1 00:00:05,921 --> 00:00:07,281 Speaker 1: Apolgie Production. 2 00:00:10,561 --> 00:00:11,481 Speaker 2: I need your advice. 3 00:00:12,161 --> 00:00:15,321 Speaker 1: Are you okay? What happened? Promise it won't be too much. 4 00:00:16,081 --> 00:00:16,601 Speaker 1: Bring it in. 5 00:00:17,921 --> 00:00:26,241 Speaker 2: Welcome to our Bestie segment. This is the place for you. 6 00:00:26,721 --> 00:00:30,641 Speaker 2: Welcome back to another episode about Bestie segment advice. Goodness. 7 00:00:30,681 --> 00:00:33,601 Speaker 2: We have a very sticky situation for you today. 8 00:00:33,681 --> 00:00:35,521 Speaker 1: I actually feel like Stephanie and Tatiana are going to 9 00:00:35,561 --> 00:00:36,080 Speaker 1: enter the building. 10 00:00:36,161 --> 00:00:36,561 Speaker 2: I think so. 11 00:00:36,681 --> 00:00:38,361 Speaker 1: I think actually in Tiana need to go to the 12 00:00:38,400 --> 00:00:40,200 Speaker 1: health food store and get a local love. I think so. 13 00:00:40,281 --> 00:00:41,281 Speaker 2: They're on a coffee break. 14 00:00:41,361 --> 00:00:45,281 Speaker 1: Okay, let's walk. Came in, Hello Stephanie and hello. 15 00:00:46,241 --> 00:00:47,321 Speaker 2: All right, give it to us. 16 00:00:47,521 --> 00:00:51,080 Speaker 1: Okay, this submission is very short, and if anyone is 17 00:00:51,120 --> 00:00:53,201 Speaker 1: going to send in a submission, please give us way 18 00:00:53,241 --> 00:00:55,121 Speaker 1: more context than this. But we still wanted to talk 19 00:00:55,121 --> 00:00:57,761 Speaker 1: about it because it's a big one. She said, what 20 00:00:57,840 --> 00:01:00,641 Speaker 1: would you do if your partner went to a brothel? 21 00:01:01,041 --> 00:01:03,081 Speaker 1: So we're assuming that your partner's been to a brothel. 22 00:01:03,081 --> 00:01:07,200 Speaker 1: Bind your back and we're gonna talk about it. Immediately. Dumped, immediately, 23 00:01:07,241 --> 00:01:07,961 Speaker 1: that's immediately. 24 00:01:08,081 --> 00:01:12,920 Speaker 2: No, immediately crossing boundaries, holy, Tatiana says no. 25 00:01:13,081 --> 00:01:16,481 Speaker 1: Stephanie says, no, to go behind your back and betray 26 00:01:16,560 --> 00:01:18,601 Speaker 1: you cheat on you, and do it in a brothel. 27 00:01:18,961 --> 00:01:20,440 Speaker 1: Not that it makes a difference of in a brothel 28 00:01:20,481 --> 00:01:22,001 Speaker 1: with a random girl. I don't know. 29 00:01:22,041 --> 00:01:24,521 Speaker 2: It's both bad. It's the same, it's the same, it's 30 00:01:24,560 --> 00:01:27,481 Speaker 2: the same, except he actively paid for the service, Yes, 31 00:01:27,761 --> 00:01:29,920 Speaker 2: which I just for some reason cks me. 32 00:01:30,081 --> 00:01:33,001 Speaker 1: So any type of cheating and betrayal where you are 33 00:01:33,041 --> 00:01:35,921 Speaker 1: not being truthful and honest, No, it would be an 34 00:01:35,920 --> 00:01:37,761 Speaker 1: immediately for me. I don't think I could ever forgive 35 00:01:38,161 --> 00:01:40,921 Speaker 1: and move past that. Yeah, Like, obviously there's cracks in 36 00:01:40,961 --> 00:01:43,361 Speaker 1: the relationship. Yeah, and you guys are disconnected and maybe 37 00:01:43,360 --> 00:01:45,000 Speaker 1: you're not having sex and all the things, but I 38 00:01:45,000 --> 00:01:48,001 Speaker 1: do not condone that behavior. You have a fucking hard conversation. Yeah, 39 00:01:48,041 --> 00:01:50,201 Speaker 1: you talk about what's going on. You talk about your desires, 40 00:01:50,241 --> 00:01:52,201 Speaker 1: you talk about why you're not having sex, You talk 41 00:01:52,241 --> 00:01:54,881 Speaker 1: about why there's a lack of intimacy and connection. You 42 00:01:54,921 --> 00:01:56,961 Speaker 1: talk about why you guys are not being able to 43 00:01:56,961 --> 00:01:57,721 Speaker 1: do that with each other. 