WEBVTT - MATT ASKS FOR HIS FATHER-IN-LAW'S BLESSING WITH MARK HEMBROW

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<v Speaker 1>Did Matt ask for your blessing?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes?

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<v Speaker 3>He did.

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<v Speaker 1>He did.

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<v Speaker 2>He came over and asked, He said, can I ask?

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<v Speaker 2>That's right? Both of you boys are nice? Ah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>he did. He asked me. Did I how you did

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<v Speaker 2>in my sleep? If I didn't remember?

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<v Speaker 4>Where's Your Head At is a podcast that talks all

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<v Speaker 3>This is your new go to destination for laughs, gossip,

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<v Speaker 3>intimate details, advice, and much more. Oh hey, guys, welcome

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<v Speaker 3>to another week of Where's Your Head At. On today's episode,

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<v Speaker 3>we are joined by my father in law, the one,

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<v Speaker 3>the only, Mark Hembro. We're here to talk about his

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<v Speaker 3>beautiful daughter, Tammy, the love of my life. Anna asked

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<v Speaker 3>the questions that we all want to know the answers to.

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<v Speaker 3>So that's enough from me, So let's hear from Mark.

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<v Speaker 3>Welcome to the podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>Hello Grandpa Hembrow.

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<v Speaker 3>Hello my father, and hello hello are you hi?

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<v Speaker 2>Mate?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, it's our Father's Day episode and we've had my

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<v Speaker 4>dad on the podcast, We've had Matt sat on the podcast,

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<v Speaker 4>and that is about to get married to the love

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<v Speaker 4>of his life, your daughter, your daughter, So we thought

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<v Speaker 4>we'd have the very famous Grandpa Hembrow on the podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>Welcome Everyone's famous. You know that? And pull the stars

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<v Speaker 2>are in the sky. You know that too. It's great

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<v Speaker 2>to be here, to be in this lovely studio. You've

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<v Speaker 2>got no thank you.

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<v Speaker 3>As soon as I called you and I was like, hey,

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<v Speaker 3>do you want to jump on the podcast? You jumped

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<v Speaker 3>at it. You were like anything you family? Yeah, exactly. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't even need to. I thought I was gonna

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<v Speaker 3>have to convince him, be like, hey, look, clak, I've

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<v Speaker 3>got this Father's Day episode, dumb my dad the whole skill.

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<v Speaker 3>You just sit. I thought I was gonna have to

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<v Speaker 3>do that.

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<v Speaker 1>But I'll bring you some week.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. I'm quite approachable by most people. It's just a

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<v Speaker 2>matter of it I say yes or not. It's absolutely pleasure.

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<v Speaker 3>All right, Well we'll start off. Where's your head at? Mark?

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<v Speaker 2>Where's my head at? Well, it's it's a fantastic space. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just a fantastic walking miracle. I had to be

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<v Speaker 2>here today. Love it my heads here asking you guys. See,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gramps. U tell me about your.

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<v Speaker 3>Question.

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<v Speaker 2>You know everyone's got up when you asked me, you know, like, hey, Mark,

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<v Speaker 2>would you like to. Of course, my instinct was straight

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<v Speaker 2>away in a pleasure mate. Yeah, and I thought, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>I better have a look at everything so that you know,

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<v Speaker 2>I went to Greece and back and Michael, this your

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<v Speaker 2>and I know all about eyebrow. You know that when

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<v Speaker 2>you do that. I looked at all me quick. I

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<v Speaker 2>did a quick.

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<v Speaker 5>Grandpa, I've had my eyebrows today, and I thought, you know,

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<v Speaker 5>I'm got Ronnie Howard's you know, I'm after my hairdresser

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<v Speaker 5>and my Ronnie Howard, you know, Annihilator in about a week.

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<v Speaker 2>But anyway, I checked. It was nice to look at

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<v Speaker 2>your work.

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you, appreciate you're saying that before you really well,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, I'm an old.

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<v Speaker 2>I suppose I'm a prostitute to the art all my life,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, being being an actor in the theater and

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<v Speaker 2>then all over the country and the films around the world,

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<v Speaker 2>and blah blah blah blah blah blah blah.

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<v Speaker 3>Well let's let's quit. Let's talk about's quickly touched on that.

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<v Speaker 3>So for anyone who doesn't know Mark.

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<v Speaker 2>A Young show, I'm ancients. I'm like an old piece

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<v Speaker 2>of wood. But I'm coming back. I've been throwing in

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<v Speaker 2>like a rough diamond. I've got a couple of films

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<v Speaker 2>coming out. Blah blah blah. Graham is up to something.

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<v Speaker 3>But yes, yes, sorry, I'm sorry. Yes, I was also

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<v Speaker 3>training of thought. You have been in what films? You've

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<v Speaker 3>been in a lot films in some of them you

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<v Speaker 3>sent it to me before I was.

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<v Speaker 2>I know that I knew you would have been because

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<v Speaker 2>one of them.

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<v Speaker 3>Isn't that still on Netflix? I was saying, something's on Netflix.

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<v Speaker 2>At the other's stuff. There's stuff popping up around the place.

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<v Speaker 2>But it's like I've I sort of quit the business

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<v Speaker 2>for a few years purposely. I suppose the background. The

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<v Speaker 2>best way is really without as questions. I suppose, and

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<v Speaker 2>and for you, because you know, I suppose you know

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<v Speaker 2>all of us where I come from. I started my

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<v Speaker 2>career at the Royal Queens and Theater Company when I

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<v Speaker 2>was eighteen, and I was touring all over the country

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<v Speaker 2>with Arts Council tours. This is like a century ago,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, when before we had anything like the Internet,

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<v Speaker 2>and and and then I ended up in Sydney Theater

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<v Speaker 2>Company at the Opera House, and then I ended up

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<v Speaker 2>with Rookie Horror Show around the country there's a lot

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<v Speaker 2>of ABC worker young doctors, you know, the grandpas and

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<v Speaker 2>the Grandma's hello out there, all of us there with everybody.

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<v Speaker 3>I were talking about this. My mom's best friend was

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<v Speaker 3>talking about it, and she remembers you, I think from

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<v Speaker 3>that as well.

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<v Speaker 2>He was a dreadful character, that one really. Oh yes,

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<v Speaker 2>well he was a learning He was like this just crazype.

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<v Speaker 2>You play the roles you play, You play the role

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<v Speaker 2>you've given. Then I had a very I was very

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<v Speaker 2>blessed because I'd worked in the theater quite a lot,

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<v Speaker 2>and then I ended up on television, in major television

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<v Speaker 2>across the country at that time, and then I split

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<v Speaker 2>that to go back to the theater a bit back

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<v Speaker 2>forward and a lot of films. So I did about

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<v Speaker 2>twenty three over the eighties and nineties, and then I

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<v Speaker 2>quit the sort of business around two thousand for various reasons,

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<v Speaker 2>and one of them was the girls, because I was

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<v Speaker 2>looking after them full time. Yeah, and that was sort

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<v Speaker 2>of like when Tammy was two, so I was, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>well we're in crumbin Valley then and she was going

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<v Speaker 2>into preschool. And then wrote a couple of shows and

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<v Speaker 2>they're sort of coming back age now but yeah, so

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<v Speaker 2>my background was stared of film, television, blah blah blah,

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<v Speaker 2>band rufflings, a lot of stuff that the moms and

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<v Speaker 2>dads maybe.

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<v Speaker 3>And what made you get into acting because your.

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<v Speaker 2>Mom was I knew this girl.

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<v Speaker 3>But was your mama cooking host or something?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah? Yeah, yeah she was just a normal mom. She's

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<v Speaker 2>just fabulous Sally.

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<v Speaker 3>But she was on tea, I mean cooking.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean my mum and dad were very blessed. You

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<v Speaker 2>know where I come from with having them and moments, well,

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<v Speaker 2>all it doesn't matter. Every every situation is different, isn't

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<v Speaker 2>it with families and moms and dads. And again, like

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<v Speaker 2>that I was saying before, if you build it on love,

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<v Speaker 2>it doesn't matter. It gets through any storm, communication, be

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<v Speaker 2>open for new things. But yeah, she was. She was

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<v Speaker 2>married to my dad, who was a teacher, and and

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<v Speaker 2>she was wanting to do extra money to make some money,

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<v Speaker 2>so she started cooking because she was not as a

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<v Speaker 2>good cook around as Grove and Brisbane way back, Sally

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<v Speaker 2>Hembrow and anyway. So she had these I used to

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<v Speaker 2>remember when I was about six, crawling through their feet,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, around the house, which she's had these ladies

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<v Speaker 2>lined up with all their showing them out of cook

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<v Speaker 2>you know, the upside down Prune and that we've got

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<v Speaker 2>cake whatever. And she was only a bit of money

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<v Speaker 2>doing that. And the word got around Brisbane that there's

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<v Speaker 2>this amazing cook. So Channel nine ranger up and said Sally,

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<v Speaker 2>would you be interested in doing a show And they said, off,

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<v Speaker 2>you go go and get some sponsors and I would

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<v Speaker 2>like you to do a show. And she ran a

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<v Speaker 2>show for I think it was about about twelve twelve years,

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<v Speaker 2>four days a week. She was a for runner in

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<v Speaker 2>you for Queensland Girls because she was just to me

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<v Speaker 2>like a real old fashioned mum, just lovely you know.

