Speaker 1: He has long hair, he's tall, tanned.
Speaker 2: Can go on, Hello and welcome back to another episode
Speaker 2: of Where's Your Head Out. I am currently on Maternity League,
Speaker 2: but we have a really fun hotline for you guys today.
Speaker 2: Matt Hi, how are you?
Speaker 1: Good morning? And I Where's your Head Out?
Speaker 2: My head is at just you know, pregnant life, at
Speaker 2: the very very end of pregnant life. This is the
Speaker 2: last day we're in the studio recording our hot line.
Speaker 2: It is then I'm going on maternityly, but I am
Speaker 2: still doing Where's Your Bump Out? So after next week, then.
Speaker 1: I'm going to be out of the studio, no more
Speaker 1: studio for how long? Six weeks?
Speaker 2: Six weeks? Well, Where's Your Bump Out is a mini series,
Speaker 2: so we have about twelve thirteen episodes, I think, so
Speaker 2: six weeks and then I'll be back recording Where's Your
Speaker 2: Head Out? Exciting unless I'm like struggling solo host, I
Speaker 2: don't know, we'll see. I'm planning on being back. We
Speaker 2: were talking before about if the baby's going to come
Speaker 2: into the studio or not, so you know, there's a
Speaker 2: lot to sort out.
Speaker 1: I said, bring him in. Yeah, you sit in the
Speaker 1: corner and set him up with something he's too small
Speaker 1: to just you just will sleep, cry and eat. That's
Speaker 1: all they do. Ship.
Speaker 2: Yeah, some nappies in here, man.
Speaker 1: Imagine like just being that young again.
Speaker 2: I've never changed the nappy before, really never life.
Speaker 1: You'll be great, Anna, I think, and you'll be great
Speaker 1: at changing nappies. You'll pick it up pretty quickly. You're
Speaker 1: a maternal person, so he'll be second nature. How does
Speaker 1: Michael think he's going.
Speaker 2: To go, Well, he said that he's going to do
Speaker 2: all the naki.
Speaker 1: Changes bold move when he's in the office.
Speaker 2: I have to know he's got four weeks off work
Speaker 2: that's fraternity leaves, and obviously I'm going to be doing
Speaker 2: all the breastfeeding, so he's going to be doing all
Speaker 2: the nappy changes. Makes sense. Trade do you know what's
Speaker 2: interesting about being pregnant?
Speaker 1: That tell me Anna, because I really do not know
Speaker 1: what's interesting about being pregnant.
Speaker 2: It's all the cravings that you have, but they all
Speaker 2: mean something.
Speaker 1: So I thought you didn't have cravings, no, but like
Speaker 1: you personally said you didn't have anything, I've.
Speaker 2: No like I mean like I've had cravings like I've
Speaker 2: I've been craving frozen cokes. I've been I've been craving
Speaker 2: fruit like the whole time, but there's specific things that
Speaker 2: I've craved at specific times. So, for example, there was
Speaker 2: a point in my pregnancy where I was crunching ice
Speaker 2: cubes like no tomorrow, you did say that, yeah, Like
Speaker 2: and apparently that means that you're low in iron, and
Speaker 2: I was low in iron, and I swear to god
Speaker 2: I had my iron transfusion and a week later, I
Speaker 2: haven't even looked like crunching ice cubes. Don't you think
Speaker 2: that's so weird that, Like, so.
Speaker 1: It's not is it a scientific proven or is it
Speaker 1: an old wife's tale.
Speaker 2: No, it's like it's a thing like if you're low
Speaker 2: in it, then you.
Speaker 1: Want to crunching ice cubes. I have.
Speaker 2: I don't know the science behind it, and if you
Speaker 2: guys know, please let us know one Facebook group. But
Speaker 2: it's just so interesting. And then recently I've just been
Speaker 2: really craving kiwifruit and I've never never in my life
Speaker 2: I wanted a Kiwi fruit, and now it's like literally
Speaker 2: the only thing i can think of. I've been bringing
Speaker 2: this up right now because I'm really wanting a kiwave fruit.
Speaker 1: Do you eat. I've got one for you. Do you
Speaker 1: eat the Kiwi fruits with the skin on skin on? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Do you?
Speaker 2: Yeah? I cut the ends off, Yeah, like hard, annoying bit.
