Speaker 1: And then I'm like, okay, we need to rehearse, and
Speaker 1: You're like, oh, Laura, I.
Speaker 2: Still remember going over it in the Brisbane face.
Speaker 1: Hole and I was just so you were such a dick.
Speaker 3: I know, I made that out of my own room.
Speaker 1: Where's Your Head At? Is a podcast that talks full things.
Speaker 1: There's a hold on a sec. Let's give this a refresh.
Speaker 4: Hi.
Speaker 3: I'm Anna and I'm Matt, and we are now too
Speaker 3: newlywed not to each other. Just a female and male
Speaker 3: best friend here for the good, the bad, and the
Speaker 3: ugly times and.
Speaker 4: Exploring adulthood, family relationships, dilemmas.
Speaker 2: And whatever else we have the mental capacity to deal with.
Speaker 1: Come get the lowdown.
Speaker 2: This is your male and female perspective.
Speaker 1: So Mad, Where's your Head At?
Speaker 4: Its?
Speaker 1: Good morning, Mad.
Speaker 2: Good morning Anna. How are you feeling today?
Speaker 1: I'm a feeling good.
Speaker 4: So currently I'm on maternity leave. So we are doing
Speaker 4: a little pre recorded episode. But this morning has been
Speaker 4: a bit of a mess.
Speaker 1: Let's just say that, shall we.
Speaker 3: Yeah, Well, we got the recording times wrong, which is
Speaker 3: not the worst thing because we actually rocked up early.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 4: Change, So we were recording today at twelve pm. Matt
Speaker 4: and I both rolled in at eleven am. I think
Speaker 4: at one point it was eleven am. Then it changed
Speaker 4: and it was just it was a mess.
Speaker 3: Before for the first time ever, I rocked up before.
Speaker 3: I was early, the first time before eleven am.
Speaker 2: So that's a good.
Speaker 1: First time for everything it is.
Speaker 2: But what did you decide to do with yourself in
Speaker 2: that well?
Speaker 4: Firstly, the lovely receptionist Vicky gave us a little free.
Speaker 1: Coffee that was amazing, wasn't it.
Speaker 4: Yeah, from nov So we like went downstairs, got our
Speaker 4: coffee from a place that we don't usually get it
Speaker 4: from around here. And in my eyesight, directly behind you,
Speaker 4: I spotted a massage place.
Speaker 3: Now, I said to you, I flagged that I've never
Speaker 3: gone to one of those like massage places that you
Speaker 3: see at shopping centers or in courts.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I even call.
Speaker 1: That like, yeah, like just beside Carls.
Speaker 3: Yeah, like a yeah, shopping center place. I've never been
Speaker 3: to one of those massage places. I don't really trust it.
Speaker 4: I do, but I always go for like the foot massage,
Speaker 4: yeah right, because it's like you.
Speaker 1: Can't really how can you really mess it up? As well?
Speaker 4: Like you're not like standing on someone's back or breaking
Speaker 4: you back, Like, you can't really mess up a foot massage.
Speaker 1: I mean you could, but.
Speaker 3: Because I'm not a big fan of foot massage, just
Speaker 3: Tammy sometimes offers me one, and I'm just like, oh
Speaker 3: like it just.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, it tickles, it tickles.
Speaker 2: So well, I was going to get one.
Speaker 1: I was like, tonight we should get a foot massage together.
Speaker 4: We have an hour to kill. Let's get a thirty
Speaker 4: minute one. They have a special one fifty dollars each.
Speaker 2: Sounds like a good deal.
Speaker 4: Like I'm pregnant right now, or maybe I've had the
Speaker 4: baby when this is coming out. Who knows, we're close
Speaker 4: to having the baby, but I'm heavily pregnant. So a
Speaker 4: footms to me sounds like blits, like my feet are
Speaker 4: swelling up.
Speaker 3: Well, we sat down and I realized that we weren't
Speaker 3: going to sit next to each other. I wasn't a
Speaker 3: fan of that. I was like tucked away into the
Speaker 3: corner by myself.
Speaker 1: Got isolated.
Speaker 3: So I was sitting there as and then they did
Speaker 3: not the ladies first, obviously, so they went to you,
Speaker 3: and I realized no one had even noticed I was there,
Speaker 3: also tucked into the corner, so I was sitting in
Speaker 3: the corner by myself, and then we got a message
Speaker 3: from Blake so producer saying I'm.
Speaker 2: Ready, I'm up here now. So I ditched.
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, I messaged me and I was like, oh
Speaker 4: my god, Blake's on the way. I'm five minutes into
Speaker 4: this foot massage. What am I supposed to do? And
Speaker 4: then Matt's like, well, I'm go and see us. I
Speaker 4: was like, don't leave me here.
Speaker 3: So I got off and I walked off, but I
Speaker 3: bumped into one of my best mates, Cob out the front,
Speaker 3: so that was good. Random so Random his offices around here,
Speaker 3: so I just spoke to him for.
