WEBVTT - You don't give a sh** about my things!

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<v Speaker 1>Apod Shape Production. Welcome back to another episode about I

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<v Speaker 1>A Bad Mum podcast. Can you believe? We're halfway through

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<v Speaker 1>the year?

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<v Speaker 2>Do you know what someone said to me the other

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<v Speaker 2>day It had ticked over into July, and they went, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>my gosh, can you believe for like six months from Christmas?

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<v Speaker 2>And I was like, what's wrong with you? Why are

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<v Speaker 2>you even thinking about Christmas right now? It is July.

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<v Speaker 1>It's actually five months. I don't want to talk about it.

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<v Speaker 2>That's just so close to me turning forty next year.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh you know what's good though? Remember that year that

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<v Speaker 1>you did lay By. You put stuff on coming out

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<v Speaker 1>like June July sales.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's coming up.

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<v Speaker 1>And then you were super organized and you had all

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<v Speaker 1>your Christmas shopping done and paid for before Christmas? What

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<v Speaker 1>about that? What about we start now? I know you

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to start.

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<v Speaker 2>This is my thing that I came up with against.

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<v Speaker 2>Just give you some pros and cons with doing that. Yes,

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<v Speaker 2>the price point obviously is dramatically reduced because I think

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<v Speaker 2>all of them, like Big w Target, all of them

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<v Speaker 2>come up right now with that half yearly sale. And

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<v Speaker 2>at that time when my kids were that age, they

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<v Speaker 2>still wanted toys as such, and I find that I've

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<v Speaker 2>flipped into another category of sort of like the nine

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<v Speaker 2>and eleven and not really wanting the toys as such.

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<v Speaker 2>Does it make sense? And so I'm in that pickle

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<v Speaker 2>of going no other places are really doing those big lay.

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<v Speaker 1>By sales or clothes when clothes go on sale at

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<v Speaker 1>this speed of which my children keep growing, my kids

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<v Speaker 1>will be six foot by Christmas.

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<v Speaker 2>Like, I can't keep up. I can't I keep buying

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<v Speaker 2>all this stuff and then they go, oh, we'll just

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<v Speaker 2>sell it if we grow out of it. You don't

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<v Speaker 2>end up selling it. We've got forty five pairs of

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<v Speaker 2>night Pros that you don't fit.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's only in the space of four months. So

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<v Speaker 1>stop growing, Stop growing? And you know the other thing

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<v Speaker 1>I've got coming up?

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<v Speaker 2>Birthday?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and it's not just any birthday, it's sweet.

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<v Speaker 2>Sixteen sixty driver's license, learner's license, learner's license.

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<v Speaker 1>How they going with that?

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<v Speaker 2>Saving up for a car and meeting halfway?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, minus fifteen dollars at the moment.

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<v Speaker 2>Am I a bad mum for completely and utterly losing

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<v Speaker 2>it over mascara?

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<v Speaker 1>Scara?

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<v Speaker 2>This was a pre holiday's incident. That went down in

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<v Speaker 2>the Thirday Household. It came off the back of Gracie

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<v Speaker 2>going to camp. I let her do her own list,

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<v Speaker 2>like as in, she took the piece of paper, she

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<v Speaker 2>packed it. And when I say packed it, she packs

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<v Speaker 2>it as in, lays everything out and then we go

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<v Speaker 2>through just to double check that things aren't missing, yep,

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<v Speaker 2>and then all is well from there.

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<v Speaker 1>And she took all these perfumes.

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<v Speaker 2>Remember I amp did out her whole fucking toiletry bag

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<v Speaker 2>because she had forty five of those genio. I was like, yeah, cool, no,

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<v Speaker 2>so she took one of those that was all fine.

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<v Speaker 2>So I saw the toiletry bag, saw everything that was

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<v Speaker 2>getting packed, saw the sleeping bag and the sheets and

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<v Speaker 2>everything they have to you have take everything that was

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<v Speaker 2>all good now on this sheet of paper. This sheet

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<v Speaker 2>of paper specifically has a section at the bottom that

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<v Speaker 2>says no makeup, no lollies, yeap, no, whatever it was

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<v Speaker 2>basically banned was on the bottom. Yeah, she's had the

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<v Speaker 2>same piece of paper for the whole time of packing,

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<v Speaker 2>so she can read. She's eleven and it says no. Anyway,

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, oh, yeah, that's fair enough. All goes well.

