WEBVTT - YOU BETTER CRY ON YOUR WEDDING DAY 0:00:00.760 --> 0:00:03.279 I want the fairy tale. I want the prince charming. 0:00:03.680 --> 0:00:06.600 She how do I put this? Isn't a fan of 0:00:06.640 --> 0:00:07.560 my kissing. 0:00:07.240 --> 0:00:11.200 Style boyfriend and girlfriend for about twelve hours. 0:00:11.280 --> 0:00:14.440 He's in a trash bit. He's non recyclable catching them up. 0:00:15.760 --> 0:00:19.119 I loved being love. I love love just like you know, 0:00:19.200 --> 0:00:21.599 massaging each other bodies on bodies. It was so hot. 0:00:21.720 --> 0:00:23.479 That was so hard. That's my turn on. 0:00:28.600 --> 0:00:29.480 Where's Your Head At? 0:00:29.520 --> 0:00:33.920 Is a podcast that talks all things relationships, breakups, reality TV, 0:00:34.240 --> 0:00:36.440 trending shows, and everything in between. 0:00:36.720 --> 0:00:39.400 This is your new go to destination for laughs, gossip, 0:00:39.600 --> 0:00:41.720 intimate details, advice, and much more. 0:00:45.600 --> 0:00:48.320 Hey guys, we are back with another episode. 0:00:48.360 --> 0:00:49.040 How are you today? 0:00:49.040 --> 0:00:50.239 Anna doing well? 0:00:50.560 --> 0:00:53.920 I am just enjoying the sunshine. 0:00:54.360 --> 0:00:57.959 Well, my turn on of the week is Tammy has 0:00:58.000 --> 0:01:01.720 got me watching. We actually had to decide between two 0:01:01.880 --> 0:01:05.600 of her favorite shows. It was either Gray's Anatomy or 0:01:05.720 --> 0:01:06.720 Vampire Diaries. 0:01:06.760 --> 0:01:08.720 So are you saying she's already seen them? 0:01:08.800 --> 0:01:10.760 And then she was like, you need to see them? 0:01:10.880 --> 0:01:15.160 And she's seen multiple times apparently as well. I selected 0:01:15.280 --> 0:01:18.880 Vampire Diaries on good choice. Have you seen it? 0:01:19.160 --> 0:01:22.880 I've seen Vampire Diaries and I am obsessed with Vampire Diaries, 0:01:22.880 --> 0:01:24.480 but I've never seen Gray's anatomy. 0:01:24.800 --> 0:01:25.880 How are you finding it. 0:01:27.080 --> 0:01:28.080 Is that's looking in me? 0:01:28.200 --> 0:01:29.360 Like stun Mullows. 0:01:29.920 --> 0:01:33.039 I mean it's like it's it's just a what do 0:01:33.040 --> 0:01:34.959 you call it? I did say this one comment at 0:01:35.000 --> 0:01:37.680 one time, and I got shunned on it's I said, 0:01:37.720 --> 0:01:40.560 it's like a Walmart version of Twilight. 0:01:42.000 --> 0:01:45.440 Nah, I have to deeply disagree with you on that one. 0:01:45.800 --> 0:01:51.280 No, I just love the whole Lena Damon Stephan dynamic 0:01:51.800 --> 0:01:56.400 question for anyone listening, who's in the Vampire Diaries sphere? 0:01:56.920 --> 0:01:59.880 Are you team Damon or Stephan? 0:02:00.400 --> 0:02:05.480 Well, I'm pretty early and I'm team Stephan. No, no, sorry, 0:02:06.120 --> 0:02:08.280 I don't know which ones which. The baddie at the start, 0:02:08.480 --> 0:02:13.239 who's plays the heel? I think that's Damon. Everyone listenings 0:02:13.240 --> 0:02:14.799 like this guy has no idea? Well I don't. Every 0:02:14.800 --> 0:02:18.120 time I look at my phone, I know, I know, 0:02:18.240 --> 0:02:20.880 but I'm really enjoying it. To be fair, Damon, Yeah, 0:02:20.919 --> 0:02:23.760 I like him. He's wickedly funny. He's you know, you know, 0:02:23.800 --> 0:02:25.560 I like the heel. I like the bad guy. 0:02:25.960 --> 0:02:30.080 I am team Damon through and through. He's so hot. 0:02:32.080 --> 0:02:32.919 I think he's funny. 