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<v Speaker 2>My dad was the same, like where they were. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>So she did the show and then it grew into

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<v Speaker 2>a show where she was doing interviews and called Living

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<v Speaker 2>Graciously based to call it Living Dangerously with Sally Eyebrow,

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<v Speaker 2>and it was living you know, And yeah, I'm very

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<v Speaker 2>proud of her in a way. And dad because he

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<v Speaker 2>used to write out all the copy. You know, are

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<v Speaker 2>they going to say? A channel mind for many years

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<v Speaker 2>and at that time Sigared Thoughton who's in Snowy, one

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<v Speaker 2>of her mum was in Brisbane too. That was the

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<v Speaker 2>two girls in Brisbane that were stirring in the pot

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<v Speaker 2>for the girls. So it's sort of interesting we've got

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<v Speaker 2>this takeover of women, matthewmber girls for you.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, that's you that did that. I take notes literally,

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<v Speaker 3>Well let's touch on that. So you had obviously Amy,

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<v Speaker 3>Emily and the beautiful Tammy, and so you said you

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<v Speaker 3>raised them by yourself.

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<v Speaker 2>You their mum. Their mum was great mum, and it

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<v Speaker 2>was lovely and we just had an arrangement that that

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<v Speaker 2>I took them and as opposed to it in those days,

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<v Speaker 2>it was always the mum.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>And she went on to have a new partner and

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<v Speaker 2>have children and and I raised three girls from when

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<v Speaker 2>I when Tammy was four, because I remember that it

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<v Speaker 2>was like preschool. So I got, yeah, I got I

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<v Speaker 2>got the and you know, it's fantastic. Really I was blessed.

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<v Speaker 3>What was a life single dad with three girls. I

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<v Speaker 3>could imagine that being a headache.

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<v Speaker 2>It was good, It really wasn't, you know. I Mean

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<v Speaker 2>the neighbors used to say I had a loud voice

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<v Speaker 2>because you're like, come and get it or whatever you like,

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<v Speaker 2>like a farm, and it was look, you know what,

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<v Speaker 2>it was a delight. It was just one thing after

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<v Speaker 2>other things, and things that happened in life that probably

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<v Speaker 2>would have got me down in other ways and in

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<v Speaker 2>the way they pick you up. So I was just

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<v Speaker 2>touching on that because I'm doing a documentary as well

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<v Speaker 2>as a film. It's just almost completed, coming soon, and

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<v Speaker 2>I was touching on that in the documentary, which is

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<v Speaker 2>not about the girls, but about how, you know, certain

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<v Speaker 2>events that affected me and I had to look after

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<v Speaker 2>him full time. And you know, people say, oh, Mark, hey,

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<v Speaker 2>going at Crumb and Valley. They're lovely. Crumb and Valley

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<v Speaker 2>really put them through Crumber Valley School. Yeah, and you

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<v Speaker 2>know the tuck shop. Mums and myself and a lot

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<v Speaker 2>of people would say Matthew like, hey, now that's great,

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<v Speaker 2>and how you're doing that on your own blah blah

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<v Speaker 2>blah blah blah. And I say, well, there's hundreds and

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<v Speaker 2>hundreds and hundreds of women doing that every day. They

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<v Speaker 2>see your mom's And I said, you know, and they said, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>but you're a guy. And I said, you know what,

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<v Speaker 2>any guy, and I know you would you know, any

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<v Speaker 2>guy that if he was put in that situation or

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<v Speaker 2>it's going to be you know, what happened at that time?

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<v Speaker 2>You all stand up to it, Step up everybody.

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<v Speaker 3>She's told me some fond memories from back then, like

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<v Speaker 3>asking the ice cream shop they had like the peppers

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<v Speaker 3>or something, the chili peppers chill, Yeah, they call them

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<v Speaker 3>stuff something like that, and they would like or something. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>we had a lot of fun.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, because I dropped all the work though. See that's

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<v Speaker 2>what it really entailed.

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<v Speaker 3>But you're a musician as well, because you've Yeah, mainly

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<v Speaker 3>it's mainly been for fun.

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<v Speaker 2>But I'm writing stuff and feature film that I'm writing,

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<v Speaker 2>director and acting.

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<v Speaker 3>And you're quite talented, like I've seen you on the piano.

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<v Speaker 2>On the everyone's got talents. It's just a musician. You

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<v Speaker 2>can learn. Anybody can learn. Just get a cork six

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<v Speaker 2>hundred and I show a few chords and they play themselves,

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<v Speaker 2>your rangers.

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<v Speaker 1>This could be little bonding, you.

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<v Speaker 2>Know when we get pushed into the corner by all

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<v Speaker 2>the girls.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, So I was talking to Annam before and we

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<v Speaker 3>were like, what are we gonna What are we gonna

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<v Speaker 3>ask Mark? Like, you know, we're going to ask him

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<v Speaker 3>about relationship advice and all that sort of stuff. And

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<v Speaker 3>I said that you were the other day. You were

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<v Speaker 3>giving me some relationship a vice, and I was like,

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know how this is going to go down

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<v Speaker 3>when I go home and tell my fiance. You were

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<v Speaker 3>saying to get my on my home.

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<v Speaker 2>Man, I really wasn't saying that. I just saw you

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<v Speaker 2>just stressed, going like I haven't got room right now,

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<v Speaker 2>like planning the seed of the you know that Australian

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<v Speaker 2>tradition of you can have you know, a garage or

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<v Speaker 2>a shed so when you get married. So I grew

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<v Speaker 2>up in that environment, even though they never did that.

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<v Speaker 2>They just need to be together or they'd argue and

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<v Speaker 2>be together again. That's pretty And yeah, it wasn't It

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<v Speaker 2>wasn't huge. It was just a bit. Yeah. I think

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<v Speaker 2>everyone goes through all that stuff. I don't know because

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<v Speaker 2>I haven't been, you know, in one relationship or whatever

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<v Speaker 2>that long. But yeah, I just I just said that,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, look, if it's getting too much around, just

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<v Speaker 2>get a space, you know, in the in the place.

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<v Speaker 2>And that's what I did when the girls, when they

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<v Speaker 2>were little and I was trying to work as well,

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<v Speaker 2>I just go into the garage, take my computer in there,

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<v Speaker 2>shut the door. Girls could come in here.

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<v Speaker 3>Out, do you reckon that life? When I bring that

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<v Speaker 3>to Tammy, you could be there for me. Get it over.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know you'll be watching this. I deny it.

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<v Speaker 2>I did not say that at all. I'm here to

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<v Speaker 2>just humor you all into a lovely journey of life together.

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<v Speaker 2>Look as as your father, which I listened to, like,

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<v Speaker 2>you do your best, you see in life with kids

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<v Speaker 2>or kids, and so you're always adjusting. So in that sense,

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<v Speaker 2>it's like what we say, like your dad, you just

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<v Speaker 2>got to let everyone decide themselves and then be there

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<v Speaker 2>if they fall over, We'll just tell them you love them,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, and then let you all decide what you

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<v Speaker 2>want to do yourself. So is that all right, Tammy?

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<v Speaker 2>I can't tell them, Tammy, I can't tell any of

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<v Speaker 2>my girls what to do.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, we got some questions. Obviously it's Father's day, so

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<v Speaker 3>we're going to kids. Here's some questions about before we

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<v Speaker 3>touch into some other stuff about relationships, Questions about quick ones.

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<v Speaker 3>You said you loved all the kids, all that sort

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<v Speaker 3>of stuff. Who was the most difficult though growing up?

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<v Speaker 2>They also at their moments, you know, like it's more

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<v Speaker 2>about attitude and how to deal with it. Who was blessed.

