WEBVTT - ‘MY MUM YOUR DAD’ UNFILTERED WITH TONYA & MARETTE

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<v Speaker 1>I want the fairy tale. I want the prince charming.

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<v Speaker 2>She how do I put this? Isn't a fan of

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<v Speaker 2>my kissing style with.

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<v Speaker 1>The boyfriend and girlfriend for about twelve hours. He's in

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<v Speaker 1>a trash bin. He's non recyclable catching them mu.

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<v Speaker 2>I love being love. I love love.

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<v Speaker 3>On today's episode of Where's Your Head At, we are

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<v Speaker 3>sitting down with Marette and Tanya, the mother and daughter

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<v Speaker 3>duo from Australia's newest reality TV show, My Mum Your Dad.

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<v Speaker 2>We'll be asking them some questions about their time on

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<v Speaker 2>the show and who they think will end up together.

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<v Speaker 3>We also want to uncover how Tanya really feels about

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<v Speaker 3>watching her mum date again. Stick around to hear all

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<v Speaker 3>the goths. Where's Your Head At is a podcast that

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<v Speaker 3>everything in between.

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<v Speaker 1>Hello, ladies, how are you hi?

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<v Speaker 2>Good? Welcome to Where's Your head app? Podcast? So good

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<v Speaker 2>to have you here.

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<v Speaker 1>You both look lovely?

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<v Speaker 4>Thank you so do you too, especially Matt.

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<v Speaker 2>Sorry yeah I'm saying before how good I look? You

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<v Speaker 2>guys are great as well. So you guys have obviously

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<v Speaker 2>been on the show, My Mum, your dad, I'd just

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<v Speaker 2>like to say sorry in advance. I've been in the

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<v Speaker 2>UK for the last four weeks, so i haven't had

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<v Speaker 2>a chance to watch any of it, so I've seen

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<v Speaker 2>bits on Instagram and all that. So for the listeners

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<v Speaker 2>as well that haven't caught the show, do you want

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<v Speaker 2>to tell us a little bit about it?

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<v Speaker 4>So the show is essentially so the kids, So like me,

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<v Speaker 4>I'll nominate my mom in a chance of her hopefully

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<v Speaker 4>finding love.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, we get sent off.

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<v Speaker 4>To like separate kind of like retreats which are like

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<v Speaker 4>big houses, and Mum is there obviously to date and

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<v Speaker 4>see if you can find a connection. I'm in the

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<v Speaker 4>other house with kind of like their kids, and we're

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<v Speaker 4>actually all watching our parents on like millions of TVs,

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<v Speaker 4>so like surveillance. It's it's quite funny, it's a bit daunting.

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<v Speaker 4>And yeah, so we're just like little spies basically just

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<v Speaker 4>watching every move, which I love because I love telling her.

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<v Speaker 5>What to do.

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<v Speaker 2>So do you tell her, do you tell her who

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<v Speaker 2>to go for in that or do you just let her?

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<v Speaker 5>So we don't have any contact with them. We don't

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<v Speaker 5>know that they're watching.

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<v Speaker 6>So the kids like have to win challenges to send

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<v Speaker 6>the parents on dates, so I didn't get to go

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<v Speaker 6>on any day.

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't win any challenges, so that hasn't seen it.

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<v Speaker 3>But me, on the other hand, I am a huge

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<v Speaker 3>fan of this show. I mean even from the ads,

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, this is a great concept, Like, think

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<v Speaker 3>about all of the parents out there who we could

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<v Speaker 3>match up, and like, I want to see it all unfold.

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<v Speaker 3>And then when I watched the first episode and I

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<v Speaker 3>realized that the kids that were actually like watching, I

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<v Speaker 3>was like, oh my god, imagine watching your parents and

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<v Speaker 3>getting to see that whole different side of them.

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<v Speaker 1>How was that?

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<v Speaker 4>I feel like I've seen not like everything, but I

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<v Speaker 4>am really close with mum, so it wasn't very confronting

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<v Speaker 4>for me. But some of the other kids that I

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<v Speaker 4>was with, they like literally like had no idea what

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<v Speaker 4>their parents was like, maybe in the dating scene or

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<v Speaker 4>how they even spoke about like a man or a

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<v Speaker 4>lady or whatever. So for them it was like a

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<v Speaker 4>very confronting.

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<v Speaker 5>But one guy found out his dad was married and he.

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<v Speaker 2>Didn't know and he was on the show.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, also he was married before he had him. He

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<v Speaker 6>didn't know that he married.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I thought he was married while he was on

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<v Speaker 2>the show.

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<v Speaker 6>Probably should know that.

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<v Speaker 2>How did you find out about the casting for the show?

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<v Speaker 4>Then? So last year I was supposed to be the

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<v Speaker 4>love I'm a bombshell. W Yeah, pretty pretty weird. That

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<v Speaker 4>would yeah, it would have been season three. And then

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<v Speaker 4>I went out, you know, spent like a thousand dollars

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<v Speaker 4>on bikinis. I was super excited, like, yeah.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, we just go and they kept saying, tweet, the

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<v Speaker 6>contracts coming, the contracts coming.

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<v Speaker 4>And then I was just thinking, you know, it's very odd,

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<v Speaker 4>like I run like three businesses, so I need to

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<v Speaker 4>know kind of in advance, like what's happening kind of

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<v Speaker 4>dates and things like that. And then they just wouldn't

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<v Speaker 4>send the contract throat and then it was kind of

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<v Speaker 4>old just because I didn't feel comfortable to get the

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<v Speaker 4>COVID vats. And at the time it was a little

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<v Speaker 4>bit like here and miss, can you put it in

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<v Speaker 4>a contract get A lot of businesses were saying like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>it was early days. It was kind of early days.

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<v Speaker 4>So anyway that didn't happen. I was obviously devastated and anyway,

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<v Speaker 4>and then this year I wanted the producers emailed me

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<v Speaker 4>and said, we've got this new show blah blah blah.

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<v Speaker 4>She knew Mum and I were really close, and then

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<v Speaker 4>she goes, are you interested? And then I just said yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>And then next thing you know, we're on a zoom

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<v Speaker 4>call and then we're filming. So it was just crazy

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<v Speaker 4>it happened.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Wow, you know what, I wouldn't be surprised if we

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<v Speaker 3>see your face on Love Island next year. You know,

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<v Speaker 3>Al from Maths is on it this year. I feel

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<v Speaker 3>like you're going to be the next reality TV person

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<v Speaker 3>to hit Love Island.

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<v Speaker 1>And then you can use all your bikinis up.

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<v Speaker 3>Thank god.

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<v Speaker 2>So you didn't get to use them at all on

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<v Speaker 2>my Mum, your dad. You didn't. You didn't just whip

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<v Speaker 2>it out and walk into the bunker with it on.

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<v Speaker 4>I was just wearing them all the time. You're taking bikinis.

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<v Speaker 2>This isn't.

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<v Speaker 4>I got to wear them once in the hot tub.

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't want to go in the hot tub. It

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<v Speaker 4>was kind of cold when we were filming, and the

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<v Speaker 4>hot tub it wasn't really that hot. But I just said,

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<v Speaker 4>give me a bottle of prosecco and I'll go in

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<v Speaker 4>there and then and we were in there, but they

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<v Speaker 4>didn't they didn't error. So everyone, all of my friends

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<v Speaker 4>were like, did you get to use you bikinis? Yes,

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<v Speaker 4>stay tuned, stay tuned, And then it never came on.

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<v Speaker 2>And I've done a lot worse for a bottle of prosecco,

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<v Speaker 2>icon a lot less.

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<v Speaker 1>So, Tanya, why did you want to nominate your mom?

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<v Speaker 1>What made you like?

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<v Speaker 3>You know, obviously the producers have reached out to you,

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<v Speaker 3>But tell me what the thought process behind that was.

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<v Speaker 4>So with mum, so like we literally obviously you would

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<v Speaker 4>have sayen like I intro how she says on Friday nights,

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<v Speaker 4>we literally go through dating apps whatever.

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<v Speaker 5>We're not on the same I'm online and she's on her.

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<v Speaker 4>Honestly, we laugh a lot and just like what Usually

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<v Speaker 4>she will find a guy in there she likes, and

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<v Speaker 4>I can literally just glad for him and I'm like

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<v Speaker 4>to him, and then she would choose the guy and

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<v Speaker 4>she'll talk to him and I just would be like, no,

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<v Speaker 4>it's not in a way something about him would just

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<v Speaker 4>throw me off. And then I'm always right in the way,

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<v Speaker 4>it's always right. So then I was kind of like,

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<v Speaker 4>this is perfect because if she goes on this show,

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<v Speaker 4>I can't literally see the man. They don't know I'm watching,

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<v Speaker 4>so it's just unfiltered and I can basically just choose

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<v Speaker 4>one out for my mom, and I think it's going

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<v Speaker 4>to be great. But sadly they didn't really put anyone

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<v Speaker 4>in for Mom, so it was a bit hard. And

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<v Speaker 4>then Anna, you would have seen the scene with the

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<v Speaker 4>man spoke quite badly about Mom. And then there was

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<v Speaker 4>another lady on there who was actually going around really

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<v Speaker 4>bad mouthing my mom, and I saw.

