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Speaker 3: I'm Anna and I'm Matt.
Speaker 1: Let's jump in, Hello.
Speaker 3: Good morning and are well.
Speaker 1: Hi?
Speaker 3: We got hotline? How are you feeling?
Speaker 1: My last hot line in a very hot minute. We'll
Speaker 1: still have episodes running, But I go to Europe tomorrow.
Speaker 1: I'm so excited exciting.
Speaker 3: Are you packed?
Speaker 1: You? I'm so last minute? Like I tried it prepare earlier,
Speaker 1: but I just never seemed to grasp that concept, you
Speaker 1: know when people pack like a week before. Like my
Speaker 1: parents went to Port Douglas last week, and they packed
Speaker 1: two weeks before. I'm like, but don't you need all
Speaker 1: of your stuff?
Speaker 3: That's a bit excessive two weeks? Like what do they need?
Speaker 1: What are they doing everything?
Speaker 3: What are they doing for two weeks? Like what they like?
Speaker 1: I don't don't even ask me. They're just like so
Speaker 1: uper prepared. I think it's almost like pushed me in
Speaker 1: the opposite direction, where like everything is last minute. So
Speaker 1: I've been like madly just doing quick shops, you know,
Speaker 1: getting some toilet trees together.
Speaker 2: I think toilet trees I would start before because i'd
Speaker 2: get extra like you know indeds. Yeah, yeah, so i'd
Speaker 2: have that packed earlier before I go to Europe. But clothes,
Speaker 2: I just do that last second, just what I'm vibing
Speaker 2: the night before, what I think i'll wear, and I
Speaker 2: won't wear any of it when I get there.
Speaker 1: Well, normally I don't restrict myself with luggage, like I'm
Speaker 1: kind of just like you know, I'll just pay the excess.
Speaker 1: I don't care. This time, we're on a strict twenty
Speaker 1: kilo like maximum luggage amount. I can't bring like a
Speaker 1: small wheelie with me because on the flights like from
Speaker 1: Athens to Corfu or like the smaller flights, it's literally
Speaker 1: like twenty kilos and you can bring like a backpack
Speaker 1: or a small bag to put under the seat, no
Speaker 1: carry on kind of. Yeah, well, all of those like
Speaker 1: annoying airlines where like you just literally it literally costs
Speaker 1: like double the amount in the flat price if you're
Speaker 1: going to bring on like a rolling carry on. So
Speaker 1: we've just been like, you know.
Speaker 3: What, and make sure you check in. I don't know.
Speaker 2: When I was over there and I went from Milan
Speaker 2: to London, I forgot to check in twenty four hours
Speaker 2: and they stung me fifty euros.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and I was like, I was like that hurts.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's like it's they're so savage like in Europe,
Speaker 1: like very savage. But forty eight hours and I will
Speaker 1: be staying in the wedding venue, like very staying there
Speaker 1: for six days. Can you believe that? I just I
Speaker 1: can't fathom being there.
Speaker 3: Are you staying in the room that you're going to
Speaker 3: stay in when you go there?
Speaker 1: I don't think so. I don't actually know which room
Speaker 1: I'm staying in. They're just going to probably give us
Speaker 1: a room. But I mean, I don't think I don't
Speaker 1: think so that wold' makes sense. But yeah, we'll be
Speaker 1: staying on the estate that we're getting married in. I'm
Speaker 1: kind of like, I don't know, this is like such
Speaker 1: a first world problem, But I'm like, do I show
Speaker 1: people where I'm staying because it's the wedding venue or
Speaker 1: do I like hide it, like because I want it
Speaker 1: to be like special for the wedding, do you know
Speaker 1: what I mean? It's such I know, it's such like
Speaker 1: a ridiculous to even happen.
Speaker 2: I mean, I think it's going to look very different
Speaker 2: on your wedding night from what you've told me. With
Speaker 2: the lights and like tables and that, I think it's
Speaker 2: gonna look very different.
Speaker 1: It's just really cool that, like you know, we're having
Speaker 1: it wedding in Greece. But then it's cool that Michael
Speaker 1: and I are going to have me and him time
Speaker 1: like just mean him there and we're going to make
Speaker 1: our own memories there before people come over for the wedding.
