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Speaker 1: Coming up on Relatables.

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Speaker 2: You're allowed to have problems even when you have a

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Speaker 2: really good job. You're allowed to have problems even when

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Speaker 2: you have like a bad mental state. Yep, but everything

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Speaker 2: around you is going good. You might have a good boyfriend,

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Speaker 2: a good job, good family, but it's still depressed. You're

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Speaker 2: allowed to be depressed. It's just like human he's telling you. No,

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Speaker 2: You've got everything good. Why are you depressed? The Relatables

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Speaker 2: podcast is hosted by myself, Oddy Clark aka Mummy and

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Speaker 2: my partner in crime, mister Jake Craig aka Daddy.

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Speaker 1: Daddy.

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Speaker 2: Let's get straight into it without touching on that point, mate.

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Speaker 1: What have you got to start the episode with today? Okay,

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Speaker 1: so welcome back everybody.

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Speaker 3: I actually we haven't seen each other probably for about

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Speaker 3: a week.

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Speaker 1: Actually it's been a good week. The last time we

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Speaker 1: really good week. It's been just under a week.

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Speaker 2: You're counting the days and I'm thinking this is great

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Speaker 2: a kid.

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Speaker 3: So from the last time we recorded, if you're on

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Speaker 3: actually the highest level Patreon, you would have known.

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Speaker 1: So I went.

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Speaker 3: I went to Melbourne this weekend and went to the

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Speaker 3: Coldplay concert. I highly recommend if you can get tickets.

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Speaker 3: It was fucking hectic.

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Speaker 1: That's so oh yeah, yeah, yeah, I remember, yeah nice man.

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Speaker 1: Highly recommend if you can't get tickets. But so I

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Speaker 1: don't know how long this tour of theres is where

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Speaker 1: you live. I don't know if you could get this

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Speaker 1: year in advest job.

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Speaker 3: Who knows, but watch some videos maybe. But basically okay,

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Speaker 3: So it was like my dad's Christmas present to the family.

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Speaker 3: That's what we got for Christmas last year. And so

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Speaker 3: it was we had to go enteripation.

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Speaker 1: Great. He got tickets for Melbourne and we are from

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Speaker 1: Sydney a region.

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Speaker 3: Basically, I don't even want to talk about cold Blay,

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Speaker 3: but a lot of my family did. So when we

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Speaker 3: like he could hook it on. And there was wheels

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Speaker 3: on his bag, nicking you could go on to his business.

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Speaker 3: Bag and he's and I could see him trying to

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Speaker 3: Like first instinct was like I was about to be like, oh,

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Speaker 3: let me help you.

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Speaker 3: I was gonna be like, oh, let me help you.

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Speaker 3: And then I decided not to because I was like,

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Speaker 3: he probably gets that all the time and gets so

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Speaker 3: fucking annoyed some random guy trying to just like be

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Speaker 3: a hero. Yeah, you know, because I have a in

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Speaker 3: that she's not paraplegic, but like she has like minimal

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Speaker 3: use of limbs and she gets a little annoyed if

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Speaker 3: I would like to ask you, Oh, what you think

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Speaker 3: happened next?

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Speaker 2: So something happened, Well, we probably asked your help, so

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Speaker 2: we saw you probably staring at him more WHEELI.

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Speaker 1: So I was like I would like say, I mean

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Speaker 2: From because I'm probably thinking Jake in his head probably

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Speaker 2: And like actually he's just looking at him and like

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Speaker 2: and the guy's probably like this guy gonna ask to help.

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Speaker 3: True.

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Speaker 1: True, it's a good point.

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Speaker 3: So I thought I was being discreted, and so I

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Speaker 3: Just before I could even think my next thought, yeah,

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Speaker 1: Back and back he went no, not kidding, oh that

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Speaker 3: Slow motion, and I was like, like, fuck slow motion.

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Speaker 1: He had to kind of like give up.

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Speaker 3: He fell back, and then obviously, like I was near him,

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Speaker 3: so I rushed over. Yeah, and then my dad and

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Speaker 3: what happened. He fucking fell back, but and he wasn't talking.

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Speaker 3: He was just like oh, He's like I'm alright, I'm right.

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Speaker 3: And so then his fucking leg was stuck in his chair.

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Speaker 1: They helped him back in his dad. My dad was like,

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Speaker 1: Like she was like just three two one full, completely

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Speaker 3: And so I felt terrible. I felt so so bad.

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Speaker 3: Like he got himself sorted out, like his wife got

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Speaker 1: Her bag and they went off.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and he was obviously he would have been quite embarrassed.

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Speaker 3: He didn't really say anything, and I was like, fair enough.

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Speaker 3: She said thank you. And then I went over to

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Speaker 3: I was so close to offering for help, but I

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Speaker 3: My dad goes same, because my dad must have been

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Speaker 3: watching him. Yeah, and he goes same. Here I nearly

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Speaker 3: offered to help him, but I was like, he gets

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Speaker 1: Probably I don't want to be a dick.

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Speaker 3: And so now more all the stories every time and

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Speaker 3: anytime I see someone in a wheelchair, I'm sorry, I'm

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Speaker 2: Okay, that's a good outcome to the story. I guess

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Speaker 2: it's better also to offer and get rejected rather than

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Speaker 2: not offer at all.

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Speaker 1: True.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, Like I'd rather offer and then be even

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Speaker 1: I don't care. At least I know I offered. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: I felt terrible, and my younger sister, she saw her

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Speaker 1: She cried. She felt so bad. I just felt terrible.

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Speaker 1: So it must have been so embarrassing. He wasn't hurt,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, And I have a feeling it was

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Speaker 1: Getting was like he had not been a paraplegic for long.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so he's still learning probably, yeah, because like, yeah,

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Speaker 3: you had this big scar. I just felt so fucking bad,

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Speaker 3: That story has a really good like moral behind it,

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Speaker 3: like I will now be offering help regardless of whether and.

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Speaker 2: It's better for you to get rejected than someone who's

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Speaker 1: Yeah, just to say no, I guess yeah.

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Speaker 3: I felt, yeah, what would you I'm trying to and

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Speaker 1: I had the exact same thinking process, yeah, like don't

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I would have thought, I don't want to

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Speaker 2: this guy's always going to Yeah, you appreciate it.

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Speaker 1: Sad story, but.

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Speaker 2: It makes you appreciate like what you've gotten. Also like

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Speaker 2: like it's better to be rejected.

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Speaker 3: I guess yeah, no, good point, Well, definitely better to

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Speaker 1: Yeah. And then we saw him again. I'm ature, I

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Speaker 1: reckon they went to Coldplay.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, because because we were flying home and checked checked

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Speaker 3: And so we're on the plane and I was filming

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Speaker 3: it happened to us once before. The air hostess just

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Speaker 3: and he goes, oh, like do you have a blog

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Speaker 1: And I was like, oh, no, I actually have a podcast.

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Speaker 3: And I was talking to him in the in the

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Speaker 1: And I was like, I'm actually here with my family

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Speaker 1: go to Coldplay and he goes, oh, same yeah.

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Speaker 3: And then as he's like, I'm like, oh, here's my

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Speaker 3: family see, he goes, yeah, see you.

