1 00:00:01,400 --> 00:00:05,000 Speaker 1: It is the City with Taki podcast. 2 00:00:05,640 --> 00:00:12,479 Speaker 2: Welcome to the podcast. I'll get involved here. Pros and cons. Yes, 3 00:00:12,720 --> 00:00:15,000 Speaker 2: I love that we're doing that on the show again 4 00:00:15,080 --> 00:00:17,720 Speaker 2: these days, because whether you like it or not, I mean, 5 00:00:17,760 --> 00:00:20,680 Speaker 2: life can be busy. There's always something that weighs on 6 00:00:20,720 --> 00:00:22,640 Speaker 2: your mind. Should you be no, you go? 7 00:00:23,040 --> 00:00:27,840 Speaker 3: I don't think that you get the honest feedback from 8 00:00:27,920 --> 00:00:28,520 Speaker 3: your friends. 9 00:00:29,080 --> 00:00:29,680 Speaker 2: You don't think so? 10 00:00:30,160 --> 00:00:31,800 Speaker 4: Well, it depends what kind of friend they are, do 11 00:00:31,840 --> 00:00:32,360 Speaker 4: you know what I mean? 12 00:00:32,400 --> 00:00:34,680 Speaker 3: So if you call us with the pros and cons list, 13 00:00:34,760 --> 00:00:37,920 Speaker 3: we can sort of subjectively look at the position you're 14 00:00:37,960 --> 00:00:39,280 Speaker 3: in and make a decision for you. 15 00:00:39,400 --> 00:00:41,919 Speaker 2: Well, I think what was obvious today. I think what 16 00:00:41,960 --> 00:00:44,920 Speaker 2: will be obvious from this edition of pros and cons though, 17 00:00:45,040 --> 00:00:48,519 Speaker 2: is that sometimes you're saying that we could be what 18 00:00:48,560 --> 00:00:51,040 Speaker 2: did you call us? We can be subjective, subjective? 19 00:00:51,120 --> 00:00:52,120 Speaker 5: Well, it all. 20 00:00:51,960 --> 00:00:54,640 Speaker 2: Depends on It all depends on the mood for people 21 00:00:54,680 --> 00:00:55,720 Speaker 2: making the decisions. 22 00:00:55,760 --> 00:00:57,840 Speaker 4: And apparently I was a bit cranky, but I don't 23 00:00:57,840 --> 00:00:58,440 Speaker 4: think I was. 24 00:00:58,480 --> 00:01:01,000 Speaker 6: If you just wanted to dump everybody, you have ruined 25 00:01:01,200 --> 00:01:03,760 Speaker 6: a lot of relationships over the last few weeks, and 26 00:01:03,800 --> 00:01:05,240 Speaker 6: I feel sorry for all. 27 00:01:05,080 --> 00:01:08,680 Speaker 5: These poor ladies that are just crying at home. 28 00:01:08,520 --> 00:01:08,760 Speaker 2: On the. 29 00:01:10,400 --> 00:01:14,440 Speaker 6: Because they've left their partner because their partner has a twitch. 30 00:01:15,200 --> 00:01:18,280 Speaker 2: It's just nothing to do with the twitch. One door shuts, 31 00:01:18,520 --> 00:01:22,400 Speaker 2: another door opens. It's all on the podcast. 32 00:01:22,880 --> 00:01:25,800 Speaker 1: This is the Fitsy and Whipper with Kate Richie podcast. 33 00:01:26,080 --> 00:01:28,679 Speaker 5: Let's focus on the sense of smell. 34 00:01:29,000 --> 00:01:33,800 Speaker 6: And it's amazing how a scent or an aroma can 35 00:01:33,920 --> 00:01:37,200 Speaker 6: transport you back to a place in your life. 36 00:01:37,280 --> 00:01:40,640 Speaker 3: Do you find with perfumes that might remind you of 37 00:01:40,680 --> 00:01:42,560 Speaker 3: an ex girlfriend or something like that. 38 00:01:42,920 --> 00:01:44,520 Speaker 5: You can be definitely. 39 00:01:44,040 --> 00:01:46,800 Speaker 3: Walking past it in the street, and you'll go and 40 00:01:46,880 --> 00:01:49,160 Speaker 3: you end up following another girl and you're just sort 41 00:01:49,200 --> 00:01:50,320 Speaker 3: of sniffing behind her ear. 42 00:01:51,920 --> 00:01:54,840 Speaker 6: I remember that summer holiday with her, Yes, and she 43 00:01:54,960 --> 00:01:57,520 Speaker 6: nuzzled into my neck. They're the things that you do remember. 44 00:01:57,680 --> 00:01:59,920 Speaker 6: What I want to focus on this morning is just 45 00:02:00,000 --> 00:02:04,760 Speaker 6: disgusting smells. Though that seemed to get you quite excited. 46 00:02:04,960 --> 00:02:10,000 Speaker 6: Oh thirteen, twenty fourteen. If there's an aroma out there 47 00:02:10,080 --> 00:02:15,040 Speaker 6: right that people usually find disgusting, but you don't mind it, okay? 48 00:02:15,080 --> 00:02:17,320 Speaker 6: Because I went out an ex girlfriend that I went 49 00:02:17,320 --> 00:02:21,639 Speaker 6: out with, she said that she didn't shower, did she well, no, no, 50 00:02:21,800 --> 00:02:23,960 Speaker 6: she she loved it after. 51 00:02:23,760 --> 00:02:26,960 Speaker 5: I came home on a big night, on a big night. 52 00:02:27,040 --> 00:02:29,040 Speaker 5: House love a boozy man. 53 00:02:29,400 --> 00:02:32,440 Speaker 6: She loved the smell after a big night out. And 54 00:02:32,480 --> 00:02:35,400 Speaker 6: I was like, you're serious, it's gross, and she said no. 55 00:02:36,120 --> 00:02:37,560 Speaker 6: Actually got me quite excited. 56 00:02:37,880 --> 00:02:40,040 Speaker 3: I knew a girl and she would love it when 57 00:02:40,080 --> 00:02:43,040 Speaker 3: her man would come home from a hard day's work, 58 00:02:43,120 --> 00:02:45,560 Speaker 3: or maybe he'd been to the gym, and she'd lie 59 00:02:45,600 --> 00:02:48,200 Speaker 3: there and just sniffy his pits. 60 00:02:48,760 --> 00:02:53,120 Speaker 6: See, this is the bo some women do love ashslast 61 00:02:53,240 --> 00:02:54,760 Speaker 6: night loves it too. 62 00:02:56,560 --> 00:02:57,839 Speaker 5: You love a sweaty man. 63 00:02:57,960 --> 00:03:01,720 Speaker 6: A young man comes home and I mean, he's a 64 00:03:01,720 --> 00:03:03,960 Speaker 6: pretty fit bloke, but if he's done a big workout, 65 00:03:04,080 --> 00:03:05,280 Speaker 6: you he's. 66 00:03:05,080 --> 00:03:07,440 Speaker 5: Got to stay away from you. Or you don't mind that. 67 00:03:07,919 --> 00:03:10,840 Speaker 2: Get in the shower. You know, there's an easy solution here. 68 00:03:11,000 --> 00:03:13,079 Speaker 5: Just jump the shower or I'll hit you with a gurney. 69 00:03:13,600 --> 00:03:16,399 Speaker 5: What about a dive bar? 70 00:03:17,040 --> 00:03:20,359 Speaker 6: Now, dive bar it's probably an American term, but a 71 00:03:20,440 --> 00:03:23,640 Speaker 6: dive bar it'd be like a like a rock. 72 00:03:23,520 --> 00:03:25,520 Speaker 5: And roll bar, you know what I mean? You know 73 00:03:25,600 --> 00:03:26,560 Speaker 5: the ones where. 74 00:03:28,000 --> 00:03:30,560 Speaker 6: We've all been to a nightclub before, where you can 75 00:03:30,680 --> 00:03:31,840 Speaker 6: smell the booze in the. 76 00:03:31,840 --> 00:03:34,400 Speaker 5: Carpet and your feet stick to the floor. 77 00:03:34,760 --> 00:03:40,480 Speaker 6: Well, Miller's beer is releasing dive bar fume, barfume, it's called. 78 00:03:40,960 --> 00:03:43,360 Speaker 6: So it's the smell of one of those bars when 79 00:03:43,360 --> 00:03:45,440 Speaker 6: you walk in after a big night out. 80 00:03:46,640 --> 00:03:49,920 Speaker 5: It's just it's just that smell that you get. 81 00:03:50,040 --> 00:03:54,320 Speaker 6: I mean, I think it opens up explores the options 82 00:03:54,320 --> 00:03:56,200 Speaker 6: of it's going to be a great night. Like we 83 00:03:56,360 --> 00:03:58,640 Speaker 6: walk into this bar, it's a dive bar. This is 84 00:03:58,640 --> 00:04:00,160 Speaker 6: going to be a great night. But it's all so 85 00:04:00,640 --> 00:04:04,240 Speaker 6: the smell of disgusting. It's like parmesan as well. Partisan 86 00:04:04,680 --> 00:04:07,520 Speaker 6: you know how well it tastes, but the smell of 87 00:04:07,560 --> 00:04:09,120 Speaker 6: it is so disgust. 88 00:04:08,760 --> 00:04:10,080 Speaker 5: It can be like a wet sock. 89 00:04:10,800 --> 00:04:13,680 Speaker 3: Well, it's like vomit. It smells like vommett. Do you 90 00:04:13,720 --> 00:04:17,560 Speaker 3: know the dive bar and the idea of that. Naturally, 91 00:04:17,560 --> 00:04:18,440 Speaker 3: as you get older, you. 92 00:04:18,360 --> 00:04:19,880 Speaker 5: Don't go to as many dive bars. 93 00:04:20,200 --> 00:04:23,120 Speaker 3: So I would say that that scent could take you 94 00:04:23,279 --> 00:04:25,920 Speaker 3: back to the days where it didn't matter what time 95 00:04:25,960 --> 00:04:27,760 Speaker 3: you got home, and it didn't matter what time you 96 00:04:27,800 --> 00:04:30,040 Speaker 3: got up the next day. Yeah, I reckon I'd be 97 00:04:30,080 --> 00:04:32,000 Speaker 3: a bit excited by the scent of a dive bar. 98 00:04:32,160 --> 00:04:36,000 Speaker 6: Well, it's got the scent of tobacco leather. Yeah, then 99 00:04:36,040 --> 00:04:39,120 Speaker 6: you've got the smell of vomit. Yeah, bit of urine, 100 00:04:39,800 --> 00:04:40,520 Speaker 6: cedar wood. 101 00:04:40,839 --> 00:04:44,880 Speaker 5: He's in there as well. Sea salt Okay, yeah, you 102 00:04:44,960 --> 00:04:47,599 Speaker 5: water chips that night to a coastal town. 103 00:04:47,640 --> 00:04:50,840 Speaker 6: I suppose if you're interrogle so you feel like you're 104 00:04:50,880 --> 00:04:53,960 Speaker 6: at the beach. It's not a bad idea. I don't 105 00:04:54,040 --> 00:04:56,320 Speaker 6: mind this. This would transport you back to youth. 