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Speaker 1: And Whipper with Kate Richie podcast.

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Speaker 2: It he's fitting member with Kate Richie.

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Speaker 3: Welcome to the Monday podcast, our parenting expert, and we

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Speaker 3: just call mother of the show.

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Speaker 2: Maggie Dent's coming on. Actually, my wife's got a question

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Speaker 2: for mag.

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Speaker 4: Is her question why is my husband failing?

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Speaker 2: Correct?

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Speaker 5: So hopefully Maggie has an idea about how to fix you.

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Speaker 2: O great song, fix you love You.

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Speaker 5: I've got lots of questions for Maggie Dent, heaps of questions.

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Speaker 5: In fact, people can get involved as well. You can

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Speaker 5: dm us at our Instagram page. You've got any questions

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Speaker 5: for Maggie Dent. Next time she's on, She's going to

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Speaker 5: be a regular on the show. Please enjoy Maggie Dent.

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Speaker 1: This is the Fitsy and Whipper with Kate Richie Podcast.

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Speaker 3: A delivery driver has won a eighty million dollar payout

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Speaker 3: from Starbucks after he suffered serious burns when a tea

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Speaker 3: fell out of its holder and spilt onto his lap.

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Speaker 3: Michael Garcias suffered severe burns, disfigure and debilitating nerve damage

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Speaker 3: to his genitals after the hot drink spilt out of

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Speaker 3: its container When a.

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Speaker 2: Barista had a drive through an La passed him his order.

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Speaker 3: So when he go past, the order, fell out of

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Speaker 3: the holder, fell into his lap. He's taken them to

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Speaker 3: court and he's taken home eighty million.

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Speaker 6: Hang on a minute.

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Speaker 7: I've had boiling things put on me. It's mainly by

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Speaker 7: myself and that. Oh yeah, I did mind the stach.

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Speaker 7: Well that's but that hasn't done that sort of damage.

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Speaker 7: What was in the body cup acid?

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Speaker 3: Well, this is the thing. I mean, it's very very hot.

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Speaker 3: I visited seven Starbucks over the weekends. I've got no

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Speaker 3: feeling in my testicles at the moment.

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Speaker 6: But throw it Travis at the drive through, Throw it

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Speaker 6: in my lap. Eighty million.

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Speaker 4: How old is this guy?

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Speaker 5: Like, if he's an older bloke, he probably doesn't need

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Speaker 5: his burnt sausage anymore anyway.

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Speaker 4: So take the eighty Mike.

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Speaker 6: That's like a young man's name.

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Speaker 3: It does, doesn't it? Why we are so different here

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Speaker 3: in Australia. Why does America get these huge payouts?

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Speaker 2: Like it's ridiculous.

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Speaker 6: Stuff happens all the time.

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Speaker 7: It has my whole life and we just go, oh, well,

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Speaker 7: don't worry about it. You could have an arm cut

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Speaker 7: off by you know, the local butcher and you go, that's.

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Speaker 6: All right, that's all right, Ken, But another one?

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Speaker 2: What about this one?

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Speaker 3: A South Florida jury awarded a woman eight hundred thousand

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Speaker 3: dollars in damages. She was left disfigured and scud after

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Speaker 3: she suffered second degree burns when a hot Happy Meal

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Speaker 3: Chicken McNugget fell on her leg in twenty nineteen when

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Speaker 3: she was four years of age.

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Speaker 2: Give me a broke.

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Speaker 3: The lawsuit said the nuggets were unreasonably and dangerously hot

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Speaker 3: and unfit for human handling.

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Speaker 7: I mean, basically, where is that drive through? Because I

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Speaker 7: love me a hot nugget.

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Speaker 5: I mean, imagine imagine how much America would have sued

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Speaker 5: from biting into a donut when the jam and the

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Speaker 5: is too hot. I mean, if you could sue every

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Speaker 5: time you've burned your tongue on a jam donut.

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Speaker 2: You do it.

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Speaker 3: You do it for free every second day here at Nova.

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Speaker 3: You don't get paid for it.

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Speaker 4: You still do it and everyone has a bit of

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Speaker 4: a laugh, which is great news.

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Speaker 3: This is the Fitzi and Whipper with Cape Ritchie podcast,

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Speaker 3: The Role of a Lifetime. We are absolutely loving this show.

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Speaker 3: Eight point thirty on the ABC. You can catch Binge

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Speaker 2: But what a great show.

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Speaker 3: It is a great show, and this lady is involved

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Speaker 3: with it and she well we call her our mom

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Speaker 3: on this show.

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Speaker 2: It's the magnificent Maggie Dent. Good morning, Mags.

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Speaker 4: Hey, Hi, oh, Maggie Dent.