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<v Speaker 2>I was really blessed because I'm pretty good. I had

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<v Speaker 2>no rivalry with the boys, you know, like in that sense,

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<v Speaker 2>we're no boys. I mean I think boys would be

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<v Speaker 2>hard to raise. I heard that, you know, and your

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<v Speaker 2>father talking, you know, like talking, I mate, and you know,

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<v Speaker 2>like I thought, I thought, you know, like they're pretty good. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, they play with themselves a lot and happy

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<v Speaker 2>long as they had their dollies and they had this

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<v Speaker 2>and that, and I gave them a bit of room

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<v Speaker 2>to move. That's why it was out in the valley.

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<v Speaker 2>That a fabulous school, you know. I mean there's ninety

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<v Speaker 2>people in the school and I had eleven teachers. So

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<v Speaker 2>they had a lot of cows out the back and

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<v Speaker 2>frogs in the pond and platypuses in the creek. You know,

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<v Speaker 2>lovely fabulous.

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<v Speaker 4>Really, what advice do you have from that as a dad,

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<v Speaker 4>because you've obviously raised three.

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<v Speaker 2>Stick with the theme. Make sure you've got a little garage.

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<v Speaker 2>Just leap in. I have patients, Just leap in. Have

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<v Speaker 2>a laugh. You got a laugh. But that's life. It's

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<v Speaker 2>not just it's all of us, you know, it gets

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<v Speaker 2>what it does. Everybody's life. Good moments and bad moments.

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<v Speaker 3>I think you touched on this when you joined the

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<v Speaker 3>good Ones.

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<v Speaker 2>When it's bad, just rides the storm, right.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, you told me this when you said when you

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<v Speaker 3>brought up the man powd or the Bachelor part, whatever

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<v Speaker 3>you want to say, you said that, like, I fall

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<v Speaker 3>in love with this lady, but she has like three

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<v Speaker 3>kids with it, and I've been thrown into this thing

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<v Speaker 3>where I've had to you know, literally we said it

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<v Speaker 3>like change my whole life, like adapt to this thing. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>you said something along those lines. Yeah, and yeah, and

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<v Speaker 3>you said you've I've changed, like and I've had to change,

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<v Speaker 3>and it's been a massive shift for me. And I

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<v Speaker 3>found it, yeah, quite different to be like just a

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<v Speaker 3>father from me out of nowhere, from someone who I

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<v Speaker 3>was told that I wasn't going to be a father,

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<v Speaker 3>So now I have three kids.

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<v Speaker 2>Great, Yeah, that's what I said.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what literally we said.

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<v Speaker 4>We were like Tammy and that are literally the best

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<v Speaker 4>couple ever. And it's because like obviously they love each

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<v Speaker 4>other so much, and you know, there's so much love

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<v Speaker 4>between them. But Matt was told he was infertile. Tammy

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<v Speaker 4>has three beautiful kids. You've got to step into that role.

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<v Speaker 4>You've embraced it and you love it.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's I listened to that one incredible.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that one too. Yeah, And there is a lot

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<v Speaker 2>of healing in a lot of different worlds, spiritual and

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<v Speaker 2>the natural world that can happen in those areas. And

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<v Speaker 2>you know, I also looked up that I didn't know

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<v Speaker 2>until this morning that you had well they call it deficiency.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not no, you're special, you're smart. I looked it up. Look,

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<v Speaker 2>I got it in my phone, and I said, what

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<v Speaker 2>are the what are the symptoms? And I thought, all

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<v Speaker 2>my friends that were really famous and clever in Hollywood,

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<v Speaker 2>they've got all these symptoms, everyone who was successful and artistic.

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<v Speaker 2>How's that right, Adhd too. I'll play yeah, because you

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<v Speaker 2>know I love Matthew and I'm here for you, mate.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, whether you need a little man cave around,

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<v Speaker 2>I'll finished that conversation, Dammy. What I meant was, if

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<v Speaker 2>there's kids running everywhere, everyone's screaming, and they're doing that,

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<v Speaker 2>you need to find a little space just to go

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<v Speaker 2>and sit for a minute away from everybody, to take

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<v Speaker 2>a breath. Okay, finished with that one. Thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>You guys need to have a joint man. I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like that's the picture.

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<v Speaker 2>That I've learnt. Now. I just don't go anywhere near anybody,

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<v Speaker 2>but you like a king in my own spiritual world.

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<v Speaker 3>But he was actually very kind. He said to me,

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<v Speaker 3>come around anytime, crush anything.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, sometimes it's nice to you know. And family, as

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<v Speaker 2>we all know, is that if you don't get in

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<v Speaker 2>the road, you can't interfere, you know, step parents, what's

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<v Speaker 2>a funny word anyway, but but you know, like in

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<v Speaker 2>wars whatever, you can't. My mother told me that, you said,

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<v Speaker 2>you just kind of you know, you don't interfere. You

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<v Speaker 2>just just love and be there. They need you, but

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<v Speaker 2>you don't interfere with their lives, you know. So I

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<v Speaker 2>sort of grew up with that. But even if I

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<v Speaker 2>wanted to tame me and Emily and would listen to

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<v Speaker 2>me anyway, they just say yeah right, or you know,

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<v Speaker 2>Tammy and say because you tell me that, you tell

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<v Speaker 2>me that once more, and I will do it.

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<v Speaker 6>You know, I'm experiencing all that forgotten here. I was

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<v Speaker 6>sading all this stuffship advice, you've got any for us,

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<v Speaker 6>like you've been in many relationships, how.

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<v Speaker 2>Many well, I don't know if I'm the best person

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<v Speaker 2>to ask.

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<v Speaker 3>But Tammy did say that.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean I grew up with like the dream of

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<v Speaker 2>like my mum and dad to meet the partner for

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<v Speaker 2>the rest of your life and whatever. But like life,

0:18:23.000 --> 0:18:25.640
<v Speaker 2>things change and whatever. And I think I was really

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<v Speaker 2>really dumb when I was younger, like as a man,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, like we are stupid.

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<v Speaker 3>We are naturally you.

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<v Speaker 2>Know, girls seem smarter, but we seem like more fun

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<v Speaker 2>something like that, you know, some delusional thing of learning

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<v Speaker 2>about life and also being in the business. You know,

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<v Speaker 2>I was. I was on tour with Rocky Horror Show,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, like I mean my wife, the first wife

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<v Speaker 2>that I married, Sally Butterfield, who's delightful lady. She went

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<v Speaker 2>on tour with Oklahoma and she was a singer and

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<v Speaker 2>I went on tour Horror and that was the end

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<v Speaker 2>of our marriage really because we both went a year

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<v Speaker 2>different directions and Rocky Horror Show broke many in marriage.

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<v Speaker 2>So unless you were very strong, you know, like I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know, it was just one of those things that

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<v Speaker 2>I think, really it's different now, see I have learnt

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<v Speaker 2>through life, you know, and look back in times and whatever.

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<v Speaker 2>I always meant well and and those relationships, even my Laylor,

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<v Speaker 2>who I have a good relationship with now who there.

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<v Speaker 2>Laylor was my last wife. I've been married three times. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>one that was far too young. Yeah. It was just

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<v Speaker 2>one of those things in both different worlds. And when

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<v Speaker 2>I grew up there, I remember that I was in

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<v Speaker 2>young doctors and things. I thought, well, okay, you fall

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<v Speaker 2>in love, were really in love, the next thing you

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<v Speaker 2>do is get engaged. It was a different sort of

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<v Speaker 2>you know, that's what I think you've done.

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<v Speaker 3>You know.

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<v Speaker 2>There was no like I will spend a year hanging

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<v Speaker 2>out and do this, do that. It was just like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>what do I do next? I'll do this?

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<v Speaker 3>I's wrong with that?

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<v Speaker 2>There isn't until you're sort of twiddling your thumbs and

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<v Speaker 2>you're going in different directions in six month's time, it's

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<v Speaker 2>going to be. I mean, I don't think there's any

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<v Speaker 2>rules with it all. I mean I think I summed

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<v Speaker 2>it up when I first came in. If you if

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<v Speaker 2>you're based everything on love, that's the good things and

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<v Speaker 2>the bad. If you if you put it on a

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<v Speaker 2>rock of love, then you'll ride through the storms. Of course,

0:20:17.840 --> 0:20:20.960
<v Speaker 2>there's elements, there's the communication. You know what I mean,

0:20:21.000 --> 0:20:22.600
<v Speaker 2>and I think that's what I think. Letters are great.

0:20:23.480 --> 0:20:26.080
<v Speaker 2>I remember writing my letters say goodbye to my girlfriend

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<v Speaker 2>when I was younger. That's all we had.

