WEBVTT - Best of 2024 - Why Gen Z's Aren't Drinking 🍻 🚫

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<v Speaker 1>We got get you the morning every day day, every

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<v Speaker 1>lazy gentleman adelaides.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's talk about jen z and how they are consuming

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<v Speaker 2>significantly less alcohol than previous generations. I guess, well done.

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<v Speaker 2>That's a good thing, more for me. So this trend

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<v Speaker 2>is primarily fueled by a heightened awareness of health, both

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<v Speaker 2>mental and physical, and a desire to maintain control over

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<v Speaker 2>their image, especially in the age of social media, which

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<v Speaker 2>I guess makes a lot of sense because if there

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<v Speaker 2>was some photo circulating of me back in the day

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<v Speaker 2>eighteen to twenty one, oh boy boy could.

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<v Speaker 3>Be in jail purely from embarrassment.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, exactly. Let's bring in our resident jen Zeta. Zoe

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<v Speaker 4>produces Zoe.

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<v Speaker 3>Who's breaking the trend?

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<v Speaker 4>If she sounds a bit rusty, it was a solid weekend.

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<v Speaker 5>I've never been a follower.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm not following that trend.

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<v Speaker 2>That was awful, the whole voice breaking thing that point beautifully.

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<v Speaker 6>No, yeah, that was actually shocking to me. Maybe it's

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<v Speaker 6>just my circle of friends. But well, you certainly drink.

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<v Speaker 4>A bit, really, so you haven't You haven't noticed that?

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<v Speaker 7>No?

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<v Speaker 6>I have, I have, especially on social media. I think

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<v Speaker 6>that's the big one. It's like how run clubs are

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<v Speaker 6>the crazy thing. Now you know you're not going out

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<v Speaker 6>and drinking on a Saturday night because you're getting up

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<v Speaker 6>at six and going for a run on Sunday.

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<v Speaker 5>Not me, some of them.

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<v Speaker 3>So she's not drinking.

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<v Speaker 2>She a thousands, I've got cigarettes, I've got nudes.

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<v Speaker 4>I think I wish it had been a thing when

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<v Speaker 4>I was your age less because when I was growing up,

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<v Speaker 4>it was like God, everyone just went out on a

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<v Speaker 4>Saturday night and got absolutely ridden off. And I think

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<v Speaker 4>the more you read about the harmful effects of alcohol

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<v Speaker 4>and the more you look into there's a lot of

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<v Speaker 4>people my age who are sober curious they call it

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<v Speaker 4>and just want to have a crack at either really

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<v Speaker 4>cutting back how much you drink or not drinking at all.

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<v Speaker 4>And I think it's such a good thing because you

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<v Speaker 4>think about it. I reckon alcohol in the way is

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<v Speaker 4>like the new cigarettes, right, so cigarettes were sold is

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<v Speaker 4>glamorous and to have a good time you have to

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<v Speaker 4>have cigarettes.

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<v Speaker 3>And Jimmy d.

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<v Speaker 4>But I think the same that could be said of alcohol.

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<v Speaker 4>So you think about our advertising and everything, we're fair.

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<v Speaker 4>To have a good time, you have to have alcohol.

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<v Speaker 4>And I don't think that's necessarily the case.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I think as well. My generation definitely don't drink

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<v Speaker 6>at home.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 6>I can't see if everyone, but I would never just

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<v Speaker 6>have a bottle of one at home, Yeah, for during

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<v Speaker 6>the week or whatever. So maybe the drinking lesson is

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<v Speaker 6>just really going for it once every two weeks.

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<v Speaker 4>I think the drinking at home during the week comes

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<v Speaker 4>with parenthood that you reckon with the stresses of having children.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, absolutely leank parenthed with alcoholism for sure. There's an

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<v Speaker 2>increasing demand for non alcoholic and low alcohol beverages, letting

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<v Speaker 2>both establish brands and new companies to explore and innovate

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<v Speaker 2>in the growing market.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm going to be honest with you. When I first

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<v Speaker 3>saw of a non alcoholic beer coming.

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<v Speaker 4>Out, I thought, still, you thought, what's the point?

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<v Speaker 8>What's going on?

