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Speaker 1: Coming up on Relatables. Mummy, Daddy, leave a message for

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Speaker 1: your ex.

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Speaker 2: Glad you dumped me because turns out I was someone's

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Speaker 2: stream girl.

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Speaker 1: That's a good one. Yeah, that's a really good one

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Speaker 1: which you are learning your worthy relatable. The Relatables podcast

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Speaker 1: is hosted by myself, Jake Craig aka Daddy, my partner

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Speaker 1: in crime, Audie Clark a k A. Mummy mate. I

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Speaker 1: almost sang that, really well, Daddy, maybe should we try?

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Speaker 1: Remember we harmonized a little while ago. You don't have

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Speaker 1: to go should but we'll say daddy and so on

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Speaker 1: there the yeah, on the on the we need to harmonize,

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Speaker 1: all right, So it's seven, we're not already got it?

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Speaker 1: Counting down three, I'll go this boom boom, and then

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Speaker 1: when when my thumb hits this finger, we start with

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Speaker 1: the we did this in a brand deal in front

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Speaker 1: of like ten people. We couldn't do it when the

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Speaker 1: all kind one coming really yeah, I remember how we

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Speaker 1: had to like say the same word, the same Oh yeah, no,

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Speaker 1: that was it wasn't harmonizing. We were doing the same

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Speaker 1: thing that was in front of a crowd. Yeah, we

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Speaker 1: get nervous, Okay, okay, ready okay, saying say, daddy, okay,

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Speaker 1: we want to harmonize. I don't actually know if tone

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Speaker 1: deaf people can harmonize, but we'll see what I'm not to.

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Speaker 1: I think we are tones and eyes. She's still floating

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Speaker 1: about dance dance. I always had a thing about for

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Speaker 1: some reason, just hating her. She was not her as

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Speaker 1: left before her tough, didn't want the crowds made all right, okay, ready, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm ready. What No, you gotta watch, daddy? I was late?

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Speaker 1: How was I late? Daddy? Mummy? Mummy might be easy.

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Speaker 1: Do it again, Do it again, mummy. You've got some

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Speaker 1: like what's it called when you've got that little shake

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Speaker 1: in the voice, turns it up. I got pitch, mate,

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you got pitch. I got skill. I've been

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Speaker 1: practicing in the shower. Okay, we actually guys, everyone listening, Guys, girls, baddies, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: welcome back. We would like to pitch a new segment

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Speaker 1: to the baddies. We would because we have some staples,

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Speaker 1: as we know, ig question staple. We have deep staple.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I've been happy late lyast we haven't

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Speaker 1: been doing deeps. Often we're sitting on the desk. Yesterday

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Speaker 1: I was like, I've been struggling to think of deep topics.

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Speaker 1: Jays like, we've bit happy. This is hard when you're happy.

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Speaker 1: It must be dilemmas staple one of my favorite. And

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Speaker 1: then every now what else? We go to some other

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Speaker 1: do like the classic within ig questions. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: those type of things we love about girls. But we

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Speaker 1: were thinking of another one. It was his idea kind

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Speaker 1: of like a book club, and we basically have to

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Speaker 1: We would start with a book and then Oddie and

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Speaker 1: I we both go in between recording sessions. How many

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Speaker 1: have to read them. Maybe it would because there's we're

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Speaker 1: and Jake will announce how many chapters we're reading, and

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Speaker 1: the same thing. So we're going to give you appropriate

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Speaker 1: going to talk about it. Yeah, so we want to

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Speaker 1: we want to read it off camera, but then talk

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Speaker 1: be a relatable's book club. Yeah, and we want everyone

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Speaker 1: to read along with us if they so desire. Yes, right,

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Speaker 1: Girls, Yeah, girls read it. Yeah. Yeah. People said, don't

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Speaker 1: I've also never of the minimal amount of books I've read.

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Speaker 1: How would you feel, right if your ex was a cyclist? Terrible?

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Speaker 1: That would make it easy to get over them, to

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Speaker 1: I just can't afford it right now. A bike's expensive, Babe, Like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: But you're only thinking about the bike, Like the shoes,

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Speaker 1: what you're going to look like. But if I think

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Speaker 1: I would need to buy a bunch of active where anyway,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well, like I was being nice. Have you ever

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Speaker 2: seen those trends on TikTok where it's like when your

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Speaker 2: I'm serious, Like this isn't don't you laugh?

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Speaker 1: But I want to get fit. You look I'm happy

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Speaker 1: with you. Yeah, I'm not having I like a dad pod. Anyway. Anyway,

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Speaker 1: ig question to leave a message for your ex, and

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Speaker 1: might I say jake The responses very good baddies have

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Speaker 1: hooked us up. I'm gonna start all right, leave a

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Speaker 1: message for your ex. Dude, just say you want to

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Speaker 1: bet you so many people can relate to that. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: just admit it to yourself that connection is a little

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Speaker 1: bit too strong. It's such a nick when when a

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Speaker 1: mom gets jealous of their son, No, jealous of their

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Speaker 2: There's a fine line between having a good, healthy relationship

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Speaker 2: and then like obsessive.

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Speaker 1: Yeah that's a good fuck. That's funny. Leave a message

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Speaker 1: for your X. Turns out I was right. Girls have

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Speaker 1: been better than you. Oh, girls have been better. How

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Speaker 1: that work? He made her a lesbian? Oh yeah, I

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Speaker 1: didn't click two and two together. There facts, but facts.

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Speaker 1: They know how the body works. Ninety nine percent of man,

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Speaker 1: don't leave a message for your ex next time. Go

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00:21:50,160 --> 00:21:55,200
Speaker 1: to Disneyland for the princess treatment. Oh shit? Oh is

427
00:21:55,280 --> 00:21:56,440
Speaker 1: that a guy to a girl? No?

428
00:21:56,440 --> 00:21:57,760
Speaker 2: No, no, that was a girl or a guy. He wanted

429
00:21:57,760 --> 00:21:58,480
Speaker 2: to be treated like a prince.

430
00:22:00,359 --> 00:22:06,440
Speaker 1: I will say that the how do I put this?

431
00:22:07,600 --> 00:22:09,920
Speaker 2: Ah, you like to be a princess sometimes.

432
00:22:10,320 --> 00:22:12,439
Speaker 1: Look, I don't mind being a princess sometimes, But what

433
00:22:12,600 --> 00:22:15,320
Speaker 1: is it I think there's a thing called there's a

434
00:22:15,359 --> 00:22:19,800
Speaker 1: sassy man apocalypse. Oh yeah, we've got some. And I

435
00:22:19,880 --> 00:22:25,000
Speaker 1: believe that men are getting sassy. Oh is that bad?

436
00:22:26,240 --> 00:22:30,120
Speaker 1: I don't know. Is that yeah? Right? But I mean, look,

437
00:22:30,160 --> 00:22:32,200
Speaker 1: I don't I don't try away from a cheeky little

438
00:22:33,080 --> 00:22:35,320
Speaker 1: maybe best's on her phone and I try to give

439
00:22:35,320 --> 00:22:37,240
Speaker 1: her a cuddle and she ignores me. Right, Yeah, I

440
00:22:37,280 --> 00:22:38,920
Speaker 1: don't try away from a from a huff and a

441
00:22:38,960 --> 00:22:43,679
Speaker 1: puff and a roll over. It works every time I'm

442
00:22:43,760 --> 00:22:47,120
Speaker 1: huffing out on, puffing on and then she's like, why

443
00:22:47,160 --> 00:22:52,119
Speaker 1: you're breathing just freethy? Yeah, never mind, good night, I

444
00:22:52,720 --> 00:22:56,200
Speaker 1: love you, good night. And I don't fly away from it.

445
00:22:56,280 --> 00:22:58,320
Speaker 1: That's what I'll say. That's when she scooches over and

446
00:22:58,320 --> 00:23:01,960
Speaker 1: you're a little spoony. Yeah that's right. Get off your phone.

447
00:23:02,040 --> 00:23:02,399
Speaker 3: Yeah.

448
00:23:02,480 --> 00:23:04,040
Speaker 1: If I'm done on my phone, then you're done on

449
00:23:04,080 --> 00:23:09,320
Speaker 1: your Yeah that's how relationships were. Yeah, okay, leave a

450
00:23:09,359 --> 00:23:14,000
Speaker 1: message for your ex. I actually tried to get with

451
00:23:14,080 --> 00:23:18,080
Speaker 1: your friend and not you the first night we met. Oh.

452
00:23:19,760 --> 00:23:23,840
Speaker 1: I if i'd broken up with the girl, I would

453
00:23:23,920 --> 00:23:28,880
Speaker 1: actually not be too sad hearing that, Ah okay, because

454
00:23:28,880 --> 00:23:30,960
Speaker 1: I'd be like, ah, if you're the one that Yeah,

455
00:23:31,440 --> 00:23:32,680
Speaker 1: so I was yeah, yeah, yeah, because I was like,

456
00:23:32,680 --> 00:23:36,359
Speaker 1: oh you didn't really like he didn't want you either? Okay, yeah,

457
00:23:36,800 --> 00:23:38,800
Speaker 1: see that one could be broken down. Well. Also, here's

458
00:23:38,800 --> 00:23:41,240
Speaker 1: the thing is, why would you look? I know you're

459
00:23:41,240 --> 00:23:44,200
Speaker 1: telling me that I was your second choice, but also

460
00:23:44,280 --> 00:23:47,520
Speaker 1: you're telling me that you swung and missed with the

461
00:23:47,880 --> 00:23:50,320
Speaker 1: exactly ones. So maybe this isn't that that one can

462
00:23:50,359 --> 00:23:52,520
Speaker 1: be broken. This one can be easy. That that one

463
00:23:52,560 --> 00:23:54,920
Speaker 1: would be good to say if you were still dating

464
00:23:54,920 --> 00:23:57,840
Speaker 1: and didn't like because you wouldn't want to be known

465
00:23:57,840 --> 00:24:00,840
Speaker 1: as the second second swing, would you? True? You'd be

466
00:24:00,840 --> 00:24:03,320
Speaker 1: comparing yourself to But now they're broken up, you'll be like, oh,

467
00:24:03,320 --> 00:24:05,920
Speaker 1: thank good riddance. That was the second pick. True? True, true?

468
00:24:06,040 --> 00:24:09,199
Speaker 2: Leave a message for your ex. You were right to

469
00:24:09,240 --> 00:24:10,480
Speaker 2: be insecure about your brother.

470
00:24:12,520 --> 00:24:22,639
Speaker 5: What No, shut up? Some people like dogs? Who were

471
00:24:22,680 --> 00:24:24,080
Speaker 5: you more mad at brother?

472
00:24:24,600 --> 00:24:24,800
Speaker 3: Yeah?

473
00:24:26,240 --> 00:24:29,000
Speaker 2: Wow, I don't care about it. My blood related to

474
00:24:29,000 --> 00:24:29,359
Speaker 2: this bloke.

475
00:24:29,840 --> 00:24:32,879
Speaker 1: Yeah, you have to see him at every family function.

476
00:24:32,960 --> 00:24:36,040
Speaker 1: You can ignore anymore, mate, not anymore. I'm not gone

477
00:24:36,080 --> 00:24:40,240
Speaker 1: with him? Really there? Would you let? Would you let

478
00:24:40,320 --> 00:24:44,240
Speaker 1: that make it so you don't go? Or would you

479
00:24:44,720 --> 00:24:46,760
Speaker 1: because he's okay, he's the annoying thing as well, right

480
00:24:47,040 --> 00:24:49,920
Speaker 1: is if that happened, everyone in your family would probably

481
00:24:49,920 --> 00:24:52,159
Speaker 1: a pretty pissed at your brother. But also because he

482
00:24:52,280 --> 00:24:53,840
Speaker 1: is family, eventually they're going to get over it and

483
00:24:53,920 --> 00:24:56,119
Speaker 1: love him again. Yeah. So, but you're not going to

484
00:24:56,160 --> 00:24:58,800
Speaker 1: get over it. It depends how much did you love her.

