Speaker 1: I want the fairy tale. I want the prince charming.
Speaker 2: She how do I put this? Isn't a fan of
Speaker 2: my kissing.
Speaker 3: Style boyfriend and girlfriend for about twelve hours.
Speaker 1: He's in a trash bit. He's non recyclable catching them up.
Speaker 2: I loved being love. I love love just like you know,
Speaker 2: massaging each other bodies on bodies. It was so hot.
Speaker 2: That was so hard. That's my turn on.
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Speaker 3: Hey guys, we are back with another episode.
Speaker 2: How are you today?
Speaker 1: Anna doing well?
Speaker 3: I am just enjoying the sunshine.
Speaker 2: Well, my turn on of the week is Tammy has
Speaker 2: got me watching. We actually had to decide between two
Speaker 2: of her favorite shows. It was either Gray's Anatomy or
Speaker 2: Vampire Diaries.
Speaker 3: So are you saying she's already seen them?
Speaker 1: And then she was like, you need to see them?
Speaker 2: And she's seen multiple times apparently as well. I selected
Speaker 2: Vampire Diaries on good choice. Have you seen it?
Speaker 3: I've seen Vampire Diaries and I am obsessed with Vampire Diaries,
Speaker 3: but I've never seen Gray's anatomy.
Speaker 1: How are you finding it.
Speaker 3: Is that's looking in me?
Speaker 1: Like stun Mullows.
Speaker 2: I mean it's like it's it's just a what do
Speaker 2: you call it? I did say this one comment at
Speaker 2: one time, and I got shunned on it's I said,
Speaker 2: it's like a Walmart version of Twilight.
Speaker 1: Nah, I have to deeply disagree with you on that one.
Speaker 3: No, I just love the whole Lena Damon Stephan dynamic
Speaker 3: question for anyone listening, who's in the Vampire Diaries sphere?
Speaker 1: Are you team Damon or Stephan?
Speaker 2: Well, I'm pretty early and I'm team Stephan. No, no, sorry,
Speaker 2: I don't know which ones which. The baddie at the start,
Speaker 2: who's plays the heel? I think that's Damon. Everyone listenings
Speaker 2: like this guy has no idea? Well I don't. Every
Speaker 2: time I look at my phone, I know, I know,
Speaker 2: but I'm really enjoying it. To be fair, Damon, Yeah,
Speaker 2: I like him. He's wickedly funny. He's you know, you know,
Speaker 2: I like the heel. I like the bad guy.
Speaker 1: I am team Damon through and through. He's so hot.
Speaker 2: I think he's funny.
Speaker 1: He's very my type.
Speaker 2: Don't reckon he doesn't have long hair.
Speaker 3: Yes he does, So you're thinking of Stefan. There's one
Speaker 3: with like the dark longish hair, longish.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: God, everyone listening to this probably thinks I have no Yeah,
Speaker 2: that's him, that's I like him better, damon.
Speaker 1: Okay, we've established.
Speaker 2: But you know, like someone died the other day and
Speaker 2: I was like, oh wow, then they're back alive, and
Speaker 2: I'm like, hell.
Speaker 1: Vampire ship, I know, got to you gotta.
Speaker 3: Go with the flow.
Speaker 2: And then the main cuffle broke off. I'm Stephan, that's.
Speaker 3: Not the lesson.
Speaker 1: No spoiler, no spoiler.
Speaker 2: I was like, I'm pretty sure this is the eighth
Speaker 2: time they've broken up in this first season, and I'm
Speaker 2: pretty sure they've got me, and that's gonna happen a
Speaker 2: three hundred more times.
Speaker 3: I'm so excited to talk to you about Vampire Diaries.
Speaker 3: I mean, this is kind of giving me the urge
Speaker 3: to rewatch it now, because I'm like, because because you're
Speaker 3: going to be able to talk about it, maybe the
Speaker 3: hole wears your head out.
Speaker 1: Fam should watch Vampire Diaries or.
Speaker 2: Rewatch Yes, guys, I recommend it.
Speaker 3: Are you actually not liking it.
Speaker 2: I am, I actually.
Speaker 1: Am, I'm like this sarcastic tone. I'm just like not
Speaker 1: viving with it.
Speaker 2: I'm kidding, I'm just trying to be cool. I love it.
Speaker 2: I'm like, what should we watch a movie tonight? Let's
Speaker 2: watch The Empire Diaries.
Speaker 3: Head over to our Facebook page. I want to know
Speaker 3: if you guys are team Damon or team Stephan, because
Speaker 3: it's a real thing and it can cause a lot
Speaker 3: of conflicts within friendships. Like one of my best friends, Laura,
Speaker 3: she is team Stefan through and through. Like shy hard.
Speaker 1: Stephan fan cour she is.
Speaker 2: What's your turn off for this week?
Speaker 3: My turn off of the week is that I'm thirty
Speaker 3: one and I'm just realizing that I just don't recover
Speaker 3: quite like I used to. And this is in many
Speaker 3: assets of life, So obviously the one that you initially
Speaker 3: go to is drinking. Obviously I had a huge period
Speaker 3: of not drinking after getting sick. We've just had New
Speaker 3: Years Eve. My recovery just isn't as snappy, isn't as quick.