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<v Speaker 2>Because I remember saying to my dad years and years ago,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm going to say, gosh, I love beer, and he

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<v Speaker 2>said it was very wise. He said, well, would you

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<v Speaker 2>like it if it didn't make you drunk? And I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, oh gosh. He's like, if you if there

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<v Speaker 2>was no alcohol, would you choose beer?

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<v Speaker 8>Oh?

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<v Speaker 3>That gets you thinking.

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<v Speaker 4>So you would never go to the service station because

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<v Speaker 4>they're in the service stations now and buy like a

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<v Speaker 4>six pack of non alcoholic beer.

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<v Speaker 2>If I was drinking something that I didn't care if

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<v Speaker 2>it was bad for my waist, Yeah, yes, I drink

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<v Speaker 2>it can't Coco, Yeah, Coke. My kids aren't listening because

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<v Speaker 2>we're trying to steer them away.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, and I look to be honest, I've tried that

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<v Speaker 4>non alcoholic gin and it just makes me more real gin.

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<v Speaker 3>So there's a lesson in all this. I don't know

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<v Speaker 3>what it is.

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<v Speaker 2>Everybody who's got a job, listen up, because a very

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<v Speaker 2>important survey has been released.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh, here we go.

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<v Speaker 8>It's titled are you an annoying colleague? Here we Go?

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<v Speaker 2>A survey real is the most loved and loathed workplace

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<v Speaker 2>behaviors as voted by Ossie workers. Why saying, oh, do

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<v Speaker 2>you think you could be a bad part of the statistic?

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<v Speaker 5>I'm worried will be a good part. I'm worried that

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<v Speaker 5>I do one of these things. Go on?

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<v Speaker 8>Hit us first one. Yes, people will turn up to

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<v Speaker 8>work sick. No, I think it's brave.

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<v Speaker 5>I think it's brave. Or would you prefer I go home?

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<v Speaker 8>No? WHI should stay?

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<v Speaker 6>Oh?

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah, so it will start off with this.

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<v Speaker 2>Almost a third of Australian workers, that's thirty one percent

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<v Speaker 2>would rather have a tooth extracted than socialized with a

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<v Speaker 2>colleague outside of wood. We've all seen a coworker outside

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<v Speaker 2>of work and you're like, oh.

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<v Speaker 3>No, what do we do?

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<v Speaker 8>Where I hold my hands? What do we talk?

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<v Speaker 5>I know?

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<v Speaker 4>And also it's bad enough that sometimes you run into

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<v Speaker 4>awkward people in the kitchen when you're just getting your

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<v Speaker 4>tuna sandwich or whatever. My gosh, and you've got to

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<v Speaker 4>make small talk. Imagine making that small talk in a

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<v Speaker 4>public space and.

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<v Speaker 2>I to the kitchen, I'm like, oh my god, she's

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<v Speaker 2>making a tuna sandwich again.

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<v Speaker 8>Close.

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<v Speaker 5>Is that another one of them?

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<v Speaker 2>He's one top five most annoying behaviors. At number five,

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<v Speaker 2>it is invading personal space. Oh okay, yep for people

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<v Speaker 2>said that's number four. It's talking over the top of people.

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<v Speaker 8>Number three. Number three is being messy.

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<v Speaker 5>No, that annoys me.

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<v Speaker 8>Number two is gossiping.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh that's the best part of work, isn't it.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, what depends when you become the gossipeler's annoying? The

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<v Speaker 2>number one most annoying behavior is poor personal hygiene. Everyone's

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<v Speaker 2>got a coworker that stinks.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, it sucks, doesn't it. Yeah, that really does. Can

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<v Speaker 5>I add a couple to the list?

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<v Speaker 8>You go, sold fever? What is Jodey's diary time?

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<v Speaker 4>No?

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<v Speaker 5>No, no. Excessive nose blowing in the workplace. Can't have it?

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<v Speaker 4>Absolutely, can I have it.

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<v Speaker 5>We've got some girls who like to play Taylor Swift

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<v Speaker 5>very loud in the office late in the day.

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<v Speaker 8>Can't have that, mature age Swifties's not sure about that.