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<v Speaker 5>All of it.

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<v Speaker 1>Who was it?

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<v Speaker 5>I was crying so much on day one.

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<v Speaker 6>I was bawling my eyes that she was so mean

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<v Speaker 6>to me.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, it was really tough.

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<v Speaker 6>And I said in my interview room and I said,

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<v Speaker 6>you know what, she's judging me on my appearance, and

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<v Speaker 6>by the end of it she'll love me. And by

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<v Speaker 6>the end of it she does love me. But now

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<v Speaker 6>that I know that, all awful things she said be hummaback.

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<v Speaker 5>I just can't be bothered.

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<v Speaker 7>I'm not.

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<v Speaker 5>I just I just can't be bothered.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm lost too sure, like you either are who you

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<v Speaker 6>are to me and love me or just I don't know.

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<v Speaker 5>I just she was just meaning to me, but to

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<v Speaker 5>go around, and Tony got to see her actually go

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<v Speaker 5>to each parent and pick on me.

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<v Speaker 4>Probably one of the first like kind of scenes we

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<v Speaker 4>saw of all the parents. It was actually this lady

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<v Speaker 4>going around bad mouth and Mum, and they kept showing

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<v Speaker 4>my mom kind of she could see her crying and

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<v Speaker 4>she was kind of a bit reserved, and I could

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<v Speaker 4>see her crying, and I saw her bread and I

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<v Speaker 4>was like the first thing that I've seen of her

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<v Speaker 4>is her crying, and I just I just wanted to

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<v Speaker 4>like escape and go and find her. I felt so bad.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 5>Anyway, I ended up having a really good time and

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<v Speaker 5>got on with everyone really great and love mail. We're

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<v Speaker 5>really close. But it was just a little bit.

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<v Speaker 6>I didn't realize the men were saying such awful things

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<v Speaker 6>hummabat and then none of them have said sorry, which

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<v Speaker 6>I've find it, you know, Like Darren was crying when

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<v Speaker 6>I left, and then he's he's actually going on and

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<v Speaker 6>jumping on the hate and stuff.

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<v Speaker 4>It's like, now, yeah, it's finding hate, so like people

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<v Speaker 4>like comment on Mum's videos and like leave hate comments,

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<v Speaker 4>and he's actually going on those hate comments and replying

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<v Speaker 4>to them and it's just of her videos.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, and you know what the amazing thing is, right, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>a big deal. I have my lips down and I

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<v Speaker 5>have both.

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<v Speaker 6>I have been honestly bullied my whole life for my

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<v Speaker 6>face shaped, my chin.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't want to.

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<v Speaker 6>Like my Yeah, it's just been a really hard thing.

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<v Speaker 6>So it's like, these are my cheekbones, and this is

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<v Speaker 6>my chin, and this is my nose, these are my boots.

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<v Speaker 6>My biology of had is Swedish.

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<v Speaker 5>That's just been a thing that I've been picked up

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<v Speaker 5>my whole life.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so.

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<v Speaker 5>And everyone says it's plastic. No one says I've had

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<v Speaker 5>all this plastics.

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<v Speaker 4>Like just a lot of it was very like manipulated.

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<v Speaker 4>Like in one of the challenges, one of the like

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<v Speaker 4>cards that the host bred out was to do like

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<v Speaker 4>someone's parents has had botox or plastic surgery and just

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<v Speaker 4>whatever the question was, And I had to drop the

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<v Speaker 4>word plastic surgery in there, and I just knew it

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<v Speaker 4>was a dig at my mum. But I think it's

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<v Speaker 4>funny because when you actually go on the show, you

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<v Speaker 4>have to fill out a form saying you know you

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<v Speaker 4>would know you've got to fill out so many contracts

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<v Speaker 4>saying if you've had work done, have you heard surgery,

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<v Speaker 4>had you had this? No, they should like she has

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<v Speaker 4>had no work done and she's born like this and

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<v Speaker 4>people literally pay to get her look, her draw and

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<v Speaker 4>her cheek.

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<v Speaker 3>I was about to say, you are stunning and like

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<v Speaker 3>you should not be judged for your appearance. I mean,

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<v Speaker 3>you are absolutely gorgeous. And the fact that you've received

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<v Speaker 3>so much hate and bullying it's just bizarre.

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<v Speaker 6>And aren't we in this time it's all about empowering women?

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<v Speaker 6>And oh my god, I'm already on a show where

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<v Speaker 6>I'm being vulnerable and it's just been weird. It's just

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<v Speaker 6>been And I did really expect the men heat reached

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<v Speaker 6>out and was just more.

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<v Speaker 5>Like, how you going and how would you not?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, we.

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<v Speaker 6>Said these things about you. I'm really sorry. You got

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<v Speaker 6>to see that none of them have.

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<v Speaker 5>And yeah, Heith was literally chasing me the whole show.

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<v Speaker 5>There was so much that wasn't shown. Yeah, I didn't

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<v Speaker 5>even even know the guy was into me because I

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<v Speaker 5>just was friend zoned him. They wen't.

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<v Speaker 3>So do you think anyway it made you kind of

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<v Speaker 3>close off because you received kind of like so much

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<v Speaker 3>bullying from Was it mel who was talking badly?

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<v Speaker 5>No? No, no, God, no, she was Darling who.

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<v Speaker 1>Was the one who was talking badly.

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<v Speaker 6>I feel bad saying it, but I mean anyway, she

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<v Speaker 6>knows she did it. So was Christie Christy.

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<v Speaker 1>That's so sad.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, it was really tough.

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<v Speaker 2>Was that one of your reservations for going on the

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<v Speaker 2>show that you thought you were going to cop that

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<v Speaker 2>sort of like bullying?

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<v Speaker 6>Well, no, because I don't feelter what I say and

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<v Speaker 6>I'm just very open and honest with everything. So I

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<v Speaker 6>was concerned about the edit, Like I was thinking I

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<v Speaker 6>was going to say something and they were going to

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<v Speaker 6>show that in a you know how they edit it

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<v Speaker 6>and chop it up the change, and they did.

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<v Speaker 5>They made me.

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<v Speaker 6>They would say things, put my words together, but not

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<v Speaker 6>show my face, just show me.

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<v Speaker 4>Put the audio over.

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<v Speaker 6>And I've been sitting there and so they were saying

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<v Speaker 6>things like Roe is totally my type.

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<v Speaker 5>I never said that. There's just lots of things, but

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<v Speaker 5>that was all right. I don't care. That's all part

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<v Speaker 5>of it. I'm happy with that that they didn't. They

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<v Speaker 5>didn't show my real personality. The only time they really

0:12:25.679 --> 0:12:27.920
<v Speaker 5>showed me being fun retty and having a good time.

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<v Speaker 5>Was when I was running so and.

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<v Speaker 8>Getting everyone involved, like yeah, yeah, that was the only

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<v Speaker 8>time really otherwise they just because they didn't look up

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<v Speaker 8>with anyone.

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<v Speaker 5>They weren't really that you know.

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<v Speaker 6>They wanted me. They just pressured me all the time.

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<v Speaker 6>Put yourself about that, put yourself out there. And how

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<v Speaker 6>funny on day one when Kate goes, you know, choose

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<v Speaker 6>a date. Right before she'd said that, Tanya had said

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<v Speaker 6>to me, this is day one. She said, mom, don't

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<v Speaker 6>get bullied and you stand your ground and like really

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<v Speaker 6>stand up with something. And I was like, yep, yep, okay.

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<v Speaker 6>So then Kate there's this big speech about right, we're

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<v Speaker 6>all here, but you don't have to feel pressure to

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<v Speaker 6>choose the date Day one. Ladies, if you haven't felt

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<v Speaker 6>a connection, you say you haven't felt connections for them.

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<v Speaker 4>I've watched it as of all the kids, because it's

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<v Speaker 4>all live, so we're watching Kate say this.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, and then it comes to me to choose the day,

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<v Speaker 6>and I said, oh, sorry, okay, And I'm that proud

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<v Speaker 6>of myself going good on you for standing up because

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<v Speaker 6>normally I just go yeah, And I was like, no,

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<v Speaker 6>I haven't really found a connection yet. Wow, did she

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<v Speaker 6>rip my head off. She was like, we're not here

0:13:24.240 --> 0:13:26.080
<v Speaker 6>for She goes in her here you know, to production.

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<v Speaker 6>She's like, we're not here for because at the time

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<v Speaker 6>when we were filming, it was called grown up love,

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<v Speaker 6>so they changed it animals. We're not here for growing

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<v Speaker 6>up friends. We're here for growing up love. You need

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<v Speaker 6>to put yourself out there, and they.