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Speaker 5: You know, even just seeing your name on this bit

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Speaker 5: of paper, knowing that we were going to talk to you,

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Speaker 5: it just brings a calm to the world. And you know,

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Speaker 5: we were talking the other day. There's something about not

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Speaker 5: only the information and the knowledge that you've gathered over

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Speaker 5: so many years, but it's also your voice. It's just

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Speaker 5: it's a shame you're on the phone. I just want

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Speaker 5: to give you a hug, but thank you for coming on.

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Speaker 8: All right, virtual hugs.

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Speaker 5: Hugs team, Bring it in, Bring it in.

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Speaker 7: You know what it does feel like Maggie DENTI is

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Speaker 7: to parents, what kids, what Maggie Beer is to food.

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Speaker 7: Something in the name just you just want to sit

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Speaker 7: at the table and make you make everything all right.

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Speaker 5: Hey.

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Speaker 8: What's really funny, Christy, is that one of my nieces

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Speaker 8: is married to Maggie Beer's nephew. So we've got to Maggie's.

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Speaker 6: Yes, that's what.

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Speaker 5: It's a lot of Maggie power.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I Fitz you wanted to kick it off with

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Speaker 5: We invite everybody to call through thirteen twenty four to

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Speaker 5: ten if you want to ask Maggie a question this morning?

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Speaker 4: Did you have something you wanted to kick it off with?

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Speaker 2: Fitz me?

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Speaker 3: Did you want to do well? I'm going to get

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Speaker 3: my wife on very soon. Do you want to do

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Speaker 3: that now?

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Speaker 9: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: All right, Actually I'll get my she's in the studio

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Speaker 3: with me now, Maggie, this is my beautiful wife, Belinda

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Speaker 3: j waight up, let you go go, honey, good.

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Speaker 6: Morning, Hello, what's happening?

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Speaker 10: Oh look, look, I think you're amazing. Every time I

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Speaker 10: have a doll moment in the car, I whack on

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Speaker 10: one of your podcasts just to give me some inside

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Speaker 10: of my two boys that are getting into the teenageys.

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Speaker 11: Oh time.

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Speaker 10: It is like I thought life would get easier with boys,

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Speaker 10: but it pretty much stays at a very constant rate

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Speaker 10: of changing things the way I feel. But look, the

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Speaker 10: only thing that I think, I mean, they're great boys,

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Speaker 10: don't get me wrong, and I've got a great husband

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Speaker 10: that supports, but they just don't need me anymore. And

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Speaker 10: I'm taking it to heart, like you.

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Speaker 6: Know, they don't.

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Speaker 10: Yeah, and it's really it's sometimes it gets me down

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Speaker 8: So how old are they?

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Speaker 10: We've got a turning twelve and turning sixteen.

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Speaker 8: Okay, all right, So there's some good news and there's

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Speaker 8: some bad news, and there's the good news is that's

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Speaker 8: exactly what they're meant to do. They're meant to pull away,

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Speaker 8: to individuate, especially from mum, all right, because otherwise, you know,

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Speaker 8: and I keep saying this with great respect, but if

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Speaker 8: they go over the bridge to manhood, when they leave home,

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Speaker 8: it's like Mum's still got one testicle, needing to leave

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Speaker 8: with both. Yes, just a sorry about that, but it's

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Speaker 8: a really good way to explain it. And it doesn't

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Speaker 8: mean to say we stopped loving them. And this is

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Speaker 8: where you've also got them at two slightly different ages.

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Speaker 8: So it depends when they start this whole brain changes

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Speaker 8: where they get even more moody and grumpy and forgetful.

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Speaker 8: And that's often when us as mums come up with

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Speaker 8: him even more forgetful, we need to be a little

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Speaker 8: because I don't like disappointing you and feeling like they're

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Speaker 8: at what you do, even though they'll still do it.

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Speaker 8: But men, you feel like an alien comes and steals

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Speaker 8: their boy. These have these lovely chats in the car,

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Speaker 8: and there was this and that loneliness is it's like

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Speaker 8: the biggest breakup. And I had four of them, mind you,

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Speaker 8: two of them. I was quite happy to break up

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Speaker 8: you know when you've let them go and you still

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Speaker 8: are the loving monk. And my from Boys to Men book,

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Speaker 8: important person on that bridge to adulthood in manhood, they

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Speaker 8: said their mum, why because they're going to muck up

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Speaker 8: and that's a really great gift. And then the last

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Speaker 8: odd chat I want to do something with you so

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Speaker 8: you don't lose them forever if you hold the ground

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Speaker 8: of love and compassion, but with good understanding that it's

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Speaker 8: just the most confusing time ever, especially for our boys

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Speaker 8: in terms of the changes. And then they've got the unpredictable,

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Speaker 9: On it.

