1 00:00:05,921 --> 00:00:25,201 Speaker 1: Apodjake Production. Welcome back to another episode about My Bad 2 00:00:25,601 --> 00:00:29,601 Speaker 1: Mum podcast. We were just chatting just before we hit 3 00:00:29,641 --> 00:00:35,681 Speaker 1: record about food and like adults, like as much we are, 4 00:00:36,921 --> 00:00:40,241 Speaker 1: I would say, almost border on neurotic with our kids 5 00:00:40,241 --> 00:00:43,001 Speaker 1: and eating, like we are all about you haven't finished, 6 00:00:43,040 --> 00:00:45,361 Speaker 1: you haven't had enough. You need to have the goodness, 7 00:00:45,400 --> 00:00:48,961 Speaker 1: eat the vegetables. Like we've talked about this on many episodes. 8 00:00:49,241 --> 00:00:52,001 Speaker 1: Elsie doesn't eat fruit veggie. She's very proud of the 9 00:00:52,001 --> 00:00:54,481 Speaker 1: fact she doesn't eat fruit vegetables. And so you've spent 10 00:00:54,601 --> 00:00:58,761 Speaker 1: years hiding it and hustling it. Yeah, mixed meals. But 11 00:00:59,401 --> 00:01:03,041 Speaker 1: what we realize is that as mums, we forget about ourselves. 12 00:01:03,321 --> 00:01:04,481 Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, Yeah, Like the. 13 00:01:04,481 --> 00:01:06,121 Speaker 1: Amount of time do you make sure your kids have 14 00:01:06,161 --> 00:01:07,920 Speaker 1: got breakfast and they're eating it in the car on 15 00:01:07,961 --> 00:01:10,401 Speaker 1: the way to school or whatever it might be. You 16 00:01:10,441 --> 00:01:12,920 Speaker 1: didn't think about yourself, what you need to eat. You 17 00:01:13,000 --> 00:01:13,800 Speaker 1: forgot to have dinner. 18 00:01:13,881 --> 00:01:18,121 Speaker 3: Yesterday, I genuinely got pulled up by my own daughter. 19 00:01:18,280 --> 00:01:20,720 Speaker 3: There's days where you just like do stuff and then 20 00:01:20,761 --> 00:01:24,000 Speaker 3: you don't actually sort of take it in until you 21 00:01:24,041 --> 00:01:25,721 Speaker 3: say it out aloud. And it was like one of 22 00:01:25,801 --> 00:01:28,520 Speaker 3: those moments, you know, when you just flat and energy, 23 00:01:28,560 --> 00:01:31,201 Speaker 3: you're just not your usual And I was like, I 24 00:01:31,280 --> 00:01:34,560 Speaker 3: just don't feel my best self right now. And she 25 00:01:34,721 --> 00:01:37,641 Speaker 3: turned to me and did what I normally do to them, 26 00:01:37,721 --> 00:01:40,121 Speaker 3: which is, how much water have you had today? 27 00:01:40,721 --> 00:01:42,401 Speaker 2: What have you actually eaten today? 28 00:01:42,481 --> 00:01:45,521 Speaker 3: Mum. I then said out aloud to her, I have 29 00:01:45,840 --> 00:01:49,561 Speaker 3: had two long blacks, a small cross on, and then 30 00:01:49,801 --> 00:01:53,681 Speaker 3: one sushi roll. I just got schooled by my own child. 31 00:01:54,521 --> 00:01:57,441 Speaker 2: But I was so proud of her. At the same time, weird, well. 32 00:01:57,321 --> 00:01:59,321 Speaker 1: Because she's learnt it from you, but you just don't 33 00:01:59,361 --> 00:02:00,161 Speaker 1: do it for yourself. 