485
00:24:59,280 --> 00:25:00,639
Speaker 1: Let's just say you thought she was the one and

486
00:25:00,680 --> 00:25:02,800
Speaker 1: she left you and then she started with your brother. Yeah,

487
00:25:02,840 --> 00:25:06,679
Speaker 1: that'd be tough. That's heavy road. That's a tough ste

488
00:25:08,400 --> 00:25:13,400
Speaker 1: that's so heavy. Imagine your brother was younger too, No, no,

489
00:25:13,720 --> 00:25:15,879
Speaker 1: and you always had this inkling that he had a

490
00:25:15,880 --> 00:25:24,480
Speaker 1: bigger dick than you always. Okay, leave a message for

491
00:25:24,560 --> 00:25:28,719
Speaker 1: your ex. You're so ugly that even your hairline had

492
00:25:28,760 --> 00:25:31,680
Speaker 1: to run away. You could have just paused that you're

493
00:25:31,760 --> 00:25:35,320
Speaker 1: so ugly. Leave a message for your exit. You're so ugly.

494
00:25:36,480 --> 00:25:39,320
Speaker 1: I think they're actually so. We always talk about, especially

495
00:25:39,320 --> 00:25:41,800
Speaker 1: with dilemmas, like taking the high road, Yeah, doing this,

496
00:25:42,000 --> 00:25:43,960
Speaker 1: doing that, Like, just be the bigger person. I think

497
00:25:44,000 --> 00:25:46,920
Speaker 1: there is a time and a place to be petty. Yeah,

498
00:25:48,040 --> 00:25:50,520
Speaker 1: first couple of weeks of breaking up, like, well, I

499
00:25:50,520 --> 00:25:53,280
Speaker 1: think if they've hurt you, Yeah, and the pettiness can

500
00:25:53,320 --> 00:25:56,119
Speaker 1: give you at least some form of joy. I know,

501
00:25:56,200 --> 00:25:58,560
Speaker 1: I see, I see a place for pettiness in this world.

502
00:25:59,359 --> 00:26:04,480
Speaker 1: What have I done? I have with my ex girlfriend?

503
00:26:05,520 --> 00:26:10,120
Speaker 1: I have when we broke up, she moved on very quick.

504
00:26:10,200 --> 00:26:12,359
Speaker 1: You were the opposite of petty, mate. We've told this

505
00:26:12,400 --> 00:26:15,640
Speaker 1: story before. No, I did one petty thing. Oh you did. Yeah,

506
00:26:15,640 --> 00:26:18,600
Speaker 1: I did do one petty thing and it felt Good's

507
00:26:18,680 --> 00:26:21,840
Speaker 1: let's track back. So Jake and his partner broke up

508
00:26:22,240 --> 00:26:25,800
Speaker 1: and had been a while, and then a girl message

509
00:26:25,840 --> 00:26:27,760
Speaker 1: Jake yeah, And then I was like, oh, are you

510
00:26:27,800 --> 00:26:29,639
Speaker 1: going to go talk to her, like miss Stewart And

511
00:26:29,680 --> 00:26:31,480
Speaker 1: he's like no, no, no, no, out of respect, Like

512
00:26:31,520 --> 00:26:33,639
Speaker 1: I don't think. I think it's too soon. I was like,

513
00:26:34,480 --> 00:26:35,800
Speaker 1: I had this in my back pocket, but I didn't

514
00:26:35,800 --> 00:26:37,800
Speaker 1: want tell him because he hurt his feelings. I was like, mate,

515
00:26:39,040 --> 00:26:42,520
Speaker 1: your ex moved on like a week after she's already

516
00:26:42,560 --> 00:26:48,959
Speaker 1: dating this bloke. Oh no. So basically I was devo

517
00:26:50,880 --> 00:26:56,560
Speaker 1: and I had obviously over the period of we dated

518
00:26:56,600 --> 00:27:00,520
Speaker 1: from a couple of years. Yeah, you gather things, stuff

519
00:27:00,560 --> 00:27:03,399
Speaker 1: that she's given me, photos that we've kept, and stuff

520
00:27:03,440 --> 00:27:08,040
Speaker 1: that we've got printed and So I had this little

521
00:27:08,080 --> 00:27:13,639
Speaker 1: box and I just I just put all the ship

522
00:27:13,760 --> 00:27:16,880
Speaker 1: in it that she had given me. And I could

523
00:27:16,920 --> 00:27:19,160
Speaker 1: have thrown it out. I remember walking past my bin

524
00:27:19,320 --> 00:27:21,840
Speaker 1: being like, I could just throw this out and move

525
00:27:21,920 --> 00:27:24,720
Speaker 1: on that way. But I went and I just chucked

526
00:27:24,760 --> 00:27:27,439
Speaker 1: on a driveway. Really yeah, and then I just went

527
00:27:27,520 --> 00:27:29,080
Speaker 1: off and I said, yeah, you can look at that,

528
00:27:29,480 --> 00:27:33,359
Speaker 1: looks through all that shit, fuck you, and I'm not

529
00:27:33,400 --> 00:27:36,360
Speaker 1: gonna lie. It felt semi good. I wouldn't say that's

530
00:27:36,400 --> 00:27:40,159
Speaker 1: that petty. No, is the only petty bit about that? Oh,

531
00:27:40,200 --> 00:27:47,440
Speaker 1: I added that in I placed it, So that's That's

532
00:27:47,800 --> 00:27:49,919
Speaker 1: the pettiest thing I think I've done is probably that.

533
00:27:49,960 --> 00:27:52,879
Speaker 1: I would say, I'm trying to you in your car

534
00:27:53,760 --> 00:27:55,119
Speaker 1: pulling up. What did I have it at the time?

535
00:27:55,119 --> 00:27:56,680
Speaker 1: I had had a trip at the time. Okay, that's

536
00:27:56,720 --> 00:27:58,960
Speaker 1: kind of cool. You're looking around seeing if anyone was

537
00:27:59,000 --> 00:28:02,280
Speaker 1: looking at you, run and place the box and then

538
00:28:02,359 --> 00:28:06,119
Speaker 1: scurry your ways and you get to keep that. That's right, bitch.

539
00:28:06,480 --> 00:28:08,280
Speaker 1: I wonder actually, I wonder how long she kept it

540
00:28:08,320 --> 00:28:10,120
Speaker 1: for because she must have just chucked it out straight away.

541
00:28:10,160 --> 00:28:12,760
Speaker 1: Who knows she might still have it. Imagine you had

542
00:28:12,760 --> 00:28:19,359
Speaker 1: to glow up, dude, leave a message for your ex.

543
00:28:19,600 --> 00:28:24,600
Speaker 1: We've been done six months. Stop crying. Oh what? Some

544
00:28:24,720 --> 00:28:29,240
Speaker 1: guys straight up grovel. Yeah, I have been told. I

545
00:28:29,320 --> 00:28:32,560
Speaker 1: like that word grovel. Grovel. Guys grovel, yeah they do.

546
00:28:33,160 --> 00:28:35,520
Speaker 1: I've had I've had girlfriends tell me that they've had

547
00:28:35,560 --> 00:28:37,760
Speaker 1: an ex that will send them snapchats of the of

548
00:28:37,760 --> 00:28:40,760
Speaker 1: a tear coming down their face. Oh yeah, you wouldn't

549
00:28:40,760 --> 00:28:42,680
Speaker 1: want to know. We wouldn't want to know what some

550
00:28:42,720 --> 00:28:47,200
Speaker 1: guys do byd closed doors. They're like grovel, I know, yeah,

551
00:28:47,240 --> 00:28:50,920
Speaker 1: they do. Some li sustu that is insane. That said

552
00:28:50,920 --> 00:28:55,360
Speaker 1: that she at her ex used to come and knock

553
00:28:55,400 --> 00:28:57,719
Speaker 1: on her door and ask to talk to her, and

554
00:28:57,800 --> 00:28:58,360
Speaker 1: she'd just be.

555
00:28:58,320 --> 00:29:00,480
Speaker 2: Like, no, No, they always I've heard heaps of You'll say,

556
00:29:00,480 --> 00:29:00,840
Speaker 2: they always.

557
00:29:01,000 --> 00:29:03,000
Speaker 1: Can we just like talk? Yeah, like I just need

558
00:29:03,040 --> 00:29:04,840
Speaker 1: some me just talk. I just want some Can we

559
00:29:04,880 --> 00:29:07,680
Speaker 1: meet up? And like no? And you know, it's so

560
00:29:07,720 --> 00:29:11,120
Speaker 1: embarrassing for Beth's X. And so he'd come and he'd

561
00:29:11,120 --> 00:29:14,680
Speaker 1: be groveling, trying to trying to apologize. He didn't cheat

562
00:29:14,720 --> 00:29:17,280
Speaker 1: or anything. He just was, as far as I could

563
00:29:17,280 --> 00:29:21,000
Speaker 1: serve best, he's just ship boyfriend, right, And so he

564
00:29:21,040 --> 00:29:23,200
Speaker 1: would come to a grovel trying to apologize and I

565
00:29:23,240 --> 00:29:25,960
Speaker 1: think trying to get her back. And at this point

566
00:29:25,960 --> 00:29:29,520
Speaker 1: in time, her best best friend had moved in, and

567
00:29:29,600 --> 00:29:32,520
Speaker 1: so she was she could also hear it. But he

568
00:29:32,560 --> 00:29:35,160
Speaker 1: didn't know that best's best friend was there, and so

569
00:29:35,200 --> 00:29:37,160
Speaker 1: he does. I don't know if he knows that Beth's

570
00:29:37,240 --> 00:29:39,320
Speaker 1: best friend just heard all the groveling and Beth just

571
00:29:39,360 --> 00:29:44,520
Speaker 1: going not letting him in the house. Imagine how much

572
00:29:44,520 --> 00:29:47,200
Speaker 1: it would hurt if he finds out. The best thing

573
00:29:47,760 --> 00:29:50,200
Speaker 1: as being the new boyfriend is hearing like your partner

574
00:29:50,240 --> 00:29:51,959
Speaker 1: talk about the X and all the toxic ship they

575
00:29:51,960 --> 00:29:55,040
Speaker 1: did and you're like, yeah, yeah, this guy, Yes, this

576
00:29:55,200 --> 00:29:57,400
Speaker 1: is crazy. I'm so glad you got out. I don't

577
00:29:57,400 --> 00:30:03,280
Speaker 1: even it's the best thing. It is, honestly, so so good.

578
00:30:04,240 --> 00:30:09,920
Speaker 1: Wow you leave a message for your ex, still waiting

579
00:30:09,960 --> 00:30:12,880
Speaker 1: for that orgasm. You promise. Ah, we promise the world.

580
00:30:13,000 --> 00:30:16,720
Speaker 1: We always do. We deliver like Australia Post not on time.

581
00:30:18,200 --> 00:30:22,240
Speaker 1: Australia Post is actually shit. Yeah, it's not great. I

582
00:30:22,280 --> 00:30:23,720
Speaker 1: was thinking of the worst one. I was like, Amazon's

583
00:30:23,720 --> 00:30:25,800
Speaker 1: pretty good, so I won't say them. Yeah, but Australia

584
00:30:25,880 --> 00:30:28,560
Speaker 1: Post they don't give you a little letter saying it's

585
00:30:28,600 --> 00:30:31,880
Speaker 1: at the post office anymore. You have to make an

586
00:30:31,880 --> 00:30:35,120
Speaker 1: account with Australia and they send you a message. But

587
00:30:35,160 --> 00:30:37,320
Speaker 1: they haven't told anyone that that's what they're doing. That's

588
00:30:37,320 --> 00:30:39,160
Speaker 1: so annoying. But now they don't leave you a little letter.

589
00:30:39,200 --> 00:30:41,120
Speaker 1: Joanna had stuff at the post office for two weeks.

590
00:30:41,360 --> 00:30:43,480
Speaker 1: I don't care if my thing's worth a couple thousand dollars.