0:02:33.040 --> 0:02:34.000 He's very my type. 0:02:34.000 --> 0:02:35.600 Don't reckon he doesn't have long hair. 0:02:35.720 --> 0:02:39.280 Yes he does, So you're thinking of Stefan. There's one 0:02:39.320 --> 0:02:42.040 with like the dark longish hair, longish. 0:02:42.240 --> 0:02:42.480 Yeah. 0:02:42.880 --> 0:02:45.480 God, everyone listening to this probably thinks I have no Yeah, 0:02:45.480 --> 0:02:47.880 that's him, that's I like him better, damon. 0:02:48.000 --> 0:02:50.960 Okay, we've established. 0:02:52.080 --> 0:02:55.160 But you know, like someone died the other day and 0:02:55.200 --> 0:02:57.280 I was like, oh wow, then they're back alive, and 0:02:57.320 --> 0:02:58.400 I'm like, hell. 0:02:58.600 --> 0:03:01.519 Vampire ship, I know, got to you gotta. 0:03:01.320 --> 0:03:01.960 Go with the flow. 0:03:02.040 --> 0:03:05.200 And then the main cuffle broke off. I'm Stephan, that's. 0:03:05.080 --> 0:03:05.680 Not the lesson. 0:03:06.240 --> 0:03:08.040 No spoiler, no spoiler. 0:03:08.320 --> 0:03:09.560 I was like, I'm pretty sure this is the eighth 0:03:09.639 --> 0:03:11.920 time they've broken up in this first season, and I'm 0:03:11.919 --> 0:03:13.760 pretty sure they've got me, and that's gonna happen a 0:03:13.800 --> 0:03:15.000 three hundred more times. 0:03:15.080 --> 0:03:17.960 I'm so excited to talk to you about Vampire Diaries. 0:03:18.000 --> 0:03:19.960 I mean, this is kind of giving me the urge 0:03:20.000 --> 0:03:22.720 to rewatch it now, because I'm like, because because you're 0:03:22.760 --> 0:03:24.440 going to be able to talk about it, maybe the 0:03:24.480 --> 0:03:25.480 hole wears your head out. 0:03:25.520 --> 0:03:27.600 Fam should watch Vampire Diaries or. 0:03:27.680 --> 0:03:30.600 Rewatch Yes, guys, I recommend it. 0:03:31.200 --> 0:03:32.560 Are you actually not liking it. 0:03:32.720 --> 0:03:33.880 I am, I actually. 0:03:33.680 --> 0:03:36.320 Am, I'm like this sarcastic tone. I'm just like not 0:03:36.480 --> 0:03:37.080 viving with it. 0:03:37.240 --> 0:03:41.840 I'm kidding, I'm just trying to be cool. I love it. 0:03:42.160 --> 0:03:44.480 I'm like, what should we watch a movie tonight? Let's 0:03:44.480 --> 0:03:45.480 watch The Empire Diaries. 0:03:47.880 --> 0:03:49.920 Head over to our Facebook page. I want to know 0:03:49.960 --> 0:03:52.839 if you guys are team Damon or team Stephan, because 0:03:52.840 --> 0:03:54.880 it's a real thing and it can cause a lot 0:03:54.920 --> 0:03:57.400 of conflicts within friendships. Like one of my best friends, Laura, 0:03:57.520 --> 0:04:02.600 she is team Stefan through and through. Like shy hard. 0:04:02.520 --> 0:04:04.080 Stephan fan cour she is. 0:04:04.640 --> 0:04:06.040 What's your turn off for this week? 0:04:06.680 --> 0:04:10.520 My turn off of the week is that I'm thirty 0:04:10.560 --> 0:04:13.520 one and I'm just realizing that I just don't recover 0:04:14.080 --> 0:04:16.559 quite like I used to. And this is in many 0:04:16.680 --> 0:04:19.839 assets of life, So obviously the one that you initially 0:04:19.839 --> 0:04:22.599 go to is drinking. Obviously I had a huge period 0:04:22.640 --> 0:04:26.480 of not drinking after getting sick. We've just had New 0:04:26.560 --> 0:04:30.479 Years Eve. My recovery just isn't as snappy, isn't as quick. 0:04:31.440 --> 0:04:33.720 But then on top of that, because I've not done 0:04:33.720 --> 0:04:36.320 a lot of exercise, I've started getting back into running 0:04:36.320 --> 0:04:38.719 with Michael how's that going? Well? 0:04:38.920 --> 0:04:39.800 Did you get a rude shock? 