Speaker 1: A bit and yeah, he said that catching never to me,
Speaker 1: how is how do your feet feel?
Speaker 4: Honestly, I feel so relaxed, almost two zen. I'm feeling
Speaker 4: very at peace. I do think that I should be
Speaker 4: getting more pregnancy massages.
Speaker 3: I never, like I said, I never, I never treat
Speaker 3: myself to massages. It's just not something that's ever been
Speaker 3: my what's the word on my radar? I mean one
Speaker 3: time we tammun I did a couples on. We got
Speaker 3: someone to come to the house, but she booked it
Speaker 3: and she said deep tissue.
Speaker 2: It was the most.
Speaker 3: Unrelaxing thing set up in the lounge room, and I
Speaker 3: swear to he was just digging thumbs and elbows into
Speaker 3: places I didn't know you could dig him into.
Speaker 1: That's so funny.
Speaker 4: Michael and I when we were in Athens, we had
Speaker 4: a night flight and I had a bit of a
Speaker 4: sore back, so we got it's kind of the same thing.
Speaker 4: We both got like a couple's massage, and I was like,
Speaker 4: you know, like get into it kind of thing.
Speaker 1: I was. I was in agony. Yeah, she was like
Speaker 1: stepping on my back, she was pulling my arms back.
Speaker 1: My head was off the table. It was like it
Speaker 1: was like an exorcism. I was like, this is not cute.
Speaker 1: Doesn't feel cute.
Speaker 4: It doesn't It's like, this is not I felt like
Speaker 4: I walked out of They're like twenty thirty years older.
Speaker 2: Well that's pretty much having to me.
Speaker 3: And I remember just being like, and they don't pick
Speaker 3: up on the hints when you're flinching.
Speaker 2: You're like, yeah, ah ah, they didn't pick up on it.
Speaker 2: I don't know it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that sounds like he's enjoying it.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I remember them wolf walk passing was looking at me.
Speaker 4: I was like, it's like, well, I mean, look, I
Speaker 4: always love a message. I think if you've been someone
Speaker 4: who's frequented Bali or Thailand, you know how cheap their
Speaker 4: massages can be there. It's like twenty dollars for an
Speaker 4: hour massage, or even fifteen dollars for an hour massage.
Speaker 2: We got one in Bali at the pool at the
Speaker 2: beach club next to the pool. An hour is a
Speaker 2: long time when you're sitting by the pool.
Speaker 1: I feel while like everyone else is at the pool.
Speaker 2: Yeah, cut it short.
Speaker 1: You cut it short.
Speaker 4: Well, you're not in air conn Like I feel like
Speaker 4: if I'm having a massage, I need to be an
Speaker 4: air con. I need to be I need that real
Speaker 4: zen music like chimes.
Speaker 2: We did have a nice couples one in the Mold Lives.
Speaker 2: That was a nice one.
Speaker 4: Well, look this is your sign to go and treat
Speaker 4: yourself get a massage.
Speaker 1: Like I just did feel the zen.
Speaker 2: I even showed my mate.
Speaker 3: I was like, he's like, what are you doing waiting
Speaker 3: for waiting for to get a massage?
Speaker 2: And we walked up to the door and uppointed.
Speaker 4: You know, he started taking photos of me like this
Speaker 4: is not a friendowship, move away.
Speaker 1: I'm sure you can post one of them on our Facebook.
Speaker 1: I will put Facebook group for everyone.
Speaker 4: Should we get into our episode, let's do it, okay, Matt.
Speaker 4: We are asking the burning questions of our audience. We
Speaker 4: put up a question box on social media and we
Speaker 4: got a huge response with lots and lots of different questions.
Speaker 4: So our producer has put together a list of his favorites.
Speaker 4: So do you want to take it away?
Speaker 2: The first one is I've got a bit of a.
Speaker 3: Her first question is favorite memory of one another. It's
Speaker 3: your favorite memory.
Speaker 4: I think I have two favorite memories. The first one
Speaker 4: is from ages ago when we had just gotten off
Speaker 4: of Love Island and we were flying together because we
Speaker 4: were both from Melbourne and we had a night flight
Speaker 4: and it was the first time that we got to
Speaker 4: chat and talk without being recorded like we didn't have.
Speaker 1: We wen't miked. We had all this time on the plane.
Speaker 2: I remember that I was.
Speaker 1: Having a couple of red wines. We got drunk because
Speaker 1: we couldn't get drunk in the villa.
Speaker 3: We only led one and one spill set all over
Speaker 3: your trackies.
Speaker 4: I still red wine all over my tracks, but then
Speaker 4: luckily had a new outfit and it was just fun.
Speaker 4: It was nice to just debrief and have a proper
Speaker 4: chat that you knew we played.
Speaker 2: And we could actually tell each other stuff.
Speaker 1: Yeah, stuff that Oh my god, do you still have.