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<v Speaker 5>Go on.

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<v Speaker 4>And then and then I go back into my diary,

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<v Speaker 4>range get into the interview room and I'm saying like,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm so proud of her.

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<v Speaker 5>And I was saying.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm so proud, and then they then what actually airs

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<v Speaker 4>to TV is me saying how I'm disappointed in her.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 9>Yeah, No, I did not say that.

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<v Speaker 4>I probably said it at one one point in time,

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<v Speaker 4>obviously because they put it in, but it wasn't for

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<v Speaker 4>that moment, and it just upset me because it almost

0:14:10.760 --> 0:14:11.480
<v Speaker 4>made it look.

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<v Speaker 5>Like you were supporting me.

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<v Speaker 4>He wasn't supporting her. I literally gave her that advice

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<v Speaker 4>and like beating it into her, saying, stand up for yourself.

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<v Speaker 9>Yeah right, Okay, As Captain Jason, have you watched the

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<v Speaker 9>show below Deck down Under? Not yet, but it is

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<v Speaker 9>this Captain Jason is like my absolute I just adore him.

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<v Speaker 5>He's kind of, he's caring, he's kind I mean, oh, PV.

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<v Speaker 5>You know, I didn't know the guy.

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<v Speaker 6>But anyway, anyway, so I kept when I was running

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<v Speaker 6>one morning and like, Dan, you want to produce three?

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<v Speaker 6>And she's like, oh, you know you're on leaving. This

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<v Speaker 6>is what's happening. And I was like, did you get

0:14:47.120 --> 0:14:49.760
<v Speaker 6>Captain Jason? Because I literally have talked about him in

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<v Speaker 6>every zoom we had, in every phone calls.

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<v Speaker 5>He's just so nice. And then anyway, so she goes, oh,

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<v Speaker 5>you have to wait.

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<v Speaker 6>See, So I honestly thought because that airs on nine,

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<v Speaker 6>I just.

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<v Speaker 5>Thought it was I don't know, I just thought the

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<v Speaker 5>way they kind of twisted it. So I kept waiting.

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<v Speaker 5>I was really excited thinking he was coming.

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<v Speaker 6>No, he didn't come in, but anyway, one of my

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<v Speaker 6>friends tagged him in a photo and now he.

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<v Speaker 5>Follows me on Instagram. So that's like the most It

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<v Speaker 5>was like I won the lotto. I was like, oh my.

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<v Speaker 1>God, that's amazing. So have you guys been talking on

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<v Speaker 1>the d MS?

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<v Speaker 5>No? No, I would never do that. Is it a

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<v Speaker 5>bit of a stand up?

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<v Speaker 2>Are you liking each other's photos, flirting.

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<v Speaker 4>Has he liked I think he's liked some of your photos.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, and then he just views my stories and I'm like,

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<v Speaker 5>why isn't he coming story?

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<v Speaker 2>You're going to have to make a move.

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<v Speaker 5>I reckon and I love one of the producers. It's

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<v Speaker 5>on your seat. I told you the show would get

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<v Speaker 5>your mom together, kept him together. So now I need

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<v Speaker 5>to go on Below Deck.

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<v Speaker 1>I need to put it on my list.

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<v Speaker 3>One of my very good friends, she is obsessed with

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<v Speaker 3>Below Deck and she's like, you will love it, but

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<v Speaker 3>I just haven't had a chance.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I was real as my friend Joe made me

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<v Speaker 6>watch it and I'm obsessed.

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<v Speaker 4>And then mom kept telling me watch it and whatever.

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<v Speaker 4>It's just like people and like yach so I don't care.

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<v Speaker 6>And then she's like texting me from my bedroom, Oh

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<v Speaker 6>my god, mom, Captain Jason's dreaming.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh my god, Mom, he's perfect. I'm like, yes, I know.

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<v Speaker 3>You both have a crush on Captain Jason. Does this

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<v Speaker 3>mean you have a similar type.

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<v Speaker 5>No, it's dead. She's crushing on him for me.

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<v Speaker 4>We actually don't have We actually don't have the same time.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't That's why she chooses a guy and then

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<v Speaker 4>when I say him, I saying no because she just

0:16:55.320 --> 0:16:57.000
<v Speaker 4>chooses just dickheads.

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<v Speaker 2>What's your type then, what's your type?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, mine's just like I don't know, like toll dark, handsome.

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<v Speaker 5>Like she goes for giants and she's like five foot yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>like the toll of the bed.

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<v Speaker 4>I just want to like crawl up you climb up.

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<v Speaker 2>Like a koala and just like love me.

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<v Speaker 3>So you're both still single. Any situationships happening at the moment,

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<v Speaker 3>not me.

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<v Speaker 4>Kind of me, But I don't know. It's kind of

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<v Speaker 4>always just.

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<v Speaker 1>Like this, Okay.

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<v Speaker 3>Any interesting people that slid into your DM since the show? No, okay,

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<v Speaker 3>I reckon. It's always harder for girls. I reckon, like

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<v Speaker 3>guys get all the DM slides and with girls.

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<v Speaker 4>Like girls are very I feel like nowadays girls are

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<v Speaker 4>very out there, like they're just they're ruthless. I feel

0:17:51.600 --> 0:17:54.680
<v Speaker 4>like they're they're like worse than guys. Really, like guys

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<v Speaker 4>maybe are a bit more scared from.

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<v Speaker 2>My mate drop like reactions and like.

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<v Speaker 1>Flame emojis are the one.

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<v Speaker 4>I've been getting all of that, but not like I've

0:18:07.560 --> 0:18:10.720
<v Speaker 4>been in some messages, but like, no one that's like

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<v Speaker 4>famous yeah, okay, Like obviously, like my phone is like

0:18:15.200 --> 0:18:21.320
<v Speaker 4>going crazy, but I'm like, no.

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<v Speaker 2>No, you're waiting to go in the villa next year.

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<v Speaker 1>She's waiting for a while. It seems to remain single.

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<v Speaker 1>I see what you're doing.

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<v Speaker 3>What was I going to say, so, Maury, you've spoken

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<v Speaker 3>a little bit about how you've been receiving a little

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<v Speaker 3>bit of bullying post show.

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<v Speaker 1>Can you take us through that a little bit more?

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<v Speaker 6>Well, it was just more things like so on the

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<v Speaker 6>show's TikTok, wasn't it? They did a TikTok and it

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<v Speaker 6>was just one of the videos of us Too is

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<v Speaker 6>all love. So if someone starts with love comments, it

0:18:53.240 --> 0:18:55.000
<v Speaker 6>seems to just flow with oh my god, I love

0:18:55.000 --> 0:18:56.960
<v Speaker 6>you too, you two a great together, blah. But if

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<v Speaker 6>someone comes in with a mean comment, it's just there's

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<v Speaker 6>just that's it.

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<v Speaker 5>They just go nuts. But I mean it boosts my algram.

0:19:03.320 --> 0:19:05.160
<v Speaker 6>I've got one of the highest TikTok views on all

0:19:05.200 --> 0:19:06.680
<v Speaker 6>of their things. If I'm on them, I'm getting the

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<v Speaker 6>most view. So I'm like, well, hey, then's.

0:19:08.200 --> 0:19:08.919
<v Speaker 5>You're doing it for me?

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<v Speaker 2>So that's it.

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<v Speaker 5>But it was I think I was okay with it.

0:19:13.520 --> 0:19:16.400
<v Speaker 6>But Tonya was getting really upset, and it would upset

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<v Speaker 6>me that she's.

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<v Speaker 5>So defensive, so.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm the same.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, And so then.

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<v Speaker 6>I just reached out to the show and I was like,

0:19:25.440 --> 0:19:26.840
<v Speaker 6>you know, you guys said that you're going to monitor this,

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<v Speaker 6>and you haven't monitored at all.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh we've got algorithm set up and all bots or whatever.

0:19:30.720 --> 0:19:33.760
<v Speaker 6>And I was like, Okay, well you need to like

0:19:33.960 --> 0:19:36.040
<v Speaker 6>sort it out because it's just not right. And it

0:19:36.080 --> 0:19:39.239
<v Speaker 6>was all just comments like plastic fantastic, she's had so

0:19:39.280 --> 0:19:42.480
<v Speaker 6>many fellers, her face looks distorted.

0:19:41.920 --> 0:19:44.120
<v Speaker 5>Because she's had so much work. I just crap like that, you.

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<v Speaker 1>Know, awful.

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<v Speaker 4>Apparently apparently on Twitter, you got really out of hand,

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<v Speaker 4>but I don't have.

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<v Speaker 5>Twitter, and I didn't want to say.