Speaker 1: And then like the excitement that everyone who we love
Speaker 1: and care about, most people who can make it will
Speaker 1: be there to like celebrate that with us in that
Speaker 1: place that we're about to make memories in. Like it
Speaker 1: just it's so overwhelmingly excited. Also, it's gonna be Michael's birthday.
Speaker 3: Oh really nice while you're in that accommodation.
Speaker 1: While we're in the accommodation, which is really special, to talk.
Speaker 2: Me through it, Are you guys going to be like
Speaker 2: planning the wedding while you're there, like trying cakes looking
Speaker 2: at flowers and all that sort of boring.
Speaker 1: Stuff boring for some I'm very excited about it. So, yeah,
Speaker 1: we're gonna try a couple of different like menus from
Speaker 1: different chefs or like catering companies. I'm going to get
Speaker 1: like a hair dresser to do my hair see if
Speaker 1: I like it. We're going to do a makeup.
Speaker 3: Full dress rehearsal.
Speaker 1: I feel like it's gonna be fun. We're gonna taste
Speaker 1: some cake. Like I feel like this is kind of
Speaker 1: all part of the wedding experience. I guess we haven't
Speaker 1: really had because we're in Melbourne in the wedding yeah,
Speaker 1: so far away. People keep asking me like have you
Speaker 1: planned the wedding? And I literally have booked a photographer, videographer.
Speaker 3: The important stuff to get on.
Speaker 1: Social media, and the venue and that's it. Like nothing else. I'
Speaker 1: who is going to make my bridal gown? But we've
Speaker 1: done nothing.
Speaker 3: You have a wedding planner, though, don't you? Over there?
Speaker 1: No? Oh okay, Like I've got nothing planned and it's
Speaker 1: in what's the day to day. It's July. The wedding
Speaker 1: is in May. So because a really good friend of
Speaker 1: mine's also getting married like a month before, and she's like, oh,
Speaker 1: don't worry, You've got plenty of time. When's the wedding?
Speaker 1: And I was like main, and she's like, oh shit, babe,
Speaker 1: you better hurry up. And I was like, well, I mean,
Speaker 1: technically we're doing a welcome dinner. We're going to do
Speaker 1: the wedding and then a recovery. But I'm like, how
Speaker 1: much planning could that really be?
Speaker 3: Welcome Dinner's pretty easy? What you guys sit down?
Speaker 1: Hey, yeah, and when we're when we're going to Greece
Speaker 1: this time, we're actually gonna every night that we go
Speaker 1: to dinner is going to be like a potential welcome
Speaker 1: dinner place. So everywhere where we try will be like
Speaker 1: and maybe that could be the welcome dinner. We've had
Speaker 1: a few recommendations, so yeah, I'm like, how hard can
Speaker 1: this be? But then maybe I'm just totally underestimating how
Speaker 1: like extreme it is to have a wedding.
Speaker 3: I should probably book where I'm daying as well.
Speaker 1: You should. I'll send you some money.
Speaker 2: Have you yes made me yet? What's the gos?
Speaker 1: What I've just told you is that nothing is planned, So.
Speaker 3: Stress off your shoulders.
Speaker 1: I reckon I don't think so, Michael. Actually so a
Speaker 1: friend of his is actually a registered celebrant.
Speaker 3: Oh no, I'm not. I'm not going to marry you.
Speaker 3: I'm just going to introduce you.
Speaker 1: You're not going to marry us. But what I was
Speaker 1: going to say is he did ask that guy, So
Speaker 1: I don't know if that's going to do. No to do, celebrate, celebrate.
Speaker 1: I wouldn't be offended if we didn't ask you to
Speaker 1: be the it'd be.
Speaker 3: Kind of weird, would It'd be kind of weird.
Speaker 1: But I want you to enjoy the night.
Speaker 3: Trust me, I'll enjoy it and everyone else.
Speaker 1: I also don't want this to be like the mat Show,
Speaker 1: like this is Anna's wedding.
Speaker 3: It won't in the.
Speaker 1: Corner like crying out of happiness having fun.
Speaker 3: I'll be crying on the microphone to everyone.
