WEBVTT - IS HE A GROWER OR A SHOWER? 0:00:00.160 --> 0:00:03.000 I want the fairy tale, I want the prince charming. 0:00:03.080 --> 0:00:05.960 She how do I put this? Isn't a fan of 0:00:06.000 --> 0:00:07.760 my kissing style with. 0:00:08.160 --> 0:00:10.559 A boyfriend and girlfriend for about twelve hours. 0:00:10.640 --> 0:00:11.639 He's in a trash bin. 0:00:11.720 --> 0:00:13.840 He's non recyclable catching them up. 0:00:15.160 --> 0:00:17.200 I love being love, I love love. 0:00:17.720 --> 0:00:20.120 On today's episode of Where's Your Head At, we are 0:00:20.160 --> 0:00:22.960 asking the age old question is he a grow up 0:00:23.160 --> 0:00:25.680 or is he a show up? And doesn't really make 0:00:25.720 --> 0:00:26.360 a difference. 0:00:27.000 --> 0:00:29.280 We will also be sharing some tips on how you 0:00:29.280 --> 0:00:32.000 can boost a man's confidence in and out of the bedroom, 0:00:32.320 --> 0:00:34.880 as men can suffer from insecurity at times as well. 0:00:35.120 --> 0:00:38.159 Matt loves a compliment and sometimes us girls are so 0:00:38.320 --> 0:00:40.920 used to receiving them that we forget to give them. 0:00:41.280 --> 0:00:47.080 So stay tuned on how to stroke that ego. 0:00:48.520 --> 0:00:50.960 Where's Your Head At Is a podcast that talks all 0:00:51.040 --> 0:00:56.360 things relationships, breakups, reality TV, trending shows, and everything in between. 0:00:56.600 --> 0:00:59.320 This is your new go to destination for laughs, gossip, 0:00:59.480 --> 0:01:01.640 intimated details, advice, and much more. 0:01:06.560 --> 0:01:09.560 Hello, mad, thank you for my tea. Matt's getting very 0:01:09.600 --> 0:01:12.800 good at making me a peppermint tea, which I'm very 0:01:12.800 --> 0:01:13.520 appreciative of. 0:01:13.880 --> 0:01:17.360 Look, I understand that your love language is acts of service. 0:01:17.480 --> 0:01:20.360 So I'm just trying to make you feel good. 0:01:20.680 --> 0:01:23.120 You're doing these ex boyfriends. 0:01:22.560 --> 0:01:26.319 Couldn't had tea bag against some boiling water. 0:01:26.520 --> 0:01:30.880 Yeah, it's a very simple process. How are you going today. 0:01:30.680 --> 0:01:34.240 I'm good. I'm honeeded. I've had maybe four coffees already, 0:01:34.400 --> 0:01:37.360 so I thought I'll have a tea to you switch 0:01:37.400 --> 0:01:38.920 it up a little bit. That's too much caffeine in 0:01:38.920 --> 0:01:39.320 my body. 0:01:39.319 --> 0:01:42.840 Do you know what I'm doing? Two coffees max now because. 0:01:42.880 --> 0:01:43.640 You know me. 0:01:44.360 --> 0:01:46.880 You know how I said, like last year, we were 0:01:46.920 --> 0:01:49.720 just going crazy with our coffee intake. I started off 0:01:49.720 --> 0:01:52.000 the year really strong, being like two cups of coffee 0:01:52.040 --> 0:01:54.240 and then I'm done. Then I'm moving to tea. And 0:01:54.280 --> 0:01:56.240 I've just in the past like two months, I've had 0:01:56.280 --> 0:01:58.480 a lot of stress on my plate and I've just 0:01:58.560 --> 0:02:01.960 realized my coffee into Like last week, i think I 0:02:02.000 --> 0:02:04.560 got up to five in a day in a day, 0:02:04.720 --> 0:02:06.040 and I think that's just way too much. 0:02:06.080 --> 0:02:07.960 So we're back to two to get them. 0:02:09.160 --> 0:02:11.920 Get them, guys, there's nothing that you should be proud of. 0:02:12.440 --> 0:02:14.359 Don't be proud of having too much caffee. 0:02:14.480 --> 0:02:17.320 I'm obviously trying to save my money now everything you know, 0:02:17.440 --> 0:02:19.640 and I just learned. I've been told by my mates 0:02:19.639 --> 0:02:21.960 who own properties. They've said I was like, how do 0:02:22.000 --> 0:02:23.839 you get like, how do you get to that next level? 