1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:03,560 Speaker 1: You ready, Yeah, you can do coming up home. What 2 00:00:03,600 --> 00:00:07,160 Speaker 1: if I don't want to coming up on relatables. 3 00:00:06,680 --> 00:00:10,720 Speaker 2: So instead I would go in the stables and then 4 00:00:10,880 --> 00:00:14,080 Speaker 2: like shovel it out with all the horse crew and 5 00:00:14,240 --> 00:00:15,120 Speaker 2: put out the back. 6 00:00:17,079 --> 00:00:20,520 Speaker 1: Wait wait, so what you'd go on the stable? So 7 00:00:20,560 --> 00:00:22,920 Speaker 1: have you done this one once? Oh? 8 00:00:23,000 --> 00:00:23,239 Speaker 2: Yeah? 9 00:00:23,800 --> 00:00:38,120 Speaker 1: Wait? How many times? J relatable part? You are listening 10 00:00:38,159 --> 00:00:43,600 Speaker 1: to relatables? Welcome back, everybody. You're here at the I'd 11 00:00:43,640 --> 00:00:48,239 Speaker 1: like to say a modest like, probably tenth best podcasts 12 00:00:48,280 --> 00:00:51,760 Speaker 1: in the world. We're getting tenth and you're here. We're 13 00:00:51,760 --> 00:00:53,720 Speaker 1: in the top one percent. As you guys know, if 14 00:00:53,760 --> 00:00:55,600 Speaker 1: you're a long time listener, you're in the top one percent. 15 00:00:55,720 --> 00:00:57,480 Speaker 1: And I just want to let some I'm here with 16 00:00:58,120 --> 00:01:01,000 Speaker 1: to my left, I've got Addie a a KA Mummy, 17 00:01:01,240 --> 00:01:04,720 Speaker 1: and I am joined by Jake AKA Daddy. Let's just 18 00:01:04,760 --> 00:01:07,240 Speaker 1: be those OnlyFans models that claim like zero point zero 19 00:01:07,360 --> 00:01:11,760 Speaker 1: zero one percent exactly, every single Only Friends model I 20 00:01:11,760 --> 00:01:15,960 Speaker 1: don't know from experience says top zero point zero one percent. 21 00:01:16,040 --> 00:01:17,800 Speaker 1: They all are. They all are. And you know what 22 00:01:17,840 --> 00:01:21,200 Speaker 1: we are, top one percent, top one percent. I wonder 23 00:01:21,280 --> 00:01:23,120 Speaker 1: once you get to the amount of episodes we've done. 24 00:01:23,800 --> 00:01:26,319 Speaker 1: What are you like? I guess in terms of how 25 00:01:26,319 --> 00:01:29,640 Speaker 1: many episodes you've published, what would you be? I think 26 00:01:29,640 --> 00:01:32,160 Speaker 1: it goes off listens at some point not just having published, 27 00:01:32,400 --> 00:01:34,480 Speaker 1: like they would be podcasts that there's published thousands and 28 00:01:34,480 --> 00:01:38,600 Speaker 1: they haven't grown anys Oh true, like they would be 29 00:01:40,160 --> 00:01:43,399 Speaker 1: as a passion project. Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, 30 00:01:43,440 --> 00:01:45,760 Speaker 1: I hear you. Today, I wanted to start the episode 31 00:01:45,760 --> 00:01:48,280 Speaker 1: off with I came across something on Instagram. It was 32 00:01:48,280 --> 00:01:51,040 Speaker 1: a question and I kind of didn't know how I 33 00:01:51,080 --> 00:01:52,640 Speaker 1: would answer it, and I wanted to see how what 34 00:01:52,760 --> 00:01:58,640 Speaker 1: what you would say? Spot Your wife has been kidnapped 35 00:01:58,760 --> 00:02:02,080 Speaker 1: and is being held in a location thirty minutes away. 36 00:02:02,920 --> 00:02:06,400 Speaker 1: You're driving to rescue her. It's a warm night and 37 00:02:06,440 --> 00:02:09,440 Speaker 1: your windows are down. Do you listen to music on 38 00:02:09,480 --> 00:02:16,239 Speaker 1: the drive? Yes? Or no? Windows are down, warm night 39 00:02:16,280 --> 00:02:20,359 Speaker 1: windows and down thirty four minutes. I'm plans and vibes. 40 00:02:22,120 --> 00:02:24,760 Speaker 1: Oh no, no, to be fair, if she's kidnapped, I'm 41 00:02:24,800 --> 00:02:27,720 Speaker 1: listening to like some eminem I like, I'm listening to something. 42 00:02:28,560 --> 00:02:30,720 Speaker 1: I first off was thinking, wait, I wouldn't listen to 43 00:02:30,760 --> 00:02:34,600 Speaker 1: anything because I'd be stressing. But I think I would 44 00:02:34,639 --> 00:02:39,880 Speaker 1: need to listen to some mission impossible, something mission impossible, 45 00:02:40,520 --> 00:02:46,280 Speaker 1: James Bond like some James Bond like yours getting me 46 00:02:46,360 --> 00:02:48,840 Speaker 1: in the mood. But I don't know. I think so 47 00:02:48,919 --> 00:02:50,959 Speaker 1: you definitely would have some music on that's half an hour, 48 00:02:53,160 --> 00:02:54,760 Speaker 1: like I'm not being in my thoughts, No I have 49 00:02:54,840 --> 00:02:57,000 Speaker 1: to because I'm thinking about her safety and well being. 50 00:02:57,120 --> 00:03:07,480 Speaker 1: I'd be going with that song where are I'm That's 51 00:03:07,520 --> 00:03:11,000 Speaker 1: good the dilemma actually, seriously, Like, here's the thing I 52 00:03:11,040 --> 00:03:14,120 Speaker 1: was thinking though, is let's say you go and you 53 00:03:14,160 --> 00:03:15,760 Speaker 1: get her, you know, you listen to your music and 54 00:03:15,800 --> 00:03:18,280 Speaker 1: you get her all in a timely matter. You know, 55 00:03:18,280 --> 00:03:20,000 Speaker 1: it's all timely, Like she doesn't think like, oh he 56 00:03:20,080 --> 00:03:22,920 Speaker 1: talks so long. Yeah, you know you didn't. You didn't 57 00:03:22,919 --> 00:03:25,480 Speaker 1: get in the car and connect your phone connected automatically, 58 00:03:25,480 --> 00:03:29,639 Speaker 1: all right. Yeah, you're like, hey, Siri, play you didn't 59 00:03:29,680 --> 00:03:33,280 Speaker 1: waste any time exactly. She's not gonna know, but kay 60 00:03:33,320 --> 00:03:34,600 Speaker 1: got me the time about her. And then there's this 61 00:03:34,639 --> 00:03:36,680 Speaker 1: new thing that Spotify does where it's like you go 62 00:03:36,760 --> 00:03:40,240 Speaker 1: on it and goes resuming Tortured Poets to party, and 63 00:03:40,680 --> 00:03:42,240 Speaker 1: then you get in the car and then it goes 64 00:03:42,280 --> 00:03:44,640 Speaker 1: and it's like