106 00:04:56,440 --> 00:05:00,120 Speaker 3: Okay, scent of a dive bar, yes, maybe we a 107 00:05:00,200 --> 00:05:03,160 Speaker 3: new fragrance in twenty twenty five, Tommy, Well, I mean 108 00:05:03,240 --> 00:05:06,239 Speaker 3: Jenneric was released a long time ago, which was French 109 00:05:06,279 --> 00:05:06,839 Speaker 3: for generic. 110 00:05:06,880 --> 00:05:10,800 Speaker 5: He could use for man, woman, dog cat. It doesn't 111 00:05:10,839 --> 00:05:12,640 Speaker 5: matter what you spread it on, Tommy. 112 00:05:12,720 --> 00:05:14,520 Speaker 6: What you went to a lot of effort to get 113 00:05:14,560 --> 00:05:19,599 Speaker 6: the the aroma for Jeneric, but it actually made people 114 00:05:19,680 --> 00:05:20,680 Speaker 6: quite crooked? 115 00:05:20,680 --> 00:05:23,360 Speaker 5: Did It was a fantastic toilet spread, could cut through anything. 116 00:05:23,800 --> 00:05:26,919 Speaker 2: And there's still half a bottle left above your desk, 117 00:05:27,040 --> 00:05:27,400 Speaker 2: I think. 118 00:05:27,680 --> 00:05:30,480 Speaker 6: But you got sent the other day from Chug Charlie's 119 00:05:30,520 --> 00:05:33,000 Speaker 6: The chicken salt bath. 120 00:05:33,640 --> 00:05:35,960 Speaker 5: Yeah, the bas salts so you can feel like a 121 00:05:36,040 --> 00:05:37,120 Speaker 5: roast chicken in a bath. 122 00:05:37,279 --> 00:05:41,239 Speaker 3: In a bath gosh, you're going to need to pluck 123 00:05:41,279 --> 00:05:41,960 Speaker 3: this one first. 124 00:05:42,400 --> 00:05:46,120 Speaker 1: This is the Fitting and Whip with Kate Richie podcast. 125 00:05:47,839 --> 00:05:54,800 Speaker 7: Good bosted we. 126 00:05:56,560 --> 00:06:01,599 Speaker 5: Pros. So, Kate, have you written down your pros and cons? 127 00:06:01,720 --> 00:06:02,719 Speaker 8: What's his name? 128 00:06:03,440 --> 00:06:06,159 Speaker 6: You can change it if you want. Let's call him Barry. 129 00:06:06,320 --> 00:06:08,240 Speaker 6: How long have you been seeing Barry for? 130 00:06:08,520 --> 00:06:10,520 Speaker 4: I'm not sure the list thing works. 131 00:06:11,000 --> 00:06:12,520 Speaker 5: What do you mean pros and con? 132 00:06:12,680 --> 00:06:12,840 Speaker 2: No? 133 00:06:12,960 --> 00:06:14,520 Speaker 4: I know, I meet, I meet. 134 00:06:14,600 --> 00:06:15,760 Speaker 2: I Actually, I think it's a. 135 00:06:15,680 --> 00:06:18,359 Speaker 3: Great why we relaunched pros and cons because we've got 136 00:06:18,400 --> 00:06:21,000 Speaker 3: a phone call from someone who had met their partner 137 00:06:21,120 --> 00:06:23,720 Speaker 3: and made the decision to hang on to them and 138 00:06:23,760 --> 00:06:25,159 Speaker 3: now they're married and have children. 139 00:06:25,440 --> 00:06:27,240 Speaker 5: I want to thank you for your advice on pros 140 00:06:27,240 --> 00:06:27,480 Speaker 5: and con. 141 00:06:27,760 --> 00:06:28,680 Speaker 2: A lovely story. 142 00:06:28,800 --> 00:06:30,680 Speaker 6: I don't think it was because of this segment. But 143 00:06:30,760 --> 00:06:32,120 Speaker 6: let's go to Laura in Southerland. 144 00:06:32,160 --> 00:06:36,160 Speaker 9: Good morning, Good morning Laura. 145 00:06:36,360 --> 00:06:36,720 Speaker 2: Laura. 146 00:06:37,200 --> 00:06:40,560 Speaker 3: Let's draw that line down the middle of the page. 147 00:06:40,760 --> 00:06:42,160 Speaker 5: We have our pros and cons list. 148 00:06:42,240 --> 00:06:43,680 Speaker 3: Do you want to give us a name and how 149 00:06:43,720 --> 00:06:46,159 Speaker 3: long you've been with them? 150 00:06:46,240 --> 00:06:48,600 Speaker 9: Match? And I've been with him for two and a 151 00:06:48,600 --> 00:06:49,240 Speaker 9: half years. 152 00:06:49,400 --> 00:06:51,920 Speaker 5: What's his name is Matt? Matt? 153 00:06:52,440 --> 00:06:54,800 Speaker 6: Yeah, A simple one that sounds like she said mat 154 00:06:55,160 --> 00:06:57,120 Speaker 6: which is short short for Matthew. 155 00:06:57,560 --> 00:07:00,400 Speaker 2: Yeah. Okay, so two and a half years. Can I 156 00:07:00,440 --> 00:07:02,919 Speaker 2: ask just quickly where you met through a friend or 157 00:07:02,960 --> 00:07:03,760 Speaker 2: on a dating app? 158 00:07:04,120 --> 00:07:04,320 Speaker 5: No? 159 00:07:04,440 --> 00:07:07,880 Speaker 2: We met on hinge yep, okay, beautiful. 160 00:07:09,040 --> 00:07:12,120 Speaker 5: What do you love about the Big Bad Maddie? He 161 00:07:12,560 --> 00:07:13,360 Speaker 5: is the. 162 00:07:13,440 --> 00:07:17,200 Speaker 9: Class clown has everyone in stitches and I. 163 00:07:17,160 --> 00:07:21,120 Speaker 10: Love it so good laughter and humor. 164 00:07:21,240 --> 00:07:24,800 Speaker 9: He also has impaircable style so good. 165 00:07:25,240 --> 00:07:27,160 Speaker 5: Like everyone asks. 166 00:07:26,920 --> 00:07:29,320 Speaker 9: Him where his clothes are from, which is so much 167 00:07:29,320 --> 00:07:31,680 Speaker 9: better than someone that can't have any style. 168 00:07:32,040 --> 00:07:32,280 Speaker 8: Yeah. 169 00:07:32,400 --> 00:07:34,920 Speaker 5: What's his favorite brands? Laura? What does he like to wear. 170 00:07:36,320 --> 00:07:37,400 Speaker 9: Like Mertro Mercher? 171 00:07:37,760 --> 00:07:42,080 Speaker 5: Oh yeah, what about good stuff? 172 00:07:42,480 --> 00:07:42,760 Speaker 6: No? 173 00:07:42,960 --> 00:07:46,480 Speaker 9: He kind of is clear from the tarot cash Laura. 174 00:07:47,240 --> 00:07:49,400 Speaker 5: Any other pros that you love about Maddie. 175 00:07:51,120 --> 00:07:54,120 Speaker 9: He's really good with my family, like very very good 176 00:07:54,160 --> 00:07:57,560 Speaker 9: with kids and my parents, so everyone loves him. 177 00:07:57,600 --> 00:07:59,000 Speaker 5: It's a bit of a sweet talking. 178 00:07:59,800 --> 00:08:01,400 Speaker 2: I would say. 179 00:08:01,440 --> 00:08:05,440 Speaker 9: So he's shy, but like he's not. He's shy with 180 00:08:05,520 --> 00:08:07,920 Speaker 9: people he doesn't know dangerous. 181 00:08:07,720 --> 00:08:09,920 Speaker 2: That's just getting to that's warming up. 182 00:08:11,520 --> 00:08:13,920 Speaker 5: For them. Laura. Do you want to get into the 183 00:08:13,960 --> 00:08:15,720 Speaker 5: cons sure? 184 00:08:18,560 --> 00:08:23,320 Speaker 9: So my main thing is when he brushes his teeth. 185 00:08:24,120 --> 00:08:27,160 Speaker 9: He almost gags himself. 186 00:08:28,320 --> 00:08:31,680 Speaker 10: And you know when people brush their teeth and they 187 00:08:33,000 --> 00:08:36,320 Speaker 10: know they like brush their teeth and their tongue like 188 00:08:36,480 --> 00:08:40,280 Speaker 10: profusely goes at it, and then he'll have the truthpaste 189 00:08:40,320 --> 00:08:44,000 Speaker 10: popping around the side of and then if you're not 190 00:08:44,160 --> 00:08:47,320 Speaker 10: in the room, it sounds like he's giving something to 191 00:08:47,440 --> 00:08:51,360 Speaker 10: someone else. And then he won't and he won't wipe 192 00:08:51,440 --> 00:08:54,319 Speaker 10: his mouth afterwards like properly, so then they'll have like 193 00:08:54,440 --> 00:08:56,040 Speaker 10: white residue all around his mouth. 194 00:09:00,080 --> 00:09:01,240 Speaker 2: Stylish as well. 195 00:09:01,800 --> 00:09:03,360 Speaker 5: I know, I know, and. 196 00:09:03,320 --> 00:09:04,800 Speaker 9: I'm like, am I interrupting something? 197 00:09:05,040 --> 00:09:09,120 Speaker 6: But you would have would have magnificent breath though, Laura, 198 00:09:09,240 --> 00:09:09,920 Speaker 6: like he would be. 199 00:09:12,160 --> 00:09:14,560 Speaker 2: You can grow up, you all. I mean you push 200 00:09:14,640 --> 00:09:17,040 Speaker 2: out fire. You're putting a toothbrush in your mouth. 201 00:09:18,160 --> 00:09:19,600 Speaker 5: Yeah, you should go that far. 202 00:09:19,800 --> 00:09:24,760 Speaker 3: I've never heard anybody brush their teeth, and it sounds like. 203 00:09:24,640 --> 00:09:26,360 Speaker 2: They do when you put it on your tongue and 204 00:09:26,360 --> 00:09:28,400 Speaker 2: then you hit the back of your throat or something. 205 00:09:28,440 --> 00:09:31,640 Speaker 5: Yeah, you do know it's context, o, Kate. 206 00:09:33,880 --> 00:09:36,200 Speaker 6: I think sometimes you do have to gag just to 207 00:09:36,240 --> 00:09:38,360 Speaker 6: get right back to that stinky bit right at the 208 00:09:38,360 --> 00:09:39,120 Speaker 6: back of your tongue. 209 00:09:39,120 --> 00:09:40,800 Speaker 5: Anything else you don't like about him. 210 00:09:40,800 --> 00:09:43,200 Speaker 2: Does he use one of those tongue scrapers? 211 00:09:43,600 --> 00:09:46,520 Speaker 9: No, I should get him on for Christmas. Actually that 212 00:09:46,640 --> 00:09:47,320 Speaker 9: might help a. 213 00:09:47,360 --> 00:09:52,720 Speaker 5: Gag the issue with him on the cons list floor. 214 00:09:53,400 --> 00:09:55,199 Speaker 9: He's also pigged and toad? 215 00:10:00,840 --> 00:10:04,080 Speaker 5: Can I get an Can I get an explanation on pigeon? Toad? 216 00:10:04,080 --> 00:10:04,760 Speaker 5: What does that mean? 217 00:10:05,559 --> 00:10:07,920 Speaker 9: You walk with your toes facing inwards? 218 00:10:08,000 --> 00:10:13,880 Speaker 10: My excellence, It's like, just go get some orthotics or something. 