Speaker 1: You can't eat that?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Have you ever eaten whole apple core?
Speaker 2: No?
Speaker 1: People do that. No, it's really weird, strange behavior.
Speaker 2: I think, like crunching the pips, it's.
Speaker 1: Just yeah, I don't see the attraction.
Speaker 2: Even like with watermelon, Like I don't love when there's
Speaker 2: pips in it.
Speaker 1: That's annoying. I am. I for a long time cut
Speaker 1: up my apples before it lit. A little weird thing
Speaker 1: I did. I cut them up. You know.
Speaker 2: I would only cut my apples up if I was
Speaker 2: putting peanut butter on it. Yeah, which is a great
Speaker 2: snack I've not had for a while.
Speaker 1: Why I would cut up my apples. I had braces
Speaker 1: growing up, but I haven't a great bracest for fifteen years.
Speaker 2: Speaking of fruit, because obviously you know that I've been
Speaker 2: craving fruit. You know what has been the best fruit
Speaker 2: this year by far? Grapes. Grapes this year this season
Speaker 2: are so crunchy and delicious.
Speaker 1: Right, the cotton candy one's pretty nice. Fridge I like those.
Speaker 2: I once got the cotton candy Ones grapes by accident,
Speaker 2: and it was a disaster because they're so artificially sweetened.
Speaker 1: I hate, but I don't hate a strong word. I
Speaker 1: don't like the purple ones.
Speaker 2: Why's the same?
Speaker 1: I'm not. I like a crisp hard green one.
Speaker 2: You can get a crispy purple.
Speaker 1: Crispy hard out the fridge, cold green one. Bob's your auntie.
Speaker 1: That's great.
Speaker 2: I'm hungry now just thinking about this guy some fruit. Okay, guys,
Speaker 2: let's jump into this week's hotline. This one is anonymous.
Speaker 3: Hey and a Matt, massive fan of the podcast. This week,
Speaker 3: a guy I've been.
Speaker 4: Talking to online asking me to go on a date.
Speaker 4: Things were really flowing over text, and like I was
Speaker 4: actually like super excited to meet him. So I ended
Speaker 4: up driving to the date and tasted him like once
Speaker 4: I got there, saying hey, how are you?
Speaker 1: Like where are you?
Speaker 3: Thirty minutes passed and I still hadn't heard back from him.
Speaker 4: Well, I just like thought that he was either running
Speaker 4: late or his phone was off, so I just gave
Speaker 4: him like another thirty minutes.
Speaker 3: Anyways, long story short, he stood me up.
Speaker 4: Obviously. I was devastated. I drove home like completely embarrassed.
Speaker 4: And then two hours later I got a text from
Speaker 4: my date apologizing. He said he'd fallen asleep and was
Speaker 4: like so apologetic. He said he wanted to make it
Speaker 4: up to me by taking me on another date. When
Speaker 4: he stood me up, I said to myself, I was
Speaker 4: never giving this man a chance, but he had away
Speaker 4: with his words. And now I just don't know if
Speaker 4: I should go on the other other data or lot A.
Speaker 3: I'm making the right decision. Any advice would be amazing, Thanks, guys.
Speaker 1: So she was at the venue, she was meeting him
Speaker 1: at the venue.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and she was sitting in her car waiting for
Speaker 2: this guy to rock up. That's really bad. That's slack.
Speaker 2: I don't know about you.
Speaker 1: But what I was about to say, no, don't give
Speaker 1: him a second chance. We don't fall asleep on someone
Speaker 1: that you're interested in, or you actually respect their time
Speaker 1: or their like you respect them. You don't fall asleep.
Speaker 1: You set an alarm. I don't care how busy you
Speaker 1: are at work. Don't make plans, buddy, and A.
Speaker 2: That's what I was thinking. But then like, we don't
Speaker 2: know the thing think about life that I feel is like, yes,
Speaker 2: situations can be black and white, but sometimes we don't
Speaker 2: allow space for the gray area.
Speaker 1: You know that I've said this multile times. I don't
Speaker 1: believe in absolutes and black and whites, but in the
Speaker 1: gray area. Okay, hear me out.
Speaker 2: Let's say he's like a busy guy, then he has
Speaker 2: no time for your relationship and you're not going to
Speaker 2: be uncau ab out what do you want to say?
