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Speaker 3: We've got a viva.

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Speaker 1: Say, hi, Hi, I'm a Viva.

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Speaker 3: She's a fever. Tell us a little bit about yourself,

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Speaker 3: kind of explain what you're doing and what you hear.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, So I'm a human design reader, So I

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Speaker 1: Yeah. So essentially, so what human design is is it's

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Speaker 1: what's their minds versus like their intuition. So in human

437
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Speaker 1: design we always say that, like all obviously, like your

438
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Speaker 1: your mind is really powerful and amazing at supporting, analyzing

439
00:20:09,280 --> 00:20:12,359
Speaker 1: and processing things, but it's the what we call the

440
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Speaker 1: passenger in the car, whereas your body is like the

441
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Speaker 1: driver of the car. And so learning is just the

442
00:20:18,000 --> 00:20:20,760
Speaker 1: one that makes the decisions that actually like informs you

443
00:20:20,800 --> 00:20:23,080
Speaker 1: of like where to go next, what's right for you?

444
00:20:23,600 --> 00:20:27,159
Speaker 1: Whereas the mind wants to, you know, chime in, but

445
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Speaker 1: it's not the ultimate decision maker. So and for you

446
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Speaker 1: when it comes to like those smaller day to day decisions,

447
00:20:33,240 --> 00:20:36,120
Speaker 1: it's really important to listen to those urges. And so obviously,

448
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Speaker 1: like I said, this is for you to experiment with

449
00:20:38,200 --> 00:20:40,400
Speaker 1: and practice that. Like I can tell you as much

450
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Speaker 1: as possible that I know this works, like I've seen

451
00:20:43,160 --> 00:20:45,680
Speaker 1: how it works for you know, other people, for myself,

452
00:20:46,119 --> 00:20:48,160
Speaker 1: but you have to say, prove that to yourself by

453
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Speaker 1: playing with it. So really listening to those urges day

454
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Speaker 1: to day, and then when it comes to your big

455
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Speaker 1: life decisions, it's really important to listen to what's called

456
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Speaker 1: your authority. So this is another part of your human

457
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Speaker 1: design chart, and it tells us your specific intuition for

458
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Speaker 1: like what you might think of as your like how

459
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Speaker 1: to connect with your gut feeling, but we would in

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Speaker 1: human design language, it's called your authority, your specific intuition

461
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Speaker 1: and yours comes from the solar plexus energy center, and

462
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Speaker 1: this is where the emotions come from. You've got like

463
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Speaker 1: a knowing smile there.

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Speaker 3: Like emotions. Okay, let's go.

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Speaker 1: So firstly, having this as your authority, emotional authority, it

466
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Speaker 1: means that you have what's called a defined solar plexus,

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Speaker 1: So it means in your chart, this is one of

468
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Speaker 1: your colored in energy centers, and it's where you create

469
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Speaker 1: consistent energy. So okay, what that means for you is

470
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Speaker 1: you're someone that creates consistent emotions in your body regardless

471
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Speaker 1: of what's going on around you. So you're someone who

472
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Speaker 1: has these like waves of emotions, these ups and downs

473
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Speaker 1: that can be activated obviously by specific things or you know,

474
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Speaker 1: situations that happens you can cause emotions, but regardless, like

475
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Speaker 1: even if you're nothing's going on, everything in your life

476
00:22:02,000 --> 00:22:05,800
Speaker 1: seems perfect and easy. You can still wake up on

477
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Speaker 1: the wrong side of the bed one day, or you

478
00:22:07,600 --> 00:22:09,560
Speaker 1: could have like crazy stuff going on around you and

479
00:22:09,600 --> 00:22:12,159
Speaker 1: wake up really happy for no reason. It's just it's

480
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Speaker 1: actually your emotional way. Can you do you relate to

481
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Speaker 1: that feeling?

482
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Speaker 2: Sometimes I'm like I should be really like upset about

483
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Speaker 2: this situation, but like I'm upset, but I'm it's not

484
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Speaker 2: debilitating or it's not like ruining my day and I

485
00:22:27,680 --> 00:22:31,160
Speaker 2: can carry on fine. And then sometimes like the littlest

486
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Speaker 2: things seem like.

487
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Speaker 3: The end of the world.

488
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Speaker 2: When I'm really tight, or like when I'm really overwhelmed

489
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Speaker 2: and everything like that, or like yeah, all to do

490
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Speaker 2: with maybe like my environment. That's when the hardest things

491
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Speaker 2: seem like the end of the world, but like I

492
00:22:47,480 --> 00:22:49,840
Speaker 2: could literally be told the worst news and if I'm

493
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Speaker 2: really good, it won't affect me and I can just

494
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Speaker 2: push it on and like carry on my day like

495
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Speaker 2: it wasn't anything.

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Speaker 1: That makes sense because you've got new So there are

497
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Speaker 1: four types of what we call four types of emotional waves,

498
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Speaker 1: and you've got two different types. Some people just have one,

499
00:23:06,440 --> 00:23:09,560
Speaker 1: some have like three or four. You've got two, and

500
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Speaker 1: one of them is very much like a sort of

501
00:23:11,520 --> 00:23:13,680
Speaker 1: it builds and builds and builds over time, like let's

502
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Speaker 1: say over like a week period, it will build and

503
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Speaker 1: then once you get to that point of it being

504
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Speaker 1: like feeling like it's kind of like an intense emotion

505
00:23:20,240 --> 00:23:21,840
Speaker 1: of like pressure that you kind of need to like

506
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Speaker 1: express it, like maybe need to cry it out, maybe

507
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Speaker 1: you need to like scream or like let it out

508
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Speaker 1: with I don't know, some dancing. But if someone says

509
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Speaker 1: something to you at that moment, when you're already at

510
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Speaker 1: that point, it's like the straw that broke the cammel's back,

511
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Speaker 1: and you can have a disproportionate reaction. And so that's

512
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Speaker 1: what triggers it. And it's coming from a place of

513
00:23:41,480 --> 00:23:45,360
Speaker 1: like needing more connection, needing to feel emotionally understood and supported.

514
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Speaker 1: So sometimes just like affection or someone saying like I'm

515
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Speaker 1: here for you, I understand you, Like that gives you

516
00:23:51,000 --> 00:23:55,360
Speaker 1: that support that you need to make that intense emotion

517
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Speaker 1: sort of either come back to a neutral or just

518
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Speaker 1: not last as long.

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Speaker 2: And see, I think that that's probably where I go

520
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Speaker 2: wrong because I struggle to tell people how I feel.

521
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Speaker 2: I really struggle to open up to people. Not because

522
00:24:10,080 --> 00:24:13,360
Speaker 2: I think it's a weakness, but subconsciously I probably think

523
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Speaker 2: it's a weakness. Like I know it's the right thing

524
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Speaker 2: to do, but I don't want people to see a

525
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Speaker 2: weak side of me. And I always want people to

526
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Speaker 2: think that I'm okay. I'm always someone that people open

527
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Speaker 2: up to. But I'd never really seen myself opening up

528
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Speaker 2: to other people and like telling people how I feel

529
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Speaker 2: or what's going on in my mind. Like I cannot

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Speaker 2: remember the last time I did that, to be honest.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Like you find easier to support other people than

532
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Speaker 1: to receive the support. Yeah, yeah, And that's the thing

533
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Speaker 1: I can see.

534
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Speaker 3: I really just.

535
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Speaker 2: Started opening up to my mum recently. Out of twenty

536
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Speaker 2: three years, I only just kind of started up being

537
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Speaker 2: up to my mum. But I would only do it

538
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Speaker 2: over the phone. I will never do it in person.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's really interesting. So now that you know this,

540
00:24:55,680 --> 00:24:57,919
Speaker 1: hopefully like it's something you can bring more awareness to that.

541
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Speaker 1: It's really helpful for you because it helps alleviate that

542
00:25:01,560 --> 00:25:04,639
Speaker 1: intensity of emotions when it just feels like kind of

543
00:25:04,680 --> 00:25:06,879
Speaker 1: like an irrational build up and it's something that you're

544
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Speaker 1: meant to experience. It's actually a way that you gain wisdom.

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Speaker 1: Like I know you you mentioned that, like you're an

546
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Speaker 1: empathetic person, and so this is the way that you

547
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Speaker 1: empathize because you've experienced all these like this intense depth

548
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Speaker 1: of emotions that the highs and the lows, and so

549
00:25:21,640 --> 00:25:23,800
Speaker 1: you don't have to be going through something that someone's

550
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Speaker 1: going through to empathize and to understand because you can

551
00:25:27,920 --> 00:25:30,800
Speaker 1: relate to the emotion from the way you've been there

552
00:25:30,800 --> 00:25:31,680
Speaker 1: on your emotional wave.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: So it's a really beautiful gift. It's just about knowing like, Okay,

555
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Speaker 1: so when I feel this way, I can sit with it.

556
00:25:37,720 --> 00:25:40,480
Speaker 1: I can you know, flow with that feeling and practice

557
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Speaker 1: sharing with people that how I'm feeling. And sometimes because

558
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Speaker 1: I mentioned you've got two emotional waves. The other one

559
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Speaker 1: is more related to sometimes it can it can prolong

560
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Speaker 1: your emotional wave just by being around other people, and

561
00:25:54,560 --> 00:25:57,080
Speaker 1: sometimes you need to be alone. So feeling into like

562
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Speaker 1: do I just need to be alone right now as well?