Speaker 1: What was the joke that you said you were going
Speaker 1: to do? I mean, after that, I was like, that's
Speaker 1: a strong note for me. So on this podcast, I
Speaker 1: don't know you can say to get any on guys.
Speaker 1: This is this is why I think that's a no
Speaker 1: for the MC go on.
Speaker 2: So I was gonna all right, So I was going
Speaker 2: to word a couple of people up before a couple
Speaker 2: of women in the audience and say, hey, like, he's the.
Speaker 1: Audience, and I think this is a live show. This
Speaker 1: is not our live show tour. This is my which
Speaker 1: you can.
Speaker 2: Still get tickets to. Now follow the links and broke
Speaker 2: our bio great plug. I was going to give a
Speaker 2: couple of women in the audience just a couple of keys,
Speaker 2: just a set of keys, like three or four keys
Speaker 2: on a key ring. And I was going to say,
Speaker 2: you'll know when, right, So I'll do the speech. I'll
Speaker 2: be like, look, guys, unfortunately Michael is now off the market.
Speaker 3: So I'll put like a bowl.
Speaker 2: In the you know, the like the danceler, and I'll say,
Speaker 2: if you have any keys to his house. Now it's
Speaker 2: the time random and random people get up, so I'll
Speaker 2: get like even your mum to come drop some keys, like.
Speaker 3: That's the that's and I know how worked up you
Speaker 3: would get, because.
Speaker 1: It's already giving me anxiety. So see this, guys, now
Speaker 1: that you've heard NAT's audition to be the MC head
Speaker 1: to our Facebook page, let me know would you have
Speaker 1: that as the MC personality?
Speaker 2: So I know how worked up you'd get that it'd
Speaker 2: be hilarious, happy, get your grandma, maybe to drop one
Speaker 2: in there, some random best your best friend you made it.
Speaker 2: Want to just get everyone to drop keys in there,
Speaker 2: and you'll be getting so worked up because they've had
Speaker 2: access to Michael's house.
Speaker 3: I know what you'd do, Michael's.
Speaker 1: House or our house. So you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: Like it's already claus and conflict between us. We can't
Speaker 1: have this for the podcast. We need to remain on good.
Speaker 3: Well I can't.
Speaker 2: I can't do that now because I've said it something
Speaker 2: I can go back to the drawing board and think
Speaker 2: of another gag.
Speaker 1: I mean, if that's the best he's got, I'm worried.
Speaker 3: It's hilarious.
Speaker 1: But anyway, Europe, I'm super excited. Have I told you
Speaker 1: where I'm going co Yeah, flag in it. So I'll
Speaker 1: just give you a quick rundown of my So we're
Speaker 1: starting in Athens, staying there for a night, going to Corfu,
Speaker 1: which is where the wedding is, and then we're going
Speaker 1: to the Malfi coast for like five nights, to Barcelona
Speaker 1: because it's my cousin's thirtieth we're going to celebrate with her,
Speaker 1: and then we're flying back to Athens and home in
Speaker 1: all of two and a half weeks. It's going to
Speaker 1: be wild, but that's ready for it.
Speaker 3: That's intense exciting though.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we had our first mortgage payment. You know what,
Speaker 1: there's a lot of interest, not a lot of mortgage
Speaker 1: that came out of that payment. I honestly didn't realize that.
Speaker 1: Now in hindsight, I'm like, yep, the first couple.
Speaker 3: Of years, isn't it's all interested for payments.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a lot of interest. It's still some of
Speaker 1: it goes to the mortgage, so I can't complain like
Speaker 1: it's much better than renting, although it's more sensive. But
Speaker 1: how's your house hunt going? Because this has been a
Speaker 1: lot about me. I want to know about your house hunt.
Speaker 2: Well, I have my pre approval, so I know my budget.
Speaker 2: I know my budget. As I said to my broker,
Speaker 2: he goes a youan rush, and I was like, to
Speaker 2: be fair, mate, Like I'm at back at my Mum's
Speaker 2: Like I'm not paying rent and not getting kicked out
Speaker 2: of Sorry, I'm paying bored, but I'm not paying anything.
Speaker 2: I'm not getting kicked out at the end of a lease.