resuming blink one eighty two or whatever 65 00:03:44,640 --> 00:03:50,200 Speaker 1: you like. You're listening to music, just jamming out what 66 00:03:50,240 --> 00:03:55,200 Speaker 1: do you want me to do? Oh my god, that's funny, 67 00:03:55,200 --> 00:03:59,520 Speaker 1: that's very funny. Oh man, all right, but today, Jake, 68 00:03:59,600 --> 00:04:02,800 Speaker 1: I want to to bring up next the threat of 69 00:04:02,800 --> 00:04:06,640 Speaker 1: the week. I'd say, yeah, if girls didn't exist, it 70 00:04:06,720 --> 00:04:10,280 Speaker 1: was so, what would the world be like if girls 71 00:04:10,320 --> 00:04:16,080 Speaker 1: didn't exist? There'd be no little spoons? Whoa, what the fuck? 72 00:04:16,800 --> 00:04:19,320 Speaker 1: I didn't even think of that, mind boggling. What would 73 00:04:19,360 --> 00:04:23,200 Speaker 1: you do in bed? What? But I was also thinking of, like, 74 00:04:23,240 --> 00:04:25,000 Speaker 1: you know those little spoons you used for tea? Yeah, 75 00:04:25,320 --> 00:04:29,359 Speaker 1: I wouldn't use it. A guy wouldn't invent one of them. No, 76 00:04:29,360 --> 00:04:35,640 Speaker 1: not at all, No fucking hell, if girls didn't exist, 77 00:04:35,640 --> 00:04:37,440 Speaker 1: I got a couple simple ones off a stark. If 78 00:04:37,480 --> 00:04:40,440 Speaker 1: girls didn't exist, we wouldn't have gotten out of the 79 00:04:40,520 --> 00:04:44,800 Speaker 1: stone age. Oh we wouldn't have either, no way. We 80 00:04:44,800 --> 00:04:49,159 Speaker 1: wouldn't have round wheels, so it wouldn't be much sophistication. 81 00:04:49,480 --> 00:04:52,200 Speaker 1: I don't think. That's sort of like one of mine. 82 00:04:52,480 --> 00:04:55,560 Speaker 1: If girls didn't exist, we would resolve all problems with 83 00:04:55,600 --> 00:04:59,359 Speaker 1: physical fights. Oh true, wars wouldn't end. Yeah, they'd just 84 00:04:59,400 --> 00:05:07,839 Speaker 1: be a good night. If girls didn't exist, my bed 85 00:05:07,880 --> 00:05:11,560 Speaker 1: would only have one pillow on it. I kind of 86 00:05:11,600 --> 00:05:13,520 Speaker 1: wish it did. Still, I kind of wish it did. 87 00:05:13,560 --> 00:05:14,840 Speaker 1: That was a simple time in life. I kind of 88 00:05:14,839 --> 00:05:18,960 Speaker 1: wished to decrease. There's no distraction. You don't have to 89 00:05:19,000 --> 00:05:20,520 Speaker 1: put them on and off your bed when you go 90 00:05:20,560 --> 00:05:23,240 Speaker 1: to sleep. I make my bed with my pillow there, 91 00:05:23,880 --> 00:05:26,480 Speaker 1: pillow goes under the duna goes over top of the 92 00:05:26,520 --> 00:05:28,599 Speaker 1: pillow when it's made, and that was perfect. It doesn't 93 00:05:28,640 --> 00:05:31,599 Speaker 1: move ever. No, it's a simple time. This was a 94 00:05:31,640 --> 00:05:35,240 Speaker 1: perfect moment in life for me. If girls didn't exist, 95 00:05:35,440 --> 00:05:41,760 Speaker 1: global warming would be ten times worse. Oh honestly, probably right. 96 00:05:42,000 --> 00:05:44,760 Speaker 1: They care about the planet way more. Like I'm decent, 97 00:05:44,880 --> 00:05:46,800 Speaker 1: but girls, like I know a lot of dudes it 98 00:05:46,880 --> 00:05:49,200 Speaker 1: just don't even recycle. Yeah, I think I no, I 99 00:05:49,240 --> 00:05:51,320 Speaker 1: agree with it. I think it just the little things 100 00:05:52,040 --> 00:05:55,880 Speaker 1: they do extra, Yeah, picking up rubbish at the beach. 101 00:05:55,920 --> 00:05:57,840 Speaker 1: I know some dudes do it, but it's more I 102 00:05:58,200 --> 00:06:00,480 Speaker 1: definitely like to do that. Yeah, but I know if 103 00:06:00,480 --> 00:06:03,040 Speaker 1: they weren't he it'd be terrible. But even like, I 104 00:06:03,040 --> 00:06:05,159 Speaker 1: don't know, I feel like it's a girl thing to be. 105 00:06:06,160 --> 00:06:09,200 Speaker 1: You know, they they like to get their steps in 106 00:06:09,240 --> 00:06:11,520 Speaker 1: way more than guys. So they'll go, you know, if 107 00:06:11,520 --> 00:06:13,200 Speaker 1: it's the middle of the day and they're they're going 108 00:06:13,279 --> 00:06:16,400 Speaker 1: to go somewhere, they'll go, oh, I'll walk there instead 109 00:06:16,400 --> 00:06:21,320 Speaker 1: of drive, drive fucking drive. Everyone don't care. That's ridiculous. 110 00:06:21,839 --> 00:06:28,080 Speaker 1: If girls didn't exist, pickup lines wouldn't exist. They wouldn't either, 111 00:06:28,560 --> 00:06:31,440 Speaker 1: no need for them. Cat calling wouldn't exist, no need 112 00:06:31,520 --> 00:06:34,880 Speaker 1: for them, no where. They're not needed anyway. Cat calls 113 00:06:34,880 --> 00:06:37,320 Speaker 1: aren't they pick up lines? You wouldn't need, no, not 114 00:06:37,400 --> 00:06:40,080 Speaker 1: at all. What would we do with our spare time? 115 00:06:41,160 --> 00:06:46,640 Speaker 1: I don't know, probably eat dirt, eat wormstag or kids. Again, 116 00:06:48,720 --> 00:06:51,560 Speaker 1: if girls didn't exist, every shop would show some type 117 00:06:51,560 --> 00:06:56,000 Speaker 1: of betting on it, Yes, agreed, agreed, every every sport. 118 00:06:56,120 --> 00:06:58,200 Speaker 1: And then also we'd be betting on the dumbest things. 119 00:06:58,200 --> 00:06:59,640 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you'd be able to. I think you can 120 00:06:59,720 --> 00:07:05,880 Speaker 1: actually bet on like presidential races. Presidential like I'm pretty sure, 121 00:07:06,240 --> 00:07:10,000 Speaker 1: meaning you know how Donald Trump and Joe Biden. Yeah, 122 00:07:10,000 --> 00:07:12,200 Speaker 1: they're both like running for president. In bet who's gonna 123 00:07:12,200 --> 00:07:14,360 Speaker 1: win that, I'm pretty sure you can put a bet. Yeah, 124 00:07:14,360 --> 00:07:16,080 Speaker 1: you can put a bet on it. Any I think 125 00:07:16,080 --> 00:07:18,440 Speaker 1: you can bet on like fifth League kids tennis and 126 00:07:18,440 --> 00:07:22,680 Speaker 1: stuff like that, like they have one camera. Literally, I 127 00:07:22,960 --> 00:07:25,440 Speaker 1: think you're right. You can put bets on so much 128 00:07:25,520 --> 00:07:30,480 Speaker 1: random stuff. That's an addiction. If girls didn't exist, it 129 00:07:30,520 --> 00:07:42,160 Speaker 1: would be very very quiet. It would do sounds. There 130 00:07:42,160 --> 00:07:45,040 Speaker 1: would just be no yappen. No, it'd be nothing. It 131 00:07:45,040 --> 00:07:49,840 Speaker 1: would be so peaceful, maybe too peaceful, maybe too peaceful. 