fire, sent him off on his way 0:13:55.040 --> 0:13:57.120 to look for other presidents as I kind of dupped 0:13:57.160 --> 0:14:00.960 off without him noticing. I'm waiting in line. I'm crouched 0:14:01.120 --> 0:14:03.880 in claim so that he doesn't see me hiding behind. 0:14:03.640 --> 0:14:04.240 All the box. 0:14:05.120 --> 0:14:06.800 He's trying to call me and trying to message me 0:14:06.840 --> 0:14:09.480 and find out where I am. Finally get to the 0:14:09.520 --> 0:14:12.080 counter to pay it for the thing, and I hear 0:14:12.160 --> 0:14:17.040 from behind me kim asking me what I'm doing. Sorry, 0:14:17.440 --> 0:14:19.800 obviously I tried to play it off, but he got 0:14:19.800 --> 0:14:22.280 the thing out of my hands and found out what 0:14:22.360 --> 0:14:23.560 he was getting for his birthday. 0:14:23.800 --> 0:14:26.440 Oh hey, emba, what a pig. 0:14:26.640 --> 0:14:31.960 Seriously selfish of him, Oh my god, oh god. 0:14:32.120 --> 0:14:36.560 And it's like that moment in love actually where the 0:14:36.680 --> 0:14:39.720 husband's buying his lover at present and rolling at considers 0:14:39.880 --> 0:14:43.720 rapping it and he's like, for the lover, gosh, I 0:14:43.760 --> 0:14:45.960 don't need time on the top of the present, Just 0:14:46.000 --> 0:14:51.880 give it to me. Exactly, well done, Ember, thank you. 0:14:52.000 --> 0:14:55.560 Let's go to Jade from murray Bridge. Hey, Jade, Hi, Hi? 0:14:55.920 --> 0:14:57.160 When was the surprise ruined? 0:14:58.960 --> 0:15:02.200 So I ruled my this surprise news this year? 0:15:02.440 --> 0:15:03.040 What happened? 0:15:04.960 --> 0:15:08.680 He wanted to go up Oh well, we're at a 0:15:08.760 --> 0:15:11.400 friend's birthday party and he wanted to leave just before 0:15:11.680 --> 0:15:16.040 the year sorry, just before twelve o'clock yep. And I'm like, no, 0:15:16.240 --> 0:15:18.680 let's stay because we saw fireworks from here before. We 0:15:18.800 --> 0:15:23.400 might see some more fireworks here at twelve o'clock. He's like, okay, yep, 0:15:23.440 --> 0:15:25.720 all right, So we stayed. We saw the last of 0:15:25.760 --> 0:15:27.920 the fireworks, and then he's gone, let's go up to 0:15:27.960 --> 0:15:29.840 the lookout and I'm like, why are we going up 0:15:29.880 --> 0:15:32.200 to lookout? There'll be no, he's more fireworks up there 0:15:32.200 --> 0:15:34.880 after twelve o'clock. He's like, oh, let's go have a look. Anyhow, 0:15:35.840 --> 0:15:37.280 So we get up there and I kind of got 0:15:37.320 --> 0:15:40.320 suspicious on what he was doing. He got down on 0:15:40.320 --> 0:15:42.720 one knee up there and proposed. 0:15:46.120 --> 0:15:47.960 And you said no, and he's heartbroken. 0:15:49.520 --> 0:15:51.960 Not quite no, I said yes, but I ruined the 0:15:52.000 --> 0:15:54.240 fact if possible fireworks and twelve. 0:15:54.080 --> 0:15:55.520 O'clock and all of that stuff. 0:15:58.680 --> 0:16:02.400 It was funnier. He accidentally picked up the wrong rings 0:16:02.400 --> 0:16:04.520 because he couldn't find my mother's. 0:16:04.200 --> 0:16:06.600 Engagement What what do you mean? 0:16:06.800 --> 0:16:07.840 What was it? What was the ring? 0:16:08.920 --> 0:16:09.120 Oh? 0:16:09.240 --> 0:16:11.160 They were some that my aunt had given me. 0:16:12.000 --> 0:16:15.120 Right, okay, So did you look at the rings straight 0:16:15.200 --> 0:16:16.480 up and you're like, oh, this is awful? 0:16:16.480 --> 0:16:19.680 But yes, yeah, I'm like, they're not the ones that 0:16:19.720 --> 0:16:23.840 you meant. I couldn't find him. I'm like, that's okay, 0:16:23.840 --> 0:16:24.880 I'll show you when we get home. 0:16:25.560 --> 0:16:26.320 Jade walk away. 0:16:26.360 --> 0:16:32.479 Now, yes, it's all gooding. 0:16:32.480 --> 0:16:33.040 I still love. 0:16:33.080 --> 0:16:34.760 That's nice. 0:16:34.960 --> 0:16:35.560 How good is love? 0:16:35.640 --> 0:16:35.800 Right? 0:16:35.880 --> 0:16:37.320 It could be could be worse? Remember that. Remember the 0:16:37.360 --> 0:16:40.280 story back in the day Adam Kurney the cheesel and 0:16:40.360 --> 0:16:41.160 the burgery. 0:16:42.920 --> 0:16:45.400 Oh I could have so he got confused. He got 0:16:45.400 --> 0:16:47.120 a burgering not of cheesel, and. 0:16:47.160 --> 0:16:48.800 No doubt, the big fella ate it afterwards. 0:16:49.080 --> 0:16:53.000 They still have it. My sister is a bridesmaid in 0:16:53.040 --> 0:16:54.960 their wedding and they still have it. They put it 0:16:54.960 --> 0:16:57.200 in a box and preserved it. 0:16:58.720 --> 0:17:02.160 Fortunately, there are so many colors and preservatives and burgerings 0:17:02.480 --> 0:17:03.080 that thing will. 0:17:03.000 --> 0:17:09.600 Last a lifetime. Guine room, men of gross, there's no 0:17:09.640 --> 0:17:10.239 doubt about that. 0:17:10.280 --> 0:17:11.240 Excuse me, very much. 0:17:11.280 --> 0:17:14.040 And there's some more evidence that's come to light overnight 0:17:14.080 --> 0:17:15.720 about the fact that men are disgusting. 0:17:15.800 --> 0:17:16.439 I'm the exception. 0:17:17.240 --> 0:17:18.840