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Speaker 1: This is the Fits In with Her with Kate Richie podcast.

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Speaker 1: Can we talk about this? Do you dislike your partner's

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Speaker 1: hobby like an a into something that you just don't

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Speaker 1: understand where you're almost embarrassed by what they do because

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Speaker 1: it's a little bit out there, but that's their interest

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Speaker 1: on the side, and you love the person that they are.

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Speaker 1: But when they have that bit that they go and do,

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Speaker 1: or go and play with, or go and be, you're

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Speaker 1: not really interested. One guy's come out and said, I

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Speaker 1: don't know what to do. We don't know what to

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Speaker 1: do about my girlfriend. She has a hobby and it's

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Speaker 1: quite successful online, which is great news, and she's recently

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Speaker 1: spent over her twenty five thousand dollars. She's a young

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Speaker 1: woman and she calls herself Jade the Fur, and she

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Speaker 1: dresses up as a giant dog and pretends to be

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Speaker 1: a door.

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Speaker 2: Furs there or faux furs because my wife and my

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Speaker 2: mother have a special bond through vintage clothing, so they

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Speaker 2: just hang out. How's this yesterday? I said, because it

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Speaker 2: was at three o'clock and Hue was at school. First

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Speaker 2: day at school, Kate, and I said, are you going?

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Speaker 2: I thought i'd better Bej's not home. I said, so

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Speaker 2: I rang, and I said, do you want me to

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Speaker 2: pick up Hue or are you picking it? And she goes, oh,

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Speaker 2: I'm picking him up? Said where you boot? She goes, oh,

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Speaker 2: we went to Savers, which is like an opshop, because

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Speaker 2: it was senior discount day, and I took your mother

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Speaker 2: with me so I could get an extra twenty percent.

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Speaker 3: Of Oh my god, does she even like your mother?

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Speaker 3: Does she just take Claire out on a Monday any money?

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Speaker 2: They are best mates, Kate, and.

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Speaker 3: She comes with benefits. She's a friends with benefits your mother,

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Speaker 3: isn't she the twenty percent discount.

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Speaker 2: On Mondays Senior days at Savers.

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Speaker 1: This bloke has gone on to say the most embarrassing

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Speaker 1: moment is when she's had a couple of drinks. We'll

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Speaker 1: have a friend around, I'll have a mate round. She'll

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Speaker 1: think it's impressive to go and put on her twenty

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Speaker 1: five thousand dollar dog suit and come out in the

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Speaker 1: living room. While they're sitting there, and all of a

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Speaker 1: sudden you hear a scratching at the carpet and then

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Speaker 1: a wolf and the girlfriend's gone and put the dog

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Speaker 1: suit on. She's she's come out and said, please, don't

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Speaker 1: judge me. Don't judge me unless you've tried it yourself.

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Speaker 1: I have no interest in dressing up as a giant dog.

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Speaker 2: Are you judging?

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Speaker 1: She then yeah, I'm judging. She then she then says

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Speaker 1: I'm trying.

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Speaker 3: I'm not judging.

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Speaker 2: Sorry.

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Speaker 1: She says to the boyfriend when it's time to go

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Speaker 1: to bed, why don't we hop into the cannel.

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Speaker 2: No, she doesn't come to territory. Yeah she does.

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Speaker 1: She wears all over the carpet and then the boyfriend

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Speaker 1: robs her nose in it and says, don't do that,

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Speaker 1: go outside you or anything. And that's what we call kinky play.

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Speaker 3: That's called abuse.

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Speaker 1: That's called abuse. Thirteen twenty four. What's your partner's hobby

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Speaker 1: that you just can't get into? Go on?

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Speaker 3: Well, I don't know, but like what about train sets

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Speaker 3: or like damn collecting? Yeah, although I mean stamps and

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Speaker 3: coins are kind of cute because usually you've been given

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Speaker 3: them from your grandma or something like I like that

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Speaker 3: old stuff that was in the cake tin at the

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Speaker 3: top of the cupboard, Like my husband used to have

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Speaker 3: coins like that.

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Speaker 2: Nan Tom's all. She collection is pretty pretty impressive. I've

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Speaker 2: got one that's worth eighteen thousand dollars.

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Speaker 1: Guys A red Goldman FUSSA, Well, we had a girl

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Speaker 1: in the studio a while ago. Tell me, might have

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Speaker 1: even been for traffic dating. One of her hobbies was

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Speaker 1: like World of Warcraft or something. It was like a

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Speaker 1: computer game, and that's how she also met guys too

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Speaker 1: through World Well.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I know, no, not Minecraft. There was something that's

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Speaker 3: dungeons and dragons. The thing is when you meet, at

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Speaker 3: least if you met someone through a hobby, you may

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Speaker 3: share that hobby and once you're together, you don't have

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Speaker 3: a leg to stand on. You don't you met them

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Speaker 3: when they had that whole. But if you've started dating

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Speaker 3: them and then all of a sudden they're out one

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Speaker 3: day and you look in their sports bag in the

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Speaker 3: laundry and you're like, what the actual Okay?

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Speaker 1: If you do it on a date, right, and then

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Speaker 1: you guys caught up on a date, If you went

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Speaker 1: on a date round to his house and then all

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Speaker 1: of a sudden he's just playing a bit of Fortnight

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Speaker 1: on the PS five, Would you be into a guy

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Speaker 1: that likes a bit of gaming?

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Speaker 3: No, no, absolutely not, because it's indicatable to me. Lack

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Speaker 3: of life. No, not life. I know we all have interest,

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Speaker 3: but like, come on, guys, get up, get out of

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Speaker 3: the house, done live your life.

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Speaker 2: One of my first girlfriends in primary school we bonded

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Speaker 2: over Choose your Own Adventure with those books great. So

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Speaker 2: when you get to the end of the page, you

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Speaker 2: get to the fork in the road, if you roll

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Speaker 2: the dice, if you get a if you get a

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Speaker 2: four or more, go to page eighty six. And we

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Speaker 2: used to look at each other and go, oh my god,

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Speaker 2: this is going to be massive. Where are we going

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Speaker 2: to end out?

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Speaker 1: No, let's both go to page eighty six. It gets

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Speaker 1: awkward if we don't go to the same page.

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Speaker 2: It's kind of difficult to read.

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