44 00:01:57,961 --> 00:02:00,041 Speaker 2: And this is also why context in what you guys 45 00:02:00,081 --> 00:02:02,681 Speaker 2: share with us is super important, because is it that 46 00:02:02,961 --> 00:02:05,121 Speaker 2: he went behind her back? Did you find out? Are 47 00:02:05,161 --> 00:02:06,881 Speaker 2: you guys on a break, were you guys on a break, Yeah, 48 00:02:06,921 --> 00:02:09,520 Speaker 2: did he come and tell you and confess, Like, how 49 00:02:09,521 --> 00:02:11,961 Speaker 2: do you know? Because then it also changes I mean, 50 00:02:11,961 --> 00:02:14,361 Speaker 2: it doesn't change what happened. Obviously, it's still a huge 51 00:02:14,921 --> 00:02:17,281 Speaker 2: red flag like say that lightly, but like a huge 52 00:02:17,321 --> 00:02:19,921 Speaker 2: non negotiable of like no, this is not acceptable within 53 00:02:19,960 --> 00:02:23,081 Speaker 2: the relationship. Yeah, but also knowing the context helps us 54 00:02:23,121 --> 00:02:26,081 Speaker 2: understand what kind of broke down in the relationship. Yeah, 55 00:02:26,281 --> 00:02:28,761 Speaker 2: because obviously, like what actually said, Like, there's clearly a 56 00:02:28,761 --> 00:02:31,081 Speaker 2: disconnect in the relationship. For a man to have to 57 00:02:31,121 --> 00:02:34,281 Speaker 2: go to a brothel and not to you and into 58 00:02:34,281 --> 00:02:37,561 Speaker 2: the relationship, there's obviously something that's happened. The reason why 59 00:02:37,841 --> 00:02:40,361 Speaker 2: I feel so strongly about this and like immediately dumped 60 00:02:40,361 --> 00:02:42,681 Speaker 2: why I started with that, was because it is a 61 00:02:42,721 --> 00:02:45,841 Speaker 2: breach of every commitment that you make in a relationship 62 00:02:46,041 --> 00:02:48,761 Speaker 2: for me personally. And obviously you might seem different in this, 63 00:02:48,881 --> 00:02:50,481 Speaker 2: maybe you're in two minds. I'm not sure, but you're 64 00:02:50,520 --> 00:02:52,641 Speaker 2: asking the question, and obviously this is a very big 65 00:02:52,680 --> 00:02:55,561 Speaker 2: thing for you. And granted, like emotionally, this would be 66 00:02:55,601 --> 00:02:58,561 Speaker 2: really really hard to hold and hard to come to 67 00:02:58,641 --> 00:03:00,841 Speaker 2: terms with, especially if you've been in a relationship for 68 00:03:00,881 --> 00:03:03,401 Speaker 2: a long time and you love this person and you 69 00:03:03,481 --> 00:03:05,840 Speaker 2: feel like, oh my god, like I'm a crossroads. What 70 00:03:05,881 --> 00:03:08,641 Speaker 2: do I do? But for me, this is a huge 71 00:03:08,680 --> 00:03:11,441 Speaker 2: breach of all of the qualities and commitment that you 72 00:03:11,520 --> 00:03:14,520 Speaker 2: make in a relationship to be loyal, to show up, 73 00:03:14,601 --> 00:03:20,001 Speaker 2: to stay committed, to stay monogamous, communication, communicate, and if 74 00:03:20,041 --> 00:03:21,960 Speaker 2: that's the commitment that you've made to each other, there 75 00:03:22,001 --> 00:03:23,921 Speaker 2: is a breach of that, and a breach of that 76 00:03:23,960 --> 00:03:27,520 Speaker 2: creates distrust. That's a huge crack in the relationship, trushes. 