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Speaker 1: Coming up on Relatables. Don't let him change any decisions

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Speaker 1: you were going to make. But if you want to

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Speaker 1: go back to Italy and live your best life there,

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Speaker 1: do it. Do whatever you want to do.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I don't think any decision is a wrong or right decision.

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Speaker 3: I think it's just like whatever decision you make is

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Speaker 3: the right decision and you just have to fully, you know,

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Speaker 3: go into it.

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Speaker 2: Okay, a little different start to this episode.

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Speaker 3: I'd like to ask you a quick question, go for it.

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Speaker 3: Has anyone ever gotten you a gift and then kept

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Speaker 3: it for themselves?

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Speaker 1: Feel like that's something you do want to No offense

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Speaker 1: ever happened to you. Off the top of my head,

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Speaker 1: no it hasn't. But is it about to happen to me?

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Speaker 2: I don't know, because I just want you to watch something.

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Speaker 1: Did I get you something and I kept it for myself?

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Speaker 2: I just want you to watch this. I'm gonna give

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Speaker 2: it to you in a second. Just press play on

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Speaker 2: the top there. Please?

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Speaker 1: What could I get you? Rolettables podcast is hosted by

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Speaker 1: Jake Craig aka scrub Daddy and myself A Clark aka

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Speaker 1: scrub Mummy, Scrub Mummy Bro.

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Speaker 2: I have a scrub mummy. In my it sounds like

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Speaker 2: a brand deal or advert or.

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Speaker 1: Some sort, but it's not. And I can't take the

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Speaker 1: claim for this. My girlfriend's mum for us born, for

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Speaker 1: us brush.

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Speaker 2: Where's my scrub daddy? Oh?

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Speaker 1: I think I just took it. He said you had one.

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Speaker 3: I couldn't help but think about this the other day

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Speaker 3: and I was like, wait, I need to go make

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Speaker 3: sure he did say us.

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Speaker 1: We were like, oh, it's about the time I need

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Speaker 1: a new scrub daddy. Oh, holy got me one. Ours

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Speaker 1: is deteriorated. I think what OI didn't get me one.

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Speaker 1: I think what would have happened was I would have

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Speaker 1: come up here to pick up the rubbish, clean up

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Speaker 1: the studio like a good co host that I am.

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Speaker 2: Would have come in here.

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Speaker 1: Saw the scrub daddy on the ground, disrespected. You would

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Speaker 1: have gone down just to go eat some food or

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Speaker 1: something like you usually do, probably probably something unhealthy. I

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Speaker 1: don't know. And I was like, you know what, I'm

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Speaker 1: just going to clean up if take back, and you

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Speaker 1: won't even know. And you only realized because you needed

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Speaker 1: a new srub daddy didn't.

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Speaker 3: Now do you want to know what I remember happening?

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Speaker 3: And at the time, I didn't say anything because I

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Speaker 3: wasn't in need of.

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Speaker 2: A scrub daddy. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: So if you keep playing it, like if I left

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Speaker 3: everything in there's a week, get to a point where

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Speaker 3: we're like, shit, we got to stop talking about it,

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Speaker 3: like their brand, this is free exposure, and and I

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Speaker 3: chuck and we chuck them over whatever. And I remember

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Speaker 3: when we were done recording, you were like, oh, yeah,

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Speaker 2: My scrub days and I was gonna. At the time,

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Speaker 2: I was like, I think one of them is my,

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Speaker 2: but I didn't say.

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Speaker 3: It because I was like, I don't even need what

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Speaker 3: I have on. And then yesterday I get home, we

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Speaker 3: get home from from we were, we go away, We

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Speaker 3: get home, and Joanna says, oh, next time you're out,

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Speaker 3: if you can remember, can you please get a new scrub, Mummy, because.

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Speaker 2: Oh, mummy, I was as fucked same scrub daddy, scrub.

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Speaker 1: Now you want my scrub, Mummy, I'll take them.

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Speaker 2: I think I deserved both of them.

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Speaker 3: After being given the gift and then stripped of it.

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Speaker 1: I've got nothing to say.

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Speaker 2: What do you say? Where is it?

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Speaker 1: It's still in the package, isn't it? My apologies? No,

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Speaker 1: they're in my kitchen sink. At least they're getting some use. Man,

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Speaker 1: think of that. I guess they're like a married couple.

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Speaker 1: My apologies, My apologies, scrub Hey. The gesture was there.