Speaker 2: So like, I'm not in a rush. To move out.
Speaker 2: So right now I'm looking around. You keep sending me houses.
Speaker 2: You sent me a really good one last night that
Speaker 2: I am Yeah, how good was that?
Speaker 3: Yeah? That was a vibe. I fell in love with
Speaker 3: that one.
Speaker 1: I could see you there.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's just like and I'm just I'm not going
Speaker 2: to rush. I don't want to dive into something that
Speaker 2: I don't like and I'm getting for the sake of
Speaker 2: it because I'm not in a rush to buy something
Speaker 2: I'm not.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: I also sent that a house and it had like
Speaker 1: a garage underneath the actual apartment. And that saw it
Speaker 1: and was like, oh my god, I could put a
Speaker 1: gym in there. And I was like, that's literally exactly
Speaker 1: what I thought when I sent that to you, and
Speaker 1: he said it straight away. But you know what, I
Speaker 1: actually saw this thing because obviously now we've bought a
Speaker 1: house and I'm like subscribed still unfortunately to all of
Speaker 1: this like real estate jargon and statistics and all of this.
Speaker 1: And it actually I came across an article. I didn't
Speaker 1: come across it. It got sent to me saying that
Speaker 1: house prices are going to go by ten percent in
Speaker 1: the next two years. So apparently now is the time
Speaker 1: to buy. Don't want to put you into a rush,
Speaker 1: but apparently it's a great time.
Speaker 2: I mean, if anyone can predict the housing market, I
Speaker 2: don't know.
Speaker 3: I hear you, hear like.
Speaker 2: Everyone says their opinion about it. I caught up with
Speaker 2: mates on the weekend. One of my best mates is
Speaker 2: looking as well. Really yeah, and he's getting his pre
Speaker 2: approval now. He's looking for a one bedroom no further
Speaker 2: into the city, a little bit different to what I'm
Speaker 2: looking for. But like we were just chatting about and
Speaker 2: there's so many variables in it. And what I said
Speaker 2: was the most annoyingest thing is it isn't set in
Speaker 2: stone the right way to do it, like when you
Speaker 2: go for like you know, the first homone s grant,
Speaker 2: there's all these loopholes and there's no just like this
Speaker 2: is what you do, this is the like the stuff
Speaker 2: you need, the requirements you need to match. There's nothing
Speaker 2: like that. And the weirdest thing I ever realized was
Speaker 2: that your deposit doesn't take anything off your fire. It
Speaker 2: doesn't dictate your your loan at all. It all comes
Speaker 2: down to what you make because of the repayments. I
Speaker 2: thought that it would help with that, but it doesn't.
Speaker 2: I was like, well, oh damn it. It just takes
Speaker 2: off what you would have to loan obviously. Yeah, so
Speaker 2: that was a bit of a shock for me, obviously
Speaker 2: going in there blind. So anyone listening, we're.
Speaker 3: We're not a house buying podcast, but there's something for you.
Speaker 1: I mean, I think the best thing to do, and
Speaker 1: the best thing that we did was just get a
Speaker 1: really good broker. Brokeer's come highly recommended by other people
Speaker 1: who have bought a house, and buying a house is
Speaker 1: made easy by having a great broker.
Speaker 2: Yeah, my mate bought a house to this brocast, so
Speaker 2: he's good. He's all to me straight.
Speaker 1: I need to pay them up front. Yeah, I mean
Speaker 1: that helps. So it feels like a free service, even it's.
Speaker 2: Not definitely feels like that. But yeah, I'll just keep
Speaker 2: looking around. I might go do some inspections. But like
Speaker 2: I said, I'm in no rush. Have you done any
Speaker 2: I've been busy on weekends.
Speaker 1: You come onto the podcast every week ago, I've had
Speaker 1: a quiet weekend, did nothing. What do you mean you're busyre?
Speaker 4: I'm just.
Speaker 2: Laying around relaxing. I should do it, you know what,
Speaker 2: next weekend?
Speaker 3: Fuck it?
Speaker 2: I'm going to have a look at some I will
Speaker 2: while you're away. I'll make that my goal.