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Speaker 3: Lose controlling the thing it is and you know what,

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Speaker 3: Maggie just there was a piece of vision.

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Speaker 2: It was on the thirty six Months podcast.

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Speaker 3: We've spoken about this, but the boys do come home

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Speaker 3: and they take it out on mum. Mum, why did

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Speaker 3: you put this in the lunch box and it is it.

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Speaker 3: It's disgusting. Then I get angry with the way that

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Speaker 3: But to who you say that you're the only person

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Speaker 3: that they're yelling at because they do it out of love.

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Speaker 3: That's changed you Bejay, hasn't It's yeah, that was a.

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Speaker 6: Good little lie opener.

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Speaker 10: And I do remember when I was young, everyone was like,

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Speaker 10: they always stand there for you and be your punching

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Speaker 10: to copy over little things. And I'm trying to reason

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Speaker 6: I've got to laugh.

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Speaker 8: Time you try to reason, you cannot reason no, because

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Speaker 8: they haven't got enough milin in their brains for understanding reasoning.

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Speaker 8: That's a mature adult brain, which doesn't happen for boys

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Speaker 8: twenty three. So we often think I've explained it so beautifully.

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Speaker 8: How come you're not How can you're not getting it?

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Speaker 8: And that's the myla nation of the brain that is

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Speaker 8: slowly happening we just have too higher expectations sometimes because

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Speaker 8: they could be six foot four.

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Speaker 11: Yeah, we're all fully developed looking.

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Speaker 8: At us, and she still hasn't got enough mum. And

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Speaker 8: even though we know girls cognitively way ahead of our

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Speaker 5: We've got so many calls coming through that want to

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Speaker 5: have a chat with you, Maggie. Thanks, p Ja. We've

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Speaker 5: got Zoe and Narrabine. Hey, you got a question for Maggie.

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Speaker 11: I do, Maggie. I just okay, you can go out, Maggie.

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Speaker 1: I just.

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Speaker 5: From me, big hands around. I wish you could be

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Speaker 8: I want to see this in every high school as

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Speaker 8: And it's funny in places, the role of It's been

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Speaker 3: The finale is tomorrow night, eighteenth of March eight point

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Speaker 2: Maggie, you are a gym. Thank you so much for

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Speaker 8: I love you guys.

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Speaker 1: Bye the City And with the with Kate Whitchie podcast.

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Speaker 4: Let's talk about one man and his name is not

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Speaker 5: We know that much because he is Australia's fastest man

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Speaker 12: His name is what he's supported to be g u Org.

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Speaker 2: This is something that is not acceptable. Nobody wants disease now.

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Speaker 4: Tommy was called herpes for years.

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Speaker 3: Do you know what I loved about Gout Gout is

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Speaker 2: Pub and go, you know what, maybe I could do that.

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Speaker 2: One day. I've got gat talking about, Hey, he look

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Speaker 4: There should be a Goutgout range.

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Speaker 5: Of T shirts where the over eight blokes of swollen

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Speaker 3: So he signed a multi year deal with Adidas, which

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Speaker 3: He's done a podcast with Noah Lyles, who's the fastest

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Speaker 5: And the other part is he's only seventeen years old

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Speaker 5: There's ten meters he currently if you leave the travel.

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Speaker 4: I don't want a time though, don't tell me the time.

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Speaker 3: That was like the AFL player Scottie Camparelli, and for

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Speaker 2: Really, that's right, it's when you change.

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Speaker 3: I think it really upsets people when you have to

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Speaker 5: There was the Essendon football footballer who went to Port Adelaide.

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Speaker 5: I think fits Arazio Fantasia and I think his name

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Speaker 5: He wouldn't yell out Fantasia because it sounds a lot better.

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Speaker 4: Because he preferred saying it that way.

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Speaker 5: You're dead right, Fitzy. This is the future of Australia's athletics.

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Speaker 5: And you'll see you'll see this footage everywhere on your

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Speaker 5: TV today paid through the paper.

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Speaker 2: The man is flying.

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Speaker 6: This is the Fitzi and Whipper with Cape Ritchie podcast.

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Speaker 3: Okay, does anyone remember this theme song from the movie A.

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Speaker 5: Pretty Little barn Ran The Simple Life of Paris Hilton

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Speaker 3: No, this is Otis And what year was mylin Otis

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Speaker 3: out Tommy and we.

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Speaker 7: of course it's the story of two unlikely pals, not

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Speaker 7: unlike the two of you, a little ginger kitten and

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Speaker 6: A journey of a lifetime.