Speaker 3: But then on top of that, because I've not done
Speaker 3: a lot of exercise, I've started getting back into running
Speaker 3: with Michael how's that going? Well?
Speaker 2: Did you get a rude shock?
Speaker 3: I got a rude awakening literally after my first run.
Speaker 3: I did one point six, no, one point five k
Speaker 3: for the first run, which is not far very far.
Speaker 3: You know what, But I'm not going to go on
Speaker 3: Instagram and social media and lie to people and be
Speaker 3: like I did ten k.
Speaker 1: No, I did one point five K. I'm gonna be
Speaker 1: honest about it.
Speaker 2: It was hard for me as anyone saying that's not
Speaker 2: that far.
Speaker 1: No, everyone was really nice. No one said that I.
Speaker 2: Thought it. When you posted it, I was like, he's like, embarrassed.
Speaker 2: That's not even to the shopping back.
Speaker 3: Okay, it's far from me, and listen to this. So
Speaker 3: after this one point five k ran, I literally hurt
Speaker 3: my knee. Like my knee was like felt like it
Speaker 3: was kind of like a jar, like it wasn't dislocated,
Speaker 3: but it wasn't like in like something was crickety and
Speaker 3: not quite right. Anyway, that's age for you. I went
Speaker 3: to the physio I told her this. She was like,
Speaker 3: how far did you run? She literally laughed. She's like, sorry,
Speaker 3: I did me into laugh that's unprofessional. I was like,
Speaker 3: don't worry, I'm laughing at myself on the inside, and
Speaker 3: then she was literally like, normally, you know, this happens
Speaker 3: to people after like starting up running for a week
Speaker 3: and doing it like four times a week for like
Speaker 3: a couple of months. But like for you, because it's
Speaker 3: your first run, all I can say is like, you
Speaker 3: probably shouldn't run for a couple of weeks.
Speaker 2: So anyway, I've got a question for you. Has Michael
Speaker 2: given you any massages then, since you've been sore?
Speaker 1: No?
Speaker 2: My turn on another one is I know is so
Speaker 2: last night Tammy and I were in a hotel room,
Speaker 2: so we're like, you know, let's, you know, spice it
Speaker 2: up a little bit. We ordered on Uber eats coconut oil.
Speaker 2: Do you know how much five hundred meals is, she
Speaker 2: asked me, And I said that's half a liter. Yeah yeah,
Speaker 2: And I was like, but I'm like, I'm not sure
Speaker 2: is it a shot? Well, we ordered two, so it
Speaker 2: became like a liter of coconut oil, which is big,
Speaker 2: which is big. So my turn on the week is
Speaker 2: coconut oil for massages, you.
Speaker 1: Know what, coconut oil for sex?
Speaker 2: And then yeah, we're obviously.
Speaker 3: A great lubricant natural like I wouldn't. I don't use lute.
Speaker 3: We only use coconut oil. There's some coconut inside our
Speaker 3: bed in the drawer.
Speaker 2: Well that's so yeah. I kept it after because like
Speaker 2: this was people covered in oil, just like you know,
Speaker 2: massaging each other bodies on bodies. It was so hot.
Speaker 2: That was so hard.
Speaker 3: That's my turn on, just like loving each other up
Speaker 3: with and then it's like not sticky.
Speaker 1: It's not so it's just like a nice and.
Speaker 2: Your skin feels nice afterwards, your moisture afterwards.
Speaker 3: Good for things like thrush as well. Really yeah, like
Speaker 3: if you have thrash, coconut oils like quite cleansing, calming,
Speaker 3: all of the above. It's it's it's a real that's
Speaker 3: a great turn on.
Speaker 2: It was pouring coconut oil just on us.
Speaker 1: We can't pour it.
Speaker 2: It's hard, no, no, no, no liquif we have the
Speaker 2: liquefied onefied. Yeah, the ur coroconut oil was liquified. I've
Speaker 2: got it in the car. I'll show you.
Speaker 1: I'm okay, I need to see it.
Speaker 3: I believe my coconut oil is like starts hard and
Speaker 3: then you take it out and then you liquify it
Speaker 3: in your hand.
Speaker 2: This one is definitely in a five bottle squeeze bottle, No,
Speaker 2: just a glass bottle.
Speaker 1: It's like that's doing the strangest actions.
Speaker 2: I'm like pouring it on my head. It looks like
Speaker 2: I'm a jerkingman.
Speaker 3: I mean, let's go to the Facebook group. Is your
Speaker 3: coconut oil liquefied or hard? Because minds is hard.
Speaker 1: But look, we can agree to disagree on this. I
Speaker 1: believe it. If you're telling me you had liquid coconut.
Speaker 2: Oil, it had it looked like it was the stuff
Speaker 2: that you pour into like those this. Let's not go
Speaker 2: down there.
Speaker 1: Okay, Matt.
Speaker 3: We've got lots of things planned this year. We have cruisers,
Speaker 3: we have hens, parties, bucks parties, trips away, international weddings, concerts,
Speaker 3: Goldie Bee announcements. But the thing that we both have
Speaker 3: in common is that I'm a twenty twenty four bride
Speaker 3: and you are.
Speaker 1: A twenty twenty four groom.
Speaker 3: We're both getting married this year. How excited are you?
