WEBVTT - Bonus: Do You Have Hidden Debt?

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<v Speaker 1>He goes open and honest with people. Your date.

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<v Speaker 2>Hmm, yes, largely, I mean yeah, no, no, no, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>not a good lie and all surely. Yeah, I mean

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<v Speaker 2>a little white live very now and then.

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<v Speaker 1>It's fine, she's sitting on something. Quint American. You got

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<v Speaker 1>a hidden family out there with her.

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<v Speaker 2>I'd like to know about them too. No, yes, I

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<v Speaker 2>mean I'm far more honest with my partner than you are.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, you said, yes, yeah, don't.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm honest. But a little white lie every now and

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<v Speaker 2>then won't kill anyone.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, what are we sitting on?

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<v Speaker 3>Nothing?

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<v Speaker 1>Seems like she's hiding something.

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<v Speaker 3>And by the way, if I was hiding something major,

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<v Speaker 3>do you really think I'd be announcing it on the

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<v Speaker 3>radio show to you right now?

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<v Speaker 1>You are? You're not you? You are?

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<v Speaker 2>I was lying to poll because I threw a surprise

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<v Speaker 2>party and I told many lies in the last two weeks,

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<v Speaker 2>and I wasn't good at.

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<v Speaker 3>It, but it was worth it.

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<v Speaker 1>Seems flustered to me.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not flustered, but I could start telling some of

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<v Speaker 3>the lies.

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<v Speaker 4>That you anyway, moving on to this news story, please.

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<v Speaker 3>Don't turn my microphone down. We have one rule in

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<v Speaker 3>this studio.

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<v Speaker 1>Have each other's back.

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<v Speaker 5>This guy's marriage has fallen apart, made headlines in the news.

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<v Speaker 5>You might have caught it. Relationship ended abruptly when he

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<v Speaker 5>discovered she had debt that she was accumulating and keeping

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<v Speaker 5>it on the quiet.

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<v Speaker 3>I think this happens all the time.

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<v Speaker 5>Twenty five thousand dollars in credit cards, Ouch kept it

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<v Speaker 5>on the quiet.

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<v Speaker 3>Ouch.

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<v Speaker 5>He found out well, and he left her well. I

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<v Speaker 5>think that was the that was the starting point. There

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<v Speaker 5>are other issues, right, but she'd lied about the cost

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<v Speaker 5>of purchases, and then.

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<v Speaker 3>What was she buying.

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<v Speaker 5>Twenty five grand I guess she was just buying luxury

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<v Speaker 5>product stuff he wouldn't even really recognize because.

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<v Speaker 2>It is easy to get into debt, and there's a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of people in debt, and there's a lot of

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<v Speaker 2>people dealing with debt right now.

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<v Speaker 1>I knew a guy.

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<v Speaker 2>It's just life debt sometimes, and it is the worst

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<v Speaker 2>feeling in the world when you owe money and you

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<v Speaker 2>just feel like you can't get on top of it.

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<v Speaker 3>But if you are listening to this theories hell out.

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<v Speaker 5>There, yeah there is I knew a guy who ran

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<v Speaker 5>up quite the hefty bill. I think over fifty thousand

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<v Speaker 5>dollars on gambling.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, he just got married.

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<v Speaker 5>He yep, lost his job but didn't tell his wife,

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<v Speaker 5>so she would drop him off at work on the

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<v Speaker 5>way to her work each morning. What and then he

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<v Speaker 5>would go to the pub and gamble during the day

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<v Speaker 5>and then be back out in front of his work

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<v Speaker 5>when she picked him up on the way home.

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<v Speaker 4>So he kept all from it.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh dear, Yeah, how did she find out?

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<v Speaker 5>It came out a couple of months after they got

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<v Speaker 5>married and she ended up getting into an oult.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh she didn't support him, no, what it.

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<v Speaker 4>Was like, I mean, if that's the start of the marriage.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I know, he's a real problem.

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<v Speaker 4>I know, But if that's the start of the marriage, like,

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<v Speaker 4>wouldn't you sit there?

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<v Speaker 3>An't Obviously that's an issue.

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<v Speaker 5>But I think it was the lying and him getting

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<v Speaker 5>dropped outside work and stuff as well.

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<v Speaker 1>Like that's quite a lab you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 5>Imagine if you ran into a past work mate, Lauren,

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<v Speaker 5>what are you doing here? Didn't they flick you months ago?

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<v Speaker 3>Imagine the whole he was about a year ago. I

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<v Speaker 3>didn't lie about that. I was I ain't ever going.

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<v Speaker 5>Back thirteen twenty four ten Hidden Debt or Little you

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<v Speaker 5>know what doesn't have to be like hundreds of thousands

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<v Speaker 5>of dollars? Is there little expenses that the partner doesn't

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<v Speaker 5>know about, well, handbag collection.

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<v Speaker 1>No one needs to know.

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<v Speaker 3>About a little side bank account, Jason, Well.

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<v Speaker 4>Like a couple of pineapples in the bedside table.

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<v Speaker 5>Draw exactly that in the mattress. I love how old

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<v Speaker 5>people still keep money in like mattresses. Yeah, did I

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<v Speaker 5>know that I don't trust the banks, Lauren.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't trust the banks. I love that I don't

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<v Speaker 3>trust the.

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<v Speaker 1>Banks thirteen twenty something.

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<v Speaker 3>Shouldn't trust the banks.