219 00:10:19,160 --> 00:10:20,920 Speaker 4: So you may not need as well? Is a bit 220 00:10:21,000 --> 00:10:21,880 Speaker 4: knocked at the knee? 221 00:10:22,320 --> 00:10:22,720 Speaker 5: Knees? 222 00:10:24,679 --> 00:10:26,120 Speaker 9: Fine, it's just pigeon toed? 223 00:10:26,679 --> 00:10:30,280 Speaker 5: Do you know what this disgusts me? Laura and Kate? 224 00:10:30,920 --> 00:10:33,840 Speaker 6: Do you think that a relationship can be over because 225 00:10:33,920 --> 00:10:37,480 Speaker 6: some poor bloke walks with his feet facing in. 226 00:10:37,440 --> 00:10:39,760 Speaker 5: Just because he looks like he's falling forward the whole time? 227 00:10:39,800 --> 00:10:41,920 Speaker 6: And you know what, he spends a lot of a 228 00:10:41,920 --> 00:10:45,600 Speaker 6: lot of time at Westfield looking out for his outfits, 229 00:10:45,679 --> 00:10:47,960 Speaker 6: and you're there having a guard him and saying you 230 00:10:48,000 --> 00:10:51,760 Speaker 6: should end this beautiful relationship just because he walks pigeon toed. 231 00:10:51,920 --> 00:10:53,800 Speaker 2: I was just trying to have an opinion for once 232 00:10:53,880 --> 00:10:55,760 Speaker 2: and not Yeah, it is a bit. It is a 233 00:10:55,760 --> 00:10:57,760 Speaker 2: bit of a nick but hey, guess what Laura. If 234 00:10:57,800 --> 00:10:59,600 Speaker 2: you don't like the pigeon toe, how do you feel 235 00:10:59,600 --> 00:11:01,679 Speaker 2: about me to walk on their toes? You know, the 236 00:11:01,760 --> 00:11:04,360 Speaker 2: bouncy war bounce on their. 237 00:11:05,160 --> 00:11:07,960 Speaker 5: It's disgusting to hear two sisters like this. 238 00:11:08,360 --> 00:11:13,240 Speaker 3: So horrible, James, James, this is just turned into battle 239 00:11:13,280 --> 00:11:13,880 Speaker 3: of the sexes. 240 00:11:14,960 --> 00:11:19,239 Speaker 5: Okay, so hang on to him. Oh no, you've overruled. 241 00:11:19,280 --> 00:11:22,240 Speaker 5: He's gone, he's done, he's trusted. 242 00:11:23,520 --> 00:11:24,760 Speaker 4: Half years is a long time. 243 00:11:25,240 --> 00:11:27,640 Speaker 5: More pros and cons. Next, thanks to call Laura, and 244 00:11:27,679 --> 00:11:28,160 Speaker 5: he's gone. 245 00:11:29,200 --> 00:11:30,080 Speaker 10: I like hurt. 246 00:11:30,679 --> 00:11:38,280 Speaker 7: She's no good box weted. 247 00:11:38,400 --> 00:11:40,640 Speaker 5: We don't present. 248 00:11:43,080 --> 00:11:46,240 Speaker 6: Let's go straight to Becky and worry, worry would Becky? 249 00:11:46,520 --> 00:11:48,200 Speaker 5: Who's the victim? What he's known? 250 00:11:49,000 --> 00:11:49,240 Speaker 2: Dean? 251 00:11:50,120 --> 00:11:58,280 Speaker 5: You've seen Dean for j twenty four months to dinner, Dina. 252 00:11:58,840 --> 00:12:00,320 Speaker 5: One of the good things about us? 253 00:12:02,679 --> 00:12:07,800 Speaker 2: Okay, so he is a great cook. I'll give that's good. 254 00:12:07,840 --> 00:12:08,680 Speaker 5: I love a kitchen. 255 00:12:10,840 --> 00:12:12,560 Speaker 9: He's a pretty good worker. 256 00:12:12,640 --> 00:12:13,560 Speaker 2: Like he's a hard worker. 257 00:12:13,640 --> 00:12:17,600 Speaker 5: What is he doing for work? He's a carpenter double 258 00:12:22,080 --> 00:12:24,600 Speaker 5: any other good things that you must? Come on? Give 259 00:12:24,679 --> 00:12:27,480 Speaker 5: us another one, Becky, what's a pride? You know what? 260 00:12:27,600 --> 00:12:28,760 Speaker 5: He's really good with kids. 261 00:12:28,800 --> 00:12:31,959 Speaker 9: He's really good with my nieces and nephews. 262 00:12:33,920 --> 00:12:36,760 Speaker 6: Just quickly, have you guys spoken about kids? Would you 263 00:12:36,800 --> 00:12:38,040 Speaker 6: want to have kids together? 264 00:12:39,480 --> 00:12:43,880 Speaker 2: We have had that conversation. I'm not ready, he's already either, 265 00:12:43,960 --> 00:12:45,240 Speaker 2: but we have had that conversation. 266 00:12:45,400 --> 00:12:46,440 Speaker 5: I could build. 267 00:12:46,200 --> 00:12:48,520 Speaker 3: A cot, couldn't he? 268 00:12:49,320 --> 00:12:50,960 Speaker 5: Did you have another question for Becky? 269 00:12:51,559 --> 00:12:53,560 Speaker 2: I don't know whether the date thirty kids? 270 00:12:53,800 --> 00:12:55,360 Speaker 5: You know, you can ask because if. 271 00:12:55,160 --> 00:12:58,520 Speaker 2: He's no, no, no, like is everything good? 272 00:12:58,960 --> 00:13:04,120 Speaker 5: You know? Yeah? I just think two years. I don't 273 00:13:04,160 --> 00:13:09,000 Speaker 5: know what. Once a week? No? 274 00:13:09,000 --> 00:13:10,640 Speaker 4: No, no, no, anyway, let's move on. Let's go to 275 00:13:10,679 --> 00:13:12,479 Speaker 4: the cons. 276 00:13:13,320 --> 00:13:13,680 Speaker 10: Okay. 277 00:13:13,800 --> 00:13:18,080 Speaker 2: So here's a practic, big practical joker often scares me 278 00:13:18,080 --> 00:13:21,560 Speaker 2: when I'm coming around the corner, and that really grinds 279 00:13:21,600 --> 00:13:22,040 Speaker 2: my gears. 280 00:13:22,200 --> 00:13:27,720 Speaker 5: Yeah, grow up, jump, grow up? Agree? 281 00:13:29,400 --> 00:13:33,360 Speaker 2: What else? He's got a receding hairline? 282 00:13:33,640 --> 00:13:38,079 Speaker 5: And and what does he do? 283 00:13:38,240 --> 00:13:40,920 Speaker 2: But how is he It's not about the receding hairline, 284 00:13:41,360 --> 00:13:43,959 Speaker 2: it's the approach to the receding. 285 00:13:43,480 --> 00:13:45,000 Speaker 4: Hairline by him. What is he? 286 00:13:45,640 --> 00:13:48,240 Speaker 2: Is he hanging on to it for dear life? Or 287 00:13:48,280 --> 00:13:50,600 Speaker 2: is he doing it comb over or you know, like, 288 00:13:50,640 --> 00:13:51,360 Speaker 2: what's he doing? 289 00:13:52,360 --> 00:13:54,559 Speaker 9: He's definitely hanging on to it for dear life. 290 00:13:54,600 --> 00:13:57,240 Speaker 5: I have asked him to shave it, because I think 291 00:13:57,240 --> 00:13:57,960 Speaker 5: he would look great. 292 00:13:58,320 --> 00:14:00,560 Speaker 4: Yeah, there's nothing wrong with no hair. 293 00:14:00,920 --> 00:14:01,120 Speaker 10: Yeah. 294 00:14:01,240 --> 00:14:04,480 Speaker 3: What's also interesting is if you're surprised by the receding 295 00:14:04,480 --> 00:14:08,400 Speaker 3: hairline and surprised by him jumping around the corner, that's 296 00:14:08,440 --> 00:14:09,240 Speaker 3: a double surprise. 297 00:14:09,320 --> 00:14:15,200 Speaker 2: And I thought a practical joker with a receding hairline, 298 00:14:15,200 --> 00:14:16,280 Speaker 2: you might be dating whip. 299 00:14:17,880 --> 00:14:20,520 Speaker 6: And there's nothing worse than someone trying to hold onto 300 00:14:20,560 --> 00:14:23,240 Speaker 6: what Becky taking medicine to hold on to. 301 00:14:23,480 --> 00:14:25,040 Speaker 5: Have a receding hairline? Becky? 302 00:14:25,120 --> 00:14:27,200 Speaker 3: Anything else you don't like besides the practical joke and 303 00:14:27,240 --> 00:14:28,800 Speaker 3: receding hairline thinning? 304 00:14:29,680 --> 00:14:30,840 Speaker 5: You know what when we go to the beach. 305 00:14:30,880 --> 00:14:33,440 Speaker 9: We live in Australia, Yeah you do? Is she be 306 00:14:33,440 --> 00:14:34,240 Speaker 9: able to swim? 307 00:14:35,840 --> 00:14:39,520 Speaker 5: Swim? Oh? That's true. 308 00:14:40,120 --> 00:14:41,120 Speaker 2: Why can't he swim? 309 00:14:41,200 --> 00:14:41,280 Speaker 6: Right? 310 00:14:41,400 --> 00:14:41,480 Speaker 5: Like? 311 00:14:41,520 --> 00:14:44,160 Speaker 2: What did he You know you're in Worrywood for goodness sake. 312 00:14:44,280 --> 00:14:45,360 Speaker 5: What'steen's background? 313 00:14:45,440 --> 00:14:52,640 Speaker 9: Is he pyp No, he's Australian. He goes to the 314 00:14:52,680 --> 00:14:54,360 Speaker 9: beach but likes to sit on the sand. 315 00:14:56,600 --> 00:15:00,960 Speaker 2: Did he have a bad experience with a blue bottle once? No? 316 00:15:01,360 --> 00:15:02,920 Speaker 5: Hey, can I ask Becky? 317 00:15:02,920 --> 00:15:04,960 Speaker 3: I've got a friend and he's forty four years old 318 00:15:05,280 --> 00:15:09,080 Speaker 3: and He's just started getting swimming lessons and I commend 319 00:15:09,160 --> 00:15:10,840 Speaker 3: him for doing that because he wants to be able 320 00:15:10,840 --> 00:15:15,720 Speaker 3: to swim obviously. So have you said to Dean something like, Hey, 321 00:15:15,960 --> 00:15:18,160 Speaker 3: you know you'd really enjoy the ocean and the beach. 322 00:15:18,920 --> 00:15:20,800 Speaker 3: Would you take up lessons so you can have some 323 00:15:20,840 --> 00:15:21,720 Speaker 3: confidence in the water. 324 00:15:22,480 --> 00:15:24,760 Speaker 9: Well, I've tried to teach him because I can swim, 325 00:15:25,240 --> 00:15:26,840 Speaker 9: but he just has one a bar of it. He 326 00:15:26,920 --> 00:15:28,800 Speaker 9: just prefers to sit on the sand. 327 00:15:28,840 --> 00:15:31,600 Speaker 3: And maybe that's one of his practical jokes, pretending not 328 00:15:31,680 --> 00:15:32,240 Speaker 3: to swim. 329 00:15:32,960 --> 00:15:34,960 Speaker 2: Do you think it's not very masculine, Becky? 