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Speaker 2: I thought I thought it was a movie, Yes it is.

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Speaker 2: It was. It's a movie.

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Speaker 6: A right, are you all right? Can you spell burnt

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Speaker 5: It was a remaker anything, Wasn't there a more recent

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Speaker 4: What's the movie they did?

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Speaker 5: And there was sort of a cat and a dog

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Speaker 4: Well that was not nineteen eighty six.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that was a long time ago. Yeah that

446
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Speaker 2: was yeah.

447
00:21:33,080 --> 00:21:35,560
Speaker 4: Yeah, time flies when you're talking cats and dogs.

448
00:21:35,720 --> 00:21:37,880
Speaker 3: Anyway, The reason why I've played that theme is our

449
00:21:37,920 --> 00:21:39,760
Speaker 3: cat went on a journey on the weekend. Now there

450
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Speaker 3: is there's a story around this because I was away

451
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Speaker 3: for work.

452
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Speaker 2: This was on Friday, guys. So on Friday night, my

453
00:21:47,440 --> 00:21:50,359
Speaker 2: wife decided to have a girls night at home.

454
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Speaker 3: Both the boys Chrissy had sleepovers at friend's house and

455
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Speaker 3: BJ said, I'm.

456
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Speaker 2: Getting the girls over. I have a few drinks at home.

457
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Speaker 3: How brilliant, Nothing better than a couple of wines. The

458
00:22:02,160 --> 00:22:05,400
Speaker 3: thing is, though, one of the ladies, when they've entered

459
00:22:05,400 --> 00:22:07,439
Speaker 3: our house, have left the front door open, and that

460
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Speaker 3: gave Luna, our little cat, who's around about one or

461
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Speaker 3: two years of age, the chance to skip out of

462
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Speaker 3: the house. And we don't let the cat out because

463
00:22:18,080 --> 00:22:20,359
Speaker 3: around our area there's a few snakes and stuff, and

464
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Speaker 3: a few cats have been killed in the area, so

465
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Speaker 3: we let her out every now and then, but we're

466
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Speaker 3: with her, but she doesn't go out on her own. Sure,

467
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Speaker 3: thank god right that BJ's only just recently done this.

468
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Speaker 3: But someone told her in the area, why don't you

469
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Speaker 3: put an air tag in her collar and then you'll

470
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Speaker 3: be able to track her if she does get out.

471
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Speaker 6: Is it the same size air tag as you have

472
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Speaker 6: in your luggy? Just a big tag.

473
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Speaker 2: It is.

474
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Speaker 3: It's a big tag, but you can actually buy the

475
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Speaker 3: collars now. Chrissy Sommer must admit the collar is quite

476
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Speaker 3: big around her neck, but thank god we had it.

477
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Speaker 3: The thing is, though the girls didn't realize that the

478
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Speaker 3: cat was missing until night.

479
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Speaker 13: Oh my god school, So this is this is midnight

480
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Speaker 13: on a Friday night, and the girls go on a

481
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Speaker 13: journey with Bjy's phone to track down Luna the cat.

482
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Speaker 4: Oh my god, after how much roso?

483
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Speaker 2: So they're half tanked.

484
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Speaker 3: Two kilometers they walk, They walk for two kilometers and

485
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Speaker 3: realize that Luna the cat is in.

486
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Speaker 2: Swampland, So they don't know.

487
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Speaker 3: They can't see the cat, but it's it's saying the

488
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Speaker 3: cat's sort of like twenty meters away.

489
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Speaker 2: So then I don't know.

490
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Speaker 3: Jess have you can you please play for Chrissy the

491
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Speaker 3: sound that bj makes to get the cat in this

492
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Speaker 3: is it here pussport.

493
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Speaker 2: So she just yells out puss Puss the whole time

494
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Speaker 2: for two kilometers.

495
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Speaker 4: She was yelling out puss Puss.

496
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Speaker 2: Down the stare into Swampland, half tank.

497
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Speaker 3: She's got a bag of food and she's rattling that

498
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Speaker 3: because cat's always here.

499
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Speaker 2: A bag of food and they always come over for the.

500
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Speaker 6: Face tap a tin of whiskers.

501
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Speaker 3: Yes, yes, but unfortunately the cat's not coming at all,

502
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Speaker 3: and BJ's freaking out.

503
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Speaker 2: The girls go back home. They're all freaking out.

504
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Speaker 3: Everyone goes home and BJ goes I don't know what

505
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Speaker 3: to do. She finally goes to sleep late at night

506
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Speaker 3: and then gets an alert first thing in the morning,

507
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Speaker 3: and the cats at the front door just look at it.

508
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Speaker 6: Oh, what did Luna get up to?

