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Speaker 1: Coming up on Relatables.

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Speaker 2: Friendly Yeah yeah, friendly, I think friendly. I hope he's

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Speaker 2: doing it. Everyone that changed it? Yeah, fuck, you know what?

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Speaker 2: These are actually hard? You know what?

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Speaker 1: I see why people are single fact.

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Speaker 2: Relatable. The Relatables podcast is hosted by myself.

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Speaker 1: Jake Craig aka Daddy.

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Speaker 2: With my partner in crime Addie Clark aka Mummy.

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Speaker 1: Welcome back, everybody and today Jake. I wanted to start

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Speaker 1: things off to help the listeners out. When I was

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Speaker 1: a bit younger, a bit of a young women stapp

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Speaker 1: or some would say, right, I had more, I had

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Speaker 1: more pepper, your step, my step. I don't know if

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Speaker 1: I know. I might say I struggled with the opposite

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Speaker 1: sex to know if they were really into me or not.

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Speaker 2: Maybe I was on a night out a girl looked

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Speaker 2: at me. I wouldn't think anything of it. Maybe maybe

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Speaker 2: I was at the gym.

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Speaker 1: Girl might have come over and asked if she could

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Speaker 1: use like that weight equipment after me or something. Didn't

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Speaker 1: think anything of it.

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Speaker 2: Just like yeah, yeah, oh yeah.

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Speaker 1: So today I thought we could help some listeners out

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Speaker 1: with flirting or friendly situations in real life, and we'll

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Speaker 1: give an indication whether or not it's flirting or friendly.

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Speaker 2: I like it. I like it a lot.

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Speaker 1: So this is from the I G guys, So do

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Speaker 1: you want me to go first or you you go first?

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Speaker 2: Okay? Flirting or friendly? Privately messages me about my run

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Speaker 2: on Strava. Whoa flirting? That is kudos? Friendly? All right?

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Speaker 2: Kudos is friendly? You've done well? Privately messaging me, Oh,

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Speaker 2: how was that run?

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Speaker 1: The only reason why I agree with you? Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: didn't know Strava had a messaging thing you.

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Speaker 2: Strava's the next dating it. Let me tell you. I

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Speaker 2: knew it was there. Extra Yah, I do he is flirting.

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Speaker 2: I think he's working as well. When I first found

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Speaker 2: out there was a thing on Strama, the first thing

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Speaker 2: I said to my girlfriend was like, want to have sex?

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Speaker 2: I'm going to use that flirting or friendly? Giving you

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Speaker 2: free drinks at the place they work at. Well, that's

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Speaker 2: tough because so I used to work at a bar.

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Speaker 2: I'm thinking about it, and I was single when I

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Speaker 2: was working there, though, so giving a friend a free

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Speaker 2: drink on my part, I didn't. I didn't even think

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Speaker 2: anything of it. If it was even a female, like

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Speaker 2: I was gonna say friendly, friendly, like I think it's

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Speaker 2: just friendly.

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Speaker 1: I think this is friendly and buying a drink for

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Speaker 1: someone else on a night out. Flirting, blirting if you're

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Speaker 1: the one working.

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Speaker 2: Hold up, if you're in line with you and another

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Speaker 2: friend and you're just as good a friends with this

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Speaker 2: dude and behind the bar. Okay, that's dude, and he

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Speaker 2: gives you a free drink, but the friend pays.

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Speaker 1: Oh, that's flirting.

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Speaker 2: But if you give you guys both a free drink,

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Speaker 2: he's just being friendly. He's just using his power appropriately. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 2: yeah he is.

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Speaker 1: He's using his power appropriately flirting or friendly.

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Speaker 2: I asked how my day was, out of the blue, Hey,

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Speaker 2: how's your day? Flirting?

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Speaker 1: I think so too.

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Speaker 2: I don't know. I feel like I don't care. I don't,

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Speaker 2: I don't. I think dudes are trash enough to be like, oh,

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Speaker 2: I don't give a fuck. How a day was?

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Speaker 1: I just yeah, I don't see any other approach like, nah,

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Speaker 1: I don't know, not be friendly?

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Speaker 2: No, no, no, guys have intentions. Yeah s thinking about

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Speaker 2: it right now? Okay, I because guys actually do kind

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Speaker 2: of like we're not bad at texting, but I think

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Speaker 2: a lot of guys don't really like texting. Okay, So

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Speaker 2: if I'm going through the effort of texting you, I'm

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Speaker 2: not doing it just to be friendly.