Speaker 2: I have a photo of us on the plane and
Speaker 2: that's before we bought it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I remember that.
Speaker 2: I'll post them as well on the Facebook page.
Speaker 1: That's so funny.
Speaker 2: That's your photo of me when I call.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 4: Yeah, so I feel like in that memory. Then actually
Speaker 4: arriving back at Melbourne and both of our parents were
Speaker 4: hanging out together and like all excited to see nice.
Speaker 2: Each other from the video calls, yeah.
Speaker 1: Knew each other were Yeah.
Speaker 4: So that was really nice and it was like very
Speaker 4: it was just wholesome and it was nice.
Speaker 1: That's my first one.
Speaker 2: I'd say that's probably one of my favorite memories as well.
Speaker 4: Yeah, and then the second favorite memory would have to
Speaker 4: be you and Tammy coming to my wedding. I think
Speaker 4: it's hard as well, because we work together. We're always
Speaker 4: podcast focused, Like when we're talking, we're like what are
Speaker 4: we doing on the podcast?
Speaker 1: And like what's what are we like? We're just always
Speaker 1: talking work.
Speaker 2: I think as well, it's hard as well. When I
Speaker 2: live in a different state.
Speaker 1: It's hard. Yeah, like you live in a different state
Speaker 1: as well.
Speaker 4: Business Like I'm manic at the moment.
Speaker 1: I'm just like trying to get everything done.
Speaker 4: Yeah, And so I feel like we don't really socialize
Speaker 4: as much as we used to.
Speaker 1: Like we used to socialize. We used to on like.
Speaker 4: Double dates with people and like we did all like
Speaker 4: fun stuff, but we don't really do that anymore. So
Speaker 4: I think having you guys at the wedding was a
Speaker 4: lot of fun. And then specifically we had a really
Speaker 4: special day at Canal More where we all got four
Speaker 4: wheelers I think, and drove for an hour or two
Speaker 4: hours cod bikes and yeah, drove there and.
Speaker 2: That was a good eyed day.
Speaker 1: It was such a good.
Speaker 4: Day, swam in the canal, made out with our part
Speaker 4: in those waves.
Speaker 1: Yeah, the waves.
Speaker 2: It was just fun for all.
Speaker 3: Spritz Is at that restaurant now has a great day.
Speaker 3: That's probably one of some of my fondest memories on that.
Speaker 3: I do agree. Like, remember we went to that old
Speaker 3: Melbourne jail and we were like, we don't do anything
Speaker 3: like this anymore. Yeah, like we don't hang out like friends.
Speaker 1: But even that we wouldn't know we were friends, but
Speaker 1: even like that day, like that was for the podcast,
Speaker 1: but like you said, like yeah, we were like, oh,
Speaker 1: we're not in the studio.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we're not hanging out. I don't really go places.
Speaker 1: Or stuff, like we talk on the phone all the
Speaker 1: time every day.
Speaker 4: Yeah, but like it's different anyway, but your favorite memory.
Speaker 1: You can't coffee.
Speaker 2: We're on a time limit here. You can't think only
Speaker 2: anything on the spot. Let me think of something or anything.
Speaker 3: Probably, I know that you'll disagree, but probably doing the
Speaker 3: live shows together, yeah, I know they were like people
Speaker 3: don't realize that and and me have two different styles
Speaker 3: of rehearsing to say the least, say the least total
Speaker 3: opposite ends of the statrum on that.
Speaker 4: I think that's why the podcast works, Like if we
Speaker 4: were the same type of person, it didn't work, Like
Speaker 4: we are so different, just just.
Speaker 3: To clarify, and one wants to rehearse it so she
Speaker 3: knows and feels comfortable, whereas I just want to go out.
Speaker 1: But Matt, if people.
Speaker 2: Weren't paid, let's not argument here.
Speaker 4: If he's paying to see a live show, we need
Speaker 4: to rehearse. We need to know what our cues are.
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 4: I'm very like I need to know exactly what's happening
Speaker 4: because of wrestling.
Speaker 3: I would go out and i'd have my cues and
Speaker 3: i'd know dot points. I wouldn't have to know it
Speaker 3: off by heart, and I'd feel more.
Speaker 1: But I wasn't learning a script either, Like I.
Speaker 2: One day we'll do another live show and people will
Speaker 2: understand the beef before we walk.
Speaker 1: Make us do another live show, please.
Speaker 3: But that's why we're hesitant to do another one, because
Speaker 3: the backstage beef.
Speaker 2: But the whole thing was fun doing it.
Speaker 1: All the backstage beef. And she's like, you know, I'm
Speaker 1: going to want to rehearse, and you convince me to
Speaker 1: do a live show and then I'm like, okay, we
Speaker 1: need to rehearse, and you're like, oh, I.
Speaker 2: Still remember going over it in the Brisbane hotel.
Speaker 1: And I was just so you were such a dick.
Speaker 3: I know, I made that out of my own room.
