WEBVTT - The Truth About Rhi And Jeff...

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<v Speaker 1>Hello, and welcome back to the Mapswining podcast, and today

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<v Speaker 1>I have some sad news for you with a follow

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<v Speaker 1>up on Rihe and Jeff. Over the last two weeks,

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<v Speaker 1>as we know, rumors have been circulating about re and

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<v Speaker 1>Jeff potentially splitting up. When I asked me about this directly,

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<v Speaker 1>she said to me, all's good. And I then sat

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<v Speaker 1>in this studio, behind this very microphone and I told you,

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<v Speaker 1>lovely people listening, how they've essentially been going through a

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<v Speaker 1>rough patch, but it seemed that things may now be

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<v Speaker 1>on the up. Yeah, well about that. A load of

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<v Speaker 1>their followers have now noticed over the last like say,

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<v Speaker 1>twenty four hours, how they've unfollowed each other on Instagram.

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<v Speaker 1>Or I'd say, actually, they haven't unfollowed each other. I

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<v Speaker 1>would say one of them blocked the other one, because

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<v Speaker 1>when I go down Rehe's profile all her posts which

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<v Speaker 1>still have Jeff in them, like she hasn't took them on.

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<v Speaker 1>They're still a lot, but he's no longer tagged in them.

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<v Speaker 1>And when someone blocks the other like it automatically untas

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<v Speaker 1>them in all of your existing content. So I would

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<v Speaker 1>say they haven't unfollowed. Someone's blocked someone, which drama, and

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<v Speaker 1>Jeff has also unpinned his posts which are at the

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<v Speaker 1>top of his profile, which were him and re and

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<v Speaker 1>you know, this is essentially they're not so sort of

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<v Speaker 1>millennial way of saying we're done, see you later, get

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<v Speaker 1>off my profile. And yesterday Daily Mel came out and

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<v Speaker 1>basically said, yeah, they have officially broken up and they've

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<v Speaker 1>been living apart for a couple of weeks. And that

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<v Speaker 1>then caused a bit more confusion, especially in my comments

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<v Speaker 1>on Facebook, because people were saying they saw a video

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<v Speaker 1>recently on maybe one of their stories saying that they're

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<v Speaker 1>still together, which I didn't see, so I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>how true that is. But there's still a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>confusion out there because Rie and Jeff still haven't like

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<v Speaker 1>directly come out and said anything. But what I can

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<v Speaker 1>tell you right now is and this is kind of

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<v Speaker 1>what I've been told firstly, over the last couple of weeks,

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<v Speaker 1>as everyone has kind of been wanting a definitive answering

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<v Speaker 1>commenting on everything like I.

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<v Speaker 2>Used to together, what's going on? Have you broken?

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<v Speaker 1>Like? Tell us, tell us, tell us. They haven't responded

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<v Speaker 1>because it hasn't really been a definitive answer, and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>often with breakups, when there's a bit of history and

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<v Speaker 1>you live together and your life are like intertwined in

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<v Speaker 1>many ways, it's rarely a wake up and one day

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<v Speaker 1>one of you just go, Okay, it's over for good,

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<v Speaker 1>get out the house. Well, unless something big and extreme

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<v Speaker 1>like cheating something happens or there's a big incident which

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<v Speaker 1>would lead to that imminent end. But I'm told that

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<v Speaker 1>it's just not the case here. And the general word

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<v Speaker 1>in the mass world about them is that kind of

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<v Speaker 1>gradually things just changed and like a distance set in

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<v Speaker 1>and they kind of grew apart, which you know happens.

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<v Speaker 1>And as they've been like trying to figure things out

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<v Speaker 1>and taking a bit of time apart while talking things

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<v Speaker 1>through and figuring out like what do we want to do,

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<v Speaker 1>this is kind of when everyone has noticed because of

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<v Speaker 1>the now lack of content of them together and just

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<v Speaker 1>been spamming them for answers, and you know, they've never

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<v Speaker 1>come out and said yes or no, because well, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>told that again, no real decision had been made, And

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<v Speaker 1>like that must be hard having that pressure of like

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<v Speaker 1>are you still together?

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<v Speaker 2>Have you broken up?

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<v Speaker 1>When you haven't even figured out yourself and It's funny

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<v Speaker 1>actually to think about, because when it comes to relationships

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<v Speaker 1>from reality shows like this that we have kind of

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<v Speaker 1>watched blossom and you know we have felt a part of,

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<v Speaker 1>and you know, we watch them be fast tracked in

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<v Speaker 1>front of our eyes as part of an experiment on

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<v Speaker 1>the Telly like.

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<v Speaker 2>People often then.

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<v Speaker 1>Expect those relationships to continue to be as black and

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<v Speaker 1>white as they continue on in the real world.

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<v Speaker 2>But that's not really how real life works.

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<v Speaker 1>Like Ree and Jet haven't continued doing the commitment ceremonies

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<v Speaker 1>with stay or leave on the sofa every Sunday where

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<v Speaker 1>they would have an answer in writing every week, which

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<v Speaker 1>I suppose is what a lot of people kind of

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<v Speaker 1>their mindset is. They still expect that of couples from

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<v Speaker 1>shows like this, but you know, real decisions are complex

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<v Speaker 1>and they're layered and they do take time like this one.

