1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:03,520 Speaker 1: Money mindset I think plays so much into this how 2 00:00:03,560 --> 00:00:06,880 Speaker 1: you were brought up and the money relationship that your 3 00:00:06,920 --> 00:00:11,320 Speaker 1: parents had and then therefore instilled in you. What kind 4 00:00:11,360 --> 00:00:13,800 Speaker 1: of conversations we're being had around money when you were 5 00:00:13,800 --> 00:00:16,760 Speaker 1: growing up. This is I think what's stopping a lot 6 00:00:16,760 --> 00:00:18,720 Speaker 1: of people from talking about it too, is that we're 7 00:00:18,760 --> 00:00:22,720 Speaker 1: ashamed of maybe X, Y, and Z in our personal finance, 8 00:00:22,800 --> 00:00:25,880 Speaker 1: and maybe we don't want to talk to someone about 9 00:00:25,920 --> 00:00:28,040 Speaker 1: the goal that we're working towards because we don't think 10 00:00:28,080 --> 00:00:30,240 Speaker 1: it stacks up to what someone else is working towards. 11 00:00:30,680 --> 00:00:34,040 Speaker 1: And so looking at that and being really forgiving of 12 00:00:34,080 --> 00:00:38,800 Speaker 1: yourself and kind to gentle with yourself, and understanding that 13 00:00:38,800 --> 00:00:40,760 Speaker 1: probably a lot of other people are feeling the same way, 14 00:00:40,760 --> 00:00:42,040 Speaker 1: they're just not talking about it. 15 00:00:47,000 --> 00:00:49,760 Speaker 2: Good Thanks for downloading the show. This is Better Than Yesterday. 16 00:00:49,840 --> 00:00:53,240 Speaker 2: Useful tools and useful conversations to help make your day 17 00:00:53,280 --> 00:00:57,800 Speaker 2: today better than yesterday. Every single episode since twenty and thirteen. 18 00:00:58,040 --> 00:01:00,800 Speaker 2: Mine as Olsha Gezburg and I've got a question. What 19 00:01:00,880 --> 00:01:04,759 Speaker 2: happens to you when someone asks you about money? Depending 20 00:01:04,760 --> 00:01:08,000 Speaker 2: on who you are and who's asking, that answer could 21 00:01:08,160 --> 00:01:14,800 Speaker 2: vary wildly. You might get self conscious, You might get anxious. 22 00:01:15,800 --> 00:01:18,360 Speaker 2: You might feel ashamed if you're me, you may be 23 00:01:18,360 --> 00:01:21,920 Speaker 2: full of regret. You might get totally blank, feel bored. 24 00:01:21,920 --> 00:01:24,119 Speaker 2: You might have nothing to say at all. You might 25 00:01:24,200 --> 00:01:27,080 Speaker 2: launch into an impassion ten minute long monologue about your 26 00:01:27,080 --> 00:01:31,280 Speaker 2: investments in your twenty year plan. We've all got different answers, 27 00:01:31,720 --> 00:01:33,800 Speaker 2: But I'm going to ask my guest about money today. 28 00:01:34,440 --> 00:01:37,679 Speaker 2: The way that she answers me, well, it's got to 29 00:01:37,680 --> 00:01:41,160 Speaker 2: do with stuff she's learned in her own conversations about money. 30 00:01:42,240 --> 00:01:52,360 Speaker 2: We'll get right to that after the break. Thankful listening 31 00:01:52,360 --> 00:01:54,480 Speaker 2: to the show. It's better than yesterday. Getting to my 32 00:01:54,480 --> 00:01:57,480 Speaker 2: guest Sylvia jeffrees in just a second. Just a heads 33 00:01:57,520 --> 00:01:58,880 Speaker 2: up here if you want to come to the next 34 00:01:58,880 --> 00:02:01,320 Speaker 2: Story Club show. It's on the of the July Marley Silva, 35 00:02:01,360 --> 00:02:05,120 Speaker 2: Merrick Watts, Phill O'Neil, Nadia Townsend, Zobe Notton Lodge and 36 00:02:05,200 --> 00:02:08,720 Speaker 2: myself will be at the Factory Theater on the sixth 37 00:02:08,720 --> 00:02:11,280 Speaker 2: of July six thirty pm in Merrickfield. Would love to 38 00:02:11,280 --> 00:02:12,920 Speaker 2: see you there. Jump on the Instagram to see what 39 00:02:12,960 --> 00:02:16,040 Speaker 2: the show is all about and the linkers in the 40 00:02:16,040 --> 00:02:18,120 Speaker 2: show notes if you want to get tickets While you're there. 41 00:02:18,240 --> 00:02:21,000 Speaker 2: There's a link to buy the book. Pre order the book, 42 00:02:21,080 --> 00:02:22,959 Speaker 2: So what now what? It'll be out on the fifth 43 00:02:22,960 --> 00:02:26,239 Speaker 2: of Loyalist and i'd really appreciate your help. If you 44 00:02:26,280 --> 00:02:28,239 Speaker 2: haven't got it yet, please get it. Get to get 45 00:02:28,240 --> 00:02:33,240 Speaker 2: five please. I'm recording the audiobook for it tomorrow with Cam. 46 00:02:33,320 --> 00:02:35,960 Speaker 2: It's gonna be unreal. Can't wait to tell you all 47 00:02:36,000 --> 00:02:39,600 Speaker 2: about it. So Sylvia Jeffries is my guest today. She's 48 00:02:39,600 --> 00:02:40,960 Speaker 2: a friend of the show. Are you a friend of 49 00:02:40,960 --> 00:02:42,640 Speaker 2: the show? Once you go on twice, I guess you 50 00:02:42,680 --> 00:02:46,160 Speaker 2: are friend of the show. Sylvia Jeffries, she's come here 51 00:02:46,160 --> 00:02:47,680 Speaker 2: to the house. Before this time we went and did 52 00:02:47,680 --> 00:02:50,920 Speaker 2: it over at her place at Channel Line Headquarters, North Sydney. 53 00:02:51,720 --> 00:02:55,000 Speaker 2: And today we're talking all about money because since the 54 00:02:55,080 --> 00:02:58,240 Speaker 2: last time we spoke, Sylvia has launched her own podcast, 55 00:02:58,520 --> 00:03:02,520 Speaker 2: The Payoff, which is all about extracting the most useful 56 00:03:02,600 --> 00:03:05,400 Speaker 2: lessons about money and money management from some of the 57 00:03:05,400 --> 00:03:08,560 Speaker 2: best financial minds around. And today you're going to hear 58 00:03:08,560 --> 00:03:11,400 Speaker 2: some of that wisdom and some of the most important 59 00:03:11,480 --> 00:03:14,720 Speaker 2: and most often repeated bits of advice that her guests 60 00:03:14,760 --> 00:03:17,680 Speaker 2: have shared with her. More than that, we're going to 61 00:03:17,680 --> 00:03:20,680 Speaker 2: talk about Sylvia's mindset when it comes to money, her journey, 62 00:03:20,880 --> 00:03:22,680 Speaker 2: how she dealt with it in the past, and now 63 00:03:22,680 --> 00:03:24,320 Speaker 2: what she's trying to teach her kids about it. I 64 00:03:24,440 --> 00:03:26,600 Speaker 2: got a lot of value out of this conversation with her. 65 00:03:26,720 --> 00:03:30,919 Speaker 2: I reflected a lot on my own money management or mismanagement, 66 00:03:31,080 --> 00:03:35,240 Speaker 2: depends on how you look at it. This conversation it'll 67 00:03:35,240 --> 00:03:37,440 Speaker 2: definitely get you to reflect on your own journey with money, 68 00:03:38,440 --> 00:03:40,720 Speaker 2: but it's going to do it in a way that's calm, 69 00:03:41,040 --> 00:03:45,040 Speaker 2: invites possibility. It does give you some clarity amid all 70 00:03:45,040 --> 00:03:48,880 Speaker 2: of those weird feelings we spoke about earlier. Enjoyed the chat. 71 00:03:53,520 --> 00:03:55,360 Speaker 2: The last time we spoke, you were at my house 72 00:03:55,560 --> 00:03:59,240 Speaker 2: and it was very, very lovely. What's happened since the 73 00:03:59,320 --> 00:04:02,320 Speaker 2: last time we spoke? You had? You know what plans 74 00:04:02,360 --> 00:04:02,680 Speaker 2: were there? 75 00:04:02,840 --> 00:04:05,640 Speaker 1: Well, do you know what's so funny? I was just 76 00:04:05,680 --> 00:04:07,560 Speaker 1: sitting down and writing before I came upstairs. Yeah, I 77 00:04:07,600 --> 00:04:11,640 Speaker 1: was writing an article for nine Honey about hobbies and 78 00:04:11,680 --> 00:04:15,400 Speaker 1: how I don't have any, and I was just reflecting 79 00:04:15,400 --> 00:04:17,600 Speaker 1: on this statement from Amy Pohler, who on a late 80 00:04:17,680 --> 00:04:21,000 Speaker 1: night interview once said, as a working mum, I work 81 00:04:21,360 --> 00:04:26,400 Speaker 1: and I mum and that's it, which is the use 82 00:04:26,440 --> 00:04:31,160 Speaker 1: of mum as a verb to me is just purely beautiful. 83 00:04:32,160 --> 00:04:35,000 Speaker 1: And I think that word is often overlooked as a 84 00:04:35,040 --> 00:04:37,680 Speaker 1: doing word because it is. And I get this thing 85 00:04:37,760 --> 00:04:40,039 Speaker 1: that when people ask me how you been, what's been happening, 86 00:04:40,640 --> 00:04:43,159 Speaker 1: and all I think is I work and I mum, 87 00:04:43,480 --> 00:04:44,800 Speaker 1: and there's not a one in between. 88 00:04:44,800 --> 00:04:47,680 Speaker 3: I go for runs, you know, in between. That's probably 89 00:04:47,760 --> 00:04:49,080 Speaker 3: the closest thing I have to a hobby. 90 00:04:49,160 --> 00:04:52,120 Speaker 2: Well, I let me, have you already posted the article. 91 00:04:52,240 --> 00:04:52,840 Speaker 3: No, I haven't yet. 92 00:04:52,839 --> 00:04:55,200 Speaker 2: Okay, good, look, I'll give you a line. My mum 93 00:04:55,800 --> 00:05:00,200 Speaker 2: was a doctor until you know, right to the then 94 00:05:00,279 --> 00:05:02,599 Speaker 2: when she got her diagnosis, and she used to say, 95 00:05:02,839 --> 00:05:05,240 Speaker 2: I'm not saying you are, but she would say, over 96 00:05:05,240 --> 00:05:06,840 Speaker 2: the age of forty, just you've got to make your 97 00:05:06,839 --> 00:05:07,640 Speaker 2: body your hobby. 98 00:05:07,920 --> 00:05:08,440 Speaker 3: Yeah. 99 00:05:08,520 --> 00:05:12,120 Speaker 1: Interesting, Well, that's probably that's probably what I do. I 100 00:05:12,160 --> 00:05:13,680 Speaker 1: go to the gym a couple of times a week. 101 00:05:13,839 --> 00:05:16,839 Speaker 1: I'm starting to do the heavyweights because getting close to 102 00:05:16,880 --> 00:05:20,400 Speaker 1: perimenopause age. So you know, I see it in my algorithm, 103 00:05:20,520 --> 00:05:23,680 Speaker 1: you've got to do the heavyweights. And I run and 104 00:05:23,880 --> 00:05:26,440 Speaker 1: sometimes I run with friends, and so I guess that's 105 00:05:26,440 --> 00:05:26,880 Speaker 1: a hobby. 106 00:05:27,000 --> 00:05:30,720 Speaker 2: Question and tea. That's a hobby. Cycling as a hobby. 107 00:05:31,240 --> 00:05:31,919 Speaker 2: That is a hobby. 108 00:05:31,960 --> 00:05:34,440 Speaker 1: You've got to make your body a hobby. 109 00:05:34,520 --> 00:05:36,520 Speaker 2: And she would say, look, yeah, play golf, but don't 110 00:05:36,520 --> 00:05:39,520 Speaker 2: be driving around. Of course you've got to walk that back. Yeah, okay, 111 00:05:39,800 --> 00:05:42,880 Speaker 2: whatever it is. No train sets, you know. Yeah, got 112 00:05:42,880 --> 00:05:44,160 Speaker 2: to get out there and make your body your hobby. 113 00:05:44,240 --> 00:05:44,480 Speaker 3: Hitting. 114 00:05:44,560 --> 00:05:47,080 Speaker 2: No knitting and you'll be fine. Yeah, no knitting, No, 115 00:05:47,120 --> 00:05:49,880 Speaker 2: because you're just sitting. Okay, got to keep moving, run 116 00:05:49,920 --> 00:05:52,360 Speaker 2: and knit. You can join a running slash knitting clob. Yeah, 117 00:05:52,400 --> 00:05:53,680 Speaker 2: maybe croche is probably better. 118 00:05:54,000 --> 00:05:56,279 Speaker 1: At the same time. Do you know what happened recently 119 00:05:56,400 --> 00:06:00,760 Speaker 1: was my five year old he picked up this visor 120 00:06:00,839 --> 00:06:02,680 Speaker 1: and because I always wear advisor when I run because 121 00:06:02,680 --> 00:06:04,479 Speaker 1: my hair short, it like falls out and gets my eyes. 122 00:06:04,520 --> 00:06:07,040 Speaker 1: I can't bear having my hair in my face. And 123 00:06:07,480 --> 00:06:11,080 Speaker 1: he associates visors with running. And he got a visor 124 00:06:11,120 --> 00:06:12,599 Speaker 1: and he said, Mama, I can go for a run 125 00:06:12,600 --> 00:06:15,920 Speaker 1: with you now. And I was like, all right, let's go. 126 00:06:16,200 --> 00:06:20,960 Speaker 1: And so we ran like along the beach track for 127 00:06:21,000 --> 00:06:23,480 Speaker 1: about two and a half k's. We would walk up 128 00:06:23,520 --> 00:06:25,240 Speaker 1: hills and then we'd run a little bit and stop 129 00:06:25,240 --> 00:06:27,320 Speaker 1: at every bubbler, and you know, it was very stop start, 130 00:06:27,320 --> 00:06:31,680 Speaker 1: but he just was the happiest I've ever seen and 131 00:06:31,720 --> 00:06:33,520 Speaker 1: it gave me so much mum joy. And we got 132 00:06:33,520 --> 00:06:35,480 Speaker 1: to the end and I was like, all right, buddy, 133 00:06:35,480 --> 00:06:37,200 Speaker 1: should we go meet Dadda and he can drive us home? 134 00:06:37,279 --> 00:06:38,600 Speaker 1: And he goes, no, I want to run all the 135 00:06:38,640 --> 00:06:40,560 Speaker 1: way back again, and we ran all the way back. 136 00:06:40,560 --> 00:06:43,200 Speaker 2: Five one year old case. 137 00:06:43,480 --> 00:06:46,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, it was amazing and it's it is the best 138 00:06:46,880 --> 00:06:48,040 Speaker 1: five k's I've ever run. 139 00:06:48,680 --> 00:06:51,480 Speaker 3: And I love that. I guess it is let's call 140 00:06:51,520 --> 00:06:52,839 Speaker 3: it a hobby. Running is my hobby. 141 00:06:53,320 --> 00:06:56,840 Speaker 1: I guess that by doing that, I'm doing something that 142 00:06:56,880 --> 00:07:00,359 Speaker 1: I can, you know, get him involved in and maybe 143 00:07:00,440 --> 00:07:03,280 Speaker 1: set some good examples for him as well in terms 144 00:07:03,320 --> 00:07:05,520 Speaker 1: of exercise and looking after yourself. And for me it's 145 00:07:05,520 --> 00:07:08,240 Speaker 1: a mental healthy And we've spoken about this before. Running 146 00:07:08,360 --> 00:07:10,640 Speaker 1: is like my absolute circuit breaker when I'm having a 147 00:07:10,720 --> 00:07:14,240 Speaker 1: bad day, and so hopefully he gets something positive out 148 00:07:14,280 --> 00:07:14,480 Speaker 1: of that. 149 00:07:14,520 --> 00:07:16,040 Speaker 3: But it's something I can do with him now, and 150 00:07:16,080 --> 00:07:16,520 Speaker 3: I love that. 151 00:07:16,600 --> 00:07:20,040 Speaker 2: What a fantastic what a fantastic memory to Bill, What 152 00:07:20,120 --> 00:07:22,320 Speaker 2: a great thing to model, and what a fun thing 153 00:07:22,320 --> 00:07:24,240 Speaker 2: to do. Yeah, I mean, he's going to really fuck 154 00:07:24,280 --> 00:07:26,440 Speaker 2: up your Strava. You're going to have Oh, I like 155 00:07:26,520 --> 00:07:27,040 Speaker 2: com on buddy. 