WEBVTT - ANSWERING YOUR QUESTIONS: A WYHA Q&A 0:00:00.000 --> 0:00:01.560 And then I'm like, okay, we need to rehearse, and 0:00:01.600 --> 0:00:03.560 You're like, oh, Laura, I. 0:00:03.480 --> 0:00:05.800 Still remember going over it in the Brisbane face. 0:00:05.640 --> 0:00:08.360 Hole and I was just so you were such a dick. 0:00:10.800 --> 0:00:21.000 I know, I made that out of my own room. 0:00:21.560 --> 0:00:26.360 Where's Your Head At? Is a podcast that talks full things. 0:00:26.400 --> 0:00:29.160 There's a hold on a sec. Let's give this a refresh. 0:00:31.560 --> 0:00:31.760 Hi. 0:00:32.159 --> 0:00:34.760 I'm Anna and I'm Matt, and we are now too 0:00:34.880 --> 0:00:37.800 newlywed not to each other. Just a female and male 0:00:37.840 --> 0:00:39.960 best friend here for the good, the bad, and the 0:00:40.040 --> 0:00:41.360 ugly times and. 0:00:41.479 --> 0:00:45.520 Exploring adulthood, family relationships, dilemmas. 0:00:45.159 --> 0:00:47.680 And whatever else we have the mental capacity to deal with. 0:00:48.040 --> 0:00:49.040 Come get the lowdown. 0:00:49.240 --> 0:00:50.960 This is your male and female perspective. 0:00:51.440 --> 0:00:53.560 So Mad, Where's your Head At? 0:00:55.720 --> 0:00:56.080 Its? 0:00:56.160 --> 0:00:57.800 Good morning, Mad. 0:00:57.840 --> 0:01:00.240 Good morning Anna. How are you feeling today? 0:01:00.440 --> 0:01:02.040 I'm a feeling good. 0:01:02.240 --> 0:01:04.880 So currently I'm on maternity leave. So we are doing 0:01:04.880 --> 0:01:08.520 a little pre recorded episode. But this morning has been 0:01:08.560 --> 0:01:09.399 a bit of a mess. 0:01:09.480 --> 0:01:10.800 Let's just say that, shall we. 0:01:11.160 --> 0:01:13.600 Yeah, Well, we got the recording times wrong, which is 0:01:13.600 --> 0:01:15.480 not the worst thing because we actually rocked up early. 0:01:16.120 --> 0:01:16.320 Yeah. 0:01:16.600 --> 0:01:20.200 Change, So we were recording today at twelve pm. Matt 0:01:20.200 --> 0:01:22.840 and I both rolled in at eleven am. I think 0:01:22.880 --> 0:01:25.160 at one point it was eleven am. Then it changed 0:01:25.200 --> 0:01:27.040 and it was just it was a mess. 0:01:27.440 --> 0:01:29.560 Before for the first time ever, I rocked up before. 0:01:30.040 --> 0:01:32.800 I was early, the first time before eleven am. 0:01:32.840 --> 0:01:33.440 So that's a good. 0:01:33.600 --> 0:01:35.360 First time for everything it is. 0:01:36.040 --> 0:01:38.200 But what did you decide to do with yourself in 0:01:38.280 --> 0:01:39.399 that well? 0:01:39.480 --> 0:01:45.200 Firstly, the lovely receptionist Vicky gave us a little free. 0:01:45.040 --> 0:01:46.880 Coffee that was amazing, wasn't it. 0:01:47.000 --> 0:01:49.840 Yeah, from nov So we like went downstairs, got our 0:01:49.880 --> 0:01:52.040 coffee from a place that we don't usually get it 0:01:52.080 --> 0:01:56.160 from around here. And in my eyesight, directly behind you, 0:01:56.880 --> 0:01:59.000 I spotted a massage place. 0:01:59.480 --> 0:02:02.040 Now, I said to you, I flagged that I've never 0:02:02.120 --> 0:02:04.840 gone to one of those like massage places that you 0:02:04.880 --> 0:02:06.920 see at shopping centers or in courts. 0:02:07.200 --> 0:02:08.440 Yeah, I even call. 0:02:08.360 --> 0:02:10.480 That like, yeah, like just beside Carls. 