330 00:15:35,640 --> 00:15:39,680 Speaker 6: Not really? Hey, I've just got a text message as 331 00:15:39,680 --> 00:15:42,760 Speaker 6: well with his receding hairline, Becky a big mate, a 332 00:15:42,840 --> 00:15:45,640 Speaker 6: made of ours, Big Mooey who's got tattoo Kingdom on 333 00:15:45,760 --> 00:15:49,120 Speaker 6: New Illuira Road in Bexley North, said that he'll give 334 00:15:49,200 --> 00:15:55,600 Speaker 6: him a free hair tattoo. I do I've seen that, yes, 335 00:15:56,560 --> 00:16:02,000 Speaker 6: Big Mowei, who does an amazing job there tattoo Kingdom. 336 00:16:02,040 --> 00:16:07,400 Speaker 5: Would you do that, Becky? To hold onto the relationship still, 337 00:16:07,800 --> 00:16:10,040 Speaker 5: you know what I might, you know what I must. 338 00:16:11,000 --> 00:16:14,760 Speaker 2: Maybe I don't know. You can't give him. 339 00:16:14,600 --> 00:16:18,560 Speaker 3: A Christmas and you can't change relationships that us just 340 00:16:18,600 --> 00:16:19,440 Speaker 3: on a hair tattoo. 341 00:16:20,400 --> 00:16:22,360 Speaker 5: I think you're off Dean on my gut seat. 342 00:16:22,480 --> 00:16:26,360 Speaker 2: Yeah you sound really you sound quite flat. Sound Yeah, 343 00:16:26,400 --> 00:16:28,800 Speaker 2: you sound quite flat. And you know what, just because 344 00:16:28,800 --> 00:16:32,080 Speaker 2: he's good with your nieces and nephews, I mean, lots 345 00:16:32,120 --> 00:16:34,120 Speaker 2: of people are good with kids. 346 00:16:33,880 --> 00:16:35,560 Speaker 5: Doesn't mean he's good with your heart. Becking, you know 347 00:16:35,560 --> 00:16:36,280 Speaker 5: what I mean, sister. 348 00:16:36,600 --> 00:16:39,080 Speaker 2: And there's nothing worse than you being in the ocean, 349 00:16:39,680 --> 00:16:43,320 Speaker 2: like the bathing and rebirthing in the salty you see 350 00:16:43,720 --> 00:16:46,680 Speaker 2: and looking back onto the shore seeing a guy. 351 00:16:48,160 --> 00:16:52,280 Speaker 6: Yeah, how brutal have you been today? O Kate just 352 00:16:52,360 --> 00:16:56,160 Speaker 6: killing off too obviously unhappy in your own life. 353 00:16:56,240 --> 00:16:58,280 Speaker 2: I'm not at all. I just think sometimes we hang 354 00:16:58,320 --> 00:17:00,320 Speaker 2: onto things for far too long. 355 00:17:00,720 --> 00:17:02,240 Speaker 5: You know what, People let it out. 356 00:17:02,360 --> 00:17:04,040 Speaker 2: You'll be okay. 357 00:17:04,680 --> 00:17:06,960 Speaker 4: It's going to hurt, but you'll be okay. 358 00:17:07,160 --> 00:17:09,640 Speaker 6: You broke a couple up after two and a half 359 00:17:09,760 --> 00:17:11,560 Speaker 6: years because the guy was pigeon toed. 360 00:17:11,800 --> 00:17:13,119 Speaker 2: And do you know what else I'm going to do. 361 00:17:13,200 --> 00:17:15,560 Speaker 2: I'm going to give Becky the Temple and Webster five 362 00:17:15,640 --> 00:17:19,600 Speaker 2: hundred dollars because I have a feeling that Becky's going 363 00:17:19,640 --> 00:17:24,200 Speaker 2: to stay with old mate. And she needs she needs 364 00:17:24,280 --> 00:17:25,520 Speaker 2: to buy herself something nice. 365 00:17:25,520 --> 00:17:28,800 Speaker 3: At Temple and Webster, you did suggest to Becky that 366 00:17:29,200 --> 00:17:31,800 Speaker 3: he's a firecracker when it comes to intimacy. 367 00:17:31,920 --> 00:17:34,080 Speaker 2: I don't think you did. Imagine a gift that transforms 368 00:17:34,119 --> 00:17:37,240 Speaker 2: any space into a home. Find the perfect gift at 369 00:17:37,240 --> 00:17:39,760 Speaker 2: Temple and Webster dot com dot au Laura for a 370 00:17:39,800 --> 00:17:41,000 Speaker 2: hussle free Christmas. 371 00:17:41,840 --> 00:17:45,960 Speaker 5: I Becky, absolutely, that was a good round. Actually I 372 00:17:45,960 --> 00:17:46,880 Speaker 5: feel bad. 373 00:17:46,600 --> 00:17:50,439 Speaker 2: I be Becky needs somebody to tell her what to do. 374 00:17:50,800 --> 00:17:53,560 Speaker 3: I wouldn't mind you just turning around, going over to 375 00:17:53,600 --> 00:17:55,600 Speaker 3: that tree and seeing if you can find a bit 376 00:17:55,640 --> 00:17:58,280 Speaker 3: of Christmas spirit, because when Grumpy Cat arrives in the 377 00:17:58,320 --> 00:18:02,200 Speaker 3: studio breaking up relations ships, I don't have time for it. 378 00:18:02,240 --> 00:18:03,240 Speaker 5: Because I'm here. 379 00:18:03,200 --> 00:18:05,600 Speaker 2: Rumpy or do you think I'm just being realistic. I'm 380 00:18:05,640 --> 00:18:07,840 Speaker 2: here to get into the spirit of Christmas, trying to 381 00:18:07,880 --> 00:18:10,919 Speaker 2: save people's Christmas. Do you know what, There'll be nothing 382 00:18:10,920 --> 00:18:13,719 Speaker 2: worse than sitting at the dinner table, daring across at 383 00:18:13,760 --> 00:18:15,359 Speaker 2: somebody that you knew you should have broken up with 384 00:18:15,400 --> 00:18:16,080 Speaker 2: eight weeks ago. 385 00:18:16,440 --> 00:18:18,800 Speaker 5: Oh so your gift is selling people they shouldn't be together. 386 00:18:18,960 --> 00:18:20,639 Speaker 2: No, not at all. I think you should be with 387 00:18:20,680 --> 00:18:21,520 Speaker 2: the right person. 388 00:18:21,640 --> 00:18:23,879 Speaker 5: Shame on you pull this Christmas. 389 00:18:23,359 --> 00:18:26,720 Speaker 2: Popper because you know, I mean, guys, you're looking for 390 00:18:26,840 --> 00:18:28,840 Speaker 2: relationship advice, I'm the one to turn to. 391 00:18:29,320 --> 00:18:32,399 Speaker 5: This is the Fitz and Wibber with Cape Ritchie podcast. 392 00:18:33,359 --> 00:18:35,479 Speaker 6: It's this time a year again when we get all 393 00:18:35,520 --> 00:18:39,000 Speaker 6: your lise. You know, great gift ideas leading up to 394 00:18:39,080 --> 00:18:41,880 Speaker 6: Christmas for the family members that you love and all 395 00:18:41,880 --> 00:18:42,639 Speaker 6: this kind of stuff. 396 00:18:42,640 --> 00:18:44,600 Speaker 5: What are you thinking, beach on the list? 397 00:18:44,840 --> 00:18:47,240 Speaker 6: Well, this one was fourteen great Christmas gift idea is 398 00:18:47,240 --> 00:18:49,639 Speaker 6: for someone who loves to travel. And you know what, 399 00:18:49,760 --> 00:18:52,200 Speaker 6: when you do travel, you want to be comfortable, don't you. 400 00:18:53,040 --> 00:18:55,200 Speaker 6: And you know it's just your basic runs like your 401 00:18:55,240 --> 00:18:57,120 Speaker 6: noise canceling headphones and. 402 00:18:57,080 --> 00:18:57,840 Speaker 5: Stuff like that. 403 00:18:57,920 --> 00:19:02,200 Speaker 6: You've got pillow and Panasonic compac shaver, the bon Voyage 404 00:19:02,280 --> 00:19:04,440 Speaker 6: toilet try bag. I mean, it's just one big ad. 405 00:19:04,480 --> 00:19:06,960 Speaker 6: The's the Apple ear tags in there as well. Number 406 00:19:06,960 --> 00:19:10,880 Speaker 6: one was travel chopsticks. It's not bad trying to take 407 00:19:10,920 --> 00:19:11,320 Speaker 6: with it. 408 00:19:11,760 --> 00:19:13,159 Speaker 5: Did you get the restaurant anyway? 409 00:19:14,119 --> 00:19:16,119 Speaker 6: This is the one that I want to focus on 410 00:19:16,160 --> 00:19:17,679 Speaker 6: that and I'm about to put it up on the 411 00:19:17,680 --> 00:19:20,960 Speaker 6: screen because the neck pillows don't work for me. 412 00:19:21,040 --> 00:19:21,959 Speaker 5: For when I travel. 413 00:19:22,040 --> 00:19:27,240 Speaker 6: But there's a thing called the ostriche pillow napping helmet, Kate. 414 00:19:27,600 --> 00:19:30,280 Speaker 6: It looks like you've got a beehive on your head. 415 00:19:31,000 --> 00:19:33,840 Speaker 2: I'm trying to work out what it does. Yeah, it's well, 416 00:19:33,920 --> 00:19:36,359 Speaker 2: it's this particular color is gray. 417 00:19:36,680 --> 00:19:39,960 Speaker 5: It is so big. It's a huge pillow on your head. 418 00:19:40,000 --> 00:19:42,240 Speaker 6: But what it is there's a hole in the front 419 00:19:42,280 --> 00:19:44,359 Speaker 6: of it, so you can breathe through your mouth and 420 00:19:44,400 --> 00:19:48,719 Speaker 6: your nose does what it does, It doubles up as 421 00:19:48,720 --> 00:19:51,680 Speaker 6: an eye mask as well, so you can so. 422 00:19:51,840 --> 00:19:53,160 Speaker 4: Adds pressure to your eyes. 423 00:19:53,280 --> 00:19:55,439 Speaker 2: Does it? No, you know what it kind of it 424 00:19:55,520 --> 00:19:59,000 Speaker 2: looks like you know those original scuba. 425 00:19:58,600 --> 00:20:01,520 Speaker 4: Diving helmets, but almost alien like. 426 00:20:01,800 --> 00:20:04,320 Speaker 5: Yes, it was an alien twist in the scuba helmet. 427 00:20:04,560 --> 00:20:07,119 Speaker 6: And I'm going it looks so ridiculous and it's so 428 00:20:07,320 --> 00:20:10,800 Speaker 6: big that but if you're doing a long haul flight, 429 00:20:11,840 --> 00:20:15,240 Speaker 6: it's actually not bad because you could lean it anywhere. 430 00:20:15,400 --> 00:20:18,520 Speaker 5: I would think it would create like a cocoon feeling. 