509
00:24:29,520 --> 00:24:31,119
Speaker 2: Welly did rat or anything?

510
00:24:31,640 --> 00:24:36,159
Speaker 3: Major roads right when over major roads with traffic and

511
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Speaker 3: cars going everywhere.

512
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Speaker 2: But these cats are tough, man, They are really tough.

513
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Speaker 5: And you don't know what happened between the swamp and

514
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Speaker 5: when it got home either.

515
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Speaker 4: It might have got an uber home fits.

516
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Speaker 2: You don't know.

517
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Speaker 5: I mean, when it heard girls night out, it probably

518
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Speaker 5: locked in for some other cats from the neighborhood and

519
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Speaker 5: settled in at the swamp.

520
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Speaker 4: A girl's wearing the swamp.

521
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Speaker 2: But it wasn't wet at all, wasn't muddy at all

522
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Speaker 2: out in swamp land. Probably killed a couple of birds

523
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Speaker 2: and that was it. Yeah, it was done and dusted.

524
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Speaker 3: I do love though that it's all happened the disaster

525
00:25:08,520 --> 00:25:10,639
Speaker 3: happened while the girls were halfway.

526
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Speaker 2: Through a drinking session and owned by themselves.

527
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Speaker 5: There would have been a dance off as well. The

528
00:25:14,320 --> 00:25:16,720
Speaker 5: music would have come on, and then someone ruined the

529
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Speaker 5: party by saying, where's the plus plus?

530
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Speaker 4: Come on?

531
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Speaker 2: Where's it gone?

532
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Speaker 1: It always ends in that sentence that this is the

533
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Speaker 1: Fits In with Kate Richie podcast.

534
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Speaker 2: Can we talk about the land Rover Defender is?

535
00:25:32,280 --> 00:25:36,120
Speaker 3: It's regarded as one of the toughest cars of all time?

536
00:25:36,160 --> 00:25:37,159
Speaker 2: The Defender, isn't it?

537
00:25:37,200 --> 00:25:39,840
Speaker 4: Lots of Defenders on the road. They're not cheap either.

538
00:25:39,960 --> 00:25:43,600
Speaker 3: So they're not in production anymore. I didn't know this.

539
00:25:43,600 --> 00:25:47,640
Speaker 3: This is an unbelievable story. In twenty fifteen, a guy

540
00:25:47,680 --> 00:25:51,440
Speaker 3: in Yorkshire, he's got his own company. It's called Twisted

541
00:25:51,480 --> 00:25:56,040
Speaker 3: and they do sort of custom made upgrades to cars

542
00:25:56,040 --> 00:25:59,480
Speaker 3: and that. So this company, he and his mates love

543
00:25:59,560 --> 00:26:02,920
Speaker 3: this company so much and they love the land Rover Defender.

544
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Speaker 3: In twenty fifteen, he made a decision when they said

545
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Speaker 3: we're going to make a final run of Defenders, he

546
00:26:11,520 --> 00:26:14,479
Speaker 3: said to his mates, let's put all our money in

547
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Speaker 3: together and let's buy two hundred and forty land Rover Defenders.

548
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Speaker 2: The last of them before. They don't make any more. Now.

549
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Speaker 3: At the time the land road of a Defender was around,

550
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Speaker 3: it was that cost between fifty three thousand and sixty

551
00:26:32,440 --> 00:26:35,440
Speaker 3: seven thousand, depending on the model and specification.

552
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Speaker 2: Right.

553
00:26:36,600 --> 00:26:40,280
Speaker 3: He negotiated with him a fourteen point eight percent discount

554
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Speaker 3: on the two hundred and forty vehicles, paying around an

555
00:26:43,800 --> 00:26:47,320
Speaker 3: average of about forty four thousand dollars per Defender.

556
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Speaker 2: Okay, right, So.

557
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Speaker 4: What's that forty four thousand.

558
00:26:52,000 --> 00:26:54,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, times two hundred and forty what does that come

559
00:26:54,560 --> 00:26:59,760
Speaker 3: over forty they've spent ten and a half million dollars

560
00:26:59,760 --> 00:27:02,040
Speaker 3: a lot of money, right, I think the company was

561
00:27:02,080 --> 00:27:03,280
Speaker 3: doing quite well and it's.

562
00:27:03,160 --> 00:27:04,520
Speaker 2: A huge risk. Wow.