591
00:30:43,560 --> 00:30:45,600
Speaker 1: Leave it at my front door. Yeah, same, I agree.

592
00:30:45,880 --> 00:30:48,600
Speaker 1: I also agree because the inconvenience of going to the

593
00:30:48,640 --> 00:30:51,120
Speaker 1: post office know and finding the one it's at. Yea.

594
00:30:51,200 --> 00:30:53,680
Speaker 1: Sometimes it goes to some Mine went like fifteen minutes

595
00:30:53,680 --> 00:30:55,040
Speaker 1: away one time and I was like, well are you

596
00:30:55,080 --> 00:30:57,040
Speaker 1: taking it there? Living here is weird? One time I

597
00:30:57,080 --> 00:30:59,240
Speaker 1: had one that was a forty minute drive, was in

598
00:30:59,280 --> 00:31:01,400
Speaker 1: Tugra once tugging to get this stupid it. Didn't even

599
00:31:01,840 --> 00:31:04,360
Speaker 1: do I want it that bad? I just genuinely question

600
00:31:04,400 --> 00:31:05,640
Speaker 1: how bad do I want this item that I spent

601
00:31:05,640 --> 00:31:07,360
Speaker 1: money on? Because I'm gonna spend money on fuel at

602
00:31:07,360 --> 00:31:09,760
Speaker 1: that time going to get it and then but where

603
00:31:09,800 --> 00:31:12,280
Speaker 1: I live now here would be okay if they just

604
00:31:12,280 --> 00:31:14,240
Speaker 1: took me to the Vocal post office. Yeah, but where

605
00:31:14,280 --> 00:31:15,920
Speaker 1: I live now. It's it's one hundred meters of walks,

606
00:31:15,920 --> 00:31:18,000
Speaker 1: so it's good. I don't mind it. Fair fair, Okay,

607
00:31:18,080 --> 00:31:20,760
Speaker 1: this one probably the best one. Leave a message for

608
00:31:20,800 --> 00:31:24,040
Speaker 1: your ex. Bro is twenty five and still hasn't found

609
00:31:24,040 --> 00:31:29,600
Speaker 1: a haircut that suits him. Oh that's an insult. Wow,

610
00:31:30,560 --> 00:31:34,080
Speaker 1: he's definitely got that like haircut where the like how

611
00:31:34,080 --> 00:31:35,720
Speaker 1: your hair goes like that. But it's like over here,

612
00:31:36,720 --> 00:31:39,080
Speaker 1: you got too much of the skin fade on top.

613
00:31:42,600 --> 00:31:44,280
Speaker 1: That is, And she's been live for the whole time

614
00:31:44,280 --> 00:31:45,800
Speaker 1: they we dating. When you get the trim, she's like, baby,

615
00:31:45,840 --> 00:31:52,160
Speaker 1: looks so hot. You look good. That sucks. I can't

616
00:31:52,320 --> 00:31:55,640
Speaker 1: just I don't even think I found a haircut. You

617
00:31:55,680 --> 00:31:58,000
Speaker 1: don't really get hair I don't really get haircuts, so

618
00:31:58,080 --> 00:31:59,840
Speaker 1: it just molded around your head. Yeah, so I just

619
00:32:00,120 --> 00:32:01,640
Speaker 1: let it grow and then I could a cut every

620
00:32:01,680 --> 00:32:05,840
Speaker 1: six months or something. So I mean to be fair.

621
00:32:05,880 --> 00:32:09,000
Speaker 1: You know what that means is he's just unfortunately ugly,

622
00:32:09,080 --> 00:32:15,200
Speaker 1: like genetically his hair because people just let you you're

623
00:32:15,200 --> 00:32:16,760
Speaker 1: the same though. You get a haircut, you also you

624
00:32:16,840 --> 00:32:18,720
Speaker 1: just your hair grows in the way it grows. Yeah,

625
00:32:19,160 --> 00:32:20,560
Speaker 1: you get a hair cut. And I was like a

626
00:32:20,640 --> 00:32:23,040
Speaker 1: and I used to have a couple of bad trims. Really, yeah,

627
00:32:23,080 --> 00:32:24,800
Speaker 1: what are you going for? Like that? What I explained,

628
00:32:24,800 --> 00:32:26,280
Speaker 1: That's what I thought. Like the prop at the side

629
00:32:26,320 --> 00:32:27,120
Speaker 1: was a bit more over here.

630
00:32:27,200 --> 00:32:29,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, it just didn't like my head, This just didn't flow.

631
00:32:29,680 --> 00:32:33,520
Speaker 1: There was no flow, remember justin Bieber. Yeah, the Beaba

632
00:32:33,520 --> 00:32:35,719
Speaker 1: trim like the bowl cut. See, we went through phases

633
00:32:35,760 --> 00:32:37,640
Speaker 1: though I never had one of them. Why did people

634
00:32:37,680 --> 00:32:40,440
Speaker 1: think that looked good? Because I really JB had it.

635
00:32:40,480 --> 00:32:43,080
Speaker 1: That's what. Here's the thing I want to point out

636
00:32:43,560 --> 00:32:45,640
Speaker 1: is that we all hated JB, but we all copied

637
00:32:45,640 --> 00:32:48,680
Speaker 1: his haircut. Yeah, why did we do that? Did we? Like?

638
00:32:48,680 --> 00:32:50,400
Speaker 1: Our friend had one and I wouldn't. He looks more

639
00:32:50,440 --> 00:32:55,040
Speaker 1: like from the Beatles, not JB. He looks like it

640
00:32:55,080 --> 00:32:59,040
Speaker 1: looks like a nineteen sixties British teenager. Yeah yeah, shit

641
00:33:00,360 --> 00:33:02,160
Speaker 1: all right, Jake, I'm a bit stressed.

642
00:33:02,200 --> 00:33:04,520
Speaker 2: I've been trying to book a romantic getaway for myself

643
00:33:04,520 --> 00:33:06,800
Speaker 2: and my girlfriend for a birthday. Mate, you are a

644
00:33:07,000 --> 00:33:12,000
Speaker 2: green flag and I'm feeling so much pressure right now.

645
00:33:12,160 --> 00:33:14,880
Speaker 2: What we both want is a couple of things. Actually,

646
00:33:15,000 --> 00:33:16,440
Speaker 2: it has to have a pool because we're there over

647
00:33:16,440 --> 00:33:18,840
Speaker 2: the weekend and it's meant to be sunny dog friendly

648
00:33:18,880 --> 00:33:22,160
Speaker 2: for Cassie's dog. This one's a bit rogue, a big kitchen,

649
00:33:22,880 --> 00:33:26,040
Speaker 2: a good location near nice restaurants, and obviously, Matte, it's

650
00:33:26,080 --> 00:33:27,320
Speaker 2: got to be romantic for us too.

651
00:33:27,920 --> 00:33:32,000
Speaker 1: First off, why do you need a big kitchen? Second off,

652
00:33:32,200 --> 00:33:35,560
Speaker 1: what are you worried about? Mate? I've got three words

653
00:33:35,560 --> 00:33:38,960
Speaker 1: for you. That's Airbnb guest favorites. I'll get to the

654
00:33:39,000 --> 00:33:41,200
Speaker 1: kitchen bit. But what are you talking about? Listen up?

655
00:33:41,240 --> 00:33:43,200
Speaker 1: I went through the same thing a little while ago

656
00:33:43,440 --> 00:33:45,960
Speaker 1: when me and my girlfriend were planning our anniversary, and

657
00:33:46,000 --> 00:33:49,440
Speaker 1: that's when I came across guest favorites. Once we'd agreed

658
00:33:49,480 --> 00:33:52,440
Speaker 1: on our non negotiables, I use the little guest favorites

659
00:33:52,480 --> 00:33:54,680
Speaker 1: tab and it showed us all the homes that other

660
00:33:54,760 --> 00:33:56,920
Speaker 1: guests have loved, So then we knew we would too.

661
00:33:57,280 --> 00:33:59,640
Speaker 2: Honestly, that sounds like a bit of a game changer.

662
00:34:00,040 --> 00:34:01,840
Speaker 2: I want to run you through what I've got plan

663
00:34:01,960 --> 00:34:04,440
Speaker 2: and tell me what you think. So we rock up Friday,

664
00:34:04,760 --> 00:34:07,760
Speaker 2: drop our stuff off, and then I've got a sunset picnic.

665
00:34:07,320 --> 00:34:11,120
Speaker 1: Plant, mate, sounds pretty good. Then Saturday, just want to

666
00:34:11,200 --> 00:34:13,840
Speaker 1: chill by the pool all day, get our zen time

667
00:34:13,880 --> 00:34:16,879
Speaker 1: in and by the afternoon we want to attempt here's

668
00:34:16,880 --> 00:34:20,240
Speaker 1: where the kitchen comes in, Mate to bake her birthday cake. Ah,

669
00:34:20,400 --> 00:34:22,840
Speaker 1: I see, I see. I don't know how well it

670
00:34:22,840 --> 00:34:25,520
Speaker 1: will go, but to finish the night, obviously, we're going

671
00:34:25,560 --> 00:34:28,160
Speaker 1: to have a romantic dinner, but it does have to

672
00:34:28,160 --> 00:34:29,880
Speaker 1: be close by because I want to come back to

673
00:34:29,920 --> 00:34:31,480
Speaker 1: our airbnb and give.

674
00:34:31,320 --> 00:34:36,040
Speaker 3: Her her presents. Mate, it sounds like a pretty good plan. Oh,

675
00:34:36,120 --> 00:34:38,440
Speaker 3: you may have outdone me, but I don't know about that.

676
00:34:38,520 --> 00:34:41,880
Speaker 3: But yeah, hey, stop stressing. Airbnb has got you covered.

677
00:34:42,520 --> 00:34:45,320
Speaker 3: Hopefully neither of the girls are listening to this episode.

678
00:34:45,440 --> 00:34:48,640
Speaker 3: Fingers crossed, leave a message for your X. Let's see

679
00:34:48,680 --> 00:34:51,360
Speaker 3: if you get this. By the way, it's.

680
00:34:51,239 --> 00:34:54,600
Speaker 1: Not that common. It doesn't happen to every guy, and

681
00:34:54,680 --> 00:34:57,400
Speaker 1: it is a big deal. What's that from Addie?

682
00:34:58,040 --> 00:35:00,279
Speaker 2: It's from a movie, but he came before he it in.

683
00:35:00,760 --> 00:35:04,279
Speaker 1: It's Rachel Green from Friends. She's yelling it to as

684
00:35:04,320 --> 00:35:10,080
Speaker 1: they break up, but he walks out. That's a good scene.

685
00:35:10,239 --> 00:35:13,240
Speaker 1: Have you ever done it before? Having sex finish? Yeah?

686
00:35:13,440 --> 00:35:15,240
Speaker 4: No, I've always been able to get to the point,

687
00:35:15,640 --> 00:35:17,960
Speaker 4: but I actually think it would be I've had moments

688
00:35:18,000 --> 00:35:19,719
Speaker 4: where I think it would have been less embarrassing to

689
00:35:19,719 --> 00:35:21,640
Speaker 4: have finished before I put it in, because I may

690
00:35:21,640 --> 00:35:22,600
Speaker 4: as well not even start.

691
00:35:22,880 --> 00:35:24,719
Speaker 1: I'll tell you what men think. So the finish line

692
00:35:24,719 --> 00:35:29,320
Speaker 1: for men is getting it in yeah, where we technically

693
00:35:29,400 --> 00:35:33,760
Speaker 1: had sex, where the finish line should be making them finish.

694
00:35:33,800 --> 00:35:43,319
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, yes, we completed sex. I think I

695
00:35:43,480 --> 00:35:47,640
Speaker 1: have a theory that a lot of men of vanilla

696
00:35:47,960 --> 00:35:52,080
Speaker 1: purely for the fact that anything more than vanilla would

697
00:35:52,120 --> 00:35:53,319
Speaker 1: make it so we don't last long.