132 00:07:51,480 --> 00:07:54,360 Speaker 1: If girls didn't exist, social media would just be for 133 00:07:54,400 --> 00:08:00,960 Speaker 1: posting what fish we caught? Facts? What the fuck? That's 134 00:08:01,120 --> 00:08:04,360 Speaker 1: so true. I would love to see like in history, 135 00:08:04,680 --> 00:08:07,000 Speaker 1: like in twenty probably a hundred years time, the evolution 136 00:08:07,120 --> 00:08:11,120 Speaker 1: of social media. Yeah, surely females pioneered this thing. We 137 00:08:11,120 --> 00:08:13,720 Speaker 1: gotta go on, I have to have to have whoa. 138 00:08:13,880 --> 00:08:16,320 Speaker 1: That's such a good point. It's like going off that 139 00:08:16,400 --> 00:08:19,600 Speaker 1: I guess if girl did. If girls didn't exist, Like, 140 00:08:20,960 --> 00:08:24,360 Speaker 1: if girls didn't exist, my fashion sense would be broad 141 00:08:24,360 --> 00:08:25,880 Speaker 1: shorts and a teacher. That's what one of my things 142 00:08:25,960 --> 00:08:29,720 Speaker 1: was really for the rest of my life, A fashion 143 00:08:29,760 --> 00:08:34,280 Speaker 1: sense would be dead. If girls didn't exist, we wouldn't 144 00:08:34,320 --> 00:08:39,000 Speaker 1: know what giving or receiving love is. Like, Oh no, 145 00:08:39,040 --> 00:08:42,000 Speaker 1: it wouldn't either, not at all. From a young age, 146 00:08:42,040 --> 00:08:44,760 Speaker 1: that's where you know your mom first thing. Yeah, you 147 00:08:44,800 --> 00:08:46,920 Speaker 1: wouldn't know how to receive it at all or give it. 148 00:08:46,920 --> 00:08:49,559 Speaker 1: You wouldn't what to do. We wouldn't know how to 149 00:08:49,559 --> 00:08:52,640 Speaker 1: talk about our feelings. No, we barely do. Now. That's 150 00:08:52,679 --> 00:08:54,880 Speaker 1: what I'm like growing now from eighteen to twenty. All 151 00:08:54,920 --> 00:08:57,160 Speaker 1: props is given the females in my life, Like I 152 00:08:57,200 --> 00:09:00,559 Speaker 1: reckon working on talking about my feelings. If girls didn't exist, 153 00:09:00,920 --> 00:09:05,360 Speaker 1: skin care would be the smallest industry. Shit, I was 154 00:09:05,360 --> 00:09:07,120 Speaker 1: going that's so true. I was going to say, if 155 00:09:07,120 --> 00:09:10,960 Speaker 1: girls didn't exist, stuff like deodorant would be the smallest 156 00:09:10,960 --> 00:09:15,560 Speaker 1: industry because we would smell terrible. We would do Oh 157 00:09:15,640 --> 00:09:19,320 Speaker 1: my god, if girls didn't exist, laundry detergent wouldn't exist. 158 00:09:19,360 --> 00:09:21,920 Speaker 1: Oh no, it wouldn't because we would just handle something 159 00:09:21,920 --> 00:09:25,559 Speaker 1: in a river. We would if that, we just wouldn't 160 00:09:25,559 --> 00:09:34,160 Speaker 1: wear anything. Seriously, I know, what the fuck are you out? 161 00:09:34,520 --> 00:09:36,440 Speaker 1: I'm trying to I kind of about if girls didn't exist, 162 00:09:36,480 --> 00:09:39,280 Speaker 1: I don't think gyms would exist. We wouldn't. A lot 163 00:09:39,280 --> 00:09:42,120 Speaker 1: of reasons dudes get into the gym is to impress girls, 164 00:09:42,200 --> 00:09:45,959 Speaker 1: although not the right reasons, Like I can ninety five 165 00:09:46,000 --> 00:09:49,080 Speaker 1: percent dude start to try and get a girl. You're 166 00:09:49,080 --> 00:09:51,400 Speaker 1: probably right, the wouldn't be as many. We wouldn't care 167 00:09:51,440 --> 00:09:55,120 Speaker 1: about our looks, no, nothing, we wouldn't care. We need 168 00:09:55,160 --> 00:09:57,719 Speaker 1: the we need the balance. We do we definitely need 169 00:09:57,720 --> 00:10:01,679 Speaker 1: to do. I do question. Next week is going to 170 00:10:01,760 --> 00:10:05,400 Speaker 1: be if guys didn't exist? And then finish this sentence, 171 00:10:06,840 --> 00:10:09,120 Speaker 1: I honestly, it'll be like a utopia, would be like Barbie. 172 00:10:09,200 --> 00:10:11,760 Speaker 1: I just just I think the world might actually be 173 00:10:12,240 --> 00:10:15,040 Speaker 1: so the world. Look, it's all right right now. And 174 00:10:15,120 --> 00:10:17,679 Speaker 1: if girls didn't exist, it would be worse. But if 175 00:10:17,960 --> 00:10:20,559 Speaker 1: if guys didn't exist, it'd probably be better. I know, 176 00:10:20,679 --> 00:10:24,880 Speaker 1: I wonder what it would be like, Pink, I'm not 177 00:10:28,520 --> 00:10:32,240 Speaker 1: my last one. If girls didn't exist, food options would 178 00:10:32,240 --> 00:10:36,920 Speaker 1: be so boring. What the that's what the fuck? That's 179 00:10:36,960 --> 00:10:39,960 Speaker 1: so like seasonings. We wouldn't have any of them. Oh 180 00:10:40,000 --> 00:10:42,280 Speaker 1: my god. We maybe would have discovered salt. We would 181 00:10:42,280 --> 00:10:44,520 Speaker 1: have maybe we would have tomato. Sauce would be the 182 00:10:44,559 --> 00:10:46,400 Speaker 1: only type of sort. We'd just be figuring out that 183 00:10:46,440 --> 00:10:52,760 Speaker 1: you can cook meat. Literally, we would have been eating 184 00:10:52,840 --> 00:10:55,200 Speaker 1: chicken and getting sick up until today. Yeah, I know 185 00:10:56,960 --> 00:11:03,040 Speaker 1: we need them, damn all right. Up Next is nice 186 00:11:03,080 --> 00:11:06,760 Speaker 1: guy or fuck Boys back for return. So if you 187 00:11:06,800 --> 00:11:09,800 Speaker 1: guys want some visuals, we figure out if the guy's 188 00:11:10,559 --> 00:11:12,959 Speaker 1: Instagram profile is a nice guy fuck boy, head on 189 00:11:13,000 --> 00:11:15,440 Speaker 1: over YouTube for some visuals. Otherwise the episode is the 190 00:11:15,480 --> 00:11:27,800 Speaker 1: same throughout Love Up. Next is Confession Sessions. Jake very 191 00:11:27,840 --> 00:11:31,600 Speaker 1: exciting with the prompt being one of our favorites. If 192 00:11:31,679 --> 00:11:34,640 Speaker 1: you gotta go, you gotta go, And we had a 193 00:11:34,679 --> 00:11:38,080 Speaker 1: call not wanting to be anonymous, No, she wasn't even anonymous. 