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<v Speaker 1>We had letters writing.

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<v Speaker 2>That's why I'm also now a writer of films, because

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<v Speaker 2>I grew up writing.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, Mark, are you dating now?

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<v Speaker 2>No?

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<v Speaker 3>Not, madterm what mademoiselle, Mademoiselle, No, no, no, no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 3>not at all.

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<v Speaker 2>We're working together. She's yeah, you lovely folks, funny, good,

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<v Speaker 2>good folks. I was working with them still.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 2>I got the Holy Spirit in my heart and I'm

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<v Speaker 2>a rock and roller.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, you know, just I'll try not to throw you

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<v Speaker 3>under it.

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<v Speaker 2>I think from my point of view of getting to

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<v Speaker 2>know girls, and I grew up at different times in

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<v Speaker 2>my life. I mean, it's always just being in love

0:21:27.080 --> 0:21:29.520
<v Speaker 2>is the best thing. But it was when there was

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<v Speaker 2>a problem of you know, And I think then if

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<v Speaker 2>you've got friends and you say, well, how can you communicate?

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<v Speaker 2>And you learn about each other more, there's a lot

0:21:37.520 --> 0:21:42.480
<v Speaker 2>more in depth communication now. I think more mean I

0:21:42.480 --> 0:21:44.160
<v Speaker 2>don't know it for sure, but I mean, like I mean,

0:21:44.160 --> 0:21:46.520
<v Speaker 2>I think, and you also, you just know. I would

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<v Speaker 2>have been a handful when I was on the road

0:21:48.760 --> 0:21:51.680
<v Speaker 2>all the time. I wasn't sort of being away from home.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I had that relationship first off, and I thought,

0:21:54.840 --> 0:21:57.520
<v Speaker 2>I'm never getting married again. I'm married young, and I'm

0:21:57.520 --> 0:21:59.600
<v Speaker 2>never getting married again. And then when I met Natalie

0:22:00.040 --> 0:22:02.639
<v Speaker 2>in Trinidad, who was young, but she sort of acted

0:22:02.680 --> 0:22:05.280
<v Speaker 2>like a thirty year old in the experience of where

0:22:05.320 --> 0:22:07.760
<v Speaker 2>she'd been in the world. She's a brilliant lady in

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<v Speaker 2>her own right, you know, And that was sort of

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<v Speaker 2>like because the girl's called me, you know, cradles natural.

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<v Speaker 2>But I was like it was like it was like

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<v Speaker 2>it was like this, I'm making a movie in South America,

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<v Speaker 2>on Trinidad and Tobago. I had put it to myself

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<v Speaker 2>when I was like twenty three, I'm never going to

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<v Speaker 2>get married until I know it's for sure. And I

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<v Speaker 2>want to have children, yeah, yeah, all right, and without

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<v Speaker 2>going all the sentiment with children, because I think there's

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<v Speaker 2>so many children in the world that need to be

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<v Speaker 2>loved that we don't even have to have our own.

0:22:36.680 --> 0:22:39.119
<v Speaker 2>We can have everybody's, you know, and we can like

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<v Speaker 2>you know, and also you can't have you you can

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<v Speaker 2>do it all right, or you can do it all

0:22:43.440 --> 0:22:45.800
<v Speaker 2>and don't set your sights any lower than that, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>But having that, having that said that, I just remember

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<v Speaker 2>that that it was like one of those things where

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<v Speaker 2>I was sure, and there were complications because I was

0:22:56.440 --> 0:22:59.159
<v Speaker 2>working in America and Natalie couldn't get into America, so

0:22:59.200 --> 0:23:00.840
<v Speaker 2>we had to go via Canada. Then we had to

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<v Speaker 2>fly to Australia, get married, and go back to America.

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<v Speaker 2>And you know, by then Amy were pregnant with Amy,

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<v Speaker 2>and it was like, where do I want to bring

0:23:07.480 --> 0:23:10.600
<v Speaker 2>Amy up? And I have this sort of love well

0:23:10.600 --> 0:23:14.560
<v Speaker 2>I'd never had a love love relationship with La, but

0:23:14.600 --> 0:23:16.920
<v Speaker 2>I have this sort of like about it, and I'd

0:23:16.920 --> 0:23:19.000
<v Speaker 2>probably like it more now, funny enough, even though it's

0:23:19.040 --> 0:23:22.760
<v Speaker 2>even more twisted and going downhill, but I'm used to it.

0:23:22.800 --> 0:23:24.520
<v Speaker 2>But then I didn't. I thought this is not a

0:23:24.520 --> 0:23:27.080
<v Speaker 2>place to bring up kids. Yeah, you know, so I

0:23:27.160 --> 0:23:30.679
<v Speaker 2>made that quite cool, beautiful start a choice. So they

0:23:30.680 --> 0:23:32.240
<v Speaker 2>went to LA and I was going to do four

0:23:32.280 --> 0:23:34.560
<v Speaker 2>picture deal and ed no Marto was going to be

0:23:34.560 --> 0:23:36.520
<v Speaker 2>my agent, who was Mel Gibson's agent, and it always

0:23:36.600 --> 0:23:39.800
<v Speaker 2>my agent. So I was away on a global level.

0:23:40.040 --> 0:23:42.040
<v Speaker 2>But I knew that I'd have three little girls, four

0:23:42.119 --> 0:23:44.720
<v Speaker 2>six and eight, I'd have Mexican nanny. I wouldn't be

0:23:44.720 --> 0:23:47.840
<v Speaker 2>getting home till Saturday night and Sunday guns are everywhere.

0:23:47.960 --> 0:23:50.480
<v Speaker 2>It was just, you know, it wasn't the right time.

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<v Speaker 2>So I was blessed with that decision. I've never ever

0:23:54.160 --> 0:23:56.680
<v Speaker 2>regretted it. You know. I don't know if that helps

0:23:56.680 --> 0:24:01.560
<v Speaker 2>in anything, but you just adapt.

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<v Speaker 4>What did you think when Matt proposed to Tammy so

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<v Speaker 4>early on in their relationship.

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<v Speaker 1>What was your thoughts?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't I don't go down that road too much,

0:24:13.119 --> 0:24:15.080
<v Speaker 2>you know what I mean, because you've got I don't

0:24:15.080 --> 0:24:17.479
<v Speaker 2>know the dynamics of why and how. All I know

0:24:17.600 --> 0:24:19.439
<v Speaker 2>is are in love and they wanted to do what

0:24:19.480 --> 0:24:21.920
<v Speaker 2>they wanted to do in that time. But there's love

0:24:21.920 --> 0:24:23.960
<v Speaker 2>and love and love and love, you know, And that's

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<v Speaker 2>what I've learned over the years. So I didn't really

0:24:26.520 --> 0:24:28.840
<v Speaker 2>I don't do that. I now know what the girls

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<v Speaker 2>also that, you know. I don't try and I'll be

0:24:31.880 --> 0:24:35.080
<v Speaker 2>there and you know, and to this day, I'm still

0:24:35.080 --> 0:24:39.359
<v Speaker 2>connecting with all the boys, you know, because I feel like,

0:24:39.800 --> 0:24:44.600
<v Speaker 2>you know, as being the patriarch of the girls and

0:24:44.680 --> 0:24:46.920
<v Speaker 2>that and I'm here, I'm sixty nights. I soa who

0:24:46.920 --> 0:24:49.200
<v Speaker 2>else going to do the job. You know, I've got

0:24:49.200 --> 0:24:52.280
<v Speaker 2>to sort of be a bit outsmoken with things, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>So in that sense.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, did Matt ask for your blessing?

0:24:57.480 --> 0:25:00.480
<v Speaker 2>Yes? He did. He did. He came over and he said,

0:25:00.480 --> 0:25:04.920
<v Speaker 2>can I ask? That's right? Both of you boys are nice?

0:25:04.800 --> 0:25:08.480
<v Speaker 6>Yeah he did, he asked me, did I Yeah, you

0:25:08.560 --> 0:25:09.359
<v Speaker 6>did in my sleep?

0:25:09.400 --> 0:25:10.160
<v Speaker 2>If I didn't.

0:25:09.960 --> 0:25:14.080
<v Speaker 3>Remember, you try to make me sound I don't.

0:25:14.000 --> 0:25:16.560
<v Speaker 2>Think I asked. Now you ask?

0:25:16.720 --> 0:25:24.080
<v Speaker 3>Now. That's why I don't love you. That is here today.

0:25:24.440 --> 0:25:25.320
<v Speaker 1>He's apologizing.