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Speaker 1: I agree, even even growing up in school thinking about it,

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Speaker 1: like I was only messaging girls to be like yeah, because.

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Speaker 2: I liked them. Yeah. Yeah, Like in a couple of messages,

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Speaker 2: I'm going to be hitting you with So you're busy

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Speaker 1: This one?

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Speaker 2: Now, I think this was said by a dude flirting

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Speaker 2: or friendly. My pete smacks my bum if I overtrain

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Speaker 2: or don't eat enough. He is older and married.

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Speaker 1: That's not okay. Yeah, what's that thing?

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Speaker 2: I can't remember?

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Speaker 1: Maybe was the office or something and that No, it's friends.

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Speaker 1: Chandler hates his bum beings slapped by his boss. Ye

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Speaker 1: and yes, yes, and you just know what to do yo.

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Speaker 2: Firstly, this one sucks because it's a that was mail

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Speaker 2: to mal This is oh, no, you think this is

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Speaker 2: mail to male? Oh? I remember playing soccer. Some dudes

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Speaker 2: love a bum slab. Yeah. Also, in some sports it's

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Speaker 2: like you've got to buy the team a case of

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Speaker 2: beer or something if you don't get fully naked in

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Speaker 2: the showers. Yeah, what weird to get naked? It's supposed

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Speaker 2: to be like peak male like manliness, testosterone, testosterone, testosterone,

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Speaker 2: primative state, mate, primitive stage. You guys are crossing sword

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Speaker 2: tie them together, called.

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Speaker 1: Docking, docking.

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Speaker 2: I don't even know that is.

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Speaker 1: I think that would be I'm going to say friendly.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, guy to guy friendly And if it was guy

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Speaker 2: a girl your pens report it? Are you doing like

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Speaker 2: a yeah? If it's got yeah, true.

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Speaker 1: Flirting or friendly? Giving you a water bottle at the

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Speaker 1: beginning of every one of your shifts here you need

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Speaker 1: this today? Friendly, you reckon?

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Speaker 2: Friendly? Yeah? Yeah, friendly?

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Speaker 1: I think friendly.

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Speaker 2: I hope he's doing it every run that changes. Yeah. Fuck,

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Speaker 2: you know what? These are actually hard? You know what?

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Speaker 2: I see why people are single fact because because if

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Speaker 2: he is flirting, he doesn't know how to do it.

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Speaker 2: If he's flirting, he doesn't know what the fuck he's doing. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: But if he's only doing it to you, whoever sidcely said,

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Speaker 2: If he's only doing it to you, it's flirting.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Otherwise he's a good boss. Yeah, otherwise he's a

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Speaker 1: good manager.

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Speaker 2: Flirting or friendly. He has a girlfriend flirting? Sorry I

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Speaker 2: was waiting for you to say it. Okay, he has

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Speaker 2: a girlfriend. But when we're both home from UNI. He

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Speaker 2: asks me to go for dog walks, just me and him. Flirting,

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Speaker 2: flirting dog walking. Yeah, it doesn't get that he's about to.

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Speaker 2: He's about to what's it called concide or confide in

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Speaker 2: your Yeah, thinking about it. I hated walking my dog.

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Speaker 2: Hate walking my dog in fact, yeah, like no one

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Speaker 2: wants to. I like, actually I like taking Henry out

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Speaker 2: with that. He still give it ten years mate, It's like, yeah,

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Speaker 2: I've done this enough. How much do you walk around

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Speaker 2: the house all day? You have four legs? Very is

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Speaker 2: too ULTI walk now, So it's going to be loving that, okay,

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Speaker 2: flirting or friendly sending you a happy New Year's message?

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Speaker 1: Flirting?

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Speaker 2: Rec Are you kidding? I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I'm going to disagree.

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Speaker 2: I reckon.

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Speaker 1: Back in the day, when I was younger, I would

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Speaker 1: have just sat like on Snapchat happy Happy New Years

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Speaker 1: and send it to the heaps of people.

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Speaker 2: And I bear. I guarantee you you were waiting to

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Speaker 2: see who replied to be like, hey, yeah you too,

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Speaker 2: Like what's doing I bet yeah, it just never happened.

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Speaker 2: I don't kiss and tell the mate, I don't kiss

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Speaker 2: and tell it did not happen, or you miss one. Okay,

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Speaker 2: I think this is hard. Okay, flirting or friendly always

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Speaker 2: sitting next to me in a group situation when there

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Speaker 2: are few options, so there's more than one option. There's

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Speaker 2: more than one option depends where context I'm going to.