0:04:40.080 --> 0:04:44.839 I got a rude awakening literally after my first run. 0:04:44.880 --> 0:04:47.400 I did one point six, no, one point five k 0:04:47.560 --> 0:04:50.640 for the first run, which is not far very far. 0:04:50.960 --> 0:04:52.400 You know what, But I'm not going to go on 0:04:52.480 --> 0:04:54.720 Instagram and social media and lie to people and be 0:04:54.760 --> 0:04:55.680 like I did ten k. 0:04:55.880 --> 0:04:58.000 No, I did one point five K. I'm gonna be 0:04:58.000 --> 0:04:58.839 honest about it. 0:04:58.839 --> 0:05:01.200 It was hard for me as anyone saying that's not 0:05:01.200 --> 0:05:01.560 that far. 0:05:02.240 --> 0:05:05.880 No, everyone was really nice. No one said that I. 0:05:07.560 --> 0:05:11.360 Thought it. When you posted it, I was like, he's like, embarrassed. 0:05:11.920 --> 0:05:14.120 That's not even to the shopping back. 0:05:15.440 --> 0:05:18.880 Okay, it's far from me, and listen to this. So 0:05:19.160 --> 0:05:22.560 after this one point five k ran, I literally hurt 0:05:22.600 --> 0:05:24.480 my knee. Like my knee was like felt like it 0:05:24.520 --> 0:05:27.360 was kind of like a jar, like it wasn't dislocated, 0:05:27.760 --> 0:05:31.560 but it wasn't like in like something was crickety and 0:05:31.640 --> 0:05:35.600 not quite right. Anyway, that's age for you. I went 0:05:35.680 --> 0:05:37.760 to the physio I told her this. She was like, 0:05:37.760 --> 0:05:40.680 how far did you run? She literally laughed. She's like, sorry, 0:05:40.680 --> 0:05:43.120 I did me into laugh that's unprofessional. I was like, 0:05:43.160 --> 0:05:48.360 don't worry, I'm laughing at myself on the inside, and 0:05:48.400 --> 0:05:52.560 then she was literally like, normally, you know, this happens 0:05:52.560 --> 0:05:55.400 to people after like starting up running for a week 0:05:55.440 --> 0:05:57.320 and doing it like four times a week for like 0:05:57.360 --> 0:05:59.960 a couple of months. But like for you, because it's 0:06:00.080 --> 0:06:02.560 your first run, all I can say is like, you 0:06:02.600 --> 0:06:04.560 probably shouldn't run for a couple of weeks. 0:06:05.640 --> 0:06:09.760 So anyway, I've got a question for you. Has Michael 0:06:09.800 --> 0:06:12.520 given you any massages then, since you've been sore? 0:06:14.839 --> 0:06:15.159 No? 0:06:15.839 --> 0:06:20.480 My turn on another one is I know is so 0:06:20.720 --> 0:06:22.719 last night Tammy and I were in a hotel room, 0:06:22.760 --> 0:06:25.240 so we're like, you know, let's, you know, spice it 0:06:25.320 --> 0:06:29.919 up a little bit. We ordered on Uber eats coconut oil. 0:06:30.200 --> 0:06:31.880 Do you know how much five hundred meals is, she 0:06:31.960 --> 0:06:35.240 asked me, And I said that's half a liter. Yeah yeah, 0:06:35.279 --> 0:06:36.920 And I was like, but I'm like, I'm not sure 0:06:37.160 --> 0:06:40.600 is it a shot? Well, we ordered two, so it 0:06:40.600 --> 0:06:43.119 became like a liter of coconut oil, which is big, 0:06:43.279 --> 0:06:45.040 which is big. So my turn on the week is 0:06:45.040 --> 0:06:47.440 coconut oil for massages, you. 0:06:47.360 --> 0:06:49.400 Know what, coconut oil for sex? 0:06:49.640 --> 0:06:51.240 And then yeah, we're obviously. 0:06:50.839 --> 0:06:55.000 A great lubricant natural like I wouldn't. I don't use lute. 0:06:55.080 --> 0:06:58.720 We only use coconut oil. There's some coconut inside our 0:06:58.800 --> 0:06:59.800 bed in the drawer. 