194 00:11:38,120 --> 00:11:41,720 Speaker 1: Surprisingly say good honor, I say, I say good honor. 195 00:11:42,080 --> 00:11:45,080 Speaker 1: We're normalizing when you gotta go, you gotta go. Everyone 196 00:11:45,120 --> 00:11:46,520 Speaker 1: does it. If we can admit it, they can admit. 197 00:11:46,559 --> 00:11:48,719 Speaker 1: If you've got a story, send it to our It's 198 00:11:48,760 --> 00:11:51,280 Speaker 1: on our little LinkedIn. So if you go go to 199 00:11:51,280 --> 00:11:53,440 Speaker 1: our Instagram and you'll go go click on the link 200 00:11:53,480 --> 00:11:55,640 Speaker 1: on the comeo link or whatever it is, and the 201 00:11:55,880 --> 00:11:57,960 Speaker 1: scroll to the bottom there you can submit a confession 202 00:11:58,000 --> 00:12:00,480 Speaker 1: and then we'll get in touch. But please joy, when 203 00:12:00,480 --> 00:12:04,120 Speaker 1: you got to go, you got to go. Hello, Hello, 204 00:12:04,320 --> 00:12:07,000 Speaker 1: welcome to Confession Sessions. How are you going? 205 00:12:07,960 --> 00:12:09,560 Speaker 2: It's fabulous? How are you going? 206 00:12:09,760 --> 00:12:14,920 Speaker 1: I'm good? Thank you. I'm joined by Jacob my right. Hello. Hello, Hello. Well, 207 00:12:15,000 --> 00:12:17,800 Speaker 1: first things first is would you like to be anonymous 208 00:12:17,840 --> 00:12:18,760 Speaker 1: for your story. 209 00:12:19,840 --> 00:12:26,880 Speaker 2: I honestly, I do not mind at all. My name 210 00:12:26,920 --> 00:12:28,600 Speaker 2: is Lucy. 211 00:12:28,920 --> 00:12:30,920 Speaker 1: To me, very nice to meet you, Lucy. And the 212 00:12:31,000 --> 00:12:33,839 Speaker 1: prompt today is when you got to go, you gotta go? 213 00:12:35,760 --> 00:12:39,760 Speaker 2: Yes, you do? That is you can't hold it Me. 214 00:12:39,679 --> 00:12:42,000 Speaker 1: And Jacobean opening up about this on the pod, and 215 00:12:42,040 --> 00:12:44,200 Speaker 1: I read your story and it was quite funny, so 216 00:12:44,240 --> 00:12:46,079 Speaker 1: I thought everyone had to hear it. So if you 217 00:12:46,120 --> 00:12:48,280 Speaker 1: want to take it away from the top and we interact. 218 00:12:48,760 --> 00:12:53,120 Speaker 2: Ah, yeah, absolutely so pretty much. A couple of years ago, 219 00:12:54,000 --> 00:12:59,280 Speaker 2: I worked in like private stables with horses and there 220 00:12:59,360 --> 00:13:02,280 Speaker 2: wasn't like a bar through there, and so if I 221 00:13:02,320 --> 00:13:04,320 Speaker 2: had to go, I'd have to walk up to like 222 00:13:04,440 --> 00:13:07,160 Speaker 2: the family house, say hard to her parents, and then 223 00:13:07,280 --> 00:13:13,000 Speaker 2: like leave and go back to work. It's a bit awkward. 224 00:13:13,040 --> 00:13:18,280 Speaker 2: So really I couldn't go in take a ship and 225 00:13:18,280 --> 00:13:24,040 Speaker 2: and yeah, I just I couldn't do it to myself. 226 00:13:24,080 --> 00:13:28,120 Speaker 2: So instead I would go in the stables and then 227 00:13:28,240 --> 00:13:31,480 Speaker 2: like shovel it out with all the horse crew and 228 00:13:31,640 --> 00:13:32,559 Speaker 2: put it out the back. 229 00:13:35,880 --> 00:13:38,439 Speaker 1: What you'd go on the stable? So have you done 230 00:13:38,440 --> 00:13:40,319 Speaker 1: this one once? Oh? 231 00:13:40,440 --> 00:13:40,680 Speaker 2: Yeah? 232 00:13:41,240 --> 00:13:44,280 Speaker 1: Wait? How many times? Oh? 233 00:13:44,440 --> 00:13:46,160 Speaker 2: I don't know. I probably I worked there for like 234 00:13:46,200 --> 00:13:50,079 Speaker 2: a year and a half, so like sometimes like. 235 00:13:50,040 --> 00:13:51,800 Speaker 1: Sometimes it could be like five times a week because 236 00:13:51,880 --> 00:13:53,960 Speaker 1: quite often you've got to go once a day at least. 237 00:13:55,240 --> 00:13:58,200 Speaker 2: Well, yeah, I'd say it would at least like once 238 00:13:58,240 --> 00:13:58,600 Speaker 2: a week. 239 00:13:59,640 --> 00:14:01,800 Speaker 1: So when I was reading this story, I thought it 240 00:14:01,840 --> 00:14:02,880 Speaker 1: was a one off thing. 241 00:14:04,200 --> 00:14:05,559 Speaker 2: No, no, no, it wasn't. 242 00:14:06,080 --> 00:14:10,079 Speaker 1: Oh my god. And then so you just so you're 243 00:14:10,080 --> 00:14:11,720 Speaker 1: getting paid to shovel your own ship? 244 00:14:12,720 --> 00:14:14,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, pretty much. It was spectbular. 245 00:14:15,520 --> 00:14:17,320 Speaker 1: You were you the one that were either one that 246 00:14:17,360 --> 00:14:18,600 Speaker 1: had to shove the ship or were you just like 247 00:14:18,600 --> 00:14:20,000 Speaker 1: taking care of the horses and someone else had to 248 00:14:20,000 --> 00:14:23,680 Speaker 1: do the ship shoveling job and they were showing No, 249 00:14:23,720 --> 00:14:24,440 Speaker 1: it was just me. 250 00:14:24,720 --> 00:14:26,840 Speaker 2: So I do everything on one day, so I was 251 00:14:26,880 --> 00:14:28,600 Speaker 2: alone most of the time, which is nice. 252 00:14:28,920 --> 00:14:33,000 Speaker 1: That's so, how old are you? I'm just thinking, I'm funny. 253 00:14:33,000 --> 00:14:33,320 Speaker 2: True. 254 00:14:34,520 --> 00:14:38,800 Speaker 1: Why do you think this was like something to do? 255 00:14:38,800 --> 00:14:39,440 Speaker 2: Do you? What was that? 256 00:14:39,480 --> 00:14:41,320 Speaker 1: Sorry? Why do you think you wanted to do this? Like? 257 00:14:41,320 --> 00:14:43,760 Speaker 1: Why did you keep doing it? Not go after the house? 