563
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Speaker 1: And will that help it dissipate? Like even if you're

564
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Speaker 1: like out at a party and it's kind of hard

565
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Speaker 1: to like, can I just step outside for five minutes

566
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Speaker 1: to just be alone or can I lock myself in

567
00:26:07,480 --> 00:26:09,760
Speaker 1: the toilet for five minutes to just try and like

568
00:26:09,840 --> 00:26:13,040
Speaker 1: let this pass, and that can really help that depth

569
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Speaker 1: of the loan not be not go for as long.

570
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Speaker 3: Yeah, And I.

571
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Speaker 2: Do realize that in myself of like sometimes something will

572
00:26:20,359 --> 00:26:21,760
Speaker 2: just click and I'm like, no, I need to go

573
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Speaker 2: home now. Like I'm one of those people that's like

574
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Speaker 2: you cannot convince me to stay out, You cannot convince

575
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Speaker 2: me to change my mind. If I'm like experiencing that

576
00:26:29,760 --> 00:26:31,840
Speaker 2: low emotion, I know I need to be at home

577
00:26:32,240 --> 00:26:34,680
Speaker 2: and I know I need to like just be by

578
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Speaker 2: myself because being around me is painful and I.

579
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Speaker 1: Can recognize something myself.

580
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Speaker 2: I'm like, you need to go home and just like

581
00:26:42,040 --> 00:26:44,480
Speaker 2: put yourself in time out and like no one can

582
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Speaker 2: convince me and or like change that mood around, no

583
00:26:47,280 --> 00:26:49,359
Speaker 2: one can make it better. I'm like, no, I just

584
00:26:49,400 --> 00:26:51,160
Speaker 2: need to sit alone right now.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, And that's such amazing self awareness because that is

586
00:26:54,280 --> 00:26:57,280
Speaker 1: your emotional wave, one of them telling you like I

587
00:26:57,320 --> 00:26:59,320
Speaker 1: need to be alone, Like being around people's actually just

588
00:26:59,320 --> 00:27:01,879
Speaker 1: going to make it worse. And so listening to that

589
00:27:02,040 --> 00:27:05,400
Speaker 1: is so important. So that's amazing. So and the way

590
00:27:05,440 --> 00:27:08,359
Speaker 1: this relates to making decisions, making big decisions, so as

591
00:27:08,400 --> 00:27:10,879
Speaker 1: I said, smaller day to day ones, when you have

592
00:27:10,920 --> 00:27:13,199
Speaker 1: those urges or those feelings like go for it, like

593
00:27:13,440 --> 00:27:15,880
Speaker 1: you can be more impulsive with it. But when it's

594
00:27:15,920 --> 00:27:20,000
Speaker 1: a really big life decision like moving countries or you know,

595
00:27:20,160 --> 00:27:23,160
Speaker 1: something really huge like that, it's really important to listen

596
00:27:23,160 --> 00:27:26,600
Speaker 1: to your emotional authority, which means waiting until you feel cool,

597
00:27:26,640 --> 00:27:28,960
Speaker 1: calm and collected, so feeling like you've got into a

598
00:27:29,040 --> 00:27:32,639
Speaker 1: neutral in your emotional wave, and then asking yourself your

599
00:27:32,720 --> 00:27:35,560
Speaker 1: leading question, which is does this decision make me happy?

600
00:27:35,840 --> 00:27:38,640
Speaker 1: Does it bring a smile to my face? And so

601
00:27:38,800 --> 00:27:41,720
Speaker 1: that process can take It could take an hour, it

602
00:27:41,720 --> 00:27:43,840
Speaker 1: could take a day, it could take a week. It's

603
00:27:43,840 --> 00:27:46,439
Speaker 1: about not pressuring putting a time pressure on it, but

604
00:27:46,520 --> 00:27:49,280
Speaker 1: knowing that you do need time, like always buying yourself

605
00:27:49,280 --> 00:27:52,080
Speaker 1: a bit of time to make big decisions. So even

606
00:27:52,080 --> 00:27:54,199
Speaker 1: though you'll feel that immediate impulse that comes from being

607
00:27:54,240 --> 00:27:57,280
Speaker 1: a manifesto, still when it being like, Okay, if this

608
00:27:57,359 --> 00:28:00,840
Speaker 1: is like a big life changing decision or something that's

609
00:28:00,880 --> 00:28:02,639
Speaker 1: going to really impact my life, then I need to

610
00:28:02,640 --> 00:28:06,840
Speaker 1: give myself time and so really tune in to like firstly,

611
00:28:06,920 --> 00:28:09,000
Speaker 1: a really good way to track your emotional waves, So

612
00:28:09,040 --> 00:28:11,320
Speaker 1: you could visually, like you know, draw that on a

613
00:28:11,320 --> 00:28:14,840
Speaker 1: piece of paper and do like a line horizontally that's

614
00:28:14,880 --> 00:28:17,520
Speaker 1: like you're neutral, and then morning and night checking in

615
00:28:17,640 --> 00:28:19,800
Speaker 1: like how do I feel about this decision? Am I

616
00:28:19,880 --> 00:28:22,879
Speaker 1: like above? Like? Am I feeling the high overly excited

617
00:28:23,119 --> 00:28:25,480
Speaker 1: impulsive emotions? Am I in the low? Am I feeling

618
00:28:25,520 --> 00:28:28,760
Speaker 1: like pessimistic about it? Doing dots above and below the line?

619
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Speaker 1: And once you get to the neutral, then you know

620
00:28:31,160 --> 00:28:33,040
Speaker 1: that you can go to the next stage, which is

621
00:28:33,440 --> 00:28:36,760
Speaker 1: being alone. Just close your eyes, envisioning yourself making that

622
00:28:36,840 --> 00:28:39,959
Speaker 1: decision and asking yourself that question of does this decision

623
00:28:40,000 --> 00:28:41,880
Speaker 1: make me happy? And like does it bring a smile

624
00:28:41,920 --> 00:28:49,520
Speaker 1: to your face? And that gives your answer. In the past,

625
00:28:49,560 --> 00:28:51,280
Speaker 1: have you made decisions that way, like do you give

626
00:28:51,280 --> 00:28:53,800
Speaker 1: yourself time or are you always just impulsive?

627
00:28:53,960 --> 00:28:56,720
Speaker 2: I'm like, yeah, definitely go through the waves of like

628
00:28:56,720 --> 00:28:58,240
Speaker 2: this is a good idea, this is a bad idea,

629
00:28:58,280 --> 00:29:00,640
Speaker 2: and then when it comes to the dis vision making,

630
00:29:00,800 --> 00:29:05,160
Speaker 2: I'll go off what I'm thinking that that second. Like

631
00:29:05,280 --> 00:29:08,960
Speaker 2: everything is last minute, nothing is ever A lot of

632
00:29:09,000 --> 00:29:11,440
Speaker 2: it's always thought out, but a lot of it's always

633
00:29:11,600 --> 00:29:16,080
Speaker 2: very logical. Not sometimes again like not necessarily what I

634
00:29:16,160 --> 00:29:18,720
Speaker 2: want to be doing, but logically it makes the most sense.

635
00:29:18,720 --> 00:29:21,800
Speaker 2: I'm a very logical thinker, like critical thinker, like it's

636
00:29:21,840 --> 00:29:24,240
Speaker 2: a or B, like there's no gray area. So a

637
00:29:24,320 --> 00:29:27,720
Speaker 2: lot of it is like maybe not necessarily what Sam

638
00:29:27,800 --> 00:29:30,600
Speaker 2: wants to do, but what's logical for that time.

639
00:29:31,800 --> 00:29:35,040
Speaker 1: And so for you it's and again this is for

640
00:29:35,120 --> 00:29:38,600
Speaker 1: you to explore yourself. But like I was saying, in

641
00:29:38,800 --> 00:29:41,840
Speaker 1: human design, it's said that the mind is the passenger

642
00:29:41,880 --> 00:29:43,800
Speaker 1: and the body is the driver. So what I'm saying

643
00:29:43,880 --> 00:29:47,120
Speaker 1: is your emotional authority is what should be leading your decisions.

644
00:29:47,680 --> 00:29:50,360
Speaker 1: And so instead of getting in the minds, it's about

645
00:29:50,760 --> 00:29:54,160
Speaker 1: not weighing out pros and cons, not asking opinions from

646
00:29:54,160 --> 00:29:57,200
Speaker 1: people being like does that make sense? Like or like

647
00:29:57,320 --> 00:30:00,520
Speaker 1: rationalizing something to try and identify, like what's the next

648
00:30:00,560 --> 00:30:02,200
Speaker 1: step going to be? Like where's this going to lead?

649
00:30:02,520 --> 00:30:05,680
Speaker 1: It's really about tuning into that emotional wave, getting to

650
00:30:05,720 --> 00:30:09,680
Speaker 1: that neutral and then then making a decision from decision

651
00:30:09,680 --> 00:30:12,800
Speaker 1: from that place, so like in your body, like a

652
00:30:12,880 --> 00:30:16,200
Speaker 1: yes will feel should feel like this really joyful, happy,

653
00:30:16,360 --> 00:30:19,480
Speaker 1: sort of light energizing feeling, whereas a no can feel

654
00:30:19,480 --> 00:30:22,160
Speaker 1: like heavy and contracted and like a pit in your

655
00:30:22,200 --> 00:30:24,880
Speaker 1: stomach and even make you feel sad about that decision.