34 00:02:00,281 --> 00:02:00,721 Speaker 2: Yeah, I know. 35 00:02:00,961 --> 00:02:03,761 Speaker 3: But it's so funny because like literally both of them 36 00:02:03,801 --> 00:02:07,201 Speaker 3: come home with their school bags, get your school lunchbox out, 37 00:02:07,241 --> 00:02:10,001 Speaker 3: whatever's in it, you finish it. I'm not wasting the 38 00:02:10,041 --> 00:02:11,921 Speaker 3: food that's in it kind of thing. Both my girls 39 00:02:12,041 --> 00:02:14,721 Speaker 3: know now that's a non negotiable, so they're actually getting 40 00:02:14,721 --> 00:02:17,520 Speaker 3: way better with it. But at the same time, got 41 00:02:17,520 --> 00:02:19,921 Speaker 3: schooled by my ten year old, and she was right. 42 00:02:20,001 --> 00:02:22,201 Speaker 1: The amount of times that I've said to the girls 43 00:02:22,201 --> 00:02:24,601 Speaker 1: I've picked them up from school over the years and 44 00:02:24,641 --> 00:02:27,561 Speaker 1: it's like three p thirty or whatever, and they're like, 45 00:02:28,001 --> 00:02:29,521 Speaker 1: we're so hungry. 46 00:02:30,121 --> 00:02:33,001 Speaker 2: Please, I get it. Every afternoon you're starving. 47 00:02:33,721 --> 00:02:37,001 Speaker 1: When you're starving, I'm about to get you afternoon tea. 48 00:02:37,121 --> 00:02:38,520 Speaker 1: I haven't even had lunch yet. 49 00:02:38,761 --> 00:02:48,001 Speaker 2: Yeah. 50 00:02:48,041 --> 00:02:53,801 Speaker 3: Am I a bad mom for throwing a technology tantrum? Oh? 51 00:02:53,841 --> 00:02:56,401 Speaker 1: This isn't me every day. This was me this morning. 52 00:02:56,481 --> 00:02:58,721 Speaker 1: I got so frustrated on my computer. I was like, 53 00:02:58,761 --> 00:02:59,761 Speaker 1: why is it not working? 54 00:03:00,761 --> 00:03:03,201 Speaker 3: I feel like I have probably one of those moments 55 00:03:03,441 --> 00:03:06,561 Speaker 3: on the daily. There'll be something that I'll go just 56 00:03:06,561 --> 00:03:09,000 Speaker 3: don't get it. I just don't understand why is it 57 00:03:09,121 --> 00:03:11,880 Speaker 3: doing this? And you sort of look around like anybody. 58 00:03:12,121 --> 00:03:15,361 Speaker 3: The tip of the iceberg is when the kids know how. 59 00:03:15,201 --> 00:03:15,800 Speaker 2: To fix it. 60 00:03:16,841 --> 00:03:19,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, oh, my kids grab my phone off me and 61 00:03:20,001 --> 00:03:22,761 Speaker 1: like you need to do much. I'm happy to do 62 00:03:22,800 --> 00:03:25,281 Speaker 1: it like that, they say to me. When I go 63 00:03:25,321 --> 00:03:29,201 Speaker 1: to typing Google before I search something, They're like, Mom, 64 00:03:29,240 --> 00:03:31,520 Speaker 1: you don't have to type in Google, you just search it. 65 00:03:31,841 --> 00:03:34,321 Speaker 1: I was like, no, but I like doing that. It's 66 00:03:34,321 --> 00:03:36,241 Speaker 1: the same with the brightness, Like I like to have 67 00:03:36,241 --> 00:03:37,321 Speaker 1: my brightness up full. 68 00:03:37,561 --> 00:03:39,881 Speaker 2: How much abuse do you cop on text message? 69 00:03:40,001 --> 00:03:42,681 Speaker 1: Yeah? I know, And I try and be like quite 70 00:03:42,761 --> 00:03:44,481 Speaker 1: friendly with my text messages, like. 71 00:03:44,601 --> 00:03:45,601 Speaker 2: Give it what's friendly. 