563
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Speaker 3: In September twenty twenty two, Okay, so fast forward seven years,

564
00:27:12,040 --> 00:27:14,920
Speaker 3: the company announced the final sixteen vehicles from the Hall

565
00:27:14,960 --> 00:27:18,760
Speaker 3: will be sold. This is so land Rover was selling these,

566
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Speaker 3: the last sixteen of them, and he's got two hundred

567
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Speaker 3: and forty of them at prices up to four hundred

568
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Speaker 3: and fifty thousand dollars a Defender. That's an eight hundred

569
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Speaker 3: percent markup on what they cost in twenty fifteen. So

570
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Speaker 3: over the years he sold some off here and they're right,

571
00:27:35,600 --> 00:27:38,080
Speaker 3: So he didn't get that amount for each one, but

572
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Speaker 3: he said, I guess you could directly attribute one hundred

573
00:27:41,359 --> 00:27:43,960
Speaker 3: million to do one hundred and twenty millions turnover that's

574
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Speaker 3: been achieved of the back of this buy.

575
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Speaker 2: Do you know what?

576
00:27:46,440 --> 00:27:52,160
Speaker 5: This story became famous when COVID hit because everybody wanted

577
00:27:52,440 --> 00:27:53,800
Speaker 5: the dated defender.

578
00:27:54,400 --> 00:27:56,840
Speaker 4: So when people stopped traveling, yes, they.

579
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Speaker 5: Couldn't go anywhere, no one was spending money on flights

580
00:28:00,880 --> 00:28:03,960
Speaker 5: and aeroplane tickets. People wanted to have a bit of fun,

581
00:28:04,560 --> 00:28:07,320
Speaker 5: so they decided they wanted to buy a weekend or

582
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Speaker 5: a vintage style car. And that's when this guy, just

583
00:28:11,920 --> 00:28:14,360
Speaker 5: off the back of thinking they're not going to make

584
00:28:14,400 --> 00:28:16,800
Speaker 5: them anymore, made a fortune.

585
00:28:17,280 --> 00:28:20,200
Speaker 3: So he's he said, I have some, but I'm keeping

586
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Speaker 3: them for a collection of my own.

587
00:28:21,760 --> 00:28:23,480
Speaker 2: I might release the odd one here and there.

588
00:28:23,520 --> 00:28:27,240
Speaker 3: We have a few special customers, but the last dozen

589
00:28:27,400 --> 00:28:29,520
Speaker 3: or so I'm going to keep to myself. I think

590
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Speaker 3: that he said, he doesn't even know. I think there's

591
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Speaker 3: twenty five left.

592
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Speaker 2: At the moment.

593
00:28:34,400 --> 00:28:37,440
Speaker 3: We've stored them, serviced them, cleaned them, covered them. We've

594
00:28:37,440 --> 00:28:40,400
Speaker 3: looked after these things for ten years, and I'm I'm

595
00:28:40,480 --> 00:28:42,959
Speaker 3: kind of attached to them. He just wants to have

596
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Speaker 3: twenty five hanging around.

597
00:28:44,560 --> 00:28:47,880
Speaker 5: Yeah, that's fine if you've already made one hundred million dollars,

598
00:28:48,160 --> 00:28:50,120
Speaker 5: as many as you want hanging around next to your

599
00:28:50,160 --> 00:28:50,960
Speaker 5: private jet.

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Speaker 4: Unbelievable story.

601
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Speaker 1: This is the Fits in Whip with Kate Richie podcast

602
00:28:57,360 --> 00:28:58,920
Speaker 1: Chrissy's Clickfait.

603
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Speaker 7: Don't you agree that one of the spookiest and confounding

604
00:29:04,240 --> 00:29:07,840
Speaker 7: stories of the year is how Gene Hackman and his

605
00:29:08,320 --> 00:29:10,720
Speaker 7: wife passed away and the dog.

606
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Speaker 4: We were talking about this last week. It's getting stranger

607
00:29:13,560 --> 00:29:14,120
Speaker 4: and stranger.

608
00:29:14,720 --> 00:29:16,280
Speaker 6: It's a game of cludo.

609
00:29:16,960 --> 00:29:21,160
Speaker 3: His wife passed first, which freak that freaked sad.

610
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Speaker 2: We thought that he was ninety five and he went first.

611
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Speaker 7: Well, I initially thought it was a lot more sinister,

612
00:29:27,720 --> 00:29:32,800
Speaker 7: but she'd been she'd been unwell and she passed away.

613
00:29:33,000 --> 00:29:38,600
Speaker 7: And then because he had very advanced Alzheimer's, he lived

614
00:29:38,640 --> 00:29:41,600
Speaker 7: on in the house when she passed away. That to

615
00:29:41,720 --> 00:29:46,000
Speaker 7: me is just the spookiest image.

616
00:29:45,880 --> 00:29:47,760
Speaker 4: Of him wandering around not knowing what's going on.

617
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Speaker 5: She's dead in the bathroom, yeah, and the dog's dead

618
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Speaker 5: in the cage.

