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Speaker 1: This podcast, I want to talk about weather, the big

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Speaker 1: the wedding proposal, the proposal, the will you marry me?

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Speaker 1: Was just not what you were hoping for?

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Speaker 2: Can I? Can I start by saying, you don't know

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Speaker 2: how nerve wracking it is cake getting ready for that

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Speaker 2: proposal like you practice so many times, but in that moment,

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Speaker 2: your heart's racing, your hands are shaking your car properly

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Speaker 2: because you want to get.

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Speaker 3: It right and you've rehearsed and you thought about it.

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Speaker 3: I nearly feel the back of the strides. I was, yeah,

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Speaker 3: so nervous.

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Speaker 2: There's always a chopper going over the top quite on set.

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Speaker 2: You know what, it's not the right setting, the sunset's

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Speaker 2: not right, like things go wrong.

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Speaker 1: But is it because you don't want to get married?

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Speaker 3: No, because you've put so much work into it and

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Speaker 3: you've dreamt of that moment. I would have looked at

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Speaker 3: one hundred thousand rings trying to find the right one,

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Speaker 3: and then I booked the hotel room. I've got the

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Speaker 3: timing right, but shit.

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Speaker 1: Didn't No, I know, I was actually no. I was

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Speaker 1: actually really upset with myself for calling her she because

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Speaker 1: that is something I do not like to do to

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Speaker 1: your wife or Lisa. Did she not pick out her

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Speaker 1: own ring?

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Speaker 3: No? Oh?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, BJ, No, this is this is the no. So

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Speaker 2: what I did, what I did, And I've spoken about

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Speaker 2: this before, but I just got a little plastic ring

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Speaker 2: from a vending machine, proposed and then said to BJ

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Speaker 2: you can you can go and pick because I don't know.

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Speaker 1: What she likes and that's kind of cute.

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Speaker 2: That's why we prepared an absolute fortune for his And

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Speaker 2: now Lisa wants to change it.

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Speaker 3: Well, I suppose the difference is too fitzy. Then said,

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Speaker 3: you can buy whatever you want, but if you need

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Speaker 3: you need to buy it from this jeweler that fits

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Speaker 3: in you where he got seventy five percent?

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Speaker 2: No where I worked?

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Speaker 3: Did you get any Clark's jewelers?

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Speaker 2: Clark the jeweler, Yeah, John said, BJ said this is

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Speaker 2: she wanted the Princess die setting.

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Speaker 1: So the sapphire oh with the ones all around, the

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Speaker 1: one that Kate now has, yea.

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Speaker 2: And Johnny Clarke just went, yep, I know the exact one.

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Speaker 2: I saw it in Melbourne the other day and he

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Speaker 2: looked at me and gave me a wink. And when

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Speaker 2: I'll look after you. How good is that?

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Speaker 4: Oh?

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Speaker 1: That's what you need, a jeweler like that in in

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Speaker 1: your in your top pocket thirteen twenty four ten. Was

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Speaker 1: the proposal not what you were hoping because this Maybe

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Speaker 1: it was the ring. Maybe it was just the way

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Speaker 1: it all unfolded, because this guy has proposed to his

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Speaker 1: girlfriend and she's not happy about it because he's done

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Speaker 1: the one thing that she said she really didn't want.

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Speaker 1: So she didn't have too many demands around the proposal.

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Speaker 1: It wasn't as though this is the particular ring I want,

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Speaker 1: we need to be in Italy, or we need this

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Speaker 1: that or the other. They'd been dating for nine years

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Speaker 1: before he actually proposed, and about two years out maybe

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Speaker 1: she had an inkling. She started to say things like,

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Speaker 1: if it happens, can we just make sure that it's

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Speaker 1: just us? So I really want the proposal to be

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Speaker 1: you and me. I want it to be a private

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Speaker 1: moment we can express ourselves to each other kind of thing.

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Speaker 1: Turns out he tells his sisters or his family. I

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Speaker 1: guess everyone gets excited and the family he can't. He

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Speaker 1: obviously has two bossy sisters who don't take no for

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Speaker 1: an answer, and both sides of the family are there

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Speaker 1: for the proposed surprise party. Yes, so it's not a

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Speaker 1: private moment at all. I mean, she said yes, and

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Speaker 1: she said that she's incredibly happy to be engaged to

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Speaker 1: this blog. But I think, I mean, if he can't

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Speaker 1: get that little bit right, or stand up to his

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Speaker 1: family or follow those very simple instructions for a very

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Speaker 1: important moment, then what else is it? What else is

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Speaker 1: that going to lead to?