0:02:10.720 --> 0:02:12.600 Yeah, like a yeah, shopping center place. I've never been 0:02:12.600 --> 0:02:14.959 to one of those massage places. I don't really trust it. 0:02:15.000 --> 0:02:18.399 I do, but I always go for like the foot massage, 0:02:18.840 --> 0:02:20.560 yeah right, because it's like you. 0:02:20.520 --> 0:02:22.920 Can't really how can you really mess it up? As well? 0:02:23.480 --> 0:02:25.919 Like you're not like standing on someone's back or breaking 0:02:25.960 --> 0:02:28.600 you back, Like, you can't really mess up a foot massage. 0:02:28.840 --> 0:02:29.760 I mean you could, but. 0:02:29.919 --> 0:02:32.840 Because I'm not a big fan of foot massage, just 0:02:32.840 --> 0:02:35.280 Tammy sometimes offers me one, and I'm just like, oh 0:02:35.440 --> 0:02:36.160 like it just. 0:02:36.280 --> 0:02:39.480 Yeah, yeah, it tickles, it tickles. 0:02:39.120 --> 0:02:40.560 So well, I was going to get one. 0:02:40.919 --> 0:02:44.040 I was like, tonight we should get a foot massage together. 0:02:44.360 --> 0:02:46.400 We have an hour to kill. Let's get a thirty 0:02:46.440 --> 0:02:50.120 minute one. They have a special one fifty dollars each. 0:02:50.560 --> 0:02:51.280 Sounds like a good deal. 0:02:51.400 --> 0:02:53.800 Like I'm pregnant right now, or maybe I've had the 0:02:53.800 --> 0:02:56.080 baby when this is coming out. Who knows, we're close 0:02:56.120 --> 0:02:59.480 to having the baby, but I'm heavily pregnant. So a 0:02:59.480 --> 0:03:02.400 footms to me sounds like blits, like my feet are 0:03:02.440 --> 0:03:03.080 swelling up. 0:03:03.440 --> 0:03:05.840 Well, we sat down and I realized that we weren't 0:03:05.840 --> 0:03:07.200 going to sit next to each other. I wasn't a 0:03:07.200 --> 0:03:08.840 fan of that. I was like tucked away into the 0:03:08.840 --> 0:03:10.400 corner by myself. 0:03:10.440 --> 0:03:11.519 Got isolated. 0:03:12.520 --> 0:03:14.839 So I was sitting there as and then they did 0:03:14.880 --> 0:03:17.000 not the ladies first, obviously, so they went to you, 0:03:17.160 --> 0:03:19.440 and I realized no one had even noticed I was there, 0:03:19.480 --> 0:03:22.240 also tucked into the corner, so I was sitting in 0:03:22.240 --> 0:03:25.080 the corner by myself, and then we got a message 0:03:25.080 --> 0:03:27.480 from Blake so producer saying I'm. 0:03:27.280 --> 0:03:30.360 Ready, I'm up here now. So I ditched. 0:03:31.160 --> 0:03:33.160 Oh yeah, I messaged me and I was like, oh 0:03:33.200 --> 0:03:36.040 my god, Blake's on the way. I'm five minutes into 0:03:36.040 --> 0:03:39.560 this foot massage. What am I supposed to do? And 0:03:39.560 --> 0:03:41.600 then Matt's like, well, I'm go and see us. I 0:03:41.760 --> 0:03:43.280 was like, don't leave me here. 0:03:44.080 --> 0:03:46.480 So I got off and I walked off, but I 0:03:46.480 --> 0:03:48.480 bumped into one of my best mates, Cob out the front, 0:03:48.520 --> 0:03:51.320 so that was good. Random so Random his offices around here, 0:03:51.320 --> 0:03:52.840 so I just spoke to him for. 0:03:52.840 --> 0:03:55.240 A bit and yeah, he said that catching never to me, 0:03:56.120 --> 0:03:57.320 how is how do your feet feel? 0:03:57.680 --> 0:04:02.720 Honestly, I feel so relaxed, almost two zen. I'm feeling 0:04:02.920 --> 0:04:06.520 very at peace. I do think that I should be 0:04:06.640 --> 0:04:08.240 getting more pregnancy massages. 0:04:09.320 --> 0:04:11.480 I never, like I said, I never, I never treat 0:04:11.480 --> 0:04:14.400 myself to massages. It's just not something that's ever been 0:04:14.440 --> 0:04:16.920 my what's the word on my radar? I mean one 0:04:16.920 --> 0:04:19.080 time we tammun I did a couples on. We got 0:04:19.080 --> 0:04:22.360 someone to come to the house, but she booked it 0:04:22.520 --> 0:04:24.080 and she said deep tissue. 