656
00:30:25,360 --> 00:30:28,080
Speaker 1: Whereas if you're just neutral, it's like a no for now,

657
00:30:28,120 --> 00:30:30,600
Speaker 1: like you feel calm, but you're not really clear on

658
00:30:30,720 --> 00:30:33,480
Speaker 1: like will it make me happy or unhappy? And then

659
00:30:33,560 --> 00:30:36,400
Speaker 1: also choosing between a no. Distinguishing between a no and

660
00:30:36,440 --> 00:30:39,560
Speaker 1: a fear is really important because sometimes and this is

661
00:30:39,560 --> 00:30:42,040
Speaker 1: where the minds can definitely kick in and the anxiety.

662
00:30:42,080 --> 00:30:44,960
Speaker 1: It's like if you can feel really similar to a

663
00:30:45,040 --> 00:30:47,000
Speaker 1: know when you're when something feels scary, like a pit

664
00:30:47,040 --> 00:30:49,600
Speaker 1: in your stomach and that contracted feeling in your gut,

665
00:30:49,680 --> 00:30:52,200
Speaker 1: but then behind it when it's a yes, sorry, when

666
00:30:52,200 --> 00:30:55,080
Speaker 1: it's a fear, it really is a yes, because you

667
00:30:55,120 --> 00:30:59,000
Speaker 1: still feel happy about it. You just feel scared, and

668
00:30:59,040 --> 00:31:00,960
Speaker 1: so that's when the mind can definitely be like, oh,

669
00:31:01,040 --> 00:31:02,680
Speaker 1: but like you should be scared, and then that means

670
00:31:02,720 --> 00:31:05,360
Speaker 1: you should say no because that doesn't make sense, or

671
00:31:05,400 --> 00:31:07,480
Speaker 1: like I don't know, like what are you going to

672
00:31:07,560 --> 00:31:09,480
Speaker 1: do in London? Like you're just going to London and

673
00:31:09,720 --> 00:31:12,440
Speaker 1: you've got nothing lines up. That's just amazing.

674
00:31:12,520 --> 00:31:14,760
Speaker 3: Normally, if I'm scared of something, I have to do it.

675
00:31:14,920 --> 00:31:17,240
Speaker 2: I have to prove a point to like to prove

676
00:31:17,240 --> 00:31:19,200
Speaker 2: to myself that it's not scary, Like if I have

677
00:31:19,200 --> 00:31:22,120
Speaker 2: a fear or like a rational fear, I'm just like, well,

678
00:31:22,120 --> 00:31:24,680
Speaker 2: now you have to do it because it's actually not

679
00:31:24,720 --> 00:31:27,440
Speaker 2: that scary, which is like what I'm like. That's probably

680
00:31:27,440 --> 00:31:29,840
Speaker 2: where my impulse comes from, because I'm like, if I

681
00:31:29,880 --> 00:31:34,400
Speaker 2: have a slight fear, like I was like skydiving, like

682
00:31:34,440 --> 00:31:36,000
Speaker 2: I was scared of jumping out of a plane, where

683
00:31:36,040 --> 00:31:36,600
Speaker 2: I'm like, now.

684
00:31:36,440 --> 00:31:38,240
Speaker 3: You have to do it to prove to yourself that

685
00:31:38,240 --> 00:31:38,960
Speaker 3: it's not scary.

686
00:31:39,160 --> 00:31:41,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, Well that's amazing, And that's brave because it is

687
00:31:41,240 --> 00:31:44,000
Speaker 1: about being brave and pushing past the fear. It's just

688
00:31:44,080 --> 00:31:47,719
Speaker 1: about making the decisions from the right place, Like you're not,

689
00:31:47,840 --> 00:31:50,240
Speaker 1: for example, not doing it from a rebellious place because

690
00:31:50,240 --> 00:31:52,920
Speaker 1: you're trying to prove something to someone else. It's because

691
00:31:53,320 --> 00:31:54,000
Speaker 1: it really.

692
00:31:53,920 --> 00:31:56,640
Speaker 2: I think I'm trying to preke myself though, Like I

693
00:31:56,640 --> 00:31:58,360
Speaker 2: don't think I'm trying to prove it to anybody else.

694
00:31:58,400 --> 00:31:59,960
Speaker 3: I'm just trying to prove it to myself.

695
00:32:00,200 --> 00:32:03,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, and that's amazing because like that, ultimately, I'm guessing

696
00:32:03,200 --> 00:32:05,560
Speaker 1: will make you feel happy as well. Okay, but I

697
00:32:05,600 --> 00:32:07,959
Speaker 1: would say give it when it is a big decision,

698
00:32:08,000 --> 00:32:10,640
Speaker 1: like skydiving depends like how scare it feels to someone.

699
00:32:10,680 --> 00:32:12,720
Speaker 1: But like you could say that's not actually a big

700
00:32:12,760 --> 00:32:15,560
Speaker 1: life decision, like it's not going to impact the.

701
00:32:15,480 --> 00:32:17,680
Speaker 3: Rest London is a big life decision.

702
00:32:17,400 --> 00:32:19,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like it impacts, like it has a whole domino

703
00:32:19,800 --> 00:32:22,280
Speaker 1: effect on the rest of your life, whereas like skydiving

704
00:32:22,880 --> 00:32:25,240
Speaker 1: might not doesn't, but it's I mean, it's all a

705
00:32:25,320 --> 00:32:28,360
Speaker 1: really crazy thing to do. So someone could be like

706
00:32:28,960 --> 00:32:31,520
Speaker 1: not agreeing with what I'm saying that I would say

707
00:32:31,640 --> 00:32:35,360
Speaker 1: that's a more like lighthearted decision, whereas a big one is, yeah,

708
00:32:35,360 --> 00:32:40,080
Speaker 1: like the move like buying a property or entering into

709
00:32:40,480 --> 00:32:42,560
Speaker 1: like I don't know getting engaged or you know those

710
00:32:42,600 --> 00:32:44,280
Speaker 1: like really big things that change your life.

711
00:32:44,480 --> 00:32:44,800
Speaker 3: Yeah.

712
00:32:44,840 --> 00:32:47,080
Speaker 1: And also another science to look out for for yourself

713
00:32:47,080 --> 00:32:49,360
Speaker 1: as a manifesto is when you get your feel You're

714
00:32:49,400 --> 00:32:51,720
Speaker 1: not self theme, which is the feeling that's like the

715
00:32:51,760 --> 00:32:54,280
Speaker 1: opposite of that inner piece. It's the feeling that lets

716
00:32:54,280 --> 00:32:56,440
Speaker 1: you know when you're out of alignment. And for you,

717
00:32:56,480 --> 00:33:00,600
Speaker 1: that's the feeling of anger. So if when you anger,

718
00:33:00,760 --> 00:33:02,800
Speaker 1: like often for manifest as, it comes from a place

719
00:33:02,840 --> 00:33:06,640
Speaker 1: of feeling like, yeah, I'm too much and I need

720
00:33:06,680 --> 00:33:09,240
Speaker 1: to just play. It's like I need to stop playing

721
00:33:09,280 --> 00:33:12,280
Speaker 1: so big, like I'm I'm too much people they can't

722
00:33:12,280 --> 00:33:14,360
Speaker 1: hance my energy, so and that's when they can go

723
00:33:14,360 --> 00:33:17,480
Speaker 1: into the rebelliousness or some going to people pleasing as well.

724
00:33:17,720 --> 00:33:20,600
Speaker 1: It can kind of go either way. So have do

725
00:33:20,680 --> 00:33:23,120
Speaker 1: you ever have that kind of anger come up for you?

726
00:33:23,320 --> 00:33:24,080
Speaker 3: Yeah?

727
00:33:24,240 --> 00:33:27,200
Speaker 2: I always just say I was quite an angry kid.

728
00:33:27,280 --> 00:33:30,720
Speaker 2: But the older I've gotten, the less that anger comes out.

729
00:33:31,160 --> 00:33:34,280
Speaker 2: I think in my family growing up, anger was a

730
00:33:34,480 --> 00:33:38,200
Speaker 2: very commonly expressed emotion in my house. So I've always

731
00:33:38,240 --> 00:33:40,360
Speaker 2: been kind of surrounded by anger. And I know when

732
00:33:40,360 --> 00:33:43,320
Speaker 2: I'm feeling angry and when I'm angry. I'm really really angry,

733
00:33:44,000 --> 00:33:45,520
Speaker 2: but it's all internalized.

734
00:33:45,560 --> 00:33:46,520
Speaker 3: It's all in my head.

735
00:33:46,760 --> 00:33:49,920
Speaker 2: But as you said, like they will sometimes with my emotions.

736
00:33:49,960 --> 00:33:51,120
Speaker 2: That is something that pops.

737
00:33:51,480 --> 00:33:53,640
Speaker 3: And I never want to express that anger because I

738
00:33:53,720 --> 00:33:56,320
Speaker 3: know it can be not scary, like I'm not a

739
00:33:56,400 --> 00:33:59,000
Speaker 3: threat to society, but like I don't like who I

740
00:33:59,040 --> 00:34:01,680
Speaker 3: am when I'm angry, and it does.

741
00:34:02,400 --> 00:34:04,720
Speaker 2: There is an emotional build up and a lot of

742
00:34:04,760 --> 00:34:07,640
Speaker 2: the time when I do pop, it is expressed as anger.