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Speaker 1: That's tough. Yeah, flirting, I agree. Oh, but then if

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Speaker 1: you've done it once, it'd be like weird to sit

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Speaker 1: somewhere else. Like say you go to UNI and there's

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Speaker 1: heaps his chairs in the hall and he sat next

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Speaker 1: to you once just because I don't know, we wanted

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Speaker 1: to say higher. Yeah, and then if he doesn't go

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Like is he overthinking it? And now you're thinking

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Speaker 2: and he's like, I don't want it to think I'm

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Speaker 2: flirting because I'm not. But she thinks that I am.

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Speaker 2: I don't want to be rude, and he's like, I

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Speaker 2: don't want to just that one's I say friendly, I

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Speaker 2: say we shouldn't. Really, I think I'm going to leave

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Speaker 2: towards friendly too. This one was a good one. Flirting

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Speaker 2: or friendly? Asking tips or what closed the buy? And

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Speaker 2: we're flirting? You reckon if a dude is asking you

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Speaker 2: what I should.

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Speaker 1: But sometimes we just need help, like sty wise.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but because I'm flirting, because he's flirting with you,

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Speaker 2: he wants to talk to you. He's looking for reasons

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Speaker 2: to talk to you. He probably has enough clothes in

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Speaker 2: his clothes it and he needs a reason to talk

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Speaker 2: to you because you're being a dry ass bitch in

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Speaker 2: the fucking d MS all right.

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Speaker 1: And he wants to talk to you and takes anything

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Speaker 2: It takes anything he can get. Good point flirting or friendly,

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Speaker 2: shoulder squeeze at work drinks m I don't know why

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna safe shoulders friendly, So yeah, I think it's

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Speaker 2: if you did like a lower back or like, you know,

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Speaker 2: what I think is flirting is like it's so close

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Speaker 2: to the shoulder, but it's different, So shoulder squeeze friendly.

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Speaker 2: But if he did like a an upper arm rub,

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, flirt, that's flirt. Yeah, it's different, but it's

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Speaker 2: so close. Yeah, shoulders not very intimate, that's like what

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Speaker 2: do you Yeah there, unless you care, unless you're like

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Speaker 2: keep going and he's like, yeah, I'll give you a

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Speaker 2: massive obs.

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Speaker 1: Flirting or friendly tells me to drive home safe after

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Speaker 1: a party. Friendly, I'm gonna be with you on that one.

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Speaker 2: Friendly. I think friendly I would say that about I

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Speaker 2: wouldn't know what to say. D She's like hinting that

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Speaker 2: you can go with her, and you're just like, she's like,

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Speaker 2: I'm going home, like I gotta spare seating. You're just like,

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Speaker 2: get home safe and you go back and you tell

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Speaker 2: your mates or whatever, and they're just like, you're idiot.

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Speaker 2: She wanted you to go in the car with that.

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Speaker 2: She's like she's about to drive home and she's just like, oh,

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Speaker 2: sometimes my lights don't work, like sometimes my car breaks down.

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Speaker 2: You're just like, well, fingers crossed, get on safe. That's like,

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Speaker 2: we're joker. That's something I do it. It's like literally

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Speaker 2: same okay floating or friendly fake flirting at work?

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Speaker 1: Oh, that's a thing that you do. Get bored on workshifts.

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Speaker 1: I'm going to say, that's so hard to know. Friendly though, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I reckon it comes under banter.

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Speaker 2: You know what I think it is is I'm going

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Speaker 2: to say it's flirting practice. True, it's flirting practice when

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Speaker 2: you actually want to use it on some of you exactly,

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Speaker 2: and then the person you're doing it to seize you

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Speaker 2: use it on the person you're actually like they're like, ah,

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Speaker 2: I'm not I'm not special at all. I was just

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Speaker 2: training it. Yeah you don you got more?

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Speaker 1: I got my last one? Flirting or friendly? He lets

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Speaker 1: you put mascara or any makeup on him?

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Speaker 2: Why don't know? Shut up? I don't know. What don't

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Speaker 2: I'm going to say we've uncovered something here. All of

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Speaker 2: But I think the flirting I'm giving the initial chance

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Speaker 2: you know what you do have is good chat via online? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm actually all right, but I don't know if

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Speaker 2: Dilemmas. Guys. Jim crushed dilemma but with a twist. Oh sorry,

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Speaker 2: this may be a tad long, but I need mummy

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Speaker 2: because I'm a nurse. Thank you for your service, so

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Speaker 2: have this in Australia with blah blah blah. So naturally

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Speaker 2: I swipe right and I'm shocked when it's a match.