0:04:24.440 --> 0:04:25.280 It was the most. 0:04:25.120 --> 0:04:28.400 Unrelaxing thing set up in the lounge room, and I 0:04:28.440 --> 0:04:31.600 swear to he was just digging thumbs and elbows into 0:04:31.600 --> 0:04:33.640 places I didn't know you could dig him into. 0:04:33.880 --> 0:04:34.840 That's so funny. 0:04:34.960 --> 0:04:38.800 Michael and I when we were in Athens, we had 0:04:38.880 --> 0:04:40.800 a night flight and I had a bit of a 0:04:40.800 --> 0:04:44.839 sore back, so we got it's kind of the same thing. 0:04:45.120 --> 0:04:47.240 We both got like a couple's massage, and I was like, 0:04:47.360 --> 0:04:50.080 you know, like get into it kind of thing. 0:04:50.800 --> 0:04:53.520 I was. I was in agony. Yeah, she was like 0:04:53.640 --> 0:04:57.400 stepping on my back, she was pulling my arms back. 0:04:57.440 --> 0:05:00.080 My head was off the table. It was like it 0:05:00.120 --> 0:05:03.640 was like an exorcism. I was like, this is not cute. 0:05:04.000 --> 0:05:04.919 Doesn't feel cute. 0:05:04.920 --> 0:05:07.880 It doesn't It's like, this is not I felt like 0:05:07.920 --> 0:05:10.440 I walked out of They're like twenty thirty years older. 0:05:10.480 --> 0:05:11.440 Well that's pretty much having to me. 0:05:11.480 --> 0:05:13.120 And I remember just being like, and they don't pick 0:05:13.160 --> 0:05:14.480 up on the hints when you're flinching. 0:05:15.279 --> 0:05:17.680 You're like, yeah, ah ah, they didn't pick up on it. 0:05:18.040 --> 0:05:18.520 I don't know it. 0:05:18.920 --> 0:05:21.000 Yeah, that sounds like he's enjoying it. 0:05:21.120 --> 0:05:23.160 Yeah, I remember them wolf walk passing was looking at me. 0:05:23.240 --> 0:05:30.479 I was like, it's like, well, I mean, look, I 0:05:30.520 --> 0:05:34.760 always love a message. I think if you've been someone 0:05:34.800 --> 0:05:40.080 who's frequented Bali or Thailand, you know how cheap their 0:05:40.120 --> 0:05:43.520 massages can be there. It's like twenty dollars for an 0:05:43.560 --> 0:05:46.719 hour massage, or even fifteen dollars for an hour massage. 0:05:46.800 --> 0:05:49.760 We got one in Bali at the pool at the 0:05:49.760 --> 0:05:52.640 beach club next to the pool. An hour is a 0:05:52.640 --> 0:05:54.200 long time when you're sitting by the pool. 0:05:54.240 --> 0:05:57.359 I feel while like everyone else is at the pool. 0:05:57.480 --> 0:05:58.919 Yeah, cut it short. 0:05:59.240 --> 0:05:59.840 You cut it short. 0:06:00.360 --> 0:06:02.359 Well, you're not in air conn Like I feel like 0:06:02.440 --> 0:06:04.200 if I'm having a massage, I need to be an 0:06:04.200 --> 0:06:07.080 air con. I need to be I need that real 0:06:07.240 --> 0:06:09.560 zen music like chimes. 0:06:10.240 --> 0:06:12.559 We did have a nice couples one in the Mold Lives. 0:06:12.640 --> 0:06:14.520 That was a nice one. 0:06:14.839 --> 0:06:18.040 Well, look this is your sign to go and treat 0:06:18.080 --> 0:06:19.960 yourself get a massage. 0:06:20.200 --> 0:06:22.480 Like I just did feel the zen. 0:06:23.000 --> 0:06:24.040 I even showed my mate. 0:06:24.080 --> 0:06:25.760 I was like, he's like, what are you doing waiting 0:06:25.800 --> 0:06:27.760 for waiting for to get a massage? 0:06:27.800 --> 0:06:29.240 And we walked up to the door and uppointed. 0:06:29.440 --> 0:06:31.280 You know, he started taking photos of me like this 0:06:31.320 --> 0:06:32.839 is not a friendowship, move away. 0:06:33.240 --> 0:06:35.240 I'm sure you can post one of them on our Facebook. 