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Speaker 1: Tonight, and I was like what. I was like, Oh,

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Speaker 1: I have a good night. He was like, oh, yeah,

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Speaker 1: see you tonight. And I was like, dude, there's gonna

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Speaker 1: be like seventy thousand. I do not think we're going

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Speaker 1: to see each other. And then I was praying. I

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Speaker 1: Is that the guy I recognized you? Yeah? Yeah, yeah?

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Speaker 3: Oh no no no, the guy the person recognized me

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Speaker 3: was then the air hosting Yeah, like my.

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Speaker 2: I don't know what to say, and then your brain

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Speaker 2: Okay, Jake, I think we can all agree. Something that's

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Speaker 2: And have you ever seen those videos of like I

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Speaker 2: So I've got how much does things cost? And the

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Speaker 2: It goes on sales sometimes, but bog standard sixteen bucks man,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, everything's like half the price shit. Audian woollies are

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Speaker 2: just terrible. They're price gouging. Coals and wollies Yeah yeah yeah,

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Speaker 2: Okay, how much does it cost? Twenty twenty four twurd

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Speaker 1: I was like, you've got what I've got. I don't

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Speaker 2: That's crazy to pay eighty two point five thousand dollars

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Speaker 3: People will order two, yeah, and then when they get

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Speaker 3: But whenever we see one of these, Beth is like,

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Speaker 2: Okay, this is where it gets interesting. How much does

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Speaker 1: Is that you guess? Yeah? A million and seventy thousand?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, So what is the median house price Sydney Bondai Bondie?

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Speaker 1: Talk about unattainable? Really, how wild is that? Like?

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Speaker 2: I just don't understand how these people are making so

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Speaker 1: I just don't get it. I want to leave it

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Speaker 2: So obviously, interest rates very basis on the interest rate

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Speaker 3: Oh? It's something crazy I very recently have been looking

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it makes it's very man.

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Speaker 2: Life kicks you in the ball sometimes though, it does.

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Speaker 1: We all win?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like we all everything's affordable, we all just have

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Speaker 1: Off you doing this? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: I actually like you live, you leave the house these

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Speaker 2: consumerism too, and it's just like when did we get

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00:19:30,600 --> 00:19:33,360
Speaker 2: like that? Even like the housing market became a business.

447
00:19:34,320 --> 00:19:36,359
Speaker 1: It did, didn't it. It's now a business of people.

448
00:19:36,359 --> 00:19:38,280
Speaker 2: And then the people who have families got to spend

449
00:19:38,359 --> 00:19:40,160
Speaker 2: thirty years to pay off a million dollar house which

450
00:19:40,160 --> 00:19:41,680
Speaker 2: will cost them fucking four million dollars.

451
00:19:42,680 --> 00:19:46,160
Speaker 3: Oh man, I don't even know, Yeah, I just speak.

452
00:19:46,200 --> 00:19:49,080
Speaker 3: You know what makes it makes you think like are

453
00:19:49,160 --> 00:19:52,680
Speaker 3: we so it makes you if we talk about maybe

454
00:19:52,680 --> 00:19:58,000
Speaker 3: the podcast or our own lives, like we're in it?

455
00:19:58,440 --> 00:19:58,880
Speaker 1: Yeah?

456
00:19:58,720 --> 00:20:00,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, like we we are in it, Like

457
00:20:00,720 --> 00:20:04,800
Speaker 3: I drive it, Hayand I guess if we had just

458
00:20:04,840 --> 00:20:07,360
Speaker 3: like a dumb amount of disposable income and our account

459
00:20:07,400 --> 00:20:09,480
Speaker 3: was like, boys, you're either going to pay this much

460
00:20:09,480 --> 00:20:10,400
Speaker 3: in tax, we.

461
00:20:10,400 --> 00:20:13,840
Speaker 1: Can go buy a brand new car and fucking you.

462
00:20:13,840 --> 00:20:17,040
Speaker 3: Won't pay this much in tax, I'd be like, well

463
00:20:17,080 --> 00:20:19,080
Speaker 3: fuck it, yeah, give me a new car, Like that's

464
00:20:19,080 --> 00:20:20,640
Speaker 3: gonna be hectic, like and but.

465
00:20:20,680 --> 00:20:24,560
Speaker 1: My car, like genuinely like it. Fine. I drive to

466
00:20:24,600 --> 00:20:26,439
Speaker 1: Sydney like twice a week in it and it's an

467
00:20:26,440 --> 00:20:28,040
Speaker 1: hour and a half drive and it's fine.

468
00:20:28,520 --> 00:20:31,159
Speaker 2: Growing up and figuring out all these issues. It's just like,

469
00:20:32,320 --> 00:20:34,200
Speaker 2: I don't know, it just makes me sad. I know,

470
00:20:34,720 --> 00:20:37,199
Speaker 2: it's just like also and there's nothing you can do

471
00:20:37,240 --> 00:20:37,639
Speaker 2: about it.

472
00:20:37,800 --> 00:20:41,040
Speaker 3: Nah, true, Like honestly, there is nothing it's but also

473
00:20:41,119 --> 00:20:48,200
Speaker 3: like we're very very lucky as well, Like it's so easy.

474
00:20:48,280 --> 00:20:50,880
Speaker 3: I find it so easy to talk about everything we're

475
00:20:50,880 --> 00:20:54,240
Speaker 3: talking about right now and and be like, fuck, you

476
00:20:54,280 --> 00:20:58,720
Speaker 3: know so hard, which it is. You know, everyone's everyone's

477
00:20:58,720 --> 00:21:00,119
Speaker 3: a hardships.

478
00:20:59,600 --> 00:20:59,960
Speaker 1: Of their own.

479
00:21:00,560 --> 00:21:02,800
Speaker 3: Everyone has a different opinion, everyone's experienced life in a

480
00:21:02,800 --> 00:21:03,280
Speaker 3: different way.

481
00:21:03,920 --> 00:21:05,400
Speaker 1: But also just.

482
00:21:07,560 --> 00:21:10,320
Speaker 3: Trying to like accept the fact that not even accepting

483
00:21:10,320 --> 00:21:13,240
Speaker 3: the fact, just trying to remember the fact that where

484
00:21:13,240 --> 00:21:16,960
Speaker 3: we were born makes us lucky. Having parents that are

485
00:21:17,000 --> 00:21:20,480
Speaker 3: like supportive make us lucky having I.

486
00:21:20,400 --> 00:21:22,160
Speaker 2: Don't know any They put it, well, that's a good

487
00:21:22,200 --> 00:21:24,600
Speaker 2: tip to help putting your life into perspective of thinking

488
00:21:24,600 --> 00:21:27,600
Speaker 2: about like other people aren't as lucky even though they

489
00:21:27,600 --> 00:21:30,840
Speaker 2: are our problems, like they're good problems to have, but

490
00:21:30,880 --> 00:21:33,159
Speaker 2: there's still is hard. But that's a good tip to

491
00:21:33,280 --> 00:21:35,840
Speaker 2: like help the situation, especially if it's becoming overwhelming with

492
00:21:35,920 --> 00:21:38,199
Speaker 2: all these fucking cost of living crissis is going on,

493
00:21:38,240 --> 00:21:40,040
Speaker 2: And we're very privileged to be in certain positions that

494
00:21:40,080 --> 00:21:41,240
Speaker 2: some people aren't privileged to be in.