431 00:20:18,640 --> 00:20:20,399 Speaker 2: It does, so you could put your head forward and 432 00:20:20,480 --> 00:20:22,040 Speaker 2: lean it on the back of the seat. You could 433 00:20:22,080 --> 00:20:25,639 Speaker 2: be in a in an airport lounge, or like you 434 00:20:25,680 --> 00:20:28,320 Speaker 2: could just go side. It looks like that it's got 435 00:20:28,359 --> 00:20:29,399 Speaker 2: next support. 436 00:20:29,760 --> 00:20:32,720 Speaker 5: Sixty pillow for your head, isn't it. It's unbelievable. 437 00:20:32,760 --> 00:20:35,640 Speaker 6: But I've gone on to Google because usually with these 438 00:20:35,720 --> 00:20:38,600 Speaker 6: products and we get sucked in by ads so easily. 439 00:20:39,359 --> 00:20:44,040 Speaker 5: The reviews are actually quite amazing, people, I'm loving it. 440 00:20:44,080 --> 00:20:47,560 Speaker 6: There's a guy who's actually Gernus for a vice for 441 00:20:47,680 --> 00:20:51,159 Speaker 6: Vice magazine who actually said that he gets quite a 442 00:20:51,240 --> 00:20:54,199 Speaker 6: few migraines and struggles to sleep and stuff like that. 443 00:20:54,240 --> 00:20:57,359 Speaker 6: This thing has changed his life because he can sleep 444 00:20:57,400 --> 00:20:59,760 Speaker 6: at work, he can sleep at home, he can sleep 445 00:20:59,760 --> 00:21:02,679 Speaker 6: any were So what's the ostrich pillow on? He was 446 00:21:02,720 --> 00:21:06,280 Speaker 6: paid for that and it's comfortable. But see advice, aren't 447 00:21:06,480 --> 00:21:09,280 Speaker 6: they don't do stuff like that? I mean everyone knows 448 00:21:09,640 --> 00:21:10,919 Speaker 6: for a certain price, don't they. 449 00:21:11,119 --> 00:21:14,480 Speaker 5: What if you suffocate and you die in the looks so. 450 00:21:14,440 --> 00:21:18,680 Speaker 3: Comfortable, people would leave you because you look so comfy, 451 00:21:19,560 --> 00:21:21,040 Speaker 3: So you're not going to be interrupted, you won't be 452 00:21:21,040 --> 00:21:21,800 Speaker 3: found for a week. 453 00:21:22,240 --> 00:21:24,800 Speaker 2: You wish to get one for you for after the show? 454 00:21:25,080 --> 00:21:27,080 Speaker 2: Is that because you tend to nap in your chair 455 00:21:27,119 --> 00:21:27,679 Speaker 2: in the office. 456 00:21:27,920 --> 00:21:32,119 Speaker 5: Not really, you do? You do? Not give you a 457 00:21:32,119 --> 00:21:33,600 Speaker 5: couple of uppercuts as well. 458 00:21:33,640 --> 00:21:37,440 Speaker 2: While it looks like one of those tiny little boxing 459 00:21:37,520 --> 00:21:43,639 Speaker 2: you know the ones you know this morning, No, you 460 00:21:43,680 --> 00:21:45,959 Speaker 2: know the little you know, the little boxing, or one 461 00:21:45,960 --> 00:21:48,040 Speaker 2: of the ones that are on the speedball. 462 00:21:48,119 --> 00:21:49,960 Speaker 3: It looks like a speedboll, So you'd like me to 463 00:21:50,080 --> 00:21:51,679 Speaker 3: dress as a speedball so you can punch it in 464 00:21:51,680 --> 00:21:52,160 Speaker 3: the head. 465 00:21:52,040 --> 00:21:53,160 Speaker 2: Human speedball. 466 00:21:53,840 --> 00:21:57,040 Speaker 6: It's called the ultimate napping mask, Tommy, Can we get them? 467 00:21:57,320 --> 00:22:01,240 Speaker 6: Can we get fitty with with Kate Richie twenty twenty five? 468 00:22:01,320 --> 00:22:01,639 Speaker 5: Lock it in? 469 00:22:01,680 --> 00:22:03,200 Speaker 6: Because we're the only ones on air at the moment, 470 00:22:03,240 --> 00:22:04,600 Speaker 6: we can lock these ideas in there. 471 00:22:05,040 --> 00:22:07,280 Speaker 5: Lock it in, great idea? 472 00:22:07,480 --> 00:22:09,040 Speaker 2: Could we have it? Would we make them red? 473 00:22:09,480 --> 00:22:12,719 Speaker 5: So that's good. That's last. That's really good to this 474 00:22:13,000 --> 00:22:15,159 Speaker 5: the stuff people want something. 475 00:22:16,480 --> 00:22:19,360 Speaker 6: Always canceling headphones done? 476 00:22:18,520 --> 00:22:21,800 Speaker 3: What if it had a little speaker in it so 477 00:22:21,960 --> 00:22:25,120 Speaker 3: you could listen to music while you're in your little podcast? 478 00:22:25,520 --> 00:22:27,800 Speaker 5: You could listen to the Richie podcast. 479 00:22:28,080 --> 00:22:30,280 Speaker 2: I think you want that thing to block the world out? 480 00:22:31,040 --> 00:22:33,359 Speaker 5: Okay, because hard too? 481 00:22:33,600 --> 00:22:40,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, sitting there amongst. 482 00:22:37,680 --> 00:22:42,480 Speaker 2: Get onto it, Tommy, This is with Cape Ritchie podcast. 483 00:22:43,080 --> 00:22:44,920 Speaker 5: What have we got k Richie? The list is long? 484 00:22:45,240 --> 00:22:50,000 Speaker 2: Oh yes, I mean very nice to see Beautiful things 485 00:22:50,000 --> 00:22:51,840 Speaker 2: by Benson Berne topping them. 486 00:22:51,920 --> 00:22:54,480 Speaker 4: You know, most streamed singles it. 487 00:22:54,480 --> 00:22:57,480 Speaker 2: Here in Australia, and then it was second globally after 488 00:22:57,520 --> 00:23:02,960 Speaker 2: Sabrina Carpenter's Espresso, which was number two here in Australia. 489 00:23:03,480 --> 00:23:05,920 Speaker 2: You know what came in at number three Australia Most 490 00:23:05,960 --> 00:23:10,359 Speaker 2: dream Songs? Stick Season? Noah, your favorite? 491 00:23:10,440 --> 00:23:12,200 Speaker 5: I love a bit of season. 492 00:23:12,320 --> 00:23:15,359 Speaker 2: And if you're listening to an audio book, spare. 493 00:23:16,000 --> 00:23:19,960 Speaker 5: The Royal Yeah, yeah, no, just listen to it a 494 00:23:21,840 --> 00:23:25,159 Speaker 5: still to ideo. Is adio still a listening service? Or 495 00:23:25,240 --> 00:23:25,800 Speaker 5: is that gone? 496 00:23:26,000 --> 00:23:29,560 Speaker 2: I don't even know what you're talking about that exists. 497 00:23:29,640 --> 00:23:32,000 Speaker 3: At the moment. Can I throw something out there? And 498 00:23:32,040 --> 00:23:33,120 Speaker 3: I don't want to start a fight? 499 00:23:34,000 --> 00:23:34,440 Speaker 2: You won't? 500 00:23:34,560 --> 00:23:37,840 Speaker 5: Please? Please please? Is a better song than Espresso? 501 00:23:38,160 --> 00:23:40,880 Speaker 2: Absolutely not. Every day of the week, I think. 502 00:23:40,680 --> 00:23:46,359 Speaker 5: It is, and I really think it is. Thank you jess. 503 00:23:47,680 --> 00:23:51,000 Speaker 4: Yess Alright, here we go, Goney. 504 00:23:53,680 --> 00:23:56,120 Speaker 2: I like clapping, I love songs in it. I love 505 00:23:56,160 --> 00:23:59,600 Speaker 2: clapping songs, yep. But I do not think it's no 506 00:24:00,600 --> 00:24:01,960 Speaker 2: espresso taste. 507 00:24:02,400 --> 00:24:02,440 Speaker 11: No. 508 00:24:02,600 --> 00:24:05,919 Speaker 3: I think when you when you understand music, like when 509 00:24:05,920 --> 00:24:09,000 Speaker 3: you're a musician, I think you can comment on the 510 00:24:09,040 --> 00:24:10,280 Speaker 3: sort of a strong structure. 511 00:24:10,520 --> 00:24:12,080 Speaker 5: I hear a girl then just a bit of dance. 512 00:24:12,240 --> 00:24:15,440 Speaker 6: Have you got Whippers singing Bob Dylan with his first girlfriend? 513 00:24:16,040 --> 00:24:20,159 Speaker 5: You don't think twice? I don't think twice with Laura, 514 00:24:21,200 --> 00:24:25,200 Speaker 5: my first true love. This is so embarrassing, this is beautiful. 515 00:24:34,440 --> 00:24:36,800 Speaker 2: Is that you did too much? 516 00:24:37,480 --> 00:24:37,960 Speaker 5: Anyway? 517 00:24:40,359 --> 00:24:42,560 Speaker 3: Santa Claus gave me a four tracks, so I said, Hei, 518 00:24:42,640 --> 00:24:44,119 Speaker 3: we should lay we should lay something. 519 00:24:45,040 --> 00:24:49,240 Speaker 2: And Leela is that you and your girlfriend at the time? 520 00:24:49,720 --> 00:24:51,080 Speaker 2: Can I flag something? 521 00:24:51,160 --> 00:24:53,639 Speaker 11: When you type think twice into the system, you get 522 00:24:53,640 --> 00:24:57,560 Speaker 11: whipp I think twice with girlfriend Whipper? Lisa think twice 523 00:24:57,680 --> 00:25:01,719 Speaker 11: as well? Celine Dion wh who is that your go to? 524 00:25:03,200 --> 00:25:08,840 Speaker 5: No? This is a Celendi. That was another girlfriend, Sally. 525 00:25:10,880 --> 00:25:12,520 Speaker 2: Coming under, who was asked. 526 00:25:12,280 --> 00:25:15,639 Speaker 5: Never to be mentioned on the show. Sally really awkward 527 00:25:15,640 --> 00:25:17,960 Speaker 5: to get one of those messages from Live Across Seas. 528 00:25:18,720 --> 00:25:20,119 Speaker 5: Never mentioned me on the show. 529 00:25:20,359 --> 00:25:23,679 Speaker 2: The old mustang, so I Whipper asks you to record 530 00:25:23,840 --> 00:25:26,800 Speaker 2: a layer track with him run for the Hills? 531 00:25:27,160 --> 00:25:31,080 Speaker 3: Should we release don't think twice with Laura's like a 532 00:25:31,119 --> 00:25:32,000 Speaker 3: single next year? 533 00:25:32,240 --> 00:25:37,639 Speaker 2: Do you know what I think? Ash is news? 534 00:25:38,280 --> 00:25:47,600 Speaker 6: She wrote a song about lead. 535 00:25:45,960 --> 00:25:46,200 Speaker 2: Sound. 