Speaker 4: Room and me and Ever just left there like twiddling
Speaker 4: our thumbs, like cool, oh yeah, we can't do another
Speaker 4: life show.
Speaker 1: This wasn't your worst memory of.
Speaker 2: The whole Yeah. The whole thing though, was fun.
Speaker 4: When we actually like do it and it comes together.
Speaker 4: I think it's so fun. Yeah, okay. Next question is
Speaker 4: have you guys ever had psychotherapy and if yes.
Speaker 1: How was your experience.
Speaker 2: I don't know what that is.
Speaker 1: I don't know what psychotherapy. I've had therapy.
Speaker 2: I've had a lot of therapy.
Speaker 1: Therapy.
Speaker 3: So Blake producer just clarified that psychotherapy is just therapy. Yeah,
Speaker 3: so I've done a lot of therapy. When this episode
Speaker 3: was recorded, like irapy the other day, looked in next week. Yeah,
Speaker 3: I recommend it. I don't think there's anything wrong with
Speaker 3: going therapy. I've seen people comment I think that there
Speaker 3: is no weakness in going to therapy. I think there's
Speaker 3: weakness in bagging someone for going to therapy.
Speaker 1: I think there's weakness in not going to therapy when
Speaker 1: you need to go.
Speaker 4: I think it's about self awareness, so right, Like, if
Speaker 4: you're struggling with something.
Speaker 3: Therapy doesn't always mean a bad thing either, though, It's like,
Speaker 3: could honestly just go to someone to talk to a
Speaker 3: professional you don't want to talk like I mean, sometimes
Speaker 3: you don't want to talk to your family or your
Speaker 3: friends about stuff, Like sometimes you just want to go
Speaker 3: to an impartial, mutual person.
Speaker 1: And get like a very professional and professional opinion. Yeah,
Speaker 1: for sure, I agree.
Speaker 3: I recommend it to everyone and there is no shame
Speaker 3: or anything wrong with going to therapy.
Speaker 4: Okay, next question, any bts Love Island goss something that
Speaker 4: you've never shared about the show before, Matthew, No.
Speaker 2: I don't know what would there be? What do you have? Oh?
Speaker 4: Like, so obviously when you're on Love Island. This is
Speaker 4: so funny that they're Love Island related. I haven't even
Speaker 4: thought about Love Island for so long, but you have
Speaker 4: like one dark day a week. And before going to Fiji,
Speaker 4: my dad like he's big on like cash money, so
Speaker 4: he was like, just like if you're going to like
Speaker 4: a different country, so he'll be like you need to
Speaker 4: have you know, but if you're going to Thailand or
Speaker 4: whatever it is, whatever currency. So because I was going
Speaker 4: to Fiji that's where we filmed Love Island, he was like,
Speaker 4: here's a hundred of whatever their currency was, and I
Speaker 4: was like, I'm not going to need this.
Speaker 1: I'm not like I don't need it, and he's like,
Speaker 1: just take it just in case. You never know when
Speaker 1: you're going to need like cash money.
Speaker 4: So anyway, going into Love Island, they take your passport
Speaker 4: away from you.
Speaker 1: They take your wallet, they take everything.
Speaker 2: But I actually got in trouble because I brought my laptop.
Speaker 2: I didn't realize you weren't like to bring a laptop.
Speaker 1: I don't know, you couldn't realize.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and I got in trouble.
Speaker 3: I wanted to watch pre your Seasons of Love Alan
Speaker 3: before I went on, so I hadn't seen anything.
Speaker 2: And they're absolutely not.
Speaker 1: Oh, they wouldn't let you know.
Speaker 3: They're likeful because we were getting advertised on nine now. Yeah,
Speaker 3: so they said that's why my chaperone said no, because
Speaker 3: they're advertising you. At the moment, I wonder what that
Speaker 3: looks like.
Speaker 2: I wonder what's going on.
Speaker 1: Yeah, just saw myself a chef. Anyway, when we had
Speaker 1: these dark days we would have, we would.
Speaker 4: Get allowed to do like beauty treatments for the girls.
Speaker 4: So I was like, oh, I'm going to go get
Speaker 4: my eyebrows done, and so then you're away from like
Speaker 4: your chaperones, because the chaperones would like take you into
Speaker 4: like a beauty salon and people would go get whatevery treatment.
Speaker 4: So I was like, I'm gonna get my eyebrows done.
Speaker 2: Actually two days, what's that up? Us two days a week.
Speaker 2: Oh was that yeah, so one day, yeah it was
Speaker 2: two days a week.
Speaker 1: It's like one and a half. Yeah, behalf wasn't really
Speaker 1: because you were filming by the night. But yeah, I
Speaker 1: get what you mean.
Speaker 5: Anyway, regardless, back to mysel because I was just thinking
Speaker 5: about things were and like one day you'd go gym
Speaker 5: and the next day you'd go to like a restaurant
Speaker 5: or something. Yeah, yeah, got you and one day would
Speaker 5: stay at the room and you guys would.