Speaker 2: Very excited? Well, obviously we don't have out date as
Speaker 2: such booked in now, but we're aiming for that year
Speaker 2: and I guess booking a venue dislay. She's obviously going
Speaker 2: to be challenging, A little bit challenging. What do you
Speaker 2: call it? A venue that's like we want so we're
Speaker 2: looking around, but hopefully it is this year. We've just
Speaker 2: got to book the venue, find someone. We've got a
Speaker 2: wedding planner, so we' well, I say we Tammy's a
Speaker 2: wedding planner and it's all ready to go.
Speaker 3: How much involvement are you going to have in the
Speaker 3: wedding because I know for our engagement party, Michael had
Speaker 3: zero input really in our engagement party. And on the
Speaker 3: way to our engagement party, Michael was like, thank you
Speaker 3: so much for doing everything. And I was like, you
Speaker 3: know what, for our wedding, you are having input, Like
Speaker 3: I'm not. I want us to both be a part
Speaker 3: of it, for it to be like a joint venture.
Speaker 2: Well, I would like to say I'm going to have
Speaker 2: some input and I'd like to, but I just I
Speaker 2: don't think I'm going to. I mean, I Tammy asked
Speaker 2: me flak for what what I picture or something. I
Speaker 2: brought up a photo and then she was like, no, absolutely.
Speaker 1: Not photo did you bring us?
Speaker 2: I can't remember something that I searched for like weddings.
Speaker 2: And I was like, I like this and absolutely not.
Speaker 2: And then she showed me her Pinterest board and I
Speaker 2: was looking at that and I was like, what's that
Speaker 2: And She's like, they're spoons And I'm like, why do
Speaker 2: they have to look like that? Why can't we just
Speaker 2: have spoons? What do you mean they're like all Shaley
Speaker 2: and Artie and like they look pretty, like they look nice.
Speaker 2: But then oh, come on, I'm not, like, you know,
Speaker 2: I'm not very stylish like with that sort of stuff.
Speaker 1: Attention to details.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and then she had like I mean, she showed
Speaker 2: me the cake that she wanted and I was like, oh,
Speaker 2: we're going to put like the you know, the little
Speaker 2: groomsman and bride on there, and she was like, absolutely not.
Speaker 2: I'm not you know, like I don't think that I'm
Speaker 2: going to have much of a say in it. I like, like,
Speaker 2: I'm definitely interested, and I've asked to like sit in
Speaker 2: on meetings and you know, look at things and like
Speaker 2: give my opinion. But at the end of the day,
Speaker 2: I think I'm just going to rock up and do
Speaker 2: the most important thing and say I do say I.
Speaker 3: Do, I love you.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's her. I think my role is at.
Speaker 3: The way I mean the thing is is there are
Speaker 3: like little things that you can even do just so
Speaker 3: that you feel like you have had some input. Like
Speaker 3: you could potentially do a playlist for the DJ that
Speaker 3: they can kind of like, you know, gives them some
Speaker 3: sort of direction. Or you could organize a wedding car.
Speaker 3: And Michael is like really wanting to organize our wedding car,
Speaker 3: even though I'm like, do we need a wedding car
Speaker 3: because it's on the estate.
Speaker 2: That was my thought as well. We're looking at a
Speaker 2: state that you're staying at, so it wouldn't be so
Speaker 2: much wedding car, like where are they going to drive us?
Speaker 3: You know? But it's more just like for the photos
Speaker 3: with the wedding car, like I've always dreamed of, like
Speaker 3: getting in after the marriage and been like, what have
Speaker 3: you just married in the cans on the the cans.
Speaker 1: The cans.
Speaker 2: Drive along with the cans rackingly.
Speaker 3: Our estate where we're getting married is quite rustic as well,
Speaker 3: so I feel like the cans dragging behind would be
Speaker 3: just like such a vibe.
Speaker 2: It'd be a cool photo would be here. No might
Speaker 2: I might ask her toy, ask you what our song
Speaker 2: should be for our first dance?
Speaker 3: Because you guys don't have a first like a song, yeah, song?
Speaker 2: And I what we do have songs? And I told
Speaker 2: her that my idea of the songs, and she said, no,
Speaker 2: fair enough. I don't know what.
Speaker 3: To be really honest with you, I don't think that
Speaker 3: we necessarily.
Speaker 2: Have a couple songs.
Speaker 3: Well, we've had songs that we've been like, this is
Speaker 3: our song, but I don't think any of them were
Speaker 3: strong enough for our first dance. And we've tried to
Speaker 3: we've tried to make songs our songs for the wedding specifically,
Speaker 3: but then I'm.
Speaker 1: Like, I don't know if you can make a song
Speaker 1: a song.
Speaker 2: Well, there's the one song that we had that made
Speaker 2: sense I would classify as our song was when I
Speaker 2: rented that car in Brisbane and from when we were
Speaker 2: up there doing the show and I drove down to
Speaker 2: the Gold Coast and I didn't know how to work
Speaker 2: the stereo and there was this seed he told me
Speaker 2: about that and this CD in there that was this
Speaker 2: real sad love song and I shit, you knocked. It
Speaker 2: was on repeat for however long that drive is, because
Speaker 2: I was stuck in traffic as well, like an hour
Speaker 2: and a half. It was just on repeat.