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Speaker 1: I could have easily from you. No, no, this is

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Speaker 1: what happened. So I got them from my girlfriend's mum.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I could have easily just taken them home and you

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Speaker 3: Does Cassie's mum listen to this. She might, So that

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Speaker 3: means that she's listening to this. She's really very she's

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Speaker 3: finding out at this very second. But that you didn't

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Speaker 3: even get actually give it to me, Yeah, she's gonna

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Speaker 3: be pick gave it to you. You might give something

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Speaker 2: It to him.

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Speaker 1: You can when your cos just a chill guy. I

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Speaker 1: wouldn't notice. I didn't even do it consciously. Well, I'll

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Speaker 1: tell you what. We have other stuff in this studio

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Speaker 1: right now? What do you want of mine? You can

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Speaker 1: have that water pistol. I own half of everything in here.

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Speaker 1: What do you want half of everything? I wouldn't mind

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Speaker 2: But so I guess.

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Speaker 3: I mean I get to say I've been given a

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Speaker 1: A scrub daddy? Is that the whole point of this segment?

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Speaker 2: Actually? I need to just go order a few.

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Speaker 3: The guy that invented that ship is rolling in it,

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Speaker 3: like he literally, there's no I honestly reckon. He gets

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Speaker 1: I've always wanted to be one of those people who

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Speaker 1: like say like, oh, what do you do for a living? Like,

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Speaker 1: just like, oh, yeah, I own Alan Snakes. Yeah, like

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Speaker 3: Have you ever have you ever plugged something into a

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Speaker 3: what the fuck are you talking about?

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Speaker 1: The wheels in your cart? That was me.

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Speaker 2: I have a friend a family friend. Who do you

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Speaker 2: do you really this is not I have a family acquaintance.

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Speaker 1: Put a family in front of it, because otherwise you

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Speaker 3: I actually I do have friends of the news. His

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Speaker 3: Or he's a conditional friend, not an unconditional friend. He's

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Speaker 3: I there's a guy that I know, a family acquaintance.

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Speaker 3: But do you remember when we were in early beach

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Speaker 2: Technically we literally were, and no we weren't. We had

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Speaker 3: Do you remember we And that was when I had

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Speaker 1: I remember showing Jake the ropes.

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Speaker 2: Oh you remember that.

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Speaker 1: I do remember. And that's the thing now and then

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Speaker 1: for like three years later, someone's invented it.

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Speaker 2: So ef. You know, I think we can I think

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Speaker 1: And the other day, like six months ago, Jake said,

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Speaker 1: Netflix original two Guys on a podcast. Yeah, is like

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Speaker 1: We can talk about it now.

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Speaker 1: Nobody wants this? You loved it? I fucking loved it.

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Speaker 1: Mid Really so what so?

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Speaker 2: Nah?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, see that was a question someone asked them. That's

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Speaker 1: It wasn't that much podcasting. I guess they depicted it,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Like the content wise, like talking about everything seem

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Speaker 1: The podcast started to flunk because she didn't want to

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and like if they were even talking about one

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Speaker 3: He was a mad dog's wife bitch. Oh yeah, biggest

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Speaker 1: The only part I really is a cow. Yeah. Because

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Speaker 2: Yeah. What I wanted to know was how how accurate

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: So I think we're a good audience to watch it

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Speaker 2: No, no, not at all.

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Speaker 1: And I suppose it was quite ironing because I know

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'd say they got some stuff accurate about just

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Speaker 3: but overall it's Kristin Bell, Christ.

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Speaker 2: And Bell something about it in that day, I know.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Like I've never found like Christ and Bell, like

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Speaker 2: They portrayed her good.

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Speaker 3: Wait the first kiss scene. But tell me you liked that,

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Speaker 3: Oh that was good? Yeah yeah, yeah, tell me that

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Speaker 1: Thing you I think you built it up in my

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Speaker 2: You see, But that's I think it's that good. I

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Speaker 1: Overall, they have what is it, IMBD ratings rotten tomatoes.

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Speaker 1: Now they got rotten relatables. Rating is six point nine

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Speaker 2: What do you mean?

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Speaker 3: I was gonna say out of five out of ten? Yeah,

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Speaker 3: I honestly I think it deserves seven and a half.

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Speaker 1: That's not that good.

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Speaker 2: It is out of ten.

