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Speaker 1: It was Nadia Bartell. It wasn't Nadia A Bartell. No,

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Speaker 1: completely different story. No, No, they would never do that,

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Speaker 1: friends would never do the wrong. Sorry, I've done it again,

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Speaker 1: He was asking for a commitment from her, and she

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Speaker 1: the couple. And in the in this moment, he obviously

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Speaker 1: just an absolute mess at a beautifully awkward moment. Thirteen

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Speaker 1: twenty four ten. If you have sent the wrong text message,

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Speaker 1: we would love your story. We had Gary and I.

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Speaker 2: Live together and never heard of this.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we lived together in Perth, says home of the

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Speaker 2: You guys gotten a lot of trouble in that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we had a shocker. We're an absolute shock.

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Speaker 1: You see him?

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Speaker 2: Then I had sent a text about picking up. It

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Speaker 2: And he's like, what do you mean you're having a

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Speaker 1: Who do you send the text to?

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Speaker 5: Meggs we I did this to my brother. Actually, he

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Speaker 5: And they named her Billy Madison, and I was like, oh,

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Speaker 5: like Adam Sandler than sending it to my husband, and

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Speaker 1: Oh the old love the name. Oh my god, that's beautiful.

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Speaker 1: you're not going to believe it too, Mandy and Mascot

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Speaker 1: has already called the show favorite time of the week. Mandy, Hello, red.

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Speaker 1: Mandy is on the double chinge in Yeah, go ahead,

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Speaker 3: A taxi driver is going the wrong way down a

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Speaker 5: Why he's on a bike.

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Speaker 6: He's walking a.

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Speaker 1: I like quicking to the point straight, So we move on.

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Speaker 1: I've got three great riddles now degree of difficulty, but five.

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Speaker 1: This first one has been described as the most simple

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Speaker 1: riddle though ever delivered. Are you ready? I am a

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Speaker 1: sport and an insect. What am I? Hello? There? It

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Speaker 1: while I was like doing work. You're better than that.

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Speaker 4: Someone on Facebook life wants to sell a yo yo.

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Speaker 1: Going price on a yo yo the original fanto ones

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Speaker 1: old check Stephen forgottis Steve. He's on us more about you?

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Speaker 1: Are you when the yoyo guys used to come to

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Speaker 2: Way to get out of teaching. We're going to do

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Speaker 1: He says. It's a Coca Cola one. It is a

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Speaker 1: Coca Cola. Sorry, really iconic. Let's get back to the riddles, guys.

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Speaker 1: This is not by Swap himself. He was sitting on that. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: And we don't actually know it because going for ten

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Speaker 1: Tony rings in and saves you. But he hasn't saved it. Okay,

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Speaker 1: this is a cracker. We're going out on a high.

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Speaker 1: Get ready, riddler's riddler in the booth. Given the opportunity

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Speaker 1: stone and I can be paper. What am I bump?

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Speaker 6: He said again, Please say really good work, buddy.

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Speaker 1: Given the opportunity you'll find me in a thousand, I

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Speaker 6: Ben Shepherd service doing great work at the moment beneppreciation.

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Speaker 1: And he says, wait, no, Fits is in the word thousand.

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Speaker 1: Good areas, Ryan, good areas? Just a quick update while

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Speaker 3: Know you, oh Fits.

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Speaker 4: And with us one lady who we love to get

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Speaker 1: She's got a new book, Parental as anything.

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Speaker 4: It is the magnificent Maggie. Hi, guys, I.

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Speaker 3: And I see what we know about bribes and rewards

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Speaker 3: But for boys, oh my godness, they're raby yeah, go crazy.

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Speaker 4: Maggie, patience, it hasn't been a gift to me over

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Speaker 1: Terrible.

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Speaker 4: I want to ask you that the words I can't

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Speaker 4: What do I do when I'm sitting down with my

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Speaker 1: How do we react to that?

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Speaker 3: Oh, look, it's just one magic word we add into that,

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Speaker 3: a visualization she uses, so I get them to close

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Speaker 2: Maggie. My two boys are a bit younger than fits

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Speaker 2: in Whippers, but my eldest sistere and a half, and

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Speaker 3: needs your help to stop him expressing his frustration through that.

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Speaker 3: So teaching to stomp his feet, okay, stump, but he

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Speaker 3: needs you teach him away to manage his frustration without

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Speaker 1: Okay, we love you.

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Speaker 1: Thank you so much for your time. Maggie. Let's talk

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Speaker 1: a good one, guys. I don't know if you've heard

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Speaker 1: of the website easy to pick up on. It's called LinkedIn.

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Speaker 1: I thought lind LinkedIn is the most connected website in

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Speaker 1: So one person, one guy's written, have I ever told

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Speaker 2: I don't think it's wrong to send a message, just

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Speaker 1: You were to comment on somebody's appearance, like, oh my god,

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Speaker 4: Come on, let's go to the two kings over who

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Speaker 1: And employees around here? Tom and Whipper? Yes, I'm sorry.

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Speaker 1: Matt to grin? Yeah? We worked here? I would say

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Speaker 1: But MDG, how many people would you? I wouldn't want

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Speaker 6: There is obviously one of them, but otherwise.

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Speaker 6: We're clearly meant.

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Speaker 1: Now, on professional levels, you have used your contacts with

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Speaker 1: how did you get knocked back here? Flattered?

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Speaker 6: No, it's a general rule if you ask someone out,

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Speaker 1: To be asked. Don't do it anymore, mate, Then how

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Speaker 4: Look, you're gonna wait for them to make the admery confidence.

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Speaker 4: But then you know, after a while in the industry,

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Speaker 3: You've got a pest.

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Speaker 1: Are you suggesting that's got a bad reputation with women

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