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<v Speaker 2>And even when I've asked.

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<v Speaker 1>People like who are in the know over the last

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<v Speaker 1>week or so, and by that I mean just people

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<v Speaker 1>who are from maths previously, I know Ree and Jeff

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<v Speaker 1>like they've just told me like, oh, I just give

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<v Speaker 1>them a bit of time.

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<v Speaker 2>No one quite knows anything.

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<v Speaker 1>But now it seems as of twenty four hours ago,

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<v Speaker 1>Rie and Jeff do know, and they've decided to split

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<v Speaker 1>for good. And now I suppose we were getting to

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<v Speaker 1>the well, why what happened? According to the Daily Mail yesterday,

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<v Speaker 1>this is all apparently, and remember that word apparently, because

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<v Speaker 1>as of right now, none of this is proven, but

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<v Speaker 1>they claim this is all because Jeff was putting less

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<v Speaker 1>and less effort in and had.

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<v Speaker 2>Stopped taking re on dates.

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<v Speaker 1>And that line from the US has now kind of

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<v Speaker 1>started this narrative, like in this story that re equals

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<v Speaker 1>the good one and Jeff equals the bad one. Because remember,

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<v Speaker 1>when it comes to reality TV, even what a year

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<v Speaker 1>two years off show, there's still this expectation that every

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<v Speaker 1>story must have that hero and a villain, which you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I get, and this is how the media works.

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<v Speaker 2>But I also feel it.

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<v Speaker 1>Is often unfair because now off the back of that story,

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<v Speaker 1>which you know that may be true, I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>but the comments I'm now seeing people like, well, I

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<v Speaker 1>also hear Jeff did this or said this, or you know,

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<v Speaker 1>all these random claims which are just gossive and made

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<v Speaker 1>up things. But that is now essentially building on this narrative,

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<v Speaker 1>which is he equals the bad person here and again

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<v Speaker 1>this may be true, but it also may not be true.

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<v Speaker 1>And I personally think until like one of them and

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<v Speaker 1>both of them comes out and says something, let's not

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<v Speaker 1>get carried away, because ultimately in the maths world, and

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<v Speaker 1>I say this on my own experiences with them, these

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<v Speaker 1>are two of the nicer people we've ever had on

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<v Speaker 1>this show. And Daily Mail also said yesterday and please

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<v Speaker 1>listen to these words like exactly how they do it.

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<v Speaker 2>This is the exact quote.

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<v Speaker 1>It is also understood that Jeff is heading to the

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<v Speaker 1>UK solo for business. Now that exact quote there is

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<v Speaker 1>Jeff is heading to the un which to me sounds

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<v Speaker 1>like he's off on a business trip maybe for a

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<v Speaker 1>couple of weeks, a couple of months. But other websites

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<v Speaker 1>such as the Tab, which is like a gossip and

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's in the UK. I'm now reading from

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<v Speaker 1>them right now, and they've now said this about the split.

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<v Speaker 2>Jeff is now said to be.

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<v Speaker 1>Moving to the UK alone for work, and the Tab

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<v Speaker 1>then credits Daily Mail for that piece of info that

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<v Speaker 1>Jeff's moving to the other side of the world, despite

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<v Speaker 1>the fact Daily Mail never said that. They said he's

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<v Speaker 1>just heading to the UK, implying for what a trip,

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<v Speaker 1>not moving there forever, which are very different things. And

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<v Speaker 1>when I keep talking about the word narrative and narratives

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<v Speaker 1>in the media, this is what I mean. Like, you

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<v Speaker 1>see how easy it is for one thing to be

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<v Speaker 1>taken out of context and exaggerated and dramatized. And now

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<v Speaker 1>everyone's takeaway from any story they click or read is

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<v Speaker 1>Jeff no longer equaled the bad one, Jeff equaled the

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<v Speaker 1>horrible one, like how could he do this?

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<v Speaker 2>To read? How can he dumper or move to London?

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<v Speaker 1>Because that's the comments I'm now despite none of us

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<v Speaker 1>actually knowing, and neither of the people involved confirming god denying.

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<v Speaker 1>And you know, Jeff may actually be moving to the

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<v Speaker 1>UK forever and maybe that is the reason behind everything,

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<v Speaker 1>but again, right.

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<v Speaker 2>Now, no one knows.

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<v Speaker 1>And ultimately, until either of them do say something publicly,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna stay sat here on this fence, impartial because

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<v Speaker 1>as I said, like these two to me, they've always

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<v Speaker 1>been the most unproblematic couples. So yeah, until one of

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<v Speaker 1>them comes out and says otherwise, I'm gonna hold off

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<v Speaker 1>the side taking and the shit talking and remain on

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<v Speaker 1>this fence and I urge you to sit on it

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<v Speaker 1>with me, which is quite boring and not because we

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<v Speaker 1>all want the drama.

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<v Speaker 2>But yeah, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I just feel a bit icky like fueling this narrative

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<v Speaker 1>more myself on this platform when I literally have no idea,

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<v Speaker 1>say yeah,