698
00:35:53,400 --> 00:35:55,239
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

699
00:35:56,120 --> 00:35:58,799
Speaker 1: I think that so being vanilla is kind of a

700
00:36:00,120 --> 00:36:05,000
Speaker 1: gapegoat for actually being able to at least give some pleasure. Yeah, oh,

701
00:36:05,080 --> 00:36:06,520
Speaker 1: I say, I say your point, like, if we move

702
00:36:06,560 --> 00:36:08,520
Speaker 1: too much, like I'm going to finish yeah, and if

703
00:36:09,120 --> 00:36:11,279
Speaker 1: I don't know, if we get too into it, you know,

704
00:36:11,520 --> 00:36:15,560
Speaker 1: if you obviously love a bit of lingerie, you know

705
00:36:15,800 --> 00:36:18,000
Speaker 1: I love a good build up, all right, too much

706
00:36:18,000 --> 00:36:20,960
Speaker 1: build up, So too much build up is maybe doing

707
00:36:20,960 --> 00:36:23,160
Speaker 1: too much because you're not going to get anything, and

708
00:36:23,160 --> 00:36:24,000
Speaker 1: I'm going to get everything.

709
00:36:24,040 --> 00:36:26,480
Speaker 2: I don't think I could see lingerie like.

710
00:36:26,440 --> 00:36:28,759
Speaker 1: A sexy little dance. It sucks, and then I would

711
00:36:28,760 --> 00:36:33,080
Speaker 1: be like yeah, yeah, I mean like looking up, like,

712
00:36:34,160 --> 00:36:40,320
Speaker 1: think about my grandma. Yeah, all right, this one's funny.

713
00:36:40,719 --> 00:36:43,600
Speaker 2: Leave a message for your X. You're the reason catch

714
00:36:43,640 --> 00:36:44,720
Speaker 2: and release was enforced.

715
00:36:51,400 --> 00:36:54,480
Speaker 1: That's a good one. Wow, get out of you. You're

716
00:36:54,480 --> 00:37:02,200
Speaker 1: too small. That is fucked bro. So that's so intricate. Yeah,

717
00:37:02,200 --> 00:37:06,640
Speaker 1: it's good. That one was good intricate. Leave a message

718
00:37:06,760 --> 00:37:10,560
Speaker 1: for your ex. Man, this would fuck me up. Your

719
00:37:10,640 --> 00:37:15,880
Speaker 1: large nipples really turned me off. That would fuck I

720
00:37:15,920 --> 00:37:20,279
Speaker 1: think that one's too personal. Yeah, not everyone has like yeah,

721
00:37:20,360 --> 00:37:22,480
Speaker 1: well I think also not that way. I think it's

722
00:37:22,520 --> 00:37:25,680
Speaker 1: like too mean. Yeah, he's probably insecure about his pepperoni

723
00:37:26,320 --> 00:37:29,680
Speaker 1: fair but hey, pettiness again. Yeah, we're going to attack

724
00:37:29,719 --> 00:37:32,520
Speaker 1: in security. If that's the only way to get to

725
00:37:32,560 --> 00:37:35,120
Speaker 1: someone attacking their insecurities must be it might be the

726
00:37:35,120 --> 00:37:35,480
Speaker 1: way to go.

727
00:37:35,880 --> 00:37:40,120
Speaker 2: Leave a message for your ex going off pettiness. My

728
00:37:40,239 --> 00:37:41,480
Speaker 2: new boyfriend's dick is bigger.

729
00:37:43,840 --> 00:37:47,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, I can't say that to someone also as the

730
00:37:47,239 --> 00:37:48,799
Speaker 1: new boyfriend. If I knew you were saying that to

731
00:37:48,840 --> 00:37:51,400
Speaker 1: your X. Yeah, I feel as though you're not over him.

732
00:37:52,160 --> 00:37:55,000
Speaker 1: Why do we need to get he still is living

733
00:37:55,000 --> 00:37:57,040
Speaker 1: in your head? Rent free, don't make me complicated that

734
00:37:57,080 --> 00:37:59,320
Speaker 1: we're not talking about the present boyfriend, we're being toxic

735
00:37:59,360 --> 00:38:02,160
Speaker 1: to the X. I also couldn't hear said thing, but

736
00:38:02,200 --> 00:38:05,720
Speaker 1: also like, yeah, facts, no, no, no, he's actually something.

737
00:38:06,400 --> 00:38:09,200
Speaker 1: I think I would prefer the new boyfriend to have

738
00:38:09,239 --> 00:38:13,279
Speaker 1: a bigger dick than me than a past boyfriend having

739
00:38:13,280 --> 00:38:15,879
Speaker 1: a bigger dick than me. True because at the time

740
00:38:15,920 --> 00:38:20,120
Speaker 1: she thought it was good. Yeah. Yeah, if you're if

741
00:38:20,120 --> 00:38:22,960
Speaker 1: I knew that my girlfriend's past boyfriends had a big

742
00:38:23,000 --> 00:38:24,760
Speaker 1: dick than me, I think I would feel more insecure

743
00:38:24,840 --> 00:38:26,799
Speaker 1: than knowing she moved on to a bigger one man.

744
00:38:26,840 --> 00:38:30,760
Speaker 1: No insecure people, Yeah, we really are very insecure people,

745
00:38:31,719 --> 00:38:35,279
Speaker 1: especially about that what happened. Why didn't they give us

746
00:38:35,320 --> 00:38:38,200
Speaker 1: all the same size? Yeah? If God existed, he would

747
00:38:38,200 --> 00:38:42,000
Speaker 1: have created a quality. Yeah yeah, yeah in every aspect.

748
00:38:42,360 --> 00:38:44,400
Speaker 1: I also will add in every single you know what

749
00:38:44,400 --> 00:38:47,680
Speaker 1: I would say if I was the boyfriend, prove it? Yeah,

750
00:38:47,719 --> 00:38:49,920
Speaker 1: you know what, fuck it, prove it, I want to say.

751
00:38:49,920 --> 00:38:52,319
Speaker 1: I want to see yeah the judge, Yeah, I want

752
00:38:52,360 --> 00:38:54,560
Speaker 1: to see it in my own eyes. Yeah, mine's grown.

753
00:38:54,640 --> 00:38:58,520
Speaker 1: I don't even know those two would end up having

754
00:38:58,560 --> 00:39:02,040
Speaker 1: sex because she's not over him. Yeah yeah, yeah, that

755
00:39:02,120 --> 00:39:04,200
Speaker 1: is so true. Then you're like, it looks like it

756
00:39:04,280 --> 00:39:09,719
Speaker 1: hurts you have some gentle leave a message for your X.

757
00:39:10,280 --> 00:39:13,680
Speaker 1: Sure block me with the same fingers. They couldn't make

758
00:39:13,719 --> 00:39:24,360
Speaker 1: me finish. I'd be like, you, curse you, curse you,

759
00:39:24,520 --> 00:39:28,000
Speaker 1: curse you. It's probably the all guys some reason have

760
00:39:28,040 --> 00:39:29,680
Speaker 1: this lock pinky. Why do you guys get that? Have

761
00:39:29,719 --> 00:39:32,440
Speaker 1: you seen that? Hips of our friends haven't? Yeah? What

762
00:39:33,400 --> 00:39:35,360
Speaker 1: imagine me a girl and you see your boyfriend this

763
00:39:35,560 --> 00:39:38,840
Speaker 1: locked lock like he's maybe he's good for the clip,

764
00:39:39,880 --> 00:39:44,160
Speaker 1: but who's doing like that? Every guy has this weird

765
00:39:44,200 --> 00:39:46,400
Speaker 1: locked pinky. I know a few people I normally like.

766
00:39:46,440 --> 00:39:48,000
Speaker 1: I see it on like grandparents. And you're like, well,

767
00:39:48,120 --> 00:39:51,160
Speaker 1: that's fair if you meet it. If if you meet

768
00:39:51,160 --> 00:39:54,480
Speaker 1: a dude and he can't open all of his fingers fully, yeah,

769
00:39:54,520 --> 00:40:00,480
Speaker 1: I think you should run. Leave a message for your X.

770
00:40:00,840 --> 00:40:02,640
Speaker 2: I was tired of being the only one to finish,

771
00:40:02,800 --> 00:40:04,120
Speaker 2: so I finished our relationship.

772
00:40:04,680 --> 00:40:08,120
Speaker 1: Facts facts, bro, leave a message for your X. Your

773
00:40:08,200 --> 00:40:11,279
Speaker 1: huge dick is wasted on you. Oh, to be fair like,

774
00:40:11,320 --> 00:40:18,560
Speaker 1: I take that as a compliment. To be fair like,

775
00:40:18,600 --> 00:40:20,239
Speaker 1: that's quite a nice thing to hear. You'd be like,

776
00:40:20,680 --> 00:40:22,759
Speaker 1: I've got one and be like, I know I may

777
00:40:22,800 --> 00:40:24,319
Speaker 1: not know how to use it. I would be like,

778
00:40:24,520 --> 00:40:27,640
Speaker 1: you try to use this thing. Yeah, I need a

779
00:40:27,680 --> 00:40:31,600
Speaker 1: license to this. You try to use this thing. Not

780
00:40:31,640 --> 00:40:32,839
Speaker 1: many people catch and release this.

781
00:40:32,800 --> 00:40:35,279
Speaker 2: Bad Yeah all right, my last one.

782
00:40:35,680 --> 00:40:38,480
Speaker 1: Leave a message for your ex. Glad you dumped me.

783
00:40:38,480 --> 00:40:40,399
Speaker 2: Because turns out I was someone's dream girl.

784
00:40:41,320 --> 00:40:43,560
Speaker 1: That's a good one. Yeah, that's a really good one,

785
00:40:43,680 --> 00:40:46,800
Speaker 1: which you are learning your worth. Yeah, leave a message

786
00:40:46,800 --> 00:40:51,000
Speaker 1: for your X. If only your dick was as big

787
00:40:51,160 --> 00:40:53,919
Speaker 1: as the dick you are, maybe it would have given

788
00:40:53,960 --> 00:40:58,120
Speaker 1: me a reason to stay. Girls know how to hit

789
00:40:58,120 --> 00:41:01,960
Speaker 1: a guy where it hurts. Yeah, right in between his

790
00:41:02,080 --> 00:41:05,120
Speaker 1: legs most both physically and mentally. Both gayers don't know

791
00:41:05,120 --> 00:41:07,160
Speaker 1: how to talk about their feelings. You don't hit them there.

792
00:41:07,200 --> 00:41:09,040
Speaker 1: You hit him where it hurts, which is then Willie.

793
00:41:09,520 --> 00:41:12,920
Speaker 1: You could say anything about a guy's intellect, about his

794
00:41:13,200 --> 00:41:18,360
Speaker 1: h his mental strength is emotional intelligence. Emotional intelligence. You

795
00:41:18,400 --> 00:41:20,560
Speaker 1: could say anything about the size of his hands, the

796
00:41:20,560 --> 00:41:22,799
Speaker 1: side of his feet. You can even say stuff about

797
00:41:22,800 --> 00:41:24,839
Speaker 1: his height. Height is a good one. I will say

798
00:41:24,840 --> 00:41:27,440
Speaker 1: it's very second to the size of penis. All you

799
00:41:27,560 --> 00:41:31,520
Speaker 1: need to do is say, babes, I' just gonna let

800
00:41:31,520 --> 00:41:34,000
Speaker 1: you know that ship has lying to you for a while.

801
00:41:34,120 --> 00:41:37,560
Speaker 1: That shit is small. If I got like cheated on,

802
00:41:37,600 --> 00:41:39,560
Speaker 1: I actually like didn't end on good terms. I hold

803
00:41:39,600 --> 00:41:41,719
Speaker 1: one hundred percent begone that petty Yeah, even if his

804
00:41:41,800 --> 00:41:43,959
Speaker 1: dick is me and I'd have receipts from like Google

805
00:41:43,960 --> 00:41:47,320
Speaker 1: image is saying this is my new vie. We don't

806
00:41:47,360 --> 00:41:51,960
Speaker 1: have anything. No, we don't have anything nothing. It's fucking bullshit.