0:06:35.320 --> 0:06:38.160 I will put Facebook group for everyone. 0:06:38.600 --> 0:06:44.480 Should we get into our episode, let's do it, okay, Matt. 0:06:44.560 --> 0:06:48.960 We are asking the burning questions of our audience. We 0:06:49.080 --> 0:06:53.080 put up a question box on social media and we 0:06:53.200 --> 0:06:56.720 got a huge response with lots and lots of different questions. 0:06:56.800 --> 0:07:00.640 So our producer has put together a list of his favorites. 0:07:01.120 --> 0:07:03.159 So do you want to take it away? 0:07:03.680 --> 0:07:05.600 The first one is I've got a bit of a. 0:07:07.839 --> 0:07:13.200 Her first question is favorite memory of one another. It's 0:07:13.200 --> 0:07:14.040 your favorite memory. 0:07:14.480 --> 0:07:18.480 I think I have two favorite memories. The first one 0:07:18.840 --> 0:07:21.760 is from ages ago when we had just gotten off 0:07:21.760 --> 0:07:25.880 of Love Island and we were flying together because we 0:07:25.880 --> 0:07:29.040 were both from Melbourne and we had a night flight 0:07:29.240 --> 0:07:30.960 and it was the first time that we got to 0:07:31.200 --> 0:07:35.160 chat and talk without being recorded like we didn't have. 0:07:35.160 --> 0:07:38.280 We wen't miked. We had all this time on the plane. 0:07:38.360 --> 0:07:39.200 I remember that I was. 0:07:39.120 --> 0:07:42.760 Having a couple of red wines. We got drunk because 0:07:42.760 --> 0:07:44.800 we couldn't get drunk in the villa. 0:07:44.880 --> 0:07:49.000 We only led one and one spill set all over 0:07:49.000 --> 0:07:49.560 your trackies. 0:07:49.600 --> 0:07:53.320 I still red wine all over my tracks, but then 0:07:53.960 --> 0:07:56.000 luckily had a new outfit and it was just fun. 0:07:56.560 --> 0:07:58.920 It was nice to just debrief and have a proper 0:07:59.040 --> 0:08:02.080 chat that you knew we played. 0:08:01.920 --> 0:08:03.960 And we could actually tell each other stuff. 0:08:04.360 --> 0:08:07.600 Yeah, stuff that Oh my god, do you still have. 0:08:09.400 --> 0:08:11.160 I have a photo of us on the plane and 0:08:11.200 --> 0:08:12.160 that's before we bought it. 0:08:12.440 --> 0:08:13.200 Yeah, I remember that. 0:08:13.240 --> 0:08:15.000 I'll post them as well on the Facebook page. 0:08:15.080 --> 0:08:16.120 That's so funny. 0:08:16.560 --> 0:08:18.000 That's your photo of me when I call. 0:08:18.240 --> 0:08:18.920 Yeah. 0:08:18.600 --> 0:08:23.680 Yeah, so I feel like in that memory. Then actually 0:08:23.760 --> 0:08:26.560 arriving back at Melbourne and both of our parents were 0:08:26.560 --> 0:08:30.040 hanging out together and like all excited to see nice. 0:08:29.840 --> 0:08:34.120 Each other from the video calls, yeah. 0:08:32.840 --> 0:08:34.560 Knew each other were Yeah. 0:08:34.640 --> 0:08:37.199 So that was really nice and it was like very 0:08:37.320 --> 0:08:39.120 it was just wholesome and it was nice. 0:08:39.600 --> 0:08:40.800 That's my first one. 0:08:41.240 --> 0:08:43.240 I'd say that's probably one of my favorite memories as well. 0:08:43.440 --> 0:08:46.960 Yeah, and then the second favorite memory would have to 0:08:47.000 --> 0:08:51.480 be you and Tammy coming to my wedding. I think 0:08:51.520 --> 0:08:55.559 it's hard as well, because we work together. We're always 0:08:55.760 --> 0:08:58.760 podcast focused, Like when we're talking, we're like what are 0:08:58.760 --> 0:08:59.880 we doing on the podcast? 