Speaker 1: How are you feeling about having a couple of weeks
Speaker 1: off the podcast. Obviously we've now pre recorded all of
Speaker 1: our EPs, so we have amazing EPs coming out for everyone.
Speaker 1: But you're going to have a bit of a break.
Speaker 3: I've just used it to get shit done, I guess,
Speaker 3: so just to do me.
Speaker 1: I maybe maybe by the time I come back, you
Speaker 1: might have a house. This would be the time.
Speaker 2: Who knows, that would be something. I just went downstairsay
Speaker 2: four and I have a parking ticket, So that really shitted.
Speaker 1: What do you mean from here? Yeah? Yeah, for real?
Speaker 3: Yeah that sucks.
Speaker 1: Do I have one?
Speaker 3: Not in check your car?
Speaker 1: I don't even know that there was parking restrictions.
Speaker 2: Well I've parked here a lot in the same spot
Speaker 2: and I've never got it. But it's now parking and
Speaker 2: I've never had it before.
Speaker 1: So oh no, you've just totally ruined my vibe. I
Speaker 1: was like on happy Vibes leaving to Europe.
Speaker 2: No, I don't have another note as well here that
Speaker 2: I wanted to go on a ran to be out
Speaker 2: speaking out stuff.
Speaker 1: Oh i'd Matt just fully typed to the enter button
Speaker 1: very hard on his laptop.
Speaker 2: It's we're in twenty two, twenty three. When are they
Speaker 2: going to stop charging us for soy milk and oat
Speaker 2: milk an extra sixty seventy percent.
Speaker 3: It keeps seventy per cents. It's going up.
Speaker 1: It is going up.
Speaker 3: Well, we get charged being lactose intolerant.
Speaker 1: Not everyone has six coffees a day.
Speaker 2: Now it's starting to sting. I was like the other day,
Speaker 2: I was like, it was like seventy extra cents. I
Speaker 2: was doing it on the thing and I was like that,
Speaker 2: that's Steve.
Speaker 1: You know what. We always talk about coffees in here,
Speaker 1: and I actually have taken coffee drinking to a whole
Speaker 1: new level. I'm actually disappointed in myself. I've just been
Speaker 1: like letting myself wrom young world and free and my
Speaker 1: coffee intake is through the roof. Like it's not okay, it's.
Speaker 3: My only vice, it's my only vice.
Speaker 1: But we drink so many coffees like me and that.
Speaker 1: I literally got in his car the other day and
Speaker 1: I was like coffee, and I just I know he's
Speaker 1: gonna say yes, I'm like number one, I'm being a
Speaker 1: bad friend, because I know his coffee intake's probably at
Speaker 1: five by the time I've gotten into your car at
Speaker 1: three pm, throwing out.
Speaker 3: All the used coffee cups to find to put the
Speaker 3: new ones in.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think I'm literally like, I'm going to try
Speaker 1: and only do two. Like this is why I'm drinking
Speaker 1: a green tea. Now, this is not by choice, this
Speaker 1: is because I'm looking after my health. So it goes
Speaker 1: two cups of coffee a day and then herbal teas well.
Speaker 2: I actually for my ADHD journey, I just got subscribed
Speaker 2: by my psychiatricsrib prescribed by my psychiatrist.
Speaker 1: Subscribing to it.
Speaker 2: Yeah, subscribing what if I subscribed to him ridin? So
Speaker 2: I said before I about to say the most ADHD
Speaker 2: comment in the world, I forgot to take my riddle.
Speaker 3: In this morning.
Speaker 1: Okay, so how many? Okay, So let's just rewind a second.
Speaker 1: So you've been prescribed Riddlin. When did you get prescribed Riddlin?
Speaker 3: Firstly Wednesday last week.
Speaker 1: So it's been about roughly.
Speaker 3: I didn't take it the first day, bought it the
Speaker 3: second days, a few days, a few days.
Speaker 1: What's okay? Well, your initial like, first, how much did
Speaker 1: you take firstly half a.
Speaker 2: Pill in the morning and then half a pill at lunch.
Speaker 2: So I forgot to take the half the pill. So
Speaker 2: I took my half pill this morning, but I forgot
Speaker 2: to take the half pill with me to take around now.