536 00:25:46,280 --> 00:25:55,240 Speaker 6: Okay, you're using Bob Dylan in the background, So no one. 537 00:25:57,320 --> 00:25:59,399 Speaker 5: And it's a Peter Paul and Mary version of a 538 00:25:59,480 --> 00:26:02,840 Speaker 5: Bob Dylan original. Bob Dylan does not feature on our 539 00:26:02,880 --> 00:26:05,400 Speaker 5: track Fallen. 540 00:26:05,200 --> 00:26:08,000 Speaker 2: Mary First, I don't know what that means. 541 00:26:09,560 --> 00:26:11,560 Speaker 5: That's going to be at the top of my Spotify 542 00:26:11,680 --> 00:26:14,080 Speaker 5: rat next year. That name again. 543 00:26:14,680 --> 00:26:18,040 Speaker 1: This is the Fitting and Whipper with Kate Richie podcast. 544 00:26:18,040 --> 00:26:21,639 Speaker 6: The boss of a prestigious accounting firm Grant Thought in 545 00:26:21,680 --> 00:26:24,439 Speaker 6: Australia is the name of the account firm. Don't know 546 00:26:24,480 --> 00:26:26,400 Speaker 6: if I can trust him though, because he's got two 547 00:26:26,440 --> 00:26:28,920 Speaker 6: first names. Greg Keith is his name. He's the chief 548 00:26:29,200 --> 00:26:35,240 Speaker 6: chief Greedy there Keith, Greg Keith whatauty? Now Keithy has 549 00:26:35,320 --> 00:26:39,080 Speaker 6: done something that I wish that this could company could 550 00:26:39,119 --> 00:26:41,800 Speaker 6: do at some stage, and that's the old nine day 551 00:26:41,880 --> 00:26:42,879 Speaker 6: fortnight guys. 552 00:26:42,960 --> 00:26:45,160 Speaker 5: So every second week you get your Friday off. 553 00:26:46,200 --> 00:26:49,520 Speaker 3: Oh so instead of just going hard on the four 554 00:26:49,640 --> 00:26:52,240 Speaker 3: day work week. Yep, they've said, you know what, We're 555 00:26:52,240 --> 00:26:54,040 Speaker 3: going to ease it in slightly. We're going to give 556 00:26:54,080 --> 00:26:55,359 Speaker 3: you every second Friday off. 557 00:26:55,560 --> 00:26:59,000 Speaker 6: Keithy goes, if you give me what I want, you 558 00:26:59,080 --> 00:27:02,080 Speaker 6: can have every second Friday off. That's a long weekend, 559 00:27:02,119 --> 00:27:04,639 Speaker 6: every fortnight, kay, yes, please lock. 560 00:27:04,560 --> 00:27:06,480 Speaker 5: That inf well play it, uncle, Keith. 561 00:27:07,240 --> 00:27:09,720 Speaker 6: The thing is, though Keith just did it, Greg did 562 00:27:09,800 --> 00:27:10,960 Speaker 6: Sorry cannot Keith. 563 00:27:11,880 --> 00:27:13,160 Speaker 5: Greg. Keith just did. 564 00:27:13,040 --> 00:27:16,679 Speaker 6: A podcast and he was asked what his pet hate 565 00:27:16,680 --> 00:27:17,760 Speaker 6: in the office was. 566 00:27:17,840 --> 00:27:19,560 Speaker 5: This is what he had to say. 567 00:27:19,520 --> 00:27:23,600 Speaker 12: Going downstairs to grab a coffee and seeing fifteen people 568 00:27:23,880 --> 00:27:26,240 Speaker 12: and one of the teams lining up waiting for the 569 00:27:26,240 --> 00:27:28,480 Speaker 12: fifteenth person to get their coffee before they all go 570 00:27:28,560 --> 00:27:31,520 Speaker 12: back upstairs again. And that's just a huge waste of 571 00:27:31,680 --> 00:27:34,800 Speaker 12: time and efficiency. And I feel that when we brought 572 00:27:34,800 --> 00:27:37,440 Speaker 12: in our nine Day Fortnite it was really to tackle 573 00:27:37,480 --> 00:27:39,720 Speaker 12: those sorts of issues and to say to people, well, 574 00:27:39,920 --> 00:27:43,360 Speaker 12: if we can use our time more efficiently, we'll get 575 00:27:43,359 --> 00:27:44,119 Speaker 12: that time back to you. 576 00:27:44,640 --> 00:27:47,119 Speaker 5: It's all he's asking for, isn't he. Key's so simple, 577 00:27:48,280 --> 00:27:50,600 Speaker 5: efficient time management. But I love. 578 00:27:50,480 --> 00:27:53,440 Speaker 6: Those moments to go down as a team and get 579 00:27:53,480 --> 00:27:54,160 Speaker 6: your coffee. 580 00:27:54,280 --> 00:27:56,640 Speaker 2: If you're starting you love a chat, Yeah, you love 581 00:27:56,640 --> 00:27:57,199 Speaker 2: a chat, and. 582 00:27:57,280 --> 00:28:00,320 Speaker 3: Turn up and get your coffee before that time and 583 00:28:00,400 --> 00:28:02,439 Speaker 3: be there on the knocker and get into it at 584 00:28:02,480 --> 00:28:02,960 Speaker 3: eight thirty. 585 00:28:03,000 --> 00:28:03,679 Speaker 4: No one does that. 586 00:28:03,760 --> 00:28:06,560 Speaker 2: Though they arrive at eight thirty, that's when their workday starts, 587 00:28:06,560 --> 00:28:09,200 Speaker 2: and then they're not really doing anything at the desk till. 588 00:28:09,080 --> 00:28:11,040 Speaker 3: Ten to Well, let's be honest, the Friday where they 589 00:28:11,080 --> 00:28:13,040 Speaker 3: have to be at work, they're not really doing anything either. 590 00:28:13,359 --> 00:28:16,879 Speaker 6: Well it's look, he's got a point, you know what, 591 00:28:16,920 --> 00:28:20,240 Speaker 6: they're getting a long week in every fortnight, don't go 592 00:28:20,400 --> 00:28:24,200 Speaker 6: down and get your coffee. More importantly, world under Jess 593 00:28:24,280 --> 00:28:27,399 Speaker 6: McNally for putting espresso on from Sabriga and Sabrina. 594 00:28:27,040 --> 00:28:29,840 Speaker 2: Carpet, I can actually do you one better. 595 00:28:29,880 --> 00:28:33,760 Speaker 5: You're depresso depresso. 596 00:28:34,600 --> 00:28:37,560 Speaker 3: Oh, that's really interesting. It's much that's not the coffee 597 00:28:37,640 --> 00:28:40,800 Speaker 3: order I'm interested in. Well, the waiting for the coffee 598 00:28:40,800 --> 00:28:42,960 Speaker 3: in line is the same as I'd hate to hear 599 00:28:43,000 --> 00:28:47,400 Speaker 3: what Keithy has to say about smokers. Someone's going downstairs 600 00:28:47,480 --> 00:28:50,800 Speaker 3: and just taking five to suck back a bit of nicotine. 601 00:28:50,520 --> 00:28:53,880 Speaker 6: And honest, it's that's not as prevalent as you think 602 00:28:53,880 --> 00:28:56,520 Speaker 6: it is anymore. I think as many people are doing 603 00:28:56,560 --> 00:28:57,120 Speaker 6: that anymore. 604 00:28:57,200 --> 00:28:59,400 Speaker 5: I think they are. You reckon. 605 00:29:00,480 --> 00:29:03,280 Speaker 3: There's regulars that float out of this building. You get 606 00:29:03,280 --> 00:29:05,240 Speaker 3: in the left with them and you feel it smells up. 607 00:29:05,280 --> 00:29:06,280 Speaker 3: The buildings on fire. 608 00:29:06,560 --> 00:29:06,840 Speaker 5: To you. 609 00:29:06,920 --> 00:29:10,000 Speaker 6: One thing, you're going down for a vape. You're not 610 00:29:10,040 --> 00:29:14,760 Speaker 6: working at Grant Thorpe in Australia because Greg Keith coffee 611 00:29:14,760 --> 00:29:15,960 Speaker 6: and a vote get out. 612 00:29:16,000 --> 00:29:16,560 Speaker 5: We should do that. 613 00:29:16,640 --> 00:29:19,600 Speaker 2: Let's just work harder and get every second Friday she said. 614 00:29:19,480 --> 00:29:22,480 Speaker 5: We should get on the phone. Oh my god, Watermelon Place. 615 00:29:22,840 --> 00:29:24,840 Speaker 5: Actually we're the only ones on air at the moment. 616 00:29:27,200 --> 00:29:29,680 Speaker 5: Oh my god. That's a committed breakfast show. We love you. 617 00:29:29,720 --> 00:29:33,240 Speaker 1: Sydney with a cake whichie podcast. 618 00:29:33,600 --> 00:29:36,520 Speaker 2: I think the gift that we give to each other 619 00:29:36,840 --> 00:29:39,160 Speaker 2: at this time of year for Christmas as a team, 620 00:29:39,240 --> 00:29:41,680 Speaker 2: I think is the fact that we've had the joy 621 00:29:41,680 --> 00:29:44,240 Speaker 2: of working with each other all year. 622 00:29:44,320 --> 00:29:45,040 Speaker 5: What a gift. 623 00:29:45,680 --> 00:29:47,440 Speaker 2: I don't think we really need to exchange. 624 00:29:47,480 --> 00:29:55,240 Speaker 8: Well, usually we were on a plane somewhere on holiday 625 00:29:55,280 --> 00:29:57,680 Speaker 8: at the moment, but are we I think we're the 626 00:29:57,720 --> 00:29:59,200 Speaker 8: only ones still on air at the moment. 627 00:29:59,560 --> 00:30:01,840 Speaker 2: And you know why we are because we love it 628 00:30:01,880 --> 00:30:04,960 Speaker 2: and we love our life is radio and we love 629 00:30:05,320 --> 00:30:06,240 Speaker 2: talking to Sydney. 630 00:30:06,560 --> 00:30:09,360 Speaker 6: Give the reaction we just got from bron when we 631 00:30:09,480 --> 00:30:12,480 Speaker 6: just gave you know, nine hundred bucks for shake the Tree, 632 00:30:12,800 --> 00:30:14,480 Speaker 6: it was that that's what it's all about. 633 00:30:14,600 --> 00:30:17,320 Speaker 2: And if we weren't here, we wouldn't be gifting. There 634 00:30:17,400 --> 00:30:22,920 Speaker 2: is the awkward moment though, especially around the office about 635 00:30:23,280 --> 00:30:25,800 Speaker 2: a protocol or etiquette. 636 00:30:25,280 --> 00:30:27,000 Speaker 4: Around gift giving. 637 00:30:28,120 --> 00:30:30,000 Speaker 2: Sometimes at the end of the year, people are wrapping up, 638 00:30:30,040 --> 00:30:32,000 Speaker 2: they've worked with the company for a long time, and 639 00:30:32,040 --> 00:30:34,200 Speaker 2: everyone throws a bit of cash in, but it's an 640 00:30:34,240 --> 00:30:36,960 Speaker 2: expensive time of year. I don't know what you think 641 00:30:37,000 --> 00:30:39,719 Speaker 2: about this, and I'm going to open the discussion around 642 00:30:39,960 --> 00:30:44,200 Speaker 2: the pressure to put in money to group gifts around 643 00:30:44,320 --> 00:30:44,920 Speaker 2: the office. 