0:25:25.359 --> 0:25:29.040
<v Speaker 3>I'm apologizing for not asking your permission to take your

0:25:29.119 --> 0:25:29.840
<v Speaker 3>daughter's hand in.

0:25:29.880 --> 0:25:32.280
<v Speaker 2>Mabe you did, or maybe it just flew down through

0:25:32.320 --> 0:25:34.920
<v Speaker 2>Instagram by me. I don't know. The first time I

0:25:35.000 --> 0:25:35.360
<v Speaker 2>met you.

0:25:35.400 --> 0:25:39.760
<v Speaker 3>Well, well, I figured, Mark, can I have your approval

0:25:39.760 --> 0:25:40.120
<v Speaker 3>to marriag?

0:25:40.119 --> 0:25:41.960
<v Speaker 2>I don't have to have your I told Matt the

0:25:42.000 --> 0:25:45.399
<v Speaker 2>same thing. You don't have to have my approval, you know,

0:25:45.640 --> 0:25:49.639
<v Speaker 2>Just so that'll be nice to each other, you know,

0:25:49.720 --> 0:25:52.399
<v Speaker 2>and you know I'm gonna I'll put it inscribe for everybody.

0:25:52.760 --> 0:25:56.520
<v Speaker 2>Be nice to each other, Just love each other. If

0:25:56.520 --> 0:25:58.400
<v Speaker 2>you've got a problem and I can help any time,

0:25:58.480 --> 0:25:58.960
<v Speaker 2>come to me.

0:25:59.640 --> 0:26:01.720
<v Speaker 3>I'm never going to.

0:26:01.800 --> 0:26:04.119
<v Speaker 2>I'm never going to judge. I'll just say, you know,

0:26:04.160 --> 0:26:06.840
<v Speaker 2>because I was up and down through my life, and

0:26:06.880 --> 0:26:08.280
<v Speaker 2>you know, and you look back on your life, See

0:26:08.320 --> 0:26:10.760
<v Speaker 2>this is the thing. I don't think there's enough compassion

0:26:10.800 --> 0:26:14.120
<v Speaker 2>in that world, not understanding and people don't know how

0:26:14.160 --> 0:26:17.399
<v Speaker 2>to steer them back down the direction, you know, like

0:26:17.480 --> 0:26:20.080
<v Speaker 2>a you know, like the real mentors are the real

0:26:21.000 --> 0:26:22.919
<v Speaker 2>let's say, the wise men in our lives, which you

0:26:22.960 --> 0:26:26.640
<v Speaker 2>have to lean to. Unfortunately, me and your father and people. Right,

0:26:26.800 --> 0:26:29.360
<v Speaker 2>but we're pretty good, okay, but you know what I mean,

0:26:29.359 --> 0:26:31.960
<v Speaker 2>Like we'll do the research if we don't. But you

0:26:32.000 --> 0:26:33.600
<v Speaker 2>know what I mean, in the olden days, so we

0:26:33.680 --> 0:26:35.639
<v Speaker 2>call it the olden days. He'll know what that means.

0:26:35.920 --> 0:26:39.800
<v Speaker 2>You know, there was always an elder and our society

0:26:39.840 --> 0:26:43.240
<v Speaker 2>has sort of lost a bit of that flavor. I say,

0:26:43.280 --> 0:26:45.800
<v Speaker 2>I'm not I'm not winging. I mean, it's just realities.

0:26:45.920 --> 0:26:47.840
<v Speaker 2>But we also with that, we hand on the baton

0:26:47.840 --> 0:26:50.960
<v Speaker 2>to you guys. Let it lead us, lead us into

0:26:50.960 --> 0:26:55.000
<v Speaker 2>the next decade, lead us through social media and follow

0:26:55.040 --> 0:26:57.000
<v Speaker 2>your dreams. That's what I was doing. I was trying

0:26:57.000 --> 0:27:00.080
<v Speaker 2>to find a shot of Reese and Russell Crowe. I

0:27:00.200 --> 0:27:02.639
<v Speaker 2>have them together and think. But that's the difference, you

0:27:02.680 --> 0:27:03.399
<v Speaker 2>know again.

0:27:03.400 --> 0:27:08.240
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, you just you're Yeah, I jump around around.

0:27:12.520 --> 0:27:14.440
<v Speaker 2>I can change lange without indicating if.

0:27:14.320 --> 0:27:15.879
<v Speaker 3>It's meant that's a trade of ADHD.

0:27:16.000 --> 0:27:17.600
<v Speaker 2>You know, well it's a brilliant thing.

0:27:17.720 --> 0:27:18.240
<v Speaker 3>Yeah that is.

0:27:19.000 --> 0:27:20.720
<v Speaker 2>So there's two things I wanted to say about that,

0:27:20.720 --> 0:27:22.280
<v Speaker 2>because I looked it up. I looked at it, and

0:27:22.920 --> 0:27:25.480
<v Speaker 2>you know it doesn't want to concentrate on things. Of

0:27:25.560 --> 0:27:28.840
<v Speaker 2>course not. I answered them all mate, I got it

0:27:28.880 --> 0:27:31.520
<v Speaker 2>to them all right, each one, like and then I

0:27:31.520 --> 0:27:33.680
<v Speaker 2>thought all my mates and HI were the smart people

0:27:33.680 --> 0:27:36.720
<v Speaker 2>I know from mel gives them to all them those traits. Yeah,

0:27:36.840 --> 0:27:38.920
<v Speaker 2>they're all artists. They're not following their.

0:27:38.880 --> 0:27:42.440
<v Speaker 3>Dream because it's boring to the you know what, Yeah,

0:27:42.480 --> 0:27:44.000
<v Speaker 3>it's boring the people that don't have it.

0:27:44.400 --> 0:27:47.119
<v Speaker 2>If that means something in the world, because it's like

0:27:47.200 --> 0:27:48.360
<v Speaker 2>I think, it's a gift.

0:27:50.280 --> 0:27:51.439
<v Speaker 3>If you know how to manage it.

0:27:51.680 --> 0:27:53.639
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and then you got your mates to help you

0:27:53.680 --> 0:27:56.560
<v Speaker 2>do that, and that gives a reason to ask you say, look,

0:27:56.640 --> 0:27:58.480
<v Speaker 2>I got this, so if I get to out a

0:27:58.520 --> 0:28:00.600
<v Speaker 2>handle on it, it gets remind me of you. If

0:28:00.600 --> 0:28:02.200
<v Speaker 2>you haven't got it, no one tells you.

0:28:01.960 --> 0:28:04.240
<v Speaker 3>You're fine, brother, Thank you. I appreciate the man.

0:28:04.280 --> 0:28:06.320
<v Speaker 2>You're a king, the king of the world, and don't

0:28:06.240 --> 0:28:09.440
<v Speaker 2>let anybody tell you the queen of the world. And

0:28:09.440 --> 0:28:10.400
<v Speaker 2>Michael's another king.

0:28:10.720 --> 0:28:12.880
<v Speaker 1>Thank you. Thank you are a true king.

0:28:13.119 --> 0:28:15.160
<v Speaker 3>You are the king. I was going to give you props,

0:28:15.200 --> 0:28:17.119
<v Speaker 3>like you're a great dad, but as well as a

0:28:17.119 --> 0:28:20.000
<v Speaker 3>great granddad like you, you know, you take the kids,

0:28:20.000 --> 0:28:21.520
<v Speaker 3>pick him up and all that, like to take him

0:28:21.520 --> 0:28:24.720
<v Speaker 3>to basketball and that. Like, yeah, well I've I've realized

0:28:24.720 --> 0:28:26.600
<v Speaker 3>in the role that I've stepped into as like a

0:28:26.640 --> 0:28:29.320
<v Speaker 3>father figure, a lot of it is just showing up.

0:28:29.760 --> 0:28:31.359
<v Speaker 3>You know, you just got to be there. Showing up

0:28:31.480 --> 0:28:33.399
<v Speaker 3>is like ninety percent of the job and the rest,

0:28:33.640 --> 0:28:35.480
<v Speaker 3>you know what I mean, It just it comes. You've

0:28:35.480 --> 0:28:38.040
<v Speaker 3>got to show up. And I realized and Tammy or

0:28:38.320 --> 0:28:40.440
<v Speaker 3>whenever we lean on you for something, you're there straight away.