0:07:00.760 --> 0:07:02.760 Well that's so yeah. I kept it after because like 0:07:02.800 --> 0:07:05.680 this was people covered in oil, just like you know, 0:07:05.760 --> 0:07:08.200 massaging each other bodies on bodies. It was so hot. 0:07:08.279 --> 0:07:09.159 That was so hard. 0:07:09.240 --> 0:07:11.680 That's my turn on, just like loving each other up 0:07:11.720 --> 0:07:14.200 with and then it's like not sticky. 0:07:14.000 --> 0:07:17.000 It's not so it's just like a nice and. 0:07:16.960 --> 0:07:21.640 Your skin feels nice afterwards, your moisture afterwards. 0:07:21.200 --> 0:07:23.960 Good for things like thrush as well. Really yeah, like 0:07:23.960 --> 0:07:27.040 if you have thrash, coconut oils like quite cleansing, calming, 0:07:27.200 --> 0:07:29.800 all of the above. It's it's it's a real that's 0:07:29.840 --> 0:07:30.800 a great turn on. 0:07:31.000 --> 0:07:33.880 It was pouring coconut oil just on us. 0:07:34.200 --> 0:07:35.240 We can't pour it. 0:07:35.240 --> 0:07:38.480 It's hard, no, no, no, no liquif we have the 0:07:38.520 --> 0:07:43.440 liquefied onefied. Yeah, the ur coroconut oil was liquified. I've 0:07:43.440 --> 0:07:44.560 got it in the car. I'll show you. 0:07:45.280 --> 0:07:46.840 I'm okay, I need to see it. 0:07:47.040 --> 0:07:50.320 I believe my coconut oil is like starts hard and 0:07:50.360 --> 0:07:52.360 then you take it out and then you liquify it 0:07:52.400 --> 0:07:52.920 in your hand. 0:07:53.120 --> 0:07:57.400 This one is definitely in a five bottle squeeze bottle, No, 0:07:57.560 --> 0:07:58.880 just a glass bottle. 0:07:59.120 --> 0:08:02.320 It's like that's doing the strangest actions. 0:08:02.480 --> 0:08:04.440 I'm like pouring it on my head. It looks like 0:08:04.480 --> 0:08:05.160 I'm a jerkingman. 0:08:05.600 --> 0:08:08.880 I mean, let's go to the Facebook group. Is your 0:08:08.920 --> 0:08:12.080 coconut oil liquefied or hard? Because minds is hard. 0:08:12.120 --> 0:08:14.400 But look, we can agree to disagree on this. I 0:08:14.440 --> 0:08:17.800 believe it. If you're telling me you had liquid coconut. 0:08:17.400 --> 0:08:19.720 Oil, it had it looked like it was the stuff 0:08:19.720 --> 0:08:22.200 that you pour into like those this. Let's not go 0:08:22.280 --> 0:08:22.720 down there. 0:08:26.280 --> 0:08:26.800 Okay, Matt. 0:08:26.840 --> 0:08:29.880 We've got lots of things planned this year. We have cruisers, 0:08:29.880 --> 0:08:34.680 we have hens, parties, bucks parties, trips away, international weddings, concerts, 0:08:35.120 --> 0:08:40.280 Goldie Bee announcements. But the thing that we both have 0:08:40.360 --> 0:08:43.880 in common is that I'm a twenty twenty four bride 0:08:44.000 --> 0:08:44.640 and you are. 0:08:44.520 --> 0:08:46.080 A twenty twenty four groom. 0:08:46.480 --> 0:08:49.439 We're both getting married this year. How excited are you? 0:08:49.559 --> 0:08:51.760 Very excited? Well, obviously we don't have out date as 0:08:51.800 --> 0:08:54.520 such booked in now, but we're aiming for that year 0:08:54.720 --> 0:08:57.920 and I guess booking a venue dislay. She's obviously going 0:08:57.960 --> 0:09:00.880 to be challenging, A little bit challenging. What do you 0:09:00.920 --> 0:09:03.840 call it? A venue that's like we want so we're 0:09:03.840 --> 0:09:06.360 looking around, but hopefully it is this year. We've just 0:09:06.400 --> 0:09:08.840 got to book the venue, find someone. We've got a 0:09:08.880 --> 0:09:14.679 wedding planner, so we' well, I say we Tammy's a 0:09:14.679 --> 0:09:16.400 wedding planner and it's all ready to go. 0:09:16.640 --> 0:09:18.640 How much involvement are you going to have in the 0:09:18.640 --> 0:09:23.120 wedding because I know for our engagement party, Michael had 0:09:23.520 --> 0:09:27.920 zero input really in our engagement party. And on the 0:09:27.960 --> 0:09:30.440 way to our engagement party, Michael was like, thank you 0:09:30.480 --> 0:09:32.520 so much for doing everything. And I was like, you 0:09:32.559 --> 0:09:35.360 know what, for our wedding, you are having input, Like 0:09:35.400 --> 0:09:37.680 I'm not. I want us to both be a part 0:09:37.720 --> 0:09:39.520 of it, for it to be like a joint venture. 