156 00:07:27,040 --> 00:07:28,560 Speaker 1: Oh no, I didn't record that, right, Yeah, yeah, No, 157 00:07:28,600 --> 00:07:32,160 Speaker 1: that's not a run for I'm just an other account. Yeah, 158 00:07:33,080 --> 00:07:36,120 Speaker 1: it can just be under his name account exactly for 159 00:07:36,200 --> 00:07:38,960 Speaker 1: him up. Yeah, you can't mess with my stats. 160 00:07:39,400 --> 00:07:41,320 Speaker 2: You never have those end of your titles. You go, oh, 161 00:07:41,720 --> 00:07:43,760 Speaker 2: it's like he was a ten thousand still he's a 162 00:07:43,800 --> 00:07:48,360 Speaker 2: ten thousand kilometer cyclist. To get ten thousand a year cycling, wow, 163 00:07:48,520 --> 00:07:50,320 Speaker 2: and he's still doing it. He's like ten years of it. 164 00:07:50,360 --> 00:07:50,960 Speaker 3: Incredible. 165 00:07:51,280 --> 00:07:53,440 Speaker 2: What that's a lot a lot of volume. 166 00:07:53,520 --> 00:07:55,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, he doesn't need a five year old sewing. 167 00:07:55,200 --> 00:07:57,240 Speaker 2: Down, but I do love that. And maybe it's the visor, 168 00:07:57,360 --> 00:08:02,280 Speaker 2: maybe something in the visor, but the whole is perhaps 169 00:08:02,280 --> 00:08:04,160 Speaker 2: why the hobby is a thing, is it is an 170 00:08:04,200 --> 00:08:07,640 Speaker 2: identity aside from the job and the mummy. 171 00:08:07,400 --> 00:08:09,920 Speaker 3: And the mumming exactly. You need something in between. 172 00:08:10,160 --> 00:08:12,160 Speaker 2: Yes, it also helps, and it's one of the things 173 00:08:12,200 --> 00:08:14,960 Speaker 2: that I would always talk about when it's if you're 174 00:08:14,960 --> 00:08:17,560 Speaker 2: looking for the motivation of something. I'm the kind of 175 00:08:17,560 --> 00:08:19,160 Speaker 2: person who I'm the kind of person who gets up 176 00:08:19,160 --> 00:08:22,000 Speaker 2: in the morning and trains all right, I would I 177 00:08:22,040 --> 00:08:24,240 Speaker 2: have kettlebells downstairs. I'm kind of not gone to the 178 00:08:24,240 --> 00:08:26,720 Speaker 2: gym at the moment because it's just too inconsistent. But 179 00:08:26,840 --> 00:08:28,360 Speaker 2: I'm the kind of person who gets up at five, 180 00:08:28,880 --> 00:08:31,600 Speaker 2: go downstairs, and I's wing kettle bells. That's great, And 181 00:08:32,720 --> 00:08:34,240 Speaker 2: you tell yourself that for a couple of weeks, and 182 00:08:34,280 --> 00:08:37,000 Speaker 2: then soon enough, I'm going to bed. Why because I 183 00:08:37,040 --> 00:08:39,160 Speaker 2: get up in the morning and do kettle bells and 184 00:08:39,360 --> 00:08:41,520 Speaker 2: it starts to become part of your identity. So it's 185 00:08:41,600 --> 00:08:44,480 Speaker 2: a part of your identity that is purely for you 186 00:08:44,520 --> 00:08:47,680 Speaker 2: and for something you enjoy, and it's not one of 187 00:08:47,720 --> 00:08:49,800 Speaker 2: the other two things. You can kind of get lost 188 00:08:49,800 --> 00:08:49,880 Speaker 2: in it. 189 00:08:49,960 --> 00:08:52,199 Speaker 1: And you know, a lot of people bag out people 190 00:08:52,240 --> 00:08:55,200 Speaker 1: for posting their stratostats on Instagram and things like that, 191 00:08:55,400 --> 00:08:58,000 Speaker 1: but I get it because it is it is that 192 00:08:58,080 --> 00:08:59,640 Speaker 1: thing that gives you joy in life and a non 193 00:08:59,720 --> 00:09:02,320 Speaker 1: social media sharing the things that you enjoy and not 194 00:09:02,440 --> 00:09:05,640 Speaker 1: everyone needs to know how fast or slow is probably 195 00:09:05,640 --> 00:09:10,280 Speaker 1: the better word. I run okay over ten k's or whatever, 196 00:09:11,240 --> 00:09:12,680 Speaker 1: But I guess it is. It's a big part of 197 00:09:12,679 --> 00:09:15,440 Speaker 1: who you are and what you do that sparks joy. 198 00:09:15,480 --> 00:09:18,600 Speaker 1: In inverted comments, ye in your life. In between the 199 00:09:18,640 --> 00:09:21,640 Speaker 1: working and the parenting and the folding of laundry and 200 00:09:21,679 --> 00:09:23,880 Speaker 1: the stacking of the dishwasher and everything else. It's that 201 00:09:23,960 --> 00:09:26,320 Speaker 1: bit that you know, gives you some freedom and some 202 00:09:26,400 --> 00:09:27,120 Speaker 1: joy and some space. 203 00:09:27,240 --> 00:09:29,600 Speaker 2: It's important, it is. And that's also I find a 204 00:09:29,600 --> 00:09:32,439 Speaker 2: lot where the answers to questions show up. Does that 205 00:09:32,440 --> 00:09:32,800 Speaker 2: happen for. 206 00:09:32,800 --> 00:09:33,720 Speaker 3: You all the time? 207 00:09:33,880 --> 00:09:35,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, I do a lot of I mean, I mostly 208 00:09:35,760 --> 00:09:38,960 Speaker 1: listen to podcasts on my runs these days, because for 209 00:09:39,000 --> 00:09:40,880 Speaker 1: me it feels like two birds one stone. I'm learning 210 00:09:40,920 --> 00:09:45,040 Speaker 1: while I'm running, and you know, you're trying to maximize 211 00:09:45,040 --> 00:09:48,120 Speaker 1: your time in life. But I do do a lot 212 00:09:48,160 --> 00:09:50,200 Speaker 1: of thinking, and it is when I get clarity on 213 00:09:50,240 --> 00:09:52,200 Speaker 1: a lot of things. It's when I do have ideas. 214 00:09:52,240 --> 00:09:55,280 Speaker 1: It's when I think about guests for podcasts or for Today. 215 00:09:55,000 --> 00:09:56,160 Speaker 3: Extra or things like that. 216 00:09:56,559 --> 00:09:59,800 Speaker 1: It stimulates your brain in a way that nothing else can, 217 00:10:00,040 --> 00:10:00,600 Speaker 1: that's for sure. 218 00:10:01,720 --> 00:10:04,000 Speaker 2: So was it you know, on a run when you 219 00:10:04,040 --> 00:10:06,960 Speaker 2: were thinking about I'm going to I'm going to get 220 00:10:06,960 --> 00:10:08,640 Speaker 2: into the world of financial podcast. 221 00:10:08,240 --> 00:10:09,480 Speaker 3: Well, it's probably listening. 222 00:10:09,800 --> 00:10:11,440 Speaker 1: It was on a run listening to a lot of 223 00:10:11,440 --> 00:10:15,520 Speaker 1: financial podcasts, all right. I think that definitely played into it, 224 00:10:15,600 --> 00:10:17,720 Speaker 1: but it was also it was being on Today Extra 225 00:10:17,960 --> 00:10:21,080 Speaker 1: and speaking almost on a weekly basis for a period 226 00:10:21,120 --> 00:10:25,960 Speaker 1: of time. There about this generational wealth gap that is 227 00:10:26,080 --> 00:10:29,120 Speaker 1: really evident in our society right now and is highly 228 00:10:29,160 --> 00:10:34,040 Speaker 1: emotive as well. Younger generations feel like they're being locked 229 00:10:34,040 --> 00:10:36,800 Speaker 1: out and are really upset about it for good reason, 230 00:10:37,240 --> 00:10:41,120 Speaker 1: and then older generations. Sometimes some people in the older 231 00:10:41,160 --> 00:10:45,000 Speaker 1: generations think, well, we had big challenges too, you know, 232 00:10:45,160 --> 00:10:48,400 Speaker 1: it's not just them who've had it hard, and so 233 00:10:48,480 --> 00:10:51,280 Speaker 1: you've got both sides kind of in this tug of 234 00:10:51,280 --> 00:10:53,880 Speaker 1: war on this issue. So anyway, there's a lot there 235 00:10:53,920 --> 00:10:57,160 Speaker 1: to explore. I genuinely do think that young Australians face 236 00:10:57,320 --> 00:11:01,719 Speaker 1: really high and unique hurdles to financial independence and financial 237 00:11:01,760 --> 00:11:04,320 Speaker 1: security in the long term. There's no doubt. And you 238 00:11:04,400 --> 00:11:07,400 Speaker 1: only have to look in the news today. The average 239 00:11:07,640 --> 00:11:11,160 Speaker 1: or the median capital city collective price in Australia has 240 00:11:11,160 --> 00:11:13,959 Speaker 1: now hit them one million dollar. Man, it's almost one 241 00:11:13,960 --> 00:11:16,600 Speaker 1: million dollars for the average house in Brisbane, which is 242 00:11:16,640 --> 00:11:20,800 Speaker 1: now the second most expensive city in Australia. Sydney is 243 00:11:20,840 --> 00:11:26,080 Speaker 1: the second least affordable city in the world. So like 244 00:11:26,200 --> 00:11:30,360 Speaker 1: we are, it's not just something of our imagination among 245 00:11:30,440 --> 00:11:31,480 Speaker 1: young people in Australia. 246 00:11:31,679 --> 00:11:32,760 Speaker 3: This is a real issue. 247 00:11:33,040 --> 00:11:34,960 Speaker 1: It has really gotten away from us, and so there's 248 00:11:35,000 --> 00:11:37,880 Speaker 1: so much to address, I think, in this issue. But 249 00:11:37,920 --> 00:11:40,600 Speaker 1: what I really wanted to do was not just explore 250 00:11:40,640 --> 00:11:43,600 Speaker 1: the issue, but find some people who are really smart 251 00:11:43,800 --> 00:11:47,720 Speaker 1: in this area, who can offer some practical solutions and 252 00:11:47,760 --> 00:11:50,800 Speaker 1: maybe some ideas about how to work within the current 253 00:11:50,840 --> 00:11:54,680 Speaker 1: goalposts in a different and more creative way than perhaps 254 00:11:54,720 --> 00:11:55,640 Speaker 1: our parents did. 255 00:11:55,840 --> 00:11:58,839 Speaker 2: Because anyone would argue that the argument on the other 256 00:11:58,880 --> 00:12:02,079 Speaker 2: side is that well, everyone is and always has been 257 00:12:02,120 --> 00:12:07,120 Speaker 2: operating within the goalposts that have been set up and cracky. 258 00:12:07,360 --> 00:12:09,559 Speaker 2: At the story Club show at Your Minder the other night, 259 00:12:09,600 --> 00:12:12,160 Speaker 2: we were driving in there and I turned to Zoe, 260 00:12:12,240 --> 00:12:14,800 Speaker 2: who was the co founder. We were driving up together. 261 00:12:15,000 --> 00:12:18,600 Speaker 2: I said, like, thirty years ago, you could own a 262 00:12:18,640 --> 00:12:20,840 Speaker 2: house in Sydney and have bought a weekend or up 263 00:12:20,880 --> 00:12:25,800 Speaker 2: here on one kind of middle class income wage like 264 00:12:25,880 --> 00:12:30,360 Speaker 2: a teacher or a train driver or someone who just 265 00:12:30,640 --> 00:12:33,760 Speaker 2: you know, that kind of thing, and that was fine, 266 00:12:33,800 --> 00:12:35,960 Speaker 2: and it was a very common thing to have a 267 00:12:36,000 --> 00:12:38,960 Speaker 2: shack or a small house either on the central Coast 268 00:12:39,080 --> 00:12:41,360 Speaker 2: or south of Sydney or in Queensland down on the 269 00:12:41,360 --> 00:12:44,440 Speaker 2: Goldie like everybody. My folks did not, but we were 270 00:12:44,600 --> 00:12:46,680 Speaker 2: uncommon ones. But he heard of an apartment on the 271 00:12:46,679 --> 00:12:49,839 Speaker 2: Goldie and they did that with one wage, and they 272 00:12:49,840 --> 00:12:52,800 Speaker 2: were operating within the rules of the time. And then 273 00:12:52,840 --> 00:12:55,800 Speaker 2: the rules of the time shifted quite significantly, and the 274 00:12:55,800 --> 00:12:57,800 Speaker 2: promise of what you get if you work hard and 275 00:12:57,840 --> 00:13:01,760 Speaker 2: apply yourself has verry has changed a lot. 276 00:13:01,800 --> 00:13:04,560 Speaker 1: And I think what you say there is a big 277 00:13:04,600 --> 00:13:07,079 Speaker 1: part of why this discussion is so emotive, because it's 278 00:13:07,120 --> 00:13:11,319 Speaker 1: this concept of if you work hard, you will achieve 279 00:13:11,679 --> 00:13:14,440 Speaker 1: your goals, and a lot of people don't feel that 280 00:13:14,440 --> 00:13:16,800 Speaker 1: that is a reality anymore. You can work hard, and 281 00:13:16,840 --> 00:13:20,080 Speaker 1: you can work hard, and that home ownership is still 282 00:13:20,080 --> 00:13:23,200 Speaker 1: going to be out of reach because in Sydney, you know, 283 00:13:23,280 --> 00:13:25,960 Speaker 1: the average price is now close to all according to 284 00:13:25,960 --> 00:13:27,679 Speaker 1: this stat that came out today, is close to one 285 00:13:27,679 --> 00:13:30,840 Speaker 1: point five million. That's around thirteen times the average salary. 286 00:13:31,240 --> 00:13:33,280 Speaker 1: You know, our parents were buying homes at about three 287 00:13:34,000 --> 00:13:36,000 Speaker 1: or four times the average salary. And yes they had 288 00:13:36,040 --> 00:13:40,200 Speaker 1: insane interest rates back then, but the principle was so 289 00:13:40,320 --> 00:13:43,280 Speaker 1: much more achievable, and therefore the idea of saving for 290 00:13:44,280 --> 00:13:47,560 Speaker 1: a deposit was so much more achievable as well. So 291 00:13:48,200 --> 00:13:51,520 Speaker 1: it is way out of whack with salaries and wages 292 00:13:51,559 --> 00:13:53,480 Speaker 1: at the moment, and that's where there is a huge 293 00:13:53,520 --> 00:13:54,600 Speaker 1: hurdle for young people. 294 00:13:55,600 --> 00:13:59,600 Speaker 2: I understand why, and I see, you know, with g 295 00:14:00,720 --> 00:14:05,280 Speaker 2: she's twenty one and I've been living at home. I 296 00:14:05,280 --> 00:14:07,880 Speaker 2: was living with my girlfriend at that time. I've been 297 00:14:07,920 --> 00:14:10,000 Speaker 2: living out over for two years by then, and I 298 00:14:10,040 --> 00:14:13,120 Speaker 2: was late, you know. But when I did move at 299 00:14:13,120 --> 00:14:16,320 Speaker 2: home when I was nineteen, I lived three k's from 300 00:14:16,320 --> 00:14:21,640 Speaker 2: my family. Yeah, not forty k's from my family. I 301 00:14:21,640 --> 00:14:24,320 Speaker 2: don't think if Jim moved down, unless she moved in 302 00:14:24,360 --> 00:14:27,040 Speaker 2: with eight people, she should be able to live anywhere 303 00:14:27,040 --> 00:14:31,640 Speaker 2: near her uni, her work, or her friends. So who's 304 00:14:31,640 --> 00:14:35,240 Speaker 2: going to do that. Who's going to distance themselves and 305 00:14:35,320 --> 00:14:37,720 Speaker 2: you know, from their community and what keeps them safe 306 00:14:37,720 --> 00:14:42,960 Speaker 2: and what thrives them and nourishes them. It's not going 307 00:14:43,000 --> 00:14:43,400 Speaker 2: to happen. 308 00:14:43,760 --> 00:14:43,920 Speaker 3: Well. 309 00:14:44,000 --> 00:14:46,400 Speaker 1: People will stay at home with their parents longer, right, 310 00:14:46,520 --> 00:14:49,680 Speaker 1: And there is obviously an increasing number of people who 311 00:14:49,720 --> 00:14:51,880 Speaker 1: are relying on the bank of mum and dad. Not 312 00:14:51,920 --> 00:14:55,840 Speaker 1: everyone has that luxury, and then you have issues developing. 