495
00:21:42,640 --> 00:21:47,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, I was watching some Ted talks yesterday and one

496
00:21:47,480 --> 00:21:50,879
Speaker 3: of them, maybe I was thinking about not bringing it

497
00:21:50,960 --> 00:21:52,720
Speaker 3: up because it was a little confusing, but it actually

498
00:21:52,760 --> 00:21:55,239
Speaker 3: had a pretty good message. And but one of these

499
00:21:55,320 --> 00:21:59,240
Speaker 3: like little stats in there was that they've they've obviously

500
00:21:59,240 --> 00:22:03,240
Speaker 3: there's so different studies on the human psyche, and one

501
00:22:03,240 --> 00:22:07,320
Speaker 3: of them was that this guy said was that you know,

502
00:22:07,480 --> 00:22:08,280
Speaker 3: people that.

503
00:22:09,720 --> 00:22:11,560
Speaker 1: Hold value, like hold.

504
00:22:11,600 --> 00:22:15,320
Speaker 3: The value of money over other things, they are like

505
00:22:15,880 --> 00:22:20,680
Speaker 3: a crazy percentage higher chance of being clinically depressed. Really yeah,

506
00:22:20,720 --> 00:22:23,480
Speaker 3: And I was just like, I mean, look it, fuck it,

507
00:22:23,560 --> 00:22:25,720
Speaker 3: probably're not wrong because you are chasing just like this

508
00:22:25,880 --> 00:22:27,600
Speaker 3: random little material thing like.

509
00:22:27,800 --> 00:22:29,840
Speaker 2: Well, one thing funny you bring that up, actually is

510
00:22:29,840 --> 00:22:31,720
Speaker 2: like one thing I've been trying to practice a little

511
00:22:31,720 --> 00:22:36,560
Speaker 2: bit more is definitely unhealthy with our job. There's always

512
00:22:36,560 --> 00:22:40,080
Speaker 2: one more thing you can do. And I'm trying to

513
00:22:40,119 --> 00:22:43,000
Speaker 2: detach myself from that a little bit and take the

514
00:22:43,080 --> 00:22:46,000
Speaker 2: time to do something with a friend or communicate with

515
00:22:46,040 --> 00:22:51,439
Speaker 2: someone that I don't necessarily like it doesn't outcome the

516
00:22:51,640 --> 00:22:53,919
Speaker 2: podcast better, Yeah, if that makes sense, Like I'll just

517
00:22:53,920 --> 00:22:55,399
Speaker 2: go and sit out, have a coffee down and have

518
00:22:55,480 --> 00:22:56,919
Speaker 2: lunch for a couple of hours with my mate and

519
00:22:56,960 --> 00:22:58,359
Speaker 2: not think about Fuck, I've got to go home and

520
00:22:58,359 --> 00:23:00,000
Speaker 2: do this fucking thing for the pot I've got to research,

521
00:23:00,119 --> 00:23:02,880
Speaker 2: is I got to edit this, like because that's building

522
00:23:02,960 --> 00:23:05,520
Speaker 2: our brand. But then my mental health may be taking

523
00:23:05,520 --> 00:23:08,000
Speaker 2: a bit of a beating. But doing this is I

524
00:23:08,080 --> 00:23:10,119
Speaker 2: got to accept that that's beneficial for me just talking

525
00:23:10,119 --> 00:23:13,200
Speaker 2: to someone, communication and like finding a balance between the two.

526
00:23:13,560 --> 00:23:14,680
Speaker 1: That's a very good point.

527
00:23:14,880 --> 00:23:20,240
Speaker 3: We're also the first, the first humans in all of

528
00:23:20,560 --> 00:23:24,640
Speaker 3: human history to be not part of tribes.

529
00:23:25,119 --> 00:23:26,679
Speaker 1: Oh, meaning so.

530
00:23:26,920 --> 00:23:31,679
Speaker 3: Men and women human beings are where tribal creatures like

531
00:23:31,960 --> 00:23:34,159
Speaker 3: to be in a group, like as a sense of belonging,

532
00:23:34,160 --> 00:23:35,000
Speaker 3: like we.

533
00:23:34,640 --> 00:23:37,080
Speaker 1: We need belonging, like we need it.

534
00:23:37,400 --> 00:23:40,280
Speaker 3: But now for some reason, there's this whole thing of

535
00:23:40,320 --> 00:23:42,919
Speaker 3: like we need to do everything on our own to

536
00:23:43,080 --> 00:23:47,000
Speaker 3: feel fulfilled, accomplished, accomplished or so.

537
00:23:47,160 --> 00:23:47,280
Speaker 1: Like.

538
00:23:47,720 --> 00:23:50,520
Speaker 3: For instance, if you were maybe feeling shit about yourself,

539
00:23:50,720 --> 00:23:52,359
Speaker 3: you'd probably say to yourself, I mean, I'm guilty of

540
00:23:52,359 --> 00:23:54,479
Speaker 3: but you probably say yourself, like, you know, I need

541
00:23:54,520 --> 00:23:56,679
Speaker 3: to fucking sort this out and not bring it up,

542
00:23:57,080 --> 00:23:58,960
Speaker 3: you know, be like this isn't anyone else's problem but

543
00:23:59,040 --> 00:23:59,320
Speaker 3: my own.

544
00:24:00,160 --> 00:24:01,040
Speaker 1: As back in the.

545
00:24:01,080 --> 00:24:05,280
Speaker 3: Day when we were in tribes, if you had an

546
00:24:05,320 --> 00:24:08,400
Speaker 3: issue you bring it up everyone and it's everyone's issue

547
00:24:08,840 --> 00:24:11,439
Speaker 3: and everyone like it's like if you're down, we're all

548
00:24:11,520 --> 00:24:13,320
Speaker 3: like the weakest link is what we are.

549
00:24:13,359 --> 00:24:14,199
Speaker 1: We need everyone to be.

550
00:24:14,280 --> 00:24:16,600
Speaker 2: We're no longer a team really, Yeah, we're not a

551
00:24:16,680 --> 00:24:18,600
Speaker 2: team at all. If you have a good family, you

552
00:24:18,600 --> 00:24:20,600
Speaker 2: have a good family team. But otherwise we do have

553
00:24:20,600 --> 00:24:22,280
Speaker 2: this weird independence power trip, don't we.

554
00:24:22,440 --> 00:24:22,720
Speaker 1: Yeah.

555
00:24:22,880 --> 00:24:24,760
Speaker 2: It's like I've got to do everything by myself. I've

556
00:24:24,760 --> 00:24:26,040
Speaker 2: got to be independent. I've got to pay my bills,

557
00:24:26,080 --> 00:24:27,879
Speaker 2: I've got to have a good mental health. I've got

558
00:24:27,920 --> 00:24:30,080
Speaker 2: to do everything by myself. I don't know why I

559
00:24:30,080 --> 00:24:32,320
Speaker 2: god like that. Hey, it's weird because you do need

560
00:24:33,000 --> 00:24:36,159
Speaker 2: Like the whole thing about humanity is connection. It's like

561
00:24:36,600 --> 00:24:39,240
Speaker 2: that makes us work good. That's what humans need is

562
00:24:39,280 --> 00:24:43,680
Speaker 2: to connect to people. Yep, but it's just growing up's hard.

