Speaker 1: Apologie Production, Welcome to She Rises, Freaky Friday, Sex, Go, Secrets, horror, scandal, hysterios.
Speaker 2: Wild, oh my gosh, Okay, today's episode and today's Freaky
Speaker 2: Friday submission.
Speaker 3: Is scary. Not want this happening to me.
Speaker 2: It's downright scary, especially in another.
Speaker 3: Country, especially in that part of my body.
Speaker 2: The medical bills, I t't know about the bills.
Speaker 3: I just want to out, get that out of me.
Speaker 3: It's not meant to stay in there. We're talking about
Speaker 3: usholes here. If you haven't, haven't gone. But yes, take away.
Speaker 2: Tell the story, all right, let's get straight into it.
Speaker 2: This one is from our Freaky Friday's submission. I was
Speaker 2: on my first holiday with my new partner in Cambodia,
Speaker 2: and to make the trip extra special, we packed some
Speaker 2: sex toys, including a first time for me, a butt plug.
Speaker 2: We had the most central, intense sex ever and in
Speaker 2: the heat and intensity of fucking, the butt plug went
Speaker 2: completely inside. We were so in the moment we didn't
Speaker 2: realize until after we both came and realized it was gone.
Speaker 3: How so many questions, I have so many questions.
Speaker 2: It was the most stressful thing ever because being the
Speaker 2: first time I was stressed that it was stuck, and
Speaker 2: also stressed about having to go to hospital in Cambodia
Speaker 2: to get it removed. Way to kill a moment, went
Speaker 2: to the toilet for an hour after sex Peep before
Speaker 2: heading off, and splashed the blood plug landed in the toilet.
Speaker 2: Thank fuck hahha, thank goodness it came out.
Speaker 3: Why do she had to like squeeze a bit or
Speaker 3: like I've never used once. I don't even know what
Speaker 3: they look like.
Speaker 2: I just have so many questions, Like it look like.
Speaker 3: A bath plug, Like that's what I'm imagining, a butt plug,
Speaker 3: like I think of a plug. I haven't explored. No,
Speaker 3: it's so innocent. No, it was just the most innocent
Speaker 3: thing you ever said.
Speaker 2: It's like a round thing and it goes in small yeah,
Speaker 2: and then it almost looks like a like a little deal.
Speaker 2: Don't Yeah, everyone does. Google it. If you don't know
Speaker 2: what it looks like, google it. Okay, wow, yeah, but regardless,
Speaker 2: I can't imagine. There's so many questions. You said, most
Speaker 2: intense sex ever, But it went completely inside.
Speaker 3: But we were saw in the moment.
Speaker 2: We didn't realize until after and realized it was gone.
Speaker 2: How do you not realize.
Speaker 3: And I'm doing the motion as you're fucking okay, let's
Speaker 3: quickly put a butt plug in while we're doing this. Like,
Speaker 3: I don't know how that naturally just flows. Wouldn't you
Speaker 3: have to stop insert it and then get back into it.
Speaker 3: I'm guessing I don't know. I wouldn't have been a
Speaker 3: different sensation once it's fully in compared to just hanging out.
Speaker 2: Yeah, well then I don't understand because if it was
Speaker 2: the first time.
Speaker 3: It's quite a tight hole.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like there's I just it just scares me.
Speaker 3: I have so many questions.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and in being in Cambodia, I have no words.
Speaker 3: I'm scared of the bum. I don't know why. It
Speaker 3: just doesn't turn me on. It's not something I want
Speaker 3: to try or lean into. I'm just not turned on
Speaker 3: by it. So that just freaks me the fuck out.
Speaker 3: I couldn't imagine having that stuff. I'm terrified of even
Speaker 3: a tampon ever getting stuck up there.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: I get nervous about that too.
Speaker 3: Story of that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think a little bit of like anal play
Speaker 2: with like hands and stuff like that with your partner
Speaker 2: is obviously not as scary because it's a little bit
Speaker 2: it's very introductory and yeah, that's kind of lae to stuff. Yeah,
Speaker 2: and not saying that I've like done that or anything
Speaker 2: like that. I've done like the play, but not fully.
Speaker 2: I just can't imagine. I just can't imagine it's veritoight,
Speaker 2: Like I genuinely can't imagine it getting stuck because of
Speaker 2: that reason. And also, granted, I'm sure it's like the
Speaker 2: more that you do and the more that you train
Speaker 2: and stuff, because I know you have to do like
Speaker 2: that sort of stuff. But even if it's like first times,
Speaker 2: like how big was it? Like was it unnoticeable? Was
Speaker 2: the sexually rough that you didn't notice and that it was,
Speaker 2: you know, such high sensation, Like I'm just so curious.
Speaker 3: I feel like if Steve was to try and put
Speaker 3: something at my bart I were having sex, I would notice.
Speaker 2: I'd be like, what you would absolutely notice what's going on? Yeah,
Speaker 2: you would absolutely notice.
