1 00:00:00,720 --> 00:00:02,520 Speaker 1: The Fitz and Whipper podcast. 2 00:00:02,840 --> 00:00:05,720 Speaker 2: Interesting guys, stut have got here? And I had no 3 00:00:05,800 --> 00:00:07,680 Speaker 2: idea this was going on? And it makes you question. 4 00:00:07,800 --> 00:00:09,760 Speaker 2: Look around the room here, at your team members, and 5 00:00:10,080 --> 00:00:11,879 Speaker 2: if you're on a building site even have a lot 6 00:00:11,920 --> 00:00:15,200 Speaker 2: of the fellows. I look around and go who who's 7 00:00:15,240 --> 00:00:18,520 Speaker 2: doing it? Apparently up to sixty percent of your workplaces 8 00:00:18,560 --> 00:00:20,520 Speaker 2: watching adult material at work? 9 00:00:21,560 --> 00:00:22,680 Speaker 3: What a place to do it? 10 00:00:23,760 --> 00:00:26,640 Speaker 4: I mean, look, I know that there's addictions out there, 11 00:00:26,640 --> 00:00:28,000 Speaker 4: and I've heard about this before. 12 00:00:28,320 --> 00:00:31,120 Speaker 3: Does anyone know who's had an addiction to this area? 13 00:00:31,280 --> 00:00:32,560 Speaker 3: Where are you looking at? Tom? 14 00:00:32,640 --> 00:00:32,880 Speaker 5: No? 15 00:00:32,880 --> 00:00:35,440 Speaker 4: No, no, no, it doesn't have to be yourselves, But 16 00:00:35,760 --> 00:00:37,760 Speaker 4: does anyone know anyone that's had an addiction? 17 00:00:38,280 --> 00:00:39,879 Speaker 3: Do you remember there was a bit like that? 18 00:00:39,960 --> 00:00:42,879 Speaker 1: Okay, there was that new story about the UK Parliament 19 00:00:43,040 --> 00:00:45,159 Speaker 1: Terry and who got axed because he was sitting in 20 00:00:45,200 --> 00:00:48,640 Speaker 1: parliament thought he was looking at tractors and on a 21 00:00:48,640 --> 00:00:50,960 Speaker 1: couple of occasions was looking at what. 22 00:00:50,880 --> 00:00:53,959 Speaker 3: Did he google? No it was it was big wheels. 23 00:00:54,120 --> 00:00:58,600 Speaker 3: It was a couple getting intimate on a tractor, was it? Yes? Right? 24 00:00:58,720 --> 00:01:00,840 Speaker 1: And the first time he found that accidentally, and then 25 00:01:00,880 --> 00:01:03,040 Speaker 1: the second time he just wanted to make sure that 26 00:01:03,080 --> 00:01:03,520 Speaker 1: he got the link. 27 00:01:03,720 --> 00:01:04,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, he was. 28 00:01:04,360 --> 00:01:06,120 Speaker 2: He wanted to send it to a mate. His issue 29 00:01:06,160 --> 00:01:08,119 Speaker 2: was that he admitted it. Remember he said, the first 30 00:01:08,160 --> 00:01:11,200 Speaker 2: time I stumbled across it, I thought, oh, this is 31 00:01:11,240 --> 00:01:13,240 Speaker 2: an accident. So I got out of that and then 32 00:01:13,280 --> 00:01:16,080 Speaker 2: went back and had another look another admit to it mate. 33 00:01:16,120 --> 00:01:20,360 Speaker 2: Sixty percent. They say that you might be misunderstanding why 34 00:01:20,400 --> 00:01:25,880 Speaker 2: they're using it. It's a stress release leaf mechanism, please relief. 35 00:01:26,040 --> 00:01:28,559 Speaker 1: Did you ever find growing up? Though? After eight thirty 36 00:01:28,600 --> 00:01:31,000 Speaker 1: on SBS they. 37 00:01:30,959 --> 00:01:32,160 Speaker 3: Did say do you know what? 38 00:01:32,240 --> 00:01:35,160 Speaker 2: And then there was a show called Sex that came 39 00:01:35,200 --> 00:01:39,360 Speaker 2: out that Sophie Lee hosted, and I remember Cops was 40 00:01:39,360 --> 00:01:41,560 Speaker 2: on at the same time, and I used to say 41 00:01:41,600 --> 00:01:43,479 Speaker 2: to Mom and Dad, I'm just going to watch Cops 42 00:01:43,520 --> 00:01:45,560 Speaker 2: in the other room, and oh my god, that's a 43 00:01:45,600 --> 00:01:46,200 Speaker 2: set of And. 44 00:01:46,160 --> 00:01:48,120 Speaker 4: That wasn't the only thing that was popping it in 45 00:01:48,120 --> 00:01:51,040 Speaker 4: that that was under arrest. 