0:02:23.880 --> 0:02:25.560 And I said, just go without, Like they said, you 0:02:25.639 --> 0:02:26.920 just got to learn how to go without for a 0:02:26.919 --> 0:02:29.080 couple of months. And they're like, you know, like don't 0:02:29.080 --> 0:02:30.440 have to go buy that new shirt. You don't have 0:02:30.520 --> 0:02:31.800 to go buy that. You don't have to do this. 0:02:31.840 --> 0:02:33.519 And I was like yeah, I was like fair point. 0:02:33.919 --> 0:02:35.480 And then I was like looking at my bank statement, 0:02:35.520 --> 0:02:37.320 I'm not the only thing that I am not going 0:02:37.360 --> 0:02:38.640 without is my coffee. 0:02:39.000 --> 0:02:39.200 I know. 0:02:39.280 --> 0:02:40.840 I come on here and I say all the time 0:02:40.919 --> 0:02:43.320 that I need to get off my coffees, but I 0:02:43.360 --> 0:02:47.080 don't get anxious from coffees. They literally make me feel normal. Yeah. 0:02:47.160 --> 0:02:49.360 Do you know what's weird is actually this morning I 0:02:49.440 --> 0:02:51.800 was thinking about it because how we do it is 0:02:52.040 --> 0:02:55.520 whoever gets to the podcast first, we'll both buy the 0:02:55.560 --> 0:02:57.440 other one of coffee, right, But then I was thinking 0:02:57.440 --> 0:03:00.079 about it. We could actually get instant coffee, which is 0:03:00.120 --> 0:03:03.919 like about nine dollars for I think like ten sashets. 0:03:04.400 --> 0:03:05.520 And then I was like, just the. 0:03:05.400 --> 0:03:07.560 One that's like you put into the thing that you 0:03:07.639 --> 0:03:08.200 made for me. 0:03:08.240 --> 0:03:09.840 Like the next cafe type of one. 0:03:09.960 --> 0:03:10.400 Yeah. 0:03:10.480 --> 0:03:12.520 Yeah, And like we would save so much money if 0:03:12.520 --> 0:03:14.560 we did that. So I was thinking, maybe we could 0:03:14.600 --> 0:03:17.440 do that to save a bit of extra cash money 0:03:17.440 --> 0:03:17.960 on coffee. 0:03:18.120 --> 0:03:20.560 Right, let's bring something to the studio. Yeah, that's save us. 0:03:21.040 --> 0:03:24.519 I can't I can't drink instant coffee, the one no 0:03:25.000 --> 0:03:26.000 thing that you scoop in. 0:03:26.240 --> 0:03:28.440 Oh, but the next cafe one gives you the froth 0:03:28.480 --> 0:03:30.440 and everything, so it feels like a proper coffee. Like 0:03:30.480 --> 0:03:32.440 it's not a proper coffee, but it's as close to 0:03:32.840 --> 0:03:35.080 as you'll get from a little sat when. 0:03:34.720 --> 0:03:36.440 I have when I'm at home and have the pods, 0:03:36.480 --> 0:03:39.280 I reckon I could go through double podmind you coffees, 0:03:39.840 --> 0:03:43.560 I'd probably go through like five. That's easy. They don't 0:03:43.600 --> 0:03:44.560 even touch the sides. 0:03:45.080 --> 0:03:47.960 Yeah, you just That's the thing though, Like if you 0:03:48.000 --> 0:03:51.440 don't actually like mentally focus on not having too much, 0:03:51.560 --> 0:03:53.720 then you just you just go forever. 0:03:53.960 --> 0:03:56.120 Like I said that, they don't they make me feel normal. 0:03:56.400 --> 0:03:57.520 They make me like average. 0:03:57.840 --> 0:03:59.800 Fell that too, but like I just feel like having 0:03:59.840 --> 0:04:02.000 to much caffeine it's a good for you. Although I 0:04:02.000 --> 0:04:04.240 did hear a stat recently that said that women who 0:04:04.360 --> 0:04:05.800 drink more caffeine live longer. 0:04:05.880 --> 0:04:09.960 So I was like, well, your heart's trained, your heart. 