0:09:00.080 --> 0:09:02.200 And like what's what are we like? We're just always 0:09:02.200 --> 0:09:02.880 talking work. 0:09:03.480 --> 0:09:05.000 I think as well, it's hard as well. When I 0:09:05.040 --> 0:09:06.160 live in a different state. 0:09:06.040 --> 0:09:08.200 It's hard. Yeah, like you live in a different state 0:09:08.240 --> 0:09:08.559 as well. 0:09:09.320 --> 0:09:12.800 Business Like I'm manic at the moment. 0:09:12.960 --> 0:09:15.319 I'm just like trying to get everything done. 0:09:15.920 --> 0:09:19.000 Yeah, And so I feel like we don't really socialize 0:09:19.160 --> 0:09:20.240 as much as we used to. 0:09:21.000 --> 0:09:22.720 Like we used to socialize. We used to on like. 0:09:22.640 --> 0:09:25.520 Double dates with people and like we did all like 0:09:25.640 --> 0:09:27.800 fun stuff, but we don't really do that anymore. So 0:09:27.800 --> 0:09:30.480 I think having you guys at the wedding was a 0:09:30.480 --> 0:09:33.560 lot of fun. And then specifically we had a really 0:09:33.559 --> 0:09:38.720 special day at Canal More where we all got four 0:09:38.720 --> 0:09:41.440 wheelers I think, and drove for an hour or two 0:09:41.480 --> 0:09:45.280 hours cod bikes and yeah, drove there and. 0:09:45.320 --> 0:09:46.240 That was a good eyed day. 0:09:46.280 --> 0:09:47.080 It was such a good. 0:09:47.040 --> 0:09:50.679 Day, swam in the canal, made out with our part 0:09:51.880 --> 0:09:52.720 in those waves. 0:09:53.280 --> 0:09:53.920 Yeah, the waves. 0:09:54.080 --> 0:09:55.440 It was just fun for all. 0:09:55.520 --> 0:09:57.839 Spritz Is at that restaurant now has a great day. 0:09:57.880 --> 0:09:59.840 That's probably one of some of my fondest memories on that. 0:10:00.240 --> 0:10:02.240 I do agree. Like, remember we went to that old 0:10:02.280 --> 0:10:05.120 Melbourne jail and we were like, we don't do anything 0:10:05.160 --> 0:10:08.040 like this anymore. Yeah, like we don't hang out like friends. 0:10:08.120 --> 0:10:12.880 But even that we wouldn't know we were friends, but 0:10:12.960 --> 0:10:14.920 even like that day, like that was for the podcast, 0:10:14.920 --> 0:10:16.719 but like you said, like yeah, we were like, oh, 0:10:17.280 --> 0:10:18.160 we're not in the studio. 0:10:18.360 --> 0:10:21.040 Yeah, we're not hanging out. I don't really go places. 0:10:20.640 --> 0:10:22.640 Or stuff, like we talk on the phone all the 0:10:22.720 --> 0:10:24.000 time every day. 0:10:24.400 --> 0:10:29.319 Yeah, but like it's different anyway, but your favorite memory. 0:10:29.320 --> 0:10:30.040 You can't coffee. 0:10:31.600 --> 0:10:36.559 We're on a time limit here. You can't think only 0:10:36.600 --> 0:10:39.120 anything on the spot. Let me think of something or anything. 0:10:39.640 --> 0:10:42.800 Probably, I know that you'll disagree, but probably doing the 0:10:42.800 --> 0:10:46.240 live shows together, yeah, I know they were like people 0:10:46.240 --> 0:10:48.760 don't realize that and and me have two different styles 0:10:48.960 --> 0:10:53.319 of rehearsing to say the least, say the least total 0:10:53.440 --> 0:10:55.240 opposite ends of the statrum on that. 0:10:55.400 --> 0:10:57.400 I think that's why the podcast works, Like if we 0:10:57.400 --> 0:11:00.760 were the same type of person, it didn't work, Like 0:11:01.000 --> 0:11:02.600 we are so different, just just. 0:11:02.559 --> 0:11:05.680 To clarify, and one wants to rehearse it so she 0:11:05.840 --> 0:11:09.600 knows and feels comfortable, whereas I just want to go out. 0:11:10.200 --> 0:11:11.320 But Matt, if people. 