46 00:01:51,720 --> 00:01:53,760 Speaker 2: I rested myself a couple of times. 47 00:01:54,320 --> 00:01:57,040 Speaker 3: Show was he actually used to talk to mates. 48 00:02:02,960 --> 00:02:06,160 Speaker 2: And to think I'm still doing that these days forty 49 00:02:06,240 --> 00:02:06,800 Speaker 2: years later. 50 00:02:07,120 --> 00:02:07,640 Speaker 3: At work. 51 00:02:07,720 --> 00:02:11,040 Speaker 2: Mind you, if you ever hear me seeing the Cops 52 00:02:11,080 --> 00:02:13,880 Speaker 2: theme my desk, you know what's going on. 53 00:02:14,120 --> 00:02:16,440 Speaker 3: We've been singing bandles again. Let's get out of here. 54 00:02:18,840 --> 00:02:20,639 Speaker 2: Four ten. We want to know if you've seen a 55 00:02:20,680 --> 00:02:23,160 Speaker 2: work colleague or you're aware of this in the workplace. 56 00:02:23,280 --> 00:02:25,960 Speaker 3: Is this you were a fellow employee, Daryl. 57 00:02:25,880 --> 00:02:28,960 Speaker 6: Well, not at work, but growing up, Sarah was saying 58 00:02:28,960 --> 00:02:32,160 Speaker 6: before about SBS. My dad used to tape sds. Say 59 00:02:32,160 --> 00:02:34,880 Speaker 6: to be right, he's the video when your mum's out. 60 00:02:34,680 --> 00:02:39,600 Speaker 2: Watch it, So Daddy give you the tip off? Is 61 00:02:39,639 --> 00:02:41,560 Speaker 2: that for educational purposes Darryl? 62 00:02:41,680 --> 00:02:45,440 Speaker 4: Course, of course, any any particular show or they just 63 00:02:45,560 --> 00:02:46,760 Speaker 4: world movies, Daryl. 64 00:02:46,800 --> 00:02:48,720 Speaker 6: They were all the blue movies that were on SBS. 65 00:02:49,080 --> 00:02:51,200 Speaker 6: They're on late at night, and he'd say, up and 66 00:02:51,240 --> 00:02:53,640 Speaker 6: take them for me back in the old VHS days, right. 67 00:02:53,600 --> 00:02:55,200 Speaker 2: He'd say, son, I've had a look at this one. 68 00:02:55,200 --> 00:02:57,799 Speaker 2: It's worth a run, it's funny, or or leave. 69 00:02:57,680 --> 00:02:59,920 Speaker 6: It at the spot that it needed to be at. 70 00:03:00,360 --> 00:03:05,200 Speaker 3: It's weird content. Did you accidentally stumble across knee mate? 71 00:03:05,400 --> 00:03:07,560 Speaker 7: It was a long time ago. When I was probably 72 00:03:07,560 --> 00:03:10,400 Speaker 7: the age of seven, my father took me to a 73 00:03:10,480 --> 00:03:13,440 Speaker 7: video store to watch a video, you know, and I 74 00:03:13,600 --> 00:03:16,680 Speaker 7: was a big fan of superheroes, as every little kid is. 75 00:03:17,120 --> 00:03:18,679 Speaker 7: I was a fan of flashboarden. 76 00:03:18,919 --> 00:03:22,760 Speaker 4: Yes, remember that movie, the original flash I love that movie. 77 00:03:23,600 --> 00:03:26,000 Speaker 7: Lo and Behold my old man gets me flashboardon. 78 00:03:30,320 --> 00:03:32,600 Speaker 3: Is there such thing? Are you joking? 79 00:03:33,200 --> 00:03:37,720 Speaker 7: No, this is serious, but an honest mistake. We get home, 80 00:03:38,320 --> 00:03:38,720 Speaker 7: put it. 81 00:03:38,680 --> 00:03:39,520 Speaker 6: On and yeah. 82 00:03:39,720 --> 00:03:42,120 Speaker 7: Like coming from an Italian background, my dad wasn't too 83 00:03:42,160 --> 00:03:44,120 Speaker 7: impressed with the guy the videos to way. 84 00:03:44,240 --> 00:03:45,080 Speaker 6: It was his fault. 85 00:03:45,120 --> 00:03:47,280 Speaker 2: My dad Tom got an education. 86 00:03:49,880 --> 00:03:56,120 Speaker 3: Oh my god, every one of us a podcast. I 87 00:03:56,240 --> 00:03:56,560 Speaker 3: like this. 88 00:03:56,920 --> 00:03:58,680 Speaker 2: I think this is clever, and I think this is 89 00:03:58,720 --> 00:04:01,520 Speaker 2: where we've come to. There's a new term being thrown around. 