77 00:03:27,201 --> 00:03:29,680 Speaker 1: The foundation of your relationship. And this is where it's hard. 78 00:03:29,680 --> 00:03:32,201 Speaker 1: Whe there's no context because if you guys listened to 79 00:03:32,240 --> 00:03:34,401 Speaker 1: an episode a couple of Freaky Fridays ago, it was 80 00:03:34,441 --> 00:03:36,881 Speaker 1: this beautiful couple and she wrote in and said that 81 00:03:36,921 --> 00:03:39,481 Speaker 1: her partner went for a massage. Yes, it was meant 82 00:03:39,521 --> 00:03:41,481 Speaker 1: to be just a normal massage. He ends up getting 83 00:03:41,521 --> 00:03:45,081 Speaker 1: a hand job for around thirty seconds, stopped her, freaked out, 84 00:03:45,401 --> 00:03:49,681 Speaker 1: left the massage parlor, confessed to his wife, went super depressed, 85 00:03:49,801 --> 00:03:52,481 Speaker 1: went into a spiral, had so much guilt and shame, 86 00:03:52,641 --> 00:03:55,121 Speaker 1: shut down, planned to commit suicide because he just was 87 00:03:55,161 --> 00:03:57,241 Speaker 1: carrying all the shame that went and got marriage counseling 88 00:03:57,481 --> 00:03:58,961 Speaker 1: and they worked for it together, and I thought that 89 00:03:59,041 --> 00:04:02,001 Speaker 1: was so beautiful. He was a human that made a 90 00:04:02,041 --> 00:04:04,521 Speaker 1: bad mistake and they figured it out in the most 91 00:04:04,561 --> 00:04:09,081 Speaker 1: productive of safe, connecting, vulnerable way, and I think that's beautiful. 92 00:04:09,601 --> 00:04:12,641 Speaker 1: But we're assuming here that your partner has just gone 93 00:04:12,681 --> 00:04:15,641 Speaker 1: to a brothel and paid for a service with an escort, 94 00:04:16,121 --> 00:04:18,521 Speaker 1: and we don't know what else. We can only assume, 95 00:04:18,561 --> 00:04:21,241 Speaker 1: and that is a massive betrayal of trust. You've broken 96 00:04:21,281 --> 00:04:23,281 Speaker 1: what you guys have worked on. I don't know how 97 00:04:23,281 --> 00:04:25,521 Speaker 1: you come back from that. Absolutely don't think I could 98 00:04:25,521 --> 00:04:28,041 Speaker 1: come back from that. And even if I tried, I 99 00:04:28,121 --> 00:04:31,161 Speaker 1: feel like I would always be feeling unsafe or like 100 00:04:31,201 --> 00:04:33,681 Speaker 1: when he's leaving the house and questioning things, and I 101 00:04:33,721 --> 00:04:36,161 Speaker 1: feel like maybe I'd be throwing in this space every 102 00:04:36,201 --> 00:04:38,681 Speaker 1: now and again, and I would pun that, I would punish, 103 00:04:38,801 --> 00:04:40,241 Speaker 1: and I know I wouldn't want to do that, because 104 00:04:40,241 --> 00:04:41,960 Speaker 1: it's not fair. If you're choosing to stay with someone 105 00:04:42,001 --> 00:04:44,200 Speaker 1: and forgive them, you're choosing to stay with them and 106 00:04:44,201 --> 00:04:46,241 Speaker 1: forgive them, not punish them for the rest of their lives. 107 00:04:46,841 --> 00:04:49,681 Speaker 1: Most likely they're probably already punishing themselves as well. You're 108 00:04:49,721 --> 00:04:52,520 Speaker 1: actively choosing to stay, You're actively choosing to work on 109 00:04:52,561 --> 00:04:55,041 Speaker 1: it and rebuild that trust. But I do think it 110 00:04:55,041 --> 00:04:56,801 Speaker 1: would always kind of sit in the bottom of my 111 00:04:56,841 --> 00:05:00,241 Speaker 1: guart and I just would never feel truly connected, safe 112 00:05:00,320 --> 00:05:03,601 Speaker 1: and respected if I was to stay in the relationship asolutely. 