0:09:40.120 --> 0:09:42.679 Well, I would like to say I'm going to have 0:09:42.720 --> 0:09:45.680 some input and I'd like to, but I just I 0:09:45.679 --> 0:09:49.520 don't think I'm going to. I mean, I Tammy asked 0:09:49.520 --> 0:09:52.439 me flak for what what I picture or something. I 0:09:52.679 --> 0:09:55.480 brought up a photo and then she was like, no, absolutely. 0:09:55.040 --> 0:09:56.839 Not photo did you bring us? 0:09:56.880 --> 0:09:59.040 I can't remember something that I searched for like weddings. 0:09:59.080 --> 0:10:00.720 And I was like, I like this and absolutely not. 0:10:00.880 --> 0:10:03.560 And then she showed me her Pinterest board and I 0:10:03.600 --> 0:10:05.280 was looking at that and I was like, what's that 0:10:05.480 --> 0:10:07.920 And She's like, they're spoons And I'm like, why do 0:10:07.960 --> 0:10:09.440 they have to look like that? Why can't we just 0:10:09.480 --> 0:10:12.319 have spoons? What do you mean they're like all Shaley 0:10:12.440 --> 0:10:15.160 and Artie and like they look pretty, like they look nice. 0:10:15.160 --> 0:10:17.120 But then oh, come on, I'm not, like, you know, 0:10:17.200 --> 0:10:19.319 I'm not very stylish like with that sort of stuff. 0:10:19.480 --> 0:10:20.560 Attention to details. 0:10:20.679 --> 0:10:23.079 Yeah, and then she had like I mean, she showed 0:10:23.080 --> 0:10:24.560 me the cake that she wanted and I was like, oh, 0:10:24.600 --> 0:10:26.480 we're going to put like the you know, the little 0:10:26.520 --> 0:10:28.920 groomsman and bride on there, and she was like, absolutely not. 0:10:29.480 --> 0:10:31.480 I'm not you know, like I don't think that I'm 0:10:31.480 --> 0:10:33.680 going to have much of a say in it. I like, like, 0:10:33.720 --> 0:10:36.000 I'm definitely interested, and I've asked to like sit in 0:10:36.040 --> 0:10:38.440 on meetings and you know, look at things and like 0:10:38.760 --> 0:10:40.800 give my opinion. But at the end of the day, 0:10:40.800 --> 0:10:42.080 I think I'm just going to rock up and do 0:10:42.120 --> 0:10:44.480 the most important thing and say I do say I. 0:10:44.440 --> 0:10:45.200 Do, I love you. 0:10:45.320 --> 0:10:48.080 Yeah, that's her. I think my role is at. 0:10:47.960 --> 0:10:49.880 The way I mean the thing is is there are 0:10:50.040 --> 0:10:52.520 like little things that you can even do just so 0:10:52.559 --> 0:10:55.040 that you feel like you have had some input. Like 0:10:55.040 --> 0:10:58.480 you could potentially do a playlist for the DJ that 0:10:58.559 --> 0:11:00.920 they can kind of like, you know, gives them some 0:11:00.960 --> 0:11:03.720 sort of direction. Or you could organize a wedding car. 0:11:03.800 --> 0:11:07.160 And Michael is like really wanting to organize our wedding car, 0:11:07.400 --> 0:11:09.000 even though I'm like, do we need a wedding car 0:11:09.040 --> 0:11:10.079 because it's on the estate. 