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Speaker 2: Like I said, the girl has to make the first move,

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Speaker 2: so I have to message him. Sorry. That's in Bumble

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Speaker 2: he decided I'm ugly and he's not interested. I can

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Speaker 2: It's like a tornado, mate, It's a fucking tornado. Firstly,

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Speaker 2: I didn't realize it is Bumble owned by like some

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Speaker 2: weird man. Bumble's clearly owned by a dude that didn't

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Speaker 2: get girls, what like girls have the message first, and

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Speaker 2: Like I've got a message quick? Bumble is owned or

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Speaker 1: It's crazy that whoa Okay, But to the dilemma, I

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Speaker 1: I'm like a routine two o'clock guide. But in my

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like this nurse. You ever go to the gym

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Speaker 2: and you think like, oh, you know this is my gym? Yeah? Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 2: But but there's people that go at a different time

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Speaker 2: do you every day that you've never seen where they

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Speaker 2: See we're smiling it out and yeah, this is funny.

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Speaker 2: This is what girls do.

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Speaker 1: So girls think, does he like me, how do I

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Speaker 1: mentione where like I own this gym? But I think

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Speaker 1: You see him next time you see me, like, okay,

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Speaker 1: it's better when he's leaving or like see him. You

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Speaker 2: I thought you find this whole game plan. I thought

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Speaker 2: to do it, saying yes you have to do it okay,

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Speaker 2: And secondly, timing wise, if you're at the gym together,

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Speaker 1: I remember I've done I've talked to a girl before

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Speaker 1: It's so awkward, like you like catch each other looking

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Speaker 2: Definitely? Because also if you did it at the start

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Speaker 1: About this could be too bold just being like I've

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Speaker 2: Oh what do you will? Okay? Well, genuinely, what would

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Speaker 1: been on Tinder before, I've never used bumble, but like,

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't go on there for weeks?

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Speaker 2: No, yeah exactly what for hours? He probably just hasn't

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Speaker 2: been Yeah, yeah, yeah, ah. I would say, well would

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Speaker 2: you ca What would you do if they just came

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Speaker 2: up and they were like kind of just super upfront,

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Speaker 2: I like I.

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Speaker 1: Would have swept off my feet.

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Speaker 2: I would like, when are you gonna Can you just

436
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Speaker 2: hurry up and ask me.

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Speaker 1: For my number?

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Speaker 2: Ooh that's very bold.

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Speaker 1: But the thing, oh, the thing is the fact that

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Speaker 1: he liked her on bumble means he's probably attracted to her.

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Speaker 2: Well yeah, surely.

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Speaker 1: If I'm attracted to her and she says that to me,

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Speaker 1: I'll be like, right now, that's.

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Speaker 2: So yeah true. I think you've kind of you know,

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Speaker 2: he thinks you're attractive. Yeah, you could go straight up

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Speaker 2: to him and just be like, hey, hey, when are

447
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Speaker 2: you gonna ask me for my number? Already?

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Speaker 1: You could do the classic. It's kind is this still cringe?

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Speaker 1: I remember this just to be a thing back in

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Speaker 1: the day, just be like, oh, you go up. This

451
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Speaker 1: is kind of funny. Actually, here we go. So you

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Speaker 1: go up and be like, oh, I've I see you

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Speaker 1: in the gym, fair bit, do you mind like checking

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Speaker 1: out my session and making sure it's good? I see

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Speaker 1: you know what you're doing and handing your phone and

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Speaker 1: it's got contacts in it.

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Speaker 2: Shit, that's good too. That's going to get confident. Last,

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Speaker 2: but not least all, Right, go to the gym thirty

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Speaker 2: minutes earlier than normal and leave thirty minutes before him.

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, here's in her court.

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Speaker 2: Here, here's what you're gonna do. I know for a

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Speaker 2: fact you know what car he tries. I know you

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Speaker 2: don't even have to figure this out. I know you

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Speaker 2: know on the car. Leave a note in the car

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Speaker 2: your number, your number, okay, and then right you know

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Speaker 2: who it is. We've given her three very good tips. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: surely one of these ways your number, and then you

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Speaker 2: know who it is.