807
00:41:55,640 --> 00:41:58,440
Speaker 1: I got one more. Leave a message for your X.

808
00:41:59,080 --> 00:42:03,400
Speaker 1: When you said quote that kiss felt good on my lips,

809
00:42:04,280 --> 00:42:08,080
Speaker 1: all my lips dried up. Oh I reckon.

810
00:42:08,120 --> 00:42:09,960
Speaker 2: How many guys do you think have said like a

811
00:42:10,000 --> 00:42:12,080
Speaker 2: one liner, like a cringy one liner. And because the

812
00:42:12,120 --> 00:42:14,440
Speaker 2: girl liked the dude, she's like yeah, but in reality

813
00:42:14,480 --> 00:42:15,799
Speaker 2: she's like, oh my god, that made me dry.

814
00:42:15,960 --> 00:42:16,160
Speaker 4: See.

815
00:42:16,239 --> 00:42:18,759
Speaker 1: But that's how it is. That's that's exactly how it works.

816
00:42:18,800 --> 00:42:20,160
Speaker 1: A guy that you do want to talk to you,

817
00:42:20,360 --> 00:42:22,160
Speaker 1: he could say anything. Yeah, I saw a lot of things.

818
00:42:22,560 --> 00:42:24,400
Speaker 1: I saw a lot of things with like cactus emojis,

819
00:42:24,440 --> 00:42:31,359
Speaker 1: like he made me this dry. Like that's a sign.

820
00:42:31,400 --> 00:42:33,600
Speaker 2: Go leave a voicemail for your extor Christ Yeah, do.

821
00:42:33,560 --> 00:42:44,360
Speaker 1: It, Okay, dilemmas, guys, you know what to do. Dilemmas

822
00:42:44,360 --> 00:42:48,320
Speaker 1: will be in this description of this episode, yes I

823
00:42:48,600 --> 00:42:52,400
Speaker 1: say video episode, and also it will be in the

824
00:42:52,440 --> 00:42:56,520
Speaker 1: description of Instagram it is let's go okay, Hey boys,

825
00:42:56,760 --> 00:42:59,200
Speaker 1: love the pod. You guys got me through my first

826
00:42:59,200 --> 00:43:02,600
Speaker 1: breakup and I've been a Patreon baddie ever since. She

827
00:43:02,680 --> 00:43:05,520
Speaker 1: sent this on the normal dilemmas too, so I've been

828
00:43:05,520 --> 00:43:08,279
Speaker 1: with my current boyfriend for only two months now, so

829
00:43:08,400 --> 00:43:11,640
Speaker 1: still very fresh. He is twenty one and I am nineteen.

830
00:43:12,200 --> 00:43:14,800
Speaker 1: We stayed each other's places frequently, and as he is

831
00:43:14,840 --> 00:43:17,319
Speaker 1: a trade he always leaves for work earlier than I do.

832
00:43:17,880 --> 00:43:21,239
Speaker 1: One morning, one morning, I was looking for some painkillers

833
00:43:21,239 --> 00:43:23,799
Speaker 1: in the top drawer of his bedside table after he'd

834
00:43:23,880 --> 00:43:26,960
Speaker 1: left for work, and I saw a few photo strips

835
00:43:26,960 --> 00:43:30,319
Speaker 1: from a photo booth of him kissing a girl. The

836
00:43:30,320 --> 00:43:33,120
Speaker 1: photo strips were dated to have been taken in twenty

837
00:43:33,160 --> 00:43:36,400
Speaker 1: twenty two at a school function. I have felt a

838
00:43:36,400 --> 00:43:39,680
Speaker 1: little uneasy since I saw them. So my dilemma is

839
00:43:39,840 --> 00:43:41,680
Speaker 1: should I bring it up with him or just not

840
00:43:41,880 --> 00:43:45,799
Speaker 1: mention anything since the relationship is new, I'm just not

841
00:43:45,800 --> 00:43:48,279
Speaker 1: sure how to approach my feelings about it. What do

842
00:43:48,320 --> 00:43:51,120
Speaker 1: you guys think from a man's perspective, is it common

843
00:43:51,440 --> 00:43:54,960
Speaker 1: for a guy to keep photos from past relationships. He

844
00:43:55,040 --> 00:43:57,560
Speaker 1: is genuinely the most green flag man I have ever met,

845
00:43:57,680 --> 00:43:59,600
Speaker 1: and I don't want to mess it up. If this

846
00:43:59,719 --> 00:44:01,759
Speaker 1: is a an issue, please help me girl out much

847
00:44:01,760 --> 00:44:03,520
Speaker 1: love from across the ditch.

848
00:44:04,160 --> 00:44:06,560
Speaker 2: Let's start at the end there. They've been talking for well,

849
00:44:06,560 --> 00:44:08,080
Speaker 2: they're in a relationship now for two months.

850
00:44:08,239 --> 00:44:11,040
Speaker 1: Two months. I think that's long enough to get rid

851
00:44:11,040 --> 00:44:14,160
Speaker 1: of said photos. Yeah. Once I start talking to someone

852
00:44:14,160 --> 00:44:16,200
Speaker 1: and if I had photos from a previous relationship, I'm like,

853
00:44:16,360 --> 00:44:19,120
Speaker 1: see ya, yeah, Ben, Like I don't want to look

854
00:44:19,160 --> 00:44:23,480
Speaker 1: at him. Yeah. Some people funny about photos. Some people

855
00:44:23,520 --> 00:44:27,400
Speaker 1: think it's a part of my life that you know,

856
00:44:27,520 --> 00:44:29,640
Speaker 1: I don't want to forget because it was part of

857
00:44:29,680 --> 00:44:30,280
Speaker 1: my life.

858
00:44:31,000 --> 00:44:33,160
Speaker 2: I think, out of respect throng away. But I think

859
00:44:33,200 --> 00:44:36,520
Speaker 2: what has happened here is because it is somewhat still fresh. Yeah,

860
00:44:36,520 --> 00:44:38,440
Speaker 2: he doesn't know they're there, because.

861
00:44:38,120 --> 00:44:43,400
Speaker 1: To be fair, from my own experience, I have probably

862
00:44:43,440 --> 00:44:45,479
Speaker 1: gone six months without opening my bedside table.

863
00:44:45,520 --> 00:44:47,160
Speaker 2: D Yeah, the bedside table there is normally a card

864
00:44:47,160 --> 00:44:48,360
Speaker 2: and I was like, oh, I fuck forgot about that.

865
00:44:48,560 --> 00:44:51,560
Speaker 1: Yeah for that away. Yeah, I could go six months.

866
00:44:51,600 --> 00:44:55,360
Speaker 1: I could go a year without opening it. Yeah. Yeah,

867
00:44:55,400 --> 00:44:58,239
Speaker 1: so there's a good chance he does forget that it's

868
00:44:58,280 --> 00:45:01,840
Speaker 1: in there. Yeah, unless you know for a fact he

869
00:45:01,960 --> 00:45:04,360
Speaker 1: opens that shit daily or weekly, or if it's like

870
00:45:04,400 --> 00:45:07,000
Speaker 1: it's monthly toothbrustdraw or something. Yeah, it sounds like it's

871
00:45:07,000 --> 00:45:10,840
Speaker 1: his little medicine draw. But again I have I have

872
00:45:10,960 --> 00:45:13,080
Speaker 1: pandole in places where I know it is, but I

873
00:45:13,080 --> 00:45:15,080
Speaker 1: always go to the main medicine cabinet. Still, so I

874
00:45:15,120 --> 00:45:16,680
Speaker 1: don't know. So unless you know for a fact he

875
00:45:16,719 --> 00:45:20,239
Speaker 1: always opens this thing, I think bring it up with him.

876
00:45:20,360 --> 00:45:21,759
Speaker 1: I think you have complete right to bring it up

877
00:45:21,760 --> 00:45:23,719
Speaker 1: with you, one hundred percent honest. Yeah, and just say

878
00:45:23,760 --> 00:45:26,319
Speaker 1: what you were doing, how you found it. You have

879
00:45:26,360 --> 00:45:30,360
Speaker 1: no reason to lie, and just let him know you

880
00:45:30,520 --> 00:45:33,839
Speaker 1: found it. And I don't straight away do you think

881
00:45:33,880 --> 00:45:38,080
Speaker 1: say it just made me feel a little I would say,

882
00:45:38,080 --> 00:45:40,480
Speaker 1: like initially my heart like sunk a little bit, but like,

883
00:45:41,120 --> 00:45:43,279
Speaker 1: do you have any explanation for it? Yeah, And he

884
00:45:43,360 --> 00:45:44,960
Speaker 1: might he might say fuck, I forgot about that, and

885
00:45:45,000 --> 00:45:46,480
Speaker 1: he might throw it out in front of you. It's

886
00:45:46,480 --> 00:45:48,440
Speaker 1: good you'll see the like facial expression and be like,

887
00:45:48,440 --> 00:45:50,279
Speaker 1: oh my god, I'm so sorry. Yeah, we didn't even

888
00:45:50,320 --> 00:45:52,680
Speaker 1: like he probably embarrassed or he'll be like you'll see

889
00:45:52,680 --> 00:45:54,239
Speaker 1: it in his facial expression and be like, oh shit,

890
00:45:54,320 --> 00:45:57,480
Speaker 1: she found me, she found out my secret. So it's

891
00:45:57,520 --> 00:45:58,879
Speaker 1: all yeah, I think you got bring it up. Yeah,

892
00:45:58,880 --> 00:46:00,759
Speaker 1: bring it up one hundred percent, and you don't don't

893
00:46:00,840 --> 00:46:02,880
Speaker 1: dwell on it and like just let your head spiral

894
00:46:02,880 --> 00:46:05,959
Speaker 1: because you're like, like, get the answers you need better

895
00:46:06,000 --> 00:46:08,719
Speaker 1: two months in than two years. In two years, I

896
00:46:08,719 --> 00:46:10,359
Speaker 1: think there'll be an issue. I reckon there's a good

897
00:46:10,440 --> 00:46:12,359
Speaker 1: like you should open that draw within two years. Yeah,

898
00:46:13,000 --> 00:46:15,520
Speaker 1: about once a year that draws. Yeah, yeah, at least

899
00:46:16,080 --> 00:46:22,160
Speaker 1: I think. I think I'm pretty confident that it's fully

900
00:46:22,200 --> 00:46:25,120
Speaker 1: fine and he is going to especially if he's giving

901
00:46:25,160 --> 00:46:29,480
Speaker 1: you green flag flag energy. Most green flag mender wouldn't

902
00:46:29,480 --> 00:46:32,560
Speaker 1: know it's that. Yeah, I think. Yeah, I think he's

903
00:46:32,560 --> 00:46:34,600
Speaker 1: going to say ship, I'm so sorry and chuck it

904
00:46:34,600 --> 00:46:37,000
Speaker 1: out straight away. Forgot I had that. I agree, I

905
00:46:37,000 --> 00:46:42,319
Speaker 1: have it over my drawer for six months. What do

906
00:46:42,320 --> 00:46:45,799
Speaker 1: you mean, benside Tims, I don't even know what that

907
00:46:45,800 --> 00:46:54,600
Speaker 1: would sound like. Alrighty my dilemma. Hi boys, I'm a

908
00:46:54,640 --> 00:46:56,879
Speaker 1: new listener from the UK and love the Binge all

909
00:46:56,920 --> 00:46:58,920
Speaker 1: your old episodes at work, I just sit at my

910
00:46:59,000 --> 00:47:02,640
Speaker 1: desk laughing to my haha. My dilemma is.