0:11:10.240 --> 0:11:11.840 That was my thought as well. We're looking at a 0:11:11.880 --> 0:11:15.040 state that you're staying at, so it wouldn't be so 0:11:15.120 --> 0:11:16.719 much wedding car, like where are they going to drive us? 0:11:16.800 --> 0:11:18.600 You know? But it's more just like for the photos 0:11:18.600 --> 0:11:20.400 with the wedding car, like I've always dreamed of, like 0:11:20.480 --> 0:11:23.840 getting in after the marriage and been like, what have 0:11:23.920 --> 0:11:26.320 you just married in the cans on the the cans. 0:11:26.640 --> 0:11:27.640 The cans. 0:11:28.920 --> 0:11:30.480 Drive along with the cans rackingly. 0:11:30.679 --> 0:11:33.040 Our estate where we're getting married is quite rustic as well, 0:11:33.080 --> 0:11:35.640 so I feel like the cans dragging behind would be 0:11:35.720 --> 0:11:36.560 just like such a vibe. 0:11:36.600 --> 0:11:40.800 It'd be a cool photo would be here. No might 0:11:40.920 --> 0:11:43.360 I might ask her toy, ask you what our song 0:11:43.400 --> 0:11:44.640 should be for our first dance? 0:11:45.040 --> 0:11:48.120 Because you guys don't have a first like a song, yeah, song? 0:11:48.280 --> 0:11:50.280 And I what we do have songs? And I told 0:11:50.280 --> 0:11:52.280 her that my idea of the songs, and she said, no, 0:11:52.360 --> 0:11:53.839 fair enough. I don't know what. 0:11:54.559 --> 0:11:56.440 To be really honest with you, I don't think that 0:11:56.480 --> 0:11:58.280 we necessarily. 0:11:57.720 --> 0:11:58.959 Have a couple songs. 0:11:59.320 --> 0:12:01.280 Well, we've had songs that we've been like, this is 0:12:01.320 --> 0:12:03.160 our song, but I don't think any of them were 0:12:03.200 --> 0:12:06.000 strong enough for our first dance. And we've tried to 0:12:06.240 --> 0:12:10.320 we've tried to make songs our songs for the wedding specifically, 0:12:10.360 --> 0:12:11.000 but then I'm. 0:12:10.800 --> 0:12:12.960 Like, I don't know if you can make a song 0:12:13.000 --> 0:12:13.400 a song. 0:12:13.559 --> 0:12:15.640 Well, there's the one song that we had that made 0:12:15.679 --> 0:12:18.240 sense I would classify as our song was when I 0:12:18.320 --> 0:12:20.480 rented that car in Brisbane and from when we were 0:12:20.559 --> 0:12:22.760 up there doing the show and I drove down to 0:12:22.840 --> 0:12:24.800 the Gold Coast and I didn't know how to work 0:12:24.840 --> 0:12:26.840 the stereo and there was this seed he told me 0:12:26.880 --> 0:12:29.240 about that and this CD in there that was this 0:12:29.360 --> 0:12:32.760 real sad love song and I shit, you knocked. It 0:12:32.840 --> 0:12:35.560 was on repeat for however long that drive is, because 0:12:35.559 --> 0:12:37.040 I was stuck in traffic as well, like an hour 0:12:37.040 --> 0:12:38.520 and a half. It was just on repeat. 0:12:38.720 --> 0:12:41.240 See that's a good that's a good story of why 0:12:41.280 --> 0:12:42.200 that should be your song? 0:12:42.240 --> 0:12:42.960 Should I play it? 0:12:43.080 --> 0:12:53.079 Play the song? I want to hear it. 0:12:53.679 --> 0:12:57.040 I mean very like slow romantic. 0:12:57.320 --> 0:12:59.720 Could you imagine me driving listening to this? 0:13:00.640 --> 0:13:01.800 I'm thinking of the wedding. 0:13:02.920 --> 0:13:04.440 I'm thinking like doves flying. 0:13:04.840 --> 0:13:06.240 Does it remind you of like. 0:13:10.840 --> 0:13:12.559 I mean, it's unique. No one's gonna have that for 0:13:12.600 --> 0:13:13.800 their wedding song, are they. 0:13:17.559 --> 0:13:20.600 It reminds me of like a like a Alves in 0:13:20.640 --> 0:13:23.160 Lord of the Ring sort of song. It's so wild. 0:13:23.480 --> 0:13:27.040 I can imagine like you guys at opposite ends of 0:13:27.120 --> 0:13:31.719 the dance floor walking towards each other, doves flying above you. 0:13:32.400 --> 0:13:33.920 That's what that song is giving. 