Speaker 1: Actually, okay, so how do you feel? What's your first
Speaker 1: like reaction?
Speaker 2: Not much going on right now? What do you mean
Speaker 2: by not much difference of half a pill? No?
Speaker 3: Not much difference?
Speaker 2: No?
Speaker 1: And is that what they prescribed you?
Speaker 2: Yeah, so five days of half morning half thing. After
Speaker 2: five days, one in the morning, one at night, and
Speaker 2: if I'm still no one in the afternoon, sorry, not
Speaker 2: at night. And then if I'm still not really like,
Speaker 2: oh this is working, it's one and a half morning,
Speaker 2: one and a half afternoon.
Speaker 1: That seems like a lot of tablets.
Speaker 2: And then again like it's He said that it's not
Speaker 2: a full thing that someone without EHD has to do.
Speaker 2: So you get your body used to it, and then
Speaker 2: you take it accordingly to how you feel and you
Speaker 2: want to face the day, which I then spoken to
Speaker 2: people and they said, well, no, I take it every day.
Speaker 2: And I think it comes down to really a psychiatrist
Speaker 2: and the person that they're perscribed it too, and they're like,
Speaker 2: the thing, I think it changes for whoever it is.
Speaker 1: So your psychiatrist basically said to you, like, you can
Speaker 1: start low dose, then keep the dose going until you
Speaker 1: find like an area that works for you. So let's
Speaker 1: just say one and a half in the morning, one
Speaker 1: and a half at night works for you, and then
Speaker 1: once you find your dosage, then you just take it
Speaker 1: when you need it.
Speaker 2: Yeah, he was very Actually this was the appointment that
Speaker 2: my mum came in with me when they chat to
Speaker 2: someone close to you about like you know, about the
Speaker 2: traits and that, and she was confused as well. He
Speaker 2: wrote it down. But I think by the time I've
Speaker 2: done what he's prescribed me to do, I'll be meeting
Speaker 2: with him again and chatting to him. So then then
Speaker 2: i'll have more infront and you'll say, well, this is
Speaker 2: what I want you to take. Yes, but from what
Speaker 2: I've spoken to other people that they take one when
Speaker 2: they feel it accordingly, like.
Speaker 1: They'll be like, okay, but what do you mean by
Speaker 1: feel it?
Speaker 2: Or they've got a day where they need to focus
Speaker 2: up or where they're like, you know, like they're just
Speaker 2: feeling a bit off and they want to be more alert, so.
Speaker 1: That when we did that interview before you just lost
Speaker 1: track where you went. That was looking at the sky.
Speaker 1: I was like, pay attention.
Speaker 3: No, that was just the vibe of the whole thing
Speaker 3: lost me.
Speaker 2: But I yeah, well I've done my half this morning.
Speaker 2: I just haven't done my second half today.
Speaker 1: See I'm not you yet.
Speaker 3: Well i'd be jew around now, prescription.
Speaker 1: So how are you feeling about being I guess on riddle?
Speaker 1: And are you like comfortable with it? Like you seem
Speaker 1: like pretty like relaxed with it.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean like resistant.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm just I'm open to whatever I'm open to.
Speaker 2: Like you know, I'm obviously a bit like I am
Speaker 2: who I am, and I have a bit of I
Speaker 2: don't want to be. For a better term of words,
Speaker 2: I don't want it to suppress who I am, do
Speaker 2: you know what I mean? Like I am outgoing, I
Speaker 2: have like you know, I don't want it to suppress me.
Speaker 2: I want it to just I want not melody. Yeah,
Speaker 2: it's an extent. I don't want the the how do
Speaker 2: I put it?
Speaker 3: The up and down?
Speaker 2: Ups and downs? But then again that's me, Like that's me.
Speaker 2: That's why I happened for twenty eight years. I want
Speaker 2: like that's my personality, Like that's who I am, Like,
Speaker 2: I don't want it to be so the rejection sensitive
Speaker 2: disorder that I want that to really be a bit better.
Speaker 2: Like I think that really cripples a lot of situations
Speaker 2: I get in where I get really like, fuck, what
Speaker 2: are they thinking? Like like you, I get overwhelmed with that.