0:28:40.760 --> 0:28:45.960
<v Speaker 2>Yeah. Well the dynamics, the dynamics are different in different circumstances. Yeah,

0:28:46.000 --> 0:28:48.320
<v Speaker 2>so you know, that's that's why I did say if

0:28:48.320 --> 0:28:50.040
<v Speaker 2>it gets too much, that's fine. A spot where you

0:28:50.040 --> 0:28:52.480
<v Speaker 2>can have a breath might be behind the vegetable garden.

0:28:52.480 --> 0:28:55.160
<v Speaker 2>There's always a spot. I do it on set I'm acting.

0:28:55.480 --> 0:28:58.040
<v Speaker 2>I run around with the chair just before I quit

0:28:58.120 --> 0:29:00.240
<v Speaker 2>the business from now been thrown. I wonder with the

0:29:00.360 --> 0:29:02.280
<v Speaker 2>umbrella and a chair all day when you're go starring

0:29:02.360 --> 0:29:05.480
<v Speaker 2>these pictures, right, and then that's the umbrella is always

0:29:05.480 --> 0:29:07.160
<v Speaker 2>there because they don't want to get sunburned. It's not

0:29:07.160 --> 0:29:08.920
<v Speaker 2>because it just looks good and it makes you look

0:29:09.080 --> 0:29:12.440
<v Speaker 2>as soon as you're sunburnt on set. You can't make up,

0:29:12.520 --> 0:29:18.520
<v Speaker 2>you can't make it look unsun burned. Years been, they weren't.

0:29:18.520 --> 0:29:23.360
<v Speaker 2>They just did get money.

0:29:25.760 --> 0:29:27.800
<v Speaker 3>Have you watched any of us on the holand is

0:29:27.800 --> 0:29:29.760
<v Speaker 3>that your next thing to go back and watch? Do

0:29:29.800 --> 0:29:31.040
<v Speaker 3>you know when we were on a TV.

0:29:30.840 --> 0:29:35.400
<v Speaker 2>Show that's my next thing to watch? Do you have

0:29:35.440 --> 0:29:36.280
<v Speaker 2>to have me back.

0:29:36.920 --> 0:29:39.440
<v Speaker 3>Your reviewer, get your recap, to get your recat your

0:29:39.440 --> 0:29:40.520
<v Speaker 3>reviews of Love Island.

0:29:41.000 --> 0:29:45.040
<v Speaker 2>You know my advice is just everybody, But I don't

0:29:45.040 --> 0:29:48.400
<v Speaker 2>think it's just said anybody. When things get cool or

0:29:48.440 --> 0:29:50.160
<v Speaker 2>heated or whatever, you just take time out for a

0:29:50.200 --> 0:29:52.680
<v Speaker 2>minute and walk away for a minute. I think I

0:29:52.720 --> 0:29:55.440
<v Speaker 2>said something to you, like I remember that I always

0:29:55.480 --> 0:29:59.720
<v Speaker 2>wanted to fix it. Girls. Yes, yes, girls never forget

0:29:59.760 --> 0:30:03.160
<v Speaker 2>any thing where Guys which sort of can have a

0:30:03.200 --> 0:30:04.840
<v Speaker 2>blue and then the next day you wake up and go, oh,

0:30:04.880 --> 0:30:07.640
<v Speaker 2>that was yesterday. Stupid idiot, stupid idiot. Where girls, I've

0:30:07.680 --> 0:30:09.640
<v Speaker 2>noticed one of the trades. It's a blessing.

0:30:09.360 --> 0:30:10.600
<v Speaker 3>Against we did this.

0:30:11.800 --> 0:30:15.040
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I said that. I I said, I think that

0:30:15.120 --> 0:30:16.680
<v Speaker 2>what I tried to do was I was trying to

0:30:16.680 --> 0:30:19.120
<v Speaker 2>remember when I when I was getting a bit shaky.

0:30:19.200 --> 0:30:21.200
<v Speaker 2>It's just life. It's not you, it's not It's just

0:30:21.200 --> 0:30:24.160
<v Speaker 2>what happens, particularly if you've got kids and things and

0:30:24.400 --> 0:30:28.080
<v Speaker 2>all the dynamics that you have, and it's a wonderful

0:30:28.080 --> 0:30:30.560
<v Speaker 2>thing to have the opportunity to have those dynamics. It's

0:30:30.600 --> 0:30:32.640
<v Speaker 2>also a way of, like everything in life, how we

0:30:32.680 --> 0:30:34.360
<v Speaker 2>all deal with it. You know, it was not just

0:30:34.440 --> 0:30:37.840
<v Speaker 2>about kids, family, But I thought that that was that

0:30:38.000 --> 0:30:40.680
<v Speaker 2>was just important that I think, I said, I used

0:30:40.680 --> 0:30:43.880
<v Speaker 2>to try and go to I think I used my

0:30:44.560 --> 0:30:47.080
<v Speaker 2>relationships say I just want to work this out now,

0:30:47.600 --> 0:30:56.120
<v Speaker 2>you know, I just I mean, I mean, I'm blaming us, folks.

0:30:57.840 --> 0:30:59.720
<v Speaker 2>I was younger. That could have been the downfall of

0:30:59.720 --> 0:31:05.280
<v Speaker 2>my relationship if I just shut up, you know, I

0:31:05.280 --> 0:31:07.080
<v Speaker 2>want to fix it. I want to fix it now.

0:31:07.120 --> 0:31:09.400
<v Speaker 2>I carry on to one o'clock in the morning. Yeah, no,

0:31:09.480 --> 0:31:14.880
<v Speaker 2>only you're driving the house, right, So I've.

0:31:13.520 --> 0:31:17.520
<v Speaker 1>Been there with we would until three in the morning.

0:31:17.600 --> 0:31:19.920
<v Speaker 3>You know, I've done anything like that.

0:31:20.480 --> 0:31:22.560
<v Speaker 2>But I'm saying that I used to try and just

0:31:22.640 --> 0:31:25.440
<v Speaker 2>fix it. It wasn't that, it wasn't that extreme at all,

0:31:25.520 --> 0:31:27.240
<v Speaker 2>But it was just more like if there was a problem,

0:31:27.280 --> 0:31:29.040
<v Speaker 2>I try and I think I was a man thing.

0:31:29.040 --> 0:31:31.480
<v Speaker 2>We try and fix it, and a girl just doesn't

0:31:31.480 --> 0:31:33.120
<v Speaker 2>want to know until the next day or the right

0:31:33.160 --> 0:31:34.680
<v Speaker 2>opportunity is picking it.

0:31:38.440 --> 0:31:40.840
<v Speaker 1>What was the hardest thing about being an actor.

0:31:43.360 --> 0:31:46.120
<v Speaker 2>Probably was being able to pin down your emotions well

0:31:46.240 --> 0:31:47.920
<v Speaker 2>enough when you're in the heart of it. When when

0:31:47.920 --> 0:31:50.360
<v Speaker 2>I was younger in the world of method you know,

0:31:50.400 --> 0:31:54.360
<v Speaker 2>Stanistowski method training, I trained a certain way, But then

0:31:55.520 --> 0:31:57.040
<v Speaker 2>a little bit of would have been if I was

0:31:57.040 --> 0:31:58.840
<v Speaker 2>in a relationship, it would have been on the road

0:31:59.320 --> 0:32:02.160
<v Speaker 2>that would have been a problem, you know, But I

0:32:02.200 --> 0:32:06.040
<v Speaker 2>wasn't really that long enough to be that. Or I'd

0:32:06.120 --> 0:32:08.920
<v Speaker 2>take my partner with me, or they'd take me with them,

0:32:09.000 --> 0:32:14.440
<v Speaker 2>you know. I think it was I think a certain

0:32:14.480 --> 0:32:18.520
<v Speaker 2>amount of like with you all actors, I burdened with

0:32:18.640 --> 0:32:20.880
<v Speaker 2>is when you're working and when you're not, Because when

0:32:20.880 --> 0:32:22.800
<v Speaker 2>you're working, you're meeting good bucks, and you're working, and

0:32:22.840 --> 0:32:25.520
<v Speaker 2>when you're not working, you're not making anything. So then

0:32:25.560 --> 0:32:28.000
<v Speaker 2>you'd have to see these gaps so to survive and

0:32:28.080 --> 0:32:31.000
<v Speaker 2>still be you know. I mean, I remember, way way

0:32:31.000 --> 0:32:32.320
<v Speaker 2>way back in when I was young, and I was

0:32:32.400 --> 0:32:33.840
<v Speaker 2>very blessed because I thought, if I can earn a

0:32:33.880 --> 0:32:36.440
<v Speaker 2>living out of this, then I'm ahead. I did. I

0:32:36.520 --> 0:32:39.400
<v Speaker 2>have all my life, really, and it's been just you know,

0:32:39.440 --> 0:32:41.880
<v Speaker 2>it's been up and down. I've been in hair and

0:32:41.880 --> 0:32:43.560
<v Speaker 2>off a couple of things that have happened, you know.