0:04:11.800 --> 0:04:14.440 Yeah, I've been on the house hunt. I still have. 0:04:14.560 --> 0:04:18.359 How was that it's actually pretty stressful. Like I'm finding 0:04:18.400 --> 0:04:21.920 it quite stressful. We've been like pretty much like every 0:04:22.200 --> 0:04:24.520 weekend for the past couple of months, other than the 0:04:24.560 --> 0:04:29.160 engagement party. It's just hard because like when initially when 0:04:29.200 --> 0:04:32.159 we wanted to get a house, we were like, we 0:04:32.200 --> 0:04:34.560 wanted to upgrade. So right now we're in a two bedroom, 0:04:34.560 --> 0:04:37.839 two bathroom apartment right in a really central location. We're 0:04:37.920 --> 0:04:40.120 very lucky and when you're renting, you know it is 0:04:40.440 --> 0:04:44.159 it's very like new and nice and whatever. Anyway, we 0:04:44.200 --> 0:04:47.800 started our house hunt and we wanted three bedrooms, two bathrooms. 0:04:48.120 --> 0:04:50.560 We very quickly realized that that was out of our 0:04:50.600 --> 0:04:54.200 budget and we needed to go to two bedrooms, two bathrooms, 0:04:54.200 --> 0:04:56.800 which is kind of what we already have. But obviously 0:04:56.880 --> 0:04:59.200 we're trying to upgrade, but then it's our own house 0:04:59.240 --> 0:05:02.160 that we can't afford it. So now we've actually downgraded 0:05:02.200 --> 0:05:06.359 to one bathroom two and we're like at this point, 0:05:07.000 --> 0:05:11.000 like that we started, we started with high dreams and 0:05:11.080 --> 0:05:14.840 they slowly get gotten crushed as we've like realized kind 0:05:14.880 --> 0:05:17.600 of like how hard the housing market is to get 0:05:17.640 --> 0:05:19.520 into in Australia. Like it's crazy. 0:05:19.560 --> 0:05:21.200 Hey, I think that's part of it though, when you 0:05:21.240 --> 0:05:24.640 go looking for a house that you yeah, and you 0:05:24.800 --> 0:05:28.640 learn that like what you want originally isn't isn't exactly 0:05:28.680 --> 0:05:31.080 what you expect. Like I remember when I first went 0:05:31.120 --> 0:05:33.080 out and looked at rent This is like we're looking 0:05:33.080 --> 0:05:35.720 at rentals, like you look online and you're like, oh, 0:05:35.760 --> 0:05:37.440 this one's nice, this one looks good, and then you 0:05:37.480 --> 0:05:39.279 get there and you're absolutely cat fished. 0:05:39.600 --> 0:05:42.240 H yeah, it's a real thing. The cat fishue. 0:05:42.600 --> 0:05:45.080 My mates were kissing ourselves at this one we looked at. 0:05:45.320 --> 0:05:47.120 They didn't have a light in the back shed like 0:05:47.200 --> 0:05:51.359 garage bits, so they like cable tied on, you know 0:05:51.400 --> 0:05:54.800 those fluorescent light globe things like this isn't even connected 0:05:54.800 --> 0:05:56.919 to anything, it's just there on the thing to let 0:05:57.000 --> 0:05:58.839 it look like there was a light. It was like 0:06:00.000 --> 0:06:02.640 I run outside of the past. And then they taped 0:06:03.000 --> 0:06:05.839 blue tape over it and painted it. So this isn't 0:06:05.880 --> 0:06:06.520 even legal. 0:06:06.960 --> 0:06:08.320 It's not it's definitely not. 0:06:09.720 --> 0:06:12.200 Yeah, So the like I could only imagine buying the. 0:06:12.120 --> 0:06:14.360 Wide angles as well that they use. You're like, oh, 0:06:14.600 --> 0:06:17.720 this is a photo that I've seen has been cut 0:06:17.720 --> 0:06:19.760 shot on a wide angle because this room is tired. 