Speaker 4: Go Yeah, anyway, this is like the longest story ever.
Speaker 1: I'm really not getting to the point. Fass.
Speaker 4: Anyway, I when got my eyebrows done, even though I
Speaker 4: didn't need to get my eyebrows done, and went into
Speaker 4: the room with the Fijian woman, and I was like,
Speaker 4: I actually don't want my eyebrows done, but if I
Speaker 4: had my wallet, and I was like, I'll give you
Speaker 4: this like twenty Fijian dollars or something.
Speaker 1: I don't know, if you can like give me your
Speaker 1: phone just.
Speaker 3: On that they take your wallet off you and we
Speaker 3: give it back to you on those days goodbye stuff.
Speaker 4: Because then yeah, yeah, so I had my wallet, so
Speaker 4: I had the money, and then I was like and
Speaker 4: don't tell anyone out there, like don't tell her, and
Speaker 4: like you can't go out there because then she'll know
Speaker 4: you're not doing my eyebrows, so you have to like
Speaker 4: hide and then she yeah, And I was like, I'll
Speaker 4: still pay for the treatment out there, but I'm going
Speaker 4: to give you this money.
Speaker 1: So I was like bribing her.
Speaker 4: And then I went on like her Instagram, so this
Speaker 4: like Fijie woman's Instagram, and tried to like message my mom.
Speaker 1: They never got back to me. I was just staring
Speaker 1: at this like Instagram page because I was like, surely
Speaker 1: they're get a message me back, and they never did.
Speaker 3: I've got I don't I remember, Like I don't know,
Speaker 3: like after challenges, how they wouldn't let you speak to
Speaker 3: each other and like they're standing us away from each other.
Speaker 2: Do you remember that sort of stuff, Yeah.
Speaker 1: Because they wouldn't want any any of.
Speaker 3: The fallout in literally stare at walls and ship. Also,
Speaker 3: I remember, because obviously we knew each other before we
Speaker 3: went on the show. I didn't know how to pronounce
Speaker 3: your last name. Do you remember me calling you that
Speaker 3: the wrong last name? One night one of the first
Speaker 3: nights were in there.
Speaker 1: Not really what did you think it was?
Speaker 2: I can't remember now. How did macavoy? I pronounced it wrong,
Speaker 2: mcfoy and I said.
Speaker 3: McVoy McVoy, yeah, McVoy.
Speaker 1: How did you find becoming a stepfather? Matt?
Speaker 3: To be a stepdad to the kids, is I say,
Speaker 3: rewarding to have the honor and blessed to be in
Speaker 3: the position I am to be with the kids. I mean,
Speaker 3: I love all three of them, like me and Wolf
Speaker 3: get along like best buds. Sas me and Posy, I
Speaker 3: get along with them as well. It's just really rewarding.
Speaker 3: I mean, I never to be told that I would
Speaker 3: never have kids, and then to have an opportunity to
Speaker 3: not have my own, for say, but to have kids
Speaker 3: that they are owned like I'm raising them like they
Speaker 3: are is an honor.
Speaker 1: That's so cute, that's beautiful.
Speaker 3: I'm meeting my boyfriend's parents next week, and I am
Speaker 3: shitting myself. I'm so worried about them liking me, to
Speaker 3: the point I'm so scared to go.
Speaker 2: Do you have any advice? Yep, straight up be yourself.
Speaker 1: Yeah I was gonna say that, don't show.
Speaker 2: Them any weakness.
Speaker 3: No, they don't be like not weakness, sorry, like, don't
Speaker 3: don't be shy, be confident, be yourself. Worry if you
Speaker 3: like them or not. That's not if they like you
Speaker 3: or not. Worry if you're gonna like this on a day.
Speaker 3: It's the same mentality to go in with you.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I would say my advice is definitely to be yourself.
Speaker 4: Don't try to be someone you're not. When I meet parents,
Speaker 4: I try to be the most respectful version of myself.
Speaker 1: So I'm not going to be swearing. I'm not going
Speaker 1: to be.
Speaker 4: Like obnoxiously loud, I'm not going to be getting drunk like.
Speaker 4: I'm going to try to remain super respectful. But in
Speaker 4: the same breath, just be. You don't need to try
Speaker 4: too hard. I think sometimes people can also feel it
Speaker 4: when you're trying too hard.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I agree, you know yourself, just like be you like,
Speaker 3: start conversations and apologetically read the room.
Speaker 1: Yeah, ask about their life as well, you know, even
Speaker 1: if you even like or don't whatever.
Speaker 2: I do that.
Speaker 4: Yeah, Okay, next question, what is the hardest part about
Speaker 4: working together, apart from.
Speaker 2: Our different styles of life showing? I think really, I mean,
Speaker 2: we haven't had an argument in ages. Ages you need
Speaker 2: to argue about stuff.