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Speaker 3: What happened? Can you tell us about yours quickly? Where

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Speaker 3: did your proposal take place?

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Speaker 1: I think I've ever spoken about.

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Speaker 3: Great news we have all the time we got six o'clock.

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Speaker 1: What happened? Where were you?

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Speaker 2: How much word tickets to see it?

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Speaker 5: Like?

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Speaker 1: Did you see?

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Speaker 4: It?

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Speaker 1: Was very private? Everything about our very private. I was

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Speaker 1: in I was overseas.

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Speaker 3: In Fiji where you went on the dysentry tour.

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Speaker 1: I wasn't in Fiji.

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Speaker 2: So what country were you in? Can we ask?

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Speaker 1: I was in Italy on the.

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Speaker 3: Water, right on a canal.

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Speaker 2: Lane quarteen p.

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Speaker 1: Like that down down that way, like like Mafi Malfi.

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Speaker 2: And were you initial reaction? Initial reaction when you first

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Speaker 2: saw the ring you thaid, wow, he's done well.

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Speaker 1: There or had already seen the ring?

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Speaker 3: Why did you know if he took he proposed overseas,

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Speaker 3: just so you get the tax back on the ring.

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Speaker 2: Is that what he did? I doubt it, but you

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Speaker 2: didn't see he would have snoop. You would have around

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Speaker 2: and found out anyway. Hey, can we go to Apple?

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Speaker 3: Apple?

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Speaker 2: We're talking bad proposals? You got one?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: I do?

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Speaker 3: What happened?

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Speaker 1: Apple?

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Speaker 5: Ah? So we were in bed. It was very unexpected.

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Speaker 5: We're in bed and you're just out of nowhere. He

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Speaker 5: kind of turned him in, So how about it? So

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Speaker 5: he'd asked the question in his head, but I guess

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Speaker 5: he was very nervous that he thought he ah, that

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Speaker 5: was how about it? And I was like, how about what.

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Speaker 1: He'd forgotten that?

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Speaker 2: It even asked, Oh my.

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Speaker 5: God, twenty one years now and I got to pick

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Speaker 5: my own ring?

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Speaker 3: Oh wow, an apple? Did you pick a pear shaped diamond?

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 5: I didn't. Actually I picked a Napple marine his.

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Speaker 3: Eyes, beautiful apple, Hello, jewels.

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Speaker 5: Hello guys.

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Speaker 4: What's your story time spot?

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Speaker 1: I think well, I.

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Speaker 4: Got I got proposed on New Year's the second marriage

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Speaker 4: and I he dutched under the bed after a drinking

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Speaker 4: French champagne coming back from dinner and pulled out a

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Speaker 4: box from a jeweler that I knew, and I had

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Speaker 4: seen a divine ring and I opened the box that

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Speaker 4: had the light shining on nothing. There's nothing in the box.

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Speaker 4: What do you know? Well, we're still in the process

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Speaker 4: of organizing it. So on Valentine's Day that's what he

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Speaker 4: gave me the ring a few months later, but it

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Speaker 4: was a bit of a shock to see nothing in

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Speaker 4: the box.

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Speaker 1: We couldn't wait.

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Speaker 3: You you did not pull out a box without having

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Speaker 3: a ring in it.

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Speaker 4: But I just get the spectacular ring, did mine?

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Speaker 2: I don't mind. It's sort of like a in radio,

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Speaker 2: the radio industry. It's like a hook on you, you

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Speaker 2: know what I mean, stick around, coming up next to

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Speaker 2: the ring.

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Speaker 1: So you're in Italy, you never never, it never delivers,

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Speaker 1: I think. I mean to all of the late the ladies,

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Speaker 1: to all of the ladies out there, I suggest, you know,

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Speaker 1: just take it. Take your engagement ring with a pinch

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Speaker 1: of salt, because one day it'll be snatched back from you.

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Speaker 1: Any jewelry you intend to keep for your entire life

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Speaker 1: by yourself.

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Speaker 3: Where's your wedding ring?

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Speaker 1: I have my wedding ring.

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Speaker 3: Where's your engagement room?

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Speaker 1: What did you do?

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Speaker 2: Get Cashy.

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Speaker 1: What did Cashi's off here? This conversation is officially over.

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