313 00:14:56,000 --> 00:14:57,560 Speaker 1: This is something I've spoken to some of my guests 314 00:14:57,600 --> 00:15:00,800 Speaker 1: about on the payoff these other issues at the other end, 315 00:15:01,040 --> 00:15:03,800 Speaker 1: where some parents are being too generous you know, God 316 00:15:03,840 --> 00:15:06,280 Speaker 1: loved them, you know, trying to give their kids a 317 00:15:06,400 --> 00:15:09,360 Speaker 1: leg up and end up getting themselves into financial stress. 318 00:15:09,360 --> 00:15:10,800 Speaker 1: And we know that women over the age of fifty 319 00:15:10,800 --> 00:15:14,760 Speaker 1: five are the most likely to the fastest rising group 320 00:15:14,800 --> 00:15:18,640 Speaker 1: of homelessness in Australia. So you've got issues at every 321 00:15:18,720 --> 00:15:22,760 Speaker 1: end of the scale here because of the disparity between 322 00:15:22,800 --> 00:15:24,040 Speaker 1: generations at the moment. 323 00:15:24,000 --> 00:15:25,760 Speaker 2: There's so many other factors when you think about it 324 00:15:25,800 --> 00:15:28,160 Speaker 2: as well. If I like when I moved out at nineteen, 325 00:15:28,480 --> 00:15:31,360 Speaker 2: it was an important lesson for me to learn. Oh oh, 326 00:15:32,280 --> 00:15:35,560 Speaker 2: I can't brush my teeth because I don't have toothpaste. 327 00:15:35,600 --> 00:15:37,320 Speaker 2: I don't have toothpast because I haven't brought any I 328 00:15:37,320 --> 00:15:40,840 Speaker 2: haven't born it because I haven't got any money. Ah right, 329 00:15:41,440 --> 00:15:45,760 Speaker 2: better sort this out. The consequences for not getting your 330 00:15:45,760 --> 00:15:50,680 Speaker 2: shit together around your money are immediate. Yeah, though that 331 00:15:50,800 --> 00:15:53,960 Speaker 2: kind of rubber band or the bottom isn't ever really there. 332 00:15:54,080 --> 00:15:56,600 Speaker 2: Sometimes if the kids never leave home, and what does 333 00:15:56,640 --> 00:15:59,960 Speaker 2: that do if you're you know, it's a bit old school. 334 00:16:00,080 --> 00:16:03,040 Speaker 2: They leave home straight into a marital home. What does 335 00:16:03,080 --> 00:16:04,040 Speaker 2: that do for someone. 336 00:16:03,880 --> 00:16:07,120 Speaker 1: Who you're kind of missing that stage of life where 337 00:16:07,160 --> 00:16:10,760 Speaker 1: you're out there really without a parachute, learning everything the 338 00:16:10,760 --> 00:16:11,600 Speaker 1: hard way, right. 339 00:16:11,520 --> 00:16:14,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, Yeah. What was your money story like when you're 340 00:16:14,760 --> 00:16:16,480 Speaker 2: a young woman when you start working. 341 00:16:17,000 --> 00:16:20,160 Speaker 1: Well, my first experience with that was I was seventeen 342 00:16:20,200 --> 00:16:21,520 Speaker 1: when I went on my gap year. So as soon 343 00:16:21,520 --> 00:16:23,200 Speaker 1: as I finished school in Queensland, a lot of us 344 00:16:23,240 --> 00:16:25,640 Speaker 1: finished when we were seventeen, and I went straight to. 345 00:16:25,840 --> 00:16:30,040 Speaker 2: A lot smarter exactly. We're just far more advanced and 346 00:16:30,080 --> 00:16:30,960 Speaker 2: more mature. 347 00:16:30,680 --> 00:16:32,080 Speaker 3: Exactly generally exactly. 348 00:16:32,160 --> 00:16:34,360 Speaker 1: So yeah, So I moved to England as a seventeen 349 00:16:34,400 --> 00:16:36,440 Speaker 1: year old, turned eighteen in the April of my gap 350 00:16:36,520 --> 00:16:39,200 Speaker 1: year and worked in a school, earning eighty eight pounds 351 00:16:39,240 --> 00:16:43,840 Speaker 1: a week, which was technically I was being reimbursed expenses 352 00:16:45,440 --> 00:16:47,760 Speaker 1: and so sort of scraping through on a pittance. And 353 00:16:47,800 --> 00:16:51,480 Speaker 1: I think my memory, obviously of my gap year is 354 00:16:51,520 --> 00:16:55,680 Speaker 1: at times hazy for obvious reasons. But I think I 355 00:16:55,720 --> 00:16:58,200 Speaker 1: only had to call my mum once for a lifeline, 356 00:16:58,240 --> 00:16:59,640 Speaker 1: for a can you to send me a little bit 357 00:16:59,680 --> 00:17:01,440 Speaker 1: of money? And I think it was halfway through my 358 00:17:01,560 --> 00:17:06,280 Speaker 1: summer Kentiquy tour, calling from a phone in Corfu. I 359 00:17:06,320 --> 00:17:10,800 Speaker 1: was going to say yeah, but yeah I did, I 360 00:17:10,800 --> 00:17:13,280 Speaker 1: mean geez. I learned some really hard lessons on budgeting 361 00:17:13,280 --> 00:17:15,600 Speaker 1: on that trip. But then when I came home. It 362 00:17:15,640 --> 00:17:17,600 Speaker 1: wasn't long after that that I moved in with a 363 00:17:17,640 --> 00:17:19,800 Speaker 1: friend for a while, and I kind of went in 364 00:17:19,880 --> 00:17:22,119 Speaker 1: and out of mum's place for a few years. 365 00:17:23,160 --> 00:17:24,359 Speaker 3: But I was working in pubs. 366 00:17:24,400 --> 00:17:26,959 Speaker 1: I was working at nine really early on, as soon 367 00:17:27,000 --> 00:17:28,520 Speaker 1: as I started UNI as well, so I had a 368 00:17:28,520 --> 00:17:31,080 Speaker 1: part time job there, so I was managing my own 369 00:17:31,119 --> 00:17:34,200 Speaker 1: budget very early. But I also as soon as I 370 00:17:34,280 --> 00:17:36,240 Speaker 1: turned fourteen nine months, I went and got a job 371 00:17:36,240 --> 00:17:39,520 Speaker 1: at Macer's right. Because we didn't have many like luxuries 372 00:17:39,520 --> 00:17:44,080 Speaker 1: in our family growing up and third child, youngest of 373 00:17:44,720 --> 00:17:47,119 Speaker 1: nine cousins, I wore a lot of hand me downs, 374 00:17:47,440 --> 00:17:48,840 Speaker 1: but I loved clothes, so I wanted to be able 375 00:17:48,880 --> 00:17:51,040 Speaker 1: to buy my own clothes and it so I went 376 00:17:51,080 --> 00:17:52,840 Speaker 1: straight and got a job. And that's probably not great 377 00:17:52,880 --> 00:17:57,080 Speaker 1: because I didn't really learn to say very well. I 378 00:17:57,160 --> 00:17:59,640 Speaker 1: spent a lot of what I earned. I was never 379 00:18:00,320 --> 00:18:05,000 Speaker 1: going beyond my means, but I didn't have good practices 380 00:18:05,320 --> 00:18:08,280 Speaker 1: with savings. And I look back on that and I think, oh, 381 00:18:08,280 --> 00:18:10,080 Speaker 1: that's probably an area I could have done better at. 382 00:18:10,400 --> 00:18:11,920 Speaker 2: It was a couple of times my phone got cut off, 383 00:18:12,240 --> 00:18:14,040 Speaker 2: a couple of times my power got cut off early 384 00:18:14,080 --> 00:18:17,640 Speaker 2: on as a consequence of like, oh, craker, haven't very 385 00:18:17,680 --> 00:18:22,680 Speaker 2: mismanaged bills. My filing system involved putting the unopened envelope 386 00:18:22,680 --> 00:18:25,679 Speaker 2: in a drawer and it it got cut off, then 387 00:18:25,720 --> 00:18:28,119 Speaker 2: it was time to pay. Yeah, that was how I 388 00:18:28,280 --> 00:18:31,359 Speaker 2: kind of did it. But there was a point that 389 00:18:31,560 --> 00:18:34,800 Speaker 2: showed up. It was once. It wasn't until I got 390 00:18:34,800 --> 00:18:37,280 Speaker 2: to Channel V, to be honest, and I started working 391 00:18:37,320 --> 00:18:39,040 Speaker 2: in television, and even then it wasn't for a lot 392 00:18:39,040 --> 00:18:41,560 Speaker 2: of money. But I stopped worrying about my phone getting 393 00:18:41,560 --> 00:18:45,160 Speaker 2: cut off. And that is a danger period then, because 394 00:18:45,160 --> 00:18:49,760 Speaker 2: you've now got this ballast that can absorb silly decisions, 395 00:18:50,600 --> 00:18:52,280 Speaker 2: and that's where I really needed to have kind of 396 00:18:52,280 --> 00:18:54,560 Speaker 2: habits you're probably talking about, but I didn't. 397 00:18:55,240 --> 00:18:59,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think it's funny, isn't. I mean it's these 398 00:18:59,000 --> 00:19:00,640 Speaker 1: are things that you kind of look back on now 399 00:19:00,680 --> 00:19:03,639 Speaker 1: and you can see them for what they were. And 400 00:19:03,720 --> 00:19:06,240 Speaker 1: I think probably for most of my life, I've been 401 00:19:06,480 --> 00:19:11,639 Speaker 1: afraid of debt and afraid of financial risk, investment like, 402 00:19:11,680 --> 00:19:14,840 Speaker 1: investing was never a part of my plan in my twenties. 403 00:19:14,840 --> 00:19:17,000 Speaker 1: It was something for rich people. You know, investing is 404 00:19:17,000 --> 00:19:20,080 Speaker 1: for rich people, for people who have bucket loads of 405 00:19:20,160 --> 00:19:24,240 Speaker 1: spare money. I can see now I'm thirty nine that 406 00:19:24,560 --> 00:19:26,960 Speaker 1: investing isn't just for rich people. It's something you could 407 00:19:27,119 --> 00:19:29,720 Speaker 1: start when you're twenty one with fifty dollars or one 408 00:19:29,800 --> 00:19:33,200 Speaker 1: hundred dollars a month and start putting it away, you know, 409 00:19:33,480 --> 00:19:37,240 Speaker 1: just automatically send that off into an account to invest 410 00:19:37,800 --> 00:19:39,920 Speaker 1: and over the next thirty years you're going to reap 411 00:19:40,000 --> 00:19:42,560 Speaker 1: the rewards of that, right, But none of that was 412 00:19:42,560 --> 00:19:45,119 Speaker 1: on my horizon when I was twenty and especially in 413 00:19:45,119 --> 00:19:48,600 Speaker 1: my late twenties living in Bondai in a bachelorette pad 414 00:19:48,640 --> 00:19:51,679 Speaker 1: with a couple of girlfriends, living our best lives. You know, 415 00:19:52,800 --> 00:19:54,879 Speaker 1: I did have a credit card for a period of 416 00:19:54,880 --> 00:19:58,360 Speaker 1: time living in Bondai, which was for those months when 417 00:19:58,359 --> 00:19:59,800 Speaker 1: I just went a little bit over. I had a 418 00:20:00,040 --> 00:20:02,000 Speaker 1: very firm limit on it. It was only a small one, 419 00:20:03,040 --> 00:20:07,920 Speaker 1: but that was probably the worst of my money management. 420 00:20:07,960 --> 00:20:09,520 Speaker 1: But I was in a bit of a yolo period 421 00:20:09,560 --> 00:20:13,439 Speaker 1: of my life. I would describe it as and again 422 00:20:13,760 --> 00:20:16,720 Speaker 1: I could have been much smarter with how I was 423 00:20:16,720 --> 00:20:22,280 Speaker 1: prioritizing my money, and in hindsight, I have some regrets 424 00:20:22,359 --> 00:20:24,560 Speaker 1: over that, but thankfully I was able to get on 425 00:20:24,600 --> 00:20:26,399 Speaker 1: top of it easily because I kept a very firm 426 00:20:26,440 --> 00:20:28,320 Speaker 1: limit on that. But I think that goes back to 427 00:20:28,359 --> 00:20:31,600 Speaker 1: me being afraid of money growing up, being afraid of debt, 428 00:20:31,640 --> 00:20:32,560 Speaker 1: being afraid. 429 00:20:32,200 --> 00:20:33,720 Speaker 2: Of risk it on. 430 00:20:34,400 --> 00:20:41,240 Speaker 1: Oh, just desperate for financial security, I think, and my 431 00:20:41,359 --> 00:20:42,440 Speaker 1: mum modeled that to me. 432 00:20:43,600 --> 00:20:44,760 Speaker 3: She was very frugal. 433 00:20:45,160 --> 00:20:47,600 Speaker 1: She had to watch every penny and she did and 434 00:20:47,680 --> 00:20:50,119 Speaker 1: she was very open with us about that when we 435 00:20:50,119 --> 00:20:52,080 Speaker 1: were growing up too, So I was very aware of, 436 00:20:52,960 --> 00:20:55,480 Speaker 1: I guess, what it was to budget for a family 437 00:20:55,520 --> 00:20:58,480 Speaker 1: and what it is to meet your bills and your responsibilities, 438 00:20:58,520 --> 00:21:01,600 Speaker 1: and you know, that was really stressful for her at times, 439 00:21:02,640 --> 00:21:06,160 Speaker 1: but she got us through without ever having. 440 00:21:06,040 --> 00:21:06,840 Speaker 3: To pull the ripcord. 441 00:21:06,920 --> 00:21:11,240 Speaker 1: You know, we were always comfortable and we were always 442 00:21:11,240 --> 00:21:13,639 Speaker 1: given every opportunity in life as a result of that, 443 00:21:13,640 --> 00:21:15,439 Speaker 1: because Mum made sure that we had the space for that. 444 00:21:15,560 --> 00:21:17,720 Speaker 1: So and how to prioritize, you know, the really important 445 00:21:17,720 --> 00:21:22,000 Speaker 1: things in life as well. So so I guess through osmosis, 446 00:21:22,119 --> 00:21:23,000 Speaker 1: maybe that's where. 447 00:21:22,840 --> 00:21:23,480 Speaker 3: That comes from. 448 00:21:23,560 --> 00:21:26,360 Speaker 2: She worked and she mummed, she worked and she mum 449 00:21:26,520 --> 00:21:27,399 Speaker 2: mommed hard. 450 00:21:27,280 --> 00:21:29,119 Speaker 3: She mummed really hard. 451 00:21:29,400 --> 00:21:31,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, the same with the same with you know, 452 00:21:32,080 --> 00:21:35,160 Speaker 2: my mom had four four kids and I was doing 453 00:21:35,200 --> 00:21:39,919 Speaker 2: it alone from when the eldest was thirteen, and she 454 00:21:40,080 --> 00:21:43,879 Speaker 2: worked so hard man and gave us the opportunities, like 455 00:21:43,920 --> 00:21:45,879 Speaker 2: if we were interested in something and showed interest, she 456 00:21:45,880 --> 00:21:48,159 Speaker 2: would go, okay, you to go give it a go, 457 00:21:48,320 --> 00:21:52,400 Speaker 2: and understood. You talk about investing, but understood investing in 458 00:21:52,440 --> 00:21:56,159 Speaker 2: your kid's interest in what engages them has such a 459 00:21:56,200 --> 00:21:59,560 Speaker 2: compounding effect in their life. You want to with me 460 00:21:59,640 --> 00:22:01,120 Speaker 2: for we're going to with music, Like you really want 461 00:22:01,119 --> 00:22:03,040 Speaker 2: to learn this, You're going to Okay, I'll buy the instrument, 462 00:22:03,080 --> 00:22:05,240 Speaker 2: all right, You're going to practice, you're gonna do it, okay, okay, great? 463 00:22:05,359 --> 00:22:08,359 Speaker 2: What did you play guitar at first? Then bass and 464 00:22:08,400 --> 00:22:11,679 Speaker 2: then everything else? But that's what led to everything, right, 465 00:22:12,160 --> 00:22:14,840 Speaker 2: and that the idea of performance, in connecting with people 466 00:22:15,440 --> 00:22:18,840 Speaker 2: through performance was it but her belief in me to 467 00:22:18,880 --> 00:22:20,479 Speaker 2: do that, and she did it with at my brothers. 