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<v Speaker 4>No, And for me, the number one most annoying thing

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<v Speaker 4>in the office is people who scratch their nuts.

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<v Speaker 5>All the time.

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<v Speaker 8>Sorry, but they're not going to scratch themselves.

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<v Speaker 4>You know that.

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<v Speaker 8>I'll leave with this, Joe.

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<v Speaker 2>It's the top five most disliked personality traits. Okay, okay.

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<v Speaker 2>Number five people who lie. Oh yeah, that makes sense,

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<v Speaker 2>doesn't it. Number four people who are rude. Everyone's got

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<v Speaker 2>a rude co worker, rudin. Oh you've just got to

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<v Speaker 2>try and rise above it, but sometimes it's too much.

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<v Speaker 2>Number three people who are unreliable.

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<v Speaker 5>At me, very dare look at me like that.

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<v Speaker 2>Number two manipulative, and number one colleagues who are lazy.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh yes, fill the space and feel the space.

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<v Speaker 2>There's nothing to say here. I think there's a lot

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<v Speaker 2>to learn from that. There's a lot of information.

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<v Speaker 8>Takeout.

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<v Speaker 2>Does it apply to you? Does it apply to me?

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<v Speaker 2>Does it apply to other coworkers? Who knows it's his space?

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<v Speaker 2>But our eyes are darting?

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<v Speaker 4>All this is so spicy. Okay, So a daughter has

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<v Speaker 4>written a blistering obituary for her late mother and it

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<v Speaker 4>has gone viral. Ding dong, The witch is dead, wrote

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<v Speaker 4>Christina Novak in the passing of her mother, Florence Harlson.

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<v Speaker 4>Novak noted in the obituary that her mother had died

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<v Speaker 4>on February twenty second, twenty twenty four, without family by

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<v Speaker 4>her side, due to burnt bridges and a wake of

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<v Speaker 4>destruction left in her path.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow, He's are not beautiful words from the heart, it

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<v Speaker 2>would seem.

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<v Speaker 4>No. Florence did not want an obituary or anyone, including family,

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<v Speaker 4>to know she died. That's because even in death, she

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<v Speaker 4>wanted those she terrorized to still be living in fear

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<v Speaker 4>looking over their shoulders. So this isn't so much an obitery,

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<v Speaker 4>but more of a public service announcement.

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<v Speaker 3>That's what it's all about, she told.

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<v Speaker 4>The Bangor Daily News She even considered listing the ways

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<v Speaker 4>in which her mother wronged her relatives, but in the

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<v Speaker 4>end decided against it. She added it was her intention

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<v Speaker 4>to write a traditional obituary, found herself leaning towards a

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<v Speaker 4>more sarcastic approach.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my very goodness.

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<v Speaker 2>So I wonder how many people read this obituary and

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<v Speaker 2>we're like, oh, we didn't know that Flow was an

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<v Speaker 2>absolute cow.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, horrible woman, absolutely hideous woman.

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<v Speaker 3>You just sort of wonder everyone's got secrets. Yeah, everybody has.

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<v Speaker 2>Secrets, and obviously some people's secrets are more intense than others.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, I know of a woman who is a friend

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<v Speaker 4>of mine whose husband passed away from a medical episode.

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<v Speaker 3>At work so very suddenly, very.

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<v Speaker 4>Very suddenly, so suddenly. He didn't have time to delete

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<v Speaker 4>some incriminating things off his phone that revealed he may

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<v Speaker 4>or may not have been having a relationship with another woman.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, not ideal.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm glad you gave that that the ba it's not

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<v Speaker 4>a ding.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not sure what else it is, or you that

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<v Speaker 2>or we got this a range sound.

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<v Speaker 4>Thirteen twenty four to ten. Let's do this. What did

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<v Speaker 4>you find out after they passed away?

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<v Speaker 2>The story is coming through about people with genuine secret families,

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<v Speaker 2>it's unbelievable. Or genuine secret children almost as well. Yes,

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<v Speaker 2>I know a bloke who was at a former football

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<v Speaker 2>club that I was at who had a genuine secret

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<v Speaker 2>family in another city. What and the families didn't know

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<v Speaker 2>about each other? Isn't that crazy?