644 00:30:45,160 --> 00:30:48,320 Speaker 3: Schools as well, like the parents will get together and 645 00:30:48,360 --> 00:30:51,440 Speaker 3: they'll want to buy the teacher at present to say 646 00:30:51,440 --> 00:30:53,360 Speaker 3: thank you for the year, So everybody throws in twenty 647 00:30:53,400 --> 00:30:54,440 Speaker 3: dollars or whatever it might be. 648 00:30:55,040 --> 00:30:57,040 Speaker 5: That can get complicated as well. 649 00:30:57,160 --> 00:31:01,040 Speaker 2: Well, especially if it's not just one paying for kids 650 00:31:01,080 --> 00:31:03,640 Speaker 2: parties on the weekend you're coming into Christmas, and then 651 00:31:03,680 --> 00:31:06,040 Speaker 2: someone else says, oh, I need fifty because we're going 652 00:31:06,120 --> 00:31:10,760 Speaker 2: to get Jenny a nice bottle of something stuff she's 653 00:31:10,840 --> 00:31:16,120 Speaker 2: wrapping up. This boss has said, well, a man has 654 00:31:16,240 --> 00:31:20,880 Speaker 2: posted the text messages between him and a boss saying like, 655 00:31:21,800 --> 00:31:24,400 Speaker 2: I just don't know how to react to this because 656 00:31:24,680 --> 00:31:26,560 Speaker 2: I'm being pressured to put in one hundred dollars for 657 00:31:26,640 --> 00:31:29,000 Speaker 2: old mate Josh, who's leaving has been with the company 658 00:31:29,000 --> 00:31:31,240 Speaker 2: three and a half years, and I'm being put there's 659 00:31:31,280 --> 00:31:33,800 Speaker 2: too much pressure. The boss has said, hey, I notice 660 00:31:33,840 --> 00:31:36,360 Speaker 2: you haven't put your money into the account. Be great 661 00:31:36,360 --> 00:31:37,880 Speaker 2: if you could do it by the end of the day, 662 00:31:37,920 --> 00:31:42,200 Speaker 2: because I'm going to buy Josh such and such well exactly. 663 00:31:42,280 --> 00:31:45,480 Speaker 2: The employee is pushed back and said, hey, I don't 664 00:31:45,520 --> 00:31:49,720 Speaker 2: really know Josh. And also Josh hands a lot more 665 00:31:49,800 --> 00:31:53,800 Speaker 2: money than I do, and I think that's fair. I 666 00:31:53,800 --> 00:31:56,880 Speaker 2: think that's fair. He doesn't want he doesn't want to 667 00:31:56,880 --> 00:31:58,920 Speaker 2: be involved. And then the boss has come back and said, well, 668 00:31:59,520 --> 00:32:04,720 Speaker 2: I think you underestimating what Josh has brought to the company, 669 00:32:05,160 --> 00:32:08,080 Speaker 2: and he's been made to feel really bad about it. Now. 670 00:32:08,200 --> 00:32:11,280 Speaker 2: I think group gifts can be lovely, but you should 671 00:32:11,280 --> 00:32:12,960 Speaker 2: have the choice of whether to put in or not, 672 00:32:13,000 --> 00:32:15,760 Speaker 2: because no one knows where people's cash needs to go. 673 00:32:15,800 --> 00:32:18,240 Speaker 3: I having get funny signing the farewell card that comes 674 00:32:18,280 --> 00:32:18,880 Speaker 3: into the office. 675 00:32:18,880 --> 00:32:20,560 Speaker 5: You know when they someone will come around with the card. 676 00:32:20,680 --> 00:32:23,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, because you're worried about being taken to HR and 677 00:32:23,120 --> 00:32:24,000 Speaker 2: then you write. 678 00:32:23,800 --> 00:32:26,240 Speaker 4: Something inappropriate or draw a funny picture, and. 679 00:32:26,240 --> 00:32:30,240 Speaker 5: Then they go, who's Robbie, He's going? Is he Robbie sma? 680 00:32:30,640 --> 00:32:34,320 Speaker 5: Robbie Robbie's and then I will never leave. I don't 681 00:32:34,320 --> 00:32:37,600 Speaker 5: even know what I meant to write away. Robbie's leaving 682 00:32:37,680 --> 00:32:40,080 Speaker 5: is in a bloody coffin. If you know well, said mate, 683 00:32:40,080 --> 00:32:42,880 Speaker 5: He's committed to this place, Robbie. They always come back for. 684 00:32:42,880 --> 00:32:45,800 Speaker 3: Zamora and I don't even know where to sign on 685 00:32:45,800 --> 00:32:47,719 Speaker 3: the card to who the person is. So I can 686 00:32:47,840 --> 00:32:50,000 Speaker 3: understand if I was asked to put in a hunie 687 00:32:50,480 --> 00:32:52,560 Speaker 3: for somebody that I didn't even know and didn't like, 688 00:32:52,600 --> 00:32:53,440 Speaker 3: who was earning. 689 00:32:53,160 --> 00:32:57,200 Speaker 5: A fortune, I'd be furious, or so you look furious. 690 00:32:57,600 --> 00:33:00,640 Speaker 6: You don't like doing it anyway because you spelling is 691 00:33:00,760 --> 00:33:02,320 Speaker 6: so bad, And that's true. 692 00:33:02,440 --> 00:33:04,640 Speaker 5: It's on display for the rest of the employees. 693 00:33:05,080 --> 00:33:08,680 Speaker 6: What makes you When I Ian left the other day 694 00:33:08,680 --> 00:33:10,960 Speaker 6: and you started it with two e's, I thought, God, 695 00:33:11,000 --> 00:33:11,840 Speaker 6: this is not going down. 696 00:33:11,880 --> 00:33:12,680 Speaker 5: Remember when I went to. 697 00:33:12,600 --> 00:33:15,000 Speaker 3: The physio center at moor Park there, Fitzy, where you'd 698 00:33:15,040 --> 00:33:18,160 Speaker 3: been as well More Park. 699 00:33:18,360 --> 00:33:21,240 Speaker 4: And that's a joke for people who have been listening. 700 00:33:21,240 --> 00:33:25,760 Speaker 5: Courageous, nice tie back, and I had to rest. 701 00:33:25,560 --> 00:33:27,880 Speaker 2: In the podcast on we won't put that. 702 00:33:28,160 --> 00:33:30,040 Speaker 3: I wrote on the wall, you're the best and I 703 00:33:30,080 --> 00:33:32,880 Speaker 3: spelled the wrong You're. 704 00:33:31,560 --> 00:33:33,480 Speaker 2: Like, oh are you bad with apostrophes? 705 00:33:33,840 --> 00:33:36,720 Speaker 3: So I had to scribble that out and then anyway, 706 00:33:36,840 --> 00:33:39,680 Speaker 3: Tommy Nover gave us a goat which was. 707 00:33:39,640 --> 00:33:44,240 Speaker 5: Donated to a village. I don't want another goat. I 708 00:33:44,240 --> 00:33:46,320 Speaker 5: don't want a real present, absolutely no more. 709 00:33:47,160 --> 00:33:49,720 Speaker 2: We got lego this week? Do we get a little 710 00:33:49,720 --> 00:33:50,360 Speaker 2: Santa Lego? 711 00:33:50,480 --> 00:33:51,640 Speaker 4: Was that from the company or. 712 00:33:52,040 --> 00:33:53,479 Speaker 5: It was from the company? Merry Christmas? 713 00:33:54,240 --> 00:33:57,400 Speaker 3: Come from beautiful? Where was the card? Because the goat 714 00:33:57,440 --> 00:33:59,360 Speaker 3: went to a village. I'm sure there was some eating 715 00:33:59,400 --> 00:34:01,479 Speaker 3: a bit of milk for them. But what about our 716 00:34:01,480 --> 00:34:02,680 Speaker 3: bloody beach towel. 717 00:34:05,360 --> 00:34:07,480 Speaker 1: With a with Kate Witchie podcast. 718 00:34:07,760 --> 00:34:09,920 Speaker 3: As we wrap up twenty twenty four, guys, we're having 719 00:34:09,920 --> 00:34:11,640 Speaker 3: a look at some of the trends in k Richie. 720 00:34:11,800 --> 00:34:14,920 Speaker 3: You specialize in this department, So run us through the 721 00:34:15,040 --> 00:34:17,760 Speaker 3: old tinder. How many dates have you been. 722 00:34:17,640 --> 00:34:21,719 Speaker 2: On this yearn Oh, my god, no, I don't have 723 00:34:21,840 --> 00:34:22,239 Speaker 2: time for. 724 00:34:22,360 --> 00:34:25,120 Speaker 5: Date between zero and ten? Would you say zero? 725 00:34:25,680 --> 00:34:28,280 Speaker 6: Give us give us just a little bit of juice 726 00:34:28,320 --> 00:34:30,440 Speaker 6: on one date that you've been on, like. 727 00:34:30,520 --> 00:34:32,560 Speaker 5: What did you do? Did you go for a stroll? 728 00:34:32,840 --> 00:34:35,720 Speaker 5: Did you go I don't know? Maybe yeah, yeah? 729 00:34:35,880 --> 00:34:40,200 Speaker 6: Is she come on you're telling me you haven't been 730 00:34:40,239 --> 00:34:41,080 Speaker 6: on one date. 731 00:34:41,560 --> 00:34:42,600 Speaker 2: I don't call them date. 732 00:34:42,680 --> 00:34:45,680 Speaker 3: What have you caught up with someone that could be 733 00:34:45,719 --> 00:34:48,799 Speaker 3: a possible interest to you in a relationship, a one 734 00:34:48,840 --> 00:34:49,680 Speaker 3: on one setting? 735 00:34:49,960 --> 00:34:52,040 Speaker 2: Do you know what my trend of this year was 736 00:34:52,960 --> 00:34:56,520 Speaker 2: just prioritizing oneself and my family? 737 00:34:57,440 --> 00:35:01,239 Speaker 5: What artist is that on Spotify? No? 738 00:35:01,719 --> 00:35:06,400 Speaker 2: Here is the list Tinder has released. You make me so. 739 00:35:06,280 --> 00:35:07,520 Speaker 4: Nervous when we start. 740 00:35:07,320 --> 00:35:15,000 Speaker 2: Hitting love it, hallolou. You guys, dating for the sake 741 00:35:15,040 --> 00:35:21,640 Speaker 2: of dating is out the door. And also situationships they 742 00:35:21,640 --> 00:35:23,440 Speaker 2: are also on the way out right. 