Speaker 3: I've had a girlfriend she wanted to try anal and
Speaker 3: she said it took like up to twenty goes for
Speaker 3: it to fully be able to go in and actually
Speaker 3: feel nice. I'm like, that is commitment. She's like, yeah, her,
Speaker 3: you have to be really relaxed it to use a
Speaker 3: lot of special loop for it, but they were so
Speaker 3: committed to get to the point where it felt nice
Speaker 3: and it does now and she enjoys that for variety,
Speaker 3: but she said the training was a lot. Yeah, and
Speaker 3: you have to be like really breathed, because as soon
Speaker 3: as you are stressed or anxious, it just tightens up.
Speaker 3: It cannot go in there.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's so true.
Speaker 3: You're a man as well.
Speaker 2: Hung Oh, then you're in trouble. Then you're in trouble. No,
Speaker 2: it's true.
Speaker 3: Like even in the.
Speaker 2: Small experiences that I've had with a little bit of
Speaker 2: anal play with partners is like it takes time. You know,
Speaker 2: I say partners, but like it's really only been one
Speaker 2: partner where I've consistently done that with. And yeah, it does.
Speaker 2: It takes consistent effort and time and breathing and loube
Speaker 2: and all of the things, because it does. Like it's
Speaker 2: not comfortable the first few times, Like, and it takes
Speaker 2: a while for you to even get comfortable with even
Speaker 2: the idea of it because you're just like you really
Speaker 2: have to get out of your own head. I'm assuming too,
Speaker 2: like the thought of it, that's where my poop comes out. Yeah,
Speaker 2: it doesn't sound sexual to me, so I'll be worried
Speaker 2: about hundred percent. And you do you have to be
Speaker 2: so like in your.
Speaker 3: Body, do you have to go toilet before you do it?
Speaker 3: Like I just have so many yeah, yeah, wow. Anyways,
Speaker 3: thanks for the submission because girl brave, and I'm so
Speaker 3: glad it came out. I'm so glad you didn't have
Speaker 3: to go to the hospital because imagine walking into emergency
Speaker 3: and being like, I have something stuck up my bum
Speaker 3: and I need help getting it out.
Speaker 2: But also the language barrier as well, Oh true, Like
Speaker 2: how do you get that across to them?
Speaker 3: How do they get it out? Are they using gloves
Speaker 3: in their hands? Are they're using tongs? How are they
Speaker 3: opening your bum?
Speaker 2: Hold? Like, oh my god, that's a really good question.
Speaker 3: You're an x ray to see how far it's gone.
Speaker 2: Surely they do an x ray first to assess the situation.
Speaker 3: Feel like I'd need some gas or some valium to
Speaker 3: calm be down. Someone's inserting the hand to my bum,
Speaker 3: loosing your asshle. Honestly, when I had tala, it's very
Speaker 3: very common, kind of off topic, but still on the
Speaker 3: topic of bums, and no one talks about after you
Speaker 3: give birth, you can get something called an anal fisher. Yeah,
Speaker 3: and it's basically a tear inside your bum. I've never
Speaker 3: seen anyone talk about this. Yeah, this is not something
Speaker 3: I thought. I didn't even know what it was.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 3: And it was like four weeks after birth. I could
Speaker 3: not go to the toilet and every time I did,
Speaker 3: it was bleeding. Oh. It was the most painful thing.
Speaker 3: So I just held my poo in for a week straight,
Speaker 3: and I was so much pain and agony. And I
Speaker 3: was sitting at lunch with Steve's moments for a birthday,
Speaker 3: her next door neighbors, her friends from work. There was
Speaker 3: freaking everyone there and I was sitting there breastfeeding Tala,
Speaker 3: and I was so busting for the toilet because I've
Speaker 3: held it in all week. My body started to shake
Speaker 3: and I just had tears rolling down my face because
Speaker 3: I needed to go toilets so badly. I thought I
Speaker 3: had hemorrhoids. Steve's mum was sitting next to me, She's like,
Speaker 3: are you okay? So no, I think I've got hemorrhoids
Speaker 3: and I can't go the toilet and it bleeds and
Speaker 3: it feels like literally feels like razor blades inside your bum.
Speaker 3: I can't justribe. I would rather give birth ten times over,
Speaker 3: the most thing I've ever experienced. And then Stee's mum
Speaker 3: blurted out to everyone that I've got hemorrhoids, and that's
Speaker 3: why I'm going it's like, oh my gosh. Anyways, she
Speaker 3: took Tarler off me because I was just like, it's
Speaker 3: like my body wasn't coping now. Stee was like, I'm
Speaker 3: going to take it down to the emergency. We went
Speaker 3: down Tarlak's US breastfeeding and took it through and they
Speaker 3: rolled me on my side and had to put their
Speaker 3: things in to like see the hemorrhoids, and they were like,
Speaker 3: there's no hemorrhoids, and I was like, yes, there is.