468 00:22:20,560 --> 00:22:22,920 Speaker 2: Whatever we were kind of into. She worked to the 469 00:22:22,960 --> 00:22:24,920 Speaker 2: point where like and if we weren't interested in it, 470 00:22:26,040 --> 00:22:29,680 Speaker 2: you know, it's okay, I wanted to give you that. Yeah, 471 00:22:29,720 --> 00:22:33,760 Speaker 2: and investing. Can you also talking about investing When it 472 00:22:33,760 --> 00:22:36,240 Speaker 2: came to sending Jeta, we managed to get her into 473 00:22:37,080 --> 00:22:40,720 Speaker 2: a Fancays school in area. So the reason we lived 474 00:22:40,720 --> 00:22:41,960 Speaker 2: in the apartment for those years. 475 00:22:42,040 --> 00:22:44,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, sacrifices priorities. 476 00:22:44,520 --> 00:22:48,000 Speaker 2: Is that really it's kind of the last financial decision 477 00:22:48,040 --> 00:22:51,240 Speaker 2: you can really make to influence the outcome in life 478 00:22:51,359 --> 00:22:55,680 Speaker 2: really after their eighteen that's on them. But we looked 479 00:22:55,680 --> 00:22:58,280 Speaker 2: at at that as an investment. Absolutely looked at that 480 00:22:58,400 --> 00:23:00,600 Speaker 2: as an investment. It's not always about index funds and. 481 00:23:00,800 --> 00:23:03,359 Speaker 3: Exactly you know, yeah. 482 00:23:02,640 --> 00:23:04,840 Speaker 2: That sort of thing. It's investing in your kid's future 483 00:23:04,920 --> 00:23:07,520 Speaker 2: and investing in the outcomes that they might have that 484 00:23:07,520 --> 00:23:10,520 Speaker 2: they might be independent themselves one day for sure. When 485 00:23:10,560 --> 00:23:13,680 Speaker 2: you you mentioned the late twenties period and whether that's 486 00:23:13,760 --> 00:23:17,919 Speaker 2: yet to come for you or it's in your past, whether. 487 00:23:17,720 --> 00:23:19,600 Speaker 3: My late twenties are in my past. 488 00:23:19,400 --> 00:23:24,080 Speaker 2: Well, yeah, as far as money management goes, yes, there's 489 00:23:24,119 --> 00:23:26,800 Speaker 2: always there's always money to party at some point, Like 490 00:23:26,880 --> 00:23:30,520 Speaker 2: there's always. 491 00:23:29,040 --> 00:23:31,640 Speaker 1: Going to go and have Sunday afternoon drinks down at 492 00:23:31,680 --> 00:23:33,520 Speaker 1: the North Bonda RSL with your mates. 493 00:23:33,720 --> 00:23:35,360 Speaker 3: You know you're not going to pass that up. 494 00:23:35,600 --> 00:23:39,440 Speaker 2: No, you always find the money somewhere to pay for 495 00:23:39,440 --> 00:23:42,800 Speaker 2: a couple of points or you know whatever. Extracurricular Yeah, 496 00:23:43,480 --> 00:23:44,560 Speaker 2: I guess I could stretch. 497 00:23:44,320 --> 00:23:45,840 Speaker 3: You to that rose. Couple of roses. 498 00:23:45,880 --> 00:23:49,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, just yeah, sure. I mean there's under session. Okay, 499 00:23:49,080 --> 00:23:51,840 Speaker 2: we can split a capture and then the daisy it's midnight. 500 00:23:52,200 --> 00:23:53,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, for sure. 501 00:23:54,000 --> 00:23:56,280 Speaker 1: But do you know, like back in that stage of 502 00:23:56,280 --> 00:24:00,440 Speaker 1: my life, no one in my circle was talking about 503 00:24:00,840 --> 00:24:03,679 Speaker 1: their financial goals. No one was talking and maybe I 504 00:24:03,720 --> 00:24:06,400 Speaker 1: don't know where the line is here with men and women. 505 00:24:07,680 --> 00:24:09,679 Speaker 1: I know certainly more now in my age bracket, you 506 00:24:09,720 --> 00:24:12,680 Speaker 1: get more men talking over a barbecue about what they've 507 00:24:12,680 --> 00:24:15,280 Speaker 1: invested in or what's happening in the market with X, 508 00:24:15,359 --> 00:24:18,520 Speaker 1: Y and Z, and not so much with women. But 509 00:24:18,600 --> 00:24:21,159 Speaker 1: it is starting among my friendship circle now. And I 510 00:24:21,240 --> 00:24:23,760 Speaker 1: feel like we should have been having these conversations twenty 511 00:24:23,880 --> 00:24:27,320 Speaker 1: years ago because it would have given a lot of 512 00:24:27,400 --> 00:24:30,959 Speaker 1: us more of a head start with some things they 513 00:24:31,040 --> 00:24:34,280 Speaker 1: are And now that I understand more about this area 514 00:24:34,600 --> 00:24:37,040 Speaker 1: of life as well, I can see the benefits of 515 00:24:37,160 --> 00:24:39,160 Speaker 1: being a part of this conversation in your twenties. 516 00:24:39,160 --> 00:24:40,520 Speaker 3: And that's again another part. 517 00:24:40,800 --> 00:24:44,480 Speaker 1: Another reason for the podcast is opening up the conversation 518 00:24:44,680 --> 00:24:47,720 Speaker 1: around money, which is so Orkies and so uncomfortable for 519 00:24:47,840 --> 00:24:50,760 Speaker 1: so many people to others who might not be having 520 00:24:50,800 --> 00:24:53,840 Speaker 1: these conversations with their friends or their family because it 521 00:24:53,960 --> 00:24:57,600 Speaker 1: isn't a natural part of a conversation for a lot 522 00:24:57,600 --> 00:25:01,720 Speaker 1: of people, even in this day and age when but 523 00:25:01,840 --> 00:25:04,320 Speaker 1: I think also younger generations have no option but to 524 00:25:04,359 --> 00:25:07,520 Speaker 1: talk about it because things are so different. They have 525 00:25:07,600 --> 00:25:11,080 Speaker 1: to be honest about what goals they're setting financially and 526 00:25:11,119 --> 00:25:14,919 Speaker 1: what they're hoping to achieve and what they're doing with 527 00:25:14,960 --> 00:25:17,520 Speaker 1: the extra one hundred dollars. I know, and that seems 528 00:25:17,720 --> 00:25:19,159 Speaker 1: like a hard thing for a lot of people in 529 00:25:19,160 --> 00:25:21,399 Speaker 1: a cost of living crisis. But if you've got to 530 00:25:21,440 --> 00:25:23,320 Speaker 1: spend one hundred dollars every week, what do you do 531 00:25:23,359 --> 00:25:26,000 Speaker 1: with it? And what's the best way to get something 532 00:25:26,040 --> 00:25:27,000 Speaker 1: out of that in the long term? 533 00:25:27,080 --> 00:25:30,600 Speaker 2: Seventeen legue multi that ends on Hina the outcome of 534 00:25:30,720 --> 00:25:32,360 Speaker 2: Singapore and match. 535 00:25:34,280 --> 00:25:34,959 Speaker 3: Put it all in. 536 00:25:36,040 --> 00:25:38,800 Speaker 2: You don't understand how hard this will payoff, Jeffrey, how 537 00:25:38,880 --> 00:25:40,920 Speaker 2: much I'm going to pay out exactly going to get 538 00:25:41,080 --> 00:25:45,320 Speaker 2: back one before and more. The conversation around money as 539 00:25:46,000 --> 00:25:49,119 Speaker 2: men talking about investing. It's only now that you speak 540 00:25:49,119 --> 00:25:53,840 Speaker 2: about it. I so resisted it, or I was so. 541 00:25:54,359 --> 00:25:57,400 Speaker 2: I was bored by people who started to talk like that. Yeah, 542 00:25:57,440 --> 00:26:00,240 Speaker 2: because that represented to me, you don't care about this moment. 543 00:26:00,400 --> 00:26:02,160 Speaker 2: All you want to do is show that you're better 544 00:26:02,200 --> 00:26:05,160 Speaker 2: than me. I was a very different place in my life. 545 00:26:05,400 --> 00:26:09,800 Speaker 2: But I found it just so crass. And it was 546 00:26:10,000 --> 00:26:13,240 Speaker 2: never the idea of I'm doing this now so that 547 00:26:13,400 --> 00:26:16,960 Speaker 2: when I'm sixty, I don't have to work too hard 548 00:26:17,119 --> 00:26:19,479 Speaker 2: and me and my kids would be fine. It was 549 00:26:20,440 --> 00:26:23,680 Speaker 2: not that at all. It felt really like a pissing context. 550 00:26:23,680 --> 00:26:24,159 Speaker 3: Oh, I get it. 551 00:26:24,440 --> 00:26:27,000 Speaker 2: I hated it, so I didn't want to ever talk 552 00:26:27,000 --> 00:26:28,199 Speaker 2: about it or know anything about it. 553 00:26:28,280 --> 00:26:30,919 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's just for the finance bros. You know that 554 00:26:31,000 --> 00:26:31,560 Speaker 1: kind of chat. 555 00:26:31,720 --> 00:26:33,240 Speaker 2: And they were always tall and hot. 556 00:26:33,440 --> 00:26:38,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, gray suits called. 557 00:26:36,600 --> 00:26:39,600 Speaker 2: It John, Yes, they all rode. 558 00:26:40,040 --> 00:26:40,720 Speaker 3: I know the guy. 559 00:26:40,880 --> 00:26:44,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, I went to his wedding. He's a lovely guy. 560 00:26:45,720 --> 00:26:50,280 Speaker 1: Page it by the way, that one. 561 00:26:50,560 --> 00:26:52,560 Speaker 2: But yeah, I always found it. I didn't never understand. 562 00:26:52,560 --> 00:26:54,840 Speaker 2: I didn't see it through the lens of that was 563 00:26:54,840 --> 00:26:56,760 Speaker 2: available to me. So I felt it was like, no, 564 00:26:56,840 --> 00:27:00,359 Speaker 2: I'm excluded from this. People talk about real estate trying 565 00:27:00,359 --> 00:27:03,159 Speaker 2: to buy. I had two bass guitars stolen after a 566 00:27:03,200 --> 00:27:06,280 Speaker 2: gig once, and I was I was unemployed. I'm playing 567 00:27:06,320 --> 00:27:08,400 Speaker 2: in an Originals band in Brisbane at from the back 568 00:27:08,400 --> 00:27:11,239 Speaker 2: of the Gabba Hotel. What do I do now? How 569 00:27:11,240 --> 00:27:13,000 Speaker 2: do I I can't even play? I haven't going to 570 00:27:13,000 --> 00:27:15,240 Speaker 2: get a guitar. I actually ended up taking a personal line, 571 00:27:15,240 --> 00:27:19,479 Speaker 2: that's right. I took a person alone. Yeah, eighteen percent 572 00:27:19,600 --> 00:27:21,160 Speaker 2: or interest for. 573 00:27:21,160 --> 00:27:24,080 Speaker 3: That, but it was the only way to get back 574 00:27:24,080 --> 00:27:24,720 Speaker 3: out there and working. 575 00:27:24,760 --> 00:27:26,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, it took a long time. And then when I 576 00:27:26,320 --> 00:27:28,879 Speaker 2: hear the ads not on this podcast, but when I 577 00:27:28,920 --> 00:27:31,960 Speaker 2: hear the ads for your paycheck is yours dot com 578 00:27:32,040 --> 00:27:34,720 Speaker 2: or whatever, It's like, Noop, don't do ever do that 579 00:27:34,880 --> 00:27:38,280 Speaker 2: because that's such slippery slope. Sure is those sort of things. 580 00:27:38,280 --> 00:27:40,560 Speaker 2: What kind of things should people in your conversations you 581 00:27:40,640 --> 00:27:42,679 Speaker 2: had on your show, what kind of things do you 582 00:27:42,680 --> 00:27:45,120 Speaker 2: look do you want people to look out for as 583 00:27:45,119 --> 00:27:46,680 Speaker 2: a try to struggle for answers? 584 00:27:46,840 --> 00:27:49,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, well, I mean we sort of look at this 585 00:27:49,520 --> 00:27:53,639 Speaker 1: from every angle. We've looked at it from a Okay, 586 00:27:53,680 --> 00:27:55,600 Speaker 1: if you can't get into the property market, what are 587 00:27:55,600 --> 00:27:56,720 Speaker 1: some creative ways to do that? 588 00:27:56,800 --> 00:27:59,320 Speaker 3: We spoke to Alice Stotz from Domain about that she. 589 00:27:59,400 --> 00:28:02,879 Speaker 1: Covers off the rent vesting co ownership and how to 590 00:28:02,920 --> 00:28:05,760 Speaker 1: set up a contract for that as well to protect 591 00:28:05,760 --> 00:28:10,240 Speaker 1: yourself into the future. We've got an upcoming interview with 592 00:28:10,359 --> 00:28:13,760 Speaker 1: Jessica Irvine from Combank, who is the Queen of Budgeting, 593 00:28:14,040 --> 00:28:17,359 Speaker 1: and she's got some really great advice in there on 594 00:28:17,560 --> 00:28:21,760 Speaker 1: how to crunch down your debt first and the steps 595 00:28:21,760 --> 00:28:24,840 Speaker 1: that you need to take for financial security. If you 596 00:28:24,920 --> 00:28:29,280 Speaker 1: are in that position where you were, where you feel 597 00:28:29,280 --> 00:28:32,200 Speaker 1: like the debt is insurmountable and you've got to crunch 598 00:28:32,240 --> 00:28:35,320 Speaker 1: that before you do anything else, then she's got great 599 00:28:35,320 --> 00:28:37,560 Speaker 1: tips on that front. And then how to set up 600 00:28:37,600 --> 00:28:40,480 Speaker 1: a really healthy looking budget that allows you to understand 601 00:28:40,520 --> 00:28:44,040 Speaker 1: where every dollar is going. And it sounds really boring 602 00:28:44,080 --> 00:28:47,800 Speaker 1: and tedious, but she makes it pretty good, pretty fun, 603 00:28:47,960 --> 00:28:51,560 Speaker 1: pretty engaging, and it gives you, I think, more than anything, 604 00:28:51,680 --> 00:28:55,000 Speaker 1: a sense of control over your money. And that's the 605 00:28:55,080 --> 00:28:57,480 Speaker 1: topic we just did this week, which dropped is with 606 00:28:57,600 --> 00:29:01,880 Speaker 1: clinical psychologist Rebecca Ray because money mindset, I think plays 607 00:29:01,880 --> 00:29:04,720 Speaker 1: so much into this how you were brought up and 608 00:29:05,480 --> 00:29:08,600 Speaker 1: the money relationship that your parents had and then therefore 609 00:29:09,360 --> 00:29:12,640 Speaker 1: instilled in you what kind of conversations we're being had 610 00:29:12,760 --> 00:29:14,680 Speaker 1: around money when you were growing up. And she talks 611 00:29:14,720 --> 00:29:17,640 Speaker 1: around the shame that a lot of us carry around money, 612 00:29:18,400 --> 00:29:20,240 Speaker 1: and this is I think what's stopping a lot of 613 00:29:20,240 --> 00:29:22,720 Speaker 1: people from talking about it too, is that we're ashamed 614 00:29:22,760 --> 00:29:26,160 Speaker 1: of maybe X, Y, and z in our personal finance, 615 00:29:26,240 --> 00:29:29,320 Speaker 1: and maybe we don't want to talk to someone about 616 00:29:29,320 --> 00:29:31,440 Speaker 1: the goal that we're working towards because we don't think 617 00:29:31,480 --> 00:29:33,640 Speaker 1: it stacks up to what someone else is working towards. 