Speaker 3: See that's a good that's a good story of why
Speaker 3: that should be your song?
Speaker 2: Should I play it?
Speaker 1: Play the song? I want to hear it.
Speaker 3: I mean very like slow romantic.
Speaker 2: Could you imagine me driving listening to this?
Speaker 1: I'm thinking of the wedding.
Speaker 3: I'm thinking like doves flying.
Speaker 2: Does it remind you of like.
Speaker 1: I mean, it's unique. No one's gonna have that for
Speaker 1: their wedding song, are they.
Speaker 2: It reminds me of like a like a Alves in
Speaker 2: Lord of the Ring sort of song. It's so wild.
Speaker 3: I can imagine like you guys at opposite ends of
Speaker 3: the dance floor walking towards each other, doves flying above you.
Speaker 1: That's what that song is giving.
Speaker 2: That's yeah, that song just that gave me like a
Speaker 2: bit of like when driving and it would literally just
Speaker 2: restart again.
Speaker 1: That's hilarious.
Speaker 2: Okay, Matt.
Speaker 3: We are getting married in twenty twenty four, and obviously
Speaker 3: we have lots of wedding chat that we could talk
Speaker 3: about with the podcast, but we want to throw to
Speaker 3: you guys on our Facebook page. Do you actually want
Speaker 3: to hear this type of wedding chat? Because we can
Speaker 3: talk about this as little or as much as you guys, like,
Speaker 3: so head over there now and we're going to follow
Speaker 3: your lead. But for now, since we're already on wedding chat,
Speaker 3: I thought we could discuss some of the twenty twenty
Speaker 3: four wedding trends that are predicted.
Speaker 2: Okay, so Matt.
Speaker 3: Doesn't even look like he's not even doing a good
Speaker 3: job of pretending to be interested in that. That, okay,
Speaker 3: was the most unenthusiastic okay of your whole life.
Speaker 2: Well, yeah, Tammy's already got her wedding dress already.
Speaker 3: Yeah, she's gone before me.
Speaker 1: The girl is moving fast.
Speaker 2: I joke. I joke around to say, well it is
Speaker 2: her third go. She's probably had it on the back burner.
Speaker 1: That dress.
Speaker 2: I guess she I'm kidding.
Speaker 3: I guess she kind of knows like what she wants.
Speaker 2: Yes.
Speaker 3: Whereas, like little backstory on me. When I like hit
Speaker 3: twenty seven, I was the go to wedding model, so
Speaker 3: obviously I modeled for ten years from seventeen to twenty seven.
Speaker 3: When I hit twenty seven, the only jobs I started
Speaker 3: booking were all of the Bridal magazine. So I was
Speaker 3: on the front cover of every Bridle magazine in Australia
Speaker 3: at one point, like I was on all the wedding websites,
Speaker 3: the Bridal website, so I have tried on more wedding
Speaker 3: dresses than any woman on the planet. So like, I
Speaker 3: think I had an idea of what I wanted my
Speaker 3: wedding dress to be like, But then I think because
Speaker 3: I've tried on so many, it's made me almost so
Speaker 3: picky with wedding dresses and just very confused as to
Speaker 3: what I would personally want for my own wedding. It's
Speaker 3: almost like, I'm not going to say ruined it, but
Speaker 3: like the you know when you first try on a
Speaker 3: wedding dress, it's like, ah, I've never wore a wedding
Speaker 3: dress before. But for me, I've tried on so many
Speaker 3: that I'm kind of like, yeah, like it needs to
Speaker 3: be something pretty special to blow me away.
Speaker 2: Have you gotten further at designing it or anything like that?
Speaker 3: Yes, So I have a lin lakwe designing my dress.
Speaker 1: Two dresses.
Speaker 2: How many changes are you doing too? Only two?
Speaker 1: Only two? How many Sammy doing? I'm not sure how
Speaker 1: many changes are you doing?
Speaker 2: Just a jacket and bow tie will come up? Give
Speaker 2: me a little bit of a chilled out look at
Speaker 2: the reception.
Speaker 1: Are you going to do suspenders?
Speaker 2: I haven't thought about it, you know what I.
Speaker 1: Mean, Yeah, maybe you'll be setting the trends.
Speaker 3: Of twenty twenty five.
Speaker 2: I haven't even thought about that. And then like, I
Speaker 2: guess I'm excited thinking about what I'm going to wear
Speaker 2: and that, Yeah, it is exciting.
Speaker 3: And like Michael's currently planning on He's going with his
Speaker 3: groomsmen to get them all suits and they go into
Speaker 3: this like room and they all have whiskey together and
Speaker 3: they chat. I'll ask him, and I mean just you
Speaker 3: can message him and all ask you. But yeah, you
Speaker 3: like they're making like a nice day of it, and
Speaker 3: they all go get measured for suits, try on suits,
Speaker 3: kind of get a bit litty, and then they'll probably
Speaker 3: go out after. I think that's such a fun way
Speaker 3: to do it, like such a nice memorable bonding time.
Speaker 2: I've told who my groom's winning going to be. I've
Speaker 2: told him in a group chat.
Speaker 3: But you don't want to like make them nice boxes
Speaker 3: or do something special.