90 00:04:01,560 --> 00:04:04,360 Speaker 2: It's called quite quitting. So it's to do with your work, 91 00:04:04,680 --> 00:04:07,520 Speaker 2: to do with your commitment to your job and the 92 00:04:07,560 --> 00:04:10,040 Speaker 2: fact that you no longer need to quit and hand 93 00:04:10,080 --> 00:04:15,200 Speaker 2: in your notice. Instead you just quiet quit. Quite quit 94 00:04:15,600 --> 00:04:18,520 Speaker 2: involves the rejection of the idea that work has to 95 00:04:18,560 --> 00:04:21,400 Speaker 2: take over your life. So this is kind of after 96 00:04:21,440 --> 00:04:24,719 Speaker 2: the pandemic and we realized how important time was and 97 00:04:24,760 --> 00:04:27,320 Speaker 2: how much we wanted to get out there, and when 98 00:04:27,320 --> 00:04:30,279 Speaker 2: we couldn't, we realized we need to live our life 99 00:04:30,400 --> 00:04:32,599 Speaker 2: to the fullest. And that's what it comes down to. 100 00:04:33,200 --> 00:04:36,440 Speaker 2: So it's about that mindset. It's a shift of being 101 00:04:36,440 --> 00:04:39,960 Speaker 2: able to say work and climbing the corporate ladder really 102 00:04:40,160 --> 00:04:41,080 Speaker 2: means nothing. 103 00:04:41,200 --> 00:04:42,360 Speaker 3: It's an interesting one. 104 00:04:42,560 --> 00:04:44,600 Speaker 4: I think as I've got older, the number one thing 105 00:04:44,640 --> 00:04:47,080 Speaker 4: that I've realized is that if try, You've got to 106 00:04:47,080 --> 00:04:49,720 Speaker 4: try to eliminate stress in your life, because you know what, 107 00:04:49,800 --> 00:04:52,839 Speaker 4: for years and years there the little and it's sweating 108 00:04:52,839 --> 00:04:55,520 Speaker 4: on the small things in your life, right. 109 00:04:55,279 --> 00:04:58,600 Speaker 3: And it's unchangeable and it builds up. 110 00:04:58,640 --> 00:05:00,920 Speaker 4: Sarah, this is the thing, you know, with work and 111 00:05:00,960 --> 00:05:03,120 Speaker 4: little things at work that really p i'd over less 112 00:05:03,160 --> 00:05:03,520 Speaker 4: you off. 113 00:05:03,760 --> 00:05:06,000 Speaker 3: You're like, no, I just don't want this to happen. 114 00:05:06,240 --> 00:05:08,039 Speaker 4: But the day that you let go of that and 115 00:05:08,080 --> 00:05:10,080 Speaker 4: you can say no to things I don't want to 116 00:05:10,080 --> 00:05:11,880 Speaker 4: do this or I think. 117 00:05:11,960 --> 00:05:14,880 Speaker 3: I'm not going to let that worry no, it changes 118 00:05:14,920 --> 00:05:15,480 Speaker 3: your life. 119 00:05:16,000 --> 00:05:17,320 Speaker 2: I think I've got a hell of a lot better. 120 00:05:17,480 --> 00:05:19,240 Speaker 2: And I think it comes down to once you go 121 00:05:19,320 --> 00:05:22,760 Speaker 2: through the transformation of you know, worrying or panicking about 122 00:05:22,839 --> 00:05:25,840 Speaker 2: or being uncomfortable about things. Through the process, you get 123 00:05:25,839 --> 00:05:27,920 Speaker 2: to start to you just don't care. I just don't care. 124 00:05:28,279 --> 00:05:30,320 Speaker 2: And it goes on to say, so you're not quitting 125 00:05:30,320 --> 00:05:33,479 Speaker 2: a job, that's not what's happening. So you're still performing 126 00:05:33,520 --> 00:05:35,920 Speaker 2: your duties, but you're no longer subscribing to the hustle 127 00:05:35,960 --> 00:05:38,680 Speaker 2: and the culture mentality of what work can be in 128 00:05:38,720 --> 00:05:41,520 Speaker 2: your life. So and I think too when you look 129 00:05:41,520 --> 00:05:44,200 Speaker 2: at it, I mean, even in myself, I'm not spending 130 00:05:44,200 --> 00:05:46,440 Speaker 2: money the way I used to spend money, like I 131 00:05:46,480 --> 00:05:50,240 Speaker 2: want to spend my money on NonStop activities and adventures. 