0:19:51.720 --> 0:19:53.959
<v Speaker 4>And someone was sending me screen like one of my

0:19:54.160 --> 0:19:57.600
<v Speaker 4>friends was sending me screenshots, and I was like, honestly,

0:19:57.960 --> 0:20:00.480
<v Speaker 4>it's already out there, but I haven't seen it for

0:20:00.560 --> 0:20:02.240
<v Speaker 4>myself and I'm not going out of my way to

0:20:02.320 --> 0:20:04.760
<v Speaker 4>search for hate. Please just don't send it to me

0:20:04.800 --> 0:20:06.560
<v Speaker 4>because I really just don't want to see it. And

0:20:06.600 --> 0:20:10.720
<v Speaker 4>I mean some of the stuff was disgusting, but I

0:20:10.800 --> 0:20:12.720
<v Speaker 4>honestly was like, my mum, your dad, she just closed

0:20:12.720 --> 0:20:14.600
<v Speaker 4>that Twitter like it was so bad.

0:20:14.680 --> 0:20:16.200
<v Speaker 1>Can you share with us some of the stuff.

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<v Speaker 5>It was really bad.

0:20:17.359 --> 0:20:19.199
<v Speaker 4>It was really bad. I don't have it on my

0:20:19.240 --> 0:20:21.480
<v Speaker 4>phone anymore, but I'm sure I would still be on there,

0:20:23.280 --> 0:20:28.080
<v Speaker 4>just like calling you awful names, not like on TikTok oh.

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<v Speaker 4>Really it was just so horrible. They sent me like

0:20:32.160 --> 0:20:33.080
<v Speaker 4>five screen shops.

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<v Speaker 3>I honestly, Mara, I don't know why you're getting all

0:20:35.440 --> 0:20:38.320
<v Speaker 3>this hate. You are absolutely gorgeous. I feel like people

0:20:38.400 --> 0:20:40.800
<v Speaker 3>are jealous of you. It's so sad to see.

0:20:40.840 --> 0:20:45.600
<v Speaker 7>Like insecurity, I had one of the because we've got

0:20:45.600 --> 0:20:48.159
<v Speaker 7>on so great with all that crew and like all

0:20:48.240 --> 0:20:50.840
<v Speaker 7>the makeup and hair people and everything, and I had

0:20:50.840 --> 0:20:53.399
<v Speaker 7>one of the one of the crew ring me and

0:20:53.480 --> 0:20:54.840
<v Speaker 7>just so I've never done this and the law to

0:20:54.840 --> 0:20:56.479
<v Speaker 7>do this, but you are just amazing.

0:20:56.520 --> 0:20:58.560
<v Speaker 5>I love you so much. And don't listen to them.

0:20:58.600 --> 0:21:00.239
<v Speaker 6>She goes, there's actually people that just see in their

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<v Speaker 6>rooms and they go from show to show and really

0:21:03.119 --> 0:21:05.080
<v Speaker 6>just cut people. And she goes, and mad people that

0:21:05.080 --> 0:21:06.840
<v Speaker 6>are one hundred and fifteen killers of the thousand cats

0:21:06.840 --> 0:21:08.879
<v Speaker 6>and nothing else better to do than be mean to strangers.

0:21:09.320 --> 0:21:11.560
<v Speaker 6>And I think that was a little bit I knew

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<v Speaker 6>there was going to be hate. I did know that,

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<v Speaker 6>so I'm not stupid. People do love to hate.

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<v Speaker 5>But I just thought we were in a little bit more.

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<v Speaker 5>I just thought our society was a.

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<v Speaker 6>Little bit more forward thinking, you know, like and especially now,

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<v Speaker 6>every single young girl boobs, lips, nose, teeth, everything's done face. Yeah,

0:21:32.960 --> 0:21:34.879
<v Speaker 6>and I'm kind of I am actually proud of the

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<v Speaker 6>way I looked at from.

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<v Speaker 1>My age well.

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<v Speaker 5>Way Chyna, mikecre needles, a ship out of my skins.

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<v Speaker 6>That keeps my college in nice, like, you know, I

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<v Speaker 6>think it's just yeah, I was.

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<v Speaker 5>I was. It was a little bit bad. So I

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<v Speaker 5>said to chair.

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<v Speaker 6>I just reached out to channel and I just said,

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<v Speaker 6>can you take like the hate down? They ended up

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<v Speaker 6>taking all the comments.

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<v Speaker 5>Off two with the tiktoks. Yeah, I have.

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<v Speaker 4>The only thing that I found funny about it was

0:22:03.760 --> 0:22:06.200
<v Speaker 4>like she was really only ever getting hate on how

0:22:06.200 --> 0:22:08.679
<v Speaker 4>she looked. No one could pick on anything else. Like,

0:22:09.359 --> 0:22:10.960
<v Speaker 4>I know that they didn't air a lot of her

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<v Speaker 4>because she wasn't getting with anyone, and it's not really

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<v Speaker 4>good TV. And that's the point of the show. Now

0:22:15.840 --> 0:22:20.000
<v Speaker 4>we understand that. But she is smart, she's great, like

0:22:20.040 --> 0:22:23.080
<v Speaker 4>she's she's really funny, she's witty, and it's like they

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<v Speaker 4>couldn't pick on anything. They could only pick on her appearance.

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<v Speaker 4>And I mean, like she didn't go on there and

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<v Speaker 4>like trash talk, didn't she didn't like yeah, dress horribly

0:22:32.920 --> 0:22:36.560
<v Speaker 4>like she was just she kept it classy. There was

0:22:36.600 --> 0:22:39.320
<v Speaker 4>some other parents on there that they said some awful

0:22:39.400 --> 0:22:43.280
<v Speaker 4>things and like maybe things that like when I was

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<v Speaker 4>even watching myself, I was like, I would honestly die.

0:22:46.400 --> 0:22:48.320
<v Speaker 4>I would just want to like slap my mom if

0:22:48.320 --> 0:22:50.119
<v Speaker 4>she said that. Like I was just like and.

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<v Speaker 5>Not one comment.

0:22:51.000 --> 0:22:55.040
<v Speaker 4>Facts also being aired on TV, so you know at

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<v Speaker 4>the end of the day that your whole family's going

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<v Speaker 4>to see that.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, and they didn't get in comments.

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<v Speaker 4>There and they got and they received no hate.

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<v Speaker 3>What were some of the worst comments, in your opinion

0:23:06.040 --> 0:23:07.960
<v Speaker 3>that some of the other parents said.

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<v Speaker 4>Just like for instance, Roe was saying how he can't

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<v Speaker 4>touch like a female without wanting to have steck to

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<v Speaker 4>them and like he will expect sex.

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<v Speaker 5>Was great, that's how did you watch me?

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<v Speaker 6>But I asked him about the bath when I said

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<v Speaker 6>to him, so you run a bath expecting sex because

0:23:26.200 --> 0:23:27.080
<v Speaker 6>he had just said that.

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<v Speaker 5>So he said he literally can't walk through.

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<v Speaker 6>And I said, wait, wait, were wit so in the morning,

0:23:30.880 --> 0:23:32.959
<v Speaker 6>you're walking through You're going to say goodbye to your

0:23:33.000 --> 0:23:35.439
<v Speaker 6>partner in the kitchen, not to our sex. And I

0:23:35.480 --> 0:23:39.000
<v Speaker 6>was like, what, Yeah, he has driving the car. You

0:23:39.040 --> 0:23:42.520
<v Speaker 6>can't touch his knee sex. He was telling me saying, yeah, yeah,

0:23:42.520 --> 0:23:44.720
<v Speaker 6>he's telling the kids, and were telling the kids saying

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<v Speaker 6>on TV and the kids watched that he paid it.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, so he paid. He went out. He was like

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<v Speaker 4>in like la or something. He told his son, I'm

0:23:54.160 --> 0:23:55.920
<v Speaker 4>going on a work trip, but he wasn't. He was

0:23:55.960 --> 0:23:58.439
<v Speaker 4>over there partying, picked up a young girl at the club,

0:23:58.800 --> 0:24:01.480
<v Speaker 4>brought her back to the apartment, pay the door guy

0:24:01.480 --> 0:24:04.600
<v Speaker 4>one hundred dollars, and let the door man let them

0:24:04.600 --> 0:24:07.120
<v Speaker 4>have sex in their elevator. We watched all of that

0:24:07.720 --> 0:24:09.920
<v Speaker 4>and I was just not one hate comment, No one

0:24:09.920 --> 0:24:12.600
<v Speaker 4>hate comment. I don't know if they aired that. I

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<v Speaker 4>was so sick to my stomach. His son was so embarrassed,

0:24:16.600 --> 0:24:19.119
<v Speaker 4>and I was thinking, Okay, so his dad knows this

0:24:19.200 --> 0:24:21.800
<v Speaker 4>is going to be aired on TV, does not care?