Speaker 2: Temmy setting up the boxes for her bridesmaids and I
Speaker 2: was like, well, what do I do for my grooms
Speaker 2: and what do I get them? And she was like
Speaker 2: do guys even do that?
Speaker 1: And I was sort of like, yeah, that's true.
Speaker 2: I was like, I don't know, like do you get
Speaker 2: them like this is completely this thought, like do you
Speaker 2: get them like a flask or something or like.
Speaker 3: You could do you get them like engraved floor?
Speaker 2: That's what I mean? But then are they going to
Speaker 2: like what are they going to do with that? Do
Speaker 2: you get them like a I don't know what, A many.
Speaker 1: Ducks to wear on the wedding day? Personalized socks?
Speaker 2: Like what do you get men that they're going to
Speaker 2: be couplings?
Speaker 1: That's a good one that they would wear on the
Speaker 1: wedding day.
Speaker 2: Wear on the wedding day. But then you just get
Speaker 2: that when you get the suit.
Speaker 3: But if you I'm just thinking like if you wanted
Speaker 3: to do like give.
Speaker 2: Them something, well, I was sort of thinking that I
Speaker 2: take him out for a drink and I say, hey, guys,
Speaker 2: like you're my grooms and you're my best man group chat.
Speaker 2: I sort of started a little bit with like joking
Speaker 2: about something else, and I was like, no, I've brought
Speaker 2: you here because of you guys are my groomsmen.
Speaker 1: I've gathered you here to Yeah.
Speaker 2: That's literally what I said. We all gathered here today
Speaker 2: and I gave some joker and then they laughed and
Speaker 2: I said, no, no, you guys are my groomson kid?
Speaker 1: Were they happy?
Speaker 2: Yeah? A lot of love hearts thrown around and that
Speaker 2: sort of stuff.
Speaker 3: It's really nice, like, you know, asking people who are
Speaker 3: closest to you to be a part of your wedding,
Speaker 3: because it's like a wedding is about the couple and
Speaker 3: like your special day, but it's such a big day
Speaker 3: that you do need help and you need people who
Speaker 3: are going to be there for you, and people who
Speaker 3: you know, we've been friends with for a while, and
Speaker 3: like they've known you and seen you in shitty relationships
Speaker 3: and they've seen you now on this progression and now
Speaker 3: like you're in this happy, amazing place and.
Speaker 2: They're genuinely happy for you.
Speaker 3: Because, yeah, my bridesmaids better cry. I said to Michael,
Speaker 3: I was like, do you think you'll cry when I
Speaker 3: walk up the altar? And he was like, well, I
Speaker 3: don't want to feel pressure to cry, but I probably will.
Speaker 2: And I was like, yeah, I thought the other day
Speaker 2: in traffic, I was going through my like the hours
Speaker 2: that I was going to say to HAMI and I avow. Well,
Speaker 2: I was like just going over it what I would say,
Speaker 2: and I started tearing up thinking of her bows as well.
Speaker 2: In that moment, I started like crying.
Speaker 3: I've started making dot points in my notes for vows.
Speaker 2: I've got the main points.
Speaker 1: Maybe we should compare vows.
Speaker 2: Yeah, well, I'm happy to I got like the main
Speaker 2: points that lack that I want to hear. Yeah, you know,
Speaker 2: I'll probably wing it.
Speaker 3: I'm on like TikTok vowels at the moment, like they're
Speaker 3: telling me exactly how to nail my vows. They're like,
Speaker 3: it needs a beginning and middle, and you need to
Speaker 3: tell them why you love them, what your promises are
Speaker 3: for the future.
Speaker 1: Like, I'm all over it. So he needs some tips.
Speaker 2: I've got that, Like I've got my promises and why.
Speaker 2: It's pretty much dot pointed already. Nice. Yeah, but I
Speaker 2: mean you can always add from how long does the
Speaker 2: voss go for?
Speaker 1: I think as long as you want you can have.
Speaker 3: So our manager Anna was telling us that on their
Speaker 3: vows they had a word limit. So I think they
Speaker 3: had like a four hundred word limit, so they both
Speaker 3: went for like the same amount of time.
Speaker 2: Well, i'm a I'm a performer. So I don't want
Speaker 2: the crowd to get bored. I want to keep it.
Speaker 1: This is not a performance.
Speaker 3: That's what I said to Michael, because my Michael, I
Speaker 3: reckon is a performer.
Speaker 1: I don't reckon.
Speaker 3: Michael is a performer as well at heart one hundred percent. Well,
Speaker 3: he was the lead singer in a band, like he
Speaker 3: loves a bit of me time. I'm like, this is
Speaker 3: not a performance, Like I want you to look in
Speaker 3: my eyes and declare your undying love to.
Speaker 2: Get to turn around to the audience and you're like,
Speaker 2: this girl here.
Speaker 3: A b Why some people with their vows do wild
Speaker 3: things like I saw this girl do a rap for
Speaker 3: her fiance, and like, do you like that?
Speaker 2: That's romantic?
Speaker 3: See if Michael's turned around and started rapping.
Speaker 1: I'd be like, you're ruining it.
Speaker 2: No, I think it should be very intimate, looking to
Speaker 2: each other's eyes. You forget that there's there's even people there.