743 00:35:23,680 --> 00:35:24,799 Speaker 5: You don't know what's going on. 744 00:35:26,160 --> 00:35:30,919 Speaker 2: Relationship, Yeah, like we're just isn't a situationship where see 745 00:35:30,920 --> 00:35:34,360 Speaker 2: I don't even know you're just in it. It's just 746 00:35:34,440 --> 00:35:37,680 Speaker 2: we're in this situation. We're not going to label it 747 00:35:37,840 --> 00:35:39,040 Speaker 2: in any way. 748 00:35:40,320 --> 00:35:43,319 Speaker 6: It's care Freezn't it like? It's it's like you can 749 00:35:43,440 --> 00:35:46,080 Speaker 6: leave it and come back to it very easily, and 750 00:35:46,120 --> 00:35:50,560 Speaker 6: there's no there's no It sounds self mission attachment. 751 00:35:50,719 --> 00:35:53,399 Speaker 2: Yeah, there's no commitment really, and I think it does 752 00:35:53,680 --> 00:35:55,680 Speaker 2: it sound as it sounds as though you can come 753 00:35:55,719 --> 00:35:59,200 Speaker 2: and go as you like. But singles apparently are now 754 00:35:59,239 --> 00:36:02,760 Speaker 2: embracing intentional intentional. 755 00:36:04,760 --> 00:36:05,080 Speaker 6: Action. 756 00:36:05,600 --> 00:36:10,160 Speaker 2: Singles are embracing intentionality in their dating lives, being upfront 757 00:36:10,160 --> 00:36:14,000 Speaker 2: about what they want and refusing to settle. So last 758 00:36:14,080 --> 00:36:17,080 Speaker 2: year or that you know this, last twelve months, people 759 00:36:17,080 --> 00:36:21,000 Speaker 2: were focused on dating for the plot, casually exploring. But 760 00:36:21,120 --> 00:36:23,280 Speaker 2: now singles are going to step up. They are leading 761 00:36:23,320 --> 00:36:27,560 Speaker 2: with purpose and they're making their mating as well, hopefully 762 00:36:27,680 --> 00:36:32,319 Speaker 2: things grass and making their dating journeys truly their own. 763 00:36:32,480 --> 00:36:34,720 Speaker 2: So they're saying, okay, there's a bit of a list, 764 00:36:34,840 --> 00:36:38,160 Speaker 2: being upfront about what you're looking for, so rather than 765 00:36:38,239 --> 00:36:42,480 Speaker 2: moving in and out without any real requirements, so they 766 00:36:42,520 --> 00:36:45,120 Speaker 2: need that. People are going to start vocalizing their wants. 767 00:36:45,400 --> 00:36:46,239 Speaker 2: This is what I want. 768 00:36:46,480 --> 00:36:48,480 Speaker 3: I'm looking to get married. Here are the things I like. 769 00:36:48,560 --> 00:36:49,799 Speaker 3: Do you fit the criteria? 770 00:36:49,840 --> 00:36:52,080 Speaker 6: Well, okay, can we focus? 771 00:36:52,160 --> 00:36:52,600 Speaker 5: All right? 772 00:36:52,719 --> 00:36:57,000 Speaker 6: This is what you want? Is it vain to start 773 00:36:57,120 --> 00:37:00,759 Speaker 6: with physical? Well, so this is what you want, So 774 00:37:00,880 --> 00:37:02,600 Speaker 6: let's just let's just say with you. 775 00:37:03,160 --> 00:37:04,799 Speaker 2: Do you for what we're doing? 776 00:37:05,360 --> 00:37:07,000 Speaker 6: But do you do you start with a certain hair 777 00:37:07,080 --> 00:37:09,279 Speaker 6: color and eye color? Or do you go down that road? 778 00:37:09,280 --> 00:37:10,680 Speaker 5: Do you start with a certain age? 779 00:37:11,480 --> 00:37:17,600 Speaker 2: I you're an idiot. I have always thought that I 780 00:37:17,680 --> 00:37:21,040 Speaker 2: was a tall dark and hats and very dark hair, 781 00:37:21,239 --> 00:37:21,840 Speaker 2: very kind. 782 00:37:21,680 --> 00:37:22,000 Speaker 5: Of a hair. 783 00:37:22,080 --> 00:37:24,000 Speaker 2: But I don't know, it hasn't been I mean, I 784 00:37:24,160 --> 00:37:25,520 Speaker 2: married a blonde man. 785 00:37:25,560 --> 00:37:30,160 Speaker 5: Right, yeah, true? And I appreciate your understa. What can 786 00:37:30,160 --> 00:37:31,719 Speaker 5: I ask? Can I ask you this question? 787 00:37:34,200 --> 00:37:37,360 Speaker 2: I say, no, you can't. You're going to ask me anyway? 788 00:37:37,600 --> 00:37:39,200 Speaker 5: What is all right? 789 00:37:39,200 --> 00:37:42,920 Speaker 6: Because I unfortunately made a fool of myself talking about this. 790 00:37:42,960 --> 00:37:45,239 Speaker 5: But is there a body part or is there is there? 791 00:37:45,480 --> 00:37:47,640 Speaker 5: Is there a smile? Is it a look? Is there 792 00:37:47,719 --> 00:37:49,680 Speaker 5: something that sort of gets you over the line? What 793 00:37:49,800 --> 00:37:50,120 Speaker 5: is it? 794 00:37:50,320 --> 00:37:51,120 Speaker 4: Forearms? 795 00:37:51,719 --> 00:37:55,239 Speaker 5: Oh? They need to look like so not the bicep, 796 00:37:55,320 --> 00:37:56,520 Speaker 5: the forearm. 797 00:37:56,280 --> 00:37:58,759 Speaker 2: Oh will byteps? Good do aren't they? I guess it 798 00:37:58,760 --> 00:38:05,359 Speaker 2: would be ridiculous if you had nice forearms, not that 799 00:38:05,520 --> 00:38:12,440 Speaker 2: massive like you've roided like in the forearm, but strong forearms? 800 00:38:13,520 --> 00:38:15,360 Speaker 5: What about it? Like the bra boys? 801 00:38:15,480 --> 00:38:18,680 Speaker 2: I don't really care. I don't care about ink in 802 00:38:18,840 --> 00:38:21,040 Speaker 2: or you know, I notice inc when I see it 803 00:38:21,160 --> 00:38:25,560 Speaker 2: on the street, but I don't How did I get 804 00:38:25,640 --> 00:38:28,120 Speaker 2: dragged into this conversation. It's funny you should say that 805 00:38:28,160 --> 00:38:30,719 Speaker 2: because number two on the list is that people are 806 00:38:30,719 --> 00:38:34,279 Speaker 2: going to start prioritizing personal qualities. So they're going to 807 00:38:34,800 --> 00:38:38,919 Speaker 2: They're not worried about physical physicality anymore. They're worried about 808 00:38:38,960 --> 00:38:42,239 Speaker 2: trustworthiness and shared values, all of that kind of thing. 809 00:38:42,680 --> 00:38:45,480 Speaker 5: The list is a bit boring talking about you. 810 00:38:45,520 --> 00:38:47,640 Speaker 2: They're saying that they are going to take advice from 811 00:38:47,719 --> 00:38:50,319 Speaker 2: the universe, so they're going to start paying attention to 812 00:38:50,400 --> 00:38:56,239 Speaker 2: astrology and singles. Singles. Maybe we don't even want to date, 813 00:38:56,480 --> 00:38:59,399 Speaker 2: or people who are single don't want to date. They're 814 00:38:59,440 --> 00:39:01,080 Speaker 2: just going to get busy with hobbies. 815 00:39:01,160 --> 00:39:04,960 Speaker 3: This year's excitement for you, Tommy, twenty twenty five. We 816 00:39:05,000 --> 00:39:07,440 Speaker 3: had a planning meeting the other day about what's coming. 817 00:39:07,320 --> 00:39:08,040 Speaker 5: Up next year. 818 00:39:08,800 --> 00:39:11,919 Speaker 3: I would be honored to be part of a team 819 00:39:11,960 --> 00:39:14,840 Speaker 3: that possibly worked on the adventure of finding Kate Richie 820 00:39:15,120 --> 00:39:16,120 Speaker 3: someone special in. 821 00:39:16,000 --> 00:39:21,760 Speaker 2: Her life I can find. I'm very fine, very fine. 822 00:39:22,400 --> 00:39:28,399 Speaker 2: If I wanted to find, I could find on my own, 823 00:39:29,000 --> 00:39:32,120 Speaker 2: although I also say it is very difficult to find. 824 00:39:32,239 --> 00:39:33,120 Speaker 5: Just of course it is, and. 825 00:39:33,080 --> 00:39:35,759 Speaker 3: That's why we're here Luna Park, Tommy book out the 826 00:39:35,800 --> 00:39:37,920 Speaker 3: whole thing great, I. 827 00:39:37,800 --> 00:39:40,200 Speaker 2: Can't find love at Luna Park. I would walk into 828 00:39:40,200 --> 00:39:43,920 Speaker 2: that mouth and think that that funny, that big funny 829 00:39:43,920 --> 00:39:45,320 Speaker 2: face was laughing. 830 00:39:44,960 --> 00:39:48,560 Speaker 4: At Do you think she's going to find love here Sydney. 831 00:39:48,680 --> 00:39:55,800 Speaker 5: Zoo. Oh, that's biggest singles party ever, Carmen's, Carmen's in Miranda. 832 00:39:56,440 --> 00:40:00,440 Speaker 4: I'm not allowed to go to the next singles party myself. 833 00:40:00,520 --> 00:40:01,880 Speaker 5: Five thousand singles. 834 00:40:02,400 --> 00:40:06,000 Speaker 6: Let's do another singles party next year because we know 835 00:40:06,120 --> 00:40:08,480 Speaker 6: this year was quite successful. 836 00:40:09,719 --> 00:40:11,720 Speaker 2: What are you even talking about? 837 00:40:12,120 --> 00:40:16,560 Speaker 3: Oh my goodness, I feel left out of saying quite 838 00:40:16,560 --> 00:40:17,319 Speaker 3: successful and I. 839 00:40:17,320 --> 00:40:19,080 Speaker 5: Should have joined you. But do you want me to 840 00:40:19,120 --> 00:40:21,920 Speaker 5: do it? Can we go out? Can you go get yeah? Tommy? 841 00:40:21,920 --> 00:40:24,279 Speaker 5: Can we have another singles party next year because this 842 00:40:24,440 --> 00:40:25,000 Speaker 5: year is was? 843 00:40:30,680 --> 00:40:37,640 Speaker 2: Oh my god? Do you know what? I hate all 844 00:40:37,719 --> 00:40:38,719 Speaker 2: of you so much? 845 00:40:40,280 --> 00:40:43,439 Speaker 3: Whippa with Kate Ritchie is a Nova podcast walk great 846 00:40:43,480 --> 00:40:44,239 Speaker 3: shows like this. 847 00:40:44,560 --> 00:40:47,680 Speaker 5: Download the Nova player by the app Store or Google 848 00:40:47,719 --> 00:40:49,080 Speaker 5: playing the player