0:24:22.400 --> 0:24:24.840
<v Speaker 4>And is he really there to find a connection if

0:24:24.880 --> 0:24:27.360
<v Speaker 4>he's talking like that, No, he's not. When my mom

0:24:27.480 --> 0:24:31.840
<v Speaker 4>really really wants and deserves a partner, and so it

0:24:31.960 --> 0:24:34.040
<v Speaker 4>was upsetting me too because I was like, they're putting

0:24:34.040 --> 0:24:37.640
<v Speaker 4>these parents in that really just haven't They don't care,

0:24:38.200 --> 0:24:41.640
<v Speaker 4>and they're there to just kind of written book kind

0:24:41.680 --> 0:24:41.960
<v Speaker 4>of thing.

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<v Speaker 5>I know it sounds that, but it's true.

0:24:44.960 --> 0:24:47.919
<v Speaker 4>And I'm watching it. Who was my mom in there with?

0:24:47.960 --> 0:24:49.320
<v Speaker 5>Because she does not like that?

0:24:49.359 --> 0:24:51.760
<v Speaker 6>And when I left, they didn't show really much of

0:24:51.840 --> 0:24:53.480
<v Speaker 6>us leaving because it was actually we would do it.

0:24:54.240 --> 0:24:55.720
<v Speaker 5>It was so traumatic. We were crying a lot.

0:24:55.760 --> 0:24:58.199
<v Speaker 6>And then Chloe got in the car one of the

0:24:58.200 --> 0:25:00.159
<v Speaker 6>produced and she was like, I think you think end

0:25:00.200 --> 0:25:00.840
<v Speaker 6>anyone in for me?

0:25:00.880 --> 0:25:02.760
<v Speaker 5>And because we did, and I said home, she goes

0:25:02.920 --> 0:25:04.000
<v Speaker 5>Darren and Rowe.

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<v Speaker 4>And I was like, well, Darren used to go to

0:25:07.480 --> 0:25:09.000
<v Speaker 4>swinger's parties.

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<v Speaker 6>And he just was telling me Dad's twenty three year

0:25:12.080 --> 0:25:14.879
<v Speaker 6>olds in Mexicola in Bali and I was like, so

0:25:14.960 --> 0:25:17.240
<v Speaker 6>you sent me in a player and a sex addict.

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<v Speaker 5>No, that's not at all what I wanted. And then

0:25:20.080 --> 0:25:21.480
<v Speaker 5>they were kind of getting mad at me for not

0:25:21.480 --> 0:25:23.480
<v Speaker 5>putting myself out there, and I was like, oh my god,

0:25:23.760 --> 0:25:30.640
<v Speaker 5>where's Captain Jason dating?

0:25:30.680 --> 0:25:34.600
<v Speaker 1>In twenty twenty two? Is so hard, right, And.

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<v Speaker 5>We both go through the same sort of experiences.

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<v Speaker 6>Really, because my generation are they've been married, they're now single,

0:25:41.520 --> 0:25:43.920
<v Speaker 6>and they go back to playing. They just they don't

0:25:44.000 --> 0:25:46.320
<v Speaker 6>they've had all the commitment and they want to just

0:25:46.400 --> 0:25:47.280
<v Speaker 6>party and play.

0:25:47.400 --> 0:25:49.000
<v Speaker 5>And then her generation are the same.

0:25:49.119 --> 0:25:50.919
<v Speaker 4>They kind of don't want to grow up. They just

0:25:50.960 --> 0:25:54.000
<v Speaker 4>want to party and just that's it.

0:25:54.119 --> 0:25:58.320
<v Speaker 1>And I'm like, come on, where's the reading.

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<v Speaker 2>How are you think?

0:26:01.000 --> 0:26:04.520
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I'm twenty five in January.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, okay yourself.

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<v Speaker 3>Look, it's it's really tricky, and I mean that's the

0:26:10.960 --> 0:26:14.639
<v Speaker 3>reason why we started this podcast, because we were both

0:26:14.720 --> 0:26:17.280
<v Speaker 3>having a really tough time dating and we were like,

0:26:17.359 --> 0:26:18.520
<v Speaker 3>we need to talk about.

0:26:18.320 --> 0:26:21.240
<v Speaker 1>This because we have some wild stories.

0:26:21.280 --> 0:26:23.720
<v Speaker 3>And I mean, like we even just started like a

0:26:23.720 --> 0:26:27.040
<v Speaker 3>hotline episode where people have been voice noting us in

0:26:27.080 --> 0:26:29.240
<v Speaker 3>and telling us their stories, and we can't believe it.

0:26:30.000 --> 0:26:33.760
<v Speaker 1>We can't believe some of the stuff we're hearing. We're like, what.

0:26:35.280 --> 0:26:36.919
<v Speaker 6>I'd stay in all the time. I can't even be

0:26:36.920 --> 0:26:39.119
<v Speaker 6>bothered going out. I just can't honestly be bothered.

0:26:39.320 --> 0:26:40.000
<v Speaker 5>So what's the point.

0:26:40.040 --> 0:26:41.639
<v Speaker 6>My best friend's gay, so when I hang out with

0:26:41.720 --> 0:26:43.760
<v Speaker 6>him and his husband, it's like, well, I'm not going

0:26:43.800 --> 0:26:44.800
<v Speaker 6>to get any action there.

0:26:45.600 --> 0:26:47.560
<v Speaker 2>Well, you said you go on and if you said

0:26:47.560 --> 0:26:49.359
<v Speaker 2>you go on dating apps, do you like go on

0:26:49.440 --> 0:26:50.919
<v Speaker 2>dates with anyone from the dating apps? So are you're

0:26:50.960 --> 0:26:52.080
<v Speaker 2>just on there swiping?

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<v Speaker 6>I went on one date last year and I went

0:26:55.240 --> 0:26:57.760
<v Speaker 6>I've been on two dates this year so far. But

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<v Speaker 6>they're just never so what I find they do and

0:27:00.080 --> 0:27:01.840
<v Speaker 6>show you might have seen it actually happened.

0:27:02.880 --> 0:27:04.000
<v Speaker 5>People change themselves.

0:27:04.000 --> 0:27:05.680
<v Speaker 6>So I'll say I don't like this or I love

0:27:05.760 --> 0:27:07.720
<v Speaker 6>that or whatever, and they say that that's what they

0:27:07.720 --> 0:27:09.040
<v Speaker 6>want to do, so then I'll go and meet them.

0:27:09.080 --> 0:27:10.480
<v Speaker 5>And then I go and meet them. I'm like, you're

0:27:10.520 --> 0:27:11.080
<v Speaker 5>nothing like.

0:27:11.400 --> 0:27:13.159
<v Speaker 6>You said you were that even on the show. Christy

0:27:13.720 --> 0:27:16.399
<v Speaker 6>Heath actually is really, really really into NRL. And on

0:27:16.400 --> 0:27:18.320
<v Speaker 6>the first day we have this iPad in the room

0:27:18.400 --> 0:27:20.560
<v Speaker 6>and it tells us how messages and stuff. He was

0:27:20.560 --> 0:27:22.359
<v Speaker 6>trying to break into the iPad and I thought, oh,

0:27:22.400 --> 0:27:24.040
<v Speaker 6>how cute. He's trying to get us some music, you know,

0:27:24.040 --> 0:27:26.560
<v Speaker 6>ALLOWD music. No, he was trying to break introe iPad

0:27:26.600 --> 0:27:31.960
<v Speaker 6>to get the NRL scorce. So that would do day

0:27:32.040 --> 0:27:34.600
<v Speaker 6>one right, which is fine and I'm not bagging it.

0:27:34.880 --> 0:27:37.359
<v Speaker 6>But Day one in a new place with all new people.

0:27:37.600 --> 0:27:39.680
<v Speaker 6>Just I just thought, what a weird thing for your brain,

0:27:39.800 --> 0:27:42.640
<v Speaker 6>Like you're really into NRL. So then in one say,

0:27:42.680 --> 0:27:45.040
<v Speaker 6>which is fine, and I'm not. I'm not picking on

0:27:45.200 --> 0:27:47.399
<v Speaker 6>him like I just I'm not at all picking on him.

0:27:47.400 --> 0:27:48.159
<v Speaker 5>It's just not for me.

0:27:48.359 --> 0:27:50.560
<v Speaker 6>He talks NROL, he lives en er or he breathes,

0:27:50.560 --> 0:27:53.800
<v Speaker 6>and which is fine, but not for me. That's I

0:27:53.840 --> 0:27:55.600
<v Speaker 6>don't want to be with someone that's going, oh, we're

0:27:55.640 --> 0:27:57.840
<v Speaker 6>going to the footage that oh, where he's on a

0:27:57.920 --> 0:28:01.000
<v Speaker 6>holiday as he would be trying to find the NRL scortes.

0:28:01.119 --> 0:28:01.720
<v Speaker 4>I don't know.