563
00:24:44,640 --> 00:24:47,600
Speaker 1: It is hard. It's hard. Yeah, I don't even know

564
00:24:47,640 --> 00:24:49,200
Speaker 1: where fuck where we could go.

565
00:24:49,240 --> 00:24:51,080
Speaker 2: We could talk about even mindset right now is like

566
00:24:51,080 --> 00:24:52,680
Speaker 2: should I be complaining about it? We're in a good position,

567
00:24:52,760 --> 00:24:54,119
Speaker 2: but it's like it is hard.

568
00:24:54,960 --> 00:24:56,159
Speaker 1: Fuck. A good point.

569
00:24:57,359 --> 00:25:00,879
Speaker 2: That's relatable for anyone, Like you're allowed to have problems

570
00:25:00,920 --> 00:25:02,800
Speaker 2: even when you have a really good job. You're allowed

571
00:25:02,840 --> 00:25:06,040
Speaker 2: to have problems even when you have like a bad

572
00:25:06,080 --> 00:25:08,560
Speaker 2: mental state. Yep, but everything around you is going good.

573
00:25:08,560 --> 00:25:10,080
Speaker 2: You might have a good boyfriend, a good job, good

574
00:25:10,080 --> 00:25:12,280
Speaker 2: family view. It is still depressed. You're allowed to be depressed.

575
00:25:12,280 --> 00:25:13,639
Speaker 2: It's just like human he's telling you. No, You've got

576
00:25:13,640 --> 00:25:14,800
Speaker 2: everything good. Why are you depressed?

577
00:25:15,200 --> 00:25:15,480
Speaker 1: Fuck?

578
00:25:16,119 --> 00:25:18,000
Speaker 3: What you just said was fucking insane. Do you want

579
00:25:18,520 --> 00:25:19,280
Speaker 3: dilemmas time?

580
00:25:19,359 --> 00:25:23,000
Speaker 1: Okay? Because what you do? Fuck? Listen to this? All right?

581
00:25:23,040 --> 00:25:24,879
Speaker 3: Well, so we're going to go into dilemmas going off

582
00:25:24,920 --> 00:25:27,760
Speaker 3: what I just said. I feel like I have a

583
00:25:27,800 --> 00:25:31,840
Speaker 3: pretty perfect life. I am twenty five. I have a

584
00:25:31,840 --> 00:25:36,280
Speaker 3: good job, financial stability, a really happy relationship. I live

585
00:25:36,280 --> 00:25:38,800
Speaker 3: in a great city with lots of opportunity. I have

586
00:25:38,840 --> 00:25:41,879
Speaker 3: a variety of hobbies and a good friend group. But

587
00:25:43,000 --> 00:25:46,879
Speaker 3: I keep feeling a really strong urge to up and

588
00:25:47,000 --> 00:25:50,119
Speaker 3: leave it all, give it all up, and move to

589
00:25:50,200 --> 00:25:54,040
Speaker 3: another country without warning. I feel really guilty for feeling

590
00:25:54,119 --> 00:25:56,560
Speaker 3: this way, as I have most of what anyone could

591
00:25:56,560 --> 00:26:01,760
Speaker 3: ever want in quotations, Recently, a couple of opportunities in

592
00:26:01,880 --> 00:26:04,960
Speaker 3: this city fell through, leaving me feeling the only reason

593
00:26:05,000 --> 00:26:08,480
Speaker 3: I'm still here is my relationship. He is absolutely wonderful

594
00:26:08,720 --> 00:26:10,840
Speaker 3: and I want to be with him. He also can't

595
00:26:10,920 --> 00:26:13,159
Speaker 3: leave this city at the moment due to his own commitments.

596
00:26:13,560 --> 00:26:16,560
Speaker 3: I feel a really strong need to follow opportunities overseas

597
00:26:16,800 --> 00:26:20,520
Speaker 3: study slash career, slash sports, but don't know how to

598
00:26:20,520 --> 00:26:23,240
Speaker 3: approach this conversation with him. Is it normal to feel

599
00:26:23,280 --> 00:26:26,359
Speaker 3: so cloustrophobic with a good stable life? How can I

600
00:26:26,400 --> 00:26:29,760
Speaker 3: choose between my relationship slash stability and the complete unknown?

601
00:26:30,359 --> 00:26:32,480
Speaker 1: Wow, I didn't even know that dilemma was coming.

602
00:26:32,560 --> 00:26:34,119
Speaker 3: No, That's why I was like, well, that's why I

603
00:26:34,119 --> 00:26:36,560
Speaker 3: was like, wait, well, because I was thinking, Fuck, I

604
00:26:36,560 --> 00:26:37,639
Speaker 3: was keen to bring that dilemma up.

605
00:26:37,640 --> 00:26:39,000
Speaker 1: I didn't think we were going to talk about all

606
00:26:39,000 --> 00:26:43,199
Speaker 1: that chat. Mm yeah. Ah, it's such a relatable dilemma.

607
00:26:43,240 --> 00:26:46,119
Speaker 2: It's just like so like she has everything and she

608
00:26:46,160 --> 00:26:50,760
Speaker 2: feels guilty that she doesn't feel like that's what she wants. Yeah,

609
00:26:50,760 --> 00:26:52,719
Speaker 2: it's so relatable to have all these things too and

610
00:26:52,760 --> 00:26:56,439
Speaker 2: like not know what you want, like ah yeah. And

611
00:26:56,600 --> 00:27:01,119
Speaker 2: it's also like society has put this false perception that

612
00:27:02,160 --> 00:27:04,280
Speaker 2: what you've got is good, Like why.

613
00:27:04,160 --> 00:27:06,880
Speaker 1: Is why is all that good? Yeah? Why is it good?

614
00:27:06,920 --> 00:27:09,040
Speaker 1: Like it doesn't mean it's necessarily good for me, Like

615
00:27:09,080 --> 00:27:10,560
Speaker 1: he's all that good because you were told your whole

616
00:27:10,600 --> 00:27:11,560
Speaker 1: life that's what you should have.

617
00:27:11,920 --> 00:27:14,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's it's It's like the simplest thing that bring

618
00:27:14,520 --> 00:27:16,800
Speaker 2: it back to is like you finished school, go to UNI,

619
00:27:17,240 --> 00:27:19,640
Speaker 2: you should be good. Yeah if as soon as you finish,

620
00:27:19,720 --> 00:27:20,840
Speaker 2: Like what do you mean you should be good? Like

621
00:27:20,840 --> 00:27:23,040
Speaker 2: I'm gonna be depressed after I studied for four years

622
00:27:23,040 --> 00:27:24,760
Speaker 2: and now I'm putting the workforce and I don't understand

623
00:27:24,760 --> 00:27:26,119
Speaker 2: how life is. What do you mean I should be

624
00:27:26,160 --> 00:27:27,679
Speaker 2: good Now I'm getting paid one hundred ker Now I'm

625
00:27:27,680 --> 00:27:28,680
Speaker 2: a fucking mess.