0:06:22.520 --> 0:06:25.600 So you so you still looking then, o'bo seen next 0:06:25.600 --> 0:06:26.880 weekend you're going to be looking as well. 0:06:27.279 --> 0:06:28.760 Yeah, I'm kind of getting to the end of my 0:06:28.839 --> 0:06:30.919 rope though with looking, I'm just getting a bit like 0:06:31.480 --> 0:06:33.760 a little deflated. I found a couple of things that 0:06:33.800 --> 0:06:35.760 we like, there is one that we do like, but 0:06:35.800 --> 0:06:38.920 we're just what we can afford is at like one 0:06:39.000 --> 0:06:41.080 end of the budget, and I feel like everything is 0:06:41.080 --> 0:06:43.680 getting like sold for one hundred k over asking at 0:06:43.720 --> 0:06:46.839 the moment from what we've seen, even in like I 0:06:46.880 --> 0:06:49.160 went to an auction actually on the weekend just to 0:06:49.240 --> 0:06:52.560 like just to gauge, and the property went for like 0:06:52.680 --> 0:06:54.680 two hundred and fifty k over. So I was like, 0:06:55.240 --> 0:06:57.800 if that's like what everything's going for, then like we 0:06:57.880 --> 0:07:02.039 just have no chance of even buying property. So I 0:07:02.040 --> 0:07:03.960 guess it's just something we need to weigh up with, 0:07:04.200 --> 0:07:07.240 you know, Europe coming up the wedding next year, can 0:07:07.279 --> 0:07:09.800 we really afford it? And it is kind of like 0:07:10.000 --> 0:07:14.200 things would be very tight if we. 0:07:13.280 --> 0:07:15.880 Well I think about it now, it's as well if 0:07:16.080 --> 0:07:18.320 what I didn't, I think, you know, oh, you're just 0:07:18.360 --> 0:07:21.520 paying rent, like it's just the same as paying rent 0:07:21.560 --> 0:07:23.640 each week, but it's actually not because you've got like 0:07:23.920 --> 0:07:25.920 you pay the X amount and then you have like 0:07:25.960 --> 0:07:28.600 your interests on as well interest so it's more than 0:07:28.640 --> 0:07:29.520 just paying rent a week. 0:07:29.720 --> 0:07:33.679 It is definitely And body corporate is like a whole 0:07:33.720 --> 0:07:36.440 other thing. And like there's nothing that we can afford 0:07:36.560 --> 0:07:39.400 that won't have body corporate because like it's either going 0:07:39.440 --> 0:07:41.640 to be an apartment or a unit and they all 0:07:41.640 --> 0:07:45.200 have body corporate. Like I went to this one house 0:07:45.240 --> 0:07:47.360 and they reckon it was going to be six k 0:07:48.320 --> 0:07:50.960 for body corporate a year and I was like, I 0:07:51.000 --> 0:07:55.600 love this place, but like, don't ask you to do 0:07:55.640 --> 0:07:58.320 the math. So like in two years you're paying twelve k. 0:07:58.680 --> 0:08:02.200 Like that's arts, Like I can't affought that. Yeah, that's 0:08:02.720 --> 0:08:04.360 you can't afford that, Like it's crazy. 0:08:04.760 --> 0:08:06.000 Was there a pool in a gym? 0:08:06.440 --> 0:08:10.120 Ah? There was a gym, but no pool, So I 0:08:10.200 --> 0:08:12.960 mean six k. I'm like, what are we doing painting 0:08:13.000 --> 0:08:13.600 the sky high? 0:08:13.760 --> 0:08:16.600 Like, actually, what are you going for? Yeah, well your 0:08:16.600 --> 0:08:18.720 weekend sounds a lot more productive than mine. I mean 0:08:18.800 --> 0:08:21.680 I did have a pretty productive Saturday and Friday, but 0:08:21.720 --> 0:08:24.120 then Sunday I was hungover, so I just laid in 0:08:24.160 --> 0:08:25.440 bed and watched Seinfeld. 0:08:25.920 --> 0:08:29.480 Sometimes are nice like hungover kind of watching TV. It 0:08:29.600 --> 0:08:31.640 kind of was a bit holsome Yeah, I. 0:08:31.680 --> 0:08:34.640 Love you know, coffee is just going and making coffee. 0:08:34.640 --> 0:08:37.760 It's just lying back to Baffe. Coffee is laying in bed. 0:08:38.080 --> 0:08:39.440 So I've watched a lot of sign Fad. I've gotten 0:08:39.400 --> 0:08:43.520 into Seinfeld. I think that growing up, you're either friends 0:08:43.600 --> 0:08:46.559 or Seinfeld were you Either I was friends, you were friends, 0:08:46.640 --> 0:08:47.280 or you're friends. 0:08:47.320 --> 0:08:50.400 In my house, yeah, I've never watched Seinfeld. Like I 0:08:50.400 --> 0:08:51.320 didn't even well. 0:08:51.400 --> 0:08:54.840 I was so like I had in and out of episodes. 