113 00:05:03,681 --> 00:05:04,961 Speaker 2: And you know what, I know a lot of cup 114 00:05:05,521 --> 00:05:08,121 Speaker 2: you know, each their own, all have their own challenges 115 00:05:08,121 --> 00:05:10,721 Speaker 2: that they go through, and everyone has different levels of 116 00:05:10,801 --> 00:05:14,161 Speaker 2: values and things that they're willing to work on. Yeah, absolutely, 117 00:05:14,161 --> 00:05:16,321 Speaker 2: they have things that they're willing to work on, whereas 118 00:05:16,320 --> 00:05:18,720 Speaker 2: like somebody else might be like absolutely hard no, whereas 119 00:05:18,761 --> 00:05:20,201 Speaker 2: you might be like, no, no, no, I'm willing to work 120 00:05:20,241 --> 00:05:22,520 Speaker 2: on this. So only you can really decide what that 121 00:05:22,561 --> 00:05:25,241 Speaker 2: looks like for you. But I just think regardless of 122 00:05:25,241 --> 00:05:27,440 Speaker 2: the context of the situation where it was like there 123 00:05:27,440 --> 00:05:29,841 Speaker 2: are cracks in the relationship where this person just went 124 00:05:29,880 --> 00:05:32,081 Speaker 2: behind your back and decided to go and do this 125 00:05:32,161 --> 00:05:34,281 Speaker 2: behind your back, for me, it still feels like a 126 00:05:34,281 --> 00:05:37,880 Speaker 2: hard no because it feels like, Okay, what was once 127 00:05:37,921 --> 00:05:41,161 Speaker 2: sacred is no longer sacred, and once that sacredness has 128 00:05:41,201 --> 00:05:44,481 Speaker 2: been broken, I can't see myself coming back from that 129 00:05:44,561 --> 00:05:46,681 Speaker 2: because of how big of a wound has been created. 130 00:05:47,121 --> 00:05:50,200 Speaker 2: And that's only because one of my biggest values is 131 00:05:50,241 --> 00:05:54,721 Speaker 2: loyalty and that transparency, integrity, all of those things. And 132 00:05:54,761 --> 00:05:56,921 Speaker 2: so because those three are really really high up on 133 00:05:56,961 --> 00:05:59,881 Speaker 2: the scale for me, that is immediately like, you don't 134 00:06:00,001 --> 00:06:02,640 Speaker 2: respect me, you don't respect me, you don't love me, 135 00:06:02,641 --> 00:06:04,761 Speaker 2: you don't consider me, you don't care about me. And 136 00:06:05,081 --> 00:06:07,161 Speaker 2: that for me is not qualities that I want in 137 00:06:07,201 --> 00:06:10,281 Speaker 2: an intimate partner who is also got to potentially be 138 00:06:10,361 --> 00:06:12,400 Speaker 2: the father of my children, who's going to have to 139 00:06:12,401 --> 00:06:13,960 Speaker 2: hold me through the grief and the death of my 140 00:06:14,081 --> 00:06:17,161 Speaker 2: parents and everyone else that I love, and someone who's 141 00:06:17,161 --> 00:06:18,481 Speaker 2: I'm going to spend the rest of my life with 142 00:06:18,521 --> 00:06:22,161 Speaker 2: and the most time with. So it's just knowing what 143 00:06:22,241 --> 00:06:24,401 Speaker 2: you want in your life, who you want to surround 144 00:06:24,440 --> 00:06:27,241 Speaker 2: yourself with, and if that's the quality of person that 145 00:06:27,281 --> 00:06:29,961 Speaker 2: you want to sleep next to every single night, it's 146 00:06:30,001 --> 00:06:32,721 Speaker 2: on you. Yeah, it's on you. I think there's definitely 147 00:06:32,761 --> 00:06:37,081 Speaker 2: worth communication around this, conversations to have. Obviously there was 148 00:06:37,121 --> 00:06:39,041 Speaker 2: something that happened in the relationship, and it could have 149 00:06:39,041 --> 00:06:41,041 Speaker 2: been accumulation of things over time. 150 00:06:41,201 --> 00:06:42,841 Speaker 1: Got to condone it. But there's a reason why these 151 00:06:42,841 --> 00:06:45,361 Speaker 1: things happen. Yeah, when you unpack it, you're like, oh, Wow. 152 00:06:45,521 --> 00:06:48,401 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think there's always