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<v Speaker 2>Off She goes to camp, she comes home from camp.

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<v Speaker 2>What happens when you come home from camp? Bag gets emptied.

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<v Speaker 2>Mum's expected to clean everything. Like I'm talking. Everything was dirty,

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<v Speaker 2>which is fine. Yep. This was a Friday, and then

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<v Speaker 2>this Saturday morning she had dance. So I was doing

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<v Speaker 2>this on the Saturday morning. So put a big load.

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<v Speaker 2>One did the full load of the nine kilos because

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<v Speaker 2>it was so much.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you reckon? Just a quick side note on that.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you wish that you had a second washing machine

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<v Speaker 1>in times like that? People imagine if you had two

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<v Speaker 1>washes and two dryers.

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<v Speaker 2>I couldn't know, because then you just wash more. Oh,

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<v Speaker 2>just the thought of washing. I have so much to

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<v Speaker 2>fold at home right now. I did all of that.

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<v Speaker 2>That was all great, pulled it all out. She's not home,

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<v Speaker 2>she's half an hour off coming home from dance. Sam

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<v Speaker 2>speaking her up. All was going well, life was well.

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<v Speaker 2>Empty out the washing machine. Outcomes of this washing machine

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<v Speaker 2>my brand new muscara that I only just recently bought

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<v Speaker 2>from Mecca Katie. I don't buy much makeup. I don't

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<v Speaker 2>spend money on makeup. It's not my thing. This particular

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<v Speaker 2>mascara cost me, Like I think fifty bucks or sixty

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<v Speaker 2>bucks or something. Right, one stick of muscara, because the

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<v Speaker 2>girl had suggested that I might like this one because

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<v Speaker 2>when you're washing your face, you literally can pull the.

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<v Speaker 1>Pull it off.

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<v Speaker 2>What do you call it? Like that?

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<v Speaker 1>I've heard this too, yes, right, yeah, but I've always

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<v Speaker 1>been like, oh, there's a lot of money to spend

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<v Speaker 1>a mascara, but it works because I'm also lazy and

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<v Speaker 1>time poor, so and I do want to wear it.

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<v Speaker 1>It's easy to get off and I don't have to

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<v Speaker 1>wear It's a convenience, convenience. He's like the Ida of makeup.

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<v Speaker 2>Better out of five star fries.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Well, like I said, the Ida, Ah, I.

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<v Speaker 2>Almost had a kinniption. I was like, why the fuck

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<v Speaker 2>is my mascara in Gracie's clothing? And it was all

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<v Speaker 2>just hers in my washing machine. Now I undid it

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<v Speaker 2>because you know how you do the whole Oh maybe

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<v Speaker 2>it's not gone in there as I've undone it. And

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<v Speaker 2>I'm talking like a week or two, Katie, Like, I

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<v Speaker 2>had this thing for a week or two and I

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<v Speaker 2>undo the thing and I pull it out and this

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<v Speaker 2>is just a fucking trickle of water run out of

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<v Speaker 2>my mascara.

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<v Speaker 1>No, it screwined.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, why why is this here? And I'm thinking,

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<v Speaker 2>oh my god, she wouldn't have And then I tried

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<v Speaker 2>to like walk away from the washing. It just be

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<v Speaker 2>like ninety seconds, just gonna be chill, It's not going

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<v Speaker 2>to be bad. It was bad so bad. Now let's

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<v Speaker 2>fast forward the fact that I've stewed on it for

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<v Speaker 2>thirty minutes and was like still hung out her washing

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<v Speaker 2>did all of that. As she's walked in, she said,

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<v Speaker 2>oh my god, I'm just starving and I can't put

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<v Speaker 2>my bag where I'm just starting. I said, just walk

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<v Speaker 2>your bag to your room and come back and you

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<v Speaker 2>can have something to eat and we'll have a discussion.

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<v Speaker 1>Katie.

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<v Speaker 2>She turned to me and she looked at me and

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<v Speaker 2>she goes, I know what you want to talk about?

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<v Speaker 2>Like how do you know?

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<v Speaker 1>What do you know that I want to talk about it?