0:11:11.080 --> 0:11:12.880 Weren't paid, let's not argument here. 0:11:14.440 --> 0:11:17.440 If he's paying to see a live show, we need 0:11:17.440 --> 0:11:19.560 to rehearse. We need to know what our cues are. 0:11:19.679 --> 0:11:20.079 I don't know. 0:11:20.840 --> 0:11:23.840 I'm very like I need to know exactly what's happening 0:11:23.960 --> 0:11:24.880 because of wrestling. 0:11:24.960 --> 0:11:26.840 I would go out and i'd have my cues and 0:11:26.880 --> 0:11:29.280 i'd know dot points. I wouldn't have to know it 0:11:29.280 --> 0:11:30.600 off by heart, and I'd feel more. 0:11:30.720 --> 0:11:32.920 But I wasn't learning a script either, Like I. 0:11:36.800 --> 0:11:38.920 One day we'll do another live show and people will 0:11:38.960 --> 0:11:42.240 understand the beef before we walk. 0:11:42.520 --> 0:11:44.959 Make us do another live show, please. 0:11:44.840 --> 0:11:47.120 But that's why we're hesitant to do another one, because 0:11:47.160 --> 0:11:48.240 the backstage beef. 0:11:48.600 --> 0:11:50.200 But the whole thing was fun doing it. 0:11:50.240 --> 0:11:53.480 All the backstage beef. And she's like, you know, I'm 0:11:53.480 --> 0:11:55.520 going to want to rehearse, and you convince me to 0:11:55.559 --> 0:11:57.600 do a live show and then I'm like, okay, we 0:11:57.640 --> 0:12:00.360 need to rehearse, and you're like, oh, I. 0:12:00.240 --> 0:12:02.880 Still remember going over it in the Brisbane hotel. 0:12:02.520 --> 0:12:05.080 And I was just so you were such a dick. 0:12:07.559 --> 0:12:18.760 I know, I made that out of my own room. 0:12:16.080 --> 0:12:19.559 Room and me and Ever just left there like twiddling 0:12:19.640 --> 0:12:22.520 our thumbs, like cool, oh yeah, we can't do another 0:12:22.559 --> 0:12:23.000 life show. 0:12:23.360 --> 0:12:25.240 This wasn't your worst memory of. 0:12:25.600 --> 0:12:27.600 The whole Yeah. The whole thing though, was fun. 0:12:27.679 --> 0:12:30.080 When we actually like do it and it comes together. 0:12:30.120 --> 0:12:34.679 I think it's so fun. Yeah, okay. Next question is 0:12:35.760 --> 0:12:39.400 have you guys ever had psychotherapy and if yes. 0:12:39.280 --> 0:12:40.479 How was your experience. 0:12:40.920 --> 0:12:41.839 I don't know what that is. 0:12:42.320 --> 0:12:44.240 I don't know what psychotherapy. I've had therapy. 0:12:44.360 --> 0:12:48.000 I've had a lot of therapy. 0:12:48.160 --> 0:12:49.360 Therapy. 0:12:49.559 --> 0:12:54.520 So Blake producer just clarified that psychotherapy is just therapy. Yeah, 0:12:54.640 --> 0:12:58.680 so I've done a lot of therapy. When this episode 0:12:58.760 --> 0:13:02.880 was recorded, like irapy the other day, looked in next week. Yeah, 0:13:03.000 --> 0:13:05.000 I recommend it. I don't think there's anything wrong with 0:13:05.080 --> 0:13:07.600 going therapy. I've seen people comment I think that there 0:13:07.640 --> 0:13:09.640 is no weakness in going to therapy. I think there's 0:13:09.679 --> 0:13:11.840 weakness in bagging someone for going to therapy. 0:13:11.880 --> 0:13:14.959 I think there's weakness in not going to therapy when 0:13:15.000 --> 0:13:15.600 you need to go. 0:13:16.559 --> 0:13:19.120 I think it's about self awareness, so right, Like, if 0:13:19.120 --> 0:13:21.000 you're struggling with something. 0:13:21.320 --> 0:13:24.040 Therapy doesn't always mean a bad thing either, though, It's like, 0:13:24.080 --> 0:13:25.960 could honestly just go to someone to talk to a 0:13:25.960 --> 0:13:28.840 professional you don't want to talk like I mean, sometimes 0:13:28.880 --> 0:13:30.360 you don't want to talk to your family or your 0:13:30.360 --> 0:13:32.800 friends about stuff, Like sometimes you just want to go 0:13:32.840 --> 0:13:35.160 to an impartial, mutual person. 