Speaker 4: I think like we are such different peace and I think,
Speaker 4: like you know, we've had.
Speaker 1: To really make it.
Speaker 4: I think we've had to kind of learn to deal
Speaker 4: with each other and like you know, we're so different
Speaker 4: and managing certain situations and bringing different things to the table.
Speaker 1: But I think you're right. Like when we first started
Speaker 1: the podcast.
Speaker 4: We used to argue all the time, like you used
Speaker 4: to really get onto my scene.
Speaker 3: I did a podcast there and I said, this week
Speaker 3: we once rocked up to a recording and we.
Speaker 2: Hadn't spoken together for a week.
Speaker 1: Blake was there.
Speaker 4: That was a different one when yeah, yeah, Blake, that
Speaker 4: was bad. That will we actually said that will never
Speaker 4: happen again. We literally got to the podcast hadn't spoken
Speaker 4: and then we started having an argument pre podcast and
Speaker 4: Blake Owt produces Like.
Speaker 1: I was like, we should go.
Speaker 2: Do we record that day? Did we end up recording? No,
Speaker 2: we didn't record.
Speaker 4: That was the only time we've never recorded and came
Speaker 4: in happened once and never again.
Speaker 1: It's a good lesson. I feel like it was a
Speaker 1: lesson we needed to learn.
Speaker 2: I swear we tried to didn't win.
Speaker 1: You've grown up a lot, like I feel like you
Speaker 1: used to be like quite a bit more annoying.
Speaker 2: I'm not touch on that.
Speaker 1: Let's let's not restart f let's not in.
Speaker 2: Front of everyone. What is the baby's first name?
Speaker 1: You just made that up? That was on the list.
Speaker 2: Would you both do reality TV again? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Sure you would.
Speaker 2: Yeah you wouldn't. I wouldn't I do something like go
Speaker 2: on the jungle, do something.
Speaker 1: You've always wanted to do. I'm a celebrity, get me
Speaker 1: out of here.
Speaker 2: Like a challenge something like that. Do Amazing race.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we were going to do the Amazing Grace Together one.
Speaker 2: That'd be fun.
Speaker 1: Like look, yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 4: I think I'm just focus like at the moment very
Speaker 4: much on like family and then obviously Goldie b. Yeah,
Speaker 4: we have like so many more products coming out, and
Speaker 4: there's just such exciting things happening behind the scenes. So
Speaker 4: I think that's where my focus is.
Speaker 3: The trouble with reality TV now is it's like, would
Speaker 3: you really put yourself through it again?
Speaker 4: That's the thing, and like you just never know. And
Speaker 4: I know that people hate to hear this, but like
Speaker 4: you never know what edit you're gonna get, especially a
Speaker 4: character like you, Matt, Like you're quite polarizing at the
Speaker 4: best of show and like, I would just I would
Speaker 4: hate for you to go on a TV show and
Speaker 4: just get like a fucking weird edit.
Speaker 3: Yeah I said this to Tammy actually because she gets
Speaker 3: offers all the time, and I said, you don't need to.
Speaker 3: I was like, you control your narrative outside of it,
Speaker 3: don't go on and let.
Speaker 2: Someone else control it. I was like, totally not worth
Speaker 2: it for you.
Speaker 4: I mean, if I'm a celebrity came to you tomorrow
Speaker 4: and said it will give you one hundred k to
Speaker 4: eat some bugs and sleep in the forest.
Speaker 2: I've done a lot worse for a lot.
Speaker 4: It's your favorite line, you know, Like there's no amount
Speaker 4: of money that anyone could offer me to go and
Speaker 4: I'm a celebrity, to get me out if you ever. Like,
Speaker 4: my mum asked me to go and put covers on
Speaker 4: their outdoor couches because they're away currently. And there was
Speaker 4: a cockroach, one singular cockroach, And that night I literally
Speaker 4: had dreams that bugs were like coming out of my
Speaker 4: gums and I was pulling them out and I.
Speaker 1: Was like stressed out.
Speaker 4: It was actually I don't know if it was like
Speaker 4: a pregnancy related things. I've never had a dream like
Speaker 4: that before.
Speaker 1: It's so fucked. But that's just for me seeing one cockroach.
Speaker 2: Like what that dream means?
Speaker 4: Yeah, I know, probably like something anxiety wise makes. I think,
Speaker 4: probably a bit of sense with the baby coming. But yeah,
Speaker 4: I'm just terrified of all bugs critters Like this is.
Speaker 3: So am I producers listening bugs give me the heavies.
Speaker 1: You surely are afraid of bugs.
Speaker 2: No, no, I'm tetra cover me in bugs. Good No, I.
Speaker 1: Mean you deserve what's coming to you then if you're
Speaker 1: on that show. The thing about that show is I
Speaker 1: feel like people who go on actually can handle bugs.
Speaker 4: I don't know, like like someone like me could never
Speaker 4: because survivor absolutely not.