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Speaker 1: The way you were explaining it was like a fucking

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Speaker 2: Now, but I've watched shows that are way better. I

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna have to stop taking your recommendation to day.

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Speaker 1: You need to play like your cards better.

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Speaker 2: What okay, Well, I'm about to watch The Lincoln Lawyer.

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Speaker 3: You've been frothing at the mouth, by the way, and

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Speaker 1: I don't like it, but it might be too intellectual

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Speaker 2: What if I put the subtitles on that might help?

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Speaker 1: That might help. But if you don't like it, it's

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Speaker 2: Okay, with nobody wants this.

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Speaker 3: Firstly, I can't believe there isn't a podcast called Nobody

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Speaker 3: Wants This Now, and it's Nobody.

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Speaker 1: I like the writing on it.

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Speaker 2: I loved it.

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Speaker 3: But secondly, I've got to say, like for a gen

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Speaker 3: I think they got it all quite accurate of like

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Speaker 2: Yes, I feel like they got that one.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, one hundred percent.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, rather than just have the mental battle on yourself,

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Speaker 2: Also, so the main character, dude right I plays his boyfriend.

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Speaker 1: Now. The study was smooth. He is the smoothest personal life.

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Speaker 2: I could do it. No, they looks like they were

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Speaker 1: No, I wouldn't watch to show you either, But I

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Speaker 2: Yeah, there's no way he's not hard. And there's no

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Speaker 1: But yo, I didn't even think about that. Yeah, maybe

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Speaker 2: We kissed for like three hours.

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Speaker 1: I talked to Jake oh.

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Speaker 2: Man, like, Okay.

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Speaker 3: I listened to the Armchair Expert episode where he had

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Speaker 3: it's a podcast, and Kristen Bell, the main character in

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Speaker 2: Oh.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he doesn't give a shit because he just is

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and then the guy, but the guy is also

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Speaker 3: Let's just quickly like just because everyone's probably so pissed

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Speaker 1: Yeah, se Kristen Bell is the main girl.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and he wants this Adam Brody and he plays

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Speaker 3: funniest fucking guy alive. I think he is the best.

448
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Speaker 1: That was good acting. But for everyone, if you want

449
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Speaker 1: to go watch it, I recommend it.

450
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Speaker 3: Go watch it if you just want to sit there

451
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Speaker 3: and watch something that you're not going to get super

452
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Speaker 3: emotionally invested in, and if like a character was to die,

453
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Speaker 3: you'd be upset. Like, nobody dies in this But I'm

454
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Speaker 3: saying like, if there's an issue in an episode, that

455
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Speaker 3: resolved that episode. I hate it when there's an issue

456
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Speaker 3: in an episode and you have to wait till the

457
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Speaker 3: next episode.

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Speaker 1: It's a good show. If you want to watch some

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Speaker 1: TikTok's whits on in the background there you go, Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Legit, that's what I did. Well.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, like you just sit there and you fucking I

462
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Speaker 4: had to focus on it, you sib Yeah, dah m.

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Speaker 2: Let's go. You guys know what to do. Link is

464
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Speaker 2: in the description of this video or in our bio

465
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Speaker 2: on Instagram. You go down. It's all anonymous and.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, if you want a dilima in the episode, that's

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Speaker 3: where you submit it. Okay, Hey Addie and Jake, first off,

468
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Speaker 3: huge thanks for having the guts to start this podcast. Seriously,

469
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Speaker 3: you guys have made my drives.

470
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Speaker 2: So much more fun. Here's my dilemma. Thank you very

471
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Speaker 2: much for that compliment, by the way. So here's the setup.

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Speaker 3: I'm a PhD student and last year, while I was

473
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Speaker 3: studying abroad, I met my now ex boyfriend. He was

474
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Speaker 3: also an international student, and we had a great thing

475
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Speaker 3: going for about ten months. He ended up finishing his

476
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Speaker 3: degree before me and headed back home while I stayed

477
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Speaker 3: in a few more months. We went long distance after that,

478
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Speaker 3: and honestly.

479
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Speaker 2: We made it work.

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Speaker 3: We'd call every day, send little updates, and even plan visits.

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Speaker 3: But then I started noticing small changes. I brushed it

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Speaker 3: off at first, thinking it was just my anxiety since

483
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Speaker 3: I was basically living in the lab, always tired. Turns

484
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Speaker 3: out my gut was right. He called me a few

485
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Speaker 3: weeks later to say he'd met someone back home and

486
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Speaker 3: wanted to be with her, Bustard Bustard.