626
00:27:28,800 --> 00:27:31,879
Speaker 3: It's like if you were to bring this up with

627
00:27:31,880 --> 00:27:34,040
Speaker 3: someone and they were to judge you, like, you know,

628
00:27:34,160 --> 00:27:36,160
Speaker 3: well you should have done this a few years ago.

629
00:27:36,160 --> 00:27:39,400
Speaker 1: It's like, but who says that? Why? Who made that rule?

630
00:27:39,440 --> 00:27:41,679
Speaker 2: It's like this mental juggle in your head that I

631
00:27:41,680 --> 00:27:43,960
Speaker 2: should be happy because I've got all this behind me.

632
00:27:44,119 --> 00:27:47,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, but like why who made the rule that I'm

633
00:27:47,600 --> 00:27:49,400
Speaker 1: allowed to that I'm not allowed to like.

634
00:27:49,359 --> 00:27:52,040
Speaker 3: Go back and do more studying and leave the job

635
00:27:52,080 --> 00:27:54,280
Speaker 3: that I've got even though it's great financially stable, all

636
00:27:54,320 --> 00:27:55,960
Speaker 3: this stuff, Like who made the rule that I'm not

637
00:27:56,000 --> 00:27:57,160
Speaker 3: allowed to change my life.

638
00:27:57,920 --> 00:28:03,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, honestly, it's a really it becomes a really honorable person.

639
00:28:03,640 --> 00:28:08,639
Speaker 2: Honorable person when like you can detach from what society

640
00:28:08,680 --> 00:28:13,119
Speaker 2: thinks and really, like I guess that's listening to your heart.

641
00:28:13,520 --> 00:28:16,560
Speaker 2: And the dilemma cender anyone like this is like it

642
00:28:16,600 --> 00:28:19,679
Speaker 2: puts yourself first, really because she probably doesn't know what

643
00:28:19,720 --> 00:28:22,159
Speaker 2: she wants, but her soul is calling for something different

644
00:28:22,840 --> 00:28:24,399
Speaker 2: and she needs to find something and she doesn't know

645
00:28:24,440 --> 00:28:26,679
Speaker 2: what it is. And some people won't listen to that

646
00:28:27,400 --> 00:28:29,399
Speaker 2: soul and they'll continue to grind because that's what you

647
00:28:29,480 --> 00:28:29,960
Speaker 2: told to do.

648
00:28:30,560 --> 00:28:31,879
Speaker 1: And I really envy. I think I have it a

649
00:28:31,920 --> 00:28:32,800
Speaker 1: little bit. I could be better.

650
00:28:32,800 --> 00:28:36,320
Speaker 2: I think you're pretty good in listening to like your heart,

651
00:28:36,880 --> 00:28:39,160
Speaker 2: making it relatable for us. Like when we first started

652
00:28:39,160 --> 00:28:41,160
Speaker 2: the potty and we made zero money and we were

653
00:28:41,200 --> 00:28:45,480
Speaker 2: doing it. All our friends in society's eyes and terms

654
00:28:45,880 --> 00:28:50,120
Speaker 2: were getting ahead. They were building their bank account, building

655
00:28:50,120 --> 00:28:53,800
Speaker 2: their positions in jobs, whereas we were. I don't know,

656
00:28:54,040 --> 00:28:56,479
Speaker 2: maybe we've seen as what are these guys doing? But

657
00:28:56,880 --> 00:28:58,840
Speaker 2: we listened to her hard and was like, there's maybe

658
00:28:58,880 --> 00:29:01,560
Speaker 2: something in this hey, And that's what I'm trying to

659
00:29:01,560 --> 00:29:03,840
Speaker 2: make it relatable for me, and I think that's anyone,

660
00:29:04,400 --> 00:29:07,280
Speaker 2: Like it's okay to not do what people think are right.

661
00:29:08,400 --> 00:29:10,560
Speaker 2: It's also like the same dilemma of people think they

662
00:29:10,560 --> 00:29:13,400
Speaker 2: have to have kids. Taking a broad spectrum. Yeah, like

663
00:29:13,480 --> 00:29:15,040
Speaker 2: some people feel guilty when they don't want to have

664
00:29:15,080 --> 00:29:18,160
Speaker 2: a kid. That's a very good point, Like you can

665
00:29:18,200 --> 00:29:21,960
Speaker 2: do it. Taking it back to our like first segments ound,

666
00:29:22,000 --> 00:29:22,400
Speaker 2: do what.

667
00:29:22,320 --> 00:29:24,000
Speaker 1: You want to do, be what you want to be.

668
00:29:23,800 --> 00:29:28,120
Speaker 2: Relatables fad Honestly, Oh, I'm sick of like society just

669
00:29:28,120 --> 00:29:32,000
Speaker 2: like controlling everyone's brain when there's no like they have

670
00:29:32,120 --> 00:29:35,880
Speaker 2: one solution and one set standards for people when every

671
00:29:35,920 --> 00:29:39,080
Speaker 2: single person, every single person listens right now, thoughts are different,

672
00:29:39,080 --> 00:29:41,479
Speaker 2: their body is different, No one understands what's going inside

673
00:29:41,520 --> 00:29:43,400
Speaker 2: your head. But then they have this one model that

674
00:29:43,440 --> 00:29:44,760
Speaker 2: says you'll be right if you do all.

675
00:29:44,640 --> 00:29:47,360
Speaker 1: These things dumb.

676
00:29:47,520 --> 00:29:49,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, Like for fuck my grandparents. They are like the

677
00:29:49,600 --> 00:29:55,120
Speaker 3: type of people that you know they would constantly. It's

678
00:29:55,160 --> 00:29:58,400
Speaker 3: like I was working at a bar and I'd left

679
00:29:58,480 --> 00:30:02,720
Speaker 3: that job because I'd left a carpenter job, which is

680
00:30:02,760 --> 00:30:05,000
Speaker 3: like considered to be very stable, make good money to

681
00:30:05,000 --> 00:30:06,880
Speaker 3: go to be a bartender because I hate a carpentry.

682
00:30:07,400 --> 00:30:08,800
Speaker 3: I was a lot happy to being a bartender and

683
00:30:08,840 --> 00:30:10,040
Speaker 3: they'd be like, you know, you're not going to be

684
00:30:10,040 --> 00:30:12,560
Speaker 3: able to buy a house working there, and I was like, I'll.

685
00:30:12,440 --> 00:30:14,440
Speaker 1: Figure it out one day. Whatever. Yeah.

686
00:30:14,480 --> 00:30:16,720
Speaker 3: And then when I got a manager like upgrade, like

687
00:30:16,880 --> 00:30:20,160
Speaker 3: promoted a manager, that's when they were like, oh, like

688
00:30:20,600 --> 00:30:24,360
Speaker 3: this could be a serious job. And then with the podcast,

689
00:30:24,640 --> 00:30:30,680
Speaker 3: like god, up until May, I'm telling you up until recently, they're.

690
00:30:30,480 --> 00:30:33,520
Speaker 1: Just like what are you doing? And I think I'm

691
00:30:33,520 --> 00:30:34,800
Speaker 1: just good at kind of being like you guys are

692
00:30:34,800 --> 00:30:37,080
Speaker 1: all just old farts.