0:08:54.880 --> 0:08:56.120 I'd be like, no, that's not for me. 0:08:56.360 --> 0:08:58.120 Yeah, I thought, I don't think it's for me either. 0:08:58.760 --> 0:09:01.600 It is so fucking funny, like it is like I'm 0:09:01.640 --> 0:09:03.360 actually in tears abou I don't want you get to 0:09:03.400 --> 0:09:06.040 know the characters really, Yeah, like it's so good. My 0:09:06.120 --> 0:09:07.720 mate when I was living with my mates, he was like, 0:09:07.720 --> 0:09:09.560 you need to watch this, it's so up your alley. 0:09:09.920 --> 0:09:11.959 So then I started it and now I'm addicted to it. 0:09:12.120 --> 0:09:15.200 Really yea it's unbelievable. They had an episode, so if 0:09:15.200 --> 0:09:18.680 you're familiar with Siginfoul, you you remember this where one 0:09:18.720 --> 0:09:21.840 of them, George Castanza, went swimming in the pool and 0:09:21.880 --> 0:09:25.400 he was taking his bodies off afterwards, and the girlfriend 0:09:25.480 --> 0:09:29.760 walked in and saw that he had shrinkage. So his 0:09:30.080 --> 0:09:32.520 pess was, how do you put this? 0:09:32.720 --> 0:09:33.559 Smaller than normal? 0:09:33.720 --> 0:09:37.320 Smaller than normal? Which happened two men when they go swimming, 0:09:37.320 --> 0:09:39.680 because they asked Elaine on there the girl did you 0:09:39.720 --> 0:09:41.719 know this? And she said no, So did you know this? 0:09:42.320 --> 0:09:45.240 Did I know what a man's penis when they're old 0:09:45.360 --> 0:09:47.000 and when they Yeah. 0:09:46.880 --> 0:09:48.680 Like when guys go I know that when guys go 0:09:48.720 --> 0:09:51.480 into cold water, Like I've heard like guys say like, 0:09:51.559 --> 0:09:54.040 oh my Dick's gone or something like you know what 0:09:54.040 --> 0:09:56.240 I mean, Like it's so cold that it's like gone 0:09:56.240 --> 0:09:59.240 into like the bullsack region, because like, isn't it right? 0:09:59.360 --> 0:10:03.560 It's like it's heard, yeah, like the turtle goes and disappears. 0:10:03.800 --> 0:10:05.560 So I was like, well, like let's bring that to 0:10:05.559 --> 0:10:07.960 people's attention about penis sizes. 0:10:08.200 --> 0:10:09.880 Let's talk about penis. 0:10:10.120 --> 0:10:18.000 Let's do it, okay, And first of all, does size 0:10:18.040 --> 0:10:18.680 matter to you? 0:10:19.640 --> 0:10:22.800 I think Okay, I'm gonna be really honest because you 0:10:22.840 --> 0:10:28.120 know you're gonna lie. It doesn't not matter. But I 0:10:28.160 --> 0:10:35.080 think anything like just normal ish size up, it's good. 0:10:36.600 --> 0:10:37.240 How about that. 0:10:37.240 --> 0:10:38.920 That's looking at me in disappointment. 0:10:39.080 --> 0:10:41.640 No, I'm just me. You know the memes and they're 0:10:41.679 --> 0:10:44.360 like she said it was perfect and the guys like crying, 0:10:44.920 --> 0:10:47.400 you know those comments, that's like it's funny. 0:10:47.200 --> 0:10:50.480 I think so. I think number one, the main thing 0:10:50.640 --> 0:10:52.920 is you know how to use it is like the 0:10:53.080 --> 0:10:55.800 ultimate thing. And also like you know how to use 0:10:55.880 --> 0:10:58.600 not only it, but you know other parts of your 0:10:58.640 --> 0:11:01.400 body on the woman. I think that's important to be 0:11:01.600 --> 0:11:03.440 like well educated in that realm. 0:11:03.520 --> 0:11:05.120 So it doesn't really just come down to the size 0:11:05.160 --> 0:11:06.520 so that the penis. It comes down how. 0:11:07.200 --> 0:11:09.679 They use it, if they know good angles, if they 0:11:09.679 --> 0:11:12.319 have good rhythm, all of that type of thing. Obviously 0:11:12.400 --> 0:11:14.200 I'm not gonna sit here and say I would be 0:11:14.240 --> 0:11:17.160 thrilled if Michael had a micro penis, which he doesn't, 0:11:17.640 --> 0:11:22.560 but like obviously size might matter in that scenario, and 0:11:22.640 --> 0:11:26.200 like that's if you're listening and you have a micro penis, 0:11:26.240 --> 0:11:28.400 Like I feel bad that I've just said that about 0:11:28.440 --> 0:11:32.160 your penis, but for me to feel satisfied, I think 0:11:32.200 --> 0:11:35.600 it just has to be like average and above by 0:11:35.640 --> 0:11:36.920 digging myself a whole. 