487
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Speaker 2: He said the distance was.

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Speaker 3: Too hard, and quote unquote, it just felt right with her,

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Speaker 3: So I told him I understood and wished him all

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Speaker 3: the best.

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Speaker 2: We haven't talked since.

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Speaker 3: Fast forward to now, I'm wrapping up my research and

493
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Speaker 3: applying for post doc positions. I've gotten some offers, including

494
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Speaker 3: one at his university, which of course is an incredible,

495
00:22:01,240 --> 00:22:04,439
Speaker 3: has an incredible cancer center and would be amazing for

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Speaker 3: my work. So now I'm like, should I go there?

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Speaker 3: Or should I just head back to Italy and avoid

498
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Speaker 3: the whole situation? And to make things worse, I just

499
00:22:15,040 --> 00:22:18,159
Speaker 3: listened to your How Boys Love episode and now the

500
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Speaker 3: whole Limerence thing is stuck in my head? Am I

501
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Speaker 3: an asshole?

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Speaker 2: If I go?

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Speaker 3: I'd love to hear your thoughts and hope you've got

504
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Speaker 3: to kick out of my story?

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Speaker 2: Thanks?

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Speaker 1: Well, is she an asshole if she goes to his uni?

507
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Speaker 2: Yes?

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Speaker 1: No way, I don't think so either, not at all. Firstly, really,

509
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Speaker 1: it makes me happy that people who are doing a

510
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Speaker 1: PhD listen to this podcast. Yeah, I don't disagree with that,

511
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Speaker 1: but fucking like, props to you, Like, that's crazy. That

512
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Speaker 1: is a smarty pants if you ask me, h, that

513
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Speaker 1: is so cool. I'm trying to just like wrap my

514
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Speaker 1: head around.

515
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Speaker 2: I have a year ten education.

516
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Speaker 1: How much work goes into that, So props to you

517
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Speaker 1: for completing that. Firstly, Yeah, but have you done that plan?

518
00:23:08,720 --> 00:23:11,200
Speaker 1: Jake's not even gonna be able to understand Lincoln lawyers soon.

519
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Speaker 1: But okay, okay, okay, okay, let's break this down So firstly,

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Speaker 1: the long distance thing that always fucking happens that exact situation.

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Speaker 2: Yes, breaks apart.

522
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Speaker 1: And he's like, oh, no one's in front of me anymore.

523
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Speaker 1: Oh I don't love you anymore. Fuck you so sorry

524
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Speaker 1: I had to go through that.

525
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Speaker 2: That sucks. He tried.

526
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Speaker 1: At least you tried. This script to say you tried. Yeah,

527
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Speaker 1: But honestly, it's a simple answer. Jesus, act like you

528
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Speaker 1: would if you never dated this boy. If you want

529
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Speaker 1: to go to this great cancer research university, do it.

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Speaker 2: Who gives a fuck.

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Speaker 1: There's millions of people in the world, and don't let

532
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Speaker 1: him change any decisions you were going to make. But

533
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Speaker 1: if you want to go back to Italy and live

534
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Speaker 1: your best life there, do whatever you want to do.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. I don't think any decision is a wrong or

536
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Speaker 2: right decision.

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Speaker 3: I think it's just like whatever decision you make is

538
00:24:07,320 --> 00:24:09,679
Speaker 3: the right decision, and you just have to fully, you know,

539
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Speaker 3: go into it.

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Speaker 1: We saw when were yourself. We've done research. We've done

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Speaker 1: some research too.

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Speaker 2: Eh.

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Speaker 1: Oh really in some past episodes how people get over breakups?

544
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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, they avoid places where their ex might be.

545
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Speaker 2: Or usually hang that could be considered unhealthy.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and like maybe that's your approach to get over

547
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Speaker 1: your ex is like I don't want to go anywhere

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Speaker 1: I might see him because it might bring all these

549
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Speaker 1: emotions back. But I think it's important that you deal

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Speaker 1: with all the emotions from the breakup. Assume it's like

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Speaker 1: how long the stations they break up she's.

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Speaker 2: Been she was with him for ten months and a while. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I don't.

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Speaker 3: It didn't say how long they've been broken up for,

555
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Speaker 3: but I'd say it's been a little while.