618 00:29:34,120 --> 00:29:37,480 Speaker 1: And so looking at that and being really forgiving of 619 00:29:37,520 --> 00:29:42,200 Speaker 1: yourself and kind to gentle with yourself and understanding that 620 00:29:42,240 --> 00:29:44,160 Speaker 1: probably a lot of other people are feeling the same way, 621 00:29:44,200 --> 00:29:47,880 Speaker 1: they're just not talking about it. So and also entering 622 00:29:47,880 --> 00:29:50,080 Speaker 1: a relationship with a new person and how to set 623 00:29:50,120 --> 00:29:54,960 Speaker 1: up your financial boundaries and goals and ensure that you're 624 00:29:54,960 --> 00:29:56,880 Speaker 1: on the same page with all of that stuff, because 625 00:29:56,880 --> 00:29:58,719 Speaker 1: that's so crucial as well. So look, we look at 626 00:29:58,720 --> 00:30:02,360 Speaker 1: it from every people in the world of investment, people 627 00:30:02,400 --> 00:30:05,160 Speaker 1: in the world of property, people in the world of 628 00:30:05,560 --> 00:30:08,120 Speaker 1: self improvement as well, negotiating at work all of it. 629 00:30:08,280 --> 00:30:11,120 Speaker 2: Really and you mentioned the shame, like the story that 630 00:30:11,160 --> 00:30:14,320 Speaker 2: we have from when we're a kid. How in the 631 00:30:14,360 --> 00:30:17,360 Speaker 2: conversations you've had, what do you think where do you 632 00:30:17,360 --> 00:30:20,040 Speaker 2: even start with getting your story together about and just 633 00:30:20,040 --> 00:30:21,760 Speaker 2: at least having a look at it where it was 634 00:30:22,120 --> 00:30:23,320 Speaker 2: and where you might like it to be. 635 00:30:23,680 --> 00:30:26,080 Speaker 1: I mean, this is definitely a question for Rebecca Ray, 636 00:30:26,120 --> 00:30:29,600 Speaker 1: who's the qualified psychology authority. 637 00:30:29,680 --> 00:30:32,520 Speaker 2: It's your podcast, this is how podcasts work. I have 638 00:30:32,640 --> 00:30:34,520 Speaker 2: a thing, I have artworks before. 639 00:30:35,400 --> 00:30:38,040 Speaker 3: It belongs to me. The answer belongs to me. 640 00:30:39,080 --> 00:30:41,960 Speaker 1: It's what applies to a lot of things in life. 641 00:30:42,520 --> 00:30:46,680 Speaker 1: Speaking to Rebecca, her take on it was basically, you 642 00:30:46,880 --> 00:30:49,160 Speaker 1: have to be more forgiving, and you have to be 643 00:30:49,200 --> 00:30:53,880 Speaker 1: more accepting of yourself and not be so hard on yourself. 644 00:30:54,240 --> 00:30:58,720 Speaker 1: But basically she said, confronting those issues and taking actions 645 00:30:59,320 --> 00:31:03,440 Speaker 1: and taking steps towards what you want to achieve is 646 00:31:03,480 --> 00:31:05,840 Speaker 1: the way you're going to get over that feeling of shame. 647 00:31:05,920 --> 00:31:08,320 Speaker 1: But I would definitely encourage people to listen to her 648 00:31:08,520 --> 00:31:11,240 Speaker 1: views on that, because I'm not qualified to give anyone 649 00:31:11,360 --> 00:31:15,600 Speaker 1: advice in terms of psychology. But it applies to a 650 00:31:15,600 --> 00:31:17,760 Speaker 1: lot of things in life. You know, we beat ourselves 651 00:31:17,840 --> 00:31:21,080 Speaker 1: up over so many things in life, and I think 652 00:31:21,120 --> 00:31:24,280 Speaker 1: so much of that is unjustified, and she unpacks a 653 00:31:24,280 --> 00:31:25,440 Speaker 1: lot of that in that conversation. 654 00:31:25,800 --> 00:31:27,240 Speaker 2: One of the reasons that we can often get into 655 00:31:27,240 --> 00:31:30,360 Speaker 2: trouble with money. While we can get into trouble with 656 00:31:31,040 --> 00:31:34,200 Speaker 2: either saving for something or not saving for something because 657 00:31:34,200 --> 00:31:37,880 Speaker 2: it seems so insurmountable, it's because emotion is often involved 658 00:31:38,560 --> 00:31:43,120 Speaker 2: in spending. Yes, I don't feel very good right now. 659 00:31:43,360 --> 00:31:44,880 Speaker 2: You know it's going to make me feel good. This 660 00:31:44,960 --> 00:31:47,240 Speaker 2: thing that I just were instagram that I didn't know 661 00:31:47,280 --> 00:31:50,280 Speaker 2: existed a minute ago, but now I'm convinced I can't 662 00:31:50,280 --> 00:31:51,000 Speaker 2: live without. 663 00:31:50,800 --> 00:31:51,720 Speaker 3: Put it in a basket. 664 00:31:51,800 --> 00:31:53,520 Speaker 2: I have to open it and I have to click 665 00:31:53,560 --> 00:31:55,640 Speaker 2: at it. And yeah, why not for equal payments? That 666 00:31:55,640 --> 00:31:56,680 Speaker 2: sounds great bush. 667 00:31:56,520 --> 00:31:57,360 Speaker 3: To dopamine hit. 668 00:31:57,560 --> 00:32:04,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, How can we insulate ourselves from emotion playing 669 00:32:04,520 --> 00:32:06,640 Speaker 2: with the plans that we have and the budgets that 670 00:32:06,640 --> 00:32:07,800 Speaker 2: we are trying to keep together? 671 00:32:08,080 --> 00:32:10,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, well that's one for Jessica Irvine. 672 00:32:10,600 --> 00:32:13,240 Speaker 1: So let me just deflect to all of my very 673 00:32:13,240 --> 00:32:18,840 Speaker 1: smart guests, who is very good at being specific around 674 00:32:18,840 --> 00:32:22,440 Speaker 1: what you're working towards and setting those goals and sticking 675 00:32:22,440 --> 00:32:26,920 Speaker 1: to them. She uses every highlighter under the sun to 676 00:32:27,280 --> 00:32:29,800 Speaker 1: really get down in the weeds of your budget that. 677 00:32:29,840 --> 00:32:32,480 Speaker 2: Involves office works and then me just going, you know what, 678 00:32:32,520 --> 00:32:34,120 Speaker 2: I really need a cross cut paper sder. 679 00:32:34,320 --> 00:32:37,880 Speaker 3: Seriously, office works is her happy place, and you. 680 00:32:37,880 --> 00:32:40,600 Speaker 2: Know I should probably there just invest in West Farmers that. 681 00:32:41,200 --> 00:32:44,280 Speaker 1: It's a slippery slope, you know, once it's starting, you 682 00:32:44,360 --> 00:32:48,480 Speaker 1: never go back exactly get you with so plenty of 683 00:32:48,480 --> 00:32:51,880 Speaker 1: different different colored highlighted well and there are so many 684 00:32:51,880 --> 00:32:53,840 Speaker 1: ways to do this, but that's her method and it 685 00:32:53,960 --> 00:32:58,239 Speaker 1: helps her to see very clearly which bucket, you know, 686 00:32:58,440 --> 00:33:01,840 Speaker 1: is taking more than it's fair share from her budget 687 00:33:02,000 --> 00:33:05,120 Speaker 1: month to month. And I think being really and this 688 00:33:05,160 --> 00:33:06,920 Speaker 1: is something I'm starting to do a lot more, is 689 00:33:07,000 --> 00:33:11,640 Speaker 1: being really specific about ou as a family financial goals too. 690 00:33:11,680 --> 00:33:12,800 Speaker 3: What are we working towards? 691 00:33:12,880 --> 00:33:15,640 Speaker 1: What do we hope for this to look like by 692 00:33:15,640 --> 00:33:18,760 Speaker 1: the time we're sixty, At what point do we want 693 00:33:18,800 --> 00:33:21,600 Speaker 1: to retire? Because this is sort of part of the 694 00:33:21,600 --> 00:33:24,680 Speaker 1: theme that keeps emerging too, is that what you should 695 00:33:24,720 --> 00:33:28,120 Speaker 1: be working towards in life is what is enough for you. 696 00:33:28,240 --> 00:33:30,720 Speaker 1: And you have to be really clear in your definition 697 00:33:30,760 --> 00:33:33,959 Speaker 1: of what is enough, what's going to make you happy. 698 00:33:34,360 --> 00:33:37,840 Speaker 1: For some people, it's going to be owning the home 699 00:33:37,920 --> 00:33:40,400 Speaker 1: that they can bring their family up in. For other people, 700 00:33:40,440 --> 00:33:42,160 Speaker 1: it's going to be going to Europe once a year. 701 00:33:42,200 --> 00:33:44,920 Speaker 1: For other people it's going to be I don't know, 702 00:33:44,960 --> 00:33:47,000 Speaker 1: having a vintage car or something. 703 00:33:47,000 --> 00:33:47,200 Speaker 2: You know. 704 00:33:47,440 --> 00:33:51,320 Speaker 1: For some people it's just you know, meeting the rent 705 00:33:51,360 --> 00:33:54,440 Speaker 1: and having some flexibility to maybe travel a little bit 706 00:33:54,440 --> 00:33:54,840 Speaker 1: on the side. 707 00:33:54,840 --> 00:33:57,840 Speaker 3: I don't know. Everyone has different different. 708 00:33:57,880 --> 00:34:01,120 Speaker 1: Goals in life, and I think the key is being 709 00:34:01,200 --> 00:34:05,480 Speaker 1: really clear around what that goal is and knowing how 710 00:34:05,480 --> 00:34:08,319 Speaker 1: you're going to get to it, because that way, you 711 00:34:08,360 --> 00:34:11,480 Speaker 1: feel like you're in control of your money and you're 712 00:34:11,520 --> 00:34:13,960 Speaker 1: not just rolling with what comes in month to month 713 00:34:14,080 --> 00:34:15,120 Speaker 1: and seeing where you land. 714 00:34:16,239 --> 00:34:19,000 Speaker 2: Just taking a moment from Sylvia, whose podcast is called 715 00:34:19,320 --> 00:34:20,880 Speaker 2: The Payoff, you can find it where you're found on 716 00:34:20,920 --> 00:34:23,319 Speaker 2: this podcast, we've got to play some ads. We'll be 717 00:34:23,400 --> 00:34:32,640 Speaker 2: right back. As a journalist, and you mentioned earlier in 718 00:34:32,680 --> 00:34:37,000 Speaker 2: the conversation, there is a growing gap in our country 719 00:34:37,080 --> 00:34:40,880 Speaker 2: between people who don't worry about the phone bill and 720 00:34:40,960 --> 00:34:44,840 Speaker 2: people who are still prepaid month to month, week to 721 00:34:44,880 --> 00:34:47,239 Speaker 2: week and don't know where it's going to come from 722 00:34:47,400 --> 00:34:51,360 Speaker 2: next month. That to me, I think is a challenge. 723 00:34:51,400 --> 00:34:52,759 Speaker 2: Our country's really going to have to have a look 724 00:34:52,760 --> 00:34:53,200 Speaker 2: at isn't it? 725 00:34:53,200 --> 00:34:53,319 Speaker 3: Well? 726 00:34:53,360 --> 00:34:55,200 Speaker 1: This is something I spoke to Alice Stultz about. Is 727 00:34:55,239 --> 00:34:57,239 Speaker 1: this concept which has been brought up in the newspapers 728 00:34:57,280 --> 00:35:00,720 Speaker 1: recently of Sydney becoming a city without grandchildren. Oh my god, 729 00:35:00,960 --> 00:35:07,640 Speaker 1: because people having children? Yeah, will if you're having if 730 00:35:07,640 --> 00:35:10,120 Speaker 1: you're starting a family and you're trying to set yourself up, 731 00:35:11,040 --> 00:35:13,760 Speaker 1: how could you afford and you're on the average salary, 732 00:35:14,840 --> 00:35:17,960 Speaker 1: how can you afford to raise children in Sydney the 733 00:35:18,080 --> 00:35:21,239 Speaker 1: second least affordable city in the world, And so people 734 00:35:21,280 --> 00:35:23,200 Speaker 1: are moving further out. I mean, this is part of 735 00:35:23,200 --> 00:35:25,960 Speaker 1: the reason why house prices are rising so fast in Brisbane, 736 00:35:25,960 --> 00:35:28,279 Speaker 1: because people are moving north, or they're moving to the 737 00:35:28,280 --> 00:35:31,040 Speaker 1: Central Coast or whatever. They're just getting out of the 738 00:35:31,080 --> 00:35:35,080 Speaker 1: places that are far too expensive. And so then you've 739 00:35:35,120 --> 00:35:39,479 Speaker 1: got the grandparents in Sydney left behind, who therefore lose 740 00:35:39,520 --> 00:35:41,880 Speaker 1: access to the grandkids. And then the parents in the 741 00:35:41,880 --> 00:35:45,120 Speaker 1: middle lose access to the grandparents who support their village 742 00:35:45,120 --> 00:35:48,239 Speaker 1: and their support network. And that's kind of the demographic 743 00:35:48,320 --> 00:35:51,200 Speaker 1: shift that we're looking at as a result of that 744 00:35:51,320 --> 00:35:52,320 Speaker 1: financial disparity. 745 00:35:53,440 --> 00:35:55,960 Speaker 2: As you said that, I don't feel tears coming to 746 00:35:56,000 --> 00:35:59,719 Speaker 2: my eyes of how awful it is to make a 747 00:35:59,800 --> 00:36:03,759 Speaker 2: kin munity split itself apart. Long it does like these 748 00:36:03,800 --> 00:36:06,440 Speaker 2: are bigger things than just captaal gains tax and frankin 749 00:36:06,520 --> 00:36:10,879 Speaker 2: credits and negative gearing. This is what keeps us as 750 00:36:10,920 --> 00:36:13,399 Speaker 2: a community feeling like we belong with each other. 751 00:36:13,600 --> 00:36:15,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's a big shift. 752 00:36:15,520 --> 00:36:18,880 Speaker 1: And what's interesting in Australia in terms of housing supply 753 00:36:18,960 --> 00:36:20,719 Speaker 1: and we all know supply is a big issue here 754 00:36:20,880 --> 00:36:23,920 Speaker 1: and increasing it is critical to bringing down prices or 755 00:36:23,960 --> 00:36:28,880 Speaker 1: at least slowing the growth of prices, is that we 756 00:36:28,920 --> 00:36:33,520 Speaker 1: are a really undense nation. Our capital city is compared 757 00:36:33,520 --> 00:36:37,000 Speaker 1: to other capital cities across the world, are not dense, 758 00:36:37,400 --> 00:36:41,120 Speaker 1: and we still expect huge blocks of land in this 759 00:36:41,200 --> 00:36:46,279 Speaker 1: country and so there need to be big opportunities, I 760 00:36:46,280 --> 00:36:51,280 Speaker 1: think to grow these kind of mini cities and definitely 761 00:36:51,320 --> 00:36:54,680 Speaker 1: increase the density. And you know, I think people are 762 00:36:54,680 --> 00:36:57,840 Speaker 1: really open to living, to living in apartments and that 763 00:36:57,880 --> 00:36:59,960 Speaker 1: sort of life so long as there's enough green space around. 764 00:37:00,280 --> 00:37:02,319 Speaker 1: But at the moment that's not even really an option 765 00:37:02,400 --> 00:37:05,160 Speaker 1: for a lot of people because the prices are so 766 00:37:05,360 --> 00:37:08,200 Speaker 1: high in Sydney. So so there are a lot of 767 00:37:08,280 --> 00:37:11,120 Speaker 1: demographic shifts that are happening as a result of this. 768 00:37:11,400 --> 00:37:14,239 Speaker 2: And how that affects politics as well, because people tend 769 00:37:14,239 --> 00:37:15,960 Speaker 2: to get more conservative as they get older. So for 770 00:37:16,000 --> 00:37:20,680 Speaker 2: the capital cities start to become overall way more conservative. 771 00:37:21,360 --> 00:37:24,200 Speaker 2: What is that? What does that do for you know policy? 772 00:37:24,239 --> 00:37:29,200 Speaker 2: As far as housing developments in western New South Wales 773 00:37:29,520 --> 00:37:34,440 Speaker 2: or northern Queensland. That's wow. I had along all of this, 774 00:37:34,480 --> 00:37:36,319 Speaker 2: I had a really transformative experience just a bit over 775 00:37:36,400 --> 00:37:38,680 Speaker 2: ten twelve years ago when I went to business school. 776 00:37:38,719 --> 00:37:42,560 Speaker 2: I was in Amsterdam. And have you been to Amsterdam. 777 00:37:42,640 --> 00:37:46,560 Speaker 3: On the afore mentioned kentiquy to You probably. 