693
00:30:37,320 --> 00:30:42,000
Speaker 3: But it's just like the different people's opinions and trying

694
00:30:42,000 --> 00:30:45,600
Speaker 3: to disconnect from them is just the hardest thing.

695
00:30:45,720 --> 00:30:49,080
Speaker 2: Well, I think a good question to start asking other

696
00:30:49,120 --> 00:30:53,200
Speaker 2: people and yourself to build a more healthy environment so

697
00:30:53,640 --> 00:30:57,400
Speaker 2: people feel located do what their souls telling them to do.

698
00:30:57,480 --> 00:31:01,440
Speaker 2: Is instead of asking like like I don't know what

699
00:31:02,920 --> 00:31:04,800
Speaker 2: I'm trying to think, like what I'm trying to say,

700
00:31:04,880 --> 00:31:08,880
Speaker 2: ask are you happy? Instead of like what they're doing,

701
00:31:09,000 --> 00:31:10,920
Speaker 2: like what they're doing now, Like no one ever, no

702
00:31:10,920 --> 00:31:12,680
Speaker 2: one gives a fuck whether or not you're happy. Yeah,

703
00:31:12,680 --> 00:31:13,840
Speaker 2: they give a fucker whether or not.

704
00:31:13,800 --> 00:31:16,360
Speaker 3: If you have a good like it's like if you

705
00:31:16,400 --> 00:31:17,960
Speaker 3: hate your job when they say a house working, like

706
00:31:17,960 --> 00:31:19,040
Speaker 3: I actually really hate it and they're like, oh, I

707
00:31:19,080 --> 00:31:20,000
Speaker 3: have it pays good, it doesn't it.

708
00:31:20,080 --> 00:31:21,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, like that asked me if I'm happy.

709
00:31:22,080 --> 00:31:23,720
Speaker 2: No one ever asks if you're happy other than this

710
00:31:23,800 --> 00:31:26,520
Speaker 2: big question of like, are you doing what society is

711
00:31:26,560 --> 00:31:27,120
Speaker 2: telling you to do?

712
00:31:27,280 --> 00:31:29,240
Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah, Like, no one ever asks you what you're happy.

713
00:31:30,560 --> 00:31:33,000
Speaker 1: There is such a good point. No one ever says

714
00:31:33,040 --> 00:31:33,680
Speaker 1: are you happy?

715
00:31:33,760 --> 00:31:36,520
Speaker 2: Because it's not valuable in society's terms, because there's no

716
00:31:36,680 --> 00:31:40,440
Speaker 2: monetary benefit from it. And I think they like to

717
00:31:40,480 --> 00:31:43,600
Speaker 2: normalize people saying like, because I would prefer to fucking

718
00:31:44,040 --> 00:31:47,400
Speaker 2: work in a garden, make sixty k year, be happy,

719
00:31:47,720 --> 00:31:49,640
Speaker 2: then work in a big office for make one hundred

720
00:31:49,640 --> 00:31:51,200
Speaker 2: and twenty k year, double the thing, and then just

721
00:31:51,240 --> 00:31:55,200
Speaker 2: be this depressed little man who is unhappy as all.

722
00:31:55,720 --> 00:31:59,120
Speaker 3: Would you prefer, let's go, would you prefer to work

723
00:31:59,200 --> 00:32:01,480
Speaker 3: in a garden, you know, being nice and chill, just

724
00:32:01,520 --> 00:32:04,000
Speaker 3: like at your own pace, make as much as you need,

725
00:32:04,320 --> 00:32:07,200
Speaker 3: you know, you pay rent, you feed yourself, you've got

726
00:32:07,200 --> 00:32:08,040
Speaker 3: a girlfriend, you're cool.

727
00:32:08,680 --> 00:32:13,280
Speaker 1: Or do the podcast? Oh no, podcast, I'm happy yeah, yeah, yea, yeah,

728
00:32:13,680 --> 00:32:15,080
Speaker 1: well I did this because I wanted to do it.

729
00:32:15,120 --> 00:32:19,520
Speaker 1: That's a good point. Yeah yeah, But okay to the dilemma, Yeah.

730
00:32:19,000 --> 00:32:22,479
Speaker 3: I think I would like I didn't even like obviously,

731
00:32:22,480 --> 00:32:23,680
Speaker 3: I'm not going to give you any sort of like

732
00:32:23,800 --> 00:32:26,120
Speaker 3: financial advice or relationship like we give relationship with fice

733
00:32:26,160 --> 00:32:26,440
Speaker 3: all the time.

734
00:32:26,480 --> 00:32:27,680
Speaker 1: But it sounds like your part is great.

735
00:32:28,040 --> 00:32:33,400
Speaker 3: But I'm thinking maybe if you could somehow bring up

736
00:32:33,440 --> 00:32:37,360
Speaker 3: these like urges you're getting with your for all this stuff,

737
00:32:37,400 --> 00:32:39,240
Speaker 3: like bring it up with your partner and then but

738
00:32:39,320 --> 00:32:41,520
Speaker 3: also let them know, Like I think you should have

739
00:32:41,520 --> 00:32:44,760
Speaker 3: a little plan maybe like in place, you could do

740
00:32:44,800 --> 00:32:46,280
Speaker 3: things in bite sized pieces.

741
00:32:46,840 --> 00:32:48,560
Speaker 1: Instead of just.

742
00:32:48,800 --> 00:32:52,320
Speaker 3: Leaving to a different country, you could try and just

743
00:32:53,000 --> 00:32:57,200
Speaker 3: maybe get a new job in the current city you're in,

744
00:32:57,480 --> 00:32:58,560
Speaker 3: you know, I mean, I don't know.

745
00:32:58,560 --> 00:32:59,680
Speaker 1: I'm just trying to think of options here.

746
00:32:59,680 --> 00:33:02,400
Speaker 2: I'm just thinking you just got a definitely voice to

747
00:33:02,480 --> 00:33:05,040
Speaker 2: him everything that's going on inside your head, and it

748
00:33:05,040 --> 00:33:08,640
Speaker 2: should be a safe enough environment where he understands where

749
00:33:08,640 --> 00:33:12,160
Speaker 2: you're coming from. Like it's okay to say, like I

750
00:33:12,160 --> 00:33:16,160
Speaker 2: don't know, hey, James, something's not right for me here.

751
00:33:16,480 --> 00:33:18,400
Speaker 2: I know I've got all these good things going and

752
00:33:18,440 --> 00:33:20,360
Speaker 2: I love you, but I need something else and I

753
00:33:20,360 --> 00:33:22,400
Speaker 2: don't know what it is, and I'm hoping we can

754
00:33:22,400 --> 00:33:23,120
Speaker 2: find it together.

755
00:33:23,720 --> 00:33:26,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, something like that. I wonder if the first step

756
00:33:26,240 --> 00:33:27,320
Speaker 1: what does she want to stay with him?

757
00:33:27,680 --> 00:33:30,920
Speaker 3: It sounds like, yeah, I wonder if you gotta.

758
00:33:30,720 --> 00:33:32,800
Speaker 2: Tell him, because the hardest thing for a boyfriend is

759
00:33:32,800 --> 00:33:34,280
Speaker 2: like being caught off guard.