0:11:37.320 --> 0:11:39.800 No, it's fine. I think that's a fair comment. How 0:11:39.840 --> 0:11:41.200 could you sleep with a micro penis? 0:11:41.440 --> 0:11:43.720 Like, well, you know, be able to feel it even 0:11:43.760 --> 0:11:46.360 if you exactly and you'd just preferred it, you know, 0:11:46.600 --> 0:11:52.600 just think if you have a micro penis, they now 0:11:52.720 --> 0:11:56.440 have like penis enlargement surgery, so like I just feel like, 0:11:56.480 --> 0:11:58.920 you know how like women feel insecure about maybe their 0:11:58.920 --> 0:12:00.520 boobs and they'll be like, I'm going to go get 0:12:00.520 --> 0:12:02.760 a boob job. If you might maybe have a micro penis, 0:12:02.840 --> 0:12:04.880 maybe it's time to look into some surgery. 0:12:04.960 --> 0:12:07.560 When you said the penis in larger, and it makes 0:12:07.559 --> 0:12:09.640 me think of Austin Powers, the first one when he's 0:12:09.679 --> 0:12:13.800 like the Swedish made penis in larger. I swear it's 0:12:13.840 --> 0:12:17.080 not mine maybe and then she's like, it's like me 0:12:17.120 --> 0:12:19.120 and my Swedish made penis and larger and me and 0:12:19.200 --> 0:12:20.640 he's like, that's not my back. 0:12:21.200 --> 0:12:23.880 That's the thing. Like guys pump their penises to make 0:12:23.920 --> 0:12:25.400 them big, to make the blood rush. 0:12:25.440 --> 0:12:28.360 I've never seen that happen. I've never but I remember 0:12:28.480 --> 0:12:31.120 looking to like because I was thinking about putting it 0:12:31.120 --> 0:12:34.000 in my bush, could draw just you know, in case 0:12:34.640 --> 0:12:36.240 if I just have it in there for like, you know, 0:12:36.360 --> 0:12:39.120 what's this. There's no shame in using that if you're 0:12:39.120 --> 0:12:42.439 having an off day and you can't get absolutely bumping there. 0:12:42.480 --> 0:12:45.280 If you feel like you want to, like exactly, if 0:12:45.320 --> 0:12:47.280 you want to make it a bit bigger, like why not. 0:12:47.360 --> 0:12:48.680 No one's complained had a. 0:12:48.679 --> 0:12:51.480 Couple too many whiskey sours at the pub, so you're like, oh, geez, 0:12:51.480 --> 0:12:52.720 I need to get something going here. 0:12:53.080 --> 0:12:56.640 Yeah, I have a question for you. Okay, have you 0:12:56.760 --> 0:13:01.360 ever been self conscious of your penis size? Because women 0:13:01.480 --> 0:13:03.640 talk about it, just like Willy Nearly right, Like I'm 0:13:03.679 --> 0:13:05.400 just kind of like yeah, like medium and above, like 0:13:05.440 --> 0:13:07.480 I'm happy with, like I don't want a small dick, 0:13:08.000 --> 0:13:10.480 but like, have you ever felt that pressure of like fuck, 0:13:10.600 --> 0:13:13.280 like personally it is my dicksize? 0:13:13.360 --> 0:13:18.640 Okay, personally no, I haven't. I mean when I was younger, younger, 0:13:18.880 --> 0:13:23.439 like I'm talking like fuck thirteen fourteen, when I hit 0:13:23.480 --> 0:13:25.480 puberty a little bit later, so I sort of insecure 0:13:25.520 --> 0:13:27.600 then like yeah, you know, like I haven't grown. I'm 0:13:27.640 --> 0:13:30.559 not a man yet, but like and at school like 0:13:30.600 --> 0:13:32.720 I was never really like, oh, like in the change rooms, 0:13:32.720 --> 0:13:33.920 I'd get changed, but that was just. 0:13:33.920 --> 0:13:36.480 Because I was like I still like, you're pretty confident. 