72 00:03:46,401 --> 00:03:49,561 Speaker 1: I'll do like the love heart emoji. Yeah, Miley fan. 73 00:03:49,601 --> 00:03:52,161 Speaker 3: But your lovely message and the way that I'm feeling 74 00:03:52,241 --> 00:03:53,961 Speaker 3: when I read it, It's going to be two totally 75 00:03:53,961 --> 00:03:55,561 Speaker 3: different things because of my feelings. 76 00:03:55,561 --> 00:03:56,521 Speaker 2: Does that make sense to you? 77 00:03:57,201 --> 00:03:59,961 Speaker 3: Like for me, I'm like typing away like you'll know 78 00:04:00,041 --> 00:04:02,521 Speaker 3: I'm angry because it'll just come through with like it'll 79 00:04:02,521 --> 00:04:06,481 Speaker 3: be like what the fuck, but it'll be in like capitals, 80 00:04:06,601 --> 00:04:08,521 Speaker 3: and I think we can even emphasize it now to 81 00:04:08,561 --> 00:04:10,841 Speaker 3: make it bigger. So at rattles, so you know that, right, 82 00:04:11,041 --> 00:04:13,721 Speaker 3: yelling yelling, yeah, yelling at you. 83 00:04:14,161 --> 00:04:17,361 Speaker 1: Yeah. It's funny because they were talking about messages that 84 00:04:17,401 --> 00:04:19,681 Speaker 1: they write and then there was this guy that they 85 00:04:19,681 --> 00:04:21,601 Speaker 1: were talking to and they were like, Mum, He's like 86 00:04:22,121 --> 00:04:24,481 Speaker 1: he just writes this, and I was like, he is 87 00:04:24,561 --> 00:04:26,361 Speaker 1: not putting any thought into it. 88 00:04:26,241 --> 00:04:27,801 Speaker 2: That's why because we. 89 00:04:27,841 --> 00:04:30,561 Speaker 1: Overthink it and we go how are they reading that? 90 00:04:30,841 --> 00:04:34,640 Speaker 1: Like how does that sound? All them? Whereas guys like 91 00:04:34,721 --> 00:04:36,721 Speaker 1: my husband, he would just write something and I'm like 92 00:04:36,801 --> 00:04:38,881 Speaker 1: that doesn't sound very friendly. He's like, it is what 93 00:04:38,961 --> 00:04:41,761 Speaker 1: I'm saying, Like, it's that's what I want to say, 94 00:04:42,121 --> 00:04:44,321 Speaker 1: because I'm like, yeah, put a smiley face at the 95 00:04:44,401 --> 00:04:46,481 Speaker 1: end or something just to show that you're being nice, 96 00:04:46,481 --> 00:04:48,281 Speaker 1: You're saying it in a nice way because text are 97 00:04:48,320 --> 00:04:49,080 Speaker 1: so hard to read. 98 00:04:49,641 --> 00:04:53,720 Speaker 3: The text messages are hard to read because your feelings 99 00:04:53,721 --> 00:04:56,881 Speaker 3: are attached to them. I've had this conversation with so 100 00:04:57,241 --> 00:05:01,081 Speaker 3: many times around the way that I send it and 101 00:05:01,121 --> 00:05:04,121 Speaker 3: the way that you read it. My environment's different to 102 00:05:04,121 --> 00:05:07,201 Speaker 3: where you are, like circumstantial, it's different. 103 00:05:07,281 --> 00:05:10,520 Speaker 2: Everything's different. So technically, if you have any shit. 104 00:05:10,481 --> 00:05:13,161 Speaker 3: Day and you're in shit surroundings and I still send 105 00:05:13,241 --> 00:05:15,161 Speaker 3: you a really nice message, you might not take it 106 00:05:15,201 --> 00:05:17,520 Speaker 3: as a nice message because you're like under the pump, 107 00:05:17,561 --> 00:05:21,281 Speaker 3: under pressure, feeling all the feelings, whereas I'm like, over here, 108 00:05:21,841 --> 00:05:24,561 Speaker 3: I'll live me my best life, smiley face, kiss, kiss, 109 00:05:24,601 --> 00:05:25,320 Speaker 3: love you lots. 110 00:05:25,361 --> 00:05:27,441 Speaker 2: And you're like I didn't get that. I didn't feel 111 00:05:27,481 --> 00:05:29,441 Speaker 2: like that, you know, like it doesn't make sense. 