Speaker 3: But then a wedding is like also like your entertaining guests,
Speaker 3: So like, are the guests going to prefer like you
Speaker 3: guys looking heartfelt into each other's eyes or a funny rap?
Speaker 1: Maybe a funny rap?
Speaker 2: Well on that actually that's it.
Speaker 3: That's the note we have to hit. We have to
Speaker 3: hit that middle ground of it being entertaining but also meaning.
Speaker 2: I say, Tammy asked me if the groomsmen would do
Speaker 2: a dance at the reception, and I said, well, let
Speaker 2: me message them. So I said, hey, guys, I think
Speaker 2: we should do a dance. And then one of my mates,
Speaker 2: Ben replied, and.
Speaker 1: He's said, Matthew Zukowski.
Speaker 2: Never yeah, and he goes, is this is this Tammy's
Speaker 2: orders or request? And I said, it's very heavily requested
Speaker 2: that we do.
Speaker 1: Fair enough though, that would be so fun.
Speaker 2: I reckon it would be as well. Yeah.
Speaker 3: Also, just like learning the steps together, it's like some
Speaker 3: quality time that you're spending with them, Like, that's so nice.
Speaker 2: I'm just picturing me doing my dance at my year
Speaker 2: ten deb to poker Face and how cringe it was.
Speaker 2: You're not doing more?
Speaker 3: Okay, man, I just got so off track there. We
Speaker 3: clearly can talk about weddings for days at this point,
Speaker 3: but let's go to the twenty twenty four wedding trends.
Speaker 1: First.
Speaker 3: One is fewer wedding parties and members.
Speaker 2: So less bridesmaids and less groomsmen.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, no, no a friend for you?
Speaker 2: No, you have who you want there? I agree, what's
Speaker 2: what's the what is it the average for like four
Speaker 2: or five?
Speaker 1: I think it's also that.
Speaker 3: Yeah, in regards to bridesmaids and groomsmen, I guess it's
Speaker 3: just whoever you want. Like, I don't think people are
Speaker 3: like lessening.
Speaker 1: That or whatever.
Speaker 3: But what about like the people who are invited? How
Speaker 3: many people are you guys going to invite?
Speaker 2: It's going to be small? Intimate? How small we're trying
Speaker 2: for one hundred.
Speaker 1: We tried for fifty and we're at eighty.
Speaker 2: It's like, well where do you Yeah, it's like where
Speaker 2: do you call the line? Because I was like where, Like,
Speaker 2: you know, you've got your mates, and what do you
Speaker 2: invite their partners? And then you're like, well, yeah, their
Speaker 2: partner should come. And then you're like, but then that
Speaker 2: blows it out my side of fifty a lot more.
Speaker 2: But then if ivite just my mates and you put
Speaker 2: them on a table, it's going to turn into the
Speaker 2: boys club pretty quickly with pisted, you know what I mean.
Speaker 3: Oh, you have to invite people's partner.
Speaker 2: Then that cuts off a lot of mates. Do you
Speaker 2: know what I mean, it's well, what mate's partners, because
Speaker 2: I don't know a lot of my mate's partners very well.
Speaker 2: Then then they're not a good friend in a fresh relationship.
Speaker 3: But then you have to take the you have to
Speaker 3: buy the bullet on that because imagine if you're in
Speaker 3: a fresh relationship with someone, I mean you are kind
Speaker 3: of in a fresh relationship with someone and they're like, sorry,
Speaker 3: it's only been this amount of time.
Speaker 2: Do you remember with when I got my ex got
Speaker 2: invited that wedding and I was on the short list
Speaker 2: and I had to stay out and you.
Speaker 1: Had to sit at the hotel. That was so.
Speaker 2: Sad as a maybe sat at the hotel, end up
Speaker 2: having a good night. I had a mate in that
Speaker 2: town and so I went out with him and got pissed,
Speaker 2: but still that was early days of that relationship.
Speaker 3: Put me on you have to have if you're inviting someone,
Speaker 3: you have to invite their partner.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, no, I agree. I agree. If I
Speaker 2: put all my mates on a table, like I said,
Speaker 2: it will turn into the boys club pretty quickly.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I would.
Speaker 3: I would highly highly suggest not doing that just for
Speaker 3: your wedding specifically, that would be a disaster. Okay, wedding
Speaker 3: trends for twenty twenty four odd numbers and mixed gendered
Speaker 3: wedding parties.
Speaker 2: Would you make me a bridesmaid?
Speaker 3: I did say. I was thinking about making that my bridesman.
Speaker 2: In a suit the same colored as the dresses.
Speaker 3: As addresses, and you would have to walk down the
Speaker 3: aisle with one of the grooms men. What would it
Speaker 3: be if I was.
Speaker 1: In your grooms party? What would that be called?
Speaker 2: Grooms women? Grooms women?
Speaker 3: Well, twenty have a grooms woman?
Speaker 1: That's a no.
Speaker 3: I mean you were hounding me to be the MC.
Speaker 1: I'm going to ask you a question for me to
Speaker 1: be your MC.
Speaker 2: Forget about it, forget about it. A digital wedding registry
Speaker 2: and wishing.
Speaker 1: Well I love this idea.