911
00:47:02,560 --> 00:47:04,600
Speaker 2: Probably a bit trivial to some people, and you might

912
00:47:04,680 --> 00:47:07,440
Speaker 2: be thinking how silly it sounds, but I really like

913
00:47:07,520 --> 00:47:11,640
Speaker 2: some advice from a male's perspective. So for background purposes,

914
00:47:11,760 --> 00:47:14,520
Speaker 2: I am a twenty five year old girl and recently

915
00:47:14,640 --> 00:47:18,600
Speaker 2: single following a breakup from a very very serious relationship

916
00:47:18,880 --> 00:47:22,520
Speaker 2: in Brackets. We actually split while traveling Australia together.

917
00:47:22,440 --> 00:47:26,799
Speaker 1: Low and Brackets. I've moved back to the UK and

918
00:47:26,880 --> 00:47:28,799
Speaker 1: taken some time to be on my own, which I

919
00:47:28,840 --> 00:47:32,120
Speaker 1: think is super important following a breakup. I also love

920
00:47:32,160 --> 00:47:35,360
Speaker 1: my own company, which is a big deal for me.

921
00:47:36,400 --> 00:47:41,759
Speaker 1: My problem is that I can't avoid male attention. I

922
00:47:41,800 --> 00:47:44,680
Speaker 1: know it sounds like a narcissist, but it genuinely bothers me.

923
00:47:44,920 --> 00:47:47,240
Speaker 1: I find that in a lot of environments I spend

924
00:47:47,280 --> 00:47:51,799
Speaker 1: my time in, particularly the gym, men tend to befriend

925
00:47:51,920 --> 00:47:54,359
Speaker 1: me and they don't really leave me alone. I think

926
00:47:54,400 --> 00:47:57,799
Speaker 1: the problem is I'm not a super dismissive person just

927
00:47:57,800 --> 00:48:00,520
Speaker 1: because it's my nature, but the men mistake this for

928
00:48:00,600 --> 00:48:03,759
Speaker 1: flirting or wanting to build a relationship with me. It

929
00:48:03,840 --> 00:48:07,319
Speaker 1: happens several It has happened several times now, even to

930
00:48:07,360 --> 00:48:10,200
Speaker 1: the point where they keep asking to do things outside

931
00:48:10,200 --> 00:48:13,240
Speaker 1: the said place where we met, which can be really,

932
00:48:13,320 --> 00:48:15,279
Speaker 1: really awkward when I don't want to.

933
00:48:15,760 --> 00:48:18,439
Speaker 2: Like I said, I really enjoy being on my own

934
00:48:18,840 --> 00:48:21,240
Speaker 2: and want to take this time to be by myself.

935
00:48:21,520 --> 00:48:24,040
Speaker 2: I don't feel the need to rely on male validation,

936
00:48:24,320 --> 00:48:26,960
Speaker 2: and I only want to spend time with people who

937
00:48:27,000 --> 00:48:29,960
Speaker 2: don't have an ulterior motive with me. And it feels

938
00:48:30,040 --> 00:48:33,719
Speaker 2: like these guys only want one thing. I've told them all.

939
00:48:33,840 --> 00:48:36,200
Speaker 2: I've recently come out of relationship and don't want anything

940
00:48:36,239 --> 00:48:39,040
Speaker 2: like that, but men do not take no for an answer.

941
00:48:39,160 --> 00:48:40,840
Speaker 2: My ex used to tell me that I could be

942
00:48:41,040 --> 00:48:43,920
Speaker 2: overly friendly with men when I laugh at their jokes.

943
00:48:44,120 --> 00:48:46,680
Speaker 2: It could make them feel good, but it doesn't mean

944
00:48:46,719 --> 00:48:48,879
Speaker 2: I'm interested in them. To me, I just think I'm

945
00:48:48,960 --> 00:48:51,239
Speaker 2: being polite and would react the same way if a

946
00:48:51,239 --> 00:48:54,320
Speaker 2: female was making a joke. So how do I avoid

947
00:48:54,360 --> 00:48:57,920
Speaker 2: these situations and make men understand I don't want anything

948
00:48:58,000 --> 00:49:01,200
Speaker 2: to do with them without sounding rude, because, let's face it,

949
00:49:01,360 --> 00:49:05,200
Speaker 2: men can be scary when you reject them. Facts also

950
00:49:05,360 --> 00:49:07,160
Speaker 2: just wanted to say you guys have changed my perspective

951
00:49:07,160 --> 00:49:09,440
Speaker 2: on men in society today, and I really appreciate your

952
00:49:09,480 --> 00:49:13,920
Speaker 2: emotional maturity, communion, communication skills, and ability to understand women.

953
00:49:13,960 --> 00:49:16,839
Speaker 2: Thank you for sharing this so other men can hear

954
00:49:16,880 --> 00:49:18,759
Speaker 2: how you guys think. Sorry, by the way, it was

955
00:49:18,800 --> 00:49:19,239
Speaker 2: really long.

956
00:49:20,120 --> 00:49:25,839
Speaker 1: Thanks girl. Damn, I don't think it's narcissistic. Narcissistic. Well,

957
00:49:25,960 --> 00:49:27,799
Speaker 1: just she's saying narcissist at the start that it might

958
00:49:27,800 --> 00:49:31,720
Speaker 1: sound narcissistic. No, it's it's not narcissistic if it's happening

959
00:49:31,760 --> 00:49:34,840
Speaker 1: to you. Yeah, not at all. It's just it's just

960
00:49:35,000 --> 00:49:37,040
Speaker 1: she's like, it kind of comes across as like I'm

961
00:49:37,040 --> 00:49:39,840
Speaker 1: so hot. It's just for some reason, it's so frowned

962
00:49:39,920 --> 00:49:44,960
Speaker 1: upon to tell too, to admit that you're attractive. Yeah. Yeah,

963
00:49:44,960 --> 00:49:47,279
Speaker 1: I don't know why. Hundred percent. For some reason it

964
00:49:47,360 --> 00:49:52,480
Speaker 1: is some people. You if someone was to say, I know,

965
00:49:52,560 --> 00:49:57,200
Speaker 1: I'm hot, people would be like, narcissist. Don't want that

966
00:49:57,200 --> 00:50:00,400
Speaker 1: person in my life. Your Yeah, you're fulliest elf. No

967
00:50:00,400 --> 00:50:03,200
Speaker 1: one's allowed to have self efficacy anymore. No, not at all.

968
00:50:03,280 --> 00:50:03,840
Speaker 1: It's weird.

969
00:50:04,320 --> 00:50:07,319
Speaker 2: It's such a valid problem because it's happening to you.

970
00:50:07,360 --> 00:50:09,440
Speaker 1: So yeah, I think because of the proof of it happening.

971
00:50:09,960 --> 00:50:11,719
Speaker 1: You're not. You didn't say word for word, I'm super

972
00:50:11,719 --> 00:50:13,480
Speaker 1: hot and I can't get rid of get rid of guys.

973
00:50:13,480 --> 00:50:16,400
Speaker 1: You would just strap said because I cannot avoid male attention.

974
00:50:16,760 --> 00:50:21,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, and fuck, it must be so difficult, Like women

975
00:50:21,400 --> 00:50:24,000
Speaker 2: live in completely different worlds, especially in these scenarios. Like

976
00:50:24,000 --> 00:50:26,440
Speaker 2: I'm trying to relate to her, like in my head

977
00:50:26,440 --> 00:50:27,640
Speaker 2: when I was reading it, I'm like going to the

978
00:50:27,680 --> 00:50:31,760
Speaker 2: gym and imagining said scenario, and it must be very difficult.

979
00:50:31,800 --> 00:50:34,120
Speaker 2: Like imagine if you just want to work out and

980
00:50:34,400 --> 00:50:36,880
Speaker 2: some guy just keeps going like like, hey, how you

981
00:50:36,920 --> 00:50:38,560
Speaker 2: being like, oh, you want to come hang out after

982
00:50:38,760 --> 00:50:40,839
Speaker 2: like and then making probably some snide remarks of how

983
00:50:40,840 --> 00:50:43,879
Speaker 2: good you're looking and stuff like that, probably and you're like, mate,

984
00:50:43,920 --> 00:50:46,960
Speaker 2: I can read between the lines. It must be just very,

985
00:50:47,120 --> 00:50:49,560
Speaker 2: very difficult. So I do feel for you in that.

986
00:50:49,560 --> 00:50:51,400
Speaker 1: Aspect of it. No, it would be something, but I

987
00:50:51,440 --> 00:50:54,520
Speaker 1: reckon we can help it. It's sort of like not

988
00:50:54,600 --> 00:50:56,640
Speaker 1: humbling a man. But how do we reject a guy

989
00:50:57,320 --> 00:51:00,840
Speaker 1: without making the scenario scary for her? All like confronting?

990
00:51:02,920 --> 00:51:05,200
Speaker 1: I want to know where they get the fucking confidence

991
00:51:05,800 --> 00:51:08,360
Speaker 1: some at it? Well, this is out of Australia. This

992
00:51:08,360 --> 00:51:11,600
Speaker 1: wouldn't happen, No, rarely, but I'd be rare if it did.

993
00:51:11,719 --> 00:51:15,440
Speaker 1: Other countries. Guys are confident. Man Europe, Yeah shit, she

994
00:51:15,440 --> 00:51:16,160
Speaker 1: says from the UK.

995
00:51:16,280 --> 00:51:18,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, europe guys are just like because a lot of

996
00:51:18,360 --> 00:51:20,279
Speaker 2: Europeans come to Australia and they're like, guys, just don't

997
00:51:20,280 --> 00:51:20,719
Speaker 2: come up to you.

998
00:51:22,040 --> 00:51:25,919
Speaker 1: We've had a bunch of a bunch of dilemmas. Yeah

999
00:51:26,320 --> 00:51:30,359
Speaker 1: about that. So let's get in the mindset of this girl.

1000
00:51:30,440 --> 00:51:32,600
Speaker 2: So she's at the gym. You want to set obviously

1001
00:51:32,640 --> 00:51:35,040
Speaker 2: looking good, wants to be in it. I appreciate the

1002
00:51:35,080 --> 00:51:37,520
Speaker 2: independent gym time. You just want to listen to your beats,

1003
00:51:37,560 --> 00:51:40,000
Speaker 2: fucking dance, a little bit sing in your head, like

1004
00:51:40,160 --> 00:51:40,839
Speaker 2: do that vibe.

1005
00:51:40,880 --> 00:51:44,760
Speaker 1: And then there's just this big behemoth of a bloke. Okay,

1006
00:51:44,760 --> 00:51:47,720
Speaker 1: here's the thing. So she's she's obviously very friendly by nature.

1007
00:51:49,760 --> 00:51:57,000
Speaker 1: I think maybe that is what makes these dudes feel

1008
00:51:57,040 --> 00:52:00,279
Speaker 1: as though they do have a chance. Right. I'm not

1009
00:52:00,320 --> 00:52:03,040
Speaker 1: saying that that's right. You should be able to just

1010
00:52:03,040 --> 00:52:04,640
Speaker 1: be yourself and be able to tell people I'm not

1011
00:52:04,640 --> 00:52:06,600
Speaker 1: looking for anything and that they just accept that, right,

1012
00:52:08,440 --> 00:52:12,080
Speaker 1: But a little bit of rudeness.

1013
00:52:12,320 --> 00:52:15,520
Speaker 2: I was going to say, practice that resting bitch face.

1014
00:52:15,800 --> 00:52:20,279
Speaker 1: Yeah, you must be the friendliest looking person. Just looks

1015
00:52:20,280 --> 00:52:24,960
Speaker 1: so approachable. Yeah, how do because I've been told I'm

1016
00:52:25,000 --> 00:52:27,040
Speaker 1: not very I look like I'm angry all the time. Okay,

1017
00:52:27,120 --> 00:52:32,080
Speaker 1: let's just say you're her and you're working out, okay,

1018
00:52:32,200 --> 00:52:35,640
Speaker 1: and I'm a dude, and I'm feeling I really I

1019
00:52:35,680 --> 00:52:37,680
Speaker 1: want to approach you, okay, And so you're working out.