112 00:05:29,481 --> 00:05:32,521 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think this is why people do voice messages. 113 00:05:32,761 --> 00:05:33,840 Speaker 2: We don't voice message. 114 00:05:33,921 --> 00:05:36,481 Speaker 1: No, my girls do all the time. And I do 115 00:05:36,721 --> 00:05:37,921 Speaker 1: have some people. 116 00:05:38,081 --> 00:05:40,361 Speaker 2: Like Luke loves voice messaging. 117 00:05:40,001 --> 00:05:42,481 Speaker 1: That voice message, and so I have voice message back. 118 00:05:42,481 --> 00:05:45,361 Speaker 1: But I overthink it, right, I'm not somebody that's like 119 00:05:45,481 --> 00:05:49,001 Speaker 1: in my car going hey, blah blah blah blah, whatever 120 00:05:49,041 --> 00:05:53,161 Speaker 1: the message is. I'm someone that goes, okay, how do 121 00:05:53,281 --> 00:05:55,960 Speaker 1: I do it again? Okay, so I press on the microphone. 122 00:05:56,320 --> 00:05:59,321 Speaker 1: Oh shit, now it's sending nothing because I went off it. 123 00:05:59,601 --> 00:06:02,880 Speaker 1: And then I'll try again, and then I go, oh, hey, 124 00:06:02,961 --> 00:06:06,201 Speaker 1: so yeah, just on what your no it was, And 125 00:06:06,241 --> 00:06:08,241 Speaker 1: then I lose my train of thought and I go, no, 126 00:06:08,440 --> 00:06:10,640 Speaker 1: I can't send that, and then I redo it, and 127 00:06:10,681 --> 00:06:14,960 Speaker 1: then it's too much. It's too much. I don't just 128 00:06:15,041 --> 00:06:15,361 Speaker 1: do it. 129 00:06:15,401 --> 00:06:18,960 Speaker 3: Now you're trying to reply like a text message, but 130 00:06:19,201 --> 00:06:21,320 Speaker 3: in the form of a voice note. 131 00:06:21,361 --> 00:06:25,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, I almost have to hay, how are you? Is it? 132 00:06:26,201 --> 00:06:29,881 Speaker 1: It like completely defeats the purpose of it. But then 133 00:06:29,921 --> 00:06:32,121 Speaker 1: if you look, that's because of our generation, Like that's 134 00:06:32,121 --> 00:06:35,001 Speaker 1: the more gen Z thing. I feel like these voice. 135 00:06:34,721 --> 00:06:37,281 Speaker 3: Message Yeah I know, so let's use voice messages. What 136 00:06:37,401 --> 00:06:39,721 Speaker 3: is the difference This is my question. What is the 137 00:06:39,721 --> 00:06:43,921 Speaker 3: difference voice messaging and leaving a message on a voicemail? 138 00:06:44,241 --> 00:06:48,721 Speaker 3: Because I find nowadays no one listens to their fucking voicemail. 139 00:06:48,880 --> 00:06:50,440 Speaker 1: No, no one calls no. 140 00:06:50,481 --> 00:06:52,241 Speaker 2: But my whole thing is, I've just done the same thing. 