there's always something to learn 153 00:06:48,440 --> 00:06:51,801 Speaker 2: in situations like this for both parties, because it takes 154 00:06:51,801 --> 00:06:54,440 Speaker 2: two to create a relationship, and I think in terms 155 00:06:54,440 --> 00:06:57,441 Speaker 2: of a relationship breakdown, it also takes two to contribute 156 00:06:57,440 --> 00:06:59,320 Speaker 2: to that. And I'm not saying that you're a fault 157 00:06:59,361 --> 00:07:01,520 Speaker 2: in any way, shape or form, but I am saying 158 00:07:01,521 --> 00:07:03,921 Speaker 2: that it takes two people to create a relationship dynamic. 159 00:07:04,121 --> 00:07:06,361 Speaker 2: So you both have a part to play. Yeah, you know, 160 00:07:06,481 --> 00:07:08,440 Speaker 2: and now it's figuring out, Okay, what led to that? 161 00:07:08,561 --> 00:07:10,761 Speaker 2: How did we get here? What brought us to this 162 00:07:10,801 --> 00:07:13,361 Speaker 2: point where we're seeking outside of the relationship to get 163 00:07:13,401 --> 00:07:14,161 Speaker 2: our needs met? 164 00:07:14,281 --> 00:07:16,401 Speaker 1: So for what needs to be met, that's right, that's right, 165 00:07:16,481 --> 00:07:18,521 Speaker 1: that's something to look at. It's a lot to look at. 166 00:07:18,561 --> 00:07:21,001 Speaker 1: And yeah, there's definitely some hard conversations and only you 167 00:07:21,081 --> 00:07:23,481 Speaker 1: know what this future could look like for you, But 168 00:07:23,561 --> 00:07:25,881 Speaker 1: I think I don't know for me personally, I just yeah, 169 00:07:25,881 --> 00:07:28,401 Speaker 1: I'm the same. My value what you value everything you said, 170 00:07:28,641 --> 00:07:32,041 Speaker 1: an integrity, loyal honesty. Without trust, there just isn't a 171 00:07:32,081 --> 00:07:34,481 Speaker 1: relationship for me, and I would always be questioning and 172 00:07:34,521 --> 00:07:37,241 Speaker 1: wondering what is going to go do? What's next? What's next? 173 00:07:37,281 --> 00:07:39,121 Speaker 1: And you said you wouldn't cheat on me, but then 174 00:07:39,161 --> 00:07:40,561 Speaker 1: you did, so there's my evidence. 175 00:07:40,561 --> 00:07:41,641 Speaker 2: How am I going to trust you next time? 176 00:07:41,641 --> 00:07:42,961 Speaker 1: How can I trust you next time? Yeah? 177 00:07:42,961 --> 00:07:43,481 Speaker 2: Absolutely? 178 00:07:43,521 --> 00:07:45,481 Speaker 1: Am I not enough for you? Am I not giving 179 00:07:45,481 --> 00:07:46,521 Speaker 1: you what you need? In the bedroom? 180 00:07:46,561 --> 00:07:46,641 Speaker 2: Like? 181 00:07:46,641 --> 00:07:48,961 Speaker 1: There's all these questions and had conversations to have, But 182 00:07:49,481 --> 00:07:51,121 Speaker 1: I just don't think that is something I would be 183 00:07:51,201 --> 00:07:53,801 Speaker 1: willing to work through in hope that it got to 184 00:07:53,841 --> 00:07:55,801 Speaker 1: where I wanted to be. I think it'd just be 185 00:07:55,841 --> 00:07:56,641 Speaker 1: too broken for me. 186 00:07:56,921 --> 00:07:59,481 Speaker 2: Yeah, absolutely so. And it is so easy to do that, 187 00:07:59,521 --> 00:08:02,561 Speaker 2: to start to internalize somebody else's actions and be like, 188 00:08:02,561 --> 00:08:05,361 Speaker 2: what's wrong with me because they didn't want me? Yes, 189 00:08:05,601 --> 00:08:08,521 Speaker 2: And it's not the case. So really, if your mind 190 00:08:08,601 --> 00:08:10,961 Speaker 2: is going there, like I get it, I would probably 191 00:08:11,001 --> 00:08:12,801 Speaker 2: be doing the same thing. But just try not to 192 00:08:12,921 --> 00:08:15,721 Speaker 2: entertain those thoughts too much and just remember that like 193 00:08:15,801 --> 00:08:19,001 Speaker 2: somebody else's choices is not a result of you not 194 00:08:19,081 --> 00:08:19,881 Speaker 2: being worthy. 