778 00:37:46,280 --> 00:37:50,439 Speaker 2: Don't remember that vague. I was a very sober person 779 00:37:50,440 --> 00:37:52,759 Speaker 2: by the time. Yeah, I'm very grateful, that's good. But 780 00:37:52,920 --> 00:37:54,960 Speaker 2: I stayed in the in the Canal Ring, in the 781 00:37:54,960 --> 00:37:57,759 Speaker 2: ancient city like seven hundred years old, and it is 782 00:37:57,800 --> 00:38:01,840 Speaker 2: the most densely populated part of the world, and it 783 00:38:01,880 --> 00:38:04,600 Speaker 2: is hundreds of hundreds of years old, and the houses 784 00:38:04,680 --> 00:38:08,160 Speaker 2: are smaller than this studio. Yeah, okay, And I remember 785 00:38:08,200 --> 00:38:12,320 Speaker 2: I stayed airbnb someone's house. They were the creative director 786 00:38:12,440 --> 00:38:17,680 Speaker 2: for a Dutch design magazine, so you can imagine the 787 00:38:17,800 --> 00:38:20,239 Speaker 2: kind of that was just going on holidays. They wanted, 788 00:38:20,360 --> 00:38:22,200 Speaker 2: you know, a month. I was every month they wanted 789 00:38:22,200 --> 00:38:23,439 Speaker 2: someone to take care of the place. 790 00:38:24,320 --> 00:38:24,360 Speaker 3: Is. 791 00:38:24,400 --> 00:38:25,799 Speaker 2: You can imagine the kind of stuff this person would 792 00:38:25,800 --> 00:38:28,319 Speaker 2: have in the house, right you talked about concept of enough. 793 00:38:29,040 --> 00:38:31,719 Speaker 2: They had a cupboard which is probably this wide. They 794 00:38:31,760 --> 00:38:35,040 Speaker 2: had two suits and three empty coat hangers that they 795 00:38:35,080 --> 00:38:37,640 Speaker 2: probably had taken on holiday with them. They had four cups, 796 00:38:37,760 --> 00:38:40,600 Speaker 2: four plates, full bowls, a fridge about this big. 797 00:38:40,800 --> 00:38:41,120 Speaker 3: Wow. 798 00:38:41,600 --> 00:38:44,839 Speaker 2: That was it? Like, it wasn't I have a cinema room. 799 00:38:44,920 --> 00:38:46,680 Speaker 2: I only have bish and I have that and there's 800 00:38:46,760 --> 00:38:49,279 Speaker 2: the blah blah. No. It was like, no that and 801 00:38:49,320 --> 00:38:52,000 Speaker 2: it blew my mind. Oh wow, you could be this 802 00:38:52,120 --> 00:38:56,680 Speaker 2: high profile person and your home and what is in 803 00:38:56,719 --> 00:39:00,520 Speaker 2: your home doesn't have to it's so simple show to 804 00:39:01,080 --> 00:39:03,120 Speaker 2: who else is going to see it? Well, I don't know, 805 00:39:03,960 --> 00:39:06,680 Speaker 2: this is this level of my success. It was beautiful, 806 00:39:07,040 --> 00:39:11,400 Speaker 2: you know, but it wasn't ostentatious. No, yeah, and it 807 00:39:11,520 --> 00:39:13,520 Speaker 2: really kind of I came home, I had this massive 808 00:39:13,560 --> 00:39:16,600 Speaker 2: fridge sold it. I was like, okay, I'm fine. It 809 00:39:16,719 --> 00:39:21,240 Speaker 2: really changed how I thought about things. And the community 810 00:39:21,400 --> 00:39:25,000 Speaker 2: was really beautiful. Everybody knew each other. Everyone you can 811 00:39:25,280 --> 00:39:27,239 Speaker 2: there's something that's to be said. You kind of mind 812 00:39:27,280 --> 00:39:29,439 Speaker 2: your business. Mind yourself a bit. When you're that close 813 00:39:29,480 --> 00:39:31,759 Speaker 2: to everyone, you know, you've got to you can't be 814 00:39:31,800 --> 00:39:33,680 Speaker 2: an asshole. You kin'dt gotta be nice to your neighbors. 815 00:39:34,160 --> 00:39:36,239 Speaker 2: You have to figure out how to get along with 816 00:39:36,360 --> 00:39:39,000 Speaker 2: the people upstairs and downstairs. You've got to be cool. 817 00:39:39,080 --> 00:39:43,120 Speaker 2: And that's makes us as a community better anyway, the 818 00:39:43,200 --> 00:39:44,960 Speaker 2: high identity. We were in the Gold Coast the other 819 00:39:45,000 --> 00:39:46,800 Speaker 2: week since the mullet. 820 00:39:46,440 --> 00:39:48,520 Speaker 3: And I was wondering what had happened. 821 00:39:49,080 --> 00:39:51,319 Speaker 2: You know, we used to drive north and where they'd 822 00:39:51,360 --> 00:39:52,960 Speaker 2: ask you for your COVID thing so you could get 823 00:39:54,280 --> 00:39:55,640 Speaker 2: leans in the window with a pair of clippers. Now 824 00:39:56,160 --> 00:39:59,439 Speaker 2: yeah right, calling over there. And then as you're coming 825 00:39:59,480 --> 00:40:05,000 Speaker 2: past billing you may pass there was a barber in 826 00:40:05,000 --> 00:40:07,000 Speaker 2: the surf shop and more, and I decided to get 827 00:40:07,040 --> 00:40:07,680 Speaker 2: matching my onnes. 828 00:40:07,800 --> 00:40:11,799 Speaker 3: I love that. Ah, he's daddy's boy. That's so cooin. 829 00:40:12,520 --> 00:40:14,000 Speaker 3: You can take the boy out of Queensland. 830 00:40:14,800 --> 00:40:16,279 Speaker 2: You mentioned a couple of guests you've had so far. 831 00:40:16,320 --> 00:40:19,040 Speaker 2: What are the key messages do you think that keep 832 00:40:19,080 --> 00:40:20,839 Speaker 2: coming up again and again and again. 833 00:40:21,120 --> 00:40:25,720 Speaker 1: I mean one of them is is time in the market, 834 00:40:26,200 --> 00:40:31,120 Speaker 1: not timing the market. This is something that just about 835 00:40:31,200 --> 00:40:34,160 Speaker 1: every guest has spoken about and you know one of 836 00:40:34,160 --> 00:40:36,800 Speaker 1: our guests, Molly Benjamin from Ladies Finance Club, who's built 837 00:40:36,800 --> 00:40:40,560 Speaker 1: this great network of women who want to improve their 838 00:40:40,560 --> 00:40:43,840 Speaker 1: financial literacy and want who set up themselves, set themselves 839 00:40:43,920 --> 00:40:46,680 Speaker 1: up for long term financial security. It's not about getting 840 00:40:46,760 --> 00:40:52,120 Speaker 1: rich quick, it's about a long term plan for financial security. 841 00:40:52,239 --> 00:40:57,359 Speaker 1: And she, among other guests, talks about the virtues of 842 00:40:57,800 --> 00:41:00,799 Speaker 1: time in the market, So putting that amount of money 843 00:41:00,840 --> 00:41:06,160 Speaker 1: away every month, flexing that investment muscle in order to 844 00:41:06,200 --> 00:41:10,240 Speaker 1: achieve steady gains over the long term. We're not talking 845 00:41:10,239 --> 00:41:14,000 Speaker 1: about like a three hundred percent gain overnight from in 846 00:41:14,160 --> 00:41:17,399 Speaker 1: video or whatever it is, and like make high five 847 00:41:17,440 --> 00:41:19,120 Speaker 1: to anyone who invested in in video. 848 00:41:19,440 --> 00:41:22,560 Speaker 3: But but this is all about. 849 00:41:23,000 --> 00:41:27,760 Speaker 1: Just flexing that regular investment muscle for long term gains. 850 00:41:28,000 --> 00:41:30,120 Speaker 1: To see, it's like super annum. It's what your superannuation 851 00:41:30,160 --> 00:41:35,240 Speaker 1: effectively does, right, diversifying across a broad range of assets 852 00:41:35,360 --> 00:41:38,880 Speaker 1: over the long term, minimize risk, and give yourself some 853 00:41:38,920 --> 00:41:42,440 Speaker 1: comfortable growth over the long term. So that's what people 854 00:41:42,520 --> 00:41:45,719 Speaker 1: keep coming back to a lot. The other is this 855 00:41:45,800 --> 00:41:49,239 Speaker 1: concept of enough and knowing what your goals are and 856 00:41:49,280 --> 00:41:51,960 Speaker 1: being really defined in that and being really specific about that. 857 00:41:52,960 --> 00:41:55,080 Speaker 1: But I guess you know, on the whole, it's also 858 00:41:55,160 --> 00:41:58,719 Speaker 1: sort of for young people, it's getting creative in this 859 00:41:58,800 --> 00:42:03,520 Speaker 1: new new world that we exist in, finding new ways 860 00:42:03,560 --> 00:42:06,839 Speaker 1: to set yourself up, whether it's rent investing or long 861 00:42:06,920 --> 00:42:09,600 Speaker 1: term ETF investing or whatever it is that works for 862 00:42:09,640 --> 00:42:13,919 Speaker 1: you and your own financial circumstances. But I think also 863 00:42:14,160 --> 00:42:17,239 Speaker 1: on the whole, let's open up this conversation and not 864 00:42:17,280 --> 00:42:20,279 Speaker 1: be afraid. I know it's crass and it's icky for 865 00:42:20,360 --> 00:42:23,240 Speaker 1: me talking about money. It's not something I have really 866 00:42:23,320 --> 00:42:26,920 Speaker 1: ever enjoyed talking about. But I think it's necessary. I 867 00:42:26,920 --> 00:42:29,520 Speaker 1: think it's necessary in this world, particularly for young people 868 00:42:29,520 --> 00:42:31,960 Speaker 1: in their twenties and thirties, to start chatting to their 869 00:42:32,000 --> 00:42:34,839 Speaker 1: friends about what they're saving for right now, about what 870 00:42:34,880 --> 00:42:37,400 Speaker 1: they want to achieve in the next ten years, about 871 00:42:37,480 --> 00:42:39,440 Speaker 1: what debt they might be carrying, and do you have 872 00:42:39,480 --> 00:42:42,040 Speaker 1: any advice or tips for how to get rid of that? 873 00:42:42,719 --> 00:42:48,920 Speaker 1: Because it reduces a shame, it makes it democratizes investment. 874 00:42:49,680 --> 00:42:52,680 Speaker 1: It opens up so many conversations that can put you 875 00:42:52,760 --> 00:42:55,840 Speaker 1: in the right direction in the long term as well. 876 00:42:55,880 --> 00:42:57,920 Speaker 1: And this is another thing that's come up from several 877 00:42:57,920 --> 00:43:01,560 Speaker 1: of our guests is the lack of of financial education 878 00:43:02,160 --> 00:43:05,279 Speaker 1: in the schooling system, that there's a real gap there, 879 00:43:05,400 --> 00:43:09,080 Speaker 1: I think for teaching kids about the magic of compound 880 00:43:09,120 --> 00:43:12,840 Speaker 1: interest about how investing works, because for those of us 881 00:43:12,880 --> 00:43:15,000 Speaker 1: who didn't grow up in a family where investment was 882 00:43:15,840 --> 00:43:18,480 Speaker 1: part of the language or part of the conversation on 883 00:43:18,520 --> 00:43:22,720 Speaker 1: a regular basis, it seems like something for other people, 884 00:43:23,800 --> 00:43:27,279 Speaker 1: like investing the share market, all of it feels like 885 00:43:27,880 --> 00:43:30,760 Speaker 1: something for someone else who grew up in another part 886 00:43:30,960 --> 00:43:34,400 Speaker 1: of this country, probably close to the harbor, and their 887 00:43:34,760 --> 00:43:37,000 Speaker 1: dads taught them how to do it from a young 888 00:43:37,000 --> 00:43:39,040 Speaker 1: age or whatever. They have access to something that we 889 00:43:39,080 --> 00:43:42,399 Speaker 1: don't have access to. Right, But it's not that. It's 890 00:43:42,440 --> 00:43:44,360 Speaker 1: not that, and there are new ways to invest that 891 00:43:44,400 --> 00:43:47,040 Speaker 1: have made it so much more accessible to the average 892 00:43:47,080 --> 00:43:49,839 Speaker 1: person who doesn't have time to watch the market every 893 00:43:49,920 --> 00:43:52,600 Speaker 1: day or to research every company that they might have 894 00:43:52,640 --> 00:43:55,279 Speaker 1: an interest in as well. There are new ways that 895 00:43:55,360 --> 00:43:59,600 Speaker 1: have democratized in investing on the whole, and so many 896 00:44:00,080 --> 00:44:03,239 Speaker 1: Australians have felt locked out of that conversation. And I 897 00:44:03,880 --> 00:44:05,759 Speaker 1: agree with many of our guests that there is a 898 00:44:05,800 --> 00:44:09,200 Speaker 1: real lack of that education in high school I remember 899 00:44:09,280 --> 00:44:10,920 Speaker 1: doing one lesson on it, and I did like the 900 00:44:11,200 --> 00:44:14,160 Speaker 1: basic maths at high school journalists. 901 00:44:13,640 --> 00:44:15,640 Speaker 3: So which I go figure I wasn't very good at maths. 902 00:44:15,680 --> 00:44:16,960 Speaker 2: My ego wouldn't let me take it. 903 00:44:17,040 --> 00:44:19,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, I did the basic maths, and I do remember 904 00:44:19,560 --> 00:44:22,960 Speaker 1: having one lesson on compound interest and thinking this is interesting, 905 00:44:23,440 --> 00:44:25,879 Speaker 1: but this will never apply to my life, maybe other 906 00:44:25,920 --> 00:44:26,800 Speaker 1: than super anuation. 907 00:44:26,960 --> 00:44:29,200 Speaker 3: You know, so next you know. 908 00:44:30,680 --> 00:44:33,240 Speaker 1: So, I think that there is definitely a gap there 909 00:44:33,760 --> 00:44:38,360 Speaker 1: for there to be more financial literacy built into the curriculum. 910 00:44:38,440 --> 00:44:40,680 Speaker 2: Oh man, if people understood it has superannuation work, they 911 00:44:40,680 --> 00:44:42,600 Speaker 2: wouldn't be taken money out of it together the dentist. 912 00:44:42,680 --> 00:44:44,760 Speaker 3: That's right, No way, that's right. 