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<v Speaker 4>Until he died or is he still alive?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not really sure when I left he was still alive,

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<v Speaker 2>but I'm sure as soon as one of the families

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<v Speaker 2>finds out, his life is definitely in danger. But just

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<v Speaker 2>the stress, Okay, how could she possibly? But also and

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<v Speaker 2>you're like, hey, I've just got to head off to

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<v Speaker 2>another city for a week. Yeah, I won't be contactable

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<v Speaker 2>or is it constantly in contact with.

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<v Speaker 4>Bells thirteen twenty four to ten. I would love to

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<v Speaker 4>hear from anyone who found out something juicy or saucy

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<v Speaker 4>after someone died.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, this is my niche.

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<v Speaker 4>It's okay, it's good.

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<v Speaker 5>I know.

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<v Speaker 4>I've already tried this morning to find a baby Beryl.

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<v Speaker 4>I couldn't do that, but I'm fairly certain there'd be

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<v Speaker 4>some juicy secrets that were kept and were revealed after

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<v Speaker 4>the person went to the grave.

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<v Speaker 3>This is nice. I like this.

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<v Speaker 2>Thirty twenty four to ten. What did you find out

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<v Speaker 2>after they died? We'll take your cause next.

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<v Speaker 4>We've just revealed an a bittery that's gone viral. Christina

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<v Speaker 4>wrote of her mother ding Dong the witch is dead.

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<v Speaker 4>She said she has left behind a family, a wake

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<v Speaker 4>of bridges and a wake of destruction left in her path.

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<v Speaker 3>Mum's a cow.

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<v Speaker 4>Mum is a red hot cow, and no one liked

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<v Speaker 4>her okay the end.

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<v Speaker 3>And not a lovely cow like those dairy cows like that,

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<v Speaker 3>just magnificent.

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<v Speaker 4>Jerseys at the show, Not like that? Seteen twenty four

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<v Speaker 4>to ten. What did you find out after they died?

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<v Speaker 5>Tana? Good morning, good morning.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like that, oh bit would probably be quite

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<v Speaker 1>therapeutic and perhaps give her a little bit of closure.

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<v Speaker 1>I think the money to copy and paste some of that.

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<v Speaker 1>So essentially, what I found out and my siblings found out,

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<v Speaker 1>was that we were given an inheritance, but it was

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<v Speaker 1>never actually given to us by my parents. They just

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<v Speaker 1>decided to keep it and spend it and live their

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<v Speaker 1>best lives on it underknownst to us.

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<v Speaker 3>Whooh, okay, so how many siblings have you got?

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<v Speaker 1>So I only had two but the money was shared

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<v Speaker 1>out between us three and the cousin, and at the

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<v Speaker 1>time it was a relatively i mean, our first small amount.

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<v Speaker 1>These days it's huge. It would be like it was

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<v Speaker 1>seventy seven, but that was like fifteen to eighteen years ago.

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<v Speaker 1>So we woke out the interest and what we should

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<v Speaker 1>have gotten. If they'd done the right thing and kept

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<v Speaker 1>it all together in an account, we would have each

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<v Speaker 1>been given four hundred and fifty thousand dollars per person.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it was actually quite soul crushing, and just between

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<v Speaker 1>you and me and the rest of the nation, it

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<v Speaker 1>did result in essentially a no contact with me and

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<v Speaker 1>my parents. To be fair, there is a long laundry

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<v Speaker 1>list of terrible things that they have done, but this

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<v Speaker 1>was essentially the straw that broke the perbial camel's back

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<v Speaker 1>for us, and that was it hadn't spoken to them since.

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<v Speaker 3>So they're still around.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, they're still around. We found out because somebody else

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<v Speaker 1>in the family had died and they contacted us because

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<v Speaker 1>obviously there was a death in the family and they

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<v Speaker 1>were like, oh, hey, did you you know, how'd you

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<v Speaker 1>go with great aunt? You know, she left you all

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<v Speaker 1>that money, must have set you guys up really well.