258 00:14:44,160 --> 00:14:45,880 Speaker 1: I would go, I'll go to the house too. 259 00:14:46,360 --> 00:14:48,440 Speaker 2: Oh well it was just a bit more convenient too, 260 00:14:48,480 --> 00:14:49,440 Speaker 2: because like I didn't. 261 00:14:49,240 --> 00:14:51,000 Speaker 1: Have to walk there, how far was the house from 262 00:14:51,000 --> 00:14:51,480 Speaker 1: the stables? 263 00:14:52,800 --> 00:14:54,680 Speaker 2: Oh not not actually that far? 264 00:14:54,840 --> 00:14:59,840 Speaker 1: Maybe like you, that's funny. I I personally don't have 265 00:14:59,880 --> 00:15:02,800 Speaker 1: the shame of Like if if I'm working for someone 266 00:15:02,840 --> 00:15:04,600 Speaker 1: and they say, oh, the only toilet is one in 267 00:15:04,600 --> 00:15:07,600 Speaker 1: our house. To me, that's them saying we accept you 268 00:15:07,640 --> 00:15:09,480 Speaker 1: taking a ship in our house. So I would take 269 00:15:09,480 --> 00:15:10,040 Speaker 1: a ship in the. 270 00:15:11,960 --> 00:15:12,960 Speaker 2: I have all the shame. 271 00:15:13,720 --> 00:15:15,800 Speaker 1: Would you pee out there as well? Would you go 272 00:15:15,840 --> 00:15:16,680 Speaker 1: to the house to pee? 273 00:15:17,320 --> 00:15:20,440 Speaker 2: I'd go to the house to pee, okay, fair, yes, yeah, 274 00:15:21,080 --> 00:15:22,720 Speaker 2: I just didn't want to like stink it out. 275 00:15:25,320 --> 00:15:27,720 Speaker 1: The thing about okay, this is getting deep. But the 276 00:15:27,760 --> 00:15:31,560 Speaker 1: thing about so horse manure obviously it smells like manure, 277 00:15:32,040 --> 00:15:35,280 Speaker 1: but human ship smells different. It's like a different level 278 00:15:35,320 --> 00:15:41,280 Speaker 1: of bad. So would you I'm still mind blown by this. 279 00:15:42,320 --> 00:15:46,120 Speaker 1: Would wipe? Actually we're not asking enough questions. 280 00:15:46,480 --> 00:15:49,760 Speaker 2: Well, so they there were like baby whites down there, 281 00:15:49,880 --> 00:15:53,200 Speaker 2: so we use them to clean out the horses noses 282 00:15:53,200 --> 00:15:54,800 Speaker 2: and sometimes myself. 283 00:15:55,000 --> 00:15:57,360 Speaker 1: Well, fair enough, honestly, you probably have a cleaner bump. 284 00:15:58,000 --> 00:16:01,640 Speaker 1: That's funny. Yeah, yeah, that's what I was thinking. 285 00:16:03,280 --> 00:16:05,840 Speaker 2: Honestly, I don't know. I don't think I did. I 286 00:16:05,880 --> 00:16:07,080 Speaker 2: think i'd remember it if I did. 287 00:16:07,320 --> 00:16:09,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's very true. And also you probably just got 288 00:16:09,000 --> 00:16:10,800 Speaker 1: so confident in the end as well. Like the first 289 00:16:10,840 --> 00:16:13,040 Speaker 1: time you did it, was it kind of like a 290 00:16:13,040 --> 00:16:15,640 Speaker 1: conversation in your head thinking, funck, should I just there's 291 00:16:15,640 --> 00:16:16,920 Speaker 1: a toilet in the house, I'll just go to the house, 292 00:16:16,960 --> 00:16:18,320 Speaker 1: and then you just thought, no, I'm doing it here. 293 00:16:19,160 --> 00:16:22,000 Speaker 2: Yeah. I was like I contemplated it a lot, whether 294 00:16:22,040 --> 00:16:25,080 Speaker 2: I should or should not, and one. 295 00:16:25,000 --> 00:16:28,520 Speaker 1: Was it a bit more like, ah, yeah, I've already 296 00:16:28,560 --> 00:16:33,000 Speaker 1: done it. Well, that makes me feel better about my story. 297 00:16:33,240 --> 00:16:37,640 Speaker 1: That's so so funny, honestly. Well, thank you very much, Lucy, 298 00:16:37,640 --> 00:16:39,560 Speaker 1: you for telling that. Yeah, thank you so much. 299 00:16:39,600 --> 00:16:41,400 Speaker 2: That's all right, no worries at all. 300 00:16:41,600 --> 00:16:43,640 Speaker 1: And you said you've moved jobs. Now have you got 301 00:16:43,640 --> 00:16:44,360 Speaker 1: a toilet to go to? 302 00:16:45,560 --> 00:16:47,480 Speaker 2: Yes? I do. I do have a toilet. I have 303 00:16:47,520 --> 00:16:50,000 Speaker 2: about seven actually, So what do you. 304 00:16:49,960 --> 00:16:52,000 Speaker 1: Do for work? Now? 305 00:16:52,040 --> 00:16:55,600 Speaker 2: I'm a sparky so awesome. Yeah, change of. 306 00:16:55,600 --> 00:17:00,480 Speaker 1: Direction, that's awesome, very cool. Yeah, thank you, Well, enjoy 307 00:17:00,640 --> 00:17:01,440 Speaker 1: enjoy the rest of your day. 308 00:17:02,080 --> 00:17:03,080 Speaker 2: Yes, thanks you too. 309 00:17:07,400 --> 00:17:13,320 Speaker 1: Sorry, Lucy. Wait, when as soon as she started talking 310 00:17:13,320 --> 00:17:14,879 Speaker 1: about horse day was I was like, Okay, I know 311 00:17:14,920 --> 00:17:16,840 Speaker 1: where she did it, but I also was like with you, 312 00:17:16,880 --> 00:17:18,800 Speaker 1: I thought it was going to be a one when 313 00:17:18,800 --> 00:17:24,920 Speaker 1: I was reading it. Oh my god. When normalizing when 314 00:17:24,920 --> 00:17:27,720 Speaker 1: you gotta go, you gotta go, I think it's a 315 00:17:27,760 --> 00:17:32,439 Speaker 1: lot more normal than people think. I remember I was 316 00:17:33,400 --> 00:17:36,720 Speaker 1: watching a podcast and Crystal Lea was in it and 317 00:17:36,840 --> 00:17:38,240 Speaker 1: he was talking about a story. One time he was 318 00:17:38,240 --> 00:17:42,320 Speaker 1: on tour and they hired like a tour van and 319 00:17:42,359 --> 00:17:44,960 Speaker 1: it was or to a bus or whatever didn't have 320 00:17:44,960 --> 00:17:46,280 Speaker 1: a toilet on it. That was like a small enough 321 00:17:46,280 --> 00:17:48,000 Speaker 1: to not have a toilet, And he said they were 322 00:17:48,040 --> 00:17:49,520 Speaker 1: getting to a place and he said that he was 323 00:17:49,560 --> 00:17:51,040 Speaker 1: sitting there and he said to the driver it was 324 00:17:51,240 --> 00:17:53,960 Speaker 1: they were in like a neighborhood, like proper neighborhood, cars 325 00:17:54,040 --> 00:17:57,399 Speaker 1: houses either side, and he said that he had to 326 00:17:57,440 --> 00:17:59,480 Speaker 1: ship so bad that he said to the driver. The 327 00:17:59,560 --> 00:18:01,639 Speaker 1: driver said, twenty minutes still in the next Starbucks. I 328 00:18:01,680 --> 00:18:05,080 Speaker 1: hate when they say that when you gotta go, you 329 00:18:05,080 --> 00:18:08,399 Speaker 1: gotta go. And then he said that they the driver, 330 00:18:08,720 --> 00:18:10,560 Speaker 1: I think he must have missed a turn or something. 