141 00:06:52,281 --> 00:06:54,121 Speaker 2: I've left you a voicemail. I didn't get it. It 142 00:06:54,241 --> 00:06:55,841 Speaker 2: was no different if I dropped you a text with 143 00:06:55,921 --> 00:06:57,041 Speaker 2: a voice note. 144 00:06:57,281 --> 00:06:58,241 Speaker 1: Yeah, then you'd get it. 145 00:06:58,361 --> 00:06:59,241 Speaker 2: You would get it. 146 00:06:59,440 --> 00:07:02,401 Speaker 3: My voicemail it has this thing where it literally I'll 147 00:07:02,440 --> 00:07:06,080 Speaker 3: get a bulk set of voicemails on my phone all 148 00:07:06,161 --> 00:07:07,961 Speaker 3: at once, and I'm like, I'm sorry, i just got 149 00:07:08,001 --> 00:07:09,681 Speaker 3: your voicemail from three days ago. 150 00:07:09,881 --> 00:07:10,801 Speaker 2: I'm not sure why. 151 00:07:11,001 --> 00:07:12,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's your phone's problem. 152 00:07:12,401 --> 00:07:13,881 Speaker 2: Yeah, I know, but I don't know what's going on. 153 00:07:14,001 --> 00:07:17,521 Speaker 3: But then you go to like WhatsApp or text message 154 00:07:17,561 --> 00:07:20,721 Speaker 3: and you get a voice note. They're so quick, like 155 00:07:20,761 --> 00:07:23,281 Speaker 3: it's almost like you're telling a story. My question to you, 156 00:07:23,321 --> 00:07:25,921 Speaker 3: do you ever re listen to your voice notes and 157 00:07:26,001 --> 00:07:27,641 Speaker 3: to someone else occasionally? 158 00:07:27,721 --> 00:07:29,161 Speaker 1: And then I'm like, what the fuck are you doing? 159 00:07:29,241 --> 00:07:30,201 Speaker 1: Just send it? Don't over there. 160 00:07:31,041 --> 00:07:32,401 Speaker 2: But it's not like you're going to go in and 161 00:07:32,441 --> 00:07:33,761 Speaker 2: rerech do it. 162 00:07:33,801 --> 00:07:36,801 Speaker 1: No, I've certainly done that. I've definitely been there. But 163 00:07:37,121 --> 00:07:42,881 Speaker 1: I think voice messages is it's having a conversation and 164 00:07:42,921 --> 00:07:47,201 Speaker 1: they'm understanding how you're saying it. But I don't understand 165 00:07:47,281 --> 00:07:49,841 Speaker 1: the not actually picking up the phone and having the conversation. 166 00:07:50,001 --> 00:07:53,321 Speaker 1: But I don't understand yeah, I know people who voice 167 00:07:53,401 --> 00:07:56,641 Speaker 1: voice voice work for I'm like, pick the fucking phone up. 168 00:07:56,681 --> 00:07:57,521 Speaker 1: I don't just call you. 169 00:07:57,641 --> 00:07:58,561 Speaker 2: Yeah, I know, like. 170 00:07:58,641 --> 00:08:01,281 Speaker 1: We're so millennial when we say that. But when I 171 00:08:01,281 --> 00:08:04,161 Speaker 1: look at my dad, Yeah, my dad's what would he 172 00:08:04,281 --> 00:08:05,961 Speaker 1: be he's seventy. 173 00:08:06,041 --> 00:08:09,881 Speaker 2: You's like, yeah, you's like mine or no, don't ask 174 00:08:09,921 --> 00:08:12,041 Speaker 2: me this. We've discussed this so many times. 175 00:08:12,081 --> 00:08:15,241 Speaker 1: Whatever the is older, whatever the generation is. My dad 176 00:08:15,281 --> 00:08:18,121 Speaker 1: will send me a text message and say love Dad at. 177 00:08:18,001 --> 00:08:20,841 Speaker 2: The end, like my dad does the same thing, love Dad. 178 00:08:21,441 --> 00:08:23,601 Speaker 3: Well, yeah I know it's dad because it clearly says 179 00:08:23,681 --> 00:08:25,361 Speaker 3: dad in my phone when it comes up. 180 00:08:27,041 --> 00:08:29,161 Speaker 2: Just right. Yeah, well, I don't even know what he 181 00:08:29,201 --> 00:08:29,641 Speaker 2: would write. 