0:32:44.080 --> 0:32:47.800
<v Speaker 2>But I think that but it was probably more emotionally

0:32:48.320 --> 0:32:50.920
<v Speaker 2>in a sense that you just get a bit messy

0:32:50.920 --> 0:32:53.280
<v Speaker 2>emotionally because if you're playing like like there was one

0:32:53.360 --> 0:32:55.720
<v Speaker 2>role I was playing with Tessa Humphrey's Barry Humphrey's daughter

0:32:55.960 --> 0:32:57.520
<v Speaker 2>was a co lead in it. It was called Out

0:32:57.520 --> 0:32:59.360
<v Speaker 2>of the Body and it was a horror film. I

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<v Speaker 2>won't do horror films anymore. I'm owned you comedies and

0:33:02.720 --> 0:33:05.720
<v Speaker 2>and maybe Love Adventures or this or that or rom coms,

0:33:06.200 --> 0:33:10.160
<v Speaker 2>you know, No, I'm not. I'm really got. I'm doing

0:33:10.160 --> 0:33:12.320
<v Speaker 2>House of Music, which is a comedy like The Young

0:33:12.360 --> 0:33:15.400
<v Speaker 2>Ones set in service Paradise after this film. This film

0:33:15.440 --> 0:33:17.640
<v Speaker 2>will come out in about February and they'll go all

0:33:17.640 --> 0:33:19.560
<v Speaker 2>over the world. No, we get asked to do number two,

0:33:19.600 --> 0:33:21.880
<v Speaker 2>and I've already got a story, and there's a comedy

0:33:22.000 --> 0:33:24.040
<v Speaker 2>musical which I want to shoot up with Margo Robbie

0:33:24.200 --> 0:33:27.120
<v Speaker 2>used to live a Dolby called Bells with Smells, which

0:33:27.160 --> 0:33:29.000
<v Speaker 2>is sort of like about a Catholic church that turns

0:33:29.000 --> 0:33:32.760
<v Speaker 2>Pentecostal and some musical and it's really quite funny. So

0:33:32.800 --> 0:33:34.120
<v Speaker 2>there's a couple of things that I want to do.

0:33:34.200 --> 0:33:37.080
<v Speaker 2>So they're funny or they're educational, they drop pearls. That's

0:33:37.080 --> 0:33:39.280
<v Speaker 2>only because I can now you know what I mean.

0:33:39.280 --> 0:33:42.520
<v Speaker 2>I'm not working with my old agent who died recently,

0:33:42.560 --> 0:33:44.720
<v Speaker 2>looked after Russell Crowe and everybody. That's how I know Russell.

0:33:44.760 --> 0:33:48.920
<v Speaker 2>We're all in the same mob, you know. So you know.

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<v Speaker 2>So I was going to say, there were roles that

0:33:53.680 --> 0:33:56.320
<v Speaker 2>I played in a horror film where I had to

0:33:56.320 --> 0:33:59.640
<v Speaker 2>stretch the emotions out, you know, and so you'd be

0:34:00.280 --> 0:34:02.000
<v Speaker 2>and the role the role was this character has a

0:34:02.000 --> 0:34:06.200
<v Speaker 2>nervous breakdown like continuously for like the whole movie. He's

0:34:06.240 --> 0:34:08.640
<v Speaker 2>on the verge of nervous breakdown because he's killing people

0:34:08.680 --> 0:34:10.160
<v Speaker 2>and he doesn't know why and it's inside him and

0:34:10.160 --> 0:34:12.400
<v Speaker 2>a demon and all that stuff. But it was like

0:34:12.920 --> 0:34:15.680
<v Speaker 2>the whole time, And so I had like a twelve

0:34:15.719 --> 0:34:18.120
<v Speaker 2>week shoot and he's having a nervous breakdown on set.

0:34:18.160 --> 0:34:19.759
<v Speaker 2>So I'm at five o'clock in the morning till nine

0:34:19.760 --> 0:34:24.799
<v Speaker 2>o'clock at night having a nervous breakdown getting paid good money, right, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>And I suppose because I just swrammed myself into it

0:34:28.280 --> 0:34:32.080
<v Speaker 2>as well as the training. I'd come home and then

0:34:32.239 --> 0:34:35.760
<v Speaker 2>after about five, six, six seven weeks, I just started

0:34:35.800 --> 0:34:38.440
<v Speaker 2>feeling like I was having a nervous breakdown and I

0:34:38.440 --> 0:34:40.680
<v Speaker 2>got emotionally upset all the time, and you know, so

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<v Speaker 2>the hardest thing for me was actually, I mean, I

0:34:43.640 --> 0:34:45.759
<v Speaker 2>can't really say because I was trained, so I can't

0:34:45.800 --> 0:34:47.000
<v Speaker 2>blame my lack of training.

0:34:47.040 --> 0:34:50.720
<v Speaker 3>It was just emotionally it would be taxing on your mind,

0:34:52.680 --> 0:34:54.959
<v Speaker 3>just a massive shift.

0:34:54.840 --> 0:34:59.359
<v Speaker 2>So I think really having permanent work and dealing with

0:34:59.400 --> 0:35:01.680
<v Speaker 2>the emotion to go with all of that as well.

0:35:01.920 --> 0:35:04.719
<v Speaker 1>Absolutely, I can turn them off like that. Now, what

0:35:04.719 --> 0:35:06.640
<v Speaker 1>do you love most about being a granddad?

0:35:07.400 --> 0:35:11.120
<v Speaker 2>The things they say to you, you know, just they

0:35:11.160 --> 0:35:13.400
<v Speaker 2>just come out with these classic lines, you know, Wolf

0:35:13.440 --> 0:35:17.600
<v Speaker 2>and Sassin, like that little thing that she said the

0:35:17.600 --> 0:35:20.320
<v Speaker 2>other day, little page to you, you know, just the lines,

0:35:20.360 --> 0:35:22.120
<v Speaker 2>the one line is this I love you or whether

0:35:22.120 --> 0:35:26.240
<v Speaker 2>it's you know Dad, Grandpa, your car is almost done

0:35:26.280 --> 0:35:35.000
<v Speaker 2>for you know your car is done for? Right? Okay? Cue.

0:35:35.120 --> 0:35:37.880
<v Speaker 3>They said something to me one time like I can't remember,

0:35:37.920 --> 0:35:40.120
<v Speaker 3>like and you're just like, yeah, it's funny.

0:35:40.200 --> 0:35:40.879
<v Speaker 1>Isn't about your.

0:35:42.640 --> 0:35:46.759
<v Speaker 3>It was about something like along those lines, some classic.

0:35:46.560 --> 0:35:50.840
<v Speaker 4>Something no filter, right, that's hilarious.

0:35:51.200 --> 0:35:53.439
<v Speaker 2>You know she did one of those you know, I'm

0:35:53.520 --> 0:35:57.440
<v Speaker 2>losing my my COVID curve now like I had it

0:35:57.480 --> 0:35:59.840
<v Speaker 2>for the film. Right, there's quite a lot of comedy

0:36:00.000 --> 0:36:06.480
<v Speaker 2>around because that's a big sassic. He came up to

0:36:06.520 --> 0:36:08.240
<v Speaker 2>me and just went and poked me in the tummy

0:36:08.280 --> 0:36:14.440
<v Speaker 2>and went, Grandpa, are you having a baby? I said no,

0:36:15.120 --> 0:36:17.040
<v Speaker 2>it was after my heart operation. I put on a

0:36:17.040 --> 0:36:25.360
<v Speaker 2>bit of weight and it was cod said, I'm getting fit. Anyway,

0:36:25.360 --> 0:36:26.600
<v Speaker 2>I should take up mum's app.

0:36:33.120 --> 0:36:36.440
<v Speaker 4>Any parting words with us, you have just been absolutely

0:36:36.480 --> 0:36:38.799
<v Speaker 4>phenomenal to have on the podcast. We've loved having you.

0:36:38.840 --> 0:36:40.200
<v Speaker 4>But any parting words from.

0:36:40.080 --> 0:36:41.359
<v Speaker 3>You we've run.

0:36:41.480 --> 0:36:45.879
<v Speaker 2>We'll just nail the television stituations until you get on. Yeah,

0:36:46.440 --> 0:36:51.080
<v Speaker 2>don't say no to anybody, show the tenacity, believe in yourselves.