Speaker 1: Yeah, so if he's already busy on the first date,
Speaker 1: he can't make it. What do you How does he
Speaker 1: think that he's going to withstand a relationship with you
Speaker 1: that fulfills you and makes you feel like you are
Speaker 1: an important in his life?
Speaker 2: What if he has a condition that makes him drowsy,
Speaker 2: I'm making excuses for him, let's make Let's not make excuses.
Speaker 2: It's pretty poor. Like when I'm going on a date.
Speaker 2: The morning I'm going on a date, I wake up
Speaker 2: in the morning, my eyes open and immediately get a
Speaker 2: sinking feeling because I'm like, oh, I'm going on a
Speaker 2: date because I hate dating.
Speaker 1: So I'm like, oh, yeah, how does Michael feel when
Speaker 1: you're waking up? Thinking that he must feel like what the.
Speaker 2: Fuck no, But you know what I mean, Like, I
Speaker 2: feel like going on a first date is a big
Speaker 2: deal to everyone. Maybe he just like wasn't really thinking
Speaker 2: about it. Could we say he was kind of just like, yeah, whatever,
Speaker 2: and then accidentally accidentally falling asleep? Can happen?
Speaker 1: You're playing let's see well and you're walking. You're walking
Speaker 1: in the fence pretty well, and I'll give you credit
Speaker 1: for that. I just think it's a lack of respect
Speaker 1: for you. And if that's how the relationship is starting
Speaker 1: off with that much disrespect, it's it's not onwards and
Speaker 1: upwards from there.
Speaker 2: I agree with what you're saying, Like it's disrespectful, it's rude.
Speaker 2: Could she give him another chance? If they're like, have
Speaker 2: really connected and bonded.
Speaker 1: Go on and give him another chance, go on just
Speaker 1: for the sake of it.
Speaker 2: But he'd best be like Prince Charming when.
Speaker 1: I way don't even everyone can be Prince Charming for
Speaker 1: a couple of hours and then.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but everyone can be doesn't mean they will be, yeah.
Speaker 1: But then what happens, Like I look, I would say,
Speaker 1: you know, I don't deal in absolute sith do I
Speaker 1: don't believe in that. I think that there's gray areas
Speaker 1: and everything. But I think that you've got to respect
Speaker 1: yourself when people don't and see and read for what
Speaker 1: it was.
Speaker 2: Okay, so you're saying, don't go on the day. No,
Speaker 2: I'm saying, oh, it's so hard, Like like, if I'm
Speaker 2: being honest with myself, would I give someone a second
Speaker 2: chance after that? Probably not? Probably not?
Speaker 1: You're single. He has long hair all tamped there, exactly
Speaker 1: your exactly your flavor, and you're like, go on there,
Speaker 1: I mean, look, he's clearly unavailable emotionally.
Speaker 2: Do you reckon? That's what that means. Yeah, so he
Speaker 2: didn't just fall asleep.
Speaker 1: He probably did fall asleep, but you're not. You're not
Speaker 1: available to someone. If you're falling asleep before first day.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, you're not setting.
Speaker 2: It awe, but I accidentally fell asleep.
Speaker 1: No, not if I have plans?
Speaker 2: True? Actually no, okay, don't go on the day. I
Speaker 2: don't know.
Speaker 1: I'm so torn.
Speaker 2: The empathetics side of thathetic, yeah, because I'm pregnant, and
Speaker 2: you know.
Speaker 1: Me, I am very I don't deal in absolute so
Speaker 1: I'm very empathetic. I do think, but I think like
Speaker 1: you've got to take it for what.
Speaker 2: It is Yeah. It's the only reason why I think
Speaker 2: I'm like dabbling with the idea is because, like she
Speaker 2: said that, they really got along and they had a
Speaker 2: lot in common. So then I'm like, do you, well,
Speaker 2: you know what, into a fork in the road and then.
Speaker 1: Say for the plot, for the plot, go do it
Speaker 1: and let us know how you go.
Speaker 2: But he's on strike one and he's distract to it.
Speaker 1: He's out a relationship.
Speaker 2: Okay, guys, that's all we have time for. I'm currently
Speaker 2: on maternity leave. I will be back very soon. We
Speaker 2: appreciate all of the love on our socials and also
Speaker 2: head to our Facebook group to continue the conversation until
Speaker 2: next time.
Speaker 1: Bye.