760
00:33:34,760 --> 00:33:35,800
Speaker 1: You haven't told him.

761
00:33:35,880 --> 00:33:37,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like, it's better to tell me, tell me, yeah,

762
00:33:37,920 --> 00:33:39,800
Speaker 2: and say something's wrong and get him in the loop

763
00:33:39,800 --> 00:33:41,320
Speaker 2: and get his brain thinking about.

764
00:33:41,120 --> 00:33:42,959
Speaker 1: It and just set yourself off for failure as well.

765
00:33:42,960 --> 00:33:44,480
Speaker 3: That just be like I say some stuff, I'm proably

766
00:33:44,480 --> 00:33:46,479
Speaker 3: to say some stuff wrong or I don't know how

767
00:33:46,520 --> 00:33:46,840
Speaker 3: to say this.

768
00:33:46,880 --> 00:33:48,280
Speaker 1: I'm probably going to say some things that hurt you.

769
00:33:48,400 --> 00:33:51,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, and like, but by no means there's anything I'm

770
00:33:51,120 --> 00:33:53,080
Speaker 3: about to say, like in a hurtful way.

771
00:33:53,280 --> 00:33:54,880
Speaker 1: Let me rewind nothing's said in stone.

772
00:33:54,880 --> 00:33:57,240
Speaker 2: I want to figure out a solution where we get

773
00:33:57,280 --> 00:34:00,680
Speaker 2: what I'm looking for and we are still and love together.

774
00:34:01,000 --> 00:34:02,880
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, And she's all.

775
00:34:02,800 --> 00:34:05,640
Speaker 2: About everything in a relationship comes back to communication.

776
00:34:06,240 --> 00:34:08,040
Speaker 3: I wonder if the first step could be though, like

777
00:34:08,840 --> 00:34:11,200
Speaker 3: really figuring out why she's feeling these feelings.

778
00:34:11,000 --> 00:34:12,759
Speaker 2: If there's a way to figure that out. Yeah, oh

779
00:34:12,760 --> 00:34:14,799
Speaker 2: how do I feel this way? It probably is, well,

780
00:34:15,080 --> 00:34:17,120
Speaker 2: she just needs to grow as a person. And I

781
00:34:17,160 --> 00:34:19,840
Speaker 2: think this is where a lot of relationships break apart

782
00:34:20,000 --> 00:34:22,440
Speaker 2: is because one of the partners think, oh, you're changing,

783
00:34:23,040 --> 00:34:25,480
Speaker 2: whereas in reality, growths really good and if you can

784
00:34:25,520 --> 00:34:28,680
Speaker 2: grow together, that's how relationship flourishes. And that all comes

785
00:34:28,719 --> 00:34:31,879
Speaker 2: down to communication. But some people he might be like, oh,

786
00:34:32,000 --> 00:34:33,279
Speaker 2: I've fucking love to you. What do you mean you

787
00:34:33,320 --> 00:34:36,160
Speaker 2: used to love to your yeargo? Like, who cares if you.

788
00:34:35,480 --> 00:34:36,879
Speaker 1: You're a different person than a year ago.

789
00:34:36,960 --> 00:34:39,520
Speaker 2: Some people can't understand that, which is like all comes

790
00:34:39,520 --> 00:34:42,680
Speaker 2: back to communication. Just be open, tell him how you feel,

791
00:34:43,080 --> 00:34:44,560
Speaker 2: and he should understand it because he sounds like a

792
00:34:44,640 --> 00:34:46,640
Speaker 2: nice guy and you walk out a solution together like

793
00:34:46,680 --> 00:34:48,800
Speaker 2: it might like Jack said, start and bite sized pieces.

794
00:34:48,800 --> 00:34:51,000
Speaker 2: Go overseas to start for I don't know, one month

795
00:34:51,040 --> 00:34:52,799
Speaker 2: a month in Bali, then next year you do six

796
00:34:52,840 --> 00:34:54,120
Speaker 2: months in Europe something like that.

797
00:34:54,120 --> 00:34:56,759
Speaker 1: Because all these things that you're just thinking, you'll like, yeah,

798
00:34:56,800 --> 00:34:57,520
Speaker 1: you don't know what you like?

799
00:34:57,520 --> 00:34:59,200
Speaker 3: You gotta go yeah, because like you could, you could

800
00:34:59,239 --> 00:35:01,279
Speaker 3: up and move and then committed to like a year

801
00:35:01,320 --> 00:35:03,560
Speaker 3: in fucking France or something shit, yeah, and be like,

802
00:35:03,600 --> 00:35:06,359
Speaker 3: well I hate France, and then you're gonna feel all

803
00:35:06,400 --> 00:35:08,880
Speaker 3: this pressure to stay because if you go home, everyone's

804
00:35:08,880 --> 00:35:11,319
Speaker 3: gonna be like you completely fucked your life and then

805
00:35:11,360 --> 00:35:13,839
Speaker 3: you're gonna feel judged and you shouldn't, but you will.

806
00:35:13,880 --> 00:35:15,200
Speaker 1: And it's just how we are as humans.

807
00:35:15,280 --> 00:35:19,439
Speaker 3: I say, whatever decision you make, like, back it, yeah,

808
00:35:19,560 --> 00:35:22,440
Speaker 3: like fully back yourself in that decision, and if it

809
00:35:22,480 --> 00:35:24,480
Speaker 3: doesn't work out, you still need to back yourself and

810
00:35:24,520 --> 00:35:26,279
Speaker 3: be like, Okay, well now this is like the this

811
00:35:26,320 --> 00:35:28,279
Speaker 3: is the hand I played. I've got to work it

812
00:35:28,320 --> 00:35:30,720
Speaker 3: out from here. Like, don't be like, oh I wish

813
00:35:30,760 --> 00:35:33,640
Speaker 3: I didn't do this. Just take it as life experience. Yeah,

814
00:35:33,840 --> 00:35:37,200
Speaker 3: back yourself and just keep going about your life after.

815
00:35:37,000 --> 00:35:41,600
Speaker 2: That, completely agree, good luck. That's the most relatable youth

816
00:35:41,600 --> 00:35:42,640
Speaker 2: full dilemmte ever.

817
00:35:42,800 --> 00:35:44,800
Speaker 1: Yeah. I thought this was very relatable.

818
00:35:44,920 --> 00:35:47,960
Speaker 2: Someone everyone experiences that like once this like it's sort

819
00:35:48,000 --> 00:35:49,759
Speaker 2: of like imposter syndrome in a way, Like I've got

820
00:35:49,760 --> 00:35:51,840
Speaker 2: all these good things here, yeah, Like should I just

821
00:35:51,880 --> 00:35:52,560
Speaker 2: fucking love my life?

822
00:35:52,600 --> 00:35:54,120
Speaker 1: When I don't? Yeah, why don't I love my life?

823
00:35:54,160 --> 00:35:56,000
Speaker 3: Like I remember having a girlfriend when I was younger

824
00:35:56,000 --> 00:35:57,839
Speaker 3: and being like, ah, you know, I don't know if

825
00:35:57,840 --> 00:36:00,400
Speaker 3: we're gonna be together forever, because like, why would be

826
00:36:00,440 --> 00:36:01,959
Speaker 3: together with someone that I've met in my own town?