132 00:05:50,520 --> 00:05:53,960 Speaker 2: And it's the idea of saving as well, to think 133 00:05:54,000 --> 00:05:56,200 Speaker 2: you've got to own your own home. You don't have 134 00:05:56,279 --> 00:05:58,719 Speaker 2: to own your own home if you're in a rentful life, 135 00:05:58,760 --> 00:06:00,720 Speaker 2: which a lot of people do, and you want to 136 00:06:00,760 --> 00:06:04,400 Speaker 2: take your money that you're actually saving for adventures, spend 137 00:06:04,400 --> 00:06:06,159 Speaker 2: that money on getting out there, spend that money on 138 00:06:06,320 --> 00:06:07,800 Speaker 2: creating memories with your family. 139 00:06:08,160 --> 00:06:08,360 Speaker 3: You know. 140 00:06:08,440 --> 00:06:10,760 Speaker 2: You don't have to go and buy Commonwealth Bank shares, 141 00:06:11,000 --> 00:06:13,080 Speaker 2: you know, which was such a such a way of 142 00:06:13,240 --> 00:06:16,560 Speaker 2: looking at setting yourself up financially in older generations and 143 00:06:16,640 --> 00:06:17,760 Speaker 2: time before. 144 00:06:17,480 --> 00:06:19,800 Speaker 1: You can quite quit for quite a while before any 145 00:06:19,839 --> 00:06:20,760 Speaker 1: of your boss is noted. 146 00:06:20,800 --> 00:06:23,760 Speaker 2: But don't you giving up. 147 00:06:23,880 --> 00:06:24,840 Speaker 3: That's the thing, MDG. 148 00:06:25,000 --> 00:06:27,760 Speaker 2: You're not, that's the idea. You're still completing your task 149 00:06:27,800 --> 00:06:30,440 Speaker 2: and you're still doing what you've been asked to do 150 00:06:30,680 --> 00:06:32,960 Speaker 2: so you're still filling your role and your job is done. 151 00:06:33,080 --> 00:06:35,640 Speaker 1: You avoid the politics and getting it quest about the 152 00:06:35,680 --> 00:06:38,400 Speaker 1: things you can't actually control, and thinking that it has 153 00:06:38,440 --> 00:06:39,760 Speaker 1: to be so much bigger than it is. 154 00:06:40,160 --> 00:06:43,719 Speaker 2: Scotty doesn't subscribe to the theory of quite quitting. What 155 00:06:43,760 --> 00:06:45,600 Speaker 2: do you reckon, Scotty, Well, I'm. 156 00:06:45,440 --> 00:06:48,559 Speaker 5: Just there's no more workmanship or pride in anyone's work. 157 00:06:48,760 --> 00:06:52,000 Speaker 5: Like I'm in the building industry and every different trades like, oh, 158 00:06:52,000 --> 00:06:54,640 Speaker 5: it's not my problem, that's not my job. Yeah, some 159 00:06:54,720 --> 00:06:57,479 Speaker 5: pride in your work. Do the job properly. Otherwise the 160 00:06:57,560 --> 00:06:59,280 Speaker 5: buyer of the house or whatnot. At the end of 161 00:06:59,320 --> 00:07:00,400 Speaker 5: it's but to defect your house. 162 00:07:00,440 --> 00:07:03,520 Speaker 2: And but that's up the builder as well, Scott, isn't it. 163 00:07:03,960 --> 00:07:06,560 Speaker 5: Yeah, But it comes back to the person that's at work. Yeah, 164 00:07:06,640 --> 00:07:09,640 Speaker 5: it's gotta being lazy. I don't agree with the politics 165 00:07:09,840 --> 00:07:12,080 Speaker 5: work like, stay out of all the bs and whatnot. 166 00:07:12,560 --> 00:07:14,120 Speaker 5: To have pride in the job you're doing. 167 00:07:14,280 --> 00:07:16,200 Speaker 3: You're still supposed to do your job properly. 168 00:07:16,240 --> 00:07:18,560 Speaker 2: You're just supposed to allow other things in your life 169 00:07:18,840 --> 00:07:19,600 Speaker 2: in your own time. 170 00:07:19,800 --> 00:07:23,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, you know what, I'm done for the day. The 171 00:07:23,360 --> 00:07:24,680 Speaker 3: Fins and Whipper Podcast