182 00:08:29,681 --> 00:08:34,201 Speaker 1: Instead of that, my dad will still face time. I'll 183 00:08:34,241 --> 00:08:37,921 Speaker 1: go Dad, let me see your new house house. I 184 00:08:38,001 --> 00:08:41,481 Speaker 1: was like, show me around your new house, and he'll go, oh, okay, 185 00:08:42,761 --> 00:08:45,281 Speaker 1: how do I switch a camera around? I'm like, we 186 00:08:45,361 --> 00:08:49,241 Speaker 1: do this same dance every single time. It's just down 187 00:08:49,281 --> 00:08:51,641 Speaker 1: there like click on the you know, gone that little 188 00:08:51,641 --> 00:08:55,321 Speaker 1: thing at the bottom, and then it's like, oh, or 189 00:08:55,601 --> 00:09:00,761 Speaker 1: wherever I gone, where's it gone? It's literally I wish 190 00:09:00,921 --> 00:09:03,241 Speaker 1: I should record it. Next time it will be the 191 00:09:03,281 --> 00:09:07,441 Speaker 1: same thing, like just record the whole Oh no, not 192 00:09:07,481 --> 00:09:09,281 Speaker 1: the cool Now I'm upside down. 193 00:09:10,201 --> 00:09:11,081 Speaker 2: I'm gonna wrap this up. 194 00:09:11,081 --> 00:09:13,121 Speaker 3: And it's not purely like it's nothing to do with 195 00:09:13,161 --> 00:09:16,721 Speaker 3: obviously your dad's inability of using technology and mine too. 196 00:09:17,041 --> 00:09:24,601 Speaker 3: But nowadays, even on the dating apps, you can voice note. Ah, 197 00:09:24,761 --> 00:09:27,961 Speaker 3: So if you were on a dating app, would you 198 00:09:28,081 --> 00:09:32,121 Speaker 3: voice note someone that you just met and like you 199 00:09:32,201 --> 00:09:35,281 Speaker 3: were just exchanging text messages for would you send a 200 00:09:35,361 --> 00:09:37,281 Speaker 3: voice note about who you are and what you're doing? 201 00:09:37,521 --> 00:09:42,481 Speaker 1: Look, I wouldn't, but I get that like my girls. 202 00:09:42,521 --> 00:09:45,561 Speaker 3: Yes, So a friend of mine is on a dating 203 00:09:45,601 --> 00:09:48,761 Speaker 3: app and this happened. He doesn't like to talk on 204 00:09:48,801 --> 00:09:51,641 Speaker 3: the phone, like actual talk on the phone as then 205 00:09:51,761 --> 00:09:53,361 Speaker 3: phone calls or talking on the phone. 206 00:09:53,401 --> 00:09:56,361 Speaker 2: It's weird. I find that weird. She doesn't like to 207 00:09:56,481 --> 00:09:57,841 Speaker 2: text message. 208 00:09:57,401 --> 00:10:01,201 Speaker 3: So in order to exchange what is it called, like 209 00:10:01,361 --> 00:10:03,721 Speaker 3: chat on I think it's Tinder or Hinde or whatever 210 00:10:03,761 --> 00:10:06,161 Speaker 3: it was was that she you just voice note the 211 00:10:06,161 --> 00:10:08,721 Speaker 3: whole thing. So it's like, Hi, my name is such 212 00:10:08,761 --> 00:10:10,681 Speaker 3: and such, this is what I'm into you my friends 213 00:10:10,761 --> 00:10:14,641 Speaker 3: think this and me like like, and then he would 214 00:10:14,681 --> 00:10:15,361 Speaker 3: just text back. 215 00:10:15,801 --> 00:10:18,321 Speaker 2: Do you find that would be weird for you. 216 00:10:18,441 --> 00:10:20,321 Speaker 1: Yeah, if you're I feel like you should both be 217 00:10:20,361 --> 00:10:22,961 Speaker 1: doing the same same right. Is it a voice message? 