195 00:08:19,681 --> 00:08:22,281 Speaker 1: Enough, no way, or not good enough. Definitely not, Because. 196 00:08:22,041 --> 00:08:24,841 Speaker 2: Honestly, if this was Ashy or any of my other girlfriends, 197 00:08:24,961 --> 00:08:27,001 Speaker 2: I would one hundred percent be telling them to leave 198 00:08:27,041 --> 00:08:29,161 Speaker 2: and I'd be supporting them through that journey. I'm like, okay, cool, 199 00:08:29,201 --> 00:08:30,801 Speaker 2: what do we need to do to help you get 200 00:08:30,801 --> 00:08:32,361 Speaker 2: out of this situation? Because this is not it for you. 201 00:08:32,521 --> 00:08:32,961 Speaker 1: This is not it. 202 00:08:33,041 --> 00:08:33,881 Speaker 2: Yeah, there's no way. 203 00:08:34,001 --> 00:08:35,921 Speaker 1: And you want people in your life that can see 204 00:08:35,961 --> 00:08:38,241 Speaker 1: your worth if you are doubting it as well. That's 205 00:08:38,241 --> 00:08:39,961 Speaker 1: what best friends are for. That's right to remind you 206 00:08:40,001 --> 00:08:41,601 Speaker 1: what you're worthy of and what you can have and 207 00:08:41,761 --> 00:08:43,841 Speaker 1: everything you want and desire. I feel safe and loved 208 00:08:43,841 --> 00:08:46,201 Speaker 1: and honored and respected. It is out there for you. 209 00:08:46,241 --> 00:08:48,641 Speaker 1: Don't ever think that you have to settle for anything less. Absolutely, 210 00:08:48,681 --> 00:08:50,521 Speaker 1: if you had a daughter, would you tell her to stay? 211 00:08:50,561 --> 00:08:52,281 Speaker 1: Would you tell her to go? You would tell her 212 00:08:52,281 --> 00:08:54,321 Speaker 1: to get the fuck out of the Absolutely no way 213 00:08:54,361 --> 00:08:56,761 Speaker 1: I would ever advise or encourage Tahala to stay with 214 00:08:56,761 --> 00:08:58,881 Speaker 1: the man that did that to her. No fucking way. 215 00:08:59,041 --> 00:08:59,281 Speaker 2: Yeah. 216 00:08:59,561 --> 00:09:02,001 Speaker 1: Yeah, not a chance, Not a chance. But we would 217 00:09:02,001 --> 00:09:04,041 Speaker 1: love and update more context. We actually did a Q 218 00:09:04,121 --> 00:09:06,401 Speaker 1: and A on our instat and a lot of you 219 00:09:06,441 --> 00:09:10,081 Speaker 1: are asking for updates from these episodes. Yes we want them, 220 00:09:10,121 --> 00:09:12,681 Speaker 1: Please bring them in halfily talk about them. So if 221 00:09:12,721 --> 00:09:15,201 Speaker 1: you have heard your submission on here and you have 222 00:09:15,241 --> 00:09:17,961 Speaker 1: an update as to what happened next, please let us know, 223 00:09:18,041 --> 00:09:19,601 Speaker 1: just go fill the format again or send us a 224 00:09:19,641 --> 00:09:23,321 Speaker 1: DM what if you're comfortable with dms obviously aren't anonymous anonymous, 225 00:09:23,481 --> 00:09:24,921 Speaker 1: but we would love an update. We'd love to talk 226 00:09:24,921 --> 00:09:27,241 Speaker 1: about it. All of our listeners are also hanging on 227 00:09:27,281 --> 00:09:28,001 Speaker 1: by a thread, wanting to. 228 00:09:28,041 --> 00:09:30,121 Speaker 2: Know, waiting to hear more about your stories, So bring 229 00:09:30,121 --> 00:09:30,481 Speaker 2: it in. 230 00:09:30,681 --> 00:09:32,921 Speaker 1: Yes, but thank you so much for joining us, and 231 00:09:32,961 --> 00:09:34,201 Speaker 1: we will see you tomorrow. 232 00:09:34,481 --> 00:09:35,201 Speaker 2: Bye bye