0:13:34.160 --> 0:13:36.760 That's yeah, that song just that gave me like a 0:13:36.760 --> 0:13:41.880 bit of like when driving and it would literally just 0:13:41.960 --> 0:13:42.800 restart again. 0:13:43.120 --> 0:13:44.680 That's hilarious. 0:13:46.760 --> 0:13:47.360 Okay, Matt. 0:13:47.440 --> 0:13:50.280 We are getting married in twenty twenty four, and obviously 0:13:50.760 --> 0:13:53.480 we have lots of wedding chat that we could talk 0:13:53.480 --> 0:13:55.720 about with the podcast, but we want to throw to 0:13:55.800 --> 0:13:59.080 you guys on our Facebook page. Do you actually want 0:13:59.080 --> 0:14:02.360 to hear this type of wedding chat? Because we can 0:14:02.400 --> 0:14:05.120 talk about this as little or as much as you guys, like, 0:14:05.280 --> 0:14:07.800 so head over there now and we're going to follow 0:14:07.840 --> 0:14:11.720 your lead. But for now, since we're already on wedding chat, 0:14:11.800 --> 0:14:14.720 I thought we could discuss some of the twenty twenty 0:14:14.760 --> 0:14:17.720 four wedding trends that are predicted. 0:14:18.040 --> 0:14:20.640 Okay, so Matt. 0:14:20.480 --> 0:14:23.440 Doesn't even look like he's not even doing a good 0:14:23.520 --> 0:14:26.240 job of pretending to be interested in that. That, okay, 0:14:26.480 --> 0:14:29.960 was the most unenthusiastic okay of your whole life. 0:14:30.040 --> 0:14:34.000 Well, yeah, Tammy's already got her wedding dress already. 0:14:34.320 --> 0:14:36.000 Yeah, she's gone before me. 0:14:36.280 --> 0:14:37.680 The girl is moving fast. 0:14:37.680 --> 0:14:39.680 I joke. I joke around to say, well it is 0:14:39.720 --> 0:14:42.040 her third go. She's probably had it on the back burner. 0:14:42.360 --> 0:14:43.239 That dress. 0:14:44.080 --> 0:14:45.440 I guess she I'm kidding. 0:14:45.680 --> 0:14:48.000 I guess she kind of knows like what she wants. 0:14:48.280 --> 0:14:48.480 Yes. 0:14:48.680 --> 0:14:52.200 Whereas, like little backstory on me. When I like hit 0:14:52.280 --> 0:14:56.200 twenty seven, I was the go to wedding model, so 0:14:56.240 --> 0:14:59.520 obviously I modeled for ten years from seventeen to twenty seven. 0:15:00.000 --> 0:15:02.800 When I hit twenty seven, the only jobs I started 0:15:02.800 --> 0:15:05.720 booking were all of the Bridal magazine. So I was 0:15:05.720 --> 0:15:08.240 on the front cover of every Bridle magazine in Australia 0:15:08.280 --> 0:15:11.000 at one point, like I was on all the wedding websites, 0:15:11.000 --> 0:15:14.440 the Bridal website, so I have tried on more wedding 0:15:14.520 --> 0:15:17.720 dresses than any woman on the planet. So like, I 0:15:17.760 --> 0:15:19.760 think I had an idea of what I wanted my 0:15:19.800 --> 0:15:22.040 wedding dress to be like, But then I think because 0:15:22.040 --> 0:15:25.400 I've tried on so many, it's made me almost so 0:15:25.640 --> 0:15:30.000 picky with wedding dresses and just very confused as to 0:15:30.040 --> 0:15:32.320 what I would personally want for my own wedding. It's 0:15:32.320 --> 0:15:37.120 almost like, I'm not going to say ruined it, but 0:15:37.360 --> 0:15:39.440 like the you know when you first try on a 0:15:39.440 --> 0:15:41.960 wedding dress, it's like, ah, I've never wore a wedding 0:15:42.000 --> 0:15:44.160 dress before. But for me, I've tried on so many 0:15:44.200 --> 0:15:46.640 that I'm kind of like, yeah, like it needs to 0:15:46.680 --> 0:15:48.560 be something pretty special to blow me away. 0:15:48.880 --> 0:15:51.680 Have you gotten further at designing it or anything like that? 0:15:52.000 --> 0:15:55.360 Yes, So I have a lin lakwe designing my dress. 