913 00:44:45,200 --> 00:44:49,040 Speaker 2: Because you're it's around COVID. I think when people were talking, 914 00:44:49,080 --> 00:44:51,799 Speaker 2: oh you can take money, are you're super to get by? Yeah, 915 00:44:51,840 --> 00:44:53,200 Speaker 2: And it was a couple of stories like for every 916 00:44:53,200 --> 00:44:55,640 Speaker 2: five hundred bucks you take out, yeah, if you're twenty 917 00:44:55,680 --> 00:44:58,120 Speaker 2: by the time you're sixty, it's that it's huge. 918 00:44:58,239 --> 00:44:59,759 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's huge. 919 00:45:00,239 --> 00:45:03,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like the guy who paid when bitcoin was 920 00:45:03,840 --> 00:45:06,880 Speaker 2: a dollar, a guy who paid ten bitcoined by a 921 00:45:06,920 --> 00:45:08,600 Speaker 2: pizza look at it like that. 922 00:45:08,880 --> 00:45:12,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, it really it's like a it's a snowballing effect, right, 923 00:45:12,560 --> 00:45:14,960 Speaker 1: So if you're taking money out of that, you were 924 00:45:14,960 --> 00:45:19,879 Speaker 1: depriving yourself of big gains in the long term. 925 00:45:19,960 --> 00:45:21,640 Speaker 2: And while we're on the subject of money, we need 926 00:45:21,680 --> 00:45:23,600 Speaker 2: to play some commercials, so we'll be back in a 927 00:45:23,600 --> 00:45:34,960 Speaker 2: minute with Sylvie Jeffreys. What have you learned about I mean, 928 00:45:34,960 --> 00:45:36,960 Speaker 2: this is why we're saying stuffed on climate because well 929 00:45:36,960 --> 00:45:39,640 Speaker 2: that's a tomorrow problem. Yeah right, yeah, same with this, 930 00:45:39,640 --> 00:45:42,360 Speaker 2: This is all a tomorrow yes, So what have you 931 00:45:42,440 --> 00:45:45,680 Speaker 2: learned from your guests about thinking about Our brains are 932 00:45:45,840 --> 00:45:48,040 Speaker 2: not very good at thinking past I don't know the 933 00:45:48,080 --> 00:45:48,600 Speaker 2: next week. 934 00:45:49,000 --> 00:45:50,400 Speaker 3: Maybe, do you know what? 935 00:45:50,440 --> 00:45:53,200 Speaker 1: I really genuinely believe there is a shift in the 936 00:45:53,200 --> 00:45:55,959 Speaker 1: younger generations. I think there are more They are way 937 00:45:56,000 --> 00:45:59,879 Speaker 1: more aware of this stuff than perhaps you and I were. 938 00:46:00,200 --> 00:46:03,759 Speaker 3: And I'm sort of on the I'm a millennial, but. 939 00:46:03,840 --> 00:46:07,279 Speaker 1: I think gen Z I think they have to be 940 00:46:07,360 --> 00:46:11,400 Speaker 1: really financially literate. I think they're really aware of the 941 00:46:11,520 --> 00:46:14,120 Speaker 1: challenges they're up against. So I think maybe they're more 942 00:46:14,160 --> 00:46:16,840 Speaker 1: conscious of these things than you or I had to 943 00:46:16,880 --> 00:46:20,360 Speaker 1: be in our early twenties. And there is research that 944 00:46:20,440 --> 00:46:24,279 Speaker 1: shows that gen zs are more aware of their superannuation 945 00:46:24,760 --> 00:46:29,520 Speaker 1: than previous generations, so that's comforting. There is also some 946 00:46:29,640 --> 00:46:32,399 Speaker 1: data which one guest brought up that shows that gen 947 00:46:32,520 --> 00:46:34,919 Speaker 1: z are very reliant on things like have to pay. 948 00:46:35,280 --> 00:46:37,480 Speaker 1: So you know, there are sort of two sides to it. 949 00:46:38,719 --> 00:46:43,560 Speaker 1: But I do firmly believe that younger generations are much 950 00:46:44,480 --> 00:46:49,120 Speaker 1: better at thinking about the long term of their finances 951 00:46:49,719 --> 00:46:53,399 Speaker 1: than previous generations because they have to be They have 952 00:46:53,480 --> 00:46:55,480 Speaker 1: to be aware, and they have to be across it. 953 00:46:55,920 --> 00:46:59,480 Speaker 1: Because setting themselves up for their first home by the 954 00:46:59,480 --> 00:47:01,640 Speaker 1: time they have of their first child, if they even 955 00:47:01,719 --> 00:47:03,279 Speaker 1: are going to do that, because so many of them 956 00:47:03,280 --> 00:47:05,239 Speaker 1: are putting that off as a milestone or not doing 957 00:47:05,239 --> 00:47:05,640 Speaker 1: it at all. 958 00:47:05,960 --> 00:47:08,080 Speaker 3: The birth rate is in decline. 959 00:47:08,360 --> 00:47:10,880 Speaker 1: I think they have to be more conscious of these things, 960 00:47:10,920 --> 00:47:12,879 Speaker 1: and so they sort of naturally are. 961 00:47:13,719 --> 00:47:16,439 Speaker 2: My friend Luke Hagey, he's a stand up. When he 962 00:47:17,239 --> 00:47:21,680 Speaker 2: and his wife first got pregnant, he's a laborer and 963 00:47:21,719 --> 00:47:24,520 Speaker 2: he's like, Bevans have heaps of kids and they seem 964 00:47:24,560 --> 00:47:28,200 Speaker 2: to be doing fine. We'll be all right. Bevans is 965 00:47:28,560 --> 00:47:32,000 Speaker 2: very in Queensland word for became bogue and sometime around 966 00:47:32,040 --> 00:47:34,400 Speaker 2: when the comedy company started using that word on national television. 967 00:47:34,400 --> 00:47:37,719 Speaker 2: But it's always been a ken or BEVs watch out 968 00:47:37,760 --> 00:47:41,120 Speaker 2: for they shot up to your party parties over Yeah, 969 00:47:42,480 --> 00:47:45,080 Speaker 2: cops wont to show up of the kimil BEVs have gone. 970 00:47:45,400 --> 00:47:48,480 Speaker 2: There were bad news, but yeah. The idea was that 971 00:47:50,239 --> 00:47:53,640 Speaker 2: as a certain class of kid that we were with, 972 00:47:53,760 --> 00:47:55,239 Speaker 2: the kind of school we went to, went to one 973 00:47:55,280 --> 00:47:57,680 Speaker 2: of the schools in the city in Bristain. No, no, no, 974 00:47:57,800 --> 00:48:00,160 Speaker 2: you don't think about having children until you can make 975 00:48:00,200 --> 00:48:02,960 Speaker 2: sure there is this, that that, and he transcends. I 976 00:48:03,000 --> 00:48:04,759 Speaker 2: was talking him at the time, like aren't you worried 977 00:48:04,760 --> 00:48:07,960 Speaker 2: about this? That and the other? Still carrying that, He's like, mate, 978 00:48:08,160 --> 00:48:10,680 Speaker 2: you know there's free healthcare. We're going to be all right, 979 00:48:10,760 --> 00:48:13,759 Speaker 2: We'll figure it out. And he was right. He was 980 00:48:13,920 --> 00:48:16,200 Speaker 2: right to a point. You know, obviously you don't want 981 00:48:16,200 --> 00:48:18,719 Speaker 2: to be feeding two minute noodles to your child for 982 00:48:18,760 --> 00:48:20,959 Speaker 2: the first ten years. You do want to have don't 983 00:48:21,000 --> 00:48:21,759 Speaker 2: let it stop you. 984 00:48:21,760 --> 00:48:24,080 Speaker 1: You don't need to have all your ducks in a row. 985 00:48:25,160 --> 00:48:29,319 Speaker 1: And you know, buying your first home. The average age 986 00:48:29,320 --> 00:48:31,560 Speaker 1: of the first home buyer now is much higher than 987 00:48:31,560 --> 00:48:35,479 Speaker 1: it obviously was a decade ago. The home ownership among 988 00:48:35,520 --> 00:48:39,040 Speaker 1: twenty to thirty year olds is in decline, so these 989 00:48:39,080 --> 00:48:40,960 Speaker 1: things are going to come later. 990 00:48:42,120 --> 00:48:42,880 Speaker 3: It's no wonder. 991 00:48:42,960 --> 00:48:46,200 Speaker 1: You know, people are putting off having children and some 992 00:48:46,239 --> 00:48:47,920 Speaker 1: people choosing not to have them at all. 993 00:48:47,960 --> 00:48:49,200 Speaker 3: It's really expected. 994 00:48:49,239 --> 00:48:49,759 Speaker 2: That's like I forget. 995 00:48:49,800 --> 00:48:51,480 Speaker 1: We spoke to Georgie Dan about the cost of having 996 00:48:51,520 --> 00:48:53,960 Speaker 1: a child, and I mean, there's no way to obviously 997 00:48:53,960 --> 00:48:57,040 Speaker 1: put a figure on that, but it is really expensive. 998 00:48:57,120 --> 00:48:59,479 Speaker 1: And she said something like eighty percent of the people 999 00:48:59,520 --> 00:49:02,719 Speaker 1: they pold say that they need two incomes to full 1000 00:49:02,760 --> 00:49:05,640 Speaker 1: time incomes to survive, and so that means you have 1001 00:49:05,680 --> 00:49:08,320 Speaker 1: to pay for childcare, and of course in many cases 1002 00:49:08,800 --> 00:49:10,640 Speaker 1: the cost of that cancels out the second income. So 1003 00:49:10,680 --> 00:49:13,840 Speaker 1: it's really it's a really challenging thing in this environment. 1004 00:49:14,560 --> 00:49:16,680 Speaker 2: I lived in America for a long time and my 1005 00:49:16,719 --> 00:49:19,279 Speaker 2: brother and his husband are still over there, and real 1006 00:49:19,400 --> 00:49:22,040 Speaker 2: estate there is not jiggered like it is here, So 1007 00:49:22,640 --> 00:49:25,840 Speaker 2: homes don't appreciate. Yeah, you can flip a house, but 1008 00:49:25,840 --> 00:49:27,759 Speaker 2: they don't flip it for They don't flip it for 1009 00:49:27,840 --> 00:49:31,600 Speaker 2: ninety percent. They flip it for five or ten percent. 1010 00:49:32,000 --> 00:49:36,080 Speaker 2: That's it. So because the housing market doesn't increase like that, 1011 00:49:36,160 --> 00:49:38,040 Speaker 2: and it's a lot to do with how much as 1012 00:49:38,080 --> 00:49:43,560 Speaker 2: a country they back themselves on innovation. People's investment looks like, 1013 00:49:43,960 --> 00:49:46,560 Speaker 2: who's got a good idea, let's invest in that idea. 1014 00:49:47,160 --> 00:49:49,120 Speaker 2: I wonder what might happen in our country if we 1015 00:49:49,200 --> 00:49:53,200 Speaker 2: started to look outside our major investment being the one 1016 00:49:53,200 --> 00:49:56,120 Speaker 2: that we live in, if we started to look for 1017 00:49:56,239 --> 00:50:00,360 Speaker 2: other places where similar, similar gains might be made to 1018 00:50:00,480 --> 00:50:04,520 Speaker 2: invest in the ideas about country. I wonder what might 1019 00:50:04,520 --> 00:50:06,399 Speaker 2: happen if if we did something like. 1020 00:50:06,320 --> 00:50:09,480 Speaker 3: That, investing in innovation. 1021 00:50:08,880 --> 00:50:12,640 Speaker 2: In ideas, in innovation, Yeah, because that's where, to be honest, like, 1022 00:50:12,760 --> 00:50:15,680 Speaker 2: that's where you get your ten x, twenty x, hundred X. 1023 00:50:16,120 --> 00:50:19,080 Speaker 2: That's where those guys and that was I found it 1024 00:50:19,120 --> 00:50:20,480 Speaker 2: so fascinating. It's like, tell how much you're doing some 1025 00:50:20,600 --> 00:50:22,719 Speaker 2: ofvia we're interested in it. Oh my god, let me 1026 00:50:22,800 --> 00:50:25,120 Speaker 2: introduce you to this person here, because that's because they 1027 00:50:25,800 --> 00:50:28,719 Speaker 2: they want to invest in ideas, because it's those conversations 1028 00:50:28,719 --> 00:50:30,480 Speaker 2: that like it. Just remember me. If you guys ever 1029 00:50:30,520 --> 00:50:32,239 Speaker 2: need anything, to come back and talk to me. All right, Yeah, 1030 00:50:32,280 --> 00:50:34,319 Speaker 2: because that's where they get their hundred X. That's where 1031 00:50:34,320 --> 00:50:37,360 Speaker 2: they put zeros on their initial investment. It's not in 1032 00:50:37,400 --> 00:50:40,719 Speaker 2: the house, but here sometimes I think we might have 1033 00:50:40,800 --> 00:50:43,160 Speaker 2: just we might have nailed the foot to the floor 1034 00:50:43,400 --> 00:50:45,040 Speaker 2: with Oh, it's got to be about the house old. 1035 00:50:45,120 --> 00:50:47,960 Speaker 1: We're obsessed with property ownership in Australia. It is it 1036 00:50:48,040 --> 00:50:51,320 Speaker 1: is the great Australian dream, right to own a home, 1037 00:50:52,120 --> 00:50:54,719 Speaker 1: and you know, for good reason as well, because there's 1038 00:50:54,719 --> 00:50:57,000 Speaker 1: a lot of security that comes with that into the 1039 00:50:57,040 --> 00:50:59,080 Speaker 1: long term, especially if you're not buying your first time 1040 00:50:59,160 --> 00:51:02,120 Speaker 1: until you're fifty. Are you going to be done paying 1041 00:51:02,160 --> 00:51:04,279 Speaker 1: that mortgage when you retire? Are you still going to 1042 00:51:04,320 --> 00:51:07,839 Speaker 1: have mortgage repayments into retirement and how are you going 1043 00:51:07,840 --> 00:51:08,319 Speaker 1: to manage that? 1044 00:51:09,880 --> 00:51:10,080 Speaker 2: Yeah? 1045 00:51:10,200 --> 00:51:14,640 Speaker 1: Well no, I'm just saying that these are considerations that 1046 00:51:14,920 --> 00:51:19,200 Speaker 1: people have going into, you know, into later home ownership, right, 1047 00:51:19,920 --> 00:51:24,319 Speaker 1: and so you have to maybe think differently around how 1048 00:51:24,360 --> 00:51:25,960 Speaker 1: you are setting yourself up for the long term. But 1049 00:51:26,000 --> 00:51:28,439 Speaker 1: we are obsessed with property and this is why people 1050 00:51:28,440 --> 00:51:31,279 Speaker 1: don't want to let go of this idea of home 1051 00:51:31,320 --> 00:51:34,680 Speaker 1: ownership because a they say it's safe as houses for 1052 00:51:34,719 --> 00:51:37,279 Speaker 1: a reason, it is a solid investment in this country, 1053 00:51:37,800 --> 00:51:40,000 Speaker 1: and b it gives you long term security knowing that 1054 00:51:40,040 --> 00:51:42,920 Speaker 1: you own the roof over your head. The rental market 1055 00:51:43,200 --> 00:51:47,040 Speaker 1: is so tough right now, and imagine being in your 1056 00:51:47,120 --> 00:51:49,680 Speaker 1: seventies and being kicked out of your rental and having 1057 00:51:49,719 --> 00:51:52,560 Speaker 1: to start again. You know, there's a lot of anxiety 1058 00:51:52,560 --> 00:51:56,759 Speaker 1: that comes with that concept. So that's why I think 1059 00:51:56,880 --> 00:52:00,200 Speaker 1: so many and we're all just sort of condition to 1060 00:52:00,200 --> 00:52:03,760 Speaker 1: see it as a big tick, a big life bucket 1061 00:52:03,760 --> 00:52:07,239 Speaker 1: list tick. You know, I got the house next, I'll 1062 00:52:07,239 --> 00:52:10,640 Speaker 1: have the kids next, I don't know whatever, get a 1063 00:52:10,640 --> 00:52:13,200 Speaker 1: holiday house or something. I don't know what's the natural progression, 1064 00:52:13,239 --> 00:52:16,799 Speaker 1: but we are so conditioned to feel as though that 1065 00:52:16,960 --> 00:52:20,799 Speaker 1: is one of life's big achievements that you must tick off. 1066 00:52:20,840 --> 00:52:23,480 Speaker 1: So it's very hard for people to shift their mentality 1067 00:52:23,520 --> 00:52:23,920 Speaker 1: around that. 1068 00:52:24,000 --> 00:52:27,280 Speaker 2: Where there are people who live in Brooklyn or whatever 1069 00:52:28,160 --> 00:52:31,439 Speaker 2: whose grandparents have never owned, have rented their entire lives, 1070 00:52:31,760 --> 00:52:34,000 Speaker 2: and that's just a part of what life is, and 1071 00:52:34,040 --> 00:52:38,359 Speaker 2: their investments look very different over there. When it comes 1072 00:52:38,400 --> 00:52:43,440 Speaker 2: to shedding your own stories about life, try not to 1073 00:52:43,520 --> 00:52:45,879 Speaker 2: infect your kids with it. That's a tough part about 1074 00:52:45,920 --> 00:52:49,560 Speaker 2: being a parent. How are you or how do you 1075 00:52:49,560 --> 00:52:54,040 Speaker 2: start to instill these ideas in your kids and what 1076 00:52:54,120 --> 00:52:55,560 Speaker 2: kind of things are you moving towards there. 1077 00:52:56,960 --> 00:53:02,319 Speaker 1: We're very conscious of saying no, and how we say 1078 00:53:02,360 --> 00:53:07,000 Speaker 1: no to things, you know, if they're asking for something, 1079 00:53:07,080 --> 00:53:09,800 Speaker 1: it's just no, not today, you don't need that today, 1080 00:53:10,360 --> 00:53:12,279 Speaker 1: Or no, we've run out of money today because we've 1081 00:53:12,320 --> 00:53:14,560 Speaker 1: got you in ice block this morning, and so that's 1082 00:53:14,560 --> 00:53:18,759 Speaker 1: the budget for today or this week. No, there's no 1083 00:53:18,840 --> 00:53:21,080 Speaker 1: space for that. Maybe let's talk about it next week 1084 00:53:21,120 --> 00:53:21,919 Speaker 1: and things like that. 1085 00:53:22,000 --> 00:53:23,680 Speaker 2: Deferring the gratification deferring. 