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<v Speaker 5>Thirteen twenty four. Ten is our number? Are you hiding debt?

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<v Speaker 5>Or were you dating someone who has? I dated a

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<v Speaker 5>girl who the police came around that to dig up

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<v Speaker 5>per front lawn of the rental property because there was

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<v Speaker 5>money hidden in the front lawn from the previous tenants.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh it wasn't her, No, that's the opposite. By the way,

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<v Speaker 3>Bengo did get to keep it.

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<v Speaker 4>No, she didn't get to keep it. Wasn't fine as keepers.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, how much was there off?

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<v Speaker 1>A bit?

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<v Speaker 3>Was it? Was it crime money?

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<v Speaker 2>I think it was an aughty money, dirty money, dirty money?

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<v Speaker 5>Thirteen twenty four to ten is our number. We are

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<v Speaker 5>talking hidden debts this morning. Give us a call on nover.

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<v Speaker 5>You're listening to number one hundred. Y're on the air,

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<v Speaker 5>which Lauren clint here as well, and so is Nicky

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<v Speaker 5>in Kilmore. We are talking hidden debts in relationships.

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<v Speaker 3>Hello, Nicky, Hello, are you hiding a secret?

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<v Speaker 1>No, my girlfriend's husband was hiding one hundred thousand dollars death.

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<v Speaker 2>Dear.

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<v Speaker 3>How did she find out?

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<v Speaker 1>He only told her after they got married and had

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<v Speaker 1>their honeymoon. He told her on the honeymoon.

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<v Speaker 2>Pretty much, No milky way out of the minibar for you,

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<v Speaker 2>just before you ordered the other cocktail, because that's quite expending.

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<v Speaker 3>Or did she stick by him?

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<v Speaker 1>She did, but she made him sell everything that he bought.

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<v Speaker 3>To be able to pay. Was he buying dumb things?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, he thought he was.

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<v Speaker 3>He thought he was wrong.

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<v Speaker 2>He thought he was a DJ, so he bought decks

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<v Speaker 2>pretty much.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's time to sell the he's got the smoke machine,

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<v Speaker 1>the lights, give.

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<v Speaker 3>The back, give the disco ball back.

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<v Speaker 1>You're not caravan, arris bro.

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<v Speaker 3>No, give the lasers back.

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<v Speaker 5>Managing go around for drinks at their place though, water

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<v Speaker 5>set up the smoke machine.

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<v Speaker 2>What are you DJing for Gary, just our friends for dinner,

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<v Speaker 2>smoke smoke machines in.

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<v Speaker 3>Houses and not a good idea. I went to a

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<v Speaker 3>party with the smoke machine. There was a big button

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<v Speaker 3>on the DJ thing saying do not.

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<v Speaker 2>Push, and I pushed it and was so long too.

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, and that runs.

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<v Speaker 2>All the ProArms went off and they were like close

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<v Speaker 2>the kitchen doors or the sprinklers will turn on.

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<v Speaker 5>I was like, oh, we just we're just make mache

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<v Speaker 5>for one of the kids parties.

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<v Speaker 4>They're all going to bloody die them was all these kids.

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<v Speaker 2>Coughing, not good, honey. One hundred thousand dollars worth of

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<v Speaker 2>DJ equipment.

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<v Speaker 3>That's like a Fisher set up?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you want your party back? You just want to?

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<v Speaker 3>Is that how much it costs to be a DJ?

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<v Speaker 3>On hundred thousand dollars?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, when you got to set.

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<v Speaker 3>Up, like doing some serious gigs, wouldn't you.

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<v Speaker 1>In Craigie bag good morning.

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<v Speaker 2>And I wonder just told him that honeymoon he did

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<v Speaker 2>a set?

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<v Speaker 3>Did DJ set up?

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<v Speaker 1>We're good? What's your story?

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<v Speaker 4>So basically, my dad was a gambler and my mom

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<v Speaker 4>only found.

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<v Speaker 2>Out for what we know eight years later, which was

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<v Speaker 2>the family down for the story shot.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 2>Gambling is it's it's a horrific addiction and people getting

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<v Speaker 2>real strife with it.

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<v Speaker 1>How much was.

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<v Speaker 3>Let's just say, quite a few hundred hours.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, I'm so sorry to hear that.

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<v Speaker 3>That gambling is.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a real problem and it actually does break up

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<v Speaker 2>familiesn't it it. Gambler's help is available if you need it.

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<v Speaker 2>By the way, it's a real problem.

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<v Speaker 5>That was the thing that really used to break my

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<v Speaker 5>heart down at the Bars club, seeing all the oldies

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<v Speaker 5>lined up waiting and getting in on the poking machine.

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<v Speaker 2>But there's that's a little tip on my name. Mavis

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<v Speaker 2>used to love the Pokeys.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, get her off, that's your inheritance stuff.

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<v Speaker 3>Nay, she loved it.

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<v Speaker 4>No, let's just been treasure more savings, grandmar.

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<v Speaker 5>What do they call it, NaN's Nintendo, haven't you?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, the NaN's Love. She'd be on the twenty cent machine.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you for being I don't think she's doing Super Mario.

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<v Speaker 2>No, she's doing the Dolphin Journey.

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<v Speaker 1>It's always the Pyramids.

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<v Speaker 5>They go off and then they get their little signs

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<v Speaker 5>out reserve

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<v Speaker 2>Jason Lauren Lauren wake up feeling good following them on

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<v Speaker 2>the socials,