743
00:34:08,560 --> 00:34:11,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's interesting. So it's important to notice when the

744
00:34:11,560 --> 00:34:14,799
Speaker 1: anger comes up because it's just showing you that there's

745
00:34:14,840 --> 00:34:18,400
Speaker 1: somewhere that you're out of alignment with your energy. So

746
00:34:19,280 --> 00:34:22,120
Speaker 1: you know, maybe it's that you're doing things for other people,

747
00:34:22,360 --> 00:34:25,600
Speaker 1: or that you're not you're feeling like you have to

748
00:34:25,640 --> 00:34:27,560
Speaker 1: repress yourself, or like that you have to hide your

749
00:34:27,560 --> 00:34:31,080
Speaker 1: emotions because other people can't handle it, or feeling like

750
00:34:31,200 --> 00:34:33,560
Speaker 1: someone's trying to stop you from you know, someone's trying

751
00:34:33,600 --> 00:34:35,120
Speaker 1: to get in the way of like a decision you're

752
00:34:35,160 --> 00:34:37,440
Speaker 1: trying to make or a project you're trying to start.

753
00:34:37,760 --> 00:34:40,719
Speaker 1: So again, it's always about like coming back to using

754
00:34:40,719 --> 00:34:44,080
Speaker 1: your voice and informing, like expressing your needs your feelings,

755
00:34:44,120 --> 00:34:47,719
Speaker 1: your impulses, like your idea is really expressing all of

756
00:34:47,719 --> 00:34:50,520
Speaker 1: these things as much as possible, even doing it, practicing

757
00:34:50,560 --> 00:34:52,400
Speaker 1: it out loud to yourself, if it feels scary to

758
00:34:52,840 --> 00:34:55,400
Speaker 1: say it to other people, because sometimes it can feel

759
00:34:55,520 --> 00:34:58,239
Speaker 1: like it sounds like for you, that's kind of there's

760
00:34:58,239 --> 00:35:01,239
Speaker 1: a bit of a block there, saying that's yourself, and

761
00:35:01,280 --> 00:35:04,359
Speaker 1: seeing like as you hear your voice, hearing it kind

762
00:35:04,360 --> 00:35:06,680
Speaker 1: of become more and more natural for you, and then

763
00:35:06,719 --> 00:35:08,480
Speaker 1: starting to practice more with other people.

764
00:35:08,719 --> 00:35:11,239
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's something that I don't I think it's the

765
00:35:11,280 --> 00:35:14,200
Speaker 2: thing I'd like the least about myself, the anger that

766
00:35:14,360 --> 00:35:17,919
Speaker 2: I have an angry side, and it's something that i've

767
00:35:17,960 --> 00:35:20,440
Speaker 2: like really really suppressed over the last couple of years.

768
00:35:21,000 --> 00:35:23,320
Speaker 2: But now I'm like, as you're telling me this, I'm

769
00:35:23,520 --> 00:35:26,800
Speaker 2: putting it into situations where the times I have felt angry,

770
00:35:26,840 --> 00:35:29,640
Speaker 2: maybe over the last couple of months, is the times

771
00:35:29,680 --> 00:35:33,480
Speaker 2: where I felt restrained. That's when I've felt.

772
00:35:33,280 --> 00:35:36,680
Speaker 3: Anger or there's like a blockage there and it's stopping

773
00:35:36,719 --> 00:35:37,920
Speaker 3: me from pushing past it.

774
00:35:38,239 --> 00:35:40,799
Speaker 1: Yeah, and so instead of because it sounds like you're

775
00:35:40,880 --> 00:35:43,919
Speaker 1: hard on yourself about the anger, but realizing that that's

776
00:35:43,960 --> 00:35:50,000
Speaker 1: actually your energetic body's natural response to being told like

777
00:35:50,120 --> 00:35:51,640
Speaker 1: no you can't do that, or like I'm going to

778
00:35:51,680 --> 00:35:54,160
Speaker 1: try and stop you, like that kind of threat. And

779
00:35:54,239 --> 00:35:56,280
Speaker 1: because you really are here to be that fire starter,

780
00:35:56,480 --> 00:35:58,759
Speaker 1: So instead of seeing it as a bad thing, I

781
00:35:58,840 --> 00:36:02,360
Speaker 1: would suggest you try like start saying it as a

782
00:36:03,320 --> 00:36:06,400
Speaker 1: sign post that's a gift showing you Okay, well, like

783
00:36:06,440 --> 00:36:08,840
Speaker 1: what's actually going on here that's causing that and making

784
00:36:09,200 --> 00:36:12,439
Speaker 1: me feel that way, because instead of placing that blame

785
00:36:12,480 --> 00:36:14,680
Speaker 1: on yourself that you're angry, then maybe it's actually like

786
00:36:14,800 --> 00:36:17,480
Speaker 1: the other person is doing the wrong thing by you

787
00:36:17,520 --> 00:36:20,280
Speaker 1: by saying that to you and bringing out that reaction,

788
00:36:20,800 --> 00:36:24,319
Speaker 1: and that's just your natural reaction. As a manifesto, yeah wow,

789
00:36:24,680 --> 00:36:26,959
Speaker 1: So it can really help with self love as well,

790
00:36:27,000 --> 00:36:29,520
Speaker 1: like doing this, doing this work and having this awareness.

791
00:36:30,480 --> 00:36:33,000
Speaker 1: Yeah I need a bit of that. Yeah we all do.

792
00:36:33,440 --> 00:36:35,279
Speaker 3: Interesting, Yeah, we all need some self love.

793
00:36:35,560 --> 00:36:37,520
Speaker 1: Look at your chart as well, like look at your

794
00:36:37,840 --> 00:36:41,040
Speaker 1: energy centers. There's one that really stands out to me.

795
00:36:41,080 --> 00:36:43,360
Speaker 1: You know how I talked about your being with someone

796
00:36:43,400 --> 00:36:46,640
Speaker 1: who might sometimes feel like you don't know where you're

797
00:36:46,680 --> 00:36:48,920
Speaker 1: going in life, like your direction, but you also are

798
00:36:48,960 --> 00:36:52,040
Speaker 1: here to have a really strong purpose of direction. So

799
00:36:52,080 --> 00:36:55,600
Speaker 1: I'm going to explain that to you. So your sense

800
00:36:55,640 --> 00:36:58,760
Speaker 1: of direction in life comes from the G center energy

801
00:36:58,800 --> 00:37:01,880
Speaker 1: center in your chart. It's like this diamond shape one

802
00:37:01,920 --> 00:37:03,600
Speaker 1: that's right in the middle. It's like your heart space,

803
00:37:03,640 --> 00:37:08,440
Speaker 1: and it's where identity, direction in life, passions, sense of

804
00:37:08,480 --> 00:37:11,399
Speaker 1: self identity, like they all come from this place. So

805
00:37:11,480 --> 00:37:14,279
Speaker 1: it's like it's a really big, like core part of

806
00:37:14,320 --> 00:37:16,680
Speaker 1: the human design chart. And so I for you, you

807
00:37:16,719 --> 00:37:20,360
Speaker 1: have this what we call an undefined or open G center.

808
00:37:20,440 --> 00:37:23,520
Speaker 1: It means it's white in your chart. And so firstly,

809
00:37:23,600 --> 00:37:26,120
Speaker 1: it means that you're someone that you're really adaptable and

810
00:37:26,239 --> 00:37:28,839
Speaker 1: sensitive to the people around you in your environment, like

811
00:37:29,120 --> 00:37:31,840
Speaker 1: the energy in your environment, the personalities and the interests

812
00:37:31,880 --> 00:37:34,279
Speaker 1: of the people around you. So you're someone who's here

813
00:37:34,320 --> 00:37:36,799
Speaker 1: to kind of flow with your life direction, to maybe

814
00:37:37,440 --> 00:37:41,040
Speaker 1: never feel this certainty of like I know where I'm going,

815
00:37:41,080 --> 00:37:43,080
Speaker 1: like I know the next step and where I'm going next.

816
00:37:43,120 --> 00:37:46,279
Speaker 1: You're actually here to be really organic with that. And

817
00:37:46,360 --> 00:37:49,080
Speaker 1: when you and like lean into your urges, lean into

818
00:37:49,160 --> 00:37:52,520
Speaker 1: your emotional authority to like make those decisions along the way,

819
00:37:52,719 --> 00:37:55,720
Speaker 1: but kind of like letting different environments and different people

820
00:37:55,840 --> 00:37:58,440
Speaker 1: draw that direction out of you, like maybe a friend

821
00:37:58,440 --> 00:38:00,560
Speaker 1: being like, hey, have you tried this? Be thought of

822
00:38:00,640 --> 00:38:02,920
Speaker 1: like exploring this, or would you want to do this

823
00:38:02,960 --> 00:38:04,719
Speaker 1: project together, and it gives you a chance to say

824
00:38:04,719 --> 00:38:07,080
Speaker 1: like yes or no, or like sort of taste test

825
00:38:07,160 --> 00:38:12,279
Speaker 1: different opportunities. So sometimes you might feel directionless because you

826
00:38:12,360 --> 00:38:14,320
Speaker 1: might feel like, oh, I'm so like influenced by like

827
00:38:14,560 --> 00:38:18,120
Speaker 1: other people are sort of taking me. But it's actually

828
00:38:18,200 --> 00:38:21,719
Speaker 1: your way of creating your own life direction. So it's

829
00:38:21,719 --> 00:38:23,920
Speaker 1: not your direction list, but it can feel that way

830
00:38:23,960 --> 00:38:27,279
Speaker 1: internally for you, So you're actually not supposed to feel like, yep,

831
00:38:27,320 --> 00:38:28,880
Speaker 1: I always go the next step. I always know what

832
00:38:28,920 --> 00:38:30,919
Speaker 1: my next interest is going to be, or my next

833
00:38:30,920 --> 00:38:34,240
Speaker 1: passion or where I'm going because other people often introduce

834
00:38:34,280 --> 00:38:36,040
Speaker 1: those things to you, or the environments that you find

835
00:38:36,080 --> 00:38:38,600
Speaker 1: yourself in will introduce you to that. See.