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Speaker 1: See the confidence wise, I would only have the balls

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Speaker 1: to do the note. In fact, the fact she's on

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Speaker 1: bumbledo and likeing men, I reckon she's going to go

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Speaker 1: throughout one or two? Well she's got three off yeah,

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Speaker 1: and the third one is just like the safest. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: send this a message how goes ickon? I reckon like

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Speaker 1: kind of like fucking bold.

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Speaker 2: For yours is bold? Yeah? Do you mind? Like yeah,

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Speaker 2: just like checking out my sessions seems good, blah blah.

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Speaker 2: It just says contact, that's fucking imagine. He's like, oh,

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Speaker 2: it's not the right thing. And then even if it's

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Speaker 2: especially on your notes, because it's not the right thing,

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Speaker 2: you go one further step and then on the contact

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Speaker 2: you'll be like a new boyfriend. Bro, that's crazy. I

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Speaker 2: actually think we've helped out girl. I think we've helped

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Speaker 2: her out too. We're telling you from a guy's mind.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, what would work? Understand all of that would.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, And like seriously, the worse thing that's going to

487
00:24:24,800 --> 00:24:26,959
Speaker 2: happen is it just doesn't fucking work out, and then

488
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Speaker 2: you're now this boss ass bitch And it's better knowing,

489
00:24:29,200 --> 00:24:30,959
Speaker 2: Like it's better to know that you tried and then

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Speaker 2: you could fall in love. Then you go to the

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Speaker 2: gym for months and months more being like, fuck, what

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Speaker 2: if we did have a thing together.

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Speaker 1: It's better to know, and then you change gyms when

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Speaker 1: he says.

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Speaker 2: No, definitely you have to. You have to guys, it

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Speaker 2: is time to play make them says it's his turn o.

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Speaker 1: Jake did very well last time.

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Speaker 2: It's and now we had someone. We had a lovely

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Speaker 2: listener named Anna. Yeah, send us the words she wanted

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Speaker 2: us to say. Platypus. He's odd. This his level impossible,

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Speaker 2: his level impossible. All right, oh man, So we're recording

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Speaker 2: this on a Saturday. We're calling one of our friends, Finn.

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Speaker 1: I think I have an inn. The only reason this

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Speaker 1: is okay, because Finn calls about anything. He asked me

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Speaker 1: to come watch the Foot today. Okay, so that's that's

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Speaker 1: my inn.

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Speaker 2: That's good.

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Speaker 1: So I'm going to say, pretend.

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Speaker 2: I want to go. I don't want to go.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I don't even know my approach plus okay it

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Speaker 1: Hello a man, what's going on?

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Speaker 2: Hello?

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Speaker 1: No call oh ship, Sorry man, I've left my thing

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Speaker 1: on from the potty.

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Speaker 2: It's oddie.

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Speaker 1: What are you doing?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: We called someone earlier today in the party. That's what

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Speaker 1: it's on.

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Speaker 2: No caller, I wait, Kamy man, that's what that's why

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00:26:03,560 --> 00:26:07,320
Speaker 2: you answered so professionally. Yeah, I was freaking out.

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00:26:08,920 --> 00:26:09,480
Speaker 1: What are you doing?

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Speaker 2: I'm just driving and just try Yeah, I'm aloud to

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Speaker 2: go with tourist play.

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Speaker 1: Oh yes, I was gonna ask about what time is

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Speaker 1: he playing Redies the first first right first grade?

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Speaker 2: What time is that? Three? Very? Oh?

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00:26:25,520 --> 00:26:29,960
Speaker 1: Interesting, interesting, I'm like, meet you love your Yeah, man,

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Speaker 1: Craigs might come j J was just over before we

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Speaker 1: might come down.

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Speaker 2: Now.

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Speaker 1: I wanted to ask you, actually, I think you might

533
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Speaker 1: be the right person, because you got a missus. Cassie

534
00:26:41,040 --> 00:26:42,560
Speaker 1: really wants to go to the zoo and.

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Speaker 2: I can't do it. Sorry, Fin, you know what I

536
00:26:51,960 --> 00:26:54,200
Speaker 2: was gonna say. I'm gonna say, you just have to

537
00:26:54,280 --> 00:26:59,840
Speaker 2: look at you. I didn't call someone else.

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00:27:00,240 --> 00:27:03,919
Speaker 1: That's who I could have to bring up the platypus.

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00:27:04,680 --> 00:27:07,680
Speaker 2: Well, we'll call someone else. Is Ben playing or is he?