0:28:01.800 --> 0:28:05.680
<v Speaker 5>It's just cool, but not for me. The show, and

0:28:05.880 --> 0:28:08.119
<v Speaker 5>in the show, Christy actually says, if you want to

0:28:08.160 --> 0:28:10.240
<v Speaker 5>go with ready, don't just don't talk about n L.

0:28:10.320 --> 0:28:11.800
<v Speaker 5>She hates it. I don't hate it. I don't know

0:28:11.800 --> 0:28:14.520
<v Speaker 5>anything about it. Yeah, and I don't hate it. And

0:28:14.600 --> 0:28:17.280
<v Speaker 5>she didn't tell me she did that, And that's exactly. So.

0:28:17.400 --> 0:28:20.920
<v Speaker 5>Then one day over the big brother of man said.

0:28:21.440 --> 0:28:24.240
<v Speaker 6>By the way, hates your team lost or something, and

0:28:24.320 --> 0:28:25.680
<v Speaker 6>I said, oh, we're just sitting on the couch and

0:28:25.840 --> 0:28:27.760
<v Speaker 6>I said, oh, you're really into NRL, aren't you, And

0:28:27.840 --> 0:28:31.520
<v Speaker 6>he goes, no, and I went, I know, you just

0:28:31.600 --> 0:28:32.399
<v Speaker 6>break into the ipay.

0:28:32.400 --> 0:28:36.960
<v Speaker 5>I know it's what we're watching it.

0:28:37.080 --> 0:28:39.440
<v Speaker 4>So we've seen him the conversation with Christy.

0:28:39.480 --> 0:28:41.000
<v Speaker 5>Then we've seen him and I didn't know that.

0:28:41.400 --> 0:28:43.640
<v Speaker 4>We're all just like and I haven't said I don't

0:28:43.760 --> 0:28:43.920
<v Speaker 4>like that.

0:28:44.000 --> 0:28:46.600
<v Speaker 5>I don't like how he's changed himself to be what

0:28:46.720 --> 0:28:47.040
<v Speaker 5>I want.

0:28:47.640 --> 0:28:49.720
<v Speaker 4>It's hard to because you're with the kids and like

0:28:49.800 --> 0:28:51.640
<v Speaker 4>his son's sitting in the room. So then I'm like,

0:28:52.360 --> 0:28:53.760
<v Speaker 4>I just say it how it is. But then I

0:28:53.800 --> 0:28:56.200
<v Speaker 4>don't want to hurt anyone's feelings too, so you do

0:28:56.400 --> 0:28:57.960
<v Speaker 4>have to close your mouth a little bit. But at

0:28:58.000 --> 0:29:00.360
<v Speaker 4>the same time, I'm like, is anyone else seeing it's like?

0:29:02.240 --> 0:29:04.360
<v Speaker 6>And then he goes I said to him, so you

0:29:04.920 --> 0:29:07.560
<v Speaker 6>I thought you're really into it and around and he goes, oh, well,

0:29:07.720 --> 0:29:09.520
<v Speaker 6>I kind of have a chainment stuff, you know, but

0:29:09.560 --> 0:29:10.920
<v Speaker 6>it's just more for something to just do.

0:29:12.360 --> 0:29:13.360
<v Speaker 4>I think he coaches it.

0:29:15.080 --> 0:29:18.640
<v Speaker 5>Coaches it, definitely, but that's what I'm saying. So they

0:29:18.800 --> 0:29:22.000
<v Speaker 5>change themselves. Then when I go and meet them, they're

0:29:22.000 --> 0:29:22.880
<v Speaker 5>just really nothing.

0:29:22.800 --> 0:29:27.320
<v Speaker 4>Like, Yeah, it is like the texting and the phone

0:29:27.360 --> 0:29:29.960
<v Speaker 4>calls and face timing, and I just say Mom, you

0:29:30.120 --> 0:29:31.840
<v Speaker 4>need to just hurry up and meet them, because that's

0:29:31.880 --> 0:29:34.680
<v Speaker 4>how you're really gonna know. Yea, she gets just sared,

0:29:34.760 --> 0:29:37.800
<v Speaker 4>and then two weeks later she's still obsessively messaging and

0:29:37.880 --> 0:29:40.640
<v Speaker 4>I'm just go and meet the guy, and then she

0:29:40.880 --> 0:29:43.640
<v Speaker 4>makes them and then it's just like heartbreak.

0:29:43.960 --> 0:29:46.000
<v Speaker 6>I used to get like really worked up, so Tom

0:29:46.000 --> 0:29:48.160
<v Speaker 6>will drive me like drop me off and stuff, and

0:29:48.240 --> 0:29:49.520
<v Speaker 6>I just get really worked out because I was.

0:29:49.560 --> 0:29:51.000
<v Speaker 5>So excited and think, oh my god, we get on

0:29:51.080 --> 0:29:53.600
<v Speaker 5>so great. And then I just just like, oh no,

0:29:53.720 --> 0:29:55.280
<v Speaker 5>I just go. I we'll just get it out the way.

0:29:55.760 --> 0:29:57.360
<v Speaker 5>We'll just see how they actually really are.

0:29:57.520 --> 0:30:00.760
<v Speaker 3>To be honest, that's the hard thing about well, as

0:30:00.840 --> 0:30:03.280
<v Speaker 3>we all put our best foot forward and we all

0:30:03.400 --> 0:30:06.320
<v Speaker 3>like try and like make someone like us, and then

0:30:06.480 --> 0:30:08.880
<v Speaker 3>like after a couple of dates, you start seeing the

0:30:08.960 --> 0:30:12.120
<v Speaker 3>real person. And I guess in this yeah, and in

0:30:12.240 --> 0:30:15.120
<v Speaker 3>this environment, you're living with these people, so you're getting

0:30:15.200 --> 0:30:19.040
<v Speaker 3>to really see their true colors pretty quickly as well.

0:30:20.120 --> 0:30:23.800
<v Speaker 6>Yeah, yeah, and then they you're only going to see

0:30:23.880 --> 0:30:28.400
<v Speaker 6>what you know, I suppose the narrative that the producers

0:30:28.440 --> 0:30:29.280
<v Speaker 6>want you to see, do you know.

0:30:29.280 --> 0:30:29.560
<v Speaker 4>What I mean?

0:30:29.640 --> 0:30:31.800
<v Speaker 6>So they didn't show me being fun and like laying

0:30:31.880 --> 0:30:34.640
<v Speaker 6>on mail and chatting with everyone and Hate having a

0:30:34.680 --> 0:30:36.760
<v Speaker 6>meltdown and me making him not leave the show, Christie

0:30:36.800 --> 0:30:39.000
<v Speaker 6>having a meltdown and me make her not lead the show.

0:30:39.080 --> 0:30:41.480
<v Speaker 5>Like they didn't show me building all.

0:30:41.400 --> 0:30:43.760
<v Speaker 6>The relationships that I really did make with everyone, and

0:30:43.800 --> 0:30:45.240
<v Speaker 6>then they didn't show me at home crying when I

0:30:45.280 --> 0:30:45.880
<v Speaker 6>saw it on TV.

0:30:46.000 --> 0:30:51.320
<v Speaker 5>I mean, they were yeah, that's all right, it's all right.

0:30:51.400 --> 0:30:53.160
<v Speaker 5>Tanya had told me. Anyway, she was like, as soon

0:30:53.200 --> 0:30:54.480
<v Speaker 5>as we saw each other, she was like, Mum, they

0:30:54.520 --> 0:30:57.480
<v Speaker 5>were just so mean to you. Yeah, but anyway, and.

0:30:57.520 --> 0:30:59.200
<v Speaker 6>It was funny because one of the dads wasn't in

0:30:59.240 --> 0:31:01.760
<v Speaker 6>the conversation. Daughters literally had every single thing done.

0:31:02.120 --> 0:31:04.960
<v Speaker 5>So yeah, he wasn't in that conversation being mean to me.

0:31:05.320 --> 0:31:05.520
<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

0:31:05.800 --> 0:31:07.040
<v Speaker 5>Well, anyway, Look.

0:31:06.880 --> 0:31:11.560
<v Speaker 3>We've spoken briefly on that moment, Tanya where you actually

0:31:11.640 --> 0:31:14.960
<v Speaker 3>walked out of the game because you were just like,

0:31:15.240 --> 0:31:17.640
<v Speaker 3>you know, I think it was Darren. It said that

0:31:17.760 --> 0:31:20.840
<v Speaker 3>he had botox, and like the guys had already been

0:31:20.920 --> 0:31:23.000
<v Speaker 3>really mean to your mom and then you kind of

0:31:23.160 --> 0:31:25.560
<v Speaker 3>walked out. Can you kind of explain to us what

0:31:25.760 --> 0:31:27.560
<v Speaker 3>was going through your head because that must have been

0:31:27.680 --> 0:31:30.960
<v Speaker 3>super difficult, feeling like your mum's being attacked from every angle.

0:31:31.600 --> 0:31:32.960
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, yeah, it was.