0:36:52.000 --> 0:36:54.000
<v Speaker 2>You know, I don't say this to any young folks.

0:36:54.320 --> 0:36:58.640
<v Speaker 2>Work and I have fun. You know, that's probably the

0:36:58.680 --> 0:37:00.719
<v Speaker 2>best advice I can give because it's always you know,

0:37:01.360 --> 0:37:04.960
<v Speaker 2>I mean what I've learned. And that's another story in

0:37:05.000 --> 0:37:07.719
<v Speaker 2>my life. It was it was about ups and downs,

0:37:07.760 --> 0:37:09.520
<v Speaker 2>and everyone says I'll be happy or you know that

0:37:09.719 --> 0:37:11.600
<v Speaker 2>no one's going to be happy all the time. They're

0:37:11.600 --> 0:37:13.520
<v Speaker 2>going to be happy times. It's going to be sad times.

0:37:13.520 --> 0:37:17.040
<v Speaker 2>So I suppose I've learned to speak life into everything,

0:37:17.480 --> 0:37:19.279
<v Speaker 2>even if I'm sick, and I've had some amazing things

0:37:19.280 --> 0:37:22.959
<v Speaker 2>happened to be amazing miracles, thank you God, right, and

0:37:23.080 --> 0:37:25.600
<v Speaker 2>but I'll always speak life into it. And I've been

0:37:25.600 --> 0:37:29.600
<v Speaker 2>taught that now through some masters and and and with that,

0:37:30.080 --> 0:37:36.440
<v Speaker 2>it was like just the things are important were joy, peace,

0:37:37.760 --> 0:37:39.759
<v Speaker 2>you know, like happiness is going to be happiness is

0:37:39.760 --> 0:37:41.440
<v Speaker 2>going to be sad. You can still live with joy.

0:37:41.960 --> 0:37:44.200
<v Speaker 2>You still live with joy when there's tragedy. You can

0:37:44.280 --> 0:37:46.439
<v Speaker 2>still be instilled in your heart, mind, body and soul.

0:37:47.200 --> 0:37:52.399
<v Speaker 2>So really is to you know, just have fun, find

0:37:52.440 --> 0:37:54.799
<v Speaker 2>your joy and party hard.

0:37:56.280 --> 0:37:58.400
<v Speaker 1>We love it.

0:37:58.560 --> 0:38:01.080
<v Speaker 7>And you get in trouble, ask a friend to help

0:38:01.160 --> 0:38:05.560
<v Speaker 7>you can I just ask your friends put your hand up,

0:38:06.000 --> 0:38:10.080
<v Speaker 7>don't go into a corner, you know, because and make

0:38:10.200 --> 0:38:12.560
<v Speaker 7>us old people a bit more useful, you know, because

0:38:12.560 --> 0:38:13.360
<v Speaker 7>we're around the place.

0:38:13.480 --> 0:38:15.000
<v Speaker 2>Just kick us a couple of times and we'll go,

0:38:15.040 --> 0:38:17.359
<v Speaker 2>what do you want? You know? Can I help? And

0:38:17.360 --> 0:38:23.120
<v Speaker 2>then maybe we can just just just love yourselves and

0:38:23.160 --> 0:38:26.200
<v Speaker 2>love what you're doing, love your partners. And I'm very

0:38:26.520 --> 0:38:31.719
<v Speaker 2>very happy that you are to be my son in law. Yeah,

0:38:31.800 --> 0:38:32.759
<v Speaker 2>I think it's great, mate.

0:38:32.880 --> 0:38:34.960
<v Speaker 3>I couldn't ask for a better father in law.

0:38:35.360 --> 0:38:36.960
<v Speaker 2>You know, we'll wait till we know. Will cut to

0:38:37.040 --> 0:38:38.640
<v Speaker 2>us when you know it's two years down to the

0:38:38.640 --> 0:38:40.319
<v Speaker 2>line and we've got each other and headlock at a.

0:38:40.280 --> 0:38:46.840
<v Speaker 3>Football you know what, We get along chart.

0:38:48.600 --> 0:38:49.920
<v Speaker 2>Have a problem there.

0:38:50.440 --> 0:38:51.920
<v Speaker 1>Be excited about the wedding.

0:38:52.200 --> 0:38:55.520
<v Speaker 2>Yes, yes, I've got to walk my little darling down

0:38:55.560 --> 0:38:56.960
<v Speaker 2>the aisle apparently.

0:38:59.600 --> 0:39:00.279
<v Speaker 3>You know that.

0:39:00.640 --> 0:39:04.920
<v Speaker 2>A yeah, well there you go, you get it to

0:39:04.960 --> 0:39:08.080
<v Speaker 2>the you know, it'll be fabulous. I am excited. Yeah,

0:39:08.080 --> 0:39:09.960
<v Speaker 2>so I'm really excited for both of you.

0:39:10.400 --> 0:39:13.200
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's getting close down excited.

0:39:12.880 --> 0:39:14.400
<v Speaker 2>Love is the best. You build it a lot of love,

0:39:14.520 --> 0:39:15.440
<v Speaker 2>you can work the rest out.

0:39:15.520 --> 0:39:18.160
<v Speaker 1>Absolutely, it's going to be incredible and later in life.

0:39:18.200 --> 0:39:23.719
<v Speaker 2>And I just have fun enjoy it. Those letters. She's

0:39:23.760 --> 0:39:25.840
<v Speaker 2>got a better romance goes a long way, a.

0:39:25.880 --> 0:39:26.879
<v Speaker 3>Basket, all of them.

0:39:27.320 --> 0:39:29.520
<v Speaker 2>A mystery doesn't go along far these days. That's where

0:39:29.520 --> 0:39:31.040
<v Speaker 2>I grew up. It's like a bit of mystery goes

0:39:31.040 --> 0:39:32.400
<v Speaker 2>a long way, you know, because I was in a

0:39:32.400 --> 0:39:34.120
<v Speaker 2>different age, like there's.

0:39:33.680 --> 0:39:40.359
<v Speaker 3>No mystery, there's nothing everything, especially in this we've got

0:39:40.360 --> 0:39:43.840
<v Speaker 3>a podcast where we're open posting all her stuff, like

0:39:44.080 --> 0:39:45.399
<v Speaker 3>you're don't have mystery these days?

0:39:45.400 --> 0:39:48.120
<v Speaker 2>And all I got to say to all those haters.

0:39:48.200 --> 0:39:50.279
<v Speaker 2>And now at the end of this, so you can

0:39:50.680 --> 0:39:55.160
<v Speaker 2>can you edit something, We can edit anythings out there

0:39:55.480 --> 0:40:01.279
<v Speaker 2>in that world of social media.

0:40:01.600 --> 0:40:04.719
<v Speaker 3>That's and we still love you and forgive you.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, great, and thank you for the engagement.

0:40:08.280 --> 0:40:10.359
<v Speaker 2>You might not want that.

0:40:10.360 --> 0:40:13.080
<v Speaker 3>That was more than anything.

0:40:13.200 --> 0:40:15.560
<v Speaker 1>That is just for our listeners. We just all gave

0:40:15.640 --> 0:40:16.600
<v Speaker 1>the finger and.

0:40:17.760 --> 0:40:20.839
<v Speaker 2>It comes because we'll remember you in your prayers.

0:40:21.040 --> 0:40:25.880
<v Speaker 3>Absolutely, them, No, they're they're quite unhappy to have that

0:40:25.960 --> 0:40:29.040
<v Speaker 3>much hate. You have to be in your life, would

0:40:29.080 --> 0:40:31.440
<v Speaker 3>have to be in such an unhappy state to project

0:40:31.480 --> 0:40:34.480
<v Speaker 3>it onto someone on social media. It is fucking mind bubbling.

0:40:34.520 --> 0:40:36.360
<v Speaker 3>I read some of it and I am like, I.

0:40:36.400 --> 0:40:39.880
<v Speaker 2>Don't think too much about it, don't.

0:40:39.640 --> 0:40:41.040
<v Speaker 1>Even let it like water.

0:40:41.680 --> 0:40:43.480
<v Speaker 3>That's good at.

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<v Speaker 2>Handling that great mark.

0:40:50.920 --> 0:40:53.279
<v Speaker 1>You are and I can't. We've loved having you on

0:40:53.320 --> 0:40:57.719
<v Speaker 1>the show. Thank you so much. Father's Day, thank you

0:40:57.840 --> 0:40:58.879
<v Speaker 1>very much, thank you

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<v Speaker 4>Today.