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<v Speaker 1>And we were like what and they're like, yeah, so

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<v Speaker 1>it was a surpliceable amount of money, and we're like,

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<v Speaker 1>we have no idea what you're talking about. We actually,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean probably tmi. But we actually had to get

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<v Speaker 1>a lot because mom wouldn't give the money up, and

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<v Speaker 1>so we had to subpoena her bank records to find

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<v Speaker 1>out how much where she was keeping it, And in

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<v Speaker 1>the end we don't actually know if we got it all,

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<v Speaker 1>but we just took what we could and we just

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<v Speaker 1>washed our hands of it and went our separate away.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm so sorry, Tanner, I didn't realize. So your parents

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<v Speaker 4>spent your auntie's inheritance. That was yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, exactly. So she was a lovely lady, and she

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<v Speaker 1>left a bunch of it to charity, like for dogs

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<v Speaker 1>and cats and vets and some hospitals, and she felt

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<v Speaker 1>that my parents and his brother and sister had basically

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<v Speaker 1>lived their lives. They're like, you know, we want this

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<v Speaker 1>money to set somebody up to look after people, and

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<v Speaker 1>you know, this is a good step in the right

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<v Speaker 1>direction for your children. So she changed her will and

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<v Speaker 1>my parents essentially didn't agree with that. They felt that

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<v Speaker 1>we didn't deserve it, we would be frivolous with it,

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<v Speaker 1>we would waste it, and they thought they were doing

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<v Speaker 1>the right thing by keeping it for us.

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<v Speaker 4>That's so nice of them. I have a lovely cruise around,

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<v Speaker 4>you know us or something. Oh, Tan, I'm so sorry

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<v Speaker 4>to hear that.

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<v Speaker 3>That's all there, you go.

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<v Speaker 2>We have an anonymous lawyer on the line right now, Yes, who,

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<v Speaker 2>for obvious reasons, was like, do.

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<v Speaker 8>Not say my name because lawie is in a.

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<v Speaker 2>Situation where you've got to sort out assets, et cetera.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe uncover some really heavy truths. Yeah, they hear some stuff.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, so we say good morning to our anonymous lawyer.

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<v Speaker 7>Hello, good morning, how are you good?

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<v Speaker 4>Thank you? Okay, you would see some stuff I do.

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<v Speaker 7>Will's gonna state downs really boring, but it's really interesting

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<v Speaker 7>and ducy.

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<v Speaker 3>That's a key word.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh you've seen.

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<v Speaker 8>So.

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<v Speaker 7>I have had a client recently who's had a parent

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<v Speaker 7>passed away. Yep, they've come in to see me. They've

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<v Speaker 7>given me the will and I can see it says

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<v Speaker 7>I leave.

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<v Speaker 1>My stage to my children.

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<v Speaker 7>I've asked my client how many are there? They've said,

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<v Speaker 7>it's just us. And as we have progressed through that

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<v Speaker 7>someone else has cropped up and said, well, I'm also

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<v Speaker 7>with child, and it's sort of all come out in

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<v Speaker 7>the wash that mum had an affair and as a

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<v Speaker 7>result of that had become pregnant and had another child

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<v Speaker 7>that had been given up for adoption.

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<v Speaker 4>WHOA.

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<v Speaker 5>So what was the reaction.

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<v Speaker 7>Well, it was interesting. I had to obviously say to

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<v Speaker 7>my client, hey, did you know that there was another

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<v Speaker 7>one of you? Which they said that they didn't, and

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<v Speaker 7>they were aware of the existence of this person, but

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<v Speaker 7>the story that they had always been told was that

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<v Speaker 7>they were a friend.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, so there was Conso this person was someone who

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<v Speaker 2>the family knew.

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<v Speaker 3>They just didn't know how well they knew them, right, not.

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<v Speaker 7>Yet, not very well to my understanding. It was sort

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<v Speaker 7>of in passing. But they knew, they were aware of

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<v Speaker 7>the existence of this person, but obviously not not to

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<v Speaker 7>the extent that they actually were here.

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<v Speaker 4>It's dear Drew Chambers.

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<v Speaker 3>What about you? Like, Hey, that's our friend. People say

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<v Speaker 3>we look alike.

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<v Speaker 4>That's so silly. Oh, thank you so much for your care.

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<v Speaker 4>We really appreciate it.