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Speaker 6: Yeah. Why was the dog in the cave?

620
00:29:54,040 --> 00:29:56,520
Speaker 5: Well, they think she was either taking the dog out

621
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Speaker 5: to the vet or some sort of treatment.

622
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Speaker 7: No, that's what I said. I said that to you

623
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Speaker 7: last week. Off it that was just my theory.

624
00:30:02,840 --> 00:30:06,560
Speaker 4: Oh no, that was right, yeah, Or that she'd brought

625
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Speaker 4: the dog back.

626
00:30:08,880 --> 00:30:09,600
Speaker 2: It's right.

627
00:30:09,840 --> 00:30:10,840
Speaker 4: Oh god.

628
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Speaker 3: But see the thing that we spoke about last week, Christy,

629
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Speaker 3: how sad it was that no one checked in on them,

630
00:30:19,720 --> 00:30:23,160
Speaker 3: like they were dead for weeks. And then I found

631
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Speaker 3: out that they've got three children. Yeah, he's got three children.

632
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Speaker 3: And the will's just been released, hasn't it. And yes, yeah,

633
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Speaker 3: I don't get any of it.

634
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Speaker 6: The children aren't well, they're not in the will.

635
00:30:35,840 --> 00:30:39,640
Speaker 7: He signed it all over to Betsy, his wife, who

636
00:30:39,680 --> 00:30:43,720
Speaker 7: of course has passed away. He's worth eighty million dollars.

637
00:30:43,960 --> 00:30:48,080
Speaker 7: And I just wonder. I've always wondered when that happens,

638
00:30:48,080 --> 00:30:50,840
Speaker 7: when parents cut their kids out.

639
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Speaker 6: I wonder what.

640
00:30:51,680 --> 00:30:54,600
Speaker 7: Goes on there because or people that go, I'm not

641
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Speaker 7: going to leave anything to make kids that have to

642
00:30:56,680 --> 00:31:00,560
Speaker 7: earn their money themselves. Why I don't understand. It's like,

643
00:31:00,960 --> 00:31:03,080
Speaker 7: doesn't everybody need a little bit of something?

644
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Speaker 4: Quite often they do.

645
00:31:04,280 --> 00:31:04,800
Speaker 5: They do it.

646
00:31:06,000 --> 00:31:07,000
Speaker 4: The wealthy people do that.

647
00:31:07,080 --> 00:31:11,160
Speaker 5: And you look at Warren Buffett and his son, who's

648
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Speaker 5: I don't know, older than me.

649
00:31:12,360 --> 00:31:15,120
Speaker 4: He's fifty plus. He's been a struggling musician for a

650
00:31:15,120 --> 00:31:15,600
Speaker 4: long time.

651
00:31:15,480 --> 00:31:17,360
Speaker 5: And all he wants to do is release an album,

652
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Speaker 5: and Buffet won't get it give him any coin.

653
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Speaker 6: I just think that's mean. I don't see the point

654
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Speaker 6: of that. I never have. I never have. By the way,

655
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Speaker 6: what is your favorite Gene Hackman role?

656
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Speaker 3: Oh God, Mississippi Burning has to be Christy Swan.

657
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Speaker 5: Wouldn't it be interesting if the inheritance was with her?

658
00:31:39,200 --> 00:31:41,560
Speaker 5: But then she died and then it went to him quickly?

659
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Speaker 5: And then it's kind of the inheritance is jumping as

660
00:31:45,720 --> 00:31:48,760
Speaker 5: the body as the bodies keep dropping hard to wear it.

661
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Speaker 6: That ends up and then what if the dog got it?

662
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Speaker 6: That's not a good outcome.

663
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Speaker 4: Well it ends up with the other two dogs that survived.

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Speaker 2: What I So, does anyone know what's in her will Chrissy?

665
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Speaker 3: Because if she's gone now as well, or like this

666
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Speaker 3: is the thing to her children get it?

667
00:32:02,960 --> 00:32:03,640
Speaker 2: Or I don't know.

668
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Speaker 6: I don't think she's got any kids. She's got any kids?

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Speaker 7: He didn't ask, But my favorite Gene Hackman role is

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Speaker 7: Royal ten and Balance one of my favorite films of

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Speaker 7: all time, never been better. I'm just quickly Melsey is

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Speaker 7: in the country. Love Me is my absolute favorite spice girl.

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Speaker 7: I would give anything to meet her. She's what a

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Speaker 7: voice apparently was the I mean, look, only one that

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Speaker 7: could sing in the group. And I just want to

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Speaker 7: give a shout out to this duet with Brian Adams,

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Speaker 7: which still slaps.