218 00:10:23,121 --> 00:10:24,241 Speaker 1: Is it a text? 219 00:10:24,561 --> 00:10:28,121 Speaker 3: I find voice messages are so much more personal because 220 00:10:28,121 --> 00:10:29,281 Speaker 3: like I'm talking to you. 221 00:10:29,601 --> 00:10:32,361 Speaker 1: The thing that makes me laugh is that we are 222 00:10:32,401 --> 00:10:35,401 Speaker 1: all about phones these days. We have a phone everywhere 223 00:10:35,441 --> 00:10:38,121 Speaker 1: we go. We are always on our phones. Apart from 224 00:10:38,201 --> 00:10:41,001 Speaker 1: we do not use a phone for a phone. We 225 00:10:41,121 --> 00:10:43,681 Speaker 1: do not use the phone part of the phone. 226 00:10:44,201 --> 00:10:49,801 Speaker 3: I know, why why don't you like calling people? People 227 00:10:49,881 --> 00:10:52,161 Speaker 3: don't like talking on the phone anymore. 228 00:10:52,641 --> 00:10:54,081 Speaker 2: It blows my mind. 229 00:10:56,121 --> 00:10:59,921 Speaker 1: I'd be like, hi, missus, Evan, just like chill there please, 230 00:11:01,401 --> 00:11:03,361 Speaker 1: And then someone will pick up the phone upstairs and 231 00:11:03,361 --> 00:11:04,801 Speaker 1: you go put the phone down. I'm on it. 232 00:11:05,041 --> 00:11:05,561 Speaker 2: Oh my god. 233 00:11:05,641 --> 00:11:08,641 Speaker 3: If you had two phones in the hours, Oh how embarrassing. 234 00:11:08,801 --> 00:11:11,401 Speaker 2: Put the phone down and talking to a boy and 235 00:11:11,401 --> 00:11:12,801 Speaker 2: you're like, you'd. 236 00:11:12,681 --> 00:11:14,641 Speaker 1: Have like a sibling. My sister would pick up the 237 00:11:14,641 --> 00:11:17,201 Speaker 1: phone and she'd be listening to my conversation, and then 238 00:11:17,241 --> 00:11:23,201 Speaker 1: you'd hear a little giggle. Let me Gary, Yeah, I 239 00:11:23,241 --> 00:11:26,401 Speaker 1: had a boyfriend called Gary. He drove a Ford escort. 240 00:11:26,601 --> 00:11:34,841 Speaker 3: Oh me, Gary, Gary's here, o, Katie, Gary's on the 241 00:11:34,841 --> 00:11:35,601 Speaker 3: phone for you. 242 00:11:38,161 --> 00:11:42,241 Speaker 2: Hi Gary, Hi, Gary Gays is picking me up tonight, 243 00:11:42,361 --> 00:11:47,561 Speaker 2: if you know what I mean. See how kids, our 244 00:11:47,601 --> 00:11:50,281 Speaker 2: kids are gonna miss out on all of this. I 245 00:11:50,361 --> 00:11:51,241 Speaker 2: feel sorry for them. 246 00:11:51,361 --> 00:11:56,201 Speaker 3: They wouldn't even get to date a guy named Gary. 247 00:11:56,681 --> 00:11:59,121 Speaker 1: Do you know who my hall passes? You know you 248 00:11:58,841 --> 00:12:00,001 Speaker 1: can get a Hall past? 249 00:12:00,081 --> 00:12:00,921 Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah. 250 00:12:02,201 --> 00:12:04,881 Speaker 1: Mine was always Colin Farrell, but I always had a 251 00:12:05,161 --> 00:12:09,001 Speaker 1: she with the name Colin, like I Colin. 252 00:12:10,201 --> 00:12:14,841 Speaker 2: Colin. Colin's on the phone for you.