836
00:38:38,600 --> 00:38:41,080
Speaker 2: I've always really struggled with that, Like ever since I

837
00:38:41,160 --> 00:38:44,200
Speaker 2: was a kid. When anyone would ask me what I

838
00:38:44,200 --> 00:38:46,640
Speaker 2: wanted to do when I grew up, my mostated question

839
00:38:46,680 --> 00:38:47,120
Speaker 2: is where.

840
00:38:46,960 --> 00:38:48,080
Speaker 3: Do you want to be in five years?

841
00:38:48,560 --> 00:38:50,120
Speaker 2: I'm like, I don't know where I want to be

842
00:38:50,160 --> 00:38:53,960
Speaker 2: in three months, like, let alone in five years. So

843
00:38:54,000 --> 00:38:56,000
Speaker 2: I hate when people ask me that, or like I

844
00:38:56,080 --> 00:38:58,359
Speaker 2: always am kind of envious of people that being like

845
00:38:58,600 --> 00:38:59,840
Speaker 2: all I want to do when I grow up is

846
00:39:00,080 --> 00:39:01,759
Speaker 2: a mom, or all I want to do when I

847
00:39:01,760 --> 00:39:03,960
Speaker 2: grow up is be a doctor, and like they have

848
00:39:04,040 --> 00:39:06,080
Speaker 2: an end goal that they want to be at, and

849
00:39:06,120 --> 00:39:09,279
Speaker 2: I'm like, I don't have that end goal, and I

850
00:39:09,320 --> 00:39:11,319
Speaker 2: think that that's where I get so worried and in

851
00:39:11,440 --> 00:39:15,200
Speaker 2: my head is like am I asking too much? Am

852
00:39:15,200 --> 00:39:19,080
Speaker 2: I being too aspirational about what I want because it

853
00:39:19,160 --> 00:39:21,520
Speaker 2: might be out of touch or everything like that, because

854
00:39:21,520 --> 00:39:24,279
Speaker 2: I'm like, anything I feel like I want to do,

855
00:39:24,360 --> 00:39:27,640
Speaker 2: I will just go and do it if that makes sense,

856
00:39:28,200 --> 00:39:30,640
Speaker 2: Like it's not like, oh this is going to help me,

857
00:39:31,040 --> 00:39:32,600
Speaker 2: this job is going to help me to get me

858
00:39:32,920 --> 00:39:35,000
Speaker 2: to that job where I want to end up, because

859
00:39:35,000 --> 00:39:36,440
Speaker 2: I don't know where I want to end up, Like

860
00:39:36,480 --> 00:39:38,319
Speaker 2: I don't know what career is going to make me

861
00:39:38,400 --> 00:39:42,320
Speaker 2: happy or what life path is going to make me happy.

862
00:39:42,400 --> 00:39:44,880
Speaker 2: So that's why I just like do all of them

863
00:39:44,920 --> 00:39:46,120
Speaker 2: and hoping one will land.

864
00:39:47,120 --> 00:39:48,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, And so I mean that makes a lot of

865
00:39:48,880 --> 00:39:51,000
Speaker 1: sense because like I said, do I hear to taste,

866
00:39:51,040 --> 00:39:54,160
Speaker 1: test and sample many different things. It's just about like

867
00:39:54,200 --> 00:39:58,080
Speaker 1: when you try something. Let's say, you know, someone introduces

868
00:39:58,840 --> 00:40:01,920
Speaker 1: a particular I don't know, like a type of yoga class,

869
00:40:02,000 --> 00:40:04,440
Speaker 1: let's say, and you're like, yeah, that sounds really interesting,

870
00:40:04,680 --> 00:40:06,359
Speaker 1: but then like you kind of get over it then

871
00:40:06,480 --> 00:40:09,120
Speaker 1: just moving on when you're ready to move on, like

872
00:40:09,160 --> 00:40:10,799
Speaker 1: not feeling like you have to stick with things. It's

873
00:40:10,800 --> 00:40:15,080
Speaker 1: about just like I sample things. My interests are really varied,

874
00:40:15,320 --> 00:40:17,680
Speaker 1: Like I have lots of interest in that. That's an

875
00:40:17,719 --> 00:40:21,040
Speaker 1: amazing thing, and that's how you find like what sticks

876
00:40:21,040 --> 00:40:25,239
Speaker 1: and what doesn't. Yeah, So I think it's funny like

877
00:40:25,280 --> 00:40:27,040
Speaker 1: you said that he finds it. You found that sort

878
00:40:27,040 --> 00:40:29,799
Speaker 1: of like irritating when other people would say, like they

879
00:40:29,920 --> 00:40:32,200
Speaker 1: know what they want to do. And so one part

880
00:40:32,200 --> 00:40:34,040
Speaker 1: of that is like some people just don't, like they

881
00:40:34,080 --> 00:40:36,120
Speaker 1: have this like the opposite of you, where they just

882
00:40:36,200 --> 00:40:38,959
Speaker 1: they do know their direction and feel that strong pull.

883
00:40:39,360 --> 00:40:42,320
Speaker 1: But then there's also so much conditioning in society around

884
00:40:42,640 --> 00:40:44,080
Speaker 1: like if you don't know who you are, if you

885
00:40:44,080 --> 00:40:46,200
Speaker 1: don't know what you're doing next, or like you know,

886
00:40:46,280 --> 00:40:48,759
Speaker 1: when you're like we're like eighteen at school and we're

887
00:40:48,800 --> 00:40:51,520
Speaker 1: told like pick your career for the rest of your life.

888
00:40:51,560 --> 00:40:55,760
Speaker 1: It's like most people's career changes, like my career change,

889
00:40:55,800 --> 00:40:57,520
Speaker 1: and like most people I know, like they don't stick

890
00:40:57,560 --> 00:41:00,440
Speaker 1: with what they studied, so that can be really frustrating.

891
00:41:00,480 --> 00:41:02,719
Speaker 1: So it's a huge conditioning and that's why it's really

892
00:41:02,760 --> 00:41:05,560
Speaker 1: important to know this about yourself and to remember, like

893
00:41:05,600 --> 00:41:07,880
Speaker 1: to have some mantles for yourself, like I'm designed to

894
00:41:07,880 --> 00:41:10,440
Speaker 1: have lots of interest, and you know that you kind

895
00:41:10,440 --> 00:41:13,880
Speaker 1: of allow yourself to connect with the passion love something

896
00:41:13,920 --> 00:41:16,080
Speaker 1: for maybe a short period of time, and then move

897
00:41:16,080 --> 00:41:18,279
Speaker 1: on when you're ready, not feeling like you have to

898
00:41:18,280 --> 00:41:20,719
Speaker 1: stick with it and that makes you flaky or there's

899
00:41:20,719 --> 00:41:22,359
Speaker 1: something wrong with you, or why am I not more

900
00:41:22,400 --> 00:41:24,480
Speaker 1: like that person that decided they want to be a

901
00:41:24,520 --> 00:41:26,440
Speaker 1: doctor in L five and they're a doctor.

902
00:41:26,880 --> 00:41:29,959
Speaker 3: You know, yep, that's exactly what I've been doing.

903
00:41:30,239 --> 00:41:33,240
Speaker 2: But I just bet then I get kind of worried

904
00:41:33,280 --> 00:41:39,200
Speaker 2: of like I get bored very easily, and I don't

905
00:41:39,239 --> 00:41:40,960
Speaker 2: like that about myself, Like even when.

906
00:41:40,840 --> 00:41:42,320
Speaker 3: It comes to relationships.

907
00:41:42,880 --> 00:41:47,200
Speaker 2: Something I've always noticed about myself is I'm very easily bored,

908
00:41:48,000 --> 00:41:50,759
Speaker 2: and I'm always like what more, and that there has

909
00:41:50,800 --> 00:41:52,719
Speaker 2: to be something exciting, Like I think I'm a bit

910
00:41:52,760 --> 00:41:56,239
Speaker 2: of a thrill seeker that I then struggle to sit

911
00:41:56,360 --> 00:42:00,399
Speaker 2: in normalcy, like being normal or just like have things

912
00:42:00,440 --> 00:42:02,960
Speaker 2: flow through life because I'm like I've always got to

913
00:42:03,000 --> 00:42:05,240
Speaker 2: be trying something or always going to be doing something.