0:15:55.440 --> 0:15:56.080 Two dresses. 0:15:56.360 --> 0:15:58.520 How many changes are you doing too? Only two? 0:15:58.640 --> 0:16:01.240 Only two? How many Sammy doing? I'm not sure how 0:16:01.240 --> 0:16:02.440 many changes are you doing? 0:16:02.720 --> 0:16:05.040 Just a jacket and bow tie will come up? Give 0:16:05.080 --> 0:16:06.360 me a little bit of a chilled out look at 0:16:06.400 --> 0:16:06.760 the reception. 0:16:06.840 --> 0:16:08.000 Are you going to do suspenders? 0:16:08.760 --> 0:16:10.680 I haven't thought about it, you know what I. 0:16:10.600 --> 0:16:14.160 Mean, Yeah, maybe you'll be setting the trends. 0:16:13.720 --> 0:16:16.960 Of twenty twenty five. 0:16:17.000 --> 0:16:18.920 I haven't even thought about that. And then like, I 0:16:18.920 --> 0:16:20.760 guess I'm excited thinking about what I'm going to wear 0:16:20.840 --> 0:16:22.560 and that, Yeah, it is exciting. 0:16:22.600 --> 0:16:27.400 And like Michael's currently planning on He's going with his 0:16:27.520 --> 0:16:30.480 groomsmen to get them all suits and they go into 0:16:30.480 --> 0:16:33.720 this like room and they all have whiskey together and 0:16:33.840 --> 0:16:38.920 they chat. I'll ask him, and I mean just you 0:16:38.960 --> 0:16:41.280 can message him and all ask you. But yeah, you 0:16:41.360 --> 0:16:43.280 like they're making like a nice day of it, and 0:16:43.320 --> 0:16:46.200 they all go get measured for suits, try on suits, 0:16:46.520 --> 0:16:49.320 kind of get a bit litty, and then they'll probably 0:16:49.400 --> 0:16:51.600 go out after. I think that's such a fun way 0:16:51.640 --> 0:16:54.480 to do it, like such a nice memorable bonding time. 0:16:54.920 --> 0:16:56.880 I've told who my groom's winning going to be. I've 0:16:56.880 --> 0:16:57.920 told him in a group chat. 0:16:59.160 --> 0:17:01.720 But you don't want to like make them nice boxes 0:17:01.960 --> 0:17:03.160 or do something special. 0:17:03.280 --> 0:17:06.119 Temmy setting up the boxes for her bridesmaids and I 0:17:06.160 --> 0:17:07.879 was like, well, what do I do for my grooms 0:17:07.920 --> 0:17:09.320 and what do I get them? And she was like 0:17:09.520 --> 0:17:10.640 do guys even do that? 0:17:10.760 --> 0:17:12.680 And I was sort of like, yeah, that's true. 0:17:12.720 --> 0:17:13.960 I was like, I don't know, like do you get 0:17:14.000 --> 0:17:16.840 them like this is completely this thought, like do you 0:17:16.880 --> 0:17:19.600 get them like a flask or something or like. 0:17:19.760 --> 0:17:22.160 You could do you get them like engraved floor? 0:17:22.200 --> 0:17:23.440 That's what I mean? But then are they going to 0:17:23.680 --> 0:17:24.879 like what are they going to do with that? Do 0:17:24.960 --> 0:17:26.880 you get them like a I don't know what, A many. 0:17:26.800 --> 0:17:29.920 Ducks to wear on the wedding day? Personalized socks? 0:17:29.960 --> 0:17:31.560 Like what do you get men that they're going to 0:17:31.600 --> 0:17:33.040 be couplings? 0:17:33.040 --> 0:17:34.600 That's a good one that they would wear on the 0:17:34.600 --> 0:17:35.160 wedding day. 0:17:35.160 --> 0:17:36.440 Wear on the wedding day. But then you just get 0:17:36.440 --> 0:17:37.280 that when you get the suit. 0:17:37.440 --> 0:17:39.359 But if you I'm just thinking like if you wanted 0:17:39.359 --> 0:17:40.119 to do like give. 0:17:40.000 --> 0:17:42.040