Speaker 2: I'm not a big fan of wishing wells. I find
Speaker 2: it awkward to ask for money. I don't. I find
Speaker 2: it a bit like you know what I mean, like
Speaker 2: and then like what you know?
Speaker 1: I find it you don't have.
Speaker 3: To ask people for money, but like people will if
Speaker 3: you're getting married or getting engaged, get you a gift.
Speaker 3: And sometimes people would prefer not to get random gifts,
Speaker 3: so they're like, we'll just have a wishing well and
Speaker 3: you can just give us money.
Speaker 2: What would the gifts be that you get someone for
Speaker 2: a wedding.
Speaker 3: Well, in the olden days, they would get like people
Speaker 3: like kettles and toasters because they wouldn't like live together
Speaker 3: pre marriage. So that's like a very old school way
Speaker 3: of thinking. So you get like appliances or things you
Speaker 3: need for the house, or people do like have a
Speaker 3: list of things that that they might potentially need, or
Speaker 3: like money towards a honeymoon or whatever it is. Obviously,
Speaker 3: weddings are super expensive, like beyond expensive, so it's kind
Speaker 3: of like that thing of like I'm paying you know,
Speaker 3: two hundred dollars ahead for you, and then the person
Speaker 3: will probably like give them, you know, one hundred and
Speaker 3: fifty or two hundred dollars, and it kind of is
Speaker 3: supposed to even out.
Speaker 1: That's the thought process kind it.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, okay, yeah, I don't see the problem with it.
Speaker 1: Then, Okay, Matt.
Speaker 3: Some more wedding trends are micro weddings and elopements. I'm
Speaker 3: seeing this a lot lately, and I kind of love it.
Speaker 2: I love the idea of eloping. I know, like I
Speaker 2: want a big wedding and all that sort of stuff.
Speaker 2: But like imagine like just having an eloping. Right, you
Speaker 2: go to like a courthouse and it's just you two,
Speaker 2: so you know, you have like a moment just the
Speaker 2: two of you in the courthouse, and then you share
Speaker 2: that moment and then that's like your legal wedding, you
Speaker 2: know what I mean, That's like the one that you
Speaker 2: actually are married. Yeah, and then you go have the
Speaker 2: big one and celebrate with everyone else.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 3: I always thought that it would be such a cute
Speaker 3: idea to just go overseas with your partner elope, but
Speaker 3: just get into like a wedding attire, so like a
Speaker 3: nice bridal gown, a suit, and then hire a photographer.
Speaker 3: I'm like, that is such a cheap way to do
Speaker 3: a wedding.
Speaker 1: It's so fun. You're overseas together a girl I.
Speaker 2: Went to high school. We've did that and on Instagram
Speaker 2: in Italy. It's really cute.
Speaker 1: I love that idea. That's a really cute way.
Speaker 2: Too low, Yeah, that is a cute way.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 3: Another wedding trend we have is destination weddings or whole
Speaker 3: weekends weddings.
Speaker 1: I'm obviously doing a destination wedding. What are you guys thinking.
Speaker 2: We'd love to do a destination wedding, but obviously Tammy's
Speaker 2: family is full of people with kids, so you can't
Speaker 2: really just take the kids to like you know, like
Speaker 2: it's harder to do that. So we're looking at anywhere
Speaker 2: along from like you know, Queensland's New South Wales or
Speaker 2: like Victoria, so anywhere along that. We could be anyway really,
Speaker 2: but just depends on where.
Speaker 1: It is exciting.
Speaker 2: Okay. Another one is a cocktail wedding rather than a
Speaker 2: sit down wedding. So I've only been to cocktail weddings.
Speaker 2: I've never been to a sit down wedding.
Speaker 3: I've only been to sit down weddings. I wish I'd
Speaker 3: been to more weddings, That's the one. My one qualm
Speaker 3: with having a wedding is like I'm like the first
Speaker 3: in my friendship group to embark on the journey of
Speaker 3: having a wedding. So I just I feel like when
Speaker 3: you go to weddings, you pick up on like little
Speaker 3: details of like, oh, that's a great detail to have,
Speaker 3: you know, like food for the after party or.
Speaker 1: Whatever it might be.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I just feel like I haven't been to enough
Speaker 3: so I think my attention to detail my weddings.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I've only been to a handful of weddings, so yeah,
Speaker 2: I've only been to cocktail one. I feel like a
Speaker 2: sit down one would be nice. I prefer to sit
Speaker 2: down one, I think.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think I sit down as well. I like
Speaker 1: to sit down.
Speaker 3: I like to properly get fed and chill out post
Speaker 3: ceremony and then hit the dance floor when I'm fed.
Speaker 2: Then you have to try to figure out the seating
Speaker 2: arrangement for everyone and who sits with who.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't think that's that deep. Like people always
Speaker 3: gone about the seating arrangement, but like people can.
Speaker 1: Switch seats, Like I'm not going to be offended.
Speaker 3: Okay. Final one, we had champagne tower versus a cake.
Speaker 3: I'm leaning more towards a cake, I think for my wedding,
Speaker 3: just because I feel like I had a champagne tower
Speaker 3: at my thirtieth I think I could still potentially do one.
Speaker 2: You butchered that as well. With that champagne tower. It
Speaker 2: didn't flow, did it.