1020
00:52:37,680 --> 00:52:39,440
Speaker 1: Maybe I'm trying to catch you in between sets and

1021
00:52:39,480 --> 00:52:41,720
Speaker 1: kind of which is also gem Etticuett by the way,

1022
00:52:42,000 --> 00:52:44,600
Speaker 1: terrible on between sets. You're between sets and I'm going

1023
00:52:44,640 --> 00:52:46,359
Speaker 1: to come over, and what should I say? I want

1024
00:52:46,360 --> 00:52:50,200
Speaker 1: to say? So I think it's okay, O listen some

1025
00:52:50,200 --> 00:52:52,879
Speaker 1: beads and dancing, drinking some water. Who the fuck makes

1026
00:52:52,880 --> 00:52:55,160
Speaker 1: that much a noise in between sets? You're crazy person.

1027
00:52:55,280 --> 00:52:57,560
Speaker 1: I'm thinking for the listeners, the audio listeners, well, I

1028
00:52:57,719 --> 00:52:59,319
Speaker 1: kind of s okay city and normally, like an am,

1029
00:53:00,040 --> 00:53:03,560
Speaker 1: I'm just going to be silent. You know what, you

1030
00:53:03,560 --> 00:53:05,279
Speaker 1: wouldn't know if you just an audio listen, you would

1031
00:53:05,400 --> 00:53:08,239
Speaker 1: know I was working okay, fair well, they do, just

1032
00:53:08,320 --> 00:53:10,440
Speaker 1: we just told him that I didn't. I'm doing some cardio.

1033
00:53:13,000 --> 00:53:16,040
Speaker 1: I just finished on the stairs and I'm sweating. Okay, ready,

1034
00:53:16,800 --> 00:53:19,040
Speaker 1: here we go, here, here, here we go. You're drinking,

1035
00:53:20,520 --> 00:53:24,440
Speaker 1: I'm walking, Okay, come over. I was a bit of

1036
00:53:24,480 --> 00:53:28,520
Speaker 1: an intense stairs session. How was it? Oh? Yeah, hard?

1037
00:53:28,600 --> 00:53:31,359
Speaker 1: Stairs always is. Honestly, I hate it. Mate, couldn't catch

1038
00:53:31,360 --> 00:53:33,480
Speaker 1: me doing stairs longer than five minutes. Just a warm

1039
00:53:33,560 --> 00:53:38,400
Speaker 1: up for me. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Anyways, I'm off now anyway,

1040
00:53:41,520 --> 00:53:45,879
Speaker 1: have a good name. Sorry, my natural instinct that'd be fair.

1041
00:53:45,920 --> 00:53:47,360
Speaker 1: That's what she should do. That's what I do at

1042
00:53:47,360 --> 00:53:49,920
Speaker 1: the gym because like like that happens with like males,

1043
00:53:49,920 --> 00:53:51,839
Speaker 1: like my mates come up to me and they're like, oh,

1044
00:53:52,000 --> 00:53:53,600
Speaker 1: what are you hitting? I was like, this chance, anyway

1045
00:53:53,640 --> 00:53:56,680
Speaker 1: I've done Honestly, that's what she should do. Yeah, my

1046
00:53:56,800 --> 00:53:58,680
Speaker 1: natural instincts took over, were we'll go back to her.

1047
00:53:59,280 --> 00:54:01,240
Speaker 1: I've got to say. I think that's a good help. Okay,

1048
00:54:01,280 --> 00:54:03,839
Speaker 1: good you can shut shit down quick. Yeah, I gotta

1049
00:54:03,840 --> 00:54:05,560
Speaker 1: go anywhere I go. What happens if you don't have

1050
00:54:05,640 --> 00:54:08,400
Speaker 1: to go. That's at the end of a session mids okay,

1051
00:54:08,480 --> 00:54:10,880
Speaker 1: a midst mid session, okay, if you okay, here's the

1052
00:54:10,880 --> 00:54:13,920
Speaker 1: thing is, I don't actually know. Let's say same scenario

1053
00:54:13,960 --> 00:54:16,520
Speaker 1: and you said I, I'm off to finish my workout, right, yeah,

1054
00:54:16,520 --> 00:54:19,799
Speaker 1: and they go Okay, I don't know actually what to

1055
00:54:19,840 --> 00:54:22,640
Speaker 1: do next if he doesn't get that message true as

1056
00:54:22,640 --> 00:54:25,040
Speaker 1: a guy, like if you said oh, like, oh, you're

1057
00:54:25,040 --> 00:54:26,520
Speaker 1: looking good, and you're like, yeah, yeah, I've got to

1058
00:54:26,560 --> 00:54:27,040
Speaker 1: get back to it.

1059
00:54:27,200 --> 00:54:29,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, like gotta go on the rest of it.

1060
00:54:29,520 --> 00:54:32,920
Speaker 1: Because I could I myself the amount of courage that

1061
00:54:32,960 --> 00:54:34,760
Speaker 1: would have had to be built up to go say

1062
00:54:34,800 --> 00:54:37,120
Speaker 1: to someone, how was that stare session. I don't know

1063
00:54:37,120 --> 00:54:40,320
Speaker 1: if anyone would do that, by the way, but would

1064
00:54:40,320 --> 00:54:41,960
Speaker 1: make it so if you did say, oh, I'm off

1065
00:54:42,000 --> 00:54:43,759
Speaker 1: to finish my workout, I would never talk to you

1066
00:54:43,760 --> 00:54:47,000
Speaker 1: ever again. Yeah, hundred percent. So I think the takeaway

1067
00:54:47,000 --> 00:54:49,239
Speaker 1: from that is I don't think it's too confronting for

1068
00:54:49,280 --> 00:54:52,400
Speaker 1: you to reject him with saying things without open ended questions,

1069
00:54:52,640 --> 00:54:54,959
Speaker 1: so factual things where he can't ask any more question.

1070
00:54:55,080 --> 00:54:57,399
Speaker 1: Here's the thing, though, is the way that you did that, right,

1071
00:54:57,840 --> 00:54:59,799
Speaker 1: so you're let's say you were going home, I'm off

1072
00:54:59,840 --> 00:55:03,200
Speaker 1: to now yeah, is the might There's probably guys out

1073
00:55:03,200 --> 00:55:04,799
Speaker 1: there that aren't afraid to say, oh, you're a bit rude?

1074
00:55:04,800 --> 00:55:06,520
Speaker 1: Aren't you? Trying to get her to stay in the

1075
00:55:06,520 --> 00:55:09,520
Speaker 1: conversation and maybe apologize. Oh yeah, that'd say something, probably

1076
00:55:09,520 --> 00:55:12,160
Speaker 1: have this little game that's a bit short. Yeah, something short. No,

1077
00:55:12,200 --> 00:55:14,240
Speaker 1: you're a bit rude, aren't you? I think some dudes.

1078
00:55:14,280 --> 00:55:17,040
Speaker 1: And then she's going to say, either follow through with

1079
00:55:17,040 --> 00:55:19,279
Speaker 1: the rudeness and he'll take his loss, or it might

1080
00:55:19,320 --> 00:55:21,960
Speaker 1: be confronting for her because she's not actually a rude

1081
00:55:21,960 --> 00:55:25,000
Speaker 1: person and she's nice by nature and doesn't want to

1082
00:55:25,040 --> 00:55:26,840
Speaker 1: be thought of as rude. So then she does apologie

1083
00:55:26,840 --> 00:55:28,880
Speaker 1: and say, oh, sorry, I'm just I'm just tired. I

1084
00:55:28,880 --> 00:55:30,200
Speaker 1: didn't mean to be rude to you. So down the O.

1085
00:55:30,239 --> 00:55:32,600
Speaker 1: This guy's thinking hook line and sinker. I've got her.

1086
00:55:33,440 --> 00:55:36,239
Speaker 1: So what do you do? I actually don't know. So

1087
00:55:36,280 --> 00:55:39,360
Speaker 1: I was going to say what I initially did is

1088
00:55:39,560 --> 00:55:42,040
Speaker 1: a manageable step. But if this guy's pushing too much,

1089
00:55:42,080 --> 00:55:43,879
Speaker 1: I'm a little bit stumped, which a lot of guys

1090
00:55:43,880 --> 00:55:46,400
Speaker 1: would be, and that's when they become scary because like

1091
00:55:46,440 --> 00:55:48,920
Speaker 1: they can't take no for an answer. So I don't know,

1092
00:55:49,000 --> 00:55:49,400
Speaker 1: do you reckon?

1093
00:55:50,360 --> 00:55:52,799
Speaker 2: What's something that isn't confronted the public.

1094
00:55:52,480 --> 00:55:57,960
Speaker 1: Place could be okay to be rude. What do you

1095
00:55:57,960 --> 00:56:02,200
Speaker 1: reckon just saying I have a boyfriend? True?

1096
00:56:02,280 --> 00:56:04,000
Speaker 2: Like what I'm trying to think? What's not confronting for

1097
00:56:04,040 --> 00:56:06,799
Speaker 2: someone to say okay with the boyfriend thing too. It's

1098
00:56:06,840 --> 00:56:11,520
Speaker 2: good because if it's someone that you you know, you

1099
00:56:11,560 --> 00:56:13,839
Speaker 2: don't have to be rude. Then you can start off

1100
00:56:13,840 --> 00:56:17,319
Speaker 2: being yourself and being super polite. And then once they

1101
00:56:17,320 --> 00:56:19,200
Speaker 2: do say you know, oh how about maybe you let

1102
00:56:19,200 --> 00:56:19,919
Speaker 2: me take you out for a drink?

1103
00:56:19,920 --> 00:56:21,879
Speaker 1: And then you say I'm I have a boyfriend I've

1104
00:56:21,920 --> 00:56:25,040
Speaker 1: always actually wanted. You know how if someone says us

1105
00:56:25,040 --> 00:56:26,480
Speaker 1: for your number and you say, I'm sorry I have

1106
00:56:26,520 --> 00:56:28,919
Speaker 1: a girlfriend. Yeah, you're not supposed to say I'm sorry

1107
00:56:28,920 --> 00:56:31,399
Speaker 1: because I'm not sorry that I have a girlfriend. Yeah,

1108
00:56:31,880 --> 00:56:33,640
Speaker 1: so what do you say just I have a girlfriend?

1109
00:56:33,840 --> 00:56:35,480
Speaker 1: We're the same person. I've got this for the next

1110
00:56:35,480 --> 00:56:43,279
Speaker 1: stimulated episode. I thought, Shit, you're not meant to say

1111
00:56:43,280 --> 00:56:44,680
Speaker 1: I'm sorry just like I've got a girlfriend, I've got

1112
00:56:44,680 --> 00:56:47,000
Speaker 1: a boyfriend, because you don't need to be sorry. And

1113
00:56:47,040 --> 00:56:50,840
Speaker 1: then because again I'm actually I'm not sorry that I

1114
00:56:50,880 --> 00:56:54,399
Speaker 1: have a girlfriend. And I'm also, to be honest, I'm

1115
00:56:54,440 --> 00:56:56,439
Speaker 1: not sorry that you send me embarrass yourself I'm proud

1116
00:56:56,440 --> 00:56:57,919
Speaker 1: of you for working up the coach to come say something.

1117
00:56:58,000 --> 00:57:04,200
Speaker 1: You'd be like, I'm in a happy relationship. Yeah, sorry,

1118
00:57:04,280 --> 00:57:11,080
Speaker 1: you're not. No, just saying so, I think you're gotta

1119
00:57:11,080 --> 00:57:12,280
Speaker 1: stop pretending you have a boyfriend.

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00:57:12,280 --> 00:57:15,920
Speaker 2: Maybe so step step one is not open ended questions,

1121
00:57:16,040 --> 00:57:18,280
Speaker 2: so just being really blunt like, oh yeah, yeah, thanks,

1122
00:57:18,280 --> 00:57:19,440
Speaker 2: it was good work. I've got to go anywhere I

1123
00:57:19,480 --> 00:57:20,640
Speaker 2: got around all like, oh yeah, I've bout to do

1124
00:57:20,680 --> 00:57:21,919
Speaker 2: the rest of myself. I've got to get to work

1125
00:57:21,960 --> 00:57:24,240
Speaker 2: something like that. Yeah, which is still being polite, not

1126
00:57:24,280 --> 00:57:26,680
Speaker 2: that confronting, I hope. And then round two of his

1127
00:57:26,800 --> 00:57:30,560
Speaker 2: persistent just be like, I'm in a happy relationship, man,

1128
00:57:30,680 --> 00:57:32,440
Speaker 2: Just sorry, leave me alone.