827
00:36:02,000 --> 00:36:04,479
Speaker 3: Like why do I should be meeting someone I should

828
00:36:04,480 --> 00:36:06,160
Speaker 3: be meeting someone from Sydney, which I mean, I guess

829
00:36:06,160 --> 00:36:08,120
Speaker 3: Beth is from Sydney, but I should be meeting someone

830
00:36:08,160 --> 00:36:11,160
Speaker 3: from like fucking somewhere else. Like why am I still here?

831
00:36:11,160 --> 00:36:12,120
Speaker 3: That's just so lame?

832
00:36:12,680 --> 00:36:15,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, why do I think that, Yeah, we didn't work

833
00:36:15,080 --> 00:36:16,279
Speaker 2: out in the end, But why do I think that

834
00:36:16,320 --> 00:36:18,520
Speaker 2: it's beautiful person's in front of you and you're thinking like, oh,

835
00:36:18,560 --> 00:36:20,959
Speaker 2: I can't love her. We grew up fucking fifteen minutes

836
00:36:21,000 --> 00:36:23,560
Speaker 2: part I don't know why we brain just trying to

837
00:36:23,560 --> 00:36:26,359
Speaker 2: place tricks on us and just being honest to yourself

838
00:36:26,400 --> 00:36:29,080
Speaker 2: and understanding that these emotions are valid and you've got

839
00:36:29,080 --> 00:36:29,680
Speaker 2: to figure them out.

840
00:36:29,840 --> 00:36:39,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, alrighty guys, thank you very much for listening.

841
00:36:39,480 --> 00:36:41,520
Speaker 1: That was actually like I didn't know where that episode

842
00:36:41,560 --> 00:36:46,359
Speaker 1: was going to go. Wait, just flow, didn't it? Thank

843
00:36:46,400 --> 00:36:47,840
Speaker 1: you very much for listening. Don't forget to join the

844
00:36:47,840 --> 00:36:48,520
Speaker 1: Facebook group.

845
00:36:48,800 --> 00:36:52,520
Speaker 2: Facebook group is going good, Honestly, the community we're building

846
00:36:52,600 --> 00:36:56,000
Speaker 2: is I'm so happy and proud about it. All the baddies,

847
00:36:56,160 --> 00:36:58,120
Speaker 2: like the best people were so supportive.

848
00:36:58,640 --> 00:37:01,040
Speaker 1: There's been no negativity at all. Yeah. Great.

849
00:37:01,320 --> 00:37:03,799
Speaker 3: Honestly, if you have a dilemma that you've sent to

850
00:37:03,880 --> 00:37:06,080
Speaker 3: us and we haven't read it yet, go send it

851
00:37:06,120 --> 00:37:06,480
Speaker 3: in there.

852
00:37:06,560 --> 00:37:06,719
Speaker 1: Yeah.

853
00:37:06,800 --> 00:37:09,239
Speaker 2: Yeah, and it like the baddies are given, Like there's

854
00:37:09,280 --> 00:37:11,960
Speaker 2: twenty thirty people's advice rather than just mine and Jakes.

855
00:37:12,040 --> 00:37:14,799
Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly. It's sick. It's so good. Love everyone of you,

856
00:37:15,120 --> 00:37:15,800
Speaker 1: so relat.

857
00:37:15,640 --> 00:37:19,200
Speaker 3: As bad as you like Patreon relatables, go get an

858
00:37:19,200 --> 00:37:22,919
Speaker 3: extrapsode every week for five bucks. But how to piss

859
00:37:22,960 --> 00:37:29,560
Speaker 3: man off? Our favorite book? Page ten? So you gotta

860
00:37:29,640 --> 00:37:32,600
Speaker 3: I'm gonna read the little blurb first, say this, when

861
00:37:32,640 --> 00:37:36,080
Speaker 3: a man is playing you a classic rock song, it

862
00:37:36,120 --> 00:37:38,920
Speaker 3: doesn't have to be true. The odds are he won't know,

863
00:37:39,400 --> 00:37:42,560
Speaker 3: and if he does, I'm almost certain he won't tell you.

864
00:37:43,320 --> 00:37:47,560
Speaker 3: So you say, oh, they sang this on Glee, you

865
00:37:47,560 --> 00:37:48,120
Speaker 3: know that show.

866
00:37:49,040 --> 00:37:50,920
Speaker 2: See, I wouldn't know too, because I vaguely know what

867
00:37:50,960 --> 00:37:52,399
Speaker 2: Glee is, but I don't really know what it is.

868
00:37:52,480 --> 00:37:54,200
Speaker 3: But then if you actually did know they sang it

869
00:37:54,239 --> 00:37:56,279
Speaker 3: on Glee, you wouldn't want to voice that opinion because

870
00:37:56,320 --> 00:37:56,920
Speaker 3: of your ego.

871
00:37:57,640 --> 00:37:59,880
Speaker 2: Take away rock song, just any song you don't lie

872
00:38:00,080 --> 00:38:01,680
Speaker 2: your man's playing in the car, like, oh you know

873
00:38:01,719 --> 00:38:02,799
Speaker 2: they playing some glee.

874
00:38:03,239 --> 00:38:03,920
Speaker 1: Oh they played this.

875
00:38:03,880 --> 00:38:08,279
Speaker 3: On clean If you're you're like, okay, I don't like

876
00:38:08,320 --> 00:38:08,600
Speaker 3: this song.

877
00:38:08,880 --> 00:38:13,799
Speaker 1: I'm live all right, everybody, thanks for listening. We love

878
00:38:13,840 --> 00:38:17,480
Speaker 1: you yourself. So we just said that at the same

879
00:38:17,520 --> 00:38:20,239
Speaker 1: time we did we got to kiss? Or do you

880
00:38:20,239 --> 00:38:22,759
Speaker 1: know Jinks on the roof? Oh, it's like Jinx, you

881
00:38:22,800 --> 00:38:24,440
Speaker 1: owe me a coke? Now you don't know Jinks. No,

882
00:38:24,480 --> 00:38:25,600
Speaker 1: it's Jinks. We got to kiss.

883
00:38:26,280 --> 00:38:28,359
Speaker 3: No, I grew I grew up as if I if

884
00:38:28,360 --> 00:38:31,279
Speaker 3: you say, if you jink someone, it was like, it

885
00:38:31,400 --> 00:38:35,960
Speaker 3: was okay with this, you go Jinks poke can't speak again.

886
00:38:36,080 --> 00:38:38,080
Speaker 1: And if you do, you owe me a coke. That's

887
00:38:38,120 --> 00:38:38,680
Speaker 1: what I grew up with.

888
00:38:38,760 --> 00:38:40,480
Speaker 2: I grew up on Jinks. And if it's under a roof,

889
00:38:40,480 --> 00:38:43,320
Speaker 2: we have to kiss. Really, yeah, I ri k. Australia

890
00:38:43,360 --> 00:38:44,160
Speaker 2: is different.

891
00:38:46,440 --> 00:38:47,920
Speaker 1: Europe. You could just say you don't want to kiss me.