914
00:42:05,760 --> 00:42:07,759
Speaker 1: Yeah, And so I guess like, because you are here

915
00:42:07,800 --> 00:42:09,960
Speaker 1: to like try lots of different things and you do

916
00:42:10,080 --> 00:42:12,919
Speaker 1: have that like strong manifested energy of like wanting to

917
00:42:13,000 --> 00:42:16,720
Speaker 1: explore and you know, experiment with things, then it's important

918
00:42:16,760 --> 00:42:19,640
Speaker 1: to be in a relationship with someone who helps you

919
00:42:20,040 --> 00:42:22,759
Speaker 1: do that as well. Yeah, and because the person you're

920
00:42:22,760 --> 00:42:25,360
Speaker 1: within a relationship, like they will be one of the

921
00:42:25,360 --> 00:42:29,359
Speaker 1: biggest people influencing you know, which direction that you go,

922
00:42:29,520 --> 00:42:31,839
Speaker 1: like what do you try? So I guess if you're

923
00:42:31,840 --> 00:42:35,360
Speaker 1: with someone who doesn't bring out that exciting fun side

924
00:42:36,239 --> 00:42:38,839
Speaker 1: that what you're looking for in terms of exploring your

925
00:42:38,960 --> 00:42:41,879
Speaker 1: your varied interests, then that's probably going to feel dull

926
00:42:41,960 --> 00:42:44,879
Speaker 1: and boring. Okay, but you know what, it's actually really

927
00:42:44,960 --> 00:42:48,439
Speaker 1: great that you're I guess instead of seeing it as

928
00:42:48,480 --> 00:42:51,960
Speaker 1: like you're too like you move on too quickly, like

929
00:42:52,080 --> 00:42:54,600
Speaker 1: seeing it as the right person will actually bring out

930
00:42:54,719 --> 00:42:58,359
Speaker 1: that excitement and passion in you. And also because something

931
00:42:58,360 --> 00:43:01,440
Speaker 1: that can happen with having an undefined g censor like

932
00:43:01,480 --> 00:43:05,520
Speaker 1: you do is that often people with this quality will

933
00:43:05,560 --> 00:43:09,880
Speaker 1: see the best in someone and see the person's potential

934
00:43:10,040 --> 00:43:12,400
Speaker 1: in a relationship instead of seeing them for who they

935
00:43:12,440 --> 00:43:16,040
Speaker 1: really are. So I also think you the time you

936
00:43:16,160 --> 00:43:18,719
Speaker 1: do that too, because I was going to say, maybe

937
00:43:18,760 --> 00:43:20,880
Speaker 1: if you're someone who's so aware of like, no, this

938
00:43:20,920 --> 00:43:25,319
Speaker 1: person's not like, you know, exciting me anymore or you know,

939
00:43:25,480 --> 00:43:26,280
Speaker 1: this relationship.

940
00:43:26,360 --> 00:43:29,560
Speaker 2: See, like when I really struggle to like people and

941
00:43:29,600 --> 00:43:32,120
Speaker 2: I really struggle to open up to people, So then

942
00:43:32,200 --> 00:43:34,279
Speaker 2: when I have like and then that's kind of when

943
00:43:34,280 --> 00:43:37,759
Speaker 2: maybe surface level situationships or things kind of evolve. And

944
00:43:37,800 --> 00:43:39,920
Speaker 2: then that's when I'll get bored and I'll move on

945
00:43:40,000 --> 00:43:42,040
Speaker 2: really quickly. And I'm very easy, like I'm okay to

946
00:43:42,080 --> 00:43:48,160
Speaker 2: drop them. But once I like someone, I will cling

947
00:43:48,239 --> 00:43:50,920
Speaker 2: onto you and you could be the king of Egypt

948
00:43:51,000 --> 00:43:52,800
Speaker 2: if you need it to be, Like, I will always

949
00:43:52,840 --> 00:43:55,279
Speaker 2: see your potential even if you don't see it, and

950
00:43:55,320 --> 00:43:59,160
Speaker 2: I will like, will not leave your side until you

951
00:43:59,200 --> 00:43:59,879
Speaker 2: become the king of.

952
00:43:59,800 --> 00:44:03,239
Speaker 1: Beat And that's obviously makes people feel really special and seeing,

953
00:44:03,239 --> 00:44:07,040
Speaker 1: which is beautiful, but then also remembering that if someone's

954
00:44:07,280 --> 00:44:10,680
Speaker 1: not showing that part of themselves yet that just seeing

955
00:44:10,680 --> 00:44:13,960
Speaker 1: their potential, like it's a potential that might never come,

956
00:44:14,600 --> 00:44:19,640
Speaker 1: so never sort of I guess, like not abandoning yourself

957
00:44:20,640 --> 00:44:22,839
Speaker 1: to think that, like, no, I should stick it through

958
00:44:22,840 --> 00:44:25,399
Speaker 1: with this person because I can see their potential if

959
00:44:25,440 --> 00:44:27,200
Speaker 1: they are the person that you want to be with

960
00:44:27,280 --> 00:44:33,080
Speaker 1: now yeah, okay, yeah, does that spark any No.

961
00:44:33,000 --> 00:44:35,879
Speaker 2: It's just like I think so much in my head

962
00:44:35,880 --> 00:44:39,840
Speaker 2: that it's like I sometimes can't distinguish between like rational

963
00:44:39,840 --> 00:44:45,240
Speaker 2: and irrational thoughts. I have OSAD, and my OSAD comes

964
00:44:45,280 --> 00:44:48,760
Speaker 2: up in really compulsive and really intrusive thoughts and about

965
00:44:48,760 --> 00:44:52,640
Speaker 2: myself and about other things. So it's like so debilitating

966
00:44:53,320 --> 00:44:55,279
Speaker 2: that it's like, yeah, I can't really decipher. And that's

967
00:44:55,320 --> 00:44:56,840
Speaker 2: what you said, when it comes down to my emotions,

968
00:44:56,920 --> 00:44:59,080
Speaker 2: what's deciphering what's real and what's not.

969
00:45:00,080 --> 00:45:03,560
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, so that so just like you said, I

970
00:45:03,600 --> 00:45:05,840
Speaker 1: was gonna say, like always coming back to your authority,

971
00:45:05,920 --> 00:45:08,759
Speaker 1: Like that's why, like your energy type, your strategy, and

972
00:45:08,760 --> 00:45:11,760
Speaker 1: your authority the biggest parts to take away from this reading,

973
00:45:11,840 --> 00:45:14,719
Speaker 1: because it even if you whether you know this about

974
00:45:14,760 --> 00:45:16,680
Speaker 1: your g center or not, if you don't know how

975
00:45:16,680 --> 00:45:19,640
Speaker 1: to use your authority, then it almost becomes irrelevant. So

976
00:45:20,440 --> 00:45:22,439
Speaker 1: it's always like coming back to that, and a good

977
00:45:22,440 --> 00:45:24,399
Speaker 1: practice if you do, like get caught in your mind

978
00:45:24,480 --> 00:45:26,719
Speaker 1: and like that OCD is coming up, you could do

979
00:45:26,840 --> 00:45:30,400
Speaker 1: like just a nice little visualization for yourself, a practice

980
00:45:30,400 --> 00:45:33,839
Speaker 1: of just closing your eyes and visualizing like a white

981
00:45:33,920 --> 00:45:36,440
Speaker 1: light at the center of your forehead and thinking of

982
00:45:36,480 --> 00:45:38,440
Speaker 1: that as like those your thoughts, like the chatter, like

983
00:45:38,520 --> 00:45:42,759
Speaker 1: the over stimulated mind, and letting that gradually drop down

984
00:45:42,760 --> 00:45:46,120
Speaker 1: through your core, down down down into your solar plexus,

985
00:45:46,160 --> 00:45:48,400
Speaker 1: which is like kind of a bit above the navel,

986
00:45:48,480 --> 00:45:50,279
Speaker 1: between the navel and the rib cage, so letting it

987
00:45:50,320 --> 00:45:53,200
Speaker 1: drop in there and feeling that wisdom come back to

988
00:45:53,280 --> 00:45:56,400
Speaker 1: that place. And so whether you know whether you're spiritual

989
00:45:56,400 --> 00:45:58,319
Speaker 1: and you really believe that you move energy or you

990
00:45:58,400 --> 00:46:01,040
Speaker 1: just find that grounding because it's a moment to be

991
00:46:01,120 --> 00:46:03,160
Speaker 1: present with your body and like feel into your body.

992
00:46:03,520 --> 00:46:06,640
Speaker 1: Either way, that will really help to ground you again

993
00:46:06,719 --> 00:46:09,400
Speaker 1: into your wisdom and help you then to connect back

994
00:46:09,440 --> 00:46:13,279
Speaker 1: to like, okay, the emotions like am I feeling calm? Yes? No?

995
00:46:13,560 --> 00:46:15,560
Speaker 1: Like am I feeling happy about this? Yes? No? That

996
00:46:15,600 --> 00:46:17,640
Speaker 1: gives you your answer. But the reason why I said

997
00:46:17,680 --> 00:46:20,719
Speaker 1: it was really interesting that you talked about feeling like

998
00:46:20,760 --> 00:46:22,440
Speaker 1: you don't know where you're going because you obviously have

999
00:46:22,560 --> 00:46:26,920
Speaker 1: this open g center. It's interesting because your life purpose

1000
00:46:27,000 --> 00:46:31,160
Speaker 1: is all about direction in life. So in everyone's human

1001
00:46:31,200 --> 00:46:33,640
Speaker 1: sign chart, we all have something called an incarnation cross,

1002
00:46:33,640 --> 00:46:36,640
Speaker 1: and it's your like really specific life purpose made up

1003
00:46:36,680 --> 00:46:39,439
Speaker 1: of your strongest your four strongest gifts in your child

1004
00:46:39,480 --> 00:46:41,759
Speaker 1: and like kind of how they mix together to give

1005
00:46:41,800 --> 00:46:44,200
Speaker 1: you a specific purpose. So it's not specific in terms

1006
00:46:44,200 --> 00:46:46,239
Speaker 1: of like this is the career you're going to have, well,

1007
00:46:46,239 --> 00:46:48,440
Speaker 1: this is like when you're gonna get married, or you know,

1008
00:46:48,480 --> 00:46:51,600
Speaker 1: like those sorts of it's not predictive like for the futures.