1129
00:57:32,600 --> 00:57:33,920
Speaker 1: I mean, I think that's the best way to go.

1130
00:57:33,920 --> 00:57:35,480
Speaker 1: I can't say let me alone. That's confronting. But you're like,

1131
00:57:35,480 --> 00:57:39,400
Speaker 1: I've got a boyfriend. Yeah, yeah, I from what I

1132
00:57:39,480 --> 00:57:41,840
Speaker 1: can gather, I'll tell you out of my brain. Another

1133
00:57:41,960 --> 00:57:44,320
Speaker 1: another tip I use it like festivals of people I

1134
00:57:44,320 --> 00:57:46,400
Speaker 1: don't want to talk to, is I gotta go to toilet,

1135
00:57:47,840 --> 00:57:49,720
Speaker 1: Like it's just like if he comes over and he's

1136
00:57:49,760 --> 00:57:51,400
Speaker 1: just like asking questions, Oh, I just got to go

1137
00:57:51,480 --> 00:57:55,160
Speaker 1: to the bathroom. Sorry, and then that's that's an easy out,

1138
00:57:55,240 --> 00:57:56,720
Speaker 1: not a long term out, but I always use that

1139
00:57:56,760 --> 00:57:58,560
Speaker 1: one and then hopefully you don't run into him again.

1140
00:57:58,560 --> 00:57:59,720
Speaker 1: It's a bit different than the gym, but maybe a

1141
00:57:59,760 --> 00:58:02,640
Speaker 1: public exciting or anything like that, and practice the rest

1142
00:58:02,960 --> 00:58:04,919
Speaker 1: resting bitch face. That's a just go on. The resting

1143
00:58:04,960 --> 00:58:07,280
Speaker 1: bitch face is actual probably a great thing to have

1144
00:58:07,440 --> 00:58:08,720
Speaker 1: go in the mirror when you go to the gym, like,

1145
00:58:08,760 --> 00:58:10,080
Speaker 1: have some happy beats on them, and just in your

1146
00:58:10,080 --> 00:58:14,760
Speaker 1: head you just be like, what's some angry shit on? Yeah?

1147
00:58:14,840 --> 00:58:19,320
Speaker 2: I feel bad that, like in society that's become normalized

1148
00:58:19,320 --> 00:58:21,120
Speaker 2: for someone to be like not take.

1149
00:58:21,040 --> 00:58:23,600
Speaker 1: No for an answer. Yeah, Like, but I don't know

1150
00:58:23,600 --> 00:58:25,560
Speaker 1: why we were brought up differently, because if we, like

1151
00:58:25,760 --> 00:58:27,400
Speaker 1: ever had the courage not to come up with someone

1152
00:58:27,440 --> 00:58:28,640
Speaker 1: in person, but if like I don't know a DM,

1153
00:58:28,600 --> 00:58:30,800
Speaker 1: I someone and that didn't seem interested. But yeah, well

1154
00:58:30,800 --> 00:58:35,440
Speaker 1: I'm not welcome here. I'm gonna move on, dude. I

1155
00:58:35,520 --> 00:58:37,960
Speaker 1: just you know what's crazy is that it is just

1156
00:58:38,000 --> 00:58:42,280
Speaker 1: that simple. Yeah, But for some reason, it's not only

1157
00:58:42,360 --> 00:58:46,120
Speaker 1: no friends who were like persistent true guys think no

1158
00:58:46,240 --> 00:58:49,320
Speaker 1: means maybe where no means no. Yeah, no, facts couldn't

1159
00:58:49,320 --> 00:58:52,000
Speaker 1: agree more. Maybe really hope that you can maybe like

1160
00:58:52,080 --> 00:58:54,400
Speaker 1: that's this one's too confronting. But you could say, like,

1161
00:58:54,760 --> 00:58:58,400
Speaker 1: man like take no for an answer. True, that's too confronting,

1162
00:58:58,440 --> 00:59:00,960
Speaker 1: but that's like that's the thing is like confronting is

1163
00:59:01,840 --> 00:59:03,920
Speaker 1: sounds like the way to go. But it's hard to

1164
00:59:04,360 --> 00:59:07,200
Speaker 1: put myself in her shoes and actually think of saying

1165
00:59:07,320 --> 00:59:11,040
Speaker 1: that to a guy, because when I'm saying do the

1166
00:59:11,080 --> 00:59:14,520
Speaker 1: confronting thing, I'm thinking that they're saying it to me.

1167
00:59:15,120 --> 00:59:18,720
Speaker 1: If I've gone up to someone and they have been

1168
00:59:19,000 --> 00:59:21,480
Speaker 1: blunt with me and I've decided to try and keep

1169
00:59:21,480 --> 00:59:23,840
Speaker 1: it going, and then they say, dude, take no for

1170
00:59:23,880 --> 00:59:28,640
Speaker 1: an answer. Me, that would be one hundred percent last straw.

1171
00:59:28,680 --> 00:59:30,240
Speaker 1: That would be in sid. I wouldn't even let it

1172
00:59:30,280 --> 00:59:32,280
Speaker 1: get that far, you know what I mean. Logically it

1173
00:59:32,320 --> 00:59:35,160
Speaker 1: has to be yeah, straw. So I think it's hard

1174
00:59:35,200 --> 00:59:37,720
Speaker 1: for me to even, yeah, relate.

1175
00:59:38,200 --> 00:59:40,400
Speaker 2: You can't fathom someone not taking no for an.

1176
00:59:40,280 --> 00:59:41,920
Speaker 1: Answer, Yeah, because I don't know what I would do

1177
00:59:42,000 --> 00:59:44,280
Speaker 1: to persist. Yeah, it's sort of like not being able

1178
00:59:44,280 --> 00:59:46,400
Speaker 1: to read the room, Like how can you not understand

1179
00:59:46,440 --> 00:59:50,439
Speaker 1: she's uncomfortable? I just don't know I would have say, sorry,

1180
00:59:50,480 --> 00:59:51,760
Speaker 1: you have to deal with that, because I want to

1181
00:59:51,760 --> 00:59:54,120
Speaker 1: be with someone that wants to be with me. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

1182
00:59:54,120 --> 00:59:55,560
Speaker 1: I don't want to convince you to be with me.

1183
00:59:55,720 --> 00:59:57,680
Speaker 1: Yeah exactly. I don't want to Yeah, I don't want

1184
00:59:57,680 --> 01:00:01,720
Speaker 1: to swindle you. Yeah, yea, even though I don't know,

1185
01:00:01,920 --> 01:00:04,920
Speaker 1: I have no idea. I'm sorry. I think what we've

1186
01:00:04,960 --> 01:00:06,600
Speaker 1: said is probably about the best advice I could give.

1187
01:00:06,640 --> 01:00:08,240
Speaker 1: There was a couple of good tips in there. Wrestling

1188
01:00:08,280 --> 01:00:12,480
Speaker 1: bitch face. Really practice it. I have to say, like, like,

1189
01:00:13,120 --> 01:00:14,920
Speaker 1: not that I can relate to this problem at all,

1190
01:00:14,960 --> 01:00:17,200
Speaker 1: but I've been told I'm not very approachable because it

1191
01:00:17,200 --> 01:00:19,240
Speaker 1: looks like I'm angry all the time. So it does work.

1192
01:00:21,320 --> 01:00:23,600
Speaker 1: Like some people say, like like is Ali like does

1193
01:00:23,640 --> 01:00:26,000
Speaker 1: he like me? Like, oh yeah, stunt, but I just

1194
01:00:26,000 --> 01:00:31,640
Speaker 1: don't look like I'm so practice that it's a skill

1195
01:00:31,760 --> 01:00:34,000
Speaker 1: and I do it unconsciously, which is lucky. Yeah, some

1196
01:00:34,040 --> 01:00:35,640
Speaker 1: people maybe, yes, some people say I don't want a

1197
01:00:35,680 --> 01:00:37,960
Speaker 1: resting bitch face, but hey, grass is always greener.

1198
01:00:37,960 --> 01:00:46,880
Speaker 2: There's a time and a place and a place, all right, everybody,

1199
01:00:46,960 --> 01:00:50,240
Speaker 2: thank you very much for listening. Jake, were asking for

1200
01:00:50,240 --> 01:00:51,720
Speaker 2: some advice or to sign off the episode.

1201
01:00:52,160 --> 01:00:53,920
Speaker 1: Sign off the episode. You know what to do if

1202
01:00:53,960 --> 01:00:56,080
Speaker 1: you want to get joined in and sign off the episode.

1203
01:00:56,120 --> 01:00:57,880
Speaker 1: It is in the link of this video and also

1204
01:00:57,920 --> 01:01:01,080
Speaker 1: the link on Instagram at them and it says sign

1205
01:01:01,120 --> 01:01:06,040
Speaker 1: off episode with Jake's face. Actually, let's call Amy a.

1206
01:01:06,280 --> 01:01:07,720
Speaker 1: We also got a new phone so we can call

1207
01:01:07,760 --> 01:01:09,600
Speaker 1: the women actual number, so hopefully they pick up. That's

1208
01:01:09,600 --> 01:01:14,160
Speaker 1: not no caller idea. Hi, it's Aim speaking Hi Amy,

1209
01:01:14,200 --> 01:01:16,240
Speaker 1: It's Audi and Jake from the Relatables podcast. How are

1210
01:01:16,240 --> 01:01:19,439
Speaker 1: you going? Oh good? How are you? Yeah? Really good?

1211
01:01:19,560 --> 01:01:21,919
Speaker 1: What to say? Thank you for picking up?

1212
01:01:22,320 --> 01:01:25,400
Speaker 2: We would like to ask could you please sign off

1213
01:01:25,440 --> 01:01:28,400
Speaker 2: the episode or give some advice or spit a fact

1214
01:01:28,520 --> 01:01:30,240
Speaker 2: or just say stay bad if you want.

1215
01:01:30,960 --> 01:01:34,440
Speaker 1: I was thinking about this today. Okay. My advice is

1216
01:01:34,480 --> 01:01:36,560
Speaker 1: that if they if you want them to.

1217
01:01:36,560 --> 01:01:39,280
Speaker 3: Change, they have to realize it first, and they.

1218
01:01:39,160 --> 01:01:41,560
Speaker 1: Have to put in the work. You can't just hope

1219
01:01:41,600 --> 01:01:44,840
Speaker 1: they're going to change. They actually have to realize themselves

1220
01:01:45,240 --> 01:01:51,520
Speaker 1: and then they're going to make a difference. I was

1221
01:01:51,560 --> 01:01:53,440
Speaker 1: thinking about this in my walk today. Oh my gosh,

1222
01:01:55,240 --> 01:01:58,400
Speaker 1: love is never a waste. Say it again, I missed it.

1223
01:01:58,920 --> 01:02:05,240
Speaker 1: Love is never a waste? Oh ay, we called the

1224
01:02:05,320 --> 01:02:11,840
Speaker 1: right person. You guys are amazing favorite podcast. Thank you very much, Amy,

1225
01:02:12,040 --> 01:02:14,959
Speaker 1: Enjoy the rest of your day. Stay bad, Bye bye.

1226
01:02:16,720 --> 01:02:19,480
Speaker 4: That was text book needs. Are getting good, guys. That

1227
01:02:19,560 --> 01:02:22,200
Speaker 4: was crazy that she was thinking about.

1228
01:02:22,280 --> 01:02:24,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, that's a sign from the world. It is.

1229
01:02:24,280 --> 01:02:26,360
Speaker 1: We called the right person. Stay bad. See ya.