331 00:18:10,840 --> 00:18:12,040 Speaker 1: And then he goes to you. He just said he 332 00:18:12,080 --> 00:18:14,040 Speaker 1: was fat up and he goes nap pull over, pulls 333 00:18:14,080 --> 00:18:16,520 Speaker 1: over on a residential street. He makes the driver pull over, 334 00:18:16,840 --> 00:18:19,159 Speaker 1: hops out, goes behind someone's tree, takes a ship in 335 00:18:19,160 --> 00:18:22,360 Speaker 1: their yard, and runs back to the bars and keeps going. Oh, 336 00:18:24,600 --> 00:18:27,440 Speaker 1: shitting yourself. Stories there funny, it's so funny, and it's 337 00:18:27,440 --> 00:18:30,560 Speaker 1: so normal, it's very normal. But man, is it it's 338 00:18:30,600 --> 00:18:32,680 Speaker 1: just so gross. I know it's pretty gross. You ever, 339 00:18:33,480 --> 00:18:36,960 Speaker 1: just to finish it, just to finish this the very 340 00:18:37,119 --> 00:18:39,359 Speaker 1: the one of the things I will always think of 341 00:18:39,480 --> 00:18:41,840 Speaker 1: whenever I'm leaving the house and it's a and it's 342 00:18:41,880 --> 00:18:44,679 Speaker 1: a place that I've never been. So if I go 343 00:18:44,720 --> 00:18:46,480 Speaker 1: to what places have been, then I'm more comfortable because 344 00:18:46,480 --> 00:18:49,159 Speaker 1: I know that there's a toilet. But if there's if 345 00:18:49,160 --> 00:18:50,640 Speaker 1: I'm ever going to a place that I've never been, 346 00:18:51,080 --> 00:18:53,960 Speaker 1: I'm always just like, please have a toilet, Please have 347 00:18:54,000 --> 00:18:56,920 Speaker 1: a toilet. For some reason, always I stress too, even 348 00:18:56,960 --> 00:18:59,000 Speaker 1: with this this that story though, this girl. When I 349 00:18:59,359 --> 00:19:02,760 Speaker 1: go do gunny jobs are used to to take a piss. Yeah, 350 00:19:02,880 --> 00:19:04,960 Speaker 1: I would like be nervous to take a piss in 351 00:19:04,960 --> 00:19:07,520 Speaker 1: someone's garden in case they saw me. Yeah, because it's 352 00:19:07,520 --> 00:19:09,920 Speaker 1: like kind of like this rude just a little bit, 353 00:19:10,000 --> 00:19:12,080 Speaker 1: and I'm like, it's only pissed And I go to 354 00:19:12,080 --> 00:19:13,840 Speaker 1: like a corner and I'm like trying to hide myself, 355 00:19:13,880 --> 00:19:17,879 Speaker 1: which is kind of a lot easier to do. So 356 00:19:17,960 --> 00:19:20,280 Speaker 1: I was just the adrenaline. I get a little bit of adrenaline, like, oh, 357 00:19:20,320 --> 00:19:22,040 Speaker 1: they don't see me. And sometimes if you're thinking, like 358 00:19:22,080 --> 00:19:24,320 Speaker 1: is it taking a time, like this stream is not. Yeah, 359 00:19:25,200 --> 00:19:39,040 Speaker 1: it's going. When you gotta go, you gotta go. Alrighty, guys, 360 00:19:39,240 --> 00:19:44,000 Speaker 1: We've got a dilemma for you on this Monday. My 361 00:19:44,080 --> 00:19:46,800 Speaker 1: best friend and I have been best friends since we 362 00:19:46,800 --> 00:19:49,920 Speaker 1: were born. Today we are grown ask women at the 363 00:19:50,000 --> 00:19:53,280 Speaker 1: ripe age of twenty three. Back in twenty nineteen, we 364 00:19:53,280 --> 00:19:56,280 Speaker 1: booked a vacation decrease with one of our mutual friends. 365 00:19:56,960 --> 00:19:59,399 Speaker 1: As we came as we came to the time we 366 00:19:59,440 --> 00:20:01,680 Speaker 1: had to pay for the vacation, my best friend told 367 00:20:01,680 --> 00:20:03,679 Speaker 1: me she didn't want to go because she didn't have 368 00:20:03,760 --> 00:20:06,880 Speaker 1: the money and felt pressured bias to go on this vacation. 369 00:20:07,640 --> 00:20:10,119 Speaker 1: I never really got to know why she felt pressured, 370 00:20:10,440 --> 00:20:14,360 Speaker 1: since we all wanted the vacation so bad. After exam period, anyway, 371 00:20:14,359 --> 00:20:16,639 Speaker 1: we got into a fight since she didn't pay and 372 00:20:16,680 --> 00:20:18,760 Speaker 1: it was too late for us to cancel her on 373 00:20:18,880 --> 00:20:21,320 Speaker 1: the ticket. I then had to pay for two tickets. 374 00:20:22,119 --> 00:20:24,600 Speaker 1: In the end, Corona came and I eventually got some 375 00:20:24,680 --> 00:20:26,440 Speaker 1: of my money back and we figured things out and 376 00:20:26,480 --> 00:20:28,920 Speaker 1: became best friends again. Fast forward to present day. Beginning 377 00:20:28,960 --> 00:20:30,960 Speaker 1: of twenty twenty three, me my same friend talked about 378 00:20:31,000 --> 00:20:35,359 Speaker 1: traveling to Asia together. We both had great jobs and 379 00:20:35,440 --> 00:20:38,320 Speaker 1: plenty of time for saving some money. We planned a 380 00:20:38,359 --> 00:20:41,240 Speaker 1: trip and bought some plane tickets in summer twenty twenty three. 381 00:20:41,880 --> 00:20:45,520 Speaker 1: Two months are before departure November twenty three. November twenty 382 00:20:45,560 --> 00:20:47,520 Speaker 1: twenty three, I told her we had to pay the 383 00:20:47,560 --> 00:20:50,399 Speaker 1: trip by the end of the month. She then tells 384 00:20:50,440 --> 00:20:52,159 Speaker 1: me she doesn't have the money to pay for the 385 00:20:52,240 --> 00:20:54,400 Speaker 1: rest of the trip. I got so sad and mad. 386 00:20:54,440 --> 00:20:55,879 Speaker 1: She told me I could do whatever I want with 387 00:20:55,920 --> 00:20:59,560 Speaker 1: the tickets. My two options were to go to Asia alone, 388 00:21:00,000 --> 00:21:02,920 Speaker 1: which I was not comfortable with, or get the tickets refunded. 