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Speaker 1: I think it's important to make your decision up before

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Speaker 1: you leave, that you're going to go there and be like,

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Speaker 1: all right, I've got fucking three months to get over

559
00:25:01,400 --> 00:25:05,480
Speaker 1: this guy before I moved there. Because no ex boyfriend

560
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Speaker 1: or ex girlfriend should have any impacting factor of what

561
00:25:08,359 --> 00:25:11,240
Speaker 1: decisions you make in your life, especially if they're important

562
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Speaker 1: ones like doing haptic cancer research to benefit the fucking

563
00:25:14,960 --> 00:25:18,200
Speaker 1: community around us. Yeah, like, go do whatever is best

564
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Speaker 1: for you and your career. Not any fucker boy who

565
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Speaker 1: can't realize what an important person you are.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I don't think.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, look if you go there and you see him

568
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Speaker 3: and he's like, what are you doing here, and you

569
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Speaker 3: just be like I got accepted.

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Speaker 2: You know, I'm researching cancer. What's he gonna say? You

571
00:25:31,800 --> 00:25:36,160
Speaker 2: came here for me? You're researching cancer. I know who

572
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Speaker 2: the fuck's gonna try and be like I'm the main

573
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Speaker 2: character here. You came here for me. You're not a

574
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Speaker 2: research and cancer Yeah, obviously researching cancer. Yeah, I don't

575
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Speaker 2: ever think it.

576
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Speaker 1: And then you then go date like a hot professor

577
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Speaker 1: or something. Yeah, yeah, get with the hottest guy. That's

578
00:25:48,520 --> 00:25:50,199
Speaker 1: a good question for your jack. Yeah, you know how

579
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Speaker 1: you'd like so smart doing nap land and ship. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: What does PhD mean?

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Speaker 2: I actually noticed, I actually do know. I PhD means

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Speaker 2: it is.

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Speaker 3: Like, once I start, don't laugh or anything, because I

584
00:26:05,200 --> 00:26:06,280
Speaker 3: think I might be able to spit it out of.

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Speaker 2: Physician doctor.

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Speaker 1: PhD.

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Speaker 2: I thought physicians start with pH What is it? Sandfle

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Speaker 2: do you know? I don't know. Let me look at that.

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Speaker 3: I have no idea practical something doctor?

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Speaker 2: It does no right? What does PhD stand for? What's like?

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Speaker 2: Why is it a brollidy?

592
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Speaker 3: What does PhD stand for? Here you go, oh ship,

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Speaker 3: It literally is doctor of philosophy.

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Speaker 2: Oh so I think pretty big.

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Speaker 3: PhD just means doctor. And so if you have your

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00:26:45,320 --> 00:26:48,159
Speaker 3: PhD in something. You have your doctor of philosophy, but

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00:26:48,200 --> 00:26:51,320
Speaker 3: that just means like doctor. They just take of philosophy

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Speaker 3: away from like doctor of medicine, doctor of business, doctor

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Speaker 3: of You can be a doctor of anything, like you

600
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Speaker 3: can have your PhD in like anything.

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Speaker 2: That's really confusing.

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Speaker 3: So like that's why, that's why I like, that's why

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00:27:05,640 --> 00:27:10,119
Speaker 3: doctors so like people that are like a general practitioner,

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00:27:10,160 --> 00:27:13,000
Speaker 3: like an actual like a family doctor or like a surgeon.

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Speaker 3: Like I think they give like ship to fucking dentists

606
00:27:17,240 --> 00:27:19,639
Speaker 3: and stuff, because like a dentist is a doctorate in

607
00:27:19,720 --> 00:27:24,440
Speaker 3: dental in dentistry, and like a chiropractor is a doctor

608
00:27:25,119 --> 00:27:29,160
Speaker 3: in that field. But like I don't think they all

609
00:27:29,200 --> 00:27:30,960
Speaker 3: know how to like save a life on a plane

610
00:27:31,000 --> 00:27:32,520
Speaker 3: if you know someone's having a seizure and they're like,

611
00:27:32,640 --> 00:27:34,359
Speaker 3: is there a doctor here? I don't think they can

612
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Speaker 3: all like say that they are the equivalent of that.

613
00:27:36,960 --> 00:27:39,080
Speaker 3: Can you can be a doctor of like psychology?

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Speaker 1: Can you get a PhD in podcast?

615
00:27:43,240 --> 00:27:46,400
Speaker 3: I think we can give them out.