0:13:36.679 --> 0:13:39.600 Yeah, Like I didn't really care much about it, but 0:13:40.400 --> 0:13:42.480 I never had a complaint really about the size of 0:13:42.480 --> 0:13:42.920 my penis. 0:13:42.960 --> 0:13:45.120 Yeah, but forget about like the women that you've now 0:13:45.240 --> 0:13:49.079 please in the current day. Like I'm saying thing before that, 0:13:49.200 --> 0:13:52.040 like surely you'd be like, is my dick's size, like, 0:13:52.480 --> 0:13:54.360 you know, is it? Is it big enough? 0:13:54.760 --> 0:13:56.200 Every dude? I think when they. 0:13:56.360 --> 0:13:58.760 Think about that, right, yeah. 0:13:58.280 --> 0:14:00.760 About that, Yeah, I think I have hundred percent. Like 0:14:00.840 --> 0:14:03.040 when they're like, like I said, thirteen forty, maybe up 0:14:03.080 --> 0:14:05.599 to sixteen, they're like, oh, is this normal size? And 0:14:05.640 --> 0:14:07.760 I think maybe you sleep with one girl or two girls, 0:14:07.760 --> 0:14:12.440 and you realize, yeah, they'll let you know any roomors 0:14:12.480 --> 0:14:14.760 spreading that like you know, you have a small penis 0:14:14.760 --> 0:14:17.880 as a micro Yeah, okay, I'm in the clear here, 0:14:18.000 --> 0:14:19.200 Yeah yeah, yeah, I'm all right. 0:14:19.400 --> 0:14:22.680 Actually this has just reminded me of a really funny story. 0:14:22.760 --> 0:14:26.720 So my ex boyfriend had a best friend and he 0:14:27.600 --> 0:14:29.880 I obviously don't know, but I was told that he 0:14:29.960 --> 0:14:33.400 had like in quotation marks like a horse penis, like 0:14:33.480 --> 0:14:37.080 it was huge, right, And obviously they went to primary 0:14:37.080 --> 0:14:40.440 school together. They were like long term friends, and he 0:14:40.520 --> 0:14:43.440 had got all of his sexual education from watching porn. 0:14:44.160 --> 0:14:50.040 And you know in porn the dicks are pretty huge, right, So. 0:14:50.360 --> 0:14:54.400 Yes, the same, one of the same, but you know 0:14:54.440 --> 0:14:54.840 what I mean. 0:14:55.120 --> 0:15:00.320 So like he's comparing his like willie essentially dick whatever 0:15:00.320 --> 0:15:02.360 you want to call it, to all of these like 0:15:03.160 --> 0:15:07.600 big porn star willies dicks, and he's like, fuck, I've 0:15:07.640 --> 0:15:12.080 got a small cock. Like I'm very embarrassed. So when 0:15:12.080 --> 0:15:14.240 they were growing up, like if they were ever like 0:15:14.280 --> 0:15:16.560 getting changed, because you know, like when you play footy 0:15:16.560 --> 0:15:18.440 and you like all get changed, he would always be 0:15:18.480 --> 0:15:20.840 like covering his dick and he would never look at 0:15:20.840 --> 0:15:22.960 anyone else's because he was like i don't want them 0:15:23.000 --> 0:15:24.560 to look at mine, so I'm not going to look 0:15:24.560 --> 0:15:28.520 at theirs kind of thing, right, No, Like he was, 0:15:28.560 --> 0:15:30.720 so he was that self conscious, like it was a 0:15:30.760 --> 0:15:33.960 full thing. Anyway, one day they were all in the 0:15:34.040 --> 0:15:38.360 change room, they're all getting changed, and someone catches this 0:15:38.440 --> 0:15:41.800 guy's dick and they're like, oh my god, your dick 0:15:41.920 --> 0:15:44.280 and he's like, fuck, everyone knows that I've got a 0:15:44.320 --> 0:15:48.040 small a small dick now right, and they're like, your 0:15:48.120 --> 0:15:51.280 dick is huge, and he's like, wait, what is it? 0:15:51.520 --> 0:15:54.520 I thought it was tiny and they're like no, like 0:15:54.840 --> 0:15:56.280 and then he saw everyone else's and he. 0:15:56.280 --> 0:16:00.880 Was like, oh shit, I'm well in down My best 0:16:00.920 --> 0:16:05.760 mate has a huge cock as well, so growing out 0:16:05.800 --> 0:16:07.400 that probably wasn't the best to compare to. 0:16:08.040 --> 0:16:10.080 Yeah, well it wouldn't be because then you're like, shit, 0:16:10.280 --> 0:16:11.120 is that the normal? 