Speaker 2: Okay, this one I think is for you. Go for it.
Speaker 3: I'm turning thirty next month and I can't stop feeling
Speaker 3: scared and sad say goodbye to my twenties. I don't
Speaker 3: know why.
Speaker 2: Help.
Speaker 1: Well, look, I think it's normal to feel sad to
Speaker 1: say goodbye to anything, whether that be a person, whether
Speaker 1: that be.
Speaker 4: You know, an era of your life. Being in your
Speaker 4: twenties is so fun, right, people.
Speaker 2: Think about this. I don't think like this at all.
Speaker 4: But it is sad, like there was a part of
Speaker 4: me when I was turning thirty that was like, oh
Speaker 4: that's sad, Like I'm now out of my twenties and
Speaker 4: I'm entering into this new era and I think I.
Speaker 2: Don't think like that, Like I'm turning thirties in a
Speaker 2: couple of months, and I don't you excited? Yeah, I'm excited.
Speaker 2: I hear the thirties is the best year of your life.
Speaker 1: Well everyone says that.
Speaker 4: Now everyone's saying the forties because everyone's getting older, and
Speaker 4: soon it will be the fifties. And I think you
Speaker 4: make like life is what you make it right, you
Speaker 4: make decisions to be around good people.
Speaker 3: I think the thirties is where it's like because they
Speaker 3: used to say I heard that Mel Robins say that
Speaker 3: she wish if someone said to her twenties to like
Speaker 3: quit her job.
Speaker 2: Do you watch that? Break do all this sort.
Speaker 3: Of so iran, it's your thirties, now just go have
Speaker 3: fuck like you know what I mean, do what you
Speaker 3: want to do?
Speaker 1: Yeah I do.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: I think it's I think I and you we thrive
Speaker 1: on change.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 4: So I think the thought of being in a new
Speaker 4: decade is exciting because it's like, well, I don't know,
Speaker 4: by the end of my twenties, I really felt like
Speaker 4: I've done everything in my twenties that I wanted to do.
Speaker 1: I really felt like I ticked that box.
Speaker 4: Not everyone feels that way, and then they feel like,
Speaker 4: oh my god, I still need to do ABCD, like
Speaker 4: obviously there's always more things that we can all do.
Speaker 4: But yeah, I think transitioning into thirties and getting excited
Speaker 4: about what that decade has to offer is my advice.
Speaker 4: If you're about to turn thirty and being thirty is exciting, like,
Speaker 4: throw a party.
Speaker 1: Have fun, celebrate how.
Speaker 4: Good your twenties were, but how amazing your thirties are
Speaker 4: about to be.
Speaker 2: How do you guys deal with trolling an online hate.
Speaker 4: I would say it depends on my mood. I would
Speaker 4: say I'm either going to ignore it and just be
Speaker 4: like whatever, ignore, thank you for the engagement. I'm either
Speaker 4: going to block them if they've said something that's really
Speaker 4: like pissed me off, or I'm going to call it out,
Speaker 4: especially with like the mum shaming type of things, like
Speaker 4: it really just grinds my gears and I think like,
Speaker 4: I like take back my power or I feel like
Speaker 4: I can take back my power. And post it and
Speaker 4: be like this is not okay. Don't mum shame me, don't.
Speaker 1: Say this to me.
Speaker 4: And I feel like the response that I get from
Speaker 4: people is like good, like you should call them out
Speaker 4: like that's not okay.
Speaker 3: I don't give them any time of day. If you
Speaker 3: want to bring someone down and that brings you comfort,
Speaker 3: you are the sad person.
Speaker 2: You need to help.
Speaker 4: I also think like it says a lot about trolls
Speaker 4: because the majority of the people who troll me, like
Speaker 4: I would say ninety five percent, are too cowardice to
Speaker 4: show their face with their comment.
Speaker 2: So if you're doing it off a burner account, you're
Speaker 2: a coward.
Speaker 1: Such a coward, like literally.
Speaker 2: Like message me off your actual account.
Speaker 4: Yeah, Like, if you genuinely have a comment to say,
Speaker 4: put your face to it and stand by it. And
Speaker 4: you know my face is to my account, So let's
Speaker 4: see your face and then let's see how bullsy you are. Oh,
Speaker 4: I guess ninety nine percent of the people wouldn't be
Speaker 4: that ballsy.
Speaker 1: But yeah, that's how I do with trolling. Okay.
Speaker 4: Did married life feel different to being in a relationship
Speaker 4: for both of you with your partners?
Speaker 2: No? No, not at all.
Speaker 1: No, no.
Speaker 4: I think for me, I'm going to say no. But
Speaker 4: I feel like after getting married, I did feel a
Speaker 4: deeper level of commitment to Michael. Not that I wasn't
Speaker 4: already committed to him, but it was just the fact
Speaker 4: that we have made this commitment in front of our
Speaker 4: friends and family. It made me feel really secure in
Speaker 4: the relationship and it just made me feel like very
Speaker 4: comforted in knowing that he's always going to be there
Speaker 4: and excited for our future and like what was to
Speaker 4: come at the time. So yeah, it definitely gave me
Speaker 4: different feelings of like security with.