Speaker 2: I want it to that would be something I could
Speaker 2: do without. But the emotional rollcaster I can. I've learned
Speaker 2: how to. I think, maybe not so much. I would
Speaker 2: like it to mellow it out a bit, but it's
Speaker 2: me and the creative stuff like that's me. I don't
Speaker 2: want it to ruin that.
Speaker 1: Will it ruin it?
Speaker 3: I don't know. I don't know.
Speaker 2: I think they're The thing about ADHD from what I know.
Speaker 2: I'm not a psychiatrist. Like I've said, is everyone reacts
Speaker 2: to stuff differently. Everyone's traits are different, everyone has it
Speaker 2: a lot differently. It's different from one person to the next.
Speaker 3: So you don't know.
Speaker 1: Well, look, we've been speaking to people who are experts
Speaker 1: in the ADHD field you have, and I'm back from Europe.
Speaker 1: We'll be getting them on. We'll be chatting more about
Speaker 1: this we'll be talking about ADHD in relationships. I mean,
Speaker 1: it's so interesting, just like I feel like the more
Speaker 1: people getting diagnosed, the more people. I mean, I've never
Speaker 1: even thought about ADHD symptoms in my life, and all
Speaker 1: of a sudden, I'm like, oh, well, I was quite familiar.
Speaker 2: I was getting dressed by a girl at a shop.
Speaker 2: I don't want to call her out for who what
Speaker 2: shop and people might know, but she was dressing me
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Speaker 2: and she she was like, yeah, I've got ADHD as well,
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Speaker 1: Much a spectrum though, right, It's not just like the
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Speaker 1: I don't know where you would sit on the spectrum
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Speaker 2: The psychiatrist thinks I sit. You didn't obviously you can
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Speaker 1: But if you are, you are you know what I mean?
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Speaker 2: He said that some people are more attention deficit and
Speaker 2: more people get hyper focused. And he said he finds
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Speaker 4: Hiana am Mad. I don't know if I'm being so
Speaker 4: bloody fussy and just the world's worst boyfriend, but for
Speaker 4: some reason, I cannot cope with my boyfriend's chewing at
Speaker 4: the moment.
Speaker 3: It's fast, loud, aggressive.
Speaker 4: I don't know what's happening, but I'm just ultrasensitive to it.
Speaker 3: What's the advice?
Speaker 1: Do you know what's so funny about this hotline? Is
Speaker 1: it recently Michael's chewing has been really getting under my skin.
Speaker 1: Like normally, we because we don't have a dining table
Speaker 1: at the moment, right, so we watch we have like
Speaker 1: TV dinners.
Speaker 4: Do you do that?
Speaker 2: No, I like to sit at a table with my dinner,
Speaker 2: so I don't. I've never been the one to sit
Speaker 2: there and like, you know, it's annoying. I find it frustrating.
Speaker 1: Yeah, anyway, we've been having TV dinners and when the
Speaker 1: TV isn't on and we're just talking, his chewing is
Speaker 1: so loud and it's so annoying.
Speaker 3: What sort of a chewing is it? Is it like a.
Speaker 2: Or I hate that little after like that fit. Like
Speaker 2: I've said this, I've said this on record and publicly.
Speaker 2: Your chewing annoys me.
Speaker 1: My chewing?
Speaker 3: Yeah, what do you mean when we did that TikTok?
Speaker 3: Remember when we talk what frustrates?
Speaker 1: I thought? You said I rushed my food?
Speaker 3: You do and it's like the noise of the chewing
Speaker 3: and you're.
Speaker 1: Like when I'm in a rush, So you were like
Speaker 1: when you're Something that annoys me about you is when
Speaker 1: when you're in a rush, you rush your food. I'm like, well, I'm.
Speaker 2: At and like eating or something, and you're like and
Speaker 2: you're like, I don't.
Speaker 1: I don't like slip it up.
Speaker 3: I don't you make noises?
Speaker 1: So do you? I love how this has turned from
Speaker 1: someone else so now like we're beefing.
Speaker 2: No, I I've said this before, like I remember when
Speaker 2: we're going over a live show and maybe it's just
Speaker 2: that well splendor. No, our first live show aged that famous,
Speaker 2: renowned tonight and you were eating and I was getting
Speaker 2: really antsy, and it was getting me even more antsy.