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Speaker 1: We should be remember ray Gun from the Olympics, the

617
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Speaker 1: Australian breakdancing theme. She had a PhD in breakdancing and

618
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Speaker 1: she actually uni I'm going to get one for us.

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Speaker 2: That's roommate goes to that UNI.

620
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Speaker 1: Really, yeah, I'm going to get this sick info.

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Speaker 2: Man, it's a fucking universe.

622
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Speaker 1: I thought you were going to finish that sentence.

623
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Speaker 2: I mean, just like that, you go to the UNI,

624
00:28:08,560 --> 00:28:09,000
Speaker 2: that rega.

625
00:28:10,920 --> 00:28:15,520
Speaker 1: I must have that many fucking people. The biggest university

626
00:28:15,640 --> 00:28:20,320
Speaker 1: is in here, sick. Sorry.

627
00:28:20,320 --> 00:28:22,040
Speaker 2: I thought you just like wanted to add in the conversation.

628
00:28:22,119 --> 00:28:23,440
Speaker 2: You know, I wanted to be I wanted to have

629
00:28:23,480 --> 00:28:33,960
Speaker 2: the last words in that conversation. All right, to.

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Speaker 1: Everybody, thank you for listening. We now have a brief

631
00:28:37,280 --> 00:28:41,880
Speaker 1: paragraph from our up and coming inspiring PhD candidate in podcasting,

632
00:28:42,760 --> 00:28:45,840
Speaker 1: mister Jake Mitchell Craig. Could you please read us a

633
00:28:45,840 --> 00:28:46,640
Speaker 1: piece from your book.

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00:28:46,760 --> 00:28:48,440
Speaker 3: Yes, this is my book, one hundred and nine Things

635
00:28:48,440 --> 00:28:49,920
Speaker 3: to Say to Shadow the mail Lego had a piss

636
00:28:49,960 --> 00:28:52,200
Speaker 3: man off. I wrote it with Carle Preu. Yes, he

637
00:28:52,200 --> 00:28:53,720
Speaker 3: helped me out on that. He's trying to help me

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00:28:53,760 --> 00:29:01,280
Speaker 3: get my doctorate. Okay, this one here, page thirteen. So

639
00:29:01,320 --> 00:29:05,280
Speaker 3: it says underneath it says men hate being discussed because

640
00:29:05,320 --> 00:29:09,720
Speaker 3: it's how they get caught. So you say, quote, oh,

641
00:29:09,800 --> 00:29:13,720
Speaker 3: trust me, we've talked about it. Yeah, I didn't write

642
00:29:13,720 --> 00:29:14,440
Speaker 3: this page, Carl.

643
00:29:14,280 --> 00:29:21,880
Speaker 1: Wrote, go again, Okay that PhD is looking for this

644
00:29:22,000 --> 00:29:23,800
Speaker 1: next one more like a bachelor's degree.

645
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Speaker 2: Mate, I hope you know who this guy is.

646
00:29:25,640 --> 00:29:30,520
Speaker 3: Okay, so you say quote you remind me of James

647
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Speaker 3: Cordon You know who that is. When he asks why

648
00:29:34,200 --> 00:29:37,560
Speaker 3: you've said such a thing, respond with, oh, you're just

649
00:29:37,640 --> 00:29:40,040
Speaker 3: as funny. Sorry, Oh you're just funny in the way

650
00:29:40,080 --> 00:29:43,800
Speaker 3: that he's funny. Even men who like James Corden don't

651
00:29:43,840 --> 00:29:45,840
Speaker 3: want to be James Corden.

652
00:29:45,800 --> 00:29:46,360
Speaker 2: Which is fair.

653
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Speaker 1: Why don't they want to be?

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Speaker 2: I don't know. I think he's a bit of like

655
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Speaker 2: a sellout or something. Who knows I wouldn't want to be.

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00:29:52,320 --> 00:29:54,320
Speaker 1: Well, my piece of advice is I.

657
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Speaker 2: Wouldn't want to have his bank account.

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Speaker 1: But keep working on your book, mate. I was good.

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Speaker 1: That was pretty shoot. But thanks everybody for listening. If

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Speaker 1: you have any ways to piss man off, let us

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Speaker 1: know and we can read them out from you.

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Speaker 2: Guys.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we'll keep doing check need some help, but we

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Speaker 1: love your five star Patreon extra episode every single week.

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Speaker 1: Facebook group batties is going great. Going to be a

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