0:31:33.240 --> 0:31:36.200
<v Speaker 4>It was horrible. So we had we had just seen

0:31:36.240 --> 0:31:39.040
<v Speaker 4>that footage of the dad's and it was all live,

0:31:39.880 --> 0:31:43.120
<v Speaker 4>and then we played the game. The card was right

0:31:43.200 --> 0:31:45.840
<v Speaker 4>out and I instantly just thought, that's a dig at

0:31:45.920 --> 0:31:51.600
<v Speaker 4>my mom. Yeah, and then whoever buzzed in and said, Darren,

0:31:52.240 --> 0:31:54.560
<v Speaker 4>it was right. And then the first thing that actually

0:31:54.600 --> 0:31:57.320
<v Speaker 4>came out of Kate's mouth was and Tanya, how does

0:31:57.360 --> 0:32:00.360
<v Speaker 4>that make you feel? So they didn't air that. I

0:32:00.400 --> 0:32:02.040
<v Speaker 4>don't even know if I'm allowed to say this, but

0:32:02.400 --> 0:32:06.760
<v Speaker 4>that and yeah, so she said, Antonia, how does that

0:32:06.840 --> 0:32:09.000
<v Speaker 4>make you feel? And I actually said to her, I said, so,

0:32:09.200 --> 0:32:12.200
<v Speaker 4>out of all of the kids here, you ask me,

0:32:12.360 --> 0:32:14.120
<v Speaker 4>how does that make me feel? Just because of the

0:32:14.160 --> 0:32:17.280
<v Speaker 4>way my mum looks what she's got a bit of

0:32:17.520 --> 0:32:19.400
<v Speaker 4>literally what mum said, a bit of botos in her

0:32:19.480 --> 0:32:21.280
<v Speaker 4>forehead and lip feelers. And I just said, this is

0:32:21.320 --> 0:32:23.720
<v Speaker 4>just not okay. Yeah, and I just couldn't hold it

0:32:23.760 --> 0:32:25.640
<v Speaker 4>in and I just started crying. So then I just

0:32:25.680 --> 0:32:28.080
<v Speaker 4>walked off because I didn't want to stand there crying

0:32:28.160 --> 0:32:30.360
<v Speaker 4>while they're playing the game. So I walked off inside,

0:32:31.360 --> 0:32:34.040
<v Speaker 4>and I'm just like crying. They're just not running down

0:32:34.080 --> 0:32:36.480
<v Speaker 4>my nose and everyone's running around trying to find a

0:32:36.520 --> 0:32:38.479
<v Speaker 4>tissue they couldn't. Then they grab a tea towels. I'm

0:32:38.520 --> 0:32:40.880
<v Speaker 4>like pulling my nose into this tea towel and I'm

0:32:40.960 --> 0:32:44.360
<v Speaker 4>just so upset, and I just like just kind of like, yeah,

0:32:44.440 --> 0:32:46.320
<v Speaker 4>ganged up on, like kind of picked on a bit.

0:32:46.400 --> 0:32:48.800
<v Speaker 4>And then before you know what, the camera crews in there,

0:32:48.880 --> 0:32:53.200
<v Speaker 4>and then Kate's in there and she's still whatever she

0:32:53.400 --> 0:32:55.040
<v Speaker 4>was saying to me. I was still just kind of

0:32:55.160 --> 0:33:00.240
<v Speaker 4>saying like like, no, it's it's not the car, it's

0:33:00.280 --> 0:33:02.640
<v Speaker 4>the fact that you asked me, How does that make

0:33:02.720 --> 0:33:04.520
<v Speaker 4>me feel? When you could have asked anyone else?

0:33:05.000 --> 0:33:08.560
<v Speaker 5>Why didn't she ask? Because it was actually about her dad, Ye,

0:33:08.880 --> 0:33:09.560
<v Speaker 5>about my mom.

0:33:10.160 --> 0:33:13.040
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, that's what upset me. And obviously they do their

0:33:13.080 --> 0:33:15.720
<v Speaker 4>little spin and then they air it differently, and that

0:33:16.000 --> 0:33:18.400
<v Speaker 4>really upset me because I was just like it made

0:33:18.440 --> 0:33:21.160
<v Speaker 4>me even some people were kind of like, oh, that

0:33:21.320 --> 0:33:22.360
<v Speaker 4>was like just like.

0:33:24.120 --> 0:33:25.520
<v Speaker 5>And I was just you don't see what.

0:33:27.920 --> 0:33:29.240
<v Speaker 1>You don't get the full picture.

0:33:29.440 --> 0:33:31.520
<v Speaker 2>It sounds like they had their own narratives they wanted

0:33:31.520 --> 0:33:31.920
<v Speaker 2>to tell.

0:33:31.800 --> 0:33:36.240
<v Speaker 3>As well, yeah, was there a bit of animosity between

0:33:36.480 --> 0:33:41.120
<v Speaker 3>the kids, because obviously tested, this is between Tessa's dad

0:33:41.400 --> 0:33:42.160
<v Speaker 3>and your mom.

0:33:42.480 --> 0:33:47.680
<v Speaker 1>Was there a bit of like, yeah, Tests was like

0:33:48.120 --> 0:33:50.560
<v Speaker 1>my best I just love Tests.

0:33:50.600 --> 0:33:52.880
<v Speaker 4>We would we would say, I'm kind of like mini Tests.

0:33:53.880 --> 0:33:56.200
<v Speaker 4>And it was funny because her dad was kind of

0:33:56.280 --> 0:33:59.200
<v Speaker 4>being so mean towards my mom, like behind Mon's back.

0:33:59.560 --> 0:34:02.120
<v Speaker 4>But it was just win because Tessa and I were

0:34:02.120 --> 0:34:02.640
<v Speaker 4>the closest.

0:34:02.680 --> 0:34:05.120
<v Speaker 5>But she really was just like mortified.

0:34:05.160 --> 0:34:07.560
<v Speaker 4>But she was mortified, and she just kept saying I'm sorry,

0:34:07.680 --> 0:34:09.840
<v Speaker 4>and she was like poll Mark. She would be the

0:34:09.920 --> 0:34:11.879
<v Speaker 4>first one pointing at the TV saying, oh my god,

0:34:11.920 --> 0:34:14.279
<v Speaker 4>I can't believe my dad just said that, Like she

0:34:14.520 --> 0:34:15.239
<v Speaker 4>was really good.

0:34:15.400 --> 0:34:17.840
<v Speaker 2>Can you talk to your parents while it's all happening

0:34:17.920 --> 0:34:19.520
<v Speaker 2>or no, you don't get to talk to your parents,

0:34:20.320 --> 0:34:21.719
<v Speaker 2>so you can't even say it.

0:34:21.800 --> 0:34:24.480
<v Speaker 5>So we don't know this, So we don't know. Christy

0:34:24.760 --> 0:34:27.120
<v Speaker 5>kicked off one day and was actually going to leave

0:34:27.200 --> 0:34:29.320
<v Speaker 5>the show, and because Mel kept going on dates, but

0:34:29.360 --> 0:34:31.719
<v Speaker 5>we didn't know, the kids were playing games.

0:34:31.440 --> 0:34:33.319
<v Speaker 6>And whoever won those games got to choose the dates,

0:34:33.360 --> 0:34:36.400
<v Speaker 6>so her daughter obviously didn't win any games that day.

0:34:36.640 --> 0:34:39.040
<v Speaker 5>For the date, so you know, so we didn't know

0:34:39.160 --> 0:34:41.120
<v Speaker 5>that we were there.

0:34:41.160 --> 0:34:43.320
<v Speaker 6>Was you know, you have conspiracy theories about stuff, and

0:34:44.360 --> 0:34:46.040
<v Speaker 6>so I would always wake up in the morning walk

0:34:46.080 --> 0:34:48.960
<v Speaker 6>outs and morning time, morning time, but they never showed it.

0:34:51.080 --> 0:34:53.759
<v Speaker 1>So I was the one who was being mean to

0:34:53.880 --> 0:34:54.759
<v Speaker 1>you behind your back?

0:34:54.920 --> 0:34:56.239
<v Speaker 5>Is that right? Yeah? Yeah?

0:34:56.440 --> 0:34:58.120
<v Speaker 1>And what type of things was she saying?

0:34:59.120 --> 0:35:01.000
<v Speaker 5>Oh, well, she was me on day one.

0:35:01.080 --> 0:35:03.080
<v Speaker 8>To me when she was mean, you said that she

0:35:03.160 --> 0:35:06.359
<v Speaker 8>was bitching, but behind in the back, she was kind

0:35:06.400 --> 0:35:10.560
<v Speaker 8>of just going around to like each like kind of

0:35:10.680 --> 0:35:12.800
<v Speaker 8>like male and just be like, don't you think Bretti

0:35:12.960 --> 0:35:14.359
<v Speaker 8>is like a bit over the top.