Speaker 2: Him and are you ready to be a mum?
Speaker 4: I am ready to be a mom. I'm so excited
Speaker 4: to be a mom. Oh there's a feather flying outside.
Speaker 4: I feel like that's good luck. I feel like I
Speaker 4: always see white feathers and it just means like something
Speaker 4: positive or good luck.
Speaker 1: It's good luck you missed it.
Speaker 4: I think it's something that's really exciting to me, also
Speaker 4: really terrifying, just like not knowing how I'm gonna deal
Speaker 4: with lack of sleep. I'm getting eight hours of I
Speaker 4: was before pregnancy and getting eight hours of uninterrupted sleep,
Speaker 4: and that's how I work best. During the day, and
Speaker 4: I just think it's going to be a bit of
Speaker 4: a change. I don't know if anyone is ever ready
Speaker 4: to become a parent until you actually have a child
Speaker 4: there in front of you that you have to look after,
Speaker 4: because you can't prepare for that.
Speaker 2: And being a parent's about sacrifice.
Speaker 1: That's what you've learned.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think I am, and I think that Michael
Speaker 4: and I both have a really good support system around us.
Speaker 4: So obviously we do have our business, and you know,
Speaker 4: there are gonna be work things that we're gonna have
Speaker 4: to go to. Obviously we have that podcast, Like, there's
Speaker 4: lots going on work wise, and I want to dedicate
Speaker 4: as much time to our baby as possible, but I
Speaker 4: know that if there is work related things that I'm
Speaker 4: going to have to do that I do have my
Speaker 4: parents and Michael's parents, and like they're you know, super
Speaker 4: flexible and just so accommodating and lovely about potentially being
Speaker 4: able to look after the baby if we needed to
Speaker 4: do anything work related.
Speaker 1: So yeah, I saw, but.
Speaker 3: I saw one that didn't make the list. What would
Speaker 3: you have called if it was a daughter the child?
Speaker 4: If it was a daughter, Well, I can't say that
Speaker 4: because that would be giving away my daughter name.
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay.
Speaker 4: Final question, do you ever struggle navigating your friendship but
Speaker 4: also working together.
Speaker 2: I think we.
Speaker 3: Touched on that earlier that I feel like we found
Speaker 3: the balance in the start there we argued a lot. Yeah,
Speaker 3: but I think we've gotten better now and I think
Speaker 3: as well, I'd like to do more friends stuff, not
Speaker 3: work stuff.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree, that would be nice. You can come
Speaker 1: babysit the baby.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 3: Sure, I've changed changed diapers.
Speaker 2: I've done it, so I.
Speaker 1: Don't know how to change dic the hard part.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I didn't think I could do it. But it's not.
Speaker 2: It's not hard.
Speaker 1: Just get used to it, get.
Speaker 2: Used to it.
Speaker 1: It's just normal.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that was That was one of the bigger ones
Speaker 2: for me.
Speaker 1: Yeah, for sure.
Speaker 4: I think that our friendship over the years has become
Speaker 4: a lot stronger, and I think that we have worked
Speaker 4: out how to deal with each other.
Speaker 3: Also, I think that we both keep it raw with
Speaker 3: each other, and I know you tell me the truth
Speaker 3: and how it is, and I don't think we ever.
Speaker 3: I think we have enough trust in each other to
Speaker 3: know that we want the best option for each other.
Speaker 3: And totally the podcast, I don't I think that like
Speaker 3: you're not going to make a decision or I'm not
Speaker 3: that's gonna jeopardize anything between us. And that's something that
Speaker 3: is invaluable that we have that, So like I think
Speaker 3: that that's a good base for the trust.
Speaker 4: Yeah, we definitely have like that strong like business relationship
Speaker 4: kind of like what you're saying. But yeah, I think
Speaker 4: maybe I can be a bit too brutally honest with
Speaker 4: you sometimes.
Speaker 2: Yeah, a lot of time. It's good though, it's refreshing.
Speaker 2: I need it. I don't stuff at some time. Called
Speaker 2: presently you have been very rutely.
Speaker 4: Honest, very really straight to the point you're like, geez,
Speaker 4: tell me what you really think.
Speaker 2: I did hang out the other day, don't know.
Speaker 4: Yeah, but you call back pretty quickly normally normally like
Speaker 4: us three years ago, we wouldn't have spoke for the
Speaker 4: week and apologized.
Speaker 2: I straight up apologized. I said, yeah, right, you're right.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: I didn't want to hear that at the moment.
Speaker 4: Okay, Well, we hope that you guys enjoyed listening to
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Speaker 4: and until next time, Matt, bye bye,