1086 00:53:23,760 --> 00:53:28,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, But for me, it's more showing that mommy and 1087 00:53:28,440 --> 00:53:31,440 Speaker 1: Daddy have a budget and we can't just buy everything 1088 00:53:31,480 --> 00:53:34,240 Speaker 1: that's in front of us, and we have to figure 1089 00:53:34,239 --> 00:53:36,400 Speaker 1: out what we prioritize this week or this month or 1090 00:53:36,400 --> 00:53:40,560 Speaker 1: this year or whatever. And the other thing we've done, 1091 00:53:40,719 --> 00:53:43,160 Speaker 1: which I've spoken about is setting them up And this 1092 00:53:43,280 --> 00:53:47,840 Speaker 1: sounds this sounds a bit extra, but it's basically a 1093 00:53:47,840 --> 00:53:50,160 Speaker 1: bit like a Dolomite's account that you or I probably 1094 00:53:50,239 --> 00:53:52,759 Speaker 1: had as kids growing up in primary school. We've set 1095 00:53:52,800 --> 00:53:55,120 Speaker 1: them up with little kids investment accounts, and so we 1096 00:53:55,239 --> 00:53:57,480 Speaker 1: just chuck a bit of pocket money in there each month, 1097 00:53:58,600 --> 00:54:01,160 Speaker 1: if we've got it, will chuck it in, Or if 1098 00:54:01,160 --> 00:54:03,440 Speaker 1: they get some money for their birthday from a family 1099 00:54:03,440 --> 00:54:05,799 Speaker 1: member or for Christmas, we put it in there, and 1100 00:54:06,760 --> 00:54:09,439 Speaker 1: eventually when they're a little bit older, we'll show them 1101 00:54:09,560 --> 00:54:12,479 Speaker 1: that this amount of money has gone in each month 1102 00:54:12,600 --> 00:54:15,600 Speaker 1: or whatever, and this is how it's grown with compound interest, 1103 00:54:15,960 --> 00:54:18,480 Speaker 1: and so they can understand the concept of how that works, 1104 00:54:19,239 --> 00:54:19,800 Speaker 1: and then. 1105 00:54:19,719 --> 00:54:21,560 Speaker 3: We'll figure out what we do with that down the track. 1106 00:54:21,600 --> 00:54:21,919 Speaker 3: We don't. 1107 00:54:22,080 --> 00:54:25,239 Speaker 1: That's a conversation for another day, but at least that 1108 00:54:25,360 --> 00:54:28,080 Speaker 1: hopefully gives them a tool to understand how compound interest 1109 00:54:28,120 --> 00:54:32,920 Speaker 1: works and also flexing the savings muscle each week and 1110 00:54:32,960 --> 00:54:35,640 Speaker 1: the impacts of that. So one of our guests on 1111 00:54:35,680 --> 00:54:38,560 Speaker 1: the podcast, Chris Breichy, he is the founder of stock spot, 1112 00:54:39,000 --> 00:54:43,080 Speaker 1: and he has similar accounts for his kids, and he's 1113 00:54:43,080 --> 00:54:45,960 Speaker 1: already speaking to his six year old son about it 1114 00:54:46,040 --> 00:54:49,040 Speaker 1: and showing him that, look, you've got money in Disney, 1115 00:54:49,080 --> 00:54:52,840 Speaker 1: and so every time your friends stream on Disney, the 1116 00:54:52,880 --> 00:54:56,080 Speaker 1: share price will go up and you'll get some dividends. 1117 00:54:56,480 --> 00:54:59,600 Speaker 1: You'll see the rewards of that. And so six year 1118 00:54:59,600 --> 00:55:01,960 Speaker 1: old kids off to school, hustling his kids in the 1119 00:55:02,000 --> 00:55:04,680 Speaker 1: play his mates in the playground, saying can everyone stream 1120 00:55:04,719 --> 00:55:06,920 Speaker 1: Disney on the weekend because I'm going to. 1121 00:55:08,920 --> 00:55:12,200 Speaker 2: Disney. Plus it is yeah, yeah, she's living. It's really interesting. 1122 00:55:12,239 --> 00:55:13,440 Speaker 2: Weeks of cast members. 1123 00:55:13,480 --> 00:55:13,800 Speaker 3: See. 1124 00:55:13,920 --> 00:55:15,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, see you've. 1125 00:55:14,880 --> 00:55:16,200 Speaker 3: Just got to be on the on the cell. 1126 00:55:16,680 --> 00:55:19,480 Speaker 1: So anyway, so these are some of the things where 1127 00:55:19,680 --> 00:55:23,520 Speaker 1: we're thinking about with the kids to try to in 1128 00:55:23,600 --> 00:55:30,240 Speaker 1: small ways teach them about saving and being disciplined with money. 1129 00:55:30,280 --> 00:55:32,840 Speaker 2: And there's also the work ethic that you demonstrate to them. 1130 00:55:32,880 --> 00:55:35,560 Speaker 3: Well, they see that every day. Yeah, we're out the door. 1131 00:55:36,640 --> 00:55:38,800 Speaker 1: They think everyone they must think everyone's mummy and daddy 1132 00:55:38,800 --> 00:55:41,000 Speaker 1: works on TV because there's mum and there's dad, right, 1133 00:55:42,080 --> 00:55:44,440 Speaker 1: But yeah, but they see that every day, and you 1134 00:55:44,480 --> 00:55:47,440 Speaker 1: know that comes with a certain level of mum guild obviously, 1135 00:55:47,480 --> 00:55:49,239 Speaker 1: which I know I shouldn't say that I have, but. 1136 00:55:50,239 --> 00:55:51,239 Speaker 3: Of course I do. 1137 00:55:52,520 --> 00:55:54,319 Speaker 1: But I love my job and I hope that they 1138 00:55:54,400 --> 00:55:56,200 Speaker 1: see that I love my job and that, you know, 1139 00:55:56,440 --> 00:55:58,799 Speaker 1: the gratification of having a job that you enjoy so much. 1140 00:55:59,080 --> 00:56:02,960 Speaker 2: You try to at all times go why or there's 1141 00:56:02,960 --> 00:56:05,759 Speaker 2: a purpose to this, doing this with a purpose. And 1142 00:56:05,920 --> 00:56:08,880 Speaker 2: even though I'm you know, you know, hustling this guest 1143 00:56:08,920 --> 00:56:11,040 Speaker 2: for the you know today extra or I'm doing this 1144 00:56:11,080 --> 00:56:13,239 Speaker 2: at work, I'm writing this article for nine only, all 1145 00:56:13,400 --> 00:56:17,640 Speaker 2: this is to do this thing for these people, and 1146 00:56:17,680 --> 00:56:19,759 Speaker 2: that's what I'm really doing today. I just happened to 1147 00:56:19,840 --> 00:56:20,120 Speaker 2: like it. 1148 00:56:20,280 --> 00:56:22,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, I just happened to have a really good time 1149 00:56:22,640 --> 00:56:23,359 Speaker 3: while I'm doing it. 1150 00:56:23,400 --> 00:56:26,040 Speaker 2: And that's fine. Yeah, it's not. It's not me, it's 1151 00:56:26,600 --> 00:56:28,120 Speaker 2: it's Scott Galloway, who I love. 1152 00:56:28,200 --> 00:56:29,520 Speaker 3: I love Scott Galloway's great. 1153 00:56:29,960 --> 00:56:32,000 Speaker 1: He's my dream guest by the way, for the podcast 1154 00:56:32,080 --> 00:56:33,320 Speaker 1: if you're if you're listening. 1155 00:56:33,120 --> 00:56:36,719 Speaker 2: To you and me both right, Yeah, spending twenties, just 1156 00:56:36,760 --> 00:56:38,759 Speaker 2: trying everything until you find something that when you show 1157 00:56:38,840 --> 00:56:40,520 Speaker 2: but it doesn't feel like work. Yes, do that. 1158 00:56:40,719 --> 00:56:42,800 Speaker 3: Yeah. His booked The Algebra of Wealth. 1159 00:56:42,800 --> 00:56:45,680 Speaker 1: It's great, is really that's one of the books that 1160 00:56:45,719 --> 00:56:47,920 Speaker 1: has helped me to understand this world so well. 1161 00:56:47,960 --> 00:56:49,640 Speaker 3: He's a he's a great brain. 1162 00:56:49,560 --> 00:56:51,719 Speaker 2: Really really really good and like have you got the 1163 00:56:51,719 --> 00:56:53,280 Speaker 2: White Whale? Have you got Scott Pape? 1164 00:56:53,520 --> 00:56:55,520 Speaker 3: He gets a lot of emails from a lot of people. 1165 00:56:56,040 --> 00:56:58,720 Speaker 1: So anyway, again, Scott Pape, if you're listening, we're coming 1166 00:56:58,719 --> 00:56:59,279 Speaker 1: for you too. 1167 00:56:59,560 --> 00:57:03,120 Speaker 2: The White for a reason, Like, he's an extraordinary. 1168 00:57:02,560 --> 00:57:04,760 Speaker 3: He's an amazing human being, extraordinary. 1169 00:57:04,280 --> 00:57:05,840 Speaker 2: And he's helped a lot of people. 1170 00:57:06,000 --> 00:57:08,000 Speaker 3: He has, and I. 1171 00:57:07,920 --> 00:57:10,560 Speaker 2: Really think it is somebody like that, someone like yourself, 1172 00:57:11,440 --> 00:57:14,759 Speaker 2: with enough upward pressure uput market pressure. I mean the stuff, 1173 00:57:14,760 --> 00:57:17,680 Speaker 2: there's no like the work that he has done changed 1174 00:57:17,720 --> 00:57:20,120 Speaker 2: in many ways, change the way banks. You know, you 1175 00:57:20,240 --> 00:57:22,560 Speaker 2: just pointed out going just so this means so you know, 1176 00:57:22,600 --> 00:57:24,120 Speaker 2: for every ten grand you put in a bank, they 1177 00:57:24,120 --> 00:57:26,640 Speaker 2: take this much. But what Yeah, like, I didn't know 1178 00:57:26,680 --> 00:57:29,680 Speaker 2: any of that before I read that book, and he's 1179 00:57:29,680 --> 00:57:33,520 Speaker 2: sold four hundred thousand. A lot of people now know 1180 00:57:33,720 --> 00:57:35,920 Speaker 2: this stuff. So sure people in that position can do 1181 00:57:35,960 --> 00:57:37,760 Speaker 2: a lot as far as financial literacy and a lot 1182 00:57:37,760 --> 00:57:40,320 Speaker 2: of about upward pressure on the way the companies were 1183 00:57:40,360 --> 00:57:43,680 Speaker 2: put also government policy, and absolutely I'm glad you made 1184 00:57:43,680 --> 00:57:46,120 Speaker 2: the show. Thank you enjoy doing it. 1185 00:57:46,280 --> 00:57:47,120 Speaker 3: I loving it. 1186 00:57:47,200 --> 00:57:49,680 Speaker 1: I love like how good is it to sit down 1187 00:57:49,720 --> 00:57:53,280 Speaker 1: opposite someone who I mean sorry that you know, I 1188 00:57:53,280 --> 00:57:57,000 Speaker 1: hope I've met your expectations. But but to sit across 1189 00:57:57,000 --> 00:57:59,680 Speaker 1: someone who you really enjoy chatting to, and to have 1190 00:57:59,720 --> 00:58:03,800 Speaker 1: forty five oddmitutes without someone telling you a rap, and 1191 00:58:03,920 --> 00:58:06,920 Speaker 1: to really drill down on a topic and get so 1192 00:58:07,000 --> 00:58:08,400 Speaker 1: much out of them, I love it. You know, I 1193 00:58:08,440 --> 00:58:12,880 Speaker 1: just love extracting information from people. And it's kind of 1194 00:58:13,520 --> 00:58:16,920 Speaker 1: self indulgent taking up all that time from very busy, 1195 00:58:17,120 --> 00:58:18,240 Speaker 1: smart people, But I love it. 1196 00:58:18,360 --> 00:58:20,200 Speaker 2: They get something out of it too, I hope, So 1197 00:58:20,480 --> 00:58:22,000 Speaker 2: they wouldn't show up if they didn't want to. 1198 00:58:22,360 --> 00:58:24,400 Speaker 1: Well, it's you know, everyone I've asked so far has 1199 00:58:24,440 --> 00:58:26,960 Speaker 1: said yes and come on board. So we're very We're 1200 00:58:27,040 --> 00:58:27,680 Speaker 1: very fortunate. 1201 00:58:27,760 --> 00:58:29,800 Speaker 2: It is tricky that you and I have made a 1202 00:58:29,840 --> 00:58:33,560 Speaker 2: career in an industry with which kind of hijacks the 1203 00:58:33,600 --> 00:58:38,840 Speaker 2: way that people get complicated ideas across each other's, across 1204 00:58:38,840 --> 00:58:41,600 Speaker 2: the bridge between them in that the amount of nuance 1205 00:58:41,640 --> 00:58:45,280 Speaker 2: and context it takes to understand something difficult cannot be 1206 00:58:45,400 --> 00:58:48,280 Speaker 2: said in a SoundBite or three minutess It takes an hour. 1207 00:58:48,480 --> 00:58:50,720 Speaker 2: Sometimes it takes five hours. Yeah, that's to speed that 1208 00:58:50,760 --> 00:58:53,880 Speaker 2: our brains work and the ability for emotions to catch 1209 00:58:53,960 --> 00:58:57,040 Speaker 2: up with our understanding of something. We can't do it 1210 00:58:57,480 --> 00:58:59,760 Speaker 2: in that amount of time. We pretend we can. 1211 00:59:00,240 --> 00:59:04,360 Speaker 1: People like, there's such a hunger for more context in 1212 00:59:04,440 --> 00:59:09,240 Speaker 1: this world, and both platforms sit by compliment one another. 1213 00:59:10,240 --> 00:59:13,640 Speaker 1: There's a space for all of this new media, I think, 1214 00:59:13,680 --> 00:59:16,560 Speaker 1: to sit alongside each other and to compliment each other, 1215 00:59:16,680 --> 00:59:17,680 Speaker 1: loving vertical integration. 1216 00:59:17,720 --> 00:59:20,640 Speaker 2: You go here, Jeffrey. We bring him in the Discovery 1217 00:59:20,720 --> 00:59:23,280 Speaker 2: with the Day Extra, and then we put them taken 1218 00:59:23,320 --> 00:59:25,480 Speaker 2: to the podcast, and then we feed them from there 1219 00:59:25,520 --> 00:59:27,320 Speaker 2: onto the nine Honey, and then maybe they become an 1220 00:59:27,320 --> 00:59:29,680 Speaker 2: SMA subscriber and then boom, we've got the subscription money. 1221 00:59:29,880 --> 00:59:32,400 Speaker 1: This is the point of the big beautiful company that 1222 00:59:32,560 --> 00:59:35,400 Speaker 1: is nine ushah see, welcome to the family. 1223 00:59:35,520 --> 00:59:40,600 Speaker 3: You get it, Me too, Me too. 1224 00:59:44,720 --> 00:59:46,880 Speaker 2: That was Sylvia Jeffery as you can find her podcast, 1225 00:59:46,920 --> 00:59:50,240 Speaker 2: it's called The Payoff where you found this very podcast. 1226 00:59:50,280 --> 00:59:53,720 Speaker 2: If you want to watch our conversation, you can on 1227 00:59:53,920 --> 00:59:56,600 Speaker 2: nine now. I can't afford Steve Britton, he's the guy 1228 00:59:56,640 --> 00:59:58,440 Speaker 2: that does the voice servers for Channel nine, but I 1229 00:59:58,520 --> 01:00:04,560 Speaker 2: can pretend to be him. Not very well on the 1230 01:00:04,720 --> 01:00:10,680 Speaker 2: block forty sorry, just get carried away. Yeah, you can 1231 01:00:10,720 --> 01:00:12,640 Speaker 2: watch it on the nine Now. Apple put a link 1232 01:00:12,680 --> 01:00:14,200 Speaker 2: in the show notes, which is also where you can 1233 01:00:14,240 --> 01:00:17,560 Speaker 2: get tickets to Story Club Comes see Us Live sixth 1234 01:00:17,560 --> 01:00:19,400 Speaker 2: of the July Factory Theater, and where you can pre 1235 01:00:19,880 --> 01:00:23,360 Speaker 2: order the book. So what now? What? And when you 1236 01:00:23,400 --> 01:00:25,560 Speaker 2: do so, take a screenshot of you buying the book 1237 01:00:26,080 --> 01:00:28,400 Speaker 2: the results page or whatever said it to me and 1238 01:00:28,400 --> 01:00:30,760 Speaker 2: I'll email you something to say thank you very much. 1239 01:00:31,560 --> 01:00:34,080 Speaker 2: I'll be back here on Monday. Have a wonderful weekend 1240 01:00:34,400 --> 01:00:34,680 Speaker 2: Bye