0:16:11.920 --> 0:16:16.400 Yeah? He does, so he's he'd be a shower. I reckon. 0:16:16.760 --> 0:16:19.680 That was my next question. Maybe he's a shower, not 0:16:19.760 --> 0:16:20.360 a grower. 0:16:20.560 --> 0:16:22.800 Well, you taught me before we came on here that 0:16:23.120 --> 0:16:26.720 a shower. This is what I didn't realize, was. 0:16:27.080 --> 0:16:27.840 I taught you? 0:16:28.120 --> 0:16:30.520 Well, I always sort of grower just means you're like, 0:16:30.760 --> 0:16:33.400 you are bigger, just on a flop. Yeah, but you're happy, 0:16:33.440 --> 0:16:34.960 like you know, you're happy to show it. And then 0:16:35.040 --> 0:16:37.320 I'm a grower where when you get on an erection, 0:16:37.480 --> 0:16:40.600 it gets bigger. So I didn't realize that sometimes a 0:16:40.640 --> 0:16:44.600 shower it stays the same size but just gets erect. Yeah, 0:16:44.640 --> 0:16:46.240 so how can you tell if a man's packing some 0:16:46.280 --> 0:16:47.440 heat down below? Well? 0:16:47.480 --> 0:16:50.640 It's interesting, right, because when you first meet a guy 0:16:51.160 --> 0:16:54.280 I think there's always like a I wonder what's like 0:16:54.440 --> 0:16:57.080 going down below the belt kind of thing, like it 0:16:57.200 --> 0:17:00.360 is something that you think about during dating, like who 0:17:00.360 --> 0:17:03.400 knows what they can be packing? Right, But research has 0:17:03.560 --> 0:17:08.920 actually found that if a guy has a shorter index 0:17:09.080 --> 0:17:14.159 finger then ring finger, then he is above average size wise. 0:17:14.760 --> 0:17:18.160 So do you have a shorter index finger than your 0:17:18.320 --> 0:17:20.800 ring finger? I do if I was a guy, I 0:17:20.960 --> 0:17:24.359 have a just But. 0:17:24.280 --> 0:17:26.040 Do you know what I actually find is it's the 0:17:26.119 --> 0:17:30.199 people that over compensate and overexagger like talk about it 0:17:30.240 --> 0:17:33.040 a lot. That are the people that you know, might 0:17:33.080 --> 0:17:36.000 not have a big cock I feel like, and men 0:17:36.119 --> 0:17:38.720 over compensate and they'll be like, yeah, I've got a 0:17:38.760 --> 0:17:41.760 big dick. I've got to be cock, but they don't. 0:17:42.080 --> 0:17:45.080 Yeah, like they say like big dick. Energy is kind 0:17:45.119 --> 0:17:47.720 of like someone who's confident, but like they're not over 0:17:47.760 --> 0:17:50.639 the top type of thing, but they're like almost like 0:17:50.760 --> 0:17:52.080 quietly confident and. 0:17:52.040 --> 0:17:54.000 They certain themselves and they know. 0:17:54.840 --> 0:17:57.520 Whereas someone who like you know, wants to start a 0:17:57.600 --> 0:18:00.600 fight or is over the top or who has. 0:18:00.520 --> 0:18:02.119 A really nice cars. 0:18:02.560 --> 0:18:05.320 Well, I don't know if we can say that everybody 0:18:05.400 --> 0:18:07.399 has a really nice car that's a still dick. I 0:18:07.440 --> 0:18:10.560 don't think we can say that, but yes, people do 0:18:10.680 --> 0:18:15.400 overcompensate for those things. It's spoken about so much in society, 0:18:15.440 --> 0:18:20.760 and yeah, like potentially that could be a thing. So 0:18:20.840 --> 0:18:23.840 Matt was asking me, this is like pre coming on here. 0:18:24.000 --> 0:18:26.720 He was like, well, you know you've had a few boyfriends. Sure, 0:18:26.840 --> 0:18:28.919 you've had a few showers and a few growers. And 0:18:28.960 --> 0:18:30.960