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Speaker 1: Coming up on relatables Patreon.

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Speaker 2: This week Hot take of the Week Everyone should build

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Speaker 2: a personal brand on social media. Your personal brand is

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Speaker 2: you don't know the potential opportunities, and there's no better

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Speaker 2: feeling or reward for something that you've built all by yourself.

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Speaker 2: I keep having sex dreams about my boyfriend's best friend.

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Speaker 2: That's crazy, magic ladd stop all right. For some contexts,

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Speaker 2: we're all part of the same friend group. It has

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Speaker 2: kind of a merged between my boyfriend's group and my

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Speaker 2: group of high school friends. I have been with my

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Speaker 2: boyfriend for two years now. We all have friends that

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Speaker 2: we see more than others, and for me, that includes

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Speaker 2: a few of my close girlfriends and some of the

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Speaker 2: boys that we're close from the group. One of these guys,

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Speaker 2: let's call him James, is one of my boyfriend's close friends.

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Speaker 2: James is not my type at all, and I do

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Speaker 2: not find him attractive. I've never had a sex dream

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Speaker 2: until these dreams started. High key giving myself the ick

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Speaker 2: with these dreams, but they will not stop. I don't

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Speaker 2: know what to do, and I obviously can't tell my boyfriend.

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Speaker 2: I feel so orkies around my group and my boyfriend

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Speaker 2: and James when they are both there, and I don't

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Speaker 2: feel like I can talk to my girlies in the

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Speaker 2: car about this. And if it finds a way back

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Speaker 2: to James or my boyfriend, I'm dead. What in the.

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Speaker 1: World this secret is going with you to the grave

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Speaker 1: if you're staying, If you and your boyfriend get married,

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Speaker 1: this secret is going with you to the grave.

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Speaker 2: But if you break up, obviously, whatever, But how do

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Speaker 2: we get it out of her head? You gotta live

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Speaker 2: with them?

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Speaker 1: You actualely do you no option? If she's listening to this,

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Speaker 1: she might this episode might like make the dreams worse.

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Speaker 1: I know. And he's not your type at all? Is

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Speaker 1: it bad? If you're having sex with someone else in

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Speaker 1: your dreams, it's out of your control. You don't want

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Speaker 1: to have sex with this person in real life, but

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Speaker 1: you're dreaming about You can't control your dreams, So you

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Speaker 1: can't tell your boyfriend obviously, Nah, I don't think you

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Speaker 1: can tell anyone.

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Speaker 2: Glass half Full on Patreon.

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Speaker 1: We're in a new place, we are.

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Speaker 2: This is a safe environment. The glass half full environment

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Speaker 2: is all about mindset positivity, making you think in a

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Speaker 2: different way, turning a gear and shining a light on

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Speaker 2: potentially a negative situation or a negative word associated with

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Speaker 2: the said situation. And today, Jake, I wanted to talk

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Speaker 2: all about rejection because I feel like rejection is such

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Speaker 2: a relatable thing that everyone has to experience, and when

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Speaker 2: you're in it, it's so hard to not be overwhelmed

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Speaker 2: or enveloped by the feeling because it feels like an

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Speaker 2: attack on you, an attack on your persona, an attack

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Speaker 2: on everything about you. Yeah, when in reality it's something

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Speaker 2: that you can't really control. So I have a couple

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Speaker 2: mindset shifts that I wanted to talk about.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so glass half.

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Speaker 2: Full obviously is playing on the metaphor. You can never

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Speaker 2: look at a glass half empty where you're like, oh

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Speaker 2: my drinks are almost done, ah damn it, or half

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Speaker 2: my drink's.

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Speaker 1: Half full, it's still half full.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I got heaps last, let's go. So the first

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Speaker 2: mindset shift, I can't say that today. Mindset shift, Yeah

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Speaker 2: that was good is glass half empty would be if

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Speaker 2: you got rejected I wasn't good enough. Yes, But the

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Speaker 2: glass half four approach to being rejected is this opens

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Speaker 2: the door to find someone who's better suited for me.

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Speaker 2: Oh shit, So rather than dwelling on the fact that, like,

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Speaker 2: I wasn't good enough for said person. You're like, nah,

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Speaker 2: fuck that guy. It was his problem, not me.

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Speaker 1: Facts.

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Speaker 2: They couldn't realize the person I was, and I'm better

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Speaker 2: suited for someone else. They're fucking lost, fucking Oarth. That's

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Speaker 2: the agreed. Yeah, so that's kind of the essence, And

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Speaker 2: I got a couple more as well. I think that's

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Speaker 2: one of the valuable lessons I've learned going through life

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Speaker 2: is your perspective and mindset and the thoughts you consume

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Speaker 2: really come out through your person more than you know