1009
00:46:51,680 --> 00:46:54,080
Speaker 1: This is the energy you're here to be in everything

1010
00:46:54,200 --> 00:46:57,360
Speaker 1: that's in alignment for you in your life. So yours

1011
00:46:57,440 --> 00:46:59,480
Speaker 1: is called it's called the right angle cross of the

1012
00:46:59,480 --> 00:47:04,080
Speaker 1: Sphinx have crazy names, and it's really about it tells

1013
00:47:04,080 --> 00:47:07,680
Speaker 1: you that you're really here to allow direction to be

1014
00:47:07,760 --> 00:47:10,600
Speaker 1: your life purpose, so you're here to direct both have

1015
00:47:10,680 --> 00:47:13,600
Speaker 1: strong sense of direction for both yourself and other people.

1016
00:47:14,040 --> 00:47:15,719
Speaker 1: It's like if you think of this analogy of like

1017
00:47:15,800 --> 00:47:18,560
Speaker 1: you being this lighthouse, it's like shining this light that

1018
00:47:18,600 --> 00:47:22,319
Speaker 1: allows other people to find their bearings, So that could

1019
00:47:22,360 --> 00:47:24,360
Speaker 1: be a big part of why you feel so like

1020
00:47:24,400 --> 00:47:26,560
Speaker 1: you're so going through this journey in life of like

1021
00:47:26,840 --> 00:47:29,960
Speaker 1: your direction being a big theme because it is part

1022
00:47:30,000 --> 00:47:31,600
Speaker 1: of your purpose and it's a way that you're going

1023
00:47:31,680 --> 00:47:34,400
Speaker 1: to connect more to your own your own direction in

1024
00:47:34,440 --> 00:47:37,120
Speaker 1: life to then be that light bearer for other people.

1025
00:47:37,840 --> 00:47:41,680
Speaker 1: So obviously it's quite deep. So when you're really true

1026
00:47:41,680 --> 00:47:45,880
Speaker 1: to yourself and your creative impulses connecting to those urges,

1027
00:47:46,360 --> 00:47:48,680
Speaker 1: then you always know the right direction for yourself, even

1028
00:47:48,719 --> 00:47:51,680
Speaker 1: when you can't explain it and when it defines logic.

1029
00:47:51,800 --> 00:47:55,279
Speaker 1: So you'll often find with having this purpose, you'll often

1030
00:47:55,280 --> 00:47:58,000
Speaker 1: find that you can't explain why you choose certain directions,

1031
00:47:58,280 --> 00:48:01,000
Speaker 1: and when people try and ask you for a rational

1032
00:48:01,280 --> 00:48:03,759
Speaker 1: explanation of how you got their why or if you

1033
00:48:03,800 --> 00:48:05,880
Speaker 1: try and do that to yourself, it's probably going to

1034
00:48:05,920 --> 00:48:09,239
Speaker 1: make you feel like angry or like confused. So I

1035
00:48:09,239 --> 00:48:11,600
Speaker 1: don't know, I just did it, yeah, And so it's

1036
00:48:11,840 --> 00:48:14,560
Speaker 1: and always do that, and so it's really important to

1037
00:48:14,680 --> 00:48:18,000
Speaker 1: just like, firstly, when people do ask you that, like

1038
00:48:18,239 --> 00:48:20,880
Speaker 1: explain to them like it's just an intuitive thing, Like

1039
00:48:21,120 --> 00:48:23,560
Speaker 1: I just feel that it's right, and like I'm not

1040
00:48:23,600 --> 00:48:27,080
Speaker 1: going to try and explain it, you know, because it's

1041
00:48:27,160 --> 00:48:29,360
Speaker 1: really about like you were here to guide yourself and

1042
00:48:29,440 --> 00:48:31,560
Speaker 1: other people, Like there's a strong connection to this, like

1043
00:48:31,640 --> 00:48:35,479
Speaker 1: being this guide like guidance, and you are then able

1044
00:48:35,560 --> 00:48:38,640
Speaker 1: to show other people all the possibilities of life and

1045
00:48:38,719 --> 00:48:40,399
Speaker 1: like the way that you can create this beautiful life

1046
00:48:40,520 --> 00:48:43,879
Speaker 1: yourself in this amazing world, like with all these opportunities,

1047
00:48:43,880 --> 00:48:46,759
Speaker 1: all this potential, Like you said, you're a dreamer, and

1048
00:48:46,800 --> 00:48:51,480
Speaker 1: you show other people that they can follow your lead

1049
00:48:51,080 --> 00:48:56,359
Speaker 1: in that when you at that leading example. So it's

1050
00:48:56,400 --> 00:48:58,440
Speaker 1: really about like trying not to feel like you have

1051
00:48:58,480 --> 00:49:00,800
Speaker 1: to explain it and then also remembering that when I

1052
00:49:00,880 --> 00:49:03,680
Speaker 1: say you're here to guide other people as well and

1053
00:49:03,719 --> 00:49:05,239
Speaker 1: be that life ero, it's not in the way that

1054
00:49:05,280 --> 00:49:07,480
Speaker 1: you're here to like hold people's hands and you know,

1055
00:49:07,520 --> 00:49:09,319
Speaker 1: show them every step of the way, because that will

1056
00:49:09,320 --> 00:49:11,880
Speaker 1: be quite draining for you. It's about doing it in

1057
00:49:11,880 --> 00:49:14,560
Speaker 1: a way that you encourage them to engage with their

1058
00:49:14,560 --> 00:49:18,000
Speaker 1: own abilities, and you do that best by being that

1059
00:49:18,120 --> 00:49:18,840
Speaker 1: leading example.

1060
00:49:19,320 --> 00:49:22,440
Speaker 2: Then that's what I feel like where my position in

1061
00:49:22,520 --> 00:49:26,000
Speaker 2: social media and like being an influencer content creator kind

1062
00:49:26,000 --> 00:49:28,440
Speaker 2: of shows is like I want to be that person

1063
00:49:28,480 --> 00:49:31,640
Speaker 2: that pushes girls to live their best life or to

1064
00:49:31,760 --> 00:49:35,040
Speaker 2: follow a feeling that they have and to like not

1065
00:49:35,239 --> 00:49:38,080
Speaker 2: let any other people's opinions get in the way of that.

1066
00:49:38,160 --> 00:49:41,880
Speaker 2: And that's like what my biggest goal is to influence

1067
00:49:41,920 --> 00:49:44,319
Speaker 2: young women to be like, follow that feeling that you have,

1068
00:49:44,480 --> 00:49:47,719
Speaker 2: follow that by the plane ticket and like all of

1069
00:49:47,719 --> 00:49:50,280
Speaker 2: those things, because I'm like, if you have that sense,

1070
00:49:50,360 --> 00:49:52,319
Speaker 2: you need to follow it. And like I'm following that

1071
00:49:52,360 --> 00:49:54,600
Speaker 2: sense and you're seeing me live my best life, so

1072
00:49:54,719 --> 00:49:57,080
Speaker 2: like you can do that too, And I think that

1073
00:49:57,080 --> 00:50:00,279
Speaker 2: that's like a massive message I try to portray on line.

1074
00:50:00,600 --> 00:50:03,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's and that's so beautiful because that really ties

1075
00:50:03,560 --> 00:50:06,360
Speaker 1: in with what your purpose is. So it's just about

1076
00:50:06,400 --> 00:50:09,200
Speaker 1: knowing like to so like to really tie it all together,

1077
00:50:09,440 --> 00:50:12,480
Speaker 1: like really leaning in more to that trust in yourself

1078
00:50:12,520 --> 00:50:17,319
Speaker 1: that you know, you don't need to rationalize things. You know,

1079
00:50:17,440 --> 00:50:20,480
Speaker 1: just just feeling happy, knowing that you feel happy about

1080
00:50:20,520 --> 00:50:23,480
Speaker 1: a decision or that you followed an urge. That's all

1081
00:50:23,520 --> 00:50:25,320
Speaker 1: you need to know that you're going in the right direction.

1082
00:50:26,000 --> 00:50:28,120
Speaker 1: And even if that's something someone else introduced you to

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00:50:28,320 --> 00:50:30,160
Speaker 1: or something that you started that you're ready to quit.

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00:50:30,239 --> 00:50:33,440
Speaker 1: Like always asking yourself those questions to tune into your

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00:50:33,440 --> 00:50:36,160
Speaker 1: own inner guidance, like that's you know, that's your version

1086
00:50:36,200 --> 00:50:39,239
Speaker 1: of like a gut feeling and that will always guide

1087
00:50:39,280 --> 00:50:41,359
Speaker 1: you in the right direction and help you lean more

1088
00:50:41,400 --> 00:50:44,440
Speaker 1: into that purpose that as you keep growing as an

1089
00:50:44,520 --> 00:50:47,320
Speaker 1: influencer and you know in your career, you're going to

1090
00:50:47,400 --> 00:50:50,040
Speaker 1: be that guiding like for more and more people, and

1091
00:50:50,080 --> 00:50:51,680
Speaker 1: you'll even see how you do that in your personal

1092
00:50:51,719 --> 00:50:55,239
Speaker 1: relationships as well. Yeah, very interesting. Yeah, so do you

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00:50:55,239 --> 00:50:56,720
Speaker 1: have any questions from anything?