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Speaker 2: It's a great song.

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Speaker 6: What a cheer?

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Speaker 4: Give you a bit of a run, Tommy, It's a

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Speaker 4: great song.

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Speaker 2: I want to do it right now. Do you know what?

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Speaker 4: She was at the don July eleven over the weekend

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Speaker 4: and d Jane and Tommy.

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Speaker 6: So she's ageless, isn't she.

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Speaker 5: She's got a new boyfriend, Tommy.

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Speaker 2: Can we get her on the show as a p

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Speaker 2: all right, We're going to do that. We're going to

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Speaker 2: aim for that this week when Tom give us a time. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: you've only just asked me for it. I mean, how

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Speaker 2: can I But hopefully by Thursday. Good work, buddy.

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Speaker 3: Anyone anyone know what mel C's favorite? Gene Hackman's No.

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Speaker 5: We'll ask her on Thursday, Tom and I've organized it.

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Speaker 1: This is the fitting in with Her with Kate Richie podcast.

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Speaker 5: Great little moment in a relationship story that I read

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Speaker 5: where they've said there's six words you don't want to

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Speaker 5: hear in a relationship. And I couldn't agree with this more.

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Speaker 5: They are I don't want to hurt you.

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Speaker 6: Oh I thought it was I am sleeping with the nanny.

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Speaker 4: Yes, that can get in the way. That can often

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Speaker 4: trip up a relationship.

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Speaker 3: You could probably condense it down to it's not you,

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Speaker 3: it's me. That's always a good one.

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Speaker 6: That's a good one.

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Speaker 7: Or about this one, you should lose some weight, fatty.

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Speaker 6: That's also in ways, that's sea you.

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Speaker 5: Later, I got an STI in Bali, I.

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Speaker 6: Got an STI and yeah, that's six well.

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Speaker 2: Done to test her in And they're not.

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Speaker 7: Good about I've re mortgaged the house. We are homeless.

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Speaker 5: Oka, Yep, that's so that's going to get in the way.

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Speaker 5: Also the words I don't want to hurt you. And

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Speaker 5: expert has come out and said, and I think we

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Speaker 5: all know what this means. It means that you've got

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Speaker 5: more feelings for me than I have.

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Speaker 7: Absolutely, have you ever said that to anyone?

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Speaker 6: Have you ever said that sentence?

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 5: But do you know what I remember when Lisa and

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Speaker 5: I started dating. Oh no, she said, I don't want

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Speaker 5: you to hurt me. Oh, yes, that's what we were

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Speaker 5: going to. We were going to a party and then

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Speaker 5: she didn't want to turn up to the party and

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Speaker 5: I said, what's wrong and she said, I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I don't want to talk about it.

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Speaker 5: So I left the party and went to where she

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Speaker 5: was and I said, what's going on? And then swanny

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Speaker 5: after she said I don't want you to hurt me.

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Speaker 5: That's when I said to her, but I love you.

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Speaker 2: Oh for the first time.

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Speaker 6: Oh that was nice.

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Speaker 3: That wasn't at Chinatown when you took it there and

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Speaker 3: you were still seeing another girl at the time.

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Speaker 2: Was it?

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Speaker 4: That was absolutely not true? Certainly doing a gray area story.

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Speaker 6: I want to hear it.

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Speaker 3: Wasn't after It's not after you knocked off twenty dumplings.

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Speaker 2: She didn't say I don't want you to hurt me.

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Speaker 2: I gave you saw you and I.

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Speaker 5: Gave her the bill, and I said, I don't want

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Speaker 5: to hurt you, but someone's going to fix up this.

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Speaker 4: I've had twenty four twenty four buns shalm no and Ryan. Ryan,

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Speaker 4: For the record, nothing happened that night. That was merely

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Speaker 4: a business that you kissed.

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Speaker 2: Her, tom and while you were still in a relationship.

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Speaker 6: Absolutely not wrong.

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Speaker 5: And Tommy, if you were thinking about putting this in

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Speaker 5: the National Hour cut back, that's you.

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Speaker 6: Know, that's nothing to be ashamed of. Either. Tarzan hasn't

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Speaker 6: fully let go of one vine when he grabs the.

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Speaker 2: Neck, Well said Chrissy, swallowed Cheetah doesn't. The old leopard

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Speaker 2: doesn't change.

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Speaker 7: It's got to test that vine you're swinging too, to

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Speaker 7: see if it's sturdy.

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Speaker 6: Then you let that other one go. See you. Sometimes

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Speaker 6: you go for the I'm through the forest.

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Speaker 5: Can we get that on a T shirt? I like

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Speaker 5: a task headed quote. It's up there with your cookie monster.

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