389 00:21:03,520 --> 00:21:06,240 Speaker 1: I chose to get them refunded. My parents told me 390 00:21:06,280 --> 00:21:08,199 Speaker 1: to keep the money I would get back, so I 391 00:21:08,200 --> 00:21:11,199 Speaker 1: would so it would cover my expenses. So that's what 392 00:21:11,280 --> 00:21:13,600 Speaker 1: I did. I feel like I got half half an 393 00:21:13,640 --> 00:21:16,080 Speaker 1: apology from her, and I did tell her I forgave 394 00:21:16,119 --> 00:21:18,440 Speaker 1: her because I thought I did. But now I don't 395 00:21:18,440 --> 00:21:20,800 Speaker 1: know if I actually do fully forgive her. I have 396 00:21:20,840 --> 00:21:23,400 Speaker 1: a weird feeling when we talk. I kind of don't 397 00:21:23,440 --> 00:21:26,359 Speaker 1: want to talk when we do, so I guess my 398 00:21:26,400 --> 00:21:28,800 Speaker 1: dilemma is if I should talk to her about it 399 00:21:28,840 --> 00:21:30,600 Speaker 1: again or just leave it. I don't want to lose 400 00:21:30,600 --> 00:21:32,440 Speaker 1: her as a friend, But Ryan now she doesn't feel 401 00:21:32,480 --> 00:21:35,280 Speaker 1: like one. What should I do? Oh? Okay, it's a 402 00:21:35,280 --> 00:21:38,480 Speaker 1: bit of passed dramas has popping back up as obviously 403 00:21:38,560 --> 00:21:41,000 Speaker 1: left a sour taste in her mouth. Yeah, God, that 404 00:21:41,119 --> 00:21:43,280 Speaker 1: just sounds like a fuck around, to be honest with you, 405 00:21:43,359 --> 00:21:45,160 Speaker 1: what's wrong with a friend? Like saying she'll do it, 406 00:21:45,359 --> 00:21:49,800 Speaker 1: planning everything and then getting cold feet a month before. Yeah, 407 00:21:50,040 --> 00:21:52,960 Speaker 1: money doesn't seem to be an issue. I don't know. 408 00:21:53,359 --> 00:21:54,680 Speaker 1: Is it one of those people just say yes to 409 00:21:54,680 --> 00:21:56,560 Speaker 1: everything and then they get scared? It seems like a 410 00:21:56,600 --> 00:21:59,520 Speaker 1: big thing to say yes to and then back out of, 411 00:21:59,640 --> 00:22:02,320 Speaker 1: especially like you see them. You obviously booked it together. 412 00:22:03,119 --> 00:22:04,440 Speaker 1: Should be like, oh, you want to stay at this place? 413 00:22:04,440 --> 00:22:06,280 Speaker 1: She's like yeah, sure, and then mount there she's like, 414 00:22:06,320 --> 00:22:10,320 Speaker 1: oh no I can't come. Sorry man. Yeah, but even 415 00:22:10,359 --> 00:22:13,159 Speaker 1: if you couldn't afford it, Like could you afford like 416 00:22:13,200 --> 00:22:16,280 Speaker 1: a week at least. Yeah, I don't know. I don't 417 00:22:16,320 --> 00:22:18,760 Speaker 1: know if you could do something, but I don't know. 418 00:22:18,800 --> 00:22:22,880 Speaker 1: With this friendship, you're just not obviously planning any type 419 00:22:22,880 --> 00:22:25,080 Speaker 1: of trips of her just don't work. No, I mean 420 00:22:25,119 --> 00:22:28,320 Speaker 1: with her you would it would, I would say, just 421 00:22:28,480 --> 00:22:30,199 Speaker 1: never plan a trip with her again. You lost that 422 00:22:30,240 --> 00:22:32,920 Speaker 1: element of your friendship. You guys can be friends at home, 423 00:22:33,119 --> 00:22:34,520 Speaker 1: which is kind of a big thing though you kind 424 00:22:34,520 --> 00:22:36,879 Speaker 1: of want to plan, Like it's exciting to plan trips 425 00:22:36,880 --> 00:22:40,560 Speaker 1: with someone else, it is. I mean, have you got 426 00:22:40,560 --> 00:22:42,600 Speaker 1: other friends you can go with? She would have said 427 00:22:42,600 --> 00:22:43,800 Speaker 1: that she would have done that if she could have. 428 00:22:44,240 --> 00:22:46,520 Speaker 1: I'm just this happens all the time though, Like is 429 00:22:46,520 --> 00:22:49,600 Speaker 1: it a growth thing? Like are you ready to develop 430 00:22:49,600 --> 00:22:51,800 Speaker 1: as a person and go to another country? And she's 431 00:22:51,880 --> 00:22:54,040 Speaker 1: just scared to leave her town? Is that what it is? 432 00:22:54,200 --> 00:22:56,880 Speaker 1: You're leaving her behind? She's not ready because some people 433 00:22:56,880 --> 00:22:59,720 Speaker 1: don't like traveling and exploring. No, And I guess, I 434 00:22:59,720 --> 00:23:01,240 Speaker 1: mean it's she doesn't have to, but she doesn't have 435 00:23:01,280 --> 00:23:03,440 Speaker 1: to say yes to them. It's just tricky. I don't know. 436 00:23:03,480 --> 00:23:05,200 Speaker 1: I feel like there's something in there with growth that 437 00:23:05,240 --> 00:23:08,720 Speaker 1: you're growing apart. Yeah, true, that's a hard thing to accept. 438 00:23:08,840 --> 00:23:12,080 Speaker 1: I hear you like, I would fuck this. Things would 439 00:23:12,080 --> 00:23:13,880 Speaker 1: just piss me off. I just don't know. I think 440 00:23:13,920 --> 00:23:16,560 Speaker 1: you could distance yourself. I feel like it's you're probably feeling. 441 00:23:16,720 --> 00:23:18,480 Speaker 1: The feeling that you have right now is pretty valid 442 00:23:18,480 --> 00:23:25,399 Speaker 1: to like, actually, maybe just leave it and not contact her. 443 00:23:25,440 --> 00:23:27,560 Speaker 1: But if she contacts you, like it's a best friend, 444 00:23:27,600 --> 00:23:30,000 Speaker 1: why Yeah, I don't know though, like is it her 445 00:23:30,000 --> 00:23:32,880 Speaker 1: best friend? Best friends don't do that. I would try 446 00:23:32,920 --> 00:23:34,720 Speaker 1: and move on too, Honestly, if I'm being honest, it's 447 00:23:34,720 --> 00:23:36,520 Speaker 1: just fucking you're around, a fucking your life around, just 448 00:23:36,520 --> 00:23:39,840 Speaker 1: annoying tricky one. It does seem very tricky. I think 449 00:23:39,840 --> 00:23:42,440 Speaker 1: my best advice would be to sounds like you really 450 00:23:42,440 --> 00:23:45,560 Speaker 1: want this girl. Where's kind of trips? My best advice 451 00:23:45,560 --> 00:23:48,439 Speaker 1: would be is maybe plan a trip within Australia so 452 00:23:48,480 --> 00:23:50,480 Speaker 1: you feel safe going on your own, and then if 453 00:23:50,480 --> 00:23:52,920 Speaker 1: you go somewhere on your own, go somewhere else outside 454 00:23:52,920 --> 00:23:55,600 Speaker 1: of Australia on your own. Yeah, and I hate that 455 00:23:55,680 --> 00:23:58,280 Speaker 1: how it's harder for girls to go traveling by themselves. 