Speaker 3: I Mean it was a little bit harder than I anticipated.
Speaker 3: And now that I'm on wedding talk, I feel like
Speaker 3: people go on about how like I mean, I think
Speaker 3: you genuinely need two people to do it to like
Speaker 3: actually feel it. I realized that, like one bottle does
Speaker 3: not feel I remember, it.
Speaker 2: Just didn't flow. It just didn't flow, like what the
Speaker 2: idea is.
Speaker 1: I mean, the video look good. I was happy with it.
Speaker 2: Oh okay, I remember afterwards being like, oh, it's meant
Speaker 2: to flow a lot more in what I see online.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I think like you see them when
Speaker 3: they're like pretty much filled.
Speaker 2: Can't you do both cake and champagne tower?
Speaker 3: Yeah, but they're just some of the trends of twenty
Speaker 3: twenty four weddings.
Speaker 2: Red flag, Green flag, Anna, Okay, I've got one for you.
Speaker 2: Pretends to not know how to do the simplest tasks
Speaker 2: in order to get them done for them. Do you
Speaker 2: know what this is called?
Speaker 3: What?
Speaker 2: Weaponizing incompetency?
Speaker 1: Oh man, I've never heard such big It's come out
Speaker 1: of your math.
Speaker 2: It is a technique that people use in relationships.
Speaker 3: I mean, I don't act like I'm incompetent to do it,
Speaker 3: but I do ask Michael to do things for me,
Speaker 3: and I think him doing those things for me is
Speaker 3: like a love language of mine. Like if I'll be like, oh, honey,
Speaker 3: can you quickly get me my charge? And my friend's
Speaker 3: about to die if I'm busy. He'll go get it
Speaker 3: and I'm like, oh.
Speaker 1: He loves me.
Speaker 3: Really not weaponizing blah blah blah blah blah.
Speaker 2: That's like so Weponizing comversity is like they get asked
Speaker 2: to do something like make a cup of tea, and
Speaker 2: then you make it really badly, so your partner will
Speaker 2: be like, eh, do that again.
Speaker 1: That what you do.
Speaker 2: I don't do that, I tell you. It's it's what
Speaker 2: people do in relationships. Or you go can you wash
Speaker 2: my car for me or something like that, or can
Speaker 2: you wash the dishes? And they do a really bad
Speaker 2: job so they don't get asked to do it again.
Speaker 1: I reckon Michael does that.
Speaker 2: He loves my breakfast, or you make a bad breakfast
Speaker 2: for someone, so then they go, well, I'm not going
Speaker 2: to ask you to do that again, or give a
Speaker 2: shit massage, so they ask you not to do it again.
Speaker 3: That's actually so funny, I reckon. There's so many guilty
Speaker 3: people listening to.
Speaker 1: This, Like I've done this.
Speaker 2: A lot of men do it.
Speaker 3: I reckon Michael does that with cooking sometimes a lot
Speaker 3: of men. Now that I'm thinking about it, it's very
Speaker 3: common to any of your sins of doing this.
Speaker 2: I can't. Off the top of my I genuinely can't.
Speaker 2: I think cooking is one. I don't you know. I'm
Speaker 2: not a big fan of cooking, So I don't you put.
Speaker 3: In like zero, like zero point one out of ten
Speaker 3: efforts to cooking.
Speaker 1: It's wild.
Speaker 2: I have lived a bachelor cooking life for most.
Speaker 3: Like even when we went to coals or something when
Speaker 3: we were in when we were when we were in
Speaker 3: Sydney doing podcasts like last year or maybe at the
Speaker 3: start of this year, and we both went to coals
Speaker 3: and I literally like made up a sandwich. I got like,
Speaker 3: you know, bread, rolls, I got like cooked chicken, I
Speaker 3: got sauce, I got everything, and you just got like
Speaker 3: this terrible meal. And then you're like, can I have
Speaker 3: something yours?
Speaker 2: I was like, that's right to drop it to my hotel?
Speaker 2: Can you drop it?
Speaker 3: Can you can you make can you make one me
Speaker 3: one of these sandwiches and drop it to my hotel?
Speaker 2: You made it wrapped in I just got something.
Speaker 3: You got like a pre made meal that was yuck
Speaker 3: and I would never buy that. I hate pre made meals.
Speaker 3: I think it's.
Speaker 2: Really I love it so quick, so easy to chuck
Speaker 2: them in the middle.
Speaker 3: That's where we're very different. Like you love a pre
Speaker 3: cooked meal and I just prefer to use fresh ingredients.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I just I eat because I'm hungry.
Speaker 3: Now say, is it a red flag or is it
Speaker 3: a green flag? It's a red flag through and through.
Speaker 2: I think it's a red flag, big red flag, big
Speaker 2: red flag.
Speaker 3: Everyone's going to be like watching their partners now, being like, are.
Speaker 2: You weaponizing incompetency?
Speaker 1: Are you weaponizing incompetency?
Speaker 3: Okay, guys, that's all we have time for. We hope
Speaker 3: you're still enjoying your summer holiday if you're on them.
Speaker 3: We are going to be back next week with a
Speaker 3: fresh episode. We back in the studio. We can't wait
Speaker 3: to chat to you guys then and until then, Bye bye,