Speaker 1: You answer about everything like I'm hean.
Speaker 3: And it was just the cherry on top.
Speaker 1: Okay, I have a question. Have I done it recently?
Speaker 1: I'm trying.
Speaker 3: I haven't eaten with you recently.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we have had a bagel? Had a bagel last week?
Speaker 3: No you didn't.
Speaker 1: Sheese toasty once a week.
Speaker 3: True, we had that dinner in Kingsliff. No you didn't.
Speaker 3: Michael did though.
Speaker 1: Oh, don't throw him under the bas what's our advice?
Speaker 3: Tell him?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Shut shut, yeah, do.
Speaker 2: It in a jest for way, because I know how
Speaker 2: like much you can get under your skin. My sister,
Speaker 2: and now that I'm back at home, she can't eat
Speaker 2: around her partner either, or around anyone Emma, she has
Speaker 2: to turn the TV on like she can't she can't
Speaker 2: hear the sound of chewing either.
Speaker 1: It is annoying, like the thing is is, even when
Speaker 1: you're closing your mouth and being like thinking about other people,
Speaker 1: there is still noise, Like it's not like silent, Like
Speaker 1: you can't silently chew. And if you can, I mean
Speaker 1: I don't think you can, right, I think you can.
Speaker 3: It's not it's loud. It's loud because you can hear
Speaker 3: it like you're chewing.
Speaker 1: But if you're like going really slowly and softly, there's
Speaker 1: still like a mild noise and that's like not an
Speaker 1: enjoyable way to eat.
Speaker 3: Let's see, Okay, see if you can do it.
Speaker 1: Okay, you do it, Took.
Speaker 3: I don't like him.
Speaker 1: We'll just do it for the experiment. So we have
Speaker 1: some clinkers in the studio. We're both gonna try and
Speaker 1: eat it.
Speaker 3: They're actually quite noisy to eat these things as well.
Speaker 1: No ship, it's fucking food. Everything's noisy to eat. Okay, Matt,
Speaker 1: you go first, give it your chee before I actually
Speaker 1: don't like the way these feel.
Speaker 3: Anna's ushering me on to chew, and I'm like, I
Speaker 3: am chewing. You just can't hear it.
Speaker 1: You know that's really bit down it twice and he's
Speaker 1: like swallowed just to prove his point.
Speaker 3: Could you hear that? Everyone knows?
Speaker 1: Okay, my turn ready, Okay, moral of the stories. It's
Speaker 1: really hard to chew.
Speaker 2: No, but clinkers as well. They're not exactly the most
Speaker 2: quiet food.
Speaker 1: They're hard and they're really loud, and I don't want
Speaker 1: to chew in people's ears. So I think we're gonna
Speaker 1: wrap no.
Speaker 3: Before we go.
Speaker 2: Anna brought the bag in and she's taken nibbles out
Speaker 2: of each one to see if they're the pink ones.
Speaker 1: Everyone does that, so each clinker.
Speaker 2: And then put them in the middle of the table
Speaker 2: for us to eat. But I'm looking at them and
Speaker 2: they have bite marks out of them.
Speaker 1: This is how ungrateful you are. I out of the
Speaker 1: kind of have stopped at the petrol station, got us clinkers.
Speaker 3: Get a party mix or see our worms? Something young.
Speaker 1: You know what I missed? Chocolate?
Speaker 2: What is it?
Speaker 1: Chocolate? Declaire? Is what went out of fail fan tails.
Speaker 3: They're good.
Speaker 1: I actually looked for fantails and then I realized there
Speaker 1: were discontinued to know. It's sad.
Speaker 2: There's another one that I really liked the other day
Speaker 2: as well. I can't think of the right name from now,
Speaker 2: the red Rockets. They're not called that anymore. They're red Rippers.
Speaker 1: Is that what they're called?
Speaker 3: The red Rippers. I had a lot of red rippers
Speaker 3: the other day. There's a bowl of them and I'm
Speaker 3: meeting an excapation and.
Speaker 2: I like that.
Speaker 1: Actually, Okay, guys, that's all we have time for. As always,
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