Speaker 3: I'm telling you, I can't poo. There has to be
Speaker 3: hemorrhids in there. And he's like, no, you have what
Speaker 3: we call an anal fisher. It's a tear.
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh.
Speaker 3: And I had to put these enemas up my bum,
Speaker 3: which then helps you have a release. But you put
Speaker 3: one in, you have to wait for it to work.
Speaker 3: Didn't work, so I had to put another two or
Speaker 3: three in and then you have a big release. Yeah,
Speaker 3: and then I had to go on this thing and
Speaker 3: I'm sharing this because mums, if you're pregnant, know that
Speaker 3: this can happen. I wish someone had informed me. And
Speaker 3: then they put me on this thing called Movercole, which
Speaker 3: helps to soften your pooth. Yeah, it's not a laxative,
Speaker 3: so your time, it doesn't hurt. It just almost adds
Speaker 3: a lot more water and moisture to your poos so
Speaker 3: when it slides out, it comes outsier and doesn't make
Speaker 3: the tear worse. Yeah, okay, and yeah I was on
Speaker 3: that for like fo I think they said to go
Speaker 3: on for like six weeks. I think I tripled the
Speaker 3: time because I was so paranoid. Yeah, of course, but
Speaker 3: it was the most painful thing. So I think even
Speaker 3: now for me, I'm like, don't come to my ass.
Speaker 2: Yeah, understandable, it goes on. Yeah, but also you've had
Speaker 2: that experience as well. Yeah you don't, you dare, Let's
Speaker 2: not go there.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it was hectic. So I'm just so glad this
Speaker 3: story ended how it did and she's all good. Just
Speaker 3: reminded me of a story, and hell us tell me traumatized.
Speaker 2: I was with a partner and we were having sex
Speaker 2: in Doggie, and I naturally have like a fear of
Speaker 2: being a doggie, of just being like super vulnerable because
Speaker 2: of the positioning, and I there's nothing I can do,
Speaker 2: and it's like, do you know, it's very like you know,
Speaker 2: anyway we were having sex. He like kind of went
Speaker 2: into the wrong hole, but didn't obviously didn't fully because
Speaker 2: like you know, it's still poked though, yeah, enough to
Speaker 2: like forcefully go in, and I just remember immediate it tears,
Speaker 2: and like I pushed him off, and I was just like,
Speaker 2: oh my god. I was like yeah, like because it
Speaker 2: was just so it's shocking, painful and so something that
Speaker 2: like obviously I wasn't ready for. In the moment I
Speaker 2: felt it, I was like tightened even more so. And
Speaker 2: then he calmed me down and stuff like that. Anyway,
Speaker 2: we kept going. We did it again, and he fucking
Speaker 2: did it again, oh a second time. And the second
Speaker 2: I just like fucking pushed him off and I was
Speaker 2: like get away.
Speaker 3: And he's like, I didn't mean to.
Speaker 2: I'm like, I don't fucking care. You don't understand You're
Speaker 2: grave for going back in that position.
Speaker 3: Oh oh my god.
Speaker 2: It was honestly, now I'm like so fearful of going
Speaker 2: in that position because of that, and it just this
Speaker 2: story just reminded me of that because I was just.
Speaker 3: A lot of friends say that's happened to them before.
Speaker 3: It's never happened to me, but I have heard a
Speaker 3: lot of friends tell me similar stories where they've been
Speaker 3: going so hard that it accidentally comes out and they
Speaker 3: go to go back in and it's the wrong hole.
Speaker 2: It's very close, definitely dependent on the type of sex
Speaker 2: that you're having, Like that was very rough and passionate
Speaker 2: and very like yeah type, yes, Yeah, it isn't very
Speaker 2: like intimate sentual.
Speaker 3: Wasn't that kind of sex, very intimate central position?
Speaker 2: Really? No, it's not really more a rough playful because
Speaker 2: you're not looking at each other, you see each other,
Speaker 2: You're not like connecting through your eyes and yeah, yeah,
Speaker 2: it's not.
Speaker 3: A favorite position for me. And I've spoken to a
Speaker 3: lot of mums and this is for me too. I
Speaker 3: don't know why. It just doesn't feel as good anymore
Speaker 3: after having kids. Yeah, I because everything internally kind of
Speaker 3: drops down. Someone told me that anyway, and it's quite
Speaker 3: common when I speak to mums. I just don't love it. Yeah, understandable, understandable. Wow,
Speaker 3: it's a lot of bum talk. Oh well, it's not freaking.
Speaker 3: Friday's all about there's no shame around anything. We talk
Speaker 3: about anything and everything. Bring your stories in, let's chat
Speaker 3: about it, have some fun. And it's Friday, so the weekend.
Speaker 3: So good to have a good weekend.
Speaker 2: Thanks so much for listening in, guys, and we'll see
Speaker 2: you on Monday.
Speaker 3: Bye bye bye