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00:50:57,440 --> 00:50:59,560
Speaker 2: How would you say, like even for young girls or

1095
00:50:59,560 --> 00:51:01,760
Speaker 2: anything like that to find out more about themselves.

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00:51:01,800 --> 00:51:03,560
Speaker 3: Obviously you just told me about mine.

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00:51:04,080 --> 00:51:06,040
Speaker 2: Is there a way that girls can find out or

1098
00:51:06,160 --> 00:51:08,719
Speaker 2: maybe have to reach out to you? Like, what is

1099
00:51:08,760 --> 00:51:11,280
Speaker 2: something that people can find out about their energy types

1100
00:51:11,320 --> 00:51:13,040
Speaker 2: and how it can help them in life?

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00:51:13,560 --> 00:51:15,600
Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah, so I have. I mean, I have so

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00:51:15,680 --> 00:51:18,799
Speaker 1: much content on my instagram. So my Instagram's at love

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00:51:18,840 --> 00:51:21,959
Speaker 1: my Design with an underscore at the end, and you can,

1104
00:51:22,320 --> 00:51:25,400
Speaker 1: you know, look for content about your energy type. But first,

1105
00:51:25,400 --> 00:51:27,480
Speaker 1: actually you'll need to get your human design chart, which

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00:51:27,520 --> 00:51:30,879
Speaker 1: again you can do on my website, which is lovemydesign

1107
00:51:30,920 --> 00:51:32,799
Speaker 1: dot com. You can get your chart for free and

1108
00:51:32,880 --> 00:51:36,040
Speaker 1: see like your human design chart, which won't really make

1109
00:51:36,200 --> 00:51:37,799
Speaker 1: much sense to you and you just look at it

1110
00:51:37,840 --> 00:51:42,120
Speaker 1: because obviously, like everything I've explained is like deciphering, you know,

1111
00:51:42,160 --> 00:51:46,479
Speaker 1: a language from a really abstract looking chart. But yeah,

1112
00:51:46,480 --> 00:51:48,920
Speaker 1: you can definitely look through my content and then otherwise

1113
00:51:48,920 --> 00:51:51,560
Speaker 1: I do one on one readings, which are definitely what

1114
00:51:51,560 --> 00:51:53,160
Speaker 1: I would recommend if you want to like really deep

1115
00:51:53,200 --> 00:51:55,880
Speaker 1: dieve and really understand this, like what we've just done today.

1116
00:51:56,360 --> 00:51:58,600
Speaker 1: I have thirty minute or one hour sessions where you

1117
00:51:58,640 --> 00:52:01,680
Speaker 1: can really understand like what is your what are the

1118
00:52:01,719 --> 00:52:03,799
Speaker 1: decisions you're making at the moment, or what transitions are

1119
00:52:03,800 --> 00:52:07,719
Speaker 1: you navigating in your career, You're inner world, your relationships,

1120
00:52:07,760 --> 00:52:10,000
Speaker 1: and then what is the conditioning that could be stopping

1121
00:52:10,000 --> 00:52:12,919
Speaker 1: you from making those decisions in the most aligned way

1122
00:52:12,920 --> 00:52:17,160
Speaker 1: for yourself and like creating opportunities and then really like

1123
00:52:17,360 --> 00:52:19,880
Speaker 1: how can you then move forward make the right decisions

1124
00:52:19,880 --> 00:52:23,040
Speaker 1: for yourself without having that self doubt without looking back.

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Speaker 2: It is super beneficial as well just to kind of

1126
00:52:26,040 --> 00:52:28,160
Speaker 2: know where you kind of sit in the world and

1127
00:52:28,200 --> 00:52:30,120
Speaker 2: be like, oh, that's why I kind of take that

1128
00:52:30,360 --> 00:52:32,359
Speaker 2: end of the group or everything like that.

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Speaker 3: It's just good to know.

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00:52:34,040 --> 00:52:36,399
Speaker 1: Yeah, for sure, and then like, because obviously I've said

1131
00:52:36,400 --> 00:52:37,920
Speaker 1: to you, like you're meant to give yourself a bit

1132
00:52:37,960 --> 00:52:40,120
Speaker 1: of time to make big decisions. But then there are

1133
00:52:40,160 --> 00:52:43,360
Speaker 1: people like myself who have like immediately immediate instincts in

1134
00:52:43,400 --> 00:52:45,760
Speaker 1: the moment, and that's how I'm meant to make big decisions,

1135
00:52:45,840 --> 00:52:47,719
Speaker 1: Like I'm not meant to wait a second, and if

1136
00:52:47,760 --> 00:52:50,160
Speaker 1: I'm not present in my body in that moment, then

1137
00:52:50,239 --> 00:52:52,879
Speaker 1: like I can miss that sense, that whisper that comes

1138
00:52:52,920 --> 00:52:55,200
Speaker 1: up for me. So we all have. There are eight

1139
00:52:55,239 --> 00:52:57,919
Speaker 1: different types of authorities, and there are also like five

1140
00:52:57,960 --> 00:53:01,680
Speaker 1: of the different energy types, Like you're a manifest I'm

1141
00:53:01,719 --> 00:53:03,719
Speaker 1: a different type called a projector, and then there are

1142
00:53:03,719 --> 00:53:07,520
Speaker 1: still three others. So just understanding those things, yeah, yourself

1143
00:53:07,600 --> 00:53:10,279
Speaker 1: is so amazing. Yeah, So definitely like a one or

1144
00:53:10,440 --> 00:53:13,840
Speaker 1: one reading I would really recommend or the other option

1145
00:53:13,920 --> 00:53:15,600
Speaker 1: if you're more of someone who likes to kind of

1146
00:53:15,920 --> 00:53:17,799
Speaker 1: read things in your own time and like you know,

1147
00:53:17,840 --> 00:53:19,960
Speaker 1: take your time exploring and doing it wherever you are.

1148
00:53:20,280 --> 00:53:23,640
Speaker 1: I also have a personalized human Design guidebook which is

1149
00:53:23,960 --> 00:53:27,200
Speaker 1: literally personalized to your unique chart, and you just put

1150
00:53:27,239 --> 00:53:29,680
Speaker 1: in your chart on my website, you click, you know,

1151
00:53:29,719 --> 00:53:32,680
Speaker 1: the buy guidebook button and you can download it right

1152
00:53:32,680 --> 00:53:34,640
Speaker 1: away and you can just start reading all these things

1153
00:53:34,680 --> 00:53:37,360
Speaker 1: we've talked about today. You can read those about yourself

1154
00:53:37,400 --> 00:53:38,160
Speaker 1: just in your own time.

1155
00:53:38,400 --> 00:53:40,840
Speaker 2: So, yeah, maybe I need to do that just to

1156
00:53:40,920 --> 00:53:43,880
Speaker 2: like remind myself of my journey that I'm on, that

1157
00:53:43,960 --> 00:53:44,879
Speaker 2: I'm doing the right thing.

1158
00:53:45,040 --> 00:53:46,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a great like addition to a reading or

1159
00:53:46,880 --> 00:53:48,799
Speaker 1: like even as a gift for someone that they can

1160
00:53:48,880 --> 00:53:51,600
Speaker 1: just you know, it's like like designs really nicely and

1161
00:53:51,600 --> 00:53:53,560
Speaker 1: then you know, you can just take your time, have

1162
00:53:53,680 --> 00:53:54,959
Speaker 1: it on your iPad or your phone.

1163
00:53:55,200 --> 00:53:58,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, thank you so much Aviva for coming on hotter

1164
00:53:58,600 --> 00:54:02,040
Speaker 2: than yesterday. If you loved this episode, I definitely recommend

1165
00:54:02,280 --> 00:54:04,680
Speaker 2: checking out her instagram. I'll have it tagged and everything

1166
00:54:04,680 --> 00:54:07,759
Speaker 2: in the podcast notes as well on the Instagram, And

1167
00:54:07,920 --> 00:54:10,360
Speaker 2: maybe you can get your own human Design chart.

1168
00:54:10,280 --> 00:54:11,919
Speaker 1: Reading, reading or guidebook.

1169
00:54:12,040 --> 00:54:15,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, and Aviva has kindly said that she will give

1170
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Speaker 2: us a little promo code for the podcast listeners that

1171
00:54:18,880 --> 00:54:22,200
Speaker 2: you guys can use on her website, So that will

1172
00:54:22,200 --> 00:54:25,120
Speaker 2: also be in the show notes below and you guys

1173
00:54:25,120 --> 00:54:28,000
Speaker 2: can use that and find out your own human Design chart.

1174
00:54:28,239 --> 00:54:29,839
Speaker 3: Well, thank you so much for joining us.

1175
00:54:29,920 --> 00:54:32,040
Speaker 2: I've loved having you on and learning more about myself

1176
00:54:32,160 --> 00:54:33,600
Speaker 2: and yeah, thank you, so.

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00:54:33,440 --> 00:54:34,960
Speaker 1: So glad, thank you for having me. It was so

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Speaker 1: much fun.