0:13:35.120 --> 0:13:39.240 And get like a very professional and professional opinion. Yeah, 0:13:39.280 --> 0:13:40.880 for sure, I agree. 0:13:40.960 --> 0:13:44.360 I recommend it to everyone and there is no shame 0:13:44.720 --> 0:13:46.520 or anything wrong with going to therapy. 0:13:47.320 --> 0:13:51.960 Okay, next question, any bts Love Island goss something that 0:13:52.000 --> 0:13:57.520 you've never shared about the show before, Matthew, No. 0:13:57.679 --> 0:14:02.040 I don't know what would there be? What do you have? Oh? 0:14:02.160 --> 0:14:05.080 Like, so obviously when you're on Love Island. This is 0:14:05.080 --> 0:14:06.880 so funny that they're Love Island related. I haven't even 0:14:06.880 --> 0:14:09.640 thought about Love Island for so long, but you have 0:14:09.720 --> 0:14:15.559 like one dark day a week. And before going to Fiji, 0:14:16.040 --> 0:14:18.960 my dad like he's big on like cash money, so 0:14:19.040 --> 0:14:21.160 he was like, just like if you're going to like 0:14:21.200 --> 0:14:23.840 a different country, so he'll be like you need to 0:14:23.880 --> 0:14:27.920 have you know, but if you're going to Thailand or 0:14:27.920 --> 0:14:30.920 whatever it is, whatever currency. So because I was going 0:14:30.960 --> 0:14:33.320 to Fiji that's where we filmed Love Island, he was like, 0:14:33.400 --> 0:14:37.840 here's a hundred of whatever their currency was, and I 0:14:37.840 --> 0:14:38.880 was like, I'm not going to need this. 0:14:38.920 --> 0:14:40.440 I'm not like I don't need it, and he's like, 0:14:40.520 --> 0:14:41.960 just take it just in case. You never know when 0:14:41.960 --> 0:14:44.120 you're going to need like cash money. 0:14:44.280 --> 0:14:48.560 So anyway, going into Love Island, they take your passport 0:14:48.640 --> 0:14:49.280 away from you. 0:14:49.320 --> 0:14:52.280 They take your wallet, they take everything. 0:14:52.680 --> 0:14:54.840 But I actually got in trouble because I brought my laptop. 0:14:54.880 --> 0:14:56.600 I didn't realize you weren't like to bring a laptop. 0:14:56.640 --> 0:14:57.640 I don't know, you couldn't realize. 0:14:57.720 --> 0:14:58.760 Yeah, and I got in trouble. 0:14:59.000 --> 0:15:01.080 I wanted to watch pre your Seasons of Love Alan 0:15:01.120 --> 0:15:03.320 before I went on, so I hadn't seen anything. 0:15:03.360 --> 0:15:04.560 And they're absolutely not. 0:15:05.240 --> 0:15:06.160 Oh, they wouldn't let you know. 0:15:06.280 --> 0:15:09.400 They're likeful because we were getting advertised on nine now. Yeah, 0:15:09.720 --> 0:15:12.360 so they said that's why my chaperone said no, because 0:15:12.400 --> 0:15:15.520 they're advertising you. At the moment, I wonder what that 0:15:15.560 --> 0:15:15.920 looks like. 0:15:17.600 --> 0:15:18.400 I wonder what's going on. 0:15:18.840 --> 0:15:23.280 Yeah, just saw myself a chef. Anyway, when we had 0:15:23.280 --> 0:15:26.720 these dark days we would have, we would. 0:15:26.480 --> 0:15:28.920 Get allowed to do like beauty treatments for the girls. 0:15:29.520 --> 0:15:31.760 So I was like, oh, I'm going to go get 0:15:31.760 --> 0:15:34.320 my eyebrows done, and so then you're away from like 0:15:34.400 --> 0:15:37.120 your chaperones, because the chaperones would like take you into 0:15:37.120 --> 0:15:40.000 like a beauty salon and people would go get whatevery treatment. 