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<v Speaker 2>And she was like, I just know, and she walked

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<v Speaker 2>off to put her bag in a room. Ah, it

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<v Speaker 2>was building, and I made sure Sam stayed and she's

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<v Speaker 2>come back around. She stood there and she goes, I

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<v Speaker 2>know yep. I said, So I've just done your washing.

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<v Speaker 2>I said, and what do you think I've found in

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<v Speaker 2>your washing. She goes, yes, I know, I got in

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<v Speaker 2>trouble for it already. What she got in trouble from

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<v Speaker 2>her teachers for wearing mascara on the day that they left,

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<v Speaker 2>and then for having Misscara on camp.

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<v Speaker 1>But you didn't know about that. I didn't know she

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<v Speaker 1>got in trouble. So actually, if she'd have been smart

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<v Speaker 1>about it, she should have come back and put your

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<v Speaker 1>mascara back in your makeup bag before you realized it

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<v Speaker 1>was missing.

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<v Speaker 2>But she didn't.

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<v Speaker 1>She left it in the pocket of her pants and

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<v Speaker 1>then it went through to wash and then she went

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<v Speaker 1>through what I lost it Because she could have probably

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<v Speaker 1>got away with that.

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<v Speaker 2>I said, you're paying for my Misscara. I'm taking it

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<v Speaker 2>out act might even by myself too. Two miscaras, and

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<v Speaker 2>you're paying for both of them because you're replacing the

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<v Speaker 2>one that you've broken. Like that's just wooded logged. I said,

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<v Speaker 2>this whole arm. Why can't you trust me? I'm responsible.

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<v Speaker 2>You don't give me enough credit for Why would I

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<v Speaker 2>do that? And she just stood there and she still

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<v Speaker 2>tried to fight back a little bit. But at the

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<v Speaker 2>same time I think she knew that she was in

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<v Speaker 2>so much trouble. I said to her, I can't. I'm

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<v Speaker 2>just really sad. I'm sad at the moment because you've lied,

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<v Speaker 2>You've gone against everything. You had the piece of paper

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<v Speaker 2>there that clearly said no makeup. You've broken rules of school,

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<v Speaker 2>you've gone against me, and you've taken my stuff. You've

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<v Speaker 2>technically stolen my muscaa and taken it with you.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I'm sad. How about the whole and this is

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<v Speaker 1>kids in general again, but how about the whole fact

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<v Speaker 1>that you don't give a shit about what I work

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<v Speaker 1>hard for? Because I'm always I have this with food

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<v Speaker 1>all the time. I will go and buy stuff lunchbox, nexs,

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<v Speaker 1>whatever it might be, and then i watch them put

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<v Speaker 1>it in the bar and I'm like, I've literally just

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<v Speaker 1>gone and spent money that I've worked hard for on that,

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<v Speaker 1>and then I'm watching you put it straight in the bin.

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<v Speaker 2>What is with that? How to get that fifty and

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<v Speaker 2>fifty at the moment? If you're shopping at IgA, burn

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<v Speaker 2>itt just fucking lin it up and burn it, because

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<v Speaker 2>that's what you're doing right now by tipping all that down.

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<v Speaker 1>I know.

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<v Speaker 2>She just looked at me. She was like, I said,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm sorry. Yeah, I said, I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>I said, I'm sorry. I don't really care. I care

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<v Speaker 1>that I might have to pay it back, and I care.

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<v Speaker 2>That you're right now caring about it.

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<v Speaker 1>I certainly didn't care about the fact that you worked

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<v Speaker 1>hard for that money and spent it on your own mescara.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't care.

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<v Speaker 2>When I took it out, I said, you can watch

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<v Speaker 2>me buy it online as the money comes out of

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<v Speaker 2>your account, I said, because that's got to her. That

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<v Speaker 2>sucks having to buy me a new Messcara. I said,

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<v Speaker 2>I might even get the more expensive one.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm upgrading because it's the Muscara with interest. Now have kids,

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<v Speaker 1>they said, it will be fun.

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<v Speaker 2>You'll also be broke.

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<v Speaker 1>You're you're just broke broke.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you for coming. Thanks for having kids.

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<v Speaker 1>You're broke. Also sorry to Ida. First three of the bus.

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