456 00:23:58,760 --> 00:24:02,040 Speaker 1: But don't let anyone else like stop you from going 457 00:24:02,080 --> 00:24:04,840 Speaker 1: and traveling just because you need someone else there A 458 00:24:04,880 --> 00:24:07,280 Speaker 1: lot of people wouldn't be able to do it by himself. No, 459 00:24:08,040 --> 00:24:10,720 Speaker 1: and I reckon step, step by step, start in Australia, 460 00:24:10,760 --> 00:24:12,480 Speaker 1: then maybe after this year, go to the next one, 461 00:24:12,520 --> 00:24:14,760 Speaker 1: go overseas. Yeah, and you might if you might even 462 00:24:14,760 --> 00:24:16,600 Speaker 1: meet people that want to go traveling. And but I 463 00:24:16,600 --> 00:24:19,040 Speaker 1: think also a lot of like in Balley, we met 464 00:24:19,080 --> 00:24:21,480 Speaker 1: a few people that traveled alone and said it was 465 00:24:21,520 --> 00:24:23,840 Speaker 1: the funnest time ever and that it could be sketchy. 466 00:24:23,920 --> 00:24:25,880 Speaker 1: But I think you can do it in safe ways. 467 00:24:25,880 --> 00:24:27,280 Speaker 1: I think if you did your research you could do 468 00:24:27,320 --> 00:24:29,440 Speaker 1: it in a safe way. Yeah, I think so too. Yeah, 469 00:24:29,520 --> 00:24:32,040 Speaker 1: if you had your wits about you meet like minded people, 470 00:24:32,520 --> 00:24:35,480 Speaker 1: I mean personally oddie and I've admitted I'm not the time. 471 00:24:35,480 --> 00:24:37,000 Speaker 1: I wouldn't be the type to go travel a different 472 00:24:37,000 --> 00:24:39,240 Speaker 1: country on my own. No, that doesn't interest me though. Yeah, 473 00:24:39,240 --> 00:24:40,760 Speaker 1: I don't know, I don't. I just I can't see 474 00:24:40,760 --> 00:24:45,359 Speaker 1: me enjoying going somewhere, staying in a hostel because we 475 00:24:45,440 --> 00:24:49,000 Speaker 1: could happily not talk to anybody. Yeah, like if people 476 00:24:49,080 --> 00:24:51,639 Speaker 1: some people rely on communication with other people. If I 477 00:24:51,640 --> 00:24:53,080 Speaker 1: went on a trip by myself for a month, I'd 478 00:24:53,119 --> 00:24:54,720 Speaker 1: happily not talk to any one for a month. 479 00:24:55,760 --> 00:24:56,159 Speaker 2: You know what? 480 00:24:56,880 --> 00:25:02,399 Speaker 1: Same? Yeah, which is crazy. I was my girlfriend was 481 00:25:02,400 --> 00:25:04,359 Speaker 1: saying the other day. She was saying, it's she said, 482 00:25:05,200 --> 00:25:09,240 Speaker 1: So we're very different to some people. I could. Like, 483 00:25:09,720 --> 00:25:16,119 Speaker 1: a good day to me is wake up, edit, eat, edit, 484 00:25:16,840 --> 00:25:21,200 Speaker 1: go to the gym, come home, edit, have dinner. Yeah, 485 00:25:21,280 --> 00:25:23,359 Speaker 1: watch a show that day, and I don't talk to 486 00:25:23,440 --> 00:25:25,840 Speaker 1: anyone the whole day. That's like a really good day 487 00:25:25,920 --> 00:25:28,640 Speaker 1: to I don't need I don't. I don't. I don't 488 00:25:28,760 --> 00:25:33,240 Speaker 1: crave social interaction. Yeah, but some people need, Like even 489 00:25:33,240 --> 00:25:35,600 Speaker 1: if they just they go and they get a coffee, 490 00:25:35,720 --> 00:25:37,040 Speaker 1: even if it's on their own, but they go, they 491 00:25:37,040 --> 00:25:38,959 Speaker 1: talk to the barista, they hear a conversation that they 492 00:25:39,000 --> 00:25:41,840 Speaker 1: need such the stimulation they need it, which I just don't. 493 00:25:41,960 --> 00:25:44,960 Speaker 1: I like the silence. Yeah, I'm I think we're the 494 00:25:45,000 --> 00:25:46,800 Speaker 1: same in that aspect, don't we more than happy to 495 00:25:46,840 --> 00:25:49,000 Speaker 1: just be sitting to my own thing. Because when I'm 496 00:25:49,000 --> 00:25:51,240 Speaker 1: out and about is the last thing I want is 497 00:25:51,280 --> 00:25:53,080 Speaker 1: to talk to someone. I hate that. Yeah, And like, 498 00:25:53,160 --> 00:25:55,520 Speaker 1: unless I'm with someone I know, but the last thing 499 00:25:55,560 --> 00:25:57,600 Speaker 1: I want is to be having a chat with a 500 00:25:57,680 --> 00:26:02,840 Speaker 1: random person because small tour. Oh Ever, and imagine if 501 00:26:02,840 --> 00:26:04,840 Speaker 1: you're on your own. I bet you if you went 502 00:26:04,920 --> 00:26:07,600 Speaker 1: traveling on your own for months and months, it would 503 00:26:07,640 --> 00:26:09,600 Speaker 1: be like, because we don't like talking to people, we 504 00:26:09,640 --> 00:26:13,600 Speaker 1: would get so lonely. Oh yeah, because we reckon, we 505 00:26:13,640 --> 00:26:18,080 Speaker 1: would for months and months. Maybe Also, if you're doing 506 00:26:18,080 --> 00:26:19,920 Speaker 1: stuff like going on hikes and you're going to see 507 00:26:19,920 --> 00:26:22,880 Speaker 1: all this cool shit and if you're exploring, I don't 508 00:26:22,920 --> 00:26:24,200 Speaker 1: think we would. I think would be fine. 509 00:26:24,320 --> 00:26:24,520 Speaker 2: Yeah. 510 00:26:24,600 --> 00:26:26,679 Speaker 1: Maybe it's a different in different type of Mindset's two 511 00:26:26,680 --> 00:26:29,000 Speaker 1: types of people in the world, definitely, and then both 512 00:26:29,000 --> 00:26:31,399 Speaker 1: of them. All right, I hope we helped a little bit. 513 00:26:39,600 --> 00:26:42,080 Speaker 1: Radio guys, thank you for listening. That's it for today. 514 00:26:42,200 --> 00:26:44,159 Speaker 1: That is it for Monday's episode. We'll see you on 515 00:26:44,240 --> 00:26:47,560 Speaker 1: Wednesday morning, six am. Be there, I'll be square. 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