0:15:40.520 --> 0:15:42.320 So I was like, I'm gonna get my eyebrows done. 0:15:42.360 --> 0:15:45.000 Actually two days, what's that up? Us two days a week. 0:15:45.440 --> 0:15:47.680 Oh was that yeah, so one day, yeah it was 0:15:47.680 --> 0:15:48.320 two days a week. 0:15:48.440 --> 0:15:51.520 It's like one and a half. Yeah, behalf wasn't really 0:15:51.680 --> 0:15:53.880 because you were filming by the night. But yeah, I 0:15:53.880 --> 0:15:54.400 get what you mean. 0:15:54.440 --> 0:15:59.360 Anyway, regardless, back to mysel because I was just thinking 0:15:59.400 --> 0:16:01.720 about things were and like one day you'd go gym 0:16:01.760 --> 0:16:03.240 and the next day you'd go to like a restaurant 0:16:03.280 --> 0:16:05.720 or something. Yeah, yeah, got you and one day would 0:16:05.720 --> 0:16:07.240 stay at the room and you guys would. 0:16:07.000 --> 0:16:11.680 Go Yeah, anyway, this is like the longest story ever. 0:16:11.720 --> 0:16:13.320 I'm really not getting to the point. Fass. 0:16:13.800 --> 0:16:16.080 Anyway, I when got my eyebrows done, even though I 0:16:16.080 --> 0:16:18.760 didn't need to get my eyebrows done, and went into 0:16:18.800 --> 0:16:22.200 the room with the Fijian woman, and I was like, 0:16:23.120 --> 0:16:25.760 I actually don't want my eyebrows done, but if I 0:16:25.800 --> 0:16:27.360 had my wallet, and I was like, I'll give you 0:16:27.360 --> 0:16:30.560 this like twenty Fijian dollars or something. 0:16:30.600 --> 0:16:33.120 I don't know, if you can like give me your 0:16:33.160 --> 0:16:34.280 phone just. 0:16:34.280 --> 0:16:36.080 On that they take your wallet off you and we 0:16:36.120 --> 0:16:38.520 give it back to you on those days goodbye stuff. 0:16:38.640 --> 0:16:41.000 Because then yeah, yeah, so I had my wallet, so 0:16:41.040 --> 0:16:43.120 I had the money, and then I was like and 0:16:43.240 --> 0:16:45.640 don't tell anyone out there, like don't tell her, and 0:16:45.680 --> 0:16:47.400 like you can't go out there because then she'll know 0:16:47.440 --> 0:16:49.000 you're not doing my eyebrows, so you have to like 0:16:49.560 --> 0:16:52.240 hide and then she yeah, And I was like, I'll 0:16:52.280 --> 0:16:54.080 still pay for the treatment out there, but I'm going 0:16:54.160 --> 0:16:55.000 to give you this money. 0:16:55.120 --> 0:16:56.360 So I was like bribing her. 0:16:57.160 --> 0:17:00.280 And then I went on like her Instagram, so this 0:17:00.360 --> 0:17:04.440 like Fijie woman's Instagram, and tried to like message my mom. 0:17:04.960 --> 0:17:07.520 They never got back to me. I was just staring 0:17:07.520 --> 0:17:11.119 at this like Instagram page because I was like, surely 0:17:11.119 --> 0:17:12.840 they're get a message me back, and they never did. 0:17:13.720 --> 0:17:15.679 I've got I don't I remember, Like I don't know, 0:17:15.720 --> 0:17:17.520 like after challenges, how they wouldn't let you speak to 0:17:17.560 --> 0:17:19.640 each other and like they're standing us away from each other. 0:17:19.680 --> 0:17:21.600 Do you remember that sort of stuff, Yeah. 0:17:21.440 --> 0:17:23.720 Because they wouldn't want any any of. 0:17:23.560 --> 0:17:28.919 The fallout in literally stare at walls and ship. Also, 0:17:29.880 --> 0:17:32.119 I remember, because obviously we knew each other before we 0:17:32.160 --> 0:17:34.280 went on the show. I didn't know how to pronounce 0:17:34.280 --> 0:17:35.719 your last name. Do you remember me calling you that 0:17:36.040 --> 0:17:37.520 the wrong last name? One night one of the first 0:17:37.640 --> 0:17:38.280