0:35:14.719 --> 0:35:17.600
<v Speaker 4>She's just too much for me. You know, she's sitting

0:35:17.640 --> 0:35:20.120
<v Speaker 4>there hearted up in the corner crying, and I was

0:35:20.239 --> 0:35:22.080
<v Speaker 4>just sitting there watching the screen. But it's just being like,

0:35:22.200 --> 0:35:24.279
<v Speaker 4>oh my god, no, Like the last thing I wanted

0:35:24.440 --> 0:35:25.800
<v Speaker 4>was for mom to go in the house and like

0:35:26.120 --> 0:35:31.720
<v Speaker 4>a female kind of like bully her and like change

0:35:31.719 --> 0:35:35.200
<v Speaker 4>everyone else's opinions. But that's exactly what happened.

0:35:35.239 --> 0:35:37.120
<v Speaker 6>And to me, she would just do those things where

0:35:37.640 --> 0:35:39.080
<v Speaker 6>I've got to really dry sense of humans.

0:35:39.120 --> 0:35:44.200
<v Speaker 5>I'd say something and then she'd go really and so

0:35:44.320 --> 0:35:46.600
<v Speaker 5>then you're just like, oh my God. So I was

0:35:46.680 --> 0:35:48.319
<v Speaker 5>just at the end, I just couldn't speak because I just.

0:35:48.360 --> 0:35:53.080
<v Speaker 4>Felt you're walking video they did air her, someone said, oh,

0:35:53.120 --> 0:35:55.560
<v Speaker 4>we've got two beauty people.

0:35:55.440 --> 0:35:57.759
<v Speaker 5>Or something, and then she was just so quick to

0:35:57.840 --> 0:35:59.960
<v Speaker 5>be like, I'm not I'm notting beauty.

0:36:00.040 --> 0:36:03.000
<v Speaker 4>I like, I'm a hairdresser. It's just something and it's

0:36:03.120 --> 0:36:03.360
<v Speaker 4>just like.

0:36:04.200 --> 0:36:06.680
<v Speaker 5>And then the edit they made me go nice and

0:36:07.400 --> 0:36:08.759
<v Speaker 5>I didn't like that.

0:36:08.920 --> 0:36:12.520
<v Speaker 4>And if anything, if anyone between the tour of us,

0:36:12.600 --> 0:36:14.359
<v Speaker 4>it's going to be a tad or bitchy, it's going

0:36:14.440 --> 0:36:16.719
<v Speaker 4>to be made she does not have a bone in

0:36:16.800 --> 0:36:22.799
<v Speaker 4>her body, like, she's just not like that much edited

0:36:22.880 --> 0:36:24.040
<v Speaker 4>to make her look like that.

0:36:24.640 --> 0:36:27.480
<v Speaker 3>What I loved I love Tanya about you is that

0:36:27.640 --> 0:36:30.520
<v Speaker 3>you were like very forthcoming with your opinions. You said

0:36:30.520 --> 0:36:33.440
<v Speaker 3>it how it was. It was very everything was transparent

0:36:33.520 --> 0:36:35.759
<v Speaker 3>and authentic. It was like you weren't trying to be

0:36:35.880 --> 0:36:37.960
<v Speaker 3>something that you weren't. You were like, this is who

0:36:38.040 --> 0:36:41.279
<v Speaker 3>I am, this is my opinion. I'm not sugarcoating it.

0:36:41.480 --> 0:36:43.640
<v Speaker 1>Take it or leave it. And I loved that because

0:36:43.640 --> 0:36:45.920
<v Speaker 1>it came across as super genuine.

0:36:45.880 --> 0:36:48.320
<v Speaker 4>Thank you, It's exactly me.

0:36:49.040 --> 0:36:50.800
<v Speaker 5>We have actually got a lot of people say that

0:36:50.880 --> 0:36:52.799
<v Speaker 5>about us, that you're the realist on the show.

0:36:56.360 --> 0:36:58.520
<v Speaker 3>I'm maret as well because you were. You were kind

0:36:58.560 --> 0:37:00.440
<v Speaker 3>of like, I'm not going to force something. I'm on

0:37:00.520 --> 0:37:03.400
<v Speaker 3>this show, Like, if it's not working out for me,

0:37:03.520 --> 0:37:06.680
<v Speaker 3>I'm not going to like do it to stay or whatever.

0:37:07.360 --> 0:37:09.399
<v Speaker 5>Yeah. Yeah, whereas CHRISTI would say to me, you're gonna

0:37:09.560 --> 0:37:11.040
<v Speaker 5>you're gonna leave. You don't hook up for someone. You've

0:37:11.040 --> 0:37:13.239
<v Speaker 5>gott to hook up someone, And I'm like, I don't

0:37:13.239 --> 0:37:13.440
<v Speaker 5>want to.

0:37:14.440 --> 0:37:15.040
<v Speaker 2>Where are they?

0:37:16.120 --> 0:37:24.000
<v Speaker 5>Yeah? No, why? I just couldn't know. Yeah, yeah, I'm

0:37:24.040 --> 0:37:27.000
<v Speaker 5>not eighteen, you know, like, I'm not eighteen trying to

0:37:27.120 --> 0:37:29.520
<v Speaker 5>be something. I was really genuinely there trying to find someone.

0:37:29.719 --> 0:37:32.920
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, did any of the kids in the bunker hook up?

0:37:33.160 --> 0:37:38.560
<v Speaker 2>Or was there any love stories there?

0:37:38.920 --> 0:37:39.960
<v Speaker 5>She gets asked this a lot.

0:37:40.080 --> 0:37:44.279
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, so I think not. I think, well, what is

0:37:44.320 --> 0:37:47.280
<v Speaker 4>that one girl one boy did a few things.

0:37:47.680 --> 0:37:48.920
<v Speaker 5>But I don't want you to say that.

0:37:49.040 --> 0:37:53.319
<v Speaker 4>I'm not saying it wasn't me, but it wasn't.

0:37:53.560 --> 0:37:56.920
<v Speaker 5>Don't worry other people outside. They're there involved, So I

0:37:57.080 --> 0:37:58.319
<v Speaker 5>just think it's not right for us.

0:38:00.120 --> 0:38:02.520
<v Speaker 2>Their parents look, well, so imagine that.

0:38:10.680 --> 0:38:12.799
<v Speaker 1>So did those two people who hooked out.

0:38:12.840 --> 0:38:15.600
<v Speaker 3>Did they hook up like during the experiment in the

0:38:15.680 --> 0:38:17.560
<v Speaker 3>bunker or was it post show.

0:38:18.160 --> 0:38:22.960
<v Speaker 4>During the experiment, But yeah, I think it was. I

0:38:23.040 --> 0:38:25.880
<v Speaker 4>don't know like if it was, maybe it was just

0:38:25.920 --> 0:38:28.359
<v Speaker 4>like a bedroom cam or something like that. I don't

0:38:28.400 --> 0:38:32.440
<v Speaker 4>think it was like proper filmed with like cameramen and stuff.

0:38:32.480 --> 0:38:36.560
<v Speaker 4>So I don't think it's going to be aired. It's

0:38:36.560 --> 0:38:38.720
<v Speaker 4>about kids, right.

0:38:39.760 --> 0:38:46.000
<v Speaker 1>Interesting, Maybe that will come out in the week. Interesting, guys,

0:38:46.200 --> 0:38:49.080
<v Speaker 1>thank you so much for coming on to our podcast.

0:38:49.360 --> 0:38:52.160
<v Speaker 3>You were both thanks for having incredible on the show,

0:38:52.280 --> 0:38:55.560
<v Speaker 3>and it's been even better getting to chat with you me.

0:38:55.880 --> 0:38:57.080
<v Speaker 1>Thank you for being so open.

0:38:57.840 --> 0:38:59.440
<v Speaker 2>I'm definitely going to go back and watch that.

0:38:59.600 --> 0:39:00.560
<v Speaker 1>It's going to go watch it.

0:39:02.280 --> 0:39:05.040
<v Speaker 5>Watch the Bully much how they make me think so mean?

0:39:05.960 --> 0:39:09.080
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I can see through you're not.

0:39:09.440 --> 0:39:11.719
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and you definitely didn't come across like that. So

0:39:12.040 --> 0:39:14.840
<v Speaker 3>we're really sorry about all the hate. You don't deserve it.

0:39:15.080 --> 0:39:17.240
<v Speaker 3>And I think you guys are going to do amazing

0:39:17.320 --> 0:39:19.440
<v Speaker 3>things after this and we'll see you on Love Island

0:39:19.560 --> 0:39:19.960
<v Speaker 3>next year.

0:39:20.000 --> 0:39:28.840
<v Speaker 1>Anyway, Journey, make sure to stay singles used. Thank you guys,

0:39:29.040 --> 0:39:29.360
<v Speaker 1>Bye

0:39:31.040 --> 0:39:31.360
<v Speaker 5>Bye.