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00:27:07,760 --> 00:27:08,320
Speaker 1: What's been doing?

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00:27:09,200 --> 00:27:10,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, Benny's playing?

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00:27:10,160 --> 00:27:13,360
Speaker 1: Now who else could we call?

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00:27:14,000 --> 00:27:17,040
Speaker 2: I say, it fails, fails, funny? That was so good?

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00:27:18,160 --> 00:27:25,600
Speaker 2: How do you bring up the suit man? Good? How's uh?

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00:27:25,960 --> 00:27:28,520
Speaker 2: At what point did you think this guy's sucking with me?

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00:27:29,720 --> 00:27:32,399
Speaker 2: I actually had no idea what that's all? He was

547
00:27:32,440 --> 00:27:34,800
Speaker 2: going so good? I say we leave this. He we

548
00:27:34,880 --> 00:27:37,520
Speaker 2: can't make a fail. It is what it is. He

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00:27:38,240 --> 00:27:40,800
Speaker 2: He just fucking goes on for like, I don't know

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Speaker 2: what he was talking about. I was trying to think

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Speaker 2: him away.

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00:27:44,560 --> 00:27:46,560
Speaker 1: I had to make you say the word platypus, and

553
00:27:46,600 --> 00:27:48,000
Speaker 1: I was trying to think of a way to like

554
00:27:48,440 --> 00:27:50,280
Speaker 1: ask if you've been to the zoo with your girlfriend

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00:27:50,320 --> 00:27:52,680
Speaker 1: and if they had platypus.

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Speaker 2: Asked man, I would have said it. I would have

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Speaker 2: gone the new dude, we have a shoestore called platyfors here.

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Speaker 1: Damn, mat fuck damn, that's a foul, that's a fail.

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00:28:12,359 --> 00:28:13,640
Speaker 1: That was just the way to get you talking, mate,

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00:28:13,640 --> 00:28:14,120
Speaker 1: I'm not coming.

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00:28:21,080 --> 00:28:23,120
Speaker 2: That was That was hard. That was hard.

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00:28:23,720 --> 00:28:25,600
Speaker 1: That has to that's level of impossible. We need like

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Speaker 1: a medium word.

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00:28:26,520 --> 00:28:30,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think planet was is hard, bro, not really. Actually,

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Speaker 2: if you went the shoe route, was my if I

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00:28:32,720 --> 00:28:35,480
Speaker 2: just started talking about the zoo, like what the fuck? Yeah,

567
00:28:35,640 --> 00:28:39,000
Speaker 2: well okay, that was gonna work. And it's hard to

568
00:28:39,200 --> 00:28:42,000
Speaker 2: randomly bring up the zoo. That's the thing that's hard.

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Speaker 2: It's like, if you could get onto the zoo topic,

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Speaker 2: like and he's not like, funk, what are you talking about?

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00:28:48,160 --> 00:28:50,720
Speaker 2: That means that you could be like do they have

572
00:28:50,880 --> 00:28:53,480
Speaker 2: the fucking have they got what are they called it?

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00:28:53,840 --> 00:28:55,640
Speaker 2: And then he's like what he's like because you want

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Speaker 2: to make sure, but how do you get on the

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Speaker 2: zoo topic.

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Speaker 1: I expected better from myself.

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Speaker 2: You did good when we did it with Ben. Yeah,

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00:29:02,600 --> 00:29:06,960
Speaker 2: I know that's unfortunate, but well send in your words.

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Speaker 1: Guys.

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Speaker 2: We need to get a win mate.

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00:29:09,160 --> 00:29:12,080
Speaker 1: You know, we need a level with possible. We need

582
00:29:12,160 --> 00:29:13,200
Speaker 1: like from you or something.

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00:29:22,960 --> 00:29:25,520
Speaker 2: Thanks for listening, everybody, don't forget to go start up

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00:29:25,520 --> 00:29:27,560
Speaker 2: to Patreon if you guys want some more. You know

585
00:29:27,640 --> 00:29:28,680
Speaker 2: what to do and what to do.

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Speaker 1: If you're listening during your hot girl walk or maybe

587
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Speaker 1: you're at the gym, tag us in your stories let

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Speaker 1: us know you're listening. Yep, we're starting a community. Thanks

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00:29:35,960 --> 00:29:38,520
Speaker 1: to everyone who does that. But otherwise we will see

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Speaker 1: you on Wednesday.

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Speaker 2: B